I live in the same area as Nikki and I know for a fact there are multiple dog trainers that work with aggressive dog behavior and organizations that will help rehome an aggressive dog. There was absolutely no need to put a perfectly healthy dog down. So cruel.
I am a Veterinary Assistant, we devote our lives to these amazing animals and we HATE having to euthanize ANY animal. So when incompetent owners come in and want to euthanize the only thing we can do is try and convince them to surrender. There is no such thing as a “bad” dog just dogs who have been bred poorly (By Humans) leading them to be pre-disposed to certain behaviours that can be worked with and dogs who have been neglected of training and/or treated poorly by humans causing “undesired” behaviour. It is so bizarre that they would share this publicly and think it’s okay.. 😬
@@MiissMeW so much this!!! I worked for the Humane Society, a private no-kill shelter, and vet med (I’m an RN now). In NONE of those settings with that be our recommendation viz telephone. No temperament testing? No training? No foster-to-adopt? No breed-specific rescue (they will pay to fly your animal to their facility from several states away, even into Canada)? I call BS and I cannot believe someone agreed to euthanize him. I could write a thesis on this, but just supporting you!
Rightt? Also, their faces were soo close to the dog’s face!! If he was so aggressive then they should know to not do that! The whole situation just seems like they didn’t respect the dog’s boundaries and that’s why he snapped.
Exactly. They knew he wouldn’t do anything to the baby unless provoked. He could have been rehomed to someone with no kids or other dogs. Or like my sister did when her baby started walking and made one of her dogs nervous, keep them apart unless you’re right there hands on making sure both are being respectful to the other. She has 2 kids and 3 dogs who all love each other but deserve personal space and respect. They throw balls for the dogs, go on walks with the dogs, gently pet the dogs but they are never together without supervision.
People don’t understand what it’s like to have an aggressive dog until they have one. I used to think how could someone euthanize an aggressive dog but many times it’s the only option.
The fact they decided to not adopt internationally once they were told they couldnt publicize the child for a year after getting him/her, makes me sick.
Like they thought "if we can't use the kid for views what's the point?" I hope they're never able to adopt. They're just looking for a way to revive their channel. It's disgusting.
@@savhannah9889 exactly!! They were denied when they tried adopting domestically. I don’t remember them ever saying the exact reason why. But I’m grateful the adoption system denied them. They’re a couple who ultimately had intentions of using the child to display on RUclips and profit from him/her. If they truly wanted to love and care for that child then going a year without publicizing them shouldn’t have been an issue.
And how did they run into the point so hard and completely miss it? They’re like “but can’t you make an exception for us because we’re vloggers?” Bitch, this rule is in place specifically because of people like you!
The way nikki just sat there casually sipping on her coffee the whole video. I wanted to reach through the screen and smack it out of her damn hands 🙄🙄
@@oliviapastor4661 seriously! How they saw no issue with everything is astonishing! All the things that they chose to keep in this video makes me very scared about the things that they could have chose to leave/edit out!
Same! no better yet,, when she had the cup to her mouth, I wanted to do that thing where you smack the bottom of the cup so it spills all over her, in hopes its very hot, freshly poured coffee. Honestly this woman makes me physically repulsed.
I have an aggressive dog and the last time I took her to the vet, the vet suggested I not keep her and insinuated that I should put her down. And she’s only two! It broke my heart and I looked for a new vet. Since then with training and careful monitoring, she has made significant improvements. It’s not impossible to keep an aggressive dog!
i’m honestly so surprised by the reaction to this because i’ve always felt the same way, dogs shouldn’t be put down for aggressive behaviour they should be trained, and so should the owner because it’s most likely a boundary they don’t understand they’re crossing. but in australia at least where i’m from it’s definitely not uncommon. my dog bit my face aggressively when he was like 1 and when i told my friends they were surprised i was buying him professional training instead of putting him down!!!! i’m so glad people are thinking differently
At the Veterinary Hospital I work at we will not euthanize any healthy rescue animal, it is heartbreaking that it is the first choice to some. It is so unethical, they never ask why the dog is reacting the way it is and if it is due to human error which is usually the primary cause. They all have different personalities and boundaries to respect just like a human would!
My moms neighbor had a dog that was very aggressive and kept jumping their fence and trying to attack the kids in the neighborhood. They built a higher fence, I believe 6ft is the tallest we are allowed to have in our area. The dog still managed to jump the fence and attacked one of the neighbor kids while he was riding his bike and hurt him really bad. The boy was scared to even play in his own backyard for months afterward. The first time he was mentally able to ride his bike around the neighborhood again the dog jumped the fence and was chasing him. I love animals, all animals, 100% but when I saw the boy being chased I had no choice but to call the dog catcher. The dog catcher and the sherrif deputies forced the family to give up the dog so they could put it down. Which I feel guilty for to this day but the boy is my momds best friends son and I wasn't going to let him get hurt again. While I don't think what the couple they are talking about did is okay in any way shape or form and everything they said/did could have been handled differently and hearing them talk about it made me sick, sometimes you don't really get a choice. I'm glad you got your doggo the proper training and were able to keep her. ❤
Plus Nikki's dog wasn't even aggressive! A LOT of non-aggressive dogs will nip or get protective when food is taken away while they are eating. You just separate the dog from others when it's eating, it's not hard at all.
In regards to the dog story: The biggest red flag for me was when the husband said "I liked him (Bowser) for being rowdy". This tells me that he probably encouraged his aggressive behavior. Only when he could no longer control it did he feel like he had to put him down.
they randomly threw in the video that they are moving soon and they don't know what to do with bowser because it would be "difficult" to move with him. I think they were looking for a reason to get rid of him.
@@dmoneywise Agreed! If the dog was truly as "aggressive " as they claim then why are there no reports of that. They were trying to cover it all up and appear sympathetic but it backfired.
Okay the period/tampon story was insane. Men need to get over themselves. This story brought up deep memories of always feeling the need to burry my period products under all the trash as a young teenage girl out of shame for my period. The boys should be exposed to it to better understand women. I loved y’all’s responses. So glad the women educated them. Love it.
Absolutely. My own mother refused to allow a bin in the bathroom my brother and I shared. I was expected to wrap my used period products in toilet paper and then throw them in the OUTSIDE bin. Even the bin in my own room wasn't acceptable. She treated menstruation like some kind of disease :/ Also didn't let me use tampons for ages as "they are for married ladies", i.e. in her mind, women who have experienced vaginal penetration by a penis. Utterly shameful attitude towards a natural biological process :/
I think it’s cool that you guys don’t feel the need to update us on your personal life every episode because it’s important to recognise that life isn’t always exciting and eventful and that’s okay, you know? Things don’t have to be happening all the time for you to be living life.. Janelle, Kendall and Seshies I hope you are well and taking care of yourselves🌷
For the last aita, I honestly feel way more bad for the adult step daughter having to share one bathroom with THREE TEENAGE BOYS. As if three boys are keeping the bathroom clean by themselves. Good on her for not hesitating to call them his skid marking sons 😂 the audacity of men is2g
Yes! That poor girl. I can only imagine the mess! Plus how has the father never heard of not flushing tampons? It was kinda awkward but when we move to the mountains my step dad had to tell all of us my mom included that we cant flush our tampons because it would clog our septic and could cause extremely expensive problems.
So I have a 7 year old boy who has seen my used tampons since he was like 2 years old. He KNOWS what they are. He has seen me insert them and take them out. I have explained to him and his sister what they are and why I use them. I will not have my son end up like those skid mark boys. 😂 also they are always in the bathroom with me no matter how much I ask them to leave me alone but I figured I’d use this as a learning opportunity since I am a mom 🤷🏼♀️
That step dad is ridiculous. Loved hearing he got educated and took back his original statement. But also maybe he could just buy a trash can with a cover🤷🏽♀️
I don’t get why this woman didn’t just rehome the dog yeah it’s sad but at least that dog could’ve had another home where they can have owners who can take care of them
Right before they said that, I paused the video and said to myself, "they probably do things that she doesn't like, and doesn't say anything about." I also like to pause the podcast after each scenario, and give my own opinion...to myself.
I just recently went through a similar situation where my dog that i had from a pup attacked my smaller dog iv had for years (he has always been great with cats and kids) putting him down even after the massacre and vet bills was an absolute not happening bc i knew he had a family out there somewhere better suited. i called around for DAYS getting told by shelter after shelter they would just put him down or straight up wouldn’t take him. I pressed on until eventually i found him a non kill shelter that was willing to work with him and give him the life he deserves. We took him for burgers and left him a blanket that smelled like home and he was adopted out 2 days later!! I miss him more than i can say but i loved him enough to see all his wonderful qualities and potential. There is ALWAYS another way
Hi, vet tech here in nashville (where they live.) I've worked for a LOT of vet clinics in Nashville and the middle Tennessee area, and not even ONE ive worked for will euthanize for anything other than if it's medically necessary, and that is a fact. And I've volunteered at the nashville humane society for years, NO ONE in that facility will tell you that your dog has no other option than to be put down. They are straight up lying and im now wondering if they put it down themselves.
I also followed Nikki for years. They had SO many options that could have helped Bowser that they just straight up ignored for YEARS. I am so shook by their weird comments and behavior. It's really disturbing. Also, glad other people got bad vibes from Dan. Thought it was just me!
My HS chemistry teacher was considering putting his 7 yr old pug/Chihuahua mix dog down bc he “but his son after the kid was playing rough”. (His kid was FINE! I met him a few weeks later) I was only 16 and I knew it was not okay. I begged him for his dog and promised I would rehome him. My parents were a little upset but they understood. We ended up keeping him and he peacefully passed at age 10. He was the best doggie ever.
I had to put my dog of 9 years down last year bc she became very sick and it was a decision between putting her through very expensive medical tests/treatment that would most likely not have a positive result at the end. Hardest decision I’ve ever had to make and it broke my heart (I cried so hard that it made the vet cry). This makes no sense to me.
If someone tried to propose to their s/o at MY wedding I would literally excommunicate them 🤣 I 100000% support the pettiness of cutting that cousin off the zoom call. I'm cacklingggg
So here’s my soapbox: My family have always been dog lovers, as have I. When my mom married my stepdad he had an older dog that was simply just used to it being just them two. He was never around kids before and I was only 4-5. My mom always tried to set boundaries with me about the dogs but one night I wanted to kiss him goodnight and he attached onto my face. I had to go to the ER and couldn’t eat solid foods for quite a while. Even in such a traumatic situation, my mom simply put the dog outside to remove us from this situation. And even at the ER I was telling them that it was my fault cause I didn’t listen about not getting in his face. We worked with training him and I learned a big lesson that day. We lived peacefully with that dog until he passed of old age and I would do absolutely anything for my dogs, including consistently remind my own toddler that dogs have their own language and we need to respect them as we do other people. You can’t say that your dog is like your child and then just kill him when he is being a dog. It’s absolutely ridiculous that they thought they would be justified in making such a small-minded, disgusting decision about another beings life.
I'm sorry the cousin during the virtual wedding getting cut off - the cousin trying to propose is the Ahole! That is not the right time to do it, totally stealing their thunder. rude, crude, and totally unacceptable. Just no.
Absolutely! I would have cut them off right away too. No bad feelings at all. The cousin trying to propose IS the asshole. I wouldn’t have lied about it though. 😂
The “would I be the asshole” guy concerning his pregnant wife, idk about the whole kicking out situation, but that woman needs new friends. The person who told her that would be a good idea has got to go, pregnant women can be emotional and vulnerable and it seems like her friend is convincing her to do real immature shit and encouraging that behavior. Assuming that she wasn’t like this before the friend 🤷♀️
I feel like this woman definitely had issues/toxic tendencies before she got pregnant. It’s such a stereotype that pregnancy makes you crazy, and while I can say from experience that there can be moments where emotions feel heightened or unregulated, it doesn’t make you disrespectful and abusive towards your partner nor does it justify toxically irrational behavior. She needs new friends and intensive therapy.
Duuuuude... those childish men stressed over a period?! Blood?! Don't look at the shit in the trash... Edit: I'm so glad for that turn around at the end!!
It reminds me of the RUclipsr Myka Stauffer literally giving up her adopted son because he had autism. Like they gave up on that dog by deciding to put him down because if you truly loved him and cared enough to try then you would do anything to save his life. Plenty of people have had to give up aggressive dogs and it would be understandable if her other dog was getting hurt but by putting him down you just made the convenient choice. Any dog is worth saving no matter how aggressive, there will have been someone or some place that could have taken him. This just upsets me so much!!!
Happy Mother’s Day to all the Sesh Mommies and Happy Soon To Be Mother’s Day to the mommy’s who are trying! We see you. We love you. I hope everyone had a great day! 🤍
Honestly im 7 months pregnant and ive never treated my boyfriend like shit. If im ever mean or grumpy i always apologize later. It sounds like the pregnancy is highlighting preexisting issues between them.
Set boundaries with your children and dogs (DUH)🗣 help your dog work through their trauma 🗣 DO NOT LABEL AN ENTIRE BREED AS AGGRESSIVE 🗣 they failed that dog. His Old Yeller comment made me feel so sick to my stomach. Screw them, they don’t deserve to have animals if this is their mindset.
This is surprisingly more common than you guys might think. My grandmother told me that her and her sister would just go to the vet every few months when they got tired of one of there animals and euthanize them, she mainly had cats. But I was kinda tooken aback when I heard the vet could just kill an animal for no reason. Some people unfortunately value their own time too much and don't worry about animals or their wellbeing.
Yes... older generations especially viewed it as fine. My grandmother said she got a few dogs put down because she didn’t want to move them to the new house and one later because my uncle moved out and the dog was too hard to take care of. It’s so sad and disturbing. Also she had lied to the family about what actually happened to the dogs until just a few years ago.
I actually have a ‘aggressive’ dog, I bought him off some guy on fb and didn’t know he bit until he was settled in our home. I am in love with my dog tho so I am training him, I would never go after the previous owner or kill my dog. This is the saddest story I’ve ever heard and it’s straight up animal abuse in my opinion.
I'm watching this as I get ready for my college graduation. I've been an emotional and nervous wreck all day but listening to you guys always makes me feel more comfortable and relaxed!
Congratulations on the move Janelle 😃 I just moved into my first home with my partner the 29th and everything is slowly falling into place and I’m so grateful and content. Wishing you a smooth, happy new adventure!🌻
My uncle and his ex fiancé had a bull terrier that their vet recommended to be put down last year after two biting incidents...so there are definitely vets out there who will even recommend it. Even here in Colorado
this episode and that Big Foot episode of Mile Higher and two of my favorite things ever 😂 I literally feel like I’m hanging out with my friends when I’m sitting here laughing right along hahah
Can we please have The Sesh merch that somehow incorporates Kendall’s ‘Nice-hole’ word 🤣🤣 like “ Be a Nice - hole” Oh god it sounds quite sexual maybe not ahahahaha
I would love to hear childhood stories! I remember a Jenna Julien posdacst episode where they looked over their childhood apology letters and school work and juts told little anecdotes pertaining to their items. I think it would be so cute!!
I honestly had to fight back tears, listening to those monsters talk about murdering their dog in their living room! Poor puppy, rest in peace little dog x
The cousin who proposed seemed to be taking advantage of the hard work the wedding couple did to get allllllll those people together and steal their moment.....its takes a lot of time and coordinating to get all those people together. If he wants it to be a special proposal, he needs to put in the hard work of coordinating all those people on a zoom call and put forth his OWN time and energy for his special moment.
I feel so bad for joshes sisters. Their parents probably used forgiveness and Christianity to force them to move on from what josh did to them. I’ve been SA and while I guess I “forgive” my assaulter, I don’t want to just move on and have him be around me. You can forgive but not forget. They shouldn’t be forced to publicly say they forgive their assaulter just to save face for their family.
I used to watch that show when I was a teen bc it was fascinating, now I’m wondering how many times those girls were filmed right after they were SA’d?! Or josh parading around the property right after he aSa**ted one of them Sick
My brother had a dog that was aggressive towards his children. He tried to train him but it didn’t work. He couldn’t financially get a professional trainer. So he found the dog a home that best fit the dogs needs. The home had no children or other animals but a good amount of land. I am sorry but how did they think putting down the dog was the best idea?! They have the financial resources to rehabilitate their dog or at least find a home that best fit him.
I found it funny when Kendall said she understands not knowing where Michigan is but I feel like MI is just as easy to tell where it is as FL on the map because it’s the only state surrounded and outlined with a lake barrier 😅
The story about the dog made me really rethink my experience putting my elderly dog down. She was 14 and has an inoperable tumor on her neck but was still in good spirits. Quality of life was deteriorating but I didn’t feel it was the right time when we did it. I still wrestle with the thought of choosing when my dogs life ended. It’s never easy but I didn’t want her to suffer either
I just started watching these at my new job. And this episode literally had me laughing so hard i was crying. everyone was staring at me and i was like I cant even kind of explain whats happening right now. There is drama about chicken sandwiches.
Fellow Moderna-ite here! And yeah that 2nd dose kept me in bed for a day but it wasn’t the worst and was soooooo worth it! I just went to a Covid safe baseball game w/ my family!!!
Same, when I started the video I was in a full-blown anxiety attack and all spaced out, I had a shower and I’m 30 mins in and I feel better. Not everything will work for everyone but just in case I can help Things that help me: Showers (not baths as baths aren’t distracting enough as you need to move around in the shower) Lavender - I rub lavender oil on my pulse points (wrists, neck, temples) The 6 senses game (for panic attacks) - name (out loud or write it down) something in the room you can taste, touch, see, smell & a memory you have from the day. It really helps with grounding, I repeat the steps until I feel “back” / grounded. Turn on a RUclips video / tv episode - make sure it’s light but engaging enough to distract you Stand up and do something - wash dishes, fold clothes, put some laundry in etc. It will distract you for a few minutes and gives your body somewhere to release the adrenalin For panic attacks (If you have a family member/friend/partner to help) - ask them to hug you very tightly (without hurting you) as the pressure on the nervous system can stop the fight/flight reaction Hope one might help you someday, hang in there x
I love the sesh!!! Y’all’s convos are the best and I can’t get enough!! Edit: I’m a law student and the only way they could be held responsible if the dog attacked someone after they got rid of it is if they specifically told the new owners that he was not aggressive. Even if you don’t tell them you are not responsible, you have to specifically and intentionally misrepresent the dog
Kendall... My best friend is like Janelle with her plants.... She will be watering a dead plant and I am like..."Girl... THAT'S DEAD... YOU'RE WASTING WATER...😳😂"
@@TheSeshPodcast she ends up with random plants that never were watered coming back.. like, that's not fair... I have cared for SO many plants to have them die on me😂😂
The studio ghost is back!! We're sorry for the blurry camera... can't wait to get into our new studio!
Spooky!!
You’re good, we’re not mad at you. 🥲
Hopefully it doesn’t follow you 👀
Np u guys r the besttt
i thought i was still faded lmao 🤣😭😭😭
Proposal at someone's else's wedding is TERRIBLE unless u ask first. That person saved the day.
Agree
agreeeeeeed
Agreeeee I would be so thankful
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Totally agree!
I live in the same area as Nikki and I know for a fact there are multiple dog trainers that work with aggressive dog behavior and organizations that will help rehome an aggressive dog. There was absolutely no need to put a perfectly healthy dog down. So cruel.
I am a Veterinary Assistant, we devote our lives to these amazing animals and we HATE having to euthanize ANY animal. So when incompetent owners come in and want to euthanize the only thing we can do is try and convince them to surrender. There is no such thing as a “bad” dog just dogs who have been bred poorly (By Humans) leading them to be pre-disposed to certain behaviours that can be worked with and dogs who have been neglected of training and/or treated poorly by humans causing “undesired” behaviour.
It is so bizarre that they would share this publicly and think it’s okay.. 😬
@@MiissMeW so much this!!! I worked for the Humane Society, a private no-kill shelter, and vet med (I’m an RN now). In NONE of those settings with that be our recommendation viz telephone. No temperament testing? No training? No foster-to-adopt? No breed-specific rescue (they will pay to fly your animal to their facility from several states away, even into Canada)? I call BS and I cannot believe someone agreed to euthanize him. I could write a thesis on this, but just supporting you!
Same here, I thought of a few organizations right away. When I found out where they lived I was LIVID!!!!
@@aheilman6 I think your in the wrong place.
@@mommy2rae586 agreed! @ann marie check your map... and your soul while you’re at it, I think it may have tarnished to a dark black!
If the dog was so aggressive, why did they have a ‘goodbye photo shoot’ with the dog inches from the baby?
Rightt? Also, their faces were soo close to the dog’s face!! If he was so aggressive then they should know to not do that! The whole situation just seems like they didn’t respect the dog’s boundaries and that’s why he snapped.
YES! wtf
Exactly. They knew he wouldn’t do anything to the baby unless provoked. He could have been rehomed to someone with no kids or other dogs. Or like my sister did when her baby started walking and made one of her dogs nervous, keep them apart unless you’re right there hands on making sure both are being respectful to the other. She has 2 kids and 3 dogs who all love each other but deserve personal space and respect. They throw balls for the dogs, go on walks with the dogs, gently pet the dogs but they are never together without supervision.
because bowser isn't a bad dog. they could have had a place for him only for him when he eats but they're too indifferent for that
People don’t understand what it’s like to have an aggressive dog until they have one. I used to think how could someone euthanize an aggressive dog but many times it’s the only option.
The fact they decided to not adopt internationally once they were told they couldnt publicize the child for a year after getting him/her, makes me sick.
Like they thought "if we can't use the kid for views what's the point?" I hope they're never able to adopt. They're just looking for a way to revive their channel. It's disgusting.
@@savhannah9889 exactly!! They were denied when they tried adopting domestically. I don’t remember them ever saying the exact reason why. But I’m grateful the adoption system denied them. They’re a couple who ultimately had intentions of using the child to display on RUclips and profit from him/her. If they truly wanted to love and care for that child then going a year without publicizing them shouldn’t have been an issue.
And how did they run into the point so hard and completely miss it? They’re like “but can’t you make an exception for us because we’re vloggers?” Bitch, this rule is in place specifically because of people like you!
That's when I unfollowed nikki
Yeaaa wow that’s so fucked up unbelievable
The way nikki just sat there casually sipping on her coffee the whole video. I wanted to reach through the screen and smack it out of her damn hands 🙄🙄
Me too..that stupid coffee cup was so annoying. Her behavior is so fake and awful.
I wish it was piping hot tea and her first sip burns her tongue. Making it uncomfortable to speak and eat for the rest of the day 😤
@@oliviapastor4661 seriously! How they saw no issue with everything is astonishing! All the things that they chose to keep in this video makes me very scared about the things that they could have chose to leave/edit out!
Same! no better yet,, when she had the cup to her mouth, I wanted to do that thing where you smack the bottom of the cup so it spills all over her, in hopes its very hot, freshly poured coffee. Honestly this woman makes me physically repulsed.
Also, in the video they said their son hurt the dog bad enough he had “cauliflower ear” of course the dog is going to be Leary of that kid.
I have an aggressive dog and the last time I took her to the vet, the vet suggested I not keep her and insinuated that I should put her down. And she’s only two! It broke my heart and I looked for a new vet. Since then with training and careful monitoring, she has made significant improvements. It’s not impossible to keep an aggressive dog!
i’m honestly so surprised by the reaction to this because i’ve always felt the same way, dogs shouldn’t be put down for aggressive behaviour they should be trained, and so should the owner because it’s most likely a boundary they don’t understand they’re crossing. but in australia at least where i’m from it’s definitely not uncommon.
my dog bit my face aggressively when he was like 1 and when i told my friends they were surprised i was buying him professional training instead of putting him down!!!!
i’m so glad people are thinking differently
So glad you found another vet!
At the Veterinary Hospital I work at we will not euthanize any healthy rescue animal, it is heartbreaking that it is the first choice to some. It is so unethical, they never ask why the dog is reacting the way it is and if it is due to human error which is usually the primary cause. They all have different personalities and boundaries to respect just like a human would!
My moms neighbor had a dog that was very aggressive and kept jumping their fence and trying to attack the kids in the neighborhood. They built a higher fence, I believe 6ft is the tallest we are allowed to have in our area. The dog still managed to jump the fence and attacked one of the neighbor kids while he was riding his bike and hurt him really bad. The boy was scared to even play in his own backyard for months afterward. The first time he was mentally able to ride his bike around the neighborhood again the dog jumped the fence and was chasing him. I love animals, all animals, 100% but when I saw the boy being chased I had no choice but to call the dog catcher. The dog catcher and the sherrif deputies forced the family to give up the dog so they could put it down. Which I feel guilty for to this day but the boy is my momds best friends son and I wasn't going to let him get hurt again. While I don't think what the couple they are talking about did is okay in any way shape or form and everything they said/did could have been handled differently and hearing them talk about it made me sick, sometimes you don't really get a choice. I'm glad you got your doggo the proper training and were able to keep her. ❤
Plus Nikki's dog wasn't even aggressive! A LOT of non-aggressive dogs will nip or get protective when food is taken away while they are eating. You just separate the dog from others when it's eating, it's not hard at all.
In regards to the dog story: The biggest red flag for me was when the husband said "I liked him (Bowser) for being rowdy". This tells me that he probably encouraged his aggressive behavior. Only when he could no longer control it did he feel like he had to put him down.
they randomly threw in the video that they are moving soon and they don't know what to do with bowser because it would be "difficult" to move with him. I think they were looking for a reason to get rid of him.
@@dmoneywise Agreed! If the dog was truly as "aggressive " as they claim then why are there no reports of that. They were trying to cover it all up and appear sympathetic but it backfired.
Okay the period/tampon story was insane. Men need to get over themselves. This story brought up deep memories of always feeling the need to burry my period products under all the trash as a young teenage girl out of shame for my period. The boys should be exposed to it to better understand women. I loved y’all’s responses. So glad the women educated them. Love it.
Oh my GODDDDD I know! That one pissed me off so much. Those boys are being pansies. It’s blood, not toxic waste for goodness sake 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Absolutely. My own mother refused to allow a bin in the bathroom my brother and I shared. I was expected to wrap my used period products in toilet paper and then throw them in the OUTSIDE bin. Even the bin in my own room wasn't acceptable. She treated menstruation like some kind of disease :/ Also didn't let me use tampons for ages as "they are for married ladies", i.e. in her mind, women who have experienced vaginal penetration by a penis. Utterly shameful attitude towards a natural biological process :/
Seriously. What are his sons going to do when they have girlfriends/wives lol.
The youngest was 15! They are beyond old enough to know about periods
I think it’s cool that you guys don’t feel the need to update us on your personal life every episode because it’s important to recognise that life isn’t always exciting and eventful and that’s okay, you know? Things don’t have to be happening all the time for you to be living life..
Janelle, Kendall and Seshies I hope you are well and taking care of yourselves🌷
awww “seshies" I love that sm 😭😭❤️
As a childhood survivor of SA, I cannot thank you enough for sticking up for the victims ❤
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Janelles laugh reminds me of a stereotypical stoner dudes laugh in like the 80s/90s movies lol 😂 I fucking love it 🖤🖤
Yessss, I've always thought that too 💚🌱
For the last aita, I honestly feel way more bad for the adult step daughter having to share one bathroom with THREE TEENAGE BOYS. As if three boys are keeping the bathroom clean by themselves. Good on her for not hesitating to call them his skid marking sons 😂 the audacity of men is2g
Yes! That poor girl. I can only imagine the mess! Plus how has the father never heard of not flushing tampons? It was kinda awkward but when we move to the mountains my step dad had to tell all of us my mom included that we cant flush our tampons because it would clog our septic and could cause extremely expensive problems.
So I have a 7 year old boy who has seen my used tampons since he was like 2 years old. He KNOWS what they are. He has seen me insert them and take them out. I have explained to him and his sister what they are and why I use them. I will not have my son end up like those skid mark boys. 😂 also they are always in the bathroom with me no matter how much I ask them to leave me alone but I figured I’d use this as a learning opportunity since I am a mom 🤷🏼♀️
"He was like our child" sooo when he got hard to handle you killed him? Imagine if we did that with kids.... It's not okay by any stretch.
Exactly. You can handle a baby but not an old dog?
That step dad is ridiculous. Loved hearing he got educated and took back his original statement. But also maybe he could just buy a trash can with a cover🤷🏽♀️
Literally problem solved. What an idiot.
I don’t get why this woman didn’t just rehome the dog yeah it’s sad but at least that dog could’ve had another home where they can have owners who can take care of them
"That's rich coming from a guy who sheds like a gorilla" 💀😂
best comeback ever
I love that she called the boys skid marks lmfaoooo
Right before they said that, I paused the video and said to myself, "they probably do things that she doesn't like, and doesn't say anything about." I also like to pause the podcast after each scenario, and give my own opinion...to myself.
When you guys laugh so hard together, it makes me happy. The best kind of friendship. Makes me feel like I’m part of it.
It makes it better that they’re cousins. I can relate.
I just recently went through a similar situation where my dog that i had from a pup attacked my smaller dog iv had for years (he has always been great with cats and kids) putting him down even after the massacre and vet bills was an absolute not happening bc i knew he had a family out there somewhere better suited. i called around for DAYS getting told by shelter after shelter they would just put him down or straight up wouldn’t take him. I pressed on until eventually i found him a non kill shelter that was willing to work with him and give him the life he deserves. We took him for burgers and left him a blanket that smelled like home and he was adopted out 2 days later!! I miss him more than i can say but i loved him enough to see all his wonderful qualities and potential. There is ALWAYS another way
I’m so touched by your story😔I feel with you.
You did the right thing even if it was hard at that Time.
I am absolutely living for this title 😂
hahaha props to Kendall for thinking of the title 😂
Its hilarious 🤣
I just did a bunch of partaking and I’m crying laughing about the chicken sandwiches!! 😭💀
Omg same 😂😂😂
Hi, vet tech here in nashville (where they live.) I've worked for a LOT of vet clinics in Nashville and the middle Tennessee area, and not even ONE ive worked for will euthanize for anything other than if it's medically necessary, and that is a fact. And I've volunteered at the nashville humane society for years, NO ONE in that facility will tell you that your dog has no other option than to be put down. They are straight up lying and im now wondering if they put it down themselves.
I think they did. This sorry birch runs the show. Her tool of a husband just stands around, cowers and watches.
The period story omg😭 I’m happy they educated them! I love the “am I the asshole” segment 😂
I also followed Nikki for years. They had SO many options that could have helped Bowser that they just straight up ignored for YEARS. I am so shook by their weird comments and behavior. It's really disturbing. Also, glad other people got bad vibes from Dan. Thought it was just me!
"Welcome to the sh*t show"
lmao I need that banner in my life
Needs to be shesh merch lol
My HS chemistry teacher was considering putting his 7 yr old pug/Chihuahua mix dog down bc he “but his son after the kid was playing rough”. (His kid was FINE! I met him a few weeks later) I was only 16 and I knew it was not okay. I begged him for his dog and promised I would rehome him. My parents were a little upset but they understood. We ended up keeping him and he peacefully passed at age 10. He was the best doggie ever.
When my dog became aggressive I was able to re-home her through a rescue. If I, with zero connections, could do it so could they. So upsetting!
I had to put my dog of 9 years down last year bc she became very sick and it was a decision between putting her through very expensive medical tests/treatment that would most likely not have a positive result at the end. Hardest decision I’ve ever had to make and it broke my heart (I cried so hard that it made the vet cry). This makes no sense to me.
OH YEA BABY!!! I'm sitting here working on some artwork for LOP!! I think yall will LOVE IT!! So excited!!!
lop?
@@42Ccastro oh yeah that makes sense lmao
it’s so cute that karelly adopted your bunny and now she is a part of the team 🥺✨
I'M DYING IN LAUGHTER with the am I an asshole? Please never stop this segment, omg so fucking funny 🤣
I would love a episode about crystals! Your favs, what they do for you, where you like to get them, maybe even your collections!
I second this! Or like witchcraft, occult, crystal healing, reiki etc!
Yesss
Am I the Asshole is the BEST SEGMENT ON ANY PODCAST/SHOW IN HISTORY im cackling so hard 💀
If someone tried to propose to their s/o at MY wedding I would literally excommunicate them 🤣 I 100000% support the pettiness of cutting that cousin off the zoom call. I'm cacklingggg
So here’s my soapbox: My family have always been dog lovers, as have I. When my mom married my stepdad he had an older dog that was simply just used to it being just them two. He was never around kids before and I was only 4-5. My mom always tried to set boundaries with me about the dogs but one night I wanted to kiss him goodnight and he attached onto my face. I had to go to the ER and couldn’t eat solid foods for quite a while. Even in such a traumatic situation, my mom simply put the dog outside to remove us from this situation. And even at the ER I was telling them that it was my fault cause I didn’t listen about not getting in his face. We worked with training him and I learned a big lesson that day. We lived peacefully with that dog until he passed of old age and I would do absolutely anything for my dogs, including consistently remind my own toddler that dogs have their own language and we need to respect them as we do other people. You can’t say that your dog is like your child and then just kill him when he is being a dog. It’s absolutely ridiculous that they thought they would be justified in making such a small-minded, disgusting decision about another beings life.
big props to ur family and u r so so strong!! Sounds like an absolutely lovely family
I think if you want to propose at someone else’s wedding you should ask the ppl getting married if it’s okay first.
I'm sorry the cousin during the virtual wedding getting cut off - the cousin trying to propose is the Ahole! That is not the right time to do it, totally stealing their thunder. rude, crude, and totally unacceptable. Just no.
Absolutely! I would have cut them off right away too. No bad feelings at all. The cousin trying to propose IS the asshole. I wouldn’t have lied about it though. 😂
Yeah if I was getting married my sibling better boot them off! The brother was in the right 😂
The “would I be the asshole” guy concerning his pregnant wife, idk about the whole kicking out situation, but that woman needs new friends. The person who told her that would be a good idea has got to go, pregnant women can be emotional and vulnerable and it seems like her friend is convincing her to do real immature shit and encouraging that behavior. Assuming that she wasn’t like this before the friend 🤷♀️
I feel like this woman definitely had issues/toxic tendencies before she got pregnant. It’s such a stereotype that pregnancy makes you crazy, and while I can say from experience that there can be moments where emotions feel heightened or unregulated, it doesn’t make you disrespectful and abusive towards your partner nor does it justify toxically irrational behavior. She needs new friends and intensive therapy.
The chicken sandwich one was hilarious 🤣🤣
Duuuuude... those childish men stressed over a period?! Blood?! Don't look at the shit in the trash...
Edit: I'm so glad for that turn around at the end!!
Being a Michigander like... 👁👄👁 We are literally surrounded by The Great Lakes Kendall!! 😂💔
Literally just came to the video from the podcast app to say this. We are an easy one! Lol
Yay michigan 🥰🥰
Kalamazoo here!!
Love living in MI💗🌊
same!!
Janelle’s laugh is the best!!! Love you guys!!! 💕💕💕
It reminds me of the RUclipsr Myka Stauffer literally giving up her adopted son because he had autism. Like they gave up on that dog by deciding to put him down because if you truly loved him and cared enough to try then you would do anything to save his life. Plenty of people have had to give up aggressive dogs and it would be understandable if her other dog was getting hurt but by putting him down you just made the convenient choice. Any dog is worth saving no matter how aggressive, there will have been someone or some place that could have taken him. This just upsets me so much!!!
Happy Mother’s Day to all the Sesh Mommies and Happy Soon To Be Mother’s Day to the mommy’s who are trying! We see you. We love you. I hope everyone had a great day! 🤍
Honestly im 7 months pregnant and ive never treated my boyfriend like shit. If im ever mean or grumpy i always apologize later. It sounds like the pregnancy is highlighting preexisting issues between them.
Set boundaries with your children and dogs (DUH)🗣 help your dog work through their trauma 🗣 DO NOT LABEL AN ENTIRE BREED AS AGGRESSIVE 🗣 they failed that dog. His Old Yeller comment made me feel so sick to my stomach. Screw them, they don’t deserve to have animals if this is their mindset.
Teach the kid to stay out of the dogs food and keep the kid from hitting and pinching the dog. Better yet, pit your brat kid down.
Yeah the Old Yeller comment was definitely disgusting
@@Butterfly-pw4lb it made me so uncomfortable, who tf says that?
This is surprisingly more common than you guys might think. My grandmother told me that her and her sister would just go to the vet every few months when they got tired of one of there animals and euthanize them, she mainly had cats. But I was kinda tooken aback when I heard the vet could just kill an animal for no reason. Some people unfortunately value their own time too much and don't worry about animals or their wellbeing.
Yes... older generations especially viewed it as fine. My grandmother said she got a few dogs put down because she didn’t want to move them to the new house and one later because my uncle moved out and the dog was too hard to take care of. It’s so sad and disturbing. Also she had lied to the family about what actually happened to the dogs until just a few years ago.
I actually have a ‘aggressive’ dog, I bought him off some guy on fb and didn’t know he bit until he was settled in our home. I am in love with my dog tho so I am training him, I would never go after the previous owner or kill my dog. This is the saddest story I’ve ever heard and it’s straight up animal abuse in my opinion.
I'm watching this as I get ready for my college graduation. I've been an emotional and nervous wreck all day but listening to you guys always makes me feel more comfortable and relaxed!
Good luck
Congratulations on the move Janelle 😃 I just moved into my first home with my partner the 29th and everything is slowly falling into place and I’m so grateful and content. Wishing you a smooth, happy new adventure!🌻
I always play the sesh when I'm feeling down bc your guys' energy is really uplifting and I really needed this new episode rn, love you guys ❤❤❤
My uncle and his ex fiancé had a bull terrier that their vet recommended to be put down last year after two biting incidents...so there are definitely vets out there who will even recommend it. Even here in Colorado
Listening while on a 3-hour car ride. Love listening to you guys it's relaxing and it helps the trip go by faster
this episode and that Big Foot episode of Mile Higher and two of my favorite things ever 😂 I literally feel like I’m hanging out with my friends when I’m sitting here laughing right along hahah
THIS 😂🙌🏼 so glad someone else thinks the Bigfoot episode is hilarious too 😂
Can we please have The Sesh merch that somehow incorporates Kendall’s ‘Nice-hole’ word 🤣🤣 like “ Be a Nice - hole” Oh god it sounds quite sexual maybe not ahahahaha
I would love to hear childhood stories! I remember a Jenna Julien posdacst episode where they looked over their childhood apology letters and school work and juts told little anecdotes pertaining to their items. I think it would be so cute!!
I honestly had to fight back tears, listening to those monsters talk about murdering their dog in their living room! Poor puppy, rest in peace little dog x
Yep so gross 💔
The cousin who proposed seemed to be taking advantage of the hard work the wedding couple did to get allllllll those people together and steal their moment.....its takes a lot of time and coordinating to get all those people together. If he wants it to be a special proposal, he needs to put in the hard work of coordinating all those people on a zoom call and put forth his OWN time and energy for his special moment.
I am laying in bed crying and I couldn't have asked for a better time for this to be released. Love you both ❤😭
Hope today starts looking up for you ♡
@@AmethystQtz Thank you! I just ordered brunch for delivery, so that will probably help me feel better ♡
I hope you’re doing ok ❤️
@@babymuffin3233 thank you 🙏 ❤
Y’all should do US map trivia!!! Keep it fresh!!
We love the weekly check-ins 🥰
Janelle in this episode has me dying 😂😭😂😭
I just watched the first “am i the asshole?” Episode yesterday, I was waiting for more!!
These dislikes are from Nikki fans . At one time the baby gave cauliflower ear to the dog .
Her young living downline
@@katelyndiaz2940 ?
I feel so bad for joshes sisters. Their parents probably used forgiveness and Christianity to force them to move on from what josh did to them. I’ve been SA and while I guess I “forgive” my assaulter, I don’t want to just move on and have him be around me. You can forgive but not forget. They shouldn’t be forced to publicly say they forgive their assaulter just to save face for their family.
I used to watch that show when I was a teen bc it was fascinating, now I’m wondering how many times those girls were filmed right after they were SA’d?! Or josh parading around the property right after he aSa**ted one of them
Sick
“He called her a bunt” I’m dying 🤣🤣
Seeing the sesh and lights out podcast posting new videos makes my Sunday so fulfilling 😍💜
My brother had a dog that was aggressive towards his children. He tried to train him but it didn’t work. He couldn’t financially get a professional trainer. So he found the dog a home that best fit the dogs needs. The home had no children or other animals but a good amount of land. I am sorry but how did they think putting down the dog was the best idea?! They have the financial resources to rehabilitate their dog or at least find a home that best fit him.
Check out Laurdiy's video reacting Nikki Phillipi's story if you haven't seen it. She has the same breed.
That poor dog was probably so confused when it was happening 😭😭😭 I'm so sad
I found it funny when Kendall said she understands not knowing where Michigan is but I feel like MI is just as easy to tell where it is as FL on the map because it’s the only state surrounded and outlined with a lake barrier 😅
@Tara right 😂
Not if you don’t know that.
The story about the dog made me really rethink my experience putting my elderly dog down. She was 14 and has an inoperable tumor on her neck but was still in good spirits. Quality of life was deteriorating but I didn’t feel it was the right time when we did it. I still wrestle with the thought of choosing when my dogs life ended. It’s never easy but I didn’t want her to suffer either
Just dropped and absolutely shattered my phone. Glad I have this to lift my mood up 😫😭 hope y’all are having a better day than I am!
Hearing you guys laugh and seeing y’all smile really boosts my mood so I just wanna say thank you 🥺💕
Getting ready for work every Monday morn (in Aus) has literally never been so good 😭 I look forward to it every week!!!! Love you guys !
that stepdad was DEFINITELY the ass hole. "period for pricks" that is SO FUNNY. great story i'm glad you guys shared that one 🤣
Janelle has me deaddddd with that hello tushy ad😂😂
I just started watching these at my new job. And this episode literally had me laughing so hard i was crying. everyone was staring at me and i was like I cant even kind of explain whats happening right now. There is drama about chicken sandwiches.
thank you for speaking on this topic 💖 love spending my Sundays with Kendall and Janelle lol
Fellow Moderna-ite here! And yeah that 2nd dose kept me in bed for a day but it wasn’t the worst and was soooooo worth it! I just went to a Covid safe baseball game w/ my family!!!
I’m having really bad anxiety and I turned this on to help and it is. Thank you
Same, when I started the video I was in a full-blown anxiety attack and all spaced out, I had a shower and I’m 30 mins in and I feel better. Not everything will work for everyone but just in case I can help
Things that help me:
Showers (not baths as baths aren’t distracting enough as you need to move around in the shower)
Lavender - I rub lavender oil on my pulse points (wrists, neck, temples)
The 6 senses game (for panic attacks) - name (out loud or write it down) something in the room you can taste, touch, see, smell & a memory you have from the day. It really helps with grounding, I repeat the steps until I feel “back” / grounded.
Turn on a RUclips video / tv episode - make sure it’s light but engaging enough to distract you
Stand up and do something - wash dishes, fold clothes, put some laundry in etc. It will distract you for a few minutes and gives your body somewhere to release the adrenalin
For panic attacks (If you have a family member/friend/partner to help) - ask them to hug you very tightly (without hurting you) as the pressure on the nervous system can stop the fight/flight reaction
Hope one might help you someday, hang in there x
I've been binging this podcast since I found it a couple days ago. Love y'all and I'm really glad you guys are talking about this!
So glad you guys are talking about this!💘
couldnt wait to hear you guys talk about this
I love the sesh!!! Y’all’s convos are the best and I can’t get enough!!
Edit: I’m a law student and the only way they could be held responsible if the dog attacked someone after they got rid of it is if they specifically told the new owners that he was not aggressive. Even if you don’t tell them you are not responsible, you have to specifically and intentionally misrepresent the dog
All 3 of you guy’s podcasts are truly amazing🖤
Not Kendal doing that dead plant gesture! I was dead! no pun intended 😂😂💀 💀 🌱 🪴
We NEED NEED NEED a game episode of Kendall ID'ing state outlines lol
He has unlimited access to his kids as long as Anna is there.... which is terrifying.
The Hello Tushy ad had me in tears.... I mean this in the best way, Janelle was made for the delivery of this ad.
You know what you girls should do next week? Do a test to see if y’all are smarter that a 8 grader. 😂 (Inspired by the first AITA story lmao)
Yay. Happy I caught this so fast going to take a momma smoking break . 🥰
Kendall... My best friend is like Janelle with her plants.... She will be watering a dead plant and I am like..."Girl... THAT'S DEAD... YOU'RE WASTING WATER...😳😂"
Lmfao!
@@TheSeshPodcast she ends up with random plants that never were watered coming back.. like, that's not fair... I have cared for SO many plants to have them die on me😂😂
Yassss queens! Getting me through another night shift! Kick on! 💪🏻
Nikki and Dan give me Jenelle and David from Teen Mom vibes.
Sitting here watching this while my pup is in my lap. This really upsets me that she put her dog down. So many people would have taken him in 💔
Relaxing on this mother's day and get the notification for a new episode of the sesh just made it even more perfect💖💖💖💖💖💖
Happy Mother’s Day!!
i love the puppy in the lap this week! 🥰
Despite the beginning, this was one of the funniest episodes 🤣