VITA-Z MIX South Africa what if before break up i told her i can live without her and then she said go with your own happiness you can do whatever you want i will support you. And then i response sure if you want to stay with me im always here for you if you don’t it doesn’t matter. Then i pull back and she pulls away bcoz last time we text she always disrespect me and i told her she so bitchy and crazy then she act like a victim bcoz of my offensive words then she plays a victim. What should i do? Should i chase her or not, when the first place i already said to her i can live without her. Help me! Im still NC RULES 5 days from now since we break up.
We are actually married for 7 years , we live together, she pulled away by talking to another guy after we had a major argument. I have applied this rule for a month now by pulling away too. She hasn't said a word to me either . Pls what can I do ?. I love her
A little story about a woman's logic: My friend's girlfriend dumped him after a 5 years of relationship saying to him that they are "different" and put him in the friend zone... He was fucked for the first 2 months while she was posting happy pictures, comments, and travelling all the time. 4 months after the break up he started dating new girl and guess what, his ex girlfriend is now calling him all the time crying and begging him to come back to her.. I think it's called the fear of loss :D
To me it's not over if she pulls away but doesn't date anyone. That shows she might not be sure what she's doing or might not be serious. Your friend raised the stakes and made it real for his ex-girlfriend.
It's good to understand this. I find that if you really just try to focus on you and making yourself a million times better than what you were, you'll lose all your feelings and not even care anymore. Don't dwell on that person. Just always stay busy hang out with friends find hobbys get in shape. Go to work. Work extra hours. Learn new things. Trust me you wont be feeling hurt soon enough. Dont bother feeling sad for too long just stop that and alter your mind set. Remember you can't control anyone. It's just a person. Dont ever try to make something work when they are treating you as a 2nd choice. Have self respect. And if you cant stop thinking about them when ur busy, you need to think of the negatives of that person like they broke up with you. They dont like you and it's not fair to force them into something they dont want. Love freely as I heard from a few dating coaches. If someone leaves let them because you want them to be happy.
i chased her almost 4 month , but all in vain, i would advise you all if your gf/bf says that he/she cant live with you anymore, dont think anything else just block him/her.. chasing means losing your self respect nothing else
Always remember that YOU are more important! It's not worth waiting and wasting time so MOVE ON! If it's ment to be it will happen if not than move on! You will be stronger if you do! If you waist time and obsesse you will be viewed as a pathetic looser and you WILL be one too! Fix your self and fuck that girl/guy! Kill em with success! Trust me I have LIFE experience! Good luck working on yourself!
Jeffrey Stice Thank you my man. I wonder why he/she would have to pull away if they truly love in the first place. Can two walk together except they agree NOT except one pulls away? (Amos 3:3)
it only works when she still have a slightest space for you in her mind, if she moved on, there is nothing will work. you pull, she walks away, you push, she walks away too. have self respect and open up for new comers
Glad to see i'm kinda doing ok. Since my 1st GF (was 14 then), she was acting hot & cold and i just dumped her. Later i cried (to my self), but still didn't say a word to her. Since then with every woman which turns on me "cold" i go colder. No text, no calls, not showing a f*ing sign of neediness. If they text me i text them too, but i keep it 50:50. It sets a different kind of dynamics.
@@JazzCultivation Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. They key is to actually move on so that when/if they do reach out to you it's starting over with dating rather than "let's get back together." When you don't care, results come naturally. If you're hung up on her she'll most likely smell that a mile away (unless you have extremely limited contact), and she will still have the upper hand AND probably won't be interested in you for long. Treat her exactly the same as you treat all other women you date, i.e., don't worry about it.
Dude, should sing that song "Cry Me A River" from Justin Timberlake to her, because she would come back to you in an instant. Works like a charm only if you cry, suck your finger and sing at the same time. 😉
Really good advice, once you love a girl it's so god dam hard to stick to your plan. I'm fed up of my girlfriend pulling away, it's come to the point where I don't care, I just walk
Hamsa E. Daoudi brother, I just re read my comment. I didn't mean any disrespect in correcting you. My hat goes off to you for not getting angry about it. Very classy of you.
A friend of mine just had his girlfriend asked him for a “break” This idiot has been blowing up her phone begging her to not take a break.... I told him not to reach out to her AT ALL..! But obviously he didn’t listen and now he’s just chasing her like an idiot He doesn’t get it man🤦🏻♂️
My girl left me and it is time for no contact rule. I told her that if she changes her mind to let me know and that is it. She has to come to me! Gotta stay strong, boiz!
Your videos are so informative I'm going through a dilemma and watching your videos make so much scence thank you chris I am applying your strategies and see how I go from there.
I wonder if this really works with women that have high body counts. If their ability to pair bond has been burned out, than any man coming or going wouldn't matter much to her
Ive just tried this, my girlfriend was being difficult and vague when I was trying to see her so I delayed my message for about 6 or 7 hours and then hit her with the one word text. I havn't heard from her for a couple of days but that's the idea. She wants to be alone enjoy, in the meantime Im just chilling.
How long should you push away? How long to go no contact? I will never reach out to my ex. If she cares, she will get into contact with me. I am not going to be a fool.
The more time you give the more she gonna attract at u bro just give her as much as you can and all the time be positive and confident she gonna feel it the when ever u meet her she gonna attract more
@@rondas7772 No it won't and you wanna know why? Because she has already said you've pushed her away so you can't lose someone again when you've already lost them. SMH
My ex gf broke it off with me almost 7 months ago . At first she didn't like me contacting her when we just broke it off which is why i waited every few weeks and she started to seem responsive . fast forward into the months still the same she responds responds short and sometimes when i don't reach out she does but its always some small text like what are you doing ?. Everytime I trying flirting with her she shuts me down and When i bring up liking her she still shuts me down. Its been going on for 7 months I just snap , I told her if she can't be nice and not let me banter with her what is the whole point in texting each other ? I told her to stop texting me and she did. Its been almost 3 weeks since than . My ex is very proud and stubborn and I guess I should just move on .
Thirteen years ago my ex said she didn't want me anymore. Haven't spoken to her at all ever since. I'm pretty sure she's been silently desiring me every day since. 🤦🏼♂️
In the last year two women pulled out of my life 1 had too much crap on her plate the other one was insecure and jealous, so very little or no contact and not chasing didn’t seem to work, answer that one Chris!?
No contact in not ONLY about get your ex back, is also about healing yourself, working on yourself, better yourself. If they come back, great or whatever, if they don´t you will be in a better position, wiser, and more confident...
Men but it's hard to resist emotional needs. How can I ignore her when I miss her like crazy. Even if I want to resist it.... It's kinda hard to be strong enough to handle it.
I have seen this first hand! I have a girl as a friend and she backed away from her BF because he was too needy. I was on a night out with her and she was complaining that he hadn’t messaged her in two days, she also kept checking her phone to see if he had messaged. This works.
My ex came back to me once, my no-contact was really successful everything was perfect until now she has left me again. I don’t even know if I want to repeat the process again.
Going through something similar. If she's done it to you once before it's going to cause you more pain in the long run. Move on sir, you deserve better. If she loved you she wouldn't have broken your trust and commitment by leaving you again.
Partly, yes. Often we just want people to want us, rather than actually wanting them ourselves. Also, when we fear we're losing something it makes us value that thing more, even if we weren't that interested in it when we had it.
it called self respect. if women don't react to us as a men that caring and loving, we know our place that she don't need us. that's why we must pull back.
I recently picked up your guide and got to the part where you showed the right way to go no contact. My ex recently told me that she's talking to someone new and that she feels happier without me and all that other good stuff a scorned woman says. After 6 days of chasing her, texting calling and seeing her in person I pulled away and haven't initiated contact since. I've been very active on social media and know she's watching. Is it necessary to initiate the "No contact text message" or should I let it be?
A woman will often say something about another guy when you two have broken up in order to test you. If you act jealous, you fail this test, instead you must remain indifferent and let her know your enjoying being single. Remain active on social media, however do not over do it, as she will pick up on this and realise what you are trying to do. Do not send any no contact text message, instead just pull back and allow her the time she needs to reach out to you.
She was distant, i became distant on purpose and she sent a text being mad because i did that to her.She blamed me that i hurt her and that she is unsure now.I said ok call me when you re sure.She replied we have to talk some other time because i dont know what i want now.Ok i said, we'll talk soon.I think she wants to punish me and take control.I have gone no contact.
I was like that but recently i became a bit desperate due to staying all day at home because of an injury and hence she pulled out. Now idk what should i do. She'd sent me messages from my last conversation with her after the pullout. It's been like 2 days should i respond? Or should i keep them on delivered
After a few weeks of no contact we ended up talking on the phone for a couple hours. A good conversation with laughter. When talk of our relationship came up she explained she didn't feel it was a good idea to get back together and would likely see other people. I followed up with a text saying I'm going to start dating other people too and that being friends wasn't an option. Was this the right approach? Is it back to no contact... maybe for good this time?
You did good if she sees other people you should too don’t be her little option if something goes wrong that’s not how it should be take care bro you probably already got over it it’s been a month
You messed up 2 things. The phone is for setting dates only. Bassically by talking on the phone you removed all the mystery that you had going on by using no contact. Second mistake u brought up a relationship. By doing so you showed her that you were feeling it way more then she was. Always let the girl bring this up
You should concentrate of becoming a better person and be much more attractive in her eyes. I did it and I got her back. Follow Chris's guidence. Read his book. Stop waiting. Stop counting dates. It is painful.
My ex just said it was cool for we could talk and shit. Just tried to call her after 3 days off this and she just sent me to voicemail lmao. Welp Im over it lol
I am facing this situation now This days I was chasing her like anything but after I watch this videos and comments I have learned so many lessons and experience so what am I going to do now is I should be cool myself without her and let her come back
All y’all kings up in these comments really makes me feel overwhelmingly optimistic. I’d buy you all a lager and challenge you to an arm wrestling match if I could. Man sh*t, my dudes!
Men must understand that the girl that returns back, is not the one that had walked away from you. Chances are that she has tried the whole block on her way back to you.
The problem I had was with texting she would messege me every morning and get shitty when I didn't text back in X amount of time but by texting all day it fucked up the attraction level
Word of advice don't go drink while in a emotional state. Lol I had thus working in my favor 1 night of drinking made the whole process difficult. Plus living with someone is way harder to get her back. So patients and time. No contact is important!
Dominic Daniel I would make your intentions clear , apologize to her and say you want to work on your relationship but that you’re going to give her space so she can forgive you and so you can work on yourself as a man .
Guys.... Whatever this guy is saying is 100 % true... Just listen him and follow his advice. You will get a lot than you are expecting now in dewasted state of broken relationship.
I was so upset with her behavior...for past two months after joining a new job she not seen to be interested in me she rarely called ...i asked explanations for her behavior and she refused to give any....finally i told her i am breaking up with u and see. Seemed okay ....i been two weeks already since no contact....what should i do ?
My fiance and mother of my 3 children pulled away. Said she isn't sure if she loves me. Asked for a break. After a month I ended it. We still live together and sleep in same bed but not emotions not hugging nothing. How can I implement this with living in same house and kids. Just only speak to her about kids? I still love her so much. She seems to ask lots of questions when another female is involved or when I'm going somewhere it's like she tries to figure out where I'm going without letting me know that she's trying to figure out. I see it at jealousy and sometimes she still calls me honey. I think on accident. Will this work for me?
i will try all of your advise all about when she pull away and other related to this lets see how its works for me she told that she will be broke up - today i agree let see
If I did all the bad things, calling her, texting her... are my chances done of her coming back ? I stopped messaging her and contacting her in any way. But I don’t know if it’s over over because I didn’t handle things right. How am I looking ?
That depends upon what you want. If you want her back, then respond to her, have a phone conversation and arrange a meet up with her. stay away from talking about the relationship or past events. You must understand that after such a tragic event, she is unlikely to be looking for a relationship or anything serious at that point, however it does not mean this will not change in the future. When talking to her on the phone or meeting up with her, you must remain understanding and supportive when discussing such a painful topic but also be flirty and humorous the rest of the time (being flirty and humorous will build the attraction for when the time is right). Also when the time is right, remind her that your here for her while she's going through such a difficult time, but that the two of you can never just be friends (That way your showing support but also planting the seed for later on when shes feeling better). She will most likely reach out to you looking for some comfort and this may even lead to the bedroom. Feel free to have fun, however you must keep in mind she is in a sensitive state and you must never take advantage of her. Do not push for a relationship or anything serious, just simply focus on having fun and simply remind her the two of you could never just be friends now and then. If you don't want her make, simply offer you condolences and let her know that your here for her if she ever needs to talk, but do not give her any signals or hope that the two of you could work out your differences and once again become a couple
I’m have some bothering me, I have a female friend mean we are so into each other, she has a boyfriend and I don’t and she tells me everything about her life and the new people she means and down to her love life, but right now we were together one night I said I have been trying to talk with you with you but you aren’t replying me, so she said when did I try to talk with her, then she got angry and said she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore, I was like what did I do, she kept me quiet no words from her. The next day I called she busy my calls, I messaged she don’t reply, I begged her she said she doesn’t want to talk to me, then I called her her to talk to her for me, immediately she called me to warm me that she at least expected me to at mature, that I should not give the room to hate me, that I should quit, at this stage what should I do please?
I have been to one of the top Australian councillors and he said I shouldn’t of done this he claims I projected I didn’t want to fight for my wife. So yeah I don’t know she is moving out next week.
chris I broke up with my ex gf by the end of august. we spoke many time and kissed a couple times but she said she doesnt want a relationship now. it will be 5 months since our break up... Since we kissed and all does the no contact rule still apply after all this?
Yuri Morelli Santos The ImmotaL. The idea is why would you contact her if she doesn't try to contact you in the first place .? they have to reach out to you first so gives u time to start dating other woman hang out have fun hook up... in the end of the day woman will come back
What if this is happening whilst she’s pregnant? I’m there for her 24/7 obviously. But do I take the same aproach? We had relationisp issues ( My fault. I was a alpha, and over time slowly turned beta, got comfortable) This has been going on for 5 months but I don’t want to go no contact cause that’s my baby in there to. If we wasn’t having a baby I’d go no contact no problem. But do I now ?
Iam moving to Mexico I 20 days know that pulling away😆granted she Mexican so she come if she likes I told her I would pick up the airport but don’t take too long I might taken which is true
Let her go. There's plenty out there. Don't have a scarcity mindset!
But if you really love her then let time past by
Having an abundance mindset that doesn't you don't get hurt and you want her with you, but the way you react is different
plenty fishes in the ocean, most of em are full of mercury
There
Yes sir
To heal a wound you need to stop touching it
Wow
That’s very good
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Well said.
I like that quote 👌 😏
If she pulls away, mirror her and show her that you can live without her. Thanks
VITA-Z MIX South Africa what if before break up i told her i can live without her and then she said go with your own happiness you can do whatever you want i will support you. And then i response sure if you want to stay with me im always here for you if you don’t it doesn’t matter. Then i pull back and she pulls away bcoz last time we text she always disrespect me and i told her she so bitchy and crazy then she act like a victim bcoz of my offensive words then she plays a victim. What should i do? Should i chase her or not, when the first place i already said to her i can live without her. Help me! Im still NC RULES 5 days from now since we break up.
@@bengsimmons4234 dont contact her, although she might be talking to other guys now but dont worry awalt
A ten from now i realized my ex gf she’s not worth it for me. Its ok if she come back or not. Im doing my own purpose right now.
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Let her go and if she comes back she's yours!!! Hurts to try but the only answer my friends...
Facts
You are right bro!!!
We are actually married for 7 years , we live together, she pulled away by talking to another guy after we had a major argument. I have applied this rule for a month now by pulling away too. She hasn't said a word to me either . Pls what can I do ?. I love her
Kamal Menna Thank you so much Kamal . I’ll adhere to all you have said . Thanks a lot 🙏
@Sound Engineer Звукоинженер sad but tru. We attach to much than what we are designed to do. People are fucked..
A little story about a woman's logic: My friend's girlfriend dumped him after a 5 years of relationship saying to him that they are "different" and put him in the friend zone... He was fucked for the first 2 months while she was posting happy pictures, comments, and travelling all the time. 4 months after the break up he started dating new girl and guess what, his ex girlfriend is now calling him all the time crying and begging him to come back to her.. I think it's called the fear of loss :D
Because she see that other want him and has value that she lost in her eyes.
FOMO: Fear of missing out
Cause she wants what she can’t have
To me it's not over if she pulls away but doesn't date anyone. That shows she might not be sure what she's doing or might not be serious. Your friend raised the stakes and made it real for his ex-girlfriend.
She maybe likes to control
It's good to understand this. I find that if you really just try to focus on you and making yourself a million times better than what you were, you'll lose all your feelings and not even care anymore. Don't dwell on that person. Just always stay busy hang out with friends find hobbys get in shape. Go to work. Work extra hours. Learn new things. Trust me you wont be feeling hurt soon enough. Dont bother feeling sad for too long just stop that and alter your mind set. Remember you can't control anyone. It's just a person. Dont ever try to make something work when they are treating you as a 2nd choice. Have self respect. And if you cant stop thinking about them when ur busy, you need to think of the negatives of that person like they broke up with you. They dont like you and it's not fair to force them into something they dont want. Love freely as I heard from a few dating coaches. If someone leaves let them because you want them to be happy.
You couldn't of said it better.
i chased her almost 4 month , but all in vain, i would advise you all if your gf/bf says that he/she cant live with you anymore, dont think anything else just block him/her.. chasing means losing your self respect nothing else
Always remember that YOU are more important! It's not worth waiting and wasting time so MOVE ON! If it's ment to be it will happen if not than move on! You will be stronger if you do! If you waist time and obsesse you will be viewed as a pathetic looser and you WILL be one too! Fix your self and fuck that girl/guy! Kill em with success! Trust me I have LIFE experience! Good luck working on yourself!
This comment is gold
How?... we've broken up 3 times over a 10 year ship. And this time I shes really gone. I wanna move on but I'm stuck.
Jeffrey Stice
Thank you my man. I wonder why he/she would have to pull away if they truly love in the first place.
Can two walk together except they agree NOT except one pulls away? (Amos 3:3)
I'm undergoing the final phase of transition, your comment toughen me up
it only works when she still have a slightest space for you in her mind, if she moved on, there is nothing will work. you pull, she walks away, you push, she walks away too. have self respect and open up for new comers
Glad to see i'm kinda doing ok. Since my 1st GF (was 14 then), she was acting hot & cold and i just dumped her. Later i cried (to my self), but still didn't say a word to her. Since then with every woman which turns on me "cold" i go colder. No text, no calls, not showing a f*ing sign of neediness. If they text me i text them too, but i keep it 50:50. It sets a different kind of dynamics.
Do they chase you after sometime?
@@JazzCultivation Sometimes they do and sometimes they don't. They key is to actually move on so that when/if they do reach out to you it's starting over with dating rather than "let's get back together." When you don't care, results come naturally. If you're hung up on her she'll most likely smell that a mile away (unless you have extremely limited contact), and she will still have the upper hand AND probably won't be interested in you for long. Treat her exactly the same as you treat all other women you date, i.e., don't worry about it.
Dude, should sing that song "Cry Me A River" from Justin Timberlake to her, because she would come back to you in an instant. Works like a charm only if you cry, suck your finger and sing at the same time. 😉
Really good advice, once you love a girl it's so god dam hard to stick to your plan. I'm fed up of my girlfriend pulling away, it's come to the point where I don't care, I just walk
My ex calling me back again and again after I stopped chasing her. So funny world. But I m out of ur life baby. Sorry.
this guy talks like an Hypnotist
Hamsa E. Daoudi brother, I just re read my comment. I didn't mean any disrespect in correcting you. My hat goes off to you for not getting angry about it. Very classy of you.
Hamsa E. Daoudi He's awesome!😊
How does a comment with such a cringy spelling misake become top voted?
Very relaxing 😌
I can live without her as well now. She only has the power/control if you let her have it/give it to her.
Spot on advice from Chris. I did and now she is chasing me. Easy peacy.... :D
you are lucky man!
This definitely works
A friend of mine just had his girlfriend asked him for a “break”
This idiot has been blowing up her phone begging her to not take a break....
I told him not to reach out to her AT ALL..!
But obviously he didn’t listen and now he’s just chasing her like an idiot
He doesn’t get it man🤦🏻♂️
Get him outta the house and go do something
@@trenorman832 He's probably paving his backyard in the friendzone as we speak.
hahahaha.. i was like thay for 3 days, begging chasing, and then I realised why would i keep someone who doeant want me in her life
@@kriscarmeloyap4487 she's getting it in from the new guy right now. I like to send them a nice pic txt of a hotter girl just for good measure.
yeah peehaps, and I dont give a shit anyway.. for now goals over girls mate.. its all about money after all!!!!!
My girl left me and it is time for no contact rule. I told her that if she changes her mind to let me know and that is it. She has to come to me! Gotta stay strong, boiz!
The point is to not contact her at all right?
You said to her that you will be here if she changes her mind
Hmmhh
Never let them know your are available
". I told her that if she changes her mind to let me know and that is it. " you just fucked it up, jesus
Who the fuck keep on disliking this guy's videos? He is the real deal when it comes to relationship advise!
The more emotionally involved the more vulnerable you become
💯 bruh
The most honest video on the internet
Effective buddy...ive done all your instructions. Great results!
Update brother??
yeah ive done all the things that this guy is saying and its really effective! your good man!
She came back?
No matter what, do not rely on anyone else. Independence is the most important part of a relationship.
Tbh, I never text someone a 2nd time if they don't reply, I let them come back. I won't be in no rush to get back to them tho
That’s pretty basic tbh
No doubt about your info and experience but bro my ex is nuts....
Your videos are so informative I'm going through a dilemma and watching your videos make so much scence thank you chris I am applying your strategies and see how I go from there.
any update?
Update
Good luck , yeah he's a great guy and explains things very well,
Naby Keita ha ha...no update
They always come back. Remember that!
Yes they do as long as you have the balls to walk away they always come back.
facts
Mine won't !
I wonder if this really works with women that have high body counts. If their ability to pair bond has been burned out, than any man coming or going wouldn't matter much to her
Scarcity increases value!
Ive just tried this, my girlfriend was being difficult and vague when I was trying to see her so I delayed my message for about 6 or 7 hours and then hit her with the one word text. I havn't heard from her for a couple of days but that's the idea. She wants to be alone enjoy, in the meantime Im just chilling.
How long should you push away? How long to go no contact? I will never reach out to my ex. If she cares, she will get into contact with me. I am not going to be a fool.
Marcy Allison you can send her a message after 1-2 months if you want
The more time you give the more she gonna attract at u bro just give her as much as you can and all the time be positive and confident she gonna feel it the when ever u meet her she gonna attract more
Forever
You're the pursuer, know you place, to much space will push her away, go after her in a loving way
@@rondas7772 No it won't and you wanna know why? Because she has already said you've pushed her away so you can't lose someone again when you've already lost them. SMH
Push everyone away
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Even in a relationship, pill away a little once in awhile and allow each other to have your own space
My ex gf broke it off with me almost 7 months ago . At first she didn't like me contacting her when we just broke it off which is why i waited every few weeks and she started to seem responsive . fast forward into the months still the same she responds responds short and sometimes when i don't reach out she does but its always some small text like what are you doing ?. Everytime I trying flirting with her she shuts me down and When i bring up liking her she still shuts me down. Its been going on for 7 months I just snap , I told her if she can't be nice and not let me banter with her what is the whole point in texting each other ? I told her to stop texting me and she did. Its been almost 3 weeks since than . My ex is very proud and stubborn and I guess I should just move on .
Brother 👍 you are brave.
I hope you moved on because she did.
Thirteen years ago my ex said she didn't want me anymore. Haven't spoken to her at all ever since. I'm pretty sure she's been silently desiring me every day since. 🤦🏼♂️
Solution - don’t ever fall in love a woman
Be with her but don’t open your heart to her
What do you do if acting too cold, distant, and pushing her away is what made her lose attraction in the first place...?
(I fucked up, I know)
Anyone got an answer here?
reassure her,start investing in her and stop acting cold. You need to gain back her trust.
That’s not what happened, guaranteed.
Your videos are always a hit and SUPER insightful. And daily help!
You are too good!!! Very soothing to hear your advise crisis. God bless you!!!
Siddarth shivappa, love is a beautiful thing especially when you are with the one you truly love and it hurts to be heart broken.
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It doesn't hurt. It's a relief...
In 90% of cases if her attraction level is above 50 - 60% she will come back if you properly implement No Contact Rule.
*This works out everytime* #Powerful
In the last year two women pulled out of my life 1 had too much crap on her plate the other one was insecure and jealous, so very little or no contact and not chasing didn’t seem to work, answer that one Chris!?
No contact in not ONLY about get your ex back, is also about healing yourself, working on yourself, better yourself. If they come back, great or whatever, if they don´t you will be in a better position, wiser, and more confident...
I love your words Chris!
Men but it's hard to resist emotional needs. How can I ignore her when I miss her like crazy. Even if I want to resist it.... It's kinda hard to be strong enough to handle it.
@wesley clowes 😀😀👍🏾
Lol
try to withstand it for a week.or so..then u will be fine.. if she can so do you.. in fact u shd be stronger than her becos u are a man
Man the fuck up and dont be a pussy.
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All this info is true! It works! Although I have violated all the attraction rules.
I have seen this first hand!
I have a girl as a friend and she backed away from her BF because he was too needy.
I was on a night out with her and she was complaining that he hadn’t messaged her in two days, she also kept checking her phone to see if he had messaged. This works.
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My ex came back to me once, my no-contact was really successful everything was perfect until now she has left me again. I don’t even know if I want to repeat the process again.
How long did you do no contact for?
Going through something similar. If she's done it to you once before it's going to cause you more pain in the long run. Move on sir, you deserve better. If she loved you she wouldn't have broken your trust and commitment by leaving you again.
No
Need to make a video of what to do when she comes back
make her submit/do things for you cause lord knows who she's been with since
this works, I always want them when they push me away,smh.or pull away..lol..is it an ego thing??
Partly, yes. Often we just want people to want us, rather than actually wanting them ourselves. Also, when we fear we're losing something it makes us value that thing more, even if we weren't that interested in it when we had it.
it called self respect. if women don't react to us as a men that caring and loving, we know our place that she don't need us. that's why we must pull back.
I recently picked up your guide and got to the part where you showed the right way to go no contact. My ex recently told me that she's talking to someone new and that she feels happier without me and all that other good stuff a scorned woman says. After 6 days of chasing her, texting calling and seeing her in person I pulled away and haven't initiated contact since. I've been very active on social media and know she's watching. Is it necessary to initiate the "No contact text message" or should I let it be?
A woman will often say something about another guy when you two have broken up in order to test you. If you act jealous, you fail this test, instead you must remain indifferent and let her know your enjoying being single. Remain active on social media, however do not over do it, as she will pick up on this and realise what you are trying to do. Do not send any no contact text message, instead just pull back and allow her the time she needs to reach out to you.
She was distant, i became distant on purpose and she sent a text being mad because i did that to her.She blamed me that i hurt her and that she is unsure now.I said ok call me when you re sure.She replied we have to talk some other time because i dont know what i want now.Ok i said, we'll talk soon.I think she wants to punish me and take control.I have gone no contact.
I was like that but recently i became a bit desperate due to staying all day at home because of an injury and hence she pulled out. Now idk what should i do. She'd sent me messages from my last conversation with her after the pullout. It's been like 2 days should i respond? Or should i keep them on delivered
I became desperate and start chasing her she is way further than me now ..but she didn't close the communication door ...what should i do??
How can I push my ex away when she is with someone else that makes her happy now and we only talk when it’s about my son
She moved on? What are you waiting for? Find a new lady
Feel your pain brotha if you figure out the answer to that one please lmk
You drop her. And go find another lady. period.
WHAT IF YOU ARE MARRIED AND LIVING TOGETHER , HOW TO DO PLAY IT ?
What to do when we have a break up and she contacts me after 2 days of break up
Then talk to her. If she contacts you then go woth the flow.
After a few weeks of no contact we ended up talking on the phone for a couple hours. A good conversation with laughter. When talk of our relationship came up she explained she didn't feel it was a good idea to get back together and would likely see other people. I followed up with a text saying I'm going to start dating other people too and that being friends wasn't an option. Was this the right approach? Is it back to no contact... maybe for good this time?
You did good if she sees other people you should too don’t be her little option if something goes wrong that’s not how it should be take care bro you probably already got over it it’s been a month
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You messed up 2 things. The phone is for setting dates only. Bassically by talking on the phone you removed all the mystery that you had going on by using no contact. Second mistake u brought up a relationship. By doing so you showed her that you were feeling it way more then she was. Always let the girl bring this up
My ex used to do this 2me n I loved him so much...😐 nw I know he's got a teacher.
When she left me I didn’t call her not once. Been 4 days so far
Any goods news so far?
You should concentrate of becoming a better person and be much more attractive in her eyes. I did it and I got her back. Follow Chris's guidence. Read his book. Stop waiting. Stop counting dates. It is painful.
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My ex just said it was cool for we could talk and shit. Just tried to call her after 3 days off this and she just sent me to voicemail lmao. Welp Im over it lol
I am facing this situation now
This days I was chasing her like anything but after I watch this videos and comments I have learned so many lessons and experience so what am I going to do now is I should be cool myself without her and let her come back
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Ya I had been experienced right now.Since last week
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Awesome video, Chris!
It works that’s what imma jus say
How people treat you has nothing to do with you. It all has to do with what's going on inside them. So move on and assume you dodged a bullet.
Everyone is you pushed out
Men must understand that the girl that returns back, is not the one that had walked away from you. Chances are that she has tried the whole block on her way back to you.
The problem I had was with texting she would messege me every morning and get shitty when I didn't text back in X amount of time but by texting all day it fucked up the attraction level
Word of advice don't go drink while in a emotional state. Lol I had thus working in my favor 1 night of drinking made the whole process difficult. Plus living with someone is way harder to get her back. So patients and time. No contact is important!
Yup, that's exactly what happened to me.
Really great vid.
Thanks Chris
I cheated on my x and we broke up do you think this would work in my situation ??
Dominic Daniel I would make your intentions clear , apologize to her and say you want to work on your relationship but that you’re going to give her space so she can forgive you and so you can work on yourself as a man .
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Guys.... Whatever this guy is saying is 100 % true... Just listen him and follow his advice. You will get a lot than you are expecting now in dewasted state of broken relationship.
I was so upset with her behavior...for past two months after joining a new job she not seen to be interested in me she rarely called ...i asked explanations for her behavior and she refused to give any....finally i told her i am breaking up with u and see. Seemed okay ....i been two weeks already since no contact....what should i do ?
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Communicate with him
Does this work if you have tried for months of getting her back.
Paul Mcgann Sometimes! The more you've chased the harder it is.
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It does depending on the love that there was between both of u
Trying by doing what? Chasing her? If so no it won't work. Walk away.
My fiance and mother of my 3 children pulled away. Said she isn't sure if she loves me. Asked for a break. After a month I ended it. We still live together and sleep in same bed but not emotions not hugging nothing. How can I implement this with living in same house and kids. Just only speak to her about kids? I still love her so much. She seems to ask lots of questions when another female is involved or when I'm going somewhere it's like she tries to figure out where I'm going without letting me know that she's trying to figure out. I see it at jealousy and sometimes she still calls me honey. I think on accident. Will this work for me?
Carl Keyton take her out of a date. You never stop dating the woman you love. Hang out, hookup, have fun
Set a wedding date, go to pre marital counseling, she probably feels unappreciated and unloved
Mirror her actions, move out for a few weeks, say you need some space and she will want you back
i will try all of your advise
all about when she pull away and other related to this
lets see how its works for me
she told that she will be broke up - today
i agree
let see
If I did all the bad things, calling her, texting her... are my chances done of her coming back ? I stopped messaging her and contacting her in any way. But I don’t know if it’s over over because I didn’t handle things right. How am I looking ?
Looking pretty bad. 3 years later, I’d like to see where this goes
What if she finds someone else... what if during no contact she moves on and finds someone else?
@Curtis Mowery text whom? On which number?
Develops Attraction.. question.. but what uf you live with your x and she is helping you out until you get on your feet will this still work
I just told her it was over she said ok then like it was nothing I think I mess up she is gone for reals.
@Anne sitter no I have a new girl and I’m happy
Really it’s true
Honestly...
Ok so we split up july time her mom is dying from cancer what do I do if she reaches out to me when her mom passes?
That depends upon what you want. If you want her back, then respond to her, have a phone conversation and arrange a meet up with her. stay away from talking about the relationship or past events. You must understand that after such a tragic event, she is unlikely to be looking for a relationship or anything serious at that point, however it does not mean this will not change in the future. When talking to her on the phone or meeting up with her, you must remain understanding and supportive when discussing such a painful topic but also be flirty and humorous the rest of the time (being flirty and humorous will build the attraction for when the time is right). Also when the time is right, remind her that your here for her while she's going through such a difficult time, but that the two of you can never just be friends (That way your showing support but also planting the seed for later on when shes feeling better). She will most likely reach out to you looking for some comfort and this may even lead to the bedroom. Feel free to have fun, however you must keep in mind she is in a sensitive state and you must never take advantage of her. Do not push for a relationship or anything serious, just simply focus on having fun and simply remind her the two of you could never just be friends now and then. If you don't want her make, simply offer you condolences and let her know that your here for her if she ever needs to talk, but do not give her any signals or hope that the two of you could work out your differences and once again become a couple
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I’m have some bothering me, I have a female friend mean we are so into each other, she has a boyfriend and I don’t and she tells me everything about her life and the new people she means and down to her love life, but right now we were together one night I said I have been trying to talk with you with you but you aren’t replying me, so she said when did I try to talk with her, then she got angry and said she doesn’t want to talk to me anymore, I was like what did I do, she kept me quiet no words from her. The next day I called she busy my calls, I messaged she don’t reply, I begged her she said she doesn’t want to talk to me, then I called her her to talk to her for me, immediately she called me to warm me that she at least expected me to at mature, that I should not give the room to hate me, that I should quit, at this stage what should I do please?
Yeah
I have been to one of the top Australian councillors and he said I shouldn’t of done this he claims I projected I didn’t want to fight for my wife. So yeah I don’t know she is moving out next week.
That just means she TRULY never gave 1 real flying fuck about you.
chris I broke up with my ex gf by the end of august. we spoke many time and kissed a couple times but she said she doesnt want a relationship now. it will be 5 months since our break up... Since we kissed and all does the no contact rule still apply after all this?
Yuri Santos I'm in the exact same situation as you bro. Iv just started the no contact 3 days ago. I hope it works
Paul Mcgann how did it go ?
Yuri Santos look up Dan bacon he’s better at explaining these stuff
No because you broke up with her
Yuri Morelli Santos The ImmotaL. The idea is why would you contact her if she doesn't try to contact you in the first place .? they have to reach out to you first so gives u time to start dating other woman hang out have fun hook up... in the end of the day woman will come back
What if this is happening whilst she’s pregnant?
I’m there for her 24/7 obviously. But do I take the same aproach? We had relationisp issues ( My fault. I was a alpha, and over time slowly turned beta, got comfortable) This has been going on for 5 months but I don’t want to go no contact cause that’s my baby in there to. If we wasn’t having a baby I’d go no contact no problem. But do I now ?
Intermittent no contact
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Let her go away she will come with regret.
I'd pay to see my ex and if she had a new bf..id shake his hand and say thank you with a giant smile and say take care and walk away lol
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Should I avoid hanging out with our common friends to avoid her?
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