Ostomy Life: Unfiltered
Ostomy Life: Unfiltered
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GRWM: Why I’m Getting Barbie Butt Surgery in 9 Days + My Ulcerative Colitis Journey
Join me as I get ready and open up about my journey with ulcerative colitis and the decision to undergo Barbie butt surgery in just 9 days. I’ll share the highs, lows, and everything in between-from my diagnosis to living with an ileostomy, and why this surgery is the next step in my health journey.
If you’re curious about what Barbie butt surgery is, how it’s connected to ulcerative colitis, or just want to learn more about living with an ostomy, this video is for you! Let’s chat about the challenges, the lessons, and the hope that comes with taking charge of your health.
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Preparing for Surgery: Cute Outfits, Tough Emotions, and My Honest Mindset (26 Days Out)
Просмотров 30014 дней назад
Hey everyone, In today’s video, I’m sharing some comfy and cute outfits I picked out for post-surgery recovery. But this isn’t just about fashion-it’s a raw look at how I’m feeling with my surgery just 26 days away. I had an emotional moment while filming, and I hope that by sharing my mindset, it helps anyone else facing something similar feel less alone. Thank you for being part of this journ...
Getting a Pelvic CT Scan with an Ostomy Bag: What to Expect
Просмотров 340Месяц назад
Getting a CT scan when you have an ostomy bag can be quite different from a traditional CT scan experience. In this video, I share my recent experience with a pelvic CT scan and walk you through the unique steps that come with having an ostomy bag. I’m so excited to get rid of ulcerative colitis once and for all, even if it means going through one more surgery. The protectomy, or proctocolectom...
Mom Life with an Ostomy Bag: Juggling Challenges & Chronic Illness Flares
Просмотров 298Месяц назад
Being a mom is challenging enough, but add an ostomy bag and chronic illness flares, and the journey takes on a whole new level. In this video, I open up about the real-life struggles of balancing motherhood with an ostomy and managing the ups and downs of chronic illness. From daily routines to unexpected flares, I share the obstacles I face and the strategies that help me push through. Whethe...
Starting The Journey to My Final Surgery | Barbie Butt | Proctectomy
Просмотров 539Месяц назад
Well, it’s finally time. I’ve met with the surgeon and we are heading towards the surgery that will my my ostomy bag permanent! I will have my rectum removed and butthole sewn shut. The surgery is called a proctectomy and nicknamed “Barbie Butt” by the ostomy community! Follow along as I go through this much-anticipated procedure! Catch me real-time on IG: @Kaylaheflin1010 #ostomylife #ostomyba...
Dealing with an Ostomy Blockage: My At-Home Management Tips & Experience
Просмотров 303Месяц назад
Did I have a blockage in my ostomy? So much is subjective, but I’m going to call it a “partial blockage.” I have seen others end up in the hospital due to a blockage, so I wanted to try anything I could at home to avoid being in the same situation myself! In this video, I share what worked for me! Regardless, lesson learned: chew my food better! Support My Content! 🌟 Looking for ways to support...
Finding the Perfect Wedding Dress with an Ileostomy: Style Tips & Confidence Boost!
Просмотров 203Месяц назад
Trying on wedding dresses with an ileostomy bag? In this video, I share my experience finding the perfect gown while accommodating my ostomy. I’ll give you practical tips on selecting styles that are comfortable, stylish, and flattering for your big day. Whether you’re a bride-to-be with an ostomy or simply curious about the process, this video is all about feeling confident and beautiful on yo...
Behind the Smile: Battling Chronic Illness When You Look ‘Normal’
Просмотров 2762 месяца назад
In this video, I open up about the realities of living with a chronic illness that’s often invisible to others. While I may look fine on the outside, the truth is that I constantly battle symptoms that leave me feeling far worse than I appear. I’ll share my personal experiences of what it’s like to feel sicker than I look, how I cope with the disconnect between how others see me and how I actua...
Surviving a Stomach Bug with an Ileostomy: Diarrhea & The Importance of Staying Hydrated
Просмотров 3752 месяца назад
Getting a stomach bug when you have an ileostomy can be challenging, especially when dealing with diarrhea and dehydration. In this video, I share my personal experience of handling a stomach virus with an ostomy bag. Whether you’re new to life with an ostomy or just looking for helpful tips, this video is for you! Be sure to like, comment, and subscribe for more content on living confidently w...
My Ulcerative Colitis Health Update - Ugh… Big Flare & What’s Next For Me?
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My Ulcerative Colitis Health Update - Ugh… Big Flare & What’s Next For Me?
Why Do I Have Ulcerative Colitis Symptoms After Ileostomy Surgery? | A Visual Representation
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Why Do I Have Ulcerative Colitis Symptoms After Ileostomy Surgery? | A Visual Representation
Ostomy Bag Supplies Restock & Organization: Essentials for Smooth Bag Changes
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Ostomy Bag Supplies Restock & Organization: Essentials for Smooth Bag Changes
Swimming with an Ostomy Bag: Tips for a Secure Seal & Longer Wear Time
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Swimming with an Ostomy Bag: Tips for a Secure Seal & Longer Wear Time
Welcome to Ostomy Life: Unfiltered!
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Welcome to Ostomy Life: Unfiltered!
My Fiancé Changes My Ostomy Bag for the First Time | In-Depth Guide & Tips for Caregivers
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My Fiancé Changes My Ostomy Bag for the First Time | In-Depth Guide & Tips for Caregivers
Style Hacks: Choosing the Best Clothes for Your Ostomy
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Style Hacks: Choosing the Best Clothes for Your Ostomy
Post-Abdominal Surgery Workout Routine: Safely Rebuild Strength
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Post-Abdominal Surgery Workout Routine: Safely Rebuild Strength
2024 Fall Decor | Hobby Lobby Shop & Decorate With Me
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2024 Fall Decor | Hobby Lobby Shop & Decorate With Me
His Thoughts ~ On Dating Someone With An Ostomy | Part One
Просмотров 4034 месяца назад
His Thoughts ~ On Dating Someone With An Ostomy | Part One
What Kind of Underwear Do You Wear? | Ostomy Bag
Просмотров 8724 месяца назад
What Kind of Underwear Do You Wear? | Ostomy Bag
Can I Work With An Ostomy Bag??
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Can I Work With An Ostomy Bag??
How To Empty An Ostomy Bag
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How To Empty An Ostomy Bag
My Full Pregnancy Journey with an Ileostomy Bag: Challenges, Triumphs & Tips
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My Full Pregnancy Journey with an Ileostomy Bag: Challenges, Triumphs & Tips
Try-On Haul for Pink Lily x Kalee Rogers Collection Giveaway | postpartum fashion
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Try-On Haul for Pink Lily x Kalee Rogers Collection Giveaway | postpartum fashion
4 1/2 months postpartum | Ulcerative Colitis symptoms, flare
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4 1/2 months postpartum | Ulcerative Colitis symptoms, flare
Ostomy Bag LEAKED. How I know when to change it.
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Ostomy Bag LEAKED. How I know when to change it.
Postpartum Ostomy Bag Change
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Postpartum Ostomy Bag Change
Labor & Delivery With An Ostomy Bag | My Birth Story | Ileostomy Bag & Pregnancy
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Labor & Delivery With An Ostomy Bag | My Birth Story | Ileostomy Bag & Pregnancy
Ostomy Bag Change at 37 Weeks Pregnant!!
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Ostomy Bag Change at 37 Weeks Pregnant!!

Комментарии

  • @michellem8284
    @michellem8284 Час назад

    Everything you said! Living with colitis and taking prednisone and biologics=extreme urgency, bloody stools, anemia, extreme weight loss, hair loss, daily pain, minimal sleep, and isolation (due to unpredictable bowel movements), not to mention all the risks associated with the prednisone and biologics. Surgery = Feeling normal and healthy and getting your life back and no more pharmaceuticals. Honestly, as someone who has had the BB surgery, I don't think it will be too bad for you. Hugs.

  • @elissaarbelo4905
    @elissaarbelo4905 4 дня назад

    I’m also feeling nervous as well about my upcoming surgery. But I have remember with what I’ve been through I can do this. I was 26 years old when I was diagnosed with UC that was in 2011. I lived with UC for 5 years. At 31 years old (2016) I ended up getting an ileostomy on October 26, 2016. After the surgery cancer was found in my liver it was stage 4 Non Hodgkin’s lymphoma cancer. I was 32 years old (2017 when I lived in the hospital for 5 months. trying to recover from the surgery and I was doing my chemo treatments fighting the cancer in my liver. I was 32 (2017) when i ended up having a seizure that is when the doctors thought there was a tumor in my brain. It ended up being an old blood clot. I was 33 years old (2018) when I was in the hospital for the last two times. Once was in April 2018 when I had a mini stroke and the other time was in May 2018 when a cyst burst near my ovaries. Now I’m 39 years old, I’m a cancer survivor I’ve been 6 years cancer free. And I’ve lived with my ileostomy for 8 years now.

  • @elissaarbelo4905
    @elissaarbelo4905 4 дня назад

    My Barbie Butt surgery is also in December the 11th I will also be getting a hysterectomy done at the same day as my Barbie Butt Surgery. I wish you luck on your surgery and recovery

  • @taysinternetdiary
    @taysinternetdiary 9 дней назад

    You’re so strong and beautiful, you’re such an inspiration. I hope your surgery went well and you have a smooth healing journey ❤️‍🩹 I wish I was there for you

  • @taysinternetdiary
    @taysinternetdiary 10 дней назад

    I am feeling the same way

  • @norcalraider5047
    @norcalraider5047 10 дней назад

    Just had mine on the 19th i also got a new stoma. I couldnt feel anything down there until 9 days post op its been great so far. I have been sitting to i was scared and ny surgeon did amazing. Each day gets easier.

  • @clairethornicroft8121
    @clairethornicroft8121 11 дней назад

    Hang in there girl !! Hugs .

  • @missyme2673
    @missyme2673 13 дней назад

    That was me today! I hope you're feeling better x ❤

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 14 дней назад

    Hey kayla, I know exactly how your feeling. The strong mix of emotions i had. In a way I wanted the surgery asap, then I had times were I become very stressed, anxious and sad. Sending you hugs and prayers ❤

  • @riharahim9789
    @riharahim9789 14 дней назад

    God bless you now and always ❤

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 17 дней назад

    Oh kayla. your video made me cry because i felt the exact same way as you. I had a good few emotional days but you are spot on!staying positive is the best thing you can do. They are exactly what i wore after surgery and im still wearing. Absolutely love your pretty new items. They look so comfy! Love love love the matching idea. Thats how i am too. Stay strong 💪

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 17 дней назад

    Having a reputable, experienced surgeon truly makes a huge difference in faster recovery with minimal to no complications. Wishing you the best of luck and a speedy recovery.

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 17 дней назад

    The only person I had to help me was my partner...the more people you have around you during this time, the better!

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 17 дней назад

    Kayla, I was in your position 6 months ago now. I had a rollercoaster of emotions, and absolutely no family or friends supporting me. To anyone having this surgery, having a support system is a blessing and will help you get through this. I was scared and happy at the same time. What got me through this time is always thinking forward. You will feel soo much better kayla. My rectal stump made me suffer so much so I understand exactly how you feel. I will be here all the way through your journey kayla. Thank you so much for having the courage to share your journey to health and healing with us! It is truly invaluable to many! 🎉❤😊

  • @kknutsen49
    @kknutsen49 17 дней назад

    You'll be okay.

  • @sdando27
    @sdando27 17 дней назад

    It's the right decision you will be fine you will recover fast. The pain is minimal don't worry . God is gonna get you through.

  • @michellem8284
    @michellem8284 17 дней назад

    Honestly, Kayla, I had a complete proctocolectomy on a Friday and came home Tuesday. Obviously, pain was managed in the hospital, and I came home using only Tylenol and Advil. I was terrified to get the Barbie butt stitches removed because of everything I'd heard, and it ended up being completely painless. I'd say the BB part of my surgery was more annoying (not being able to sit) than painful.

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 17 дней назад

      @@michellem8284 thank you so much for sharing your experience!! That actually makes me feel so relieved!! I hope you continue to heal well and you are able to get back to normal in no time 🙏🏼

    • @denit5958
      @denit5958 17 дней назад

      I am very happy to hear others have healed well from this surgery.

  • @bronwynread-andia3555
    @bronwynread-andia3555 17 дней назад

    It's brilliant. It's been probably 20 years since mine was done, I'm losing count. It's uncomfortable of course but hang in there because down the track you have your life back to enjoy with your little cutie and other loved ones. Be patient, nurture yourself and cry when you need but follow up with a smile. You too will come out the other side way better off. Love and healing light coming your way. Bron from Sydney ❤

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 17 дней назад

      @@bronwynread-andia3555 this gives me so much hope!! Thank you!! 😊

  • @lisah.1448
    @lisah.1448 17 дней назад

    God speed recovery prayers for you ! Baby will be okay, you are an awesome Mom!

  • @CarolineLewton
    @CarolineLewton 17 дней назад

    Completion Proctectomy in January for me. I am so invested in your recovery as I am in information gathering mode too right now.

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 17 дней назад

      @@CarolineLewton yay! We are so close! Keep me updated with when you get a date scheduled!

    • @CarolineLewton
      @CarolineLewton 17 дней назад

      @@OstomyLifeUnfiltered I will do! All the best to you for your surgery xx

    • @denit5958
      @denit5958 17 дней назад

      Best of luck yo you both. 6 months out here. I had open abdominal surgery again for my completion. I am doing well. At times you may feel overwhelmed but just know that it will so be worth it once you are healed! You will be a whole new person! Much healthier and happier!

    • @CarolineLewton
      @CarolineLewton 17 дней назад

      @ Thank you!!! I very much hope so! How long before you could go up and down stairs again? My surgery will be open too.

    • @denit5958
      @denit5958 17 дней назад

      Your very welcome! At the 2 month mark. I had my entire rectum removed howevhadthey preserved my anus due to no disease activity (uc) and due to the fact im currently on fertility path. I was jumping in and out of my 4wd after 2 months. Start building up strength by walking slowly more and more each day as long as the pain is controlled. You will build strength much better that way by starting as soon as possible after surgery. You will get there in the end.

  • @Maryann-lg5ze
    @Maryann-lg5ze 17 дней назад

    I'm getting my ileostomy on 12/19 😬

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 17 дней назад

      It will go great!! Any concerns or questions you can always ask me or message me on instagram ❤️

    • @denit5958
      @denit5958 17 дней назад

      You will finally be able to live the life you wanted. Go team ileo's!

  • @denselman
    @denselman 17 дней назад

    It is the right decision, it will be painful, but be patient. Don’t over do it durning your recovery, that was my issue. Hang in there.😉

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 17 дней назад

      @@denselman I should put a note by my bed that reminds me to not overdo it because I am the same way! But I know it’s important to be patient and heal!

    • @Cymraes-ep9fd
      @Cymraes-ep9fd 17 дней назад

      All the best to you x

  • @stillamarine1001
    @stillamarine1001 23 дня назад

    I just drank it down as quick as I could. It was absolutely the worst crap I have ever had to do before a procedure. It was just a full day of discomfort and all that. I could not sleep. I worked 6 pm to 6 am the day before my prep and that was a mistake. I was awake for two full days.

  • @sdando27
    @sdando27 25 дней назад

    Good Luck with your coming up barbie butt surgery. You will be good. I have one and have had no problems. You'll be in my prayers . Ostomate buddy from Ohio.

  • @sharonlawson2440
    @sharonlawson2440 25 дней назад

    Bless your heart. So educational.

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 25 дней назад

    Wishing you the best of luck for your surgery and recovery period. The day will come before you know it! I felt scared and excited at the same time just like you kayla, but once i woke from my surgery, i already felt healthier somehow? Like something unhealthy left my body ❤

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 21 день назад

      That makes me feel so good to hear!! I felt the same way after my ileostomy surgery 4 years ago and was hoping for the same result!

  • @riharahim9789
    @riharahim9789 25 дней назад

    God bless you always ❤

  • @juliae.8237
    @juliae.8237 26 дней назад

    Much luck and prayers. You got this!

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 26 дней назад

    You've got this kayla! ❤

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 26 дней назад

    That's fantastic news kayla! I know exactly how you feel kayla! Just had mine done 5 months ago. My surgery is a little different to yours, they kept my anal canal and anus and just removed my entire rectal stump. My anus wasnt affected by the uc so they were happy to leave it. Also, im in my late 30s and am currently on my Fertility journey. I was advised that removing them would be a longer recovery which wasnt an option unfortunately! I definitely feel soo much healthier overall though. Sending prayers all positive energy and hugs to you all the way from Australia! I'm soo happy to hear you finally have a date! Look after yourself a little extra, indulge and relax until then. Take care, Angie xo

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 26 дней назад

      Oh that is so interesting, but makes total sense! I’m sending you baby dust and good luck to get pregnant 🙌🏼 thank you so much! I am excited to be on the other side of surgery!!

    • @denit5958
      @denit5958 26 дней назад

      Yes i am not your typical case. I guess it depends on each individual and situation. Like yourself, I've suffered from chronic pan uc since very young! We have suffered for far too long kayla! Thank you soo much 💓. Your daughter is a sweet little angel! I'm soo happy watching your videos! Women with uc are real warriors!

  • @Margarita_mom
    @Margarita_mom 26 дней назад

    Thank you! If you can do it then I can ❤

  • @Astrid591000
    @Astrid591000 26 дней назад

    Good luck with butt surgery 🙏🏻🙏🏻 all will go well xx❤😊

  • @chrislawlorcreative2955
    @chrislawlorcreative2955 26 дней назад

    All the best! Yay to being fully healthy!❤❤❤

  • @mmmotives7452
    @mmmotives7452 27 дней назад

    I just finished 3/4 of my Prep right now. Chased it with a bit of ginger ale. Took 2.15hrs

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 27 дней назад

    Sending you positive energy and hugs from down under. Look forward to seeing more videos.

  • @Legalas-f7g
    @Legalas-f7g 27 дней назад

    I add some into my jello mix

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 28 дней назад

    Praying that they offer you a surgery date real soon kayla!

  • @bornuhuru
    @bornuhuru 28 дней назад

    Does the stoma hurt when you grab on it?

  • @tejassai12
    @tejassai12 28 дней назад

    How long did it take for you to recover from surgery and eat normal again

  • @adamajosephconteh7022
    @adamajosephconteh7022 28 дней назад

    Wow!!! Thank you so much for sharing this information.

  • @AliceLexington
    @AliceLexington 29 дней назад

    Keith is such a sweetheart. That is true love! 💕

  • @christinadejuliis5465
    @christinadejuliis5465 29 дней назад

    Can your baby get Crohn’s disease?

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 29 дней назад

      @@christinadejuliis5465 I can’t say 100% that she will never develop it, because there are a couple other women in my family who have a form of ulcerative colitis, but I sure hope she never gets it. -> Last time I talked to my doctor, he said that studies have not proven it to be genetic

  • @alanyoung2649
    @alanyoung2649 29 дней назад

    That’s what they used on a catheter for urine. But through the stoma.

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 29 дней назад

    Thank you for sharing your journey with us kayla! It is truly invaluable ❤

  • @michellem8284
    @michellem8284 Месяц назад

    I'm excited for you to get some relief. Only those of us who have lived with colitis or crohns can understand how miserable it can be. I completely understand why you didn't have your rectum removed initially. I elected to have everything removed all at once, and am so glad that I did. Best of luck to you!

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 29 дней назад

      Now I wish they would have taken it all right away for me! I’m happy that you are glad with that decision 🙌🏼 Until I get a surgery date, I feel like I’m just in this “waiting” period where it feels so far away. But it will come!

  • @denit5958
    @denit5958 Месяц назад

    Hello you mentioned that they are going to sew your anus shut. Are they going to remove your anal canal and anus or just going to sew these up from the inside or outside? I just had my proctectomy surgery done 6 months ago...best wishes on your journey. May you finally find peace in your life from uc!

    • @OstomyLifeUnfiltered
      @OstomyLifeUnfiltered 29 дней назад

      Good question!! They are going to remove the whole anal canal as well! I hope your recovery is going well after your surgery ❤️

    • @denit5958
      @denit5958 29 дней назад

      👍. Thank you so very much! It's been a tough recovery but 100% worth it for me! My rectal stump was making me feel very sick! Sending you lots of positive energy and love. I know how you feel right now, waiting for the surgery date and wanting it to be all over! Hang in there 🙏

  • @monicagold5285
    @monicagold5285 Месяц назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this! You inspire and reassure me. Greatly appreciate it.

  • @sybilkent4913
    @sybilkent4913 Месяц назад

    Freedom💪Best wishes! Keep cool

  • @lisah.1448
    @lisah.1448 Месяц назад

    You are an inspiration to so many in all walks of life ! A beautiful momma for a beautiful baby girl.

  • @janiedavila8370
    @janiedavila8370 Месяц назад

    I threw up two or three times looked like a cartoon where the character commits everything