9 Signs she'll come back after pulling away

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @giogarcia4002
    @giogarcia4002 2 года назад +2889

    Ladies please don’t underestimate us men. We can be the best for you but if you don’t value our actions I guarantee you we will eventually leave in silence and never return. Please don’t play games.

    • @FarmMinds
      @FarmMinds 2 года назад +148

      Tell them bro

    • @mridgaf3233
      @mridgaf3233 2 года назад +82

      1000%

    • @elpacho....9254
      @elpacho....9254 2 года назад +138

      Absolutely. There are millions of women out there, why mess with one that doesn’t appreciate you?

    • @miahmooooo
      @miahmooooo 2 года назад +78

      @@BENNIJERROD I feel you bro I been there recently it’s gone hurt a lot but it’s better to leave don’t let her keep disrespecting you

    • @garfieldmangisi8434
      @garfieldmangisi8434 2 года назад +30

      Tell them bro

  • @some1dontknow
    @some1dontknow 11 месяцев назад +58

    yeah no thanks, when she leaves, finds another guy, screws around and then comes crawling back because the other guy treated her like utter rubbish. decisions have consequences, she wants to leave then she must leave

  • @DamnItHeadJedi
    @DamnItHeadJedi Год назад +672

    Alright. An old family friend told me when I was a young man, she said:
    “Woman shop. Men invest.”
    “Men take longer to get over it, but when they do, they’re really over it.”
    Thanks aunt Joyce. 😎

    • @beastlaser9611
      @beastlaser9611 Год назад +8

      Damn that's deep!

    • @jacobonataghogho1430
      @jacobonataghogho1430 Год назад +4

      Fact

    • @cowboynohorse
      @cowboynohorse Год назад +9

      Gotta love aunt Joyce.

    • @CiscoTheGr8
      @CiscoTheGr8 Год назад +9

      I like that my pops told me when i moved out of Atlanta into rural West Ga. I was having relationship problems in my new area and he said “ son, you dont go to the country store to buy city gear

    • @Senny_sen
      @Senny_sen Год назад +3

      That only applies if she really did care for you at the beginning that's the important factor, because if she doesn't she won't be back as simple. The famous saying is if a woman leaves you for herself and finds peace she will never return.

  • @KofiAClement
    @KofiAClement 2 года назад +647

    She came back after all, but i had already lost interest after one year of her unexpected pulling away , so i put barriers between us and am happy back living my life alone.

    • @leondreamer3361
      @leondreamer3361 2 года назад +77

      One year is to much God only knew what He or she was doing in that year

    • @jossell911
      @jossell911 2 года назад +10

      Same here!

    • @jonahd-guitarist9975
      @jonahd-guitarist9975 2 года назад +26

      Same here it's exactly 4months now but I refuse

    • @blazinjaye45
      @blazinjaye45 2 года назад +5

      Best thing to do

    • @nountrending
      @nountrending 2 года назад +50

      @@leondreamer3361 she didn't find someone better i think. Probably she went into another relationship and she was let down.

  • @trollbay2605
    @trollbay2605 8 месяцев назад +349

    Who else watches these videos just to make themselves feel better even though they know this is most likely the end 😢

    • @emanuelduran9345
      @emanuelduran9345 5 месяцев назад +12

      Me :/

    • @IFTYIFTY-xz4st
      @IFTYIFTY-xz4st 4 месяца назад +3

      Me

    • @ZaifTrading
      @ZaifTrading 4 месяца назад +4

      @@trollbay2605 it really hurts :/

    • @anthonypugh28
      @anthonypugh28 4 месяца назад +10

      @@trollbay2605 me smh can’t believe I’m here after 6 years

    • @Gbb93
      @Gbb93 4 месяца назад +11

      I think it only stings because you kind of feel dumb for missing the signals that she never cared about/loved you as much as you did for her.

  • @fitforlifepft1
    @fitforlifepft1 2 года назад +1204

    Never let a woman who left come back!! Move on!

    • @bonifacemaina6092
      @bonifacemaina6092 2 года назад

      I can't entertain stupidity..go a go as if you'll never go again..and if possible assume you've never seen that little brained creature

    • @peverilngehngeh8536
      @peverilngehngeh8536 2 года назад +68

      Very correct my bro

    • @larrysmith1102
      @larrysmith1102 2 года назад +39

      Fact 👍🏾

    • @fitforlifepft1
      @fitforlifepft1 2 года назад +95

      @@larrysmith1102 Yep, she will only be back to Finish you Off or she thought there was better!!

    • @sandlerfrancois666
      @sandlerfrancois666 2 года назад +16

      Amen!

  • @iloveamerica4891
    @iloveamerica4891 Год назад +234

    1. She brings up how happy you two were together
    2. She starts showing her emotions again
    3. She becomes apologetic about the past
    4. She wants to have serious conversations all of a sudden
    5. You start seeing her old loyal gestures
    6. She starts having miss you moments
    7. You see the sparkle in her eye again
    8. She becomes friends on social media again
    9. She stopped avoiding you

    • @kiddytube3915
      @kiddytube3915 Год назад +70

      Already too late. Reason why she’s doing that is because the other or other options failed.
      You’re her back up of backup .

    • @thesgalpha4157
      @thesgalpha4157 10 месяцев назад +1

      No doubt

    • @BlueMinionIW
      @BlueMinionIW 10 месяцев назад +2

      Her friends might have given the chance to fix the feelings between her and I. Her friends questioned what happened between her and I since she told them about something but they weren’t sure of the entire story. I then proceeded to tell them the story from my end which they then told me her story that her friend broke her heart with a guy as I said to them that fucked up as they agreed and that she said or smthn that I could’ve treated her better.

    • @kevabentura4692
      @kevabentura4692 6 месяцев назад +2

      You plan C lol

    • @nobodyknows3180
      @nobodyknows3180 6 месяцев назад +2

      Sooo, how long will it be before she leaves you again? Hint: You already proved to her that she can casually walk in and out of your relationship, so I am guessing she will leave sooner this next time. Yes, there WILL be a next time.

  • @prossbhudzo
    @prossbhudzo 2 года назад +417

    Some comeback are dangerous be cautious because she might come back to finish you off.

    • @bankster2191
      @bankster2191 2 года назад

      absolutely. some women are damn near evil to love bomb you then completely ghost you or use you financially temporarily

    • @penakapingana4365
      @penakapingana4365 2 года назад +10

      Exactly

    • @Bn_Amz
      @Bn_Amz Год назад +3

      😊😇🙂

    • @johnfonua
      @johnfonua Год назад +4

      PREACH.

    • @DHill149
      @DHill149 Год назад

      Amen not everyone wants what’s best for you build your empire up she comes back for war and revenge be careful

  • @cryptocrazy7996
    @cryptocrazy7996 2 года назад +121

    I don’t think I’ll ever give a woman a second chance after walking away. I’m above 30yrs now.

    • @jacklinemutie8901
      @jacklinemutie8901 2 года назад +3

      Really....

    • @OtiBoateng-pf4pk
      @OtiBoateng-pf4pk 7 месяцев назад +2

      My dear, please what of she asking what really went wrong with our relationship.. She ask me to outline those faults and get back to her so that we could discuss it together. Is it necessary telling her past or just dwell on the surface, cos I just don't know she will take it when I start to pour every section of her faults to her. ..this morning she did send me a video of herself , singing a v. I. P song , ur boyfriend no dey do u we'll... Away. Just confused. Need ur advice.

    • @kevabentura4692
      @kevabentura4692 6 месяцев назад +1

      Why you here?

    • @darlingtonsilva2612
      @darlingtonsilva2612 2 месяца назад

      @@OtiBoateng-pf4pk

    • @FKNGad
      @FKNGad 2 месяца назад

      @@OtiBoateng-pf4pk she dey craze dawg am

  • @JohnM...
    @JohnM... 2 года назад +250

    Despite her advice, DO NOT make it your responsibility to 'suggest a comeback ' - that's weak as f***. If she wants a second chance, then the effort and responsibility is up to HER. SHE has to win you back, and if she doesn't make the effort, and tries to make YOU do si, then she is TESTING you for weakness, and if you make the mistake of trying to set something up, she'll simply ghost your ass.

    • @mattjr4206
      @mattjr4206 2 года назад +7

      Very true

    • @shayladiawu7076
      @shayladiawu7076 2 года назад +5

      Am a Male ., and from my issues she came back begging and crying bitterly she’s ready to work things out cause she’d realize her mistakes but unfortunately I declined her and told her I can’t forget what she did but mind you reason why I declined her is because I don’t trust her or to say don’t know weather that part of her is gone truly., been a week now I make that decision and she didn’t contact me again from that day ., but I still love her so my QUESTION is should I make the move or wait until she does ..??

    • @akandeel2068
      @akandeel2068 2 года назад +31

      If you love her and decide that there is something to continue. Make sure the respect is intact first. Then you have to set hard boundaries and show her that you’re not scared to let her go again. Set your rules. Be a fucking man, let her know that you are a fucking man.

    • @rhymzyoronni3660
      @rhymzyoronni3660 2 года назад +7

      @@shayladiawu7076 are women scarce in your city

    • @Bn_Amz
      @Bn_Amz Год назад +1

      I love this man👍

  • @awumemcdonaldsonalex1646
    @awumemcdonaldsonalex1646 2 года назад +379

    One difficulty I faced in relationship is accepting my ex into my life. Once you left , there's no room in my heart to accommodate her

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 2 года назад +112

    I had this experience with a girl, she ghosted me but I’m ngl, it was my fault. She came back after 6 months but I never let her in again. If someone leaves my life with no explanation/ghosting, I treat them as such. A Ghost..Dead!!

    • @HonestBarnes
      @HonestBarnes 5 месяцев назад +1

      Respectfully, this is ego talking.

  • @Understandme44
    @Understandme44 Год назад +87

    Problem is that women often take the good men for granted. They chase the ones that they think the grass would be greener on the other side. They find out that it’s just dirt and mud. Spin back around and look for the men they left in the cold. So u gotta be cold also and leave them to streets.

    • @mrbullmrbull
      @mrbullmrbull 9 месяцев назад +17

      Yeah my ex gf once came back to me after she delusionally thought she deserves better.
      I told her: if you really love me tattoo my name then.
      She did it and i dumped her LMAO

    • @matthewcarrillo1951
      @matthewcarrillo1951 9 месяцев назад

      @@mrbullmrbull 😂😂😂

    • @antonkirimchannel243
      @antonkirimchannel243 6 месяцев назад

      Sure bro I think think we All the same

    • @HENCHMARV
      @HENCHMARV 2 месяца назад

      That is true

    • @brandonrobertkersjes
      @brandonrobertkersjes 2 месяца назад

      GRASS AIN’T GREENER!!!!

  • @אילושהמש
    @אילושהמש Год назад +7

    Hey Jessica, thank you for your kind words and giving hope for a hopeless man that probably lost his love of his life but still believe there is a chance

  • @nana1official
    @nana1official 2 года назад +111

    Well make sure you work on yourself so she won't find you same way she left you💯👌

    • @jonny1296
      @jonny1296 2 года назад +7

      King right on

    • @nana1official
      @nana1official 2 года назад +3

      @@jonny1296 yeah

    • @kingkash4869
      @kingkash4869 2 года назад +13

      Good to work on yourself but it's sad that you want to be better for the same person that left you. 🤦🏾

    • @nana1official
      @nana1official 2 года назад +6

      @@kingkash4869 very sad but it happens at times so if it'll,,,, you gotta be better

    • @godswillbinitie5150
      @godswillbinitie5150 Год назад

      Excellent point that needs a thumbs up 👍

  • @titanniki412
    @titanniki412 2 года назад +33

    I learned from another coach if u want her back & she reaches out, be cool & calm. Stick to how she reaches out. Be polite, & Stay on topic.
    If she says I want to get back together, tell her your open to that, let's take it one day at a time. Let me know if u want to MEET & have coffee, Let me know when your available. Make it like a Business meeting
    Don't get all excited OH Baby I miss & Love you. She maybe just seeing How easy it will be to come back.

  • @donaldyoung405
    @donaldyoung405 3 месяца назад +5

    Just walked away from a 9 year relationship, because my efforts where never enough. 2 kids and all I accepted them as my own, finally got tired of it, and God sent me my Angel.

  • @verohandymike
    @verohandymike 2 года назад +317

    I had a beautiful lady do this to me, as soon as I told her I was no longer interested based on all her efforts to push me away. It was like night and day, she immediately changed back to wanting to be with me. Unfortunately, I meant what I said, I was no longer interested. I ended up feeling sad because I could only remember how much I wanted her attention before, now she was pouring it on and I no longer wanted it. At the end of the day I think we'd be better off if none of these games existed, if two people who liked each other would just give it a try and see where it goes.

    • @dearmejoel
      @dearmejoel 2 года назад +35

      Exactly! Games only ladies are interested in playing. Being hostile to the very person they're interested in..

    • @alexboat77
      @alexboat77 2 года назад +8

      @@dearmejoel Atell you bruh

    • @mattjr4206
      @mattjr4206 2 года назад +15

      Yeah I hate the games. I was trying to play fair at first and I ended up being the victim.

    • @kingkash4869
      @kingkash4869 2 года назад +9

      I agree 💯 why waste time 🍾

    • @willybeamon
      @willybeamon 2 года назад +30

      Facts. It’s too many games. What happened to a person genuinely liking someone and the other person feeling the same way. It’s always gotta be if he shows too much attention then the woman pulls away cause the guy seems needy. I mean ain’t that the point. Would t you rather have somebody that wants you unconditionally!! But instead you get pushed away for being too nice or doin too much. I will never understand women smh

  • @akonluis6457
    @akonluis6457 2 года назад +501

    "Don't let love cloud your judgement" 💯💯💯

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 2 года назад +18

      GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND LET THAT IN YOUR LIFE

    • @thewolf9403
      @thewolf9403 2 года назад +4

      @@freddiestranger9783 Amen Jesus come into my life in Jesus Name Amen!!!

    • @AngryBilleh
      @AngryBilleh 2 года назад +4

      @@freddiestranger9783 that's even worse 🤣

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 2 года назад +4

      @@AngryBilleh ITS WORSE FOR THOSE IN HELL WHO REJECTED THE TRUTH 🤦🤦🤦 GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD 🙏 JESUS CHRIST TODAY 🙏

    • @AngryBilleh
      @AngryBilleh 2 года назад +3

      @@freddiestranger9783 can you first prove that any of it exists?

  • @davidbarnard1409
    @davidbarnard1409 Год назад +29

    I've never taken a woman back who dumped me. It's called self respect. If she was unsure the 1st time. She's still unsure.

  • @KRAZEEIZATION
    @KRAZEEIZATION 11 месяцев назад +13

    I hope she doesn’t come back to be totally honest. I like being free and doing whatever I want whenever I want.

  • @IncredibleDude11
    @IncredibleDude11 2 года назад +36

    Thank you Jessica, you helping thousands of men all across the world. I highly recommend any of her subscriber's to schedule a one on one call, she helped change my life!

  • @samueloladelelayiwola2370
    @samueloladelelayiwola2370 Год назад +29

    Do not fall in love with the face and body. Fall in love with the spirit, heart and characte!r.💯💑🇳🇬

  • @victora.g.2708
    @victora.g.2708 2 года назад +35

    We are all humans after all and everybody can make mistakes. Sometimes is a good idea, and beautiful, to give another opportunity to the relationship. But If you have been dumped, and you have tried everything, you should not make the first step to reach out.

    • @treysalmon640
      @treysalmon640 Год назад +9

      There’s a lot of negative comments on here people are capable of changing and no not all exes have it out for you I recently lost a girl to my own issues and I’m trying so hard not to change just for her but most importantly for myself I do love her and would give anything to have another chance I feel regret what I did

  • @iwascamping
    @iwascamping Год назад +20

    Hello everyone, Thank you Jessica for this video. Male, 27. Me and my ex broke up around 3 months ago. 7 months together. Things where going great then I started getting more jealous and silly things and I was literally losing myself. Prior I’ve been cheated on so I was getting these intrusive thoughts and started casting those upon my gf at the time. It wasn’t fair for her at all and anyways. We are starting to talk again. I really see something in this person, a future, a marriage and children. Hopefully everything works out. But for anyone out there going through a heartbreak or dealing with jealously or “assuming” something is going on (is she cheating on me, is he cheating on me etc) a counselor once told me, “you can try to stop a bird as many times for it not to go back to its nest, but if it really wants to go back to the nest it will.” I know it sounds simple and silly but the moral of the story is you have to have trust and not try to control everything that you can’t. If someone’s going to cheat on you. Then they weren’t meant to be in your life.

    • @iloveamerica4891
      @iloveamerica4891 Год назад +1

      You have to juggle at least 3 women at the same time -- till you find that one good woman that is a keeper. Only when keeper asks you to be excusive you stop seeing others ok ? now Keep HER laughing, not you laughing, for the rest of HER life. Take stand up comedy classes. Keep learning. You are searching for that one keeper.

  • @Officialqueso
    @Officialqueso 3 месяца назад +5

    “One day you will realize no one is good enough, and you’ll realize he was.”

  • @pascalik3240
    @pascalik3240 2 года назад +21

    I will welcome her back but she will need to earn my love and loyalty. I will not give it out so easily. Let her work for it to earn it..

    • @noname-i5x4b
      @noname-i5x4b 2 месяца назад

      @@pascalik3240 how is it?

  • @Kadefoot
    @Kadefoot 2 года назад +57

    She came back , but I feel like only money matter to her ! It's never enough.

    • @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648
      @benjaminoseikuffourjnr.1648 2 года назад

      That's a red flag, pal. She's a parasite & a sycophant

    • @chombachishimba6963
      @chombachishimba6963 2 года назад +1

      Everything is fine ,but we should think twice to bring her back or either side , because the times we are leaving in are dangerous , there are STIs ,AIds and so many diseases,you might end up getting sick ,so better alone , unless she was herself when she left ,never cheated due to emotions you know what I mean .

  • @TheChadBatman
    @TheChadBatman 2 года назад +12

    Lol, what a coincidence that this was in my recommendations after getting rejected but still friendzoned. RUclips actually doing something right

  • @princedjaba4626
    @princedjaba4626 10 месяцев назад +3

    Insightful video. Any relationship that isn’t based on mutual respect, trust and efforts is not worth pursuing. Protect your peace and find someone who is honest, matured and respectful.

  • @txptier_musicka8689
    @txptier_musicka8689 2 года назад +81

    I honestly think you know exactly what you're talking about, you are my therapist. I see everything you say in your videos. The day I get my wife back I will never do anything in this world to make her sad ever again.

    • @ryanshivram9496
      @ryanshivram9496 Год назад +10

      This is the realest comment I seen everybody acting like they never ever want their wife/gf back… people gotta stop lying to theirselves

    • @michaelrandall09
      @michaelrandall09 Год назад +6

      @@ryanshivram9496 on god. I miss my girl bruh. Sometimes y'all not seeing eye to eye and shit happens. Ion wanna hurt her ever again tho. These comments are toxic as fuck

    • @ryanshivram9496
      @ryanshivram9496 Год назад +2

      @@michaelrandall09 on some real shit I’m on the same track as you bro after all them years imma be lying to myself talking about I don’t miss her

    • @darryljohnsonjr5955
      @darryljohnsonjr5955 Год назад +6

      I’m in the same boat. I love and really miss my wife I’ve been hoping and praying for another chance to be the man I should’ve been from jump. I’ve made my mistakes and damn sure learned from them. I just want the one it all makes sense with.

    • @michaelrandall09
      @michaelrandall09 Год назад +7

      @@darryljohnsonjr5955 love bro. You'll get your shorty back. She came back full force. That was 12 days ago. A lot changes. Praying for you my brother

  • @pierramunuku
    @pierramunuku 2 года назад +72

    Very nice video. Personally I always say once you make a resolute decision to break-off a relationship chances are that you have very valid reasons to do so, so stick to that, don't look back & move forward. Love you Jess but these tips work well in 'half-assed' break-ups which are more like 'breaks' where a partner(s) may have the opportunity to gauge if resumption is worthwhile.

    • @thickseed
      @thickseed Год назад +1

      🎯

    • @priestesskatherine2640
      @priestesskatherine2640 Год назад +2

      Hello dear

    • @7Earthsky
      @7Earthsky Год назад

      Yep...If anyone is here watching videos like these, then likely they are in half assed long distance relationships.

  • @curiousk4083
    @curiousk4083 2 года назад +34

    Abuse happens when you accept someone who left you. Lots can happen in a day, so it's she leaves let her go. In future she'll remind or threatened you about leaving again.

  • @OmarNeal-rl8gv
    @OmarNeal-rl8gv 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much for this video I helped me a lot. I'm a married Christian man and it is a good feeling to find a channel like yours that doesn't use profanity while reaching so many people from different walks of life thank you so much

  • @jmsu6125
    @jmsu6125 Год назад +53

    Women are completely insane, they don't know what they want, most of them act according to their emotions and don't value the time and the good experiencies we have had together, that's an absolute tragedy.

  • @Sebastian-bw9el
    @Sebastian-bw9el 2 года назад +86

    You just narrated my current situationship in just 12 minutes 😪.. thank you for the advice.

    • @Drdaniugorba8318
      @Drdaniugorba8318 2 года назад +3

      Don’t worry I know someone who can help you out

  • @NubianStarr
    @NubianStarr Год назад +40

    Ghosting in a relationship is by far one of the most disrespectful & childish things one could do to you… It’s like that person just died. One day they just vanish and refuse to communicate .. That is foul on every level & to me the ultimate betrayal. It’s right up there with someone You love faking their own death...

    • @jmdyt3626
      @jmdyt3626 Год назад +1

      I’m know it’s cruel but sometimes it has to be done my ex said she wanted to get back together and for the last month I’ve been chasing her and am exhausted because don’t feel I’m getting the same back from her and she can sometimes take 15hrs to respond to a message from me and honestly I’ve told her it feels like she doesn’t care and instead of seeing it from my perspective she got angry at me and I feels she’s treating me bad so for some days I’m just not going to pay attention to my phone and just not stress about it all and if this kicks her into start trying then it’s worth it

    • @justallah2785
      @justallah2785 Год назад

      This may mean you're taking relationships too seriously. This was one of the greatest things learned from participating in sports

    • @RevealedFilms
      @RevealedFilms Месяц назад

      @@jmdyt3626hope you realised you were being played. She wasn’t interested in you

    • @jmdyt3626
      @jmdyt3626 Месяц назад

      @@RevealedFilms I do now yes

  • @-g.k.4389
    @-g.k.4389 Год назад +71

    I’m really getting the feeling that she doesn’t even believe this mess. With some women when they say it’s over it’s over no second guessing no matter how good you were. I think the best route is to move on without expecting her to come back. I’m in this situation now I just want the soul ties to go away I just want to get back on with my life. I want her out my head I want her evicted from my thoughts.

    • @mrtheodaprophet
      @mrtheodaprophet Год назад +2

      That's right. Never have expectations of her coming back. Occupy that vacuum wiry the things that you love to do to get productive. Don't be idle. If possible, delete her contact and keep away from her social media space. It could trigger ypu up.. she's going through same. But focus on yourself.

    • @twilderlm2559
      @twilderlm2559 Год назад +1

      I feel the same about a certain guy... just want 2 4get him completely. My Brain is infatuated w him. My heart been gone.

    • @sagivben1834
      @sagivben1834 Год назад

      How are you now? I'm going through same thoughts and feelings and just want to forget her and move on...

    • @BlackFrieza1987
      @BlackFrieza1987 Год назад

      I feel you bro I’m in the exact same situation I want her out of my mind. Give updates.

    • @shshbeenreal338
      @shshbeenreal338 Год назад

      This the 1

  • @iyayiemokpae7505
    @iyayiemokpae7505 2 года назад +8

    Jessica I wish u were my elder sister. My elder sister changed after she moved out of the 'nest'. Now I don't know who to look up to. U hv been helping. You are now one of my heros while I remain single at a critical age. 😢. Some ladies a are difficult, impossible or tribal n fraternity-like but Ur advice helps much n are good. Thank u, auntie.
    From Nigeria with massive respect n love for Ghana. (Ghana is one reason I shall be rooting for Africa in the forthcoming world cup, auntie).

  • @pemsyblackgold4812
    @pemsyblackgold4812 2 года назад +82

    Don't let love cloud your judgement 🤔
    Thank you so much you're cherished Jessy

    • @mikelmikel3310
      @mikelmikel3310 2 года назад

      My qtn why would a woman you left to take care of business and family of two daughters cut off communication with out saying or informing me anything yet every month I send money to them and paying school fees. But she is ever online chatting with others. I need help why she's doing that?? And how to deal with her when she ignores me????

    • @priestesskatherine2640
      @priestesskatherine2640 Год назад

      That right
      But I have a brief meditation

    • @pemsyblackgold4812
      @pemsyblackgold4812 Год назад

      @@mikelmikel3310 I think you need to work on your communication with the woman only then you can know why she's ignoring you

  • @williamowuoth3912
    @williamowuoth3912 2 года назад +91

    Great content Jess. I almost lost the love of my life but thank God she's back after almost two years. Everything you're saying is true for our case

    • @IncredibleDude11
      @IncredibleDude11 2 года назад

      How long y'all together now

    • @thabangmagana869
      @thabangmagana869 2 года назад +3

      How did you do it though? Cause for me it seems impossible right now🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @tatasonfelix
      @tatasonfelix 2 года назад +47

      She came back because she didn't find someone better.

    • @kwekubrewammuako-annan862
      @kwekubrewammuako-annan862 Год назад +5

      Two years? Jeez, I hope she doesn't go back because they usually don't come back for you but for themselves because they couldn't find better, the least opportunity she thinks she can, she will be gone

  • @iloveamerica4891
    @iloveamerica4891 Год назад +4

    Hallelujah my beautiful woman came back.
    she got upset I talked to her dad she told me not to -- after 2 years.
    I stayed in my man frame even when I was hurting inside.
    she found out a month ago Im seeing another girl.
    no woman orders me, she admitted her mistake.
    God bless everyone.

  • @trevertrns497
    @trevertrns497 Год назад +9

    Ngl sometimes stuff be wrong timing like it’s better to separate for a period of time to grow than ruin something good entirely especially if that’s what you know you want and who you want . You gotta respect it especially if it’s done right and you see the growth in each other sometimes separation makes shit stronger

  • @millinguay4906
    @millinguay4906 2 года назад +11

    My favorite female is back on my screen. I love you Jess 🤍

  • @hellenwegner6775
    @hellenwegner6775 2 года назад +19

    There’s No Need Of Wanting Them Back Once They Have Lost You!

  • @siyabongakoyo238
    @siyabongakoyo238 Год назад +9

    Jessica I love your channel. This episode is for those guys that never wanted the relationship to end though. Guys that kept hoping to get back with their ladies. With some guys the minute you leave its over.. the guys moves on to someone else.

  • @azeezmustapha5976
    @azeezmustapha5976 2 года назад +35

    You are absolutely right with all the signs. I am currently experiencing these with my ex but I am a bit skeptical about her because I felt she wanted to come back because she couldn't find a better person out there and she sees some changes in me. No she is desperate to come back to I don't think I will allow her back in my life.

    • @limitlessprintz7429
      @limitlessprintz7429 2 года назад +10

      Don’t allow her bro, there are millions of girls out there..

    • @webbset
      @webbset 2 года назад +6

      Don't

    • @CochoAntonio
      @CochoAntonio 2 года назад +8

      Lock your door sir, don’t let her come in

  • @djmagicrash5509
    @djmagicrash5509 Год назад +1

    Am heartbroken. Both Your videos and time are healing me.
    Great job your doing about bringing us out of our own jails

  • @Stevetash
    @Stevetash 2 года назад +5

    I am proud of myself for subscribing into this channel. Thanks Jessica.
    Steve from Kenya

  • @philserna3581
    @philserna3581 2 года назад +8

    The best thing to do is say" That'll work.Thank you very much." Go work on being a better you and MOVE ON. Put your work in fellas.
    Watch how the tide turns.

  • @clarencerodgers1643
    @clarencerodgers1643 2 года назад +141

    Once she leaves NEVER take her back!

    • @fitforlifepft1
      @fitforlifepft1 2 года назад +4

      💯

    • @Mysteryguy651
      @Mysteryguy651 10 месяцев назад +6

      ​@eotcitizen It happening to me right know i can feel from her that she is attached more and she also came back but i am pretty sure that the reason why she came back was that she was excercising her options because she is not that experiance i can tell. She relised that other man are jerks and dont really have emotional connection with her. I would say yes take her back but dont be that easy let her invest into you. I understand that blah blah blah she left me NEVER COME BACK because I am alfa blah blah if the attachment is on both sides and she invest into you she probably learned her lesson if she came back and do nothing she is using you as a rebound. Final answer: TAKE HER BACK DONT OVER INVEST, LET HER INVEST INTO YOU BUT BE INTERESTED IF SHE LEAVES ONCE AGAIN SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS IF SHE STAY ATTACHED TO YOU ITS A TRUE LOVE BECAUSE: If you love them set them free and if they come back they are all yours. If they dont it wouldnt never meant to be.

    • @lawrencehaneb8412
      @lawrencehaneb8412 7 месяцев назад +5

      ​​@eotcitizencommunication is needed you can't just disappear and when things are not working out then show up and come back,

  • @franciskoomson7312
    @franciskoomson7312 2 года назад +35

    Jessica never disappoints at all when it comes to relationships. Your information is too good and real. I watch your videos repeatedly.

  • @eppsislike
    @eppsislike Год назад +2

    Stumbled by accident on your video, you have a fantastic aura.

  • @shalzone_
    @shalzone_ 2 года назад +7

    I've been watching this channel for years and one thing I've noticed is that some of those lessons even work in business.😂

  • @loyalpaul_The_Great
    @loyalpaul_The_Great 2 года назад +22

    Thank you so much Jessica. It's like your videos come to me at the right time

  • @businessboom6143
    @businessboom6143 2 года назад +7

    Jessica, I must say, "You're topnotch!"

  • @leonjohnsonjr3331
    @leonjohnsonjr3331 2 года назад +13

    I always leave them first and we never talk again and i never reach out unless she call me

  • @adeisinta5965
    @adeisinta5965 Год назад +4

    Her videos have helped me alot in defining relationships

  • @alexboat77
    @alexboat77 2 года назад +12

    Yh she showed all these signs in the past few months..unfortunately for her, had already lost interest. One thing ladies and gals gotta note is the fact that it's not guaranteed the Guy gonna be there always after distancing herself and trying to come back. Feelings at times do expire based on experiences so they better learn to cherish the moments and be positive if they feel the Gs

    • @kingkash4869
      @kingkash4869 2 года назад +1

      Totally agree 💯💯💯

  • @horsepowerfc337
    @horsepowerfc337 Год назад +26

    She did come back to me. She broke up with me. I was fully convinced that it was over. Then, love won. ❤️❤️❤️ She apologized for what she did.

    • @darriuscampbell4404
      @darriuscampbell4404 Год назад +2

      How long did it take and why’d you break up if that’s okay for me to ask. I’m in that boat rn man.

    • @brickbabygenerationbbg2941
      @brickbabygenerationbbg2941 Год назад +3

      @@darriuscampbell4404 just move on King. Women will come back because the other side not greener. Do yourself a favor a find new women friends, don’t rush a relationship because you are hurt just go with the flow!

  • @tony_gordon
    @tony_gordon 2 года назад +36

    Silence is powerful

  • @martinbudu553
    @martinbudu553 2 года назад +5

    You just Talked about my story, thanks for this i really appreciate

  • @kristianlatouche5293
    @kristianlatouche5293 2 года назад +6

    Thanks for the advise jessica this really helps me to fully understand women now.

  • @NurseGamer15
    @NurseGamer15 11 месяцев назад +1

    😢unfortunately were on LDR, things are way out of control. I dont want anything else but to get rid of the very pain inside me that slowly consuming me. She does not care of me anymore

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline 2 года назад +5

    Great content shared dear,very true dear she will miss those moments 😉 😢

  • @raydoherty7154
    @raydoherty7154 2 месяца назад

    Of all the channels I have watched, this advice has been more accurate and insightful than any others. Thanks.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  2 месяца назад +1

      I appreciate that!

  • @ZenoGoreng
    @ZenoGoreng 2 года назад +7

    None of these things, but we were never together and for a bunch of these things you have to be quite close anyway, at least see one another from time to time. Well, maybe not enough time has passed yet. Hopefully one day we can be okay again, even if it’s just as friends (I know more than that isn’t gotta happen).

  • @mosesmwansa9425
    @mosesmwansa9425 Месяц назад +1

    Good one.. Thanks so much for sharing ❤

  • @jordanyoung1836
    @jordanyoung1836 2 года назад +11

    You are a wise person ms jessica, i appreciate the advice you give...thank you

  • @alafaahammad9230
    @alafaahammad9230 2 года назад

    I wish I met your videos 2 months ago. It has been hard for me to move on. But with your videos, God has given me a way out.

  • @emmanuelofei6757
    @emmanuelofei6757 2 года назад +32

    Be careful about some comebacks

    • @Mphego1999
      @Mphego1999 2 года назад +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @milesstudios7545
    @milesstudios7545 2 года назад +16

    She came back to ghost me again. A main reason we broke up initially.

    • @ryanwilson76
      @ryanwilson76 2 года назад

      I had the same issue with my ex. Always disappearing.

    • @myworldonline
      @myworldonline 2 года назад

      😂😂😂😂😭😂

  • @dariushbannayan
    @dariushbannayan Год назад +16

    I loved this! Thank you so much for this. So true! I’m experience it right now 💯🙏

  • @benhartart9487
    @benhartart9487 2 года назад +2

    yes she might find out the grass was not greener on the other side, if she left you once, she will probably do it again, keep working on yourself and do not have oneitis for one woman

  • @lachainedespetitscurieux5211
    @lachainedespetitscurieux5211 2 года назад +5

    You really make good contents, more people should follow you, God bless you 🙏

  • @Life_as_zilla
    @Life_as_zilla Год назад +2

    Well well well
    Look who's back with any cool life saving video ❤.. thanks 🙏 👑 queen

  • @hi-vk3pd
    @hi-vk3pd 2 года назад +5

    Thank you Jessica for another informative video. I'm still waiting on your video on love languages

  • @AnimeNewsRadio101
    @AnimeNewsRadio101 Год назад +1

    She only with me platonic relationship (she made a mistake), she would never find a guy like me whose defending her and cared about her. I might be scariest guy, but I have a good heart for her.
    I take care about my career, health and new relationship.

  • @orlandofabian5095
    @orlandofabian5095 Год назад +3

    Hi Jessica
    I’m in a similar situation now waiting for my wife to come back into the swing into things, she needed space and I gave her the space but I see some changes in her and I’m praying 🙏🏽 to god she does I love her so much ❤️love your videos

    • @iloveamerica4891
      @iloveamerica4891 Год назад

      You have to juggle at least 3 women at the same time -- till you find that one good woman that is a keeper. Only when keeper asks you to be excusive you stop seeing others ok ? now Keep HER laughing, not you laughing, for the rest of HER life. Take stand up comedy classes. Keep learning. You are searching for that one keeper.

  • @delroysibelo6228
    @delroysibelo6228 10 месяцев назад +1

    She dumped me 2 weeks ago .didnt even respond to my happy new year message .
    Made it clear she's lost feelings for me and told me it's easier to be single .relationships are too much work

  • @Michael-ye4in
    @Michael-ye4in 2 года назад +16

    Much love and respect. I'm new to your channel and I like it. You've helped me a lot 😉 in the last 3 weeks.

  • @frimpongmaahannah9638
    @frimpongmaahannah9638 Год назад +2

    He maltreated me, abuse me emotionally and psychologically...I blocked him from reaching me, I'm never going back.

  • @jollybirdagunga1507
    @jollybirdagunga1507 2 года назад +3

    Okey let an ex be an ex cause she/he will just waste your time for no reason since you know each others weakness so nothing good can come out of it.......it is something have experienced so say NO to your ex and if possible cut off any form connection with each other plz.

  • @agostinhomaiadossantos9018
    @agostinhomaiadossantos9018 Год назад +1

    I love watching this so much, what you're saying is l've faced all of it.
    I mean the "signs of coming back after pulling away."

  • @nelsonotinel1346
    @nelsonotinel1346 2 года назад +10

    I love your content. It's logic. What I want you to explain to me is "What does it mean when she don't say "I love you", but is always there for me and respects me."

    • @Zombie101
      @Zombie101 Месяц назад

      @nelsonotinel1346 it means she moved on emotionally. Guessing you worked thst out now though since your comment was 2 years ago

  • @MortenChristensen-tt8up
    @MortenChristensen-tt8up Год назад +2

    A woman only pull back if she has someone else in her life, she is not into you, or she is playing mind games to see how much she can get away with.
    Any other good reasons? I can’t think of any…

  • @davidbell2134
    @davidbell2134 2 года назад +3

    Number 10. She asks you if you guys can get back together. ..that's also a sign that she wants you back....

  • @adeisinta5965
    @adeisinta5965 Год назад +1

    She never misses the mark always on point

  • @nebyusamuel7858
    @nebyusamuel7858 8 месяцев назад +1

    honestly, i dont even care if she comes back any more. im good. in fact, i hope she never comes back cause i fear it will disturb my re obtained peace of mind. its just so precious to me.

  • @beatriceesifitson3119
    @beatriceesifitson3119 2 года назад +5

    No need
    Move on no matter the situation

  • @mariotriplett9541
    @mariotriplett9541 2 года назад +1

    this really HELPED ME! I will be patient and not persue her I'll wait for her.

  • @roughroadrunner88
    @roughroadrunner88 2 года назад +3

    I met a girl recently, we only went out 2 straight days,no expectations, just getting to know. I don't know why but I became vulnerable with her and enjoyed the very short time we had. Then ghosted me after I introduced her to a former celebrity model to help her career in modeling. In short, she used me, without me noticing at first the signs that she was not sincere or just playing/using me. I know it was a short time but the ghosting really hurt, you know the feeling when you get scammed, that's the feeling. I'm already experienced with dating girls but sometimes without noticing I let my guard down. it sucks that it may happen again. It is what it is, I can't imagine the mental pain and suffering of the victims of ghosting when they were in a relationship for nth years. thank you for letting me vent out here. We all need to be loved but stay sharp peeps. If ever she tries to even communicate or if we bump on each other in the future, she deserves no reply or attention from me.

    • @MartinSerdar
      @MartinSerdar 2 года назад +1

      2 days bro, forgetting should be a no-brainer.

    • @roughroadrunner88
      @roughroadrunner88 2 года назад +1

      @@MartinSerdar ikr. i guess you havent digested my comment bro.

    • @MartinSerdar
      @MartinSerdar 2 года назад +1

      @@roughroadrunner88 I just wanted to encourage you. Maybe I didn't get what you want to convey, sorry then :)

    • @roughroadrunner88
      @roughroadrunner88 2 года назад +1

      @@MartinSerdar oh, understandable. Have a good day Sir.

  • @KelvinRomeo-h6x
    @KelvinRomeo-h6x 2 месяца назад

    I've been blessed by teachings,depth and insight.God bless you for choosing "purpose".

  • @tshepangdavid6324
    @tshepangdavid6324 2 года назад +13

    You always talk to my heart

  • @almakhzuumirashid6937
    @almakhzuumirashid6937 Год назад +1

    I was going to lose 😢 interest I will make up to her❤ When I saw your RUclips channel Thank you Advice for your benefit ❤

  • @odinakaeke3480
    @odinakaeke3480 2 года назад +13

    I don't think it's a great idea to let a woman who left come back. You were an option not the option. Once she sees someone else again, she ll fly out especially the flirty ones

  • @Divinebharat
    @Divinebharat 11 месяцев назад +1

    Lots of love From INDIA- MUMBAI.

  • @allankarabo4978
    @allankarabo4978 2 года назад +6

    My goodness, you are so on point 😁🙏... I relate so much here..!

  • @mutumadaniel5946
    @mutumadaniel5946 2 года назад +2

    Something with the camera settings... Adjust your lighting. Great Content👍👍

  • @chiboymacleanokey7816
    @chiboymacleanokey7816 Год назад +2

    you're an expert on this relationship topics. Thank you for taking the time to educate 🌸