Fearing She'll Forget You
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- Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024
- The real reason why you fear potential lovers forgetting about you and finding someone else, and what you can do to overcome your fear and let go of your unhealthy attachment to them, so you can attract and seduce them successfully, or attract someone better.
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If she does forget you, then you're clearly aren't destined couple and she's not the right girl for you. Simple as that.
OR you played it wrong because you simply didn't understand the scenario or understand women in basic sense
or you were with narcissistic sociopath who used and abused you
Dumbest reply I have ever heard. It could be because your fatass is just sitting in front of the computer not being motivated to change.
Truth👍👍👍
@Joe H Doesn't matter even if you play the game right,if she's not destined for you she will find another man along the way and the same for you. You'll find a better woman. That's how shit works.
You can feel it when someone is forgetting you, Don't be afraid infact face and accept it. Stop wasting time that is not worthy in your life.
LoveMe,com Very true
Good advice
how do you know that? pls explain
This really true I can feel it ..
No you can't feel when someone is forgetting about you... It's about confidence and self worth. Women only think with their emotions. For all you men you don't chase them you replace them. They will always come back if you forget about them.
I have no "fear" that a girl will forget me, I actually want her to forget me and move on with her life and go be happy with someone else. I'm fine. We just didn't work out and acceptance is the key.
Jack Bravo I fe like that but i miss her...
I understand.
Through time, your pain will heal
She will never forget you if you laid it on her well when she was with you.
Exactly
I doubt she will forget you, if you were a good man, like no other, even if appears that it is, she will remember you when she will be alone in the night, remember how you promise you will take care of her. Sad thing is that, if she comes back someday, maybe it will be too late...
Im just tired of waiting. Move on and work on yourself
Ive had plenty exs come back... Sadly after fucking half the neighborhood.
Same here.. He knws how much he mean to me.. I kept praying for him until now tht shes with his new gf.. I just thnx God above atleast I met him and made me happy once in my lifetime
@@David-lx4yb Wat if the woman had left you because of the "situation"??
I mean in this case, her ex force to marry him..??
@@David-lx4yb i already told her if she change her mind, if the situation change let me know..
But Im hoping for the best, the situation will not turn.
@@David-lx4yb i believe u should let them come back ..but in coming back u definitely can make her work harder to get you..cuz now shell realize u wasnt that easy frl u just try to make it easy for her cuz u liked her...but if she dont put in dat work wen she come back...fuck her ..u know wat she on
All of my ex’s have contacted me whether I broke if off or they did. The odds are high.
Best advice is to work on yourself and move on.
I told her I was only interested in a romantic relationship and hmu if she changed her mind. She came back but after leaving again and choosing another, I told her the same and she said she's fine with not being friends and we walked away. Do u think she meant it this time? Will she ever come back?
@@freecollins1685 bro if she has started spending time with another guy, do you even want her back?
@@gmoney5173 I did want her back, but I am getting stronger each day and realizing that I don't want her.
@@freecollins1685 thats my man. Getting stronger and improving . Good for you bud 👌
Honestly, the right thing to do when a relationship dies is to let it be dead. Stand your ground and let the fact that you're enough and that there are 3+ billion women in the world motivate you.
Its never too late to learn, at 53, divorced twice, 100s of dates and many girlfriends. Only a fews ago have I finally found my purpose, my mission, and how to be with a woman the way she needs. These videos are fucking great!
Ur a literal god, my heart was hurt because of this 1 girl, but after watching some of ur videos my heart suddenly doesn't feel heavy anymore and i just want u to know how much i apreciate you.
it will be even better if you get his books and study thoroughly and make notes. Videos are fun and informative, but the book is the groundwork. It is what I am currently doing. (reading for the fourth time, and making heavy notes.)
@@juwu3447 which one are you reading?
@@tomiwaaderibigbe9147 the 3% man one. It is the one he mentioned when he always said read it ten to fifteen times.
@@tomiwaaderibigbe9147 I btw am reading it through the 5th time. You may think it as a easy read, but you actually can get some hidden messages that are not so obvious at first when you reread it again.
And it also helps when you are trying it out in a real life situation. Say, you read it once, and go on your life and being rejected by some chick, you still feel devastated. Now you read it five times, as the attraction concept really sinks in, you don't care as much since you know attraction either is there, or its not.
Well, its a simple conecpt we all know, but for it really to sink in, its what you gonna do. Its the difference between knowing and "knowing", and its just not what one video can do.
And it may feel like reading the same info again at first, but it really is not and you gotta feel it yourself.
I bought Corey's book after reading it many times, the information sinks in and everything that's happened starts to make sense.
One thing you have to understand about women is they get very nostalgic. Ex-girlfriends always come back in one form or another, period. It doesn't matter whether its days, weeks, months or even years. They'll always want to check up on you to see what you are up to. I once had an ex contact me 4 years later! All my ex's have checked up on me in one form or another. This is just the nature of women. This happens more if the guy leaves first, but happens pretty often the other way around too.
James Lawson you are right on that , my ex gf of 3 years dumped me in January, I unfollowed her on every social media due to me trying to move on if she doesn't come back , she recently unfollowed me on twitter but still has me on Instagram and watches my snapchat stories all the time lol
James Lawson I've never had an ex check up on me 🤔 never not once and I'm 33
What if they left you a second time? Do they check up a third time? My ex of 6 years left me, I went no contact 2 months then she called begging to get back together, she loved me made a mistake etc... 2 months later she left again out of no where just like first time. I’m no contact 3 months now and wondering do they still come back again after a 2nd break up, even if it’s months years later that they break contact? Or does what you say where they check in only happen after a first break up?
BPD.. check this bro
James Lawson g
9 years of no contact. I might have to tweak this a bit.
😂
Lol she must’ve been cute as hell ! I hope , she probably married by now !
Hang in there!! 😆
Bro. Mine came back after 11. Have Faith. 😂
@@bushmanheartdamnn
the simple rule in life, be yourself, express your emotions, dont worry about playing games, if its the right one, its easy
Everything in moderation.
And people don't act positive to that
@@puneetjain1982 be yourself, be honest, kind, caring, helpful, work hard and hopefully the right people will come into your life to share it, just my view of the world
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@surfer300ZX doesn't it bother you you can't express how u feel? Because for me it realy does. Like what if she did something that hurt me what do I do in a situation like that? :(
Bro, women remember everything. A girl will never forget you, the difference is HOW MUCH OF A PRIORITY YOU’RE IN HER LIFE
0:35 Getting good at relationships helps in personal life, business, negotiating, and getting what you want in life.
0:55 Corey's quote
5:15 *Women want a guy who is an alpha male - who looks her in the eye and feels he deserves to be there.* Beta male behavior, self limiting beliefs, come from feeling not worthy or good enough (reacting from a place of fear).
7:28 *Mission and purpose should be first, foremost, and paramount in a man's life.* Because if you're not happy doing what you love, focusing on your mission and your purpose, you're not embodying what masculine energy is - and that's what attracts feminine women to a masculine man in the first place.
7:45 Over-pursuing is driven by fear, a dysfunctional belief system and self-talk. That's why it's very important to be aware of your self-talk.
8:20 Constantly feeling and acting like you're not worthy causes attraction to dissipate.
21:30 Politicians doing everything they can do to legislate our freedoms away.
22:00 When a woman talks about marriage, kids, spending lives together, etc. it only applies in the moment that she's talking about it.
22:40 Women don't dump guys they're head over heels in love with.
23:00 Being a tough badass is an aphrodisiac to women.
Corey, this is slowly, slowly, starting to sink in, as far as this whole business is concerned. I'm old, and this fact doesn't help. But, this RUclips channel is not a gold mine--it's a diamond mine with diamonds cut to perfection. 178,417 page views, at this time, for this particular newsletter, says it all.
I don't envy men with wealth, fame, power, and even 10's for sex playmates. But, I envy you. Why? Because you appear to have lived your life to its fullest, while helping many people along our bumpy road. Thank you.
This is the one thing that really irks me about when I see people say " Oh I'm afraid they'll forget me" or " i'm afraid they'll find someone else", WTF? These people fear the truth and that they won't stay relevant to someone who doesn't give a damn. Be self assured, be confident, fearless that you dare them to move on and if they can't, then you have something to work with. If not, you wasted no energy on them.
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That's great man, that's the mind set you really have to adopt instead of being the usual; fearful and clingy type and afraid of what to say and do, thinking she'll leave and forget you. If a girl has no more interest in a guy than that, then he's better off without her cause she's evidently not being a good team player that you can put faith and trust in.
preach!!!!
If everyone feels that way then it’s an endless loop of no one caring lol
Absolutely the best advice. People want what they can't have. Even if that person doesn't contact you, like he says 6 billion people on Earth. There is ALWAYS someone else out there.
7.594 billion
Correct. But, there will always be the ONE who blew your frikken mind. You will very likely find better. But, the memory will always be there. Burned in the brain.
Unless you're bi-sexual, it's more like approx 4 billion
Over 8b by now. That's 4b women. Let her go haha
I learned the lesson. i'm glad that I barely hear from her anymore, she gave me nothing but the silent treatment and she was a piece of work.
@deejaysoundsgood Make it where you don't hear from her. So many women act like spoiled ass children.
@@inspectorlunge3887 No kidding. I agreed 100% Move on!
29:13 "Dude you're alright bro, you fucking got this. Do absolutely nothing."
Love that line.
Discovered this video series because my gf dumped me and is with another guy now and I was looking for something to cheer me up. I learned that I made every mistake possible and drove her right into his arms even more. The "let them fly, and if they don't return... fuck them" mentality of your stuff helped me a lot to accept it as it is. Maybe she contacts me one day, maybe she won't. You motivated me to just move the fuck on, to focus on my purpose and to get your book :)
fucking same.... she dumped me with lame reasons and in less than 24hours she started dating this guy at her work and wants me to move out immediately. if she comesback cool if not better. she did this to me now and if ever we will get back together there's a huge chance that she will do this again. fuck her.
Yeah she reached out and we tried again until I realized it wouldn't work and walked lol.
+RageQuit how long ago did she reach? how long was he with?
RageQuit how long did you make no contact with her?
3 years had passed, any updates?
To those who are in fear like myself... what if you could grant her wishes and leave her alone, and find someone else better? Go talk to new women and replace her... you can find BETTER out there.
This comment made me feel alot better ..... she just left me..
Why the fu•k would you touch a woman that’s with another dude? Pitiful!!! Have some self respect and find someone who is exclusive and will commit to a future. Period!
Agree. These modern women are rediculous. I once almost fucked a tinder thot but left pretty quickly when on the second time hanging out i found out she had a bf. 5 months later i was desperate anf hit her up she just replied "im married now" lmao
Lol good luck finding a woman to commit. Theres a reason why women are statistically passing males with cheating.
@@MrCjchamp2001 of course their are, but they will fail. They always do and women are cheating more and more as time goes on. It's called reality
@@MrCjchamp2001 my attitude is poor cause I'm aware that women are cheating more and more? Lol
@@MrCjchamp2001 you're oblivious clearly lol you can thank social media and online dating. Look it up and find out for yourself.
What a fucking channel,just by watching a couple videos i went from ‘i need this girl’ to ‘i dont give a shit, if it works it works,if it doesnt i’ll move on’...you earned yourself a sub
I'm just coming out of a breakup right now and early this day,i was feeling kinda low.I got home after hitting the gym,i watched about 10 of Corey's videos and now i feel so fucking great that i can't fall asleep.It's either i'm really fucked up,either this man is the GOAT.Thanks again for all of your work,Corey!
When you really think about it... When you get chased by girls who you really don't care about too much, they always keep on coming back. You're still a gentleman, but you're not fucking revolving your life around them. You speak to them politely, and you go about your business. If you are texting them, you may forget to reply, or just cut the conversation short. But they keep on coming back! Because you're such a mystery to them, and they want to know more. You're not constantly blowing up their phone and being a needy bitch to them. In their eyes you live your own life by your own rules, and they love that. Where as if you start to pursue and be needy, they'll lose interest in you incredibly fast. It's because you're no longer a challenge or a mystery. You're an open book to them and causes their interest to plummet. Women are more attracted to men who feelings unclear... FACT!! You rock Corey. All my mistakes I've made in the past make sense.
I'm a girl. Why do ugly men keep chasing me? They always want my attention. They always ask me out. I can't get rid of them. But the handsome men NEVER approach me. They NEVER talk to me. They always ignore me. Why can't I get the good-looking ones?
LaoSoftware Sometimes the "ugly" guys are the best guys. They could be hidden gems. More often than not, a clean shave and pressed shirt doesn't mean a good personality. And it could be that the good looking guys are ignoring you because unbeknownst to you, they probably saw you blow off the guys who could genuinely care and decide that you're too vain and that looks are all that matter. How do I know this? Because my body is covered in scars and my GF is breathtakingly gorgeous. So the ability to see past the wrapping paper is probably a virtue you should work on.
John Kren very well said. I have scars too in one of them is on my face! But guys who are still interested in getting to know me, I def will be setting my eyes on them differently. I will value and respect them higher than average.
Dude, if you look at the comment it is coming from a potentially attractive female. And I have dated average women before, several of them. But anyhow, she is assumingly attractive and she hates ugly dudes. So I was explaining to her that she'll get better luck if she wasn't so shallow. So before casting judgment on what I say, please don't just pick and choose things to nit pick about.
EagleLogic exactly. its like when girls start to like me and Im not to aware to it im doing everything right out of ignorance. they are always showing affection. then I start to like em and start always being available and it drops fast
Even when she's not talking/saying anything to you, she's testing you.
Matty Matt and we/you should be moving on without her so if her timelines doesn’t match then you aren’t missing her
Sure has been testing me for many years
I’ve not heard from her in 34 years.
I think she has forgotten me. I saw pics of her on Facebook, the years have not been kind to her. In fact, the years have beaten the shit out of her. I still miss her.
This. This is what I fear.
Guys are scared of being better than a bitch. We can't handle it ideoligically for some dumb reason.
You guys need to grow a pair and be men.. not all this missing someone for ages and all fantasy land stuff. It’s your birth right to have the best in life. The days are only getting shorter.
crazywarriorman 34 years? Wtf man. That can't be real
He must be joking 😂😅
I like when you cuss every now and then.
Joel Cullum dude yes you hit it right on the head
I don't understand people who think cussing is trashy. Its authentic, raw, and refreshing.
Free speech man.
I like to learn how cuss , but not like use it every other word like some guys out there
Lol
I believe, Unless you atrociously fucked up (Abusive behaviour, stalking etc...) a relationship with an ex can 9 times out of 10 be salvageable if you learn what to do. Remember, you attracted them once so you can always do it again. If you’ve become needy and emotionally unstable towards her (I was guilty of it too) Take a step back and chill out, don’t message her, don’t accept friendship. Whether it’s 2 days, 2 weeks or 2 months. Don’t contact her if you’re still feeling emotionally unstable. She will eventually get in touch with you, 100%.
Not just 2 days, 2 weeks, or 2 months either. Can even be way longer lol
Guys do you really think you want a girl that forgets who you are while you are thinking about her constantly?
I am so grateful I found your work Corey. I was totally clueless until I saw your channel and read your book. Now I understand why they behave the way they do. No more mistakes. I ignore one girl and she's all over me and then show affection to another, and she treats me like dirt. Didn't understand this until I found your book. Men don't put women on the pedestal. part of my weakness is actually my nature, "a naturally caring guy". This was exploited by a couple of ungrateful women. I know what to do now after reading 3%. I didn't understand why some women just don't communicate until I found the darn book. U ask a girl is everything okay, she says yes but her actions are totally different. I focus more now on their actions than what they say. Women are more complex than complex theory.
My nigga Corey Fucking Wayne in the Flesh
He’s a G
I once had an ex reach out to me four years after she broke up with me. She sent me an instant message but I didn't recognize the screen name. She said "It's Christine." I honest to God, no lie, had actually forgotten than I ever even knew her. It made me feel really weird. She mentioned how her bf was out with her dad for the night so thought she and I could catch up. She mentioned maybe getting together for a drink sometime. I politely declined. Thanks but no thanks.
What was her bf doing during that conversation? Asking her dad if he could marry her.
The point is that they never, ever forget. However, it's irrelevant. If you disagree, read the book again.
I mean it makes sense. People are usually happy when they get married. They look back fondly on previous relationships. She prob wanted to invite to be part of the wedding since you were part of her life at one point
I've heard this video many times in the past. NOW, I'm hearing it newly after getting so much from reading your book (8 times and counting) and having many experiences dating! Dude thanks for what you do!
Coach, you got great tips! The only thing I learned over time, is letting it go. I used to fear of a great girl I met last year, of her forgetting me. My ex, this girl I met recently. I don’t care anymore if they forget about me anymore if things don’t or didn’t go. I changed my perspective that like you say, pursue goals, make myself interesting, basically have color to my persona, and not be black and white, or boring. It’s helped me so much that I got back on track with school, graduated college, applying for a CSU, chasing goals, not girls, and just trying to take care of my priorities to the point where sometimes I don’t even wanna hang out with people or hit up a girl cause they may take time away from my goals. But thank you for all the tips. When I’m in need, I’ll watch your videos and get your book, but until those times come, imma just do me.
When my ex canceled our date at the last minute over text due to homework, I think I messed up by saying “It’s okay! Homework deserves a middle finger Haha. Do you have any other free times coming up?” To which she replied “next weekend I think I’ll be free”. Haven’t heard from her in 4 weeks and she’s dating someone new.....
I'm in great shape and I'm young, but I still come to your videos now and then for a refresher , our memories fail us sometimes but Mr Corey Wayne you got this down to a science.
I have so many options bc of your advice.
But I found a winner and I don't wanna mess it up , so thanks for everything you do brother.
This video applies to my situation exactly!
... but it's really, really hard to just do 'nothing' and keep from calling someone you really are in love with, have lived with for 6 years, still loves me to in some way but does not want a relationship anymore (at this moment?).
so i'll be watching this video again every time i feel weak :)
thanks!
Even the comments is to old-Me and my ex have 10 years living together, but, I give a damm shit when he dump me .I evaluate all her bad habitts and I conclude this = never is to late to start from 0.
Personally the best you tube channel for this type of material. He talks like I talk and seems like he puts it in the context that mirrors me the best. There’s others out there but CCWs shit is the best. Keep it up coach still learning
Or AMS
I walked away from a chick 10 years ago when I could tell it wasn't going anywhere. I was 100% sure she would forget about me and I almost completely forgot about her (we travel in the same social circle but had no direct contact for 10 years)
I heard from her again out of the blue right around Halloween 2019. We met up for drinks. It took her 30 seconds to tell me she broke up with her boyfriend of six years.
They never forget if you're worth a fuck.
Is this change you both were not together for this time No. All my exes wanted to contact me or made something to get together but is this change the fact the opportunity is missed No… I mean if the opportunity is missed I don’t care if she forgot me or not and I really believe this is how it should be…
One thing I love about this video is that thinking my ex will contact me makes moving on easier.
So did she?
i just discovered cosh corey and MAN DID I FUCKING NEED THIS
Hey Corey!!!
Had my shit on lock and then started to slip. Our breakup really messed me up. I did everything for that woman and yet still was the one chasing. I was broken up with over nothing. Ghosted for 3 months and came right back after she emailed me. Only to have her leave 4 days after! Again! I've ordered your book and look forward to diving in..REPEATEDLY!!!! I used to OWN MY SHIT years ago and wouldn't have given a girl like her a second glance. Amazing how we lose ourselves over the years. Pussy on a pedestal is what happened. No more. I'm the prize. I'm the one who brings it to the table. Thank you for doing what you do. I'm coming back.....bigger and better. Working out, JuiJitsSu. Working on controlling my emotions and handling my business like a winner.
You're the man buddy!
So I've read the book 3 times. I wasn't right about everything I thought...but that's okay. She reached out Valentine's Day and we've seen each other a couple times since then. Have to remember to keep my end cool and not smother her again. Remember to value myself and what I bring to the table. Be the man I know I am. Found my centre and have never felt so grounded. In all aspects of my life. Your book really helped me in every facet of my life. From love to business...professionally and on a personal level. Thank you for giving me the tools to love and live my best self. Respect
This really inspired me brother! I’m in a VERY similar situation and am staying busy. But thinking about her is driving me nuts. I miss her. Or at least I miss the idea of her. Hope you’re doing well!
I just love Corey's Character and mental strength, it's so great that his willing to Help others and work on him self!!!
Hate it when your right ,man it sucks finding these videos a little too late
I followed your advice on falling back and now im seeing results. Thanks brother
This is one of the best Corey videos out there, in my opinion of course. Really gets to the point of us guys and our programming/paradigms
best life Coach and in Par with the invention of the slice of bread! btw, just bought 3% via Amazon and already half done and 14 more times to go!!!
Awesome!!!
look this brother right here has dropped a jewel. In my opinion u have Divine Wisdom. The Most High led me to this understand. U accept and receive your msg. Thank you Brother
I just don't know anymore, it seems being a man you aren't allowed to be vulnerable, ever. People always say it's okay to show feelings, but the moment I do they leave. Women on the other hand, when they show insecurities they get support, they get sympathy. Out of all the years, having survived an abusive childhood and growing up socially awkward, I feel people's suffering, their pain, and I grew up to be sensitive to emotions. I learnt to conceal my feelings. I learnt to blend in. I thought I could share my feelings and fears with my ex, but she rarely understood. The time my ex's mom told me I am worthy after our separation, I broke down into a mess, no one ever told me that, all 26 years, not even my own parents. It sucks.
This guy is good. I'm naturally good with women and I can confirm his teaching. Problem is that we guys cannot totally emotionally relax and be completely what we want to be. We cannot fall in love and show it openly, because that will repell woman. She need to be somehow insecure in your feelings, you have to be abit of mistery and not an open book.
All in all, you always have to play abit, and not be totally relaxed and be what you are. You always have to entertain woman and keep her interested because after all she is decisionmaker in a relationship and we are only actors that try to persuade her to keep being in love with us. It's ok with me because I'm natural but I suppose it is not easy for alot of guys there. That is not women's fault, they are simply built that way.
nice piece of advice man, can i get in touch with you for more advice or sth, like your email, i'm tired of messing up in relationships i need advice here
@@VoiceOfThe just read Corey Wayne's book 10-15 times and u will be golden
The one who care less is the one who holds the power. It applies not only in romantic relationship, but almost in all aspects of life if not in everything. So, if you want to have power over anyone, start caring more about yourself. Make it your default top priority. By doing this, people will respect and care about you more than what you expected from them.
If someone truly cares for you they will want to see you or at a minimum contact you.
what if you're long distance? I've lost a couple relationships that slowly fizzled out because I was an out of state student.
jhumenik97 never do long distance it never works lots of trust issues and suspicious activities find someone close
Jerry Jones Sometimes we love someone very much but have to break up, otherwise the guy will waste our time as long as we let him and then tell us ; oh you are old. I had to break up with a bf of 3 years. I’d rather be dumbed than break up with someone. Is it wrong that we want the entire loaf and not breadcrumbs?
Oh my gosh! I'm speechless with your videos. Your understanding is so in depth. I'm so grateful!
If you think a chick is that damn important, you've already screwed up. Family and money is the only thing that matters to me. Maybe you guys should try having other aims. Love is always there, find it when you're done.
he means parents, brothers sisters, cousins uncles, etc
because he is talking about girlfriend and family as two separated parts, therefore, when he says family he talks about blood family, parents and siblings and so on
Love is everywhere, not only in the girls legs
@@Fazzino_Tattoo La fammiddia è la cosa più importante
@@Puccbelit veramente
They may not forget you but Their love for themselves are much bigger. Some peope will just walkaway for good.
Let’s see if walking away and not looking back works been 3 days no contact l! Wish you boys all luck! Thanks Corey!
I feel like the best way to get an ex back, is to fill up your time with other shit to do while you wait for them to come around. Otherwise your free time is going to work against you. Start seeing other women while you wait for her to come back. And who knows, by the time your ex comes back around, you might have already found someone better.
The damn truth we can definitely find a partner 100times better than our ex. But the fact we have to first to accept that. We get comfortable with our ex that's why our brain is too stubborn to move on from a breakup.
I need to watch this 100 more times
Frankie Castellano he'll yeah I been watching the f out of it lmao
I have an MBA from one of the top business schools. They use the "case study" method, just like you do, Corey. Great stuff.
My ex definitely forgot about me. What you fear you will attract is so true. I focused on her forgetting about me and leaving me that eventually she did so.
you can apply it also for us with guys...worked out every single time with guys who werent THAT interested in the beginning-as soon as i moved on,they started to chase me...i guess its not really gender specific-we humans like to have what it´s hard to get.
I'm a parachute. Sometimes I'm worried. I should not. Never stop being your self and what you love. Show respect and be respected. If not, you know the rules. You want the girl of your dreams, then improve, show you care, not with words, take action of your life. The right person if out there somewhere waiting to meet you. From dating comes experience. Don't be afraid. Don't please. Be you. The best version of yourself.
Coach, Thank you so much for everything! When I find myself in a situation similar or different to the current video I always apply it. It is tough at times but you suddenly give me a slap on the face and I get my shit together.
Thank you so much!
You inspire me. Everything you say holds meaning and its great you do this. I'm happy I found your RUclips page. I think I'm going to buy you're book. its well worth it. After the last 5 months of problems I've had with my ex girlfriend, this truly works for me and I'm going to remain positive and do what you say because its the only way, and I need to change my ways if I want her back. Thank you corey!!! :)
thanks, this is actually a relief at this moment on my life. you are making people feel better and that's awesome.
I wish I had watched this video 3 months ago, I fuckd something solid up by over pursuing.
***** same! i really like this girl but i guess its time to move on :/ mistakes are mistakes.
Yep, as long as you learn from your fuck ups.
+Blake Evans the only sad thing is. It is really hard to move on esp. When you like the girl that much . 😔
yea. I know how you feel.
+Daikazoku Hirashima The beauty of this however, is when you learn to walk away from the ones you really like, you start to master yourself. That's the aim of the game. Self mastery.
Low self esteem. Having PTSD, I know it all to well.
Good timing! I was just thinking about this...
same
So how did it work out?
I went through something like this. If you can't eventually have a real relationship with no games after a few years, screw it!
Your videos are so easy to relate to it's killing me
As soon as I finish the book I am reading, I’ll buy and read yours. Say 2 more weeks.
I'm recalling all the girls that have dumped me, they have all reached out at some point in the future. My first two long relationships, yep, and yep.
Second chick went from dumping me to dating my friend right away, still contacted me later. Ostensibly about something irrelevant, yeah right.
I can think of only one chick that HASN'T reached out to me after I was dumped.
how to get over a girl
step 1: forget her and move on
step 2: start working on yourself
step3: stop spending yourlife thinking about women
step4: START WORKING ON YOU AND YOU ALONE ,HELL HIT THE GYM GET MONEY DO SOMETHING OTHER THAN THINK ABOUT HER
step 5: actually there is no step 5 after doing ll of this you will get other girls because shes not the only girl in the world
I have alot to be thankful for everything is changing in my life. I have been getting noticed alot by different women. I have no fear anymore.
I love his honesty and swears with feeling so funny
I don't know why this material is directed to men only. I think men also dislike women who try too hard. Acting needy won't get you anywhere, no matter whether you're a woman or a man.
If a woman i like tries hard, ofcourse i like it, cuz then it's easy. No man want's a difficult woman.
Nah that get me excited. But I also lose respect for her in a way. And then I’m not sure if it’s me or if she has an attachment style of love. That’s normally the case.
This Coach is the best! and I have only read the book twice...lol Thank you so much Coach Corey! All this helps! to become a man. Not to catch girls but to get cached by girls! ;)
You are the best coach Corey
The information that you give is so
Helpful for man in order
To understand woman behavior
PEOPLE WANT WHAT THEY CANT HAVE! ... a very use lady quote guys
Bro all the compliments you gave to the paratrooper guy were awesome, it is true! that guy is already an Alpha he just needs to be an Alpha mentally and emotionally, with that job and being a guy like that you can have any woman you want and lots of them, it makes it easy to pump and dump!
For some reason your facial expressions remind me alot of Adam Sandler! Which is an actor I adore so listening to you is not only informational but also entertaining! Great vids.
The irony here is that the more you fear you'll lose her, the greater the possibility that you will actually lose her due to a chain of negative emotions & actions that you make in order to "keep" her. But once you eliminate your fear simply by NOT GIVING A FUCK about losing her or not, then chances are she'll stay. And even if she eventually does not, it doesn't matter anyway because you already stopped giving a fuck.
17:46 - add to it that you only reward good behavior. You do not reach out to someone whose blew you off. That stinks of desperation.
Love these video!! Pure gold
Thank you for your words of encouragement. Your always on point. God Bless you brother.
You know, you never take into account that some women are just liars. It’s not that you sent a message 1 day earlier or anything. It’s just that she is not an honest person that you can count on. Move on. Find someone with values
He does take them in account in other videos. There are some women and men that are just the way they are and we can't do anything about it.
First off just to say that you are Awesome. I have been a fan and have been listening for just over half a year. Have your book and am reading for my third time.
Tried no contact. It didn't work for me. It has been two months and I haven't heard from her. She had told me months ago that if things didn't work between us she would move with her daughter to anther city.
So after two months sent her an email for closure. I simply stated I am doing fine and I hope she was too. And I wished her luck.
I know I shouldn't have sent the email. but I had nothing to lose. And nothing to gain. She is moving. She is over me. And she has moved on. Four year relationship. Man is this hard.
Dave
She’s not forgetting me.
Great insight👍 Thanks for the real talk
Hi man! My ex broke up with me 10 days ago, after 5 days she texted me saying she missed me constantly and then she called me saying she wanted to change the breakup to a pause/break and she said that she didnt know how to exist without me and so on and that she didnt wanted to really break up, but neither get back together right away. We have talk twice sense the then, we talked about what this break really means and we came to the conclusion that we arent together but we need time to think things over, she feel confused about what she wants. Also those two last calls was both hard/negative and fun, also emotional. We also decided that we would she other people. We said that we would go on a picknick in like 3 weeks before a festival. We are long distance, about 7 hours away. After watching this video im not sure that my approach is the best on could use some advice? all the best.
What if I'm stuck between not wanting to seem too clingy and also wanting to show my interest?!
Yupppp this how I’m feelin
I will try the approach you're suggesting coach! I am currently reading your book! All hail coach Corey! Shout out from the Philippines
Effective pre?
This sounds just like the conversation we had today Corey. btw, great talking with you. - The Pilot
Good video! Great content, keep up the good work! Loved watching it!
Choose somebody who chooses you.
I was lost after my 21 year marriage ended when I left because of her cheating and manipulation
I all of the sudden was alone and sat in silence for months every night and at first it was pure hell but the solitude forced me to do my inner work and become my own person,all fear simply faded away and I found strength and peace in the silence
I fear nothing now and 2 years later I have had some of the best experiences of my life
I have successfully dated many women and instantly know when I need to cut them off
I know my value and will not settle
I’m with a wonderful woman now but if she doesn’t continue to meet my standards,I’m out
That simple
If she forgets me that’s fine,I’ll find another one
I agree with your politician comment. Very true, very true.
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19:48 Thanks for letting me know, well i'd love to see you when you're free. So check your schedule and have a great week and let me know when you're free
"It's in the bag bro!" damn
Corey, I've been watching a few of your videos and they are great! I can see where I've gone wrong in past relationship but I'm a little unsure about one thing. When you're getting to know/pursuing a girl is daily or frequent conversation a bad thing? Obviously when you're into someone they are definitely on your mind a lot and you would love to chat, right? Shouldn't there be conversation between hang outs?
"There's always somebody else" is accurate BUT sometimes everyone else can NEVER be as wonderful as the one you lost. This is always fucking ignored. When we lose that one who can never be replaced we're never going to have a properly fulfilling lifelong relationship with the exact right person for us. This is why men commit suicide after divorce. When what they've lost or had stolen can never be replaced, the pain never goes away, there's never healing, there's no reason left to keep living.
You're a beta
there is NO 'exact right person'.
there are some that might work out, and some that won't...there's no grand scheme of the universe at play, here.
there's only what you make of your situations - how you play the cards you're dealt...
pain comes from tripping over fallacies that stop us from improving and moving forward...identify the fallacies and avoid them.
@@hybridous In the words of Luke Skywalker: "Amazing. Every word of what you just said was wrong." Anyone who's found "that one" will tell you what you're saying isn't right despite what you think. No grand scheme of the universe is not true whatsoever. There is. Some people are lucky enough to have been on the right path to find that other person. Then sometimes stuff goes wrong to knock it all completely out of whack. Sometimes the cards that get dealt lead to ruin. You don't so simply pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move forward. Some people can. Others can't. But not being able to does not mean there are fallacies to overcome, it doesn't mean a person is weak. A person who is loyal and honest with his or her self will know you can't simply hop from the right person to someone less than right. It's wrong. But fear of being alone drives many to do that. Others will keep living alone, on the edge of hanging from a rope with pain everyday due to the fact they simply cannot replace what was lost when that one person walked away. The weakness and the fallacies (including massive stubbornness) reside within that other person to allow them to go fuck another and maybe another and maybe more after that instead of finding the fulfillment in the one person they knew was meant for them. It's really truly one of the most screwed up things in this life we live on Earth. It's the cause of a lot of suicide, if not then just a shit ton of hurt that simply shouldn't be. And no one killing themself when this situation happens to them should ever be called too cowardly to keep living or too weak to not be able to move forward. Getting rid of the pain is desirable no matter if it's physical pain in a cancer patient or emotional pain from losing half of you that you can never get back. Who the fuck wants to live with such pain. It's the masochist who actually carries on with living. The real fallacy is being too cowardly to end the pain once and for all.