She called me a few months later crying saying her new man cheated on her I laughed. She tried getting back together i wasn't gonna go back to used goods
I used see a girl for about 2 months then she checked out. Two months later, she sends this text message "Hey Ron, I was just thinking about you. I hope your life is going well. No need to text back, I just wanted to say hi. Take care of yourself 😊" My reply was "Who's this?"
Sometime because of moving on after learning about Corey and his advise, they contact you out of the blues weeks or months later...without you doing anything. Only now you're better and more prepared.
Just listen first what her reason why she's gone and then ignore her at all because you're already moved on. Dont let her back again into your life maybe she might do it again.
My first love called me after 20 years but i had to pass after a pass in her rental car.So when we were young she was pretty and i was ugly.But 20 years later she was ugly and i became handsome.Strange life but dang that young love was a ass kicker.
@zenigel and that's where Corey comes to rescue. don't chase women, pursuing women confirms rejection. let her come to you, let her chase you and so on... corey is the best.!
So she lines someone else, dumps you, you become a better man and then she comes back and expects you to feed her ego? I would not even answer her, making her beg and plead. Call me what you will, but screw that honestly.
Currently reading the book and man I feel like punching myself in the face but man it's my second time reading this book. it's definitely going to be my daily read
"he can keep you busy when you're not with me" I have memorized that so well that I paused and predicted Corey would say that. The book works folks. Chicks almost always laugh when you say this.
Corey has been a massive help to me. By saying "if you change your mind etc... really cuts out the timewasters. Then you meet girls who want to actually have a good time. I've recently told a girl this when she gave me the let's just be friends speech. she laughed lol and then went to bed with me on 2nd date. Thanks Corey
+Zac6230 i said I was tired of being just friends. i wanted to be romantic with her and if she changes her mind to call me. She just smirked and that was it;)
John Mcevoy Wow ok. Well does this work in all occasions. I have this girl that thinks I rejected her She asked me to text her that night I got her number. I just waited 5 days to text her I didn't think it was a problem as I think I told her it would be a few days. She works in the gym, she was quiet and looked depressed for a bit. and not friendly at me I tried to fix it and say that I hadn't rejected her. She said she wanted to be alone so I said sure. So a week later she now initiates all the hellos and hi's and small talks. Before it was all me almost all the time. Now she is super outgoing and more friendly than before. I hope that I can swing this around
I haven’t heard from my ex (it’s only been 1 month) but honestly I’m getting to the point that if she does contact me I’ll tell her to lose my number... I think personally it’s best to move forward and meet a girl who wouldn’t throw me away. There’s a reason we’re ex’s
@@kicksalot9943 lol nope, never heard from her ever again. It’s okay though I’m in a much healthier relationship that isn’t long distance. Everything works out
@@SavedByGraceThroughFaith8 nope never heard from her ever again, not even a peep. Not once haha. Honestly for the best about 4 months later I met a girl who completely aligns with all of my values and treats me like a king so I ain’t mad. People leave your life for a reason bro! 🔥💪
My ex contacted after 15 years. Asking the most random question. I simply answered her and left it at that. She tells me she was in an accident. I didn’t bother to ask what happened. Haven’t heard from her since.
I'm on the fence with this. Why even give her your attention? She goes radio silent for weeks on end and then after she's with several douchebags that treat her like shit or creep her out, she comes crawling back hoping to be rebounded. My instinct tells me to hell with that bullshit and move on. But your advice says to basically play it cool and entertain her and I totally understand your reasoning for it. It's just difficult to give respect to somebody that doesn't reciprocate it.
At least you were the one she can come back to. Love is crazy brother. She did the same before you met her. What's worth spending your life with someone you wouldn't kill for.
If you actually pay attention to Corey's work, the emotional neediness of the guy is usually the issue in all dumping. Nothing wrong with trying again after you fix yourself.
+JH5280 Bro the stuff HE TEACHES IS ON POINT. BRO THESE FEMALES WILL DO ANYTHING TO BREAK YOU DOWN. WHEN YOU STOP GIVING THEM ATTENTION. THEY START CRAVING ATTENTION FROM YOU. IM GOING TO TELL YOU ANOTHER SECRET. WHEN SHE CALL YOU AGAIN. DONT ANSWER. AND WHEN SHE CALLS BACK AGAIN. ANSWER THE PHONE. THEN TELL HERE. YOU BUSY. LOL. AND YOU CALL HER LATER
Maybe she was locked up without a phone. That would explain it right. Or maybe she was just busy with other interest. Maybe she's just crazy. What's more important is why you still care about someone who drops you cold
If she takes 3 months to come back, 99% that some other guy was banging her in that time,(which is probably why she dumped you in the first place) so don´t take her seriously again. Just keep her as a plaything on the side until you meet the right one- then dump her. To seriously take her back after three months is AFC territory.
Al B. Yeah most comments are cynical/pessimistic af or rooted in anger towards women for some of their behavior. My ex called back after 2 months with the same reason you stated. Ofc in my situation I personally won't take her seriously again but there's an undeniable connection, so she came crawling back to me lol.
Guys think when a woman breakup with them that’s the final word. Wrong. Have you ever met a woman that promises to love a man forever in sickness and in health? Yes it’s called a marriage. Have you ever met a woman who breaks that promise? Yes it’s called a divorce. Women change their mind and emotion on a dime! You just have to take it on the chin and be a freakin rock
You know the sad part about all of this advice? It still applies to women who are older. One would think that by your 40s/50s that women would dispense with the bullshit and just be normal, but sadly, this isn't the case. In fact, they get MORE fucked up as they age. If a person hasn't resolved their emotional and psychological issues by a certain age, they will always be a hot mess. The good thing is that the older I get, the less I really need to be in a relationship. I'm fresh out of fucks to give. I love my me-time and I have rich, valuable, fulfilling friendships that mean a lot to me. I'm an accomplished artist, instrument-rated pilot and I have a nice settlement after serving in NYC during 9/11 as a member of the New York State Police. I no longer feel the need to prove myself to some woman and since I'm already a first-ballot inductee into the Playa's Hall of Fame, I feel no need to take the field once more. I have neither the time or patience for this nonsense.
This goes for men too. After over a year of seeing a guy he just quit contacting me, not even grown enough to text an explanation, wtf? And, this was a 50 year old man.
@@cindiheaton1048 Lol. I spoke to a woman a while ago who had a guy in his 60s still playing games and so they broke up. She is mid 50s. Very interesting dynamics on why the same people might complain but just arent attracted to certain people that might treat them better. But it is human nature and it is part biology and social conditioning.
Well, come to find out he went to go date another woman and when that didn’t work out he came back. We got back together for awhile but continued to break up. He still wanted to be casual and not a monogamous couple. I’m pretty sure I had some resentment about what he had done too. Also, he messaged one of my friends who he didn’t know was my friend.I finally got another boyfriend who wanted what I wanted.
Honestly who wants a girl after they come back, unless I fucked up I don’t want to deal with them again. There’s to much women out there honestly. My girl came back and I told her to pound salt. She is a healthy scratch......
Use sexual innuendos if you're comfortable. you gotta practice and talk to other women, repetition is the mother of skill all women are the same, they just wanna have fun.
An ex reached out to me 11years later 😆 I just ignored her as she looks awful now. But my recent breakup, it’s been almost 3months, 2nc. Let’s see if she reaches out, cause this one I still love, so let’s see.
Please for the love of god listen to this guy. Buy his book and buy doc loves book. It’s worth every penny and every question you had about a relationship or why it didn’t work out or how you can fix it all. You just need to put in some time to study and read. You will be so relieved after it all.
Corey, I can't believe it but she called back after 3 months. And why it was almost exactly 3 months later is just insane to me, LOL what's up with that?!?? She said she owes me an explanation and what she did was not very cool (ceasing contact) and wants to hang out. Hell, I still like her but I'm a little apprehensive and don't know how to respond...
Because in 3 mos., she had her fun already and wants to get back for security purpose (either financial or attachment security). Girls who do tht are confident that they will be able to take you back. Better play with her for awhile then move on or much better if you torture her using push and pull only to dump her in the end. Just make sure that when you dump her, it is her own damn fault for her to still chase you.
Nah, that screams bitterness. Don't stoop to petty lowness. That just contaminates the upward flow of you growing into being a better person. If you start living that way things around you will start to suck.
I am wondering if it's because Corey says that a person doesn't show their true self for 90 days, 3 months-what a quinky dink (even though a therapist said around a year). So, the person she maybe moved on with showed their true colors, like they were a player, controlling or abusive or something so she came back.
Tell her you dont appreciate the way she disappeared and ask her what is she willing to do (sexually) to make it up to you. If you take her back like nothing happened she wont respect you and she will flake on you again. Don’t be mad at her just let her know you dont like being disrespected and pushed around like chopped liver.
THEY DO COME BACK! Well about a month ago my ex girlfriend packed up our house and moved out while I was at work. Because I’ve visited a female friend that’s correct only her friend. I went into no contact a few texts here in there back-and-forth. I asked her back after that🤔wait she left you. Yeah sterday evening I got the farewell I’ll always love you and thank you for let me love you Text. I waited an hour and a half to respond with “you’re welcome take care” blocked her. Fast forward till this evening. She is now texting my daughter HI how are you? If you need anything I’m here. 🤨🤔! Wonder why?
your supposed to answer when they call, no contact only means you dont call or do anything, but when they call , you say you miss them and you set a definite date
Ok 3 weeks is how many hours !! How many days !!! Now figure how much time would she need to screw someone else and figure how many times she did in those three weeks !! Come on man ! She been sucking and fu××××× some guy , you really want to touch her after that ! Show some pride ..hook up with one of her friends or better yet a girl she hates ! Move on..
I love Corey and most of his advice but at least for me it’s “One and Done.” If she cancels dates and ghosts me I will not text her again unless she texts me. But even then she’s low priority and will be nothing but a sex playmate for me!
6:13 -"Chasing women always gaurantees rejection." The best way -THE ONLY way- to chase a woman, is to chase only your greatest self. My favorite women I've dated have found me when I was at my personal best- and as soon as I put attention on them, shit went sideways. I personally identified this as why biblically "you're not supposed to have premarital sex". It's not about the sex itself- it's about being whole and confident in oneself before sharing that self with anyone else. Or as the great hiphop philosopher Coolio once said- "You can't help me if you can't help yoself."
Got the I need to work on myself but let's be friends speech 3 weeks ago. Of course I told her I don't wanna be friends. She said Me too, thanks for understanding. Interested to see if she comes back. Time will tell. In the mean time I've got other women to talk to. Go college
So after my GF of 5 years, split up with me 3 weeks ago out of nowhere! I decided to purchase your book and I have read it 5 times since then. (10 more times to go) What ive realised is that I became complacent in the relationship, rarely took her on dates and I didn't really listen/understand her fully. My question is, although I begged/pleaded at first, I have now been in NC for 13 days after sending a final text stating if you change your mind contact me etc. Do I still have any chance?
ZF Music I’m pretty sure in his book book he says “if you change your mind” in relation to being friend zoned. “Sorry, I don’t need anymore friends, but let me know if you change your mind.”
She reached out after 6 months and I tried to set a date, and her response was, " Not a good idea, sorry Michael! I don't like how things went when the relationship ended." So I said, " Neither did I, but that's the past. I know I have taken steps to grow as an individual and made my life a drama free zone and I tend to keep it that way! I'm not playing any games or point any fingers! I'm sure you have to. That being said, if you ever change your mind drop me a message and we can set a date. Till then I wish you all the best!" Her response, " Glad you're in a better space!" I left it, I think my downfall here is that I said too much? Did I do okay Coach?
So... This girl that I like a ton tried to call me back again today after around 4 months, heck, I even blocked her from WhatsApp and Instagram because I considered it all a dead end and was time to say good bye. I did not answer the call because it was near midnight and I didn't know who the hell the number was from. Then I added that number to contacts and it was her. Messaged her on how she was and well, no reply yet. Strange.
I blocked mine the day after she dumped me. She realized what I had done a month later when I wasn't responding. During our botched meetup, she asked me 16 times over 2 hours to re-add her to my contacts! Then she literally read me her itinerary for a solid month...my reply? "That's a lot of details from someone who dumped me with rhyme or reason "! The look on her face....lol! Anyway, 3 months later, we have reconnected, and I'm going to visit Her at her Sisters place in Canada in 2 weeks. Taking it slow...seeing what I'm dealing with. Something really bad went down with her in Colombia...and I want answers before or if I re-commit to her.
My ex blocked me for a month and one night the phone rings twice....I didn't answer but I missed him and thought he wouldn't contact me again. Two days passed by. Last night he called and I could sense the nervousness in his voice. The first thing he asked me was "how's that car bumper doing" I said fine. He asked about the kids and I replied they were great. Then he asked me had I been giving his "stuff" away.... It was goodnight from there.... That was it... Missing me and the sex..he would have gotten a better reply had he just asked for sex (that he isn't gonna get) instead of that funky dance he did with me.
I know it's been a while since you asked, but who knows who might come across this thread and find it useful: as far as I understand, in that scenario you should just say hi as you're passing by, but don't go out of your way to talk to her. be nice, but if she wants to speak to you for a "quick chat", tell her you haven't got time (gotta go to class or whatever). kinda one of the fundamentals of corey's teaching, be indifferent and don't give her attention she doesn't deserve. I can imagine this even having a positive impact on the situation, as she is being reminded that you're still around and appear to be enjoying life, but she doesn't get to share the experience, so it could make her wonder
she dumped me for a girl but she says she loves me and is afraid of loosing both her gf tells her not to contact me and has power over the relationship she treats me like a second option and treats me like crap sometimes should i continue having hope or move on? help coach corey
rfcilia Thanks man i guess youre right i begged, pleaded bt ddnt work out and she moved on with some dude 2months later as in yesterday she texted me saying shes all sorry after she found out that her relationship aint working out bt if it worked she wouldnt give a s*** ... shes a liar i jst feel dumb and stupid for crying over a person who never saw future with me ... i ignored her texts since the day she dumped me for some new dude nw she texts me with a diff number cz she has 2 numbers saying that shes sorry misses me and wishes she could go back all i did was saw the text and never replied... after making her relationship public on facebook ... Onder Hassan Thanks man i really apreciate yalls advice and its so true about what youre saying shes only coming back cz she has no option ...
Onder Hassan thanks buddy i really appreciate it... ive lost total attraction towards her and im focusing on my goals... and plus im doing better this time... cheers
Yep..broke up! 3 months later got back together...found out after we broke up again 3 months later she was seeing a guy during the first breakup ! It's been a year now no contact ! She grew up with this guy and they kept on contact through Facebook...there relationship caused her divorce and somehow she met me during this time and I think I was a crutch till this guy got his divorce ! Basically I was used for a yr and 3 months..
Just remember that this day and age, all people get used for emotional support because they feel alone. That's why 'trust no one' is now healthy. Yo-yos. Smh
If a guy said "I look forward to seeing you in bed again", idc if I was interested, that would immediately turn me off & you wouldn't hear from me again. Btw, I enjoy flirting but coming on too strong is such a turn off. Don't say it...show it.
KaPi CoRn Hey bro if she has a bf and you manage to get her to leave him for you then theres nothing stopping her from leaving you later on for another guy girls like this are not werth your time cheers
Hmm Most attractive heterosexual women have a boyfriend. There's never anything stopping ANY woman from leaving any man for any reason, ever. There is no justification for your comment "girls like this are not werth (sic) your time."
When you said "pick you up at 7?" and she didn't respond, you knew it was going to be a flake. Make a definite date (that she agrees to). Why did she blow you off? Because she had something else she would rather be doing. Maybe she didn't respond initially because she wanted to leave her options open. Maybe didn't want to go out at all. Is it a test, or is she just totally inconsiderate of your time and feelings? Who knows? Who cares? What about YOU? Maybe this is YOUR test of HER value. How many stars do you give her now? Stop acting like this is the only woman on earth. Stop thinking that other people's behavior is YOUR "screw up" to "fix". Respect yourself and some others will follow. At least you will always have the respect of the one who matters: you. Start having fun and women will be attracted to you. Sitting around worrying about what makes this one bitch tick cannot be all that much fun for you. Life is short. When you realize just how short, you will stop wasting your time and energy on people who do not appreciate you.
rfcilia My point is that there is nothing stopping any woman from leaving any man, ever. Just because she left one man to be with another doesn't mean it will happen again, and just because one never has doesn't mean she won't. Women are humans.
What if it feels like you legitimately cannot meet another woman in the aftermath of an intense breakup? I don t tend to meet women very often, even casually...this number dwindles for women who actually want to date etc.
@TeeJae84 thanks, luckily I had been doing exactly what you suggeted: Going to the gym, working more hours etc. I've been showing a measure of indifference that I think has been paying off, more attention from women and even making out with a cute woman at the bar this past weekend (she introduced herself to me :)
If i kinda think shes seeing someone else and still contacts me after a few months. Should i still ask if shes seeing someone? Or just go straight for the definite date?
I broke it off with my girl friend.. she called me back after two week, but I missed the call... lol I then called her back thirty minutes after her call. Then she didn’t answer xD, so I just left a message to call me back.
I'm living exactly this scenario... after roughly 3 no contact periods with a botched meetup thrown in the middle, we are now talking on Skype almost daily. Something truly dramatic happened, because she dumped me for no reason, yet insisted we stay friends (I shot that down, pissed her off) now, after the 3rd no contact and a birthday greeting I sent on day 38, I finally hear from her... an she has resigned her education ministry job in Colombia, left her brand new house there, and is hiding out with her Sister in Canada! Holy hell! Anyway... I'm planning to go up in 2 weeks, test the waters, try to assess the situation...but... I have a million questions......why? How? What truly happened?? I want info...
Question: so if a girl dumped you and reached out after a few months. And in that time she was sleeping with other dudes and now wants you back, is it a good idea to take her back? I mean, I would see that as she didn't get what she wanted with other dudes, so she comes back to you as a back up. You're definitely not her first option, and I don't think anyone wants to be a girls back up. What do you all think?
No because it will keep happening and she will never respect herself unless she turns her life around and starts to respect herself the fact that she left to sleep with other guys means she does not and the same thing will happen again don’t unless somewhere in the future she starts having self respect from what you can tell
it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re just a back up, it maybe that she tested the waters and came to the conclusion, that you’re really a good man and appreciates who you are much more.
@@beyourself9162 I don't think someone needs to sleep with someone else to realize that they want you........the sheer fact they you haven't spoken to her, that she has not seen you for a few weeks should be more than enough to make her realize that. The idea that you had to be with other people to realize that you want someone sounds pretty dumb to me...... I don't think it has too much to do with ego. It's just common sense. I don't need to hook up with other girls to realize I want my gf back....makes no sense
@@Gong14921 true.. but I once dumped my first love after graduation because I felt I needed to go party and be single. I fell hard for another girl almost immediately after the breakup. We had an amazing few weeks, but I realized I just love my ex and I needed her back. It wasn’t because the new girl didn’t pan out, it was genuinely coming to the realization that I loved my ex more than anything. We got back together but she could never truly forgive me so the relationship went toxic. This was almost 10 years ago and I would still say I’ve never loved someone more than the girl I dumped.
After a break-up, both you and your ex-lover is free. You don't have to be faithful to a dead relationship, like her. As Corey says: Women are like cats, they come and go. You just make it easy for them. After they dumped you, you should degrade them to "an unreceptive potential date" until they contact you again, and if they contact, they are just "a receptive or neutral potential date" so you are gonna approach it like that.
Any advice on a girl that I was with for two years that left me 2 months ago and is dating somebody else? I didn't contact her for nearly two months until I just broke silence and had a really nice conversation with her. It was then I sort of just left the door open, what if she doesn't contact you? Another guy being in the picture is definitely a huge reason why she wouldn't, but should I just be patient and move on?
mt2oo8 I was with my ex for 2 too and broke up with me 2 months ago too, the best thing you can do is focus on yourself and your purpose as Corey puts it. Start talking to new girls, it will be awkward at first, but the sooner you do these things the quicker you heal. And besides even if you want her back, you need to grow and improve. And buy Corey's book, it really helped me a lot.
So there's this girl I like , I asked here on a date she said yes but kept postponing and never went on the date but still chatted and called. She all of a sudden started ignoring me didn't answer my calls and texts she either did not reply or one worded reply's . So on new years I wished her happy new year and said goodbye for good she just responded happy new year and we never talked again. 2 Days ago or 3 Months later she sent me a text and saying " Hi are you still angry with me" to which I replied that is was never angry just didn't see the point to talk to myself and she apologised and we chatted a little. So should I wait for her to make contact again or should I?
Yepper watch out ! They can't make up there minds and are able to have feelings for to people at once ! That's why if you hear I'm so confused ,RUN !!!!
She dumped me for another guy and I went no contact straight away. We haven't talked for the past two months. Last Sunday it was her birthday and I didn't wish her. This Tuesday was my birthday and I didn't hear from her either. Yesterday, I received a message from her wishing for my birthday. I thanked her and wished for hers. So, what's her point? Why she texted me wishing for my birthday, in delay, and nothing else?
This is all so dumb..this is why you have to take it slow..no grown a$# woman should be actn this way..grown a$$ women over communicate lol it drives men crazy bt thats how u knw she is mature and likes you...i wld say run run for you life if a woman is actn like this its stupid
There's a difference between pursuing and chasing, pursuing means you get the number, you go out on a date you hook up and you wait about a week or 2 to setup the next date if she hasn't reached out to you already, chasing is blowing up her phone all the time always wanting to be together with her and not having a life outside of her.
My ex girlfriend contacted me out of the blue, after 8 months of silence, she wanted to meet me..I was abit shocked, I only said OK! But I strongly believe that she was dating Someone else all that time and probably she got dumped recently ...that's why she contacted me out of the blue, I just moved on .
She called me a few months later crying saying her new man cheated on her I laughed. She tried getting back together i wasn't gonna go back to used goods
Doug Neilson good choice. Nobody should be a backup or second choice to something that didn’t work out. You should be the first choice.
Man, you have to listen to CoreyW, if she calls you, she wants to see you. You’re the man, ‘hang out, have fun and hookup’
@nineborn same thing happen with me today . She text me after 2 months and she already have boyfriend what should I have to do ?
@nineborn okay bro thanks for your suggestion
@nineborn btw where you from ?
I used see a girl for about 2 months then she checked out. Two months later, she sends this text message "Hey Ron, I was just thinking about you. I hope your life is going well. No need to text back, I just wanted to say hi. Take care of yourself 😊" My reply was "Who's this?"
Savage mode 😂
Ronny Watson 😂😅💪💪💪
Hahahahhahaha
You stupid. Lost an opportunity to have some fun with her.
@@youtubesucks2755 thats right , if the come back you dont hve to take them seriously but you can use them for s$x now
"Scarcity creates attraction" -Coach Corey Wayne
She called me after 3 hours. She broke the no contact rule really quick
mellovibefilms 😂😂😂😂
Same here, my ex and I broke up, a week passed and she called me 3 hours after I moved out of our apartment
Sometime because of moving on after learning about Corey and his advise, they contact you out of the blues weeks or months later...without you doing anything. Only now you're better and more prepared.
Just listen first what her reason why she's gone and then ignore her at all because you're already moved on. Dont let her back again into your life maybe she might do it again.
Gilestuber bahahahahahaha daaammn
My first love called me after 20 years but i had to pass after a pass in her rental car.So when we were young she was pretty and i was ugly.But 20 years later she was ugly and i became handsome.Strange life but dang that young love was a ass kicker.
chasing women ends up being rejected, why do i have to watch these vids when its too late....
Guitarstudent hindsight is a strange thing my friend
david wong
at least i got big experience from this, but still, regretful
Guitarstudent
its never late to do the right thing. find some one new and apply what corey teach. surely you won't regret.
@zenigel and that's where Corey comes to rescue. don't chase women, pursuing women confirms rejection. let her come to you, let her chase you and so on... corey is the best.!
its never too late....for anything....
So she lines someone else, dumps you, you become a better man and then she comes back and expects you to feed her ego? I would not even answer her, making her beg and plead. Call me what you will, but screw that honestly.
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nineborn are these women virgins when you first meet them?
Call you what I will... A smart man?
You sound butt hurt
@@memcrew1 of course
Currently reading the book and man I feel like punching myself in the face but man it's my second time reading this book. it's definitely going to be my daily read
Fartboy how do you feel now?
Still reading?
Still reading?
By time you've read it 1000th time
"he can keep you busy when you're not with me"
I have memorized that so well that I paused and predicted Corey would say that. The book works folks. Chicks almost always laugh when you say this.
corey wayne ..you saved my life. thankbyou
She called after 2 weeks .. I guess that no contact rule does work 😂
I really like you as a friend, ... And you never see her again.... why do they pretend to wanna be frends lol
They really do come back !
This girl I was dating came back after almost a year and half ...
:D
Corey has been a massive help to me. By saying "if you change your mind etc... really cuts out the timewasters. Then you meet girls who want to actually have a good time. I've recently told a girl this when she gave me the let's just be friends speech. she laughed lol and then went to bed with me on 2nd date. Thanks Corey
+John Mcevoy how did you pull that off after she said lets be friends how did you counter?
+Zac6230 i said I was tired of being just friends. i wanted to be romantic with her and if she changes her mind to call me. She just smirked and that was it;)
John Mcevoy Wow ok. Well does this work in all occasions. I have this girl that thinks I rejected her She asked me to text her that night I got her number. I just waited 5 days to text her I didn't think it was a problem as I think I told her it would be a few days. She works in the gym, she was quiet and looked depressed for a bit. and not friendly at me I tried to fix it and say that I hadn't rejected her. She said she wanted to be alone so I said sure. So a week later she now initiates all the hellos and hi's and small talks. Before it was all me almost all the time. Now she is super outgoing and more friendly than before. I hope that I can swing this around
+Zac6230 just be direct and decisive as coach says. I am not the expert. Good luck with it;)
+rfcilia Ok so how is this relevant to what I said? do you think I am being tested?
She called me after 16 years..
+LivingTrancefully It was in 2012 since then we were dating each other. I'm not married, she is.
+TequilAndLime interesting. you miss her? you interested?
+RobD8870 Yes.. I missed her...
+TequilAndLime She is married , come on man. Leave her alone
Lmaob
Never give another chance let karma play it's role
I haven’t heard from my ex (it’s only been 1 month) but honestly I’m getting to the point that if she does contact me I’ll tell her to lose my number... I think personally it’s best to move forward and meet a girl who wouldn’t throw me away. There’s a reason we’re ex’s
Did she ever try coming back?
@@kicksalot9943 lol nope, never heard from her ever again.
It’s okay though I’m in a much healthier relationship that isn’t long distance.
Everything works out
@@jasonkwilliamson has she contacted you at all?
@@SavedByGraceThroughFaith8 nope never heard from her ever again, not even a peep. Not once haha. Honestly for the best about 4 months later I met a girl who completely aligns with all of my values and treats me like a king so I ain’t mad. People leave your life for a reason bro! 🔥💪
@@jasonkwilliamson I’m happy for you bro! Congratulations!
My ex contacted after 15 years. Asking the most random question. I simply answered her and left it at that. She tells me she was in an accident. I didn’t bother to ask what happened. Haven’t heard from her since.
You should've just said "damn that's crazy"
@@robinmattias lmfaooo
Did she say anything in this 2 years time period?
They are loonies, bro.
Literally tonight àter 90 days 16 hours… I wanted to send a screenshot of her calling to show. Yeah, we hooked up!
I'm on the fence with this. Why even give her your attention? She goes radio silent for weeks on end and then after she's with several douchebags that treat her like shit or creep her out, she comes crawling back hoping to be rebounded. My instinct tells me to hell with that bullshit and move on. But your advice says to basically play it cool and entertain her and I totally understand your reasoning for it. It's just difficult to give respect to somebody that doesn't reciprocate it.
I’m in this situation now, I agree. To hell with her
At least you were the one she can come back to. Love is crazy brother. She did the same before you met her. What's worth spending your life with someone you wouldn't kill for.
If you actually pay attention to Corey's work, the emotional neediness of the guy is usually the issue in all dumping. Nothing wrong with trying again after you fix yourself.
@@jasonkobos3850 9/10 let a woman think you like her too much you will get dumped.
@@6henny443yup, BUT if you walk away and mean it then 9/10 come back real quick lmao
this worked. she called me.
me too! and why the hell was it almost exactly 3 months?!?! LOL I can't believe it.
+JH5280 Bro the stuff HE TEACHES IS ON POINT. BRO THESE FEMALES WILL DO ANYTHING TO BREAK YOU DOWN. WHEN YOU STOP GIVING THEM ATTENTION. THEY START CRAVING ATTENTION FROM YOU. IM GOING TO TELL YOU ANOTHER SECRET. WHEN SHE CALL YOU AGAIN. DONT ANSWER. AND WHEN SHE CALLS BACK AGAIN. ANSWER THE PHONE. THEN TELL HERE. YOU BUSY. LOL. AND YOU CALL HER LATER
I hope it happens for me! I will keep yall posted
Coach Corey Wayne is the man!! I got my girl back after walking away
Free Collins how things going
This information is GOLD
Maybe she was locked up without a phone. That would explain it right. Or maybe she was just busy with other interest. Maybe she's just crazy. What's more important is why you still care about someone who drops you cold
If she takes 3 months to come back, 99% that some other guy was banging her in that time,(which is probably why she dumped you in the first place) so don´t take her seriously again. Just keep her as a plaything on the side until you meet the right one- then dump her. To seriously take her back after three months is AFC territory.
Average frustrated chump.
Patrick Sachs my nigga
lol
Al B.
Yeah most comments are cynical/pessimistic af or rooted in anger towards women for some of their behavior. My ex called back after 2 months with the same reason you stated. Ofc in my situation I personally won't take her seriously again but there's an undeniable connection, so she came crawling back to me lol.
🤣🤣🤣 savage - It all depends on the reasoning
Guys think when a woman breakup with them that’s the final word. Wrong. Have you ever met a woman that promises to love a man forever in sickness and in health? Yes it’s called a marriage. Have you ever met a woman who breaks that promise? Yes it’s called a divorce. Women change their mind and emotion on a dime! You just have to take it on the chin and be a freakin rock
Thank you so much coach she came back after 98 days.. today she texted me..
I followed your idea when she pulled back..
How are things now?
@@nicksawyer320 Again She Left. So I ignored her and married another girl
@@imranafiya623 great choice dude, hope you and your wife live on forever ♾
@@nicksawyer320 Thank you so much bro..
You know the sad part about all of this advice? It still applies to women who are older. One would think that by your 40s/50s that women would dispense with the bullshit and just be normal, but sadly, this isn't the case. In fact, they get MORE fucked up as they age. If a person hasn't resolved their emotional and psychological issues by a certain age, they will always be a hot mess. The good thing is that the older I get, the less I really need to be in a relationship. I'm fresh out of fucks to give. I love my me-time and I have rich, valuable, fulfilling friendships that mean a lot to me. I'm an accomplished artist, instrument-rated pilot and I have a nice settlement after serving in NYC during 9/11 as a member of the New York State Police. I no longer feel the need to prove myself to some woman and since I'm already a first-ballot inductee into the Playa's Hall of Fame, I feel no need to take the field once more. I have neither the time or patience for this nonsense.
This goes for men too. After over a year of seeing a guy he just quit contacting me, not even grown enough to text an explanation, wtf? And, this was a 50 year old man.
Yes . Up in their 40s and beyond is no different.
@@cindiheaton1048 Lol. I spoke to a woman a while ago who had a guy in his 60s still playing games and so they broke up. She is mid 50s. Very interesting dynamics on why the same people might complain but just arent attracted to certain people that might treat them better. But it is human nature and it is part biology and social conditioning.
Well, come to find out he went to go date another woman and when that didn’t work out he came back. We got back together for awhile but continued to break up. He still wanted to be casual and not a monogamous couple. I’m pretty sure I had some resentment about what he had done too. Also, he messaged one of my friends who he didn’t know was my friend.I finally got another boyfriend who wanted what I wanted.
So many accomplishments but still single and going to die alone 🥲
Honestly who wants a girl after they come back, unless I fucked up I don’t want to deal with them again. There’s to much women out there honestly. My girl came back and I told her to pound salt. She is a healthy scratch......
Use sexual innuendos if you're comfortable.
you gotta practice and talk to other women, repetition is the mother of skill
all women are the same, they just wanna have fun.
An ex reached out to me 11years later 😆 I just ignored her as she looks awful now.
But my recent breakup, it’s been almost 3months, 2nc. Let’s see if she reaches out, cause this one I still love, so let’s see.
Please for the love of god listen to this guy. Buy his book and buy doc loves book. It’s worth every penny and every question you had about a relationship or why it didn’t work out or how you can fix it all. You just need to put in some time to study and read. You will be so relieved after it all.
Corey, I can't believe it but she called back after 3 months. And why it was almost exactly 3 months later is just insane to me, LOL what's up with that?!?? She said she owes me an explanation and what she did was not very cool (ceasing contact) and wants to hang out. Hell, I still like her but I'm a little apprehensive and don't know how to respond...
understandingrelationships.com/7-principles-to-get-an-ex-back/17707
Because in 3 mos., she had her fun already and wants to get back for security purpose (either financial or attachment security). Girls who do tht are confident that they will be able to take you back. Better play with her for awhile then move on or much better if you torture her using push and pull only to dump her in the end. Just make sure that when you dump her, it is her own damn fault for her to still chase you.
Nah, that screams bitterness. Don't stoop to petty lowness. That just contaminates the upward flow of you growing into being a better person. If you start living that way things around you will start to suck.
I am wondering if it's because Corey says that a person doesn't show their true self for 90 days, 3 months-what a quinky dink (even though a therapist said around a year). So, the person she maybe moved on with showed their true colors, like they were a player, controlling or abusive or something so she came back.
Tell her you dont appreciate the way she disappeared and ask her what is she willing to do (sexually) to make it up to you. If you take her back like nothing happened she wont respect you and she will flake on you again. Don’t be mad at her just let her know you dont like being disrespected and pushed around like chopped liver.
She called after 72 years
Take her back. If it was 73 years then I would be worried she banged someone else
🤣
Did you knock the dust off it?
Did you get to the phone in time ?
Corey is the real life Hitch!
THEY DO COME BACK! Well about a month ago my ex girlfriend packed up our house and moved out while I was at work. Because I’ve visited a female friend that’s correct only her friend. I went into no contact a few texts here in there back-and-forth. I asked her back after that🤔wait she left you. Yeah sterday evening I got the farewell I’ll always love you and thank you for let me love you Text. I waited an hour and a half to respond with “you’re welcome take care” blocked her. Fast forward till this evening. She is now texting my daughter HI how are you? If you need anything I’m here. 🤨🤔! Wonder why?
She wants to do anaI
This is the business. Not necessarily committed but intimate. Good th k8 g.
3 months is nothing. I have had girls call after 5 years , 10 years , even 15 years
I have been trying to stop with the Sexual innuendos... but it's hard... so very hard 😉
8:30 ... 'You can fukng pound sand' hilarious
My ex rang me today, after 3 weeks of no contact. She called twice I didn't answer either one. Any advice?
your supposed to answer when they call, no contact only means you dont call or do anything, but when they call , you say you miss them and you set a definite date
Ok 3 weeks is how many hours !! How many days !!! Now figure how much time would she need to screw someone else and figure how many times she did in those three weeks !! Come on man ! She been sucking and fu××××× some guy , you really want to touch her after that ! Show some pride ..hook up with one of her friends or better yet a girl she hates ! Move on..
Send a text "Who dis?" 😂
@Rovan Blake Maybe.
I wish I’d found your stuff last month. I fucked up with an awesome chick... 🙁
i wish if i had a dad or gran pops like you!
I love Corey and most of his advice but at least for me it’s “One and Done.” If she cancels dates and ghosts me I will not text her again unless she texts me. But even then she’s low priority and will be nothing but a sex playmate for me!
6:13 -"Chasing women always gaurantees rejection."
The best way -THE ONLY way- to chase a woman, is to chase only your greatest self.
My favorite women I've dated have found me when I was at my personal best- and as soon as I put attention on them, shit went sideways.
I personally identified this as why biblically "you're not supposed to have premarital sex". It's not about the sex itself- it's about being whole and confident in oneself before sharing that self with anyone else. Or as the great hiphop philosopher Coolio once said-
"You can't help me if you can't help yoself."
I don’t come back.. once I’m out, I’m out. I don’t understand the whole boomerang thing
Got the I need to work on myself but let's be friends speech 3 weeks ago. Of course I told her I don't wanna be friends. She said Me too, thanks for understanding. Interested to see if she comes back. Time will tell. In the mean time I've got other women to talk to. Go college
So, how did it go?
you're the man
what to do when she's gone cold during quarantine? i mean no one can date and do stuff like that.
So after my GF of 5 years, split up with me 3 weeks ago out of nowhere! I decided to purchase your book and I have read it 5 times since then. (10 more times to go)
What ive realised is that I became complacent in the relationship, rarely took her on dates and I didn't really listen/understand her fully.
My question is, although I begged/pleaded at first, I have now been in NC for 13 days after sending a final text stating if you change your mind contact me etc. Do I still have any chance?
S WB what happened bro? Did she contact you
Yeah, tell us
what happrnd dude?
Bro what happened? Or she we just assume you had no chance
ZF Music I’m pretty sure in his book book he says “if you change your mind” in relation to being friend zoned. “Sorry, I don’t need anymore friends, but let me know if you change your mind.”
I'd rather just go fishing...
She reached out after 6 months and I tried to set a date, and her response was, " Not a good idea, sorry Michael! I don't like how things went when the relationship ended." So I said, " Neither did I, but that's the past. I know I have taken steps to grow as an individual and made my life a drama free zone and I tend to keep it that way! I'm not playing any games or point any fingers! I'm sure you have to. That being said, if you ever change your mind drop me a message and we can set a date. Till then I wish you all the best!" Her response, " Glad you're in a better space!" I left it, I think my downfall here is that I said too much? Did I do okay Coach?
Maybe a bit to wordy
Might have been better saying:
Cool, if you change your mind and want to hang out, let me know
Leave it there
I did the same thing. One short message. But then went back to leave a lengthy needy text😔😔
Too serious, not fun.
So... This girl that I like a ton tried to call me back again today after around 4 months, heck, I even blocked her from WhatsApp and Instagram because I considered it all a dead end and was time to say good bye. I did not answer the call because it was near midnight and I didn't know who the hell the number was from. Then I added that number to contacts and it was her. Messaged her on how she was and well, no reply yet. Strange.
I blocked mine the day after she dumped me. She realized what I had done a month later when I wasn't responding. During our botched meetup, she asked me 16 times over 2 hours to re-add her to my contacts! Then she literally read me her itinerary for a solid month...my reply? "That's a lot of details from someone who dumped me with rhyme or reason "! The look on her face....lol! Anyway, 3 months later, we have reconnected, and I'm going to visit Her at her Sisters place in Canada in 2 weeks. Taking it slow...seeing what I'm dealing with. Something really bad went down with her in Colombia...and I want answers before or if I re-commit to her.
@@Bigsky1991 oh shit I bet that relationship didn't last
My ex blocked me for a month and one night the phone rings twice....I didn't answer but I missed him and thought he wouldn't contact me again. Two days passed by. Last night he called and I could sense the nervousness in his voice. The first thing he asked me was "how's that car bumper doing" I said fine. He asked about the kids and I replied they were great. Then he asked me had I been giving his "stuff" away.... It was goodnight from there.... That was it... Missing me and the sex..he would have gotten a better reply had he just asked for sex (that he isn't gonna get) instead of that funky dance he did with me.
does saying hi and walking away when you see your ex by accident at school ruin the no contact?
I know it's been a while since you asked, but who knows who might come across this thread and find it useful:
as far as I understand, in that scenario you should just say hi as you're passing by, but don't go out of your way to talk to her. be nice, but if she wants to speak to you for a "quick chat", tell her you haven't got time (gotta go to class or whatever). kinda one of the fundamentals of corey's teaching, be indifferent and don't give her attention she doesn't deserve.
I can imagine this even having a positive impact on the situation, as she is being reminded that you're still around and appear to be enjoying life, but she doesn't get to share the experience, so it could make her wonder
@Ronnie Watson: I wouldn't have even texted back.just ignore.that will teach her.
a white version of AMS already 8 years ago
#SleazeballGang
she dumped me for a girl but she says she loves me and is afraid of loosing both her gf tells her not to contact me and has power over the relationship she treats me like a second option and treats me like crap sometimes should i continue having hope or move on? help coach corey
rfcilia Thanks man i guess youre right i begged, pleaded bt ddnt work out and she moved on with some dude 2months later as in yesterday she texted me saying shes all sorry after she found out that her relationship aint working out bt if it worked she wouldnt give a s*** ... shes a liar i jst feel dumb and stupid for crying over a person who never saw future with me ... i ignored her texts since the day she dumped me for some new dude nw she texts me with a diff number cz she has 2 numbers saying that shes sorry misses me and wishes she could go back all i did was saw the text and never replied... after making her relationship public on facebook ... Onder Hassan Thanks man i really apreciate yalls advice and its so true about what youre saying shes only coming back cz she has no option ...
She treated you like a 2nd option cause you allowed it and hung around waiting to be thrown crumbs from the dinner table, don't tolerate that shit.
thanks buddy i really appreciate it...
Onder Hassan thanks buddy i really appreciate it... ive lost total attraction towards her and im focusing on my goals... and plus im doing better this time...
cheers
Yep..broke up! 3 months later got back together...found out after we broke up again 3 months later she was seeing a guy during the first breakup ! It's been a year now no contact ! She grew up with this guy and they kept on contact through Facebook...there relationship caused her divorce and somehow she met me during this time and I think I was a crutch till this guy got his divorce ! Basically I was used for a yr and 3 months..
Just remember that this day and age, all people get used for emotional support because they feel alone. That's why 'trust no one' is now healthy. Yo-yos. Smh
how can they call , txt or message on SM if you block and delete ? if bitches wanna talk they're gonna have to find me
She called me after 16 years & now we are 28..
Saugata Pramanik eh? You mean you guys were 12 when you started dating?
Kenneth Castillo yes, we are neighbours from childhood ruclips.net/video/QrhwOcs7deg/видео.html
My ex-fiance called me after 19 years
So what happened
what happend dude?
Wow, no shit
@ROCKSTAR123620 She gained about 50lbs and developed a lot of wrinkles so use your imagination.
How I wish he text me..... Its been exactly 12 weeks of NC
She called me after 8 years...
If a guy said "I look forward to seeing you in bed again", idc if I was interested, that would immediately turn me off & you wouldn't hear from me again. Btw, I enjoy flirting but coming on too strong is such a turn off. Don't say it...show it.
Michelle Palmer you haven’t read the book 10-15 times
StraightCashHomey 😂 that was such a witty response I literally laughed out loud
So can you reply to texts playfully and sexually even if she has a boyfriend and texts you the way mentioned in the video?
KaPi CoRn Hey bro if she has a bf and you manage to get her to leave him for you then theres nothing stopping her from leaving you later on for another guy girls like this are not werth your time cheers
Hmm Most attractive heterosexual women have a boyfriend. There's never anything stopping ANY woman from leaving any man for any reason, ever. There is no justification for your comment "girls like this are not werth (sic) your time."
When you said "pick you up at 7?" and she didn't respond, you knew it was going to be a flake. Make a definite date (that she agrees to). Why did she blow you off? Because she had something else she would rather be doing. Maybe she didn't respond initially because she wanted to leave her options open. Maybe didn't want to go out at all. Is it a test, or is she just totally inconsiderate of your time and feelings? Who knows? Who cares? What about YOU? Maybe this is YOUR test of HER value. How many stars do you give her now? Stop acting like this is the only woman on earth. Stop thinking that other people's behavior is YOUR "screw up" to "fix". Respect yourself and some others will follow. At least you will always have the respect of the one who matters: you. Start having fun and women will be attracted to you. Sitting around worrying about what makes this one bitch tick cannot be all that much fun for you. Life is short. When you realize just how short, you will stop wasting your time and energy on people who do not appreciate you.
rfcilia My point is that there is nothing stopping any woman from leaving any man, ever. Just because she left one man to be with another doesn't mean it will happen again, and just because one never has doesn't mean she won't. Women are humans.
What if it feels like you legitimately cannot meet another woman in the aftermath of an intense breakup? I don
t tend to meet women very often, even casually...this number dwindles for women who actually want to date etc.
@TeeJae84 thanks, luckily I had been doing exactly what you suggeted: Going to the gym, working more hours etc. I've been showing a measure of indifference that I think has been paying off, more attention from women and even making out with a cute woman at the bar this past weekend (she introduced herself to me :)
If i kinda think shes seeing someone else and still contacts me after a few months. Should i still ask if shes seeing someone? Or just go straight for the definite date?
I broke it off with my girl friend.. she called me back after two week, but I missed the call... lol I then called her back thirty minutes after her call. Then she didn’t answer xD, so I just left a message to call me back.
Does this apply to women too? Please help ? I’ve been heartbroken a few times
Should I wait or Should I Reach Out? been over a month.
If she broke it of...wait brother!
Lol 😆 that's a good one, Phone-ship! Lol 😆
I have a crush that looked very interested but does not look like she is not interested
She can call smeone else .
Nobody excepts the Spanish Innuendos!!!
I'm living exactly this scenario... after roughly 3 no contact periods with a botched meetup thrown in the middle, we are now talking on Skype almost daily. Something truly dramatic happened, because she dumped me for no reason, yet insisted we stay friends (I shot that down, pissed her off) now, after the 3rd no contact and a birthday greeting I sent on day 38, I finally hear from her... an she has resigned her education ministry job in Colombia, left her brand new house there, and is hiding out with her Sister in Canada! Holy hell! Anyway... I'm planning to go up in 2 weeks, test the waters, try to assess the situation...but... I have a million questions......why? How? What truly happened?? I want info...
Bad idea
So how did that go?
Read the book.
Question: so if a girl dumped you and reached out after a few months. And in that time she was sleeping with other dudes and now wants you back, is it a good idea to take her back?
I mean, I would see that as she didn't get what she wanted with other dudes, so she comes back to you as a back up. You're definitely not her first option, and I don't think anyone wants to be a girls back up.
What do you all think?
No because it will keep happening and she will never respect herself unless she turns her life around and starts to respect herself the fact that she left to sleep with other guys means she does not and the same thing will happen again don’t unless somewhere in the future she starts having self respect from what you can tell
it doesn’t necessarily mean you’re just a back up, it maybe that she tested the waters and came to the conclusion, that you’re really a good man and appreciates who you are much more.
@@beyourself9162 I don't think someone needs to sleep with someone else to realize that they want you........the sheer fact they you haven't spoken to her, that she has not seen you for a few weeks should be more than enough to make her realize that. The idea that you had to be with other people to realize that you want someone sounds pretty dumb to me......
I don't think it has too much to do with ego. It's just common sense. I don't need to hook up with other girls to realize I want my gf back....makes no sense
@@Gong14921 true.. but I once dumped my first love after graduation because I felt I needed to go party and be single. I fell hard for another girl almost immediately after the breakup. We had an amazing few weeks, but I realized I just love my ex and I needed her back. It wasn’t because the new girl didn’t pan out, it was genuinely coming to the realization that I loved my ex more than anything. We got back together but she could never truly forgive me so the relationship went toxic. This was almost 10 years ago and I would still say I’ve never loved someone more than the girl I dumped.
After a break-up, both you and your ex-lover is free. You don't have to be faithful to a dead relationship, like her. As Corey says: Women are like cats, they come and go. You just make it easy for them. After they dumped you, you should degrade them to "an unreceptive potential date" until they contact you again, and if they contact, they are just "a receptive or neutral potential date" so you are gonna approach it like that.
Any advice on a girl that I was with for two years that left me 2 months ago and is dating somebody else? I didn't contact her for nearly two months until I just broke silence and had a really nice conversation with her. It was then I sort of just left the door open, what if she doesn't contact you? Another guy being in the picture is definitely a huge reason why she wouldn't, but should I just be patient and move on?
mt2oo8 I was with my ex for 2 too and broke up with me 2 months ago too, the best thing you can do is focus on yourself and your purpose as Corey puts it. Start talking to new girls, it will be awkward at first, but the sooner you do these things the quicker you heal. And besides even if you want her back, you need to grow and improve. And buy Corey's book, it really helped me a lot.
mt2oo8 walk away never look back ! Exes are ex’s for a reason ! Move on
I watch these videos 99% because this guy is so hot. Like a younger Lex Luthor. ;) From that Smallville show.
littlemissdimples88 None of us care. Not even Corey
He is definetly not my type but his content is supreme
hi this is sachin from india
i m going to no contact for 3 month
pls reply me does she come back
and love me pls reply
lmao
This has happen twice before with the same girl .... on my third now 😂 😆
So there's this girl I like , I asked here on a date she said yes but kept postponing and never went on the date but still chatted and called.
She all of a sudden started ignoring me didn't answer my calls and texts she either did not reply or one worded reply's . So on new years I wished her happy new year and said goodbye for good she just responded happy new year and we never talked again.
2 Days ago or 3 Months later she sent me a text and saying " Hi are you still angry with me" to which I replied that is was never angry just didn't see the point to talk to myself and she apologised and we chatted a little.
So should I wait for her to make contact again or should I?
I personally wouldn't as I see that as her seeing you as "the backup plan" after her original plan failed. Move on.
Straight up game 👍
hey Corey what book are you talking about like what you do keep it going
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Corey Wayne, when she does contact you again should you wait a few days or a week to be a challenge before replying and saying to come over?
AshesToStars wait a day, if you wait to long she might think you are not interested or dating other girls.
is the boomer rang thing real?
Yepper watch out ! They can't make up there minds and are able to have feelings for to people at once ! That's why if you hear I'm so confused ,RUN !!!!
Me too every week 😛😛😛 now
She dumped me for another guy and I went no contact straight away. We haven't talked for the past two months. Last Sunday it was her birthday and I didn't wish her. This Tuesday was my birthday and I didn't hear from her either. Yesterday, I received a message from her wishing for my birthday. I thanked her and wished for hers. So, what's her point? Why she texted me wishing for my birthday, in delay, and nothing else?
Ignore her
the other guy messed up in that particular moment so she thought of you
Should of asked her to come round to your place
When she contacts back you assume she wants to see you and set a date.
This is all so dumb..this is why you have to take it slow..no grown a$# woman should be actn this way..grown a$$ women over communicate lol it drives men crazy bt thats how u knw she is mature and likes you...i wld say run run for you life if a woman is actn like this its stupid
cool
Does this apply to gay dudes?
Jason Wassik if you are the masculine looking for the feminine dude then I don’t see why it wouldn’t
Jason Wassik tkckifste
No
I question myself all the time when it comes to same sex relationships. It actually does especially if you know/feel what role you are in
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nicee
Chasing women does not guarantee rejection! A woman responds to being pursued. It's the way of nature. Dont be afraid to be a man.
This is 2020 we not chasing these chics... fuck that!!!!
Only if she has earned that.
There's a difference between pursuing and chasing, pursuing means you get the number, you go out on a date you hook up and you wait about a week or 2 to setup the next date if she hasn't reached out to you already, chasing is blowing up her phone all the time always wanting to be together with her and not having a life outside of her.
My ex girlfriend contacted me out of the blue, after 8 months of silence, she wanted to meet me..I was abit shocked, I only said OK! But I strongly believe that she was dating Someone else all that time and probably she got dumped recently ...that's why she contacted me out of the blue, I just moved on .