I remember reading that first wedding story. God forbid a woman wears makeup and fitted clothes lol. 🙄 She should've just banned attractive women while she was at it since she's clearly insecure.
i could BET not one single guest even noticed the waitress' make up and nose ring before the bride made it a point to keep calling superiors to have her removed and probably made a bit of a commotion in the middle of the party. congrats queen, you were outshined, but probably you own fault lol
POV from a picky eater: I HATE being a picky eater. I hate feeling like I'm the one preventing people from having a good time when we go out to eat. I hate that I can't be adventurous at restaurants. But I have IBS and I'm lactose intolerant. I'm literally afraid to try new food sometimes because I'm afraid I'll get really sick. I've been working on trying new foods, but it's still hard sometimes. So please be gentle with us picky eaters. Some of us have a lot going on and legitimate reasons to be picky about food.
I have celiac and I'm lactose intolerant, this story wasn't about our allergies, he clearly said he didn't have any allergies. I've literally never had anyone try to make me eat something or feel bad after I tell them about my allergies.
@@Yolanda.b Oh I totally understand that! He was just being difficult. But I just wanted to provide some perspective from a picky eater. Especially since some people just perceive us being like the man in the reddit post.
I’m a picky eater too (sensory issues). Sometimes even my “favorite food(s)” taste icky. I also have dietary restrictions mostly related to impacts to my digestion (gluten, soy, and lactose intolerant). I wish I could be more adventurous but I have to be so careful of ingredients/limit my dairy. It kinda sucks. Now I’m also pregnant and certain foods aren’t safe like lunch meat or my favorite mostly sage sushi 😢😢😢
There was actually an update for the story about the guy, Jack, and Jill! OP moved out and his whole family was upset with him for "abandoning" the family. OP also talked about feeling guilty because the family will "struggle" without him.
Sounds like they miss him paying 50% of all the bills etc and are trying to manipulate him into coming back to make their life easier. OP needs to stay away. His family sounds toxic. Sounds like they just want him for his money and want him to fall in line and be a free babysiter and pay half of the expenses.
That whole situation was so toxic and dysfunctional… They were kinda all being assholes in different ways but at the end of it he shouldn’t feel guilty for the struggling without him because they gave him the ultimatum and he chose to separate himself.
Thank you for the update! The parents themselves sound like they’re manipulative. They shouldn’t have given him the “their way or you’re out” ultimatum if they were going to “struggle”
i don't think the OP was an AH even a little bit. being related doesn't mean you're close to your family, it doesn't mean you feel a connection with your sibling's kids, and being responsible for another life for even ten minutes while the parents are doing errands or whatever is a huge ask. people who grow up in toxic households are made to feel guilty for upholding their boundaries, and are called difficult/assholes for it. i can see why people who grew up in families where people actually like each other wouldn't understand though lol
I go all out for both of my kids’ birthdays. Within reason they get whatever they want on their day. My son (the oldest) actually suggested to give his sister a present on his birthday, and his sister give a present to him on her birthday because he didn’t want her to feel left out that she wasn’t getting a present. So this has been an ongoing tradition for the past couple years. They both love it because on their birthday they get to pick something special for their sibling we call it “best brother or best sister” present 🥰
The second story, I’d be pissed if someone got me a ring off Aliexpress.. it’s all overseas knockoffs and things are usually not as advertised. Her ring could possibly be fake, but the fact of cost, usually doesn’t matter in the end, provided the quality is good. The concern would be Aliexpress, not the cost (you can get rings from actual jewelry stores for the same cost, and guaranteed quality) And the weed story is HILARIOUS hahahah the mom said “oh I knew what I was eating! I just didn’t mean to get that stoned”
That first story is just so pitiful. Imagine being so insecure that you take it out on a server at your wedding when you could be having the time of your life. I LOVED that my guests came dressed to impress! They looked amaaaaazing and I'm happy when others are looking and feeling their best. Also, I was literally the BRIDE- how is anyone going to outshine that?!
STORYTIME:I give my grandma Eddie’s to help with her knee pain. I will NEVER give her anything other than gummies…one day I give her a brownie I tell her “eat 4ths and no more” she calls me in the middle of the night “ Kya omg I’m so high I feel like I’m floating in space…please come in here” 💀💀I walk in and she’s starfished on her bed like ⭐️😵💫…💀🤣
I recently accidentally ate too many edibles. I misread the dose and took 10mg. I normally eat 2mg. I was having a panic attack and was uncomfortable. My dog was too much and squeaking her toy like a clown and my cats where fighting. The only animal I was okay with was my kitty Zoey. Her energy is so mellow I didn't even notice she was sitting on me. It was the type of high that your body is extremely uncomfortable and everything is too loud.
I feel like for the stepmom story, she could have just gotten her daughter a small vanilla cupcake or something if she really hated chocolate that much. Everyone still gets a sweet treat but the birthday girl gets the cake she wants
I don’t wear much jewelry. So when my husband and I decided to get married, I knew I wanted a ring that was of a good quality, within our budget. I will be wearing this ring for the rest of my life. So I was totally ok spending quite a bit of money on this. “Cheaping out” on the ring kind of does say a lot to me.
What does it say lol? Some people just don’t care about having an expensive ring. Doesn’t say anything about the love two people share. To insinuate that a materialistic item can tell you something about someone’s partner or their relationship is ridiculous.
Yeah, I would be hurt. Especially aliexpress?? Seems like a lack of thought or care. And I appreciate workmanship and would like something special. Don’t care at all about the stone, but I’m going to be wearing this the rest of my life, I want something special that reflects my tastes. If the bride isn’t that type, I can’t blame the husband but I definitely don’t feel like she is shallow for feeling a type of way about it.
@@kianna270 Did you not watch the episode at all before commenting this? The entire point, which is the context of the persons comment, is that the wife in the married couple in the story is the one with the issue. This persons comment you responded to isn't a general comment made from an outsider to judge married people with a shared opinion or agreement on rings, that's pretty obvious. She isn't saying if you and your partner have an agreement, that you are unloved because you don't have a nice ring. She's saying that as a woman who also would expect something a little more thoughtful and nicer quality from her husband, she gets where op's emotions are coming from. It's also a completely different conversation and context to the conversation if we're talking about people who just plain out cannot afford it, which is not OP or this commenters situation. I feel like you're virtue signaling because in our misogynistic society, being a "materialistic woman" who is expecting a certain level of treatment from someone who has the means to do so is frowned upon, and you wanna get on your soapbox and let people know that "you're so not like these greedy other girls" and "love is more than a ring", when nobody said otherwise LOL Like this brand of people on the internet who have to take everything out of context and into the worst thing possible just to let everyone know a "lesson" literally nobody debated.
The stepmom cake fiasco triggers me. My exstepmom would turn things into whatever she wants. She would manipulate my dad to do/get things that she wants or wanted to do regardless if it was our birthday, his birthday, moms weekends, etc. good for the dad to not give in to the stepmom thinking she can go behind his back and do whatever she wants.
Yes!! As someone who's had birthdays overshadowed by other people or holidays it hit home.. if definitely sticks with you and makes you feel worthless.
For the not eating with my gf story. My son is a picky eater and we are currently in the process of diagnosing him with an eating disorder call ARFID (Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) this disorder is fear of eating new food. My son sticks to specific food and will not try new food. If he is forced to try food he will gag his body completely stops him from trying it. It’s like any other fear for example fear of spiders or heights.
I have that too but I don’t think it’s ARFID, just sensory issues because of my ADHD. If ARFID ends up not being it, and you haven’t ruled out other ND issues, might be worth an investigation. Either way, sensory or ARFID, it has its challenges both for the parents/caregivers and the kiddo. As an adult, I don’t enjoy that the thought of certain foods (even foods I liked yesterday) makes me gag. I’d rather starve than eat that meal 😅 keep your head up. Even if all kiddo eats is safe foods and a gummy vitamin, it will all be okay. (Sometimes that’s all I eat).
@@GC-pq6vm I was replying to this person comment about their son…. Sensory issues associated with neuroatypical conditions shouldn’t be classed as eating disorders though. It’s a symptom of the ND condition, not a whole separate disorder (ED)
Karelly's cute outfit is giving me 70's vibes today and I love it 💚Thanks for another great episode. I've also had the suds this week but this made me feel better. I hope Janelle gets well soon!
#4 - There are totally hair makeup and root cover-up spray etc that can cover without using dye, I'm sure they could have figured something out for her as a compromise but it sounds like shes being purposefully difficult.
Damn it’s a shame the Lady in the first story was so pathetically insecure she spent her “dream wedding” obsessing over a staff member😂 that’s a sad situation.
The step-mum is very toxic. Going behind the husband and changing the order ? The daughter can't even have the cake she wants for her birthday ? Then what else will she have to compromise for her stepsister everyday ?
I had that happen with my baby (half) brother ALL THE TIME. I’m 9 yrs older than him. Mom always let him pick the movies and the TV shows and the activities and the restaurant. Like it was never what I wanted or even my mom and I going out just us two so I could have what I wanted. Even before my brother was born, the minute anyone besides me was awake, we had to watch a different TV show since mine were boring/graphic (they were censored or reenactment medical shows). I wasn’t a big cartoon kid but I’d watch what was on because ADHD. As a result I often spent a lot of time reading a book instead. I’d get hyper focused and not really hearing anything around me because ADHD, which was undiagnosed until recently at almost age 30 btw, and then I would get into trouble for “ignoring” my brother. Like legit I couldn’t hear him calling my name nor lightly nudging me. I’d get told “go to your room if you’re just going to ignore everybody. Even that wasn’t an escape as my brother and I shared a room (he only slept in his crib in there) until he graduated to a big boy bed and my mom and now ex stepdad finished the basement for their room. My mom said he was allowed in the room because it was his room too but he would just come in and destroy my stuff or color on my books and stuff. I’d get mad and then I’d get into trouble for “not dealing with it the right way”. All his toys were kept in the living room. Aside from sleep, he had no business in “our” room/my stuff. He would also borrow my things like movies and my mom never made him put them away. “He’s fine, he’s just a kid” like “mom he’s ruining things”. I’d get into trouble for “momming” him if I tried to get him to clean up. I love the kid but I was resentful for a lot of years because he got to do whatever and I got into trouble for breathing. I was also made to share my computer with the household (which had been purchased just for me by my grandparents). The household was kind enough to limewire 10000 viruses into it and it became an unusable brick. I got a 2nd computer with my allowance $$ that I got when I lived with my aunts while my mom moved out of state with her bf and when we all moved back in together, I was made to share that computer too. My brother was older than and a little better about wrecking stuff. He was told he could use it but he had to shut it off. He and my mom would just shut the monitor off and then I’d get into trouble days later for it still being on 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 sorry this is digressing into me ranting. Point is I felt very much like I didn’t matter, my opinions don’t matter. I just default into “whatever you want” in groups and situations with my husband because that’s what I was taught to do. It’s people pleasing to the max and is incredibly unhealthy. Setting boundaries and asking for your needs to be met, especially on a birthday, isn’t selfishness and I’ll fight anyone who says it is.
The sisters with the hair problem, im definitely on the side of the bride. The bride asked her to have her hair up which is the easiest solution and then found other resources that she was going to pay for since the first option didn't work. The sister is just making it difficult, it's one day that your sister is going to look back on.
The sister probably feels hurt as hell that her roots are gonna be a problem for the bride. The only reason she got away with basically saying “your ugly hair is in my way” is bc they’re sisters. Probably trying to make it healthier in the first place because of something Bridezilla said. Her “making it difficult” is only her standing her ground.
And I get it, sisters are brutal to each other but if we take that relationship out, the bride is definitely someone a lot of people would hate to be around. Alwayssss judging!
@@bee2450 unsolicited overly honest opinions are the worst! And even when they’re asked for, some lies are necessary I lived with a crazy lady once who asked for honest opinions on a dish she made. It was good, just a bit too salty (for reference, I LOVE salt like used to get caught eating from the salt shaker kind of love lol). So she was super offended I thought it was too salty. She literally didn’t talk with me for a week and made me ride in another car for our day trip to another town. Eventually she kicked me out. Everyone who was riding in the car with me thought the food was too salty also, they just had lived with her longer and knew that giving a real honest opinion was a trap. On top of just being an absolute asshole, she had chronic pain which made her extra cranky. She couldn’t partake of the plant medicine due to a severe mold allergy sadly and she prefers suffering over other types of meds so that’s just the way she is.
The first one seemed like the bride was super insecure. Sounds like she for forced everyone to not look their best so she was the only one who looked good lol
I don't like coconut. But one of my sons loves German Chocolate Cake with coconut frosting. The Birthday Kid gets THEIR favorite cake flavor! Period!! 💯
As a suuuuuuppper picky eater the picky eater story was super relatable to me and it was a little upsetting to see people be like “just try it” I am not going to order something in public and possibly gag just to order something to make the other person happy like gagging and being grossed out be food is way more embarrassing then just ordering something maybe we could all get something to go and eat different things at home together
It’s selfish and immature. If someone acted like this, I seriously wouldn’t even date them. If all you wanted was chicken tenders, go play with the kids on the kids’ menu.
I agree. I’m not gonna nearly throw up publicly like that for no reason. I would voice my opinion before going in though to make things as easy as possible.
@@GC-pq6vm some people have sensory issues with food. I have ADHD with sensory issues and food textures overwhelm me. Sometimes it’s not just someone being a picky eater. If “normal” people understood how neuro divergent people feel in certain situations maybe y’all wouldn’t complain about picky eaters so much🤷🏻♀️
EXACTLY! My husband is a super stubborn picky eater, and when I want to eat certain places he doesn't like we will just get food to go from different places and then eat together somewhere else. He will try certain things but he can't eat cheese and has a thing with textures, plus who wants to waste money on food they'll end up not finishing.
@@GC-pq6vm My best friend and I went to a small restaurant out of town and all the food was very artsy and not appealing to us so we politely left without ordering. We weren't going to waste money on food we knew we wouldn't like, not to mention it's just straight up a waste of food. I dont see what is selfish or immature about that.
Years ago, I was in my coworker wedding and she asked me to cover up my sleeve tattoo and back then I didn’t know much about makeup like I do now so I went to Macy’s and asked a lady at the makeup counter to help me and asked what I could buy to cover up my arm it cost me $120 to buy over priced makeup and I had to buy a dress from David’s Bridal, shoes and dye my hair. Let’s just say I went broke after buying all that and a gift and she wasn’t my sister nor related to me. Getting married is special and a day the couple will remember forever and the pictures help you remember how special that day was! The sister should just dye her hair since the hair dresser can help with her problem. I don’t think either are assholes just do it for your sister! Awesome video! 👍🏻💛
I dont get why people make such a big deal out of what guests are gonna look like on wedding pictures, to me asking someone to change their hair just because it's gonna be an "eye sore" has the same energy as asking someone to lose weight, you're just doing it so it becomes "pleasing to the eyes"... yet no one is gonna give a fuck about what others looked like on the wedding anyways, is it worth it making the guest in question uncorfortable at the wedding just for some pics?
Exactly! I don't get it! I hate that Caraley had to back pedal her opinion. I'm getting married soon and I really don't care about what everyone's hair, skin, weight, etc would look like on the pictures! Like what is the big deal of how other people would look like on MY day? If anything I'm more concerned on how I look 😆
@@cassandrareyes2012 It's also their problem if they look "bad"... plus, no one else who's gonna look at those pics really cares! They're not even gonna remember what they saw 5 secs after, i feel like nowadays ppl only care about these things because of social media really
The birthday cake makes me UPSET. My husband and I have 5 kids. 2 mine, 2 his and 1 shared. We’ve celebrated MANY birthdays and this would have NEVER happened. We do compromise at times and get 2 cakes or cupcakes of the opposite flavor but NEVER would him or I go behind the others back and undermine the request of the birthday child.
The boyfriend who didn’t eat lunch with his girlfriend. This actually happens with me and my wife. If I want sushi, I usually have to eat it when she’s at work or something. There’s also times where I want a treat like ice cream or bubble tea and she is not as into sweets. At first it bothered me but eventually I just accepted that she doesn’t like certain foods.
Story 2: I’m not making a judgement on who’s the AH, if she’s grateful or ungrateful idc - but the idea of seriously buying an ENGAGEMENT RING from ALLIE EXPRESS is wild 😂😂😂
@@kassandrajackson1339 35 years plus lots of stigma and harassment... and as someone who has been to a French restaurant in France...it doesn't have the most appetizing descriptions... half of it is traditionally served cold including the potatoes.....it was a sensory nightmare
Yeah like I’ll literally gag if I try to eat a food that doesn’t sound good. Even if it’s something I literally ate and enjoyed yesterday (and it’s being cooked fresh today), my body can decide that it’s a “nope” and just not want it. Like how some ppl won’t try sushi because they think it’s all raw fish or how some ppl don’t want to try cricket meal or caviar. That’s how my body reacts to random things. My hubby like super creamy mashed potatos and I like chunky. I keep explaining that the super creamy texture is like gag city for me and he just won’t listen 😢. We have super different food tastes to the point where we’ll literally go to two different restaurants and get to-go orders. Or we’ll pick restaurants with HUGE varieties so we’re likely to find something we both want. It’s a struggle but we make it work
@@livelongandprospermary8796 ill eat potato skins or phillys for a week straight then one day its no longer a "safe" food and its no longer appetizing...thanks adhd. I have 3 children with food sensory as well and will cook 4 different dishes in 1 night because we are all on a different kick. Sometimes i only have to cook 2 different things but it varies. 🤷🏻♀️
The birthday cake one omg 😅 bakeries know how to split a cake down the middle and make one side chocolate and one side vanilla BUT IT WASNT EVEN BRITNEY’S BIRTHDAY!!!! 🤣 ugh!
Aww hope she starts to feel better! Love the show. Y’all always give me company and keep my mind busy while doing house chores. It helps so much thank for staying out of my headspace. Love y’all!💜
There was one AITA story where a woman wanted to make her future husband wear contacts because he had heterochromia and she wanted his eyes to match. There was another where the OP wanted her bridesmaid to go without her glasses. And another where the bride wanted her to dye her long, naturally red hair. I don't believe that the woman had ever dyed her hair before either.
I'm a picky eater, but that's because I have a few health issues with my stomach, it gives me anxiety eating out when I'm not in control, I have to plan going out for dinner, I have to check all the menus, I even have to call restaurants to make sure that what I think looks good isn't coated in wheat/Gluten, or contains wheat/gluten. Thankfully my husband is great with it, and he let's me choose where to eat where I feel comfortable, and my Father In Law when we see him, he always makes sure when we go out he's done his research to make sure I can eat. It's hard being the only one who is "difficult" but I'm also thankfull my family and in laws are so catering for me 😊
For the first one: After working in customer service, I guarantee the bridezilla will be a laughing stock in that restaurant staff for at least a week. I also guarantee they weren’t short staffed, the boss was just annoyed and this was their way to say get over it 😂
For the hair story, it’s the fact that the sister is insisting that she wears it down even though it looks bad. She’s being stubborn on that part. It’s fine if she doesn’t want to blend it, but she should at least wear it up.
You guys are really amazing. I’ve never felt so connected to a podcast until this one! Feels like we really get to know you guys and see so much personality! I love it!! Love you guys!❤❤ feel better Janelle! ❤
I think it's a bit hypocritical of Karelly to say she has food issues and wouldn't be able to eat with someone else who isn't eating, and then immediately turn around and heatedly say that a picky eater should "just try it!!"
@@cici.ngxenge I am relaxed. LOL I'm just saying, it's hypocritical to complain about your own issues but not be sensitive to other people's issues at the same time.
Guys I was here since the beginning & this show has gotten so good. Janelle picked one of my questions a long time ago, and her answering it with y’all gave me such peace and assurance. I love you guys! Miss janelle this episode, hope she feels better!!!!
I can't even imagine complaining about a server on your wedding day unless they were really rude to guests or something. It's really weird. The wedding ring one, I think getting a ring on Ali express seems kind of lazy and not well thought out/individual. I feel like you can spend less money but get something more personalised /individual. It's weird in a way that couples ask where a ring is from and what it costs?
One of my very good friends wore a white, beautifully fitted mini dress to our wedding, she looked amazing, and I didn't even notice the colour until someone pointed it out in the pics days later 🤣 Priorities people. Just enjoy yourself. Love these eps, so chilled x
my BF is really picky too and we’ve been together for 4 years. sometimes we end up getting food from different places because i want to try new things. it’s still irritating but i can’t force him to try anything (he literally won’t) so it is what it is. i wouldn’t storm out of somewhere though. i’d just eat my yummy food and leave it at that 🤷🏼♀️
The sister with the unblended roots can just get a colored hair spray that's a darker color and either spray all the light hair or blend the dark into the light!
Favoritism isn’t even a thing for birthdays if the expectation is that the birthday boy/girl feels special. That could mean different things for different kids/adults.
I remember when K was pregnant and was sharing that she’s reading books and trying to learn and while I thought that was a good idea nothing on earth will tell an expecting new mom exactly what it feels like until the mom actually have the baby and I wanted to comment that but I thought sooner or later she will know it. After she had her baby I smiled when she has mentioned just that on her episode being back. I think the same thing about the teenage boy and the mother. As a mommy of 2 teenage boys, I can totally see where that mom was coming from. As nice as it may be to bond with the auntie (the bride) , it maybe that the mother was in the middle of a rough stage of teaching her son a life lesson that had nothing to do with the wedding attire that the bride just obliterated lol. So again today I thought to myself, one day these ladies will know.
"Mommy" of teenagers. TEENAGERS. Yikes. Being a mom does not suddenly make you the most important person. The bride and groom of THEIR OWN WEDDING specifically wanted their guests to be creative and wear what they wanted. The "mommy" is not the one who's opinions matter here. At all. She still has the ultimate say on what he wears, so the Aunt did absolutely nothing wrong by being honest about HER wishes for HER wedding day. Your opinion has nothing to do with you being a mom, but everything to do with you thinking you're special bc you're a mom.
The first story reminds me of this time when I was 18-19 years old and I got a "verbal warning" by a manager at work for dressing "innapropratley" I was wearing the company provided uniform....which was a pair of black fitted slacks and a button down shirt, they said I was wearing the uniform in a way that was "too revealing" the uniform was in my correct size and fit perfectly, I just have a more curvy body and I guess that was an issue because my next shift I had my manager brought me a different uniform that was a size up, the pants were too big and I had to keep my belt on the tightest setting and the button up shirt was so big that I looked like a small child playing dress up with their dads clothes.
I totally agree on the birthday cake thing. If it’s MY birthday I want MY favorite cake. Not someone else’s. The wife is not teaching the child how to accept that not every day of the year is about her.
The first story has me baffled! I am currently planning my wedding. My fiancé and I joke that we want small little mishaps (obviously with no injuries), they make better stories! I put myself in her shoes, I honestly don’t think I would of even noticed. If would have noticed, I wouldn’t care. I have heard many brides and grooms don’t even have time to eat half the time let alone judge catering staff appeal.
The today I f*cked up episode is one of my fav sesh episodes! I always go back to it and laugh hard every single time. Definitely would want to see another one!
Hands down my fav episodes, always have a good laugh. Love the atmosphere of the podcast it’s really cool to feel like you’re chilling with friends for a bit. Can’t wait for the next one😋💕
The SIL one, I am baffled that he had to stop cooking something he eats daily, move out of his room and such. They chose to move into the parents home, fully knowing that other people live there. If you are coming into someone else’s home, you do not get to dictate what they eat, etc. It also seems like she was just picking on him because she doesn’t like him. I’ve had a very difficult pregnancy where I struggled with smells, textures, everything and if I didn’t like it, I walked away to get it off my mind. You don’t get to be a dictator, just because you’re pregnant. The SIL is a full on asshole. Him, not at all.
Hey friends! love the pod, just wanted to say a quick thing about picky eaters. I suffer from ARFID disorder which basically means I'm scared to try new things. Lots of people have this disorder and go undiagnosed but it is actually really hard to go out to eat sometimes.
i'm late to the party this week but it couldn't have been better timing, my fiancé and i have lost our beloved 17 year old dog today. i need the positive vibes the sesh gives me critically. thanks for being one of the best parts of my day every time y'all post.
I totally relate to the AITA at the French restaurant. My husband HATES sushi but I love this bouji sushi place by our house. Our compromise is well get sushi (he won't order anything) and then after well go to his restaurant of choice and ill just sip on some wine 😂 it was kind of awkward bc the waiter was like taken a back when he didn't order anything but we both end up full and happy. I also went into this knowing he wouldn't order anything and was going bc I wanted to so def not the asshole
I took French in high school, one of our assignments was to eat at a French restaurant. I had a very difficult time finding something on the menu that appealed to me or even understood what it was. I can't blame him
The sesh podcast always helps my anxiety and makes me feel at home❤ (all your channels do tbh) but the sesh is my comfort channel Also love the tumblers hehe
Perfect timing!!!👌🏼🥳 I hope you feel better soon Janelle, sending you so much love and good, healthy vibes!! 🤍 Kendall you are absolutely glowing!!!! Motherhood looks good on you!!🤍 I LOVE these AITA episodes, for many reasons but mostly because I feel like Karelly and Sydney make much more frequent appearances than normal. And I LOVE hearing Everyone’s opinions!!🤍🤍 Keep up the great work ladies!! #muchlove🤍
The ring… I wouldn’t want an expensive ring, but I WOULD expect it to come from a reputable retailer. Who even knows what’s in that AliExpress ring. It could be made of boiled eggs and road tar. I think on some level that that is more the issue here… I can understand how she might “feel” like he’s “saying” that she’s not worth going through the trouble of buying her ring from a reliable source. But I digress!
It’s so lovely to have you back 💙 of course please know you are always more than welcome to take your time away, but goodness, it makes my week to have you on my timeline 💙
After listening to this podcast cast, I guess I was a pretty easy bride! I never thought/cared about my guests( or staff) for hair, makeup or clothes- I did request my bridesmaid's to find red dress's of their liking and the groomsmen matched. Everything came out beautiful! Wedding's are a celebration!!!! All those little details are insignificant in the long run. *funny note, my husband's best friend (girl) recently told me (we've been married 10 years) she was Shocked I let me husband's groomsman go down the isle w/ a beard. Never phased me then and doesn't now with our pictures. The focus should just be on the bride & groom ❤️ That's what will be remembered!!
Hi Besties! When doing AITA, you would typically use “ESH” for “everyone sucks here” if you think the situation is bad on all parts. Specifically with that situation of the brother with the parents who folded over for the older brother and his pregnant gf! That was a major ESH!
That first story has to be fake. I can't believe that. "She was talking to MY guests" lol servers are supposed to make small talk. What if someone wears a lot of makeup because they are insecure and feel they need to to feel comfortable? You want someone to feel uncomfortable and insecure all day because you're insecure? So weird
You guys should do a whole bride theme episode like this with janelle and Sydney answering since they are engaged and planning their wedding lol
Yes!!! Currently planning a wedding and I hate it hahaha
I remember reading that first wedding story. God forbid a woman wears makeup and fitted clothes lol. 🙄 She should've just banned attractive women while she was at it since she's clearly insecure.
Fr! I wonder if she felt her husband was looking her way. If so she doesn’t need to be marrying that man 🤣
I'm so shocked by that bride. How do horrible people like that get away with it?! The narcissism.....
@@AshleyNichole624 True. He's obviously marrying her for a reason so she should feel secure knowing that.
imagine feeling outshined at your wedding by a girl that is wearing a black shirt and eyeliner
i could BET not one single guest even noticed the waitress' make up and nose ring before the bride made it a point to keep calling superiors to have her removed and probably made a bit of a commotion in the middle of the party. congrats queen, you were outshined, but probably you own fault lol
POV from a picky eater: I HATE being a picky eater. I hate feeling like I'm the one preventing people from having a good time when we go out to eat. I hate that I can't be adventurous at restaurants. But I have IBS and I'm lactose intolerant. I'm literally afraid to try new food sometimes because I'm afraid I'll get really sick. I've been working on trying new foods, but it's still hard sometimes.
So please be gentle with us picky eaters. Some of us have a lot going on and legitimate reasons to be picky about food.
"Just try it! It won't hurt you!" No, but shitting my pants right here right now will most definitely hurt my ego lmao
This!! Like sorry I have food sensory
I have celiac and I'm lactose intolerant, this story wasn't about our allergies, he clearly said he didn't have any allergies. I've literally never had anyone try to make me eat something or feel bad after I tell them about my allergies.
@@Yolanda.b Oh I totally understand that! He was just being difficult. But I just wanted to provide some perspective from a picky eater. Especially since some people just perceive us being like the man in the reddit post.
I’m a picky eater too (sensory issues). Sometimes even my “favorite food(s)” taste icky. I also have dietary restrictions mostly related to impacts to my digestion (gluten, soy, and lactose intolerant). I wish I could be more adventurous but I have to be so careful of ingredients/limit my dairy. It kinda sucks. Now I’m also pregnant and certain foods aren’t safe like lunch meat or my favorite mostly sage sushi 😢😢😢
There was actually an update for the story about the guy, Jack, and Jill! OP moved out and his whole family was upset with him for "abandoning" the family. OP also talked about feeling guilty because the family will "struggle" without him.
Sounds like they miss him paying 50% of all the bills etc and are trying to manipulate him into coming back to make their life easier.
OP needs to stay away. His family sounds toxic. Sounds like they just want him for his money and want him to fall in line and be a free babysiter and pay half of the expenses.
That whole situation was so toxic and dysfunctional… They were kinda all being assholes in different ways but at the end of it he shouldn’t feel guilty for the struggling without him because they gave him the ultimatum and he chose to separate himself.
Thank you for the update! The parents themselves sound like they’re manipulative. They shouldn’t have given him the “their way or you’re out” ultimatum if they were going to “struggle”
this whole story made me soooo pissed
i don't think the OP was an AH even a little bit. being related doesn't mean you're close to your family, it doesn't mean you feel a connection with your sibling's kids, and being responsible for another life for even ten minutes while the parents are doing errands or whatever is a huge ask. people who grow up in toxic households are made to feel guilty for upholding their boundaries, and are called difficult/assholes for it. i can see why people who grew up in families where people actually like each other wouldn't understand though lol
An excuse to show favoritism literally IS what birthdays are. One day to be special and kinda selfish. It’s one day.
I go all out for both of my kids’ birthdays. Within reason they get whatever they want on their day. My son (the oldest) actually suggested to give his sister a present on his birthday, and his sister give a present to him on her birthday because he didn’t want her to feel left out that she wasn’t getting a present. So this has been an ongoing tradition for the past couple years. They both love it because on their birthday they get to pick something special for their sibling we call it “best brother or best sister” present 🥰
@@brookelynelizabeth6691 that's a good idea.
@@brookelynelizabeth6691 wow your kids are so sweet! You surely did a great job with them 😊
It sounds like his wife favorites Brittany
The second story, I’d be pissed if someone got me a ring off Aliexpress.. it’s all overseas knockoffs and things are usually not as advertised.
Her ring could possibly be fake, but the fact of cost, usually doesn’t matter in the end, provided the quality is good.
The concern would be Aliexpress, not the cost (you can get rings from actual jewelry stores for the same cost, and guaranteed quality)
And the weed story is HILARIOUS hahahah the mom said “oh I knew what I was eating! I just didn’t mean to get that stoned”
my thoughts exactly about the aliexpress ring... i would be insulted - it isnt about the money at that point.
Plus, I’d worry that from aliexpress I’d be worry about it breaking
That first story is just so pitiful. Imagine being so insecure that you take it out on a server at your wedding when you could be having the time of your life. I LOVED that my guests came dressed to impress! They looked amaaaaazing and I'm happy when others are looking and feeling their best. Also, I was literally the BRIDE- how is anyone going to outshine that?!
Yeah she is a nutcase!
Exactly! Wtf are you wearing that you outshine a bride. Lol
STORYTIME:I give my grandma Eddie’s to help with her knee pain. I will NEVER give her anything other than gummies…one day I give her a brownie I tell her “eat 4ths and no more” she calls me in the middle of the night “ Kya omg I’m so high I feel like I’m floating in space…please come in here” 💀💀I walk in and she’s starfished on her bed like ⭐️😵💫…💀🤣
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I recently accidentally ate too many edibles. I misread the dose and took 10mg. I normally eat 2mg. I was having a panic attack and was uncomfortable. My dog was too much and squeaking her toy like a clown and my cats where fighting. The only animal I was okay with was my kitty Zoey. Her energy is so mellow I didn't even notice she was sitting on me. It was the type of high that your body is extremely uncomfortable and everything is too loud.
I feel like for the stepmom story, she could have just gotten her daughter a small vanilla cupcake or something if she really hated chocolate that much. Everyone still gets a sweet treat but the birthday girl gets the cake she wants
I don’t wear much jewelry. So when my husband and I decided to get married, I knew I wanted a ring that was of a good quality, within our budget. I will be wearing this ring for the rest of my life. So I was totally ok spending quite a bit of money on this. “Cheaping out” on the ring kind of does say a lot to me.
What does it say lol? Some people just don’t care about having an expensive ring. Doesn’t say anything about the love two people share. To insinuate that a materialistic item can tell you something about someone’s partner or their relationship is ridiculous.
@@kianna270 that’s great, if two people can agree on that….hence why I said “to me”.
Yeah, I would be hurt. Especially aliexpress?? Seems like a lack of thought or care. And I appreciate workmanship and would like something special. Don’t care at all about the stone, but I’m going to be wearing this the rest of my life, I want something special that reflects my tastes.
If the bride isn’t that type, I can’t blame the husband but I definitely don’t feel like she is shallow for feeling a type of way about it.
@@kianna270 Did you not watch the episode at all before commenting this? The entire point, which is the context of the persons comment, is that the wife in the married couple in the story is the one with the issue. This persons comment you responded to isn't a general comment made from an outsider to judge married people with a shared opinion or agreement on rings, that's pretty obvious. She isn't saying if you and your partner have an agreement, that you are unloved because you don't have a nice ring. She's saying that as a woman who also would expect something a little more thoughtful and nicer quality from her husband, she gets where op's emotions are coming from. It's also a completely different conversation and context to the conversation if we're talking about people who just plain out cannot afford it, which is not OP or this commenters situation.
I feel like you're virtue signaling because in our misogynistic society, being a "materialistic woman" who is expecting a certain level of treatment from someone who has the means to do so is frowned upon, and you wanna get on your soapbox and let people know that "you're so not like these greedy other girls" and "love is more than a ring", when nobody said otherwise LOL Like this brand of people on the internet who have to take everything out of context and into the worst thing possible just to let everyone know a "lesson" literally nobody debated.
@@CamDollar 🥰 thanks!
The stepmom cake fiasco triggers me. My exstepmom would turn things into whatever she wants. She would manipulate my dad to do/get things that she wants or wanted to do regardless if it was our birthday, his birthday, moms weekends, etc. good for the dad to not give in to the stepmom thinking she can go behind his back and do whatever she wants.
That stepmom sucks.
Yes!! As someone who's had birthdays overshadowed by other people or holidays it hit home.. if definitely sticks with you and makes you feel worthless.
Just here to say that you guys fr don’t know the impact y’all have on others. Thank you for doing what you do💗🥰
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For the not eating with my gf story. My son is a picky eater and we are currently in the process of diagnosing him with an eating disorder call ARFID (Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder) this disorder is fear of eating new food. My son sticks to specific food and will not try new food. If he is forced to try food he will gag his body completely stops him from trying it. It’s like any other fear for example fear of spiders or heights.
I have that too but I don’t think it’s ARFID, just sensory issues because of my ADHD. If ARFID ends up not being it, and you haven’t ruled out other ND issues, might be worth an investigation. Either way, sensory or ARFID, it has its challenges both for the parents/caregivers and the kiddo. As an adult, I don’t enjoy that the thought of certain foods (even foods I liked yesterday) makes me gag. I’d rather starve than eat that meal 😅 keep your head up. Even if all kiddo eats is safe foods and a gummy vitamin, it will all be okay. (Sometimes that’s all I eat).
I don’t think this is the same thing as being a picky eater. This guy was a grown man. Not a child with an ED.
@@GC-pq6vm I was replying to this person comment about their son…. Sensory issues associated with neuroatypical conditions shouldn’t be classed as eating disorders though. It’s a symptom of the ND condition, not a whole separate disorder (ED)
Karelly's cute outfit is giving me 70's vibes today and I love it 💚Thanks for another great episode. I've also had the suds this week but this made me feel better. I hope Janelle gets well soon!
#4 - There are totally hair makeup and root cover-up spray etc that can cover without using dye, I'm sure they could have figured something out for her as a compromise but it sounds like shes being purposefully difficult.
Have her wear a wig 🙂🙂
@@mariacherrington61920 Exactly, So many options!
Is it just me or is Kendall’s favorite tumbler multiplying? 😂 how Taurus of her to have backups for her favorite cup lol
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One for coffee, one for water! 😂
I didn’t know that that is a Taurus thing! 😂 But I do the same thing and I am also a Taurus.😳
I too am a Taurus ♉️
Damn it’s a shame the Lady in the first story was so pathetically insecure she spent her “dream wedding” obsessing over a staff member😂 that’s a sad situation.
The step-mum is very toxic. Going behind the husband and changing the order ? The daughter can't even have the cake she wants for her birthday ? Then what else will she have to compromise for her stepsister everyday ?
Exactly what I was thinking, I have a feeling she makes everything about her daughter too
I had that happen with my baby (half) brother ALL THE TIME. I’m 9 yrs older than him. Mom always let him pick the movies and the TV shows and the activities and the restaurant. Like it was never what I wanted or even
my mom and I going out just us two so I could have what I wanted. Even before my brother was born, the minute anyone besides me was awake, we had to watch a different TV show since mine were boring/graphic (they were censored or reenactment medical shows). I wasn’t a big cartoon kid but I’d watch what was on because ADHD. As a result I often spent a lot of time reading a book instead. I’d get hyper focused and not really hearing anything around me because ADHD, which was undiagnosed until recently at almost age 30 btw, and then I would get into trouble for “ignoring” my brother. Like legit I couldn’t hear him calling my name nor lightly nudging me. I’d get told “go to your room if you’re just going to ignore everybody. Even that wasn’t an escape as my brother and I shared a room (he only slept in his crib in there) until he graduated to a big boy bed and my mom and now ex stepdad finished the basement for their room. My mom said he was allowed in the room because it was his room too but he would just come in and destroy my stuff or color on my books and stuff. I’d get mad and then I’d get into trouble for “not dealing with it the right way”. All his toys were kept in the living room. Aside from sleep, he had no business in “our” room/my stuff. He would also borrow my things like movies and my mom never made him put them away. “He’s fine, he’s just a kid” like “mom he’s ruining things”. I’d get into trouble for “momming” him if I tried to get him to clean up. I love the kid but I was resentful for a lot of years because he got to do whatever and I got into trouble for breathing. I was also made to share my computer with the household (which had been purchased just for me by my grandparents). The household was kind enough to limewire 10000 viruses into it and it became an unusable brick. I got a 2nd computer with my allowance $$ that I got when I lived with my aunts while my mom moved out of state with her bf and when we all moved back in together, I was made to share that computer too. My brother was older than and a little better about wrecking stuff. He was told he could use it but he had to shut it off. He and my mom would just shut the monitor off and then I’d get into trouble days later for it still being on 🙃🙃🙃🙃🙃 sorry this is digressing into me ranting. Point is I felt very much like I didn’t matter, my opinions don’t matter. I just default into “whatever you want” in groups and situations with my husband because that’s what I was taught to do. It’s people pleasing to the max and is incredibly unhealthy. Setting boundaries and asking for your needs to be met, especially on a birthday, isn’t selfishness and I’ll fight anyone who says it is.
The sisters with the hair problem, im definitely on the side of the bride. The bride asked her to have her hair up which is the easiest solution and then found other resources that she was going to pay for since the first option didn't work. The sister is just making it difficult, it's one day that your sister is going to look back on.
The sister probably feels hurt as hell that her roots are gonna be a problem for the bride. The only reason she got away with basically saying “your ugly hair is in my way” is bc they’re sisters. Probably trying to make it healthier in the first place because of something Bridezilla said. Her “making it difficult” is only her standing her ground.
And I get it, sisters are brutal to each other but if we take that relationship out, the bride is definitely someone a lot of people would hate to be around. Alwayssss judging!
@@bee2450 unsolicited overly honest opinions are the worst! And even when they’re asked for, some lies are necessary
I lived with a crazy lady once who asked for honest opinions on a dish she made. It was good, just a bit too salty (for reference, I LOVE salt like used to get caught eating from the salt shaker kind of love lol). So she was super offended I thought it was too salty. She literally didn’t talk with me for a week and made me ride in another car for our day trip to another town. Eventually she kicked me out. Everyone who was riding in the car with me thought the food was too salty also, they just had lived with her longer and knew that giving a real honest opinion was a trap. On top of just being an absolute asshole, she had chronic pain which made her extra cranky. She couldn’t partake of the plant medicine due to a severe mold allergy sadly and she prefers suffering over other types of meds so that’s just the way she is.
The first one seemed like the bride was super insecure. Sounds like she for forced everyone to not look their best so she was the only one who looked good lol
Story 1 : Kendall was so happy during her wedding day regardless what happen … bc you and Josh = true love … love changes priority…
I don't like coconut. But one of my sons loves German Chocolate Cake with coconut frosting. The Birthday Kid gets THEIR favorite cake flavor! Period!! 💯
As a suuuuuuppper picky eater the picky eater story was super relatable to me and it was a little upsetting to see people be like “just try it” I am not going to order something in public and possibly gag just to order something to make the other person happy like gagging and being grossed out be food is way more embarrassing then just ordering something maybe we could all get something to go and eat different things at home together
It’s selfish and immature. If someone acted like this, I seriously wouldn’t even date them. If all you wanted was chicken tenders, go play with the kids on the kids’ menu.
I agree. I’m not gonna nearly throw up publicly like that for no reason. I would voice my opinion before going in though to make things as easy as possible.
@@GC-pq6vm some people have sensory issues with food. I have ADHD with sensory issues and food textures overwhelm me. Sometimes it’s not just someone being a picky eater. If “normal” people understood how neuro divergent people feel in certain situations maybe y’all wouldn’t complain about picky eaters so much🤷🏻♀️
EXACTLY! My husband is a super stubborn picky eater, and when I want to eat certain places he doesn't like we will just get food to go from different places and then eat together somewhere else. He will try certain things but he can't eat cheese and has a thing with textures, plus who wants to waste money on food they'll end up not finishing.
@@GC-pq6vm My best friend and I went to a small restaurant out of town and all the food was very artsy and not appealing to us so we politely left without ordering. We weren't going to waste money on food we knew we wouldn't like, not to mention it's just straight up a waste of food. I dont see what is selfish or immature about that.
I 100% agree…. She was focused on the wrong thing at her wedding… other people’s appearance shouldn’t even bother u on your big day
It’s one day. If you can’t deal with doing something different to your hair for one day then ur an asshole
Years ago, I was in my coworker wedding and she asked me to cover up my sleeve tattoo and back then I didn’t know much about makeup like I do now so I went to Macy’s and asked a lady at the makeup counter to help me and asked what I could buy to cover up my arm it cost me $120 to buy over priced makeup and I had to buy a dress from David’s Bridal, shoes and dye my hair. Let’s just say I went broke after buying all that and a gift and she wasn’t my sister nor related to me. Getting married is special and a day the couple will remember forever and the pictures help you remember how special that day was! The sister should just dye her hair since the hair dresser can help with her problem. I don’t think either are assholes just do it for your sister!
Awesome video! 👍🏻💛
Girl she ain’t even gotta dye just put some colored hair spray in that for a day and wash it out it’s not that difficult
I dont get why people make such a big deal out of what guests are gonna look like on wedding pictures, to me asking someone to change their hair just because it's gonna be an "eye sore" has the same energy as asking someone to lose weight, you're just doing it so it becomes "pleasing to the eyes"... yet no one is gonna give a fuck about what others looked like on the wedding anyways, is it worth it making the guest in question uncorfortable at the wedding just for some pics?
Exactly! I don't get it! I hate that Caraley had to back pedal her opinion. I'm getting married soon and I really don't care about what everyone's hair, skin, weight, etc would look like on the pictures! Like what is the big deal of how other people would look like on MY day? If anything I'm more concerned on how I look 😆
@@cassandrareyes2012 It's also their problem if they look "bad"... plus, no one else who's gonna look at those pics really cares! They're not even gonna remember what they saw 5 secs after, i feel like nowadays ppl only care about these things because of social media really
shut upp
I actually find the MIL eating the weed brownies really cute. Just the fact that she knew what she was eating and was hoping it would make her giggly.
I always listen right when it comes out! My selfcare sesh 🍃
Hopefully she's binge watching The Office. Get well soon Janelle 🦋
The birthday cake makes me UPSET. My husband and I have 5 kids. 2 mine, 2 his and 1 shared. We’ve celebrated MANY birthdays and this would have NEVER happened. We do compromise at times and get 2 cakes or cupcakes of the opposite flavor but NEVER would him or I go behind the others back and undermine the request of the birthday child.
The boyfriend who didn’t eat lunch with his girlfriend. This actually happens with me and my wife. If I want sushi, I usually have to eat it when she’s at work or something. There’s also times where I want a treat like ice cream or bubble tea and she is not as into sweets. At first it bothered me but eventually I just accepted that she doesn’t like certain foods.
I don’t want her to waste money on something she won’t eat.
Story 2: I’m not making a judgement on who’s the AH, if she’s grateful or ungrateful idc - but the idea of seriously buying an ENGAGEMENT RING from ALLIE EXPRESS is wild 😂😂😂
My mom commented on my clothes choices all the time and it's greatly affected my confidence.
Sometimes when we say we're picky we really mean we have food sensory issues and that could be a possibility.
This! I was kinda sad to hear the picky slander lol I’ve unfortunately been this way for 24 years and my brain doesn’t just let me try things haha
@@kassandrajackson1339 35 years plus lots of stigma and harassment... and as someone who has been to a French restaurant in France...it doesn't have the most appetizing descriptions... half of it is traditionally served cold including the potatoes.....it was a sensory nightmare
Yeah like I’ll literally gag if I try to eat a food that doesn’t sound good. Even if it’s something I literally ate and enjoyed yesterday (and it’s being cooked fresh today), my body can decide that it’s a “nope” and just not want it. Like how some ppl won’t try sushi because they think it’s all raw fish or how some ppl don’t want to try cricket meal or caviar. That’s how my body reacts to random things. My hubby like super creamy mashed potatos and I like chunky. I keep explaining that the super creamy texture is like gag city for me and he just won’t listen 😢. We have super different food tastes to the point where we’ll literally go to two different restaurants and get to-go orders. Or we’ll pick restaurants with HUGE varieties so we’re likely to find something we both want. It’s a struggle but we make it work
@@livelongandprospermary8796 ill eat potato skins or phillys for a week straight then one day its no longer a "safe" food and its no longer appetizing...thanks adhd. I have 3 children with food sensory as well and will cook 4 different dishes in 1 night because we are all on a different kick. Sometimes i only have to cook 2 different things but it varies. 🤷🏻♀️
then say that
The birthday cake one omg 😅 bakeries know how to split a cake down the middle and make one side chocolate and one side vanilla BUT IT WASNT EVEN BRITNEY’S BIRTHDAY!!!! 🤣 ugh!
Yes. If they SHARED a birthday, that would be different.
Please do more AITA episodes! Love these 👏🏼
I think it would be so cool to get an episode about weddings and advice you’d give on planning one, etc.
Hello beautiful besties 🥰 missing ya Janelle and hope you feel better soon. I love AITA!! Thursdays are the best 🌻
Aww hope she starts to feel better! Love the show. Y’all always give me company and keep my mind busy while doing house chores. It helps so much thank for staying out of my headspace. Love y’all!💜
Yay! i love determining if people are assholes 🤣 I hope Janelle feels better 🥺 ❤️
lmao! same, best comment!!
There was one AITA story where a woman wanted to make her future husband wear contacts because he had heterochromia and she wanted his eyes to match.
There was another where the OP wanted her bridesmaid to go without her glasses. And another where the bride wanted her to dye her long, naturally red hair. I don't believe that the woman had ever dyed her hair before either.
I'm a picky eater, but that's because I have a few health issues with my stomach, it gives me anxiety eating out when I'm not in control, I have to plan going out for dinner, I have to check all the menus, I even have to call restaurants to make sure that what I think looks good isn't coated in wheat/Gluten, or contains wheat/gluten. Thankfully my husband is great with it, and he let's me choose where to eat where I feel comfortable, and my Father In Law when we see him, he always makes sure when we go out he's done his research to make sure I can eat. It's hard being the only one who is "difficult" but I'm also thankfull my family and in laws are so catering for me 😊
I love tuning into the shesh after work while I’m making dinner. It’s like chillin with by besties!
For the first one: After working in customer service, I guarantee the bridezilla will be a laughing stock in that restaurant staff for at least a week. I also guarantee they weren’t short staffed, the boss was just annoyed and this was their way to say get over it 😂
For the hair story, it’s the fact that the sister is insisting that she wears it down even though it looks bad. She’s being stubborn on that part. It’s fine if she doesn’t want to blend it, but she should at least wear it up.
You guys are really amazing. I’ve never felt so connected to a podcast until this one! Feels like we really get to know you guys and see so much personality! I love it!! Love you guys!❤❤ feel better Janelle! ❤
I love these episodes!! Keep up the great work ladies. You make my day better!!
I think it's a bit hypocritical of Karelly to say she has food issues and wouldn't be able to eat with someone else who isn't eating, and then immediately turn around and heatedly say that a picky eater should "just try it!!"
Relax Angie
@@cici.ngxenge I am relaxed. LOL I'm just saying, it's hypocritical to complain about your own issues but not be sensitive to other people's issues at the same time.
@@cici.ngxenge did you watch this episode? lol Karelly is the one who needs to relax. SINAKO
@@cici.ngxenge quotation marks mean I was quoting what she said, obvi
Been waiting all day for you ladies. Now I can finish my day with a smile. Thanks for all you ladies do.
Guys I was here since the beginning & this show has gotten so good. Janelle picked one of my questions a long time ago, and her answering it with y’all gave me such peace and assurance. I love you guys! Miss janelle this episode, hope she feels better!!!!
I can't even imagine complaining about a server on your wedding day unless they were really rude to guests or something. It's really weird. The wedding ring one, I think getting a ring on Ali express seems kind of lazy and not well thought out/individual. I feel like you can spend less money but get something more personalised /individual. It's weird in a way that couples ask where a ring is from and what it costs?
its not.
After watching Janelle take the lead for a few months, it’s so weird having her gone, she brings so much to the podcast!
Definitely!!
One of my very good friends wore a white, beautifully fitted mini dress to our wedding, she looked amazing, and I didn't even notice the colour until someone pointed it out in the pics days later 🤣
Priorities people. Just enjoy yourself. Love these eps, so chilled x
Easily the best part of my Thursday ❤ hope Janelle feels better 💕
I definitely agreed with carelly’s POV with both the sister/bride issue And the weird dad encounter lol.
Loved todays podcast 😂
my BF is really picky too and we’ve been together for 4 years. sometimes we end up getting food from different places because i want to try new things. it’s still irritating but i can’t force him to try anything (he literally won’t) so it is what it is. i wouldn’t storm out of somewhere though. i’d just eat my yummy food and leave it at that 🤷🏼♀️
The sister with the unblended roots can just get a colored hair spray that's a darker color and either spray all the light hair or blend the dark into the light!
This session was very chill🎉thank you guys
i have anxiety at work (office) listening to these podcasts brings me comfort....
I’m so glad this video just came out, I have so much laundry to fold and I can’t do it without listening to the sesh 😂
Hope Janelle gets better soon💐Love you guys💓
Favoritism isn’t even a thing for birthdays if the expectation is that the birthday boy/girl feels special. That could mean different things for different kids/adults.
Yay, my favorite time of the week! Get well soon Janelle!
I remember when K was pregnant and was sharing that she’s reading books and trying to learn and while I thought that was a good idea nothing on earth will tell an expecting new mom exactly what it feels like until the mom actually have the baby and I wanted to comment that but I thought sooner or later she will know it. After she had her baby I smiled when she has mentioned just that on her episode being back. I think the same thing about the teenage boy and the mother. As a mommy of 2 teenage boys, I can totally see where that mom was coming from. As nice as it may be to
bond with the auntie (the bride) , it maybe that the mother was in the middle of a rough stage of teaching her son a life lesson that had nothing to do with the wedding attire that the bride just obliterated lol. So again today I thought to myself, one day these ladies will know.
"Mommy" of teenagers. TEENAGERS. Yikes. Being a mom does not suddenly make you the most important person. The bride and groom of THEIR OWN WEDDING specifically wanted their guests to be creative and wear what they wanted. The "mommy" is not the one who's opinions matter here. At all. She still has the ultimate say on what he wears, so the Aunt did absolutely nothing wrong by being honest about HER wishes for HER wedding day. Your opinion has nothing to do with you being a mom, but everything to do with you thinking you're special bc you're a mom.
The first story reminds me of this time when I was 18-19 years old and I got a "verbal warning" by a manager at work for dressing "innapropratley" I was wearing the company provided uniform....which was a pair of black fitted slacks and a button down shirt, they said I was wearing the uniform in a way that was "too revealing" the uniform was in my correct size and fit perfectly, I just have a more curvy body and I guess that was an issue because my next shift I had my manager brought me a different uniform that was a size up, the pants were too big and I had to keep my belt on the tightest setting and the button up shirt was so big that I looked like a small child playing dress up with their dads clothes.
That wife was so rude to that husband and his daughter. Literally wanted to yell “IT IS HER BIRTHDAY, NOT HERS”
So like everyone in the family can only be vanilla because that’s equal? How does that make sense
Eat*
The step sister with the birthday cake is the one that will be getting a server fired from the catering team at her wedding lol😂
I totally agree on the birthday cake thing. If it’s MY birthday I want MY favorite cake. Not someone else’s. The wife is not teaching the child how to accept that not every day of the year is about her.
Feel better Janelle. Thanks for the podcast ladies great job as always 🙂🙂 love you ladies ❤
The first story has me baffled! I am currently planning my wedding. My fiancé and I joke that we want small little mishaps (obviously with no injuries), they make better stories! I put myself in her shoes, I honestly don’t think I would of even noticed. If would have noticed, I wouldn’t care. I have heard many brides and grooms don’t even have time to eat half the time let alone judge catering staff appeal.
i love when you guys do these, you should do another today i f*cked episode too! the first one was so funny😭
I agree we need another!!!!!
The today I f*cked up episode is one of my fav sesh episodes! I always go back to it and laugh hard every single time. Definitely would want to see another one!
What a fun Sesh! Feel better Janelle ❤❤❤
The hair dryer one is taking me out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hands down my fav episodes, always have a good laugh. Love the atmosphere of the podcast it’s really cool to feel like you’re chilling with friends for a bit. Can’t wait for the next one😋💕
The timing of this episode is exceptional. Thank you beautiful ladies ❤️
The SIL one, I am baffled that he had to stop cooking something he eats daily, move out of his room and such. They chose to move into the parents home, fully knowing that other people live there. If you are coming into someone else’s home, you do not get to dictate what they eat, etc. It also seems like she was just picking on him because she doesn’t like him. I’ve had a very difficult pregnancy where I struggled with smells, textures, everything and if I didn’t like it, I walked away to get it off my mind. You don’t get to be a dictator, just because you’re pregnant. The SIL is a full on asshole. Him, not at all.
Hey friends! love the pod, just wanted to say a quick thing about picky eaters. I suffer from ARFID disorder which basically means I'm scared to try new things. Lots of people have this disorder and go undiagnosed but it is actually really hard to go out to eat sometimes.
the person in the post says they try new things though they just don't end up liking them
no one said anything abt ARFID & the person who submitted didn’t say anything either. don’t project your problems to someone else babe 🫶🏼
Karelly some of us have sensory issues okay pls be kind to us picky eaters 😂
Was just looking for something to listen to while I’m working and this popped up to save the day!! Hope Janelle feels better!! ❤
i'm late to the party this week but it couldn't have been better timing, my fiancé and i have lost our beloved 17 year old dog today. i need the positive vibes the sesh gives me critically. thanks for being one of the best parts of my day every time y'all post.
I totally relate to the AITA at the French restaurant. My husband HATES sushi but I love this bouji sushi place by our house. Our compromise is well get sushi (he won't order anything) and then after well go to his restaurant of choice and ill just sip on some wine 😂 it was kind of awkward bc the waiter was like taken a back when he didn't order anything but we both end up full and happy. I also went into this knowing he wouldn't order anything and was going bc I wanted to so def not the asshole
I hope Janelle feels better soon!!! 😢
“you literally twisted its neck off”
kendall: 🥴😬 “…yeaaaa thats adhd for you” 😂
When I get married I will not care what anyone wears as long as they show up. Some people do not have funds to dress or otherwise sad .
I took French in high school, one of our assignments was to eat at a French restaurant. I had a very difficult time finding something on the menu that appealed to me or even understood what it was. I can't blame him
ok
The sesh podcast always helps my anxiety and makes me feel at home❤ (all your channels do tbh) but the sesh is my comfort channel
Also love the tumblers hehe
Kendall is absolutely glowing! Love you guys, you make the work day go by a bit faster. Hope Janelle feels better!
i got a super crazy cold when i came back from vegas this week so this is the best thing to cheer me up 😭❤️
Hope Janelle is better soon!! Love you guys
Perfect timing!!!👌🏼🥳
I hope you feel better soon Janelle, sending you so much love and good, healthy vibes!! 🤍
Kendall you are absolutely glowing!!!! Motherhood looks good on you!!🤍
I LOVE these AITA episodes, for many reasons but mostly because I feel like Karelly and Sydney make much more frequent appearances than normal. And I LOVE hearing Everyone’s opinions!!🤍🤍
Keep up the great work ladies!! #muchlove🤍
I'm on day 7 of covid and feeling super icky, but now I can lay down with my colouring app and just listen 💛 hope Janelle feels better soon x
I am so sorry. The vid is absolutely horrible and i truly hope you feel better soon. 💗
"what's Cheech & Chong" lmfao wow I feel a billion years old after that.
The ring… I wouldn’t want an expensive ring, but I WOULD expect it to come from a reputable retailer. Who even knows what’s in that AliExpress ring. It could be made of boiled eggs and road tar. I think on some level that that is more the issue here… I can understand how she might “feel” like he’s “saying” that she’s not worth going through the trouble of buying her ring from a reliable source. But I digress!
The girl with the roots growing out should try a waterfall braid across the line where the color changes. I wonder if that would look cool 🤔
Bust out laughing out LOUD at work when you said “instead he wanted to go to jersey mikes next door “ lmaooo 😂
It’s so lovely to have you back 💙 of course please know you are always more than welcome to take your time away, but goodness, it makes my week to have you on my timeline 💙
After listening to this podcast cast, I guess I was a pretty easy bride! I
never thought/cared about my guests( or staff) for hair, makeup or clothes- I did request my bridesmaid's to find red dress's of their liking and the groomsmen matched. Everything came out beautiful! Wedding's are a celebration!!!! All those little details are insignificant in the long run.
*funny note, my husband's best friend (girl) recently told me (we've been married 10 years) she was Shocked I let me husband's groomsman go down the isle w/ a beard. Never phased me then and doesn't now with our pictures. The focus should just be on the bride & groom ❤️ That's what will be remembered!!
Hi Besties! When doing AITA, you would typically use “ESH” for “everyone sucks here” if you think the situation is bad on all parts. Specifically with that situation of the brother with the parents who folded over for the older brother and his pregnant gf! That was a major ESH!
Being someone who works for a catering company who often does these big “rich” weddings… you’d be surprised just how much they demand 😬
That first story has to be fake. I can't believe that. "She was talking to MY guests" lol servers are supposed to make small talk. What if someone wears a lot of makeup because they are insecure and feel they need to to feel comfortable? You want someone to feel uncomfortable and insecure all day because you're insecure? So weird