Ladies please don’t underestimate us men. We can be the best for you but if you don’t value our actions I guarantee you we will eventually leave in silence and never return. Please don’t play games.
yeah no thanks, when she leaves, finds another guy, screws around and then comes crawling back because the other guy treated her like utter rubbish. decisions have consequences, she wants to leave then she must leave
Alright. An old family friend told me when I was a young man, she said: “Woman shop. Men invest.” “Men take longer to get over it, but when they do, they’re really over it.” Thanks aunt Joyce. 😎
I like that my pops told me when i moved out of Atlanta into rural West Ga. I was having relationship problems in my new area and he said “ son, you dont go to the country store to buy city gear
That only applies if she really did care for you at the beginning that's the important factor, because if she doesn't she won't be back as simple. The famous saying is if a woman leaves you for herself and finds peace she will never return.
She came back after all, but i had already lost interest after one year of her unexpected pulling away , so i put barriers between us and am happy back living my life alone.
1. She brings up how happy you two were together 2. She starts showing her emotions again 3. She becomes apologetic about the past 4. She wants to have serious conversations all of a sudden 5. You start seeing her old loyal gestures 6. She starts having miss you moments 7. You see the sparkle in her eye again 8. She becomes friends on social media again 9. She stopped avoiding you
Her friends might have given the chance to fix the feelings between her and I. Her friends questioned what happened between her and I since she told them about something but they weren’t sure of the entire story. I then proceeded to tell them the story from my end which they then told me her story that her friend broke her heart with a guy as I said to them that fucked up as they agreed and that she said or smthn that I could’ve treated her better.
Sooo, how long will it be before she leaves you again? Hint: You already proved to her that she can casually walk in and out of your relationship, so I am guessing she will leave sooner this next time. Yes, there WILL be a next time.
My dear, please what of she asking what really went wrong with our relationship.. She ask me to outline those faults and get back to her so that we could discuss it together. Is it necessary telling her past or just dwell on the surface, cos I just don't know she will take it when I start to pour every section of her faults to her. ..this morning she did send me a video of herself , singing a v. I. P song , ur boyfriend no dey do u we'll... Away. Just confused. Need ur advice.
Despite her advice, DO NOT make it your responsibility to 'suggest a comeback ' - that's weak as f***. If she wants a second chance, then the effort and responsibility is up to HER. SHE has to win you back, and if she doesn't make the effort, and tries to make YOU do si, then she is TESTING you for weakness, and if you make the mistake of trying to set something up, she'll simply ghost your ass.
Am a Male ., and from my issues she came back begging and crying bitterly she’s ready to work things out cause she’d realize her mistakes but unfortunately I declined her and told her I can’t forget what she did but mind you reason why I declined her is because I don’t trust her or to say don’t know weather that part of her is gone truly., been a week now I make that decision and she didn’t contact me again from that day ., but I still love her so my QUESTION is should I make the move or wait until she does ..??
If you love her and decide that there is something to continue. Make sure the respect is intact first. Then you have to set hard boundaries and show her that you’re not scared to let her go again. Set your rules. Be a fucking man, let her know that you are a fucking man.
I had this experience with a girl, she ghosted me but I’m ngl, it was my fault. She came back after 6 months but I never let her in again. If someone leaves my life with no explanation/ghosting, I treat them as such. A Ghost..Dead!!
Problem is that women often take the good men for granted. They chase the ones that they think the grass would be greener on the other side. They find out that it’s just dirt and mud. Spin back around and look for the men they left in the cold. So u gotta be cold also and leave them to streets.
Yeah my ex gf once came back to me after she delusionally thought she deserves better. I told her: if you really love me tattoo my name then. She did it and i dumped her LMAO
Hey Jessica, thank you for your kind words and giving hope for a hopeless man that probably lost his love of his life but still believe there is a chance
I learned from another coach if u want her back & she reaches out, be cool & calm. Stick to how she reaches out. Be polite, & Stay on topic. If she says I want to get back together, tell her your open to that, let's take it one day at a time. Let me know if u want to MEET & have coffee, Let me know when your available. Make it like a Business meeting Don't get all excited OH Baby I miss & Love you. She maybe just seeing How easy it will be to come back.
Just walked away from a 9 year relationship, because my efforts where never enough. 2 kids and all I accepted them as my own, finally got tired of it, and God sent me my Angel.
I had a beautiful lady do this to me, as soon as I told her I was no longer interested based on all her efforts to push me away. It was like night and day, she immediately changed back to wanting to be with me. Unfortunately, I meant what I said, I was no longer interested. I ended up feeling sad because I could only remember how much I wanted her attention before, now she was pouring it on and I no longer wanted it. At the end of the day I think we'd be better off if none of these games existed, if two people who liked each other would just give it a try and see where it goes.
Facts. It’s too many games. What happened to a person genuinely liking someone and the other person feeling the same way. It’s always gotta be if he shows too much attention then the woman pulls away cause the guy seems needy. I mean ain’t that the point. Would t you rather have somebody that wants you unconditionally!! But instead you get pushed away for being too nice or doin too much. I will never understand women smh
Thank you Jessica, you helping thousands of men all across the world. I highly recommend any of her subscriber's to schedule a one on one call, she helped change my life!
We are all humans after all and everybody can make mistakes. Sometimes is a good idea, and beautiful, to give another opportunity to the relationship. But If you have been dumped, and you have tried everything, you should not make the first step to reach out.
There’s a lot of negative comments on here people are capable of changing and no not all exes have it out for you I recently lost a girl to my own issues and I’m trying so hard not to change just for her but most importantly for myself I do love her and would give anything to have another chance I feel regret what I did
Hello everyone, Thank you Jessica for this video. Male, 27. Me and my ex broke up around 3 months ago. 7 months together. Things where going great then I started getting more jealous and silly things and I was literally losing myself. Prior I’ve been cheated on so I was getting these intrusive thoughts and started casting those upon my gf at the time. It wasn’t fair for her at all and anyways. We are starting to talk again. I really see something in this person, a future, a marriage and children. Hopefully everything works out. But for anyone out there going through a heartbreak or dealing with jealously or “assuming” something is going on (is she cheating on me, is he cheating on me etc) a counselor once told me, “you can try to stop a bird as many times for it not to go back to its nest, but if it really wants to go back to the nest it will.” I know it sounds simple and silly but the moral of the story is you have to have trust and not try to control everything that you can’t. If someone’s going to cheat on you. Then they weren’t meant to be in your life.
You have to juggle at least 3 women at the same time -- till you find that one good woman that is a keeper. Only when keeper asks you to be excusive you stop seeing others ok ? now Keep HER laughing, not you laughing, for the rest of HER life. Take stand up comedy classes. Keep learning. You are searching for that one keeper.
Everything is fine ,but we should think twice to bring her back or either side , because the times we are leaving in are dangerous , there are STIs ,AIds and so many diseases,you might end up getting sick ,so better alone , unless she was herself when she left ,never cheated due to emotions you know what I mean .
Insightful video. Any relationship that isn’t based on mutual respect, trust and efforts is not worth pursuing. Protect your peace and find someone who is honest, matured and respectful.
I honestly think you know exactly what you're talking about, you are my therapist. I see everything you say in your videos. The day I get my wife back I will never do anything in this world to make her sad ever again.
@@ryanshivram9496 on god. I miss my girl bruh. Sometimes y'all not seeing eye to eye and shit happens. Ion wanna hurt her ever again tho. These comments are toxic as fuck
I’m in the same boat. I love and really miss my wife I’ve been hoping and praying for another chance to be the man I should’ve been from jump. I’ve made my mistakes and damn sure learned from them. I just want the one it all makes sense with.
Very nice video. Personally I always say once you make a resolute decision to break-off a relationship chances are that you have very valid reasons to do so, so stick to that, don't look back & move forward. Love you Jess but these tips work well in 'half-assed' break-ups which are more like 'breaks' where a partner(s) may have the opportunity to gauge if resumption is worthwhile.
Abuse happens when you accept someone who left you. Lots can happen in a day, so it's she leaves let her go. In future she'll remind or threatened you about leaving again.
Thank you so much for this video I helped me a lot. I'm a married Christian man and it is a good feeling to find a channel like yours that doesn't use profanity while reaching so many people from different walks of life thank you so much
Women are completely insane, they don't know what they want, most of them act according to their emotions and don't value the time and the good experiencies we have had together, that's an absolute tragedy.
Ghosting in a relationship is by far one of the most disrespectful & childish things one could do to you… It’s like that person just died. One day they just vanish and refuse to communicate .. That is foul on every level & to me the ultimate betrayal. It’s right up there with someone You love faking their own death...
I’m know it’s cruel but sometimes it has to be done my ex said she wanted to get back together and for the last month I’ve been chasing her and am exhausted because don’t feel I’m getting the same back from her and she can sometimes take 15hrs to respond to a message from me and honestly I’ve told her it feels like she doesn’t care and instead of seeing it from my perspective she got angry at me and I feels she’s treating me bad so for some days I’m just not going to pay attention to my phone and just not stress about it all and if this kicks her into start trying then it’s worth it
I’m really getting the feeling that she doesn’t even believe this mess. With some women when they say it’s over it’s over no second guessing no matter how good you were. I think the best route is to move on without expecting her to come back. I’m in this situation now I just want the soul ties to go away I just want to get back on with my life. I want her out my head I want her evicted from my thoughts.
That's right. Never have expectations of her coming back. Occupy that vacuum wiry the things that you love to do to get productive. Don't be idle. If possible, delete her contact and keep away from her social media space. It could trigger ypu up.. she's going through same. But focus on yourself.
Jessica I wish u were my elder sister. My elder sister changed after she moved out of the 'nest'. Now I don't know who to look up to. U hv been helping. You are now one of my heros while I remain single at a critical age. 😢. Some ladies a are difficult, impossible or tribal n fraternity-like but Ur advice helps much n are good. Thank u, auntie. From Nigeria with massive respect n love for Ghana. (Ghana is one reason I shall be rooting for Africa in the forthcoming world cup, auntie).
My qtn why would a woman you left to take care of business and family of two daughters cut off communication with out saying or informing me anything yet every month I send money to them and paying school fees. But she is ever online chatting with others. I need help why she's doing that?? And how to deal with her when she ignores me????
Two years? Jeez, I hope she doesn't go back because they usually don't come back for you but for themselves because they couldn't find better, the least opportunity she thinks she can, she will be gone
Hallelujah my beautiful woman came back. she got upset I talked to her dad she told me not to -- after 2 years. I stayed in my man frame even when I was hurting inside. she found out a month ago Im seeing another girl. no woman orders me, she admitted her mistake. God bless everyone.
Ngl sometimes stuff be wrong timing like it’s better to separate for a period of time to grow than ruin something good entirely especially if that’s what you know you want and who you want . You gotta respect it especially if it’s done right and you see the growth in each other sometimes separation makes shit stronger
Jessica I love your channel. This episode is for those guys that never wanted the relationship to end though. Guys that kept hoping to get back with their ladies. With some guys the minute you leave its over.. the guys moves on to someone else.
You are absolutely right with all the signs. I am currently experiencing these with my ex but I am a bit skeptical about her because I felt she wanted to come back because she couldn't find a better person out there and she sees some changes in me. No she is desperate to come back to I don't think I will allow her back in my life.
The best thing to do is say" That'll work.Thank you very much." Go work on being a better you and MOVE ON. Put your work in fellas. Watch how the tide turns.
@eotcitizen It happening to me right know i can feel from her that she is attached more and she also came back but i am pretty sure that the reason why she came back was that she was excercising her options because she is not that experiance i can tell. She relised that other man are jerks and dont really have emotional connection with her. I would say yes take her back but dont be that easy let her invest into you. I understand that blah blah blah she left me NEVER COME BACK because I am alfa blah blah if the attachment is on both sides and she invest into you she probably learned her lesson if she came back and do nothing she is using you as a rebound. Final answer: TAKE HER BACK DONT OVER INVEST, LET HER INVEST INTO YOU BUT BE INTERESTED IF SHE LEAVES ONCE AGAIN SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS IF SHE STAY ATTACHED TO YOU ITS A TRUE LOVE BECAUSE: If you love them set them free and if they come back they are all yours. If they dont it wouldnt never meant to be.
Yh she showed all these signs in the past few months..unfortunately for her, had already lost interest. One thing ladies and gals gotta note is the fact that it's not guaranteed the Guy gonna be there always after distancing herself and trying to come back. Feelings at times do expire based on experiences so they better learn to cherish the moments and be positive if they feel the Gs
@@darriuscampbell4404 just move on King. Women will come back because the other side not greener. Do yourself a favor a find new women friends, don’t rush a relationship because you are hurt just go with the flow!
😢unfortunately were on LDR, things are way out of control. I dont want anything else but to get rid of the very pain inside me that slowly consuming me. She does not care of me anymore
None of these things, but we were never together and for a bunch of these things you have to be quite close anyway, at least see one another from time to time. Well, maybe not enough time has passed yet. Hopefully one day we can be okay again, even if it’s just as friends (I know more than that isn’t gotta happen).
yes she might find out the grass was not greener on the other side, if she left you once, she will probably do it again, keep working on yourself and do not have oneitis for one woman
She only with me platonic relationship (she made a mistake), she would never find a guy like me whose defending her and cared about her. I might be scariest guy, but I have a good heart for her. I take care about my career, health and new relationship.
Hi Jessica I’m in a similar situation now waiting for my wife to come back into the swing into things, she needed space and I gave her the space but I see some changes in her and I’m praying 🙏🏽 to god she does I love her so much ❤️love your videos
You have to juggle at least 3 women at the same time -- till you find that one good woman that is a keeper. Only when keeper asks you to be excusive you stop seeing others ok ? now Keep HER laughing, not you laughing, for the rest of HER life. Take stand up comedy classes. Keep learning. You are searching for that one keeper.
She dumped me 2 weeks ago .didnt even respond to my happy new year message . Made it clear she's lost feelings for me and told me it's easier to be single .relationships are too much work
Okey let an ex be an ex cause she/he will just waste your time for no reason since you know each others weakness so nothing good can come out of it.......it is something have experienced so say NO to your ex and if possible cut off any form connection with each other plz.
I love your content. It's logic. What I want you to explain to me is "What does it mean when she don't say "I love you", but is always there for me and respects me."
A woman only pull back if she has someone else in her life, she is not into you, or she is playing mind games to see how much she can get away with. Any other good reasons? I can’t think of any…
honestly, i dont even care if she comes back any more. im good. in fact, i hope she never comes back cause i fear it will disturb my re obtained peace of mind. its just so precious to me.
I met a girl recently, we only went out 2 straight days,no expectations, just getting to know. I don't know why but I became vulnerable with her and enjoyed the very short time we had. Then ghosted me after I introduced her to a former celebrity model to help her career in modeling. In short, she used me, without me noticing at first the signs that she was not sincere or just playing/using me. I know it was a short time but the ghosting really hurt, you know the feeling when you get scammed, that's the feeling. I'm already experienced with dating girls but sometimes without noticing I let my guard down. it sucks that it may happen again. It is what it is, I can't imagine the mental pain and suffering of the victims of ghosting when they were in a relationship for nth years. thank you for letting me vent out here. We all need to be loved but stay sharp peeps. If ever she tries to even communicate or if we bump on each other in the future, she deserves no reply or attention from me.
I don't think it's a great idea to let a woman who left come back. You were an option not the option. Once she sees someone else again, she ll fly out especially the flirty ones
Ladies please don’t underestimate us men. We can be the best for you but if you don’t value our actions I guarantee you we will eventually leave in silence and never return. Please don’t play games.
Tell them bro
1000%
Absolutely. There are millions of women out there, why mess with one that doesn’t appreciate you?
@@BENNIJERROD I feel you bro I been there recently it’s gone hurt a lot but it’s better to leave don’t let her keep disrespecting you
Tell them bro
yeah no thanks, when she leaves, finds another guy, screws around and then comes crawling back because the other guy treated her like utter rubbish. decisions have consequences, she wants to leave then she must leave
Alright. An old family friend told me when I was a young man, she said:
“Woman shop. Men invest.”
“Men take longer to get over it, but when they do, they’re really over it.”
Thanks aunt Joyce. 😎
Damn that's deep!
Fact
Gotta love aunt Joyce.
I like that my pops told me when i moved out of Atlanta into rural West Ga. I was having relationship problems in my new area and he said “ son, you dont go to the country store to buy city gear
That only applies if she really did care for you at the beginning that's the important factor, because if she doesn't she won't be back as simple. The famous saying is if a woman leaves you for herself and finds peace she will never return.
She came back after all, but i had already lost interest after one year of her unexpected pulling away , so i put barriers between us and am happy back living my life alone.
One year is to much God only knew what He or she was doing in that year
Same here!
Same here it's exactly 4months now but I refuse
Best thing to do
@@leondreamer3361 she didn't find someone better i think. Probably she went into another relationship and she was let down.
Who else watches these videos just to make themselves feel better even though they know this is most likely the end 😢
Me :/
Me
@@trollbay2605 it really hurts :/
@@trollbay2605 me smh can’t believe I’m here after 6 years
I think it only stings because you kind of feel dumb for missing the signals that she never cared about/loved you as much as you did for her.
Never let a woman who left come back!! Move on!
I can't entertain stupidity..go a go as if you'll never go again..and if possible assume you've never seen that little brained creature
Very correct my bro
Fact 👍🏾
@@larrysmith1102 Yep, she will only be back to Finish you Off or she thought there was better!!
Amen!
1. She brings up how happy you two were together
2. She starts showing her emotions again
3. She becomes apologetic about the past
4. She wants to have serious conversations all of a sudden
5. You start seeing her old loyal gestures
6. She starts having miss you moments
7. You see the sparkle in her eye again
8. She becomes friends on social media again
9. She stopped avoiding you
Already too late. Reason why she’s doing that is because the other or other options failed.
You’re her back up of backup .
No doubt
Her friends might have given the chance to fix the feelings between her and I. Her friends questioned what happened between her and I since she told them about something but they weren’t sure of the entire story. I then proceeded to tell them the story from my end which they then told me her story that her friend broke her heart with a guy as I said to them that fucked up as they agreed and that she said or smthn that I could’ve treated her better.
You plan C lol
Sooo, how long will it be before she leaves you again? Hint: You already proved to her that she can casually walk in and out of your relationship, so I am guessing she will leave sooner this next time. Yes, there WILL be a next time.
Some comeback are dangerous be cautious because she might come back to finish you off.
absolutely. some women are damn near evil to love bomb you then completely ghost you or use you financially temporarily
Exactly
😊😇🙂
PREACH.
Amen not everyone wants what’s best for you build your empire up she comes back for war and revenge be careful
I don’t think I’ll ever give a woman a second chance after walking away. I’m above 30yrs now.
Really....
My dear, please what of she asking what really went wrong with our relationship.. She ask me to outline those faults and get back to her so that we could discuss it together. Is it necessary telling her past or just dwell on the surface, cos I just don't know she will take it when I start to pour every section of her faults to her. ..this morning she did send me a video of herself , singing a v. I. P song , ur boyfriend no dey do u we'll... Away. Just confused. Need ur advice.
Why you here?
@@OtiBoateng-pf4pk
@@OtiBoateng-pf4pk she dey craze dawg am
Despite her advice, DO NOT make it your responsibility to 'suggest a comeback ' - that's weak as f***. If she wants a second chance, then the effort and responsibility is up to HER. SHE has to win you back, and if she doesn't make the effort, and tries to make YOU do si, then she is TESTING you for weakness, and if you make the mistake of trying to set something up, she'll simply ghost your ass.
Very true
Am a Male ., and from my issues she came back begging and crying bitterly she’s ready to work things out cause she’d realize her mistakes but unfortunately I declined her and told her I can’t forget what she did but mind you reason why I declined her is because I don’t trust her or to say don’t know weather that part of her is gone truly., been a week now I make that decision and she didn’t contact me again from that day ., but I still love her so my QUESTION is should I make the move or wait until she does ..??
If you love her and decide that there is something to continue. Make sure the respect is intact first. Then you have to set hard boundaries and show her that you’re not scared to let her go again. Set your rules. Be a fucking man, let her know that you are a fucking man.
@@shayladiawu7076 are women scarce in your city
I love this man👍
One difficulty I faced in relationship is accepting my ex into my life. Once you left , there's no room in my heart to accommodate her
This is me
IF YOU ARE BITTER THEN CHOOSE THAT
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST NOW
Some ex are really rare truly
Hello dear
I had this experience with a girl, she ghosted me but I’m ngl, it was my fault. She came back after 6 months but I never let her in again. If someone leaves my life with no explanation/ghosting, I treat them as such. A Ghost..Dead!!
Respectfully, this is ego talking.
Problem is that women often take the good men for granted. They chase the ones that they think the grass would be greener on the other side. They find out that it’s just dirt and mud. Spin back around and look for the men they left in the cold. So u gotta be cold also and leave them to streets.
Yeah my ex gf once came back to me after she delusionally thought she deserves better.
I told her: if you really love me tattoo my name then.
She did it and i dumped her LMAO
@@mrbullmrbull 😂😂😂
Sure bro I think think we All the same
That is true
GRASS AIN’T GREENER!!!!
Hey Jessica, thank you for your kind words and giving hope for a hopeless man that probably lost his love of his life but still believe there is a chance
Well make sure you work on yourself so she won't find you same way she left you💯👌
King right on
@@jonny1296 yeah
Good to work on yourself but it's sad that you want to be better for the same person that left you. 🤦🏾
@@kingkash4869 very sad but it happens at times so if it'll,,,, you gotta be better
Excellent point that needs a thumbs up 👍
I learned from another coach if u want her back & she reaches out, be cool & calm. Stick to how she reaches out. Be polite, & Stay on topic.
If she says I want to get back together, tell her your open to that, let's take it one day at a time. Let me know if u want to MEET & have coffee, Let me know when your available. Make it like a Business meeting
Don't get all excited OH Baby I miss & Love you. She maybe just seeing How easy it will be to come back.
Just walked away from a 9 year relationship, because my efforts where never enough. 2 kids and all I accepted them as my own, finally got tired of it, and God sent me my Angel.
I had a beautiful lady do this to me, as soon as I told her I was no longer interested based on all her efforts to push me away. It was like night and day, she immediately changed back to wanting to be with me. Unfortunately, I meant what I said, I was no longer interested. I ended up feeling sad because I could only remember how much I wanted her attention before, now she was pouring it on and I no longer wanted it. At the end of the day I think we'd be better off if none of these games existed, if two people who liked each other would just give it a try and see where it goes.
Exactly! Games only ladies are interested in playing. Being hostile to the very person they're interested in..
@@dearmejoel Atell you bruh
Yeah I hate the games. I was trying to play fair at first and I ended up being the victim.
I agree 💯 why waste time 🍾
Facts. It’s too many games. What happened to a person genuinely liking someone and the other person feeling the same way. It’s always gotta be if he shows too much attention then the woman pulls away cause the guy seems needy. I mean ain’t that the point. Would t you rather have somebody that wants you unconditionally!! But instead you get pushed away for being too nice or doin too much. I will never understand women smh
"Don't let love cloud your judgement" 💯💯💯
GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AND LET THAT IN YOUR LIFE
@@freddiestranger9783 Amen Jesus come into my life in Jesus Name Amen!!!
@@freddiestranger9783 that's even worse 🤣
@@AngryBilleh ITS WORSE FOR THOSE IN HELL WHO REJECTED THE TRUTH 🤦🤦🤦 GIVE YOUR LIFE TO THE LORD 🙏 JESUS CHRIST TODAY 🙏
@@freddiestranger9783 can you first prove that any of it exists?
I've never taken a woman back who dumped me. It's called self respect. If she was unsure the 1st time. She's still unsure.
I hope she doesn’t come back to be totally honest. I like being free and doing whatever I want whenever I want.
Thank you Jessica, you helping thousands of men all across the world. I highly recommend any of her subscriber's to schedule a one on one call, she helped change my life!
Awwww
How do we call jessica pls?
Do not fall in love with the face and body. Fall in love with the spirit, heart and characte!r.💯💑🇳🇬
We are all humans after all and everybody can make mistakes. Sometimes is a good idea, and beautiful, to give another opportunity to the relationship. But If you have been dumped, and you have tried everything, you should not make the first step to reach out.
There’s a lot of negative comments on here people are capable of changing and no not all exes have it out for you I recently lost a girl to my own issues and I’m trying so hard not to change just for her but most importantly for myself I do love her and would give anything to have another chance I feel regret what I did
Hello everyone, Thank you Jessica for this video. Male, 27. Me and my ex broke up around 3 months ago. 7 months together. Things where going great then I started getting more jealous and silly things and I was literally losing myself. Prior I’ve been cheated on so I was getting these intrusive thoughts and started casting those upon my gf at the time. It wasn’t fair for her at all and anyways. We are starting to talk again. I really see something in this person, a future, a marriage and children. Hopefully everything works out. But for anyone out there going through a heartbreak or dealing with jealously or “assuming” something is going on (is she cheating on me, is he cheating on me etc) a counselor once told me, “you can try to stop a bird as many times for it not to go back to its nest, but if it really wants to go back to the nest it will.” I know it sounds simple and silly but the moral of the story is you have to have trust and not try to control everything that you can’t. If someone’s going to cheat on you. Then they weren’t meant to be in your life.
You have to juggle at least 3 women at the same time -- till you find that one good woman that is a keeper. Only when keeper asks you to be excusive you stop seeing others ok ? now Keep HER laughing, not you laughing, for the rest of HER life. Take stand up comedy classes. Keep learning. You are searching for that one keeper.
“One day you will realize no one is good enough, and you’ll realize he was.”
I will welcome her back but she will need to earn my love and loyalty. I will not give it out so easily. Let her work for it to earn it..
@@pascalik3240 how is it?
She came back , but I feel like only money matter to her ! It's never enough.
That's a red flag, pal. She's a parasite & a sycophant
Everything is fine ,but we should think twice to bring her back or either side , because the times we are leaving in are dangerous , there are STIs ,AIds and so many diseases,you might end up getting sick ,so better alone , unless she was herself when she left ,never cheated due to emotions you know what I mean .
Lol, what a coincidence that this was in my recommendations after getting rejected but still friendzoned. RUclips actually doing something right
Insightful video. Any relationship that isn’t based on mutual respect, trust and efforts is not worth pursuing. Protect your peace and find someone who is honest, matured and respectful.
I honestly think you know exactly what you're talking about, you are my therapist. I see everything you say in your videos. The day I get my wife back I will never do anything in this world to make her sad ever again.
This is the realest comment I seen everybody acting like they never ever want their wife/gf back… people gotta stop lying to theirselves
@@ryanshivram9496 on god. I miss my girl bruh. Sometimes y'all not seeing eye to eye and shit happens. Ion wanna hurt her ever again tho. These comments are toxic as fuck
@@michaelrandall09 on some real shit I’m on the same track as you bro after all them years imma be lying to myself talking about I don’t miss her
I’m in the same boat. I love and really miss my wife I’ve been hoping and praying for another chance to be the man I should’ve been from jump. I’ve made my mistakes and damn sure learned from them. I just want the one it all makes sense with.
@@darryljohnsonjr5955 love bro. You'll get your shorty back. She came back full force. That was 12 days ago. A lot changes. Praying for you my brother
Very nice video. Personally I always say once you make a resolute decision to break-off a relationship chances are that you have very valid reasons to do so, so stick to that, don't look back & move forward. Love you Jess but these tips work well in 'half-assed' break-ups which are more like 'breaks' where a partner(s) may have the opportunity to gauge if resumption is worthwhile.
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Yep...If anyone is here watching videos like these, then likely they are in half assed long distance relationships.
Abuse happens when you accept someone who left you. Lots can happen in a day, so it's she leaves let her go. In future she'll remind or threatened you about leaving again.
Thank you so much for this video I helped me a lot. I'm a married Christian man and it is a good feeling to find a channel like yours that doesn't use profanity while reaching so many people from different walks of life thank you so much
Women are completely insane, they don't know what they want, most of them act according to their emotions and don't value the time and the good experiencies we have had together, that's an absolute tragedy.
You just narrated my current situationship in just 12 minutes 😪.. thank you for the advice.
Don’t worry I know someone who can help you out
Ghosting in a relationship is by far one of the most disrespectful & childish things one could do to you… It’s like that person just died. One day they just vanish and refuse to communicate .. That is foul on every level & to me the ultimate betrayal. It’s right up there with someone You love faking their own death...
I’m know it’s cruel but sometimes it has to be done my ex said she wanted to get back together and for the last month I’ve been chasing her and am exhausted because don’t feel I’m getting the same back from her and she can sometimes take 15hrs to respond to a message from me and honestly I’ve told her it feels like she doesn’t care and instead of seeing it from my perspective she got angry at me and I feels she’s treating me bad so for some days I’m just not going to pay attention to my phone and just not stress about it all and if this kicks her into start trying then it’s worth it
This may mean you're taking relationships too seriously. This was one of the greatest things learned from participating in sports
@@jmdyt3626hope you realised you were being played. She wasn’t interested in you
@@RevealedFilms I do now yes
I’m really getting the feeling that she doesn’t even believe this mess. With some women when they say it’s over it’s over no second guessing no matter how good you were. I think the best route is to move on without expecting her to come back. I’m in this situation now I just want the soul ties to go away I just want to get back on with my life. I want her out my head I want her evicted from my thoughts.
That's right. Never have expectations of her coming back. Occupy that vacuum wiry the things that you love to do to get productive. Don't be idle. If possible, delete her contact and keep away from her social media space. It could trigger ypu up.. she's going through same. But focus on yourself.
I feel the same about a certain guy... just want 2 4get him completely. My Brain is infatuated w him. My heart been gone.
How are you now? I'm going through same thoughts and feelings and just want to forget her and move on...
I feel you bro I’m in the exact same situation I want her out of my mind. Give updates.
This the 1
Jessica I wish u were my elder sister. My elder sister changed after she moved out of the 'nest'. Now I don't know who to look up to. U hv been helping. You are now one of my heros while I remain single at a critical age. 😢. Some ladies a are difficult, impossible or tribal n fraternity-like but Ur advice helps much n are good. Thank u, auntie.
From Nigeria with massive respect n love for Ghana. (Ghana is one reason I shall be rooting for Africa in the forthcoming world cup, auntie).
Don't let love cloud your judgement 🤔
Thank you so much you're cherished Jessy
My qtn why would a woman you left to take care of business and family of two daughters cut off communication with out saying or informing me anything yet every month I send money to them and paying school fees. But she is ever online chatting with others. I need help why she's doing that?? And how to deal with her when she ignores me????
That right
But I have a brief meditation
@@mikelmikel3310 I think you need to work on your communication with the woman only then you can know why she's ignoring you
Great content Jess. I almost lost the love of my life but thank God she's back after almost two years. Everything you're saying is true for our case
How long y'all together now
How did you do it though? Cause for me it seems impossible right now🤦🏽♂️
She came back because she didn't find someone better.
Two years? Jeez, I hope she doesn't go back because they usually don't come back for you but for themselves because they couldn't find better, the least opportunity she thinks she can, she will be gone
Hallelujah my beautiful woman came back.
she got upset I talked to her dad she told me not to -- after 2 years.
I stayed in my man frame even when I was hurting inside.
she found out a month ago Im seeing another girl.
no woman orders me, she admitted her mistake.
God bless everyone.
Ngl sometimes stuff be wrong timing like it’s better to separate for a period of time to grow than ruin something good entirely especially if that’s what you know you want and who you want . You gotta respect it especially if it’s done right and you see the growth in each other sometimes separation makes shit stronger
My favorite female is back on my screen. I love you Jess 🤍
There’s No Need Of Wanting Them Back Once They Have Lost You!
Jessica I love your channel. This episode is for those guys that never wanted the relationship to end though. Guys that kept hoping to get back with their ladies. With some guys the minute you leave its over.. the guys moves on to someone else.
You are absolutely right with all the signs. I am currently experiencing these with my ex but I am a bit skeptical about her because I felt she wanted to come back because she couldn't find a better person out there and she sees some changes in me. No she is desperate to come back to I don't think I will allow her back in my life.
Don’t allow her bro, there are millions of girls out there..
Don't
Lock your door sir, don’t let her come in
Am heartbroken. Both Your videos and time are healing me.
Great job your doing about bringing us out of our own jails
I am proud of myself for subscribing into this channel. Thanks Jessica.
Steve from Kenya
The best thing to do is say" That'll work.Thank you very much." Go work on being a better you and MOVE ON. Put your work in fellas.
Watch how the tide turns.
Once she leaves NEVER take her back!
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@eotcitizen It happening to me right know i can feel from her that she is attached more and she also came back but i am pretty sure that the reason why she came back was that she was excercising her options because she is not that experiance i can tell. She relised that other man are jerks and dont really have emotional connection with her. I would say yes take her back but dont be that easy let her invest into you. I understand that blah blah blah she left me NEVER COME BACK because I am alfa blah blah if the attachment is on both sides and she invest into you she probably learned her lesson if she came back and do nothing she is using you as a rebound. Final answer: TAKE HER BACK DONT OVER INVEST, LET HER INVEST INTO YOU BUT BE INTERESTED IF SHE LEAVES ONCE AGAIN SHE BELONGS TO THE STREETS IF SHE STAY ATTACHED TO YOU ITS A TRUE LOVE BECAUSE: If you love them set them free and if they come back they are all yours. If they dont it wouldnt never meant to be.
@eotcitizencommunication is needed you can't just disappear and when things are not working out then show up and come back,
Jessica never disappoints at all when it comes to relationships. Your information is too good and real. I watch your videos repeatedly.
Stumbled by accident on your video, you have a fantastic aura.
I've been watching this channel for years and one thing I've noticed is that some of those lessons even work in business.😂
Thank you so much Jessica. It's like your videos come to me at the right time
Jessica, I must say, "You're topnotch!"
I always leave them first and we never talk again and i never reach out unless she call me
Her videos have helped me alot in defining relationships
Yh she showed all these signs in the past few months..unfortunately for her, had already lost interest. One thing ladies and gals gotta note is the fact that it's not guaranteed the Guy gonna be there always after distancing herself and trying to come back. Feelings at times do expire based on experiences so they better learn to cherish the moments and be positive if they feel the Gs
Totally agree 💯💯💯
She did come back to me. She broke up with me. I was fully convinced that it was over. Then, love won. ❤️❤️❤️ She apologized for what she did.
How long did it take and why’d you break up if that’s okay for me to ask. I’m in that boat rn man.
@@darriuscampbell4404 just move on King. Women will come back because the other side not greener. Do yourself a favor a find new women friends, don’t rush a relationship because you are hurt just go with the flow!
Silence is powerful
You just Talked about my story, thanks for this i really appreciate
Thanks for the advise jessica this really helps me to fully understand women now.
😢unfortunately were on LDR, things are way out of control. I dont want anything else but to get rid of the very pain inside me that slowly consuming me. She does not care of me anymore
Great content shared dear,very true dear she will miss those moments 😉 😢
Of all the channels I have watched, this advice has been more accurate and insightful than any others. Thanks.
I appreciate that!
None of these things, but we were never together and for a bunch of these things you have to be quite close anyway, at least see one another from time to time. Well, maybe not enough time has passed yet. Hopefully one day we can be okay again, even if it’s just as friends (I know more than that isn’t gotta happen).
Good one.. Thanks so much for sharing ❤
You are a wise person ms jessica, i appreciate the advice you give...thank you
I wish I met your videos 2 months ago. It has been hard for me to move on. But with your videos, God has given me a way out.
Be careful about some comebacks
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She came back to ghost me again. A main reason we broke up initially.
I had the same issue with my ex. Always disappearing.
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I loved this! Thank you so much for this. So true! I’m experience it right now 💯🙏
You're so welcome!
yes she might find out the grass was not greener on the other side, if she left you once, she will probably do it again, keep working on yourself and do not have oneitis for one woman
You really make good contents, more people should follow you, God bless you 🙏
Well well well
Look who's back with any cool life saving video ❤.. thanks 🙏 👑 queen
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Thank you Jessica for another informative video. I'm still waiting on your video on love languages
She only with me platonic relationship (she made a mistake), she would never find a guy like me whose defending her and cared about her. I might be scariest guy, but I have a good heart for her.
I take care about my career, health and new relationship.
Hi Jessica
I’m in a similar situation now waiting for my wife to come back into the swing into things, she needed space and I gave her the space but I see some changes in her and I’m praying 🙏🏽 to god she does I love her so much ❤️love your videos
You have to juggle at least 3 women at the same time -- till you find that one good woman that is a keeper. Only when keeper asks you to be excusive you stop seeing others ok ? now Keep HER laughing, not you laughing, for the rest of HER life. Take stand up comedy classes. Keep learning. You are searching for that one keeper.
She dumped me 2 weeks ago .didnt even respond to my happy new year message .
Made it clear she's lost feelings for me and told me it's easier to be single .relationships are too much work
Much love and respect. I'm new to your channel and I like it. You've helped me a lot 😉 in the last 3 weeks.
Am depressed.breaking up with my boyfriend 😭
He maltreated me, abuse me emotionally and psychologically...I blocked him from reaching me, I'm never going back.
Okey let an ex be an ex cause she/he will just waste your time for no reason since you know each others weakness so nothing good can come out of it.......it is something have experienced so say NO to your ex and if possible cut off any form connection with each other plz.
I love watching this so much, what you're saying is l've faced all of it.
I mean the "signs of coming back after pulling away."
I love your content. It's logic. What I want you to explain to me is "What does it mean when she don't say "I love you", but is always there for me and respects me."
@nelsonotinel1346 it means she moved on emotionally. Guessing you worked thst out now though since your comment was 2 years ago
A woman only pull back if she has someone else in her life, she is not into you, or she is playing mind games to see how much she can get away with.
Any other good reasons? I can’t think of any…
Number 10. She asks you if you guys can get back together. ..that's also a sign that she wants you back....
She never misses the mark always on point
honestly, i dont even care if she comes back any more. im good. in fact, i hope she never comes back cause i fear it will disturb my re obtained peace of mind. its just so precious to me.
No need
Move on no matter the situation
this really HELPED ME! I will be patient and not persue her I'll wait for her.
Good luck
I met a girl recently, we only went out 2 straight days,no expectations, just getting to know. I don't know why but I became vulnerable with her and enjoyed the very short time we had. Then ghosted me after I introduced her to a former celebrity model to help her career in modeling. In short, she used me, without me noticing at first the signs that she was not sincere or just playing/using me. I know it was a short time but the ghosting really hurt, you know the feeling when you get scammed, that's the feeling. I'm already experienced with dating girls but sometimes without noticing I let my guard down. it sucks that it may happen again. It is what it is, I can't imagine the mental pain and suffering of the victims of ghosting when they were in a relationship for nth years. thank you for letting me vent out here. We all need to be loved but stay sharp peeps. If ever she tries to even communicate or if we bump on each other in the future, she deserves no reply or attention from me.
2 days bro, forgetting should be a no-brainer.
@@MartinSerdar ikr. i guess you havent digested my comment bro.
@@roughroadrunner88 I just wanted to encourage you. Maybe I didn't get what you want to convey, sorry then :)
@@MartinSerdar oh, understandable. Have a good day Sir.
I've been blessed by teachings,depth and insight.God bless you for choosing "purpose".
You always talk to my heart
I was going to lose 😢 interest I will make up to her❤ When I saw your RUclips channel Thank you Advice for your benefit ❤
I don't think it's a great idea to let a woman who left come back. You were an option not the option. Once she sees someone else again, she ll fly out especially the flirty ones
Exactly ‼️
Lots of love From INDIA- MUMBAI.
My goodness, you are so on point 😁🙏... I relate so much here..!
Something with the camera settings... Adjust your lighting. Great Content👍👍
you're an expert on this relationship topics. Thank you for taking the time to educate 🌸