Attraction Triggers & Turn-Offs
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- Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
- What causes attraction and what turns off attraction in both men and women and how they differ in their approaches to dating and relationships. How to use an understanding of masculine and feminine energy to understand your partner and maintain attraction and sexual intimacy.
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Wow, I've been studying male/female social dynamics, psychology, and attraction for 7 years now and this guy is SPOT ON with analysis. EXCELLENT WORK!!
Casperian so true
7 years?? are you dating one of the Kardashians now?
Any books you would recommend for someone keen to learn ?
@@J4YAH777 just because he's studying doesn't mean he would date your social media dream girl
@@BboyGraphicx The 48 laws of power is pretty wild. Check it out
Man! After 9 years of being split up with my daughters mother she drops a bomb on me last night over text msg. She asked me if I miss her, and if I ever think about the family we could have developed together. I wanted to make things work for 8 years that we were apart, not only cause I loved her, but for my daughters sake. This past year I finally let go of all hope that me and her would ever be together. Im focused fully on me, and now all of a sudden she wants me back! Women are CRAZY!
What all improvements had you done for yourself in that time period?
Free World Free World He’s not forgetting about her, he just saying what had already transpired. He still loves her obviously, but needs time to plan.
Free World Free World He’s not forgetting about her, he just saying what had already transpired. He still loves her obviously, but needs time to plan.
Free World He’s not a dick for pursuing his purpose. His ex probably sees that he’s focused whenever he picks up his daughter, as opposed to the previous 8 years when he was fawning over her. Nowhere did he say he wasn’t paying attention to his kid
Yea...using that family line is a load of shit! People will use that line whenever you try to move on!!
I don't know what I would be like today if I hadn't found this guy's work. Get the book
Where do I get it from?
Fresher Dope google it
He’s really help
zesta5 ..and read it 10 - 15 times. 👍
Humans, especially women, love unpredictability. That's it, that goes with the dangerous bad boy, the spontaneous guy and the rough and tough bar room bully with a love em' and leave em' attitude. Unclear, unconveyed, vague direction but a clear goal. Be James Bond, be confident and know they'll come crawling back.
Cole Hultman it’s a solid plan and works
Good advice. Clinging to other people is unattractive and unproductive.
There needs to be boundaries and space. Have patience and appreciation and take care of yourself.
You can't control everything in life but you can control your perception and how to respond to it. If the girl goes for the other guy just be like poor girl her loss.
No, they make total sense when you understand them and what they emotionally respond to. They are totally predictable then.
I Love your work man, you doing great. But i would love to know your recommendation to the gym session guy.
The problem is you've got to read the book 10 to 15 times minimum come on man
My man said " if she cancels her fuck'n loss" lmao only Alphas can relate...
hahahha that is so true! That is my outlook now, but I used to be a man who would think about why this and why that. Now that I don't care and realize their are tons of fish in the sea, it makes me much more happy. If a woman cancels then I simply move on to the next fish in the sea. A man can't spend time giving a flying fig what happens or does not happen.
live strong bro
Remember your the catch not her. She's lucky to be in your presents and if she's a good girl she gets your time if she's not then she doesn't get your time. Your of high value and you must act as such. But that doesn't mean you have to act like a jerk.
Chris C omg...shut up
JD Diallo Haha
Thanks Brett Favre!
Lmao
Haha 😆 that’s who he looks like!👍
😂😂😂
All I see here, is a handsome charismatic man, with knowledge to share. ;-) That is so attractive.
Dude, I laugh so many times at some of your commentary because you keep it real yet, the truth is funny. I'm glad I found you here as I'm learning so much and straight up brother, my confidence rose like 36 dimensions after listening to more than 20 plus videos. will get your book next. much respect Corey.
I often feel like I have so much left to learn with myself but when I hear stories of people who are in a relationship or even married I realise how much ahead I am actually, of course thanks to you Coach! Keep it up!
"since she was 16?" I was so done at this point!
Arturo Fernandez Lmao his face too 😂
Arturo Fernandez haha Caught that you
Perfectly legal in my country!
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Sound like the guy was grooming her until she got old enough 😂🤦🏾♂️
"you need to get refocused on being the man who you were" magic words to me corey, thanks it's not always about progression and moving forward, sometimes, as you say its two steps forward one step back. 20:57
I remember being the guy with the scarcity mindset, my life has flipped since then let me tell you. Now I'm in overabundance and have to tell them the truth. I'm busy
Read the book. Then it will make sense to you.
10-15 times
What’s the title of the book ?
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS DON'T WORK.
He's NOT in a relationship.
Yep, you got that right brother.
Worked for me. I had a 4 year long distance relationship. Then 13 years since we moved together! Then I left. Was too boring after 17 years!
Everything is possible
THEY DO WORK MATE
Coach has aced this. After 2 marriages, this advice is golden - clear, factual and focused on the actual situation.
I've listened to a lot of PUA etc etc - this is the best. I can relate massively to the cases he discusses and am actively using it in my current dating.
PayPal donation en route Good Sir. Keep up the good work.
Bro his videos are so long how u listen it..?? I am boored it..
@@notanoob3920 shower?
@@eugeniovera7435 means
Not A noob Put em on 1.25x speed bro. Best way to listen.
@@Big_Sierra my english is poor 😅..although i dont like this guy..i watch dan bacon 😎
Outstanding, I have watched so many your videos and like most who have found your work, I was dumped and never saw it coming. After watching so many of your videos, I purchased the book and know I can improve my relationships with women. I have made some of the same mistakes as the other 97% of the men out there and for the life of me, I couldn't understand why I was bombing so much with women I cared about. I have dated many women and never had any problems picking up women and leaving when I had enough or the women were not going in the same direction as I was. I see now, once I had feelings for a woman I became that emotional tampon as you put it. I love the work, please continue. So far I have read your book three times and will continue until I get the basics to perfection.
So how you doing now ??? 😂😂
7 years later this is the best one still ahhh i love where im at
Dude. I have literally listened to your book over 30 times. It is hard to let go of old habits. I did. I went on an amazing date with my ex the other day. I set a definite date to see each other again. BUT, it is hard not to message or see how she is. I will remain strong!
Lukos Jeffordos read it 10-15 times and bang other chicks
18:28 The nonchalant humor always gets me lol.
"I'm 34, my wife's 26. and we've been together for 10 years...(awkward pause)...s...since she was 16?!"
16 ha ha
I've always been into older chicks so I've NEVER even been with a 16 year old... Even when I WAS a 16 year old. Lol
s Hill who asked? Lol
Bro was too damn old 😂
OMG , that was so me , so glad i found Corey and his work , changed my life , i still read his book and watch his videos .
The frustrating part of this is when you're in the 3% and getting beat out by 1-2%er. My problem is what I just said, *feeling* over it. Need to sharpen up.
Matthew Blom you’ll never be 1-2% unless you become ultra rich and famous
I had been really attracted to this guy. He is intelligent and could actually carry on a conversation. After a month, every attraction was dead. He was very needy and whiny. I couldn't take him needing to touch me every minute. I think the clinginess and him dropping the L word after three weeks freaked me the hell out. He was so moody. It got to the point that I had silently nicknamed him Eye ore. Don't get me wrong I like attention but damn. The constant of him needing reassurance and asking me if he was better in bed than anyone else got me to the point that my skin was crawling. Not to mention him screaming in ecstasy in bed. Not normal noises. To the point I was grossed out from the carrying on. I think what finished it was him complaining about how his ex wives (2) had used him and done him wrong, and me picking up on him starting the guilt trip techniques. I have been divorced for 12 years and not looking for an instant relationship. He took an attraction ran it into the ground.
September - This is not at all a girl guy thing. If a woman behaves like your guy friend did, many guys will react in the same way.
The fuck is the “L” word?
TheMiner Says Lollipop of course, he wanted one. Instant attraction defuser. No man asks for candy... he gets it.
TheMiner Says lick 👅
TheMiner Says Love....? Lol
Confidence is the performance of personality.
Its damn awesome to hear social science to perfection. Sadly i learned through bad experiences and finally got where I'm observant to the fact that i wasnt creating coincidences. Im settled now and have always studied these sciences the hard part is putting them into action. Let go get loose recognize and observe yourself, thiiiiiiiiiink, try to predict the end results to each action for awhile. Damn i love this shit!!!! My eyes opened a lil slower because i didn't know that there was actual written info, so i relied on idea after idea..
I'm telling you This is a real eye opener for me.
Some might think it's crazy that it took you 9 years to realize that loving a woman and pursuing a relationship with her doesn't work (it didn't for 8 years), and that you should have been loving yourself and pursuing your happiness all along. (which, of course, is what actually attracts women to you)
If one text from her affects you like a bomb, don't even consider spending any time with her; you are not ready.
Can I just say you a legend Corey. I plan on buying your book shortly. I used a lot of what you say in your videos for this girl I like. I acted weak but tried your techniques to get her back and she contacted me and she is is interested again. Thanks so much!
Corey, Im a good guy who learned everything wrong when it comes to interacting with women. Im a believer in what you teach and as i change so has my relationships with the hot-ties. I owe you big my friend. Thamks.
jim sumner but if we’re real he’s gonna steal your girl
Great video coach! I'm married but I'm still getting the gaddamn book.
I'm married too but it works on dating or long relationships. It has helped me out alot.. Good luck
The woman's letter was pretty interesting to listen to!
Coach Corey, How long before your wisdom makes you change the title of the book to 4% man? All kidding aside I wish I would have discovered you years ago! Read the book one time and starting #2 YOU HAVE CHANGED MY LIFE!
You're not doing nothing, you're taking care of business, enjoying your life, and achieving your goals.
Oh, yeah, and you're just not giving away any free attention/affection. She has to work to get you to notice, she has to work to get you to like her, etc. (you're a challenge not a nuisance)
Women are freely giving us the throne, and they want to bow to us, but most guys are too busy groveling to notice.
Hi, I just want to share that your videos are fantastic and to thank you for your work. Also it is great that you clearly and in a cool way demonstrate how a man should behave and what his energy and and gravitas should be
guy makes a little mistake, woman dumps him forever, sounds reasonable (not)
he reminds me of steve stifler from american pie. 😂
bsando86 stiffler was the man
😂😂
relationships rarely work period. Get a good dog or cat and you'll have a best and loyal friend the rest of your life.Why put up with the bullshit
+Key Lock . You need to read the book 10 to 15 times. You poor thing going through life with that attitude. No human deserves this. Relationships and family are by far the most important aspect of ones life. Maybe your not showing up as your sexual orientation requires. listen to that quote in the beginning.. The most important quote to lasting relationships. worked for me and will for you if you take it to heart
+Key Lock Uncertainty is a feminine behavior. That is the attitude your displaying right now. If your a female your need a masculine male as a rock to lean on and assure you everything is going to be okay. If you are a male you need to get rid of that attitude right away. No real woman want to be with a male with feminine qualities. Set some physical and career orientated goals and let nothing get in your way of success. IF you do that, the right one will come to you when the time is right. Trust in the universe. This down time your in guided you here to educate yourself so when you meet the one for you... You will be ready..
Because we want some pussy... Why else would we put up with it?
Cause I dont particularly want to fuck a cat
Why the fuck is it so hard to just do nothing? It works every time and my ex will start to pursue me. Then I go and text or call and just do too much and ruin it all. I am seeing several other women but none of them really do it for me. Even when I'm out with them or sleeping with one of them my ex is still on my mind. Of course the fact that I'm not really into any of the other women makes them all pursue me even more.
This guy lost her Before he got her. I hope he learned here. I wouldn't have even done this
"When she was 16?" First thing that popped into my head.
18:27-18:39 "...........since she was 16?" - hahahahahahahahahahahaha
Sean NPCh YES!!! 🤣😂
I was like that too That was a re-enactment
This video has a lot to offer and the girl's email really showed what a guy should not do. (I know from exp, arrhg) The last guys e-mail, sometimes it just doesn't work out and chalk it up as experience and good job for trying.
On that 3rd email lol I think everybody paused to think about that age gap there 😂
Right. Like you was 24 falling in love with a 16 yr old? 😂
Soooo... you're saying women should act needy and weak and weird instead? Surely it's uncomfortable and pressuring for both genders when someone is that intense.
Hey Corey! Love the book and the videos and wanted to help you too ! here you go man. "Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious" means "tends to break like chalk, only more quickly and easily". But most people don't know that is what it means, so the word is only useful when joking about the longest words in the English language. There you are brothaa~~~
wow the second message was like the other side of the mirror , it's like you're coaching the gym guy but from the other side of the reality.
Lmao, Coreys facial experession when he mentions the guy is gonna meet up with her at the gym :)
26:51 Because he said hey I'll see you at the gym she probably thought he didn't really like her. Should have asked her out again to a definite date.
Hey! when I was with girl. She often said that she thinks that I don't care about her, because I don't give afuck about other guys who hid on her or talk to her(her last boyfriend was extremely jealous, he forbid her to meet any male friends, for 1.5yrs they were together) I told her I trust her, but she then said that she wants to feel even a little jealousy to feel that I love her. Im cnfusd how she react if I tell her- I dont care about other guys they can keep you busy when youre not with me
Didn't realize guys were so uncertain also.
PS love your idea when you keep saying of course I'm James Bond brilliant. What's the woman's version 😁
Guys, women want a man who leads, don’t misunderstand that with control because women still like their freedom. Don’t be needy. Don’t blow up our phones. Be a gentleman, be direct, and don’t play games. It’s that simple.
31:00 You tell girls not to text a guy and wait for him to text. You tell the same thing to guys too. Then
no one is going to text anyone :D
be yourself if you want to text, text. Just dont overdo it
Fuck texting
You're comment makes no sense because you are ignoring the fact that it's different situations, different people trying to accomplish different things. Don't ignore the context of what he is saying and why he is saying it.
He doesn't teach to never use a phone.
Good luck on your journey, you and the other 10 people who liked your comment because that communicates that y'all have no idea WTH Corey is talking about.
Girls will always text lol they ain’t gonna listen to this
I didn't believe anything you said but it works, thank you for the videos Corey
Do it still work man ???
Thats confusing, feminine energy is uncertain. Masculine eneegy is certain, but women are more attracted to guys whos feelings are uncertain? Explain please
His feelings are uncertain to her, not to himself. He is certain of himself. You need to give her a little mystery. Make her want to contact you to find out how you feel rather than the other way around.
The second email you're ready sounds so close to how I acted as the guy a couple months ago. Man if I found you before I would have had it so much easier with that girl. Your book and videos thus far helped me to stop contacting her, she ended up reaching out a couple days ago(almost a month later) and invited her to meet up. When she called I was like "holy fuck Corey Wayne is right." Besides that in the month I haven't heard from her I've hooked up(had sex) with 3 beautiful women and have a date with another.
I will forever pay homage to coach. Life changing shit.
This was a GREAT episode.
Funny how the woman wanted to be with the emotionally abusive guy over the nice guy. Shows that its true, nice guys finish last... Women...
+John Hargrove nice guys lose their center. Bad guys don't. Thats why chicks go to them
+Muku Singh amen
+Muku Singh lose thier center?
Kampos Campos conforming to please their girl, instead of following their passion
Best video you've seen you post! Definitely an eye opener.
He means certain about themselves, but women being unsure about his feelings for them due to how unclear they come across
sometimes Codependency is causing the attraction!
That intro tune is the soundtrack to my life now 😂😂
18:28 I spit my coffee. 😂😂🤣
Your feelings are unclear (to her). Your feeling should be very clear to you: 1. You love yourself. 2. You don't feel anything positively or negatively towards her.
If you develop sappy (feminine) feelings like the guys in the vid (she's the most beautiful, she's so fucking special, I'm a creep, I'm a weirdo) women will get bored because they've already won you over without any effort.
Be certain of your direction in life regardless of who follows, and realize only your lifeisunderyourcontrol
I could not help laughing all through the video. It is all so true...
Simple, yet life changing Truths. Thanks
Hey this vidio is pretty good i keep hearing about the 3% book is something that will help long term relationships like marrige my wife is someone who gave off every red flag imaginable but i still married her out of love and we are working well now but damn she left twice before we finnaly got maried and after our ups and downs we finaly had a son together and now i want to do things to keep attraction going and still give her needs without compromising and getting owned
I always shake my head at people chasing someone across the fucking world...
Does this mean women can't be driven and really focused on their careers cos it's not femenine?
I think that the guy with the girl on a diffrent country is on "relationship mode ON" thats why he is getting too worried about other dudes hiting and hooking up with this girl that she may be doing it.when he should be thinking more on her as a hook up every time hes in town.that way he would be on a relaxed mind state and he will be doing more things right than wrong. I've done it and it works like a charm. Thank you for sharing coach.
Dont get attached.
I try to help my friends w this stuff and they are clueless and entrenched in their ways. It's like throwing seeds onto pavement.
Corey, I've been watching your videos religiously, and have read your book once, and referenced it many many times. I know you have studied and researched a lot of these things. Who's work have you studied?
he mentions them in his book read it again then 10 to 15 more times
All the stuff Corey Wayne teaches just confirms that narcissists are the best at relationships because they simply don't give a fuck.
Dayum. Soooo. That guy around 17:00, i wasnt being THAT bad, but long story shory, me n my girl were seriously struggling, found letters she written but not sent to her ex, love letters. She said she wrote them but changed her mind. But long story i hit this low point where over time i had started focusing on my worries, worried shed lie or cheat or find someone else, it got worse n worse n slowly it changed to where she held the power n despite saying she loved me n wanted me i could tell she wasnt into it anymore, i was acting like a woman, its super embarrassing in hindsight. But i found these videos, listened to a bunch of em allllll day. N it woke me up, more importantly i recentered myself and discarded negative thoughts n emotions n focused on what i want n who i am, n im a badass that can have any woman i want. I instantly implemented the changes i learned from here, literally, in just 1 evening, the power shifted n she became the one asking questions making sure everything ok n that i still want our fresh start, n then shit shed been blowing off like moving back in n said she was gonna do next day n i stead of me asking her she just said shed be there when i got home, she even brought up sex n how she felt bad we couldn’t because of (reasons) i remained indifferent. But i could tell when she left, she was super unsure of what was happening even though i said all was well. I lost my way for a bit but im back, i know 100% if i stay this way n on this mental level, shes mine n will be fucking mental for me, just gotta STAY on this level.
James Bond is a fictional character. We need to be our own hero.
Corey Wayne is a fucking genius. Read so much other shit that got me nowhere, and I knew Corey was legit the minute I started taking his advice seriously and started seeing actual results. This guy fucks.
Thank you Corey.
Thanks so much! I was thinking the same thing,
I love corey
your de best keep up the good work
Sorry, but this video kinda urks me, as my wife left me for a guy that lives in a different country. They have never met, only over phone and facebook. Thats life in modern days for you
Custodial Custodian your game must be straight garbage then. I assure you they’re were more men before him IN this country
But, James Bond is a tv character, also
If he's vetting her it would make sense for him to look for red flags of promiscuity, correct?
You are the man. Thank you
Hi Corey have u done video on how to build your confidence or self-esteem
I love this man
"Since she was 16 😕" 😭😂
Watching this from Belgrade shout out to the guy from the first email lol
Excellent video
Corey you are the Man :)
"When are you free?" - isnt asking her that suggests that she leads you?
Compared to - 'Hey, what do you say about thursday evening?"
So bascially , there's no such thing as setting up a casual environment on dates.. everything has to be evening evening evening
rydendm yes until you’re in a relationship
What does it mean when women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear?
Means you have options and don’t worship women
Her abusive ex came back into the picture and she went back hanging out LOL. She thought she was a hero or something.
or another "Friendship" thing: "Hey let's go take in a movie together"
Whats the title of the Book?
Coach can you make a video about girls like men who feelings are inserted somthing i dint realy understand that point.
hey coach corey i am average looking guy, if i apply all your princple....can get most beautiful girl in my life...
Hey Coach, I went to get coffee with this girl yesterday, she seems really awesome, we have a ton of things in common, we talked for about an hour and a half. She was messing around with the straw paper for a bit then looked at her phone a few times but told me why she was looking at it. We said our good byes I said we should do something else sometime this week she replied yeah I have to check my schedule. Does she seem attracted to me ? What kind of message should I send to her the next day ?
How did it go ?? 😂