Indifference: How To Develop Your Attraction Superpower
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- Опубликовано: 19 авг 2024
- How to develop non-attachment and indifference, your romantic attraction superpower.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss 2 different emails from 2 different viewers. The 1st email is from a viewer who has been dating a girl for about a year. They are both in the process of getting divorces and were separated from their spouses at the time. However, she has continued to go back and forth between him and her ex husband to be. He wants her to choose him or her husband and stop jerking him around. The 2nd email is from a viewer who started dating a girl he really likes, but is becoming a little too controlling and demanding. She’s naturally backing away and he is getting frustrated. Both guys are severely limiting their romantic attraction ability due to their attachment to these women and being chosen by them. I discuss how indifference works, looks and should employed.
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Every single man trying to date needs to hear this. If it doesn’t work out, so what? Indifference, no matter the situation, is the key to attraction and your own mental health.
Accepting the truth about a bad character women has helped me heal and feel more secure about a break up 💪👍👑
Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times.
@@avve9001 Good times create weak Men. Weak Men create hard times.
*Woman
@@Eagles.Fan.Since.Super.Bowl.52 Lol yeah. That's why you should never become lazy and never stop doing self-improvement stuff.
100% brother well said
I’m in this situation right now. You don’t have to be crazy, just crazy strong. Don’t get emotionally attached to her. Know how to play your role and stay in your lane. Do your community service and let her be
@@platoon1081 🎯👆🏽😑
“You can ignore reality but you can’t ignore the consequences of reality” truer words have never been spoken.
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I have read countless dating books, watched numerous dating and pick up videos for 10 years. I’m 30 now and let me tell you, Corey Wayne’s teachings and material is the real deal. Look no further than this man’s advice, not only will you be successful in your dating life but you’ll feel totally complete within yourself. I’ll always salute you Corey
Your name is the best, bro
Truth
100 % Correct!!
Only god will make you fulfilled bro, not humans, but they sure can have a few good things to say. Just like hitler had 👍
Coach, always consistent solid content. God bless you!
Cory is SO RIGHT. It's just so difficult when you're in it. You gotta pull back guys and look at other women. I know you think she's the shit, but so many other women out there.....
We got to pull back because they’ll pull back
Women are annoying bro
I love your videos on indifference.
It helped me focus more on my goals and stop wasting energy on things that are not that important.
It litteraly changed my life for the better in many ways.
It's amazing how sometimes, less is more.
Thank you.
It’s such a great mindset to have in general, not just dating. Letting things anger you and make you upset doesn’t improve the situation and can only make things worse
Applies to friends and business relationships as well.
Growing up with cats 🐈 in the family home , really helped me with " woman are like cats "
Was just thinking this
I wouldn’t even be messing with that girl. Let the ex have her
Always great advice, coach. I finally have reached this place of indifference in my life. Falling deeply in love with myself was what did it for me.
Best part of these is the knowledge, but second best are the voices/comedy you offer. 🤣
Just broke up with a girl like this 2 days before this video came out. Some girls aren't worth the stress no matter what Excuse you giving it. Thank you king!
Coach Corey is truly an expert in women behavior
Amazing that all the woman are doing the same thing!
And us men keep trying to do deal with it the same way.
He got a video on how to deal with this pain is something we have to overcome cause like it or not we have to treat them just like this
CW is a perfect example of how you can read 1 book and re-tell what's in there and make a bank on it. I'd say 90% of his "teaching" is basically a regurgitation of the "The way of the Superior Man", you can tell by the terminology and examples he cites from that book. I'd recommend everyone reading that on the first place on top of CW's material - really useful!
Corey you said there’s two types of women, the party one night women and the take home to mom women. Would love a video going deeper into this. Perhaps a video to help us analyze and determine what type does a current woman we’re dating fall under?Explaining the differences, what to look out for, etc.
Read the book.
Read the book and by now g you should know how to spot her
Imma say what the previous persons said, read the book. Its all in the vetting process before you commit to a relationship.
There's way more woman than this. Woman don't work that way, I don't care what this man says 😅 yes, some of his stuff does "work." But there's no way in hell out of all these woman that they only fall in 2 categories. He doesn't know what he doesn't know
It is an easy way for you to figure out.....go to any female-targeted environments.....soak the moment to see how many ladies are checking you out. Then pay special attention to those who keep subtle attention on you (not the other way around). Cross out those who didn't give you any attention or constant subtle clues. Walk over to play well with a lady who gives you a special tipoff (I didn't say play game...there is a big difference)
15:07 "to blow the barrels out" lol - I always appreciate you sage advice Coach with some nuggets of humor
I did that a lot. Act instead of observe and let people go on. I think a lot of us just commit two mistakes: we dont invite the girl we want to a date (lack of actions) or we do so much to those who dont want us (acting when we should observe). I learned.
Im the guy from the second letter, it is crazy how you read the situation and said things that I didnt even write. I laughed a lot from your comments, and I also understand a lot. For me its unusual to have this kind of feelings and I dont know how to deal with it and sometimes I go back to my old way. I dont think I have the tools to deal with situation like that, I grew up without a father and I dont know who talk about this kind of stuff. But thanks to you Im learning things that I wouldnt otherwise. You the man!!!
He just broads the example on any given situation. I knew he made up some of the guys' situations from the letters.
@@coachbronco no bro im literally the guy from the second letter, It was spot on
Always be on the lookout for new women. It's scarcity that fucks with our brain. But I recon that certain women are so sweet and beautiful we lose our center with them
Corey was way ahead of the pseudo pickup pua and even to this day his tips are spot on. The idea that a man should never pursue a woman was probably discovered by Corey first
Thank you so much for your teachings. I’ve listened to your audio over 20 times at this point. It feels good when I able to predict what you say before you say it. Thanks again
Listening to these messes us people put ourselves into is fascinating. I can admit I have put myself in insane situations as well.
He's forcing her into lying it's not even lying he's forcing her to be deceptive.
LOVE THIS
This a good video to view for a newcomer to your work. It introduces some very important fundamentals.
needed this! read the book 3 times now, but forgot about the power of indifference. this is my focus now for the rest of the year. Thanks Coach!
I got involved in a relationship with a woman who was Married, and she separated from her husband to set a new life with me. Man, it did not end well . She started pulling back from me being distant and could sense she was missing him. He would come round to see his older children who lived with us. When this would happen I would go out for a few hours. I knew she still loved her ex and as time went on I became more and more uncomfortable with the situation. In the end I decided to end the relationship and I walked away. So glad I did that, becuase I felt like a total fool being in that situation. My gut instinct was telling me to walk and don't look back. That was 3 years ago and she is still with her husband now living in a new home together. Good luck to them. I learnt so much from that experience. Married women. Don't go there brothers, you will be setting yourself up for some major drama if you do.
If you follow Corey and the 4 agreements (for the most part besides not assuming since you have to assume she wants to see you when she reaches out) - it’s a way to be in a relaxed state
I find it’s a lot easier to implement these ideas about vetting women, letting women come to you at her own pace, and finding quality prospects in women when you are not needy for sex and actually make HER wait for sex. It gives you a clear picture of her and the situation when you wait to sleep with her and see whether you are actually in to her or just lusting after her.
So true! Indifference is working more and more for me.
Once a liar and a cheater, always a cheater. Like he said in his book and other videos, if she is willing to cheat/lie and go back and forth between another dude, she will do it to you
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Good woman are easy, you guys need to leave these headaches alone lol
Coach the way you break things down to the simplest denominator is masterful! It should be common sense to all men? But obviously it’s not! Lol
My parents have a grandkid on the way thanks to you coach
I read your book in 2015, I’ve been an ardent student since then.
Corey Wayne you be killing me man I love it speak the truth my brother
Just walk down another alley and a different cat will follow you.
Man I needed this message today
%100, no more no less. This is the main point and should be followed.
I dig all of your videos, But this one izza jewel!
Also, I learn a single mom is not a great candidate as well (even the father is out of the picture a long time ago, tho). I prefer to date non-mom situations.
Corey, I crack up every time when you do the female voice impersonation 😂 comedy gold
Why would you chase anyway, let her do the chase. You will find out right away if she has any interest in you. 23:13 this part is what needs to be you’re mantra. Read / listen the book 10 / 15 times 🔑
Now I know why my ex-wife left me. Boy was I a huge needy beta.
Love this guy. I should've discovered him a long time ago and I wouldn't have blown it so many times
Coreys client says “ I could tell something was off with her”.. Corey “ Yea you, you turned her off” LOL
This video is absolutely fundamental. Thanks again Coach🙏
It's quite obvious both of these guys are in a scarcity mindset. They probably don't go out much or flirt with a lot of women. So when a woman falls into their lap for whatever reason, they try to corner and trap her. That's why they need to play all these aloof games, because they are NOT aloof on the inside.
As always, game starts from within. Your attitude and mindset will always come out to the surface, no matter how hard you try to fake it on the outside. Stop overpursuing women, and flirt with others.
You making a lot of good sense here. Personally I like it when a man tells me that he wants to get to know me and proceeds to do so in an organic way. I'm pretty traditional and know how great it feels to give and receive love and affection to a man. A lot people complicate the simplest things because they are wrapped with fear and self sabotage it is so unattractive. Trying to create a checklist to vet.A woman and fast track draw.Beating a woman into a mold is the worst thing a man can ever do. The second thing is to try to Downplay attraction and I saw out and humbled her when she's already coming to the man with good intentions and an open heart. That's the quickest way to p***A good woman often chases away. We ain't coming back because Jerk behavior or unjust punishment from a man is not attractive, Not hot and gives the opposite effect. All women are not chasing after low life.Bad boys for a hot roll in the bedroom.Hell no.
You taught me a lot since 2015. Read the book over 10xs. Going on my 13th reading this year. It changed the way I date women. I always been that guy but this made me so much better. I finally met my match. This co worker of mine is so beautiful I can’t get her off my mind. I have always been James Bond and put my mission first but I feel in my soul she is the one for me. The one I’ve always wanted. She will make me retire. Never thought about it because of so much success with women but man this girl is my sailor moon. I always loved that cartoon. I am going to see if I can win her. I want to challenge myself. She’s 6’3 and I’m 5’7. I come from the ghetto and she comes from a very rich family.
Dont becone dopey
`dont get set on an outcome
You are already putting her on the pedestal. Are you sure you read the right book?
Damn bro, chill lol
@@0ccam5Raz0r Yeah, she’s 6.3” and he’s 5”7!?
''That guy gonna fold like a cheap deck chair'' X)
Corey, I have followed you and your style for years. Great material, but there is absolute truth to attachment styles. Cause I am a very secure type person and recently dealt with a dismissive avoidant. It is a real thing and should be a point of evaluation in relationships
i was just wondering when corey would talk about attachment style but havent found it yet
Im a male 51 years old. I have been single three years now and i don’t care. It is no longer about getting laid . I can always find someone for that. I want a real connection. Which i had found and it was never taken as real for her. I know she loves me but never would let it be a real relationship. She put the guy she was no longer with first no matter how good of a time we were having , all the ex had to do was call and i was done for the day. I will Never deal with that again. I am too old for drama and games, social media has destroyed respect for relationships and marriages.
Love you man great work
Im a woman watching this who's husband cheated with a woman that is 15 yrs younger and he said he was going through a midlife crisis and he chose the other woman and after being separated from me for only 9 months he married her and they have a baby together
I started dating this Latina recently. Beautiful very funny with a little bit of sass to her. The first date, she told me that she has been separated for a year and she still trying to get this guy to sign the papers and he is refusing. Yes, a little lightbulb went off in my head that night, but I didn’t think about it after that until now. She has backed away significantly, but I have an over pursued. I’ve done everything textbook pretty much. I didn’t think about it until now that that whole situation with that other guy might have something to do with it.
Feels good to know that I have not chased her or over pursued. Trying to set more dates with her. She’s been busy. It feels good to be able to walk away until she contacts me. I’m being indifferent with the whole situation. I’ve already started talking to another woman from the gym.
At 18:13 I was in stitches laughing my head off
I dont care whether RUclips shows me another Corey Wayne video, i it does I'd love to see it but I don't mind either way. I'm seeing other vidoes as well, but those other videos aren't as good as the Corey Wayne videos.
This is so good
Even after the divorce. If there's kids you still may have to deal with ex bullshit. A good friend of mine broke up with a woman after 4 years cuz she kept him at a distance because her ex kept pissing her off and she'd go through these cycles of being upset and wanting to be single. She'd come back after a week or month cuz my buddy knew what he was doing but it eventually led him to break up with her.
I discovered coach corey when i was like 20 i am 29 now, and this is to everyone that just find him. Trust me hes stuff works, and when you read the book and watch hes videos, you be like damn its all logic when you think back on all the girls you have messed up with
I come here mostly for the mockery moments.
Haha controlling women is like controlling the weather .. so true
Thank you 🙏
Man God help us; God protect my kid
Her - but now I'm not sure.
Me (with a smirk) - yeah, my great looks and masculinity are just a lot for most women to handle.
Cringe
How do you apply this a few years after marriage when you're living together all day?
Hmmm....indifference made me walk away. Last guy I was interested in, he was so indifferent that I gave up. And fully moved on!
👆🏽😑💯 Trying to act too cool for school is a huge turn off.
dude you crack me up
Does your book talk about how to vett a woman?
Yes 100%
how can i just download this into my brain... I read the book 11 times already man... but I'm still stick to results and getting upset
I said thank pretty to a girl that helped me. My girlfriends pet name is pretty. My girlfriend got so mad she broke up with me. I went no contact for a mintg and ran into her at the bar with a short fat guy. I'm a former bodybuilder, i was like what the hell. Told her i didn't mean to upset her, it wasn't intentional. She said she wanted to work things out, but doesn't call or text. We dated for a year and it was our first argument in 6 months.
Merci
I just started getting into Coach Corey Wayne. Does "no contact" mean no liking of social media posts, as well?
Yes
I've been indifferent towards Jennifer Anniston since the 90s and she's still not attracted to me. What am I doing wrong?
Yes cuz she never knew you were indifferent about her since 90s. Last time i checked she lived in an apartment in the village
@@AmazianLinsation82 But isn't "showing" a woman that you're indifferent actually showing her you are interested?
Just a heads-up Coach, respectfully, there’s a few typos in the description.
Like these longer 30+ minute videos. Reminds me of his longer videos from years past which were hilarious with his potty mouth.
How do i detach from the one I love that has a bad upbringing?
cats love me bruh idfk,.
You do you boo boo 😂
Corey Wayne for life
So what are you supposed to do if you're not supposed to ask a man how do you ever get one to come to you
Happy new year coach!
Damn what a mess😂
😂😂
bro im the guy from the second letter, dont tell me about it, fuck that
God help us
Hiiii….I’m Coach Cory Wayne!!!
Just a question why would you date a girl that is still Married? Oh I guess it doesn't matter cause he's still married as well !! No good
GooooGooo GAAAGAAA ❤😂😂😂😂 WTF was ex doing on trip 😂😢😅😅😅😅😅
Help, so my girlfriend caught me in a small lie...i have a weird wound on my arm and shameful about that wound, she asked from what it was and i told her from the cat... she told me then that she knew where that wound came from and that the cat story isa lie (she is right) then after talking ablut it for a while she told me she feels a little bit guarded because if i lie about something so small so fast i might lie about other things.... I offcource apologized but is there anything ican do to better the situation because i understand her completely...help please
Yes. Dont lie
Why are you shameful about the wound?
Always cover your love bites
yea dont bother about it. thats the only thing to do, if she feels thats a deal breaker then let her go
Is there really such thing as an ex? Which is the result of course in a divorce. One or the other have a tendency to come back again. Meet somewhere again on the sly. Man, just stay away from the divorced.
Gets difficult at 50😂😂😂
I found this out the hard way!
Id give the ultimatum, best not to waste any time.
A year later watching this same video and it I thought the exact same thing, this sitting back and waiting is literally a waste of time
What about you tell in your book about your friend?! You also tell him to put his foot down and tell the cheating wife that she needs to choose. Now this dude from the email does it and you say he is chasing.. in this case there is always a right or wrong..
Pray & hope that husband didn't wake up & started watching Corey Wayne videos.also pray he didn't get the 📖 book & on his 3rd read 😂😂
You think these restaurants took a hit when the govt shut them down during covid?
Come on man!!!
Must be nice
Omg…any dude that calls a woman the names you use is FOS…and not even a ‘ho’ or ‘party girl’ would want to hang out with that behaviour…it’s turn-off material. A relationship splits both ways and if you think she’s going to do the chasing 90% get real…that’s a either a needy or a domineering woman if she does. Guys just respect that both sides need to be themselves, not be ‘manipulated with ‘indifference’’ or any other BS and show worth and dignity if it’s right.
Be yourself and keep your feet on the ground and if you enjoy being with a lady let her know.
I definitely agree with you all. I can also launch into indifference And detach the hell away from a man even if i'm physically attracted to them. I'm pretty old fashioned and if you are too cool for school to even get to know me and spend time to have conversation with me After coming after me hot and heavy?, hell naw. Bye! This one the biggest turn off in the world, Even when I was an elementary school, I had experience with boys organically coming up to me and letting me know straight up.Hey, would you be my girlfriend?Hey I like you. Nine times out of ten the boy wait became my boyfriend because he was just so direct and told me exactly what he wanted and had good intentions. I am not gonna. Be chasing a man who act like he can take me or leave me, Pretending as if he doesn't care when he's keeping tabs on me and trying to get his family to Also keep tabs. 👎🏽😵💫
shes got a bunch of guys in her life
I tried to explain some of the stuff some of the guys I know and they can't really wrap their head around it and I tell him get the book they're like yeah yeah yeah how does laughing to myself that's why you're not getting laid
Don’t date distracted women.
YOU WANT A SUPER POWER GENTLEMEN...... DONT GET MARRIED..... ITS KRYPTONITE.
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