DaddyBraiBrai bro you will feel the pain but i promise you just cry as much as you need and give it time you will feel better i went through a lot of hurt and last week i started to get back on my feet and i'm feeling great . i hope everything turns out good for you man .
Thank you for admitting, that if your GF leaves you, you are going to be upset. Because it's impossible to act like nothing happened, we are not a robot.
I am so much happier when im single. The only thing i miss sometimes is intimacy but overall dating screws with my mental health a lot. I am not going to date until i work on my neediness and insecurities.
When Youve been in long term relationships and all the ups and downs that come with it, everything He says makes complete sense. I can look back and see where i went wrong so many times
Maan I was with this girl for 4 years, and I always pull away from her every now and then cause I wasn’t sure if she was right for me, when I finally decide that she was the right girl for me she left me
We're up against social media. We're up against back up guy's. We're up against her phone. We're up against Facebook. We're up against her ego. We're up against the courts. Were up against HER.. No thanks!!!!
My dad told before he passed away, as long you have money... u can always start a new in every hurtful break ups. money is not just for bragging but for saving you in down times like. GO TRAVEL. GO SHOP FOR NEW CLOTHES. GET NEW LOOKS. GO TREAT YOURSELF IN NICE PLACES AND RESTAURANTS. GO BUY A TICKET AND GO TO A PLACE WHERE U NEVER BEEN. SO MANY THINGS TO DO AS LONG AS YOU HAVE MONEY IN THE END. in this world, they say MONEY CAN'T BUY EVERYTHING YES, but MONEY CAN BUY SOME HAPPINESS.
She's not even my girldfirend, but we clicked so well. Now she's pulling away, and quite frankly I feel shattered (never happy and no motivation). It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. If I don't have contact with her I'm miserable, if I do try to reach out more, I know I'm distancing her all the more. I hate this..
David Barna I remember my first love did the same thing to me and I panicked and started reaching out to her even more.... Now I choose to try my best to fight that urge and instead focus more on myself and the right girl will support that.
Create strong emotion. Better to have her anxious and uncertain than bored and numb - the former state can be easily transmuted into passion and lust, the latter just results in distance and resentment.
Match her responses, when you start to see the msgs get shorter and shorter, it's more than likely a sign she's about to pull back,or testing to see if you're gonna act desperate.
Seriously.... You lift my mood up and become more strong.... I was just about to be impulsive.... Thanks for reminding that I need to work on actually myself instead of spending my energy to get validation from my girl.... i need to be more confident and have a good self esteem and love for who I am.... Thank You ❤❤❤❤
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Bro I don't know how much to thank you, I did exactly what you said and my gf loves me more than ever if any other guy loves his girl and see these signs of her acting weird just do what he says trust me.
Another great video cause your video's talk about the reality of things and I was just telling a friend of mine that our brain can only put out so much focused energy on something for so long. This is why we see athletes, actors, singers go so long in careers until they reach a burn out phase and they have to step away, Authors are the same way, they only have so much creative energy for so long and we are the same way in relationships, so once again, great video Chris.
Agree. Burnout is a huge problem for most people and it's almost impossible to sustain anything forever. A lot of successful long-term athletes also have a degree of autism which allows them to repeat the same tasks over and over again without boredom. Something most people can never do.
Chris Canwell Thanks Chris and as far as the ex girlfriend thing, I have never chased an ex and I let them go and didn't even think of them on their very Birthdays and yet, that didn't stop them from either coming back to me or contacting me at some point, so I totally agree on that as well. A strong, higher status man never has to pursue any woman, he knows his value and thus that alone is attractive to women, thanks again Chris.
Chris you have a special gift, as far as being a relationship advisor. I have no interest in looking for another mentor, your demeanor and calm aura and just how you put things into perspective so simplistically, I need no other mentor. You are a true gift for those who grew up without a big brother/ father, you are the ONE. Wish I came to your videos, sooner. I should have learned from my first breakup, but the 2nd breakup, I almost felt like I was gonna make it.... Thanks, Chris.
As a female, I do think you give great advice. HOWEVER, don't give all guys hope that she'll come around back in all cases. Because sometimes the girl is just not into you... and they may be cowards who don't dare to have "the talk" where they break things off.
My gf was my best friend for 1 year and a half ,she told me that she had feeling for me and now we are a couple.Everything was good,but she moved on to france for 3 months. 4 days ago,we were planning to settle in france.Then suddenly, she went visiting paris and I was acting strange,it was probably jealousy and I kept telling her that she got another man etc (insecurities). and yesterday she told me that she is losing interest and she dont know where she is with her feelings and I told her if she want to break up ,she told me no. she keep calling me but its not the same as before.I dont even know what to tell her. please help.
You really spoke to me your advice will save my relationship. Everything you said I did I was obsessive always wanted to be around her basically suffocating her. Then she lost feelings and interest and I panicked like big time. Right now my relationship is hanging by a thread. But with your advice I know i can make it right. Thank you . I will comment again in a few months with an update.
In others words, it’s best to have more than one woman, so when your main one pulls away.. u won’t be hurting because u other women as back up. No point in getting into relationship if u gotta like that, if u always gotta brace yourself for up & down emotions, and us men getting hurt, better off just having women on the side from the beginning
Yeah I have back up women in my contacts bro but I'm giving this lil girl a chance she screwing up by being cold and distant.... . I'm giving her til Friday to open up if not I'm MOVING ON!!!!!!!!!!!!*
Aaah yes, the indifferent state is indeed powerful. Although not always easy to maintain, and also in some sense less fun -- as in, becoming infatuated with someone allows for deeper love, but indifference sortl blunts that, but also protects you from having your heart broken. Is it possible to have both? This is my major problem. I'll get girls super attracted to me, typically because I maintain that indifference, but I dont know how to transition to actually expressing and having intense, deep feelings, because as soon as I do, they often seem to pull away.
Opened my eyes. Back when we didn't live together and she became distant I was indifferent and ignored her for days and after it she'd message me back once she wanted to talk again. Nowadays living together and being indoor all the time it's harder as she's literally there with me lol I don't go out much and barely have outside hobbies or even hang out with people. Guess I need to find s way to go out to do anything even if she could potentially lock me out and leave me outside for the day if she isn't at work.
The truth is women don't pull away from men they truly want to be with. If she does pull away, take the hint, do yourself a favor, and just move on. Don't call her, don't text her, and don't return any of her calls or texts.
This is a powerful strategy that applies to both men and women. I have used it on men and it works. However, there is something that a newbie might not understand using this strategy. That indifference works only on an emotional level. Sometimes, there are important issues that couples have to work through and that actually takes acknowledgement from both parties. If he acts indifferent to resolving those issues, no matter how much she loves him, she will eventually leave him. It's not always 100 percent emotions, we are human beings and we do use our logics. Indifference will eventually backfire as it leads to resentment due to unresolved issues.
My gf has most definitely lost interest and I wasn't even trying to see her all the time , maybe once or twice a week. At first she even wanted to meet more and I stopped her in her tracks. I wouldn't blow up her phone and I kept busy and for 5 months I had her crazy about me. Then this week she drops off a cliff, she's texting way less and her messages became short and one worded. She asks to meet on Friday, I agree and Friday comes and she didn't even follow through. No mention of her even bringing it up on the day. So I called her out on it , she said she wasn't feeling well. Fair enough, but that doesn't excuse to not even acknowledge what she has arranged with me and forget that it even exists . The day we went to meet , she went out swimming earlier in the day yet flakes on me in the evening. Then the next morning she says she's gonna see a friend out of town, yet wouldn't see me the night before. That's too low interest for me , I suspect there's someone else in the picture. I decided to just call it quits and dump her , it will get worse till I eventually find out the person she's feeling more than me.
Hi 80's kid I need advice if can help me out ...we are too nice to our gf ....is this why we are weak in their eyes...the more we want to help ...the more she pull back.....the more we care the more they dont want any help... Same thing I try to take her where she need to go..but they dont appreciate we spending time and even $$ on dinner date... I dont understand why we need to walk away need to dont give a Fcuk anymore for them to blame us for not caring ..this whole cycle happens to me and we have to do this No Contact....and on and off breakup again what should we do when our gf throw Temper and go mental depressed should we get out of the scene or stay to comfort them
Seems like you were being SH^T tested with steroids. It's best to never make a woman the center of your world! I'm in the same boat with my LDR gf Attraction is very hard to sustain, esp if she has many beta male orbiters willing to roll out the red carpet for her. Focus on YOUrself 😒🏆 She will constantly try to knock you off track, esp when you stay focused on your purpose. wMGTOW 💪
@blkghostxx yes I believe so, she's long gone now and my life is better without her. I left this relationship unscathed and my resources intact that's the main thing
Chris, you should also mention: 1) When a girl pulls away, 99% of the time she has met another guy. FACT. 2) When you are overtly indifferent to a girl, she will resent you and use this as an excuse to exercise her open hypergamy and sleep with another guy behind your back. When you catch her and call her out on it she will say “You didn’t seem to care!” I learned these things from experience.
Great video. Great content. Extremely specific and to the point! All single, engaged, married, non-married and to be married men have these problems on a daily basis! Thank you,
I needed this today. My gf seems to have 2 monthly cycles where she seems to withdraw and have less interest. But each and every time we've had distance, she's been desperate to have me back. I don't know why it bothers me so much when she pulls away 🙏
No, you don’t have to expect and tolerate this behavior. If a woman “pulls away” your relationship is over. Ghost her ass and find a better woman. If you attracted her to begin with you can also attract a better, more stable woman.
I've been watching to many of these types of videos, when my gf left me and said that she fell out of love for me I was shattered, I cared about her so much but she didn't at the end, the more I look back at it tho the more I realized that I should have just let her go not msg her a billion times that was my fault I looked weak and needy towards her, at the end all I can do is learn from my past mistakes, wish her the best of luck and move on, if she was the one then she would've talked it out more or try to fix it rather than just say it's over, I hope I'll meet my one true love someday
Thank you bro honestly you’ve helped me so much. I have female options but I am looking for one quality women. The reality is that women are all wired in the same way
*Give her space while improving your own life - whether it’s fitness, hobbies, or personal goals. Attraction often reignites when she sees you thriving without chasing.*
This is great advice to be indifferent. I asked a woman from work out and she flaked so I pulled away immediately. I didn't say another word about it to her. No crying, no convincing. I say hello and still talk to her regarding work. But no more long glances and stares and chit-chat just to talk. She was freaked out for a few days but now she's gotten used to it. But I still see her looking at me to see if I'm looking a her.
@@Christian-rt4zs he be having the right template about female nature. he just looks too directly in and exaggerated it making to the point it toxic. i watch develop attraction and dave bacon and AMS for strictly comedy
but the fear is what if she looses interest and in the mean time another guy takes the chance ? btw I love your video it has always guided me. Thank You very much
These videos are good. I bought the whole 9 yards and got my girl for 2 years back after seriously messing things up. I wanted to stress the importance of mirroring her once u get her back tho. These videos are great but don’t forget when u get her back and have sex with her again and she says she loves you, don’t think about these videos anymore. Mirror her love and say it back if u want to. I was keeping these vids at the forefront of my mind all the time and forgot to get back to myself. Didn’t mirror her affection and we fell apart again, this time probably for good. Good advice but don’t make the same mistake I made and blow ur second chance.
This relationship business...gave my best, wanted to give her more of my best but instead now we broken up, she seems like she is living the life, doing her own thing and now I'm left with VOKOL.
I need advice My Gf is my classmate if I ignore her she starts texting me and if I start talking to her again , chat with her again , she will again start to ignore me again, its a loop I need help
Ive had my hand in kicking my own rear end in most relationships and a marriage. I naturally came to acting in the way this video describes and it simply works. The one im with now (2 years) i pulled no punches with her. I told her out of the gate that once i sense the intimacy starting to decline, sex life declining or interest declining, that i wont be with her anymore. Granted, i knew full well that those would decline to an extent, but i held the frame. Ive told her that i know im attractive and described it (using her own standards to drill the point home) i have a good job with ability to climb, can pay for myself, care for myself, support myself, and basically have my resources locked down and handled, as well as having investments and retirement plans. Ive told her that i am not "hers" nor is she "mine" that it is merely "our turn" with one another. Is this turn going to be temporary or permanent? That is going to depend on if im getting my needs and wants met. If they're met, then ill be more likely to reciprocate which gives her the things she wants and needs, a positive snowball effect. Women are hypergamous and i think this mentality triggers that instinct. Also, i think the named "95%" of guys making the mentioned mistakes are making them due to the male protector/provider instinct, which keeps them from wanting to hurt her feelings, which is why the mentality stated in the video would and does seem counterintuitive. It clashes with the protector/provider in men, atleast generally speaking from my own observations.
Yes. Some valid points. But women want to be rescued. The idea of being a protector/ provider is in my opinion is another form of not being able to walk away.
what if i made all the mistakes already? we scolded each other, bad words, final speech i thanked her for teaching a lession that no one did. we r college so we see each other everyday. its hard i know but this girl is worth my time. i started gym, study, semen retention and i feel good day by day. but i still want her back, 1-2 years im willing to invest in myself, i dont want to sleep with any girl anymore
But when she really loses interest? I do everything that's necessary and I see her pulling away..However I don't react.. She always comes back but this time it's a little long...
I made a mistake and now my girl is acting distant. She does not text me as much, she does not hold my hand as much. It sucks and I am not sure what to do. I am not blowing up her fone and I am thinking about not calling her for a day or two hoping that she will reach out. Or maybe this is the beginning of the end and she is punishing me slowly. Sigh..
If she loves you she’ll come back If she doesn’t don’t waste your time just move on
But long should we wait?
@@JAHANKHADIZATULKOBRARAYYA-U2 try atleast 60 days...if nth changes...move on bro
If she loves you shed never pull away in the first place
I say let her pull away. She will save you a ton of cash.
George Kolotouros , you are damn right...LOL..!
Oh yes! Great way to look at it.
It’s funny you say that. My GF pulled away, the first thing I thought was I’m saving cash.
And time bro
lolol
Everyone who wants, or has a girlfriend should watch this.
ActionIsGo1 just happened to me man ..
XxRNG ClipXx same man
DaddyBraiBrai bro you will feel the pain but i promise you just cry as much as you need and give it time you will feel better i went through a lot of hurt and last week i started to get back on my feet and i'm feeling great . i hope everything turns out good for you man .
Mu girl friend she is puling away from me what should I do should I text her first that it's over
@@veihamisakuseuena7755 just don't react. If she messages you saying she wants to end it just say you were feeling the same leave it there.
Thank you for admitting, that if your GF leaves you, you are going to be upset. Because it's impossible to act like nothing happened, we are not a robot.
If she really loves u she will run the whole mile with u.. All these other girls who lose interest didn't truely love u to begin with.
True words!
Haha false cz u ain't a true lover
I agree
Brother, i respect your thoughts, but do such girls exist?
That's the point bro, women who posses lady like qualities don't exist no more. Sadly they want evrything at a fast speed ,
THIS MAN DESERVES A BILLION SUBSCRIBERS I DONT KNOW HOW HE HASNT GOTTEN IT THERE ALREADY :)
Agree with you.
He has, whats he deserves
He really knows women! 👌🏼
I need to watch this 100 times.
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@@bijaygurung1909 Haha! Nepali po raicha
Bro malai DM gara fb ma.. I'm also in a similar situation
Garoo cha Keta harlai😂
All good things come to an end
Don't drag it
And don't forget the most important aspect, the courtship never ends. Take her out somewhere every now and then, suprise her, break up the routine
THIS 100% !!!!
With a good wallet and a resort in the south maybe she will keep interest.
This guy talks total sense so I’m following his advice
will she come back Chris ?
I am so much happier when im single. The only thing i miss sometimes is intimacy but overall dating screws with my mental health a lot. I am not going to date until i work on my neediness and insecurities.
When Youve been in long term relationships and all the ups and downs that come with it, everything He says makes complete sense. I can look back and see where i went wrong so many times
Where did you go wrong? (If you mind sharing with us)
@@TheP4U111 it goes wrong went you go crazy after sll their ups and down.
"It's how you react determines the way to get her back."
- Chris Canwell
My God it's like having another job.
I agree. Any updates?
😂 IKR?
Best comment 😂😂
Maan I was with this girl for 4 years, and I always pull away from her every now and then cause I wasn’t sure if she was right for me, when I finally decide that she was the right girl for me she left me
Facts
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Always keep a broad in a state of uncertainty.
Lol... when they get what they want it's over man
We are sailing in the same boat bro . Every time. I do this I lose a girl
When shes fed up its a wrap
We're up against social media.
We're up against back up guy's.
We're up against her phone.
We're up against Facebook.
We're up against her ego.
We're up against the courts.
Were up against HER..
No thanks!!!!
Damn this is real asf but more like Insta and snap rather than Facebook
My dad told before he passed away, as long you have money... u can always start a new in every hurtful break ups. money is not just for bragging but for saving you in down times like. GO TRAVEL. GO SHOP FOR NEW CLOTHES. GET NEW LOOKS. GO TREAT YOURSELF IN NICE PLACES AND RESTAURANTS. GO BUY A TICKET AND GO TO A PLACE WHERE U NEVER BEEN. SO MANY THINGS TO DO AS LONG AS YOU HAVE MONEY IN THE END. in this world, they say MONEY CAN'T BUY EVERYTHING YES, but MONEY CAN BUY SOME HAPPINESS.
Uuuuugh fuck!! This makes so much sense!!!
Money buys access
Can't take money with us when we die but 90% of us die with not enough money.
Focus on YOUrself 🏆😒
Fitness, Finance, Fishing 💪💼💵
wMGTOW 🐢
Learn to walk away.
Value self respect over the relationship, see yourself as a winner and she will too.
Feel better after watching this channel every time
If only I've just realized this earlier...
You just earned yourself another follower. You explained in such poise, straight to the point, and it made me feel lifted once again. Thank you.
She's not even my girldfirend, but we clicked so well. Now she's pulling away, and quite frankly I feel shattered (never happy and no motivation). It's a damned if you do, damned if you don't situation. If I don't have contact with her I'm miserable, if I do try to reach out more, I know I'm distancing her all the more. I hate this..
David Barna Damn man :( sigh... How's things now?
I feel you man i feel you. Hope your ok
David Barna keep her off your mind get busy with your own issues don't over show care
David Barna I remember my first love did the same thing to me and I panicked and started reaching out to her even more.... Now I choose to try my best to fight that urge and instead focus more on myself and the right girl will support that.
kinda exactly what I have yeah :(
Create strong emotion. Better to have her anxious and uncertain than bored and numb - the former state can be easily transmuted into passion and lust, the latter just results in distance and resentment.
This is exactly what I needed! I feel my anxiety going away
Stay strong
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Bro this man is a legend it works
Match her responses, when you start to see the msgs get shorter and shorter, it's more than likely a sign she's about to pull back,or testing to see if you're gonna act desperate.
People don’t know how important this vid is 💯
Seriously.... You lift my mood up and become more strong.... I was just about to be impulsive.... Thanks for reminding that I need to work on actually myself instead of spending my energy to get validation from my girl.... i need to be more confident and have a good self esteem and love for who I am.... Thank You ❤❤❤❤
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hello it works I can believe am with my love again after so many years of break,up
Schools should teach us about relationships n health
yeah but with 90 % female teachers in school, this would make the problem for men only worse
if she pulls away dont take her back throw a party lol
Bro I don't know how much to thank you, I did exactly what you said and my gf loves me more than ever if any other guy loves his girl and see these signs of her acting weird just do what he says trust me.
mate ive seen alot of videos about these subjects but so far you have been the most educated on it.well done n thanks
Another great video cause your video's talk about the reality of things and I was just telling a friend of mine that our brain can only put out so much focused energy on something for so long. This is why we see athletes, actors, singers go so long in careers until they reach a burn out phase and they have to step away, Authors are the same way, they only have so much creative energy for so long and we are the same way in relationships, so once again, great video Chris.
Agree. Burnout is a huge problem for most people and it's almost impossible to sustain anything forever. A lot of successful long-term athletes also have a degree of autism which allows them to repeat the same tasks over and over again without boredom. Something most people can never do.
Chris Canwell
Thanks Chris and as far as the ex girlfriend thing, I have never chased an ex and I let them go and didn't even think of them on their very Birthdays and yet, that didn't stop them from either coming back to me or contacting me at some point, so I totally agree on that as well. A strong, higher status man never has to pursue any woman, he knows his value and thus that alone is attractive to women, thanks again Chris.
Chris you have a special gift, as far as being a relationship advisor. I have no interest in looking for another mentor, your demeanor and calm aura and just how you put things into perspective so simplistically, I need no other mentor. You are a true gift for those who grew up without a big brother/ father, you are the ONE. Wish I came to your videos, sooner. I should have learned from my first breakup, but the 2nd breakup, I almost felt like I was gonna make it.... Thanks, Chris.
Yes my 1st girl I was indifferent all through. It was my longest relationship 4years here.
LOVE IS A SERIOUS MENTAL DISEASE. 😏🤨
Love is a poison that kills more than any disease.
That’s EXACTLY what it is !
yes, many people kill themselves because of love
this guy saved my life, thank you
As a female, I do think you give great advice. HOWEVER, don't give all guys hope that she'll come around back in all cases.
Because sometimes the girl is just not into you... and they may be cowards who don't dare to have "the talk" where they break things off.
My gf was my best friend for 1 year and a half ,she told me that she had feeling for me and now we are a couple.Everything was good,but she moved on to france for 3 months. 4 days ago,we were planning to settle in france.Then suddenly, she went visiting paris and I was acting strange,it was probably jealousy and I kept telling her that she got another man etc (insecurities). and yesterday she told me that she is losing interest and she dont know where she is with her feelings and I told her if she want to break up ,she told me no. she keep calling me but its not the same as before.I dont even know what to tell her. please help.
My Biz yeah and she’s a asshole for getting into that relationship to begin with
Shane Racheea move on brother if she was the one you wouldn’t feel this way
My biz. when you contact 5 or 6 in the same time do not forget to take note other way you can mixe one to a another fellow....
The best video I watch. I think twice if I want to be in a relationship. I saved lot of stress and money.
You really spoke to me your advice will save my relationship. Everything you said I did I was obsessive always wanted to be around her basically suffocating her. Then she lost feelings and interest and I panicked like big time. Right now my relationship is hanging by a thread. But with your advice I know i can make it right. Thank you . I will comment again in a few months with an update.
Road2MLG any news?
Any luck bro? Any updates?
RIP
update?
@@Lights____ probably became a toxic fuck boy, W for mans hopefully if so
Really every time a fight happens i directly find this video which made me strong when she is pulling me away
In others words, it’s best to have more than one woman, so when your main one pulls away.. u won’t be hurting because u other women as back up. No point in getting into relationship if u gotta like that, if u always gotta brace yourself for up & down emotions, and us men getting hurt, better off just having women on the side from the beginning
Yeah I have back up women in my contacts bro but I'm giving this lil girl a chance she screwing up by being cold and distant.... . I'm giving her til Friday to open up if not I'm MOVING ON!!!!!!!!!!!!*
If you're an alpha better pick your self as the best option always keep the "Abundance Mindset" go focus on yourself that easy
@@EJayyDreadHead how’d it go
@Zack Jackson how’s it going my guy
@@EJayyDreadHead Yo how'd it go?
Aaah yes, the indifferent state is indeed powerful. Although not always easy to maintain, and also in some sense less fun -- as in, becoming infatuated with someone allows for deeper love, but indifference sortl blunts that, but also protects you from having your heart broken. Is it possible to have both? This is my major problem. I'll get girls super attracted to me, typically because I maintain that indifference, but I dont know how to transition to actually expressing and having intense, deep feelings, because as soon as I do, they often seem to pull away.
Thanks for making your videos short and straight to the point!
Opened my eyes. Back when we didn't live together and she became distant I was indifferent and ignored her for days and after it she'd message me back once she wanted to talk again. Nowadays living together and being indoor all the time it's harder as she's literally there with me lol I don't go out much and barely have outside hobbies or even hang out with people. Guess I need to find s way to go out to do anything even if she could potentially lock me out and leave me outside for the day if she isn't at work.
This is way easier said then done. Especially if you have caught feelings.
The truth is women don't pull away from men they truly want to be with. If she does pull away, take the hint, do yourself a favor, and just move on. Don't call her, don't text her, and don't return any of her calls or texts.
This is a powerful strategy that applies to both men and women. I have used it on men and it works. However, there is something that a newbie might not understand using this strategy. That indifference works only on an emotional level. Sometimes, there are important issues that couples have to work through and that actually takes acknowledgement from both parties. If he acts indifferent to resolving those issues, no matter how much she loves him, she will eventually leave him. It's not always 100 percent emotions, we are human beings and we do use our logics. Indifference will eventually backfire as it leads to resentment due to unresolved issues.
internetgirl100 exactly what I was thinking in my head
This man spitting fact unlike those content creator who just want to control anything
My gf has most definitely lost interest and I wasn't even trying to see her all the time , maybe once or twice a week. At first she even wanted to meet more and I stopped her in her tracks. I wouldn't blow up her phone and I kept busy and for 5 months I had her crazy about me. Then this week she drops off a cliff, she's texting way less and her messages became short and one worded. She asks to meet on Friday, I agree and Friday comes and she didn't even follow through. No mention of her even bringing it up on the day. So I called her out on it , she said she wasn't feeling well. Fair enough, but that doesn't excuse to not even acknowledge what she has arranged with me and forget that it even exists . The day we went to meet , she went out swimming earlier in the day yet flakes on me in the evening. Then the next morning she says she's gonna see a friend out of town, yet wouldn't see me the night before. That's too low interest for me , I suspect there's someone else in the picture. I decided to just call it quits and dump her , it will get worse till I eventually find out the person she's feeling more than me.
Hi 80's kid I need advice if can help me out ...we are too nice to our gf ....is this why we are weak in their eyes...the more we want to help ...the more she pull back.....the more we care the more they dont want any help...
Same thing I try to take her where she need to go..but they dont appreciate we spending time and even $$ on dinner date...
I dont understand why we need to walk away need to dont give a Fcuk anymore for them to blame us for not caring ..this whole cycle happens to me and we have to do this No Contact....and on and off breakup again
what should we do when our gf throw Temper and go mental depressed should we get out of the scene or stay to comfort them
Seems like you were being SH^T tested with steroids. It's best to never make a woman the center of your world!
I'm in the same boat with my LDR gf
Attraction is very hard to sustain, esp if she has many beta male orbiters willing to roll out the red carpet for her.
Focus on YOUrself 😒🏆
She will constantly try to knock you off track, esp when you stay focused on your purpose.
wMGTOW 💪
She was talking to another guy
@blkghostxx yes I believe so, she's long gone now and my life is better without her. I left this relationship unscathed and my resources intact that's the main thing
She just pull away from me and she say she do love ❤️ me but she can't be with me ,I'm so in pain really
😭👋 snap out of it. You have oneits
Respect yourself, don’t let her consume you
women love objectively bro
Gf just turn guys into beta mindsets
This is so ironically AND YOUR name is Tryon ..
You deserve million views
I search all videos about relationships
But your videos are amazing
My allah bless you
His videos are by the best ones out there. Pardon the ignorance of the other commenters.
@@amarb8217 Allah means The one and Only God. in arabic languag. Jesus prayed to Allah
May Zeus Bless you!
and HERCULES ! and ULYSSES! @@paulypipes1
Man, congratulations for the great job!
Sir I hate to say but you are a legend.
This IS the most important video from this dude.
Chris, you should also mention:
1) When a girl pulls away, 99% of the time she has met another guy. FACT.
2) When you are overtly indifferent to a girl, she will resent you and use this as an excuse to exercise her open hypergamy and sleep with another guy behind your back. When you catch her and call her out on it she will say “You didn’t seem to care!”
I learned these things from experience.
So true. Even if you gave her plenty of attention she would say “I needed space!” Both are an excuse to do what she would have done either way 🤣
Great video. Great content. Extremely specific and to the point! All single, engaged, married, non-married and to be married men have these problems on a daily basis! Thank you,
Propably u have just saved my life with this vid!
Giving your girl freedom is the main thing
Virgil once said, "Irrestorable, time flies".
Changes come, that's how life works. you are good either way.
I needed this today. My gf seems to have 2 monthly cycles where she seems to withdraw and have less interest. But each and every time we've had distance, she's been desperate to have me back. I don't know why it bothers me so much when she pulls away 🙏
Thanks man!, I will always be indebted to you..my girl is doing exactly the same thing...and i will do these things!
Chris is the best in the biz.
Massive " Truth bombs" Chris Thank you mate.
No, you don’t have to expect and tolerate this behavior. If a woman “pulls away” your relationship is over. Ghost her ass and find a better woman. If you attracted her to begin with you can also attract a better, more stable woman.
I've been watching to many of these types of videos, when my gf left me and said that she fell out of love for me I was shattered, I cared about her so much but she didn't at the end, the more I look back at it tho the more I realized that I should have just let her go not msg her a billion times that was my fault I looked weak and needy towards her, at the end all I can do is learn from my past mistakes, wish her the best of luck and move on, if she was the one then she would've talked it out more or try to fix it rather than just say it's over, I hope I'll meet my one true love someday
ameen
Thank you bro honestly you’ve helped me so much. I have female options but I am looking for one quality women. The reality is that women are all wired in the same way
not the ones that 'aren't wired up right' or a have a screw or three loose!
woow! you're awesome, this is what every man exactly need. thanks for every single video you share with us
Best dating coach on RUclips! I bought his book.
Very intelligent and logical consultant. He’s got his own style of explaining and the slight natural British accent doesn’t hurt the learning process.
This is gold
Thank God I found this brilliant channel... And bought the book Atomic Attraction... Wonderful stuff... THANKS CHRIS.
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Some of the best advice! Thank you!
This is great advice to be indifferent. I asked a woman from work out and she flaked so I pulled away immediately. I didn't say another word about it to her. No crying, no convincing. I say hello and still talk to her regarding work. But no more long glances and stares and chit-chat just to talk. She was freaked out for a few days but now she's gotten used to it. But I still see her looking at me to see if I'm looking a her.
How do i get emotional stabel? When im a sweet soft guy? Who also has feelings...
watch steph is cold
@@Christian-rt4zs Oh hell yeah, Steph is cold will help.
@@Christian-rt4zs some of his shit is toxic as hell I used to watch him
@@Christian-rt4zs he be having the right template about female nature. he just looks too directly in and exaggerated it making to the point it toxic. i watch develop attraction and dave bacon and AMS for strictly comedy
RedPill
This guy is a genius
Now you can add Tom Brady to that list of women breaking up😂
but the fear is what if she looses interest and in the mean time another guy takes the chance ? btw I love your video it has always guided me. Thank You very much
He will be blowing her back at while your away
loses
What if you pull away but she just takes it as if you don’t care about her? Wouldn’t that be damaging to the relationship
These videos are good. I bought the whole 9 yards and got my girl for 2 years back after seriously messing things up. I wanted to stress the importance of mirroring her once u get her back tho. These videos are great but don’t forget when u get her back and have sex with her again and she says she loves you, don’t think about these videos anymore. Mirror her love and say it back if u want to. I was keeping these vids at the forefront of my mind all the time and forgot to get back to myself. Didn’t mirror her affection and we fell apart again, this time probably for good. Good advice but don’t make the same mistake I made and blow ur second chance.
Interesting. That is true that mirroring is like an art form.
Man thank you, you're a blessing.
I'm bad luck to see this video now I should see it since what I learn from here had I know this before she will never left me for travelling
This relationship business...gave my best, wanted to give her more of my best but instead now we broken up, she seems like she is living the life, doing her own thing and now I'm left with VOKOL.
The best video of all the time from Chris
Great Advice
Thank You Chris
I need advice
My Gf is my classmate if I ignore her she starts texting me and if I start talking to her again , chat with her again , she will again start to ignore me again, its a loop
I need help
This is a hot and cold situation bro
Same lmao
Ive had my hand in kicking my own rear end in most relationships and a marriage. I naturally came to acting in the way this video describes and it simply works. The one im with now (2 years) i pulled no punches with her. I told her out of the gate that once i sense the intimacy starting to decline, sex life declining or interest declining, that i wont be with her anymore. Granted, i knew full well that those would decline to an extent, but i held the frame. Ive told her that i know im attractive and described it (using her own standards to drill the point home) i have a good job with ability to climb, can pay for myself, care for myself, support myself, and basically have my resources locked down and handled, as well as having investments and retirement plans. Ive told her that i am not "hers" nor is she "mine" that it is merely "our turn" with one another. Is this turn going to be temporary or permanent? That is going to depend on if im getting my needs and wants met. If they're met, then ill be more likely to reciprocate which gives her the things she wants and needs, a positive snowball effect. Women are hypergamous and i think this mentality triggers that instinct. Also, i think the named "95%" of guys making the mentioned mistakes are making them due to the male protector/provider instinct, which keeps them from wanting to hurt her feelings, which is why the mentality stated in the video would and does seem counterintuitive. It clashes with the protector/provider in men, atleast generally speaking from my own observations.
Yes. Some valid points. But women want to be rescued. The idea of being a protector/ provider is in my opinion is another form of not being able to walk away.
what if i made all the mistakes already? we scolded each other, bad words, final speech i thanked her for teaching a lession that no one did. we r college so we see each other everyday. its hard i know but this girl is worth my time. i started gym, study, semen retention and i feel good day by day. but i still want her back, 1-2 years im willing to invest in myself, i dont want to sleep with any girl anymore
Semen retention will help you to develop yourself and your business keep going, be strong
@@adelioskampos8090 thank you. i really needed your motivation
I totally agree. They were supposed to teach us relationships in school
Yes not uselss Sex Ed! Talk about Cart before Horse
I really needed you.❤️
Thank you very much for your videos.
You changed my mindset.😀
This is really helpful sir,thank you
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No, Knowledge is potential power............Applied Knowledge is power!
But when she really loses interest? I do everything that's necessary and I see her pulling away..However I don't react.. She always comes back but this time it's a little long...
Jaxa 1 thankyou :)
Junaid Files don’t get stressed about it. Go back to doing activities you once used to do!
Totally agree that being indifferent is a good state to keep a girl attracted. How can you be indifferent once you fall in love with a girl?
Atomic Attraction is a great book. I highly recommend it. I go back to it time and time again.
I made a mistake and now my girl is acting distant. She does not text me as much, she does not hold my hand as much. It sucks and I am not sure what to do. I am not blowing up her fone and I am thinking about not calling her for a day or two hoping that she will reach out. Or maybe this is the beginning of the end and she is punishing me slowly. Sigh..
A difference between wants and needs. Learn that and things will change.
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