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Bad info. You’re playing right into how they’re TRAINING men. Rather than using any strategy, you legitimately just have to do whatever the f*ck you want. If a chick wants to check in with a “how are you doing today” text I’m literally not going to engage and maybe even just throw her to the streets. I don’t have time for “how are you doing today?” Texts. You wanna hang? Say that. You wanna smash? Say that. If we’ve been talking for a min and you hit me with small talk BS then it’s for the trash bin.
bro you are giving men really bad advice here. Yes women are chaotic and often toxic creatures and Yes you absolutely MUST limit your displayed level of interest when interacting with them, especially the ones you find most attractive BUT... The one thing women have a military grade radar for is in-authenticity and imposters. As long as you're "pretending" you're not aware she txt msgd or called you just to "build her desire", she's going to sense that bs and ghost you... There's a smarter way around the problem. A far more practical solution is to purchase a 2nd phone, (importantly from a brand or in a spec or color that you absolutely hate and with a separate phone number), just for your dating life. Then all you have to ensure is that you DON'T keep it with you all the time and just leave that phone on vibrate or silent. Just that habit alone will AUTHENTICALLY result in the exact degree of intermittency and distance most women find attractive in men. Very VERY often I go for an entire day (occasionally even days) without remembering to check my "roster" phone but I ALWAYS reply the very instant I become aware that a girl msgd me or called. Even if I end up instantly replying to some girl for an entire day to the point she leaves me on seen i'm ok with that.... no mind games. The fact that most of the time it takes me forever to notice their txt msgs or calls is just a welcomed byproduct of my management system. Entirely authentic and 100 percent genuine as i'm never lying when I say I missed a call or txt because I didn't have my phone with me. Suffice it to say my body count is wild!
I've dated over 100 women and I just watch videos like this to see if I'll learn something I don't already know. Casey is spot on. The "relationship" should always be the woman's idea. Also, there have been situations were a woman stopped replying to me and I waited up to 2 months to reach out again and I always got an enthusiastic or fast response. I like to wait long enough for her to think I've moved on and also to see if she comes back on her own. When you become a real player you'll enjoy it when women pull away. It's like a vacation you can use to catch up with friends, smash other women, and do other things you enjoy. Also, when you become a real player, you won't put any effort into making relationships last. You will just try to maximize your fun with each interaction. YOUR fun, not hers. Like a theme park. When the park closes for the day and the fun is over, you move on to the next thing until the park opens again.
And then you tie the knot, and suddenly it hits you, that,marriage is like an amusement park. You might not like all the attractions, but you have to accept the whole park!! lol
Wow,I can’t get enough of your content! My heart is shattered. Losing my 4 year relationship has left me empty and broken. I'm drowning in grief, suffocating under my own despair. My heart is barely beating..
I'm so sorry to hear that. I've been through a similar experience before, and it was a dark time. But a spiritual counselor helped me heal and find peace. Would you like me to connect you with him?
That's so kind of you to offer. I'm desperate for anything that can help me get my ex Yes, please, I'd love to connect with the spiritual counselor. What's the next step?
Never love her more than you love yourself. If you have self love if she pulls away you won’t be shattered and you can’t move forward without emptiness
Great information Casey! I am 70 years old and I wish I would’ve known this information 50 years ago. I am moving to Southeast Asia in 2025 and I need all the advice I can get. Thanks 🙏
This website was a great find! I purchased a book that’s already making a positive impact on my mindset. Fingers crossed it helps me overcome my fear of approaching women.
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
In romantic situations..... A woman can only truly manipulate a man when he is overly emotionally invested..... The correct dynamic is with her being emotionally invested, while you remain detached and objective..... When you are overly emotionally invested although initially this was her goal in order to secure certainty of access to your resources..... Because her psychology is still dominated and driven by the primal emotional instinct hypergamy she will begin to devalue you once you give her the emotional investment that she was seeking from you.
I found the opposite with my wife who just left me she says she didn't get enough emotional support and our sex was great she loved chasing me into the bedroom but says our emotional connection was not there and now gone
@@ORIGINALCONCEPTGARAGE I feel for you bro.... Unfortunately some women will not be content with anyone.... Because they are ultimately not content with themselves..... Peace bro.
Believe me I know but I can't tell her that as she will be offended by it I'm getting that I love you shit while she's talking to another guy she met at school recently which she moved out and costed me everything my job working for a nationally famous veterans charity became its Kentucky branch president a week later caught her having an emotional affair went from not being involved enough to now suffocating her she said I said bitch I ain't never suffocated your ass has held your hand on my neck for 13 years and I could still find room to Breathe and you are saying what again!
DON'T CHASE and PATIENCE. These two traits will serve you well in other areas of your life as well. Great video Casey - at first I was judging it by your looks and the illegible whiteboard, but it was a delightfully honest and lucid presentation - without being misogynistic.
God bless you Casey. If you are an unattached male, this might be one of the single most informative, spot-on videos on the internet right now. You nailed it. So many men go through texting hell with the women they are hunting, and they never figure it out. Men are not hunting men. Women are different animals, and they require a different set of tools. We all need to add this to our toolbox. This is a must watch. It is painful to put into practice, but it absolutely yields results. Patience patience patience
Brother, I can’t tell you how on time this video was for me.. I’m empowered. I lost myself for a little while.. since then I’ve been hitting the gym every day, changing my diet and looking at new career paths. I tried to be the “fix it guy” never again will I do that..
In trying to fix all these broken women, we ultimately lose ourselves. That inevitable ,gut wrenching end result ain't work it fellers. Lets improve ourselves and thats it 👍
The primary key to navigating female nature successfully is with minimal emotional investment..... This grants you the clarity to actually pay attention and study her.... Then the right path to take with her becomes obvious and clear.
Women are attracted to guys who don't chase or show interest. If she gives you a sign that she wants you to call her and you don't act on it will indicate to her you're not needy. Women fear neediness.
Yes they fear it because it’s linked to accountability! Modern women are not equipped as previous generations and they are not marriage material! Modern women have nothing to offer, it’s absolutely retarded to even try as men hold zero legal rights and have no social contract to try make it a remotely viable exercise to bother trying. After 30 most men no longer need women, it may be “lonely” but it’s 1000x better being alone and lonely doesn’t make you miserable as a man
The woman that I married to now, I was in a relationship and I was trying to work that out, and I met her and we became good friends, but we keep it on the level then I told her that I started to have feelings for her and that I couldn’t see her anymore as a friend that gave me a ride from Classes and I told her that I was starting to have feelings for her so that I’m gonna cut things off now didn’t see her for three months or hear from her. She is way out of my league three months later she text me said I think I have feelings for you. I’m married her, six years later and I’m still winning
Bro your the goat 🐐 I can tell your dedication to men’s improvement comes from the heart not just out of wanting to get views. The sky’s the limit for you wish you the best bro !
There's a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts. It's the real deal.
Casey, absolutely love and appreciate you! I am 47 now and been married and single now. Back to dating again. I’ve dated enough to make all the mistakes and have successful nailed relationships also. Right now I need this help haha! Thanks bro! We all appreciate you!
Dude, I hope your channel blows up. No doubt I’ve watched hours worth of similar videos from other channels but you break it down so easily down to a few things that any guy can follow. It’s just up to them to listen to you. Kudos brother, great stuff.
I went through this phase, got plenty of women, so on and so forth, but let me just say…the women who do this chase bullshit as a test/game aren’t worth your time. Ignore them, make them want you more, then ignore them some more (as in forever). Keep going until you find a normal person. Not saying it doesn’t work btw, it’s just stupid. I got plenty of sex from women who didn’t pull this shit.
Woman won’t make the right guy wait. She won’t take the chance of another woman coming along and stealing him from her. Every chick I’ve got with has been fast, no waiting, no games nothing. I next woman that take too long because I can. Once I smell a game I next them instantly. That’s an abundance mentality. Woman know the guys they can manipulate and play games with let me tell you that.
I like your attitude regarding patience. For me viewing my partner as a person and not someone I'm in a relationship with was key. Her emotional mood is about 'her' not 'our relationship' ... much of the time. The longer we go, the less the relationship enters my mind and that is a gud thing.
Women will relocate for the right man , I get told this all the time. Zander is spot on. I don’t want to brag, but I got 6 women on the line and am slowly working them to shore.
in the very beginning of talking stages with my current girlfriend she acted pretty passive for the most part showed interest but it just seemed like i was the one putting in more effort to hangout or make conversation. mind you, i NEVER chased her. i pursued her. big difference. i then kinda mirrored her energy and would only reply like once a day twice at most. and since that i realized she showed more effort. NOW, she can’t get off of me lol. talking a lot even if we aren’t together she will be the one double texting. and also another thing is, there is girls who don’t move fast. you have to be patient with women boys. stop tryna put a label on the two of you within the first couple of months women take a lot longer to build attachment for men than we do for women. with my current girlfriend i’ll only see her once a week sometimes once every 2-3 weeks. lol like casey has said in many videos. the hotter the flame the shorter the burn. remember that. u need to play the long game with women. stop trying to rush things. men are like microwaves women are like ovens
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been facing trauma from my breakup. We were so compatible together, six years together, and then he called off our engagement just 3 months before our wedding. I’ve been so sad, I still want him so badly, I can still feel his touch around me. I don’t know what to do anymore. I can’t get over him, I need him back.
Girls play with your emotions until they find someone better. I know I’m not “high value”. I really couldn’t give a shit anymore. It doesn’t bother me like it did when I was younger.
i say the same thing but ive had girls pursue me or chase me first, once i get them a chance and i show interest the tables turned and now im in that trap. Dating is a cold game
As a man your cell phone is the worst enemy unless its all business, all interactions should lead to personal development and personal business progression; pleasure comes a distant second unless it the family. You the truth brother keep going!!!!!
Blown away by your content. I’ve been confused with my dating life for so long, but watching your videos has connected so many dots. I swear I’m the guy you’re telling us not to be lmao
That backfired on me recently. I set up the first date a week away and didn’t contact her again. She texted me the day before cancelling and stating she felt zero connection with me since I didn’t even contact her…what do you think of that?!
@@jdrumz321ify prolly wasn’t worth it. That tells me she has TOO many options or she made a bad assumption. If she made continuous contact with you and you ignored her… then it’s your fault. Explaining that you’re busy is a good way to make them feel wanted. Keep it moving you deserve a woman that WANTS you. Trust me… they’re out there
As a woman, I can confirm everything he's saying. It's not from a place of manipulation, though. We want to make sure the guy we date isn't controlling and over-communication feels like control.
you might not think it comes from a place of manipulation but it does. just like the guy doesn't think his overcommunication is manipulation but it is. fact of the matter is that regardless of your conscious intentions, subconsciously and in reality it is manipulation.
Everyone is different. I gave an older lady in my neighborhood (she hasn't dated in many years) hints, told her that I'm looking for a nice decent older woman for now who just wants to have fun without being too attached. She said, "well good luck with that, women want a relationship to develop before they fool around". She really turns me on, a shame.
God bless this man. He is a fucking prophet. I've learnt so much and he's pulled me out of the despair and helplessness I feel when dealing with women.
Yes, this works. The only problem is that it assumes the girl ur dating is sleeping around while ur being "patient". Guys shouldnt want women like that no matter how attractive. People need to be raised better so that these dating games do need to be played.
A woman sleeping around doesn’t mean anything especially when there are a lot of losers out here. Dudes be wearing masks & these women have to deal with those men to eventually uncover the truth. Time reveals all, stop thinking women are wrong for sleeping around when women treat all men differently no matter if they have sex with them or not all men don’t get the same treatment
This is why more and more guys are just saying screw it and stay single.More gals are upset that guys want to be single more.The more they play games,the more guys dont want to be involved.Cant say I blame them.
In summary: Boost your Confidence and be Very patient when dealing with women. Don’t over react to whatever she serves, it shows your vulnerability. Act calm and have the abundance Mindset. Shalom
Trust me dawg I texted this girl back after half a year and she sent a ton of shit back in all caps, my problem was I showed my ass too much and responded to like every question she asked. That was dumb of me. I’ve been studying Casey’s approach and it’s going to work. Give me 2-5 years I bet my life will look drastically different.
I am talking to a woman from Quebec, Canada and have limited my conversations with her to the weekends…and even those are brief. She has started sending me RUclips videos to watch and things to make me laugh…so I read but only reply on the weekends. She’s constantly sending me music to listen to and I give her my opinion. I’ve totally been able to shift the order that we communicate…she now starts the conversations where early on it was me. Delayed gratification really has helped me communicate better with her…I think she likes me. 👌🏼
@@Hahaitsmo I’ve started communicating more often but still make it known that I have other things to do…yet I’m never rude. I had a bad case of bronchitis last week and she was very concerned about my health and she gave me a list of natural remedies I could try. I’ve been upping my communication more often but I’m still her priority when making first replies. Even when I tell her that I have to go attend my daily activities she continues to write or send me something to look at…pictures or music videos. She seriously wants me to consider meeting her ( traveling to Quebec City) face to face…as we’ve been seeing each other on FaceTime camera or Messenger for a while now. In this way she has put the ball in my court.
She's been the town bicycle. Nobody wants to ride her anymore. Now she's ready to "settle down" & for you to pay her bills & watch her kid while she goes out with friends.
God bless you Casey thank you for your wisdom, I can't afford your deal but I am 56 and going to use your wisdom . She is 40, I will let you know. God bless you brother
Why worry,she already hit the wall. She has not many options breh, only when men show way too much interest,it revives her powers-- stop it. Stop having ONEITIS, specially with women that are past their prime.
His advice is for a certain type of women. Women who have a high body count or who has dated a lot, or has been hurt. This is not for a women who is ready to be a wife.
The girl i was talking with, i didnt over pursue in fact i pursued her after like 18 days but she still pulled back saying "im busy" ,after that i pulled back entirely she came back 30 days later but i didnt accept her.
chasing woman lower attraction... thats a scientific fact.. she cant help that.. the moment she came back or reaching out and u have still some interest, ask her on a date.. ignoring a woman never solve something, only if u have no interest in that person..
If I could Summarize dating women I would say… women’s games are always going to be there, we as men simply have to learn, adapt, and not complain. In theory if we as men keep our options open, and text multiple women we will never get needy, which will drive her away. But instead create this mysterious aura and keep her wondering. There is a caveat, we’re not trying to ignore them on purpose, men are busy with other life things (gym, job, side hustle, personal stuff).
This is good. I always thought i was replying quickly because i have high energy and can handle text conversations with multiple people simultaneously. I didnt realize it was also do to my get things done mindset but that makes sense. I did always worry it would show too much interest it i replied quickly but my get things done mindset overruled my actions What also is good about this is, i had noticed that in 2024 the game had changed and everything has accelerated. I miss the days before the smart phone where you had email and instant messaging would mean they were sitting behind a computer and able to give you their full attention its good to know that it is ok to give them a few days off before replying. I will start field testing this
my mindset 24/7 is something like this :we should be able to leave at any time and she should if she wanted. i accept id care and may be a bit sad even but im used to so much i just want the best for them and i love myself too much and possible new flames to let me feel too bad abt it. its even an exciting idea to be free again
@@Meowface. had to text her after the 10 day mark had great conversation invited her out she said she had to work but then was texting me that day and said she was drinking chilling at the house 😂 so I’m on round 2 of ignoring this bitch
@@Meowface.it’s pretty obvious he never heard back. I did this by default, never heard back from her for two months. She reached out and wanted to catch up and we ended up having fun in my car.
buddy women are testing men when they dont reply its to test their interest level and see if he will double text yall are simple minded and one dimensional lol
Oh yeah if you've ever heard the saying "The best relationship is where the girl loves the guy and the guy likes the girl." It's true every bit of it. What's crazy is that it's basically the healthiest and strongest relationship there is.
8:45 DO NOT SAY TO A WOMAN YOU WANT TO BUILD A LIFE, heck anything at all with them. They want to SEE what you have going on and THEY the ones who want to be apart of that. WOMEN ARE NOT BUILDERS, THEY ARE NURTURERS!!
Women are not nurturers as well... Don't fall for the lie. You have to use them since they are only useful for one thing. Women have zero empathy for men and they will abuse you if you think they are nurturing. They are just meant to please you nothing more
I just want to get in and get out. I’m 42 and I’ve never been in a relationship and never desired to be in a relationship. This is good advice. It sucks to deceive them as being a genuine potential mate and then bailing after I get mine. I just don’t have the resources to give them the lifestyle so the way I see it, I’m actually doing them a favor.
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Bad info. You’re playing right into how they’re TRAINING men. Rather than using any strategy, you legitimately just have to do whatever the f*ck you want. If a chick wants to check in with a “how are you doing today” text I’m literally not going to engage and maybe even just throw her to the streets. I don’t have time for “how are you doing today?” Texts. You wanna hang? Say that. You wanna smash? Say that. If we’ve been talking for a min and you hit me with small talk BS then it’s for the trash bin.
bro you are giving men really bad advice here. Yes women are chaotic and often toxic creatures and Yes you absolutely MUST limit your displayed level of interest when interacting with them, especially the ones you find most attractive BUT... The one thing women have a military grade radar for is in-authenticity and imposters. As long as you're "pretending" you're not aware she txt msgd or called you just to "build her desire", she's going to sense that bs and ghost you... There's a smarter way around the problem.
A far more practical solution is to purchase a 2nd phone, (importantly from a brand or in a spec or color that you absolutely hate and with a separate phone number), just for your dating life. Then all you have to ensure is that you DON'T keep it with you all the time and just leave that phone on vibrate or silent. Just that habit alone will AUTHENTICALLY result in the exact degree of intermittency and distance most women find attractive in men.
Very VERY often I go for an entire day (occasionally even days) without remembering to check my "roster" phone but I ALWAYS reply the very instant I become aware that a girl msgd me or called. Even if I end up instantly replying to some girl for an entire day to the point she leaves me on seen i'm ok with that.... no mind games. The fact that most of the time it takes me forever to notice their txt msgs or calls is just a welcomed byproduct of my management system. Entirely authentic and 100 percent genuine as i'm never lying when I say I missed a call or txt because I didn't have my phone with me. Suffice it to say my body count is wild!
I've dated over 100 women and I just watch videos like this to see if I'll learn something I don't already know. Casey is spot on. The "relationship" should always be the woman's idea. Also, there have been situations were a woman stopped replying to me and I waited up to 2 months to reach out again and I always got an enthusiastic or fast response. I like to wait long enough for her to think I've moved on and also to see if she comes back on her own. When you become a real player you'll enjoy it when women pull away. It's like a vacation you can use to catch up with friends, smash other women, and do other things you enjoy. Also, when you become a real player, you won't put any effort into making relationships last. You will just try to maximize your fun with each interaction. YOUR fun, not hers. Like a theme park. When the park closes for the day and the fun is over, you move on to the next thing until the park opens again.
And then you tie the knot, and suddenly it hits you, that,marriage is like an amusement park. You might not like all the attractions, but you have to accept the whole park!! lol
Someone can say the same thing about your mother 😂😂 think about that 😂😂😂
@@melhorfutebol451 You sound like a player hater.
@@PaulClipMaster am I wrong?😂😂😂😂 It's a loop hater🤓 what you want is what other men want..lmao
What a metaphor! I really appreciate your comment.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
True, that....
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Absence makes the heart lose weight
Quiet time also brings clarity too.
Nah , it means it time to move on. Honesty and time makes the heart grow fonder
Wow,I can’t get enough of your content! My heart is shattered. Losing my 4 year relationship has left me empty and broken. I'm drowning in grief, suffocating under my own despair. My heart is barely beating..
I'm so sorry to hear that. I've been through a similar experience before, and it was a dark time. But a spiritual counselor helped me heal and find peace. Would you like me to connect you with him?
That's so kind of you to offer. I'm desperate for anything that can help me get my ex Yes, please, I'd love to connect with the spiritual counselor. What's the next step?
Here’s his handle, father abulu he has been a lifesaver for me.
Thank you for this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and he seems impressive.
Never love her more than you love yourself. If you have self love if she pulls away you won’t be shattered and you can’t move forward without emptiness
Great information Casey! I am 70 years old and I wish I would’ve known this information 50 years ago. I am moving to Southeast Asia in 2025 and I need all the advice I can get. Thanks 🙏
Social media has destroyed relationships.
Remember "She's not yours, it's just your turn."
Yes it has.
Spot on brother
"She's not yours,it's your turn
@@idbountyhunter you're gonna block your blessings with that attitude. Not all women are the same. Just like not all men are the same. Have hope.
F*cked up but true smh
True story
He’s the only relationship coach who doesn’t make you feel like an idiot for getting better
he also points out his mistakes in past!
The fact that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles is so insanee
This website was a great find! I purchased a book that’s already making a positive impact on my mindset. Fingers crossed it helps me overcome my fear of approaching women.
Loser.
scam asf
*The key takeaway for me is to maintain your value and not chase. Great reminder that confidence and independence are super attractive!*
Patience demonstrates power.
Or that you don't respect your time/are a pushover
ahaha of course he hearted your comment, this guy just wants power for himself, he doesn't give a f about his audience
I remember texting this girl 3 times thinking she would respond, all the time driving her away. I’ll never make that mistake again
This happened with my dream girl, it breaks you but you dont really have to fake the coldness anymore because youre just cold and dont care anymore
@@chaseblackstone8749 facts
You can kiss her you can hug her you can tell her that you love her… but yo girl is not yo girl, just yo turn
he said in the video that women pull back to make you more emotionally attached to her. AND it's not her fault that you are chasing 304's.
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@@LeonardNemoyyour point ?
Take it or leave it...then what comes after? Marriage, kids?
Then that's actually a hoe 🤷🏽♂️ make better choices, dude 😅
Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, I'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, and I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.
Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so I did everything I could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.
It's fascinating! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in touch with one most effectively?
Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.
He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers and he’s the best spell caster to ever live
Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked father obah eze up, and I'm genuinely impressed.
In romantic situations..... A woman can only truly manipulate a man when he is overly emotionally invested..... The correct dynamic is with her being emotionally invested, while you remain detached and objective..... When you are overly emotionally invested although initially this was her goal in order to secure certainty of access to your resources..... Because her psychology is still dominated and driven by the primal emotional instinct hypergamy she will begin to devalue you once you give her the emotional investment that she was seeking from you.
IT happens to me (maybe to all of us), When someone is in love things going south. We should always apply this when we want our relationship to end...
Do you think having too much sex lowers value and interest? I think so. I try to hold out on women tbh
I found the opposite with my wife who just left me she says she didn't get enough emotional support and our sex was great she loved chasing me into the bedroom but says our emotional connection was not there and now gone
@@ORIGINALCONCEPTGARAGE I feel for you bro.... Unfortunately some women will not be content with anyone.... Because they are ultimately not content with themselves..... Peace bro.
Believe me I know but I can't tell her that as she will be offended by it I'm getting that I love you shit while she's talking to another guy she met at school recently which she moved out and costed me everything my job working for a nationally famous veterans charity became its Kentucky branch president a week later caught her having an emotional affair went from not being involved enough to now suffocating her she said I said bitch I ain't never suffocated your ass has held your hand on my neck for 13 years and I could still find room to Breathe and you are saying what again!
The fact that nobody talks about Social Secrets Mastery shows why so many guys struggle with confidence and attraction
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Patience is the keyword here. Just stop chasing whats not in our control. Thanks man, looks good!
You kno it’s a classic when the whiteboard comes out
Most writing I’ve ever seen
Real
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😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Right. ???? Too funny
DON'T CHASE and PATIENCE. These two traits will serve you well in other areas of your life as well. Great video Casey - at first I was judging it by your looks and the illegible whiteboard, but it was a delightfully honest and lucid presentation - without being misogynistic.
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God bless you Casey. If you are an unattached male, this might be one of the single most informative, spot-on videos on the internet right now. You nailed it. So many men go through texting hell with the women they are hunting, and they never figure it out. Men are not hunting men. Women are different animals, and they require a different set of tools. We all need to add this to our toolbox. This is a must watch. It is painful to put into practice, but it absolutely yields results. Patience patience patience
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
This guy knows what he's doing. I watch his videos to reground myself. Applying this logic always makes an impact on my relationships
Brother, I can’t tell you how on time this video was for me.. I’m empowered. I lost myself for a little while.. since then I’ve been hitting the gym every day, changing my diet and looking at new career paths. I tried to be the “fix it guy” never again will I do that..
goddamn i thought i posted this for a second 😂
In trying to fix all these broken women, we ultimately lose ourselves. That inevitable ,gut wrenching end result ain't work it fellers. Lets improve ourselves and thats it 👍
me too brother, me too.
This is like giving out diamonds to strangers
fr 😂
Actually!
To pigs?
@@jpoesteyou pig!
Do not cast pearls before swine?
Those who are ready to hear this info, will hear it
Finding the 'Flirtosphere Seduction' ebook should be your top priority, even if it's the last thing you do in life
Shut up you tit
Why do i find ebook recommendations randomly in the comment sections? The likes are probably bought through a third party.
@@edgelorddragneel1142bots
Scambots
The primary key to navigating female nature successfully is with minimal emotional investment..... This grants you the clarity to actually pay attention and study her.... Then the right path to take with her becomes obvious and clear.
Dating multiple women at once is the only way for me to achieve this 😂
Women are attracted to guys who don't chase or show interest. If she gives you a sign that she wants you to call her and you don't act on it will indicate to her you're not needy. Women fear neediness.
Yes they fear it because it’s linked to accountability! Modern women are not equipped as previous generations and they are not marriage material! Modern women have nothing to offer, it’s absolutely retarded to even try as men hold zero legal rights and have no social contract to try make it a remotely viable exercise to bother trying. After 30 most men no longer need women, it may be “lonely” but it’s 1000x better being alone and lonely doesn’t make you miserable as a man
The woman that I married to now, I was in a relationship and I was trying to work that out, and I met her and we became good friends, but we keep it on the level then I told her that I started to have feelings for her and that I couldn’t see her anymore as a friend that gave me a ride from Classes and I told her that I was starting to have feelings for her so that I’m gonna cut things off now didn’t see her for three months or hear from her. She is way out of my league three months later she text me said I think I have feelings for you. I’m married her, six years later and I’m still winning
Bro your the goat 🐐 I can tell your dedication to men’s improvement comes from the heart not just out of wanting to get views. The sky’s the limit for you wish you the best bro !
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
There's a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts. It's the real deal.
@@slimjme41 its a scam don't buy into this shit they're posting this on all dating videos
@@slimjme41You’re replying to a bot, that’s not a real person’s account
@@DuskAndHerEmbrace13 weird why would a bot lead someone to look for a book that doesn’t exist
There is a Casanova book just not that title
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This is so spot on. My girl has 246 unread text messages and she doesn’t care. I can’t stand having those blue dots on. Casey is spot on
Casey, absolutely love and appreciate you! I am 47 now and been married and single now. Back to dating again. I’ve dated enough to make all the mistakes and have successful nailed relationships also. Right now I need this help haha! Thanks bro! We all appreciate you!
Dude, I hope your channel blows up. No doubt I’ve watched hours worth of similar videos from other channels but you break it down so easily down to a few things that any guy can follow. It’s just up to them to listen to you. Kudos brother, great stuff.
he’s over 500k subs what do you mean blow up loo
@@dna8269 I mean what I said…what’s so hard to comprehend?
I went through this phase, got plenty of women, so on and so forth, but let me just say…the women who do this chase bullshit as a test/game aren’t worth your time. Ignore them, make them want you more, then ignore them some more (as in forever). Keep going until you find a normal person.
Not saying it doesn’t work btw, it’s just stupid. I got plenty of sex from women who didn’t pull this shit.
Woman won’t make the right guy wait. She won’t take the chance of another woman coming along and stealing him from her. Every chick I’ve got with has been fast, no waiting, no games nothing.
I next woman that take too long because I can. Once I smell a game I next them instantly. That’s an abundance mentality. Woman know the guys they can manipulate and play games with let me tell you that.
exactly! its still playing her games with. i dont need games, i want a geniuine connection. its rare but possible.
Are you happily married now?
doubt it
@@HomeBrewCoffeeRecipes 9 years, been together 12.
After watching tens of videos from different coaches, I can say that yours are the most accurate and relatable ones so far.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
"Love is patient" and "...does not seek for self."
Patience is key. Most times doing nothing is best.
I like your attitude regarding patience. For me viewing my partner as a person and not someone I'm in a relationship with was key. Her emotional mood is about 'her' not 'our relationship' ... much of the time. The longer we go, the less the relationship enters my mind and that is a gud thing.
are you two still together? Is your relationship stronger now?
I too want to know. Tell us what happened
casey why are you saving the human race bro, like fr what compelled you to completely and utterly save our lives and you don’t even know us.
When I over pursued a woman, she set up a date and gave me great head
Cringe ASF
Funny asf
Patience is key,spot on casey.
I've literally had women tell me that they're patient. Luckily I already knew that because of Casey
I really like the depth of your analysis and that you didn’t make it all about sex like other RUclipsrs I’ve seen recently
Women will relocate for the right man , I get told this all the time. Zander is spot on. I don’t want to brag, but I got 6 women on the line and am slowly working them to shore.
do they all know that they're sharing you? if not you should be ashamed of yourself for being a man hoe
that mens future keep focusing bros
I’ve got several lined up. Always have to keep options open and have an abundance mindset. Never fall into her frame. Men set the tone!
Don't import them to where you live especially if she's from a lower income country
Are you making money?
in the very beginning of talking stages with my current girlfriend she acted pretty passive for the most part showed interest but it just seemed like i was the one putting in more effort to hangout or make conversation. mind you, i NEVER chased her. i pursued her. big difference. i then kinda mirrored her energy and would only reply like once a day twice at most. and since that i realized she showed more effort. NOW, she can’t get off of me lol. talking a lot even if we aren’t together she will be the one double texting. and also another thing is, there is girls who don’t move fast. you have to be patient with women boys. stop tryna put a label on the two of you within the first couple of months women take a lot longer to build attachment for men than we do for women. with my current girlfriend i’ll only see her once a week sometimes once every 2-3 weeks. lol like casey has said in many videos. the hotter the flame the shorter the burn. remember that. u need to play the long game with women. stop trying to rush things. men are like microwaves women are like ovens
You're the best man. Changed my life. Truly. Thank you.
This is exactly what I needed to hear. I’ve been facing trauma from my breakup. We were so compatible together, six years together, and then he called off our engagement just 3 months before our wedding. I’ve been so sad, I still want him so badly, I can still feel his touch around me. I don’t know what to do anymore. I can’t get over him, I need him back.
Girls play with your emotions until they find someone better. I know I’m not “high value”. I really couldn’t give a shit anymore. It doesn’t bother me like it did when I was younger.
i say the same thing but ive had girls pursue me or chase me first, once i get them a chance and i show interest the tables turned and now im in that trap. Dating is a cold game
@@Nonyas12Exactly, many of them get your attention just so you can continue and maintain what they’ve started.
Casey, I do believe this is one of the best, most relevant videos you've ever posted! Thanks, man!
As a man your cell phone is the worst enemy unless its all business, all interactions should lead to personal development and personal business progression; pleasure comes a distant second unless it the family.
You the truth brother keep going!!!!!
Blown away by your content. I’ve been confused with my dating life for so long, but watching your videos has connected so many dots. I swear I’m the guy you’re telling us not to be lmao
2:00 cellphone is simple, USE IT TO SET UP DATES... THAT'S IT. This constant texting is NOT MASCULINE!!!! This why she gets turned off.
No emotion ..
Yes this is key. No chatting
Actually
That backfired on me recently. I set up the first date a week away and didn’t contact her again. She texted me the day before cancelling and stating she felt zero connection with me since I didn’t even contact her…what do you think of that?!
@@jdrumz321ify prolly wasn’t worth it. That tells me she has TOO many options or she made a bad assumption. If she made continuous contact with you and you ignored her… then it’s your fault. Explaining that you’re busy is a good way to make them feel wanted. Keep it moving you deserve a woman that WANTS you. Trust me… they’re out there
You pinned it Zander. Zander, you pinned it. Thanks so much!
As a woman, I can confirm everything he's saying. It's not from a place of manipulation, though. We want to make sure the guy we date isn't controlling and over-communication feels like control.
Over communication? 😂 that’s rich…. That’s all ladies do, is run their mouth. If they finally stop, it’s because they’re mad.
you might not think it comes from a place of manipulation but it does. just like the guy doesn't think his overcommunication is manipulation but it is. fact of the matter is that regardless of your conscious intentions, subconsciously and in reality it is manipulation.
The guy does want to control you and he does want to manipulate you
Everyone is different. I gave an older lady in my neighborhood (she hasn't dated in many years) hints, told her that I'm looking for a nice decent older woman for now who just wants to have fun without being too attached. She said, "well good luck with that, women want a relationship to develop before they fool around". She really turns me on, a shame.
Yeah. Over-communication is real. Every time I do this all of them for some time don't reply anymore. Don't be a needy man is what I've learned.
Wow very powerful stuff. My ex up and left while we was trying to save, retain, and build our future. Crazy eye opener xD
Commitment phobe. She left for another guy, be glad you saved your money
In fact, the first guy that she replied to was the guy who made her wait. The forgotten guy is the guy who is not making her wait.
Dude I honestly forget how much I appreciate these videos until I run into these situations lol thank you Casey for the content.
If my teachers would have broken down math like this, I may have been rich enough to not need these videos.
Having a great degree won't guarantee that you'll become a millionaire by 30.
@@rejectwokeness1314 who said anything about degrees or millionaires? What a weird assumption
@@DirtyP Then I don't get your logic at all? 🙄
😂😂😅
Truth.....
Casey should occasionally reveal where/how he acquired his excellent marketing skills. Impressivo!!
2x speed crew checking in
1.5 for me
1.75 for me.
I dabble between but 2x is doable if I focus 🤓
Haha same😂
@@soundscaperecordings1111if I'm not doing anything else I do 2x but if I'm texting I just keep it 1x
I love your idea of relationship and which is a fact.. your the only one in the youtube.. who have a unique and awesome mindset
God bless this man. He is a fucking prophet. I've learnt so much and he's pulled me out of the despair and helplessness I feel when dealing with women.
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
Very true. I wrote an essay as she didn't reply. At last she was frustrated 😢
Yes, this works. The only problem is that it assumes the girl ur dating is sleeping around while ur being "patient". Guys shouldnt want women like that no matter how attractive. People need to be raised better so that these dating games do need to be played.
@@soundgripsthey’re all the same. Women only behave when they turn 30 or become a single mom
then let her sleep around and move on to the next one. don't waste your time with sluhs.
A woman sleeping around doesn’t mean anything especially when there are a lot of losers out here. Dudes be wearing masks & these women have to deal with those men to eventually uncover the truth. Time reveals all, stop thinking women are wrong for sleeping around when women treat all men differently no matter if they have sex with them or not all men don’t get the same treatment
Girls like this never get cuffed out here.
Have fun with em and move on!
@@HomeBrewCoffeeRecipes nah they're not, ur just a loser 😂.
They say absence makes the heart grow fonder erm no absence makes me forget I lose interest 💯 percent.
This is why more and more guys are just saying screw it and stay single.More gals are upset that guys want to be single more.The more they play games,the more guys dont want to be involved.Cant say I blame them.
Casey is a true guru. Excellent video, outstanding analysis of what can be a complicated issue.
In summary: Boost your Confidence and be Very patient when dealing with women.
Don’t over react to whatever she serves, it shows your vulnerability. Act calm and have the abundance Mindset. Shalom
Trust me dawg I texted this girl back after half a year and she sent a ton of shit back in all caps, my problem was I showed my ass too much and responded to like every question she asked. That was dumb of me. I’ve been studying Casey’s approach and it’s going to work. Give me 2-5 years I bet my life will look drastically different.
Sometime silence is loudest sound
I'm enjoying it.
Your best video yet CZ! Spot on brother
I am talking to a woman from Quebec, Canada and have limited my conversations with her to the weekends…and even those are brief.
She has started sending me RUclips videos to watch and things to make me laugh…so I read but only reply on the weekends.
She’s constantly sending me music to listen to and I give her my opinion.
I’ve totally been able to shift the order that we communicate…she now starts the conversations where early on it was me. Delayed gratification really has helped me communicate better with her…I think she likes me. 👌🏼
This goes really slow. At this rate you might hit that when youre 80
@@Hahaitsmo I’ve started communicating more often but still make it known that I have other things to do…yet I’m never rude.
I had a bad case of bronchitis last week and she was very concerned about my health and she gave me a list of natural remedies I could try.
I’ve been upping my communication more often but I’m still her priority when making first replies.
Even when I tell her that I have to go attend my daily activities she continues to write or send me something to look at…pictures or music videos.
She seriously wants me to consider meeting her ( traveling to Quebec City) face to face…as we’ve been seeing each other on FaceTime camera or Messenger for a while now.
In this way she has put the ball in my court.
Prob a dude
The single most important video on RUclips this week.
Sometimes you can wait 6 years for them to text with the "hi"😂
yes, when you are her top down priority, and there are no other options left
Hi im pregnant 😢😂
She's been the town bicycle. Nobody wants to ride her anymore. Now she's ready to "settle down" & for you to pay her bills & watch her kid while she goes out with friends.
@@andreypetrov1327 and her smv is down the toilet.
😂
It just don’t feel right not clicking on these videos. He really is pioneering us youngings who listen. Bless you Casey
God bless you Casey thank you for your wisdom, I can't afford your deal but I am 56 and going to use your wisdom . She is 40, I will let you know. God bless you brother
Why worry,she already hit the wall.
She has not many options breh, only when men show way too much interest,it revives her powers-- stop it.
Stop having ONEITIS, specially with women that are past their prime.
absence makes the heart grow fonder
What a strong knowledge on this one. Thanks.
His advice is for a certain type of women. Women who have a high body count or who has dated a lot, or has been hurt. This is not for a women who is ready to be a wife.
Yes man. Agree. 🫂
Lmao this is so true and im a woman! The fact that there's a whole board about it makes it funny though lol
Seriously 😂😂
Think like kids in the moment not long term ☕️
Valeu!
Another tip as a guy is to get rid of your phone or use it less. Make friends with other guys who don’t message you right away too. It’s just needy.
Bro, as an OG that’s slept with hundreds of women and dated thousands….your content is excellent
The girl i was talking with, i didnt over pursue in fact i pursued her after like 18 days but she still pulled back saying "im busy" ,after that i pulled back entirely she came back 30 days later but i didnt accept her.
chasing woman lower attraction... thats a scientific fact.. she cant help that.. the moment she came back or reaching out and u have still some interest, ask her on a date.. ignoring a woman never solve something, only if u have no interest in that person..
If I could Summarize dating women I would say… women’s games are always going to be there, we as men simply have to learn, adapt, and not complain. In theory if we as men keep our options open, and text multiple women we will never get needy, which will drive her away. But instead create this mysterious aura and keep her wondering. There is a caveat, we’re not trying to ignore them on purpose, men are busy with other life things (gym, job, side hustle, personal stuff).
Dude, watching this video showed me that I'm guilty of EVERYTHING you said not to do 🤦. Time to change it up. 👍
Great content.
Casey Zander is just the best on this matters
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
He said "your gonna build some Words" 🤣🤣🤣 yo I bust out laughing
This is good. I always thought i was replying quickly because i have high energy and can handle text conversations with multiple people simultaneously. I didnt realize it was also do to my get things done mindset but that makes sense. I did always worry it would show too much interest it i replied quickly but my get things done mindset overruled my actions
What also is good about this is, i had noticed that in 2024 the game had changed and everything has accelerated. I miss the days before the smart phone where you had email and instant messaging would mean they were sitting behind a computer and able to give you their full attention
its good to know that it is ok to give them a few days off before replying. I will start field testing this
The white board shows the mental gymnastics one endures while interacting with narcissistic women
my mindset 24/7 is something like this :we should be able to leave at any time and she should if she wanted. i accept id care and may be a bit sad even but im used to so much i just want the best for them and i love myself too much and possible new flames to let me feel too bad abt it. its even an exciting idea to be free again
Literally saved me from folding bro 5 days in to this 😂 kept 2nd guessing myself but Ima hold out fuck it
how did it turn out
@@Meowface. had to text her after the 10 day mark had great conversation invited her out she said she had to work but then was texting me that day and said she was drinking chilling at the house 😂 so I’m on round 2 of ignoring this bitch
@@Meowface.it’s pretty obvious he never heard back. I did this by default, never heard back from her for two months. She reached out and wanted to catch up and we ended up having fun in my car.
Dude! You're a Genius! WTF did I just watch? Revealing!
For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. J o h n 3 :16
She actually IS done with you when she doesn't reply; as well-she isn't necessarily into you IF she Does reply ! Just focus on you, man !
well said
buddy women are testing men when they dont reply its to test their interest level and see if he will double text yall are simple minded and one dimensional lol
Not true at all
@@cristian.ilie.018 buddy women test men for their interest by not replying
@@K.SovereignsonShe may reach out to you again but it's just because she's out of decent options.
Oh yeah if you've ever heard the saying "The best relationship is where the girl loves the guy and the guy likes the girl." It's true every bit of it. What's crazy is that it's basically the healthiest and strongest relationship there is.
8:45 DO NOT SAY TO A WOMAN YOU WANT TO BUILD A LIFE, heck anything at all with them. They want to SEE what you have going on and THEY the ones who want to be apart of that. WOMEN ARE NOT BUILDERS, THEY ARE NURTURERS!!
More like neurotic narcissists. That’s why you have to continually replace them.
Women are not nurturers as well... Don't fall for the lie. You have to use them since they are only useful for one thing. Women have zero empathy for men and they will abuse you if you think they are nurturing. They are just meant to please you nothing more
Women are not builders 😂😂😂
They are the demolition crew
I just want to get in and get out. I’m 42 and I’ve never been in a relationship and never desired to be in a relationship. This is good advice. It sucks to deceive them as being a genuine potential mate and then bailing after I get mine. I just don’t have the resources to give them the lifestyle so the way I see it, I’m actually doing them a favor.
Be like a Rock. Not a tampon.
this video is perfectly designed for me, I consistently ruin the attraction when texting with girls.
ITS JUST YOUR TURN!
golden video! listen carefully guys, i wish i watched this 3 months ago
Big same
number 1: keep your distance, number 2 surprise her with intimacy, number 3 keep your distance... etc.. simple as that
I haven’t watched your videos in a while, but this one is the best I can remember seeing