@@dennisrobinson8008 - some years ago, along about late in 2004 to mid-2006, I dated a woman who got pissed off when she found out she COULDN'T control me.
Be happy and playful and fun. Pick up your shit and tell her to call you if she changes her mind. Walk and NEVER look back. If she calls you afterwards, assume she wants to see you. Make a date to hangout, have fun and hook up.
keep your feelings to yourself until things become more serious and she is showing you hers, or prepare to be flaked, ghosted, and disrespected. (recommended to me by countless real-life experiences with women)
Everyone is going to have some sort of weakness or insecurities there's not a single person out there that has it completely together and if a woman can't handle that in a person then she is not worth being with.
Yep, if a guy has no insecurities he's either not human, not interested, or is extremely narcissistic. Ironically, men learn to jump through hoops to prove their manhood. I say that's just doing whatever it takes to get the p. Trained to beg at the table in the most successful way. They forget that we're kind of supposed to have something they want too, and if a woman doesn't, there's no point in being with the cold fish anyway.
Always keep in mind that it is just a "game" in a good game there is always emotions, disappointed, frustrations and loss. It's the most important game and every man has to play it.
This is fairly accurate..I do think women 'test' frequently, and it does mess most of us guys up when we're in the dating process. Women are reputed to have a problem with guys who 'lack emotion,' but at the end of the day, they want a man with a spine. Don't listen to b.s. talk shows like Oprah, etc. Those are shows that are made by women for women. Girls have girl friends for a reason. I would say that guys are generally just very confused by a lot of conflicting information out there. Again, guys can sometimes forget their spine and get caught up emotionally.
I think there is a BIG difference between testing (often normal in relationships and in early phases of dating) and playing games (often occurs with insecure, attention seeking women who are "playing" the field when they have not gone out on dates or had sexual encounters with guys yet i.e. social groups and first meetings).
Cory, I have a simple solution to this man's dilemma: Best advice for him would be to find a woman without a boyfriend. Any woman playing this game is TRASHY!
I'm seeing a lady who's got a bf. I know she just wants a young man to take care of her needs, so she comes around once or twice a month and we have an amazing time together. It's allows time for sexual tension and makes everything better. Then, her bf can take care of her while I'm not around 😉
@@timurjoro1995 Actually, I think everyone in class knew about our feelings. But telling her she was pretty was new territory and she definitely acted out on it. "I want to go sit with that guy" It was kind of funny when she came back I said "If I let you" and she said "Aw shut up". So when they say this behavior is hard-wired into them, I guess it really is. And our behavior too I guess.
@@blackjack2770 Just wait until you're involved with one that has a psychopath boyfriend that is going to blow your brains out. You're a total jackass for even thinking that it's "fair game".
Not at all the current version works. If you reach the coaches book you would know you should be getting 25 phone numbers a week or at least approaching 25 women. Forgot the online portion. I was just at my local mall last weekend and got 7 phone numbers. Stay away from the online crap real men will meet women in person and get their phone numbers. I don't even use social media myself.
@@benjaminbattle8313 Hi Benjamin, how are you doing nowadays? would love to connect with you and learn from you. I have been avidly learning and applying Coach’s wisdom for 7 months. In this time I have been on 10+ first dates and kissed 6. Both are more than my previous 24 years! But I still struggle to meet high quality girls that I like and like me. By high quality, I actually mean just that I like them and they like me. I have already centered my life around an area with a lot of people my age and similar interests (I won’t go into specifics right now) and I will eventually move to that area in 2 years after I do a year of exchange teaching English in Spain. I know that I have centered my life around my passions and put myself in communities to meet like minded people but I still have not formed any strong connections. I feel like I am missing something because it still feels rare to meet someone worth dating. Obviously I need to open my eyes but I don’t know how. I’d love to hear from you, take care!
@@joeybboy3433 Trust me it's just how it is. I met A LOT of women in the last 1.5 years of being single and only a couple really did it for me, like literally two women, the current one being my favourite. I've been dating since I was 19 and I'm 28 now for context. It took a lot of experience to feel good where I'm at. Trust the process, and keep vetting the girls to make sure you don't slip into a relationship with a bad fit (I've been in those situations and they're easy to avoid now). Younger guys can learn a lot here but you need to honestly go through the highs and lows to really understand it.
I work with my ex girlfriend and I don't talk to her at all, because I don't want to be friends with her, I only wanted a romantic relationship, not friendship
She is the one wih the boyfriend. She is the one double playing. He is the side boy. He made up an imaginary woman so if that is cheating then you are right!
Dude, get off your moral high horse. I have no problem banging girls that have boyfriends, fiancees, or even husbands. If theyre willing to be disloyal to their man, thats their problem. If she'd do it with you, she'd do it with anybody. If its not you it would just be some other guy. Dont look for long term relationships with women like this because obviously she is morally flawed. Nobody else plays by the rules, so why should you. If she cheats on her man, thats her problem not yours
Explain to these guys if they don't date many women at a time they won't know contrast and what they want.....this solves most problems that comes with our mistakes...
I havnt got time for that sort of bullshit from 'women'. Only those with less emotional maturity feel the need to communicate via game playing. If someone cannot communicate openly and honestly with another person, its a complete turn-off.
Know your worth and don't settle for less . I was an idiot who stayed with a woman for nearly a year. One moment she loved me , the next wanted friendship . One moment all about me the next not. If you pay close enough attention ones actions preveal all. People will tell on themselves , and show you exactly who they are if you simply pay attention. A woman truly into you will preveal it. You won't have to doubt , question , nor second guess yourself !
Corey, you bring literally all the dust off the counter and make everything transparent. Thank you for reminding all the gentlemen including myself to grow and learn on how to better ourselves.
My story. It was perfect with your work. She backed off. I went silent. It was hard. Sure enough. She pursed. Then I was wow. This is great and low and behold I over pursued. She canceled a set date one hour before by text. I went silent. She did too. She has stayed that way. Lol. Hot too. I can laugh but learned. I wanted to call her out but maturity kicked in. It was bullshit. I was on my way. Old Terry would excoriated her for text cancelling. I did over pursue but by 25% Not crazy shit. Anyway the bus isn't far so I need to brush off. Thanks Mr Wayne
“Can she just communicate like an adult?” NO. Women will always fear communicating important issues and hide like children. And the tragic thing is you can’t shame them because acting like little girls is considered “cute” -roles eyes-
Women will communicate like adults if they trust you. Most of the time guys dont know how to communicate well and it closes the women down emotionally and she wont want to communicate.
Coach Corey Wayne I disagree. How do women all act the same way emotionally? Where did you get this so called "fact" from? Your observations from the women you encountered? Give me a break. Just trying to sell yourself.
Deceived Society Your so wrong. This is the way of the world. I will admit I felt the same until I thought. Ok. I will try the strategy. It worked right away. Cory started with nothing and is a winner. Tony Robbins guy like me. He gets $1000 an hour. From all over the world. He's going to be a huge performance guru. Walked away from $500k a year to live his passion. He's real. I know people who confirmed it. So give him a chance. Don't just be a hater. Cool.
@Alison Bosse HAHA High quality woman?? Its like finding a Unicorn! I thought i found one before....turns out she chases bad boy types still!!! Also she cannot apologize for serious issues that she was at fault....and expected the guy to apologize even though he was NOT in the wrong....and of course she had no problem apologizing for simple immaterial issues that basically meant nothing. Yes, women all act the same....just the supposed high quality woman perhaps may be a lil bit less crazy. Also, ALL women play games!!! Be completely Authentic??? Doesn't work no matter what!!! I do EXACTLY this!!! Who you see is what you get...no surprises.....completely genuine!! Women do not want this in the beginning and perhaps may accept this as thing progress into more serious territory.
You are telling a man to pursue a r'ship with a women already in one. You are so caught up with telling him to "be alpha" that you are advocating something which it isn't right. The correct advice is not to go out with a girl with an existing BF, because if she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.
That's what coach is telling him..to be indifferent..go about his life and date other women..while waiting to hear from the girl who has a boyfriend. Sadly, the client doesn't listen...power of the pussy my friend. Haha.
You are a genius brother. Great understanding of human behavior. I've been modifying my interactions with people based on the knowledge you share in your book and video tutorials and I'm getting great results and actually feel I have a handle on my social life. I'm grateful.
When I studied with David Deida he said when you realise how much energy it takes to make a woman happy you might feel it's not worth the bother. He was right.
Here is what you MUST know about the “S” test: 1. If you agree to it then you have already flunked it. The only “S” test you should agree to is the one you give HER. 2. All answers given MUST be no answer at all. For example, “Really?” or, “Ha, that’s funny” or even, “Well, that's ridiculous” or simply no answer at all. 3. Always SMILE at what ever they say to you no matter how ridiculous or rude they become. This tells them that WHAT they say to you has no bering - they have absolutely no AFFECT on you OR your mood. 4. If at any time they become unentertaining OR too rude, simply walk away. 5. If they flunk YOUR “S” test - do NOT give them another chance. Simply walk away. 6. NEVER lose control of the situation. Never allow them to believe that THEY are in control of you. Everything should be done at your behest with your expressed permission. Anything less and they will lose respect for you AND the relationship will be over. This does NOT mean that you have to be rude or a control freak. Always be nice - even when they are not nice to you. REMEMBER THIS FIRST AND FOREMOST: Never EVER put up with a woman's “S” - Not even her “S” tests. As soon as she finds out that you are willing to put up with her crap, that is all you can ever expect from her. She has to be aware that you are NEVER willing to be complacent about how she treats you. If she treats you poorly - the exit is close by. Use it. Absolutely nothing is worth the price of a female’s “S”. PERIOD. FINALLY: Women do not set the social “standards of etiquette” for our society - but they should abide by them. Moreover, it is inappropriate in today's environment for anyone to cull their own group as MORE SPECIAL or exceptional than any other. In short, they should abide by all of the SAME social rules of engagement as any other group. Never allow the females in any situation to collectively hold males to standards they themselves are unable to act in accordance to. Keep this at the forefront in all dealings with ANY group - especially females in specific and women's groups in general.
Walking away is the best option. Was in a similar situation. Met this girl, asked her out, she said no as she is in a relationship so I moved on and never bothered her again. 5 months later she reaches out so I set up a coffee date and we met she made it clear is just a coffee meeting so I said ok. After the date I still left her to reach out, I did not chase but at 1 point we where chatting and the subject came up and turned out she is still with her bf. She said I told you and I said yes 5 months ago lol, she asked if I was mad at her and I said no, ofcourse she did not beleive me, but I truley wasn't it was only because since she reached out 5 months later thought that she broke up so was a bit surprised that she didn't. She came back 2 month later and we met but this time she aksed to meet. I heard from friends that she does not like the fact that I hardly text her, as I don't chase her..... I am busy seeing other girls so am not running after someone who wants to just chat and meet and wanta nothing to happen after the date or meeting.. now haven't heard from her in a while but am sure I will at some point if not, oh well too bad.....
Wow this guy, why didn't I hear of you before. You know your sh!t, the things you say are so precise that I even doubt, but you're a genius. Thank you Corey.
just happened to me this past weekend. my girl gave me the offer for this weekend so i made the date. then she says she has a furniture move going on & wont know how long it takes. i said "ok just let me know what works best for you", she said "ok i will smiley face emoji" = never heard back from her, WTF ? well here goes the no contact rule
I met a girl I wasn't really into. She was texting me. I sent a few texts and then ignored her texts for a week. I realized she blocked my number when I sent a text back a week later. I don't care because I wasn't sure If I wanted to see her again anyways. I odnt think they always pursue if you ignore.
Just starting the video, I wanna say heads up for little brothers without sisters, because dominance & confidence & stuff like that is something you don't get to see til later in life I guess.
Thanks for not playing games with your videos and letting us hear your content without some leader BS and ask us to sign up for a program! I bought you online book from Amazon, but I still feel after reading 15x I need another 10x. Thank you.
Men should not adapt themselves to the ever changing nature of the woman. Like in that song by Rob Thomas, "This life ain't good enough." I would give my world to lift you up I could change my life to better suit your mood Because you're so smooth
so you're telling guys to have women chase and pursuer 70% of the time and so are the dating advisors who are telling women the same thing lol. We're going to have a lot of singles in this world. You and Matthew Hussey need to collaborate so that this can be more harmonious then more confusing ha
He comes from a school of thought that I sympathize with. He's telling you to be the confident charismatic guy women chase. Which isn't very common, but you can be him with some effort. Women don't really have to work for that, they already get _some_ attention, even if it's just for sex.
Well what you do say is true but majority of the guys out there lack self control and will keep chasing so if uou are the one who doesn't you may be the unicorn they chase.
All people play games to some extent. When you see you have some power over a person, you will toy with them a bit, it's fun, just don't intentionally hurt them and lead them on.
I was dating a nice girl a few months back went on two dates things went great got on well and was looking good, then she started taking ages to reply and being flakey sending one message a day, I left it for a week just playing the game but eventually got tired of it and said ok I can take a hint, that's when she got funny with me calling me childish and that was that. Now I been messaging another bird and just playing it cool not biting to the bullshit and she's just not messaged back in days too, it's rediculous you say not to act needy so you do, then they think your not interested 😂 it's pathetic!! If you like someone fuckin talk to them life is too short for this crap!
Corey, great stuff ! I love all your videos, I bought your book, and that stuff is just eye opening ! The one thing I am kind of stuck with is the 'give her space' issue: in general, whenever you give space to someone, nothing is going to happen. No pressure, no results. It works like that in almost all aspects of life. With women, I haven't figured out yet how to incorporate that yet...
I’ve been involved with a woman who lives with an emotionally and physically abusive partner, I’ve stopped contacting her as it’s causing her grief at home, just let her reach out now , nothing else , I don’t think she’ll kick him out so I’m getting on with my life, seeing another woman, I’m always respectful, playful and friendly for the other girl but it’s not happening unless she changes her life, which she won’t
I mean why the fuck is showing interest a bad habit? What's the point of even trying to get together? I only like people who like me - if I may think you don't like me, I'm not going to waste my time, let alone my money on you. And the guy pursuing the woman with a live in boyfriend should be gelded. He deserves some prison shower love. You shouldn't be helping people commit infidelity Corey, but I guess in the end money talks. There is no room for morality or human decency in relationships anymore.
I read his critics. They're rather shallow. It's more just butt-hurt feminists types. If you're going to criticize him, go for the jugular. I don't mind. But if you criticize him, and you have nothing, it makes me think you're just bitter.
So true as the pain of the former cause many to directly put themselves in the latter, in other words become suicidal. It's very rare for a person to live a contented life with no interaction with other people.
You are supposed to take it easy if you work with the girl! Don't eat and poop in the same place! And you need a best friend to consult about what to do! Can be a man or a woman. When she keeps nagging you to be your friend after she dumps you give the phone to your best friend. He will know what to do! It worked for me everytime!
I agree with john vu below.if you meet the right one they dont need to test you and women do test or play games but why if a guy is loyal gentlemen and decent if shes done something to mess it up its all the guys fault when in reality he deserves better an can get better.alot what corey says does work though but not every woman is like that an guys should be able to be themselves to a degree without being made to be the bad guy.
I never understood why women play games, they only hurt themselves in the end, most of the time. Just a month ago one girl was trying a no-contact game on me. Of course, I didn't waste time and I am already talking with other girls and planning a vacation with another one. Life is short, people should live it best they can. No bitterness and drama.
One time this co-worker began flirting and pursuing me because she liked me alot but unfortunately she also has a boyfriend and yet she tells me how her relationship of 5 years with him was a waste of time because her babydaddy isnt romantic and didn't care for marriage. My guess is that she set me up as a threat to her birfriend if he didn't start giving her what she wanted. Abd what really sucks is that she did a good job on leading me on into thinking that I had a legit chance with her. Of course I didn't really set a definite date but she did things the way ladies do if you rushed anything. Anyway after about a few months she began giving up on me and telling me that she wished that put effort between us like she was, now she just gave up on me completely and tells me that she and her babydaddy boyfriend have been talking about marriage and is tired of worrying about him catching her talking to me so she tells me that she lost all feelings for me and wanted us to end all communications between us whatsoever ( she made that remark to me after finding out that i was leaving our workplace) She only wanted to see us as co-workers So it sounds like i screwed up a opportunity with a cute lady that found me attractive yet at the same time she was showing what she a girl with no integrity to be flirting with me and sending me pictures of her self behind her boyfriends back And they live together!! That really fucking sucks for me knowing that she was taken yet giving me all that attention as if she actually wanted to be my girlfriend
You are the bomb Corey! I live down under in New Zealand. The women are the same here - it's f..ing universal. Have watched a few of your clips and used the great advice. Have turned things around 180 degrees! If you are ever in Auckland let me buy you a beer! Cheers 007.
David Seth ...sorry to hear that about the Women in NZ. It's all part of that White Feminist indoctrination. European and Third World Women are cool with men being direct about hooking up.
I remember i was with a girl backing the day who didnt make any effort to see me, she was always playing mind games with me ,but she was whiling to have a week off from work to spend a time with her new guy ! When i found out It was painful.
that email was cringy...but you make some good points
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usually this situation is short term. Know what it is and enjoy it while you can. IF she's cheating on her BF with you, she will do the same to you, should you ever take her serious. Reset, revaluate and know what it is.
I love your video's am in a very rough time in my life and I can trace it all directly to not being taught the truth about people. bad environment. yada yada. but i can look back on my life and everything you say is right on! will steer any younger man in your direction if they come to me for advice. and i will keep watching lest i forget again.
I feel as though some of these videos may assist people like my ex in messing with our heads.... Luckily he has obviously never seen these vids, and I will not be sharing them with him! Scary thought!
hey- it's totally working! We went to the beach over the weekend. She mentioned at one point 'i shouldve invited more people' I said, "then i wouldn't have you all to myself.... i'm actually more greedy with your time than ive let on" she got this bigass smile. we went out dancing all night, we had so much fun, and we walked around holding hands and cuddled more that night. i didn't yet try to kiss her, but i figure i have time... plus she kinda is on the fence about her boyfriend right now. :)!
I wouldn't be aloof. you might send out the wrong signals. Just act real glad to see her and tease her a bit. Never let a woman see your nervous side.......
7:00 mark: no, during the escalation phase, which is still "boundary setting," the pursuer can't rely on the magic of date " sex" to be the engine. Sometimes it's HERE where she detects his neediness, and he needs to reevaluate his strategy; rather, what worked on "date sex night" isn't in context; it's about progression. If he's not picking up the cues, and insists there's a *one size fits her* rubric, she'll see it as being stuck in the prior phase and see this as a lack of effort. Not to mention maybe all he's after is one thing. Remember, cat n mouse games are to test the hell out of a potential partner, as you've alluded to many times. Sometimes the mouse, while surreptitiously (role play sneakiness) fleeing, is successful; and, that the cat isn't committed enough to apace the mouse's important sense of security and confidence.
What does it mean if she says, "you would like my dad," but we have never even been on a date. We only know one another through running into one another at a restaurant for a number of years. I've asked her out. She didn't respond. ..... I've invited her out when I'm at the restaurant that I originally met her at. She said she's busy. ....She did mention a restaurant she's interested in going with me. So I'm trying to wrap up my semester at school to arrange going to this restaurant for a first date.
christopher shara forget her, she may be appealing but I have just gone through similar. The woman you describe is a fake. Quit pursuing her. Be pleasant and smile, keep chat short and if she hints at why aren't you asking me out again, just smile and tell her, 'I know you're afraid to have fun' so when you get it together, call me, here's my number. Smile and bye!
Forget her because she’s not interested. If you hang on in hope she’ll disrespect and humiliate in degrees relevant to how long you hang on. It’s so much better to be with someone who’s excited to meet you.
David Lomax I am not a game player sir I'm not I go up and say look I like ya and I want you are you free on Saturday night that's what I do . But I never had to play games because men would usually come up and ask me out . So I didn't really have to do anything when it came to men .
Seems the same subtle language women use rejecting a guy is what the use among themselves...only they understand the ladyspeak lol...for example, I go to this coffee shop a lot, with all young and cute women employees who have varying and often fluctuating relationship statuses lol. So I was observing the interaction between this young man and one of the girls..he was quite a good looking dude as was she, both in their early 20's. I believed they refereed to each other as bf/gf even or it was implied. Still you could tell they did not know each other so long. The conversation seemed rather stiff...some couples you know they feel fire for each other it's so obvious. Definitely not the case here even though the conversation was pleasant enough. The guy left, and immediately after I hear her talking with another girl about him...I don't even recall a specific question asked, but you could tell the other girl took notice of dudes looks and she in an encouraging way gave the look that said "oooh what's up with that hmmmm?". Immediately she responded....when you take into context the previous events along with the inflection in her voice what she said was, when translated from Chickanese back to BroDude said "He's kinda a dud, doesn't make me feel special and I'm a little disappointed, he's so cute" She says, with an exasperated sigh of disappointment but also amusement "aaah...I just don't know where I'm at in my life right now."
Well, I backed off a lot, and she's coming over Sunday to have dinner. I'm going to be somewhat aloof and work hard to just live 'in the moment' (which is actually supposed to not be hard work, lol) and we'll see how it goes. She kissed me once a long time ago (when I was too skeerd to know what to do), maybe we'll get there again.
Maybe I'm wierd, but I disrespect this guy for being in an affair with her in the first place. I'd have more respect for a guy who says, "Hey look, I like you, but I'm nor going to go around with you behind your guy's back. If we ever happen to be single at the same time, feel free to hit me up." .... Obviously rough wording it there. I know guys don't talk like me, but still.... if you're okay with being the other guy, what's to stop her from having another guy behind -your- back?
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From what I've learned from life and this video is that the more you try to control the things around you, the less control you will have of yourself.
control is an illusion
Its about how you allow people to treat you, and then manipulate you. Shifting your boundaries.
funny cause women love to have control, or at least perceive the illusion that they do
They don't desire men they control do they?
@@dennisrobinson8008 - some years ago, along about late in 2004 to mid-2006, I dated a woman who got pissed off when she found out she COULDN'T control me.
Be happy and playful and fun. Pick up your shit and tell her to call you if she changes her mind. Walk and NEVER look back. If she calls you afterwards, assume she wants to see you. Make a date to hangout, have fun and hook up.
3 times to your place before taking her on another date.
Does coach Corey Wayne promote cheating behavior by saying it’s ok to pursue girls who are in relationships?
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Feelings are bad. Don't have feelings.
Lol Charlie Ennis right!!! We can be happy! And women who don't make us happy are not needed.
That's you being needy my friend
keep your feelings to yourself until things become more serious and she is showing you hers, or prepare to be flaked, ghosted, and disrespected.
(recommended to me by countless real-life experiences with women)
You have to be a machine. Or a Psychopath.
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Everyone is going to have some sort of weakness or insecurities there's not a single person out there that has it completely together and if a woman can't handle that in a person then she is not worth being with.
keltecdan, true words you speak 👆
keltecdan ?..okay that means 98% of the broads.Not worth it!
Yep, if a guy has no insecurities he's either not human, not interested, or is extremely narcissistic. Ironically, men learn to jump through hoops to prove their manhood. I say that's just doing whatever it takes to get the p. Trained to beg at the table in the most successful way. They forget that we're kind of supposed to have something they want too, and if a woman doesn't, there's no point in being with the cold fish anyway.
Thank you for writing this.
Always keep in mind that it is just a "game" in a good game there is always emotions, disappointed, frustrations and loss. It's the most important game and every man has to play it.
This is fairly accurate..I do think women 'test' frequently, and it does mess most of us guys up when we're in the dating process. Women are reputed to have a problem with guys who 'lack emotion,' but at the end of the day, they want a man with a spine. Don't listen to b.s. talk shows like Oprah, etc. Those are shows that are made by women for women. Girls have girl friends for a reason. I would say that guys are generally just very confused by a lot of conflicting information out there. Again, guys can sometimes forget their spine and get caught up emotionally.
I think there is a BIG difference between testing (often normal in relationships and in early phases of dating) and playing games (often occurs with insecure, attention seeking women who are "playing" the field when they have not gone out on dates or had sexual encounters with guys yet i.e. social groups and first meetings).
Cory, I have a simple solution to this man's dilemma: Best advice for him would be to find a woman without a boyfriend. Any woman playing this game is TRASHY!
depends
It really depends
I'm seeing a lady who's got a bf. I know she just wants a young man to take care of her needs, so she comes around once or twice a month and we have an amazing time together. It's allows time for sexual tension and makes everything better. Then, her bf can take care of her while I'm not around 😉
@@bamsuchanan don't do this to a fellow man
gradeschool is not over, it just got more complex as we were growing up..
gradeschool was great. almost. i had the coolest girlfriend until i told her she was pretty
Tony Roma so the lesson from your words that you should never let her know about your feelings?
@@timurjoro1995 Actually, I think everyone in class knew about our feelings. But telling her she was pretty was new territory and she definitely acted out on it. "I want to go sit with that guy" It was kind of funny when she came back I said "If I let you" and she said "Aw shut up". So when they say this behavior is hard-wired into them, I guess it really is. And our behavior too I guess.
The fact of her having a bf should already be a red flag
Like a bright yellow red sun burning in the sky that screams unstable tendencies.
Not everyone is insecure about their girl be human and liking other people.
@@blackjack2770 Just wait until you're involved with one that has a psychopath boyfriend that is going to blow your brains out. You're a total jackass for even thinking that it's "fair game".
@@seinfan9 😂😂😂😂 mi ex tell my my mom that she was gona kill me and kick her ass for treating me like a kid.
The problem is some guys don give a fuck whether girls are in a relationship, they are mainly focused on fucking...period. Which is sad to see
we need a 2020 version of this because social media/online dating is on a whole other level of bs
Not at all the current version works. If you reach the coaches book you would know you should be getting 25 phone numbers a week or at least approaching 25 women. Forgot the online portion. I was just at my local mall last weekend and got 7 phone numbers. Stay away from the online crap real men will meet women in person and get their phone numbers. I don't even use social media myself.
@@benjaminbattle8313 Hi Benjamin, how are you doing nowadays? would love to connect with you and learn from you. I have been avidly learning and applying Coach’s wisdom for 7 months. In this time I have been on 10+ first dates and kissed 6. Both are more than my previous 24 years! But I still struggle to meet high quality girls that I like and like me. By high quality, I actually mean just that I like them and they like me. I have already centered my life around an area with a lot of people my age and similar interests (I won’t go into specifics right now) and I will eventually move to that area in 2 years after I do a year of exchange teaching English in Spain. I know that I have centered my life around my passions and put myself in communities to meet like minded people but I still have not formed any strong connections. I feel like I am missing something because it still feels rare to meet someone worth dating. Obviously I need to open my eyes but I don’t know how. I’d love to hear from you, take care!
@@joeybboy3433 Trust me it's just how it is. I met A LOT of women in the last 1.5 years of being single and only a couple really did it for me, like literally two women, the current one being my favourite. I've been dating since I was 19 and I'm 28 now for context. It took a lot of experience to feel good where I'm at. Trust the process, and keep vetting the girls to make sure you don't slip into a relationship with a bad fit (I've been in those situations and they're easy to avoid now). Younger guys can learn a lot here but you need to honestly go through the highs and lows to really understand it.
I work with my ex girlfriend and I don't talk to her at all, because I don't want to be friends with her, I only wanted a romantic relationship, not friendship
Once a cheater, always a cheater ! they're in a toxic relationship
@@averyt6521 true that
Be a real man and don't mess around with a girl that has a bf.. Corey I can't believe ur helping out this scummer.
The individual paid for the service, so as obligated he’s doing just that.
She is the one wih the boyfriend. She is the one double playing. He is the side boy. He made up an imaginary woman so if that is cheating then you are right!
Frank Sciacca Guys who pursue women that are in a relationship are pure shit
Dude, get off your moral high horse. I have no problem banging girls that have boyfriends, fiancees, or even husbands. If theyre willing to be disloyal to their man, thats their problem. If she'd do it with you, she'd do it with anybody. If its not you it would just be some other guy. Dont look for long term relationships with women like this because obviously she is morally flawed. Nobody else plays by the rules, so why should you. If she cheats on her man, thats her problem not yours
They paid for advice, to be truthful. She can do it to the SAME for the scummer.
Explain to these guys if they don't date many women at a time they won't know contrast and what they want.....this solves most problems that comes with our mistakes...
I havnt got time for that sort of bullshit from 'women'. Only those with less emotional maturity feel the need to communicate via game playing. If someone cannot communicate openly and honestly with another person, its a complete turn-off.
It's simple, become a robot without feelings
KaysianReigns that’s what my adhd pills are for
@@bjo7964 😭😭😭
Easy to say with body confidence.
MichelleObama isAman truth, your username has me dead bro haha
KaysianReigns As Donald Trump would say:”Wrong!” 😂
Know your worth and don't settle for less . I was an idiot who stayed with a woman for nearly a year. One moment she loved me , the next wanted friendship . One moment all about me the next not. If you pay close enough attention ones actions preveal all. People will tell on themselves , and show you exactly who they are if you simply pay attention. A woman truly into you will preveal it. You won't have to doubt , question , nor second guess yourself !
Corey, you bring literally all the dust off the counter and make everything transparent. Thank you for reminding all the gentlemen including myself to grow and learn on how to better ourselves.
If a woman is playing games, it ends there. It's really that simple.
Yea agreed. I'd why this clown is preaching to men to basicly how to play the girls game and hopefully win. Real man doesn't play we walk away.
@@JBidensucks then you will keep walking away your whole life cause all wemen play games
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If she plays games send her monopoly.
@emmanuel de la cruz Life is not black and white. We make choices based on a spectrum.
Coach Corey you give great advice, cool dude .... But please change that intro music, sounds like a pbs special
cloudnizzy Dude needs to teach a course on this subject matter at a college University.
Lmao I know right or some kind of middle high school health film hahaha
cloudnizzy he should use HBK’s entrance theme, he’s a dead ringer 😂
The band Foreigner, wrote a song about this in the 70's. It's entitled "Head Games."
im gonna check song out
thanks
scott- o Damn....and this whole time I thought it was called "Pet Games" Fuck....
I don't know. I don't know if it's real.
My story. It was perfect with your work. She backed off. I went silent. It was hard. Sure enough. She pursed. Then I was wow. This is great and low and behold I over pursued. She canceled a set date one hour before by text. I went silent. She did too. She has stayed that way. Lol. Hot too.
I can laugh but learned. I wanted to call her out but maturity kicked in. It was bullshit. I was on my way. Old Terry would excoriated her for text cancelling. I did over pursue but by 25% Not crazy shit.
Anyway the bus isn't far so I need to brush off.
Thanks Mr Wayne
its really not easy to get rid of ur bad habits it takes time and practice...stay cool and chill man..
ive seriously watched like 20 of your vids in about two or so weeks, you sir are a genius, thanks for all the help man
“Can she just communicate like an adult?” NO. Women will always fear communicating important issues and hide like children. And the tragic thing is you can’t shame them because acting like little girls is considered “cute” -roles eyes-
Women will communicate like adults if they trust you. Most of the time guys dont know how to communicate well and it closes the women down emotionally and she wont want to communicate.
@mrnerville This guy actually lives in Europe. Women all respond the same way emotionally, not matter where they are from.
Coach Corey Wayne I disagree. How do women all act the same way emotionally? Where did you get this so called "fact" from? Your observations from the women you encountered? Give me a break. Just trying to sell yourself.
Deceived Society Your so wrong. This is the way of the world. I will admit I felt the same until I thought. Ok. I will try the strategy.
It worked right away.
Cory started with nothing and is a winner. Tony Robbins guy like me.
He gets $1000 an hour. From all over the world.
He's going to be a huge performance guru. Walked away from $500k a year to live his passion. He's real. I know people who confirmed it.
So give him a chance. Don't just be a hater.
Cool.
@Alison Bosse Great comment. Agreed!
@Alison Bosse HAHA High quality woman?? Its like finding a Unicorn! I thought i found one before....turns out she chases bad boy types still!!! Also she cannot apologize for serious issues that she was at fault....and expected the guy to apologize even though he was NOT in the wrong....and of course she had no problem apologizing for simple immaterial issues that basically meant nothing. Yes, women all act the same....just the supposed high quality woman perhaps may be a lil bit less crazy. Also, ALL women play games!!! Be completely Authentic??? Doesn't work no matter what!!! I do EXACTLY this!!! Who you see is what you get...no surprises.....completely genuine!! Women do not want this in the beginning and perhaps may accept this as thing progress into more serious territory.
You are telling a man to pursue a r'ship with a women already in one. You are so caught up with telling him to "be alpha" that you are advocating something which it isn't right. The correct advice is not to go out with a girl with an existing BF, because if she cheats on him, she will cheat on you.
That's what coach is telling him..to be indifferent..go about his life and date other women..while waiting to hear from the girl who has a boyfriend. Sadly, the client doesn't listen...power of the pussy my friend. Haha.
SBSistheTruth game is amoral. If the guy who sent the email doesn't do it, another swinging dick will.
SBSistheTruth if that guy doesn't hit it, someone else will. Fact
that's Why you make sure she dumps him. but then again cheating wouldn't be technically called, but a ex to the bf seems just as worse
Dont take her seriously if you somehow do get her to be with u. Treat her like whatever
You are a genius brother. Great understanding of human behavior. I've been modifying my interactions with people based on the knowledge you share in your book and video tutorials and I'm getting great results and actually feel I have a handle on my social life. I'm grateful.
Cheaters gonna cheat.
When I studied with David Deida he said when you realise how much energy it takes to make a woman happy you might feel it's not worth the bother. He was right.
What does this mean? You don't need to try to make her happy because it's not worth the effort? Or it's just not your job?
@@ZhekaTrololo its not your job to make a women happy. Your only job is to protect and provide.
That's because women are never happy.. With anything
I feel bad for typing this....so glad you had a dysfunctional upbringing because it's help save mine. Thx coach
Such a double standard, as soon as men start playing games, the women hide the PS3!
just leave it alone bro..don't force it..
Man I feel bad for the shit u had to put up with Corey man growing up but at least it turned into a positive to help all of us guys learning!
Your videos have helped me a lot... I came to know that I am not a looser but just like many men making mistakes...thanks brother
I have been applying your advice for a month, now I'm end up with more than five girls behind my ass. Lmao😂😂. They all want me
Wow, that guy was a serious drama QUEEN!
The problem is that they are constantly doing that every single day and I am not anybody's lab rat to be tested
he speak 100% truth ...Corey you are dam awesome man
"The courtship! never ends" Peace Corey :)
he's an OG. My wife I've been married to for a while now still does this fucking shit and it fucking blows my mind.
Here is what you MUST know about the “S” test:
1. If you agree to it then you have already flunked it. The only “S” test you should agree to is the one you give HER.
2. All answers given MUST be no answer at all. For example, “Really?” or, “Ha, that’s funny” or even, “Well, that's ridiculous” or simply no answer at all.
3. Always SMILE at what ever they say to you no matter how ridiculous or rude they become. This tells them that WHAT they say to you has no bering - they have absolutely no AFFECT on you OR your mood.
4. If at any time they become unentertaining OR too rude, simply walk away.
5. If they flunk YOUR “S” test - do NOT give them another chance. Simply walk away.
6. NEVER lose control of the situation. Never allow them to believe that THEY are in control of you. Everything should be done at your behest with your expressed permission. Anything less and they will lose respect for you AND the relationship will be over. This does NOT mean that you have to be rude or a control freak. Always be nice - even when they are not nice to you.
REMEMBER THIS FIRST AND FOREMOST:
Never EVER put up with a woman's “S” - Not even her “S” tests. As soon as she finds out that you are willing to put up with her crap, that is all you can ever expect from her. She has to be aware that you are NEVER willing to be complacent about how she treats you. If she treats you poorly - the exit is close by. Use it. Absolutely nothing is worth the price of a female’s “S”. PERIOD.
FINALLY: Women do not set the social “standards of etiquette” for our society - but they should abide by them. Moreover, it is inappropriate in today's environment for anyone to cull their own group as MORE SPECIAL or exceptional than any other. In short, they should abide by all of the SAME social rules of engagement as any other group. Never allow the females in any situation to collectively hold males to standards they themselves are unable to act in accordance to. Keep this at the forefront in all dealings with ANY group - especially females in specific and women's groups in general.
Walking away is the best option. Was in a similar situation. Met this girl, asked her out, she said no as she is in a relationship so I moved on and never bothered her again. 5 months later she reaches out so I set up a coffee date and we met she made it clear is just a coffee meeting so I said ok. After the date I still left her to reach out, I did not chase but at 1 point we where chatting and the subject came up and turned out she is still with her bf. She said I told you and I said yes 5 months ago lol, she asked if I was mad at her and I said no, ofcourse she did not beleive me, but I truley wasn't it was only because since she reached out 5 months later thought that she broke up so was a bit surprised that she didn't. She came back 2 month later and we met but this time she aksed to meet. I heard from friends that she does not like the fact that I hardly text her, as I don't chase her..... I am busy seeing other girls so am not running after someone who wants to just chat and meet and wanta nothing to happen after the date or meeting.. now haven't heard from her in a while but am sure I will at some point if not, oh well too bad.....
Wow this guy, why didn't I hear of you before. You know your sh!t, the things you say are so precise that I even doubt, but you're a genius. Thank you Corey.
just happened to me this past weekend. my girl gave me the offer for this weekend so i made the date. then she says she has a furniture move going on & wont know how long it takes. i said "ok just let me know what works best for you", she said "ok i will smiley face emoji" = never heard back from her, WTF ? well here goes the no contact rule
Women…..
Good stuff, I got a lot of experience with women, and had to learn things on my own as well, but these vids helped me put things in better order...
I met a girl I wasn't really into. She was texting me. I sent a few texts and then ignored her texts for a week. I realized she blocked my number when I sent a text back a week later. I don't care because I wasn't sure If I wanted to see her again anyways. I odnt think they always pursue if you ignore.
Why did you ignore her text? Nothing Corey Wayne says, implies that you should ignore the woman
Just starting the video, I wanna say heads up for little brothers without sisters, because dominance & confidence & stuff like that is something you don't get to see til later in life I guess.
I had a woman play that same elementary tactic to get a response from me. So childish and petty. Poor soul...
I ask em out then give a second ask out a week later then tell em - hit me up if interested with no intention of going out with them and move on!
Going to the movies isn't just a friend thing lol
Thanks for not playing games with your videos and letting us hear your content without some leader BS and ask us to sign up for a program!
I bought you online book from Amazon, but I still feel after reading 15x I need another 10x. Thank you.
Men should not adapt themselves to the ever changing nature of the woman. Like in that song by Rob Thomas, "This life ain't good enough."
I would give my world to lift you up
I could change my life to better suit your mood
Because you're so smooth
he is damm right i was tested but didn't knew whats going on. i found this guy so late.
so you're telling guys to have women chase and pursuer 70% of the time and so are the dating advisors who are telling women the same thing lol. We're going to have a lot of singles in this world. You and Matthew Hussey need to collaborate so that this can be more harmonious then more confusing ha
He comes from a school of thought that I sympathize with. He's telling you to be the confident charismatic guy women chase. Which isn't very common, but you can be him with some effort. Women don't really have to work for that, they already get _some_ attention, even if it's just for sex.
hahah. true.
John NoNameGibbon we love them for them they love us for things they dont love us make your own happiness dont get attached
Well what you do say is true but majority of the guys out there lack self control and will keep chasing so if uou are the one who doesn't you may be the unicorn they chase.
All people play games to some extent. When you see you have some power over a person, you will toy with them a bit, it's fun, just don't intentionally hurt them and lead them on.
I was dating a nice girl a few months back went on two dates things went great got on well and was looking good, then she started taking ages to reply and being flakey sending one message a day, I left it for a week just playing the game but eventually got tired of it and said ok I can take a hint, that's when she got funny with me calling me childish and that was that. Now I been messaging another bird and just playing it cool not biting to the bullshit and she's just not messaged back in days too, it's rediculous you say not to act needy so you do, then they think your not interested 😂 it's pathetic!! If you like someone fuckin talk to them life is too short for this crap!
what if you like someone whos taken?
@@fargeeks then find someone else 😂 unless your an absolute baller then go for it
@@Jman21UK nah im not ballin for mother's
I don't really have babysitting experience anyway
@@fargeeks fuck dating single mothers
I clicked on this thinking that it was about video games that women play 😂
Coach Corey Wayne you could be just the one I need to talk to about this girl problem that I'm having
Corey, great stuff ! I love all your videos, I bought your book, and that stuff is just eye opening ! The one thing I am kind of stuck with is the 'give her space' issue: in general, whenever you give space to someone, nothing is going to happen. No pressure, no results. It works like that in almost all aspects of life. With women, I haven't figured out yet how to incorporate that yet...
I’ve been involved with a woman who lives with an emotionally and physically abusive partner, I’ve stopped contacting her as it’s causing her grief at home, just let her reach out now , nothing else , I don’t think she’ll kick him out so I’m getting on with my life, seeing another woman, I’m always respectful, playful and friendly for the other girl but it’s not happening unless she changes her life, which she won’t
I mean why the fuck is showing interest a bad habit? What's the point of even trying to get together? I only like people who like me - if I may think you don't like me, I'm not going to waste my time, let alone my money on you. And the guy pursuing the woman with a live in boyfriend should be gelded. He deserves some prison shower love. You shouldn't be helping people commit infidelity Corey, but I guess in the end money talks. There is no room for morality or human decency in relationships anymore.
I read his critics. They're rather shallow. It's more just butt-hurt feminists types. If you're going to criticize him, go for the jugular. I don't mind. But if you criticize him, and you have nothing, it makes me think you're just bitter.
to me the bigger fears for a human are not being accepted socially and being in a life threatening situation
Ayejax that's the way the human brain works
So true as the pain of the former cause many to directly put themselves in the latter, in other words become suicidal. It's very rare for a person to live a contented life with no interaction with other people.
Man you are doing a outstanding job with these videos
You are supposed to take it easy if you work with the girl! Don't eat and poop in the same place!
And you need a best friend to consult about what to do! Can be a man or a woman. When she keeps nagging you to be your friend after she dumps you give the phone to your best friend. He will know what to do! It worked for me everytime!
Yeah..my rule of thumb is don’t take it personal there practice for the next one it’s part of dating
I agree with john vu below.if you meet the right one they dont need to test you and women do test or play games but why if a guy is loyal gentlemen and decent if shes done something to mess it up its all the guys fault when in reality he deserves better an can get better.alot what corey says does work though but not every woman is like that an guys should be able to be themselves to a degree without being made to be the bad guy.
It's not easy to control one's emotions.
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Perhaps not, but it can be extremely useful when controlled.
I never understood why women play games, they only hurt themselves in the end, most of the time.
Just a month ago one girl was trying a no-contact game on me. Of course, I didn't waste time and I am already talking with other girls and planning a vacation with another one. Life is short, people should live it best they can. No bitterness and drama.
One time this co-worker began flirting and pursuing me because she liked me alot but unfortunately she also has a boyfriend and yet she tells me how her relationship of 5 years with him was a waste of time because her babydaddy isnt romantic and didn't care for marriage.
My guess is that she set me up as a threat to her birfriend if he didn't start giving her what she wanted.
Abd what really sucks is that she did a good job on leading me on into thinking that I had a legit chance with her.
Of course I didn't really set a definite date but she did things the way ladies do if you rushed anything.
Anyway after about a few months she began giving up on me and telling me that she wished that put effort between us like she was, now she just gave up on me completely and tells me that she and her babydaddy boyfriend have been talking about marriage and is tired of worrying about him catching her talking to me so she tells me that she lost all feelings for me and wanted us to end all communications between us whatsoever ( she made that remark to me after finding out that i was leaving our workplace)
She only wanted to see us as co-workers
So it sounds like i screwed up a opportunity with a cute lady that found me attractive yet at the same time she was showing what she a girl with no integrity to be flirting with me and sending me pictures of her self behind her boyfriends back
And they live together!!
That really fucking sucks for me knowing that she was taken yet giving me all that attention as if she actually wanted to be my girlfriend
You are the bomb Corey! I live down under in New Zealand. The women are the same here - it's f..ing universal. Have watched a few of your clips and used the great advice. Have turned things around 180 degrees! If you are ever in Auckland let me buy you a beer! Cheers 007.
David Seth ...sorry to hear that about the Women in NZ. It's all part of that White Feminist indoctrination. European and Third World Women are cool with men being direct about hooking up.
arent women stalkers , jealous and an emotional disasters? YES.
I remember i was with a girl backing the day who didnt make any effort to see me, she was always playing mind games with me ,but she was whiling to have a week off from work to spend a time with her new guy ! When i found out It was painful.
It’s funny. We gotta play all this BS when all we want is a hot dinner and a HJ
If you value your job in the "office" don't fuck around or date anyone in said "office"...also...indifference is always key.
that email was cringy...but you make some good points
usually this situation is short term. Know what it is and enjoy it while you can. IF she's cheating on her BF with you, she will do the same to you, should you ever take her serious. Reset, revaluate and know what it is.
Why respond to an email about a man that wants to comfort another dude's woman?
I love your video's am in a very rough time in my life and I can trace it all directly to not being taught the truth about people. bad environment. yada yada. but i can look back on my life and everything you say is right on! will steer any younger man in your direction if they come to me for advice. and i will keep watching lest i forget again.
I feel as though some of these videos may assist people like my ex in messing with our heads.... Luckily he has obviously never seen these vids, and I will not be sharing them with him! Scary thought!
He is funny and make a lot of sense. He makes great points.
Just by the title alone I thought this vid would be an hour or so long
ok im in my 30's and ugly as fuck, will this work for me too ?
hey- it's totally working! We went to the beach over the weekend. She mentioned at one point 'i shouldve invited more people' I said, "then i wouldn't have you all to myself.... i'm actually more greedy with your time than ive let on" she got this bigass smile. we went out dancing all night, we had so much fun, and we walked around holding hands and cuddled more that night. i didn't yet try to kiss her, but i figure i have time... plus she kinda is on the fence about her boyfriend right now. :)!
Consider knowing the difference between Alfa and Douchy. Seem to be getting the two mixed up.
Coach Corey Wayne, love your advice and thank you. I have to add you look alot like my favorite author the late Vince Flynn lol!
I wouldn't be aloof. you might send out the wrong signals. Just act real glad to see her and tease her a bit. Never let a woman see your nervous side.......
7:00 mark: no, during the escalation phase, which is still "boundary setting," the pursuer can't rely on the magic of date " sex" to be the engine. Sometimes it's HERE where she detects his neediness, and he needs to reevaluate his strategy; rather, what worked on "date sex night" isn't in context; it's about progression. If he's not picking up the cues, and insists there's a *one size fits her* rubric, she'll see it as being stuck in the prior phase and see this as a lack of effort. Not to mention maybe all he's after is one thing.
Remember, cat n mouse games are to test the hell out of a potential partner, as you've alluded to many times.
Sometimes the mouse, while surreptitiously (role play sneakiness) fleeing, is successful; and, that the cat isn't committed enough to apace the mouse's important sense of security and confidence.
Dating should be fun! Women start playing games they can f off, not even f’n worth it. Stay on your purpose men
What does it mean if she says, "you would like my dad," but we have never even been on a date. We only know one another through running into one another at a restaurant for a number of years. I've asked her out. She didn't respond. ..... I've invited her out when I'm at the restaurant that I originally met her at. She said she's busy. ....She did mention a restaurant she's interested in going with me. So I'm trying to wrap up my semester at school to arrange going to this restaurant for a first date.
christopher shara forget her, she may be appealing but I have just gone through similar. The woman you describe is a fake. Quit pursuing her. Be pleasant and smile, keep chat short and if she hints at why aren't you asking me out again, just smile and tell her, 'I know you're afraid to have fun' so when you get it together, call me, here's my number. Smile and bye!
Forget her because she’s not interested. If you hang on in hope she’ll disrespect and humiliate in degrees relevant to how long you hang on. It’s so much better to be with someone who’s excited to meet you.
I don't like games. And I am very emotional. I get mine don't worry about it
oh man this guy in the email killed me. Damm
I wish I discovered Corey Wayne years ago. I dated a woman for a month and I fucked it up because I wasn't aware of the games women play
Fear that we wont be loved? I have never hear of that
Ur solidly enjoyable to listen to. Keep up the good work!
I want to know what Corey thinks about RSD...with Tyler..
Are women subconsciously doing the game playing ? I even though I'm a woman i don't know the games they play
alex Lost Why are we doing this it sucks when you're a woman that likes other women
David Lomax I am not a game player sir I'm not I go up and say look I like ya and I want you are you free on Saturday night that's what I do . But I never had to play games because men would usually come up and ask me out . So I didn't really have to do anything when it came to men .
creepy men messed up stuff for everybody
Seems the same subtle language women use rejecting a guy is what the use among themselves...only they understand the ladyspeak lol...for example, I go to this coffee shop a lot, with all young and cute women employees who have varying and often fluctuating relationship statuses lol.
So I was observing the interaction between this young man and one of the girls..he was quite a good looking dude as was she, both in their early 20's. I believed they refereed to each other as bf/gf even or it was implied. Still you could tell they did not know each other so long. The conversation seemed rather stiff...some couples you know they feel fire for each other it's so obvious. Definitely not the case here even though the conversation was pleasant enough.
The guy left, and immediately after I hear her talking with another girl about him...I don't even recall a specific question asked, but you could tell the other girl took notice of dudes looks and she in an encouraging way gave the look that said "oooh what's up with that hmmmm?". Immediately she responded....when you take into context the previous events along with the inflection in her voice what she said was, when translated from Chickanese back to BroDude said "He's kinda a dud, doesn't make me feel special and I'm a little disappointed, he's so cute"
She says, with an exasperated sigh of disappointment but also amusement "aaah...I just don't know where I'm at in my life right now."
Thank you Corey
you are great !
Well, I backed off a lot, and she's coming over Sunday to have dinner. I'm going to be somewhat aloof and work hard to just live 'in the moment' (which is actually supposed to not be hard work, lol) and we'll see how it goes. She kissed me once a long time ago (when I was too skeerd to know what to do), maybe we'll get there again.
Maybe I'm wierd, but I disrespect this guy for being in an affair with her in the first place. I'd have more respect for a guy who says, "Hey look, I like you, but I'm nor going to go around with you behind your guy's back. If we ever happen to be single at the same time, feel free to hit me up." .... Obviously rough wording it there. I know guys don't talk like me, but still.... if you're okay with being the other guy, what's to stop her from having another guy behind -your- back?