She Needs Space From the Relationship (3 STEPS to WIN Her Back)
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2019
- SHE NEEDS SPACE FROM THE RELATIONSHIP (3 STEPS TO WIN HER BACK)
What to do if she says she needs space from the relationship? When she says she needs space, is it over? What can you do when she lost attraction and needs space? What if she says she needs space, but still texts me? What does it mean when she says she needs space and time? When she says she needs her space, how long will it take for her to come back?
You might know that if your girlfriend says she needs space to think about the relationship, no contact is key. But what do you do next?
Well this video will give you the 3 steps you need to take when she says she needs space from the relationship & get her back.
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Hi Geoffrey, just discovered your videos. I find your videos very helpful. Is there a way of messaging you in private to discuss my situation? I would appreciate your feedback and support.
Hi geoffrey. How does this apply to a marriage with kids? Do you just move out?
I DMed you on Instagram to ask your advice on my current situation as I am on a break with my GF. Hope you can take a look at it and respond. Thanks
Hi geoffrey setiawan my wife asked for space but she asked me if I can leave the house that way she can miss me but we have kids and before she told me that she said I wouldn't want you to leave because the kids would miss you.
Geoffrey Setiawan help me in my situation!
I’ve been in 4 relationships since 18 and I’m 24. The worst mistake I ever made was being controlling and not giving space when needed. Needless to say I’m now single again but I’m ready to learn and grow thanks to your video! 🔜👌🏻
Hi Will,
Yes, many of us displayed these behaviors. Here is a good place to start to begin to change this around.
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Appreciated hearing your story!
My problem every time
@@jamesnolan9414 really
I am now going through this same situation at 23 and Word word I had the same problem of being controlling and not giving space. Its been rough.
If she wants to take a break. She needs to win you back. Don't contact her.
In the interim, if you haven't already been working on yourself, it's time to start. And then never stop working on yourself.
What if I've tried to contact her multiple times and even tried to convince her into talking, and then I realised my mistake, so now we are in the no contact period. Will that make up for my mistake?
@@yashasvisrivastava6850 I've just got to that point as of today. Did anything work out for you?
Right timing 💯
I'm not a man, but this advice is helping soothe my anxiety attack and heartbreak. I'm starting to understand how I contributed to our issues and feel more hopeful about working on my marriage. Thank you for your channel.
Hi tooth656,
My advice is applicable to all people and here is another great video if you are struggling with anxiety.
ruclips.net/video/LK0gJ7oFciE/видео.html
Look for god and you will find out your need to rebuild your faith and foundation you will be helped of you pray and dedicate yourself to the lord
This right here !
This video is EXACTLY what I desperately needed. It put a lot of things into an incredible perspective that I haven't been able to see for a long time. Thank you.
Man this is my relationship 100% literally step by step the way you broke it down. Thank you for the great advise.
That's awesome man :) Glad it spoke to you!
Did it work?
@carlos blatant assumptions are one of the reasons we are here mate 😅
@@josephmischel5292 Yes, John is one of our star students mate.
Have ever you discussed what happen when she ask for break and she started dating for someone else? It sounds like an excuse for her to push me out from her live. Btw. We married for 24 years, kids already grown up to understand whole things.
This is gold thank you.
I feel like engaging the world and my loved one wholeheartedly. I really feel an opening in my chest when realizing this, since it is the best I can do, and whatever the outcome, I've worked from my heart and done what feels right, which is the best I can do for myself and others.
I am glad I found this video. It's an eye opener to guys who experienced the same thing as me. Thank you, Geoffrey!
Wish I saw this earlier. We're about a month into giving each other space, been on good terms the whole time but sometimes I had a lot of trouble controlling my emotions and I got a little excessive with the how are you texts for the first week or so. Now that I'm seeing this, I'm really realizing that patience is key.
Hi Martin Van Buren,
Why wait, start now.
So any update about you guys? Im in the same position
@@tnxdot2565 she kind of showed me through our communication that she's not really who I thought she was and we've been no contact for about a month. I still kind of do have some sort of feelings for her left but I'm pretty comfortable being single right now. I put the pieces together that explain why she acted that way but now it's to a point where any sort of communication has to come from her end because I realized it's not worth my time, I've done all I can do.
@@williamhowardtaft8394 oh man. Im sorry to hear that. But at least you poured it all on the table so you've got nothing to hold on for. Cheers to our hearts whose trying to find clarity. Keep going man! Im here if you want to talk out sometime since we both are in the same situation.
@@tnxdot2565 dude I’m literally going through the same thing.
3 weeks ago she talked about a break and broke up with me.
Later she came back and said she didn’t mean it. She’s just going through mental problems. And she says she still wants to date me.
Now this week she started acting weird again and she’s trying to avoid me.
I told her yesterday that I love her and guess what her response was? She literally said “I have no mood for love right now, I need to go buy something “.
Now today I asked her again if she loves me, she says “As a friend yea, as something else nah”.
At this point now I’m genuinely pissed.
Geoffrey, I came across your video because my girlfriend of 3 years wanted a separation. We’ve lived together for a year and just moved back to our hometown. I didn’t immediately come to RUclips for answers, I’ve been spending time with my family and talking about it. However, I realize one of the things that I love about her is the potential to start a family removed from many of the bad habits of thought that are practiced in my family. This realization came after my dad just gave me the “big dick” advice: “shit, give her all the space she needs, leave her ass, there are other people.” Typically I’d listen, but you don’t just meet people who are worth fighting for every day, and she’s that woman for me. So then I googled around and came across your video. For better and worse, I don’t know how this will go, but I already cannot thank you enough for your timely advice and train of thought.
Thanks for sharing Brandon! Would be glad to be able to keep supporting you in your journey!
Did you two ever got together again?
@brandoncooper did you guys work out??
I hope you're doing better 💓
Your dad was correct though
I cannot thank you enough man, i was in a breakdown after 6 years of relation she wanted space and things looked so bad you taught me everything i was doing wrong and finally i won her back after 2 months of never ending time i am really thankful to you man thank you so much 🔥
Haha I love it! I may need to start doing some RUclips success stories.
Glad I played a role in helping you to achieve the relationship of your dreams.
My girlfriend and I broke up a week ago. She asked me to respect her and give her space. Of course out of pain I didn’t. I’ve been calling 15x a day. I’ve been crying to her. I’ve been begging for her to respond to texts. Am I too late to try this? Or can I just start it now? How do I try your method after being very emotional and obsessive for the first few days since she broke up with me?
@@user-bt9vs4ix1n Stay calm give her space and then you'll know the right time to approach but right now there's no way she's coming back just wait nothing else u can do
@@sonurabha2142 I’ve been like 2 weeks without contact during space man and we still love eachother I think, you think it’s cool to reach out just to ask how they are doing? What did you do?
@@Rbear266 Well its better if you dont reach out. Try and be yourself for sometime get yourself busy with work or maybe studies just wait out 2 more weeks then maybe you can reach out but right now just wait. In my case i know how it burns in the chest i went through hell but i guess it was all to make me better now that i understand so try and understand the situation make yourself better if she is meant to be she will be ✌
Thanks man. 2 year old video and it’s still helping people, I’m going through this right now and all that “she belongs to the streets now” crap was getting to my head. I’m the one who messed up by projecting crap from my previous partner on her.
I'm recently going through this situation right now and it's really crazy how you described everything and how much Sense it made and actually how much sense it makes but the instant change negative feelings are gone and that took me a long time
My gf said this to me and I reacted badly thank you for this advice
@Rachel Wilson because i didn't realize how important she is to me and just how much i love her until after she broke up with me and told me to give her space
@Rachel Wilson very cunty response
@@NoObKiLlerS117 no, it s a good one indeed
I can’t thank you enough for having these perfectly detailed videos. A lot of times we as men get tones of bad advice when we’re in these marriage situations. Thank you and I will continue to watch your videos.
Awesome Anthony. Glad you appreciate the work we put into these videos. We definitely are here to counter a lot of the toxic advice we get from "experts" in this industry.
This is the exact relationship problem I have been facing since so long .. This has really really helped me a lot , I could feel myself in it thoroughly . This video has made me feel that I’m right at my own place to feel such things n to stop doubting on myself. Thank you so much
Love it!
Very powerful words man. Thank you. I truly believe you saved my relationship when i had no clue what to do or who to turn to. Thanks again!
I am following your advice and reflecting on all that has happened within my relationship. We have our issue but love is there. I am continuing to listen and grow. Thanks a million.
Wonderful!
How did it go?
How did this pan out
Your video is my bus stop. Thank you.. I’m going through this right now, I was able to get her to express herself and she is willing to see us work things out, meanwhile I’ve prepared myself for the good and worst, I’m goin to keep working on myself as I’ve always.
Hey man how is it? Are you guys still together?
Jheeeze you are spot on. My girl just said she wants a break and it’s no selfish it’s because she wants to save the relationship. Thanks
Im going through this right now, and Im doing my best to better myself. I would try and explain that she was doing the same things as I was being accused of and she would shut down. I didnt beg or plead when she asked for space, I said that I think it would be healthy for us both. Im only talking to her when we have to exchange our daughter. We talked for 4 hours prior to her leaving and Im so proud of myself that I stayed calm the whole time. Thanks for this amazing video, your calm way to explain a difficult topic is amazing !
Sure thing! Glad it was valuable to you. I would also recommend watching this video if you have not already. It outlines ways you can conduct your conversations that prevents arguments and opens both of you up for better communication. ruclips.net/video/nWodZCMlMns/видео.html
How did it turned out?
I’m going through the exact same thing. We have a son together. How are you guys now?
Hang in there guys. Many of us were groomed to keep our emotions hidden and now that the world is changing we are behind. We need to be more vocal about our emotions but like many guys I don't know how to correctly vocalize my emotions.
New perspective and I’ve listened to literally 100s of videos on this subject. Glad RUclips put you in my feed
This is my relationship to a T. Thank you for your guidance and solid advice. I hope to come back here some day and report that we used this space to grow better individually and later as a couple.
Man, you are really spot on, on what is going on with my fiance and I. I really think she keeps things bottled in to avoid conflict, but she feels if she speaks up, she will get angry and say things she does not mean out of anger. So, she feels hopeless right now.
Subscribed! Hands down the most on point advice I’ve seen for the past 3-4 weeks. I had been searching for this very advice. Thank you!!
Thank JayJo. Always nice to have a fan :)
istg this is the type of video I've been searching for. I'll thank you for sliding into my recommendation. You deserve a subscribe.
Thank you I needed to hear this , it’s going to help me heal 💪🏾
I rarely comment videos but this one really helped me man. She left me a couple of weeks ago and I really recognize myself in the things you said. Now I started to work on myself, going to the gym, be more productive. Even if she doesn't want to come back then these efforts will pay in the long term for me. Thank you
Did she come back bro?
Thanks for this video. It helps me to understand better why she reacted that way. I don’t think we’ll get back together but at least she did reach out a few times and manage to amicably speak on things that matters.
What a great video! I have watched several videos on the topic but yours put it in perspective the best. Thank you!
Thank you so much Geoffrey! You are absolutely amazing brother!
Been watching a lot of your videos and it blows my mind how many comments you reply to. Your level of commitment is incredible. You are helping so many people who feel helpless and don't have anywhere else to turn and for that I want to thank you! If everyone was as committed to their relationship as you are to your comment section you wouldn't have a need for a youtube channel lol
Haha, thank you. I try not to miss a one. I also reply to each and everyone of the questions and comments in our private community for the last 3 years. We average over 60 posts a day and growing.
Dude you just helped me in a way that no one could. My girlfriend told me she needed a break yesterday and things happened exactly how you lay them out. Everything you mentioned from the beginning of the video to the end happened to us and now it led her no choice but to take a break from our relationship. Thank you so much.
did she come back..?
@@hrushikeshnibandhe4139 after she slept with chad and he kicked her to curb. probably pregnant as well
I’ve been with my fiancé for years 3yrs total. 7 months ago she asked for a break with no contact to work on herself, but didn’t give a timeline. She said that no matter what she does make sure I don’t break the no contact rule. I didn’t fight it or try to make her feel about it. I moved to a different apartment, relocated to a different branch with the same company within the city. I don’t contact her or check in. I ignored all her calls and texts. Deleted texts and voicemails without reading. Not to be mean but because I didn’t want to break the no contact rule. I’ve been tempted to answer her calls or call her but I don’t want to let her down. It’s been tough but I haven’t even spoken to another woman during this break. How long do these breaks normally last?
It was a break with timeline and she contacted me last weekend. But, but she asked to see me in person just to let me know things aren't working out. We dated over 5 years and she just left me like that with no closures or whatsoever. Really one of the worst times of my life right now.
@@harry6044 I’m sorry, I couldn’t imagine. She gave you no explanation whatsoever. 5 years is a long time, did you guys every talk about marriage or long term? Did she mention that she was seeing someone else?
I really appreciate this video. I really feel broken and lost and spiraling down. This gave me hope for the future I can’t thank you enough
Awesome advice, perfect. Thank you. Everything you stated, honestly is facts for me.
I caused my girlfriend (ex) to feel hopelessness about the relationship by constantly reacting poorly to conflict and not giving her the comfort and trust the relationship needs for her to be able to unpack her baggage and relationship issues with me. However, I am really hoping to instil this trust again and work on myself during this break period so we can have a healthy relationship dynamic once again.
Plz help dude i am going thru same thing totally the same i did the same thing i wasnt reactive enought and she felth hopeless and desperate
Mind-blowing advice here!
great solid advice Geoffrey ! No begging for sure !
great take so much better than most of the "break up doctors" on youtube. Thank you for a grounded mutually respectful take on fixing relationship problems.
The 3 steps provided in the video seem practical and respectful. It's important to give her the space she needs while working on self-improvement
this has been really useful! Its helped me feel at ease and given me things to work toward for myself. Thank you
Love this so much Geoffrey! So much freedom in surrendering to space.
Me and my wife just separated. I have enlisted in the course to better my self . Your words have help me take the first steps in changing my self for the better . Thank you Geoffrey your the man with the plan .
Hi CivilizedCOBRA,
Awesome! Looking forward to seeing your MASSIVE growth to become the very BEST version off yourself!
Did your wife come back?
Saw so many videos this is the best one. This guy realt been through this himself and he broken it down like how it is. You the man bro
Just saw this for the first time and just got on a break with my girl of 5 yrs. So tough but everything was accurate so will follow the advice and pray everything works better!
What's the update bro??
Thanks for the advice, nice video Geoffrey!
3 years later and this video still on point. Thanks!
Thanks for the video. It really appealed to me in areas were i have struggled in thru my relationship. Not being able to control my emotions , not listening and in ways throwing my toys.. hav been my downfall. I want my relationship n family back😢 but i need to upbuild myself and put in the work. Thanks for you videos geoff, amazing
Thanks for the video. It's really hard to get a true quality content about "in need space" subject. Cause most of video i have seen, handle the situation in a toxic way. You are the first one to handle it in a very mature and simple way cause sometime, when someone say "i need space", that person mean it. There is no cheating or desire to stop relation behind, just the person need space to rebuild her/his "individual". So the best things to do is to let that person the space she/he wants. Also i wanted to add one more point. Sometime, the problem is inside the partner who ask for distance. It's important to understand partner's background, where he/she came from, what he/she have been through, with who? was it toxic? for how long? After all these events, did he/she manage time to recover or he/she jump into a new relation? I believe there is always a timing for a new relation, and when someone didn't had the time to fix her/his inner shadow, then at some point, she/he might need some space and your advice are really usefull on that case too.
Thanks for the kind words! Glad this resonated with you :)
Hey Geoffrey Great Info. "Grow your Mindset" Awesome Concept.
Thanks for tuning in!
This is the realest video I have watched and it hits on so many levels and opened my eyes. Thank you for your advice keep up the great work!
Dang, this is exactly what is happening to me right now. Thanks man!
I am really happy I saw this video and I appreciate it the more it is coming from a guy himself! It validates my feeling that it’s ok to react and want space. To need space means you want to work with it. Thank you
Right on right on! :)
This is one of the best video I’ve ever watch about the argument, thank you!!
Love it! Thank you.
Thank you so much for this bro! This really made me feel better and to make myself better for the one that I love! ❤
I just found you. All that you say makes sense. I will put it to work tomorrow. No good morning text. Thank you. 🙏🏼
just started day 1 of no contact. this is great content. it is very hard to learn and gain that control you speak of when all you want to do is support your partner.
Hi jermaine C,
Check out this video here to see my ah to this topic.
ruclips.net/video/6akN8wMEc6Q/видео.html
What's the update bro??
I force unconditional love time after time again and I know she doesn’t deserve that self love from my part!
I'm going through this right now and your video is really helpful, man. God bless you.
Whenever i feel like i am out of track, i come back to this video and watch it again. Thank you for guidance Geoffrey 😊
I'm honored to help!
On point! We were fighting over little things constantly, then talked it out, then fought again, then I told him I'm so unsure not only about the relationship itself but also my feelings for him decreased... so he said that's not a base for a relationship, we both decided that it's best to have some distance also for me to get clearance. After a few days I told him I really felt how much pressured I felt lately in the relationship, that everything is alright so far, I'm at my friends place (he needs to be close always, often called 3 times a day when I was still in home office and he wasn't anymore, even though we live together) and that I really need this space and asked him to please give me that space, especially after me struggling with setting boundaries beforehand in this relationship. After 1,5 weeks he set a deadline, telling me I have to have made up my mind, he can't do this... So we HAD to meet and talk, I had no choice. We fought again and broke up. Talked, still both wanted to try somehow but I left. I feel so unseen and misunderstood. It still doesn't feel right to stop trying. I don't know what to do
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For dudes reading this woman’s comment. This is an example of how a guy SHOULDNT act. Being needy, making demands, and setting an ultimatum in an attempt to take control.
I have questions
Hi Geoffrey, your videos have been extremely helpful, thank you!
My pleasure Sean. Thank you for watching and supporting!
I needed this, I was blinded by my own actions trying to force something when in reality I just have to back off and do my own thing
This is the best video on seperation i have seen. Thank you!
Hey, me and the girl I love have recently decided to take a step back and work on ourselves for the time being. For the first few days I realized I was being excessive with my texts and almost forcing her to talk to me in a way. This video gave me a lot of hope and am sure one day me and her will be able to resolve things and begin dating once again. I hope the best for both of us on this break we are giving each other and will keep you guys updated. Thank you so much. I love you Aymara .
Love it! Thank you for your comment and support.
Aye bro did it work out?
@@IndigoRust Hey, so it’s been about 2 months since I wrote that and just forgot to revisit it so thanks for deploying dawg lmfao. And we did end up talking about our relationship and our future about a month after no contact and decided it was best for both of us to just go out separate ways. We aren’t close anymore, I still have her contact but I haven’t texted her since then. She has another boyfriend now but I am deciding to just focus on school, baseball, and hang out with friends and family right now to take a time off of dating. The first three days after the break up were the worse (especially the morning after). I feel much better now, I don’t think about her much anymore unless someone mentions her and am just low key happy because break ups happen for a reason and sooner or later you will thank yourself for accepting a break up and going on with your life. She was a good person, but she wasn’t for me if that makes sense. No contact definitely works but only when it’s meant to be.
Dude, thanks for your videos. This one is actually where I am with my wife now. My anger issues led to our separation. I'm working on myself and my anger issues. Over time I'm positive we will see thru this and be able to mend our marriage.
Did it end well?
The human mind is like muscle. It takes time for it to develop. Took me 4 years to be in control of my anger issue
Good stuff Geoffrey! Thanks for the advice. Also you seem like a good guy and I can support that!
I like the way you broke this down. I wish I heard this along time ago
This is spot on.
I should have watched this a long time ago.
Every time she had a concern, I felt attacked and defended myself. This ended up in her getting hurt and the destruction of the emotional safety.
When she asked for a break I broke down and asked her not to.
She left about a month later.
We're working on rebuilding the relationship and seeing a couples therapist but we're separated and living apart now.
This is exactly how she felt and why she left.
Hi, how is it looking for you two now? Are you together?
@@Tom-ud8js It ended up not working out l but it was for the best.
Not sure about her but my life is a lot better off.
Great Job on this Geoffrey. I definitely agree with your point of not begging, pleading or getting angry. Interestingly enough this pushes them further away and a lot of the time can show selfishness and/or scarcity which neither is attractive. Doing the opposite gives you a much higher chance to salvage the relationship with the person you are dating/in a relationship with and demonstrates emotional stability. Great vid.
Thanks Javon :) Honor coming from you.
Also thanks Geoffrey, your advice is gold.
Literally the most helpful video on RUclips on this topic. Thank You so much brother.
Hello Geoffrey! Thank you so much for this advise. This really helps me a lot and gives me lesson and my girl come back. Now i understand more my girl, and we talk about our issues and arguments to each other, understand each other and now it really feel so good that you and your partner talks about in that way. I am really thankful to you Geoffrey. Really helps me a lot. Thank you so much.. 😊😊
Happy to help!🙂
Thanks for watching! This is a big topic, so let me know if you have any other questions/concerns that are not addressed in this video!
I do have questions 😔 my gf keep asking me that she need space and she need time I gave her all that what should I do 😔
Geoffrey Setiawan thank you so much
hi there im going thru the same thing right now so just have wait and not txt not call either even tho you your inlove with this woman , will i lose her for good?
@@mikeybee6721 You definitely want to strike a balance here -- I am about to post 3 new videos on this topic this week that will answer this question directly. If you haven't already, make sure you subscribe and hit the bell so you don't miss it!!
Brother I'm in the same boat right now. How can I get in contact with you.. harvinshamale@gmail.com
I've looked and listened to a lot of videos on this subject, you are genius, totally resonated with me, please keep doing what you're doing, you are absolutely the best
Thank you for your kind words. Appreciate it! What would you say was your most insightful part of the video?
Broke up with her yesterday ,I will follow your steps bro . Thanks
I like the video man. Great tips. Subbed
Wow, this sums up my relationship perfectly and everything I've done wrong.
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I feel you bro im going thru this myself its hard to figure things out because our emotions fucks up everything just wanna ask you tho... did you end up getting your ex back?
@@hellomynameis7994 no am we haven't seen or spoken in all that time but I've come out a much better person than I went in and feel amazing for it
Thank you!! This confirms something I already thought to be true.
I wish I could upvote this 100 times. Thank you for this.
Hi Johnny B,
Haha, love it! So glad you are that excited for my content. I appreciate you support.
Thanks for the advice because this has been going on for 3 years im doing all those things and you made me understand what I'm doing wrong ive been with my fiance 10 years and she's not showing emotion now we got 2 kids and I do not want to lose my family and my true love thanks man
I don’t know how to give her a break.
We have been on a break for about 3/4 days but i handled the situation like an ass, but now i see clearer.
Thank you so much.
Such a better explanation.Very much grateful.Thanks so much for such insight.
Your video perfectly describes what is going on here. Thank you for this. It's the first time I've come across advice that relates to my situation.
Thanks Mercedez. Feel free to ask any questions or pose any concerns regarding your situation!
I am glad that he is explaining it clearly because IMO men are more likely to listen to other men more than they do women.
I have the same problem here.My woman asked for breakup which I didn’t wanna accept it cuz we have kids and leaving her alone with the kids is not worth it.I have explained everything I could to win her back but she’s keep saying she doesn’t want to have anything to do with the relationship and that I should move on..I plead,beg and other stuffs but all avail.
I’m really depressed and I think a lot while at work.it’s almost 2 years since I started asking to let go of what happen but she won’t accept it and wants me to move on..we have 3 kids and I don’t wanna start a different relationship with another woman.we live in the same house and share the same bed.I have made her known that everything was my fault and she should just give me another chance to make amends and till now as I’m texting you bro,no hope.I have made friends and family begged on my behave but she pays no ears to whatever say and some few months back I found out she’s seeing another person.
What do I do now???
@@richardfrosty5881 buddy some update ?
@@prunelicious7437 bro I have moved on
I would love to see a video about being confident and how to handle everything at this time
Damn man hearing you makes me feel better I’m going through some stuff right now she ignores me and she hanged out with me last week which was weird but now I’m just giving her space now
Thank you so much!!! Your videos on this issue helped me understand what was going on, why and how not to take it personally; which helped me see things in a different light. We couldn't be happier now, TY!!!!! 😁😁😁
Hell yeah! Never stop building safety! :)
My dad told me about your channel and that I should look into it. You helped him tremendously with his relationship between him and his wife and I’m hoping to get at least a fraction of the assistance he got. My girlfriend left me two days ago and took the dogs with her. Nights are the hardest. Never thought silence could be so loud. Right now she is very set on our relationship is over and beyond repair, but I would like to try to repair it. I’m not even halfway through the video and you have already given me insight on where I have been falling short in my relationship with her. I’m already thankful to see what I haven’t been seeing for years. I just hope that she doesn’t stay on the flight path of us being done for good and join my fight to fix our relationship as I am. That’s probably the controlling and emotional part of me speaking, but a man can hope right?
how are you now?
Great advice always!
this is some sound real advice no mind games no hit the gym bro just real emotionally intelligent stuff thank you.
Anybody who may be going through this at the moment, or see this coming… this video is genuinely the best advice I have ever heard and is very relatable to most situations where breaks are necessary
Do you think I should still send good morning/goodnight texts?
Omg this is exactly the reason why I asked him for a break... I really miss him but the relationship was getting so difficult. I felt he wasn't understanding or hearing what I really needed to feel appreciated....
joselyne rubi so what now. Because this is basically my relationship
How are you guys now
We went back together... Coronavirus happened, he panicked, he just saw me 3 times from March to September. He wasn't working since a year and some months ago, he was a couch potato. And we broke up like a month ago. I was suffering in the relationship, I wasn't happy, I was frustrated, he didn't want to change, he said he would stay in that hole until I don't know when.... I wanted to have my own family, but I can't have babies with a 30 year old child . He didn't want help. During the last week he tried to change, I was sick of the situation already.
He blocked me from everywhere and I haven't known about him since then.
@@TheJoselynerubi sorry to hear that. my gf wanted another break 2 weeks ago. But I'm scared because it's the same thing and doesn't think I've changed. But our last break was 2 years ago and I use to chase her that time. This time I'm not so I hope this helps a lot honestly. I'm scared she's just done with everything cuz she told my friend that. We been together 10 years. But idk if she's actually done. Why not just end it now? Any advice you have so I snap convince her il approach and showcase change differently?
@@MrAndres212able we officially broke up in April because she was hooking up with her manager. I vented out to one of my friends and now I'm dating her. My ex ended up breaking up with her current bf cuz he was cheating on her withing two months of being in a relationship. My current relationship is holding pretty strong.
Hey Geoffrey! I’m so glad I was able to come across you on you tube. I have subscribed and liked just about every video I’ve watched. Truly, because it’s pinpointed what I’m currently going through with my relationship. I’ve had a really hard time trying to give her space in the past because of how afraid I was to loose her and honestly, it made things worst. Thanks for the genuine advice.
Awesome man! Let me know if I can help you in a larger capacity :)
How was the outcome Frankie?
Man all the things you say are really inspirational especially in this times where my relationship didn't go well. Maybe i beg more and yeah i force her to love me back, but it didn't fix anything she just feel more imprisoned by my selfishness. Now i just want to become more positive thanks to this video, becoming the best version of myself so whether she really comes back to me or not even its hard still i can keep going. Really a big help man!!
Hey Niermar Chua,
You got it!! If we never do the work and solve our core issues that plague our relationships. This will just become a self fulfilling prophecy.
Keep going my man! Never stop working! :)
This video was actually super helpful, thanks tons!! 🙌
Geoffrey, I would definitely love to see something on how to keep yourself positive while working on yourself. To create a better environment when you are taking a break. I happen to be in a situation now where we really can't separate but we're not really talking to each other because we have children and financially it's just not possible to leave. Covid-19 has really played a lot of havoc because of being stuck together. There's not much t
We do can't really get a part especially cuz we have two young children. Any ideas could be awesome I would really appreciate that.!
Brother, thanks for caring enough to make all the difference.
God bless you and yours,
Wulfy
You gave me a perspective that I haven’t seen before. Thank you for the valuable advice.
I love this video, you hit every point on what’s going on with and my partner wow