#1 Sign Your Ex Will Take You Back

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  • This video will tell you what the #1 sign is that your ex girlfriend will take you back.
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Комментарии • 551

  • @DarkInception
    @DarkInception 6 лет назад +791

    Just back off entirely and continue becoming a better, stronger, more experienced you. Let them contact you but don’t wait for it or expect it. Let life carry on.

    • @RonnieColeman80
      @RonnieColeman80 5 лет назад +1

      Nice bio pic))

    • @hwdareu5848
      @hwdareu5848 4 года назад

      Thanks bro

    • @etewis87
      @etewis87 4 года назад

      @@tylerxking186 well that's the point. Bitch.

    • @bennyblanco6704
      @bennyblanco6704 2 года назад +2

      Thanks I needed to hear this I'm on day 3 with my ex girl. She wont talk to me because I texted and called way to much the other day 😢

    • @suf3799
      @suf3799 2 года назад +2

      @@bennyblanco6704 relax bro. If she wants, she WILL contact you without hesitation

  • @peterlippert2945
    @peterlippert2945 5 лет назад +620

    It has never failed. Once I have finally moved on and don't give a crap anymore....Every single Ex I have ever had always tries to get back together. This could be from 6 months to 3 years. I tell them all the same thing, "If I wasn't good enough for you then, I am not good enough for you now. Just because it took you this long to figure it out and miss me and appreciate me for the man I am....I am over it"

    • @Tazmanian_mma
      @Tazmanian_mma 5 лет назад +13

      Peter Lippert 💯💯💯💯

    • @melina1337
      @melina1337 4 года назад +35

      so true...once u back off they want u....its when u chase them they find it all to easy and they reject you....relationships are a mystery

    • @deanhamsah
      @deanhamsah 4 года назад +2

      Mah mannnnn

    • @morelions4014
      @morelions4014 4 года назад +10

      Best not to forgive or give another chance to any ex on my eyes like mine just leave me and jump straight with someone else in a matter of months is pathetic. How unlucky I am in love it could be another ten years before I meet another woman. The time between my very few ex girlfriends is in many years not one or two months. Some of these women just seriously take the piss and are not worth anyone's tears. Better off for a guy to enjoy what he loves doing most without a woman in his life trying to change him. The only chance is to find a one in s million girlfriend. I thought that about my ex very briefly with her giving me all the shit how different she was but turned out just the same as most of the others out there.

    • @mehnlo
      @mehnlo 4 года назад +30

      There’s a weird force that happen is when you decide to move on and completely forget about your ex, they tend to reach out to you.

  • @alistal8621
    @alistal8621 5 лет назад +313

    the reason all this is needed with relationships now is because people have forgotten old school love. People are weak now and always "need their space". ffs. what ever happened to working with your partner and being strong together.

  • @gorrilablackjack2813
    @gorrilablackjack2813 6 лет назад +300

    The best thing to do is NOTHING! LET HER GO AND LET TIME WORK FOR YOU!

    • @genharmer9380
      @genharmer9380 5 лет назад +7

      GORRILA BLACK, JACK why would you want them back at that point?

    • @jonkressig8881
      @jonkressig8881 4 года назад +11

      I want my ex girlfriend back we are a family and have a 5 year old daughter I hurt every night I miss saying goodnight to both of my girls!😥

    • @antithesispistopheles937
      @antithesispistopheles937 4 года назад

      Crypto Scorpio how’s it going with your “ex”?

    • @inserter400
      @inserter400 4 года назад +1

      @@genharmer9380 because you love and care about them.

    • @evincarias5280
      @evincarias5280 3 года назад

      That’s what I’m doing rn thank u

  • @isaacjacobs3785
    @isaacjacobs3785 8 месяцев назад +11

    Timing. Sometimes the right person at the wrong time. Nothing wrong with admitting that. 4 months of NC after a break-up, not a bad break-up just had a lot of mess to sort out in our own lives. Month 5 she reached out. After months go slowly, we were back together. 5 years on married with a daughter and couldn't be more happy with her. We needed that time apart.
    The key. Space, no chasing, don't ever reach out, move on, let-go, accept it's done. If they come back be mature, don't be stubborn. If you both had something special, then explore it if it feels the right thing to do.
    All these people "I'd never take them back". That to me is a weak mindset, a weak man. Own the fact you at the time of the break-up needed it. Everything is temporary.

    • @norswil8763
      @norswil8763 4 месяца назад +2

      This is the message I’m looking for! A lot of closed minded, bitter people in these comments. I want my journey to play out like yours✊

    • @isaacjacobs3785
      @isaacjacobs3785 4 месяца назад

      @@norswil8763 Thank you and good luck

    • @mrkeitt
      @mrkeitt Месяц назад

      Good stuff 👌🏾 I'm in communication with my ex periodically. I even still communicate with her children from time to time. Although very uncomfortable, I really appreciate the break up now. I'm locked in mentally and in the best shape physically at 48 and focusing on my dream business. So much clarity post breakup. Even though I made some mistakes afterwards, I can tell she's still into me. We even boinked memorial day weekend lol. I'm gonna be patient and loving long distance. I'm loaded with options. But I love my Italian brunette ex gf lol. Best of luck to you and I'm not only happy for you , but inspired.

  • @mattdidley9144
    @mattdidley9144 2 года назад +17

    If she amazing, she won't be easy.
    If she's easy, she won't be amazing.
    If she's worth it, you won't give up. If you give up, you're not worthy.
    Truth is everyone is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for.
    Bob Marley.

    • @norswil8763
      @norswil8763 4 месяца назад +1

      What an amazing quote😍

    • @DarinDmarkovic1
      @DarinDmarkovic1 2 месяца назад

      If she likes you she'll make things easy for you

  • @isaacsmith3529
    @isaacsmith3529 5 лет назад +54

    It’s completely normal to react irrational when someone blind sides you, don’t regret it, just clean the slate and don’t contact them, they’ll get over the freedom or single life then if they come back, it’s your choice. Don’t think the worse if they block you, obviously it’s because you mean something, they can’t block you out their mind. Seen it all before. 😄 most women do this crap because it’s hard to explain to a guy without them thinking the worse.. stay calm, and make yourself happy.

    • @emmcee476
      @emmcee476 Год назад

      As someone who was on the receiving end of an abrupt breakup last year and became very emotional in the subsequent days, this comment is gold 👍
      I am finally starting to see what I used to hear a lot years ago, before being hurt by women - they really can be very immature and cold individuals

  • @heavymetaldude3966
    @heavymetaldude3966 5 лет назад +53

    I've known for weeks and weeks now that I should have backed off....I didn't go to the extreme but I did develop a fear of losing her and ended up losing her, But I also believe she was going to leave no matter what.

    • @algrande2841
      @algrande2841 4 года назад +7

      Nah you just didn’t play it cool

  • @RS-io6vm
    @RS-io6vm 6 лет назад +20

    Don't want it. Moving forward in life.

  • @foyiz
    @foyiz 6 лет назад +247

    My girlfriend asked for space I gave her space then week after she said she don’t want to be with me anymore .that happened 10 days ago. I still feel hurt.its hard

    • @rafaelflores3746
      @rafaelflores3746 6 лет назад +45

      foyiz i feel your pain man! This is a horrible situation for everyone

    • @foyiz
      @foyiz 6 лет назад +24

      I just seen her again,i was ok getting better but now after seen her again I feel down sad

    • @melina1337
      @melina1337 6 лет назад +21

      foyiz awwwww am in same position...it's the most difficult thing we're going through. I am tired of crying. are u going to go no contact. I am .

    • @foyiz
      @foyiz 6 лет назад +40

      Melina yep she already unfreind me in Facebook ,she messaged me one time when she were drunk ,now it's over week without any message,you know what upset me more is how easy for to move on and hard for me.... why.., how she can switch off so quick

    • @melina1337
      @melina1337 6 лет назад +19

      foyiz yeah mine is same. he does not seem to be having a problem moving on while me here is going via hell and absolute misery which is preventing me from functioning at work. Easy for the person with less feelings and the one who did the breakup. i think alot of the time it's easy for them because they have a new love interest and that is the hardest thing ever to come to terms with oh gosh!.. perish the very thought!

  • @johnsese5995
    @johnsese5995 4 года назад +28

    If it is meant to be it will be. Man you need to be strong and PRAY.
    Guess what? I'm happy now because GOD loves me, he is always there for us even when no one else is.

  • @lunar_ascension6669
    @lunar_ascension6669 6 лет назад +93

    leave it to me to get blocked on everything lol

    • @davidmari2122
      @davidmari2122 5 лет назад +4

      Lmao me too fam

    • @Tazmanian_mma
      @Tazmanian_mma 5 лет назад +3

      DC Williams you’ll be ok within the next month or two as long as you keep yourself busy and always trying to evolve as a person. After awhile you’ll think back at the relationship again and you’ll just do this 🤷🏿‍♂️ the two months at first will seem like eternity but overtime it does get easier. Try not to dwell on the thoughts Of it too much! May not be a sweet truth but it’s the truth

    • @danieltrottier8599
      @danieltrottier8599 4 года назад

      No contact works

  • @rolfivarskar7096
    @rolfivarskar7096 4 года назад +12

    Dear Chris, I just want to thank you. Your videos have been really helpful. I have followed your advice all the way, and I can clearly tell it's working. I have been in no contact for six days now, and today I recieved sign she wants contact with me. I have been on social media showing strenght, and today she liked a post I made yesterday. This is a confidence boost, I will stay in no contact until she reaches out to me. You are the best Chris Camwell!

  • @BGMI8527
    @BGMI8527 6 лет назад +27

    Who is happy without you let her be happy because we can't force anyone.Just focus in your goal and achive success in you life.After that they will realise what they have loss. I m in the same situation i feel sad but i make my heart strong and Achiving my goals. To show her what she has loss.By the way their are only 1% of girls who love someone by heart. Dont be sad and if she again came to your life don't Accept her anymore because she has left you one time so they can leave you many times. They usses us life a toy.And never change yourself for others be who you are😉

    • @Peekarica
      @Peekarica 5 лет назад +1

      You are completely right. My ex cheated on me for the third time. The first two times she did not let me go, either let me date another girl. The third time she dumped me after having my first car and radio. Her brother admitted that he really feel ashamed how his little sister has become. The signs she showed is identical to a narcist.

  • @Leveluplivin
    @Leveluplivin 6 лет назад +135

    Guess I'm out. Lol she block me on everything

    • @TitoRN
      @TitoRN 5 лет назад +2

      Darren Stevens any updates?

    • @angelforanangel5274
      @angelforanangel5274 5 лет назад +6

      Me too bro... Im gonna die.. 😢

    • @saddamhussein3972
      @saddamhussein3972 5 лет назад +19

      Move on bro , she will back if she wants

    • @go-goakins1489
      @go-goakins1489 5 лет назад +8

      Naun Eduardo Gutierrez Jr. it happens to the best of us ! You ll meet someone new and better👊

    • @MasteringParagliding
      @MasteringParagliding 5 лет назад

      #Metoo bro!

  • @jonkressig8881
    @jonkressig8881 4 года назад +12

    I want my ex girlfriend back we are a family and have a 5 year old daughter I hurt every night I miss saying goodnight to both of my girls!😥

    • @Lil_Nates
      @Lil_Nates 4 года назад +1

      Crypto Scorpio stay strong man❤️

  • @oliverallen5324
    @oliverallen5324 4 года назад +5

    The days are long but the years are short. Don’t look back; you’re not going that way. People come and go, and come again, but your life must continue. “Never pass up a good thing.” Trust me, you won’t get another chance, do take them as they come. Your reach must exceed your grasp.

  • @emmanpilapil53
    @emmanpilapil53 4 года назад +9

    I have a not your typical situation regarding this.
    My girlfriend and I are together for 2 months on our first month, her dad died. It wasnt easy for her and her family since her dad passed away. Ive been trying my best to understand her, been supportive of her and comforting her. All in all everything I was doing so far was okay.
    It wasnt easy dealing with her because she is suffering from despression. She told me that she knows she has not been there for me, she doesnt mind me as much. Basically she knows her mistake and I acknowledged that. Although as each day passes its really difficult for her and she's really hard to talk to. She doesnt show much emotions. As for example, on our 2nd monthsary I greeted her but she didnt greet me back instead she said " oh shit youre right hahahaha" Truth be told I was hurt by that statement.
    Slowly I begin to feel less appreciated to her. Questioning myself if I am important to her right now. Until yesterday when we went out, everything was off to a great start. We had some small talk but great interactions. ( take note mjch has changed since her dad died. Our fun and happy converstions in car rides usually end up at silence and small talks now ) Until at a certain point I could feel that she's starting to get annoyed with me and I cant figure out why. So when I had the chance to talk to her after we're done eating at the parking lot inside the car, I told her that Im confused about if im important to her right now. I explained my feelings and she just stood quiet. I drove her home after that but the whole 1 hour and 30 mins travel was pure silence.
    When we reached her home she asked me why didnt I tell her about what was I feeling before and I explained to her until she told me that she's going to think about it. When I reached home I saw her messaged and she told me if we can talk later and I said yes.
    At the video call, to sum it up, we broke up. She told me she thought she was ready for a relationship but isnt. She doesnt want the pressure, and guilt, and the selfishness because she cant reciprocate what I was doing for her. I tried to save it but I cant. After the video call an hour later she called me on my number and said that shell tell me something tomorrow.
    Until the next day we talked and she told me that she doesnt want to be unfair with me. She wants to try again but this time we'll start from scratch. No labels. No promises. Just to get to know each other better. She even told me that it was a good thing I opened up my feelings becausr now she's aware of what im feeling and that she'll try to do her best this time. She also said it's going to be different and she hope that i can be the same way as before. And of course I said that im on board with that. I know the risks and Im hopeful that I could turn our situation around. I love her and Ill do whatever it takes not for us to fall apart.

    • @IceBeast5000
      @IceBeast5000 Год назад

      @@dreamguy2427 he said he will do anything for them to not fall apart.
      Bruh. Thats not good on his part.
      Also a women saying she will be different doesn’t mean shit

  • @patientmental875
    @patientmental875 6 лет назад +23

    Bottom line dont try & get your ex back no matter what tactics work been thru it time & time again your just asking for punishment!

  • @dwight4694
    @dwight4694 5 лет назад +18

    There is definitely humor hidden in his calmness 😂😂

  • @MsK-dz5qt
    @MsK-dz5qt 5 лет назад +8

    And if you need space with someone, say that. Maturity and communicate

  • @jeremylim7778
    @jeremylim7778 4 года назад +1

    My ex broke up with me 4 days ago. Nobody cheated or anything, there wasn't any bitterness, just lots of frustration over repeated issues. All communication channels including text, email and social media remain open. I hope that 6 months later we would have another chance at a brand new relationship.

  • @5325bunny
    @5325bunny 6 лет назад +3

    This is really so true and makes so much sense. Let me tell you,when a person is TRULY over you they want NOTHING to do with you. And they usually resort to blocking all forms of communication. I'm going thru a rocky patch with my bf, at this moment in time idk if we are technically together or not. It's a long story and I'm not going to tell it here. BUT neither of us has blocked each other and just last night I spoke to him. But he said he needed to "clear his head" so I went ahead and texted him letting him know I will give him space and to tell him I don't want this to end. And I can tell by his words last night he doesn't want me to go either. We just need to work a little glitch out. ..and I truly believe we will. But for now, he has gone quiet. And I won't contact him anymore, I apologized for my wrongs and he knows I want to work things out. ...so now I wait... (and it's so hard!) But this man's words are so true! This was a great, short, direct video, just what I needed to hear

    • @ripetika1743
      @ripetika1743 Год назад

      So how did things turn out? I'm going through the exact same thing.

    • @5325bunny
      @5325bunny Год назад

      @@ripetika1743 I'm still with the same guy, we've been together for 5 years now, he moved in with me this past June, so 7 months living together. He's cheated on me multiple times already, with the same woman, he got her pregnant back in 2018, well, she doesn't know for sure if the child is his or not, she is seeking out a DNA test, but he slept with her not to long ago. I'm at the point I'm numb right now, this man has put me thru so much, I can't even feel anymore. He admitted to the cheating btw. Well, now she won't leave him alone, keeps calling and texting him saying she loves him and wants him, etc, she didn't know about me at first, but now she does. Guess she doesn't care that he's taken. But he keeps entertaining her and I know he will sleep with her again, he just can't help himself, I think he's a sex addict. I've kicked him out a few times and it never works, he won't leave me alone and comes crawling back. All he does is play with my heart. I'm well aware of what he is doing. But like I said, I'm at the point I'm numb to it all. I'm starting therapy in 2 days also... basically because of him. I wish I could get rid of him for good, but right now I'm not strong enough..I'm hoping with therapy I can begin to heal my wounds... and as I heal I will get the strength and clarity to get rid of him for good.

  • @gabriellopes28
    @gabriellopes28 4 года назад +6

    The way you communicate on your videos, and the knowledge you have is just superb! Congratulations keep up the superb words

  • @sciarico
    @sciarico 5 лет назад +17

    You give solid advice! Thank you!

  • @auzziemax
    @auzziemax 4 года назад +4

    I’ve always known this guys should always put girls on edge! Give them a bit of anxiety make them feel a bit self conscious.. always maintain dominance.

  • @go-goakins1489
    @go-goakins1489 5 лет назад +9

    Once the girl becomes an x it's time to move on and meet someone new 👍

  • @BenBradyOfficial
    @BenBradyOfficial 4 года назад +12

    This really cheered me up

  • @raakheechudasama6052
    @raakheechudasama6052 5 лет назад +12

    Thankyou so much I needed to hear this..GOD Bless You🙏

  • @foyiz
    @foyiz 6 лет назад +35

    I tried to messaged her many time then she blocked me

    • @shahmir770
      @shahmir770 4 года назад +3

      Become my boyfriend

  • @asaruamun-re9510
    @asaruamun-re9510 5 лет назад +16

    How do you know when you are blocked from e-mail❓❓❓ and how you block someone from e-mail❓❓❓🔥🔥🖤❤️💚

  • @TheAgefirst
    @TheAgefirst 6 лет назад +8

    Then there’s moments she becomes a ghost in my life after she dumped me and tried to put me in her friends zone

    • @deeljulia3620
      @deeljulia3620 5 лет назад

      Reginald Blakey ,i found help here on the
      internet through this web
      (www. lovespellsandmore. com) ! ! we got reunited..

  • @apawinmyface
    @apawinmyface 6 лет назад +30

    Not having you blocked means virtually nothing imo I’d say the #1 sign is if they reach out to you frequently

    • @vambo13257
      @vambo13257 6 лет назад +13

      m b I agree, if you are not pestering them they have no reason to block you. It is a fairy tail to think that not blocking you means anything. It could mean that they haven't thought about you enough to even bother to block you.

    • @ch1bob
      @ch1bob 5 лет назад

      @@vambo13257 what if i got unblocked after 40 days no contact..5 days before her bday? Should i have sent a bday wish text? Did i miss my opportunity?

    • @jonathanv3566
      @jonathanv3566 5 лет назад

      @@ch1bob I'd say wish her a belated happy birthday, say that you didn't notice she unblocked you and you hope that she's doing well or something like that

    • @ch1bob
      @ch1bob 5 лет назад

      @@jonathanv3566 16 days later ? Lol

    • @michaelh9251
      @michaelh9251 5 лет назад +1

      J J no don’t send a b day text show that you moved on and this will make her curious and she will reach out!

  • @TheMikels88
    @TheMikels88 6 лет назад +7

    My gf broke up with me like 10 days ago... week ago she didnt even want to talk to me, talk about things we should have... later on she told me to give her a space, which i respect, then she made new IG acc cause her first account got hacked and i was one of the first who she followed xD Could this still mean she does feel something to me...?

  • @davidlee6117
    @davidlee6117 3 года назад +1

    She hasn't removed our pictures on fb, unblocked me on messenger.
    Just spoke to her I was little bit too open but otherwise doing the mirroring and it went pretty well today. I've ordered the book so I am gonna give my all to get my woman back. Anyone else in similar situation be confident you'll be alright trust me!

  • @DNSV-ex8of
    @DNSV-ex8of 6 лет назад +26

    I was surprised.. I did some serious chasing for a couple weeks but I never got blocked. Finally I stopped completely no contact at all. A week later she got ahold of me I went over and watched a couple movies. She didn't kiss me or cuddle up but before I left she hugged me for like 3 mins and wouldn't let go. My friend knew how upset I was because of our breakup and she didn't know him.. He asked her on a date to see if she was interested in other guys and she said no because she was trying to work things out with her ex.. which is me.. I thought it was completely over but I think there is still hope. I just hope she sees me more than a friend. We were in a bad place in both our lives and nit picked at alot of different things until I ended up leaving for a few days then when I wanted to talk she said she needed space. This girl is amazing and we never should have got to the place we did. Even after we spent time together should I still keep my distance?

    • @staceyswope3438
      @staceyswope3438 6 лет назад +3

      Bandit 3404 - It’s counterproductive to push when they want space- hard as it is to let go. I decided to go no contact last week. My boyfriend broke up with me 3 months ago and he only responds when I reach out. He never initiates contact. We got together three times in the past 6 weeks but were physical and didn’t talk about us. Since my tactics and haven’t brought us any closer to getting back together, and I’m afraid of establishing a girl on the side relationship, I decided to completely back off and let him come to me. He’s very avoidant, defeated and I think he’s depressed so he likely never will reach out; however, I can’t contine the way things have been.

    • @DNSV-ex8of
      @DNSV-ex8of 6 лет назад +10

      Stacey Swope I broke it off completely found out there was infact another guy.. Several infact. That was the reason for the whole space Bullshit thing.. Also found some pretty nasty shit online so I finally got my answer. I'm second best to no one..

    • @rachetCD
      @rachetCD 6 лет назад +1

      Lucky lucky lucky

    • @rachetCD
      @rachetCD 6 лет назад

      Stacey Swope because he either doesnt want you back or he himself is trying to do no contact. Its easier for girls to control if a relationship exists or not than for guys. Thats why 99.9% of these dating advise videos are meant for guys

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 3 года назад +5

    It’s been 5 months since the breakup, I did not blow up all her socials gave her space ...we both have been dating other people
    Communication lines are open, so time will tell whatever will be will be, either way I am working on being a KICK ASS version of myself ☯️

  • @ryuhayabusa5
    @ryuhayabusa5 4 года назад

    I fucked up after the relationship because I was in a very bad spot psychologically. Some people in my position would have contemplated suicide. I had just recently lost my business, lost my work place and a lot of of money, lost my car and my house, all the hard work down the drain and then my girlfriend of two years broke up with me two days days later. I was devastated and I felt I had to cling on to whatever I had left since I lost everything, so for two months straight I kept pestering her and texting her, talked to her family and friends to try to fix things, nothing worked, In the end she started becoming agitated and angry as well as very cold. Despite all this, she didn't block on me on anything and she always read my messages so I guess there is still a chance down the road.
    It's been 4 months now since the break up, I've been concentrated on re-building my life and honestly thanks to your videos I have been doing just that. As you say, you need to raise your value as a man. Work on yourself and by doing that you build confidence and then naturally women tend to get attracted to you, ex- girlfriends or otherwise.

  • @vineetamishra5523
    @vineetamishra5523 6 лет назад +9

    Thanks sir u solved my problem

  • @mutatedfetus66
    @mutatedfetus66 6 лет назад +24

    What if after I was dumped I was the one to block and delete her from all social media?

    • @papaduli3392
      @papaduli3392 6 лет назад +12

      Bad move, I did the same but managed to add her back after about 2 months but things haven't changed. You really have to not give a fuck to have a chance with exes.

    • @arifomer6669
      @arifomer6669 6 лет назад +6

      I did same thing

    • @masternobin
      @masternobin 3 года назад +1

      you are the man

  • @iremckay1212
    @iremckay1212 6 лет назад +8

    it workeddd thankss so muchh

  • @lamar9846
    @lamar9846 4 года назад +2

    I got blocked after sending a gang of messages and calls but she unblocked me on text now after like 2-3 weeks I've decided to not send anymore messages I love her but actually working on myself worth sounds amazing and I believe if I work on myself hard enough I might forget about her by the time she comes back

  • @DarinDmarkovic1
    @DarinDmarkovic1 2 месяца назад

    She said lets call it quits, so I blocked and deleted everything including our shared folder of our precious memories. That really hurt her, she didn't really want a break up. I unblocked her the next day, and I told her the doors open if she wants to work it out. It hurts so bad. Neither one of us had a love this good.

  • @nvesk
    @nvesk 4 года назад +6

    My gf left me after 12 years relationship without a logical reason. Im through all the pain, now she wants me back ... whats the point to take her back?

  • @SuperQdaddy
    @SuperQdaddy 6 лет назад +2

    this guy is good guide...way better than most on the Web *

  • @Tazmanian_mma
    @Tazmanian_mma 5 лет назад +2

    I would of loved to give my ex space if she would of told me she needed space instead of waiting till we fight. She’ll be back

  • @DirtStarMaster
    @DirtStarMaster 2 года назад +1

    Don’t chase, replace!

  • @algrande2841
    @algrande2841 4 года назад +2

    All the truth. Chill out get better fix your own crap. She cares it’ll work out. Do the work first in the meanwhile

  • @Rnbsongs-dk5oy
    @Rnbsongs-dk5oy 6 лет назад +8

    I love u man. U open up my eyes. I learned a lot from u. Ur a good player am not.

  • @hugokarki4524
    @hugokarki4524 6 лет назад +6

    Here's the thing, my girl broke up with me about 1 week ago. She blocked me everywhere but told me i could come home to her if i wanted to talk with her about it. What do i do? We have had no contact whatsoever for 1 week.

  • @GeniusSextillionaire888
    @GeniusSextillionaire888 2 года назад +2

    Open communication is the key

  • @auzziemax
    @auzziemax 4 года назад +1

    This is why also Tinder is so bad!!!!! It makes you chase women.

  • @Coleslaw97
    @Coleslaw97 4 года назад +2

    I've listened to lots of coaches and they all recommend NC like you but i dont remember them mentioning the fact that not being blocked could be one of the best signs. They mention how we can get blocked if we don't back off but not this.
    As far as ik, im not blocked on anything, approaching 4 months of NC.

  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack 6 лет назад +5

    original and useful. THANKS

  • @cathalsheehan9596
    @cathalsheehan9596 5 лет назад +3

    There is a lot going on in my ex girlfriends life rn so she felt she had no option. For me I’m confident some day we may get back together as for instance she always replies when I message her, she hasn’t deleted pictures or blocked me. I have decided until she is back next September (she is away from December til September) I’m not going to contact her unless she messages me and I’ll see if I’m ready to.

  • @emmcee476
    @emmcee476 Год назад

    Like someone said in another comment - emotions run high during a breakup and it is normal to sometimes react irrationally, and most certainly during an abrupt one or if you are blindsided. If the woman is not being understanding of this or does not put herself in your position, she never cared in the first place and that is why she cannot relate. Let her go

  • @lakbar8164
    @lakbar8164 5 лет назад +4

    My ex blocked me on everything after our good breakup. I was making her laugh and smile during the breakup and she even wanted me to kiss her when I said goodbye (I said no I don't do that and she asked for the cheek). I'm sad because I love her and we've been together for two years...

    • @datjittrey_2336
      @datjittrey_2336 5 лет назад

      Lak Bar Damn

    • @lakbar8164
      @lakbar8164 5 лет назад

      @@datjittrey_2336 she blocked me after I was posting me being happy on my socials

    • @datjittrey_2336
      @datjittrey_2336 5 лет назад

      Lak Bar She probably got jealous because you was doing better than her during the breakup

    • @datjittrey_2336
      @datjittrey_2336 5 лет назад

      Lak Bar How long ago was it tho

    • @lakbar8164
      @lakbar8164 5 лет назад

      @@datjittrey_2336 it was done on the 13th of August 2019. Tuesday this week

  • @jessicajames5412
    @jessicajames5412 5 лет назад +4

    THE THING IS TO MOVE ON. THE WORLD IS FULL OF AMAZING PEOPLE TO EXPERIENCE.

  • @nandoxus
    @nandoxus 4 года назад +3

    I needed this. Thank you so much

  • @wandapmaindkhar427
    @wandapmaindkhar427 4 года назад +3

    Dude you're a life saver.

  • @ramoolesunmies4628
    @ramoolesunmies4628 4 года назад +5

    I havent seen my ex 4week we talk and text, but week ago I decided to delete her number and block Facebook , she try to call me ones and didn’t answer her call. 9y relationship

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 4 месяца назад

    I think some women don't block the guy or unblock the guy because they love the drama. They like the guy is chasing her and he can never have her.

  • @WMartinez001
    @WMartinez001 3 года назад +2

    Mine told me 5 times yesterday we are broke up 5 by text and then she asked me to come over. She then stated to my face but keeps complaining she wanted me to take her more places. I don't respond to we are broken up. She wants me to beg and then we all know she will end it Seriously

  • @chriscliburn4650
    @chriscliburn4650 5 лет назад +1

    I just wrote all 8 steps down from your plan

  • @kngcobragameing3838
    @kngcobragameing3838 6 лет назад +5

    iam not sure i want my ex back anymore
    she broke up with me and i wanted her back
    now i give 0 Fu*ks about that
    now i just want a danm dirtbike
    cuz that bike isent gonna break up with me
    if it does i think God is telling me to KMS

    • @Jin180sx
      @Jin180sx 4 года назад +1

      Dirt bike wont break "UP" It may break "DOWN" XD But its ok usually just few bucks to few hundred to fix it :D

  • @josephleach3453
    @josephleach3453 4 года назад +2

    Most of the time they leave their chanell open jus to see if there is any self improvement to know wether its worth coming back honestly

  • @travelfoodielove
    @travelfoodielove 6 лет назад +3

    You give amazing advice

  • @vineetchatterjee7550
    @vineetchatterjee7550 5 лет назад +7

    He looks like Steve Smith

    • @Gozman1993
      @Gozman1993 5 лет назад +1

      Vineet Chatterjee he definitely does! Good call

  • @chriscliburn4650
    @chriscliburn4650 5 лет назад

    My ex girlfriend blocked me off of Facebook but hasn’t blocked my number or anything so I am backing off completely and giving her space that she needs. Because I am trying to get her back not losting her forever so that’s what I am going to do is give her space that she needs!

  • @agbordaniels
    @agbordaniels 4 года назад

    Title makes it seem like we have no choice but hope she takes us back

  • @TheBlanco951
    @TheBlanco951 4 года назад +19

    those egg sacs have an expiration date, the closer the date the more desperate they become

  • @kevinroy4978
    @kevinroy4978 4 года назад +4

    I’ve been broken up with my ex fiancé since August 10. I wanna do no contact but I feel like at this point would it work ? It’s October 24th now. Ugh we still talk every couple of days. Even hungout a couple times but it was very brief. I did the no contact for 5 days and she reached out to me but it sounded like she just was hoping I was ok etc. I didn’t really know where to go from there.... :-/ any advice anyone ?

  • @babayagaagaming
    @babayagaagaming 4 года назад +2

    She is just my crush.! She blocked me on instagram but not in Facebook.! Is there still a chance?

  • @camabron1
    @camabron1 4 года назад +1

    If no communication channels are left, but you have her address, send her flowers with a note.

    • @seowweetang2253
      @seowweetang2253 4 года назад +1

      Shit no. Take it from me. No, unless you want a restraining order.

    • @camabron1
      @camabron1 4 года назад

      @@seowweetang2253 I said send them. Not take them.

    • @lovefamily2493
      @lovefamily2493 4 года назад

      @@camabron1
      Mr osekhametalor He can recover your ex back Whtasapp him+2349055574944

  • @emanuel_soundtrack
    @emanuel_soundtrack 5 лет назад +9

    I was in NC 4 months with the “channel open” after a recontact after 2 Months NC and now i see that cannot see her profile pic in whatsapp. We never had a fight.

    • @PraveenSharma-lq1hf
      @PraveenSharma-lq1hf 4 года назад +1

      How's u now.. Is she back with u..

    • @emanuel_soundtrack
      @emanuel_soundtrack 4 года назад

      Praveen Sharma no... moved on

    • @emanuel_soundtrack
      @emanuel_soundtrack 4 года назад +3

      my conclusion is: you better put the things on your terms and open the options, and let women chase your value. There is too much risk, also because of metoo etc

  • @BoundInChains
    @BoundInChains Год назад

    Look, an ex is an ex for a reason. Someone that pushed you away. Don't be a sponge. Run, don't walk! It's easier said than done, but do it! God bless!

  • @alchemist6589
    @alchemist6589 4 года назад +1

    After she blocked I'm watching this 😂😂😂

  • @grandoldsoul4691
    @grandoldsoul4691 6 лет назад +2

    my ex gf who i was the most serious with broke up wit me, went to a new guy ( a friend of mine!) we lost contact for years. took me a while to get her out of my head. lol i know sob sob blah blah. first real heartbreak. that was in 09. in 2015 she added me on fb. tried comming on my shit.. i deleted fb. 2016 she wanted to follow me on IG "sure why not". always liking my videos and pics at 1:12am (drunk) lol but is (happy with her new bf) lol. OO SOO HAPPY PICS! GALORE, I LOVE YOU STATUS'S! so... i upload 1 pic of me and a girl in bed together SHE DELETES ME !! lol girl ...smh

  • @jiayinli6937
    @jiayinli6937 6 лет назад +12

    He blocked me then unblocked but i dnt have feelings anymore and he want me to get back to him but i dont want...move on completely

  • @pisajings6237
    @pisajings6237 5 лет назад

    I tried every possible way to get her back but now that she block me everywhere I no longer give a shit I block her from my life ...its that simple

  • @jenastarotroom
    @jenastarotroom 6 лет назад +4

    Even if your blocked, you can unblock :)

  • @arijitsaha715
    @arijitsaha715 4 года назад +2

    We recently broke up I need her badly. I started no contact. Recently she abused me a lot and said I used her. I saw the msgs and said it's not like that. Again she abused me lastly I saw the texts and gave no reply. What to do next. As I am in a zone of no contact. I don't text her.

  • @edduran2876
    @edduran2876 6 лет назад +4

    The story of my life... "space" how much do I need to give her? How lonely can a man be?

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  6 лет назад +6

      Ed Duran Don’t get lonely. Go meet other women. It’s unbelievably easy.

    • @edduran2876
      @edduran2876 6 лет назад

      Not where I live, I have been divorced for 12 yrs now. I thought I went thru all the crazies and found the real deal but it's not going well now either. It is pretty tough to Love someone your not so sure Loves you back or at least in the same way. I'm not sure what to do so am going to try no contact however it's the paradox of pursuing too little vs too much. thank you

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  6 лет назад +2

      Ed Duran Check out my book Atomic Attraction. It will help you a lot.

    • @edduran2876
      @edduran2876 6 лет назад

      i just purchased it. thank you

    • @aktywnyobserwator5868
      @aktywnyobserwator5868 4 года назад +1

      So true, Ed ! This is an individual thing. Hoping that one year after posting it you are better now :-)

  • @FireFoxFD343
    @FireFoxFD343 6 лет назад +4

    My gf went right to a new guy

  • @indanwangdali7858
    @indanwangdali7858 6 лет назад +6

    This gives me no hope.

  • @ilovecontroversy6940
    @ilovecontroversy6940 5 лет назад +3

    I NEED KINDA URGENT HELP PLEASE
    I want my ex back, we broke up 5 days ago, she was going to break up with me but I broke up with her but if I didn't she would've done the whole fb thing first so I wanted to do that to be in control.
    she blocked me at first but unblocked me and has been, messaging me today and we have been having a good chat but I am leaving her last message on read so she will think about me during the day
    she is the one who said she thinks we should break up and move on with our life but she said that 10% of her wants to work it out but she said we just need to move on, I wanted to work it out and I still love her.
    she has talked about feeling numb and asked how I am doing and if I am okay and from that I know that she is thinking about me and stuff
    my jacket is at my house and she needs to pick it up sometime, she asked if she should return some stuffed toys to me but I'll get her to keep them to make her miss me more.
    so I was just wondering on what I should do when this happens? how should I act etc. I feel like she will either get it and leave, get it and leave (secretly wishing she stayed) or stay for a bit and then leave.
    I would ask this youtuber but it's so expensive geez.

    • @Rachelcampbellll
      @Rachelcampbellll 5 лет назад

      Go no contact, hit the gym, work hard, start new hobbies, save money,hang out with family and friends. Do these consistently for 6 months boom you're fine

  • @pisajings6237
    @pisajings6237 5 лет назад +3

    Block everywhere no communication possible

  • @user-fk8rb8ue5h
    @user-fk8rb8ue5h 5 лет назад +1

    beware the narcissist though.

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  5 лет назад +1

      Absolutely right. I wrote an article about this www.developattraction.com/narcissistic-women/

  • @wikicircle
    @wikicircle 4 года назад

    I am the guy who wrote cris that mail in previous video.

  • @bosschedda_
    @bosschedda_ 6 лет назад +11

    My wife just broke up with me. One thing that stuck out was she left all my pics up on all her social media accounts. I'm guessing that's a good sign.

    • @cmoore1369
      @cmoore1369 6 лет назад +3

      I Am Chedda I'm a week in of being left. It's so hard focus and work 12 hours everyday. It's so hard to keep it together but I hope it works out for all of us.

    • @michaelstassi7054
      @michaelstassi7054 6 лет назад

      Same thing happened with me, I broke up with my ex and she kept all our romantic pictures on social media i NC her for 2 weeks and her family has been contacting me to see how i am emotionally doing LOL!!!! idk if they are talking about me or what but im sure its driving her crazy

    • @patientmental875
      @patientmental875 6 лет назад

      Shaun just try & keep it together i know its rough & you have to keep in mind that if she does this once it will happen again. Better just stick to no contact whatsoever if that doesnt work for her to come to you then just do your best to forget it move on, plenty of fish out there! Ive been thru this time & time again, its all the same

    • @agee7777
      @agee7777 6 лет назад

      at least she doesnt hate you.

    • @seangriffin2828
      @seangriffin2828 5 лет назад

      You're still legally together lol

  • @iammegamanx
    @iammegamanx 6 лет назад +2

    My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks ago, I took that badly for two days and just kept on texting her, however two weeks later we added each other on Snapchat and she usually looks at my stories and texts me once in a while. Is that a good sign?

  • @ermalmorina7917
    @ermalmorina7917 5 лет назад

    If she Doesn’t care about me,I don’t care about her either,if she doesn’t text either I . You will find the right person you are great person and you have to think that you are capable to have any girl you want 😉

  • @dylanmendicina7391
    @dylanmendicina7391 4 года назад +2

    I’m not blocked or deleted off Facebook but yet she doesn’t really acknowledge me when we run into each other except for when we’re at the store or whenever we’re out and about not in a social setting she seems excited to see me. It’s weird and I don’t know what to think, lol.

  • @bongoultrainstinct6401
    @bongoultrainstinct6401 Год назад

    Hard fact:" if she never texts or call you after 2 week of breakup, then she never loved you for real"

  • @lucianoribeiro3444
    @lucianoribeiro3444 5 лет назад

    Chris you are the best

  • @frankiegaliffa3850
    @frankiegaliffa3850 6 лет назад +4

    I'm stressed out right now and feel like I messed up with the relationship with gfwith pushing things too quick and she wants to take a break. Should I surprise her where we had our first date with flowers or give her space? Or I would really like to rekindle the the spark you had for me when we first meet. I don’t want you to be the girl that got away. Please let me pick you up for a special dinner tomorrow night. Should I give her a shot. We only talked for three weeks then dated for two and half months but days stuff air the chemistry was dying with her and some little things. We only talked for three weeks but days stuff air the chemistry was dying with her and some little things. I was confused cause she said im a great guy, attractive, athletic, clingy, treated her well etc. She also told me her mom passed away in 2010 of breast cancer.
    She asked for all this last Monday.
    Why would that be and her friends really liked me and told her that she shouldn't lose me

    • @PraveenSharma-lq1hf
      @PraveenSharma-lq1hf 4 года назад

      How's u now.. Is she back with u..

    • @ryanandrews321
      @ryanandrews321 4 года назад

      Hope you backed off completely if she said she wanted a break and called you clingy?

  • @JoseGonzalez-rx7uh
    @JoseGonzalez-rx7uh 5 лет назад +1

    You're really good woman like space is truth my jirl is back because I didn't talk to her for a month after she broke up with me it works 😊👍

  • @lifeinabroad1296
    @lifeinabroad1296 6 лет назад +3

    Thanks dude

  • @maureencarol2899
    @maureencarol2899 2 года назад

    I don't want to get back to my ex
    I'm happier now with my grown up children
    My ex was an irresponsible man

  • @zync8018
    @zync8018 4 года назад +1

    My girlfriend left me because our relationship is not working at all. She said that she want to focus on her study. I tried to fix the problem but not working at all. We are 4 years in relationship with so many breakups. And last week she totally gave up :( we are ldr too so its hard man. Im trying the no contact rule and i hope she will message me a greet for my birthday next month. So yeah its hard :(

    • @karengates24
      @karengates24 4 года назад +1

      Vclips, life is love, there's a powerful man who can help you get your ex back

    • @zync8018
      @zync8018 4 года назад

      @@karengates24 exactly! I just started reading bible last night and keep praying. Btw thanks for reminding but i am still hoping :(

    • @Zack-tx7oz
      @Zack-tx7oz Год назад

      Hi Zync. Sorry to say, your gf left you. Its best that you move on. There are many more beautiful girls in this world for you.