7 huge mistakes men make that chase women away

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  • Опубликовано: 30 июн 2024
  • Stay away from making these mistakes as much as possible! They repel women! In this video Jessica OS shares 7 huge mistakes men make that chase women away. It's a no holds barred monologue as usual. Happy viewing!
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    00:00 - Intro
    01:54 - Being in a hurry to start a relationship
    03:43 - Being overly possessive
    05:23 - Talking about your ex
    07:06 - Being stingy
    08:21 - You push for sex too soon
    09:42 - Not being straightforward
    10:36 - Timidity
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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  2 года назад +127

    I've started vlogging everyone! and i'm pretty excited about it! Check out my Vlog channel (Jessica OS Vlogs). If you want to watch my very first video, Check it out here. ruclips.net/video/oz5BusWnYMA/видео.html

    • @vnation4443
      @vnation4443 2 года назад +3

      Thank you very much for this my AFRICAN Queen J Os

    • @nainaiwhip4253
      @nainaiwhip4253 2 года назад

      Your voice 😍

    • @sulleyawudu8100
      @sulleyawudu8100 2 года назад

      Glad to always hear from you

    • @svitababy6906
      @svitababy6906 2 года назад

      Jess i want 16 bars for my new rap song..i will credit and reference you for the lyrics..have u thought of being a ghostwriter?

    • @johnross4243
      @johnross4243 2 года назад

      Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person

  • @sifisosithole9631
    @sifisosithole9631 2 года назад +210

    If a lady really likes you nothing will chase them away from you,You will never have to work hard to keep a woman who likes you

    • @letusspeaklingala2023
      @letusspeaklingala2023 2 года назад +12

      Well said. What irks me is that they feign being offended when I ask for sex or make advances suggestive of the same. What did they think I wanted in the first place? That is a turn-off for me personally.

    • @acc3650
      @acc3650 2 года назад +3

      TRUE!

    • @Chiungalla79
      @Chiungalla79 Год назад +17

      This is about early dating. They usually don't like you this much on first sight. They might be interested, and give you some credit. But you surely can scare girls away.

    • @liverpoolanfield50
      @liverpoolanfield50 Год назад +1

      Very true

    • @liverpoolanfield50
      @liverpoolanfield50 Год назад +1

      @@Chiungalla79 yupp you also have a point with this

  • @D_A_Marv
    @D_A_Marv 2 года назад +77

    I’m a woman, and now new subscriber from Toronto. I have no clue how I ended up here, but I’ve been binge watching your channel for a day now😄 and you are hitting the nail on the head! Great advice to some of these men and us women as well. Much appreciated!🙌🏾

  • @geraldgrecilien4835
    @geraldgrecilien4835 2 года назад +232

    Steeve Harvey has written a book entitled "think like a man and act like a lady" I think you have to write a book entitled "understand ladies". Thanks a lot Jess!

    • @ebentee
      @ebentee 2 года назад +1

      It will definitely 🙏 happened

    • @groovepromoteam5770
      @groovepromoteam5770 2 года назад +5

      @Gerald Grecilien To think like a man and act like a lady will be contradiction to your true self , Or Rather a form of De masculinity Aimed at men ?? Don’t you think both sexes should strive to understand each other and thier roles !!!!

    • @groovepromoteam5770
      @groovepromoteam5770 2 года назад

      @Gerald Grecilien To think like a man and act like a lady will be contradiction to your true self , Or Rather a form of De masculinity Aimed at men ?? Don’t you think both sexes should strive to understand each other and thier roles !!!!

    • @lordsonashigbey9205
      @lordsonashigbey9205 2 года назад

      😂😂😂😂Sounds interesting…

    • @joeblack1490
      @joeblack1490 2 года назад +5

      If you think like a man you will act like one. That book is just cringeworthy to me.

  • @brianbrino4310
    @brianbrino4310 2 года назад +108

    Dear Jessica although we are all slightly different you have just hit on everything you’ve said in a proper manner and with a deep meaning of behaviours that we should follow normally with our loving women. I simply love your readings they’re so good and instructive and all I can tell you is I’m gonna follow them as long as you keep on giving them to us. Best regards to Accra Ghana lots of good luck and good wishes to you and your family always. Thank you thank you thank you.
    🙏🙏🙏🍀🍀🍀🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @johnross4243
      @johnross4243 2 года назад

      Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person

    • @johnross4243
      @johnross4243 2 года назад

      Whats@pp him

    • @johnross4243
      @johnross4243 2 года назад

      ✝ 2347014225478⏭⏭

    • @joelkebopetswe9837
      @joelkebopetswe9837 2 года назад

      I love you so much and I'm learning alot from you evn though sometimes you expose me but it's really helpful. keep molding us to be better men🔥♥️

  • @sonofbosse
    @sonofbosse 2 года назад +14

    Jessica I'm a big fan! My name is Jonas and I'm from Sweden. Soon I'll be coming to Ghana for my sixth time. Your videos are very informative and helpful

  • @fossnevergiveup2061
    @fossnevergiveup2061 2 года назад +5

    Thanks Jessica 😍.
    Much love from Italy to everyone watching 🙏❤️🇮🇹🇬🇭

  • @tylerfranger537
    @tylerfranger537 Год назад +7

    I think talking about ex’s is important but you have to feel out the connection between you and this new person first. It’s always good to talk about what didn’t work in past relationships and what you’ve learned.

  • @nwachukwuohameje8570
    @nwachukwuohameje8570 2 года назад +10

    Appreciate the friendly reminders Jessica. You hit the nail on the head.

  • @andyattapoku929
    @andyattapoku929 2 года назад +27

    Always watching you to get new vocabularies and new expressions as well.. Keep the good work Jess👍👍

  • @chrispinuswanyonyi9300
    @chrispinuswanyonyi9300 2 года назад +10

    Thank you so much Jessica. Your research is very real.Perfect and to the point.God bless you and the work of your teachings via this media.

  • @successdtv
    @successdtv 2 года назад +9

    Always get my head in the perfect setting whenever I get tuned. Love from me to BIG Jessica!

  • @christianprats8225
    @christianprats8225 2 года назад +4

    I really appreciate your quality advise and strength of character . Your standards and values comes across from the quality of advice you provide. Much appreciated, keep up the great work.

  • @verasworld3028
    @verasworld3028 2 года назад +4

    Perfectly said!!
    Thanks for Sharing. God bless you richly

  • @lelandcline6809
    @lelandcline6809 2 года назад +12

    Love this singing introduction. You make my morning. Planning on taking a trip this new year for a week or more. Maybe Spain and Italy and Ghana. Keep stuff coming but please have a life for you too. Hoping all the best comes your way.😁

  • @CJChege
    @CJChege 2 года назад +9

    Awesome content & that singing gets me every time 😉 thanks for another great video, full of solid advice in direct female speak

  • @nebertsakala2747
    @nebertsakala2747 2 года назад +4

    Thank you so much Jessica.❤️

  • @evans2786
    @evans2786 2 года назад +2

    Dammmmn, you nailed it right at the top!! I've to download this!! Thank you Jessica

  • @bmchaarney
    @bmchaarney 2 года назад +7

    Hi I just stumbled onto this this morning, good stuff and well presented. I like your style and will be looking for more from you.🇧🇧

  • @Gojo_FX..4
    @Gojo_FX..4 Год назад +5

    I don't know what I'd do without your advice Jess thanks alot for that

  • @deedsinstitute7414
    @deedsinstitute7414 2 года назад +8

    Well if its not the brilliant Jessica herself again!, Another masterpiece. Words fail me! Keep up the good work Jess! Such a blesser to men!.... 2 sec after first meeting in my vicinity... "BABY GIRL I AM SOOO CRAZYYY ABOUT YOUUUU...YOU ARE THE AIR THAT I BREATHE..." watching your content with much love from MALAWI Davie here! Peace!

  • @vnation4443
    @vnation4443 2 года назад +6

    Thank U soo much for this my AFRICAN Queen J Os

  • @jarednyandega3847
    @jarednyandega3847 2 года назад +4

    Always learning something new. Great Jess

  • @babatundebm
    @babatundebm 2 года назад +8

    Jess my Gee. Thanks for all the relationship hacks. I appreciate it all.

  • @arnoldyao1987
    @arnoldyao1987 2 года назад +1

    this is just wonderful . thanks for your advice Jessica

  • @damyanexssessgeorgiev6
    @damyanexssessgeorgiev6 2 года назад +6

    Great tips, I like how you put the words down, it's easy to find stuff you did back in your past and see it yourself like "you know, I'm guilty, I've actually done some of that before, maby that's why bla bla bla" Love your content, keep up girl! Ohh, also love your voice, the expressions and all, you are confident, powerful women, but still be ladylike, not overwhelming or too aggressive/passive! I like people who can actually talk about stuff, specialy "general life stuff" that happen everyday, but being smart of it, knowing what they talking! Much love, great channel, the best singing evolved ever also haha 🤓🙈💚

  • @danieleffiom4420
    @danieleffiom4420 2 года назад +4

    This is awesome. You nailed it with humour. That's amazing

  • @user-mc3nh8ms5w
    @user-mc3nh8ms5w Год назад +1

    you are great. just listened to a few videos and they are really helpful realistic in a way that one can relate and be pulled out of the dark. looking forward to watching even more.

  • @bobyfun79
    @bobyfun79 2 года назад +2

    Jessica you give the best advice, thank you 🙏

  • @augustusomon3049
    @augustusomon3049 2 года назад +56

    As always, Jessica's content is a master piece. Keep it up!

    • @johnross4243
      @johnross4243 2 года назад

      Dear I can introduce you to the same Relationship Restorer who was able to reunite me and my ex back together And it works very fast, he can help your to get back with your specific person.

    • @johnross4243
      @johnross4243 2 года назад

      Whats@pp him.

    • @johnross4243
      @johnross4243 2 года назад +1

      ✝ 2347014225478⏭⏭

    • @ibrahimovicjallohkargbo8200
      @ibrahimovicjallohkargbo8200 2 года назад +1

      Nice

  • @ebentee
    @ebentee 2 года назад +6

    You never disappoint us 😌☺️
    Thanks 😊👍

  • @sleems6639
    @sleems6639 2 года назад +3

    Jessica you are so on point it happened to me last month.

  • @bonganimhayise3103
    @bonganimhayise3103 2 года назад +2

    Hi Jessica im from South Africa (Nelspruit). Thank you so much for sharing everything with us for free.. you really changed my love life into a perfect one, I also love your academic english. God Bless you!

  • @legrandLecarlclein
    @legrandLecarlclein 2 года назад +38

    Very well researched piece.. Jess you're a real master piece.

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 2 года назад +18

    As soon as she highlights the first reason, I know she was right on track because it happens to a lot of us men!!

  • @Vien007
    @Vien007 2 года назад +3

    Of all your vlogs, this is the most accurate 👌 and probably the only one I agree with so far. 😊✌

  • @didiernsengiyumva3701
    @didiernsengiyumva3701 2 года назад

    Thank you Jessica!

  • @kitogrova435
    @kitogrova435 Год назад +6

    So Jessica, you live in Ghana!? Interesting. I don't know much of the African Continent except for very short visits to Morocco, Mozambique and Angola. I was born in Portugal but I actually live in USA.
    It's great to hear the point of view of a girl about these matters. Love your videos.

  • @thabanengubo5652
    @thabanengubo5652 2 года назад

    Thank you for the useful information. The first one definitely works for me

  • @richardkavaza8444
    @richardkavaza8444 2 года назад +3

    I enjoyed this episode and surprisingly it's the other way round for me as time without number this happens

  • @twebazegraciousofficial3433
    @twebazegraciousofficial3433 2 года назад +11

    I just can't get tired of watching your podcasts Jessica. May the Almighty God bless the work of your hands

  • @richardbrown9428
    @richardbrown9428 2 года назад +2

    Your delivery is silky smooth ! Great job

  • @emmanuelmwendwa5486
    @emmanuelmwendwa5486 2 года назад +6

    if there is something i love about is ur voice....Madam ur blessed .
    keep doing u and keep it real!!!!!

  • @gloria8328
    @gloria8328 2 года назад +1

    I really appreciate everything u say. It inspires me and I'm super grateful. My role model. 😍

  • @cryptobloodline2185
    @cryptobloodline2185 2 года назад

    Thanks
    This your relevance will never fade away
    I assure you
    Your a sign and a wonder

  • @chumeh9886
    @chumeh9886 2 года назад +7

    Got glowed to this amazing Jessi OS channel ever since I subscribed. The content is so reached, well articulated and balanced. Thank you My Sister

  • @hcarandang34
    @hcarandang34 2 года назад

    Thank you jessica...everything u say hit spot....and real.....👍👍

  • @marcgordon3239
    @marcgordon3239 2 года назад +14

    We Don't Care About The One's That Leave ??? We Care About The One's That Stay !!!

  • @thewilderness9905
    @thewilderness9905 2 года назад

    All your tips/videos are insightful!

  • @mcwade7831
    @mcwade7831 2 года назад

    Wow
    This is so amazing.
    You're really helping me with these videos dear. Please continue to help us understand our ladies really well. Thank you so much.

  • @kennethrutledge1897
    @kennethrutledge1897 2 года назад

    Thank you for all the advice you give

  • @sindikhoza5539
    @sindikhoza5539 2 года назад +1

    Hi I'm new to this channel but I gained something from you Jess keep on doing it thanks ❤️

  • @trivagravia4837
    @trivagravia4837 2 года назад +4

    Great advice...just dat the presence of social media has changed the dynamics. Social media is catalysing things. At the same time you dont want to waste your time n resources on a lady whose mind is already on another guy only to realise you were her number 3.

  • @Blessed_Nherudzo
    @Blessed_Nherudzo 2 года назад +1

    ....that last bit hurt about "in the mean time your girls gone" , I want her back 😉. Thank you 😊 🙏

  • @gibsonbarine9113
    @gibsonbarine9113 2 года назад +3

    Very well researched piece,keep it up

  • @xack2789
    @xack2789 2 года назад

    I love your content there is so much clarity in your video's 💕

  • @tensaeshiferawlemma4529
    @tensaeshiferawlemma4529 2 года назад +2

    Nicely put. I loved it.

  • @alexkakooza3116
    @alexkakooza3116 2 года назад

    Am addicted to the show and tellings of wisdom from you Jessica

  • @umarubapay3237
    @umarubapay3237 2 года назад

    This is the most common and simplest thing we do in Sierra Leone I'm glad to be part of your advice.

  • @moo1654
    @moo1654 2 года назад +23

    Great advice I needed this! I'm having difficulties with myself as I pursue this older woman. My only true hurdle is being timid. I'm trying to focus on being laid back but direct but don't want to say too much to push her away. I'm gonna have to watch this again

    • @isaacbuziba7085
      @isaacbuziba7085 2 года назад +1

      So how is that going?

    • @moo1654
      @moo1654 2 года назад +4

      @@isaacbuziba7085 our timing is off and at this point I moved on no need of continuing pursuing someone who's not for you

    • @ranjit7409
      @ranjit7409 2 года назад

      9

    • @fridaypaulenemi6814
      @fridaypaulenemi6814 2 года назад

      Great advice ma!

  • @stanleypoulard
    @stanleypoulard 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for the video. God bless you ....

  • @santapatoskyofficial379
    @santapatoskyofficial379 2 года назад

    Thank you Jessica.

  • @taneshalashai
    @taneshalashai 2 года назад +35

    Jessica thank you for putting this page out here, because a lot of men don’t realize the dumb things they do to chase women away.

  • @ohanubegoodluck6775
    @ohanubegoodluck6775 2 года назад +1

    Anywhere in the world, number 1 turns women off. All your opinions are very much on point my sister

  • @bhil_mhe8180
    @bhil_mhe8180 2 года назад +1

    I really enjoy your videos and advices..most of all your vocals are on point man😘..To be frank with I enjoy your vocals more than the advices even though am facing challenges in my relationship😔😔Keep it Up big sis🤟

  • @heywoodmuyama135
    @heywoodmuyama135 2 года назад

    The am "sure you are "melody stuck in my head...informative stuff..good job

  • @crossoverinspiration
    @crossoverinspiration Год назад

    Thanks so much Jessica, this video have taught me a lot to crawl back to my holes with so many mistakes.

  • @ApataHitz
    @ApataHitz 2 года назад +1

    Absolutely Correct 👍

  • @vincechipatuka6489
    @vincechipatuka6489 Год назад

    I find your videos very informative. You are helping many. Watching from Zambia.

  • @davidleonardjrakujobi7609
    @davidleonardjrakujobi7609 2 года назад

    Thanks for the information contained Jessy thumps up

  • @Samalwasamson8
    @Samalwasamson8 2 года назад

    Thank you Jessica I got it right ...I won't mess again

  • @goodmanngwenya5571
    @goodmanngwenya5571 2 года назад

    There's something very special about you my lady Jess Os.

  • @chahwahl.sakambwa6673
    @chahwahl.sakambwa6673 Год назад

    I have learnt alot from your videos. Jessica, your voice is just cultivating and makes me feel wow... You know?

  • @oyoopaul8775
    @oyoopaul8775 2 года назад +2

    Viewing all the way from Kenya, good stuff.

  • @Mtsepana
    @Mtsepana 2 года назад +1

    Wow Jessica your videos are just amazing

  • @emilebroadfield7197
    @emilebroadfield7197 2 года назад

    Actually no one sees his or her back Jessica. You just highlighted me to have a clue of myself on the mirror. I believe I will make my woman to stay. Love you sister. God bless you

  • @godwinbruce2614
    @godwinbruce2614 Год назад

    Thanks for this particular one 👍👍👍

  • @johncoviello8570
    @johncoviello8570 Год назад +1

    This video has really good advice for men. I’m impressed!

  • @calebobeng3564
    @calebobeng3564 2 года назад +5

    I really love the intro. Very classic

  • @princeowusu1017
    @princeowusu1017 2 года назад

    Kudos ...cos your videos are concise and precise....

  • @konasolomon7573
    @konasolomon7573 2 года назад

    Nice piece as always. Never disappoint much love! all the way from Lawra upper west region

  • @unwanaukim3863
    @unwanaukim3863 2 года назад +1

    u are great adviser.very realistic and on point

  • @eddiethompson7672
    @eddiethompson7672 2 года назад

    Thank you so much for the video 😘

  • @jamespalm6746
    @jamespalm6746 Год назад

    I have already begun to find your videos informative and intriguing. By the way, love your voice! Wow

  • @snuffymanson
    @snuffymanson 2 года назад +4

    Jessica , you are the dangerous pretty Lady , lol ! You pick up straight facts , and slap people with them . It is fun to watch !

  • @matovuisaacsk7283
    @matovuisaacsk7283 2 года назад

    Thank you Jessica

  • @moussamamadoucoulibaly662
    @moussamamadoucoulibaly662 Год назад

    I love jessica you are always on point we did learn a lot.

  • @patrickmwathi4112
    @patrickmwathi4112 Год назад +2

    Please people make Jessica Os 1 million subscribers. She's always phenomenal in boychild moral, social and psychological support 👏 ❤️ 🙌

  • @anythingstuff4605
    @anythingstuff4605 2 года назад +1

    These are facts 💯

  • @commoncentz3148
    @commoncentz3148 2 года назад

    Recently found your Channel and you have the best Advice for Men on RUclips

  • @javanoflagos1439
    @javanoflagos1439 2 года назад +3

    😂😂😂 this lady is incredible and fantastic

  • @abdul-haqalhassan8616
    @abdul-haqalhassan8616 2 года назад

    Great 👍🏽 learnings, thank you 🙏🏾

  • @josephchileshe6037
    @josephchileshe6037 Год назад

    Thanks Jessica

  • @bubune8874
    @bubune8874 Год назад

    Very interesting and educative. Thanks very much 💕

  • @johanqin
    @johanqin 2 года назад

    This was fantastic, thank you!

  • @dinsewo4real
    @dinsewo4real 2 года назад +15

    Many are guilty of number 1. I have been too fast to Profess love one way or the other at some point. God help me. Thank you Jessica for this video

    • @Deferrybouman
      @Deferrybouman Год назад

      If she dont want fast enough take other woman

    • @michaelcesco2970
      @michaelcesco2970 Год назад +1

      A big turn off , DON'T BE IN LOVE WITH YOUR PHONE ! lt happened to a friend of mine. He went on a lunch date and the woman she answered every call that came. She should have ( unless she was expecting an emergency call), turned it off. It annoyed him so much he said he was going to the men's room and walked out the side door and left her there.

  • @tonyterere-sl6bs
    @tonyterere-sl6bs Год назад

    I just want say thankyou for sharing.

  • @udochukwuiwuoha7148
    @udochukwuiwuoha7148 2 года назад +1

    I watch from US and u crack me up sometimes. Love you

  • @effiya_ephya
    @effiya_ephya 2 года назад

    Spot On 👌

  • @philipodallo7950
    @philipodallo7950 2 года назад

    Thank you!!