My ex-girlfriend pushed back and played every game to drive me crazy. I wasn't phased at all. Then she moved to another bedroom. I went on as usual. I got her the moving boxes when she asked me to get it. She was sending me messages that she was moving out. She eventually moved out. We still dated a few times after. But when i found out, she was seeing another man, i ghosted her. Yeah, it hurt. My kids, my work and the gym occupied me too much to waste my time on grieving. My point is you need to maintain your composure no matter what and need to have the determination to walk away. And it ain't easy
I couldn't maintain my calm and composure after 1 month point of a light breakup but still seeing each other(A breakup that was not a breakup)....And...That was start of my downfall... She directly or indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally(most likely) provoked me in many ways but I was calm till exact one month...Then I lose control one day...and she got the one opportunity that I never gave her...opportunity to hate me and move on...she needed that...i gave her...I didn't want that...But it was becoming tough for me to be treated very badly.....But things got worse for me after that for me and me only...And it kept on getting worse.....On the other hand, she moved on and started seeing other boys....
Thank you for sharing your experience! It sounds like you handled a tough situation with a lot of composure and strength. Staying focused on your kids, work, and the gym was a great way to move forward. How do you think staying busy helped you maintain your determination to walk away? I’d love to hear more thoughts from others-what has helped you keep your composure in challenging relationships? Hope you have a great day!
I think the majority of girls will jump off if you do this. Especially nowadays we so many other opportunities using social media. They just don't care. I see the video as a way of you to master yourself. Her leaving when you look for your best instead of falling for immature games, is actually good for you. No matter how it might hurts. The right one will stay.
I'n crying! Dealing with narcissistic ex girlfriend for a while! Been working on myself for so long now, still I fell for her again and lost my power and control! But now I am taking my power and energy back! Thankyou to Stoicism for making men great!
Terrible and awful. We live in a capitalist hell scape where men are expected to give the most and receive the least. We’re expected to work ourselves into the ground “grinding”, pay for everything. Initiate. Plan. Provide. And we are allowed to ask for absolutely nothing in return. And get used up skanky hypergamous hoes who were rejected by the Chad they really wanted after he gave them the pump and dump. Honestly fuck this planet.
It’s not an option, I walk away. Ignoring me clearly shows that she is not interested in me, which just makes me no longer interested in her. And she only gets one chance with me, so it is over permanently.
Didn't see this on time, was chasing her , asking for a talk over the matter, but I decided to let her go as she she's she don't need me , that she fell outta love , cos I never did no wrong, I regret ever chasing her , but when am done , am done, I justified my conscience through my efforts
If you keep chasing, keep touching, keep texting when she is giving nothing back she will double down on her game until eventually she gives absolutely nothing back.
Instead of chasing after someone who’s not giving me attention, I’m going to use that time to work on myself. This video reinforced that the best way to gain control in any relationship is to control your own emotions first. Looking forward to embracing the stoic approach! 👑
I really can't express my feelings.. It really feels like god helped me to come here and watch this and help me to learn emotional control Thanks stoic Tribe❤
This video really nails the essence of self-control and emotional strength! Instead of getting caught up in someone else’s actions, we should focus on personal growth and self-worth. Powerful message for life beyond just dating. 💪✨
I needed to hear this! It’s crazy how much power we give away when we chase someone’s attention. I’ve been caught up in texting games, but now I see that the real strength lies in doing nothing and staying focused on my own journey. Stoicism for the win! 👑
Everyone has a heart and good heart person love you and understand you and will stand with u in every situation ....who has stone heart they will play with anybody ...no matter how you are hurted with his or her behaviour ....loving person always care you and trust you and live with you fully transparent .... so Don't do lol things with anyone ...always be humble ..and love who is loving you more
A highly valuable video that goes straight to the heart of modern relationships. What I realized is that it's not about following what others think; it's about mastering oneself, understanding our own nature, and from there, attraction naturally follows. This isn't just about dating-it's about becoming the best version of yourself. Thank you for this insightful and practical content!
@@behopeful1736 find something to do, we often miss those who don't care about us when we are not doing anything or not committed to what we are doing. You are important, put yourself first. ❤
I used to be that guy that buys flowers and give random gifts, over talk about nothing call and text all day. And always wonder why nothing ever got reciprocated.
When someone close becomes distant, it’s often due to personal challenges rather than mistrust. Instead of ignoring them, we should offer support and understanding. True maturity lies in being there during hard times, showing empathy, and creating a path for honest communication. We can’t ignore someone in that situation. I know some girls who might deserve that, but sometimes we need to understand a good partner. You can’t just ignore her and let her go. We are often more mature than females, so as the man, you should figure out and solve the prblm
How coincidently this video came to my life when Women who was flirting with me now ghosted. Me.. i am already going to gym to give frustrarton..this video suprised me..
Been there before, I ignored her while she was trying to cheat me then after one year she wanted pretend to be a good person than before I mean rebuild our relationship but I coudn't do that. It's a big mistake to go back in relationship with an Ex. So dangerous ⚠️⚡
I think the hard part for me was the realization that you was never the one for her. She ignored you time to time till she needs something from you or when she in a bad spot. She never wanted you, she only needed you for her own benefit. I had to accept it and it emotionally and mentally messed with me because I really liked her but reality shown otherwise. Best to accept it, learn from it, and ignore and walk away. Look out for yourself in ways you looked out for her. Be selfish and pay 0 mind. She gonna realize or may not realize what she potentially lost. It her lost. Your gain 💪
OMG! I went through the same situation! We were going so good together during our weekends together, but the moment she introduced me to her 17 year old daughter that wanted to be recognized as a boy, all hell broke loose and from that moment I always felt like I was walking on eggshells plus the fact that the kid was diagnosed artistic, I just didn’t know what to do, but I would always include him in everything we did together so that he wouldn’t feel alone or that I was taking his mom away , to make a long story short, the kid never adjusted with situations of moving in my house, and my X total me that her kid was her priority and not our relationship. So I just had to let it all go….
This is the reason why all conflicts happens in relationship. Women are always understanding, if she ignore you just go and ask her open minded why she ignore you. She will tell you the reason surely if you were genuine to her
💡THIS ☝🏽only works on a weak person. Just get busy doing things that make you happy, add value to your life INDEPENDENTLY. Another person’s ego is non of your concern💁🏽♀️. Realignment with new things are on the horizon.
I had this happen I even changed routine, so there was no chance of seeing her around. It can be upsetting. One time after a girl ghosted me I found a six week old abandoned kitten. After feeding him, and a 24 hour period we became best friends 😊
This video came to me as blessings truly helpful and can be great teacher if a man is truly good in he's self-esteem ❤ I loved it may be this came through my universe and I truly trust in my universe 💕 thanks for the person who doing this job as a good child of God thanks to my universe 🙏 thank you so much 🙏 .
A woman ignoring you doesnt always mean that! Ive noticed that if it feels natural around her you have something more. Everything feels incredibly easy to be yourself around her. Blushing when you come around, there are some amazing women out there! Just be yourself youll be fine.. .
Honestly, I'm just too busy with my own personal life mission/purpose. Either she's paying attention or she isn't. Either way, that's a reflection on her. The focus stays the same for me no matter what. Simple as that.
@@behopeful1736 I have found a place in life where I am growing into new places within rhis masculine soul autonomously all the time. By now splindid inner growth is like breathing to me. Everything starts within then goes outward from there. And mental/emotional games does nothing but get in the way. No thank you. As I said before, either she's the one or she isn't. Why distract myself with any other perspective? What good does that do?
We live in different countries with my wife. We have 2 kids. She did the same thing to me now and I was like one week gone be crazy of her behavior.But now I lerne too much from this video thanks
New Sub here. First video that popped up. This is amazing so far. Ive learnt so much from this vid and its literally basic actions that we dont even think of but definitely powerful information. Thanks Stoic❤
What I do when someone ignores me I blocked them change my number and forget about them, and focus on me and ambitions and focus people who make the effort and who appreciates respect and value me 🎉
@@Moluaa definitely blocked them change my number reason's why I've been good to these people and 1. Psychology facts 90% chance someone going to betray you will give you silent treatment 2. They don't value you 3. Disrespectful 4. Ungrateful 5. Mind games 6. Mental abuse 7. Form of bullying 8. I will block and change my number because if you just block them they will get a stranger person you don't know and use their phone to phone and text you 9. Those reasons why I blocked them change my number because I don't put up with anyone bs, and focus on me keeping distance from everyone and make effort with people who make effort with me
*When a woman ignores you, it’s important to maintain your composure. Don’t chase or overanalyze - focus on yourself and keep your confidence intact. Give her space, and if she’s genuinely interested, she’ll come back around. It’s about self-respect, not desperation.*
Im nearly on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend. We had argument yesterday night when i was calling for her while on video call, she ignored me and told me im annoying,so today we are in class at college and we both ignore each other and few mins ago i asked to talk her to me again she ignored me so im going ghost at this point. Im trying to conversate with her about our argument, but she's given me the silence treatment.
I don’t even know where to start with this. I’ve been sitting here for hours, trying to process everything, and it still feels like I’m in some kind of nightmare. My wife and I have been married for 7 years. I thought everything was fine. We had our ups and downs like any couple, but I never saw this coming. About a month ago, she told me she needed space, that she wasn’t sure about our marriage anymore. I tried to give her the space she asked for, even though it killed me inside. I thought it was just a rough patch. But today, I learned the real reason she left me… she’s in love with someone else. Not just anyone-a woman. Now, I want to be clear, that on its own isn’t the part that’s messing me up. I’m not homophobic, and I have no issue with her loving who she loves. But what she told me next? I don’t even know how to say this. She left me because this woman has a larger penis than I do. I feel like my brain’s short-circuiting just typing that out. It’s like I’m lightheaded, and I keep questioning if any of this is real. How do I even begin to process that? I can’t stop obsessing over it. I keep thinking, “Does that mean I was never enough? Am I not even a man anymore?” It’s like every part of my identity as her husband and even just as a man has been torn apart. I feel like a joke. I don’t know what I’m supposed to do from here. How do I even talk about this with anyone? I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to look at myself the same way again. I feel like I’m nothing right now. Just… nothing. If anyone’s been through something like this, I could really use some advice. I’m just lost.
Dude, that’s rough! I can’t even imagine what you’re feeling right now. Just take your time to sort things out, and don’t hesitate to talk to someone about it. You’re not a joke-you’re a person with feelings, and it’s okay to feel messed up right now.
Bro mourn your Marriage,cry and let it all out in preoccupying yourself.It will hurt at first but then you'll heal.Start to love yourself and gain back your confidence. Study,pray and enjoy life because it is too short to allowing your past to dictate your future. Stay positive and strong you got this.God got this ;)
This is what im going through, my story is straightly like this one i feel like Dr psychology sees😅😅😅me thank you for this wisdom and knowledge that you shared with me Amen!!!😊
Depends on the kind of relationship, though.. I believed a relationship between her and me was based on honesty and understanding. We initially started as genuine friends, I didnt have feelings for her. She suffered from deep trauma, and I went with her through the journey of her recovery. Also helped her to connect her with a guy she liked. But later when I developed feelings for her, and she knew it.. I didnt expect she would play these games with me, especially since I told her not to do with me (a true friend from the beginning) out of all people. I knew playing cool would probably be more effective, but this wasnt about winning her, it was about my dignity and wanting to see her true face. I showed her my vulnerability, and sometimes genuine frustration that I am ignored.. She abused it and wanted to play with my feelings. I cut contact with her for good, and she now deeply regrets it. Showing vulnerability is not always a weakness.
Ignoring you means she has issues and cannot manipulate you to being her Puppet on a string .If they can control and use you they would never ignore you unless a man is abusive ....It's all about her being the phsyco victim and you manipulated to her demands...
10:48 or keep ignoring her because she deserves it for not respecting you in the first place sometimes I despise women how they think they’re better than most common guys when they’re no celebrity either ffs
I don't believe that if your partner cheats on you، So take revenge on her❌ Whereas if you love her, you should care about her happiness and not your own🗿 Even if his happiness is with someone else😇
this reminds me of an old coworker (OC), who I ignored and possibly hurt. When we worked together at banquets, she didn't talk to me very much. She's a bartender, and whenever I approached her or her partner, I would tell the same joke, "I'll have one large beer to help me get over my ex-girlfriend." One time, she said to me as I approached, "John, I don't want to hear it." A week later, I was approaching the other bartender, and from the distance, OC said "John" in a stern voice. So yes, I was annoyed and basically stopped interreacting with her. Went quiet. Sometimes she'd say hi to me when we saw each other and I'd simply say hey. I think a few times she asked me to do a task and I just nodded. Once or twice she thanked me and I didn't reply. I left the job to work in this cafe but came back for this one particular service when they were _really_ desperate. I saw OC, and funnily, she approached me. She asked me how I was, said she heard I switched to the cafe, asked me if I liked the job. Curious to see how she'd react, I told her I didn't plan on coming back to catering, and she said, "You're not coming back?" I said "I don't think so" in a slightly disgusted tone. But that wasn't it. That month, at a bar, OC put her hand on my arm to get my attention and gave a slight wave. I just gave a slight smile and wave and went through the crowd to catch up with friends. Once, at the very bar, I made eye contact with OC from a distance, and I looked away to continue talking to my friend, as if the woman was just some random stranger I'd never seen before. That must've hurt. It made me feel bad if she felt bad, because yeah, that was too far, and what would I have said? I didn't see her? I DID see her and she saw me. Fortunately, she never showed resentment. I ran into her at a hockey game while she was clocking out. She said "Hi, John," and instead of my emotionless "hey," I said "Hi, [OC]." She said "How are ya?" and I said "All right, you?" Last time I didn't even ask back. Now, I don't exactly forgive her, but because I looked away and possibly hurt her, I'm gonna be a little nicer to her, despite my remaining amount of resentment. I still don't think I like her. She really got on my nerves when she snapped "John" in front of the crew. I'm not much of a forgive-and-move-on type of guy.
I have experience with 4/5 women which i had feelings with and loved to be ghosted. The only real solution for this is to have a back up girl which u have nothing with, but u have contact with the other girl. This way your emotions wont be as much affected as if u only had the girl which ghosts u. You’ll feel the power that u don’t need her and always have a second choice. And it also helps a lot while in a relationship with the main girl. You’ll have more time and inner peace to feel confident about what is good for u and what not. Eventually, u will come across the day where u will feel and see and feel that the main girl u want to build ur future with will stay. DON’T FALL FOR THIS BECAUSE UR EMOTIONS PLAYS A ROLE AT THIS MOMENT. Always have a back up which u feel confident with to go to after u break up or ghosts u. For more questions u can always comment, i’ll answer anything u want to know.
There was a time when I deeply cared for someone who suddenly started ignoring me. I’d text, wait, and replay every conversation in my head, wondering what I did wrong. That silence made me question my worth, and honestly, it still lingers sometimes, making it hard to trust people. How do you stop letting someone’s indifference affect your self-worth? Any advice to finally move on?
I completely understand how that silence can make you doubt yourself, but remember, someone else’s indifference is never a reflection of your worth. Focus on reconnecting with your own value by doing things that make you feel confident and fulfilled. Moving on starts when you prioritize your peace over their attention.
The only time this is still hard for me is when a woman and I have scheduled a date and she hasn't confirmed or responded. And the day and time gets close. In that scenario, I put some extra effort into trying to get a hold of her. But that last person who did that to me never responded, so I guess I shouldn't do that. But I don't that's okay way for woman to test men. Vanishing from a conversation is testing me but asking me to schedule a date, specifying a day, insisting she still wants to go out, and then not communicating to confirm is disrespectful and rude.
Some woman actually ignore you when they fall for you, which doesn't make sense at all right ? The fact that they are aware of every single move they make or word they say, is actually mental. Just focus on yourself, if they be playing forreal.
My ex-girlfriend pushed back and played every game to drive me crazy. I wasn't phased at all. Then she moved to another bedroom. I went on as usual. I got her the moving boxes when she asked me to get it. She was sending me messages that she was moving out. She eventually moved out. We still dated a few times after. But when i found out, she was seeing another man, i ghosted her. Yeah, it hurt. My kids, my work and the gym occupied me too much to waste my time on grieving. My point is you need to maintain your composure no matter what and need to have the determination to walk away. And it ain't easy
It ain't easy
I couldn't maintain my calm and composure after 1 month point of a light breakup but still seeing each other(A breakup that was not a breakup)....And...That was start of my downfall... She directly or indirectly, intentionally or unintentionally(most likely) provoked me in many ways but I was calm till exact one month...Then I lose control one day...and she got the one opportunity that I never gave her...opportunity to hate me and move on...she needed that...i gave her...I didn't want that...But it was becoming tough for me to be treated very badly.....But things got worse for me after that for me and me only...And it kept on getting worse.....On the other hand, she moved on and started seeing other boys....
Thank you for sharing your experience! It sounds like you handled a tough situation with a lot of composure and strength. Staying focused on your kids, work, and the gym was a great way to move forward. How do you think staying busy helped you maintain your determination to walk away? I’d love to hear more thoughts from others-what has helped you keep your composure in challenging relationships? Hope you have a great day!
I think the majority of girls will jump off if you do this. Especially nowadays we so many other opportunities using social media. They just don't care. I see the video as a way of you to master yourself. Her leaving when you look for your best instead of falling for immature games, is actually good for you. No matter how it might hurts. The right one will stay.
WOw, I should have read your post. I've been doing totally the opposite! What you did requires so total self-control.
Just let her go, know your worth, and keep improving yourself both physically and mentally.
So true💪🔥
That’s not always the answer, there’s more sometimes then just moving on
Spiritually as well.
@@maxn1744False. Your life belongs to you & ultimately, others are only as important as YOU want them to be.
Preach
The king doesn’t become the king by chasing the queen. The king becomes a king when he gets the crown.
Awesome😅😅
Awesome line
And when he has the pretenders to the throne beheaded.
Truee
Cringe
I'n crying! Dealing with narcissistic ex girlfriend for a while! Been working on myself for so long now, still I fell for her again and lost my power and control! But now I am taking my power and energy back! Thankyou to Stoicism for making men great!
"It is not death that a man should fear, but he should fear never beginning to live." - Marcus Aurelius
Nice quote🔥
Your approach is really powerful, you chose to focus on personal growth instead of negative reactions.
Thanks KhacKy, I really appreciate the kind message
Know your worth, be careful who you open your heart to it’s a beautiful/crazy world we live in
Terrible and awful. We live in a capitalist hell scape where men are expected to give the most and receive the least. We’re expected to work ourselves into the ground “grinding”, pay for everything. Initiate. Plan. Provide. And we are allowed to ask for absolutely nothing in return. And get used up skanky hypergamous hoes who were rejected by the Chad they really wanted after he gave them the pump and dump. Honestly fuck this planet.
Ignoring her is the best no attention for her is not needed again focus on your goals rather
...your peace is not negotiable! Walk away when necessary and you'll never regret it!
It’s not an option, I walk away. Ignoring me clearly shows that she is not interested in me, which just makes me no longer interested in her. And she only gets one chance with me, so it is over permanently.
Sounds good
Saphi ❤
Game over😊
I am good & I am worthy
💪🔥
Didn't see this on time, was chasing her , asking for a talk over the matter, but I decided to let her go as she she's she don't need me , that she fell outta love , cos I never did no wrong, I regret ever chasing her , but when am done , am done, I justified my conscience through my efforts
If you keep chasing, keep touching, keep texting when she is giving nothing back she will double down on her game until eventually she gives absolutely nothing back.
You just giving too much then she deserve due to this you r facing this
Find a replacement...there are many out there ❤
Instead of chasing after someone who’s not giving me attention, I’m going to use that time to work on myself. This video reinforced that the best way to gain control in any relationship is to control your own emotions first. Looking forward to embracing the stoic approach! 👑
I really can't express my feelings.. It really feels like god helped me to come here and watch this and help me to learn emotional control
Thanks stoic Tribe❤
This video really nails the essence of self-control and emotional strength! Instead of getting caught up in someone else’s actions, we should focus on personal growth and self-worth. Powerful message for life beyond just dating. 💪✨
I needed to hear this! It’s crazy how much power we give away when we chase someone’s attention. I’ve been caught up in texting games, but now I see that the real strength lies in doing nothing and staying focused on my own journey. Stoicism for the win! 👑
Everyone has a heart and good heart person love you and understand you and will stand with u in every situation ....who has stone heart they will play with anybody ...no matter how you are hurted with his or her behaviour ....loving person always care you and trust you and live with you fully transparent .... so Don't do lol things with anyone ...always be humble ..and love who is loving you more
A highly valuable video that goes straight to the heart of modern relationships. What I realized is that it's not about following what others think; it's about mastering oneself, understanding our own nature, and from there, attraction naturally follows. This isn't just about dating-it's about becoming the best version of yourself. Thank you for this insightful and practical content!
We must never spend time to destroy someone's ego. Ego is detroyed by the person himself who has it.
Thanks for this video,now I'm facing this problem,but now I've seen this so I'm able to control
Always happy to help
Walking away can be tough, but staying in a toxic situation can be tougher
I don't know about you guys but I have done everything that mentioned in this video and wow, it works!😊👍😎
Can you tell more
@@behopeful1736 find something to do, we often miss those who don't care about us when we are not doing anything or not committed to what we are doing.
You are important, put yourself first. ❤
@@waipancholwaingor I did not understand
This is the most helpful video I've seen in a long time and it appeared at just the right time. Thanks
You're welcome!
Same thing I'm going through
Be the man in control, always! The most touching moment 17:50
It is true about in this generation. They never understand about the feelings of others.
Nor do they care. Yet watch them shriek when THEY get their feelings hurt.
Dump her. Don't even bother with ignoring. You didn't need her before, and you won't need her in the future.
I used to be that guy that buys flowers and give random gifts, over talk about nothing call and text all day. And always wonder why nothing ever got reciprocated.
I feel you man
What's your conclusion, King? Share your wisdom.
When someone close becomes distant, it’s often due to personal challenges rather than mistrust. Instead of ignoring them, we should offer support and understanding. True maturity lies in being there during hard times, showing empathy, and creating a path for honest communication. We can’t ignore someone in that situation. I know some girls who might deserve that, but sometimes we need to understand a good partner. You can’t just ignore her and let her go. We are often more mature than females, so as the man, you should figure out and solve the prblm
Nah. She’s just found someone else to spend her energy on. She’ll be back when Chad rejects her
I don't know whether I'm the only one who felt strong emotions while the video is playing😢😢kindly tell me guyz😢😢
How coincidently this video came to my life when Women who was flirting with me now ghosted. Me.. i am already going to gym to give frustrarton..this video suprised me..
Any updates?
These AI ALWAYS READ OUR MIND BRO
Been there before, I ignored her while she was trying to cheat me then after one year she wanted pretend to be a good person than before I mean rebuild our relationship but I coudn't do that. It's a big mistake to go back in relationship with an Ex. So dangerous ⚠️⚡
I think the hard part for me was the realization that you was never the one for her. She ignored you time to time till she needs something from you or when she in a bad spot. She never wanted you, she only needed you for her own benefit. I had to accept it and it emotionally and mentally messed with me because I really liked her but reality shown otherwise. Best to accept it, learn from it, and ignore and walk away. Look out for yourself in ways you looked out for her. Be selfish and pay 0 mind. She gonna realize or may not realize what she potentially lost. It her lost. Your gain 💪
OMG! I went through the same situation! We were going so good together during our weekends together, but the moment she introduced me to her 17 year old daughter that wanted to be recognized as a boy, all hell broke loose and from that moment I always felt like I was walking on eggshells plus the fact that the kid was diagnosed artistic, I just didn’t know what to do, but I would always include him in everything we did together so that he wouldn’t feel alone or that I was taking his mom away , to make a long story short, the kid never adjusted with situations of moving in my house, and my X total me that her kid was her priority and not our relationship. So I just had to let it all go….
Same pinch
When I ignored her constantly, she eventually begged for a chance to reconnect with me
Same story here too mate 😅💪
Same here as always @@Mj_Itales.96
I want this
How ,tell more
@@Mj_Itales.96hiw
It doesn't matter If she's talking to someone else , she will come around when she gets dumped
But you don't want to treat like an last option my frend
@@Yogeshhatwate70exactly, being the backup isn’t a win
And I'm gonna use and dump her after she comes back , I won't be the last option lol
@@djvirux bro, I did that once and karma hit me hard. Becareful with that
works even for friends who suck your time !!
This is the reason why all conflicts happens in relationship. Women are always understanding, if she ignore you just go and ask her open minded why she ignore you. She will tell you the reason surely if you were genuine to her
Stupidity...I asked her she said-" I still have emotions for her ex" .
@@kv999o41 Then that must be true. Nobody will forget their first lover
Thats true when she is the one who got dumped @@ArisePeter
😂 same here @@kv999o41
Thanx for understanding us Sir🙏🙏
If a woman doesn't like you now she'll never love you later if a woman doesn't want you there's nothing you can do to make her
When a girl I like ignores me,
I immediately ignore her back
💡THIS ☝🏽only works on a weak person. Just get busy doing things that make you happy, add value to your life INDEPENDENTLY. Another person’s ego is non of your concern💁🏽♀️. Realignment with new things are on the horizon.
I had this happen I even changed routine, so there was no chance of seeing her around. It can be upsetting. One time after a girl ghosted me I found a six week old abandoned kitten. After feeding him, and a 24 hour period we became best friends 😊
I AM a woman but trust me it feels you know all I have been through
You brought it yourself most likely.
😂
This video came to me as blessings truly helpful and can be great teacher if a man is truly good in he's self-esteem ❤ I loved it may be this came through my universe and I truly trust in my universe 💕 thanks for the person who doing this job as a good child of God thanks to my universe 🙏 thank you so much 🙏 .
You are very welcome 🙏
A woman ignoring you doesnt always mean that! Ive noticed that if it feels natural around her you have something more. Everything feels incredibly easy to be yourself around her. Blushing when you come around, there are some amazing women out there! Just be yourself youll be fine..
.
Perfectly spoken, well expressed!
Thank you
Honestly, I'm just too busy with my own personal life mission/purpose.
Either she's paying attention or she isn't. Either way, that's a reflection on her.
The focus stays the same for me no matter what.
Simple as that.
Update?
@@behopeful1736 I have found a place in life where I am growing into new places within rhis masculine soul autonomously all the time. By now splindid inner growth is like breathing to me.
Everything starts within then goes outward from there.
And mental/emotional games does nothing but get in the way.
No thank you.
As I said before, either she's the one or she isn't. Why distract myself with any other perspective? What good does that do?
We live in different countries with my wife. We have 2 kids. She did the same thing to me now and I was like one week gone be crazy of her behavior.But now I lerne too much from this video thanks
You're very welcome
Do this: live your life. And thank whatever deity you pray to for doing you a favor.
I’m so much in love with this teaching ❤
Now I am a stoic man
Anyone ever met a woman who seems like a completely different person online than in real life?
1:33 If she ignores me, I will walk away :))
Is this the beginning of my villain arc?
I was just thinking the same thing…
Haha
this is the video which i needed
If the woman is not interested in you,just keep your distance but remain as friends.Thats it short and sharp.
"Remain as friends "while she is sucking another dude somewhere?are you a simp?
youve earned a sub , great vid
Awesome, thank you!
If the person is genuine they won't play this games. But if they do play this games ..game on .do same.
This video is so strong. You earned a sub for that.😊
If she ghosts me we are done i automatically think you're cheating and i explain this in the beginning of every relationship
New Sub here. First video that popped up. This is amazing so far. Ive learnt so much from this vid and its literally basic actions that we dont even think of but definitely powerful information. Thanks Stoic❤
Welcome aboard! Thanks for the support.
This test is to determine if you will act like a psychopath if and when she leaves or goes off and does whatever she wants.
Don't date women who test and play games. It's really that simple.
@@muffemodThey all do it, all of them..From the virgins to the strippers
What I do when someone ignores me I blocked them change my number and forget about them, and focus on me and ambitions and focus people who make the effort and who appreciates respect and value me 🎉
Change your Number too 😮. Bit Extreme
@@Moluaa definitely blocked them change my number reason's why I've been good to these people and 1. Psychology facts 90% chance someone going to betray you will give you silent treatment 2. They don't value you 3. Disrespectful 4. Ungrateful 5. Mind games 6. Mental abuse 7. Form of bullying 8. I will block and change my number because if you just block them they will get a stranger person you don't know and use their phone to phone and text you 9. Those reasons why I blocked them change my number because I don't put up with anyone bs, and focus on me keeping distance from everyone and make effort with people who make effort with me
*When a woman ignores you, it’s important to maintain your composure. Don’t chase or overanalyze - focus on yourself and keep your confidence intact. Give her space, and if she’s genuinely interested, she’ll come back around. It’s about self-respect, not desperation.*
Thanks you for sharing. It’s amazing 🤩
Thanks for watching
Thanks for this humble message cuz❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Keep spreading wisdom , nycc
Genius, who don’t have a girl and watching 😂😂😂
I don't know why but I am serious now😊
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Walk away my brothers…she isn’t worth your time and feelings! The juice isn’t worth the squeeze!
Great content Brother, very wise words 👌
I appreciate that!
Im nearly on the verge of breaking up with my girlfriend.
We had argument yesterday night when i was calling for her while on video call, she ignored me and told me im annoying,so today we are in class at college and we both ignore each other and few mins ago i asked to talk her to me again she ignored me so im going ghost at this point.
Im trying to conversate with her about our argument, but she's given me the silence treatment.
Outstanding analysis
I don’t even know where to start with this. I’ve been sitting here for hours, trying to process everything, and it still feels like I’m in some kind of nightmare. My wife and I have been married for 7 years. I thought everything was fine. We had our ups and downs like any couple, but I never saw this coming.
About a month ago, she told me she needed space, that she wasn’t sure about our marriage anymore. I tried to give her the space she asked for, even though it killed me inside. I thought it was just a rough patch. But today, I learned the real reason she left me… she’s in love with someone else. Not just anyone-a woman.
Now, I want to be clear, that on its own isn’t the part that’s messing me up. I’m not homophobic, and I have no issue with her loving who she loves. But what she told me next? I don’t even know how to say this. She left me because this woman has a larger penis than I do.
I feel like my brain’s short-circuiting just typing that out. It’s like I’m lightheaded, and I keep questioning if any of this is real. How do I even begin to process that? I can’t stop obsessing over it. I keep thinking, “Does that mean I was never enough? Am I not even a man anymore?” It’s like every part of my identity as her husband and even just as a man has been torn apart. I feel like a joke.
I don’t know what I’m supposed to do from here. How do I even talk about this with anyone? I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to look at myself the same way again. I feel like I’m nothing right now. Just… nothing.
If anyone’s been through something like this, I could really use some advice. I’m just lost.
Dude, that’s rough! I can’t even imagine what you’re feeling right now. Just take your time to sort things out, and don’t hesitate to talk to someone about it. You’re not a joke-you’re a person with feelings, and it’s okay to feel messed up right now.
Bro mourn your Marriage,cry and let it all out in preoccupying yourself.It will hurt at first but then you'll heal.Start to love yourself and gain back your confidence. Study,pray and enjoy life because it is too short to allowing your past to dictate your future. Stay positive and strong you got this.God got this ;)
This came in handy when I got pissed at my girl for not replying (for the thousandth time)
Thanks for the video
Our pleasure!
This is what im going through, my story is straightly like this one i feel like Dr psychology sees😅😅😅me thank you for this wisdom and knowledge that you shared with me Amen!!!😊
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Let her be and don't waste time on her then because then she doesn't deserve the attention
Depends on the kind of relationship, though.. I believed a relationship between her and me was based on honesty and understanding. We initially started as genuine friends, I didnt have feelings for her. She suffered from deep trauma, and I went with her through the journey of her recovery. Also helped her to connect her with a guy she liked. But later when I developed feelings for her, and she knew it.. I didnt expect she would play these games with me, especially since I told her not to do with me (a true friend from the beginning) out of all people. I knew playing cool would probably be more effective, but this wasnt about winning her, it was about my dignity and wanting to see her true face. I showed her my vulnerability, and sometimes genuine frustration that I am ignored.. She abused it and wanted to play with my feelings. I cut contact with her for good, and she now deeply regrets it. Showing vulnerability is not always a weakness.
2:28 covert Narc. 4+ yrs and she gone for 2 months.
Ignoring you means she has issues and cannot manipulate you to being her Puppet on a string .If they can control and use you they would never ignore you unless a man is abusive ....It's all about her being the phsyco victim and you manipulated to her demands...
I needed this.
10:48 or keep ignoring her because she deserves it for not respecting you in the first place sometimes I despise women how they think they’re better than most common guys when they’re no celebrity either ffs
I think when someone ignore they are connected with others
Gold. Video.
Thank you
Learn to let go of things that don't belong to you, upgrade your self-worth both physically and mentally.
Anyone who doesn’t like this video is afraid of losing a girl. Stoic is the key human Psychology
💯 % effective ❤
Most of the Girls ignore us and Prioritize other guys.. So quit in the beginning itself 😢😢😢
I had to okay it for a homeboy who's going through it
I like it... It helped me so much
A woman will ignore you to break your confidence but when she ignore you do not send her a text to found out what is wrong "No" focus on you...
I don't believe that if your partner cheats on you، So take revenge on her❌
Whereas if you love her, you should care about her happiness and not your own🗿
Even if his happiness is with someone else😇
this reminds me of an old coworker (OC), who I ignored and possibly hurt. When we worked together at banquets, she didn't talk to me very much. She's a bartender, and whenever I approached her or her partner, I would tell the same joke, "I'll have one large beer to help me get over my ex-girlfriend." One time, she said to me as I approached, "John, I don't want to hear it." A week later, I was approaching the other bartender, and from the distance, OC said "John" in a stern voice. So yes, I was annoyed and basically stopped interreacting with her. Went quiet. Sometimes she'd say hi to me when we saw each other and I'd simply say hey. I think a few times she asked me to do a task and I just nodded. Once or twice she thanked me and I didn't reply. I left the job to work in this cafe but came back for this one particular service when they were _really_ desperate. I saw OC, and funnily, she approached me. She asked me how I was, said she heard I switched to the cafe, asked me if I liked the job. Curious to see how she'd react, I told her I didn't plan on coming back to catering, and she said, "You're not coming back?" I said "I don't think so" in a slightly disgusted tone. But that wasn't it. That month, at a bar, OC put her hand on my arm to get my attention and gave a slight wave. I just gave a slight smile and wave and went through the crowd to catch up with friends.
Once, at the very bar, I made eye contact with OC from a distance, and I looked away to continue talking to my friend, as if the woman was just some random stranger I'd never seen before. That must've hurt. It made me feel bad if she felt bad, because yeah, that was too far, and what would I have said? I didn't see her? I DID see her and she saw me. Fortunately, she never showed resentment. I ran into her at a hockey game while she was clocking out. She said "Hi, John," and instead of my emotionless "hey," I said "Hi, [OC]." She said "How are ya?" and I said "All right, you?" Last time I didn't even ask back. Now, I don't exactly forgive her, but because I looked away and possibly hurt her, I'm gonna be a little nicer to her, despite my remaining amount of resentment. I still don't think I like her. She really got on my nerves when she snapped "John" in front of the crew. I'm not much of a forgive-and-move-on type of guy.
I have experience with 4/5 women which i had feelings with and loved to be ghosted. The only real solution for this is to have a back up girl which u have nothing with, but u have contact with the other girl. This way your emotions wont be as much affected as if u only had the girl which ghosts u. You’ll feel the power that u don’t need her and always have a second choice. And it also helps a lot while in a relationship with the main girl. You’ll have more time and inner peace to feel confident about what is good for u and what not. Eventually, u will come across the day where u will feel and see and feel that the main girl u want to build ur future with will stay. DON’T FALL FOR THIS BECAUSE UR EMOTIONS PLAYS A ROLE AT THIS MOMENT. Always have a back up which u feel confident with to go to after u break up or ghosts u. For more questions u can always comment, i’ll answer anything u want to know.
There was a time when I deeply cared for someone who suddenly started ignoring me. I’d text, wait, and replay every conversation in my head, wondering what I did wrong. That silence made me question my worth, and honestly, it still lingers sometimes, making it hard to trust people. How do you stop letting someone’s indifference affect your self-worth? Any advice to finally move on?
I completely understand how that silence can make you doubt yourself, but remember, someone else’s indifference is never a reflection of your worth. Focus on reconnecting with your own value by doing things that make you feel confident and fulfilled. Moving on starts when you prioritize your peace over their attention.
i followed all this and now i am alone in Gym.
The only time this is still hard for me is when a woman and I have scheduled a date and she hasn't confirmed or responded. And the day and time gets close. In that scenario, I put some extra effort into trying to get a hold of her. But that last person who did that to me never responded, so I guess I shouldn't do that. But I don't that's okay way for woman to test men. Vanishing from a conversation is testing me but asking me to schedule a date, specifying a day, insisting she still wants to go out, and then not communicating to confirm is disrespectful and rude.
Tool mindset and knowledge
Everytime I get ghosted or ignored, I do nothing. And it's like they never noticed anyway.
Am confused also 😮😮😅😅😅
Some woman actually ignore you when they fall for you, which doesn't make sense at all right ? The fact that they are aware of every single move they make or word they say, is actually mental. Just focus on yourself, if they be playing forreal.