44 yr Old Woman Says Today's Available Men are 'Leftovers'
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- Опубликовано: 18 мар 2024
- A recently divorced 44 year old woman talks about her dating options, and calls them 'leftovers'
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It feels rather sad, she doesn't look like a bad chick. My first impression is that she was indeed mistreated. But your comments are spot on like always.
Doesn't look like a bad chick???
Yes she does, she totally does.
Then you hear her speak and it's a wrap ✌️
If she was abused she would get a divorce but she's still technically married to him so that tell us, it wasn't really as serious as she describes.
Women are experts at wording things to frame themselves as the innocent victim 😇
More often than not, it's typically the female who is the abuser in these types of situations.
There is numbers and hard data that proves it too but they don't want society to know that.
99 times out of 100, it's the woman who is the problem.
She's a liar, and a skank.
Asides from the fact that she's a bit drunk and I'm not an expert on understanding the demeanour of US women, given I live in Australia, just the fact that she is intent on sending the blame story elsewhere, above all else, would be enough to put me off.
He was so abusive she never actually got divorced
men over 45 are mostly crap: fat, addicted, troubled.
😂. We’re leftovers? Try to find a woman 44, or older, who isn’t damaged or nuts!
I can’t.
Or overweight, over medicated, and enough baggage to fill a semi!
Or overweight, over medicated, and enough baggage to fill a semi!
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Mate, try to find any woman that isn't nuts
or with huge debts, health issues, a sh*tton of addictions and vices and mental health trauma to last for a lifetime!!, and the best is 3 kids from different fathers!!
A divorced 44 years old woman IS a leftover.
If she has to say: "definitely a sugar mama" you know she can't get any guy within 5 or less of her age.
She can't even tell, if she is divorced for real or not.
Or how long she was married.
Lol
That’s not leftovers that’s disposable
I met a woman about my age when I was in my early fifties. I had always been single. She was divorced, had been married for 23 years, no kids, not religious, no addictions, her husband met another woman. We've been dating for about 15 years, the most kind and understanding person I've ever known.
As a married man I can pretty much say you nailed. My wife of 26 years is always complaining about me and keep looking at her friends and have this illusion their lives are way better than what we have. In the other hand, her divorce friends are stuck and no men are interested in them and some of these ladies are wealthy and good looking and still can't find a relationship. I tell my wife all the time, if you are so unhappy, good luck out there, especially being 60 and with an ex-husband and kids. No men in their right mind will deal with that crap. LMAO
The problem is lots of men are out if there mind. She'll find someone but he won't be good quality
Good luck, sir.
Protect your$elf.
No woman in the right mind would want an old bitter divorced man
@@SilviaLampa You are incorrect. No old bitter divorced man would want a woman. He'll just hire a sex worker weekly.
Co-dependent relationships...so sad.
It was “emotionally, psychologically and physically abusive”. Notice how she said “physically” last. If it really was physically abusive, that would have been the first and only justification she gave.
Physcially meaning, he probably grabbed her arm to get out of there when she's blocking his way. I don't buy it.
Excellent observation.. you hit the nail on the head. No pun intended 😅
I also suspect she throws that in just to get the "holy trinity" of abuses in there. Bingo on the victim-o-meter. (i could be wrong of course, but i´ve been around the block before)
Boom truth bomb
No way she was getting physically abused
Same as a girl who does Onlyfans, they are an "Entrepreneur" "Yoga instructor" "Fitness influencer" "Fitness coach" oh and also they do Onlyfans, you know the thing where 100% of their income comes from.
"It was abusive". Always the victim, never taking any accountability.
It's always the guy's fault, always!
Women are never embarrassed, but always offended.
"Available men are leftovers?" Hell, at my age finding a woman is like shopping in a thrift store!
Bro, I laughed in my exwife's face when she said that shit to me at the end. I said "please, show me where I was abusive, you can't". Tried to pull everything but the physical line - cuz I dared to have a family budget like Rich mentioned.
I’ve NEVER heard a woman admit ANY degree of fault
It took her 14+ years to understand that she was in an "emotionally, financially and physically @busive" relationship. Amazing!
And I guarantee you, her husband was never arrested or no restraining orders were placed. The abuse was only in her head.
Financial abuse...
"I want a Chanel bag!"
"Sorry, babe. We can't afford that right now!"
"You're so abusive!"
Exactly. And this shreds her narrative into pieces. I too was described as being emotionally, financially and physically @busive by my ex-wife of 14 years who had decided, as a narcissist, that I was starting to work her out. Yes dear, I was. Good luck with your cats cupcake.
They'll say anything before they admit they get bored of having a stable relationship so they ruin in on purpose.
@@fishin4bogeyWhat a pitiful strawman.
So abusive that she is still legally married to him after 5 years of walking away.
Probably for health insurance ...
I was a dip separated for 5 years, finally grew a set of balls and puled the plug....
Good one
Considering she said financially abusive, I’m guessing the divorce will take a long time to settle the financial side…she wants it all.
Hanging in there for the money. Disproportionate pct of women have no money.
What I have learned that, no matter how old women become, Delusion never goes away
Cultivating a relationship with Truth is a process and a skill that is born through courage and humility, that's why they say truth is bittersweet; it's bitter in the beginning and becomes sweet in the end... and it really is kind of brutal to examine yourself (at first) and uncover your shadow but without doing so, you'll never be truly whole or mature and thus in control of yourself.
Any wonder why then why women shy away from this? Growth is innately uncomfortable and so if your modus operandi is "must feel good all the time", you're setting yourself up for a stunted existence.
As Carl Sagan suggested "It's far better to grasp the universe as it is than to persist in delusion, however satisfying or reassuring"
Brilliant what you wrote.
It gets worse the older they get.
@@bb.buchananGratitude
When they get in their 80’s I noticed come to there senses
Financially abusive means he lost his job 😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭
Good point. What a farce.
Physically abusive means she tried to hit him and he grabbed her arms/hands to stop her.
Or didn't indulge her, refused to be a cash cow, an ATM...
Not even that, pretty often that means he was spending money responsibly.
Or he didnt verge from his budget.
Abusive just means he wouldn't do what I want.
Agreed she’s to cocky to allow being abused. Trophy 🏆 wife 😂
Yes he had the audacity to say no to one of her flakey expensive whims of the moment.
Soooo true !
No it doesn't. Not everything is women's fault. Men can actually be abusive, but that wouldn't fit your narrative that every man is a precious angel. Go tell this to women who have been traumatized from real abusive relationships.
Men are abusive if you will not take her to the mall and buy her bags. When she means support it means you get to pay for everything and if you do not than you are abusive.
I was called financially abusive because I didn't want to pay for tennis lessons for our 3 year old son.
Exactly. For the vast majority of women who toss out, "He was controlling and abusive!" it was over things that are very minor.
Who in the ever loving hell would want to give tennis lessons to a 3 year old. Crazy expectations
I ran an airbnb with a chick. We made 20k because i was a superhost. She told me to take down the listing in a tantrum and then after I did she tried to make me to put it back up. When i didnt suddenly was "financially abusive"
I never knew "financially Abusive" was even a thing. I'm surprised my exwife didn't throw that in the divorce decree too!
OMG UR A MONSTER 😮
She considers herself a trophy.
That's like taking a former taxi 1989 Ford Crown Victoria with 570,000 miles and gifting it as a new car.
Sounds like a real collectible to me! (Kidding, yeeeeesh)
Sir..... Sir...... 😅
I think she meant like a deer head taxidemied over the mantel.....not like a trophy in the real sense. Basically a kid boning a mom like in the movies.
That line right there tells you why she got a divorce. Her delusion is off the charts
My first car was an 89 vic. Miss that thing.
She didn't admit it but she got bored. End of marriage.
He didn’t make enough money. if she was truly physically abused She wouldn’t be so cocky that shes a trophy 🏆 wife 😂Delusional
Yeah, that is the real reason for divorced most times, and these women think the grass is greener, and they learn it is not. How much you want to bet this women is on an antidepressant?
She left her husband of 10 years to "discover" herself.....(and we all know what "discover" means)....................lol.
Correct.. that is why she's scrubbing the streets
Was thinking the same thing. Just as likely the ex was too good a man - stable, steadfast etc. - and it bored her. Women can always find some reason to claim "abuse" to justify leaving. Maybe they had a fight once and he yelled at her. It becomes a pretext they are looking for.
For modern women anytime that you tell them no or enforce boundaries they call that “abuse”. It’s ridiculous.
@@Lrv6532
Please explain
Lol you know what's funnier? A bunch of grown men on the internet with hurt egos talking smack about a woman whom they know NOTHING about and making evil assumptions about her failed marriage.
This is precisely why I personally don't recommend women to date divorced men. They're probably delusional and unhinged like what you're painting this woman to be. Same rules and same judgement for both genders alright..
Also she's not wrong to say.. the good men are usually taken/married by 40 years of age. There really aren't many available men at that age range. And having to look through the "leftovers" is not an insulting term. She just means those men that are likely not yet married probably aren't looking for relationships, having other baggage, problems, addictions. Nothing wrong with a logical observation. The same thing applies for men looking to date at age 40.. most of the good women that age are taken. The ones "leftover", are probably too focused on their careers or divorced with children, or have major baggage and issues like trauma, illness, etc.
If you come on the internet looking to be offended, you most certainly will
It's a bit like "playing the 'race card'. If the woman is a VICTIM of something her man did (or didn't do), then she's relieved of accountability. Being able to demean your husband or S/O as an "abuser", regardless of facts, is another facet of "Vagina Privilege".
@@canadiansoviet They are out of control
Bro men do that too lmao, when a woman sets a boundary, he says it's toxic, but when a man sets a boundary, it's okay.
she's the leftovers
The leftovers never realize it. Move on.
Unless your living in your original unbroken sealed box…
Everyone is leftovers.
@@someoneelse9059 I know I'm just saying.. Maybe the 44 year old separated mom who's out partying getting drunk shouldn't be shrowing stones at anyone... glass houses and all that
The leftovers that get thrown out.
Thats cope. Not everyone whos been in a relationship is used goods. Its people who carry baggage, resentment, trauma and emotional damage that are leftovers. There's a difference between a 1957 corvette thats been well maintained in perfect condition by one or two owners , and a 2005 Corolla thats been beaten and driven like it was stolen by 10 different irresponsable owners.@@someoneelse9059
Ive NEVER met a woman who admits that a failed relationship is their fault..
HAHAHA never ever
I havent met any guys that do either
@@CM-xu6bd well hi it’s me, I’ve had relationships fail where I was the one responsible for them failing…so that’s at least one you can say you’ve met now
Well let me be ur first one..Ive screwed up a few relationships..
Interesting, I've never heard of a woman even saying she was half responsible.
My EX-wife had me removed from my house simply telling the police i controlled all the money she had NO bank Account and i was abusive WTF, went to court and showed the judge a copy of her Bank account and a lot of cash, and she admitted she lied about being abused and fuck me she still got the house nearly all the money saved and most of all my sons ???? justice at its best. She now has lost it all including my sons, now they live with me 🤣
Karma a bitch
That’s the reason I moved out of California and into Alaska
Thank you for telling this because it just keeps me and many others
SOBER as to the utter nonsense of family court.
If the police can be called by a disgruntled wife, unhappy with how the finances are handled, and have her husband kicked out of his home, no court hearing, no due process, then there's no point in a man getting married. From the moment he carries his bridge across the threshold, he's got a Sword of Damocles hanging over him.
Thats crazy
Im 35, 3 kids, got a friendly (thank god) divorce a year ago. This is why i cant even deal w women my age, they are so damaged its insane.
One of the saddest things about women today is that they permanently damaged themselves & they don't even realize it.
A woman who has been with only 5 previous men prior to marriage has statistically destroyed her ability to pair bond with her husband.
I think there’s a lot of permanently damaged men out there too. It’s sad.
You’re so right about the pair bonding thing.
I date younger females in their 20s. So much less drama and headache.
Plenty of 30+ women are good bro, I know that as a fact, as I know women who are 30+ years old and are wonderful people.
You are not a top-shelf guy either. A top-shelf guy wouldn’t have the time to make these videos nor have the interest because he would be busy living his top-shelf life.
She could have constantly pushed his buttons until he finally flipped out so she can say he's abusive as an excuse.
That happens very often!
She is NOT a trophy, not even a consolation price, NO! If anything she is a "participation" award.
She a 403
Yep. She has the participation award with the body count to go with it Sir.
Miss Congenialty😮
Just be sure you don't catch a venereal disease from that participation😅
Bawahaaaaa
She’s still legally married. Never date that.
100%!
She is still a party to a contract that says til death do us part.
She sais man are liars..
Notice that the first answer about 14y marriage was a lie, wich she lied 3 times after before she told the truth😂
Not only is she "technically" an adulteress, it'd hardly be surprising if she was having affairs before she decided to finally punch out of the marriage. IDK why they haven't administered the legal "coup de grace", unless it's a fight over alimony and division of property.
That's so she thinks he is always on the hook if her life don't work out.
They won’t provide details. They will only provide labels and accusations.
As the old saying goes....
Men see themselves in other men. Women see themselves AS younger women. At 44, she's fully convinced herself that she's still that hot 28 year old.
Ill be 40 soon and everyone thinks I’m in my early 20s. So yea Im trying to figure out how to age myself a bit. Maybe fry my skin in the sun or something, I don’t know.
Be real tho. She will get a good looking beta male to settle down with. It doesn’t matter how old she is.
@@CM-xu6bdNo, they dont.
@@CM-xu6bd Why would you want to age yourself? Youth is best. 😎
I took after my dad slow aging. Not to mention I take care of myself. Im just glad people don’t think I’m 16 anymore. My mom and sister are jealous.
They say "abusive" and the untrained ear might think, whoa, that's awful. But it can really just mean about anything.
It generally means she didn't get her way on something and she's wanting leverage for divorce court to steal all his assets.
Abusive means he set boundaries and wasn't compliant like pets are.
BS
Pro tip... you can't be called abusive in divorce court if you're never married.
My ex wife tried telling people I was abusive because I yelled at her when I found out she was cheating.
I watched her tell the story once and her own family told her to shut up.
"Physically abusive" can be as simple as the woman traps the husband in a galley kitchen, is cursing him out and throwing things at him, he then pushes his way passed her to get away. This was the case of what my 66 year old sister-in-law did to her ex. I think it was a contrived plan between her and her attorney. She also said that he was "emotionally" and "financially" abusive . Oh, it took her 33 years to realize the situation was abusive. It was about the time that his 401k became ripe and plump.
I’m sure she blew through her award of his 401k and is broke again. 🤦♂️
Usually my story of wife of 23 years lying, cheating, stealing from joint funds, & running off with her boss is an eye-opening example of how hypergamy does sometimes happen way down the timeline. The story you just told is another level beyond mine. Please keep recounting that story in these forums. Guys need to hear it so as to try & understand better that their 'good one' is only good until she isn't (at least statistically). Women are hard-wired for hypergamy & this sort of thing. It sometimes doesn't appear until decades down the line.
Agreed. Abuse used to mean physical beatings. In 2024, abuse means arguing or raising your voice at a woman.
Raising your voice? In that case I would be serial offender.
Or disagreeing with her...
Just 'no' is abuse😂
"He was Abusive" = He didnt let me spend HIS money / He didnt think I was always right / He worked more than he spent time with me ... the list goes on.
How is it that you also know my wife!
Most “leftover” men have their lives together. Especially the men who concentrated on their careers and personal advancement. Those are the men who have a house, paid off car, make $100k and are not worried about money. In a time like now, they are able to think about buying expensive things and can shop relaxingly. Lots of people who had relationships at a young age, divorced or paying high child support don’t have that luxury. They “have” to work overtime just to make ends meet. Most jobs love people who are financially strapped because they have no leverage. People who have leverage can live in peace. Men take care of your money so you can enjoy your life.
I'm more or less in that category, and I think there are probably a lot of guys in that quietly success category as well. Maybe millions. And none of them will care much when society around them collapses, when society couldn't care less about them.
I’ve learned that when you don’t get what you want from someone you call it abuse. It’s dishonest but it feels good when saying it😅
She’s STILL married and on the prowl 😮 no wonder all the good ones are “taken”. Who could take her seriously
All the older women on dating sites "Are Passionate about travel" = the man pays and we go where the woman wants to go.
Nailed it. They will date you just to go on trips and post pics on Instagram, but they won't have you in the pics.
@@Long-nd8bq This reminds me of a girl I briefly dated many years ago. She wanted me to take her on a skiing trip, but when that didn't happen, she decided to move on.
If she don’t spend money on you she don’t like you.
Bc you are the provider! If she was the provider, you’d also have a problem with that!
@@Nah-ah Im certainly not the provider in an online dating scenario. Older women on online dating are proud of saying they are independent (stubborn and hard to get along with) and financially secure. Im willing to pay my way. They can pay their way and we compromise and decide together where we want to go. Delusional old geriatric women are no prize. We are equals. This is the way of normal human beings. Drizzel drizzel.
I’ve never gone on a date with a woman where the end of previous relationships was her fault it’s always 100% of the guys fault
I have been looking for a casual relationship for the past few years. I'm divorced in the 1990's, got RP'ed a few years ago after being on dating sites in the 2010's. I will never marry again, or live common-law with a woman. I lost everything in the divorce including my premarital assets and was homeless. I'm not doing that again. It seems that all of the women 40-60 have doubled-down on being delusional, so I don't hold out much hope. I'm a fit 5, 5'8", no debt, $1 million net worth, own a small software company, which means I'm invisible to most women.
Every woman says he was abusive. You’d think every man is an abuser. We should all be in jail.
My current girlfriend told me I'm the worst boyfriend she has ever had because I farted on her in the shower. Pretty funny, so now I fart on her all the time. I'm the worst boyfriend in the universe now apparently lol
@@chrispekel5709 I shid on mine
Women think there’s something wrong with me because I chose to never get married. I was smart. I’m an investor and knew a terrible trade when I saw one!
The good men were Friend Zoned.
Not even. They were called creeps
Yeah, twenty years ago. Hopefully no decent guy has wasted his time on her recently.
This is why I moved to Thailand
Thailand huh can you spot the real women from the lady boys?
How is it going out there?
They have the coolest small motorcycle/Moped culture!
Congrats, there are worse choices out there for sure.
Are Thai women any different?
Three words: FOR THE STREETS
They have been "separated" for years, but still married? So that means she's now an adulteress. Not very bright, this one.
I quit dating at 46, nothing left I wanted was out there
I quit dating at 27.
Independent and / or wealthy women can NEVER stay in a marriage
Divorce rates among independent women is almost 100%, and it is important that men realise this danger before falling into a relationship, especially marriage
That should tell you something. So you want the system to ensure women stay in marriages due to hunger? How about men offering incentives for them to stay beyond the need to eat?
@@roses6564~ the juice ain't worth the squeeze
Almost 100% 😅
Women are mostly by nature serial monogamists. So of course an independant or wealthy woman divorce rate is basically 100 percent. Marriage for them is just a cultural relic, a non-chalant transaction you simply do and get out when the expiration arrives.
@@roses6564 the problem is that for at least some women the better a husband he is (stable, got together, principled etc.) the less she will love/desire him. So once she no longer needs the good man type of husband, because she is financially independent, she will leave. She can now indulge in the other type of man she craves. Until the instability, the lies, the cheating etc becomes too much, and then she will ask again "where are the good men?".
My exwife claimed i was into drugs because i used Aspirin sometimes.
I later found out that i have a high blood pressure so thats why my head was in pain sometimes.
My ex (as well as a lot of other people) convinced me to get back with her. I did (only for the kids. I was younger and naive, I know). I started getting migraines regularly. I left and the migraines stopped. Coincidence?
If I ever meet a woman who hasn't "just got out of an abusive relationship" I think I'll shake her hand 😂😂😂
Couldn’t have said it better. It is a broken record.
There's this thing called projection...
When a woman says she can't find a "good man", what she really means is she can't find a 6'2" millionaire.
When I was 27 I dated a 40 year old. She loved every minute of the bedroom fun. However, it was the constant pressure for marriage. I didn't want to be stuck with some old broad. In response to why they always say abuse is because it's directly related to being a victim. Their main goal is to be a victim. Why? It's because victims get attention. Translation: you can't receive the latter two until you first claim abuse.
They're also not accountable for all the shit they pulled if they have "victim" status.
men don't want older wives, this is why middle age women often can't get married
Cougars/sugarmamas are good for casual relationships. They're not wifey material.
An elder man with money doesn’t qualify a woman as a trophy if she is 35 or older. Most classify trophies as 25-35.
18-26. 35, lol
@@paulclinton6414 An 80-year-old could consider a 35-y/o a trophy. But a 40-y/o would not.
In reality she is just projecting how she feels about herself
Projecting, the narcissist ace in the hole.....
According to my ex I was abusive because I raised my voice sometimes. I worked, she did not I did house chores she did not I wanted to have sex with her she did not. She left with a younger man after getting pregnant and the funny thing is we were married for 14 years just like the woman in this video. There are many good men out there they just have been screwed over so many times that they are done with women.
"It was abusive" - He didn't 100% agree with me.
Or didn't make enough $$.
At this point the “abuse” stories are becoming like another Fast and Furious movie coming out.
When a woman has truly been wronged by a man, she'll be able to list off every minor misgiving like a stenographer in a court trial. When she's trying to hide her own wrongdoings, she'll be intentionally vague with phrases like "he was emotionally abusive" or "he was a narcissist".
I hear that all the time, the narcissist part. Yet, she would be lost without me, but I would be better off without the constant drama.
emotionally abusive = he wouldn't let me have my way
My favorite part was when she started the conversation by being deliberately deceptive (trying to be cute) then the first thing she complained about were liars. My SECOND favorite part was when she deluded herself into thinking she's viewed as a 'trophy wife' to older guys. 🤔🙃🙃🙃🤡
Her-"maybe the grass is greener on the other side!?" Me- "well, yeah. You're not over there killing it."
😂😂😅😊 Top comment sir. Snorted and chuckled. Lucky me I didnt have my coffee at the time. 😅
@@iowa_lot_to_travel9471 that was my response to my ex. When she said that cliche of a line to me
@@tonyanderson191 💪🔥👍 and then they find the grass isn't always greener. 😀😃 Never be a plan "B" to any itch bay. Once they leave out that door, you don't want them anymore.
@@iowa_lot_to_travel9471 well, you shouldn't bring the trash back in the house after you brought it to the curb
She spraying Roundup all over the green grass!
Just picked up your channel recently and a lot of what you say - like Orion (if you know, you know) - makes MUCH sense. I am 53 and have never been married, but 6'2", 200 lbs and NOT FAT (but not Doryphoros!), have a good, intellectual job that pays me six figures but not much more than bare six figures, am articulate and fairly educated about a lot of things (I'm an analyst so I have to be) and I am really a top tier dancer in many dances. And I haven't had a serious date in seven years.
I get what you say about men running themselves down and not willing to put in the work....but at some point you have to ACCEDE TO REALITY. When I was younger I could get beautiful women but now that I have reflected on many of them, when I was in my 20's they were high quality (and I was in no way fit to get married) and in my 30s they were to some degree, but the red flags started showing up. And the past half dozen or so I have dated seriously have been as dysfunctional as all git-out.
At this point, I would like companionship for some things, but think it's fine to be alone. Women in this country have outed themselves - they are out of their f*cking minds.
You need a passport mate
These women are never responsible for anything.
She is the true leftover and that dollar store neon dress 😂😂😂
No! She's a trophy!
She hasn't thrown the marriage away, yet. She is still legally married. Why?
My ex wouldn't divorce me and I could never figure out why since it was what she wanted. Just another manipulation tactic I guess.
Some benefits of divorce, like permanent alimony if your state has it, require a minimum length of marriage. That is my suspicion as to her motives.
@@headlibrarian1996That is sick
@headlibrarian1996 Permanent alimony huh, sounds like a parasitic relationship.
Meanwhile I'm in my early 40s living my best life, never married, never divorced, own multiple properties, headed on a beautiful vacation to buy a home there, starting a new business...nah. I'm not leftover. I'm selective of my time
To a younger counterpart you are;)
She’s still married to him. If it was abusive, she would have divorced him. He probably set some boundaries she didn’t like.
That’s usually what “emotionally @busive” means. Essentially: “he didn’t let me do whatever I wanted to”
Men in her age bracket being leftovers just reflects her dating frustration. There is always a rock bottom stock of die hard singles and there is a turnover of people coming out of relationships that on the transit to a new one. Opportunies for whatever someone is looking for evolve every day. So, it really makes no sense what she is telling and is just a justification for herself.
She was married for 14 years, afterwards single for 5 years, 44 years old now. That means she was 25 when she left the dating market and got married. But relations and balances in the dating market at mid 20 and at mid 40 are quite different. At mid 20 every reasonably looking girl is a goddess chased by doozens of men. At mid 40 supply and demand are more balanced. I guess that's the real background of her frustration. Men at mid 40 who are single again went through long termin relationships, marriages. They know female patterns, can read a woman. Have developped a reasonble estimation on them. The playing field is leveled now.
Naivety can be a capital. Young men's sure is for women. Once lost, can't be brought back.
We are leftovers, she is a leftover, in between leftovers best is to try to get along the best we can.
I 59 years old (being a leftover) I am with a 52 years old left over since 12 years now. Both of us are conscious of our considerable flaws that made us difficult choices for our first partners in life, knowing this we each of us make efforts and compromises and it works great I must say. Being human and caring helps a lot, being scared of the other is what makes relations fail.
If shes 44 and says older men want a trophy. How old are thes older men that think 44 is a trophy? 70s? 80s?
I know a woman who was 52 and divorced. She met a guy who was 58 and divorced and now they bought a house and are married. So it does happen
Even if these men were in their 70's and 80's she still isn't a trophy. A 'trophy' has an age limit, and she is well beyond it.
@@zapbranigan5099he was a brokie
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Both good-looking
You'd be surprised.... a 44 year old that looks good for her age will still have solid options.
They never really grew up. A lot of these single gals in their 30’s, 40’s, and 50’s are still in “party-mode,” sadly.
Amazing how as their SMV depreciates with time, their laundry list of demands and standards only increases.
“Physically abusive” means he blocked her hands when she was hitting him.
Right, she shows the cops the small bruises on her arms from the man stopping her and the man is charged with assault and his life is destroyed and she ends up with any children and most of the assets.
@@markleggett3944 yep…life under the Matriarchy
Hilarious that she doesn't see herself as leftovers.🤣
44 and she Thinks she is a Trophy !
Abuse is not doing everything she wants, having your own opinion and life interests and not giving her unfettered access to all the money.
I'm not a "leftover", I'm a "leftalone" ...
My ex said I was abusive because I wouldn't go along with her having an open marriage.
Unbelievable! I can't presume to offer advice, but -------------.
A good male friend of our family stated that when a couple has problems it's usually always the man's fault. He's correct.
I can't understand why I should heed the "advice" of people who tell me that I should date women my own age when younger women are still attracted to me.
Are they implying that I should snub the younger woman for an older woman with more baggage, wrinkles, and attitude?
If that's the case, I don't care what they think and probably don't even consider them as true friends.
Insecure people try to impose their own restraints on others so that they can feel good about themselves.
It is even worse later. The "younger women" in my case are in their 40's.
Do you brah. 😅 They are just shaming you out of jealousy. Take the younger lassie. At least you have a smaller chance of them not hating on men.
The red flag of "just a friend" or suddenly ending a phone conversation or tipping the phone away from you, RUN!!
Look for a young, traditional woman who truly loves you. Forget about the advice of "friends."
she stayed for 14 years and is still married to the guy who is, by her standards, the highest tier of abuser
yet its all the other men out there who are leftovers
Oxygen network should hire her to be a writer. She'd fit right in
Met this girl and was seeing her on and off for over a year. When we first met she said she was going through a divorce with her husband. A year later its still going on and she just told me that she has two kids. I said its odd she has never invited me over to her place. Turns out she still lives with her husband and is still married to him but she swears they are separated and over. She also said he was emotionally abusive and that is why she was divorcing him, but she was just letting him have the kids. I said if he is a narcissist like you say why are you leaving the kids with him? She said boys need a father to be raised correctly and they have a strong personality so they will be fine.
So many odd things. She was 36 and was married for 12 years
The question is always ...why..and the answer never comes
Rich, you need to make a video, or series, on the topic of women who say they tried (so hard) to save the relationship. Every woman says this and I call BS. So many things take place in a woman's head that she thinks is reality.
A Trophy, she is utterly delusional, away with the fairies
She doesn’t know what abuse is. My brother and sister grew up in an abusive house. My narcissistic father beat my sister until she had stripes because she couldn’t get started. He beat my brother and me until we had bruises. My mom was the enabler as she would not stand up for us when we were kids. I have since forgiven both parents. I had to in order to heal mentally and spiritually.
Every single woman win whom I’ve had even just one date has told me her ex was abusive. Every one.
Anyone her age should be looking for a guy 15-20 years older who will see her as a prize. I’m slightly older than her and I wouldn’t date her. She seems insane and I don’t need that. I was with an older woman for a long time. There was almost 5 years between us. But I was 20 when I met her. Now if she wanted to come back I wouldn’t have her
"You can't but that Louis Vitton purse for 5 grand honey."
THAT'S ABUSIVE!!!!!!
"More stories than Disney" 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Intelligent points Rich. Good views from both sides. Keep it comin
Women thirst after and fantasize about Ted Bundy. Let that sink in.
Remember that even Charles Manson had a harem!
@@user-kq6sh8tg5f Right??
Ive never met anyone who fantasized that
@@CM-xu6bdscores of women wrote Ted love letters.
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People are so fake today to begin with it’s no wonder why relationships fail
Looking good mate, love the puffer vest
He was abusive emotionally physically = he didn't let me be a 304
Wait...she called herself a trophy? Any woman in this country that's non-obese thinks she's a trophy.
Now days, even the 250# women on the internet think that they are entitled to the top 5% of men.
Good men either want a good woman or nothing.
The wrong woman will make your life much worse than no woman.
@@markleggett3944 And 99% of women are wrong women.
As a woman, I would like to say, my ex-husband never abused me, he neglected me and gaslit me a few years into our marriage. I noticed he started talking about his cousin's ex-wife and what she was doing shortly after their divorce.
I begged for marriage counseling for a year. I walked away. 6 months later he was with her. I wasn't surprised. I always felt like the third wheel when I was in the room with them even when she was married to someone else.
Now i'm just trying to figure out why men settle for the woman in front of them when they're gonna run off to the woman that he really wants when she's available. It doesn't make sense to waste somebody's time like that.
Not only divorced women, the number of single women in their 30s and 40s who talk down on men because they can't keep one as a pet is disconcerting.
It's crazy how these women say all the "good" men are taken buy yet divorce those "good" men in the end. What she means by good men are men who are handsome and financially well off. Not good in character.
A trophy is a hot young woman not an old bag in her 40s.
I really liked to what all you said and I hit the subscribe button. Happy trails !
I had to subscribe these videos hit the nail right on the head. Keep them coming buddy I love it.!!!
Pot, meet kettle.
I'm 67.... Pump & Dump.... not worth the bull shit.....the distance & her kids (especially).....
Pump&dump is as bad as woman being 304.
Pump&dump only makes things worse for all of us.
@@GreyDeathVaccine No it doesn't make it worse, most women my age already have high body counts. Women have more choice today because of social media. The world has changed. We. might pick a woman but she "chooses" us. Women have to be better....much better, Michelle Obama got it wrong....
Women choose whom they sleep with. Men choose whom they have relationship with
@@iowa_lot_to_travel9471 But if a woman doesn't choose a man, there is no chance for a relationship. It starts with the woman and ends with the woman. She has to be much better and quit her bull shit. SUBMIT to the man or get pumped and dumped.
@@raydavies5249 man has to vet the wahmen as wife material. Period