Just ignore her and don't give a damn. You have your life fellas. All you need to do is chase your goals and live your life. There are other people out here.
The key: love yourself first, invest in you: make money:gain self-confidence: don’t seek validation: get a sense of purpose: independence, get busy: be ware: not showing up: be unpredictable: pull back: she becomes obsessed: she gets afraid: she realizes your value: she works for your attention: she values it: she becomes intrigued, sparked, excited and attracted. Or she leaves, you don’t chase. You uphold your sense of self worth. Be scarce my guy!
@@ArethorDumus you’re doing it for all the wrong reasons friend. Whether she’s seeing it or not, do it for you. Others will gravitate, but remain in the mindset of abundance, meaning you’ll still shine regardless of who comes and goes
@@DosesofPwithKenny I know but it's really hard to just don't care about the fact that the specific person that i like don't like me back, so it's logic at that point thinking why i have to do all that since i don't care to eventually find another person in the future if it's not her. I mean i'm ok with myself but i don't think it's bad to just have a person to share my path with, specially if it's a specific person in which we have a lot in common
Then you push and pull them, that is if their intention is to make you suffer as you suggested. You can make her want you by building intrigue and attraction by ways of push and pull manipulation, meaning her measures to manipulate you shall receed.
@@31cifywhy would you want someone that don’t like you to like you ? The message is to move on and find someone on your temperature. Someone you can something genuine not some push and pull stunt
It's simple. If someone wants to be with you, they'll make it easy, very easy. If you face any difficulties, the person you like doesn't like you back. They are thinking of someone else. Move on, go where you are wanted.
This piece of advice is the reason why I always recommend guys to chase after money instead. My guy, money doesn't play these stupid games. Just be loyal to your hustle & it will pay off. Leave these women alone, they are not worthy the time & effort.
Money with no relationship is a fail, I did this when I was young and at some point you will ask yourself why you are working so hard and have no one to share it with and no family.
Giving space doesn't mean waiting for them, it's time to love yourself and meeting more people and if you are lucky meeting someone who sees your value and appreciate you.
*Respecting a woman’s space shows confidence and emotional maturity. It allows her to miss your presence, reflect on her feelings, and appreciate your independence - traits that naturally build attraction.*
I dont want to step back and do this and that. I just want someone to be real and honest. Someone who wants me just as myself as I want them. No games, just real life.
that is the best way if you know that your style and messaging etc is not overcrowding, communication is key, not smothering someone with icky BS and/or games
Truth be told, if i have to give you distance due to your goofy games and all what not.; be rest assured that i am quite pulling back for real and for good, not to win you back but for my peace of mind, mental health and improving my self. And not to win you back regardless; aint no way i am playing this needless mind games just to be with a girl, who aint acting right. She isn't worth it. Move on fellas and get someone who is serious about you and intentional to commit to a healthy relationships. I have been there and done that, and now happy with my spouse. Good luck
Well said. There's some other guy she floods his messages unsolicited so why should I bother with these games? I'm too busy and grown to be dealing with emotionally damaged women.
100% She either likes me as I am from the start, or I’m gone. I don’t “pull back,” I leave, and when I leave, I leave permanently. Gentlemen, don’t waste time playing games and pretending to be someone whom you are not.
Bro, 💯 this is exactly precisely correct. I have genuinely come to 100% feel disinterest when these goofy games start. I've been in both spots the guy she doesn't play those games with and the guy she does so I damn sure know the crystal clear difference
I have to agree, if a woman cannot handle even a little bit of you being a normal human being and being a supportive partner? Then you have to walk away from them, then that means she’s for the streets! I hate to say this, but some people just aren’t meant to be happy, they constantly throw grenades down at their own feet over and over and they end up single and alone in the future, don’t get tied to one of these. People have been through a lot, especially relationship trauma, are really looking for something specialand they won’t generally play games with you or treat you less than human. Respect yourself! Have self-respect and know yourself worth, and never flex for anybody on it.
Jess your videos have made me mastered this game in my relationships with women. The act of withdrawing your attention makes her wonder what changed and she starts to rather hit back while ignore her.
You know another superpower? Standing your ground for whats right, forgiving and loving despite the transgressions, and sending a CLEAR message no ones going ANYWHERE. No ones going away until we root out WTF actually happened and went down. Until we establish where the faults were, and if the person responsible has the adult maturity to cop to it and/or apologize. Thats a superpower, sticking around until wrongs are made right, then moving onto greener pastures. Thanks tho great vid
The most efficent is giving the woman space to miss you. if here if she truly misses you she will try to reach out to you and inquire why she's not heard from you but if doesnt miss you she will not even border getting back to you and this will be a clear sign that she's moved on so the move is simple let her go and never text her back.
i needed to receive this message for years. its always been a struggle for me to date because of this reason. I'm thankful to receive this wisdom now. no more people pleaser self abandonment !! thank you
also half the men in the comments are simply not getting it and it shows how hurt y'all are, which I genuinely hope we all can heal further. Jessica is saying that her playing "hard to get" is a reflection of her own feelings of self worth, not simply to play mind games and treat you poorly. The way to respond well and create a good dynamic is by maintaining BALANCE between the opposing forces of space and seeking connection, staying consistent and calm, and not jumping to any larger conclusions. This totally makes sense. But for us hurt brothers, if we don't have the inner emotional capacity to strike a balance and maintain emotional fortitude, we have to know that for ourselves and heal further before jumping back into the game of high value dating.
You can feel when someone you like likes you. There's an energy, an excitement, a joyful anticipation. If you're not getting that feeling, probably best let it go and move on.
I recently got reconnected with a girl that once rejected me, but now I am more cautious on her, not being overly enthusiastic and needy when I am with her, I just treat her like chill and simple when we come across each other at work, I also does 1:1 text game, if she replies I respond back and forth, if she dont then I dont, I know it is really hard especially when the interaction with her before was sweet and close, but I am thankful our friendship wasnt ruined due to the rejection. Now I can go with my life and sleep without thinking much about her as a way to complete my day
@@omellemmor4732 same brother, met a woman in the gym, 1st date went well, after that she “rejected me” …I knew my value so I stopped pursuing her gave her some space , months later SHE approached me in the gym …long story short we’ve been dating now going on 4 months. Now that I’m in her space, I do what you do…I don’t over text, I don’t reveal to much information right away, shit I barely even say hi to her or approach at the gym anymore…she’s told me on many occasions she LOVES that I give her , her time and space!
Yeah, in her eyes now, you are the MAN. The cool, calm and collected individual she couldn't bear to see with someone else. If she was to find out you'd been texting other women or flirting with others, jealousy would be raging inside her. This is exactly what you want.
There is a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, It's the real deal...
how do i know how much time and space to give them? my girlfriend and i broke up because she was feeling super overwhelmed by the love i was giving her from a very early stage, and i've been giving her space but how do i know how much to give her?
@ctrl_shift_QQ most likely she would let you know by letting you know she misses you, if not, then you need to create a chance, a moment and get back into her life. Find a way to get back as soon as you can but give her time to miss you and watch how much love you give, remember that even having to much of something good, can also be bad. Find a balance.
@@ctrl_shift_QQ dont listen to him, im going thru the same thing as you bro. just forget about her, learn to maintain frame and scout other girls - watch videos by Casey Zander. he'll teach you exactly what you did wrong and how not to do it again
I love it.. very mature delivery.. she didn't say anything out of this world, because the truth is simple - the more something is available, the less value we placed on it.. I love my wife dearly, but I do start taking her for granted eventually.. then she leaves me.. then I pull my socks up.. she let's me back in and repeat. However, it's not a pointless exercise and through our pain I discovered the depths of my being that I didn't know existed and she's done a lot of work on her emotional control..
And if she blocked you just dont do whats showed in the video just move on and let it go. Value yourself more than you valued her. Dont look back thats very important. I learned this the hard way and i would never want any man to go through this.
I completely vanished from my ex's world again. She needs to learn there was one man that refused to be eating from her hand. I don't know if it was the right thing to do, but I followed my gut. She can get any man she wants. It's her world. I'm just no longer in it.
Absolutely spot on here 💯 The opportunity to miss you >>>>> Then striking a balance not to come across as being mean so as not to be totally detached, such an awesome skill Thanks Jess!
I’m in a long distance relationship and I can say I feel more loved than I did in a non distant relationship, cause when we see each other it’s always epic and no drama it’s the best and she is a devine feminine woman it’s in her not on her
🇯🇲🇯🇲 Milking the already dehydrated cow. She is doing that by infusing water somehow. Jessica, you’re good, you’re very well endowed. I remember when you were struggling to be proud. Wode Maya said find your niche even in the cloud. You found mysteries of women “men don’t know”. Glad to see your channel blooms as it mature/grows. Lesson: never be too proud to ask when don’t know. Many times pride is used only for a public show. What we reap are from that which we sew.
Combining this video and the forbidden book called Flirtosphere Seduction made it so incredibly helpful for me. I was not successful with women, however this is a game changer. Guys, it's THAT amazing
I wonder why showing love to a girl works against you sometimes.. Its easy to attract girls you don't like cause you unconsciously do these mentioned steps. U give them less time, you reach out late, u balance everything unconsciously. But for a girl you love, you are always conscious of what you doing, making it harder cause everything is in play, your mind and emotions. All in all, these are good lessons🔥 worth "practicing" cause its not easy doing it consciously.
@@MTechSounds because she can tell when you are into her and it tells her subs consciously that she’s out of your league or on her level and women want to feel like they’re dating UP, someone above them
I loved a girl. But she had a Toxic past. But still i overlooked her past and loved her. She just used me for boosting her self esteem and her needs. Being a man I'm very strong during my hard times. But she hurt me so Worsley and made me this much weak that I cried for her. And i told her that I'm hurt. And gave her distance forever. I decided to walk away forever. One thing i understood very well now. If a girl will love me she will make everything easy for me to get her. But if she don't love me and have someone in her heart and mind so she will make it difficult. Now i have no emotions. I became completely like a rock.
@mayamajumder6666 I am currently experiencing this.. it's hard to direct her to the right part even though her past is toxic, but it seems like she doesn't value me..😭😭
@GoroaIru-mm9pg Leav her bro. I know it's easy to advise but hard to apply. But I took that challenge fought with myself inside of my mind. I cried several times whenever Iam alone at my room . But it's now 2 months I left her . Iam healing now . Believe me bro one you take this bold step and walk away for first 10 days it will be hard to control. But you have to control. Once you gain control slowly your mind your heart will calm down. Mantain consistency no matter what don't get back to your ex. And live your life with standards may lord give you the strength.
First I want to say THANK YOU Jessica Os you're the reason I know difference btwn LoVE and mercy,Iam a new commer. proverb that relates with this topic is "sun can only be appreciated by it absence."
Her videos are addictive & apart from leaning more about love affairs also I'm learning English her English is very understandable words are loud and clear ❤
It explains things most guys don’t think about. I also learned a lot from reading a book called Flirtosphere Seduction by Vexoner. The book helped me understand women better and feel more confident. Combining tips from videos like this and the book really made a difference for me.
Thanks for the video Jessica. I´m from Mexico and I agree that sometimes is hard to find the right balance between being distance and clingy. I recently found your channel and it helps me to know more about my behaviors. Greetings from Mexico City.
That True Ma'am You've nailed it📌,,, Distance is the Best option by giving Yourself time and gaining Your happiness back,,, Smart Content Madam Jess 💙💙 🥰🥰 Thank's🙏🙏.
Currently, I am handling a relatively straightforward situation. The individual in question has removed me from their social media platforms due to a disagreement regarding boundaries and respect. I communicated to her that I had erected emotional barriers as a response to her disregard for my personal boundaries.
@joshuamac6302 well can't really do much since she blocked me when I told her she had overstepped my boundaries over and over again. Even erased 2 years of memories I had of our kid we have together
You are right, Jessy; when you give them distance, that is when they actually come back, especially those who are interested but playing hide and seek. But those who are actually not interested will not bother ooooooo
if the energy dont match keep it moving. this is just a mental game to play. If shes into you you will know. if shes irritated by your attention shes not wifee material for you.
Thanks for the analogies Jess,this video is a good lesson for me to remember and put into practice especially at the start of this new month,you have wise words 💙
Nowadays you give her space, she will come after you, but there has been someone keeping her busy, so you were not missed. you are sittimg there thinking she learnt a lesson😂😂😂
Women’s logic is so convoluted and confusing. I understand and kind of agree with what Jessica is saying, but in the end, it usually feels like a tired and draining game to make women feel comfortable that further confuses us men. As an example, j get the “let some time pass before you reply to her text”, but if I’m sitting here and can carve out ten seconds of my day to reply, why wouldn’t I? To me, that shows being in control of your day and responding accordingly. The fact that it makes me come across as thirsty or too caring makes zero sense to me. I get it, but my life can be fulfilling, busy, and simultaneously, managed enough to make time to communicate how I feel in a timely fashion. As a man, I feel like I should be so in control of my life and affairs that my availability is open because I’m in control, but having to intentionally become more aloof when I have availability is juvenile to me. I’m a good looking, confident man so my perspective is my own, but I’d much rather pursue semi reciprocity than playing like I’m busy when I can make time just to appease a woman. So nonsensical to me, but I get it - to a point, but I’d rather focus on those who can communicate their desires and needs somewhat clearly than anything else.
She's right If the girl is not into you, you should give her time, am talking about a girl that you really like or in love with her. To understand this time thing, you should experience the feeling when a girl is into you and you don't like her and she's always available. You wouldn't like that
Miss Jessica I love your voice, it's calm , articulate , smooth - everything is just right to make a lasting impression. As a guy I would also love to develop my voice to be as calm and articulate to have a lasting impression on others. How can I do that?
Best thing u can do is find some one who actually wants you and then stop chasing weirdos who don't want you. And then work on having. A family and these 304 games will not long be a issue
Wow. Guys actually do all this figuring out? Please. I wouldn’t dare. If she’s not reciprocating my energy then I’m going to give her Super Powers Space. 🤭 “Thank You!” for sharing 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸
The hardest part of this is trying to determine what your someone-else is thinking. You might think that you are doing everything correctly, but she might think that you are being cruel or that you have lost interest. You need a way to get feedback about how you are coming across. Then you can adjust as necessary.
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The sooner you give up , the better of you are. Don't go where you are tolerated, go where you are wanted.
@@sneakybidder4584 learned this the hard way
Exactly
Just ignore her and don't give a damn. You have your life fellas. All you need to do is chase your goals and live your life. There are other people out here.
Helluva comment Cool
@coolwater1573 you are right. Chase goals, not women.
Plenty of fish in the ocean 🌊
The key: love yourself first, invest in you: make money:gain self-confidence: don’t seek validation: get a sense of purpose: independence, get busy: be ware: not showing up: be unpredictable: pull back: she becomes obsessed: she gets afraid: she realizes your value: she works for your attention: she values it: she becomes intrigued, sparked, excited and attracted. Or she leaves, you don’t chase. You uphold your sense of self worth.
Be scarce my guy!
She don't even follow me on social media, so even if i love myself first she can't see my glow up so i really doubt that doing this can attract her...
@@ArethorDumus you’re doing it for all the wrong reasons friend. Whether she’s seeing it or not, do it for you. Others will gravitate, but remain in the mindset of abundance, meaning you’ll still shine regardless of who comes and goes
@@Joennndnnn this is true when you pull back, focus on yourself, she still try everything to get back into your life, deny access completely.
@@DosesofPwithKenny I know but it's really hard to just don't care about the fact that the specific person that i like don't like me back, so it's logic at that point thinking why i have to do all that since i don't care to eventually find another person in the future if it's not her. I mean i'm ok with myself but i don't think it's bad to just have a person to share my path with, specially if it's a specific person in which we have a lot in common
Be scarce but be busy building yourself or your just playing games & wasting time.
As a very good friend of mine once told her daughter "give people the opportunity to miss you sometimes" plain and simple.
Fellas
They don't play mind games with the one they want.... remember they make you suffer cause the one they want doesn't want them....
Then you push and pull them, that is if their intention is to make you suffer as you suggested. You can make her want you by building intrigue and attraction by ways of push and pull manipulation, meaning her measures to manipulate you shall receed.
@@31cifywhy would you want someone that don’t like you to like you ? The message is to move on and find someone on your temperature. Someone you can something genuine not some push and pull stunt
not always true ,they can want u n when u get in a rship she can get too sure bout herself testing u ... happens there too just stay unfazed
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👂🏾TO THE POINT BINGO👂🏾
@@31cify Move on. No need to prove anything.
I gave her so much space I moved away ✌🏻
lol
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@@millipede070707 bro have been in RUclips for 17 years while I am still 15 years old
Same
It's simple. If someone wants to be with you, they'll make it easy, very easy.
If you face any difficulties, the person you like doesn't like you back. They are thinking of someone else.
Move on, go where you are wanted.
This piece of advice is the reason why I always recommend guys to chase after money instead. My guy, money doesn't play these stupid games. Just be loyal to your hustle & it will pay off. Leave these women alone, they are not worthy the time & effort.
@@classicurbangroovesmovemen5447 That's is pure truth I all men knew money will never change unless u are not consistent.🤞🏿
@@classicurbangroovesmovemen5447 facts I agree they a waist of time and energy
Money with no relationship is a fail, I did this when I was young and at some point you will ask yourself why you are working so hard and have no one to share it with and no family.
Lol exactly
@@AusTechandNatureagreed
New month, new opportunities and new blessings. Claim it! 🌻
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Amen 🙏
Dream on.
I gave her so much space I moved on. I don’t care anymore 😊
Exactly. Screw that.
@@SylhetTel fr i hate that i have to act like i don’t care to get a text back. Not stooping that low
@@SylhetTel my dawg
Giving space doesn't mean waiting for them, it's time to love yourself and meeting more people and if you are lucky meeting someone who sees your value and appreciate you.
Once you stop chasing the wrong things the right ones catch you
2:45 'It's not that you weren't good enough, you gave too much too soon.' Spot on!
*Respecting a woman’s space shows confidence and emotional maturity. It allows her to miss your presence, reflect on her feelings, and appreciate your independence - traits that naturally build attraction.*
Fantastic! You've got it. It's the game of push and pull manipulation.
Awesome! Ill remember this, thank you kind sir 🙏
I dont want to step back and do this and that. I just want someone to be real and honest. Someone who wants me just as myself as I want them. No games, just real life.
facts
Huh 😢
You have to play the game man else you will lose 😮
@khamissusa lol sure buddy
that is the best way if you know that your style and messaging etc is not overcrowding, communication is key, not smothering someone with icky BS and/or games
I repeat texting a lady with all the complementary words and she response with "okay" is more dangerous than she responding with an emoji😂
if she says that she is already indifferent
Swears😂😂
Truth be told, if i have to give you distance due to your goofy games and all what not.; be rest assured that i am quite pulling back for real and for good, not to win you back but for my peace of mind, mental health and improving my self. And not to win you back regardless; aint no way i am playing this needless mind games just to be with a girl, who aint acting right. She isn't worth it. Move on fellas and get someone who is serious about you and intentional to commit to a healthy relationships. I have been there and done that, and now happy with my spouse. Good luck
had a girl started to do this i started to see my fwb ,its a turn off
Well said. There's some other guy she floods his messages unsolicited so why should I bother with these games? I'm too busy and grown to be dealing with emotionally damaged women.
100% She either likes me as I am from the start, or I’m gone. I don’t “pull back,” I leave, and when I leave, I leave permanently.
Gentlemen, don’t waste time playing games and pretending to be someone whom you are not.
Bro, 💯 this is exactly precisely correct. I have genuinely come to 100% feel disinterest when these goofy games start. I've been in both spots the guy she doesn't play those games with and the guy she does so I damn sure know the crystal clear difference
I have to agree, if a woman cannot handle even a little bit of you being a normal human being and being a supportive partner? Then you have to walk away from them, then that means she’s for the streets! I hate to say this, but some people just aren’t meant to be happy, they constantly throw grenades down at their own feet over and over and they end up single and alone in the future, don’t get tied to one of these. People have been through a lot, especially relationship trauma, are really looking for something specialand they won’t generally play games with you or treat you less than human. Respect yourself! Have self-respect and know yourself worth, and never flex for anybody on it.
Jess your videos have made me mastered this game in my relationships with women. The act of withdrawing your attention makes her wonder what changed and she starts to rather hit back while ignore her.
I did the same a few weeks ago after she started ignoring my calls and texts. Suddenly she appeared, this really works.
@@stevendaba156 how is everything going so far, are you still talking to her and is everything working out?
You know another superpower? Standing your ground for whats right, forgiving and loving despite the transgressions, and sending a CLEAR message no ones going ANYWHERE. No ones going away until we root out WTF actually happened and went down. Until we establish where the faults were, and if the person responsible has the adult maturity to cop to it and/or apologize. Thats a superpower, sticking around until wrongs are made right, then moving onto greener pastures. Thanks tho great vid
The most efficent is giving the woman space to miss you. if here if she truly misses you she will try to reach out to you and inquire why she's not heard from you but if doesnt miss you she will not even border getting back to you and this will be a clear sign that she's moved on so the move is simple let her go and never text her back.
i needed to receive this message for years. its always been a struggle for me to date because of this reason. I'm thankful to receive this wisdom now. no more people pleaser self abandonment !! thank you
also half the men in the comments are simply not getting it and it shows how hurt y'all are, which I genuinely hope we all can heal further. Jessica is saying that her playing "hard to get" is a reflection of her own feelings of self worth, not simply to play mind games and treat you poorly. The way to respond well and create a good dynamic is by maintaining BALANCE between the opposing forces of space and seeking connection, staying consistent and calm, and not jumping to any larger conclusions. This totally makes sense. But for us hurt brothers, if we don't have the inner emotional capacity to strike a balance and maintain emotional fortitude, we have to know that for ourselves and heal further before jumping back into the game of high value dating.
It sounds so confusing and that’s probably what makes it correct, give attention but not to much, give space but don’t go cold.
Balanced mindset
Balance
I went cold in doing so 😭😭
it is just called living life and not being obsessed
You can feel when someone you like likes you. There's an energy, an excitement, a joyful anticipation. If you're not getting that feeling, probably best let it go and move on.
This will help me. I have been always available and showing interest but she doesn't care
I recently got reconnected with a girl that once rejected me, but now I am more cautious on her, not being overly enthusiastic and needy when I am with her, I just treat her like chill and simple when we come across each other at work, I also does 1:1 text game, if she replies I respond back and forth, if she dont then I dont, I know it is really hard especially when the interaction with her before was sweet and close, but I am thankful our friendship wasnt ruined due to the rejection. Now I can go with my life and sleep without thinking much about her as a way to complete my day
you reclaimed your power ✨✅
At work? Come on man, don't S where you eat.
@@omellemmor4732 same brother, met a woman in the gym, 1st date went well, after that she “rejected me” …I knew my value so I stopped pursuing her gave her some space , months later SHE approached me in the gym …long story short we’ve been dating now going on 4 months. Now that I’m in her space, I do what you do…I don’t over text, I don’t reveal to much information right away, shit I barely even say hi to her or approach at the gym anymore…she’s told me on many occasions she LOVES that I give her , her time and space!
Yeah, in her eyes now, you are the MAN. The cool, calm and collected individual she couldn't bear to see with someone else. If she was to find out you'd been texting other women or flirting with others, jealousy would be raging inside her. This is exactly what you want.
Update. That was 5 days ago. We need an update
There is a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, It's the real deal...
I just don’t know how to show you how blessed I am since I discovered this channel! God bless you for me Jessica
Give people some time of absence to know that you are important in their lives, but not enough so they can figure out they will be fine with out you.
how do i know how much time and space to give them? my girlfriend and i broke up because she was feeling super overwhelmed by the love i was giving her from a very early stage, and i've been giving her space but how do i know how much to give her?
@ctrl_shift_QQ most likely she would let you know by letting you know she misses you, if not, then you need to create a chance, a moment and get back into her life. Find a way to get back as soon as you can but give her time to miss you and watch how much love you give, remember that even having to much of something good, can also be bad. Find a balance.
@@ctrl_shift_QQ dont listen to him, im going thru the same thing as you bro. just forget about her, learn to maintain frame and scout other girls - watch videos by Casey Zander. he'll teach you exactly what you did wrong and how not to do it again
if they are fine without you, then that truly means you will get dumped at some point probably in the near future.
I love it.. very mature delivery.. she didn't say anything out of this world, because the truth is simple - the more something is available, the less value we placed on it..
I love my wife dearly, but I do start taking her for granted eventually.. then she leaves me.. then I pull my socks up.. she let's me back in and repeat.
However, it's not a pointless exercise and through our pain I discovered the depths of my being that I didn't know existed and she's done a lot of work on her emotional control..
@@ozzie_kal what now ?
I'm going to focus on My Life. Thank You Jesica
That's what I already started and it's testing bro
Stumbled upon this channel out of curiosity and man this is 100% on point! Liked and subscribed.
And if she blocked you just dont do whats showed in the video just move on and let it go. Value yourself more than you valued her. Dont look back thats very important. I learned this the hard way and i would never want any man to go through this.
I completely vanished from my ex's world again. She needs to learn there was one man that refused to be eating from her hand. I don't know if it was the right thing to do, but I followed my gut. She can get any man she wants. It's her world. I'm just no longer in it.
Yep! I secretly agree with every word you spoke here
so how's it going?
You have to be in control of yourself or you’ll never be your own man. A woman who thinks she can control you will always test you
@@arth.3899 did she come back
Absolutely spot on here 💯
The opportunity to miss you >>>>>
Then striking a balance not to come across as being mean so as not to be totally detached, such an awesome skill
Thanks Jess!
I feel like I have failed all of these but I will take this week to do this! Thank you Jessica! 🙏🏼
I’m in a long distance relationship and I can say I feel more loved than I did in a non distant relationship, cause when we see each other it’s always epic and no drama it’s the best and she is a devine feminine woman it’s in her not on her
Stay straight lace -NO CHASE
🇯🇲🇯🇲 Milking the already dehydrated cow.
She is doing that by infusing water somehow.
Jessica, you’re good, you’re very well endowed.
I remember when you were struggling to be proud.
Wode Maya said find your niche even in the cloud.
You found mysteries of women “men don’t know”.
Glad to see your channel blooms as it mature/grows.
Lesson: never be too proud to ask when don’t know.
Many times pride is used only for a public show.
What we reap are from that which we sew.
All this applies to when she is not obsessed about you. My advice just be happy with yourself and let no one be the reason for your happiness.
Combining this video and the forbidden book called Flirtosphere Seduction made it so incredibly helpful for me. I was not successful with women, however this is a game changer. Guys, it's THAT amazing
Good common Sense with any relationship.Offer your hand if they take it you have a start If not don’t look back Move along until you are appreciated.
I wonder why showing love to a girl works against you sometimes..
Its easy to attract girls you don't like cause you unconsciously do these mentioned steps. U give them less time, you reach out late, u balance everything unconsciously.
But for a girl you love, you are always conscious of what you doing, making it harder cause everything is in play, your mind and emotions.
All in all, these are good lessons🔥 worth "practicing" cause its not easy doing it consciously.
@@MTechSounds because she can tell when you are into her and it tells her subs consciously that she’s out of your league or on her level and women want to feel like they’re dating UP, someone above them
@Jacob96wv 😅😅oh my!! Ladies!! Uufff
@@MTechSounds be slow to reply , don’t complement her ever unless special occasion , say you look nice, quit validating her
I loved a girl. But she had a Toxic past. But still i overlooked her past and loved her. She just used me for boosting her self esteem and her needs. Being a man I'm very strong during my hard times. But she hurt me so Worsley and made me this much weak that I cried for her. And i told her that I'm hurt. And gave her distance forever. I decided to walk away forever. One thing i understood very well now. If a girl will love me she will make everything easy for me to get her. But if she don't love me and have someone in her heart and mind so she will make it difficult. Now i have no emotions. I became completely like a rock.
@@mayamajumder6666 i have exactly the same story as you 😭😭😭 same thought
I have exactly the same story as you.. same experience 😭 .same thought .. i feel you😭
@mayamajumder6666 I am currently experiencing this.. it's hard to direct her to the right part even though her past is toxic, but it seems like she doesn't value me..😭😭
@GoroaIru-mm9pg Leav her bro. I know it's easy to advise but hard to apply. But I took that challenge fought with myself inside of my mind. I cried several times whenever Iam alone at my room . But it's now 2 months I left her . Iam healing now . Believe me bro one you take this bold step and walk away for first 10 days it will be hard to control. But you have to control. Once you gain control slowly your mind your heart will calm down. Mantain consistency no matter what don't get back to your ex. And live your life with standards may lord give you the strength.
That is no good either, that is just baggage, just think of the traits and select better fit
I gave her so much I can see Elon, Mars, and The solar system ✌🏾✌🏾✌🏾
You're a rare lady, Jessica.
Thank you for spewing wisdom 🙏🏿
First I want to say THANK YOU Jessica Os you're the reason I know difference btwn LoVE and mercy,Iam a new commer. proverb that relates with this topic is "sun can only be appreciated by it absence."
You are so welcome
Brilliant advice as always Jessica, love it
Her videos are addictive & apart from leaning more about love affairs also I'm learning English her English is very understandable words are loud and clear ❤
Very great and good video. 👌🙏
Silence, stillness and distance are the key.
This is my experience right now.
Thank you Jessica you're my relationship saver really ❤
Jessica we're really appreciate you. as a men we need this
It explains things most guys don’t think about. I also learned a lot from reading a book called Flirtosphere Seduction by Vexoner. The book helped me understand women better and feel more confident. Combining tips from videos like this and the book really made a difference for me.
You, my dear - are BRILLIANT !
Wow, that means a lot! 😊
It pains me not to watch all your videos. I drove a lot of Enlightenment from your channel 😢❤
I'm so glad you're getting value from the channel!
Thanks for the video Jessica. I´m from Mexico and I agree that sometimes is hard to find the right balance between being distance and clingy. I recently found your channel and it helps me to know more about my behaviors. Greetings from Mexico City.
I hope my channel continues to help you. Greetings from here!
That True Ma'am You've nailed it📌,,, Distance is the Best option by giving Yourself time and gaining Your happiness back,,,
Smart Content Madam Jess 💙💙 🥰🥰
Thank's🙏🙏.
This information is absolutely positively 💯 correct
This lady is extremely underrated
@@knowledgehub7049 underrated? At 1 million+ subs?
ty for sliding into my Playlist with this 😊
I'm here to help! 😊
Currently, I am handling a relatively straightforward situation. The individual in question has removed me from their social media platforms due to a disagreement regarding boundaries and respect. I communicated to her that I had erected emotional barriers as a response to her disregard for my personal boundaries.
I wouldnt have done this, but I'm also not you... I believe it's coming across a bit emotional and feminine.
@joshuamac6302 well can't really do much since she blocked me when I told her she had overstepped my boundaries over and over again. Even erased 2 years of memories I had of our kid we have together
This video is layered with so many gems. Thank you.
You’re welcome! So glad you found it helpful.
Let me be first to appreciate Madam Jessica
You're sweet Jessie, thank you for this 🎉❤😊
No problem 😊
Well said sister 👏🏼 🙌🏾 👍🏽 ❤️ 👌
You are right, Jessy; when you give them distance, that is when they actually come back, especially those who are interested but playing hide and seek. But those who are actually not interested will not bother ooooooo
The things you say in this video are so so true. Thanks a lot
Wow.This is really good advice for today’s dating scene.You are wise beyond your years Jess!
My best RUclipsr 💯. Thank you for making me a better man. Much love from Kampala Uganda 🇺🇬
if the energy dont match keep it moving. this is just a mental game to play. If shes into you you will know. if shes irritated by your attention shes not wifee material for you.
Thanks for the analogies Jess,this video is a good lesson for me to remember and put into practice especially at the start of this new month,you have wise words 💙
Thankyou for this, I really needed perspective on my situation.
True talk, wish I can meet J. OS Someday, I appreciate this program a lot 😊
I hope so too!
Nowadays you give her space, she will come after you, but there has been someone keeping her busy, so you were not missed. you are sittimg there thinking she learnt a lesson😂😂😂
That's my biggest fear
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@@ThePundit99 then she is not for you, someone is not you, you are different
@ricksenyoder8043 She is for both of you🤣
Loving this
Morning community
Women’s logic is so convoluted and confusing. I understand and kind of agree with what Jessica is saying, but in the end, it usually feels like a tired and draining game to make women feel comfortable that further confuses us men. As an example, j get the “let some time pass before you reply to her text”, but if I’m sitting here and can carve out ten seconds of my day to reply, why wouldn’t I? To me, that shows being in control of your day and responding accordingly. The fact that it makes me come across as thirsty or too caring makes zero sense to me. I get it, but my life can be fulfilling, busy, and simultaneously, managed enough to make time to communicate how I feel in a timely fashion. As a man, I feel like I should be so in control of my life and affairs that my availability is open because I’m in control, but having to intentionally become more aloof when I have availability is juvenile to me. I’m a good looking, confident man so my perspective is my own, but I’d much rather pursue semi reciprocity than playing like I’m busy when I can make time just to appease a woman. So nonsensical to me, but I get it - to a point, but I’d rather focus on those who can communicate their desires and needs somewhat clearly than anything else.
She's right If the girl is not into you, you should give her time, am talking about a girl that you really like or in love with her. To understand this time thing, you should experience the feeling when a girl is into you and you don't like her and she's always available. You wouldn't like that
Keep your mindset in "Hope of Gain" never in "Fear of Loss"
Your videos are so interesting and undeniable. Thanks once again
Blessed December, Jessica! It is so nice to have you back where you belong.
Thank you so much! Where have you been? You were missed
Miss Jessica I love your voice, it's calm , articulate , smooth - everything is just right to make a lasting impression.
As a guy I would also love to develop my voice to be as calm and articulate to have a lasting impression on others. How can I do that?
Very balanced and helpful. Thank you Jessica....
Can't get enough of your content 😊 👍🏼💯
I'm glad you're enjoying it!
Best thing u can do is find some one who actually wants you and then stop chasing weirdos who don't want you. And then work on having. A family and these 304 games will not long be a issue
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I'm doing exactly that now 🙂👍🏿💯
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Wow. Guys actually do all this figuring out? Please. I wouldn’t dare. If she’s not reciprocating my energy then I’m going to give her Super Powers Space. 🤭
“Thank You!” for sharing
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This is nice info but having to KNOW all this just to connect with another person is OVER kill. It will happen if it is meant to BE
you are very good at what you do
It depends because you think you are in relationship, but realize you really didn't mean anything to them.
I gave her distance, she didn’t chase me it’s been a year.
During that time, hopefully you've done some work so that it won't matter any more to you.
@@Slqalang she didn't love you bro
@@Slqalang She didn't value you enough. It's been 2 months, she hasn't called or even texted
HAHAHAHAH that's okay bro cheer up!!
Bro stay up. She prob ruined some other dudes life
You a seat in heaven. God bless you
We call it Silence Treatment🔥🔥🔥
I’m dealing with this right now. Very tough to not communicate when you feel like it, but I’m working hard to control my urges to reach out.
The hardest part of this is trying to determine what your someone-else is thinking. You might think that you are doing everything correctly, but she might think that you are being cruel or that you have lost interest. You need a way to get feedback about how you are coming across. Then you can adjust as necessary.
“First you get the money, then you get the power, then you get the girl,” Scarface.
Lol I don't need the girl..
@@jeffreyasiegbu9060 must be why your watching this video huh
@@DamaDojo1 lol stumbled on it.. Jus curious. I love money, women love money so...
@ i dont think anyone should "love" money
This Crazy! I’m literally going through this now
Attachment style makes a difference too
@@iamjayfigueroa Keep your head up so many beautiful women brother
oh yeah, this is a huge one, you cannot win in some situations
True been ther its painfull 😢 Thanks Jess for this i am courage now
Great content thank you 😊
I gave her distance, and decided I never wanted to come back.
Thanks so much for this ❤