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5 Mistakes Men Make When a Girl "Pulls Away" | Do NOT do THIS if She's Losing Interest
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When a woman starts pulling away and you start chasing after her, she's gone, right? She's not going to even look back. You're just pushing her further away.
So in this video Bobby Rio explains the major mistakes to avoid when a woman starts "pulling away".
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This new video by Bobby Rio is all about why women "pull away" and how you should handle it. And also just as importantly, the 5 mistakes men make when a woman pulls away. Because let's face it, it's becoming increasingly frustrating for guys. It's happening.
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Come on man she blocked me on social media. how's this SCRAMBLER gon WORK.??
Just saw her gettin inside someone's car
My brains tells me it's another man's car
It's over (hope it's not) coz I NEVER saw the driver's face) an THERE are 2 people who owns the same car model with the same color at work
It's a man and famele
But which woman who would beg another waman to take ride WITH her...?? coz it looked like that driver hooted on her convincing her to come get inside the car (or it was planned via phone calls or social media) an was letting her know which car waiting for her an off they go an been 2 days never saw her at work
Obvious its a man
Now it's been 4 months she blocked me on social ( don't know she blocked my phone number coz I never called her after I realized that she blocked me on social media)
After all the things I've done for her she ended pulling away an ran
This situation broke me deeply
I've lost interest in getting other girls in my LIFE. Even WORSE I've lost interest in even having SEX haven't for long time
No hooker or any other girl would seduce me coz I'm reeling from the pain of loosing her
Even though I've chose to ignore ALSO giving her the coldness she gives me NOW
Match her coldness with MORE arctic coldness
But everytime I saw her at work it's gettin WORSE
Gettin MORE depressed an secretly clinging on HER hoping she will change her mind
My friend keeps on hooking me up with other girls but I immediately lost interest
Now all I do is drinking beer an hoping I will find a purpose to improve my LIFE
But now STILL stagnant
Here this side EDUCATION system s*cks
Hard to find a way to improve yourself as a man...
An from the beginning she was the one doin all the chasing after she accused me of pushing her AWAY then the table turned an I was the one doin all the chasing ( with all the "nice guy syndrome" like u said) till she pulled the plug an ran AWAY
I've been taken Ls after Ls my whole life since young age
From school , sports , careerwise even betting or wanna call it gambling ( know this she doesn't know all of these things coz she doesn't really know me personally
She all know my nice guy syndrome acts ONLY.. If she did I would have understood why her pulled AWAY)
But after loosing her just proved me that I'm a"LOOSER"
Can't be a LOOSER in all sector of life
Must be somewhere I'm being celebrated that's why I'm taking another shot to improve my LIFE which is FX trading if it's all ends up FAILING like always I'm done . To HELL with this world
To HELL with her
To HELL with the man she thinks he BETTER than me
See ya later
Excuse my English grammar , English not my first language . I'm from south Africa
I'm now 62 and have used 41 years of my time in 3 long term relationships. the first lasted 3 years. the second was an 18 year marriage. the third was a 20 year relationship. with all that experience the thing I have learned is this:
NEVER make a woman so important in your life that your world gravitates around them. NEVER, EVER surrender your personal power to them.
Hey , are you trying to attract or win back your ex , specific person ( SP ) , restore a broken relationship / marriage or banish a third party from your relationship💕💕💕💕
@Eunice Erim Hi Eunice I hope all's well and good with you. I hope you don't mind my intrusion into your life, but I would like to give you some advice.
With regards to your husband coming back to his marriage, be very cautious. Do not give him all your power but instead keep some back for yourself. He did not leave you for another woman, he left you because he was (and may be again) unhappy. If this were not the case, he would not have noticed another woman. You MUST learn to love and value yourself first above all others because in the final analysis, self is all self really has.
@@davidthompson4934 hi David, you should make some videos. I'd watch them.
@@LifeOfRiley100 hi Rahil I hope all's well and good with you. With regards to my making video's, I've never thought about it and would not know where / how to start. On my journey I have experienced many things and amongst them, the wisdom that we are all here to have our own experiences not someone else's. The art of living which can only be learned through time, is not to become attached to those experiences but rather, to view them whilst having them as though you are just an observer of an event that is happening. And remember; NOTHING, NOTHING, NO - THING is what YOU think it is.
Life is just an experience, nothing more - nothing less.
Be well. Be happy.
Kind regards
DT
Thanks man. As a young guy 27 yrs i feel this advice is the best to take
When a girl wants you to give her space...give her so much space she'll think she's Neil Armstrong.
That's pretty damn hilarious!
😂😂😂
You a funny guy 😂
Facts
Facts
She did a 180 and walked away 3 years ago, haven’t heard from her since. These are blessings in disguise
Same happen to me, I didn’t chase and I’ve been with many younger better looking woman since, loving life, okay financially I took a hit, but finance can be rebuilt, time can’t be regained
I'm gonna be honest. You are describing immature people whose relationship is not gonna last more than a year. Let's be real here, if problems like this occur and she's constantly testing you, she's just never gonna be sure in your relationship
If I need to play games and not be sure or sincere of myself just because of a relationship, then it seems that it is just a waste of time.
Move on with your life
MAKES FKN SINCE BRUH
When she "pulls away"....................... Buy a motorcycle and never look back.
Lmao this is my plan too
Wtf 🤣♥️
You won't have to look back. Cause some hot ass thick booty mama will be right behind that cruiser, holding on to you. Giving her the finger.....Bye bitch!
Ya
😂 right! Time to celebrate for sure.
Don’t chase women, be friends with them, flirt with the ones you like and then let them chase you. If they like you they will show obvious interest, and if they won’t then they won’t. This has ALWAYS worked for me
Blake Trickey good advice bro
it works to me too👏👏😆
Yep basically it's a filter. Why waste time on a person who doesn't care to that point?
Yes if they like you. They will make it obvious
this never works, as real men we're supposed to make the first move and lead
All these rules and games. This is why it's best to be single, though it may suck at times. Men, don't let a woman change you for the worst. If it's healthy, keep being you. Embrace yourselves no matter what she says. Take this. 👑
Fuck that. Lonely ass life
LOVE IS WAR BRO!!
No, it's best to know the rules and games and not be single.
Lonely man without a purpose living with mom. Nice
I don't agree with this statement
If she’s acting distant it’s probably because she’s become too comfortable in the relationship. Best thing to do is raise it and make it look like you’re not just going to stick around. That makes her feel less dominant and she will come back to you. If she doesn’t then she probs didn’t actually love you in the first place.
When a woman is pulling away it means she doesn't like you. Leave her alone. There I just saved you 18 minutes of your life
Excellent comment.
What scares me about these videos are the people who watch and then latch on to these...."tips" I guess we could try calling them.
The problem is sure it could cause the person to become needy and trying to figure out but ultimately this isn’t love it just causes attachment and in time if it’s not right it’s all wasted and kinda gross if you keep playing with peoples heart
Or kidnap her?...
Why do people miss this out?
It's fucking normal, it's man vs woman, man wins when he really wants to.
(Just incase, omg chill people)
Exactly! Does this guy not know woman at all?
The guy in the video doesn't even get girls who is he kidding lmao, he's a 5/10 at best acting as if he knows girls so well. OP is right, if I girl stops texting or loses interest it's because she doesn't like you enough. Or vice versa, I've stop texting girls for favourable girls. It's not rocket science folks
If she's pulling away, be a gentleman and open the door for her, but don't forget to slam it behind her, she'll get the message.
WHEN SHE IS PULLING AWAY SHE IS FUCKING ANOTHER GUY,FORGET HER,YOU DO NOT WANT HER ANYMORE,SHE IS A LOSER NOT YOU...NEEDING SPACE TO THINK IS A MYTH,THEY JUST WANT VARIETY,THE'RE NEVER SATISFIED,ALWAYS LOOKING FOR A ''BETTER'' ONE TO FILL THE VOID SHE ALWAYS FEELS INSIDE
@@kostasplafountzis6602 women feel empowered to do it because there are plenty of other simps waiting.
@@shabushabu1453 absolutely,women today they have the advantage of having toooo many options so they ''need'' noone to attach to.instagram and facebook have eliminated human relationships for good...
if she’s pulling away you open the door for her and close the door and never open it again, unless she knocks. You do not control her dumbass. You don’t need to teach her a “lesson”. She left for a reason.
I recommend you to Dr Joe his manifestations and spells are the best💞💞💞💞💕💕💕❤❤❤
When she pulls away, be so focused on your own life and purpose you hardly even notice.
As a girl who's been popular most of my life, I can tell you all these are not "mistakes". These are clearly signs someone actually cares for you. And it's how well behaved people behave. They apologize, they own their mistake, they own their feelings and are not afraid to show them. I'm married to the guy who did all these. Ok, the "gift" got me mad, I saw it as him trying to shortcut to obtaining forgiveness without having to question himself for his rude behavior. I still wore that scarf, it was winter and it looked nice. But he still had to go through a long difficult conversation about his mistakes.😁Seriously, please, continue being the respectful, well-intentioned, guy-in-love that you are. And if she keeps running away, THAT'S the unfortunate sign that she was never the one from the start. She only liked you halfway, and could only get aroused when she felt you were angry with her, done with her, couldn't care less, etc. Even if you did win her over by refraining from acting the way it comes natural to you because your mom brought you up well, she would have gotten colder again the moment you started caring again. Ask yourself do you seriously want to be with someone you constantly have to force yourself to be unnaturally cold for??
Your mom deserves a kinder daughter in law, your kids deserve a nicer mom.
Love this Sister… Very well spoken… Thank you for the reassurance that what I feel is right, is right, in a REAL woman’s eyes and heart. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@byroncosta5575 ❤️
Amen.
While i do think that some "red-pill" advice is very useful (like focusing on your own life, going to the gym, being more out-going etc.), most of it can cause more harm than good. In a world already impoverished of love and affection, it is more important than ever to be authentic with your own feelings. The world desperately needs more emotionally sensitive people. I know, being emotionally vulnerable (especially as a man) is often painted as a fatal weakness, but i think in fact its one of the biggest strengths a human-being can have. It is the trait that allows you to build a genuine connection with romantic interests.
Do not surpress your feelings. Whether it is being hurt, being in-love or being confused. Surpressing your feelings only leads to you building a shell out of anxiety and frustration. This shell makes it more difficult to feel good about yourself, which in turn makes it more difficult to connect with other people.
Do not let the game change you, try to change the game. Stay respectful and well-intentioned, even if it means to make yourself vulnerable and to potentially get hurt. My most memorable moments were all made with women whom most of you guys would've nexted long ago.
@@darkforcekiller Yes, yes, YES!
You've got it all right. I agree with everything you said.
You sound so mature, emotionally balanced, and you're well spoken. In my book, you're great husband material.
You seem... cooperative. Willing to listen to the Other, with the capital O, be it your lady or your buddy, putting aside your ego, tolerant, understanding. Those are features that make every couple, work environment, family, work out in the long run. Right?
These "red pill", "black pill" videos only make all human interactions worse by making everyone paranoid about the kind intentions of the Other.
Just make sure that you are going for a kind, sweet, tolerant woman. A lot of great guys don't give a chance to decent girls and would rather chase unattainable, emotionally unavailable, Narcissistic Personality, selfish, cold persons. And when it turns out it's Amber Heard, then you end up watching videos of men equally angry and disappointed in women, and the vicious circle is perpetuated.
Men, train yourselves to go after girls like Camille Vasquez, who understand you and defend your honor, not after those who will destroy it.
@@miovicdina7706 Your husband must be a really lucky man =)
"Women are like shadows, when you persue they flee, when you walk away they follow"
I never had that happen.
True except the following part lol.
Deep
Uhhhh Have you ever walked with the sun to your back?
I did that and...well nothing has happened yet lol
Never apologise, especially if you can’t even spell the word.
😂👍🏾
too funny! haha
Bruh I just noticed 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
MVC (most valuable comment)!
Lmao
Man of his words. Didn't apologize for misspelling apologies in a marketing video.
😂
😂😂
Getting beat up we can handle but getting rejected we get depressed
To be honest I would hate getting beaten up much more.
Games games games. Life is such a game. Nothing hurts a man like a woman can.
It is, but I like to look at it like Dr Peterson. A game of games.
So true. Love is a game you just can’t win
Women respect alpha men with their priorities in place. Not broke cry babies.
@@AdrienneStarr 💖💖💖
@@cherish.o.m4453 and vice versa, you really ain't saying anything anyone doesn't know
If women pull away, then literally don’t bother. They found someone else or not interested in you. Facts, unfortunately.
It’s not true at all in my experience. It depends what kind of “pull away”. You might have just been a bit too heavy handed and so becoming more aloof can make you desirable again.
It works great if you just want to hit it a few more times before moving on
Legit. I think this dude misread getting ghosted (apparently a lot). If a girl is actually into someone she's gonna like confessing feelings.
Not true
Vincecouk not true at all
That’s fickle pussy! Don’t deal with that shit...
The powerful position in a negotiation is being able to walk away and mean it..i live by this..and you'll never make a mistake
Corey wayne
The moment you start thinking about her while staring at the sunset, drinking a beer, driving, listening to an Elvis song and laying in bed E.T.C.
Your fucked.
Bobby has hit the nail on the head.
Lol I walked away when she was pulling away, she came running harder but I ignored it I hate this drama of mind games, live is to short. Move on.
real talk!!
Too*
Sigma men be like 😎
When a girl pulls away, let her go and count your lucky stars she's gone.
maybe this is hte attitude you have to have. it's too complicated otherwise
This is so true
True
@@gukonni When they start "pulling away", they're done with you. At that point, you have two choices; get rid of them, or spend the rest of your life living under their heel. There is no third option.
@@generalbarry Facts
I stumbled across this video and since I am always trying to learn something new I thought I would watch. After listening to this I have one thought that really stands out. If a man is having to put this much effort into a relationship then it would serve him better to step away and have some serious self reflection. Work on yourself first. Just like you would practice before you played a game or competition etc. Once you have done that the confidence in yourself will come. You can only control how you act and behave and feel not how she does. So if you fix yourself first, build confidence in yourself first. Then put yourself out there. If you have done that and know what you are worth then the games and mind tricks aren't needed. They will either like the way you act and the things you do, like flowers or whatever or they won't. If you being confident and being yourself pushes them away then they weren't for you. Wish them well and move on. The right person will not require any tricks.
Once you know your own worth and are willing to let them walk or willing to walk away yourself you won't need these types of videos.
Wow - I totally agree with you bro - do the best to get back your ex if you think she is worth - then after soo much efforts still she is in that mode - then wish her for future and take care of your future - but don't leave things in between without even thinking deeply
5 mistakes:
1) Confess
2) Appologzie6
3) bift
4) Col&μess
5) UHялtUM
😂
I'm shaking crying rn
Spot on
😂
друг
When she pulls away, that is nature's way of reminding you where a man's priorities, focus and energy should be. Go ahead and build an empire, make more investments,... in short live your life...and then thank me later!
This is a red pill brother
Forget what they are talking about brother you are 1000% right. They will either see you bossing up and come back, for the rest of the world will see you bossing up and you will have more options. Either way you're in a better position and you feel good. Great advice dou mur
dou mur Facts!
I dont wanna though. Id just be even more frustrated
Make more investments? LOL
When she pulls away she isn’t always testing you. Sometimes she’s just not sure about her feelings yet and that’s ok it’s not a red flag or means she’s playing hard to get!!! It means she’s taking time and space to assess how she’s feeling. There’s a multitude of things you can do or not do in order to inform her feelings. If you start declaring gushy feelings, apologizing about being awkward, text and call too many time etc it’s going to make he feel more unsure and possibly go for someone else. If you play it cool, do your own thing, mirror her, get back to friendly exchanges, make yourself extra busy and just be cool and sweet if she reaches out but just sorta mirror her and put it all on ice a bit. I’m a high value woman who takes her time. This guy knows what he’s taking about…
But he said that matching her coldness is wrong
Damn. If only I knew this 6 years ago. I did all of these mistakes on this girl I was madly in love with and everything I did seemed to be pushing her away. I felt like I was going crazy. She got married to another man 4 years ago and it still hurts like hell
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It’s crazy how much stress we put on ourselves for a female 😖
@@jacobguerrero5246 that was the last time though. I don't stress myself anymore. If she likes me, cool, if she doesn't, whatever. That's how I am now
The end of the movie is when we all Die. No one has time to play these mind games. This is the very reason why dating sucks today.
Underated comment. Life is too fuckn short.
Not only does dating suck it also eats
I think this is one of the best comments man, I'm agreed with u
@@lukata77 Your wallet
it's me G You are literally a walking joke. Guys like you are what makes girls run to guys like me. Thank you.
So basically a woman will only go for a guy who isn't interested in her, and then start moaning further down the line when she is treated as unimportant. No wonder the failed relationship rate is so high.
No. That's not how all women are...
They like alpha males who have better things to do then be obsessed about some girl.
Ya this is not my girl at all... she loves when I tell her how I feel about her. I make songs for her all the time and she loves it
@@robinyount7442 is she pretty?
@@trevorthornley8835 same thing, different words 👍
So basically, the more you show you're interested, the easier she'll just get bored
This seems to be the bottom line. There must be an alternative to this crappy dinamic.
Thanks, man. I had the finger right on the "send" button. This is life saving.
just walk away. if she really loves you she wont even think of pull away
Agreed
Right-O
They change like the wind
True
When she pulls away let her go not a problem.
Ranger totally correct
If she's into you she'll stay, if not, fuck it who cares, don't get invested in them it's not worth the angst.
M
organ Logman
@@sarvolfe6435 agreed 100%
Exactly right. When you let them go they come running back anyway.
Morale of the story: just focus on your exam 😂😂
Dude this is so crazy. Haven’t heard from her in over a week. I have NOT sent a desperate text or a check up text. My last text was responding to her, and she never responded to that. But I’ve been banging my head against the wall pre writing texts in my notes of allllllllll the things you’re saying not to do
Dude you gotta let her go , don't get attached to these modern day women .
You will lose money chasing women, but never lose women chasing money
Yeah you dont gain either..... unless you jeffrey epstein -_-
No but i invented walking and breathing
Brilliant
That second part isn't even close to being true! Plenty of men have lost women by chasing money. However...I argue that the money they gained was of more value than the women they lost in 100% of cases, so your overall point remains true.
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If your girlfriend is pulling away then shes not girlfriend material, move on and find someone thats not just right for you but also mature enough to settle down
oh my god
Yeah bro
'not girlfriend material' aka unwilling to put up with your negging and pickup artist shit
Have any of you thought of the possibility that YOU are the issue and not her?
@@trulsrakvag impossible!
I once ignored a girl who I thought I liked but then I didn't like her anymore. So I ghosted her.
Two weeks later, she started texting me back. She was sad that I ghosted her. And bla bla bla wanted me back, etc. I said no as I no longer had interest in her. So she started to be a real bitch and said some nasty stuff.
So moral of the story is what you think you did wrong may be right. And whatever you think is doing right may be wrong. My message to all the kings out there : women are the same.
So true, they don't know what they want
I started chasing classmate for about month, we never had a good talk, after months of separation (winter break), i started ignoring her complete, now she is chasing me from last 2 years. 😄😄😄😆😆. This video is masterpiece
I thought I was the only one experiencing this until I came across this piece. I'll never do any of these again. Life is abundant; there's always someone for everyone.
😂Lesson learned the hard way ✌️
Words of wisdom well said 😇👍
@@russellakm399 yeah😀😀
😭😭😭😭am currently going through a very toxic moment but i thanks God am overcoming. I have learned simple lesson,,,, never beg a woman. Never explain too much and never let a womn that you cant do your life things without her. 😭
@@johnkamau9685 This too shall pass and you'll find The One meant for you❤
I’ve never had any of these issues up until recently. Got involved with a girl and I have have just realised I’ve literally done everything on your list. Thanks for opening my eyes. Lesson learnt
Same here bro
So how did it turn out?
@@characterandconviction9225 I lost her :)
@@hrajabi7261 I'm now scared that i can lost mine... idk what to do. But ok, I know that I can't do anything, I've done everything that I could. Including all the mistakes and all the right decisions, so now I can only wait, and this waiting kills me😢
Same here hahaha
Indeed it's really great to know all this. I have committed all these mistakes and feel Happy to try the corrections
Very helpful
Glad it helped
The first mistake... Staying with a girl who tests you.
Lmao he said it was unconscious, just like a lot of bad things in the human nature.
I take it you lead a very dull and boring life then, along with a dull, unfun sap of a partner. You want a partner to test you, and test eachother, it's the best way to motivate eachother, stay on top of things. Find out eachothers likes and dislikes, there for having more exsperince dealing with eachother.. all that's itself brings in fun and happiness. If the first thing to do after being tested Is to give up and walk, then there's no hope left is there.
WoodyD Bro take it from me when a women tests you usually she wants to see how strong you are. If you are smart you will know the difference between a test if she likes you or a test if she is disrespecting you. 8/10 it’s usually disrespecting you
Jonathan Thom All women tests men. That’s a Fact.
I learnt that the hard way
Let me save you some time. When she starts this, just move on.
That's what I did. I moved on and she started to come back, lol. Did this to 2 bitches. Basically I told those bitches to take their shit somewhere else.
Amen to that
@@peterchou5161 whow
Best advice ever
@@juanvlog2022 ever 😂
I’m glad i ran into this video because I made all of these mistakes with the last female I messed with & it’s literally went downhill from those mistakes. I thank you
yeah sir!!! But real man never think about 'get her back',you only consider about the 'next one'
Women are not attracted to a needy man. Let the women get emotional, not yourself is the biggest life lesson.
Yeah don’t beg and don’t chase. Simply say okay and go forward.
Men have emotions too, just don't wear it on your sleave.
BUT I GET EMOTIONAL. Plus, without emotions, why even bother? I want emotions!!! Otherwise i can just go jack off and smoke a bowl. But i miss the physical contact and affection.
But, if all of this is how a girls brain actually works, just start killing. Because thats fucking evil. Its twisted and shouldnt be accepted in society. I hate this stupid game, it makes me wanna fucking puke. I hate the fact that I never get what I want EVER!!!! But im supposed to spend my life pleasing females?? Fuck that. I just really wanna stop... everything. I do not consent to being a part of the power struggle.
Vlad G I do get that , but it’s weird
Vlad G 👌👌👌
Man or woman, the feelings of rejection are the same when someone you like (or love) pulls away. The bottom line is, if someone doesn't want you, they don't want you. There is NOTHING you can do.
When women pull away, just run for the hills. Chase your own dreams and goals. Focus on improving yourself
So true . Reminds me of the Bonnie Raitt song “ i cant make you love me if you don’t “ that song is a reality check
Other female fish in the water
Well, there is something you can do and should do:
Lick your wounds quickly and draw your emotional energy back to yourself.
I think we forget that there's almost 8 billion people in the world.
The moment he wrote ultimatum...."Ah ffs I did that yesterday" literally used the example he gave as well 😂
Man never ever apologize to a women! Period. I am 47 and have dated a lot of girls. If you apologize you loose attraction. You need to show indifference to keep the attraction. I am currently talking to a girl long distance. We started off good and then in the last week she started pulling away. I looked back, and analyzed and figured out where she lost attraction. I learnt my lesson and move on. One thing I tell you once a girl pulls away, it is very very difficult to get the attraction back. In 99% cases you best bet is to walk away the moment you see she pulling away.
I kinda know what to do but it takes practice to be chill and not making those mistakes, but also i don't like just any girl, after one relationship i feel like I deserve someone special.
Thanks for the advices, i wish all of you guys stay chill when meeting that special person
Let me tell u this guys , find a woman who wouldn't walk away from u just because u're showing her ' too much ' attention .. but rather find one that would appreciat it and even give it to u in return ^^
Thanks. Is this real by the way? 😭❤️
@@misemusemusic Ofc it is, if ur playing this "ignore game" it wasnt even ment for u and her
Yeh good luck
You are so right! So was with my husband :)
Loulou Lachance like thats all we want from females
Conclusion: never be a good guy and don't try to win her. You're welcome and good afternoon
Ma hero
Exactly.
Wrong. Missed the whole point. Lol
Exactly. Because its a fake game
Are you perhaps have the dumb?
Also r/niceguys and r/justneckbeardthings
I was on the second mistake of apologizing hahah. Was almost ready to send a gift. 😂🤦♂️
After watching this I m finally over my ex 😳😳😳 those first 3points wow.... How weak did I allow myself to become😔😕
Ok, before seeing the list, I would say:
1. Being too nice
2. Being needy/desperate
3. Buying her things/"buying her love"..
4. No initiative/assertiveness
5. Being too arrogant in assuming her attraction for you
5s better than 1 tho chaps.
Well some women love stuff being bought for them, being wooed, being pampered. So with regard to no 3 i'm not so sure!
Funny fact: I committed all of these mistakes
😂😂😂
And did you get her back
@@CoolVishu4u4ever 1q8
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damn you fucked up but i did the first thing
I was watching this and her notification came.....🙃
My heart right now : 💓🙃💓🙃💗🙃
@Eunice Erim Blehhh Bad promotional dilogue....not impressed
Lucky lol
I made all the 5 "mistakes" and she indeed stopped talking to me. This video is so relatable yet so frustrating. Like, to think that this is a personality trait of women is so annoying, like why can't they just be sincere and speak their minds already instead of thinking every little thing is pressure? Honestly, makes me think that we are almost taming a scared cat or some animal, which just means they know what they are doing and really are just trying to make something otherwise simple difficult.
did you stopped talking to her after that?
What happened?
@@laudasarkaar9788 this happened about a year ago. There was a clear moment when she became cold to me and started responding with one-word answers and without adding anything to the conversation. A few weeks passed and she was clearly flirting with another guy. It kind of pissed me off at the time and I blocked her on all social media and left her friend group chat. Then we had to attend a party together for someone who was a friend of mine and her and she finally broached the subject via message, saying that it was important for me to go there too (since I was avoiding her), which I agreed to (out of respect to the other friend). But in that same conversation, she also admitted, even though we still interacted in person in the same friend group basically every day, that one of my best friends who was also in the group had been sleeping with her all month (even though she said she didn't want any serious relationships during in this period of her life). After that was the time when I blocked her everywhere and it was one of the saddest moments of my life because we actually had a good connection at one point. Back then and to this day, I still unfortunately have to see her from time to time at college and have my day ruined by it.
Let her go. There are other women who will be more appreciative of you.
True.
there must always be a willingness to walk away on your part
Don't chase her, replace her.
@@johngray2924 long since done.
All women are the same
When she pulls away it means another man is on his way in.....
Truth be told majority of women that pull away end up old alone, miserable and unhappy. A real women would communicate with respect
I agree . I respect a woman more for properly rejecting me than playing games
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@@daudimwidimakihanda5386 your rich uncle died and you need a bank account to access the money? gtfoh
No it doesn’t!!! It means she’s not interested. It doesn’t mean there’s always another man. It means she doesn’t like you and she would rather be alone than with you. The truth hurts sometimes.
Smh I speak from experience. I've slept with many women who have pulled away. Some come back. End of the day girls play games real women can communicate clearly without insecurity games like pulling away. Some women act like 23 yr old children n others keep it real. Sorry if u cant tell the difference
I been single all my life and I'm so glad I stayed that way . As Bob Marley sang " no woman or women , no cry ".
You stupid don't follow this quote. Only those saying this who is with women and break their heart.
So sad we need relationship coaching in this crazy world we live in . All what you said was true , but if I get coaching wouldn't that make me a bit fake ?
I've learnt that a man should only fight for something when that thing allows him to fight for it; anything that does not allow you to fight for it is not worth fighting over....period!
Exactly. Thank you
Perfectly said
Lost my truck and this concept applies
You right, but what does “to fight” mean? Fight whom? The problem is that modern man ends up fighting with woman while not noticing the real enemy of relationships called Ego. Following these advices people choose their Ego that keeps them in their well-known cage of their own miss-conceptions about themselves.
You're a wise guy!
Put yourself first. When a "girl pulls away", open the door and help her out!
Awesome comment 👍👍👍
Wow! That was good thinking,bro! I keep it in my mind.
@Rahimzai No mate. I mean if she's pulling away, I don't want her. Even if she changes her mind, I'm not...she's history.
@@marc1speed Been there, done that and they get sh#tty about it later. Both decisions are wrong. The only thing that counts is what gets you laid. The rest is BS.
@@tonyg2916 It's not wrong for me mate, each to their own. In truth, these days I avoid women entirely and just look after myself. I'm done with their shit. I don't need their drama and their entitlement mentality.
All of these mistakes are the things that crossed on my mind and I'm about to do it upon my crush, I'm so glad that I found your video and now I know it wouldn't work as what I think it would. Thanks man! Subcribed.
We are told the exact same. When a man pulls away and we make the effort to get his attention, then we're labelled as clingy or too easy. In my opinion it's in a man's nature to do the pursuing, obviously if she's reciprocating his efforts.
I found out that when I got more emotional with a woman, that's when she cared less, and that's when she had the power, and I lost. Ye who cares the most, loses.
Nostradante same
Only time u are allowed to be emotional with a woman is in the bedroom when she giving head
@@patrickstewart9937 I think you are right
That's right women wants someone who have his shit together while she can't even handle her own emotions and ego. Imagine buying a brand new iPhone X on apple store with 50 dollars, that's the mentality of women and it's simply hypergamy. It's just hard to take women seriously.
Yes
YOU KNOW WHAT, IF SHE GOES AWAY THEN THAT'S WHAT WAS MEANT TO BE. WOMEN ARE LIKE YOUR SHADOW, YOU CAN NEVER CATCH YOUR SHADOW, BUT WHEN YOU WALK AWAY THE SHADOW FOLLOWS YOU. 😉👉 TRUST ME ON THIS.
yes when a woman pulls away its largely more about what not to do then what to do. Displaying a willingness to walk away is crucial
@@BobbyRio THAT SHADOW CONCEPT WAS THOUGHT TO ME BY DAD WHEN I FIRST STARTED DATING, IT'S INSANE HOW WELL IT WORKS, BUT AS YOU ALSO MENTIONED, I NEVER TREATED THEM LIKE SHIT AND LEFT A VERY SPECIAL MEMORY OF ME WITH THEM. THAT IS EXACTLY WHY THEY ALWAYS COME BACK, THE OTHER SECRET IS WOMEN ALWAYS REMEMBER A FUN AND FUNNY GUY THAT MAKES THEM LAUGH AND TAKES THEM AWAY FROM EVERYTHING, IT TOUCHES THEM IN A SPECIAL WAY, A SENSE OF HUMOR GOES A LONG WAY AS WELL.
This is awesome! Thanks for sharing!
Sam G. 😹😂🤣🤷🏽♂️block they make a new numba hahap
@@choawoa6119 YOUR MESSAGE IS IN NOT CLEAR, I THINK YOU NEED TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO SEND OR TYPE MESSAGES. 😉
thanks my guy..made all these mistakes and now she ghosting
i've learnt my lessons
I noticed I had to watch this video to remember how to handle it each time it happens (With the same woman). After, she gets back... Thanks, Bobby.
I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
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If a woman is pulling away then stop caring. trust me, she will come back to you and will be more attracted to you. based on experience brothers 😉
Ya...
Dam hopefully xnxx for the meanwhile
You have to keep not caring and watch yourself from the slightest slip up of showing you care. That's a headache. If she is more attracted to you because of this. So what? Who cares how this nut reacts? Just wait for her to end up on the news for jumping off a bridge.
Yeah but what if both ways use the same mind games? Because this works on us the same way ...
This is sooo true from personal experience.
Someone who truly cares wouldn’t even put you in that situation in the first place.
Exactly, she's weighing her "other options", that kinda chick ain't worth your time.
A woman has options. Never make the mistake of thinking you're her only choice. If you want to be her first choice, you have to give her good reasons to feel that way, because someone else will do it if you won't. No woman owes you her feelings just because you like her and you think you're great to her. She has to make the decision to like you back, and pushing her to make that decision instead of letting her come to it herself will never end well for you.
@@tcchip , a girl (or anyone) that truly wants to be with you, will make it clear. Anyone who plays these kinds games and isn't "sure" about you is just shining you on. If you have to play games to get attention from someone, you don't want attention from that person... Trust me, they'll turn out to be a neurotic mess. The fish are always biting somewhere.
@@roonbare2769 unless you have known this woman for months, if not years, nobody whom you just got to know wants to be with you right away, regardless of whether you're looking for a relationship or casual sex. Why? Because she doesn't know you, period. Just because you had fun chatting with her for a couple of hours doesn't mean she knows you. And it doesn't matter how great a guy you are, women live in fear of getting assaulted, harassed, raped and murdered every day, so it takes time to be able to convince a woman you're safe to be around.
I used to think it was playing games too, and believe me, I hate this stuff too. When we meet a woman we like, and think 'I want to be with her', subconsciously we want to own her, and that's where all the problems start. If you're not willing to show a woman you're willing to spend time to get to know her, while respecting her as an individual with her own life and give her personal space, you won't get anywhere with her, because being pushy only convinces her you're dangerous, insecure and possessive. She already has her life routine, she's not going to change it just for you just because you had a couple of great dates together. The instant you start pushing her to start making space in her life for you before she's ready, you just shot yourself in the foot.
The reality is, any attractive woman you meet online or off, is getting hit on by a ton of men, whether at work or outside. She's got her own life and isn't waiting for you to come into her life and sweep her off her feet. You have to be the exception if you want her to pay attention, unless you want to go for socially awkward women who don't have much or any experience with people, much less men. Trust me, these women will be worse. They'd be insecure, distrustful and will always have a chip on their shoulders.
Again, unless you really know this woman for some time, you can NEVER assume that you're the first priority in her life. She has a job, her friends and family, and you are a stranger. Anyone who's intelligent and attractive will naturally attract other guys. If you're not willing to put yourself out there and instead just pray she's going to pick you because you're a great guy, you're just handing over your chances for another guy who's willing to do it.
Nothing wrong with been tested...
She has to know that you can take it, so when your child is diagnosed with a horrible disease you won"t fall to bits.
Likewise men can test women in a similar way
'You don't love causelessly'
Ayn Rand...
Bro these women are so counterintuitive. They literally put obstacles just because yes
The fucked up thing is that when i'm talking to multiple woman and i'm not interested in a relationship, that's when my phone starts buzzing out of control. It's like woman want toxic, woman want men who manipulate them into liking them by making them feel insecure and their not worth your time. The second you start replying to their texts within a reasonable amount of time, when you start making them a priority in your life They pull away. I realize it's probably an issue with me, dropping everything in my life the second that i'm interested in someone, but how would you go about fixing an issue like this in the long term on a personal level so that the bandaid that was used to hook up with them lasts over the years instead of the months.
When a woman "pulls away" you should be HAPPY!!!!!
You just saved a 💩💩💩💩load in divorce proceedings.
Tropic-Al and a shitload of money
...becauss every relationship ends in marriage?
Omg this comment is more helpful then the video
Yes its time to party hard..... :)
Lol
We've all been there. When a woman pulls away, you've lost all control of the situation. If you want her back the only thing you can do is to let her go.
So I have this girl who came to my place on a first date we talked had great chemistry ended up having sex. The she stops texting me my last text was "hey what's up is everything alright?" Because I sensed she was being further away. She didn't text me back after that, should I text her back or ignore her aswell, my text would be something like > okay I'll take this as "ur better off without me" < I appreciate it if u can help
Bruno CBart noooooo don’t text her bro ignore the living shit out her and she gonna come back
Why you text after you sex? You should of waited to contact her. And should of been on a phone call after like 3 or 4 days. And only to hang out again. So you should say something funny that happened to you during those days or something interesting during the day you were with her. Then jump into meeting again. She said no you hang up, she gives any answer other than yes or ok you hang up never looks back at her.
Bruno CBart stop assuming things on your head. You don’t know what she is upto. You score on the first night. You lasted 30 or more minutes. She will contact you again enjoy your life and go around to talk to other females. Don’t put your mind into her she will feel it. Remember everyone comes back at least once could be tomorrow or 20 years later. She is not your girlfriend it’s not official yet.
@@CashMasterStackzzS all these social rules, games and bullshit manipulation tactics we have to pull in order to attract and keep women attracted really make me dislike females and the female psychology.
If she pulls away. Never ever chase her. Let her go and walk away. Believe me, the shit tests and head games will never cease. It's all manipulation and control. Find a woman that actually wants to be with you, and is honest about her feelings and is willing to be vulnerable enough to openly communicate with you like an adult. Leave the little girls for the little boys. If you're a man then get yourself a woman. Leave the little girls to play in the sandbox and their dollhouses
@Cyprain Nwadike you have just been reported. Don't ever spam me again
He spittin some real knowledge right here. Big up keep on going with this man! Give is insight in the psychology behind dating!
In the 90s, dating was about meeting someone in order to fall in love. Now it's a mindgame maze. So, is it worth my time and effort?
Ans: Nope.
Right! I’m listening to this like why we got to do all these games just to get someone to like you!
Nope. This stuff is universal. It's always been this way. I only wish I knew this stuff back on the 80s and 90s.
KPEC3arrival thank you!!! 👏🏽
KPEC3arrival we’re evolving ig
Nobody got time for games.....if she pulls away she is playing with her options....
Tar heels 215 not really bro, you understand when you have no competition. You are dating her it wasn’t oficial. To be official could be a few months from now. You was knowing her. Most woman pull away at early stage. You go and do your things they come back when you do not expect it. Patients is the key, if you really wanna love that woman you don’t assume you let her go and sometimes they come back and you start again from zero. Most woman do that.
@Superman J bruh right on the money! They want you to ask em out or chill even when they have a boyfriend. When you meet a women she'll put out the same energy you put out towards her. Fuck these games bs
If she's playing with options, she's surely a loser!
This guy's telling the truth guys. Even if you watch the videos of dating coaches like Apollonia Ponti, Kezia Noble, Chris Sixty and other dating coaches out there, you'll see that the idea is the same.
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr frank whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days
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When a woman pulls away, it’s because she has someone else in her mind, and you chasing her just makes you look pathetic in her eye.
exactly, you are the backup
5 Mistakes
1.Confessing your feelings (she’s suffocated)
2.Apologising/Explaining (never apologise or explain yourself, her attraction plummets)
3.Winning her over with a gift (the more pressure she feels from u the less attractive she’s gunna feel)
4.Matching her coldness (once a women knows she has you it’s over and you’ll never haver her)
5.The ultimatum (giving her a big box of pressure, similar to coldness. Display to a woman that you are willing to walk away)
lmao silly logic
**"appologizing"
I got stuck way back there 😂😂😂
@@joyli2632I was about to commit this epic blunder, after I confessed she became aloof, I tried to give her a gift but she insistently refuse to accept it, I was having second thoughts of approaching and apologizing to her over the incident but I decided not to because I discern I have nothing to apologize over a rather kind gesture
I'm 56 years old, I have had many, many women and married two of them. I would like to think they were my girlfriend's and my wives but in reality, it was just my turn.
I think maybe "I have had many women" is really not a decent way to phrase what was meant.
@@nightfury_5 How do you know exactly what I meant?
@@nightfury_5 Should I have said, I have been with many women,
Red Pill!!!
@@nightfury_5 we don't care, feminist. What do you know??
This video changed my life, its the best video i have ever wacthed on U tube that changed my life.
This is so wrong when it comes to the way I am!!
If I'm attracted to someone, and he's coming on so much to me. And chasing me and letting me know, he would never want to lose me, I LOVE IT!
I LOVE TO BE CHASED!
When I used to go to clubs, one night, a guy came over to me and said his friend would like to know if I would like to dance with him. He pointed out to me where he was.
I asked, why couldn't he come over and ask me this himself instead of sending you.
He said he didn't want to be rude, he didn't know how I felt and he was being extra polite. I think that sucks. I don't like extra polite. I like knowing that he must find out himself because he doesn't want to waste any time in showing his feelings.
His friend also told me that if it were him, he would have never sent someone over, he would have done it himself. He saw that I liked what he said, then he asked me to dance with him, and
I had a great time knowing that he had the balls to not let me get away. I love it!
As a girl, you’re completely right. A guy shouldn’t do these things. But usually if I start pulling away, the root cause is I find the other person isn’t someone I can see a future with. So no matter what the guy does, the result won’t change. I think guys should realize that and just move on and find someone who is attracted to them without any doubt.
What if they don't want a future and just want to be friends w benefits
Fish Canon well what if you do move on but she contacts you a few days later saying she misses you
You just put Bobby out of a job.
When a girl pulls away, there is another dude. Always another dude...its uncanny how many spares women have...
Move on..move on...lol...That's easy for wmonen to do when men are EVERYWHERE!!!
I think the main theme of this video is that when she starts to pull away, just remain normal and show your routine behavior. Show her as if nothing has happened due to her pulling away.
We've one kid with my wife. My wife cheated me with another man and she got pregnant . I feel like the world is ending on my side. I loved my family and I was 100% devoted to them . What should I do guys, I'm totally depressed 😔
If only I found this video sooner.. I’ve made 3 out of 5 mistakes Bobby, is it over for me? I really love this person..
This was the first time she pulled away, without any reason, I was so confused, emotions took over 😞
@Bobby Rio
No..fight
I'm so happy having back my ex fiance back , after being separated for 3months All thanks to mr frank whom held me to get back my ex again I will suggest y'all get help from him and it's works within 4days
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ITS MY SISTERS, COUSINS BIRTHDAY
So her cousin
Lmao
Thought the same!
@@mrnickwan510 😂🙉
@@mrnickwan510 He almost had us fooled, almost!
Tim Greaves Another good one is my refrigerator is being delivered that day 😄
When she pulls away, block her.
Stop getting attached too easily.
I rlly hope to God you're joking.
if she's pulled away, she's likely already blocked you. you got rejected. there's really no way to poutily reject her at this point. :)
Legal Fiction Natural Fact exactly. Thank u
Your statement have me 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁
I can't help am a bit needy in a relationship and the worst thing is I fall in love way too easily but I can get over a girl very very quick the whole thing I find weird to be honest how my emotions vary from been needy and have attachment issues to dropping them in a drop of a hut just like that if she does not conform to my standard
Not sure if this video deserves a thumbs up or thumbs down. The points covered make a lot of sense and seem accurate. However, this whole "She is pulling away because you made a mistake" type of talk is unacceptable. Women are no where near perfect. Most of them are awful communicators who expect men to do all the work to find out what's wrong. They can't even be honest with themselves. I lose my interest in a woman as soon as she starts testing me. It's such a turn off to see how sly and self-centred they are.
I think Zander has been pirating your stuff... This is gold!
If she pulls away
Leave her on her own
And move on you are more worthful then her
Worthful then her
@@dandythevandal7320 yap
I'm with Hamza Khan and a few other men. The exception being if you know you came on too strong. Stay busy in your life and purpose. She might call after awhile and don't chase her, slow it down. Most women will find us more attractive.
Exactly true
*Worthwhile
"testing you" what am I? game to you? if woman gonna play mind game with you. just kick her out of your life and move on. you want real mature woman. not some ego mind gamer. relationship is serious. not some sort of game. men have life and they are not gonna waste their time with their bullshit.
another reason why I am single and happy. I still feel sorry for good men who had to deal with this. I really hope you all have happy life.
Whatever.....
@@AliStrengthNfitness I swear like nigga the vid title sold u put
If she has to test, then she doesn't trust and what the HELL is she doing in the relationship? Carrying her insecurity and constantly jumping through hoops is not my idea of a happy union.
Gon, you are my kinda dude.👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Thank you brother ^^
You are the best coach I've seen so far.
I love how these guys in the video can talk so much and keep saying they're getting to the point.