Attraction, Indifference & Being Mysterious

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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • Coach Corey Wayne discusses why being indifferent and mysterious with women who you are dating creates attraction and causes them to want you and start chasing you.
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Комментарии • 148

  • @TheDetroitLion313
    @TheDetroitLion313 5 лет назад +225

    Corey is spot on with this one. All while I was growing up,my mother would always tell me..."when you get her number,wait for a week before you call and don't call her all the time. Give her some space and time to miss you,don't be in her face all the time." Man,I miss Momma Pearl.

    • @Orgizo08
      @Orgizo08 4 года назад +21

      Puma Down momma pearl understood the game 💯

    • @TheDetroitLion313
      @TheDetroitLion313 4 года назад +18

      @@Orgizo08 Thank you,man that means a lot.✊🏿 My mother was something else.😃

    • @crosen4004
      @crosen4004 3 года назад +4

      @@TheDetroitLion313 she is proud of you my friend!

    • @anoesbond3532
      @anoesbond3532 3 года назад +1

      Bless your mama

    • @maartenbass328
      @maartenbass328 3 года назад +5

      That's so sweet, momma Pearl is a real one!

  • @omarqatishat1390
    @omarqatishat1390 4 года назад +20

    when in doubt, watch corey wayne.

  • @bitchyeyebrows
    @bitchyeyebrows 6 лет назад +20

    As a woman, I can attest this all this shit is 100% FACTUAL.

  • @aaronlee277
    @aaronlee277 4 месяца назад +4

    One of the og clips .
    Posted 10 years ago but still as relevant as ever.
    This is one you come back to reference when a unicorn comes along , keeps your game sharp.

  • @mattblom3990
    @mattblom3990 6 лет назад +57

    I think one of the biggest mistakes I've been making is my close girl-friends tell me to text a date the next morning that I had a great date. No more. Women don't even know women.

    • @JustLIkerapunzel
      @JustLIkerapunzel 3 года назад +6

      I think the best way is to text the same night. Just ask if she got home safe if you didn't bring her home which shows you are caring and saying you had a great night and wish her a good night. Nothing needy about that. It signals your sincerity without being needy and after you can give her some space for some days without her just forgetting about you out of the assumption that there was no interest.

    • @johnrintala4885
      @johnrintala4885 2 года назад

      @@JustLIkerapunzel read the book, it’s the only way.

    • @Mohamed-dd7zj
      @Mohamed-dd7zj 4 месяца назад

      6:32 6:32 6:33 6:33 6:34 6:36

    • @caitlynmack1898
      @caitlynmack1898 2 дня назад +1

      women love to tell you what SHOULD work, not what DOES work. they mean well, but they're wrong lol

  • @christopherwithers9019
    @christopherwithers9019 11 лет назад +35

    I hate to let the secret out of the bag but truth be told...James Bond is who he is thanks to the knowledge of Coach Corey Wayne ;)

  • @Kalmworld1
    @Kalmworld1 9 лет назад +55

    My life changed because of these videos in December of 2014. The attractive women I started dating. In February, I was cooking at one woman's apartment and she mentioned me moving in since my lease was up the next month! We had a great relationship and luckily for me I learned what I want in a woman and that attracted the same type of straight forward woman into my life who didnt play games.
    Kal M

  • @VoiceOfThe
    @VoiceOfThe 4 года назад +26

    This brings back memories for me. First date with this girl and she suddenly interrupts me saying, ‘I just want to kiss you right now’.
    Absolutely blew me away. No girl had ever said anything like that to me before. I was clueless as well and can’t remember what I was talking about.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 4 года назад +2

      How did you respond? ''I don't blame you....I'd want to kiss me too''

  • @TheSinimatik
    @TheSinimatik 6 лет назад +66

    Why would you try to go exclusive with a chick who was cheating on her husband with you? You get them how you will lose them

  • @MarcKlark
    @MarcKlark 5 лет назад +16

    I tend to agree that overpursuing is draining - for the man

  • @Mfiguk
    @Mfiguk 11 лет назад +20

    "Be wise like the serpent and harmless like the dove",
    love this qoute

    • @gordongoodman8342
      @gordongoodman8342 6 лет назад +3

      @Mfiguk
      Yet you probably have no idea who is being quoted.

  • @Orgizo08
    @Orgizo08 Год назад +3

    It is AMAZING when a woman is aggressive. I experienced that recently. One of the best experiences I’ve ever had with a woman.
    Having a woman pursuing you is the best thing to happen.

    • @viviennedunbar3374
      @viviennedunbar3374 9 месяцев назад +2

      It’s very rare that a man presses all the right buttons and knows how to turn women on so she wants to pursue aggressively. As a woman Corey is the only coach giving advice to man who I think is accurate about what attracts women to men. Mysterious = sexy for women. That means he is a man and not a boy. Immature men are a big turn off.

  • @OtakuOG
    @OtakuOG 11 лет назад +18

    Just what Tyler said, move on to the next one. Coach Corey has been saying all along that it isn't worth your time if she doesn't reciprocate our interest or rather she doesn't put effort herself to see you/text you/call you / meet you half-way. Coach Corey would say "It's her loss; if she wants to be with me she'll text/call me and I'll set up a date when she does. If not, that's fine because I know I'm a catch, I'm worth it and she can take it or leave it."

  • @NYCtravesia
    @NYCtravesia 16 дней назад

    "Hold your cards a little bit longer" cause mystery intrigues and makes the heart grow fonder.

  • @scottherf
    @scottherf 9 лет назад +43

    i love this guy.

  • @TravelandBang
    @TravelandBang 7 лет назад +10

    Everybody sign up for his news letter and get free access to his book. I just previewed it, it's classic material and I will be reading it 15 times as he prescribes. Thanks Coach!

  • @drbrendankishketon
    @drbrendankishketon 6 лет назад +11

    Your videos are gold but hard to watch because I’ve made so many mistakes. Thank you!

  • @AniketKhanal2009
    @AniketKhanal2009 9 лет назад +55

    coach you are god to me!!! you really changed my life

  • @chainfallcharlie
    @chainfallcharlie 11 лет назад +12

    Man I was totally certain that this would be some bullshit. I saw the word indifference in the title, for me, indifference is a byproduct of treating everyone with the same level of regard, even more important sometimes is not hitting on girls like a clown with no self respect. In this video, this is kicking RAW TRUTH. Truth beyond the normal scale, this shit is THE TROOF!

  • @gammaechofoundationproductions
    @gammaechofoundationproductions 7 лет назад +7

    Amen, Corey! As always, you are right on the money! By the way, I have seen "The Tailor of Panama" starring Pierce Brosnan, Jamie Lee Curtis, Daniel Radcliffe, and Geoffrey Rush, it is awesome! Not only does it show how a man should act, it also depicts how real spies operate as oppose to the fantasy of the James Bond movies.

  • @jlang7705
    @jlang7705 6 лет назад +8

    Very interesting. Corey always takes major risks in his videos. Tells it like it is. You gotta respect that. Keep up the good work!

  • @chadkozlowski6639
    @chadkozlowski6639 6 лет назад +67

    people are pathetic dating married people have some respect for other people

    • @jomormont
      @jomormont 6 лет назад +8

      It's actually a significant event representing one man and one woman coming together to becoming one which is a parallel to how we should be with God. Not a social construct but a Godly construct devised to show dedication to your first love. It is sacred for a reason.

    • @dacritter8397
      @dacritter8397 5 лет назад +1

      Yeah, people make their choices and so do I. I will not be anywhere near a relationship with a woman who has ever cheated on someone (if I know about it) or who has been "the other woman." Those obviously do not respect the boundaries of a relationship and overall lack integrity -- fuck buddy, FWB, absolutely -- unless she's trying to make me the 'other man" but nothing serious.

    • @hedhunta3767
      @hedhunta3767 5 лет назад +5

      Lol, I always find it funny how the guy dating a married woman is always to blame, as if she didn't consent to cheating, she is the one who betrays her husband willingly. It isn't as if she was forced to cheat, no one pointed a gun at her head to cheat .

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +13

    I mentioned him many times in other videos FYI :)

  • @williamchiusano3185
    @williamchiusano3185 4 года назад +4

    Totally Great Observation..
    Always ..
    Rule #1 Leave Em GUESSING
    #2 Leave Em PURRING😎👌

  • @benjaminhancock2530
    @benjaminhancock2530 4 года назад +5

    Corey you are a complete game changer !! Thank you coach 😎

  • @ronaldclark3620
    @ronaldclark3620 11 лет назад +5

    Thank God you finally give Pierce Brosnan some credit! Just gotta get you shining some light on Sean Connery and we will be golden...lol
    Thanks for your videos daily Corey. They are always spot on and I watch them religiously! Keep up the awesome job!

  • @CoachCoreyWayne
    @CoachCoreyWayne  11 лет назад +16

    It is your birthright. Good job!

    • @marcellusbrown7940
      @marcellusbrown7940 6 лет назад

      Coach Corey Wayne
      I'm bonafide even though self praise is no recommendation. I have self esteem that govern me not 2 beguile anyone.
      In ur pictures, U look flawless ur face, ur physique, an overall ur image. I'm attracted to that body, lip, breast, an butt.
      We can set goals an reach them; 4 example, we can start by getting acquainted, state ur name an ur ambitions, to achieve our aspirations. We must remain discipline, firmly ground on what u have in mine, if u r to overcome the task.
      Girl, I need u r unique from the day born. I fall in love with your appearance, ur face, physique, and behavior, and each is average except ur behavior is too the extreme. Hum, I'm thinking how to address this issue without a major discussion, because I refuse to b bias, a man stand on his words. I express my opinion without a resentment because my comment is respectful, for it's anchor in truth girl I need u even though truth my words have already manifest , r unique from the day born.

  • @jon_13
    @jon_13 2 года назад +1

    Corey Wayne is such a G

  • @bobalexander1212
    @bobalexander1212 10 лет назад +1

    heart to heart, right from teh very start, u fill me up, fill me up with your love- andrea true connection

  • @gulfmeadows
    @gulfmeadows 11 лет назад +2

    pierce brosnan was a great bond.great video.thanks for posting.

  • @v.eng.3194
    @v.eng.3194 9 лет назад +4

    All Coreys tips work on men too!

  • @tonysahatjian3719
    @tonysahatjian3719 4 года назад +1

    Corey thanks so much!! I have been listening to the videos when I read the book. Im on my 3rd time though and I'm on a mission to get to 10 before the end of 2020

  • @dwb4238
    @dwb4238 3 года назад +6

    Good Lord almighty, Corey. I've read your book about six times and I've watched a lot of your videos multiple times and you're dead on on pretty much everything you say: except for one thing..... The Tailor of Panama is one of the most boring ass films I have ever seen in my entire life and I am over 50 years old. You're right about Pierce Brosnan's character's attitude, but it just isn't worth sitting through this sleeper. Trust me folks, flip on any good Bond film and watch that instead. Skip this one and you won't have to worry about getting these couple hours of your life back! Keep up the great work Corey but stay out of the film review business!!! :)

  • @JTDyer21
    @JTDyer21 3 года назад +3

    Apparently CONFIDENCE is a major key to attraction.

  • @flashdeals3324
    @flashdeals3324 7 лет назад +5

    Sick of it ! Hang out , have fun no problem. I just never get to the hook up , even when they are clearly interested. WHY CANT I PULL THE TRIGGER !!!! Might as well become a monk !

    • @ItsRaitisLV
      @ItsRaitisLV 4 года назад +3

      Stop treating dates like relationships, don't be harmless, show some cockiness, insult them a bit, but don't be too harsh, be relaxed and at the end always ask to go your or her place.

  • @Bostonblowhard
    @Bostonblowhard 7 лет назад +36

    Why would you want a cheating chick? Yuck

    • @Latinaperspective
      @Latinaperspective 6 лет назад +3

      I like the way you think.

    • @gordongoodman8342
      @gordongoodman8342 6 лет назад

      You wouldn't. Furthermore, there was a time not long ago that banging a married chick was a crime carrying a heavy penalty of death.

  • @aradiobox
    @aradiobox 8 лет назад +1

    Corey, this is your best video.

  • @iprawiro
    @iprawiro 9 лет назад +1

    Pierce Brosnan in Law of Attraction is great too!

  • @Jcarter2012ify
    @Jcarter2012ify 8 лет назад +11

    what to do if you already got a date planned an she still calls everyday I can't set a date every single day thanks to Corey these the kind of problems I have now

    • @drewbaz5
      @drewbaz5 8 лет назад +24

      What you do, what I believe Corey would suggest is: each time she contacts you between the time of the date, she's contacting you because she's still extremely unclear of your feelings; this is a great situation to be in, you're Indifference is making the difference. She can't help but think about you because you're acting mysterious by not contacting her. Before the date, while you're not contacting her, she'll ask herself "does he really want to date me? does he still want to go on this? Is he still interested?" etc. Some woman like to text in between dates, to try to "feel you out" prior to the date; they want to have pre-date conversations that will lead to one or two things: she becomes uninterested via you saying the wrong things or by date time you'll have nothing to talk about, you won't have that mystery appeal you trying to build up pre-date and potentially have a poor date. Again, if a woman is contacting you between dates thats a great position to be in! When she contacts you be polite, respond to her text or phone call. Make the response short and sweet, try and act busy and repeat to her that you're looking forward to the date and tell her you're busy and have to go. A woman who's contacting you pre-date is not a problem to have don't forget this. Stay in your masculine, she'll love it and you're relationship will be very strong for it. You have to really buy into this "I'm busy attitude" when woman contact you pre-date, because in all reality, the date is already set, anything that needs to be discussed should be on the date, not through the phone or email or Facebook. Those are means for setting the date, the date is a means of communication. I hope this may have cleared things up for you and I directly responded to your question.

    • @drewbaz5
      @drewbaz5 8 лет назад +2

      I made a few typos, since I'm on my phone. it's never a problem to have a woman contacting you before the date it's actually to be expected.

    • @sabinutza2011
      @sabinutza2011 7 лет назад

      😂😂😂😂

    • @drewbaz5
      @drewbaz5 7 лет назад +3

      If they are contacting you and reaching out to to you, you know should automatically know how they feel about you. Their interested level is in the 50% or higher range and that's when you facilitate a date. Eventually if you're doing more things right than wrong with her by following what coach Corey teaches she'll be all over you in regards to always contacting you and wanting to see you. In the dating stage you shouldn't be focusing all your energy on one women. You want to be trying to facilitate dates with other women so you're not sitting there getting upset about one women acting cold and disinterested.

    • @drewbaz5
      @drewbaz5 7 лет назад

      Murphdawg1 gaming​​​ You've made two statements so far that tell me you haven't read his book and or watched enough of his videos, you need to put more time in. That being said, when a girl has at least 50% interest in you she will at least one time pursue you. If you guys are "talking" to each other and she realizes the things you're doing and saying are to the point where she knows your feelings towards her she will become disinterested in you, you have showed her all of your cards and now aren't a mystery towards her. When you have facilitied and gone on enough dates and then she is your girlfriend (not a date) then you can start showing her your feelings. The whole secret all of this and what he teaches is to be a 3% man not like the other 97% of men who watch movies and think that's what women want men to do for them. There is a time and a place to act loving for your women but I'm telling you it's not during the dating process. You will look needy and appear like you have o other options in women and that will be a turn off. Keep watching his videos and try connecting them all together.

  • @TylerTakacsIsAwesome
    @TylerTakacsIsAwesome 11 лет назад +4

    she's not interested. on to the next one!

  • @Vectorlover3
    @Vectorlover3 7 лет назад +1

    The tailor of Panama is a very good movie.

  • @postrockforthemind128
    @postrockforthemind128 9 лет назад +3

    12:08 is priceless! Corey's reaction!

  • @paperbag9998
    @paperbag9998 5 лет назад +1

    I know this is like, 6 years in the past (this video) but, doing this can also be coming off as rude, and in my opinion, just be mindful of your actions and thoughts.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 4 года назад +2

      You've forgotten....given a choice between a nice guy, and a rude guy.....most women will be attracted to the rude one.

  • @luisrivera3458
    @luisrivera3458 8 лет назад +3

    master piece! obra maestra!!!!

  • @jerseychris7134
    @jerseychris7134 7 лет назад +5

    I told my GF of 2 months that I love her...
    everything was perfect until that moment....
    was playing all my cards right for the most part until this massive mistake...
    now I have to do a pull back and give her less attention...
    any advice?

  • @montezharper9932
    @montezharper9932 3 года назад

    If you not trying to set a date you should not be texting her at all.~🙌🏾🙌🏾C.CW

  • @Kalmworld1
    @Kalmworld1 9 лет назад +8

    Here in my garage...

  • @TheActiveAssault
    @TheActiveAssault 11 лет назад +3

    What's your opinion on facebook? i've never used it and refuse to make one.

  • @brunomesquita9023
    @brunomesquita9023 2 года назад +2

    Also when she and her husband broke up he shouldnt have started thinking about relationships. If She cheated on her husband She will probably do the same thing to you.
    But still good for fuckbuddy or friends with benefits

  • @FinancialEfficiency
    @FinancialEfficiency 8 лет назад +3

    yeah me and my guy friends always bust on eachother ! LOL

  • @chrisgraf1304
    @chrisgraf1304 3 года назад

    I love it how Corey calls it how it is. The raw deal. Calls it for what it is. It makes me laugh when he says things like - 'when you fuck up' . Or if you are 'acting like a needy weak bitch' 😂

  • @MarcKlark
    @MarcKlark 5 лет назад +3

    Sounds like game ....lifes too short to be a psychiatrist just to date her 😁 but I get your point

  • @0221dmcalister
    @0221dmcalister 5 лет назад +7

    Yeah... Good idea, hook up with a married woman that's willing to cheat on her husband... That should end well... Lol 😂

  • @NARENDRAKUMAR-zh2un
    @NARENDRAKUMAR-zh2un 7 лет назад +2

    is it over thinking is good or bad ?

  • @springteen3743
    @springteen3743 Год назад

    In my case and I don’t why but this girl did not call me until 10 months later, what’s with that?🤔

  • @dattepo7534
    @dattepo7534 6 лет назад +1

    Damn I keep watching your videos and I fucked up real bad I want her back but I think it’s too late

  • @tope90210
    @tope90210 11 лет назад +4

    What if you stop initiating and she never calls or texts again?

    • @juliochavez1682
      @juliochavez1682 5 лет назад +5

      Just leave the door open. Chances are she might be dealing with multiple guys. You should also be staying busy and trying to date multiple women, work on yourself, and not focus on when she gets back to you. Remember, you're the prize, not her. 😎

    • @ParodyDestroyer
      @ParodyDestroyer 5 лет назад

      @@juliochavez1682 "you're the prize not her" ... what a shitty mindset is this. She's also a prize for herself, why she wouldn't be? If she's a beautiful woman and you're an ugly brat guess who's the prize. Her

    • @ItsRaitisLV
      @ItsRaitisLV 4 года назад +1

      @@ParodyDestroyer stop aggrandizing good looking women, they are just people not goddesses

    • @ParodyDestroyer
      @ParodyDestroyer 4 года назад

      @@ItsRaitisLV And you should stop being brainwashed

    • @ItsRaitisLV
      @ItsRaitisLV 4 года назад +2

      @@ParodyDestroyer the quickest way to lose a woman's interest and dry her pussy up is to treat her like she's worth more than you. Women sense this stuff from a mile away. I've lost so many beautiful women because of this mindset, but not anymore. Realise your own worth and work on yourself continuously.

  • @angrydoll4478
    @angrydoll4478 6 лет назад +1

    How does it work for man?

  • @lawrencejones7500
    @lawrencejones7500 7 лет назад +1

    I had an experience where I set up a date 3 days ahead and didn't call her in between and next thing u know she calls me all pissed off what do u think this means anyone lol?

    • @justTful
      @justTful 3 года назад

      Shit test she ain’t mad

  • @Brancovtn65
    @Brancovtn65 4 года назад

    Man you guys got some fucking balls going for married women. I don’t wanna get shot lol.

  • @kelvinsolomon465
    @kelvinsolomon465 7 лет назад +1

    absolutely amazing.... very true

  • @cserr000
    @cserr000 5 лет назад +1

    If a guy made fun of my appearance, I would think he’s an immature jerk.

  • @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG
    @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG 6 лет назад +3

    COREY IS GOD

    • @americocossa
      @americocossa 5 лет назад

      THE BRAVADO SHOW That's how idolatry begins LMFBO

  • @TheHannibalTV
    @TheHannibalTV 2 года назад

    👍

  • @SmokeyBear1776
    @SmokeyBear1776 4 года назад +1

    What would you do if you're in no contact but she sends pictures of my daughter via text and email? I think she may send them purposely to test me or check if I'll answer. Ty

    • @SmokeyBear1776
      @SmokeyBear1776 4 года назад

      I do see my daughter every other weekend.

    • @mreverybody1150
      @mreverybody1150 4 года назад +1

      @@SmokeyBear1776 She's not sending these pictures because she wants you to see your daughter. She's sending them pictures because she wants to see a reaction....

  • @incglory8309
    @incglory8309 2 года назад

    Senior man

  • @Xxxxxrrr6464
    @Xxxxxrrr6464 6 месяцев назад

    Hope she never ripped his clothes off, that be rude, even if she reimbursed him

  • @csbrown9322
    @csbrown9322 5 месяцев назад

    The more I learn about women the more I think - wtf

  • @Caesar-nx9uv
    @Caesar-nx9uv 3 года назад

    ❤️

  • @darylbabz5451
    @darylbabz5451 11 лет назад +1

    hahaha!

  • @MrDubzein
    @MrDubzein 8 лет назад

    Good advice for getting teenagers. No woman will want a indifferent or impredectible guy they seek safety.

    • @LE__O
      @LE__O 8 лет назад +11

      +MrDubzein I can tell from experience that your statement is false. Follow the material. The shit works. I am dating multiple women because of my man Corey Wayne. This nigga got the jewels :D lmao

    • @MrDubzein
      @MrDubzein 8 лет назад

      +Leonel Deleon you should date him.

    • @LE__O
      @LE__O 8 лет назад

      Ouch! lol, I love the humor.

    • @LE__O
      @LE__O 8 лет назад

      sure. my email is DLeonel12@gmail.com

    • @ItsRaitisLV
      @ItsRaitisLV 4 года назад

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