Never Rush Your Ex Girlfriend Back

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

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  • @algrande2841
    @algrande2841 4 года назад +116

    1000% facts.
    Listen to me. Every time I chased. After breakup. Never heard again.
    When I let her go with love. She came back.
    I know it’s not what u want to hear.
    But u have to find out if she really loves you. She has to do that on her own.
    Doesn’t matter if you screwed up. Or she lost interest

    • @lilgustav5065
      @lilgustav5065 3 года назад +1

      what do you mean let her go with love. What did you do in that situation

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 3 года назад +13

      @@lilgustav5065 Letting her go freely but still instilling in her mind that you still love her, that way she will instantly chase after you because you let her go without even trying to stop her when in fact she knows that you love her in the first place. A woman's mind is complicated and is very hard to comprehend my friend.

    • @Ianocity
      @Ianocity 3 года назад +4

      facts dude! I never got to the point of dating this girl I liked who came onto me first. I rushed the attraction process when quarantine happened and became too available and she lost attraction for me. I tried making it work for many months and little over a week ago I told her I see a future with her but I need to focus on other things in my life but no matter what happens if we try rekindling our attraction for each other I wish her the best regardless. She said that was confusing and so far I've heard nothing from her trying to initiate conversation with me yet. She occasionally watches my stories on Instagram but that probably means nothing. I like this girl and I hope she reaches out while I've been working on myself but if she hates me and never wants to talk to me again that sucks but I'll be fine no matter what the outcome is

    • @oobibab9572
      @oobibab9572 3 года назад +7

      @@Ianocity lol man, focus on your own shit. Stop caring whether she likes or doesn't like you. Give yourself a favor and live a carefree and interesting life. Post interesting stuffs that you do in your IG or whatever. Girls will eventually flock when they see that you are high value and man enough to live alone without other's presence.

    • @Ianocity
      @Ianocity 3 года назад +5

      @@oobibab9572 for sure man! I've been focusing on myself and feeling really good lately. She'll eventually hit me back up I know it (plus I used Chris' action play guide as well so that only increases her chances of getting back to me and wanting to try things again) and if she doesn't it's really no big deal. I had a life before I met her lol

  • @aubreygraham7557
    @aubreygraham7557 4 года назад +68

    patience is key! it takes for women to fall in love and open up

    • @tdasupreme249
      @tdasupreme249 4 года назад +1

      FACTS!

    • @jadizm
      @jadizm 3 года назад +1

      Especially with re attraction process..

  • @agbordaniels
    @agbordaniels 4 года назад +25

    Today makes it exactly 30 days since we last spoke, she called me on the 4th talking about she’s sorry n maybe in the future we can be together. Made a promise to never call her again after then, actually she called returning my call I made the previous day.

  • @DaRyteJuan
    @DaRyteJuan 4 года назад +27

    Chris has some really great tips on how to re-attract your girlfriend. But when your GF pulls away, then is a good time to re-evaluate whether or not you made a good choice of girlfriends in the first place and whether or not you should even try to re-attract her. Quite possibly deep down, your GF doesn’t feel all that worthy herself, and maybe there’s a subconscious part of her that is testing your bad choice of women. If she sees herself as really not much more than *hematite* but you value her as a *diamond,* then she’s gonna have doubts about you.

    • @robby122
      @robby122 4 года назад +1

      Woah! That struck some chords. That’s too deep. Women think like that?

    • @airhoo0806
      @airhoo0806 3 года назад

      So do I treat her like hematite?

    • @andrewemiko7231
      @andrewemiko7231 3 года назад

      @@airhoo0806 lol

  • @Gump-tion
    @Gump-tion 7 лет назад +28

    Such good advice, but sooo damn hard to execute...but if you give in first and she shows disinterest, then you're really fucked.

  • @justintimbersaw3934
    @justintimbersaw3934 4 года назад +76

    I gave my girlfriend space and time. Now she's in the space working in the ISS with her new boyfriend. Solid advice 👌

    • @chadhardy35
      @chadhardy35 4 года назад +48

      She wasnt for you then. Hounding her wasnt going to make her come back either. Its a hard pill to swallow, but she just didnt want you bro.

    • @michael2white
      @michael2white 4 года назад +32

      You didn't understand the advice then. The point is to actually not give a fuck if she ever messages you back. That's whats attractive. A guy who genuinely doesn't need a girl is 100x more attractive then some guy waiting for her to come back.

    • @QuiDocetDiscit
      @QuiDocetDiscit 3 года назад +13

      Why the hell would you want a girl who doesn't want you????? Where's your pride? Where's your self-respect? The advice Chris gave IS solid. Move on to someone who DOES want you. She did nothing wrong in rejecting you. She is FREE to love whomever SHE chooses. You can't force that. It's her right. Move on.

    • @justintimbersaw3934
      @justintimbersaw3934 3 года назад +3

      Dude. Can't you tell that it's a joke? "Space and International Space Station"

    • @QuiDocetDiscit
      @QuiDocetDiscit 3 года назад +3

      @@justintimbersaw3934 Oh?...I know what ISS is but your "joke" does come across as sardonic sarcasm.

  • @matts6287
    @matts6287 4 года назад +8

    I think his advice is amazing. Great education. Hope it works for me.

  • @loucifbrahim7571
    @loucifbrahim7571 Год назад +1

    Where was this video when i needed it

  • @onion_wind
    @onion_wind 7 лет назад +41

    I'm doing my best to follow this advice but how do I know my ex isn't out getting pumped by a new guy already?

    • @redhabelbachir5428
      @redhabelbachir5428 6 лет назад +5

      zunkwind wise question bro

    • @markwanga4188
      @markwanga4188 6 лет назад +77

      that should not be your concern stop being weak

    • @professorcartmenez8507
      @professorcartmenez8507 5 лет назад +49

      You should be looking to pump someone as well. I'm in the same train of thought as you, but I am looking to branch out to other options. No use in waiting forever.

    • @dtorres9241
      @dtorres9241 5 лет назад +32

      That's the problem with your mentality. She hasn't moved on and even If she has, you need to see yourself as a high value individual who can get any girl he wants including your ex

    • @jluck1399
      @jluck1399 5 лет назад +11

      That shouldn’t be your concern you two are not together, but if you really want your ex back and you happened to get her back one thing you should not ask is what happened while you were broken up. If you want a healthier relationship.

  • @jonathanmachasa7952
    @jonathanmachasa7952 5 лет назад +13

    What she pulled away and she see photo of u with another woman and then she says it's good to know that she keeps you happy what should I do??

  • @Christof708
    @Christof708 2 года назад +4

    If she wants space give it to her and go meet someone else simple.

  • @DavidJGarciaVzla
    @DavidJGarciaVzla 5 лет назад +6

    Hey, I can't find on your website where to send you an email. I just want to know if and how your guide would help when I'm separated from my wife with whom I have a daughter.

  • @jettogamingasmr
    @jettogamingasmr 7 лет назад +16

    wait what if the reason that she loves me anymore so do i need to let her go?

    • @supercunthunt7756
      @supercunthunt7756 4 года назад +3

      she breaks u, you dont text her. reason doesnt care

  • @jmeshox2730
    @jmeshox2730 3 года назад +2

    What if shes an avoidant covert narcissist? Damaged goods and not worth it? Yes i agree too!!

  • @amiravdic7451
    @amiravdic7451 Год назад +2

    I’ve caught gf’s who pulled away actually hanging out with other men. I’ve caught friend’s gf’s who pulled away actually hanging out with men. So I don’t understand why u don’t address/admit this in any vids. Does RUclips now allow it or hate it

    • @Hamzak786
      @Hamzak786 Год назад +1

      then that means she's not the one..

    • @honkhonkler7732
      @honkhonkler7732 4 месяца назад +2

      That's exactly why you cut her off dude. She does this because she thinks she can screw around with other dudes while keeping you in her orbit as a backup.

  • @ajaysharma-xh9vn
    @ajaysharma-xh9vn 7 лет назад +6

    my gf brkup with me just because my mom tell her his relatives and her mom aur then she say to me don't msg I want brk up what I can do I want her back plz reply me

    • @PryorHendoizm
      @PryorHendoizm 7 лет назад +5

      If you really think that's the problem, then you shoulda had a V8

    • @bigcheese1884
      @bigcheese1884 4 года назад +3

      English -10

  • @ejgraham10
    @ejgraham10 8 лет назад +9

    Chris, if I was rushing her for a week and now I found your videos and know what to do, IS IT TOO LATE??? I was constantly texting and calling her all the time during the past & days. Reply ASAP PLEASE

    • @DevelopAttraction
      @DevelopAttraction  8 лет назад +15

      Ej Graham it's not too late. You just need to go no contact ASAP and follow the advice in my videos.

    • @ejgraham10
      @ejgraham10 8 лет назад +2

      She hasn't blocked me on everytinh and I'm unblocked from the one I was blocked on and I've gone no contact since last night, however I sent her a text saying I'll finally stop bugging her before I went no contact, I dont know if that was wrong to do :/

    • @ejgraham10
      @ejgraham10 8 лет назад

      Chris Canwell She hasn't blocked me on everytinh and I'm unblocked from the one I was blocked on and I've gone no contact since last night, however I sent her a text saying I'll finally stop bugging her before I went no contact, I dont know if that was wrong to do :/ .......btw heres a fact but I don't know if its essential (she was telling me from two days before that is better i leave her alone, she didnt say we should break up thats all she said, that its better I leaver her alone, but I didn't and two days later it ended) THANKS AND PLEASE REPLY

    • @jhoangiraldo4070
      @jhoangiraldo4070 7 лет назад +1

      Sry man. Hope she's coming back to you.

    • @behzod12
      @behzod12 7 лет назад +2

      Any news bro?

  • @jayf2717
    @jayf2717 5 лет назад +3

    these videos are great

  • @farazankalgi2918
    @farazankalgi2918 5 лет назад +7

    I messed up with my girl and spoke really bad words and she broke up. What am i supposed to do.

    • @fouinylantigua5701
      @fouinylantigua5701 5 лет назад +10

      Faraz Ankalgi bro don’t say sorry stay calm and don’t ever say cuss word to a woman cuz that’s gonna make u appear weak, just back off

    • @farazankalgi2918
      @farazankalgi2918 4 года назад +1

      @@fouinylantigua5701 thanks brother I'll do as u say... good advice

    • @TKZmusic
      @TKZmusic 4 года назад +4

      I recently went through this and I said some mean things to my ex and cussed at her, she broke up with me and blocked me for a few days, I’m a Music artist so I made a song about her and poured my heart out, she unblocked me after 8 days so I sent it to her, we’ve been talking ever since, it’s starting to get better every day, we’re starting to joke around more and I’m working on Re attracting her right now and I’m following the strategies of these videos, I’m staying busy and not responding so quick, I take 30 minutes to an hour to respond and every now and then I’ll respond immediately so it doesn’t seem obvious, but I’m also stepping out and doing new things and staying on a mission, work out, go hang out with friends, do something different, change your look, grow a beard or get a tattoo just completely switch it up, and every now and then I’ll send her pictures of the new things I’m doing and it seems to be working so far, but the key is that you have to actually be doing things and you have to re attract her with different things, never bring up the past if you already apologized, good luck

    • @amscared2764
      @amscared2764 4 года назад

      @@TKZmusic legendary advice

  • @tylersmith9338
    @tylersmith9338 3 года назад +10

    what if my gf saw this video and we both are trying to do the same thing

  • @lucifergamingzone1000
    @lucifergamingzone1000 3 года назад +4

    14 days of no contact no response its getting hard for me what should i do

    • @marcelkmiecik9989
      @marcelkmiecik9989 3 года назад +2

      Be as busy as you can, less free time you have, less time for thinking about it

    • @The_Darrell
      @The_Darrell 3 года назад +4

      14 days is nothing

    • @lucifergamingzone1000
      @lucifergamingzone1000 3 года назад +6

      @@The_Darrell after 30 she just msg me i was so happy but now she is becoming more disrespectful what should i do i cant understand her mood swing she was the loveist person i know

    • @The_Darrell
      @The_Darrell 3 года назад +2

      @@lucifergamingzone1000 this is very similar to my story, although for me it was 40 days. It's crazy how much a person can change. My ex was the kindest, and suddenly she's ice cold and incredibly mean. And the funny thing is I always treated her like gold... She even told me nobody has ever treated her nearly as good as I did. I'd suggest going no contact indefinitely... it's really the only way to truly know if they really care about us and truly want us back. If they don't reach out and be open to working on things, than good riddance... someone who truly loves us would not act like this towards us.

  • @udaman100
    @udaman100 2 года назад

    What if you have a fight, you end it (not her), and you move out? Same concept or is the relationship over for good?

  • @timsullivan250
    @timsullivan250 5 лет назад +5

    How about a year I

    • @romedawg15
      @romedawg15 4 года назад +1

      I'm in the same boat!

  • @lilkiddiemusic
    @lilkiddiemusic Год назад

    I started no contact but she texted me within one day (normal text), should I respond?

  • @BWayne7
    @BWayne7 3 года назад +2

    What if she got back with her ex or moved on?

  • @charrocarlos982
    @charrocarlos982 5 лет назад +3

    Right on time

  • @daugmulumba5086
    @daugmulumba5086 4 года назад +1

    Tell her you like her if she plays dead she must be a possum, act accordingly!

  • @jollyroger2594
    @jollyroger2594 2 года назад

    You know your job...

  • @jarvislandry4172
    @jarvislandry4172 5 лет назад +4

    I have a feeling if I let her pull away, She'll forget about me.. I have pulled away for 2 days, its very hard indeed, but I have a feeling she's gonna roam free for the rest of her life without me.

    • @reviewrustyitalianasscrack9996
      @reviewrustyitalianasscrack9996 5 лет назад +9

      Come on man value yourself a little bit! Dont contact her or send her messages at all , just move on with your life , if she left you on purpose then she's not good for you anyway , not to mention that no letting her pull away isn't gonna help either and you'll most likely gonna come off as creepy , move on my dude !

    • @jarvislandry4172
      @jarvislandry4172 5 лет назад +3

      @@reviewrustyitalianasscrack9996 thank you, I have. Its been to long to keep waiting for the same girl..

    • @richmarshburn5910
      @richmarshburn5910 4 года назад +1

      Be a man

  • @Fitspiration129
    @Fitspiration129 2 года назад

    Yo Chris, my issue is my ex girlfriend always say she loves me and everything but the thing is her mom doesn't allow her to be with me again after something just happened but not bad and is there any possibilities or any chance to get back with her in time due or its just a move on thing?

  • @mellowyellow2957
    @mellowyellow2957 4 года назад +3

    3 months of silence from gf
    Should I initiate contact first?

    • @artofgarduno
      @artofgarduno 4 года назад +12

      if she dumped you hell no. if you left her then ok

    • @mellowyellow2957
      @mellowyellow2957 4 года назад +10

      @@mynameispaul718 she called back 4 months later.

    • @mellowyellow2957
      @mellowyellow2957 4 года назад +6

      @@mynameispaul718 Nothing.
      Listen to this guy.
      Do your thing. If she comes back great. If she doesnt come back even greater.
      Good luck!!

    • @ExoecistBlue
      @ExoecistBlue Год назад

      @@mellowyellow2957 so what happened after did it work out

  • @dariousmarshall2838
    @dariousmarshall2838 2 года назад

    Thanks bro.

  • @kemkula889
    @kemkula889 6 лет назад +2

    My ex said don’t rush me Kem I jus don’t trust you she said and I said I want to win ur heart back she said you don’t need to becos I already own her heart wat she mean

  • @irfansalim45
    @irfansalim45 5 лет назад

    My gf has blocked me on WhatsApp n she's not talking to me almost week now we are not in contact bt she haven't told me anything I dnt understand wat she want

  • @stevenwilcox6125
    @stevenwilcox6125 6 лет назад +5

    I am giving my Ex girlfriend 30 days of space but what happens if doesn't still talk to me after that time what do I do? Also how do I contact her what can I say?

    • @hernstv
      @hernstv 6 лет назад +7

      Move on.

    • @stevenwilcox6125
      @stevenwilcox6125 6 лет назад +6

      @@hernstv that's easier said than done

    • @stevenwilcox6125
      @stevenwilcox6125 6 лет назад +1

      @@hernstv that's easier said than done

    • @stevenwilcox6125
      @stevenwilcox6125 6 лет назад

      @@hernstv that's easier said than done

    • @hernstv
      @hernstv 6 лет назад +4

      I totally agree with you. Like chris said on his other video, you can chase her which is a fatal mistake. she would perceive you as weak and needy or just leave her and get busy with your life.

  • @MartinMartinez-uq4gx
    @MartinMartinez-uq4gx 4 года назад +2

    What’s ur email bro?

  • @Suvikki74
    @Suvikki74 5 лет назад +1

    Attraction was there, but no trust. This manipulation made me distrust him even more. Yeah, just keep on acting calm and cool... I´m not going to be in the audience.

  • @amitdas735
    @amitdas735 4 года назад

    beautiful

  • @timsullivan250
    @timsullivan250 5 лет назад +1

    Chris whats the chances of reattactin g my wife after a year off no anything no speak no contact with my wife

  • @AK-oc1ql
    @AK-oc1ql 6 лет назад +2

    Bravo

  • @Galaxygaming-z3w
    @Galaxygaming-z3w 3 года назад

    I watch ing from india