the craziest shit is that im going thru this right now. this video was put on my face for a reason. ima be a ghost to her. fuck it.... its sad that i gotta do this in order to get validation.
This is so true brothers. We have the power. The biggest truth is a woman can’t love you if she doesn’t respect you. The Bible says for men to love and women to respect. If you understand this you will be happy. I did this and attracted the woman of my dreams for 40 years and counting. I had my heart torn out but grew from it. I wound up happy. Maintain your dignity and they’ll come crawling back, but you have to realize that they were just a learning and growing experience. Never take them back and move on to real happiness.
I really like how you break down the reasons why women lose interest. It made me realize how important it is to maintain my own confidence and independence. After reading Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, I understood even more about keeping a healthy mindset and attracting the right person. The advice in both the book and your videos has really helped me improve my approach to relationships and get more out of my interactions.
Wow, this is so uplifting, it’s important to stay inspired. I feel a deep sense of emptiness, it’s been 2months since jack left and everyday feels like an eternity without him. My mind’s been flooded with memories of our time together. It’s so painful that I’d never get to experience the little things with him again. zI’ve texted him several times telling him how much I miss and want him sadly he replied none. Guess all I can do is just hold unto the memories.
The point is not really about taking her back. The focus is internal and making yourself better. It's about becoming the type of man that is in control of his life. When you're in that mindset what a woman wants doesn't matter. At that point, any woman that you choose to allow in your life will operate according to your values.
A woman that acts like this isn't ready for a deep relationship anyway. Don't waste your energy on a woman that won't go ALL IN. If social media, friends, and anything else are her first priorities...RUN
Sad to say I have been with one like this on and off for almost ten years. She never admits to anything wrong. She always deflects or says I don't want to talk about it.
Exactly the thing im wondering, going silent for 30 days does make them miss you but the question I have is * what will some of the dirty little rats do during those 30 days of you ignoring them ? will you be giving them time to fool around with other people and if so why would you even want them back after they fooled around with somebody else after you ? pretty much Cheating on you because there's no such thing as "taking a break". if they mess around with somebody after you, they cheated on you.
*Instead of trying to win her back, work on your own life - become the person she initially fell for, but even better. Let her see the change and value in you.*
My ex left me after 7 years . I said bye and let her go. Six months later she begged me to take her back. I told her I already had another woman. She was shocked. I told her she could come back if she wanted to. She agreed. I said under one condition. That she would be my side chic . Again she agreed. Then I dropped the bomb on her. I said never mind. You’re on your own.
You are the prize’-this hit home. The message of self-worth and setting boundaries is something more people need to embrace. When you value yourself, everything else falls into place. 💯
Right. I let my heartbreak fuel me which changed me forever. To a point the one who broke my heart did me a favor. Without her I would still be weak and pathetic.
I learned the hard way in multiple relationships with women I loved and treated well- there is nothing a woman hates more than being loved and cared for. The hookup culture that is being criticized is not a morality problem on the part of men it's the product they are dealing with.
True...I didn't call her for a week, Sat I get a call telling me she owes me a dinner. I hate the way this works. But, it's reality. I am crazy about her, but will not tell her. I was going to go exclusive, but you reminded me it's not a good idea so soon.
When she’s back please don’t take her back, she’s either back because she didn’t get the guy she wants or wanted something from you. Run bro focus on yourself
There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Emotional detachment isn’t about playing games-it’s about regaining control of your life. The concept of turning heartbreak into fuel really resonated with me. It’s empowering to think of pain as a tool for growth rather than a setback.
I did that. I cut ties with a woman I had deep feelings for but she chose another guy who was manipulative among other things. But it’s been over 2 years
This video is a game-changer! The idea of flipping the power dynamic and focusing on self-improvement instead of chasing is something every man needs to hear. It’s not just about relationships; it’s about leveling up in life. 🔥
I was one of thoe who got panic and hearted when my girl pulls back and they keep hearting me more. This is the greatest lesion i I need longtime. But now i have learn soothing no more panic or so for their behavior. Thank my friend
Okay , I am a woman and I listened all stoic videos for women and now decided to listen what do you teach man ! This why people cannot come up together 😅 don’t chase , no effort… you do this for both so how they can come up together 😅
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
She won’t miss you if you’re always around or available. If she does anything to reject you… like long delays in text back, lack of noticing your attention, any pullback even if’s not intentional or personal… you stop. You become the missing person who she love bombed yesterday, that’s not available today. Don’t get caught on her hook. No emotions. No excuses to accept. You’re just not there now. Only do this if She made it obvious or had no actual valid reason to forget about you. I don’t think most will get this.
This is great advice if there's only just one kind of woman and one kind of situation. I told my girlfriend to get the fucc out. I did not mean it, but she left. Now I have to find a way to make her feel secure in the relationship again, after destroying her sense of security. She is not playing hard to get; She is in self defense mode.
When you are able to make a woman crawl back you start to realize how much power you have. This will help in the future in the dating game. You will never again be afraid to let a woman leave you.
Brooo😂 im sat in the bath. Upset because we just broke up but for some reason this video makes me smile and laugh?? I been so down lately, but this video makes alot of sense trust me, seriously, makes alot of sense. If you feel sad make some new plans, stay away from people that dont do you hood, delete them stupid apps, im so lucky i dont have fb or tic tok or any of that crap. Dont get sucked into this socail media crap. Have a bath with some epsom salt and bubbles, chill winstonnnn. 😎. Try not to feel sad. Change that to what you need to do next ? I garentee theres stuff you need to get done, focus on that. Silence is golden. We all have problems with drink and drugs, but dont let it control you, dont try to quit everything all at once, use it. Use it like it uses other people... take control of your mind, focus on the things you need to get done to be better ....to get better ....i will listen to my own words for a change. I was v close to doing something stupid this weeknd. Vvv close....stay strong, be thruthful, accept the silence 🔕, be ok with yourself when your bored, write stuff on the wall or paper or a chart, write down what you want to do. It really really helped me to do that. WRITE STUFF DOWN NOW, ❤IT REALLY HELPS. LOVE U FOR READING THIS. shows you care alot and your a good person. Remeber that about yourself
when a man likes a woman more or treat her better than she treats him , they take advantage of it. But on the opposite end when it’s like that for a man he appreciates it , RS
@FrankTownsendjr I'd rather use that pain, and become someone else entirely, physically, mentally, spiritually. Better in every way. Returning to someone who didn't appreciate u in the first time, is never a good idea. Also, most of the guys in her DMs just want to smash and dash. Seen too many times: attractive girl In her 20's gets used like public bathrooms, "enjoys" a crazy life until she's hits 35, the wall, and then notices men don't give her much attention anymore, cuz the men are now moving on to the new generation of 20 year Olds. And the cycle continues. Harsh reality, but happened too many times. 🫢
I believe it’s not that to come crawling back guarantee but more so allowing yourself to focus on the things you can control because by chasing you are in more ways than not trying to control the situation and make her like you yet by pulling away as well, you will let Her decide if you are even worth chasing to her, not to say that that determines your self-worth, but it allows you to focus on what you can control and let go of the things that you cannot.
Distance truly does make the heart grow fonder. Just give her the distance she wants, if she truly loved you and she truly is the one. She'll eventually realize she made a huge mistake leaving you. If not you learned a lesson of who not to be with next time.
Social Media is a big problem for men and women because no one wants to meet up or try to get know that particular person because of self validate or no wanting to get to know the person ,but the wallet or what you can offer from each other instead of commitment and social media is not a good proper way to knowing someone .
I met my wife on social media in 2003. We were together for 20 years, at one point she told me I’d given her the happiest 10 years of her life, 10 years into our marriage! A few years ago she started singing with this guy doing duet music and he was singing love songs to her and captured her heart. I thought our relationship was strong enough to with stand ❤something simple like that. I was wrong. So I moved on. There are other women.
I really appreciate this.... I faced the same in the current situation.... And just before I wanted this video I blocked up everything fb, insta, n whatsapp.... Now I am ready to move on....
So I’m reading these comments. Let me say that walking away/ghosting a woman doesn’t fix the real issue that lies within you that allowed you to develop feelings for a woman that doesn’t respect or want you. Look within yourself and heal what’s broken inside you.
That's exactly it! Better question being: "what exactly can THEY provide??" Because they're not above you or superior or automatically get catered to, simply because they're female!
My Ex came back twice and I was just using her for my own game. because I knew she couldn’t find any man better man than me, that was why she kept on coming back
Mine did the same to me on my birthday, I told her to kick rocks. She didn't want to invest much of anything into our marriage and expected ALL the change from me after her adult kids wrecked what was a good thing and then she ran off with them. Bye
Here's the thing people need to realize. If you're going no contact and spending it to better yourself why would you go backwards after putting in all that work? I considered getting back with my ex wife and started working out and reading more and bettering myself. But then realized why should I put in all thks work just to go back to her? With my new improvements I can get someone better. Because she isn't spending the time bettering herself as well. So im going to be getting the same old chick and she gets the new and improved me? That's kind of dumb if you rhink about it.
I spent hours looking for a message like this 😢 Because this season in my life, my heart is in untold pain😭 But guess what? This video completely healed me right now 😢💝💝💝💖 Thank you so much sir I really appreciate you ❤🎉
This generation is ruthless Bro, It’s very rare to find a loyal and respectful partner. you must have more better works to do in your life than waiting for others message. Move On and she’s teaching you a lesson, Do learn it now or else you’ll be taught again by someone in the future.
@@TheStoicTribe101I'm hurt as well. My heart is also in secret until pain. She left me she said I'm broke she don't walk I got her walking she could do way better she told me she feels sorry for me she feels sorry for my kids I'm not a real man and she just repeated that I was broke kept repeating it. She just left me. I'm hurt and I saw this writing on the wall so all the red flags but I ignore them. Everything I said she tried to turn it into an argument like I was saying disrespectful stuff. Everything I did she turned it into like I was being disrespectful of being childish and immature no matter what I did or said she turned it into like I was being negative or trying to finesse her. So she won't ever take me back but I don't want her back. I want her but I don't want to. I just got to get on my ground and get on my feet
@@Farrock.redfern1302 You deserve way better than that shallow dipshit human. People who’re just out for themselves, insensitive and downright Narcissistic doesn’t deserve a spot in your life. Let her rot in the hell that she’s seeking. It’s not our job to fix other despicable humans. Let’s work on our purpose for which we’re put on this earth. Let everything else disappear. May the force be with you brother.
And guys you need to understand that you shouldn’t walk away just to get her to chase you and then take her back. You weren’t her first choice which is why you had to walk away. Don’t take her back!
Yeah and if she doesn’t chase you after you do this she simply is not for you so don’t be upset or discouraged. And this is something I’ve had trouble with until here recently when I learned that
Because you must not do all that work to improve based only on getting her back. You do it for your own betterment, you do it for your own happiness. Because if getting her back is what drives you to improve, you're already setting yourself up for disappointment. Too many shady men out there and too many immoral entitled self-serving women. Society by giving women FAR too much power, especially in divorce court, Rewards them for immoral selfish behavior. Think about it. Most women are flat out evil, period.
After watching this video and putting in the effort, the girl now really loves me, is very attached to me, and I can also control my emotions. Thank you so much.
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy???
Has been 6 Months no contact no control no call calls no likes nothing she couldn’t no longer be able to contact me i blocked so I can heal the pains she inflicted on me, she will never be in my life again, what she do or how she doing it is irrelevant to me. Thank you for this video .
Not right man.. If you ever give her something valuable and then you witheld without making it chaos. Then she will stay her attention on your life even if she got married... But the condition is you didn't make any mess when you leave her...
To all the Good men reading this... If you ever go through a bad breakup like most of us you will..... But if you're the type of man who wants to fall in love again DON'T become financially set (read that again)..... If you become financially set after a breakup like I did you will never in your life fall in love or take another woman serious again
Thank you so much Really appreciated This video increases my confidence Thank u Thank u Thank u Thank u Now I can go back to my original version again. ❤❤❤
Dont make her crawl back. Just carry on walking. .. Making her crawl is an ego powertrip and this is childish in itself. Unless children are part of the relationship you should never see her again.
My wife divorced me , we live in different houses. I can see kids few times a week, i only feel sorry for kids i wont be there in midnight or morning to kiss them before work. But now i will hit gym hard , really hard and try to change my behaviour and act.
I'm in a relationship where I'm suddenly the one chasing her, I always apologize for everything. I'm always blamed for everything. I am the one stressing her like now she went drinking because someone said, "I she is a divorced" and I'm the one who helped her to be on her feet again. I called her she cancelled my call while I was still explaining. I sent her a massage saying I will accept everything she says. Now that I have listened to this it's me time
I used to torment myself _ who is she out with, is she having a lot more fun than she would with me, why does she never text at night or on some weekends? Then I said to myself you know what?Who gives a shit!? What does it even matter? I allowed her and her vile adult kids to wreck me and then my marriage and she let them do the same and placed all the blame onto me. I knew better, I did all the right things while they did nothing but tear us down and talk shit because I didn't coddle them and agree to bowing to their every whim and baby fits that came when they didn't get their way. No time for adults who act like 12 year olds, wife included.
This video beautifully simplifies Stoic philosophy! It’s inspiring and practical - a great reminder to focus on what we can control. Thanks for sharing!
The beginning sounds like the silent treatment. Which Is a manipulation tactic used to punish those who make us upset. As humans, we are social creatures. With that being said, we like to have conversations with people we enjoy spending time with. If it seems like we've hurt that person, we will do anything for them to forgive us. Because naturally most humans don't like when people have grudges against them.
Reality that every honest man must follow dont be a fool begging for respect from your woman who has no value and respect for you if she's gone let go there more desperate one around, great advice.
Great video 👌🏾 Best thought through advice. Although, I would like to add, real love should not be a struggle or involve mind games. We should both feel at ease.
Damnit that’s sucks.. focus on you , you must not have been as important as she proclaimed and lied about her feelings for you..reason I say this is because you have feelings and your still trying so if she did she wouldn’t have moved on so easy..she was over you before she was gone..hate to put it like that but it’s the honest truth..she would still be single at best if she cared
Great video! My five year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him.
It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him.
Looks like i have done just everything wrong for the last 11 years. Meantime our daughter is already 14. I still want my family back. But only now i really hear what i did wrong. Wasted so many years trying,and basically i made it even worse. Still believe i can change that.
My opinion for this, besides it s a very intruitive video, is that these methods are most working after long time relations that somehow knows one each other. However, there is the risk when you pull back or stop responding, the other person, depending mainly how intrerests about you and how stuborn ang ego also is, might believe that you really don t want or care anymore and when you are waiting her to call or text you, she/ he is already seeking or even dating another person... So be aware in what kind of level you want to bring it, because it s like walking on thin ice and you don t even know how this plan is going to end, good or bad, especially today that almost all of us count many times our precious time. Unfortunately relations are quite compicated situations and canot just follow a list of written instructions with guarantee results...
My wife came back w another child that is not mine. I been w her for like a year now but they do come back the one thing I wish I listen to was this advice truly do this asap and you might save it especially B4 anything happens.
Another child lol bro we need guy code back i dont care how much you love her. That's an absolute No! You would have been laughed out the village with that said, i feel for you, and I hope you find peace! Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
The most important video every man needs during a heartbreak
the craziest shit is that im going thru this right now. this video was put on my face for a reason. ima be a ghost to her. fuck it.... its sad that i gotta do this in order to get validation.
@@PootyDaPlaciD game is game
@@PootyDaPlaciD lost my gf because I paniced and felt guilty
@@marvexe1396You didn’t lose her because you never had her.
Everything is temporary so you were just borrowing her for a while
@@marvexe1396same here 😅
This is so true brothers. We have the power. The biggest truth is a woman can’t love you if she doesn’t respect you. The Bible says for men to love and women to respect. If you understand this you will be happy. I did this and attracted the woman of my dreams for 40 years and counting. I had my heart torn out but grew from it. I wound up happy. Maintain your dignity and they’ll come crawling back, but you have to realize that they were just a learning and growing experience. Never take them back and move on to real happiness.
When you become the best version of yourself you will 100% not want her back or anything to do with her
You are never too old to learn this whole lesson is life changing I give thanks to the universe and to you the narrator,. My day was made. ❤.
I really like how you break down the reasons why women lose interest. It made me realize how important it is to maintain my own confidence and independence.
After reading Celestial Soulmate by Lentlish, I understood even more about keeping a healthy mindset and attracting the right person.
The advice in both the book and your videos has really helped me improve my approach to relationships and get more out of my interactions.
Angelic Soulmate also helped me understand how to focus on myself while staying open to the right person.
Wow, this is so uplifting, it’s important to stay inspired. I feel a deep sense of emptiness, it’s been 2months since jack left and everyday feels like an eternity without him. My mind’s been flooded with memories of our time together. It’s so painful that I’d never get to experience the little things with him again. zI’ve texted him several times telling him how much I miss and want him sadly he replied none. Guess all I can do is just hold unto the memories.
I'm willing to try anything at this point. What's the worst that could happen, right?
His handle is Father Tosin Ayodele. He specializes in rekindling the spark in broken relationships
Tnx for ur help I hope it works out
Don’t beg don’t chase focus yourself stay calm and enjoy from every moment god gift for you
I shall never take back a women who left me for another man , whether she misses me or not that's her own business not mine.
I agree, and it’s great that you have the strength to do that. Some people don’t have the strength to do that
The point is not really about taking her back. The focus is internal and making yourself better. It's about becoming the type of man that is in control of his life. When you're in that mindset what a woman wants doesn't matter. At that point, any woman that you choose to allow in your life will operate according to your values.
I did 😭😭😭
A woman that acts like this isn't ready for a deep relationship anyway. Don't waste your energy on a woman that won't go ALL IN. If social media, friends, and anything else are her first priorities...RUN
Sad to say I have been with one like this on and off for almost ten years. She never admits to anything wrong. She always deflects or says I don't want to talk about it.
It not 1 girl every girl is like that and the fact is they don't know what they are doing so
You deserve a woman who loves you and wants you. Why would you EVER take a woman back after she left you? If she crawls back, tell her to crawl away.
Who said anyjting about taking her back its about making her want u back
So she can see what it felt like to want someone and not get the attention
Exactly the thing im wondering, going silent for 30 days does make them miss you but the question I have is
* what will some of the dirty little rats do during those 30 days of you ignoring them ?
will you be giving them time to fool around with other people and if so why would you even want them back after they fooled around with somebody else after you ?
pretty much Cheating on you because there's no such thing as "taking a break".
if they mess around with somebody after you, they cheated on you.
I agree @@therealmulatto
Man beg it’s because the pootang must be good.
It's easier said than done to just ignore someone you love but this video is absolute genius because it's so true
A women that truly loves you wont pull back only a person with problems in her life would feel like pulling back
FACTS!💯
*Instead of trying to win her back, work on your own life - become the person she initially fell for, but even better. Let her see the change and value in you.*
My ex left me after 7 years . I said bye and let her go. Six months later she begged me to take her back. I told her I already had another woman. She was shocked. I told her she could come back if she wanted to. She agreed. I said under one condition. That she would be my side chic . Again she agreed. Then I dropped the bomb on her. I said never mind. You’re on your own.
Now that’s how you do it! 👊🏼
Are you still dreaming? Wake up
@@abdul_grizzleyhe obviously played her back if you’re smart.
You are the prize’-this hit home. The message of self-worth and setting boundaries is something more people need to embrace. When you value yourself, everything else falls into place. 💯
Cold 🥶🥶
Right. I let my heartbreak fuel me which changed me forever. To a point the one who broke my heart did me a favor. Without her I would still be weak and pathetic.
Hey can we connect please 🙏🙏🙏
I may need some personal advice from you I'm going through a lot right now 😢 😢😢
Dude just focus on your grind fitness, finance and fashion keep leveling up don't chase this silly women be stoic dude@@nowishdeking
I learned the hard way in multiple relationships with women I loved and treated well- there is nothing a woman hates more than being loved and cared for. The hookup culture that is being criticized is not a morality problem on the part of men it's the product they are dealing with.
True...I didn't call her for a week, Sat I get a call telling me she owes me a dinner. I hate the way this works. But, it's reality. I am crazy about her, but will not tell her. I was going to go exclusive, but you reminded me it's not a good idea so soon.
Doesn't matter if you believe everything this video has or not but EVERY MAN should watch this.
11:20 Yep. Use all of that heartbreak energy on self improvement. You won’t be able to sleep anyway
💯🔥
When she’s back please don’t take her back, she’s either back because she didn’t get the guy she wants or wanted something from you. Run bro focus on yourself
I agree. Focus yourself to dying alone.
Y running wisdom matters alot Samson had more than one tell her to join the race as a second wife if she will agree fine many ways to kill a rat
This actually was one of my biggest questions
There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
I dont find it can you help pls?
There really were no results when I googled it
Kkkk😂😂😂
How do we get it in pdf format?
Emotional detachment isn’t about playing games-it’s about regaining control of your life. The concept of turning heartbreak into fuel really resonated with me. It’s empowering to think of pain as a tool for growth rather than a setback.
After i watched this video i understand that my character before was sure a foolish one😢😢 but now I will stay composed 😅
I promise never take her back she’s gonna break you again even harder
Facts.
And that is why he said ! You should see your self as an high value men , if she start misbehaving ignore her
I did that. I cut ties with a woman I had deep feelings for but she chose another guy who was manipulative among other things. But it’s been over 2 years
This video is a game-changer! The idea of flipping the power dynamic and focusing on self-improvement instead of chasing is something every man needs to hear. It’s not just about relationships; it’s about leveling up in life. 🔥
I’m done with their toxic ways in relationships I prefer focusing on my own life.
The analogy of creating space to let others value you is something I’ll carry with me. Thank you for making it so relatable.
You’re welcome
Do you know you can get back your lover
I was one of thoe who got panic and hearted when my girl pulls back and they keep hearting me more. This is the greatest lesion i I need longtime. But now i have learn soothing no more panic or so for their behavior.
Thank my friend
Every faithful man deserves a faithful woman 👠 hold ❤
100 percent true .
Young fellas study this.
Okay , I am a woman and I listened all stoic videos for women and now decided to listen what do you teach man ! This why people cannot come up together 😅 don’t chase , no effort… you do this for both so how they can come up together 😅
I feel like the world and social media is breaking up marriages. That’s the truth.
Has to be the most important, moving, truth I've ever heard.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him
His name is Fatherabulu, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
He is Fatherabulu has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked he up now online. impressive
She won’t miss you if you’re always around or available.
If she does anything to reject you… like long delays in text back, lack of noticing your attention, any pullback even if’s not intentional or personal… you stop.
You become the missing person who she love bombed yesterday, that’s not available today.
Don’t get caught on her hook.
No emotions. No excuses to accept. You’re just not there now. Only do this if She made it obvious or had no actual valid reason to forget about you. I don’t think most will get this.
This is great advice if there's only just one kind of woman and one kind of situation.
I told my girlfriend to get the fucc out. I did not mean it, but she left.
Now I have to find a way to make her feel secure in the relationship again, after destroying her sense of security.
She is not playing hard to get; She is in self defense mode.
A good start is saying what u mean and meaning what u say.
JS
When you are able to make a woman crawl back you start to realize how much power you have. This will help in the future in the dating game. You will never again be afraid to let a woman leave you.
Brooo😂 im sat in the bath. Upset because we just broke up but for some reason this video makes me smile and laugh?? I been so down lately, but this video makes alot of sense trust me, seriously, makes alot of sense. If you feel sad make some new plans, stay away from people that dont do you hood, delete them stupid apps, im so lucky i dont have fb or tic tok or any of that crap. Dont get sucked into this socail media crap. Have a bath with some epsom salt and bubbles, chill winstonnnn. 😎. Try not to feel sad. Change that to what you need to do next ? I garentee theres stuff you need to get done, focus on that. Silence is golden. We all have problems with drink and drugs, but dont let it control you, dont try to quit everything all at once, use it. Use it like it uses other people... take control of your mind, focus on the things you need to get done to be better ....to get better ....i will listen to my own words for a change. I was v close to doing something stupid this weeknd. Vvv close....stay strong, be thruthful, accept the silence 🔕, be ok with yourself when your bored, write stuff on the wall or paper or a chart, write down what you want to do. It really really helped me to do that. WRITE STUFF DOWN NOW, ❤IT REALLY HELPS. LOVE U FOR READING THIS. shows you care alot and your a good person. Remeber that about yourself
Someone once told me, "A great striker always pretends he's not interested in scoring," that idea really stuck with me.
Wow, that's a good one
@@TheStoicTribe101real good 1
when a man likes a woman more or treat her better than she treats him , they take advantage of it. But on the opposite end when it’s like that for a man he appreciates it , RS
When she does come bouncing back, just move on. Because you deserve better than someone who keeps blowing hot and cold!
Also once she gets you back the game is won again, she will dump you like trash as she did the first time.
They never come back bro😂😂😂 They got men lined up in the Dm’s
@FrankTownsendjr I'd rather use that pain, and become someone else entirely, physically, mentally, spiritually. Better in every way. Returning to someone who didn't appreciate u in the first time, is never a good idea.
Also, most of the guys in her DMs just want to smash and dash. Seen too many times: attractive girl In her 20's gets used like public bathrooms, "enjoys" a crazy life until she's hits 35, the wall, and then notices men don't give her much attention anymore, cuz the men are now moving on to the new generation of 20 year Olds. And the cycle continues. Harsh reality, but happened too many times. 🫢
I believe it’s not that to come crawling back guarantee but more so allowing yourself to focus on the things you can control because by chasing you are in more ways than not trying to control the situation and make her like you yet by pulling away as well, you will let Her decide if you are even worth chasing to her, not to say that that determines your self-worth, but it allows you to focus on what you can control and let go of the things that you cannot.
The most important video every man needs during a heartbreak 💔
Distance truly does make the heart grow fonder. Just give her the distance she wants, if she truly loved you and she truly is the one. She'll eventually realize she made a huge mistake leaving you. If not you learned a lesson of who not to be with next time.
If you leave a woman and she tries to get back ، don't accept her back. She wants to return to take revenge and finish the relationship her way.
If you want her back, you already lost.
If she posting pictures being out with friends, she’s for the streets
The most important piece of advice everyman needs before venturing into dating.
Don't ignore RED FLAGS. Move on. Self-improve. Deserve better.
True Story ✊✊✊
@tonytoob4123 bro why don't ignore Red flags?
Hell yesssssssss! One piece of advice? All of this is on point and fits not just the woman who pulls back but also those that stray and cheats! ❤
Thanks. Just perfect advice.
Glad it was very helpful! Thanks for the support
Social Media is a big problem for men and women because no one wants to meet up or try to get know that particular person because of self validate or no wanting to get to know the person ,but the wallet or what you can offer from each other instead of commitment and social media is not a good proper way to knowing someone .
So true🔥
I met my wife on social media in 2003. We were together for 20 years, at one point she told me I’d given her the happiest 10 years of her life, 10 years into our marriage! A few years ago she started singing with this guy doing duet music and he was singing love songs to her and captured her heart. I thought our relationship was strong enough to with stand ❤something simple like that. I was wrong. So I moved on. There are other women.
I really love her 😭
the right video at the right time
I really appreciate this.... I faced the same in the current situation.... And just before I wanted this video I blocked up everything fb, insta, n whatsapp.... Now I am ready to move on....
It's not against her. It's all for you!
This is the best video i watch in all my struggles am going through, and i found my cure now. thank you for the advice.
You're welcome brother
So I’m reading these comments. Let me say that walking away/ghosting a woman doesn’t fix the real issue that lies within you that allowed you to develop feelings for a woman that doesn’t respect or want you. Look within yourself and heal what’s broken inside you.
None of them want YOU. They want what you can PROVIDE. That’s it.
A typical comment from a woman. 😂😂😂😂
That's exactly it! Better question being: "what exactly can THEY provide??" Because they're not above you or superior or automatically get catered to, simply because they're female!
@@MoorBlood yeah it’s men’s fault for being broken, and totally not the women’s fault for breaking them.
This Is Just What I Needed To Hear Starting 2025 I’m So Glad I Stumbled On This Video #COTDAMNIT 💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎💎😃
Important videos for all men.... really love it ❤❤❤❤
My Ex came back twice and I was just using her for my own game.
because I knew she couldn’t find any man better man than me, that was why she kept on coming back
That’s great to hear good luck in life
I'm already moved on
Then she wish my bday
She said as a friend i wish you
😂
Mine did the same to me on my birthday, I told her to kick rocks. She didn't want to invest much of anything into our marriage and expected ALL the change from me after her adult kids wrecked what was a good thing and then she ran off with them. Bye
Here's the thing people need to realize. If you're going no contact and spending it to better yourself why would you go backwards after putting in all that work? I considered getting back with my ex wife and started working out and reading more and bettering myself. But then realized why should I put in all thks work just to go back to her? With my new improvements I can get someone better. Because she isn't spending the time bettering herself as well. So im going to be getting the same old chick and she gets the new and improved me? That's kind of dumb if you rhink about it.
Well if she didn’t want to fight for the relationship she not worth it.
Women dont fight for relationships they expect us to do that, They’ll just find another sucker to get over on
This post is to me is more precious than gold I’ve followed it and found it to be true
If it has gotten to the point where you have to watch a video like this to keep her, broda, mooove ooon!
I spent hours looking for a message like this 😢
Because this season in my life, my heart is in untold pain😭
But guess what? This video completely healed me right now 😢💝💝💝💖
Thank you so much sir I really appreciate you ❤🎉
You're so welcome Brice
This generation is ruthless Bro, It’s very rare to find a loyal and respectful partner. you must have more better works to do in your life than waiting for others message. Move On and she’s teaching you a lesson, Do learn it now or else you’ll be taught again by someone in the future.
@@TheStoicTribe101I'm hurt as well. My heart is also in secret until pain. She left me she said I'm broke she don't walk I got her walking she could do way better she told me she feels sorry for me she feels sorry for my kids I'm not a real man and she just repeated that I was broke kept repeating it. She just left me. I'm hurt and I saw this writing on the wall so all the red flags but I ignore them. Everything I said she tried to turn it into an argument like I was saying disrespectful stuff. Everything I did she turned it into like I was being disrespectful of being childish and immature no matter what I did or said she turned it into like I was being negative or trying to finesse her. So she won't ever take me back but I don't want her back. I want her but I don't want to. I just got to get on my ground and get on my feet
@@Farrock.redfern1302 You deserve way better than that shallow dipshit human. People who’re just out for themselves, insensitive and downright Narcissistic doesn’t deserve a spot in your life. Let her rot in the hell that she’s seeking. It’s not our job to fix other despicable humans. Let’s work on our purpose for which we’re put on this earth. Let everything else disappear. May the force be with you brother.
And guys you need to understand that you shouldn’t walk away just to get her to chase you and then take her back.
You weren’t her first choice which is why you had to walk away. Don’t take her back!
Thank You, bro. I needed this. I just went thru a breakup. I hadn't had a woman in 10 before I went out with her for a couple months.
Yeah and if she doesn’t chase you after you do this she simply is not for you so don’t be upset or discouraged. And this is something I’ve had trouble with until here recently when I learned that
So true🔥
Because you must not do all that work to improve based only on getting her back. You do it for your own betterment, you do it for your own happiness. Because if getting her back is what drives you to improve, you're already setting yourself up for disappointment. Too many shady men out there and too many immoral entitled self-serving women. Society by giving women FAR too much power, especially in divorce court, Rewards them for immoral selfish behavior. Think about it. Most women are flat out evil, period.
After watching this video and putting in the effort, the girl now really loves me, is very attached to me, and I can also control my emotions. Thank you so much.
You're welcome brother
Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Intriguing! I'm curious, how did you find a spiritual counselor, and what's the most effective way for me to reach him?
Dr Ben Spell Castle is the advisor I use. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with to set up an appointment
Thanks for sharing. I curiously searched for his full name and his website popped up after scrolling a bit.
Just curious guys how does this sound if a woman told you this ..." Me and your cousin was just flirting I don't want him like that because he don't want me like that besides he already has a woman and I want to make up for it!.... question (1) does that mean they messed around or (2) it was bout to lead to intimacy???
At the end of the day be yourself and if she is meant for you .....itll be or not!!!! Believe me when i say someone else will be in her place soon👍🏽
Thanks 🙏 😢
Has been 6 Months no contact no control no call calls no likes nothing she couldn’t no longer be able to contact me i blocked so I can heal the pains she inflicted on me, she will never be in my life again, what she do or how she doing it is irrelevant to me.
Thank you for this video .
Sounds like you’re on the right path! Healing takes time, but you’ve got this. Cheers to new beginnings!
Be strong brother 💪!! You're the man and will always find a better bitch trust me! Don't ever be submissive to a bitch!!!
Keep you’re head up you got this
your a genius, this helped me alot
In most cases, when you become that best version of yourself, she will never even know
You sure?
Not right man.. If you ever give her something valuable and then you witheld without making it chaos. Then she will stay her attention on your life even if she got married... But the condition is you didn't make any mess when you leave her...
Who cares? Do it for you not her!
It works 100%
To all the Good men reading this... If you ever go through a bad breakup like most of us you will..... But if you're the type of man who wants to fall in love again DON'T become financially set (read that again)..... If you become financially set after a breakup like I did you will never in your life fall in love or take another woman serious again
Thank you so much
Really appreciated
This video increases my confidence
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Now I can go back to my original version again.
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Dont make her crawl back. Just carry on walking. .. Making her crawl is an ego powertrip and this is childish in itself. Unless children are part of the relationship you should never see her again.
My wife divorced me , we live in different houses. I can see kids few times a week, i only feel sorry for kids i wont be there in midnight or morning to kiss them before work. But now i will hit gym hard , really hard and try to change my behaviour and act.
I'm in a relationship where I'm suddenly the one chasing her, I always apologize for everything. I'm always blamed for everything. I am the one stressing her like now she went drinking because someone said, "I she is a divorced" and I'm the one who helped her to be on her feet again. I called her she cancelled my call while I was still explaining. I sent her a massage saying I will accept everything she says. Now that I have listened to this it's me time
Bro, are you masculine or what? Come on! Work on your masculinity and get your balls back.
Better be with your brotherhood bro rather than these cheap women
@@simonec2751
I’m in the same boat definitely could use some brotherhood support.
No think about being buy your self when she's gone that really sinks hard hits home huge
I used to torment myself _ who is she out with, is she having a lot more fun than she would with me, why does she never text at night or on some weekends? Then I said to myself you know what?Who gives a shit!? What does it even matter? I allowed her and her vile adult kids to wreck me and then my marriage and she let them do the same and placed all the blame onto me. I knew better, I did all the right things while they did nothing but tear us down and talk shit because I didn't coddle them and agree to bowing to their every whim and baby fits that came when they didn't get their way. No time for adults who act like 12 year olds, wife included.
stoicism is the only way to go.
I agree with every point said here. thank you
When she come back with you everything great.
We deserve more
That's what God told me also. And I told her no more BS, I'm out!
This video beautifully simplifies Stoic philosophy! It’s inspiring and practical - a great reminder to focus on what we can control. Thanks for sharing!
The beginning sounds like the silent treatment. Which Is a manipulation tactic used to punish those who make us upset. As humans, we are social creatures. With that being said, we like to have conversations with people we enjoy spending time with. If it seems like we've hurt that person, we will do anything for them to forgive us. Because naturally most humans don't like when people have grudges against them.
My silence is my power. Let’s claim this moment together and if you’re together.
Good old days were the days when people use to comments all the points.
Reality that every honest man must follow dont be a fool begging for respect from your woman who has no value and respect for you if she's gone let go there more desperate one around, great advice.
Love yourself the most
Great video 👌🏾 Best thought through advice. Although, I would like to add, real love should not be a struggle or involve mind games. We should both feel at ease.
The no contact don't work anymore she just moved to the next victim.
Damnit that’s sucks..
focus on you , you must not have been as important as she proclaimed and lied about her feelings for you..reason I say this is because you have feelings and your still trying so if she did she wouldn’t have moved on so easy..she was over you before she was gone..hate to put it like that but it’s the honest truth..she would still be single at best if she cared
THANKS UNC HOPEFULLY IT WORKS!
Great video! My five year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him.
It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him.
That's incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact one?
His name is Owen Abiola, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in bringing back lost loves.
Owen Abiola has incredible powers, and he can assist you.
Thank you for sharing this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and I'm impressed.
Looks like i have done just everything wrong for the last 11 years.
Meantime our daughter is already 14.
I still want my family back.
But only now i really hear what i did wrong.
Wasted so many years trying,and basically i made it even worse.
Still believe i can change that.
For her to be with you for 11 yrs speaks volume. She really did care for you maybe you did something to turn her off but work on that and try again.
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Have learn so much in this Video ..I love it ....I will move in to next level
Let's goo 💪🔥
This video give me very new lessons and bring me into best version of me, thx
I just started watching your channel. But dude you get me. You think the same way I'm thinking 🤔 amazing
You explain everything so clearly and understandably, it's amazing!
Thank you!
Thank you man for speaking out the truth , that's what I needed God bless you
Thanks Jonah🙏
Holy sh*t I don’t watch stoic videos but this video was hella helpful honestly
My opinion for this, besides it s a very intruitive video, is that these methods are most working after long time relations that somehow knows one each other.
However, there is the risk when you pull back or stop responding, the other person, depending mainly how intrerests about you and how stuborn ang ego also is, might believe that you really don t want or care anymore and when you are waiting her to call or text you, she/ he is already seeking or even dating another person...
So be aware in what kind of level you want to bring it, because it s like walking on thin ice and you don t even know how this plan is going to end, good or bad, especially today that almost all of us count many times our precious time.
Unfortunately relations are quite compicated situations and canot just follow a list of written instructions with guarantee results...
My wife came back w another child that is not mine. I been w her for like a year now but they do come back the one thing I wish I listen to was this advice truly do this asap and you might save it especially B4 anything happens.
And you took her back with another man’s child. Are you really that desperate?
Another child lol bro we need guy code back i dont care how much you love her. That's an absolute No! You would have been laughed out the village with that said, i feel for you, and I hope you find peace! Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
You will never be respected by her again!
You took her back with another child ? OMG 😳