There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Exactly, even if you’re only showing up to talk about how great you are, you’re treating her as if she’s beneath you, and that plays into this power dynamic as well. I won’t be morally shamed for taking advantage of it
I told her from the word go that I want someone whom we can build our life together but in her reply she said she can't do someone without money. Thats where I drew the line.
The part that touched me the most is not taking it personal & putting her on a pedestal, it did hit me so much In the end, just like you said, the right woman won't make one question your worth or constantly feel like you're chasing Lemme use pidgin, "babe wey go like you no go stress you at all" Thank you Jess! God bless you for this piece
US guys just dont have time to figure out. if she isnt putting in effort then im not interested. nobody got time for all that nonsense. life is challenging enough then trying to figure all this out.
If you don't make her feel safe she will run. It's about making an effort to show that your intentions with her are genuine and not some ploy to just get in her pants
@@KristyKaaos and i cant take the woman seriously if she's going to play games. im not interested in the games. If i think she playing games i lose interest immediately.
@@KristyKaaos and i will tell you this. if a woman starts playing those games it makes the guy feel unsafe with HER internetions. with the amount of false accusations that women can do we dont know the womens motives when they play these games. that's why a guy would rather just leave it alone than persue any further. If a guy shows interest and she seemingly shows interest in the beginning and she pulls back that's immediate red flag.
i dont like hard to get women, i will just stop talking to her.. if she dont treat me like im chris brown or her celebrity crush i dont want her. Girls who are easy to get are the best. Women are hard to get with men they dont find irrestible. if a woman wants me bad enough she will show me and come on strong,
It’s the same reason I only show up to validate myself around them and talk about how great I am. That way, I can’t possibly lose. Who cares if she plays hard to get after that, she was doing it out of spite cuz I wasn’t taking her seriously
Women don't play "hard to get" when they actually like you if she likes you she wants you near her at all times. If a woman is playing hard to get you need to walk away from the situation and find a woman who is willing to do things on your terms as a man do not accept her crumbs it's better to set a high self standard and be ready and willing to walk away from anyone who requires you to jump through hoops her replacement is waiting for her to make a mistake so go find a woman worth your time
Guess Iv been lucky..only time I'd be turned down by a woman is when I try to be too nice most women iv dated always made it easy for me id just approach talk from there judging from the conversation I'd know how she operates I don't remember a hard to get pursue guess I got a lot to learn😅
Did you say diamonds? Hahahaha I don’t play these games anymore. I am secure and composed but I don’t tolerate disrespect. These ladies have high expectations of themselves and most don’t deserve it.
We keep each other's number though i confronted her months ago about this runner chaser dynamic, i did it jokingly and she responded with laugh and called me delusional and goodbye. I haven't texted since. Just view her status, maybe a like and just focused on me.
I was talking to this girl, took her 2 months to give me her number and I didnt even ask for it. Then the distance from her came in. Almost at three months now and communication has stopped. I asked her out one time she said she would let me know, never did I stayed cool, never asked again. She never initiates conversation but will text back 3 days later if I do text her like keeping me on the hook but showing no real commitment, as of today I haven't texted her in 3 days. When she sees me at work she smiles but tries to avoid me, but lets me see her talking to other guys ar work smh.
Two things that hit me and where I went wrong is that I didn’t give the other person woman enough time to respond I seemed very desperate and unconfident.
Good stuff, lots of food for thought. Sometimes you just gotta hear it from someone else that what your thinking or doing is for the best for you and the moves you make. Umm. Did I just say validations.. damn.. hahahah 😮 😂
Jessica just explained a dismissive avoidant woman. They lack of empathy and are very selfish. When you do no contact they still like and watch your stories and posts just not to lose s string with you but giving you nothing in return. So forget about them. The right woman will show at least 50% interest in you. If not - don't deal with them and next her. There are plenty better women out there, I'm sure you'll find the one soon even you think now this is the only princess ... She is in her own f**king avoidant world. Let her there and move on. ;)
I'm all about Building and getting with the Mission and when games like this come, I move them out of the way. When playing bullshit games, you'll easily get knocked off the Chessboard.
Mistake 2 is not a mistake at all. If you can frustrate and confuse her, it's in your best interest, because women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. And yet you made her feel something. It's worse when she doesn't feel anything.
I think I am a victim of this vid there's this woman I'm in love with her but she behaved unpredictable sometimes she chat me a lot and at times she won't leave my texton blue ticks
no, this video is making excuses for poor behavior. Women with high interest rarely play these games, and if they do they are immature and will risk losing you when you move on as they pull away
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Control, Control & Control that’s what is all about. Emotion manipulation, control, breadcrumbs that is all the recipes of modern women
Once she pulls away, I forget her.
I prefer she maintains communication but never pulls away.
Yup that's why it's good to have a roster and see who is really interested. People come and go
Jessica must be protected at all costs 😂😂. She's exceptionally good.
i learn 20 years ago iif a girl is hard to get she is not worth your time.
hard to get means she is interested,
They never play anything if you barely acknowledge their existence 😂😂
Exactly, even if you’re only showing up to talk about how great you are, you’re treating her as if she’s beneath you, and that plays into this power dynamic as well. I won’t be morally shamed for taking advantage of it
@@marcusmcgraw3519 She is beneath you. Nothing machiavellic here, she just is. Keep her where she belongs or else nature will punish you.
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False that's when they really start to play games when you barely acknowledge their existence.
I told her from the word go that I want someone whom we can build our life together but in her reply she said she can't do someone without money. Thats where I drew the line.
The part that touched me the most is not taking it personal & putting her on a pedestal, it did hit me so much
In the end, just like you said, the right woman won't make one question your worth or constantly feel like you're chasing
Lemme use pidgin, "babe wey go like you no go stress you at all"
Thank you Jess! God bless you for this piece
US guys just dont have time to figure out. if she isnt putting in effort then im not interested. nobody got time for all that nonsense. life is challenging enough then trying to figure all this out.
You clearly didn't watch the video.
If you don't make her feel safe she will run. It's about making an effort to show that your intentions with her are genuine and not some ploy to just get in her pants
@@KristyKaaos and i cant take the woman seriously if she's going to play games. im not interested in the games. If i think she playing games i lose interest immediately.
@@KristyKaaos and i will tell you this. if a woman starts playing those games it makes the guy feel unsafe with HER internetions. with the amount of false accusations that women can do we dont know the womens motives when they play these games. that's why a guy would rather just leave it alone than persue any further. If a guy shows interest and she seemingly shows interest in the beginning and she pulls back that's immediate red flag.
@@metatron333ascension well good luck picking up women 😂
It's also about control.
Please explain
Control?
Why?
Why would she care if she doesn't want you?
Why control and not just let go?
@@MARKIEBANUNCE free validation
@MARKIEBANUNCE She's playing games, getting you to jump through hoops. Seeing if she can get you to do things.Establishing control.
@MichaelMillerVlogs why would she want to do that?
@@MichaelMillerVlogs everyone wants more control.
I went through this and thought she may be with someone else.
So I left her alone, not knowing she was going fighting her OWN emotions
i dont like hard to get women, i will just stop talking to her.. if she dont treat me like im chris brown or her celebrity crush i dont want her.
Girls who are easy to get are the best. Women are hard to get with men they dont find irrestible.
if a woman wants me bad enough she will show me and come on strong,
@@genovasquez8361 you should be ready for the games bruh
@KyereAnthony games mean = rejection.
I don't tolerate games. That's beneath me.
Such a turn off
@@genovasquez8361I absolutely agree. Life is way too short to chase a lady that plays games as soon as you start dating
I agree, I got a recommendation from your video hidden techniques for manifesting women zorlest
I had a bit of knowledge, now I have a good piece.
It’s the same reason I only show up to validate myself around them and talk about how great I am. That way, I can’t possibly lose. Who cares if she plays hard to get after that, she was doing it out of spite cuz I wasn’t taking her seriously
Best professor of the year
Thanks for the consist madam Jessica
Loved the diamond from a vending machine bit Jess but you are our Cullinan 💎 Diamond-Star of Africa! Brilliant Vid Thank you x
Women don't play "hard to get" when they actually like you if she likes you she wants you near her at all times. If a woman is playing hard to get you need to walk away from the situation and find a woman who is willing to do things on your terms as a man do not accept her crumbs it's better to set a high self standard and be ready and willing to walk away from anyone who requires you to jump through hoops her replacement is waiting for her to make a mistake so go find a woman worth your time
All of these are easy advice to follow.
The hard part is doing so consistently, long-term.
Jessica you are the best of the best your advice is awesome
Keep it up
AWESOME!!! THANK YOU!! ! I LOVE IT!!!
😂😂 oooh okay.
This woman should be protected at all cost😅
Thanks Jessica, but still complcated😂
A Rubik's cube is easier to solve than a woman's mind.
So you really think a man of value should go through all this for a woman? If she was serious herself she wouldn't do that
Great information 👍🏽
Jess, girl you Rock around the Clock. Good info! ❤
Guess Iv been lucky..only time I'd be turned down by a woman is when I try to be too nice most women iv dated always made it easy for me id just approach talk from there judging from the conversation I'd know how she operates I don't remember a hard to get pursue guess I got a lot to learn😅
Did you say diamonds? Hahahaha I don’t play these games anymore. I am secure and composed but I don’t tolerate disrespect. These ladies have high expectations of themselves and most don’t deserve it.
the man has to put in the effort, to do the work... she invests nothing.
Control, and control, then your money. so when she finally gets it, then her focus turns to money. The primary objective is your money
We keep each other's number though i confronted her months ago about this runner chaser dynamic, i did it jokingly and she responded with laugh and called me delusional and goodbye. I haven't texted since. Just view her status, maybe a like and just focused on me.
I was talking to this girl, took her 2 months to give me her number and I didnt even ask for it. Then the distance from her came in. Almost at three months now and communication has stopped. I asked her out one time she said she would let me know, never did I stayed cool, never asked again. She never initiates conversation but will text back 3 days later if I do text her like keeping me on the hook but showing no real commitment, as of today I haven't texted her in 3 days. When she sees me at work she smiles but tries to avoid me, but lets me see her talking to other guys ar work smh.
She's not into you bro, move on
Welcome sis Jessica os ❤❤❤
So glad you're here!
Thank you all the way from Louisville Kentucky
Thank you so much your teachings have change my life
It's called pride!!!!
Who even the chase woman this kind time
Great knowledge jessy, I gain a lot today. Thanks
I'm glad you found it helpful!
I commented earlier today 😂. Great video always
Lol thanks for watching again!
Two things that hit me and where I went wrong is that I didn’t give the other person woman enough time to respond I seemed very desperate and unconfident.
Too much work,not worth the effort
Good stuff, lots of food for thought. Sometimes you just gotta hear it from someone else that what your thinking or doing is for the best for you and the moves you make. Umm. Did I just say validations.. damn.. hahahah 😮 😂
Story of my life!
Jessica just explained a dismissive avoidant woman. They lack of empathy and are very selfish. When you do no contact they still like and watch your stories and posts just not to lose s string with you but giving you nothing in return. So forget about them. The right woman will show at least 50% interest in you. If not - don't deal with them and next her. There are plenty better women out there, I'm sure you'll find the one soon even you think now this is the only princess ... She is in her own f**king avoidant world. Let her there and move on. ;)
Welcome sis 👍🏼👍🏼🥰
WOW!!! Life is Complicated! Lol
Just work on yourself as a man and the right woman will come to you!
No wonder women usually end up with players because no decent man will play along once he realizes the feeling isn't mutual.
Im going through the same thing ....
I am a subscriber and I do appreciate the game, but I do also know a lot of this stuff a woman could be doing with 10 different men at the same time.
Need a video more related to the workplace
Beautiful woman😍😍
Thank you ma'am.
You're welcome!
I'm all about Building and getting with the Mission and when games like this come, I move them out of the way. When playing bullshit games, you'll easily get knocked off the Chessboard.
Jessica! 👋
Exactly
Mistake 2 is not a mistake at all. If you can frustrate and confuse her, it's in your best interest, because women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. And yet you made her feel something. It's worse when she doesn't feel anything.
Making me wait while others hit with eas👽
im 48 years old, every committed relationship i ever had was a woman who was easy to get.
playing hard to get = you just lost my interest.
She did this and i dissapear 😂, she needs a boy not a man.
Women don’t like men MIA or being needy? 😵💫
Women are confusing sometimes? More like ALL the time.
We don't do breadcrumbs
I think I am a victim of this vid there's this woman I'm in love with her but she behaved unpredictable sometimes she chat me a lot and at times she won't leave my texton blue ticks
How would one know if it really is tit for tat? You say be busy and prioritize your life, what if I’m really doing that and it’s not an act?
remove those contacts
Same on my side sexy.😊
Well I just had a woman not text me back for 3 weeks lol I wonder if she praying games dont care never texting her again bye dont got time for that.
Ma'àm You're the Best 💋💋💙💙
no, this video is making excuses for poor behavior. Women with high interest rarely play these games, and if they do they are immature and will risk losing you when you move on as they pull away
This is all bad advice 😆
@@kengtachala1867 true 😂
Genuinely and honest woman actually does this.
Depends on what you are looking for. Men actually looking for a relationship, it’s not bad advice.
Playing hard to get is a test of frame.
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Second here lol