Women are now chasing this kind of guy and he's not even rich

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  • Опубликовано: 28 июн 2024
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    00:00 - Intro
    00:42 - What kind of guy tops women's "chase list"?
    02:19 - Psychological reasons women are attracted to him
    02:29 - Reason 1
    03:48 - Reason 2
    04:18 - Reason 3
    04:45 - why being less available is a mans super power
    04:54 - Super power 1
    05:17 - Super power 2
    05:42 - Super power 3
    06:08 - super power 4
    06:29 - Super power 5
    07:02 - How to master being unavailable
    07:52 - Strategy 2
    08:09 - Strategy 3
    08:41 - strategy 4
    09:14 - strategy 5
    09:52 - strategy 6
    10:24 - strategy 7
    11:07 - Conclusion

Комментарии • 250

  • @emmakudos
    @emmakudos 6 дней назад +69

    Once you’re principled as a man, this won’t feel like a game or hard to do. You naturally exhibit these attributes without stress and these ladies will fall at your feet. I’m a witness!

    • @jerrygumisiriza9417
      @jerrygumisiriza9417 5 дней назад +3

      Yes sir! 😅

    • @user-bp4xl1ny7c
      @user-bp4xl1ny7c День назад +2

      The ladies will. The rest will still seek Tyrone and cry fowl when he dumps them!

  • @speedoflight3395
    @speedoflight3395 11 дней назад +197

    You can only be unavailable if deep inside you actually don’t care about them. But if deep inside you care about them, you can’t not be available.

    • @OwodeOdey
      @OwodeOdey 11 дней назад +44

      Someone sensible finally said it. I don't have energy for games

    • @speedoflight3395
      @speedoflight3395 11 дней назад +31

      @@OwodeOdey I tried it bro and it didn’t work. I was hurt during the process. If guys that are unavailable are getting chased by women, it’s because deep inside, these guys are sincerely not available. If they cared a bit, there’s no way they can be unavailable. Emotions are strong.

    • @abelzakpe1459
      @abelzakpe1459 11 дней назад +25

      Not true. You can actually do care for a person but make yourself unavailable to an extent.
      I was that guy who is always very available and it has backfired severally but when I began to be unavailable from time to time things began to work well.

    • @speedoflight3395
      @speedoflight3395 11 дней назад +10

      @@abelzakpe1459 Bro, for me, it came with some kind of hurt that I couldn't resist for too long. I quit the game. I'm not gonna be a simp but I'm gonna be original.

    • @shedparker
      @shedparker 11 дней назад +7

      @@speedoflight3395I agree. All the time I put in trying, drained me mentally and emotionally. Now that I’ve put myself first, they come left and right but I’m uninterested.

  • @timotahowhitehawk3756
    @timotahowhitehawk3756 3 дня назад +24

    1. Scarcity - Unavailable person or man (in a healthy way). He becomes an Adventurous catch. Getting someone getting a Hard-to-Get person. They become more of a Fantasy. It can backfire, fantasy is often better than the Real. Don't lay everything out on the table.
    2. Pursue your hobbies, don't hide just try new things. Set Healthy Boundaries. Leave room for them to explore you; do not be an open book. Let her have to learn you and to Read you like a book.
    3. Setting Goals - Focusing on Self Improvement.
    4. Have a Robust Social Life - Don't just sell out and let her be your all
    5. Self-Care and Personally Development: Physically, Emotionally, and Spiritually.
    6. Be Selectively available.
    7. Give her time to miss you- don't reveal every detail of your life.

    • @zevlove612
      @zevlove612 2 дня назад +1

      Sounds like a second job sheesh if i must do all that is she the right woman???

    • @GoldKingsMan
      @GoldKingsMan День назад +1

      Ya makes sense, like that guy on Novels ‘Fabio’ all chicks wanted get with him.

    • @AntiFakeJewsRev2-9-0Zach9-6
      @AntiFakeJewsRev2-9-0Zach9-6 9 часов назад

      My Kingga

    • @GoldKingsMan
      @GoldKingsMan 7 часов назад

      @@AntiFakeJewsRev2-9-0Zach9-6 I knew a girl called Kinga

  • @Joeybeautiful_
    @Joeybeautiful_ 2 дня назад +34

    The greatest thing that ever happened to this world is “women,” and the worst thing that happened to this world is “women.”

    • @murckindor
      @murckindor 2 дня назад

      No! Big no! With biblical standpoint you have no proof

    • @Whitehorsehub
      @Whitehorsehub День назад +6

      @@murckindor EVE

    • @MrOJohn
      @MrOJohn День назад +2

      🎯 and I love them all too, but spot on lol.

  • @nwankwocallistus4096
    @nwankwocallistus4096 4 дня назад +35

    This is true only if she finds you attractive. If she she doesn’t like you, being unavailable will make u forgotten!!

    • @TonyRush21
      @TonyRush21 3 дня назад +2

      While what you are saying in in essence true, remember that overtime, people can grow to love someone who they never thought they would be attracted to.

    • @percyvolnar8010
      @percyvolnar8010 День назад +1

      @@TonyRush21 Yes, but time is time. And time is short. I typically dont want anything to do with a woman who can't immediately spot that i'm special. They seem to KNOW instantly when a man is cheating on them, but they NEVER seem to know when they are in the presence of a 'Special man' or when a man is unhappy. And believe me, my inbox is full of email messages from women ive met years ago who NOW realize my special power and are wondering where ive moved to.

    • @cherubfilmz3218
      @cherubfilmz3218 День назад

      Yes! bcos..., now you're Unavailable.

  • @jobistrange1668
    @jobistrange1668 5 дней назад +14

    The key is detachment.

  • @Yawziggyentertainment
    @Yawziggyentertainment 11 дней назад +40

    Madam it doesn't work on this generation anymore.
    Just get Money woman go come😅😅

  • @derwoodhamburger
    @derwoodhamburger 11 дней назад +15

    When they say they want someone who is emotionally available, it's a huge trap. Don't even be available

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 6 дней назад +3

      that means they chased emotionally unavailable bad boys in the past & they have a lot of emotional baggage, which they will unload onto you.

    • @What-vo5bx
      @What-vo5bx 6 дней назад

      @@asdfxcvbn746yup. A lot of traumatized people spreading their trauma around through their relationships. Most of us are traumatized in the west. Capitalism has made it much worse. Not that I have a solution, but putting a lot lore resources towards healing and preventing abuse/ trauma would go a long way towards solving many of our problems

    • @Hardy-uu9ve
      @Hardy-uu9ve 8 часов назад +1

      @@asdfxcvbn746 Absolutely correct

  • @OwodeOdey
    @OwodeOdey 11 дней назад +135

    She either likes you or she don't. Forget it.

  • @LordMalemo
    @LordMalemo 2 дня назад +9

    You need to do your home work again Jessy, as this only applies to those who wants a short term engagement like in a hit and run set up but if you want a long term sustaining relationship, you need to choose your woman wisely and do more than that. Otherwise, as you are unavailable she will be busy exploring other guys peacefully without your interference until you meet again and before you know it, you will be in an open undefined relationship. Who wants that!? Coz you can't just appear and disappear in her life the way you want. She is not stupid.

  • @greymaterresources
    @greymaterresources 11 дней назад +26

    Seems Jessy being listening to Davido music track titled :Unavailable!
    Gracias Sis

    • @RJ-ox3gi
      @RJ-ox3gi 11 дней назад

      I literally thought about that song lol

  • @godefroidniyonkuru4377
    @godefroidniyonkuru4377 11 дней назад +13

    Jessica is changing my life for real. I am new ti this channel but i have watched many of her videos .
    You are excellent Jessica.

  • @atanasshalamanov6437
    @atanasshalamanov6437 11 дней назад +27

    If a man believes that only money can create a healthy relationship, so he doesn’t know anything about long term relationship and the dullness of life as a couple.

  •  11 дней назад +25

    😂😂 Guy’s women don’t come with instruction manuals, so we have to make our own training manual while being unavailable! Gosh-that sounds like playing games!😂😂

    • @What-vo5bx
      @What-vo5bx 6 дней назад

      You’re playing the game whether you want to or not. “Not playing the game” is just strategy. Sorta like “ you’re always paying for it” or other true clichés you can think of. Lol 😂

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 11 дней назад +9

    The deep research you make bring out the content very well.thanks dear

  • @MJCdesigns
    @MJCdesigns 2 дня назад +2

    Unavailable will be forgotten.

  • @trevorross1311
    @trevorross1311 11 дней назад +5

    Once u get the balance down, ur good to go. That's the key to it. 🔑

  • @so3710
    @so3710 11 дней назад +3

    Noted! Be selectively unavoidable.
    Cheers for sharing 👍🏼

  • @aljoumeyli
    @aljoumeyli 11 дней назад +49

    I have always been that man thanks to Allah. I'm not rich and I don't even own a car. But I don't get impressed by so called modern women.

    • @larrysouthern5098
      @larrysouthern5098 2 дня назад

      Very good attitude...
      Oh ..you don't need a car...
      New technology is getting people around without a car...
      Press on..
      🐺

  • @noblesseraizelcoby
    @noblesseraizelcoby 11 дней назад +1

    Thanks Maamie really needed that

  • @chiefk587
    @chiefk587 5 дней назад +3

    A book that contains instructions about understanding women psychology in full would contain an infinite number of pages.

  • @icollinsharvey
    @icollinsharvey 11 дней назад +1

    Insightful J!

  • @josephdanso21
    @josephdanso21 11 дней назад +3

    Thank you for this message

  • @cjbigboone
    @cjbigboone 11 дней назад +1

    Thank you for this video. I needed to hear this

  • @PositiveVibesOnly5774
    @PositiveVibesOnly5774 11 дней назад +2

    Hi, Jessica. Your message is point on❤

  • @jomufilms
    @jomufilms День назад +1

    Basically looks, self sufficiency an independent mindset

  • @xxxyyy-iy4hf
    @xxxyyy-iy4hf 8 дней назад +2

    Thank you Aunt Jess.

  • @king676uutttgt
    @king676uutttgt 5 дней назад +2

    That's right. I spent my time away from my sickness when I was in school, but women in my class valued me. They didn't know where I lived nor my parents. I was quiet. Nowadays, I found women going crazy about me even those whom I don't know and those who never saw me not even once

  • @TatendaKubona
    @TatendaKubona 6 дней назад +1

    One of your best uploads. Well done

  • @christiannoriega9509
    @christiannoriega9509 11 дней назад

    Jessica O you are O_o WEXCELLENT!!!! Thanks for sharing this knowledge with us!

  • @kwamecliff4578
    @kwamecliff4578 10 дней назад

    Thank you Jessica

  • @calixcalistus6711
    @calixcalistus6711 11 дней назад

    Incredible video ❤

  • @dangaravictor5988
    @dangaravictor5988 11 дней назад

    You are just the BOOM!!! Great video.

  • @Wellfruits
    @Wellfruits 10 дней назад +15

    You don't have to be available all the time for each other., let there be some breathing space. But do make sure the little time you two spend together are meaningful and worth it..👌🏽

  • @greensidehealth
    @greensidehealth 7 дней назад +1

    Thanks for this Jessica 💖🙏🏾

  • @abdoulnasser4342
    @abdoulnasser4342 4 дня назад +4

    I like Jessica OS.she's confident.

  • @henrygjean-baptiste3022
    @henrygjean-baptiste3022 11 дней назад +3

    Good insight 🙏

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 дней назад +1

      Glad you think so!

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 11 дней назад +1

    Amazing tips here
    Had to watch again so as not to misconstrue it
    Because, at some point, I was thinking IF one shouldn't be available but striking a balance was the answer along the line as I watched
    Thanks Jess! 👍🏾

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  11 дней назад +1

      Glad it was helpful!

  • @pipio4593
    @pipio4593 День назад +1

    I love your voice, Jessy.

  • @ayo.tunjii283
    @ayo.tunjii283 11 дней назад +1

    Thanks for the new info Jessica 😇

  • @OKASHASAIDU-pq7mq
    @OKASHASAIDU-pq7mq 11 дней назад

    Excellent❤❤❤

  • @fergusonmbanali740
    @fergusonmbanali740 11 дней назад +1

    I love you, Jessica, and I love your show as well

  • @user-jk7gy3em8t
    @user-jk7gy3em8t 5 дней назад +1

    You opened me a new window to my life.i m from srILANKAN .🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @germainvowotor7022
    @germainvowotor7022 6 дней назад

    Beautiful inside ❤️🙏🏾

  • @excellencyphenom5307
    @excellencyphenom5307 8 дней назад

    I like your content J! You are definitely a Vibe!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🎯💯✌️

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  7 дней назад

      Thank you so much 🤗

  • @user-ki4ce2hh8q
    @user-ki4ce2hh8q 11 дней назад +1

    Girl, I dmire your dexterity oratory 😍😍, Awesome

  • @princeboateng7383
    @princeboateng7383 11 дней назад

    Jess, girl you're the man 👍

  • @dubbyx8490
    @dubbyx8490 2 дня назад

    Being unavailable automatically comes when you are pursuing your goals like a mad man.. If you try to form unavailable, it will not work. Nice video, Jessica.

  • @herbertsjeffrey
    @herbertsjeffrey 4 дня назад

    I love your stats. very good point is made

  • @zamushodge4590
    @zamushodge4590 11 дней назад

    Nice topic u touch alot of reality aspects of realationship needs 😂

  • @JayjayKings-sq2qs
    @JayjayKings-sq2qs 11 дней назад +6

    Just two ways. Is either she love you or not period

  • @antonymuraya3938
    @antonymuraya3938 11 дней назад

    Good one

  • @neworleansmade504
    @neworleansmade504 2 дня назад

    I think the key is to only give her your time if she worth it and she gotta show it

  • @francois-xavierr.2710
    @francois-xavierr.2710 11 дней назад +1

    you wrote the scarity principle

  • @emmanuelwes7013
    @emmanuelwes7013 6 дней назад +2

    Hi Jessica 😊😊😊😊 watching you from kenya

  • @jamesaruna6869
    @jamesaruna6869 День назад

    Mama you are the right person for subject,

  • @victorwinner491
    @victorwinner491 11 дней назад +2

    Been following for a few years Jessica. Ive learnt so much Thank you ❤️

  • @NurturingYourMind
    @NurturingYourMind 11 дней назад +3

    Very insightful.

  • @motema_mpembe
    @motema_mpembe 11 дней назад +2

    Jessica, you're a true gem! Keep up!

  • @5starmusic383
    @5starmusic383 11 дней назад

    What are great🎉 inspiration keeps strong keep going up make me love you more Blessed are the heart

  • @Media-oh8xc
    @Media-oh8xc 2 дня назад

    This has always been the case. Sometimes even if you’re not busy you should say you are, don’t be too available it’s not attractive.

  • @mathiasanyimah2004
    @mathiasanyimah2004 11 дней назад

    Great

  • @user-mn1go5je7u
    @user-mn1go5je7u 11 дней назад

    God bless you madam 😅

  • @pilucciluccinassi8504
    @pilucciluccinassi8504 День назад +1

    Women really miss out on men who are available. At least you know they are there when they are needed. Simple

  • @unayoroy3502
    @unayoroy3502 День назад

    Deep stuff

  • @ToxicMMA610
    @ToxicMMA610 11 дней назад +1

    I've experienced all she said but my question is how did she know all these .. wow

  • @obsidian_Ke
    @obsidian_Ke День назад

    Now I get why people chase millions of dollars; scarcity principle, the challenge....

  • @jamespendergraph9067
    @jamespendergraph9067 11 дней назад +5

    Can you bring up a topic about the women scamming men out of money pretending they're in love but they don't never have no cell phone the phone is broke you can't never get in touch with them video chat only text most are scam artist

    • @joshuaosemwengie2846
      @joshuaosemwengie2846 6 дней назад

      it's usually a man behind that

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 6 дней назад

      plenty of red pill youtube channels have covered this already. especially alexander grace & entrepreneurs in cars.

  • @vsatrader
    @vsatrader 4 дня назад +1

    I don't chase women, the way I see it is that if you have to chase her, you are low value. If she has to chase you, then you are high value. Women like men who are different to the other men. 90% of women are chasing the 1% of men, so why not concentrate of building your own infrastructure and let the women come to you. You get to choose, but the one you want might slip through the cracks, and this has happened to me, but I just don't care enough and let them go.

  • @dominicfrancis1833
    @dominicfrancis1833 4 дня назад

    One of the best rap album of all times

  • @microb399
    @microb399 2 дня назад +1

    Just work on you and understand what a good addition to you looks like! Too many ppl that lack the qualities necessary want way more than their value projects! Know your lane

  • @LambhKhongfai-oo4hn
    @LambhKhongfai-oo4hn 11 дней назад

    Own type 😊

  • @mcdonaldchintokoma4221
    @mcdonaldchintokoma4221 3 дня назад

    I would argue with u a lot when am drunk but great points

  • @emmaabumere2870
    @emmaabumere2870 5 дней назад +4

    Always make it known that while being unavailable is a super power it will only work if she's attracted, notice or interested in you and seeks your attention in the first place. Else you'll be wasting your time to someone or people who don't care.

  • @levisharpe9121
    @levisharpe9121 15 часов назад

    This is dangerous for men as this may attract sadistic women. What happens when she finally wins that prize and that man opens to her, she may lose interest because she was not genuinely interested into you but just the idea that you were a challenge.

  • @KafulaKalusa-qs7zo
    @KafulaKalusa-qs7zo 18 часов назад

    It would great if just told people that all women want a man who's resistant to the forbidden fruit and he has awareness meaning open to his emotional brain! No matter how much you explain I doubt if anyone of them understand your language because men and women speak a different language! Trust me they don't see what you're showing them! I mean no harm because you're the best dating coach plus what you teach is really helpful.

  • @davidwhyman1189
    @davidwhyman1189 День назад

    Unavailability - am gonna try that one.

  • @br_josh
    @br_josh День назад

    No use chasing any type of man unless you're also qualified for relationship.

  • @demeuredusaintesprit2709
    @demeuredusaintesprit2709 День назад

    Africa has rich people too 😊

  • @georgejuma9221
    @georgejuma9221 11 дней назад +2

    Hello Jessica . It's quiet along time I have been away from the show .Mmm, I can attest to this senior. Alady has been going after me for the last 3 years by telling me how she has feelings towards me and she is willing to meet me but I'm not interested in her despite the fact that I keeps her heart alive..she doesn't know my physically appearance but always begs me to meet her telling me how she loves me and thinking of marrying me not knowing that I'm afamily man and I respect my wife as I respect God 😅😅😅

    • @asdfxcvbn746
      @asdfxcvbn746 6 дней назад

      its a scam. probably a dude behind a computer screen lol smh

  • @arh_kofi
    @arh_kofi 5 дней назад

    WOW

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 11 дней назад +2

    In other words,do what women do

  • @Raycash801
    @Raycash801 11 дней назад

    beautiful

  • @chinonsonkume
    @chinonsonkume 7 дней назад +2

    Jessica do u realize that u've really engulfed my thoughts over d yrs?

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  7 дней назад

      is that good or bad?

    • @chinonsonkume
      @chinonsonkume 7 дней назад

      @@JessicaOS I really yearn 2see u

    • @chinonsonkume
      @chinonsonkume 7 дней назад

      @@JessicaOS offcux it's 4gud gem,just ur voice drains me emotionally, who really are u pearl?

    • @dubbyx8490
      @dubbyx8490 2 дня назад

      Baba go watch video on how to slide into her DM 😂

  • @zelinavega4192
    @zelinavega4192 5 дней назад +1

    Wait! We're down to 5 Billion now? 😂😂

  • @samuelasare1790
    @samuelasare1790 11 дней назад +6

    Like my comment if you learned something new today 👍. Thanks Jessica

  • @DEATHxTHExKIDx1
    @DEATHxTHExKIDx1 11 дней назад +6

    My excuse now is im unavailable to focus on my cholesterol 😅

  • @enjaga5827
    @enjaga5827 День назад

    Women don't know the men they need...the man has to show her that she needs him

  • @user-jc5ih8jp3s
    @user-jc5ih8jp3s 8 дней назад +1

    So what happens to originality?
    Its only a woman that can suggest having men to fit a particular mold.
    The turn a bad boy to good boy syndrome.
    To guys learn to be unique & original.

  • @robertc.6441
    @robertc.6441 15 часов назад

    I understand what you're saying, however I am not going to waste my valuable time playing mind games just to have a girlfriend that will lose interest eventually anyway, nope, not this guy

  • @fawasodunola5674
    @fawasodunola5674 11 дней назад +1

    Second to comment ❤❤

  • @antoineparker7929
    @antoineparker7929 11 дней назад

    Second 😂❤

  • @theresiliantsoul
    @theresiliantsoul 11 дней назад +3

    You are a bad girl 😂😂😂
    Your videos always beat my imagination, keep up Jess

  • @deathtocolor8774
    @deathtocolor8774 4 дня назад

    If I have to do all of this, just to keep my relationship healthy. I’m just not having a relationship. I don’t think it’s for me.

  • @JOESUBA122
    @JOESUBA122 Час назад

    Yes we can find womwn when we are not rich! just go overseas and leave the women here alone! its really now hard!

  • @TrueYarn
    @TrueYarn 11 дней назад +3

    Davido already told you. Lol.

  • @vibewithjess
    @vibewithjess 11 дней назад

    💯

  • @petermoko8724
    @petermoko8724 11 дней назад

    💙💙

  • @ebstrings
    @ebstrings 11 дней назад

    Relative to the balance of keeping your social circle active outside of the relationship, want to ask if it's okay for your partner to want to or go out with other guys and vice versa

  • @edbertkwesi4931
    @edbertkwesi4931 6 дней назад

    eiiish !!!!!! JESSS!!! then you are talking about me ooo!! cos hehehe for me i am always scarce and i dont like people to know too much abot me but i like to know much abot you