@@deanryan8725 I hope that my wife will someday learn to live on her allowance, which is ample, but if she doesn't sir, that will be her problem, not mine, just as your job is your problem, just as every bum's lot in lfe is his own responsibility regardless of whom he chooses to blame. I didn't blame anyone for the loss of my legs, some Chinamaman took them from me in Korea, but I went out and achieved anyway. I can't solve your problems, sir, only you can.
“If you love your ex, set her free....if she comes back, no one loves her....set her free again....😂🤣😭.” Lmao I’m just kidding. I know a lot of us are hurting right now and wanted to make you laugh 😆. Everything will be ok. Embrace your inner alpha and live your best life!
It's true though, if the person left simply because they THOUGHT they could do better than the person they dumped its a good humbling experience for them and a wake up call they need to stop ruining relationships based off of their inflated ego
but it is true though. once people tell you they dont want you. believe them. they are only coming back now because they couldnt get someone else. it's not about you it's about their lonliness and wanting just somebody to hang onto. don't take them back. they are an ex for a reason. if it had worked out with whoever they were going for and dumping you for they would have no hesitations leaving you behind in the rearview. Always keep that thought in your head when dealing with someone who sniffs around again.
Mine completely abandoned our 2 year relationship. She claimed depression but completely abandoned communication. After 3 months of minimal contact, I told her I wasn't going to tolerate her not interacting or trying to do the work to better herself. I told her this behavior wasn't working for me and that I was going to walk away. We never spoke again, even years later it really baffles me. Point of story, her behavior to no contact showed me her priorities. She either didn't value our connection or she had more pride than love for me. Either way I "won" and am no longer investing in a woman who couldn't even bother to salvage our 2 year relationship. Stay strong fellas. Let em go. 🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️
NC 20 days. Feel much better than being with her as a friend. I was friendzone for 2 days.....then quit. Now looking forward in meeting other women. I later found out that she is a narc.....so good thing I am out with this woman. Freaking gaslighted me again when she called me for a meet up after 25 days NC. Now I have no regrets walking away, I suspected she was a narc, when she gas me again, confirmed
@@thevindictive6145 Awesome bro!! Stay strong! Remember, if she hits you up...ASSUME she wants to see you as more than a friend. Like Coah says, make a date on the spot...but not out to dinner, but to a comfy spot where yall can have lost of sweaty makeup sex
When you madly in love with your ex, engaging yourself in No Contact Stage might be very challenging. But just like Corey said, it has a big chance to work. And also use this period too to understand more the situation and yourself for the better future.
Coach, I truly had no idea how badly I was sabotaging myself until I read your book. It was like a play-by-play for EVERYTHING I was doing wrong. I continue to be just astounded at how I got IMMEDIATE results after doing the things you talk about in your book. Thank you for the coaching. It's no exaggeration that your coaching has changed my life.
Hey Corey, I'm a woman and i think your advice is spot on. its not mind-games, its just human nature and using what you know about it to get the results you want :) Love from Ireland.
I've been instinctively implementing the no contact rule since 35 years ago and also what Coach calls the Tennis Ball volley analogy and it has saved me from looking totally desperate and needy, and making a fool out of myself, so to me this should be common sense but I'm still amazed at how many people still think that chasing your ex is somehow a smart way to get them back. It will only serve to push them away further and validate why they needed to dump you.
***** That's great that you found somebody better and this is why we can't worry over getting an ex back all the time cause there's somebody out there better for us just waiting and getting back together is not always the right thing to do. Thanks man and continued success to you bro.
+Rock N hey when does the No Contact Rule and Scarcity of Value look like you don't give a shit. In a relationship at the moment but wondering if back off and apply that when's backing off when does it show I don't give a shit?
SmileyMT How long have you been in this relationship? All you really gotta do as a guy is set up one date per week and let the space away from her make her wonder about you and also dating is like a game of tennis, when you hit the ball over the net, you wait for it to be returned but you also want to never act as if your being cold towards her and get mad at her then back off and do the no contact thing, cause then she will probably feel as though you don't care and she will find someone else, depending on her emotional depth and investment in you.
No contact is great because it puts you in a position of power and never break it until she does. It helps you work on you especially if you were needy or made a decision for the betterment of your home or relationship or business. And also while continuing to date other women in dating you should always have multiple women to find a quality woman take your time.
I will moved on, I will not take an ex back, I will get something better. Not worth it ,to go back to the same bullshit.just focus on myself and enjoy live, I keep myself free drama like coach Corey Wayne said.
I can totally understand that, but I would just not consider her seriious relationship material if she did something like that (trying to trade you up for someone else)
nope- it is just my unwillingness to accept a woman who went with another man (men) on my watch, regardless of the reason. By your logic, a man should accept pretty much anything a woman does because he made mistakes (i.e. brought it on himself). So you seem to be confusing two issues here. There´s a name for a woman who does that, but I will just limit myself to just saying she is definitely not the marrying type. BTW- don´t confuse setting boundaries with "ego", that is PC Millenial chump mindset, and it will get you taken advantage of.
????? Who are you talking to? You seem to be confused (again) by confusing assertiveness and confidence with "talking tough". This, along with nonsensical babble that has nothing to do with with the issue at hand. Obviously, you are talking from the voice of (bad) experience, and I clearly hit a sore spot with you, Mr. Beta Chump. You see, what you are doing here in your driveling diatribe is called "projection". That means you just decribed yourself in your little tizzy fit as you vent your beta frustrations. . You can look that up when you dry your bitch tears. Then again, I guess I would be mad and insecure too, if I were the kind of guy who sat around making excuses for my girlfriend while she got boned by other men, and then called it "taking the high road". You make me laugh, and not in a good way. Truly pathetic. FYI- I am precisely the kind of guy that your girlfriends dump you for, or bone behind your back, or even in your face.
She'll do it again. The guy will lose frame, or she'll be approached by a man who exudes that masculine energy she craves. Such is the nature of women. He is a chump. If he had any self respect, he would have found a better replacement.
If you haven’t watched the movie “Swingers” , I suggest you do if you’re listening to Corey’s videos. It’s an eye opening film about dating and living life if you have trouble with insecurity’s. I think Corey’s book and videos are gold. His book is my Bible. Rock on Corey Wayne.
I love how he mentions the difference between a PUA, and a coach! It's so different! The PUA stuff is literally good for 1 night; Coach's material helps on a much deeper level.
Hi Coach, thanks for your info.. at first I was a bit hesitant - but since my methods were not working - i decided to try this. broke up with ma 3 yr gf few months ago, in the first 2 wks i was calling her all the time, txtng and all that... she kept rejecting me etc... then i saw this.. so i kept quite, no calling no txtn...for a whole mnth...then out of nowhere she called and asked for a date, told her i was busy that night and asked her to call again on the wkend to organise.... she did and when we met she was all over me and making all the first steps.. tables were turnt... thanks to u Coach... reading yo book atm!!
I find it so disrespectful to oneself to take your ex back after they tried things with another dude. Many people want it, sure, but I don't get why...Newer is better in this case
Ignore them keep busy, go out and hook with other girls she will be back in no time. Stop thinking about the girl all the time. Text other girls and keep at least 5 possibles. Cause women love to cancel plans.
Not all girls are the same. I've had four since I lost the one I really like. 30 days, haha she never came back after a year. The other four don't have shit on the one that I really liked.
Hahahaha that's so me..now a dutch boss sexy gorgeous lady is fallen hard for me..she's coming back to dubai to make stuffs happens..lets see how it goes..but deffo coach corey wayne..you're a damn legend! It's becoz of you, im livin the life of a dope dude..
Just got my heart broken and just purchased your book, thanks for all that you do I know I’m late to the party when it comes to your content but it’s really helping me move on and set my prioritize straight
@@alexhowley9834 actually doing a lot better now man! No contact has become more about me living my life and not getting my ex back, finally starting to feel the earth moving under me as people tend to say, I never once believed anyone when they said time would help but it’s given me clarity and eliminated the initial loss to the point where I can clearly see that this relationship is not the end all be all for me, I can and will move on and I choose to grow from this instead of crumble. Thanks for checking in man I hope you are well!❤️
@@alexhowley9834 yeah I feel that I’ve been talking to new women and met up with a few and it’s just not the same but that’s ok! Attachment is difficult to get over because it’s so natural to attach, but just like that person became a part of your life someone else will and it will be even better! Head up king
How are you now bro, take it your ex never contacted you again abs by the sounds you were okay with that, I don’t want my ex to contact me again tbh, I just want to stop feeling terrible haha
I had a similar experience with my father. He believed in “constructive criticism.” Once over a two bucket martini lunch I asked him why he never said anything supportive and encouraging to me growing up. He said that if I wasn’t doing anything wrong there was no need to say anything
your a saint bro, i've always been pretty good at attracting girls without really doing much but i'd get ungrounded when it came to sex. i did a few tweaks on my game using advice from your videos. i went from not having much action in a while to two girls chasing me one of which i'm sleeping with. an that's with me being unemployed atm an going blind until i'm able to get a surgery on my eye or eyes and driving a shitty car. i will get my employment problem situated once my surgery is done an i will support you by buying and reading your book anyway to support. no bs either much appreciated brother thank you.
I followed one of your principles to get an Ex back - the principle of telling her what it is I want (a romantic relationship only, not "friends") and walking away. I can honestly say that I feel a lot better. I feel relieved! I did not do it with the hope that she will come back. I did it for me. I did it so I can have sanity with myself, so that I can find myself again. If she contacts me, cool. If not, that's cool too. I'm already seeing another woman and I think I can comfortably say that I am moving on. Coach, thank you for your wisdom/guidance.
Coach,I love your work bro. I'm on read 5 of your book 3% man. I'm slowly reattracting a girl that I've been in a LDR with for the last year. She's moving to my country, not for me but because she loves Ireland. Our relationship will be the cement that keeps her here, thanks to your coaching. Much love.
Re: becoming an entrepreneur; bank all your money and don't spend any of it. That is your key to success. Financial stability is the answer. Moving forward is what an entrepreneur does. The future is unstable. Your financial independence allows you to make choices. You're welcome...
Headshet Remember this, it is an unattractive trait to be desperate, clingy, possessive. These are all turn offs to normal, healthy minded women and sounds like you did what so many guys have done and then she's feeling locked down and when she told you " Let me chase you let me come to you and if im gonna come and if i feel like it im gonna contact u" is very important for you to know about her. Since you two have been together for over a year now and she wants some space, your relationship with her has reached a burn out phase and now you both need time apart to recharge your energy. You need to back away, relax and don't panic thinking it's totally over and when she contacts you again, stay away from any topic of getting back together and do not express any feelings towards her at that time, just say, '' Hey, great to hear from you, how are you doing?" and engage in a little small talk for a few minutes just to see what her mood is and where her head is at. Coach teaches guys to say '' Hey great to hear from you, when are you free to get together?" But for me personally, I engage in some prep talk for a few minutes before I make a fool out of myself and start asking her out right away and look too anxious to see her again but that's just me. You really will just have to be patient until she reaches out again because too many couples try to spend too much time together in the beginning, then over time, the routine sets in, then boredom and the burn out. She will test you right now and if you do this right, she will be the one reaching out to you and things will feel more natural like that. If you happen to see her at the gym, don't be rude or anything but wait til she speaks to you first, then speak and go on, don't try to use that as a gateway to try to talk to her. She must earn you back. See how this works, this is the only way you can go, Watch Corey's video's also. They will help you tons and you can read his book on his website for free unless you want to purchase it. Good luck.
Cory, I am new to your channel and have watched about 20 of your videos so far. I have made all the mistakes that have led to my recent breakup. Over pursuing and coming on too strong. Causing her to feel smothered and pull away - In turn leading to my anxiety, anger and resentment. Causing her to become emotionally exhausted and dumping me. I wish I knew about the stuff that you teach before I met her, as I really liked this woman and had quite high hopes for us as a couple. There was a really high level of interest and chemistry but I blew it. I bought your book today (audio) and I’m gonna start it right now. I never want to fuck up like this ever again. My upbringing wasn’t great, like yours, so I have a lot of shit to unlearn and I’m really motivated to learn the new stuff too. Thanks for making me wipe my tears and feel like a stronger man. It is my birthright!
Corey - starting from around 19:00 - that personal life discussion - is one of the most insightful observations I have heard in decades. More of that in the world would make this world better in so many ways. Kudos & then some.
Hello Coach. I am new to your videos, but I found your info about dysfunctional families, and other relationships that are disrespectful is what caught my attention. I am a mother and much older than most of your subscribers, and I do find dating advice helpful and interesting, I'd love to see more of the family and friends advice. Either way, I am enjoying your talks. Thanks!
You're a genius. I followed what you've said not to contact her and if she tried to reach out ask her out. It did work. Did not text or called. Then when she reached out. í told her that we could talk it over dinner. She agreed
What a mindblowing quote! I dig it man! using the power of divinity in oneself to make relationships, dates, crushes, business, etc, as they trully are: fun exercises you're creating and learning with!
Going 30 Days starting today. The last day of no contact will be my birthday. Hope she contacts me before then. But if I don't hear anything before then or on my birthday. I take that as she's done. Wish me luck
+Coach Corey Wayne damnnn ok I'm game. Is it just direct contact. Cause she will still like and comment on my social media posts I don't reply to her. But I don't necessarily want to block her yet. Is that ok to let her see that stuff. Or should I try my best to erase all things she can see of me.
My 30 day no contact started today. I havnt done it for any reason other than I need a break!!! I feel emotionally drained. My partner is very intense, passionate, handsome and very loving. There are things I don't like and feel that a break would allow both of us to think for ourselves. I have no intentions other than working on myself. I have no idea what the outcome will be I just hope we can be mature enough at the end of it to make better decisions 🙂. I'm actually looking forward to the challenge 💪 good luck all x
Serisously it works people 8 months down the line i walked away not a crumb left not a fart in the wind nothing then boom a message my heart was broke but i fixed myself through self work etc i will never go back at all. Hold your head held high and remember you are amazing and deserve nothing but the best
Did she say she needed to work on herself? My ex had a lot of past relationship trauma she needs therapy for real. I told her I would work thru this with her, but she said I don’t feel worthy of love, emotional damage? It’s been only one month. I’m staying no contact and trying to date new women.
Scarcity creates value aka supply and demand, in a nutshell at least. Know your worth and let them show you if they value you as much as you deserve. This is solid gold. Dating doesn’t always work out, keep this in mind. There are so many people who will value and appreciate you for you. Just stay calm, cool and collected and they will eventually prove themselves to you.
Put yourself in positions where you're meeting multiple women. Get hobbies and try and surround yourself with upto 15 or so a week. That way you give yourself options.
66kaisersoza this is key you don’t miss ONE girl because you see that women love you faults and all. These women will chase you when your “girl” wants to play head games and want you to chase her. Hell NO!
Corey, your book is amazing! I've bought it and I'm reading it for the second time (It's hard to be fast because english is not my first language) but for now I've understood most of the mistake i've made in my relationships. Thanks a lot for your work.
Coach, I stumbled across all your vids, bought your book and am halfway through, what an enlightening experience so far. I have watched probably 50 or so vids and I have always thought of myself as an alfa, not the best looking guy but charismatic and driven. My ex and I of 3 years just broke up and what a bitch I turned into. I did everything wrong, calling, pleading, begging, writing love letter, all the stupid shit I should have never done. I wish I would have found you and your vids and book earlier and cut and run, walked away and not looked back. Only redeeming quality for me in this was I sent a bunch of whiny messages to her and her response she sent back told me everything I needed to know about her narcissistic, manipulative, sociopathic behavior and mentality and I turned my back and walked away. I wish I would have found you earlier but this was a learning experience. Thx dude, I have the same humor, style of talking as you do...... I would love to buy you a beer, thx for opening my eyes to shit I never knew.
Coach Corey, this video came at the perfect time. I almost surrendered my self control and texted her, last night. I want to write to you a detailed letter. I want to share my story with you. When I am able to contribute to your cause via PayPal, I will send you the letter. I will pay you for your time to read it. I'm a disabled vet and I am starting my life over. Your coaching has kept my morale up, or at times, not down. Thank you, again.
Never contacted her. Totally moved on and very happy. Stay in your power. Sit in your feelings. Learning takes place on a somatic level when you do that. NO CONTACT WORKS!
Cory, My name is Damian Jelks. Literally this morning (1:20am after I had gotten home from work), I had came across your “Proper Use Of the No Contact Rule” by accident. I saw your video, and I must say I was really impressed by your video. I had woken up this morning and I just couldn’t not get some rest, and go through out my day without emailing you my situation. So here is my situation: I had just recently February 7, 2017 had broken up with my ex girlfriend, after a 4 1/2 year relationship. My ex and I are the same age; which is 44 years of age. We both have no kids, and have never been married. We both had broken up( had taken a 6 month break), from one another before in the past. This time around though, we both had made a mutual decision. To be quite honest with you, it was mostly on her part. Part of me (in my mind), had disagreed with us parting ways, however, I had went along with it. During our conversation (on February 7, 2014), we had agreed to be friends(even though she somewhat did not agree with). We both also agreed to stay FB friends as well. After February 7, I had spoken with her (via FT), for the next 2 days, and she had told me that she can no longer FT me again, and that she only wants to text me. February 9, 2017 was the last time I had communicated with her. 3 days after our decision to stay FB friends, I had “blocked” her from FB; as well as “blocked” her from Instagram. I had also put away all of my photos of her, and locked it away in a storage. I was contacted by one of her nephews(Jonathan), and he had told me that she was depressed, and was playing it off to her family members that she was content with breaking up with me, and made it seem like I was chasing after her(even though I was the one that had “blocked” her). For the past two weeks, I have been absolutely feeling miserable and wanting the desire to go back to my ex. I have been going to therapy(and counseling), for sessions on getting over my ex(since our break up), but it seems to just not be working. I find myself not being able to get over her. My gut feeling is NOT aligned with me being without her in my life. I want her back, but now that I had “Blocked” her from FB, I find myself not knowing what to do. I had saw your video “Proper Use Of The No Contact Rule”, and saw that he had mentioned “Scarcity with a woman, causes your value to go up”. However, if I had “blocked” her from FB, how to I make an entrance (slowly) back into to her life? Her birthday 45th birthday. is coming up (April 28, 2017) was going to mail her a birthday card, to try and break the ice. Until then, what other way should I do in order to slowly come back into her life? March 9th will be one month after our break up. Should I attempt to add her back as a FB friend after March 9th. I don’t know how to approach this, and any advice or suggestions would be great for me. Thank you for your time, and definitely looking forward to hearing back from you. With Respect, Damian Jelks
+DuKeEst , well so far she only contact me for financial issues, and i got the divorce papers ready in 3 more weeks. She already erase my fotos on instagram, and also delete me from Facebook but still has my photos there. So is time to move in and not look back.
+ex in the city , well i still have my days, but I'm doing good, it's been 4 weeks already, and she just call for financial issues only, but lately she was using that to start an conversation, but I rapidly diffuse the conversation, we are married and going tru a separation, i have the property agreement ready, and she is whiling to sign that, but last time se call, and I touch the separation papers, she answered that she don't want to talk about that, is funny cause a few weeks ago, she was willing to sign and her tone was very aggressive and very strong about that subject. But funny, after 4 weeks on NC, her tone was very calm, and is the tone of voice that she used when i was deployed and she miss me a lot. But i remain strong, and willing to finish this. She is being going out with her best friend(female) and i star going out with my squad, and planing going in 3 weeks to florida and start the process and give her the remaining of her stuff. She started working in her old job
+gundany she lied in her interview, she said that she failed to adapt to the military life and we are giving us a time, thats a whole BS, but my old platoon sgt is the director of that place, and he call me and explained everything, i just told him, give her the job, for me is good, no alimony payments after the divorce. But it was hard, still my days but I bought the book and already read it 4 times. Thanks for asking
After watching this video I have the most upmost respect for you. I wasn't really sure what you were prior to this but I know that you know what you are talking about and a damn good coach. But now I realize that you are much more and your a life coach and thank you for making it clear.
Hey Coach Corey, I just ordered your book man..I can't wait for it to arrive. I got a date this Saturday, girl has gone not contacted me after I texted her...so I'm going no contact till she reaches out. Thanks man, I just started my journey thanks to you. Cheers from Australia.🇦🇺👍
Focusing on yourself really works. The past half year or so I've taken a bit of a break from women and worked on myself and in the past 3 weeks or so my inbox has been gradually filling up with women I haven't heard from in several months.
I went no contact immediately after she broke up with me because she admitted she started dating someone else. It's one full month of no contact. She seems not to care. She must be busy hooking up with the new dude... It's sucks a lot.
@@tmgtrz she actually reached out a couple of months later but, after a while ghosted me... 🤦♂️ She made me go through some horrible time for six months. Now I feel better but, at times, I still think about her.
I did exactly what I shouldn't have done, I read the book 2 times last summer and watched a lot of videos...got my ex to come back and leave the douchebag she was with...then I stopped using the skills I learned and went back to pursuing when she pulled back and now she's indecisive about us...I started reading the book again (I'm now at 6 times and at least a hundred videos) and went into no contact, I'm now at 5 days without any form of contact with her and I feel fucking great! it's like whatever if she comes back she does and if she doesn't then fuck it...it's her loss! all I can do is keep going through my life and become a better man for myself! you're the best coach!!!!
GreenEYESfromOHIO I totally failed loll she met another guy in july she actually told me 3 days after i wrote this comment lolll She's been with him ever since... so after a shitty summer of heartbreak i met a girl in September and we dated for about a month then behold : my ex learned about it and she freaked out! she started calling me and we met a few times at her place but didn't hook up because we were both with someone at the time. My ex is still saying to this day that we're meant to be and we'll be together eventually but that she can't leave her boyfriend now because he helped her out with the repairs and renovations of the house she bought, her father offered him a job at his cie and to top that shit his father (of the boyfriend) died in early December this month. i can apply the coach's teaching on any woman i don't care about, but with my ex of 6 years i totally lose it...i actually left the other girl because i thought she would come back right away... so we still talk for now and she keeps telling me we're soul mates but i don't pursue anymore...well more like 65% of the time i don't LOL
@GrimangelX4 Since she has you on social media, after 15 days try to post pics of yourself hanging out with friends and stuf, maybe hit the gym post workout and stuff, work on urself and stay NC, that's the only way u have a chance, nothing else unfortunately.
Going no contact is about getting focused on YOU. Get focused on your career, your purpose and what makes you happy. Almost every ex of mine has come back.
Hey coach, can you make a video that explains steps to remain strong during this times. I know and I know everyone else can. But sometimes a video like that is all we need
I started following Corey when you had about 3k subscribers, holy crap can't believe you're almost ar 100k, actually i can believe that haha, but crazy how time flies.
Lol, ive just come out of a weird relationship (having my head messed with), been really down but this guy has a great voice and talks to you like a personal friend, including his swearing love it!
I think this is a game , if the other persons doesn't want to be with you then move on, it was not meant to be ...just accept the facts ..listen to ur brain not ur heart.
Mariosquared the guy tried and was rejected. at that point, only your friend could have fixed the situation. she didn't. she was deeply hurt and her ego inflated and exploded when he came back.
I just started following not to long ago, I already love you man !!! Im going to buy and read this book 20 times to master the relationship with my wife.
I am sorry about your past it sounds like you had a hard time Coach Corey but you have done soo well.. love your videos!! I want to purchase your books
Hey Coach. After 3 weeks of no contact today she phoned me with Whatsapp. I missed the call so I sent her a message. Did you call? She replied that she pushed the wrong button. Hahaha of course not. I told her that I missed her. And she replied that she does not want to start a relationship with me anymore, because of what happened. We were on Whatsapp for more than 2 hours. She told me that she missed me too. Later she accepted my apologies. I know I made a few mistakes and did not follow your advice but we are in contact again. She lives in another country far away so it will take time before I might see her again. But now I know the no-contact rule works! Thank you very much. And greetings from Amsterdam.
No contact isn’t about hoping they will come back, it’s about you moving on and your mental and dignity.
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Comment of the year ... Damn sure
This caught me off guard 😂
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@@deanryan8725 I hope that my wife will someday learn to live on her allowance, which is ample, but if she doesn't sir, that will be her problem, not mine, just as your job is your problem, just as every bum's lot in lfe is his own responsibility regardless of whom he chooses to blame. I didn't blame anyone for the loss of my legs, some Chinamaman took them from me in Korea, but I went out and achieved anyway. I can't solve your problems, sir, only you can.
I knew I wasn’t the only one who thought he looked like thanos 😂. They modeled thanos after him!
“If you love your ex, set her free....if she comes back, no one loves her....set her free again....😂🤣😭.” Lmao I’m just kidding. I know a lot of us are hurting right now and wanted to make you laugh 😆. Everything will be ok. Embrace your inner alpha and live your best life!
Haha!
This is the truth 👍🏻
It's true though, if the person left simply because they THOUGHT they could do better than the person they dumped its a good humbling experience for them and a wake up call they need to stop ruining relationships based off of their inflated ego
LOVE IT 😂😂
but it is true though. once people tell you they dont want you. believe them. they are only coming back now because they couldnt get someone else. it's not about you it's about their lonliness and wanting just somebody to hang onto. don't take them back. they are an ex for a reason. if it had worked out with whoever they were going for and dumping you for they would have no hesitations leaving you behind in the rearview. Always keep that thought in your head when dealing with someone who sniffs around again.
Mine completely abandoned our 2 year relationship. She claimed depression but completely abandoned communication. After 3 months of minimal contact, I told her I wasn't going to tolerate her not interacting or trying to do the work to better herself. I told her this behavior wasn't working for me and that I was going to walk away.
We never spoke again, even years later it really baffles me.
Point of story, her behavior to no contact showed me her priorities.
She either didn't value our connection or she had more pride than love for me.
Either way I "won" and am no longer investing in a woman who couldn't even bother to salvage our 2 year relationship.
Stay strong fellas. Let em go. 🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️🚶♂️
It’s heartbreaking but necessary. Good luck pal
No contact day 12 💪🏽
JOKEYJOKE6699 let it be. Just never go back. Forget her.
Foolish boy! I'm on 2 years. Believe it or not she emailed me giving me her new number and wanting to talk again
NC 20 days. Feel much better than being with her as a friend. I was friendzone for 2 days.....then quit. Now looking forward in meeting other women. I later found out that she is a narc.....so good thing I am out with this woman.
Freaking gaslighted me again when she called me for a meet up after 25 days NC. Now I have no regrets walking away, I suspected she was a narc, when she gas me again, confirmed
@@thevindictive6145 Awesome bro!! Stay strong! Remember, if she hits you up...ASSUME she wants to see you as more than a friend. Like Coah says, make a date on the spot...but not out to dinner, but to a comfy spot where yall can have lost of sweaty makeup sex
JOKEYJOKE6699 if you’re counting you’re not ahead she is in your head
When you madly in love with your ex, engaging yourself in No Contact Stage might be very challenging. But just like Corey said, it has a big chance to work. And also use this period too to understand more the situation and yourself for the better future.
Use that time to exercise, travel, make businesses, make new friends, etc…
Coach, I truly had no idea how badly I was sabotaging myself until I read your book. It was like a play-by-play for EVERYTHING I was doing wrong. I continue to be just astounded at how I got IMMEDIATE results after doing the things you talk about in your book. Thank you for the coaching. It's no exaggeration that your coaching has changed my life.
I just ordered the book myself waiting for it to arrive in mail.
Hey Corey, I'm a woman and i think your advice is spot on. its not mind-games, its just human nature and using what you know about it to get the results you want :) Love from Ireland.
"god damn it, i wished i listened to the shaved head motherf**ker" LOL!
ahahahaha
I've been instinctively implementing the no contact rule since 35 years ago and also what Coach calls the Tennis Ball volley analogy and it has saved me from looking totally desperate and needy, and making a fool out of myself, so to me this should be common sense but I'm still amazed at how many people still think that chasing your ex is somehow a smart way to get them back. It will only serve to push them away further and validate why they needed to dump you.
*****
It's funny but sometimes we have to make our self's scarce to be valued .
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That's great that you found somebody better and this is why we can't worry over getting an ex back all the time cause there's somebody out there better for us just waiting and getting back together is not always the right thing to do. Thanks man and continued success to you bro.
+Rock N hey when does the No Contact Rule and Scarcity of Value look like you don't give a shit. In a relationship at the moment but wondering if back off and apply that when's backing off when does it show I don't give a shit?
SmileyMT
How long have you been in this relationship? All you really gotta do as a guy is set up one date per week and let the space away from her make her wonder about you and also dating is like a game of tennis, when you hit the ball over the net, you wait for it to be returned but you also want to never act as if your being cold towards her and get mad at her then back off and do the no contact thing, cause then she will probably feel as though you don't care and she will find someone else, depending on her emotional depth and investment in you.
+Rock N Been in this relationship for a year.
No contact is great because it puts you in a position of power and never break it until she does. It helps you work on you especially if you were needy or made a decision for the betterment of your home or relationship or business. And also while continuing to date other women in dating you should always have multiple women to find a quality woman take your time.
I will moved on, I will not take an ex back, I will get something better. Not worth it ,to go back to the same bullshit.just focus on myself and enjoy live, I keep myself free drama like coach Corey Wayne said.
Hahahaha i was on day 13 of the no conact rule, i was just about to give in and text her but she texted me first!
You're the boss Corey
Caprifreak what ended up happening? 😀
@@chrisallday1 they never answer back to you when we ask how it went I've noticed!!
@@stephenherrington3549 exactly that's im gonna turn the tables gonna leave a comment and when someone asks me how it goes. I respond.
@@morenomacdonald8427 Good lad
No contact day 2000
Just hold on a bit longer... She'll be back any day lol
2309 ;)
No contact day 9001
Lmao
Dawg that’s like 5 years give up 😂
Coach, you have no idea how many times I’ve turned to your videos in my worst situations and it gave me direction on how to progress forward.
A guy willing to take back a girl who originally left him for another guy? That is the true definition of a chump.
True, but almost every girl can be taught to, and more often than not, better than the last one.
I can totally understand that, but I would just not consider her seriious relationship material if she did something like that (trying to trade you up for someone else)
nope- it is just my unwillingness to accept a woman who went with another man (men) on my watch, regardless of the reason. By your logic, a man should accept pretty much anything a woman does because he made mistakes (i.e. brought it on himself). So you seem to be confusing two issues here.
There´s a name for a woman who does that, but I will just limit myself to just saying she is definitely not the marrying type.
BTW- don´t confuse setting boundaries with "ego", that is PC Millenial chump mindset, and it will get you taken advantage of.
????? Who are you talking to? You seem to be confused (again) by confusing assertiveness and confidence with "talking tough". This, along with nonsensical babble that has nothing to do with with the issue at hand. Obviously, you are talking from the voice of (bad) experience, and I clearly hit a sore spot with you, Mr. Beta Chump. You see, what you are doing here in your driveling diatribe is called "projection". That means you just decribed yourself in your little tizzy fit as you vent your beta frustrations. . You can look that up when you dry your bitch tears.
Then again, I guess I would be mad and insecure too, if I were the kind of guy who sat around making excuses for my girlfriend while she got boned by other men, and then called it "taking the high road". You make me laugh, and not in a good way. Truly pathetic.
FYI- I am precisely the kind of guy that your girlfriends dump you for, or bone behind your back, or even in your face.
She'll do it again. The guy will lose frame, or she'll be approached by a man who exudes that masculine energy she craves. Such is the nature of women. He is a chump. If he had any self respect, he would have found a better replacement.
If you haven’t watched the movie “Swingers” , I suggest you do if you’re listening to Corey’s videos. It’s an eye opening film about dating and living life if you have trouble with insecurity’s. I think Corey’s book and videos are gold. His book is my Bible. Rock on Corey Wayne.
I love how he mentions the difference between a PUA, and a coach! It's so different! The PUA stuff is literally good for 1 night; Coach's material helps on a much deeper level.
Hi Coach,
thanks for your info.. at first I was a bit hesitant - but since my methods were not working - i decided to try this.
broke up with ma 3 yr gf few months ago, in the first 2 wks i was calling her all the time, txtng and all that... she kept rejecting me etc... then i saw this..
so i kept quite, no calling no txtn...for a whole mnth...then out of nowhere she called and asked for a date, told her i was busy that night and asked her to call again on the wkend to organise.... she did and when we met she was all over me and making all the first steps..
tables were turnt...
thanks to u Coach... reading yo book atm!!
Les Brown said when the student is ready the teacher will appear.
When the student is truly ready the teacher will disappear
I find it so disrespectful to oneself to take your ex back after they tried things with another dude. Many people want it, sure, but I don't get why...Newer is better in this case
Ignore them keep busy, go out and hook with other girls she will be back in no time. Stop thinking about the girl all the time. Text other girls and keep at least 5 possibles. Cause women love to cancel plans.
macekekas honestly this actually is the best advice it helps so much to keep your options open and not be needy
Yep yep
As a long time player this is key. She needs to work to keep my interest.
Not all girls are the same. I've had four since I lost the one I really like. 30 days, haha she never came back after a year. The other four don't have shit on the one that I really liked.
Hahahaha that's so me..now a dutch boss sexy gorgeous lady is fallen hard for me..she's coming back to dubai to make stuffs happens..lets see how it goes..but deffo coach corey wayne..you're a damn legend! It's becoz of you, im livin the life of a dope dude..
Just got my heart broken and just purchased your book, thanks for all that you do I know I’m late to the party when it comes to your content but it’s really helping me move on and set my prioritize straight
@@alexhowley9834 actually doing a lot better now man! No contact has become more about me living my life and not getting my ex back, finally starting to feel the earth moving under me as people tend to say, I never once believed anyone when they said time would help but it’s given me clarity and eliminated the initial loss to the point where I can clearly see that this relationship is not the end all be all for me, I can and will move on and I choose to grow from this instead of crumble. Thanks for checking in man I hope you are well!❤️
@@alexhowley9834 yeah I feel that I’ve been talking to new women and met up with a few and it’s just not the same but that’s ok! Attachment is difficult to get over because it’s so natural to attach, but just like that person became a part of your life someone else will and it will be even better! Head up king
You’re both good doods. ✌🏻
@@gitsome7118 appreciate you man hope all is well with you guys 🤙🤙
How are you now bro, take it your ex never contacted you again abs by the sounds you were okay with that, I don’t want my ex to contact me again tbh, I just want to stop feeling terrible haha
I had a similar experience with my father. He believed in “constructive criticism.” Once over a two bucket martini lunch I asked him why he never said anything supportive and encouraging to me growing up. He said that if I wasn’t doing anything wrong there was no need to say anything
The intro is exactly what the purpose is. Stay the course. It is in all of us!
I'm a master at putting things behind me.
Once I'm gone, I'm gone.
Don't chase em, replace em!!
I read your book 15 times and this guy is spot on thanks Corey!
Corey's a great guy, for sure - and his teachings should become part of every school's curriculum.
Corey knows what he's talking about. I share his book with my friends.. Thanks man.
your a saint bro, i've always been pretty good at attracting girls without really doing much but i'd get ungrounded when it came to sex. i did a few tweaks on my game using advice from your videos. i went from not having much action in a while to two girls chasing me one of which i'm sleeping with. an that's with me being unemployed atm an going blind until i'm able to get a surgery on my eye or eyes and driving a shitty car. i will get my employment problem situated once my surgery is done an i will support you by buying and reading your book anyway to support. no bs either much appreciated brother thank you.
Thank you. I hug my sons every day and tell them I love them. I didn't even know how important it is.
Just bought the 3% man on Kindle. I am 18 almost 19 years of age. Starting early! Need to read just in case I am doing something wrong!
Update?
Yo how are you doing now ??? Did this book work ?
I followed one of your principles to get an Ex back - the principle of telling her what it is I want (a romantic relationship only, not "friends") and walking away. I can honestly say that I feel a lot better. I feel relieved! I did not do it with the hope that she will come back. I did it for me. I did it so I can have sanity with myself, so that I can find myself again. If she contacts me, cool. If not, that's cool too. I'm already seeing another woman and I think I can comfortably say that I am moving on. Coach, thank you for your wisdom/guidance.
Coach,I love your work bro. I'm on read 5 of your book 3% man. I'm slowly reattracting a girl that I've been in a LDR with for the last year. She's moving to my country, not for me but because she loves Ireland. Our relationship will be the cement that keeps her here, thanks to your coaching. Much love.
A friend I started dating told me she feels like she's in a a dream, I told her that it's because I'm intoxicating
That's awesome, I like that.
Re: becoming an entrepreneur; bank all your money and don't spend any of it. That is your key to success. Financial stability is the answer. Moving forward is what an entrepreneur does. The future is unstable. Your financial independence allows you to make choices. You're welcome...
Kevin Davis - Super response and one most guys don’t think about.
2 book reads. 8 more to go
thank you.
it's hard to think how things have to go so wrong before we can make them right
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Coach I noticed you're about to hit the 100 K subscriber mark, congratulations and wishing you many more years and subscribers ahead.
+Rock N Thanks man
Coach Corey Wayne
You're welcome and thank you for all that you do Coach.
Headshet
Thank you, tell me what happened?
Headshet
Remember this, it is an unattractive trait to be desperate, clingy, possessive. These are all turn offs to normal, healthy minded women and sounds like you did what so many guys have done and then she's feeling locked down and when she told you " Let me chase you let me come to you and if im gonna come and if i feel like it im gonna contact u" is very important for you to know about her.
Since you two have been together for over a year now and she wants some space, your relationship with her has reached a burn out phase and now you both need time apart to recharge your energy. You need to back away, relax and don't panic thinking it's totally over and when she contacts you again, stay away from any topic of getting back together and do not express any feelings towards her at that time, just say, '' Hey, great to hear from you, how are you doing?" and engage in a little small talk for a few minutes just to see what her mood is and where her head is at. Coach teaches guys to say '' Hey great to hear from you, when are you free to get together?" But for me personally, I engage in some prep talk for a few minutes before I make a fool out of myself and start asking her out right away and look too anxious to see her again but that's just me.
You really will just have to be patient until she reaches out again because too many couples try to spend too much time together in the beginning, then over time, the routine sets in, then boredom and the burn out. She will test you right now and if you do this right, she will be the one reaching out to you and things will feel more natural like that. If you happen to see her at the gym, don't be rude or anything but wait til she speaks to you first, then speak and go on, don't try to use that as a gateway to try to talk to her. She must earn you back. See how this works, this is the only way you can go, Watch Corey's video's also. They will help you tons and you can read his book on his website for free unless you want to purchase it. Good luck.
Headshet
Great, I hope it helps and hope you will still seek out more knowledge cause that's what I did. :)
Cory, I am new to your channel and have watched about 20 of your videos so far. I have made all the mistakes that have led to my recent breakup. Over pursuing and coming on too strong. Causing her to feel smothered and pull away - In turn leading to my anxiety, anger and resentment. Causing her to become emotionally exhausted and dumping me. I wish I knew about the stuff that you teach before I met her, as I really liked this woman and had quite high hopes for us as a couple. There was a really high level of interest and chemistry but I blew it. I bought your book today (audio) and I’m gonna start it right now. I never want to fuck up like this ever again. My upbringing wasn’t great, like yours, so I have a lot of shit to unlearn and I’m really motivated to learn the new stuff too. Thanks for making me wipe my tears and feel like a stronger man. It is my birthright!
LOL his quote "Either way you FUCKING WIN! Good stuff. :)
David Aguero 🔥🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Either way!!!
Corey - starting from around 19:00 - that personal life discussion - is one of the most insightful observations I have heard in decades. More of that in the world would make this world better in so many ways.
Kudos & then some.
Hello Coach. I am new to your videos, but I found your info about dysfunctional families, and other relationships that are disrespectful is what caught my attention. I am a mother and much older than most of your subscribers, and I do find dating advice helpful and interesting, I'd love to see more of the family and friends advice. Either way, I am enjoying your talks. Thanks!
You're a genius. I followed what you've said not to contact her and if she tried to reach out ask her out. It did work. Did not text or called. Then when she reached out. í told her that we could talk it over dinner. She agreed
What a mindblowing quote! I dig it man! using the power of divinity in oneself to make relationships, dates, crushes, business, etc, as they trully are: fun exercises you're creating and learning with!
Excited for the audio book to come out! I like the quality over quantity videos you've been making, Corey! Keep up the amazing work!
you changed my life man i hope things getting better every time. You don't get what you deserve in life but what you negotiate for
Going 30 Days starting today. The last day of no contact will be my birthday. Hope she contacts me before then. But if I don't hear anything before then or on my birthday. I take that as she's done. Wish me luck
+ZaCKariah No contact means no contact ever again for any reason. It means unless they reach out to you first, you will never speak again.
+Coach Corey Wayne damnnn ok I'm game. Is it just direct contact. Cause she will still like and comment on my social media posts I don't reply to her. But I don't necessarily want to block her yet. Is that ok to let her see that stuff. Or should I try my best to erase all things she can see of me.
+ZaCKariah Did she contact you?
+Troy Carpenter yes, and currently texting her:)
Any updates? Well done though
Corey, that is my favorite quote in any of your videos.
My 30 day no contact started today. I havnt done it for any reason other than I need a break!!! I feel emotionally drained. My partner is very intense, passionate, handsome and very loving. There are things I don't like and feel that a break would allow both of us to think for ourselves. I have no intentions other than working on myself. I have no idea what the outcome will be I just hope we can be mature enough at the end of it to make better decisions 🙂. I'm actually looking forward to the challenge 💪 good luck all x
How did this go?
You are the nicest most laid back, foul mouthed man, I have ever met
I am so happy I stumbled onto this channel. Your insights are spot on. I'm improving my life. Thank you buying your book today!!
This video is pure genius
Serisously it works people 8 months down the line i walked away not a crumb left not a fart in the wind nothing then boom a message my heart was broke but i fixed myself through self work etc i will never go back at all. Hold your head held high and remember you are amazing and deserve nothing but the best
Did she say she needed to work on herself? My ex had a lot of past relationship trauma she needs therapy for real. I told her I would work thru this with her, but she said I don’t feel worthy of love, emotional damage? It’s been only one month. I’m staying no contact and trying to date new women.
That’s something that’s highly respected that you never gave up & kept moving forward
I planned on going 21 days but he called by day 12, we are back together
Hahahahaha
Scarcity creates value aka supply and demand, in a nutshell at least. Know your worth and let them show you if they value you as much as you deserve. This is solid gold. Dating doesn’t always work out, keep this in mind. There are so many people who will value and appreciate you for you. Just stay calm, cool and collected and they will eventually prove themselves to you.
Put yourself in positions where you're meeting multiple women.
Get hobbies and try and surround yourself with upto 15 or so a week.
That way you give yourself options.
66kaisersoza this is key you don’t miss ONE girl because you see that women love you faults and all. These women will chase you when your “girl” wants to play head games and want you to chase her. Hell NO!
Sounds like your family is like mine... no affection growing up... no idea how to show they care. I'm just happy I learned that later on in life.
Love your work Corey!on my sixth read of your book so far.will get to the 10-15 times in no time.keep up the amazing work👍🏻
this guy is a legend
Corey, your book is amazing! I've bought it and I'm reading it for the second time (It's hard to be fast because english is not my first language) but for now I've understood most of the mistake i've made in my relationships. Thanks a lot for your work.
Coach, I stumbled across all your vids, bought your book and am halfway through, what an enlightening experience so far. I have watched probably 50 or so vids and I have always thought of myself as an alfa, not the best looking guy but charismatic and driven. My ex and I of 3 years just broke up and what a bitch I turned into. I did everything wrong, calling, pleading, begging, writing love letter, all the stupid shit I should have never done. I wish I would have found you and your vids and book earlier and cut and run, walked away and not looked back. Only redeeming quality for me in this was I sent a bunch of whiny messages to her and her response she sent back told me everything I needed to know about her narcissistic, manipulative, sociopathic behavior and mentality and I turned my back and walked away. I wish I would have found you earlier but this was a learning experience. Thx dude, I have the same humor, style of talking as you do...... I would love to buy you a beer, thx for opening my eyes to shit I never knew.
Coach Corey, this video came at the perfect time. I almost surrendered my self control and texted her, last night. I want to write to you a detailed letter. I want to share my story with you. When I am able to contribute to your cause via PayPal, I will send you the letter. I will pay you for your time to read it. I'm a disabled vet and I am starting my life over. Your coaching has kept my morale up, or at times, not down. Thank you, again.
Somebody should note this. Amazing stuff please let us know how your getting on.
Any update?
Never contacted her. Totally moved on and very happy. Stay in your power. Sit in your feelings. Learning takes place on a somatic level when you do that. NO CONTACT WORKS!
@@RmasterD im so happy to read this. Looking back at my situation years later is joyous. She wasn't worth the effort and ended up with a loser.
Cory,
My name is Damian Jelks. Literally this morning (1:20am after I had
gotten home from work), I had came across your “Proper Use Of the No
Contact Rule” by accident. I saw your video, and I must say I was really
impressed by your video. I had woken up this morning and I just
couldn’t not get some rest, and go through out my day without emailing
you my situation. So here is my situation:
I had just recently February 7, 2017 had broken up with my ex
girlfriend, after a 4 1/2 year relationship. My ex and I are the same
age; which is 44 years of age. We both have no kids, and have never been
married. We both had broken up( had taken a 6 month break), from one
another before in the past. This time around though, we both had made a
mutual decision. To be quite honest with you, it was mostly on her part.
Part of me (in my mind), had disagreed with us parting ways, however, I
had went along with it.
During our conversation (on February 7, 2014), we had agreed to be
friends(even though she somewhat did not agree with). We both also
agreed to stay FB friends as well. After February 7, I had spoken with
her (via FT), for the next 2 days, and she had told me that she can no
longer FT me again, and that she only wants to text me. February 9, 2017
was the last time I had communicated with her. 3 days after our
decision to stay FB friends, I had “blocked” her from FB; as well as
“blocked” her from Instagram. I had also put away all of my photos of
her, and locked it away in a storage.
I was contacted by one of her nephews(Jonathan), and he had told
me that she was depressed, and was playing it off to her family members
that she was content with breaking up with me, and made it seem like I
was chasing after her(even though I was the one that had “blocked” her).
For the past two weeks, I have been absolutely feeling miserable
and wanting the desire to go back to my ex. I have been going to
therapy(and counseling), for sessions on getting over my ex(since our
break up), but it seems to just not be working. I find myself not being
able to get over her. My gut feeling is NOT aligned with me being
without her in my life. I want her back, but now that I had “Blocked”
her from FB, I find myself not knowing what to do.
I had saw your video “Proper Use Of The No Contact Rule”, and saw
that he had mentioned “Scarcity with a woman, causes your value to go
up”. However, if I had “blocked” her from FB, how to I make an entrance
(slowly) back into to her life?
Her birthday 45th birthday. is coming up (April 28, 2017) was going
to mail her a birthday card, to try and break the ice. Until then, what
other way should I do in order to slowly come back into her life? March
9th will be one month after our break up. Should I attempt to add her
back as a FB friend after March 9th.
I don’t know how to approach this, and any advice or suggestions
would be great for me. Thank you for your time, and definitely looking
forward to hearing back from you.
With Respect,
Damian Jelks
"We here puttin' 'em to sleep. If you want a relationship take yo ass over to the Corey Wayne channel"
🤣🤣 this sound like some AMS shit
@@only1jmar54 that’s because it is hahaha
@@iAmplify7 😂💀
Lmao AMS style
Well Spoken Sir.
No contact day two. 💪🏼💪🏼
Soo give us a update,
+DuKeEst , well so far she only contact me for financial issues, and i got the divorce papers ready in 3 more weeks. She already erase my fotos on instagram, and also delete me from Facebook but still has my photos there. So is time to move in and not look back.
+gundany stay strong bro!
+ex in the city , well i still have my days, but I'm doing good, it's been 4 weeks already, and she just call for financial issues only, but lately she was using that to start an conversation, but I rapidly diffuse the conversation, we are married and going tru a separation, i have the property agreement ready, and she is whiling to sign that, but last time se call, and I touch the separation papers, she answered that she don't want to talk about that, is funny cause a few weeks ago, she was willing to sign and her tone was very aggressive and very strong about that subject. But funny, after 4 weeks on NC, her tone was very calm, and is the tone of voice that she used when i was deployed and she miss me a lot. But i remain strong, and willing to finish this. She is being going out with her best friend(female) and i star going out with my squad, and planing going in 3 weeks to florida and start the process and give her the remaining of her stuff. She started working in her old job
+gundany she lied in her interview, she said that she failed to adapt to the military life and we are giving us a time, thats a whole BS, but my old platoon sgt is the director of that place, and he call me and explained everything, i just told him, give her the job, for me is good, no alimony payments after the divorce. But it was hard, still my days but I bought the book and already read it 4 times. Thanks for asking
After watching this video I have the most upmost respect for you. I wasn't really sure what you were prior to this but I know that you know what you are talking about and a damn good coach. But now I realize that you are much more and your a life coach and thank you for making it clear.
youre amazing corey, i miss listening to your teachings.
Been watching your videos for a week now . Just bought you’re book ! Can’t wait till it arrives !
needed this. thank you coach, gotta live my life.
Hey Coach Corey, I just ordered your book man..I can't wait for it to arrive. I got a date this Saturday, girl has gone not contacted me after I texted her...so I'm going no contact till she reaches out. Thanks man, I just started my journey thanks to you. Cheers from Australia.🇦🇺👍
20:00
“The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation.”- Henry Thoreau
i got a little emotional there
Damn
Great video. Love how you approach every mistake with a funny eye
I absolutely love your overall attitude man! Kudos to you! I love listening to all these very helpful vids u post! Ty!
Focusing on yourself really works. The past half year or so I've taken a bit of a break from women and worked on myself and in the past 3 weeks or so my inbox has been gradually filling up with women I haven't heard from in several months.
spoiler alert - the guy in the email is Drake
+Andrew M So whos the girl then? Rihanna?
She used to call him on her cellphone.
😂😂😂
😂🤣crazy af
Corey, I was in the Army for 10 years and already had my time with the miserable assholes. Keep on keeping on bro!
Beautiful thing about no contact is you will either 1) get her back or 2) get over her by not having her around.
law of attraction worked for me
+2 3 4 9 0 1 7 3 4 7 5 4 1 💖 💯
whtz>app him.
@@annabelchris5398 opposite for me, I ran into one of her friend's and found out what she was doing while dating me, she belongs to the streets now.
@@corinnajohnson7391 lol... well anything is possible
You are a wonderful person Corey !!! Thank you for being in my life !!!
I went no contact immediately after she broke up with me because she admitted she started dating someone else. It's one full month of no contact. She seems not to care. She must be busy hooking up with the new dude... It's sucks a lot.
Does it matter now? Did time heal you?
@@tmgtrz she actually reached out a couple of months later but, after a while ghosted me... 🤦♂️
She made me go through some horrible time for six months. Now I feel better but, at times, I still think about her.
@@siulong1394you should of walked away and never look back
WOW . I truly enjoy reading today's newsletter .
The no contact rule works!
It really does. Happened with me and my ex. We broke up, I didn't talk to that bitch for months, now were fwb.
shitmandood Who cares? Im the mean time do like coach says and focus on your mission and porpous and youll be fine.
shitmandood Well thats good.
+Stiff Kun; So is that your goal in life? To have multiple fwb's?
TheArthrighteous Not at all. I dont see how you got that from my comment, but ok.
You are so right, coach.I had to learn it the hard way too.
I did exactly what I shouldn't have done, I read the book 2 times last summer and watched a lot of videos...got my ex to come back and leave the douchebag she was with...then I stopped using the skills I learned and went back to pursuing when she pulled back and now she's indecisive about us...I started reading the book again (I'm now at 6 times and at least a hundred videos) and went into no contact, I'm now at 5 days without any form of contact with her and I feel fucking great! it's like whatever if she comes back she does and if she doesn't then fuck it...it's her loss! all I can do is keep going through my life and become a better man for myself! you're the best coach!!!!
GreenEYESfromOHIO
I totally failed loll she met another guy in july she actually told me 3 days after i wrote this comment lolll
She's been with him ever since... so after a shitty summer of heartbreak i met a girl in September and we dated for about a month then behold : my ex learned about it and she freaked out! she started calling me and we met a few times at her place but didn't hook up because we were both with someone at the time.
My ex is still saying to this day that we're meant to be and we'll be together eventually but that she can't leave her boyfriend now because he helped her out with the repairs and renovations of the house she bought, her father offered him a job at his cie and to top that shit his father (of the boyfriend) died in early December this month.
i can apply the coach's teaching on any woman i don't care about, but with my ex of 6 years i totally lose it...i actually left the other girl because i thought she would come back right away...
so we still talk for now and she keeps telling me we're soul mates but i don't pursue anymore...well more like 65% of the time i don't LOL
I think its great you include women emails. It further adds a reassuring perspective to your teachings and life lessons. Keep doing yo thang!
This only works if she likes you. If she loses interest she could not care less about you, so walk away immediately.
Truth.
@GrimangelX4 a little bit...
@GrimangelX4 Since she has you on social media, after 15 days try to post pics of yourself hanging out with friends and stuf, maybe hit the gym post workout and stuff, work on urself and stay NC, that's the only way u have a chance, nothing else unfortunately.
Going no contact is about getting focused on YOU. Get focused on your career, your purpose and what makes you happy. Almost every ex of mine has come back.
Hey coach, can you make a video that explains steps to remain strong during this times. I know and I know everyone else can. But sometimes a video like that is all we need
Btw, Thank you for you videos and helping me and others improve.
These videos are awesome:)
Best info on the internet, point blank!!!
I started following Corey when you had about 3k subscribers, holy crap can't believe you're almost ar 100k, actually i can believe that haha, but crazy how time flies.
Do you still follow him? I followed him around the 20k mark which was like 6-7 years ago which feels like an eternity haha
Lol, ive just come out of a weird relationship (having my head messed with), been really down but this guy has a great voice and talks to you like a personal friend, including his swearing love it!
I think this is a game , if the other persons doesn't want to be with you then move on, it was not meant to be ...just accept the facts ..listen to ur brain not ur heart.
I just got out of relationship I've accepted my faults , i forgive my self and him .. Now I don't have no desire to get back with him.
Mariosquared the guy should try harder and sustain his efforts over a long peroid. he cannot expect her to take him back so easily.
Mariosquared the guy tried and was rejected. at that point, only your friend could have fixed the situation. she didn't. she was deeply hurt and her ego inflated and exploded when he came back.
Blue Love You’re obviously not experienced enough. Though that is a no brainier I doubt you can follow your own advice. Lol
He says that, he also says attraction is not a choice, but he also says that "the one" is a myth.
I just started following not to long ago, I already love you man !!! Im going to buy and read this book 20 times to master the relationship with my wife.
You should write a book for women as well, Corey!
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MsLatinera fuck u
@@nashwaperfumes6444 Rude
MsLatinera nope he ain't gonna do that lol
@@nashwaperfumes6444 lol dawg you made me laugh you ok ? or are you in your period ?
One of the best quotes that I have heard in your videos. It really speaks volumes!
I am sorry about your past it sounds like you had a hard time Coach Corey but you have done soo well.. love your videos!! I want to purchase your books
Hey Coach. After 3 weeks of no contact today she phoned me with Whatsapp. I missed the call so I sent her a message. Did you call? She replied that she pushed the wrong button. Hahaha of course not. I told her that I missed her. And she replied that she does not want to start a relationship with me anymore, because of what happened. We were on Whatsapp for more than 2 hours. She told me that she missed me too. Later she accepted my apologies. I know I made a few mistakes and did not follow your advice but we are in contact again. She lives in another country far away so it will take time before I might see her again. But now I know the no-contact rule works! Thank you very much. And greetings from Amsterdam.
I love your honesty on your page and I am learning.