Men, Stop Simping!

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2024

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  • @JessicaOS
    @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад +10

    For a private consultation with me, sign up as a VVIP here: www.patreon.com/jessicaos

    • @akinfemiogundele3905
      @akinfemiogundele3905 3 месяца назад

      8:29 8:32 8:33 8:34 8:36

    • @akinfemiogundele3905
      @akinfemiogundele3905 3 месяца назад

      Am grateful 🙏

    • @brunibani1313
      @brunibani1313 Месяц назад

      @@JessicaOS I got no email but interested in ur posting but if I come next march I will join ur setup

    • @brunibani1313
      @brunibani1313 Месяц назад

      @@JessicaOS I got only watsap number u know we used different identity am Kwasi Asamoah but now Bruni Bani as my name here as hustling demands. KEEP UR GOOD WORK LADY OF SUBSTANCE

  • @georgekhaoletsa2004
    @georgekhaoletsa2004 4 месяца назад +112

    Simping is the worst thing you can ever do as a man because the way it ends will break you

    • @derricktaylor9538
      @derricktaylor9538 4 месяца назад +11

      @@georgekhaoletsa2004 man bro it def broke me mentally physically emotionally

    • @adukumagaji3233
      @adukumagaji3233 4 месяца назад +3

      @@georgekhaoletsa2004 true

    • @frankxavierm2373
      @frankxavierm2373 4 месяца назад +4

      Totally agree 💯

  • @ayikoandrew4680
    @ayikoandrew4680 4 месяца назад +102

    Jessica OS must be protected at all cost😂😂

  • @langfordphiri8991
    @langfordphiri8991 4 месяца назад +58

    Have the guts to leave when you are not been appreciated

  • @johntez25mc-supercop
    @johntez25mc-supercop 4 месяца назад +27

    I suffered these,,simping day and night until i gathered courage and moved out and focused on my personal goals,,,financial strategies,,,self respect,,,keeping fit,,today am enjoying my accomplishment

    • @ShaunTheNavigator
      @ShaunTheNavigator 25 дней назад

      @@johntez25mc-supercop as did I. Most of us have been there.

  • @michaelgiles1375
    @michaelgiles1375 4 месяца назад +22

    I use to be this guy. I once dated a girl that took advantage of me like this. 5 months after we split up I got a better job, starting bulking up and going back to school. Then my ex wanted to come back. I told her no thanks. What you are saying Jess is what I was doing wrong. Thanks Jess.

  • @heisyangii
    @heisyangii 4 месяца назад +31

    After I walked a way she started chasin' me. The power of walking away is true❤

  • @obinnadike3923
    @obinnadike3923 4 месяца назад +6

    I like how you get straight to the point in your videos. Not beating about the bush as some people do.

  • @malickbah
    @malickbah 4 месяца назад +6

    Thank you for changing my life ..... i have discovered myself, and im so much grateful ...... no drama, no texting, no arguing

  • @adukumagaji3233
    @adukumagaji3233 4 месяца назад +119

    I was that guy, until I did all you mentioned : focused on my goals, began exercising, made even friends know my boundaries, and walked away.
    I am grateful to myself for doing that.
    I now have a beautiful lady who respects my feelings and boundaries and we have mutual respect & love for each other.
    Your channel helped me, going back to God did too
    Thank you Jessica OS!

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад +12

      awww! i'm happy to hear this!!

    • @Its_superdave09
      @Its_superdave09 4 месяца назад +4

      What a testimony
      Happy for you

    • @adukumagaji3233
      @adukumagaji3233 4 месяца назад +4

      @@Its_superdave09 Thank you!
      It wasn't easy getting back up. Self-reflection and self-therapy did good
      Best wishes man

    • @agbedamstephen7200
      @agbedamstephen7200 4 месяца назад

      @@adukumagaji3233 Yes, self-therapy works a lot.

  • @tool1gt
    @tool1gt 4 месяца назад +17

    Walking away...that's the hardest part, especially if there is more involved (family)

  • @AderemiOkeyinka
    @AderemiOkeyinka 2 месяца назад +3

    This woman , Jessica , is simply good. She is an expert by all means. Indeed, she stands out. I see her winning an award , equivalent of Nobel Award in the future. God bless you young lady. You are just amazing. Cheers.

  • @ForeverChip03
    @ForeverChip03 4 дня назад +1

    The Intro, the content 🔝 🔝 🔝

  • @muhumuzaemmanuel8854
    @muhumuzaemmanuel8854 4 месяца назад +16

    Watching from Kampala, Uganda 😊

  • @Lionelitun
    @Lionelitun 4 месяца назад +25

    I have also decided to let go after a few months of a relationship that was going to take a toll on my wallet so I let go and not chasing. All the red signs were there but i kept going until I decided I had to man up.

    • @malickbah
      @malickbah 4 месяца назад +1

      She protected me from trauma 😂😂😂😂... now I'm a happy man for 3 years. I'm single and happy 😂😂😂😂

  • @kipchirchirrobin8875
    @kipchirchirrobin8875 4 месяца назад +9

    Currently doing this and everything she says checks out💯

  • @Jimmy-e6r9x
    @Jimmy-e6r9x 4 месяца назад +31

    I was once simping but gathered much courage to walk away after watching your "no contact rule" video. One year down the line, I feel better and regret all the time I wasted trying to prove myself on someone who didn't value my presence.

    • @salupo4908
      @salupo4908 4 дня назад

      That vedio helped me a lot too

  • @tolulopegbolahanadesakin3080
    @tolulopegbolahanadesakin3080 4 месяца назад +6

    Jessica OS, you deserve to be given an award for transformation of men's destiny in our generation. I like your doings

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 4 месяца назад +3

    Jessica i truly concur with you.men should stop simping.
    " Knowing your worth and not settling for anything less".

  • @dr.donaldebillionaireesq.3496
    @dr.donaldebillionaireesq.3496 4 месяца назад +8

    This is your best video ever a suggestion for a series

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад +1

      lol. let's see how it goes!!!

  • @joelbumba2006
    @joelbumba2006 4 месяца назад +15

    Rebuke and expose ... that’s how you stop simping. Hold people accountable for their covert actions ...

  • @ThulaniMoyo-o1e
    @ThulaniMoyo-o1e 4 месяца назад +4

    You are just so good Jessica.i was dating this one woman 4months back, giving her everything she needed and wanted but realised i was getting totally nothing in return.that was my first mistake.guess what i caught her cheating one evening and it really shattered my soul greatly.i am still bleeding and picking up the pieces.thanks for the info,I realise i was simping and i got exploited.😢😢😢

  • @mickyjaeweafrica
    @mickyjaeweafrica 4 месяца назад +4

    Zambia benefits too thank you Jessica 😊

  • @claymorekwaramba6937
    @claymorekwaramba6937 4 месяца назад +6

    Establish boundaries and commit to your principles. Let em know upfront you won't tolerate being used

  • @lamonteplays
    @lamonteplays 4 месяца назад +10

    she not lying, even if you don't think you're simping you're probably simping. you bought her food? simping lol - had a girl i was about to go see in another state, I decided not to date her right now and she didn't want to see me at all despite me still wanting to treat her out lol - like completely 180 like damn, we can't even start slow as friends - then she made me realize that interaction was transactional lol

  • @diddiousdenali
    @diddiousdenali 4 месяца назад +2

    Man!! Your videos are spot on 👏🏽

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад +1

      Glad you like them!

  • @Steffen-SK
    @Steffen-SK 4 месяца назад +2

    She's a very good woman. @Jessica ❤. Am Always excited whenever i receive her notification

  • @sodadecounty7414
    @sodadecounty7414 4 месяца назад +2

    The respect part is so important

  • @paulbrightKofi
    @paulbrightKofi 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks always, Jess!❤

  • @Bilmoe11
    @Bilmoe11 3 месяца назад

    I came across this channel yesterday while looking for something else. I’m amazed by Jessica’s rich and resourceful content on a very needed topic! You may not know, but you are helping thousands to reclaim their lost selves! God bless you.

  • @kobby30
    @kobby30 4 месяца назад +1

    I'm glad you are talking about this...this generation needs to hear this.......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! SIMPS/CHADS

  • @FavourSantana
    @FavourSantana 4 месяца назад +1

    Very helpful. The need to stop simping can't be overemphasized, and I feel bad when I see guys that simp.

  • @hevagoldonaolapo2216
    @hevagoldonaolapo2216 4 месяца назад +4

    🎉❤🎉🎉🎉😂❤❤, this is highly educative, I'm thrilled to come across this

  • @ewilson3267
    @ewilson3267 2 месяца назад

    This is the exact message i have been needing all these times.. Thanks so much Jessica..

  • @emmanuelagbafor2027
    @emmanuelagbafor2027 4 месяца назад +4

    I have learnt my lessons today
    Thanks Jessica for sharing🎉

  • @Hauza330
    @Hauza330 4 месяца назад +6

    JESSICA FOR PRESIDENT ✊️💯.....

  • @king-taolaolaiya7182
    @king-taolaolaiya7182 5 дней назад

    Jessy you are just the best,eye opening for me. Thanks

  • @Anthony-zt1zs
    @Anthony-zt1zs 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you, Jessica O. 🤝🏾

  • @KofiDjin
    @KofiDjin 4 месяца назад +4

    Thank you Jess. Watching you from Takoradi Ghana.

    • @YalaMan01
      @YalaMan01 4 месяца назад +1

      Much love from Nigeria 🇳🇬❤️ I've read so much about Takoradi. Hope I visit soon.

    • @KofiDjin
      @KofiDjin 4 месяца назад +1

      @@YalaMan01 Beautiful and serene coastal area and Inland city.

  • @carllucas1072
    @carllucas1072 4 месяца назад +2

    Simply as ABCD
    Thank you live coach

  • @SylviaGalvann
    @SylviaGalvann Месяц назад

    Great video. My relationship of five years ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to move on, and it's been really hard for me. I loved her deeply, and I can't stop thinking about her and the moments we shared. I've tried everything I can to bring her back into my life, but nothing has worked. I'm frustrated and honestly, I can't imagine my life with anyone else. I've done my best to move on, but the thoughts keep coming back. I'm not sure why I'm sharing this here, but I just really miss her and wish I could have her back.

    • @meks297
      @meks297 21 день назад +1

      Pick up courage and move on bro, better women will come for you

  • @PaulAdikwu-wv8jf
    @PaulAdikwu-wv8jf 4 месяца назад +2

    God bless you for making this video.

  • @ElijahOku
    @ElijahOku 4 месяца назад +2

    You really got me on this one Jessy 😢 thank you

  • @michaeljewell53
    @michaeljewell53 4 месяца назад +4

    You speak the truth 💯Jessie, enjoyed watching this vid and you fitted a lot into only 10mins, some of it applies to stuff I've done but you are helping to cure me,women can be a bit manipulative and I've been too naive in the past to spot warning signs,some have leeched a lot out of me including a lot of 💰 but I'm putting the brakes on,thank you 👍🏻

  • @davidmawone6303
    @davidmawone6303 4 месяца назад +2

    Good advice sister we appreciate🙏

  • @Jacobopondo1
    @Jacobopondo1 22 дня назад

    The wisdom here is awesome ......great tips

  • @toudaoukoumai9898
    @toudaoukoumai9898 4 месяца назад +2

    You're right! Thanks

  • @Johnakoumah
    @Johnakoumah 4 месяца назад +2

    No more simping! Lessons learnt 👌 ❤

  • @dalelyons.3886
    @dalelyons.3886 3 месяца назад +2

    Thank you for this video

  • @TrueYarn
    @TrueYarn 4 месяца назад +15

    Finally something for us the male listeners. Men these days don’t settle anymore just for woman. She must also bring something to the table

  • @blackspider_4
    @blackspider_4 4 месяца назад +6

    gift of walking away

  • @skepo22
    @skepo22 4 месяца назад +1

    Powerful message thank u

  • @edwardkem425
    @edwardkem425 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Jessica

  • @isaacessien7281
    @isaacessien7281 4 месяца назад

    Hello Jessica texting from Nigeria your videos has shaped me into becoming a strong and courageous man when it's comes to relationship s.

  • @eric_richey
    @eric_richey Месяц назад

    Jessica, I appreciated your “goddess” comment between the 4-5 minute marks.
    A beautiful woman to me should be a goddess, however for the relationship to work there is only one solution.
    She must see me as her god.

  • @mdusompisi9686
    @mdusompisi9686 4 месяца назад

    Jessica, you're on point 🔥💥. Thank you for the powerful session. This one will last lifetime 🌟

  • @chikezieuzor9624
    @chikezieuzor9624 4 месяца назад +2

    Very educative and interesting video. Simping is very destructive

  • @agbedamstephen7200
    @agbedamstephen7200 4 месяца назад

    Jessica, you have soo much on relationship. Thank you for your advises. God bless you, Sister.

  • @xxxyyy-iy4hf
    @xxxyyy-iy4hf 4 месяца назад

    Blessings Auntie Jess, you are the best!

  • @trevorross1311
    @trevorross1311 4 месяца назад +1

    2,3, and 4 are my favourites.

  • @mwatex4c
    @mwatex4c 4 месяца назад

    @jessica. Thank you so so much for this video (and all others)..makes a lot of sense. I am an over 50yr divorced man (and global corporate leader) really struggling with finding love. I feel I am always shortchanging myself to please women. This really helps. Many thanks.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад

      You're most welcome 🙏🏾

  • @Aceleo1
    @Aceleo1 4 месяца назад +1

    Word... Simping ain't easy. BoyzIIMen sang it

  • @cabdulaahicaad2167
    @cabdulaahicaad2167 4 месяца назад +2

    Watching from Mogadishu,Somalia i like your channel Jessica ❤ 👏 🙏🏼

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад +1

      i lived in Mogadishu many many years ago.

  • @Aciele
    @Aciele 4 месяца назад

    Thank you Jessica, I now see where I am getting it wrong. Let me work on myself

  • @David-oe7xe
    @David-oe7xe 4 месяца назад

    Ooooh yes , Jessica thanks for your videos they have really helped me ,to define myself as well as to fix my relationship 🙏🙏♥️♥️much love from Kenya

  • @luseinepaulmoiba6617
    @luseinepaulmoiba6617 4 месяца назад

    Thanks Jess and I won't lie, I felt like you were talking directly to me while watching this video because I am that guy who is current simping. But I strongly believe putting at work all what you've said will help me out and thank you for creating this video for me.❤
    You are indeed a blessing to our generation.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад +1

      You're so welcome!

  • @5starmusic383
    @5starmusic383 4 месяца назад

    Love how you having good inspiration working on life with people good intelligence don't know what to say about you but you have everything that what a woman needs to have and more who is the proud man

  • @lotayabob
    @lotayabob 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks 🙏MadamJessica for the transformative video. I would like you to help me with the title for a book about Simping. I've realized that Simping is like a disease that needs to be eradicated from this generation 🤔

  • @MbuleloMafunda
    @MbuleloMafunda 4 месяца назад +1

    love u Jesicca

  • @martinmoxey2180
    @martinmoxey2180 4 месяца назад

    God bless you Jessica so smart and knowledgeable

  • @Its_superdave09
    @Its_superdave09 4 месяца назад

    Loved that intro, 3...2..1. talk to me 🔥
    This is one topic we broskis need to hold in high esteem
    Really appreciate Jess for this
    Thank you

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад

      Thanks for the feedback

  • @nianzuri
    @nianzuri 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks a lot big sis✨️

  • @charlesnjonjo7677
    @charlesnjonjo7677 3 месяца назад

    Jessica.... I love watching your videos.

  • @beenfrank
    @beenfrank 4 месяца назад +4

    Exactly 💯 the Simpin has to Stop 😳

  • @LifeShiftCreative
    @LifeShiftCreative 4 месяца назад

    I love you for this Jess 😩

  • @emmanuelk.dennis5585
    @emmanuelk.dennis5585 4 месяца назад

    I got this. Thanks for sharing Jessica.

  • @justiceabban8170
    @justiceabban8170 4 месяца назад +2

    Currently, a friend of mine is going through simping to the highest degree and wants to take his life just because his lady with whom they have a child together says she is not continuing the relationship anymore. Thanks for throwing more light on this, Jess. Anyway, my wedding is approaching, and I would be grateful to see you there. ❤😊😅

  • @hazardsplay5073
    @hazardsplay5073 4 месяца назад +1

    Some solid points

  • @Chosen_Wealth
    @Chosen_Wealth 3 месяца назад +1

    I Love the Intro 😂❤

  • @IkeObi-k9l
    @IkeObi-k9l 4 месяца назад

    Jessica Os!!!
    Wossssssh
    You're a social necessity for men.... I love the stuffs you're doing on this space
    I love watching your videos more Than thinking about my future 😂
    Thank you so so much

  • @kayodesamson1298
    @kayodesamson1298 4 месяца назад

    Thank you very much Big Sis.

  • @bramzamouri7799
    @bramzamouri7799 3 месяца назад +3

    We realy need more powerwoman like you. I'm in love❤

  • @Antjones1664
    @Antjones1664 2 месяца назад

    Great video jessica

  • @souljahmusic7729
    @souljahmusic7729 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks Jessica

  • @mikelmikel3310
    @mikelmikel3310 4 месяца назад

    yeah the power of 🚶‍♂️ away mostly the best ever . thanks mdm Jessica

  • @dress_hood
    @dress_hood 4 месяца назад

    Jesssssss❤
    ...everything there's something new about your videos
    Brilliant %

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад +1

      Glad you like them!

  • @RodneyDailey-df7sj
    @RodneyDailey-df7sj 3 месяца назад

    Great content thank you Jessica

  • @mzamosithole9830
    @mzamosithole9830 4 месяца назад

    That was educational thank you Jess

  • @CodeWithClinton
    @CodeWithClinton 4 месяца назад +1

    Thank you so much ma'am for the awesome tips.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад +1

      My pleasure 😊

  • @osajeleedos9984
    @osajeleedos9984 4 месяца назад

    Seriously Jessy, you are the best

  • @samadopeyemi9684
    @samadopeyemi9684 4 месяца назад +2

    I've not been watching your video
    Really missed you ❤

  • @derricktaylor9538
    @derricktaylor9538 4 месяца назад +8

    What stood out to me in this video is the respect part and the chasing part 😞

  • @learnfromit-ld3lw
    @learnfromit-ld3lw 4 месяца назад

    Great content 💯Watching from Abu Dhabi, ..Emirates

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  4 месяца назад

      Awesome, thank you!

  • @Rudolph_Manor
    @Rudolph_Manor Месяц назад +1

    Indifference. 💯

  • @brunibani1313
    @brunibani1313 4 месяца назад

    I WISH ALL GUYS SHOULD ACT AS WE THE SIGMA FAMILY. GREETINGS TO MY HOME GUYS IN KUMASI FROM DEUTSCHLAND

  • @DabohChelsea-ik7bm
    @DabohChelsea-ik7bm 4 месяца назад +1

    Thanks very much for sharing

  • @mayomisunny1006
    @mayomisunny1006 4 месяца назад

    ❤thank you Jessica

  • @thabzizi
    @thabzizi 4 месяца назад +3

    No simping otherwise you'll be hurt repeatedly 🔥. If she gives you cues she's not interested move on

  • @Nguvumoja911
    @Nguvumoja911 2 месяца назад

    Thank you.❤

  • @MugwanyaShafiq-x4c
    @MugwanyaShafiq-x4c 3 месяца назад

    I love you style ov contents