Best way to deal with a girl who ghosts you
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- Опубликовано: 27 сен 2024
- You really like her but she's completely unresponsive. She's gone 'dark'. What's the best way to deal with the situation? What this video.
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I understand walking away from them but what about if the two of you work in the same field and have to see each other everyday? Every time when I see her she turns her back to me, looks away, and doesn’t even speak . How do I handle that please?
Thank you.
Do U have a book? U really have great content.
No more comments here Jessica and thank you for your wise advice!👍👍👍👍
Than you very much sir.
Guys the number 1 thing to master the game, it’s to having an Abundance Mindset, no fear loss, Don’t care. Who cares if they ghost you. Go to the next
My nigga ✊🏽
TRUE DAT. 😉💪🏽
Their loss, not yours. Oh well...🤷🏽♂️
But should you unfollow them ?
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@@matrixisreal2023 That's totally up to you...
You are TOTALLY right, If someone doesn't respond within a day, stop persisting and move on. There is no such thing as "I had too much work and I did not see it".
See it
This is a very hard pill to swallow. I recently got ghosted by someone I genuinely loved. This broke my heart. Thank you Jessica for this video. Now I know what to do.
It stings for awhile but you’ll be stronger
Me too its hard to delete a girl you love t2 hard
Happened to me when everything was going perfect. Saw each other everyday and talked about merging our lives.
Exactly same thing here. Your world collapses and you have to start again
@@sharadnakarja821 bro how did you ever deal with it I'm so confused on why she just left it doesn't make sense to me
Ultimately if someone ghosts you....you let them go.... My Ex ghosted me for weeks and finally ended our relationship..... when I found a new girl... my Ex came back running wanting us to get back together... for 3 years she kept pushing...I'm not exaggerating....
Don't go around chasing people that don't want to be in your space....you will never be appreciated or respected if you chase
True
Mine reached out after 17 years. I'm good. I'd rather die alone
@@mademenchronicles2335 17 years? TF😂
W man’s
@@mademenchronicles2335 lol she got ran through during that time untill her looks start to fade and noone wants her
There are three stages in ghosting (ghosting is actually break up in disguise) you have to pass through these stages, I'm at the last phase myself now, it only gets easier to walk away as you go through these phases.
The first phase is Shock: you don't believe she's doing that to you after all u both have been thru and how you've invested in this relationship
Second Phase is denial: you refuse to accept the fact that she doesn't want you, that she's just using you. You see the signs clearly but you still won't believe it
The third Phase is called Acceptance phase; this is where you come to yourself (consciousness) and review all that's happening and see things for what they truly are and not what you want them to be and accept that you've been rejected and quit trying, then walk away
Story of my life right now.
I have one stage: If there is no response within a certain amt. of time....I write that shit off. Charge it to the game, hold onto my nuts and mentally move on.
very accurate
Clear explanation 👍
You care too much about the other person and not enough about yourself if you have to break this down in such a detailed fashion.
I just leave them alone and work on bettering myself
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That’s exactly what I do. And after valuing yourself, they’ll always come back. Never be a simp always put yourself on the highest pinnacle and thank me later
You get in life what you tolerate. If you tolerate disrespect, you'll get disrespected. If you value yourself, people will value you. Thank you so much Jessica for these reminders.
Indeed Jessica there is more to life than people who take us for granted and eventually ghost us . Thank you.
When they start creating ANY distance or disinterest I mirror the behaviours and move on.. I have seen and done it over decades after learning the hard way when younger and getting my head and heart broken. You learn after years when people take you for granted and are playing games. It takes time
I realized that myself. People will begin to value you when you value yourself!! The same can be said about respect!! Thanks for the great vid Jessica. I needed this💯🙏🏿
Cliche. A woman will still ghost you
@@jbaru648 she will come back to you if you ghost her too and act like she is nothing you just gotta love yourself more and realize that there is a vast ocean of women out there
Wish I saw this earlier. I entered into a relationship with a lady, I was made to think guys had treated her bad so I decided to treat her so well, and in 3 days I was ghosted lol. Me being the good guy reached out and showed up at her house to find out what was going on. She told me to stop coming to her house unannounced and she's had enough trouble. Hours later she now responded to my old chats calling it quits and she's having family issues. I really have been putting people first before myself. I will find love again. A window will open on the other side. Thanks
See how they are Guys. Holy Smoke…Guy is respectful and decent and THIS is what he gets from these females. ??? (Although Brother, Please do not go over a Ladies house UNinvited, I can hear the Cops now. Ugh.) BET her old dude snapped his fingers and she fell into line.
You will. It's a matter of time
That's a giant red flag when she bad-mouths her previous exes. You know she's trouble.
Fast track today, am happily dating a lady, been in it for 3 months now and still feels fresh everyday!
Ghosting people is just immature. And as an adult, I don't want to waste my time with immature people. I met a girl who insisted I took her number, and after a few days I texted to see if she wanted to grab a drink with me . The message was "read" but she never replied. I just deleted her number and moved on. I never asked for her number in the first place. 🤷🏻
The amusing part is when they ghost you and continue to watch your socials and such. But the best thing you can do is just ignore them and focus on you. The person that ghosted you is still keeping track of you and they're just waiting for their chance to come back. The more distance you create between you and the person they think you are, the better off you'll be.
You are 💯 percent correct!!!
Yep I unfriend my ghost from Facebook but I know she’s probably looking at my profile. So I posted random things like how I don’t tolerate ghosting and I’ll dismiss immediately who does. I’m calling her out indirectly because if she reads it she’ll know it was aimed at her.
@@brianwaller7383 I typically post a lot of misleading stuff to create distance.
@@brianwaller7383 yes but you are thinking of them clearly and they see the posts and they know it means them, they arent fools and you drop them flat/cut off. I know because I used to go through these same times. You don't own them nothing only yourself. Value yourself 100%
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I've been through this pain. It hurts so bad. I was able to walk away after a long time. And she felt it in the end.
There is more to life than one person who doesn't like you. Think clear, wider and smart enough
"Ghost me I ghost you, God no go vex." . . . . LOL. If someone ghosts you, let them rest in peace, no need disturbing the dead.
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I'm leaving this comment here so after a month or year when someone likes it, I get reminded of this video
Reminding you of this video
*Nudge*
Psst
Poke
come back ✌🏽
That moment of silence hit me really hard
Same 😅
The comment I been looking for 😂
Sameeee😂😂😂😂😂
The moment of silence got me
Damn this was amazing. Thank you. Was ghosted by my ex after 4 years in the relationship. I complained the lack of seeing her and her being overly busy to reply to texts and she then decided ghosting me was the best thing to do. Listen, it sucks and it’s been literally 48 hours but I’m ok. The hurt and shock turned into anger and now I’m like whatever. Her loss. Keep ya head up ladies and fellas. It gets better.
Did she come back yet , I’ve got the same problem and I crave the day she comes back , they always do lol
@@justme-so2en nope and honestly it’s totally fine. I met someone online and we’ve gone out on a couple of dates and it’s been fun. Of course it’s going to feel strange and in some weird way I felt like I was cheating or something but that will pass.
I’m 45 and if I sat here waiting for her to comeback I’d be missing out on living. You shouldn’t either and if they left you then that’s their loss.
@@mrreddington777 actually I asked a few times to talk to me more communicate and go on dates but it all was about school and work no intimacy nothing for 11 months so one day i got up told her I was going home and broke up with her . Be talked to her since and she’s said please wait for me yet she still treats me like I’m not a priority or a option so I’m healing and going on with my life . Thought she was the one and idk what happen to her but that’s not the woman I fell in love with
@@justme-so2en I’ll say this. If your partner doesn’t treat you like a priority after you mention your feelings to her or him then it’s time to move on. No one is perfect but never accept being an option than someone’s priority. I was feeling the same way and I made my case and instead of my ex saying hey I’m sorry she ghosted me. Totally fine too. I can sleep peaceful at night knowing I tried and can now meet different people. Best of luck to you and stay strong. You are worth it.
@@mrreddington777 thanks , even though my ex started school and asked for me to wait I broke up and am trying to move on even now trying to talk to her to get a date to get my stuff still she reads it and ghosts me at times I’ve had enough
Thank you Jess! I did called her 3 days after she ghosted, she apologized and asked that we be friends. It's been almost five weeks and I'm moving strong without her existence. By her ghosting me, it has boosted my confidence and self esteem
I've learned that everyone has the right to behave how they desire. It's OK to be sad and upset when you're ghosted. But you can't resent that person. I agree it's disrespectful in some cases. I was dating a guy for weeks and he ghosted. The best action is to reconcile within yourself to avoid carrying that negativity into future relationships. 💗
You have a large amount of valuable knowledge and wisdom. The significance of it is that your suggestions are clean. Jessica, you should be on top of the world!
Thank you for the much-needed moment of silence at the beginning of the video for those who have been ghosted Jessica. Really appreciate it…appreciate your words of comfort, support, & counsel too. Simply the best.🤗👍
I broke up with my ex last year. I feel more ashamed of how I reacted, the questions and all the neediness, disrespecting myself makes me feel worse than her disrespect.
never have anything more to do with her for she not only ghosted you but broke your trust as well so don,t give her a 2nd chance to take her back in your life for it,s a red flag
This was great Jess. Thanks for it. So many times it is fear of the unknown that makes us not brave enough to walk away.
Jessica, you're one of the best we have.
Facts Jess! Walk away like a winner, keep the winner energy! even if it hurt u that aint going to kill u, Respect urself first!
I swear sometimes i think Jessica knows what is going on in my life or I am feeling.
She's like angel with the right answers
Jessica you just helped my current situation and my heart already prays for you .. you just put smile on my face for providing a solution, you shall be celebrated worldwide. You made me to stay off atrocities and violence, indeed you are the best woman in the world
She has the most precise videos I’ve ever seen 🙏🏾
Jessica I'm going through the same for the past days and I lost myself seriously but thank God I came across your videos, God bless you
Going through this right now with a girl that I had been dating for 3 weeks still hurts so bad!!
any updates ? mine lost interest after two weeks and ghosted me gradually by only answering without reciprocity.
My gf was in my life for about a year but , she went cold on me. And went back to her child’s baby daddy. It ended poorly. But I’m bouncing back we broke up back in January
Thank you so much, just what I needed to hear 🙏 "Celebrate the fact that a toxic and low integrity person has walked out of your life" Yeah, in retrospect the other did me a huge favour. They showed they just cant communicate in a straightforward and honest way and rather keep me guessing and worrying. Should be glad indeed I dont have to get involved with them any further.
Great woman. Thank you.
Someone did that to me few weeks ago and I did what you just advised. I loved her but had to respect their opinions as well. Cheers
Thanks Jessica, this has bees happening to me for years, now I know she's ghosting. Now I know better and she comes back after few months to beg me
I followed the advice on one of your videos and she finally said yes. Thank you
Good for you!
If Jessica open a school I would be the one of the first to sign up! Pure knowledge Jess 👊🏽
Someone relatively new ghosting you is easy to get over fast..but after 4yrs and countless moments memories invested time energy resources and emotions..its a whole other level of evil dysfunction...my DA.is ghosting me for the 2nd time in 6mnths..ive walked away for good..women like this are just not worth the space they occupy...ghosting is the ultimate disrespect...and should never be tolerated..if they try to come back later...never give them the time of day again
.they should be dead to you.
It’s even more disrespectful than saying hurtful things to the person. At least in argument there is confrontation and such that can bring understanding. Ghosting is the cowards way out, and causes severe emotional trauma in the ghosted if it’s a long term relationship
Thank you Jessica! I'm dealing with this right now.
It's the articulation in your spoken English for me.
Proud to be a Ghanaian
After every single girl Ive attempted to date and get into a relationship with has ghosted me, Ive realized this, It really doesnt matter, you can try your hardest, you can be a good man with a balanced lifestyle, take care of yourself, value yourself, be a great candidate, and still get ghosted. It's a pattern and I don't understand why. Which leaves me thinking, everyone I meet will end up ghosting me down the road so why even bother?
We’re in the same boat bro, I honestly don’t even try anymore
Why bother
It’s gonna hurt me
It’s gonna kill when you desert me
This happened to me twice before
It won’t happen to me anymore 🎸🎼🎶
if someone ghost you mind me it's a red flag and that she finds something new
Thank you. Much needed support 🙌
Really going through a lot right now, hitting rock bottom, but I trust God for a way out, I am looking for a job as well to help me for upkeep,
I know most of this info but the way you spoke on the topic was well recieved.
I appreciate you. And your support as well 🥰
Think hard, deep enough. Thank God another toxic and low integrity person has walked out of your life
@@fredrickkoech8396 yes the universe took out the garbage for you ❤️
If she ghost me I'll leave her alone forever
This video really touched my heart! Thank You Jessica and God Bless You and Your Family!
she is so dramatic ugh love it 😍
I think I have been ghosted but I backed off. I feel like I came on to strong but it happens to the best of us I know what she wanted and I played it safe 🤦♂️. I feel like I do eveything right when it comes to dating im just hard on myself.
Plus timing and other complicated factors are out of sync
Great advice thank you! she was always talking to me everyday in person and we would walk, talk, smile, make eye contact then this week she acts like i don't exist, she won't even look in my direction or say hello even if we pass by, i had to just mirror her actions because i don't wanna be the onlyone making an effort, i never reached out to her or asked her why or whats wrong i just accepted it and i will continue to accept it and carry on as normal, but i just don't understand!
I've had so many women do that to me where they would act like they're into me great conversations I contact I mean you felt like you had a great connection and they would even tell you certain things and then next thing you know the next day comes and poof they just act like you don't even exist anymore must be nice to be that damn emotionalism just cut off a guy and not give a s***😂 but these are the same people that sit there and complain about they can't find a good person it's so f****** hilarious I just hit a woman with exactly what they do to me I'm like okay well I sent her a message and if she's not going to respond and that's if I see her in person I'm not going to give her any attention last girl that I spoke to worked up at the Planet Fitness desk where I was going to so next time I go in I'm just going to act like she don't even exist to me since she wants to play this little game because if somebody really cared about you they would make the effort they wouldn't just disappear but the sad part is a lot of women now have a problem being honest I guess they think everything is solved by ignoring a guy it's like how can you fix the situation if she's just going to go silent I mean what's going to happen if these women ever get married every time her man does something she doesn't like she's just going to go mute what did I do wrong for the odds are usually she's talking to somebody else I feel like majority of women now only going to go for the guys that offer the most which is really sad
I made the mistake a couple times where I would ask what did I do wrong what did I say and it's like you know what you got to realize you didn't do a damn thing wrong she's the one acting funny it's like you know what f*** you then I'll move on and give you the same damn treatment you want to act like I don't exist and I'll do the same thing to you
Thanks so Jessy...there's this colleague of mine at the work place that I like so much. She was always ghosting me...when I decided to ignore her, just in 3 days she started buying me groceries and I always made sure she never received even a common thank you from me...I'm really enjoying the moment.
Thank you Jessica. Exactly what I wanted to hear from you...
My Girl Always Kills It With The GREAT VIDEOS. Thank You Jessica. DAVID, RI
I needed you in my life!!! 😂 Thank you! Your words have been pure gold to me. So grateful for you. Had a girl do this and then waltz back in to also tell me she has a boyfriend. yet she wants to meet up.
Great tips! Getting ghosted - it’s part of the game, it comes with the territory, and there’s nothing you can do about it!
But you can reframe it - and start thinking of it as she doing you a favor. Why would you want to get involved with a person like that anyway?
She’s basically showing you her hand early as opposed to later on - when you have wasted all your time and energy on her!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
So this person ghosted me. We were in serious and committed long term relationship. We never had a fight, never even had a disagreement. I always asked them how they felt and they always said things were good. It's just so jarring especially since we have history and no indicators anything was wrong. It's just so bizarre how anyone can behave like this. Every time I have been unsatisfied with a relationship I have formally ended things with respect and dignity. Regardless I can be confident that anyone who ghosts me has done me a favor because I don't to be associated with anyone who behaves in such a weak, ineffectual manner with such disregard.
It’s not just girlfriends. Friends can ghost you, too.
Yup my female friends ghosted me too
Everytime I come and listen ... I just get better . Nice one Jessica ❣️
Put premium on your life.
Thank you Jessica...you are a source of inspiration, encouragement and a GIFT..love you ❤️
I must just say thank you. Its like you knew my situation even before you did the video. Thank you so much mama. I really enjoy watching your videos
You are a genius Jessica! Always on point.
This was well needed thank you‼️
I hate giving pipo a sense of importance that they dont deserve .
Interesting, we are grateful here in Zambia 🇿🇲
These are advises from a mother to her sons. Just to say thank you Jess❤️😘💐
Life learning, I was in situation like this before, trust me, life learning I’m totally different today 🖐🏽
3.7k views in 3days + 3.4k likes.
Wow keep the 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 burning 💪💪💪
I just subscribed and liked the video because I really needed the #facts#(walk away) in the video.
Love your work. God bless you 🙏😇😇.
I am not going to lie only God knows why I came across this video but I’m so grateful to have seen this
Thank you so much sister this means a lot . The best advice I would say🙏
Glad it was helpful!
Impeccable advice. And very timely. Thanks! 😊
I love you for the wise words - love you ! From this moment onwards I will never let anyone do this to me again! Done!
I'm glad I found this video now. Very comforting words.
Herh,this ghosting phenomenon....I won't wish it for my worse "enemy". Ghosting is a villager's move. Like seriously!
After watching this video. I finally stopped texting her, deleted her number. I have found courage to move on and I couldn't be happier. Thank you Jessica.
My girl told me 6months ago that we needed to go our separate ways. I thanked her and moved on. 6 months on she sends her mother to tell me I was really ideal for her and she now sends me messages calling me BB😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sheesh.. the audacity she sends her mom.. wow I guess that would do the trick to get you back... Such childish games
BB?
The sun didn't shine like she tot it Wud at the other side..Now, she needs someone to keep her company until she finds herself another guy... Good luck BB hahahhaaha
At least she told you that, when I was talking with a girl I asked her a question and 6 months are passed she still hasn't responded
@@Rashaadthegr8 bubble butt
It's a hard and painful pill to take..my current situation but all thanks Jessica am holding up strong
That’s a great advice 🙏🏽
Thanks Jessy 👏🏽
If a woman ghosted me, I'll just simply not care and move on. No time to wonder what went wrong and such.
If they don't invest in you, why would you want to invest in them? And if you're so desperate, go find another guy/girl. I can assure you. There are plenty of them out there. I have a girl right know who is ghosting me. I did walked away immediately, but I noticed she still watches my insta stories. I'm not watching hers. Bam.
Just games, adults don’t play games
When someone ghosts you, throw them a funeral, and never have a séance with that immature little spirit.
She’s like the big sister I never had lol another great video
Met a girl down in cuba who was on the same plane flight and lived 30 mins away from my home. We met on the beach and spent the entire week together, treated her well, showed her respect and we had the best time together. Once we got back, she showed signs of distance and met only once a week after the trip, and still things felt great together, then she went silent with a text saying...
Im sorry baby, I did enjoy your company, I like how you make me feel I like being around you but I'm not sure I'm looking for anything right now so I went silent. You have a good heart I hope you the best and I hope we can keep in touch❤️
Jessica ever since you posted this video, i have been watching it anytime i close from work and i can confidently say i have found my real self God richly bless you🙏
Your advice are real and helpful. I am well updated now and everytime I watch all your episodes I learn new things that helps my person like you know what I am going through
Normally for man advice, I seek out other man that being said this lady keeps it real her advice insight is all ways real unbiased , thank you and continue success.
But isn’t the choice to walk away the ONLY choice you have when someone ghosts you?
This woman is amazing. Great advice.
Yes it’s best, but it’s not that easy to let go so easily Jessica
Wow wow wow thank you so much Jessica, God sent you to talk to me in my situation, if I could give you a million likes I would so, I just went through a similar situation and it is hard to me to let it gob but now I got the answer. There is so much more than complain to someone who don't value you and disrespectful you in this case. Thank you so much. I got it.
A life full of purpose, will give give you the advantage of almost if not completely meeting this billions of people in the planet.
Our top celebrities have and that's why they can't just settle for one person and leaving all the juices on their finger tips.
Gracias
thank you so much for all your advice ghosting hurts the most
That moment of silence 😂😂😂
Ikr... 😁😁😁
❤public comment. You are bless Jessica. Thank you so much.
A minute of Silence 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Madam, you are doing the most
I couldn’t agree with you more. But dramatic effects works! A good sales person will tell you that. 👍😀
Your words are valuable to me. I consider them very wise and helpful. All the best from always sunny but evermore chaotic Caracas. 😊
Great tips, very informative. Thanks Jessica, I'm currently experiencing the same and I blame myself after watching this.
Thank you. This is the video I needed to see. My long-term ex did this. Despite being in shock, I instinctively did what you say - I made no further attempt to contact by any other means once I knew what was happening. I was unsure of myself; part of me wanted to 'fight for the relationship' or just get answers. Watching this makes me realise I did the right thing.