Father Knows: Alternative Options? Ft. Dennette || Father Knows Something Podcast
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- Опубликовано: 10 июл 2024
- Welcome back to Father Knows Something! Real People. Real Stories. Real Dad advice with a dash of ADHD, and maybe a couple of millennials chiming in from time to time to add their takes.
Welcome to the show Morgan's Mom, Dennette! This week's episode has Jerry, Dennette, and Justin diving into stories that involve alternate options, as in leave them at the altar or keep trying. From a partner that might as well be your second child to someone that is dealing with a fiancé saying they are spending too much time with their family after their mother had just passed away. These stories will have you fuming.
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Index:
00:00 -- Start
03:52 -- Story 1
15:22 -- Story 2
27:10 -- Story 3
37:47 -- Story 4
I've just come over from Two Hot Takes for the first time, and I was not prepared for how similar that high pitched "Hi everybody" is to Morgan's hahaha
Lol
I thought the exactttt same thing lol
i wasn’t looking at my screen and thought it was morgan at first
literally
No seriously!! Morgan is JUST like her mom it’s wild to see after watching her for so long🤣
I need more Dennette content IMMEDIATELY. “Get rid of the fucker” i choked on my water 😂😂 she has amazing commentary and she’s hilarious. 10/10 episode
Morgan sounds just like her momma! Especially the laugh. 😊 so heartwarming
I only came to the comments to see if anyone else noticed the laugh lol
My heart when Denette said “YOU CAN COME LIVE WITH ME, GET RID OF HIM!”
Morgan and her mom sound soooo similar!!!
So happy to be awake at 3am for this upload 😂
Me too but it's 4:49am right now lol 😅 I need to go to sleep 😴😭
She sounds EXACTLY like Morgan, love her advice.
I would like to highlight how amazing the Dynamic Justin has with Morgan’s parents♥️ Honestly, Goals for my future parents in-law.
Story 3 is classic signs of an abuser: isolation, control, and manipulation .
It was like Morgan was there the entire time! They laugh the same, so cute!! Hi Jerry & Justin
Jerry, you can take a break and not upload for a week we will still be here and love whatever you come back with, whenever it comes out! ❤️
Lmao as soon as mom said “Hi!” Out loud I went “aw” bc her and Morgan sound the EXACT same 😭
For story #3, I don’t think it’s a coincidence that she’s feeling lost without her mother’s advice and we have Morgan’s mom on the pod. I think that this was exactly what OP needed to hear and I really hope this sweet girl knows she has the strength to step away from a person who is depleting her. You guys are all amazing and I adore listening to you!! Sending all the love and positivity your way ❤
I got chills when I read that! It’s so important to have the love of a mom to give you some guidance ❤
That is DEF Morgan’s mom. Down to the way they’re sitting on the couch lol
FR 😭❤️
Story 3: You have around 21 weeks left until that baby arrives. That's not a lot of time. Leave as quickly as possible and try to find a place where you are safe and cared for. It will only get worse the longer you wait. You want to have this baby in a warm, loving environment with nobody around who stresses you out. You are in a situation where you deserve all the support you can get. If you leave today, mayble you'll even heal a little before the baby arrives. Whishing you all the courage and peace!
I would love to see Morgan and Dennette on an episode together!! I would love to see them bounce off of one another ❤
Be careful for what you wish for, will probably happen! And it will be good.
For the soon to be mother who is dealing with a horrible fiancé- LEAVE HIM. And do not get off your dad's insurance. His insurance covers you and your baby up to the first year after giving birth. Do not get on state insurance, you get the worst doctors and Healthcare. You deserve to have good insurance and your father is helping you ❤️ stay true to your family. If your Fiancé truly loved you, he would've stepped up especially after your mom passed, he should've visited. Should've sent food and flowers or brought food and flowers. You deserve so much more and your family is the abundance !
For the DACA recipient. Leave your bf he is using your status as manipulation to have kids so he can give you legal status. I’m sure there is someone better out there for you. Who will love you and your status won’t even matter and things will happen naturally. It’s already hard being a DACA recipient and then you’re adding this extra stress girl leave. He is manipulating you.
This. He wants to be in control. And he wants the baby in order to lock her in… I almost doubt he will help her acquire legal status even after marriage…run.
I don’t think he’s manipulating her. Unless I missed something, he was upfront with wanting kids before marriage in the beginning and she went along with it hoping he’d change? If so, the only one hiding things is her, which can be manipulative.
I personally don’t get why the order is so important for either of them, but when someone is open and honest about their intentions and the other person goes into it with the goal of straying you away from your wants and desires and doesn’t say anything about it for 5 years, that’s gotta feel awful and feel like so much time wasted just to find out the person omitted information from the jump and never had the same life plans since the beginning.
The whole “they’ll change their mind eventually” mentality is honestly just manipulative in general.
agreed! but i don’t think he has any intention of actually marrying her, maybe commitment issues from witnessing divorce. it seems like if he actually wanted to he would’ve by now.
OMG MORGAN IS SO MUCH LIKE HER MOM🥹 the laugh, the little side notes, omg it’s adorable. Her mama rly got a mini me lol
Morgan gets most of her mannerisms from her mama 😭😭😭 I love this so much as a new mom
Morgan’s mom “get rid of that motherf*** “
Morgan clapping in the background 😂😂😂😂
Story 3 this is how violence in the home starts, it ramps up as soon as your pregnant……. And gets worse when your stuck at home with baby,
GET OUT sweetheart, run RUN
I wish I had someone to tell me that at the time.
It starts with family isolation and financial abuse it ends in psychological and physical torment.
Exactly what happened with me thank god I left and made it out alive after so much abuse. LEAVE BEFORE IT TURNS VIOLENT!
Dennette just saying what we were all thinking about the fiancé in story #3 🙌🏻😂
She spoke and I was like "Morgan?"
Story 3: she's pregnant and her mum dies. He should support her help her. If he starts now with I'm the man of the house and you neglect me bc you were grieving, what's gonna happen when the baby is born and you need all the energy for your child? He tries to isolate the fiancé I agree he's dangerous
These always make my morning- but when my toddler stays asleep and i actually get to listen all the way through the first time??? *chef’s kiss*
“How do we forget our worth?!” - I seriously just switched over from Spotify again since Jerry reads these comments but this has to be one of the most powerful statements that I’ve heard on both this podcast and THT 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
SAY👏🏼IT👏🏼LOUDER👏🏼FOR👏🏼THE👏🏼PEOPLE👏🏼IN👏🏼THE👏🏼BACK👏🏼!!!!
Make the merch, Morgan, because this one is an absolute gem!
Omg when Morgan's mom said "HI everybody!" It sounded just like morgan 😂
50:10
“You kind of like, forget WHO you are. And it’s like…don’t!”
Love mama D 😂 def need more episodes with her!!
I love meeting another piece of Morgan’s family and idk like, inner circle of people. You’re all so loving and kind, and just all around good. And I feel like every time someone gets introduced on one of the shows, it kind of just amazes me how you all are just so emotionally mature and idk, like able to do all that you do lol. Jeez. I don’t ever comment bc my brain rarely does the thing right and words are hard, as you can see. But yeah, I just wanted to say thanks for being so candid and so helpful throughout all the episodes of THT and FTK.
Much love from the mitten 💕
Dad and Dennette remind me a lot of myself and my ex husband. We did not work out as a couple but are great friends and co parents to our son. I love seeing it!! ❤
I KNEW THAT WAS MORGANS MOM THE SEC I SAW HER! That’s where all the beauty comes from ❤️ ummm and THE VOICE WOW! lol 🥰🥰🥰 TWINS
Morgan & her mama sound so!! similar!! they both have such sweet voices❤
The voice, laugh and mannerisms. Morgan is a carbon copy of momma!
I agree w/ mom on story 2, have fun while you can. Your emotional connection with him can be separate from the physical one. Time will heal you.
i love how everyone’s first thought was the exact same, morgan and her mum have the same voice!
This is one of my favorite episodes yet!! Thank you so much MORGAN'S MOM for giving us the gift of your presence and insight. I lost both my parents when I was young and having a maternal and paternal POV in this episode was a real treat. I never get to have mom or dad advice so I cherish the feeling of that in these videos 😌
Story 3… get out get out get out get out get out!!!!!! The trauma that he is putting you through right now is NOT worth it. I dealt with similar stuff, at 27 and it wasn’t until 2 months after my babies were born that my body collapsed and put me in a wheelchair for months that I finally got out. It’s been 7 years and I’m still in therapy and constantly thinking “what if I’d left sooner?” It is not going to get better, in my experience, until you get out.
Adding, my kids have been in therapy for 5 years, and the trauma experienced before birth and in those first few months is brought up often as likely causes for their anxiety.
I promise, you deserve better and so does your baby!
Another thought, if this was your child in your position, what would you want them to do?
Oh I feel so honored! Morgan’s mom is on! She looks and sounds so much like her mom!❤ Hi Dennette! Please cohost on THT! It would be so cool! Like a mother daughter theme!
Also much love to Jerry, Justin and Teddy on this episode! 🩷👏🏼
Am I the only one that thinks that Morgan's mom looks like Amy?!?
Omg YES I kept thinking about Amy the entire episode! I couldn’t decide if Danette looks more like Morgan or Amy, they could both be her daughter 😂😂 Sorry to Matt, not to make it weird but they’re very similar 🤣
Story three - YOU NEED TO LEAVE ASAP. I know it will be scary, your mom just passed & you’re 19 weeks pregnant but this guy is giving all red flags.
He doesn’t care that you’re “too dependent on family” what he wants is for you to be dependent on him. He will continue to guilt & shame your connections with family until you have strained relationships with them & eventually are entirely isolated.
He is working on isolating you and making you feel helpless & that you are not good enough without his help. He wants you to question your abilities & to have a low self esteem so he can control you.
In this economy who in their right mind would be upset that you are accepting help from your family to care for your future child. And regardless of money, they aren’t kidding when they say it takes a village. Why is he shamming you for having a support system? Red flags!
Please get out of this relationship & do everything to protect yourself & your kid. Don’t be afraid to ask for help, don’t be afraid to take help. Often abuse gets worse after something happens in a relationship that ties a couple together. Pregnancy, birth, moving in together, marriage etc. Take care of yourself, be safe, fuck this guy.
Completely agree when I heard you spend too much time with your family the isolation 🚩went off. Op please leave this man and be with your family who loves you. Your situation with him will get worse Will try to alienate you from your whole family and friends. Want to add I loved this episode!!! ❤
i wish morgan was here with everyone! love momma thoooo
morgan’s mom should totally come back her advice is so spot on
30:52 Mama is Morgan's old version 😂😂
Omg I love Morgan’s mom, she needs to be on two hot takes 😊
I just love the whole family. This was definitely one of my favorite episodes, love Danette and her advice! Can we please have an episode with like everyone, the dynamic between you all is so heartwarming to watch. Pls bring Matt and Amy back on for an episode with Jerry, Morgan and Justin! This is my surrogate family! 🤣❤️
She speaks exactly like Morgan! Their voices don't sound alike, but they have the exact same way of speaking
Omg we need more mom episodes!! 🙏🙏🙏
This is one of the best episodes I've watched! Morgan's mom is amazing and I love the dynamic between all three of them! ❤
Almost brought me to tears.
Absolutely need Momma on MORE!!! Love her personality, I see where Morgan gets it from!!!❤❤❤
i love how morgan and her mom are so similar emotionally it’s nice to see where that kindness and sensitivity comes from (not that jerry isn’t these things too 😉)
Morgan sounds just like her mom it is so cute and when she got upset It was like seeing Morgan I hope they do an episode we’re everyone is together brothers,mom,dad,Morgan,grandma, Justin,and Amy 😊❤
Wow I can't believe that number 1 came up. I've been in the exact same position right down to not going out as I didn't feel like it after trying to get my baby to sleep and doing everything! That is literally my life, only difference is that my partner is out of work due to an injury at the moment and I'm a SAH mom so we are.lovong off my savings which are dwindling away. He literally does nothing to contribute. Even when I've asked for date night he makes excuses that his leg hurts etc but it doesn't hurt when he is going fishing or out with his friends. He is a burden to me financially and I do everything else on my own anyway. I get no benefit from the relationship. I told him Ive been looking for somewhere else to live and he got very bitter about it. He said he is going to try harder but I've heard it a million times, it lasts a day then goes back to the same old thing. For some reason I have this fear of.leaving and starting over....I know now that nothing is going to change. Also he wasn't like this before we had a baby, we had an amazing relationship and he promised me the world when I was pregnant....said I wouldnt have to lift a finger. I don't know how much longer I can go on like this, I've never met a more lazy person
Denette is HILARIOUS!! I love her. We need more of her ASAP!
Dennette is so good
You two make an ADORABLE couple ❤❤ How much does Morgan look and sound like her Mum? 🥰🥰
Dennette needs to be on more episodes please 👏💛 love the show!
Omg i see where Morgan gets her voice lol
My partner works in video games. He plays almost everyday after work. He either includes the kids or he waits until after bed time so he can hang out with them. It's really not that hard guys. My dad was the opposite. He would play video games and ignore us kids. I never talked to him growing up.
Story three is something I relate to soooo much! My mum was terminally ill and I was future faked into getting pregnant (I love you, let's have our family, I'll adopt your son and we'll move away together etc) all sounded beautiful when I was feeling so broken. My mum passed away and a few weeks later i found out I was pregnant. He flipped the switch on me and I realised how abusive he was. We've been no contact for 3 years now. Through our grief my family and I grew closer and I have a great support system ❤❤ sounds like OP has a wonderful support system and hopefully she got out of that situation 😢
I hope Dennette does a THT or FKS again soon. I like her input and is fun to listen to!
I just finished it and absolutely loved how Dennette reacted to story 3. It really is like another Morgan lol
I love this podcast and the THT podcast so much! The flow and energy is everything 🙌🏽
Been searching for new content to listen to while I wash dishes, bake and cook. This episode was a good one!
I’m 3 minutes in and loving this episode so much!
All I can see of Ted is his ears. Love you guys.❤️❤️❤️❤️
BEEN WAITING FOR THIS
Omg Morgan and her mom laugh and talk so similar 😭😭🩷🩷🩷🩷
Dennette needs a podcast. I said what I said. ❤️
Morgan and her mom are sooo similar I was not expecting that! Felt like Morgan was there 😂
This lady is feisty... I like it! ❤
He can have his mom in the delivery room when he pushes out the baby himself. Especially in a high risk delivery. Honestly, he can get out, I'll get someone else to join me
Wowww Dennette and Morgan look and sound alike 🥰🥰
Dennette reminds me of Alicia Silverstone! So beautiful and such a great guest - please bring her on the show more!!!
Wow Morgan resembles her mom a lot!! And love that she has a yorkie! Lol I have 2 and they are the best dogs!!
I have 2 Yorkie Poos, lol. They really are the best
i love denette! please convince her to make another appearance. i adore the whole family, you all seem like such wise, empathetic, kind hearted, easy going people. i hope one day the live show can come to ireland.
Oh I love this….how beautiful the vibe is without the girl who brought them all together 😭😭 god I wish you’re whole family all the happiness in the world!!!!❤️❤️
Omg.. I looooveeeeeee this one..❤❤❤❤❤❤
This was great!
Woohoo almost at 30k Jerry !! Great episode 👏🏻
Yayyyyyyy!!!!!!! Thank you to all of you out there…..!!!!!!
There were a few times I was listening and thought Morgan was talking lol
Oh my gosh Morgan and her mom look and SOUND just alike!
aahhh now we know how morgan became morgan haha you are sooo similar also dennette,youre gorgeous!
Thank you!
I was hoping they would get to that conclusion with the last story. He is dangling the carrot of marriage. It sounds like he truly doesn't want to ever get married and he's using having kids as the marker of a committed relationship. It's absolutely fine to not want to get married, but the relationship he's currently in has the added layer of legal status to consider. It's not fair to string op along with these MAJOR conditions that need to be met before she gets what she wants in life.
I love Mum, I mean Morgan's Mum, not me talking about my mum
You’re a short king Teddy, don’t mind Justin’s comment 👑
I can’t believe no one is talking about how much Morgan’s SIL looks like her mom 🫣
Omg Good morning!!! it’s 9:46 AM in Germany
LOVING the new intro
Awwwwww they sound the sameeeeeeeees omgggggg🥹🥹🥹
Omg Morgan looks SO much like her mama 😊
Little late to this, but I think the third story, leave the fiancé asap! he’s showing signs of abuse.. but also even though you’re covered by your dads insurance, I would recommend getting state insurance if you qualify because people DROWN in medical debt. Yeah your dads might “cover” it.. but as a single mom who spent YEARs paying back her parents for medical bills because they’re insurance “covered”… it’s not worth it… that additional assistance would have been worth it!
Woah 🤯
How do they have the same voice!❤ awww
Holy cow Morgan and her mom sound so much alike!
Morgan sounds just like her mom!
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Omg.... they sound so similar
been loving these guest episodes! so nice to get to know more of the fks family❤
Get it out Jerry lol
Where ur studio?
she's her twin!
The other thing with the DACA recipient woman, she may be worried that depending on the 2024 election results, she’s in line to be deported. She may actually NEED to get married to stay in the country, just not with this guy. This is the wrong guy. I’m sending all my best thoughts and love to her, hoping that by dumping this ahole she’ll be open and available to meet THE ONE.