Make her chase you!!! How??? The answer is: Focus on your dreams/goals. This is exactly what I'm doing. No more chasing women! Thank you sister! You're my favorite on this! Love you!
I’ve wasted years after chasing and it never hit me until I lost my dreams, I put all my effort into the relationship and all I did was to complete her goal and not mine, hope all men see this and learn, I learn the hard way.
Facts my dumbass falls for everytime. I think I can give them something that they never got with all the past relationships. I could of had cash to buy a 200000 house
Yes and alot of them are a big waste of money..and most time you chase a woman at times when you finally get them your not as interested anymore she probably done do so many things to make you change your mind
I spent my 20’s chasing relationships. My last relationship were fucked me up. Depressed & not eating. I ended up getting a gig & got back chasing my goals. I’ve been traveling & working ever since. Chase your goals fellas. If y’all aren’t chasing each other then stop. You deserve love & effort too.
As a 19 years old, I really felt like you're my older sister and wanna give me some advice and life lessons. Thanks to RUclips for recommending me this.
I'm over 50 and still learn from RUclips @@jt.8144. There is definitely a lot of bunk here too but in that mess of bunk, there are nuggets of gold. This lady gives good advice and there is A LOT of good advice on RUclips. It's the world we live in; to draw from others and their experiences but in this generation, it's times 1000. You just have to separate the wheat from the chaff.
@@jt.8144 how is it a bad thing for someone to obtain advice and knowledge from RUclips? Isn't that the whole point of these channels and the internet itself? There are people who don't have a figure in their life to give them guidance or personal experience to help reflect. These types of videos aid so many ppl to feel a little less alone and lost and im grateful for this video Jessica made 💙
No dating apps no social media no chasing women. Focusing on myself. Living alone doesn’t make it easy especially when get inside your head feel needy and lonely but just have to push through the mental stuff. One day at a time
Dude it’s the same with me. I’m happy being alone and focusing on my stuff but it does get challenging when you see all these couples everywhere you sometimes wonder what am I doing… but it only lasts for a couple of minutes haha then I’m back to liking myself
Alone? Its time you guys start dating abroad. Brazil etc, better women in every possible way with significantly less the effort. That loneliness and depression is not healthy for us regardless of what anyone says. We have needs and we just cant get them in this country which is weird as hell.
Bro you’re not the only one. Focus always on yourself my King. I went tru many sh*** in life with girls I loved, and trust me, you’re doing good. Work, learn always something new, set goals, buy a house, etc.. The right person will come to ya at the right time. I’ve been alone for 8 years and I still am. You play games, go to bar, talk to your friends when you have the time, money is not an issue, life is beautiful, and I most importantly, I don’t focus on these so called beautiful woman from the outside but rotten on the inside. Waiting for you to break, so they can squeeze you in every sense possible. Mostly monetary.
@@neo5973 bro facts. I saw this dude having a hard time with his girl, she was being rude and disrespectful. I felt bad for him but at the same time I was like yo I’m happy I’m not living that life. I always say, the right person will come to ya. Just give it time. I rather whack of*** than having a chick that after giving you some pus*** start taking dominance in certain ways.
Keep pushing brother. It is all about quality over quantity, it applied for relationships and friendships. I deleted all my social media and freed myself from so much waste of energy and curated alternatives realities.
Agreed. Imagine begging someone to love you. If we vibe and we are both looking for a relationship, we should start determining if we are compatible. It's a 2-way street. No one is doing the other a favor.
As a woman a man chasing me, repulses me. It makes me feel like he's desperate. It makes me cringe. Trust a man I want, will never have to chase me, if I'm into man I speak up, or if he pursues me I'll agree. But nothing makes a woman want you more, than a man working on his goals. It let's woman know your mindful about your life, and possibly those in it. It makes a woman feel safe, & secure with you. As much as I love being important to a man I love, but if his dreams, and goals aren't just as important I feel like he's weak, & is a ticking time bomb bcus in return he will be looking for me to satisfy, his lack of care for his goals, he will take until there's nothing left. Bcus he's not giving to himself. In return leaves a woman feeling drained, and him feeling like a failure.
She is world class. Now where is the video tell black women how to conduct themselves to get black men to show them more respect, there must be a code of conduct for black women. I See so many video putting down black women concerned there additude.
ive come across a plethora of female dating advice in my lifetime but this right here is the most to the point, factual and no bs advice ive ever seen.. definitely great video
Never ever have I chased any woman. My dad taught me early on never to go running behind any woman because another one would come along in a few minutes...chasing only makes you look like you're less than someone else's equal and so forth. I've taught my sons the exact same thing! NEVER CHASE ANY WOMAN! PERIOD.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Just started dating this year after a 4 year hiatus and it’s been mostly a disappointing experience. I also immediately started slacking in the Gym as soon as I began dating. Going to just focus on myself for a while and keep leveling up my career.
That's what I've been doing and women think I'm proud because I don't chase or beg. I court, you decline, I walk away. Or you accept, we date Thank you Jessica
You're absolutely right Jessica. I have been a victim of relationships for years. However, your videos transform my life completely because I have experienced most of those things with women. Thanks a lot for this wonderful job 💞💞💞.
Truth be told Jess, you hit the nail on the head in this video. I always tell my gender "Chase your dreams, the women will come later" no woman wants to be with an unsuccessful man. Also she will respect you even more when she sees that you're operating on a certain frequency. Thanks for this piece ✌️
Can confirm this. I had a crush on a girl and “chased” her for over a year. It was during highschool. I noticed that I was being rejected and just stopped giving her every sort of attention in just an instant. Summer break was over and she suddenly began chasing me. Like having a conversation with me whenever she saw an opportunity, starting lots of nonsene small talk and or taking a seat near me
If someone has a pattern of continually “misunderstanding” you, there’s a good chance you’re getting manipulated. You could end up talking yourself in circles which will be draining, harm your mental health, and make you too emotional so that you can’t think clearly. Many people like this are no different at their core than people who are OPENLY verbally and physically abusive, they’re just more sneaky about it, and there’s a good chance that the physical and/or verbal (aka overt) abuse is on its way. Covert abuse is very hard to spot
This is one of the best description to my recent experience. I've never had the right words to describe it but this sums it up! A painful place to be in. FYI, just came across this channel and great content.
Bro this is excalty what I had, she kept lying about things, hiding things for me and when I was asking something about why some things are like that she couldnt tell me truth. And one day believe I had a bad feeling that she was cheating! And boommm i caught her
The sound of your voice is so soothing. I Like your choice of words too. Great video straight to the point and simple. I believe every guy has chased a chick at some point in their lives but personally I always knew no one should be chasing be it a man or a woman. If you’re going to chase them, let them go!
Why do people think u can't chase women and work on ur success at the same time? If u would really stop improving yourself or giving 100% in ur job/business just because u're chasing a girl, then u have a different problem. If u ignore girls until u have money, then u attract more golddiggers than honest ones and u'd be too inexperienced to know the difference. The golden rule is: don't be needy, have standards, value ur time, learn to let go when u're not appreciated.
Even by doing what you said doesn't escape you from chasing gold diggers but how experienced enough are you relating to females will determine how far you can go with your point. And it's in both ways. In my opinion Jessica points are okay for me based on my experienced with female. Less stress if you're switched on in your head.
I have never chased any woman. Mainly because time is precious, and I use this time to work on myself. Besides, why focus on someone who doesn't want you? To prove your worth? That might look like a sign of lack of confidence. A woman doesn't want you, it's not the end of the world. Move forward, build your mental strength and your brain muscles. Work on your goals and aspirations, and observe. Thank you Jessica for this great video.
As soon as I decided to stop chasing women and started focusing on my dreams...she came to me. we immediately connected...2 years later... we still together.
i stopped chasing a girl i was trying to get with for almost 8 months, we spoke regularly if i did'nt call or texted her she would contact me, we went to bed a few time in the 7th month which after another week she started to show some pulling away and some bad vibe, in a late night convo she told me she had taken sex off her mind, me seeing she was still going thru a break-up she says had'nt fully gotten over. so i shut down the engine no calls no texts, she was the one texting cause i told myself and her if she was interested i'm here waiting. after a week she stopped texting first and when she saw me around she looked at me like i did her wrong. even tried to call me friend (must be out your mind) behind, why she was upset i don't know know. i've been getting a lot of flack "bad mouthing" and bad puffed up lips stare down looks that should cause an argument but i'm not letting her have it her way.
I can testify. I asked a girl out several times. She finally accepted. Everything went on well until I discovered that I had to struggle for us to meet even when she had the time. I started questioning my approach from the start to where we were(more than 2 years in a relationship without any clear progress).
@@salmendramodi7703 at least he has a girl? Yeah she's most likely talking to other guys too.. all that free time she has she's spending it with someone else
Ooh thank you Jessica!!! There's tears in my eyes right now, I wish I had known this all these years, I have been chasing women and working hard to get their attention and even if I got some of them but things never really worked well coz I still had to work hard to keep them engaged, eventually they just leave for better successful guys. I did all that at the expense of my dreams, thanks to you it stops now!
This video randomly came up on my feed, but I’m happy I watched till the end. I’ve been chasing the same girl since HS and everything you said in this video was spot on. I put her on a high pedestal and forgot that I matter.
Enoch, you are not alone. I too am hooked to Jessica and her deep rooted facts. I always find her programs very interesting and command the attention of her listeners. Undoubtedly Jessica is always prepared for each topic. Great Job Jessica.
When I first started out I though that I.was suppose to be the hunter but as time went by I found out the other way around was the shit.yeah and it was more fun lol.bottom line was getting into her panties believe me its more fun when she wants to give it to u and the cool part is u get the chance to say no,I'm good lol
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions 2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue 3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman 4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man 5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger 6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge 7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP 8. Stay away from single mothers 9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s 10. Never fully commit 11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut 12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you 13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment 14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust 15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
Dennis Okoi said it perfectly! Please my brothers I know its hard to hear but trust us on this. Focus on you, your goals, your purpose, and your legacy and the right woman will appear without much effort at all. The ones we chase, most of the time are not the right women for us. I found my Queen the minute I had given up on chasing. I was enjoying life with my friends, my professional career took off, and my community activism was through the roof! All of a sudden my bride to be appeared!
Your situation is kind of similar to what happened to me. Once I stopped looking or chasing...then low and behold there she was. I was running late for a doctors appointment when I ran into my wife to be. Just imagine if I was on time for the appointment, we probably wouldn't have met each other. Lol.
The key is to develop a social network and lifestyle where you have repeated interactions with wife/gf level single women. It's much easier to resist the urge to chase when you know you will be interacting with attractive women on a regular basis and developing relationships where they can see your better qualities. If you only rely on online dating or picking up women in bars, then the first time a woman you are strongly attracted to shows a tad of interest the urge will be there to do whatever it takes to get her and that can lead to chasing or simping. Women know what they want at that particular time, but their agenda changes frequently as well. Instead of trying to force her to change her agenda, have several attractive women that you interact with on a regular basis (via organizations or peer groups) and you might end up being in the right place at the right time. My dad did not meet my mom's requirements when they met, but they bumped into each other a year later and it was a different story.
I'm subscribing right away. You're just so straight to the point, no beating about the bush. Everything you mentioned is so profound and thanks for sharing.
This channel is one of a kind. Blessings upon blessings & peace to this channel! Thanks for the wonderful content! Please keep my house & family in your prayers.
I’ve been doing this all throughout my high school career, no more. Don’t care how beautiful the girl is, I’m not bending over backwards over another human again, especially one that’s not giving me the same attention, treat a female or a male like a celebrity and he or she will treat you like a fan.
I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️
Been there so many time bruh! I regret my past choices I have made. I bend over backwards for females when I was younger. The results were not good. Make your own self happy. These females will not acknowledge you until they have child(ren) , no eyes problems. In short you will be there back up plan when things turn sour for them. I learned alot.
Thank you for your advice sister Jessica, this is exactly what am going through with my marriage but as from today, I will put myself and my dreams first.
I already stopped chasing "them" and this video even gives me more reasons why I should. Focusing on my dreams and goals is my prime prioty right now. The only problem though is I don't if I make it, I'll still be interested in "them" who I had chased before
Make sure you don't have any "if" when you're trying to achieve a goal...rather than "if", always remember yourself that "you can do it" "if" brings this negative thought about getting things done.
Very helpful content. I once almost fell into depression because of someone, used to buy her expensive gifts but thankfully I learned the hard way. Wish I saw this earlier.
Me too recently was going out with this girl bro and got her a teddy bear 🧸 and more took her out was agreeing to dates but this weekend she canceled plans with me it hurt for a day but then the next I Was like fuck it, it is what it is 💯
Thank you for this video. Glad It was recommended to me! I'm in love with someone but I feel like I'm the one always doing the chasing. Have learnt things from this video. I always encountered a man motivating men on these issues, this is the first time I have seen a woman telling me not to chase women. Thanks for the guidance it means a lot.
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right so all I have to do is become rich and successful so worthless gold diggers will come chasing my money (not me)... what kind of advice is that? For both men and women?
Another one, will, they will keep killing you guys and all you will good for is make Americans great for others and you here, it a sad day on Black Wall Street. Will they try hahah 😂🤣😂
I probably need an advice the girl I've been chasing for almost a few days...it's she who confessed to me and started a relationship...(everything was alright)in the middle she just wanna break up for no reason and when I asked her to think again,she said me to wait till she's ready to accept me again,she probably wants me to chase after her...I really don't like this,and the fact that all her feelings just dissolved into thin air... just makes me think like I've been used like a toy/dog and thrown away after she became bored of me... The fact that this is my first love hurts me even more.. I really don't know what to do at this point.
This is what has gotten me girls in the past. Staying dedicated to my goals and myself. Constantly visualizing myself in the driver seat of my life, and crushing all of my goals. Now it’s time to get back to that after a deep heat break. I claim it! The power is within all of us.. dig deep 💥
A+ advice... AND from a WOMAN. THANK YOU... I think that movies, books and media have duped us for so long to believe the storybook romance is real life, when it's not. YOU speak the truth!
Thank you Jessica, your teaching is really helping many men worldwide. I was one of those men who are chasing women but since I started watching your videos, I learned a lot and I can assure you I'm totally change the way of proposing or act toward a woman.
I’ve been really chasing this lady I fancy, but the effort isn’t reciprocated it’s quite frustrating and honestly I feel like I’m wasting a lot of time and I’m slowing my dreams progress. Thanks Jess solid advice
Thanks a million.! Got my heart broken and presently couldn't piece myself together cause I have been trying harder to get her attention... she's independent and got me through all kinds of motions and desolations... honestly I'm drained and fed up of chasing her... I completely retreated...if she returns, good! On the contrary I'm moving on.! Thanks Jessica, you now have a new subscriber to your channel...❤️
Never seen a woman that's dedicated to helping brothers out there with insightful advice like this. I kinda wish my sister was like you, I would have avoided so many mistakes. Sad truth is society thinks women alone need help, but to find material like this is truly inspiring.
Have always believed that in the things of life pursuit; one has to keep trying(chasing)having the no giving up attitude, but on this video tips I realized it is not applicable to women(chasing one woman). One has to bring in balance in the affairs of women. Jessica your tips are fascinating, keep up the good work
Wow, this is really helpful. I needed someone to tell me that honestly. Been doing exactly what I'm not supposed to. My thoughts and intentions have changed right now. Thank you Jessica.
Jess thank you for helping we guys out. I relate to everything you said in this video. Presently I am worn out as you mentioned. But trying to adjust all I get is am not a gentleman anymore. So frustrating! But I still refuse some stupid stuffs no matter what!
I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way. There was a time I was in your position and a friend gave me this book that helped me cultivate some real perspective. Reach me via mail and let me send you a copy.
Thank you Jessica for this video, it has really changed my perception on relationship goals. I have been hurt severely many times by just one girl in my entire 25 years of age. But this video has seriously taught me how to handle such situations, JUST FOCUS ON YOUR DREAMS. Never to chase someone who ain't into me. Thank you and thank you once more.
I totally agreed on this topic, chasing women is a complete waste of time and if you're not careful, you will remain down for the rest of your life. Thank you Jessica, I've subscribed to your channel and looking forward to more teaching.
I so much love this, I found this motivational, and it’s quite impressive, I believe in chasing a dream instead of chasing what you will still get at last. Thanks for this Jessica we are really grateful
For me, the problem with women is they have too many signs to read, if you should be persistent and patient with her, or is she giving the signs that it's time for you to move on. Then again, as men, we do tend to chase the one woman who is not really looking for what we are looking for. If you are looking for someone to introduce to your mom, the club is not necessarily the best place to look.
Thank you Jessica; this topic almost talks about me. I did a lot of chasing in the past, so much so that I came to the juncture where I began to realize that I was actually making a fool out of myself. She once told me that she doesn't need a man, I asked her why she was with me and the answer was "because l just want to be with you"; it was one of the red flags that today I regret that I ignored. You're absolutely 💯percent right ✅; the biggest lesson I have learned is never to chase a woman. My philosophy is; LOVE HER, BUT IF SHE MAKES YOU SLAVE TO KEEP HER, THEN WALK AWAY. Today when I look back, I actually laugh at myself, because there are so many things not making sense that I put up with in the past because of love. Thanks Jessica 😊🙏, you're really a God sent Counselor 💐
Hi Jessica ! You just nailed it down with this video, seriously !! Nobody out there has told us something like this !! Thank you for your advice; God bless you Jessica !!
Took me a while to learn this lesson personally, but this video has made the lesson much clearer looking at it from your perspective. Very insightful. Thanks.
Absolutely. Explains the difficulty of Chasing. Being the one to do all the work in the relationship. Most painful to find out when you marry her that she never really cared. I was only financial support to her and her dreams but she never put forth the effort for me. I tell her I love her she says I love you back sometimes but not always. And never tells me she loves me without me saying it first. I have always chased women but expected to be chased back and it never happens. I say my must-haves are positivity, kindness, compassion, and good honest communication to build on respect, and romance ... and it all sounds good but Not finding that special someone. I am a little desperate because I have never really been loved. Ya. I need to stop chasing and set a new mindset. I Subscribed today, and watched two videos... TY. I am now getting a 2nd divorce from a narcissistic relationship. Finding True Love has been so hard for me.
It’s crazy. Things are so messed up out here. I’m done chasing. Definitely focusing on goals, but there’s something I don’t like about me achieving my goals, then being chased. I don’t want it. It’s become a game of chess.
As a man, I don't take dating advice from women on how to date women. However, as someone who can listen and evaluate information, I totally agree with you. I've been living by that principle for a while now and it's quite difficult because of how we have been conditioned to chase women. I feel good and my self esteem is above the roof.
Wow Jess, you have grown and this vid shows Y. Last time I watched you (6months ago), you hit 100k subs, and now you are almost on 500k Subs. Phenomenal growth. Well done Girl - Just shows what chasing your dreams can do, which is what I have been doing in last 6months! I personally think that you will surpass Wode in the next year as Ghana's biggest Utuber bcos you actually are more creative with your intelligence and you make most videos without leaving your bedroom!! Good-on-U...
nahbro all they care about is money she telling us to be more selfish but we have to sacrifice for family and cover them with love. this advice is realistic but not romantic or lasting
Hey Jessy I am so glad that you actually perceive things in this way. Women expect a lot from men but cannot reciprocate the same effort they receive and this can be tiring for men. A woman who gives off the same effort she receives from a guy wins a guy over even though his main goal was to win her over. Thanks for the video
I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️
Just subscribed! I’ve seen several videos and your advice is on point. I just met a really cool girl, and there were definitely sparks. But then a couple of days after we met I asked if she wanted to go out on a date the upcoming weekend, and she said she’s super busy with grad school and work and doesn’t have a lot of free time. In the past, I would’ve sent an emotional email to try and win her heart out of fear or to boost my fragile ego. But now I realize maybe I should actually consider that she needs space, and instead of chasing I should just focus on my own goals and passions. If our connection was real, she’s going to reach out. But if not, then I’ll be good.
You have really opened my eyes with this video. Thank you. My back story is simple. Met a woman, decided it was right for me over a period of time to pursue this as a relationship. It went well for about a month then she got scared of the relationship or the feeling of being in a relationship (controlling marriage was the reason). She decided that she wanted to date more people, sleep with more people and just have me on the side. As this was her wish, I decided to walk away. I did however as I spend a lot of time with my friend and my photos of me are on social media, she got mega jealous and has not stopped shouting at me etc. Hard to walk from something that I have worked for but it shows that by living your dream and being happy, it makes the other person feel inadequate. Thank you again for uploading this video.
Patrice Oneal spoke to this--- women don't do well on their own. If she believes that you will righteously leave then she will decide to righteously stay. never get comfortable with a woman. Ever. If is she feels you are comfortable with her then she will lose interest and attraction. Be comfortsbke with urself. and keep your eye open as a man.
Jessie, thank Q! Am divorced now. And, am currently working on my dreams/goals. Am not focused on chasing anyone anymore. My thinking has shifted to exactly everything you just described. So, that tells me am doing something right or am on the right path.
Everything that Jessica said in this video is on point. I have experienced all of the above.I wasted a lot of time and money chasing my dream girl, only to realise that I had made a huge mistake when it was almost too late.
Perfectly well said. Allow the girl your interested come into your world by making your world the most amazing world she has ever seen. Do this by being successful. No girl ever wants to be with a loser. Don't be a loser. Be the winner. Everyone wants to be with the winner.
Love this Sis. I also think having chased my dreams, I cannot allow anyone who chases after me in my sacred space, Love. We better meet chasing things bigger than ourselves, and thereby fall in love because of our common goal/s. That way I envisage longevity and continued fulfilment in individuality hence capable of enjoying companionship. My thoughts.
I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️
This one is content filled like every other ✊🏼. There are different factors that play when the word “chase” comes in. While it is better and more convincing for things to happen naturally as the content advices, also know that some women need strong and persistent sunshine ☀️ for their flowers to open. The thing is for us men to be sensitive as to know when it’s just your ego keeping you to continue instead of your instinct. We all have that instinctual build, and that will help you determine if you are waisting your time or not. A girl that had bad experiences with men would not easily open up to the next guy that comes her way even if she’s into you. If she give you audience with the need to continue and you know you really like her, my humble advice is to continue without being too pushy. You will be surprised the day she will finally let her flower open. If you genuinely like her, all the effort and time you put in will be one of the bedrock of you both jokes, trust. Lastly, remember the Bible said, he who findeth a wife….. you’ve to look, wait, talk, be persistent, committed and sometimes get insulted to find.. NB: most men chase women bc of their selfish interest as well. Also, for the girls esp beautiful ones, guys it’s not easy for them. Managing several guys coming your way; think about it and the confusion. I feel for them and it is safe to say; persistent guys always wins. Persistency doesn’t really mean chasing, just be natural, keep it cerebral and watch time to know when to stop trying with the help of your instinct and God. These are my opinion and must be filtered by you. Jessica, I love you ❤️.
He who find a wife find a Good thing no it's Not easy to find because good people come one in a million even after giving your time to women it takes time to find a wife or good woman it's all in gods time... I definitely agree with you just sharing my point of view
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Make her chase you!!! How??? The answer is: Focus on your dreams/goals. This is exactly what I'm doing. No more chasing women! Thank you sister! You're my favorite on this! Love you!
Exactly my brother
I was once chasing my girlfriend and I realised I was being stupid”so I move back and she’s now chasing me!! And am also chasing my dreams for now ..
Lol so they what you have become if that’s it so then I’ll will her dawg if she come to
Me after 🤣 the fact
Amen to that! She's right.
And always great advice
I’ve wasted years after chasing and it never hit me until I lost my dreams, I put all my effort into the relationship and all I did was to complete her goal and not mine, hope all men see this and learn, I learn the hard way.
Thank you for this ❤
Thank you
I had to learn the hard way as well but glady I stop chasing and starting working on my goals
Never too late to get back to your goals.
@jade azeem 💪🏽💪🏽
"You lose money chasing women but you never lose women chasing money"
Facts my dumbass falls for everytime. I think I can give them something that they never got with all the past relationships. I could of had cash to buy a 200000 house
@Damola Adenola Right✊🏾
I think I love my wife.
faaaaax.....the only aphorism u need to know on god
Yes and alot of them are a big waste of money..and most time you chase a woman at times when you finally get them your not as interested anymore she probably done do so many things to make you change your mind
I spent my 20’s chasing relationships. My last relationship were fucked me up. Depressed & not eating. I ended up getting a gig & got back chasing my goals. I’ve been traveling & working ever since. Chase your goals fellas.
If y’all aren’t chasing each other then stop. You deserve love & effort too.
I wish you were there in the 70s. You would have been the greatest ❤️! Case closed. It's ok. Before your time. Love you Jessica.
As a 19 years old, I really felt like you're my older sister and wanna give me some advice and life lessons. Thanks to RUclips for recommending me this.
How sad for a 19year old to be getting LIFE lessons in RUclips. I pity anyone under 40 years old nowadays. CLEARLY Lost AS WHAT WE SEE HERE.
I'm over 50 and still learn from RUclips @@jt.8144. There is definitely a lot of bunk here too but in that mess of bunk, there are nuggets of gold. This lady gives good advice and there is A LOT of good advice on RUclips. It's the world we live in; to draw from others and their experiences but in this generation, it's times 1000. You just have to separate the wheat from the chaff.
@@jt.8144 how is it a bad thing for someone to obtain advice and knowledge from RUclips? Isn't that the whole point of these channels and the internet itself? There are people who don't have a figure in their life to give them guidance or personal experience to help reflect. These types of videos aid so many ppl to feel a little less alone and lost and im grateful for this video Jessica made 💙
No dating apps no social media no chasing women. Focusing on myself. Living alone doesn’t make it easy especially when get inside your head feel needy and lonely but just have to push through the mental stuff. One day at a time
Dude it’s the same with me. I’m happy being alone and focusing on my stuff but it does get challenging when you see all these couples everywhere you sometimes wonder what am I doing… but it only lasts for a couple of minutes haha then I’m back to liking myself
Alone? Its time you guys start dating abroad. Brazil etc, better women in every possible way with significantly less the effort. That loneliness and depression is not healthy for us regardless of what anyone says. We have needs and we just cant get them in this country which is weird as hell.
Bro you’re not the only one. Focus always on yourself my King. I went tru many sh*** in life with girls I loved, and trust me, you’re doing good. Work, learn always something new, set goals, buy a house, etc.. The right person will come to ya at the right time.
I’ve been alone for 8 years and I still am. You play games, go to bar, talk to your friends when you have the time, money is not an issue, life is beautiful, and I most importantly, I don’t focus on these so called beautiful woman from the outside but rotten on the inside. Waiting for you to break, so they can squeeze you in every sense possible. Mostly monetary.
@@neo5973 bro facts. I saw this dude having a hard time with his girl, she was being rude and disrespectful. I felt bad for him but at the same time I was like yo I’m happy I’m not living that life.
I always say, the right person will come to ya. Just give it time. I rather whack of*** than having a chick that after giving you some pus*** start taking dominance in certain ways.
Keep pushing brother. It is all about quality over quantity, it applied for relationships and friendships. I deleted all my social media and freed myself from so much waste of energy and curated alternatives realities.
Agreed. Imagine begging someone to love you. If we vibe and we are both looking for a relationship, we should start determining if we are compatible. It's a 2-way street. No one is doing the other a favor.
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As a woman a man chasing me, repulses me. It makes me feel like he's desperate. It makes me cringe. Trust a man I want, will never have to chase me, if I'm into man I speak up, or if he pursues me I'll agree. But nothing makes a woman want you more, than a man working on his goals. It let's woman know your mindful about your life, and possibly those in it. It makes a woman feel safe, & secure with you. As much as I love being important to a man I love, but if his dreams, and goals aren't just as important I feel like he's weak, & is a ticking time bomb bcus in return he will be looking for me to satisfy, his lack of care for his goals, he will take until there's nothing left. Bcus he's not giving to himself. In return leaves a woman feeling drained, and him feeling like a failure.
@@shadowgarden6053 men feel the same way about women these days. We see a lot of them as weak and not worth our efforts.
Jessica is a typical example of someone who has really worked on her craft. She’s so professional!
Great work!
She is world class. Now where is the video tell black women how to conduct themselves to get black men to show them more respect, there must be a code of conduct for black women. I See so many video putting down black women concerned there additude.
I concur.
That's true
She is a woman so she knows how they work kkkk
Absolute Class!
ive come across a plethora of female dating advice in my lifetime but this right here is the most to the point, factual and no bs advice ive ever seen.. definitely great video
Never ever have I chased any woman. My dad taught me early on never to go running behind any woman because another one would come along in a few minutes...chasing only makes you look like you're less than someone else's equal and so forth. I've taught my sons the exact same thing! NEVER CHASE ANY WOMAN! PERIOD.
Hmmmm
Never chased!? And you have sons!? Right…🤔🤣🤣
@@frankeydaniels Pursuing is different from chasing
@Water_Mysol I'm still a Student [College]. Not married yet😊
@@NK-nh4vo Hmmm
This is exactly what I needed to hear. Just started dating this year after a 4 year hiatus and it’s been mostly a disappointing experience. I also immediately started slacking in the Gym as soon as I began dating. Going to just focus on myself for a while and keep leveling up my career.
That's what I've been doing and women think I'm proud because I don't chase or beg. I court, you decline, I walk away. Or you accept, we date
Thank you Jessica
Way to go my brother
Facts !!
Nothing can stop you ur all d way up
You're absolutely right Jessica.
I have been a victim of relationships for years. However, your videos transform my life completely because I have experienced most of those things with women.
Thanks a lot for this wonderful job 💞💞💞.
Truth be told Jess, you hit the nail on the head in this video. I always tell my gender "Chase your dreams, the women will come later" no woman wants to be with an unsuccessful man. Also she will respect you even more when she sees that you're operating on a certain frequency.
Thanks for this piece ✌️
I've been doing this shit bit not I promise I won't do it anymore. Thanks a lot dear Jessica
Can confirm this. I had a crush on a girl and “chased” her for over a year. It was during highschool. I noticed that I was being rejected and just stopped giving her every sort of attention in just an instant. Summer break was over and she suddenly began chasing me. Like having a conversation with me whenever she saw an opportunity, starting lots of nonsene small talk and or taking a seat near me
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If someone has a pattern of continually “misunderstanding” you, there’s a good chance you’re getting manipulated. You could end up talking yourself in circles which will be draining, harm your mental health, and make you too emotional so that you can’t think clearly. Many people like this are no different at their core than people who are OPENLY verbally and physically abusive, they’re just more sneaky about it, and there’s a good chance that the physical and/or verbal (aka overt) abuse is on its way. Covert abuse is very hard to spot
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This is one of the best description to my recent experience. I've never had the right words to describe it but this sums it up! A painful place to be in. FYI, just came across this channel and great content.
Bro this is excalty what I had, she kept lying about things, hiding things for me and when I was asking something about why some things are like that she couldnt tell me truth. And one day believe I had a bad feeling that she was cheating! And boommm i caught her
So accurate!
It’s called covert narcissist
Hearing a Woman say this from a genuine perspective is very pleasing, alot of men need this so they can make their necessary adjustments..
It's just one woman's view.
@gracey ANDERSON complete fallacy. It's a shame so many men have fallen for this message . May they receive sense.
My relationship has evolved ever since I started watching your videos Jess. Thank you alot.
Thanks!
Thank you too
The sound of your voice is so soothing. I Like your choice of words too. Great video straight to the point and simple. I believe every guy has chased a chick at some point in their lives but personally I always knew no one should be chasing be it a man or a woman. If you’re going to chase them, let them go!
Why do people think u can't chase women and work on ur success at the same time? If u would really stop improving yourself or giving 100% in ur job/business just because u're chasing a girl, then u have a different problem. If u ignore girls until u have money, then u attract more golddiggers than honest ones and u'd be too inexperienced to know the difference. The golden rule is: don't be needy, have standards, value ur time, learn to let go when u're not appreciated.
You said it all! There are a lot of rich men with bad women!
Even by doing what you said doesn't escape you from chasing gold diggers but how experienced enough are you relating to females will determine how far you can go with your point. And it's in both ways. In my opinion Jessica points are okay for me based on my experienced with female. Less stress if you're switched on in your head.
Now your post is realistic thank you.
Your comment is pure gold
Facts hustle and grind.
We need women that can advice men genuinely like you do now than ever ❤️
I have never chased any woman. Mainly because time is precious, and I use this time to work on myself. Besides, why focus on someone who doesn't want you? To prove your worth? That might look like a sign of lack of confidence. A woman doesn't want you, it's not the end of the world. Move forward, build your mental strength and your brain muscles. Work on your goals and aspirations, and observe. Thank you Jessica for this great video.
As soon as I decided to stop chasing women and started focusing on my dreams...she came to me.
we immediately connected...2 years later... we still together.
i stopped chasing a girl i was trying to get with for almost 8 months, we spoke regularly if i did'nt call or texted her she would contact me, we went to bed a few time in the 7th month which after another week she started to show some pulling away and some bad vibe, in a late night convo she told me she had taken sex off her mind, me seeing she was still going thru a break-up she says had'nt fully gotten over. so i shut down the engine no calls no texts, she was the one texting cause i told myself and her if she was interested i'm here waiting. after a week she stopped texting first and when she saw me around she looked at me like i did her wrong. even tried to call me friend (must be out your mind) behind, why she was upset i don't know know. i've been getting a lot of flack "bad mouthing" and bad puffed up lips stare down looks that should cause an argument but i'm not letting her have it her way.
I can testify. I asked a girl out several times. She finally accepted. Everything went on well until I discovered that I had to struggle for us to meet even when she had the time. I started questioning my approach from the start to where we were(more than 2 years in a relationship without any clear progress).
Let her go
Atleast you got a girl....
Are you in high school?
Bro, Let her go
@@salmendramodi7703 at least he has a girl? Yeah she's most likely talking to other guys too.. all that free time she has she's spending it with someone else
Ooh thank you Jessica!!! There's tears in my eyes right now, I wish I had known this all these years, I have been chasing women and working hard to get their attention and even if I got some of them but things never really worked well coz I still had to work hard to keep them engaged, eventually they just leave for better successful guys. I did all that at the expense of my dreams, thanks to you it stops now!
Found this video randomly and I must admit I found you very eloquent, well put and straight to the point. You've earned a new sub
This video randomly came up on my feed, but I’m happy I watched till the end. I’ve been chasing the same girl since HS and everything you said in this video was spot on. I put her on a high pedestal and forgot that I matter.
😂 Sorry bro.. We have all been victims of our hearts..
You don’t matter
@@antoniomitchell1883 wtf!!!
@@victoronwukwe8181 I don’t like seeing men bowing down or being weak to women.
Enoch, you are not alone. I too am hooked to Jessica and her deep rooted facts. I always find her programs very interesting and command the attention of her listeners. Undoubtedly Jessica is always prepared for each topic. Great Job Jessica.
When I first started out I though that I.was suppose to be the hunter but as time went by I found out the other way around was the shit.yeah and it was more fun lol.bottom line was getting into her panties believe me its more fun when she wants to give it to u and the cool part is u get the chance to say no,I'm good lol
1. Ignore her words focus on her actions
2. Don’t chase women become the man that women will pursue
3. Women you previously pursued and got rejected by Will later be interested when they see you have a different woman
4. Women think about marriage as a wedding day and not a lifetime supporting and respecting their man
5. Embrace rejection it will make you stronger
6. Disdain women who rejected you, ignoring them is the best revenge
7. The more attractive she is the harder you have to be, DONT SIMP
8. Stay away from single mothers
9. Prioritise your appearance no matter what’s
10. Never fully commit
11. Don’t share your weaknesses with a woman, seek professional help in a serious rut
12. Women cheat more than men, don’t let her accusations blind you
13. Be low tolerance, be ready to walk away at any given moment
14. Don’t be bitter, accept female nature and adjust
15. Keep playing the game and make it difficult. People come back to difficult games to try and beat it, easy games get played once and put on the shelf
Excellent but I can't agree with few points ...
Facts!! 💯💯
You're red pilled brother 🤒
Taaalllllkkkkk... 🎯🔥🔥🔥
Lol you are funny
Again, eloquent, logical and persuasive. The more I listen to this woman, the more impressed I am.
Dennis Okoi said it perfectly! Please my brothers I know its hard to hear but trust us on this. Focus on you, your goals, your purpose, and your legacy and the right woman will appear without much effort at all. The ones we chase, most of the time are not the right women for us. I found my Queen the minute I had given up on chasing. I was enjoying life with my friends, my professional career took off, and my community activism was through the roof! All of a sudden my bride to be appeared!
Your situation is kind of similar to what happened to me. Once I stopped looking or chasing...then low and behold there she was. I was running late for a doctors appointment when I ran into my wife to be. Just imagine if I was on time for the appointment, we probably wouldn't have met each other. Lol.
Never chased women, never will. Thanks for making my thoughts more plain and coherent Jessica.
The key is to develop a social network and lifestyle where you have repeated interactions with wife/gf level single women. It's much easier to resist the urge to chase when you know you will be interacting with attractive women on a regular basis and developing relationships where they can see your better qualities. If you only rely on online dating or picking up women in bars, then the first time a woman you are strongly attracted to shows a tad of interest the urge will be there to do whatever it takes to get her and that can lead to chasing or simping.
Women know what they want at that particular time, but their agenda changes frequently as well. Instead of trying to force her to change her agenda, have several attractive women that you interact with on a regular basis (via organizations or peer groups) and you might end up being in the right place at the right time. My dad did not meet my mom's requirements when they met, but they bumped into each other a year later and it was a different story.
You are so on point, but sadly not evey has that has that circle/connection with the opposite sex.
Or just be on your purpose always. Have hobbies and life goals, etc. that way you don’t become relationship focused when you meet a girl you like.
Big talk, facts, thanks💯
I'm subscribing right away. You're just so straight to the point, no beating about the bush. Everything you mentioned is so profound and thanks for sharing.
This channel is one of a kind. Blessings upon blessings & peace to this channel! Thanks for the wonderful content! Please keep my house & family in your prayers.
I always enjoy your critical thinking about the subject matter at hand.
Keep them coming Jennifer.
You're opening the eyes of men.
Glad that I found this channel; so real and practical that I cannot ask for more
I’ve been doing this all throughout my high school career, no more. Don’t care how beautiful the girl is, I’m not bending over backwards over another human again, especially one that’s not giving me the same attention, treat a female or a male like a celebrity and he or she will treat you like a fan.
I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️
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@@norman9541 Something to say, Norman?
Hoodville fam
Been there so many time bruh! I regret my past choices I have made. I bend over backwards for females when I was younger. The results were not good. Make your own self happy. These females will not acknowledge you until they have child(ren) , no eyes problems. In short you will be there back up plan when things turn sour for them. I learned alot.
I love Jessica's mindset. Very intelligent and truthful. Experience, honest.
Thank you for your advice sister Jessica, this is exactly what am going through with my marriage but as from today, I will put myself and my dreams first.
I said this to myself yesterday,I do occasionally speak to myself yes..and I agree with you
I already stopped chasing "them" and this video even gives me more reasons why I should.
Focusing on my dreams and goals is my prime prioty right now.
The only problem though is I don't if I make it, I'll still be interested in "them" who I had chased before
Make sure you don't have any "if" when you're trying to achieve a goal...rather than "if", always remember yourself that "you can do it"
"if" brings this negative thought about getting things done.
True talk
Nope !! You going have women on your level of dreams chasing you
You won’t make it.
Very helpful content. I once almost fell into depression because of someone, used to buy her expensive gifts but thankfully I learned the hard way. Wish I saw this earlier.
Sometimes or most, they wouldn't even let u know they're not interested
You are not the only one.
Me too recently was going out with this girl bro and got her a teddy bear 🧸 and more took her out was agreeing to dates but this weekend she canceled plans with me it hurt for a day but then the next I
Was like fuck it, it is what it is 💯
I’ve been thru some big heart break too. Not all women are after gifts. You will find the right one.
Been there Jessica…..hard to let the wrong ones down easy.
Thank you for this video. Glad It was recommended to me! I'm in love with someone but I feel like I'm the one always doing the chasing. Have learnt things from this video. I always encountered a man motivating men on these issues, this is the first time I have seen a woman telling me not to chase women. Thanks for the guidance it means a lot.
Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
nice, just seen this, anymore videos on this matter thanks
I appreciate your concerns on us men best advice so far on the internet
right so all I have to do is become rich and successful so worthless gold diggers will come chasing my money (not me)... what kind of advice is that? For both men and women?
Another one, will, they will keep killing you guys and all you will good for is make Americans great for others and you here, it a sad day on Black Wall Street. Will they try hahah 😂🤣😂
I probably need an advice
the girl I've been chasing for almost a few days...it's she who confessed to me and started a relationship...(everything was alright)in the middle she just wanna break up for no reason and when I asked her to think again,she said me to wait till she's ready to accept me again,she probably wants me to chase after her...I really don't like this,and the fact that all her feelings just dissolved into thin air... just makes me think like I've been used like a toy/dog and thrown away after she became bored of me...
The fact that this is my first love hurts me even more..
I really don't know what to do at this point.
This is what has gotten me girls in the past. Staying dedicated to my goals and myself. Constantly visualizing myself in the driver seat of my life, and crushing all of my goals. Now it’s time to get back to that after a deep heat break. I claim it! The power is within all of us.. dig deep 💥
You got this bro!💪
A+ advice... AND from a WOMAN. THANK YOU... I think that movies, books and media have duped us for so long to believe the storybook romance is real life, when it's not. YOU speak the truth!
Well said bro 👏👍
Thank you Jessica, your teaching is really helping many men worldwide. I was one of those men who are chasing women but since I started watching your videos, I learned a lot and I can assure you I'm totally change the way of proposing or act toward a woman.
I’ve been really chasing this lady I fancy, but the effort isn’t reciprocated it’s quite frustrating and honestly I feel like I’m wasting a lot of time and I’m slowing my dreams progress. Thanks Jess solid advice
Thanks a million.! Got my heart broken and presently couldn't piece myself together cause I have been trying harder to get her attention... she's independent and got me through all kinds of motions and desolations... honestly I'm drained and fed up of chasing her... I completely retreated...if she returns, good! On the contrary I'm moving on.! Thanks Jessica, you now have a new subscriber to your channel...❤️
Love your wisdom & knowledge about relationships. You are Gorgeous as well.
@@christianjoseph4784 Nhmmm
Loving your content, confidence, and consistency. Keep it up. Thanks.
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@@Pita1148 love this isn't the place for that
Never seen a woman that's dedicated to helping brothers out there with insightful advice like this. I kinda wish my sister was like you, I would have avoided so many mistakes. Sad truth is society thinks women alone need help, but to find material like this is truly inspiring.
🎉You are literally teaching me how to become a better person. You deserve a subscription.
Have always believed that in the things of life pursuit; one has to keep trying(chasing)having the no giving up attitude, but on this video tips I realized it is not applicable to women(chasing one woman). One has to bring in balance in the affairs of women. Jessica your tips are fascinating, keep up the good work
It doesn't ! It's a dance with women and dating isn't a chore !
Wow, this is really helpful. I needed someone to tell me that honestly. Been doing exactly what I'm not supposed to. My thoughts and intentions have changed right now. Thank you Jessica.
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This is arguably the best solid advice I have ever encountered. Very collected and informed advice that impacts directly in our lives.
I like your perspective on issues. I love your content. It's very sane
You are a true legend when it comes to love issues. I wish the world was filled more of people like u.
Jess thank you for helping we guys out. I relate to everything you said in this video. Presently I am worn out as you mentioned. But trying to adjust all I get is am not a gentleman anymore. So frustrating! But I still refuse some stupid stuffs no matter what!
I’m sorry that you’re feeling this way. There was a time I was in your position and a friend gave me this book that helped me cultivate some real perspective. Reach me via mail and let me send you a copy.
@@aaronandoh4854 can I also get a copy? Please!.
Thank you Jessica for this video, it has really changed my perception on relationship goals. I have been hurt severely many times by just one girl in my entire 25 years of age. But this video has seriously taught me how to handle such situations, JUST FOCUS ON YOUR DREAMS. Never to chase someone who ain't into me. Thank you and thank you once more.
This vedeo. Is. Very supportive to understand all. The thing thanks for. Advices us
U are matured and experienced love counsellor, everything u put across is indeed true. Valid advice !!
With your awesome videos, I renew my relationship with my wife everyday She’s always proud of me! Give us more of your potentials!
I agree brother, and all the best
Thank you so much for this. I needed to know this. It puts my mind more at ease to not bother chasing women anymore.
Yep 3:38 This is exactly my current mindset. Keep focusing on fine tuning yourself physically, spiritually and financially.
I totally agreed on this topic, chasing women is a complete waste of time and if you're not careful, you will remain down for the rest of your life. Thank you Jessica, I've subscribed to your channel and looking forward to more teaching.
I so much love this, I found this motivational, and it’s quite impressive, I believe in chasing a dream instead of chasing what you will still get at last. Thanks for this Jessica we are really grateful
Great!! U have said it!!!
Jessica,you changed my life through this platform.Thank you.
For me, the problem with women is they have too many signs to read, if you should be persistent and patient with her, or is she giving the signs that it's time for you to move on.
Then again, as men, we do tend to chase the one woman who is not really looking for what we are looking for. If you are looking for someone to introduce to your mom, the club is not necessarily the best place to look.
Good stuff. Focus on your dreams, daily goals n hit that Gym... And Get ready for the person of your DREAMS🫡
That's the plan!
Thank you Jessica; this topic almost talks about me. I did a lot of chasing in the past, so much so that I came to the juncture where I began to realize that I was actually making a fool out of myself. She once told me that she doesn't need a man, I asked her why she was with me and the answer was "because l just want to be with you"; it was one of the red flags that today I regret that I ignored. You're absolutely 💯percent right ✅; the biggest lesson I have learned is never to chase a woman. My philosophy is; LOVE HER, BUT IF SHE MAKES YOU SLAVE TO KEEP HER, THEN WALK AWAY. Today when I look back, I actually laugh at myself, because there are so many things not making sense that I put up with in the past because of love. Thanks Jessica 😊🙏, you're really a God sent Counselor 💐
Well noted. God bless you brother 🙏
Hi Jessica !
You just nailed it down with this video, seriously !!
Nobody out there has told us something like this !!
Thank you for your advice;
God bless you Jessica !!
Took me a while to learn this lesson personally, but this video has made the lesson much clearer looking at it from your perspective. Very insightful. Thanks.
Absolutely. Explains the difficulty of Chasing. Being the one to do all the work in the relationship. Most painful to find out when you marry her that she never really cared.
I was only financial support to her and her dreams but she never put forth the effort for me. I tell her I love her she says I love you back sometimes but not always. And never tells me she loves me without me saying it first. I have always chased women but expected to be chased back and it never happens.
I say my must-haves are positivity, kindness, compassion, and good honest communication to build on respect, and romance ... and it all sounds good but Not finding that special someone.
I am a little desperate because I have never really been loved. Ya. I need to stop chasing and set a new mindset. I Subscribed today, and watched two videos... TY.
I am now getting a 2nd divorce from a narcissistic relationship. Finding True Love has been so hard for me.
It’s crazy. Things are so messed up out here. I’m done chasing. Definitely focusing on goals, but there’s something I don’t like about me achieving my goals, then being chased. I don’t want it. It’s become a game of chess.
“Everything that needs to be said has already been said. But since no one was listening, Jessica has to say it again” - Andre Gide
As a man, I don't take dating advice from women on how to date women. However, as someone who can listen and evaluate information, I totally agree with you. I've been living by that principle for a while now and it's quite difficult because of how we have been conditioned to chase women. I feel good and my self esteem is above the roof.
"As a man, I don't take dating advice from women on how to date women." There's your first problem, twat.
Thank you. You're right 👍❤ it's better to focus on personal business and she will come later. Thanks
Wow Jess, you have grown and this vid shows Y. Last time I watched you (6months ago), you hit 100k subs, and now you are almost on 500k Subs. Phenomenal growth. Well done Girl - Just shows what chasing your dreams can do, which is what I have been doing in last 6months! I personally think that you will surpass Wode in the next year as Ghana's biggest Utuber bcos you actually are more creative with your intelligence and you make most videos without leaving your bedroom!! Good-on-U...
Thank you Jessie, enjoyed your presentation. Points are spot on. I've had ladies crushing but played my game concurrently.
"Focus on you big bro. Focus on you."- The spirit to be adopted by us men.
I think this video popped up for a very good reason, and you’ve just gained a subscriber🙌
Wow! Every word from jessica strikes me deep..she explores reality with very quality facts.
When a Woman gives you game on Woman, YOU LISTEN 🎧 💯🤷🏽♂️
Great, this is called wisdom👌
nahbro all they care about is money she telling us to be more selfish but we have to sacrifice for family and cover them with love. this advice is realistic but not romantic or lasting
Hey Jessy I am so glad that you actually perceive things in this way. Women expect a lot from men but cannot reciprocate the same effort they receive and this can be tiring for men. A woman who gives off the same effort she receives from a guy wins a guy over even though his main goal was to win her over. Thanks for the video
I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️
Just subscribed! I’ve seen several videos and your advice is on point. I just met a really cool girl, and there were definitely sparks. But then a couple of days after we met I asked if she wanted to go out on a date the upcoming weekend, and she said she’s super busy with grad school and work and doesn’t have a lot of free time.
In the past, I would’ve sent an emotional email to try and win her heart out of fear or to boost my fragile ego. But now I realize maybe I should actually consider that she needs space, and instead of chasing I should just focus on my own goals and passions.
If our connection was real, she’s going to reach out. But if not, then I’ll be good.
Thanks for the sub.
You have really opened my eyes with this video. Thank you. My back story is simple. Met a woman, decided it was right for me over a period of time to pursue this as a relationship. It went well for about a month then she got scared of the relationship or the feeling of being in a relationship (controlling marriage was the reason).
She decided that she wanted to date more people, sleep with more people and just have me on the side. As this was her wish, I decided to walk away. I did however as I spend a lot of time with my friend and my photos of me are on social media, she got mega jealous and has not stopped shouting at me etc.
Hard to walk from something that I have worked for but it shows that by living your dream and being happy, it makes the other person feel inadequate.
Thank you again for uploading this video.
Patrice Oneal spoke to this--- women don't do well on their own. If she believes that you will righteously leave then she will decide to righteously stay. never get comfortable with a woman. Ever. If is she feels you are comfortable with her then she will lose interest and attraction. Be comfortsbke with urself. and keep your eye open as a man.
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This is a really great content especially for men starting out their life. Thanks a lot Jessica
Jessie, thank Q!
Am divorced now. And, am currently working on my dreams/goals. Am not focused on chasing anyone anymore.
My thinking has shifted to exactly everything you just described. So, that tells me am doing something right or am on the right path.
dude its I am not am
@@keksdose6340 thanks but no thanks!
Everything that Jessica said in this video is on point. I have experienced all of the above.I wasted a lot of time and money chasing my dream girl, only to realise that I had made a huge mistake when it was almost too late.
Perfectly well said. Allow the girl your interested come into your world by making your world the most amazing world she has ever seen. Do this by being successful. No girl ever wants to be with a loser. Don't be a loser. Be the winner. Everyone wants to be with the winner.
They sure do pop out a lot of babies with losers
Am here as always to learn from your teachings jessica, thanks for opening our thinking, hearts and mind
Jessica's voice is jus therapy for me, a lot of times I play her videos jus for that amazing voice
Love this Sis. I also think having chased my dreams, I cannot allow anyone who chases after me in my sacred space, Love. We better meet chasing things bigger than ourselves, and thereby fall in love because of our common goal/s. That way I envisage longevity and continued fulfilment in individuality hence capable of enjoying companionship. My thoughts.
Tbh you are totally right in everything you said here ..Absolutely true💯 thank you Jessica 😊
Spending your time and money on videos like these is a great great investment! God bless you Jessy. You're solving problems!
I know of a strong spiritual man who can help you bring back your soulmate I am a living testimony of his work and I know that he can also do yours ❤️❤️
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She did not have to spend money to pull out her camera and record but she is investing her time
@@fridayblessed9742 Lmao, you said that 🤣
This one is content filled like every other ✊🏼. There are different factors that play when the word “chase” comes in. While it is better and more convincing for things to happen naturally as the content advices, also know that some women need strong and persistent sunshine ☀️ for their flowers to open. The thing is for us men to be sensitive as to know when it’s just your ego keeping you to continue instead of your instinct. We all have that instinctual build, and that will help you determine if you are waisting your time or not. A girl that had bad experiences with men would not easily open up to the next guy that comes her way even if she’s into you. If she give you audience with the need to continue and you know you really like her, my humble advice is to continue without being too pushy. You will be surprised the day she will finally let her flower open. If you genuinely like her, all the effort and time you put in will be one of the bedrock of you both jokes, trust.
Lastly, remember the Bible said, he who findeth a wife….. you’ve to look, wait, talk, be persistent, committed and sometimes get insulted to find..
NB: most men chase women bc of their selfish interest as well. Also, for the girls esp beautiful ones, guys it’s not easy for them. Managing several guys coming your way; think about it and the confusion. I feel for them and it is safe to say; persistent guys always wins. Persistency doesn’t really mean chasing, just be natural, keep it cerebral and watch time to know when to stop trying with the help of your instinct and God.
These are my opinion and must be filtered by you. Jessica, I love you ❤️.
Thank you. You're very wise. This is my take too.
He who find a wife find a
Good thing no it's
Not easy to find because good people come one in a million even after giving your time to women it takes time to find a wife or good woman it's all in gods time... I definitely agree with you just sharing my point of view
U are both wise and with good grooming.
Very wise words
I like the way u balanced ur point, becos after everything "someone" has to do the seeking and I loved the way u described the seeking. Thank u
Honestly, this explains very clear the quality not just the video but the quality of advice she gives.