4 Blunt Truths Women Don't Want Men To Know
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2025
- #1 Men are more concerned with a woman's past, women are more concerned with a mans future. #2 Women have an overly entitled sense of self worth today, men don't even come close. #3 There are no good girls or bad girls, there are only girls that haven't been caught. #4 Women rarely settle down with her first choice
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At what point did you start loosing your hair? Did you try anything to stop the hair loss? Can you do a vid on that? Haha
Babies rabies at 40? What alpha wants to raise kids into their 50s and 60s, no thanks!
Makes 30K a month, 2 kids, 1 under 4 and 1 newborn....she could look like Jennifer Aniston and no man (real man) will want a relationship with her. Hell, if she had a kid this YEAR you better bring a ski to strap across your ass so you don't fall in......
A buddy of mine broke up recently with his long time live together gf. She came to him one day about 6 months ago: I don't think this is working anymore, I want to break up.
He said "yup, I agree, I'll be out by the weekend"
her: "we don't have time right now but we can talk about it later"
He: "that's ok, nothing to talk about" and then went off to work lol
THAT is how you do it.
Bold of you to assume I shower
When a woman meets a man she thinks, "Well, he's not perfect but I can change him." And they never do.
When a man meets a woman he thinks, "She's perfect. I hope she never changes." And they always do.
What a great analysis 👏 I'm stealing this 😀.
@@bybanzai Be my guest.
The issue is that we get blinded by the beauty and that she is hiding her flaws very good for a great length of time.
@@GrgAProduction We as men need to wake up and stop being so blind. We need to look down the road ten miles rather than just ten feet. Otherwise, we pay dearly for it every time.
Mah man, so true.
3 key things men need to learn early on. 1. It’s ok to be alone. 2. Be patient. 3. Trust your instincts.
point number one is pure gold! too often you will find women lashing at you with 'you'll die alone' - we need to realize that that's completely fine....there are a billion things you could be doing where time will feel relatively sped up instead of being caged by the wrong one...some of the best photographers, musicians, actors, chefs in the world are unmarried towards and they seem to reclaim their life even more....
Amen to that!
Women too
Same for women. A lot of unnecessary drama can be avoided with these simple tips.
I'm fine being alone, but i've never dated in my life, which makes me depressed sometimes
She wants him to take on her kids and baggage.... and be intelligent. .... A complete contradiction.
Lol
Right lol
That’s the exact same thing I thought lol. She wants him to make an emotional decision and yet be logical 😅
Lmaooo
Your a wise man Glen
My father told me all of this when I was 17. I hated it. But being 42 now, I can confirm its true
My father didn't really communicate with me in my teens, even though me live in the same house - but still, he would say similar things to what are said here, what Andrew Tate says..... I only needed 1 relationship with a voluptuous woman to realise this is all true.
Let all boys know this. Our society is now putting women on a pedestal but we all know how it plays out if you do this.
at least he TOLD YOU.
So did mine but I was 10.
@@hamilcarbarca8659 It's one of the tough truths in life that one would wish are not true. But truth always does: it helps to have more healthy relationships if you accept it as what it is.
The fact that shes pretty, makes $360k yr and just had a baby and her husband still left her is the biggest red flag for me.
She bypassed his earnings and started treating him like shit cos, he is a looser now, he doesn't make more than her.
@JKSteve1124 Never. EVER. Marry for money. For a man it's cheaper to borrow it.
@JKSteve1124
Yeaahhh! Get you some SUGARMOMMA action.
It is chump change if her lifestyle requires every bit of it to stay afloat. Be careful.
JKSteve1124 he doesn't care about her struggles. He just hangs out at the day care line and picks up the winners.
@JKSteve1124 This woman is 39 with an infant. That's pretty irresponsible. Raising babies is a young man's job. I have two kids, well, adults now. I'm 50. Not gay. Been married 20+ years. Not one bad day. I got so F'n lucky. I had no clue what I was doing. Didn't have coaches back then
Take care..
@JKSteve1124 lol but if she wants a alpha who makes more than her as well what says she even going share that money and my knowledge on divorce women walk away with your money or what you got I have a buddy who had to pay 12k and he didnt make her pay child support because he thought they would get back together and ended up going back to drugs and etc good man crushed
Women don't care about your struggles, they hang out at the finish line & pick the winner...
@@cyberpunkalphamale What??? The "Sex and The City" entitlement fembots who think the wall doesn't exist got it right? Get real.
Lol nice one
@@cyberpunkalphamale It's not a delusion at all.
@@cyberpunkalphamale Tell that to the likes of George Clooney and the many men that have preserved most of their youthful looks well into their 60's.
Then tell that to the likes of Cameron Diaz, who has basically become a nobody since her looks started slipping.
@@cyberpunkalphamale This is without getting into the long term use of make-up from the early teens and its effects on physical attractiveness, and the fact women rely on it to look good for the larger portion of their lives.
Reality check, the make up looks good, not you.
Never make women your priority. Never.
👍True. Never. Ever.
Amen!
First priority as a man is to be a successful individual.. womens come easy after that
Amen and never put her on a pedestal she will look down on you
they sure as hell were from 17 - 25. im 38 this year and after getting no real female attention for nearly 21 years, i rarely go near females anymore
I was talking with a 32yr old single mom. I am 37yr old. 29 days into knowing here she said she deserves unconditional love.
Huge red flag!
Dumped here the next day.
No compromise? Just unconditional love- one sided?
I Think you potentially dodged homelessness my friend
@@Stevo-klo45453 , Ever see that Woody Allen movie where they were all passing the orgazmitron around during the party, men finally reached this point where it's viable. Let's face it if it wasn't for the "goods" women would probably have a bounty on their heads.
I totally gave up on finding a decent American woman. I'm just a normal guy certainly not "High Value", nothing at all to brag about. I seemed to attract crazy gals so gave up on that front. Anyway, Found a few "pen pals" in the Philippines, after a year or so found a keeper about half my age in one of the provinces. We got married there, brought her home, helped her through nursing school, and she's all set. Makes more money than I do, and I do let her keep it all because money is not something I put much value in. But anyway, that was 15 years ago. We have two beautiful daughters, and it was the best decision of my life. There are thousands and thousands of beautiful young ladies over there who really just want to live abroad. Mostly for a better lifestyle, and the ability to help their families. Family is extremely important to Filipinos. Do your DD, and take your time, because there are a lot of scammers there, but plenty too who are not. A friend of mine has married at least two, maybe three Filipinas. Why did he have such bad luck? It took him about two weeks to find one, don't do that.
29 days? what were you counting the days in your diary ?
I know a woman and a guy who were happy for 20 years, and then they met each other.
😆🤣..... 🤔
Uh
haha. sounds like Rodney.
😭😂🤣🤣 hahahahaha‼️ that was a good 1 🏆
Very funny!
The only reason I got married was because I needed a woman to tell me what I was doing wrong. I never realized that you could put milk back in the fridge the wrong way.
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or the dishwasher, or come to think of it any type of container....
Lol
🤣🤣🤣
Somebody has control issues.
“A good girl, is just the bad girl that hasn’t gotten caught yet” there is no such thing as “The one” this hit me.
Yeah but everybody is saying keep approaching women don't push all of them away richard says it himself, but i am asking : now we know how women are, what else we just approach bang or get rejected and repeat till the sexual assault allegation or what? What is the endgame ?
@@buki3009 say it again lmao
@@Real2k25 i just want to know what is the endgame, he tell us good women are the one who have not been caught yet but in the same time don't reject all women, i mean what is the point? isn't just walking away of them all the good solution ?
@@buki3009 yes
I guess he saying sometimes your gonna have to settle your not going to fine the perfect girl she's not out there in our society especially with social media you got the find a women who good enough for you, thats what I'm getting
I have been divorced for nearly 3 years now with two children. It was hell. Just had a really rough breakup two weeks ago. She showed her true colors. When pangs of loneliness hit me, I remember two things: More time to heal and build myself, more time for my kids. I treat dating like a vitamin; it’s a supplement not a substitute for true loyal friends and family who will look out for you and support you. I’ve been through too much to waste my time and would rather look inwards. The idea of being with someone is nice, but it’s just an idea, and right now I’d rather put my energy and effort into healing myself and being the best dad for my kids.
Amen to that. I’m in the same situation. Divorced 2013; dad of one; just ended an eight year relationship weeks ago. Incredible pain. But time for my kid! Nothing better.
@@tomquagliata9381 why did you end it, I ended a 3 year relationship with a single mother, living her with her for 2 years, she always thought she was right and whatever I did was never enough while her the bum baby dad was a jail for a year and he ever contributed to anything and she never appreciated what I did
@@MarcoGonzalez-bi6cgSo you pick a low hanging fruit and expect her to appreciate you? Hahaha
@@khanhcao3123 not but I met her when she didn’t have shit and got her bachelors degree as a nurse was a good person till she turned into shit
Amen Bro. Right there with you. Single father. Have the kids. It’s tuff but you’ll get through brother
"Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved"- J Cole.
Originally a Project Pat track but it's hits to this day
What what chicken chicken wha wha chicken HEADS
He gets no credit for that line.
@@LittleHammer_ “Ain’t nothing going on but the money and power!!”
Project pat bro . J cole …. LoL FOH
If you treat her like a star, she'll treat you like a fan.
"Treat me like a King and I'll treat you like my Queen. But if you want to play the game then I'll show you how it's played."
Fax
Yikes - you’d think no compliment goes unhinged!
What about mutual respect? ✊
I find talking in terms of emotional deposits & withdrawals gauging like a barometer, can work!.
Not all ladies want to be a star or have fans. Lol
@@graphicscened lol well, are you from Brazil? I asked because in the US atleast from what I've experienced there are way too many clout chasing women on social media for example and they are always on their damn cellphone checking their facebook and Instagram even while on a bloody date!
2:00 Women want .... a guy that can solve problems.” While women cause the problems. Intentionally.
Too true
Men need to learn this phrase when it comes to women. "Sounds like a you problem, not a me problem." A woman's colours are revealed once you use this phrase on them.
Tyler Bolaski I have realized God dictates the mating process. It was designed that only 1 or 2 women are right for you. The rest, no matter what you do won’t work out. It’s not evolution and women don’t care about money. Most women hook up with their mate in a mans youth where he has no money. God made women as the ultimate motivators to men. If your ways pls God a woman for you will be your reward. Notice everything in life that men desire motivates him to be better. This is the way God makes the world go round.
@ this is pretty brilliant. I've come to this conclusion as well, but this is the capstone of statements. Well said.
Nailed it. That’s their play. Chaos.
Very interesting points. Also to deliver a speech like this, without stumbling, while driving, being so calm is impressive. Thanks for this
While I agree...you can also notice he is always doing it quite safely as well. Driving very slow straight line highway type road and only ever getting passed. Not sure I have ever seen him pass a car
Guys talk best while their gaze is focused on a low concentration elsewhere like driving, hunting etc. Women want to talk eye to eye but men typically have their gaze averted to watch for the prey that might walk into their line of sight to hunt and kill.
You just need practice! Telling same things round after round year after year😀(although nit bad things obviously). It’s like working on the sane conveyer on the factory I suppose😀don’t overrate every other person. You are capable yourself! Believe in yourself!peace to everyone.
Womens' sense of entitlement knows no bounds.
Gynocentric that’s the social order. It worked and had a functionality to it that progressed the species across millennia. Now what we have however, is the same social order based on male disposability with misandry integrated at every level. This will be a catastrophic failure and women will be the ones that suffer from their own doing.
They seem quite narcissistic to me !
You'd be lucky to find a women who doesn't fit that category.
I have realized God dictates the mating process. It was designed that only 1 or 2 women are right for you. The rest, no matter what you do won’t work out. It’s not evolution and women don’t care about money. Most women hook up with their mate in a mans youth where he has no money. God made women as the ultimate motivators to men. If your ways pls God a woman for you will be your reward. Notice everything in life that men desire motivates him to be better. This is the way God makes the world go round.
TheSophist2007 I have realized God dictates the mating process. It was designed that only 1 or 2 women are right for you. The rest, no matter what you do won’t work out. It’s not evolution and women don’t care about money. Most women hook up with their mate in a mans youth where he has no money. God made women as the ultimate motivators to men. If your ways pls God a woman for you will be your reward. Notice everything in life that men desire motivates him to be better. This is the way God makes the world go round.
I've been married twice. If I had talked to this guy 20+ years ago, he would've saved me tens of thousands of dollars in legal fees, therapy bills and untold heartache. All of it with my eyes wide open. This guy is completely spot-on!
Wow. Thanks for sharing
They are all such good lyre's though.
Depends on the woman and your ability to reason and adjust. I have been married twice too and while the first one was too crazy, the second one is perfect. 11 years together.
P.s. alright... not perfect. She is a little 🤪 too. But more manageable.
It took my alpha brother 8 marriages to figure it out. Yes EIGHT
If I could get a do-over starting at age 16
When my divorced mother was killed riding a bicycle, I would have made so many better choices. Totally lost all
good sense of a future and responsibility. Hard lessons, inheratince wasted, painful relationships, dumb behavior, no goals, no mentor. How I made it through to 64
Is a miracle.
Women: "You may know my past, but you don't know *me* or my future!"
Any rational thinker: *Past behavior is the best indicator of future performance*
That’s true because human behavior, but past performance is not indicative of future results.
Yes because her past decisions demonstrate how she thinks, try and change your thinking, it ain't easy even when you set out to do it.
@@jeffreytran7173 Found the white knight! Nah, just messing with you bro...
😫😂👍
Your facts, statistics, and rationality are nothing compared to the power of entitlement.
A lady with 2 children is a major challenge. If you have a high tolerance for drama, Ex showing up, and never feeling secure in a relationship with her. Is a lot to deal with. I did it more than a few times. Don't ever
In my teens and early 20s, I was a beta, I was broke and thirsty. I became aware of female nature in my mid20s, then I begun to focus on myself. I can say now that 5years later I'm wealthier, healthier and happier oppose to had I played the game or God forbid, got married.
I own my own home, no debt, have disposable income, I can have all the fun I want, a positive net worth in the 6 digits and growing. Ultimately I plan to retire by 35yo.
I wouldn't be able to do this had I continue to beta.
Remember men, YOU are the prize.
Thanks man, 23 now and working on my sh*t
As Someone who is broke
I'm really interested on how to start my way out of this hole
Do You have any tips?
Im 25
@@homerlol9058 get a 9-5 and begin investing every montj
@@homerlol9058 for every one of these supposed success stories, you get 100 losers. Only the 100 losers never tell their story, because it's embarrassing and noone wants to hear it.
Most people are working class, and average wages are quite low. Society needs the workers to run the country. Can't very well only have rich people that spend money, if noone is showing up to do their work for them.
Then there's the unemployed, because reality is, there just aren't enough jobs. There's also the ambitious people who try hard and despite their best efforts never make it, and who might have risked too much and landed on the streets. And then there's also people who are just born without any talent, physical or mental, and who can never amount to anything, because they're just not capable. That's also a reality.
Long story short, do your best, but don't be fooled that you're guaranteed success. And don't risk too much, or it might just backfire on you, possibly very badly.
My brother said it best: “she belongs to the streets”
Blaze Cicero yes she belongs to the skreets
💯
Dan Blizerian !!! The author of “The book of Misogynistic spirituality “ himself !!
We fug them hose too but we don't love them hose
Future created this saying. He's actually hilarious
"men are expected to share their pot of gold; women are not." Never heard that before, but so true for most couples.
This is fact bro.
In the community property class in law school the first thing the professor says is, " The law says that what's hers is hers and what's yours is ours."
This has changed slightly, but the judges in Family Court who decide "Dissolution of Marriage" cases (what was wrong with "Divorce"? An old useful word.) all want to be white knights and find ways around prenuptial agreements and around the idea of no fault divorce and no alimony.
Word. My mom pulled this shit on my dad when she joined the workforce in the early 80s. I am not sure how he got her to see reason, but he was the sole provider for the first 15 years of their marriage up until that point. Eventually, my mom got the message.
This is an awesome video. I wouldn't be shocked if most or all of the dislikes are coming from females. I'm sorry but this guy is hitting it on the head. That "entitlement" thing he's on about it so true but rarely said. And most loser guys will try so hard just to hammer these women that even after these fading women are clearly on the decline physically, the losers keep them thinking that they're entitled to more.
That's why I wouldn't marry
Great stuff. Years ago a dating coach told me "only focus your energy on people whose interest level matches your own".
Solid advice
True... Women are more concerned with our futures. 3 years ago I had a heart attack and was in the hospital for a couple of weeks... My girl bailed about a month after I got out. It took me about 6 months to get my finances in order. I ended up more secure financially when it was all said and done. It just goes to show when the going gets rough, some get going. I'm doing great now.
Briffaults Law...
Don't laugh. My step brother got MS and his wife divorced his ass within months. He died with his Dad taking care of him. And the whore had the balls to try to remain 'friends; with his family,
No they are not. Most women have no idea what time is. They dont perceive it with rationality. They live in the now ans that why they constantly change standards and men.
Success is the best revenge.
A friend had been dating this girl that looks like a model. One day he announces he is getting married and introduces us (a few of his friends) to his future wife. It wasn't the model and she wasn't as attractive. One of us decided to ask, "Why are you marrying this girl? The other one was much more attractive. His response, "Yes, I could have married the more beautiful one, but not a better one." That stuck with me to this day and is advice I give to younger people in my life. I followed that advice and have been married for over 30 years to a great woman.
Great advice 👍!
I just dumped a pretty one, much more attractive than me. What a cold-hearted bitch
Models.........severely damaged individuals!!
@Sound Engineer Тенист You may have missed the point. What I understood him to mean is that there is more to a person than physical beauty and you have to factor that in before you can determine who would make the better spouse. It's not about controlling women or keeping them "in check".
One thing I can’t stand is why is it the pretty one can’t be the better one . It’s always the pretty one with some severe issue somewhere
I've been on both sides. The Beta second choice, and the Alpha she wants back. Guys women NEVER make rational choices on a dime. Know their nature, have fun, move on when it's time.
SAME bro same
Well said.
amen dude. brought back a hot one from the edge of the plank over 300 times I bet. Eventually got sick of the disrespect it put on me. And I find she wasn't as tight or as faithful as she lead on. hypocritical ho. emotionally physically who knows, but as you said, "have fun and MOVE ON WHEN IT'S TIME." I should've always prepared for this moment. But I got naive.
well said.
This I like and this is where I make the mistake, I try to correct them if I see something is not right when I should just observe what they want, give them and move on. At the end they feel I am.shwoing off or showing that they are incapable.
Rich, thank you for giving advice in a common sense way. Was married for 32 years. She passed away in 22. Miss her lots❤️. Good things take time.
I've experienced more unconditional love from my dog of 10 years than any woman I've ever met. Includes family btw
Are you a nice person with good hygiene?
I second that. No woman has ever loved me unconditionally like my dogs. Or been as faithful.
Want to be happy? Don't get a wife. Get a dog and have a steady girlfriend who doesn't live with you. You're welcome!
@@jz2981 you guys understand that a dog can't love you the way you need to be loved....that's like when a mother makes her kid her emotional husband. Ur dog is a great source for comfort, but that's not enough affection for humans...
That's.... really sad, man. Esp the family. But, I do understand.
Dogs are so lovely
A woman’s past ? Take a close look at her mother. Study carefully in ever aspect. That’s your key blueprint.
YUP ( THE MOTHER ) BECUZ THAT IS WHAT YOU ARE GOING TO END UP WITH !
Left a top notch girl because of how her mother acted. After a couple years I noticed her emulating her mother, no dice.
Not always. My exes mother was a saint. Raised five girls while her father was deployed multiple times. A good Godly woman who is fiercely loyal to her family and husband. Her daughter? Street trash.
Great to hear! My parents were immigrants from Mexico. Didn't know a lick of English but they learned. Both my parents bust their asses and my mom got her foot in the door working for the Board of Education in NYC. And she hooked my dad up with a job. She earned her Bachelor's and my dad his Master's. She held my dad down and they never disrespected each other/never cheated. My mother is so drama-free and such a well-behaved woman. They are retired and travel the world now. I learned my hard work ethic and quiet demeanor from my mom :) She appreciates my dad and they are truly best friends.
@@perlitalaguna6622 and, see you turned out great. Mine wife on the other hand was running around town cheating, the same as her mom did, was stubborn and would never listen to any good advice, always screwed everything up, never told the truth, covered things up, did inappropriate things, after her mom passed away, her grandmother was even worse than the Mom, and she fell right in with her grandmother ! I don’t know how I e end stayed for 3 years? I should have left in a 100 days, or got an annulment. I could tell you more, but it’s too long. I knew she was psycho, but when she stalked me to my attorney’s office and pulled out a gun, my attorney understood why I wanted a divorce!
"Girls only want boyfriends who have great skills."
- Napoleon Dynamite.
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣
Nice bike...ever do any sweet jumps?
Why are you laughing ? We have scientifically proven that only 20% of men are ABLE to get laid unfortunately. The ones who didn’t have great skills either got extinct in the past or had to settle for leftover women.
Ha ha. Who is Napoleon Dynamite?
Men don’t be too discouraged, there are still some good girls left. I was a good girl. I married at 25 and was still a virgin. Honestly. But I lived in the country on a farm. My Momma always told us girls, “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”. 😬👍🏼. So all the guys around knew that what I had wasn’t for free. For perspective, I am now in my 60s, so this was back in the early 1980s. Anyway, fell in love with a city boy while I was working as a receptionist at a CPA’s office. He owned his own real estate business and was single. He of course didn’t have a lot of money yet, but I didn’t care-my heart wanted him. We got married almost 40 years ago, and he is still the only man who lights up my life. I have been totally faithful to him and we have three grown Sons who have never given us a bit of trouble, other than normal stuff like coming home early in the morning-instead of midnight. Lol. This is to say that there are good faithful women out there, but they might not be city women. Start looking at the country women. They are more down to earth and have seen what being a good wife and mother look like by watching their own parent’s marriage. So don’t look down on a girl because she doesn’t wear the latest fashions or wears two sets of eyelashes. We are just as feminine as the city girls but with less pretensions. We are more realistic and pragmatic. Treat us like a lady and be faithful to us and we country girls will reward you with a lifetime of devotion and joy. Just throwing out a ray of hope to you guys. It’s what I told my own Sons. If you want a city girl bought up in the bright lights, that is what you will get. If you want a girl raised in the country who is sweeter than honey and is more used to going to high school and college football games and can actually cook meals, then start looking more in THAT direction. Go to some country fairs. Start going to some more rural churches. That’s where the ‘good’ girls are. ❤️🥰👍🏼
Don’t bother, it goes against their narrative.
Friend o mine got out of the military yrs ago. He is sitting in his seat on a jet and sees this blonde get on and quietly wishes she would sit down in the seat next to him. That she did. She was Tammy Wynette in her prime. My friend said she talk about herself the entire flight. Next.
You got married 40 years ago, women were not so corrupted back then, shallow social media didn't exist. It was completely other age.
Us men do not help the situation. In our teens and twenties we want girls that will sleep with us, girls realise that if they don’t sleep with a boy he will move on. Then we hit our thirties and we want to settle down and have a family. We of course look for a “good” woman for a wife but by then the majority of women today in their late twenties/thirties have been around the block a few times and are contaminated and unfortunately the majority will remain that way. I like the old saying; “A taste of honey is a dangerous thing” 😢
There may still be value in your advice, even with social media evening things out. Probably the smaller and more conservative the community, the more true it might be. Thanks!
"You're not her first choice". That's good. She's NOT my first choice either.
I was saying the same thing in my head... lol
My motto is their all just options to me . and just some past time. That's it .
You cant be like her 🤷♂️
Chokes on her lol
This is not true, my current boyfriend is my first choice, and no he does not make or have more money than me, I am just in love with him because he is a good person, handsome and has a bright shiny soul. I hope you find your love and first choice soon!
Best relationships I've ever had were the ones who were so upfront about their past. It's almost comical to hear the bad stuff from them. The ones that bury and hide their past are nightmares.
Do you live on Elm Street 😃
Why would you want to hear about a woman's past? Pretty gross. It's like hearing about their worst dumps. Some stuff should be kept to yourself, unless someone is asking. And maybe not even then. Leave the past in the past, where it belongs.
@@rationalthought9979 knowing someone's past is important to have an understanding of why they are who they are today. It's important to know who someone is sexually, emotionally and physically. If you know that a women did next to nothing sexually but she has desires that her ex(s) weren't able to satisfy you might want to step up or if her ex(s) were a bit too adventurous and she didn't like that etc.... as a partner you want to know the history to have a good future. Its like navigating the ocean without a map and compass. Wouldn't recommend it.
@@rationalthought9979 you must be a woman lol
@@setme4ree a lot of men that don’t ask about your past aren’t interested in something long term with you
His book “Unplugged alpha” drilled this into my head:
Chase excellence ALWAYS. Never make a girl your priority. She should be a compliment to your life NEVER the focus.
When you chase excellence (your body,career,hobbies etc.) you become high value and YOU will be the one she seeks and YOU will be the highest value alpha she’s ever had and HER FIRST CHOICE. Don’t settle for anything less than her first choice. And don’t settle for nothing less than excellence.
Damn....what a powerful statement.
What if you have a family? Shouldn’t providing for a woman and your children be a priority?
@@ilikepancakes2368 That's after you've attracted the woman as he described. Once you have that woman and start a family then of course that's your focus.
A complement is not a compliment! "Chase excellence by all means".. may I suggest: start enriching your vocabulary; use a dictionary!
I love your no BS approach to this. Keep it coming.
Approach women with the same caution and skepticism that you would a used car. It might be a single-owner, low-mileage, great condition scenario, but then you have to question why the car was dumped on this lot to begin with.
Maybe the previous owner had to size down and couldn’t afford the fuel bill? Don’t hate on women.
@@davidgilde6296 I drive a lagonda. Still have problems with poontang!
Lambos are pricey to fix and maintain. So strap that seat belt on. Maybe two of them. Honda’s & Toyota’s, etc aren’t, but you can still get a new or lightly used one. 😂
Approach men the same way.. Usually dumped by a woman for same reasons ..
Very good analogy...
"I'm a strong independent wahmin, I don't need no man". Ok, off you go.
F... Feminists who talk like this
"Nooooo I didn't mean you, I didn't mean it like that, why are you so meeeaaan???"
Then as soon as she says that tell her. Unlock your phone and you'll find many men on her whatsapp
Oussama Samari tried to make an egalitarian relationship work with my ex wife during 10 years... need I tell you how that story ended?
I am getting tired of reading that on every red pill video reply section I have seen in the past 5 years.
I don't know why women have a hard time with this fact; men genuinely don't care how much you make. It's literally irrelevant to us unless we're looking for a sugar mama
You are correct and I find this weird in a way. I think both sexes should care about finding someone on their own level. That said, I did have a man tell me his ex gf could not cook, didn't make any money, didn't pay any bills AND she had a major mental disorder. I said to him, "Wow, she must have been great in bed or something because I don't know what you saw in her." Some men like punishment... smh Both sexes need to make better choices period and accept self-responsibility for their parts.
Agree 💯. I’ve never consciously cared or even thought about how much a woman makes. Men just care about a woman’s looks, personality and if they can take care of the house and kids.
To be honest , career woman are a turnoff.
We don't care, but when you have to pay the bill, better be prepared.
Dating no I don't care. Living with me yes. Be prepared to pitch in. I'll sit down with you and we can hash it out. This is what everyone needs to do before living together.
@@Shatamx Agrees with you, getting along is more important than being on top.
Hi, Rich! I wanna thank you for your work, I came across one of you videos about 3 yrs ago, I was in a toxic relationship and it wasn’t getting anyway (he’s divorced with kids and much older than me) I had low self esteem and always tailored myself for his needs. But your videos made me realised that I could waste all my time and I’m not getting any younger (values decrease) and I broke up with him and found a nice guy who’s treating me the way I deserved and we just had a lovely daughter together, I can’t be happier. I also appreciate the fact that you stated about men are willing to provide and protect women (I always struggle letting others looking after me and was always the one to give and provide in the relationship until meeting my husband, I let myself loose and being vulnerable, and he’s very capable I don’t need to worry ab anything)
1. 1:15: We’re more concerned with a woman’s past, while she’s more concerned with our future (earnings)
2. 3:47: Women have an overly entitled sense of self-worth today.
3. 10:02: There’re no good girls. “The only difference between good girls and bad girls is good girls haven’t been caught yet.”
4. 12:25: You’re probably not her first choice.
THANK you.
That’s why hypergamy is in full force. Beware!
I learned most of this from my mom… she taught me about women from a young age.
@@luiscarrillo2454 God bless your mother I didn't have that privilege so thank her 4 that😉
@@hermesalonso3968 thank you! 🙏🏼
So, she's looking for a man in their late 30s making 400k that's physically attractive and also an alpha male type? There aren't many men that meet that standard to start with and those guys have so many choices I can't see why any wouldn't just pick a women 10 years younger with no kids.
I meet most of her requirements, except income, and it's easy to find women in their late 20s or early 30s without kids. But, some of these I had dated seemed to not be over an ex or had serious emotional issues. Guys need to realize they should only get into a longer relationship with someone that is really into them and not just settling. The signs for this difference might be subtle but they're clear if you're being honest with yourself.
All women are settling.
Not to mention men who make that much aren't typically alpha males. They're nerds
Why would I want a long time relationship give me agood reason I can't think of one?
amazing how much women think they're worth while reality says otherwise
yeah, but that type of guy wouldnt want a GILF with midgets. she should buy a gigolo like men buy escorts. or just live alone with lots of cats.
DiCarprio has it figured out. Date em’ young and trade them out often.
Jesikah Maximus hit the wall the hardest
Figured out how to create chronic physiological chaos :(
@@KarrieHH
It's called returning the favour.
Girls my age are psychopaths and I'm 34. I can only imagine how bad 20 year Olds are today with all the social media.
They're all frigging insane
I’m 34 and was dating a 25 year old not too long ago. Red flags from the very beginning and I ignored them which led to her creating problems and ruined everything. We stopped talking. She came around a few months later and I cut her loose after 2 weeks. They really do feel entitled to you while offering little to nothing in return.
Yeah... they are ALL crazy.
I just dumped my 20 year old girlfriend I’m 32 don’t make the mistake I did… They think it’s OK to text multiple men that she says are friends she is a huge flirt she’s super jealous and she’s so immature she won’t wake up for work or doctor appointments she crossed my boundaries and I can see the writing on the walls so I walked and blocked her number. I’m also not gonna fall for her BS tricks so i get back with her… Trust me just block the number and stay away don’t fall into the trap of letting her stay the night or you’ll just have sex
@@MudMotorsMax I made the mistake of marrying and having a child with the girl u just described 🤣
Women with high notch counts "belong to the streets." Perfect.
This is why most divorces are filed by women and why divorce rate is so high because most women can’t pair bond because of their body count after they get through high school and college let alone young adulthood
ctguitarguy yup that’s what I was thinking
@ctguitarguy You have to use context clues. If she's really an undercover hoe usually there are tell tale signs. What are her friends like? Bird ofa feather flock together. What's her social media posts like? If you are in a relationship she should be ok with you checking her randomly checking her DMs.
The ones that have hoe backgorund are most likely cheaters because they can't pair bond with one man.
@ctguitarguy its simple in my case, on first date rudely asking how many men she sleep with, look at her expresion voila
It's an ENTANGLEMENT
Girls need guys with resources. That’s nature. We are different. I hear you brother.
As a security guard at a hospital, the nurses or other female medical workers ignore me. I quickly figured out why, I dont have the status and resources to be attractive in their eyes. Other female staff, like pharmacists and regular staff do notice me since they're somewhat at the bottom like me in the hospital hierarchy. Considering the threat of false allegations in the workplace against men, this works in my favor since I'm not on the radar and I do my very best to distance myself from females.
I'm playing the stealth game as I make plans to better myself.
@@BertReno truth true
@@BertReno you were born a man for a reason. It can be a curse, but if you are disciplined you will be more rewarded than any woman in history. You have to give up the flesh
unknown unknown money in today’s world.
@@seds94 yes so true bro
I was Married when i found out my wife was meeting guys online on dating sites, she met one guy that she was into and was even trying to convince our 13 year old daughter to choose this other over me, and was trying to convince our daughter that this other dude was better but it broke our daughters heart and she was angry with her mother because me and my daughter are very close
Shes in self denial blaming you for her actions. I know same shit happen to me. They don't care about their own daughters feeling. Like he said guy prior N.P.D. black souls .Shes jealous because you have a relationship with your daughter. She knows she can't or will never never live up to you. Because in the end you won .
@@kjc1878 yeah she not only blamed me for her online dating but blamed me for her problems getting along with our daughter. The whole experience made me turned off by the idea of getting Married or living with a girlfriend. I don't see myself doing it again
WTF
Lmao that sounds painful
NPD
Hey, I'm a lady and I've been listening to your videos for a while (less than 10days). I respect your point of view and believe you really want to support men and help them. I'm originally Iranian and lived most of my life in a country that masculinity and manhood is highly appreciated. After living in the Netherlands for 4 years now I clearly see that a society that is supporting both men and women as humans and not only objects (sexual/success) have indeed a higher level of mental health, and live happier. I myself have a lot to criticize and yet the feminist and activist indeed mislead the society at some points but I still would say both men and women would benefit more if in the first place we consider that we are all human.
Thank you and regards
We already know they're human. That doesn't mean we have to put up with ridiculous and impossible behavior. Humans acting poorly do not get a pass for being human. True liberalism is a living death where whataboutism can be used to excuse the worst behaviors in human history.
This video is pure gold. It may take time for me to convert from some of the "anger stage" I'm in regarding my ex and women currently to positively accepting "female nature" tho.
if they're not worth loving, definitely not worth hating.. don't worry, it'll pass
With you on that one. The one good thing is I now glare at all women and they seem to think I am intense and interesting or challenging them and are thus attracted to me. Little do they know I now have an underlying seething hatred as I now know their true self.
Tuxtux 14 freak
@rvhron08 100% true brother
A woman is never satisfied. You can only entertain her for so long, then it all turns pear shaped.
Yeah usually it's her arse :-)
💯
That's why u never take her serious..and she will always be there for u..
You Got That Right..
>>...then it all turns pear shaped.
DOUBLE STANDARD IS REAL...
It against the law dude
I read The Unplugged Alpha and just starting The Rational Male series. The first thing I heard that made sense in the language of the manosphere was in the movie As Good as it Gets.
Receptionist: “How do you write women so well?”
Nicholson: “I think of a man and I take away reason and accountability.”
Deep. And true.
There's only one solution to all of these problems. Just find what makes YOU happy. Hobbies, working out, doing business etc. To each their own.
I like to smash though, it's hard man, smh.
You got it, but I would not say just "hobbies," which may be important sometimes, but which can also be trivial. The point is that married or single, a man's happiness cannot be defined by his relationship (or lack thereof) with a woman, but by a sense of mission or purpose in life, by something higher or greater that he strives for. The sooner a man realizes this, the more fulfilling and meaningful his life will be; happiness then tends to occur as a by-product.
Great points. I actually experienced the 4th point myself, exactly as described.
I had the talk of where we stand with this girl I dated for a month. My intuition told me she’s not invested in me and potentially seeing other guys. So true. I found out later. Broke up with her and never looked back. She never cared to try and ask me why I broke up. Never gave a damn about me. Listen to your intuition men. It will tell you the red flags early on.
I'm finding myself ignoring them on a social basis. Sure, I can talk but you'd better be certain she's hiding something, or not giving you the true person you're giving away information to. And, I've learned more, and more don't give them any money because they'll spend yours, and bank theirs.
Don't be silly. Women dont bank money they piss it away on useless crap.
@@garbonratslayer1387 and then they have the fucking audacity to tell you not to "waste" your money on hobbies and to "save" it, when they can't even leave a penny in their piggybanks
Garbon Ratslayer, yep.
Big B0ss, that would be logical, but my ex - who almost never had a job - avoided that by simply spending everything I earned and sometimes more at great interest or penalty expense. Sometimes she took $5,000.00 a month just to spend on herself and her friends. She never urged me to save or not spend on things I wanted. Then she did me the favor of filing for divorce.
We were in a good state for equal custody so that was not a big concern.
We were close enough to both kids’ getting over 18 and out of high school so I dragged my feet and stuck it out for five more years to avoid the inevitable debacle of her spending child support on whatever she liked and then asking for more for kids’ real needs, maybe blowing that, too, and coming back for still more on a regular basis - even if the kids got older and decided on their own to spend more time with me. The state would have been on her side in any dispute over child support so I think those were years of headaches well avoided.
We then negotiated a classically good/bad agreement where everyone is unhappy about something, but it’s not so bad for either. She’s been dragging her feet for the past year, collecting agreed separation payments and taking months for every little thing. I now have enough residency in a different state less favorable to her so I just let her know she needs to sign what we agreed to or I’ll file here. She promised to act this week. We’ll see.
@@brookeking8559 It's unfortunate to hear about her disgusting greed and lack of care, it is hard to find good wives these days, but at least your kids do love you, that tells me you're a good father, so good on you for this part. I hope everything goes well for you in the end, and JESUS, 5K A MONTH? That woman had no idea what money is worth and what it takes to even be able to spend it, that's a good riddance
I made the mistake of accepting a womens past. She left her first boyfriend for her second, left her second for her third, left her third for me, left me for the next...and the cycle continues.
What do women want?: They want more.
Joaquín Fernández they want everything
They want everything men work so hard for with less of the work involved
Exacto amigo, así de triste y duro....
@Chidi Akara there is more than everything
@@felipeiturreyes3385 que terrible amigo. Tomemos (bebamos)
My wife left me and I was going through cancer. I beat it. Now I have a live in girl friend from Brazil half my age. Thank you Ex, best think to happen to me.
@jill zafreak she makes 120 per year in SAP and doesn’t leave my house. why would she care about that? Did I mention she’s smoking hot. All my friends are jealous. I guess American women have a skewed view on life!!!! That’s why I would never do another one!!!
@jill zafreak pffft
I was in a LTR for 5 years. I watched a few of your videos 2 years ago. I disregarded them , cause I was happy, meanwhile I was disregarding red flag after red flag and forgiving all sorts of shitty behaviour. I always received an apology, but never punished disrespect with leaving the relationship, I wasn't strong enough. Now, 5 months into single life, I'm amazed at how blindsided I was. I even pitied single guys, I felt like "I made it, I don't have to worry about being single now". It's funny how we all repeat the same mistakes. Well, I'm back in the tribe, bros, this time I really took the red pill. Will be 33 tomorrow, btw :)
The way I read this is you spent 33.5 years being a beta and finally saw the light almost halfway through but glad you’ve done it
I used to think the same way man. I feel lucky to be single now. More time to focus on what I need to do. Things get put into perspective after a shitty relationship. Gotta fail to grow.
What does LTR mean?Thank you.
@@sergiukawa it means "Long Term Relationship" (You're welcome)
Where are you from?
Rich, there’s nothing I appreciate more than someone who spits the raw Truth. Just found your channel. LOVING the content brother. A genuine thank you.
This was good. I was nodding along at certain points throughout until you got to the last one...which was more of a bat to the face. Wife and mother of my children up’d and left me for a client of hers (makes big $$$) a few years ago when I treated her well, was 100% faithful, and loved her despite how much she sucked at times. But I had indeed made so many concessions, all along thinking I’m doing right by her (and instead ended up not doing right by myself) so by the end of that 9 years I was just a shadow of my actual self. It’s hard to make your way back to the correct mindset and emotional state of a healthy, stable, strong adult man after that kind of trauma/emasculation...but content like this helps with the process. I appreciate it. You got a new subscriber.
Keep going Bob. Life does suck, but you can make better decisions when you have the fact about yourself, and the situation.
Peace, wish you the best.
If I may say a word, stop looking for reassurances from outside, look inside. You sound like a smart man, so you'll know what to do. The right lady may help, but instead of looking for her dig deeper inside. She will show up when you are ready. Also, never take the first one, there are plenty.
Expect her to look for a way to return to you someday. Don't ever take her back. They all do that after realizing what they've lost. I've been there; done that.
Yea i feel you brother. I'm going through something similar.
Bob, I am wondering if, psychologically, she is Narssistic. Am currently reading up on that character trait (coz my girlfriend seems to be one) & it appears to result in what you have experienced. Look at vids by Doctor Les Carter.
‘She didn’t sleep with all of them but they ran a train on her face’😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣
OH YA, AND NOW YOU WANT TO KISS HER ! AFTER A MASSIVE FACIAL, YUK GROSS !WE WERE AT THE POLICE DEPT REPORTING A ROBBERY, THEY BROUGHT IN A HOT HOOKER AND CUFFED HER TO A DESK ACROSS THE ROOM MY THEN WIFE KEPT STARING AT HER, I TOLD HER TO STOP. FINALLY THE HOOKER LOOKS AT HER AND SAID WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT, THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN YOU AND ME IS A PIECE OF PAPER! ( THE MARRIAGE lICENSE, WHICH AT THE TIME MY EX DID NOT GET IT AT THAT MOMENT! ) NO TRUER STATEMENT HAS EVER BEEN MADE BY A WOMAN, I ACTUALLY WANTED TO KISS HER ! FINALLY THE TRUTH!
He saw the video of NoJumper haha
So she had a moment of complete submission to men and poor judgement - perhaps intoxicated. That’s what you want isn’t it?
@@MattGarcyaDC yes, that’s why I put the quotation marks in. Wasn’t trying to say they were my words!
Before we were married, my wife sat down and shared her whole past, warts and all. And she gave me her list of expectations of the future with me: her goals, her dreams, her expectations of me and her understanding of what she should do.
To me thats a hell of a green flag.
@@ericaman5393 green flag or red?
@@freddyj5845 Green. Shes being open and honest and looking to the future. Right there you get to decide if shes a good fit instead of investing in her just to wind up finding out SHES CRAZY AS FUCK.
Sounds like an entitled woman. It’s not fair to put expectations on others as they shouldn’t bend themselves to meet your expectations. If she leaves because of it, so be it.
@@ilikepancakes2368 Having expectations is fine. If you tell someone your expectations and they are not willing to meet them, it's time to go seperate ways. Assuming she's telling the truth, talking about expectations is awesome behavior.
Everything in this video is spot on! I’m 67 and lived through all of it.
If you don’t believe go to any dating site and read what women want. Then if that doesn’t convince you read her description of her self then ask your self why she’s single and looking.
A woman is never yours....
It’s just your turn !
No I'm not hers it's just her turn
My life says otherwise. 3 long term girlfriends fiercely loyal to me. They are free to cheat but don't want to.
@The-Happiest-Friends-Blitzgang yea.. that stings
The-Happiest-Friends-Blitzgang “ What.......is a man?” 😂😂😂
Very true! All you got to do is enjoy moments with women, casual sex, have fun... Other than that marriage is a no ....
Ladies, if you are waiting for the perfect man, don't wait too long because when you find him, he won't like you very much.
the perfect men will be when he reaches 30 alone and is in best shape while she crushed into the wall while she is telling everyone "Where are the good mens"
LOL.
This is profound man
Good chance they will meet their perfect man after he has married a woman who treated him with respect early in the relationship.
We're not all waiting for the same types of men.
Every woman wants a man who is perfect for her or suits her wants and needs. I dont want a man that every girl wants or can be with lol
I've had an escort once tell me with a straight face that "clients don't count". lol
It’s like a car rolling over from 999,999 back to zero.
🤮
I mean, to me 'clients' count WAY MORE than regular boyfriends, & I'd like to know if that ever happened to a chick I'm with. For sure that girl's next boyfriend will never hear about it, ever.
😂😂😂😂
Bro I was seeing a escort without knowing. Until she told me she made £4000 p/m helping in a hair salon 🤣😂
She was so fit, but I could not commit!!
It’s awesome getting to hear this info. I’m 41, seemingly on the brink of divorce, and strangely, just about the same time my wife started heating up the divorce rhetoric, a few girls in their early to mid-twenties at the office started flirting with me heavily. As tempting as that seems at 41, I already see major red flags with these girls, so if the divorce happens then I definitely will NOT be following up on those “leads,” lol. Much respect for your content, Rich!
Get a lawyer. Hit the gym. Go be the best you. Don't buckle and fall apart like I did. I believe in you bother.
No man, go with the flow and smash them when you get the chance and since you're a red pill guy now, you won't fall for their BS!
Follow the leads but don't sign the deeds
Going through the same thing at the moment. Good luck!
Go ahead and have a fling or two with those office girls. If you don't, when you're 60 you'll regret it.
Just recently went through a second break-up of two 3 month relationships back to back in a 6 month period. The first girl 10yrs younger than me and the second my same age at 35. The same problem spawned from both... they took a lot but gave back next to nothing on any level. I have to say that 4th point really opened my eyes. I wasn't the first choice of either and it showed. Basically I suffered a death of a thousand betatizing cuts trying to be what they claimed to want. I'm glad my brother sent me this video.
you gave too much too soon! Don't.....LOL!
@jill zafreak He clearly is only committed to himself.
Just found this guy today. Great content for real. Just learned that I've widowed quite a few women in my life, huh. This stuff is really accurate though guys, take notes. For me personally, the more I focused on my purpose and direction in life the more women launched themselves at me. It's counterintuitive. NEVER "chase" women or desire them. Focus on becoming the best man you can be and have direction in your life. If you do that correctly your only problem will be sifting through all the women and picking the one that you want. Stay strong and focused boys!
My mom always gave my brothers this advice " always marry a social level below you and she will worship you". Unfortunately, social media has changed this because now all these unrealistic expectations are being put out there..........if you ask men need to stop entertaining these kind of woman.........if they are in social media then don't even go there
The #1 statement, they're looking at our future, we should look at they're past, hit home. I have incorporated this mentality to my boundaries and its saved me a ton of time and drama. Thanks for the vids, they have helped me immensely to understand and move to a more positive place in my life.
I'm a 59 year old man who learned a whole lot today
You learn something new every day.
Watch his entire catalog of videos. It is like a master class of female nature. Stay safe out there!
Better late than never!
Sir please unlearn what u just heard
It's never late to learn something new.
If you ever feel like getting married, just find a woman you hate, and buy her a house.
oh, that one is good!
Cut out the middle man of marriage
Who cares what they want, half the time they don't have a clue what they want! Always follow your own agenda, be willing to walk away.
The only correct answer to "What do women want?" is "Who cares."
100% agreed
@@Etenel master alpha pill
Never lose sight of that “ Be Willing to walk away” there is so much power in that trust me I have recently did it after a 2 yr relationship and my ex can’t eat or sleep and sends pics of herself crying lol 😂
@@Etenel
Lmfaooooo
I needed to hear this right now, been going it alone for awhile and the temptations to settle for less are creeping up on me. Thanks for all your advice
Rich. I'm 67 and just watched your vid for the first time. Thanks so much for sharing these incredibly accurate and valid takes on "today's women". I've had my share of beautiful ladies, plus I've made lots of money in my career. But now I find myself living in a one bedroom apt after getting financially and emotionally raped a few yrs ago by my second wife; who was a typical "nobody" with a good divorce attorney. You have a great awareness of today's "modern woman". I hope your young subscribers listen to your awesome advice!
Much respect sir sorry that happened to you but seeing what you wrote here just further validates the messages in the videos.
Damn. Sorry to hear that. I’ll never get married
@@Noah-pk7tf I don't think that's the answer either.
@@MarlonMoralestriment maybe not for you but it’s subjective isn’t it
Your not alone in your situation. I've even met guys whos x wife's now date the attorney that represented them in the divorce.
Liked this faster than a beta-male taking his ex-gf back after she cheated on him with his best friend.
You just painted an after school special in my mind with your wordsmithing. "The more you know!"
How do I like the video more than once?
BAHAHAH 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
On point 😂🤣
😆😆😆😆😆
I went through hell when I was with the devil but now that im with an angel, life is heavenly!
Excellent!
Fabulous Public Service broadcast.
At 66, I'm smiling and shaking my head in a rueful manner at the red flags I missed/ignored in my younger years.
(And God Knows, I'm paying for it now.)
Great Job Rich!
Feminism is making it harder for females to find peace and happiness... I find that funny really funny
That's cool but does your wife look like a ninja?
@@maryasuestark5208 wives
@@maryasuestark5208 very stupid comment
@@Cosmic0Baby it's a joke not a deek ;)
@@maryasuestark5208 Damn🤣🤣🤣
If you want me to treat you as a queen then you should treat me as a King...Period.
True words have never been spoken.
I’m thinking about you younger guys out there. I’m in my fifties and wish I had such easy access to this kind of wisdom when I was your age. Would’ve be life altering and would’ve led to a lot more happier times, more often.
Father Guido - Same here. Passing on what I know to the younger guys is the biggest reason I'm active in red pill comment sections.
@@stevet6665 I'm gay and don't want to have any kids ( meaning I also don't want to get involved with single dads for the record ) so I will never have to worry about this , I'm here out of pure curiosity of how can some men put themselves voluntarily in such a mess, also it makes me feel a little better on a side note that its impossible for me to become a single parent by getting impregnated up by some Alpha chad Lol and have your whole life altered by pure lust , it really does feel good .
But anyway , you guys are amazing for trying to wisen up the younger guys who fall on this crowd , and by helping them navigate out of these honestly insane situations , you will spare them a lot of needless suffering .
Thank you .
@@SillyDanny21 - Thanks for your kind words. You are fortunate to not have to worry about the many issues that straight men have to navigate with intergender intimate relationships, especially when children are involved. I understand your curiosity, because the topic is interesting to me also.
Most of the younger guys get into trouble without really considering the full extent of the risks until it's too late. Some of us older guys are trying to help them to realize and consider the risks before they get into too much trouble and then they can make their decisions from that level of understanding.
I know that the relationships you pursue also have their challenges, though, so I wish you good luck and happiness as well.
@@stevet6665 Thank you 🙏 You are extremely kind to, and the level of awareness you have is fantastic as well since you even mentioned that my kind of relationships also have their challenges, we need more people like you.
with that being said
I wish you the best to! ☺
@Richard Gos what?? 😂 I don't understand, what do you mean?
I do not want to marry anyone (it can change with time but unlikely) so I'm having a hard time understanding you.
I've met women that think because I'm at work all day long taking orders and being told what to do that I'd also be comfortable coming home and being told what to do and how to do it. They were wrong. One boss really is enough. I've even had one woman who told me that we " have " to sell the motorcycle but she was wrong there too, there are always alternate solutions. In this case I kept the motorcycle and lost the woman. It wasn't completely easy, I had to get used to not having my every fault, real or fictitious, pointed out to me, and making my own decisions, and having plenty of money to do anything I wanted, but sometimes you have to live with the consequences of your actions.
If my ol lady tells me to get rid of my bike, she's out the door. Aint happening, she knew I was biker before I got with her, and I will continue to be a biker with or without her.
Social F'ing Media is the root of point #2.
No it just demonstrates who they are
Bingo
@@christophermirkovich7290 but also acts like a catalyst
Chateau H listed, and I paraphrase, the three seminal events which formed the glass the modern Western woman is poured into: the vote, the pill, the smart phone.
"Pursue excellence," always vet, administer Vitamin N in large doses.
Great video. This video is a perfect example that great content trumps everything. Just a smart guy, unscripted, in a car, dropping relevant knowledge. Nice.
Rich about that LTR. I have been single most of my life, and at 63 I have been married twice for 1+ year and for just under 7 years; so 6 years total. The only thing I did wrong was not recognizing Narcissistic Personalty Disorder, in those two women. I learned about it during my second divorce. It was an epiphany that came too late to change what was. That is just life. Life throws spitballs and curve balls at us regularly.
I am not a quitter, but I like being single. It gives me most of the positives of marriage, without the negatives of a divorce. I just have to not keep one woman for 7 years straight to avoid a common law marriage. With women's sense of entitlement and selfishness that they are taught from childhood, what man in his right mind would want them? I always ask "What do you bring to the table, other than yourself?" It works like a cold shower on them when they want to get "serious" I usually get silence as an answer. After two bad experiences with narcissistic women I always have an exit strategy, just in case.
You are dead on with point 4. 90% of women think they deserve and can get the top 10% of men and they make lists to get those men. Sometimes the things on the list are contradictory, but women have no problem with holding two contradictory ideas in their heads. Which explains why women can pick their second or third choice and still secretly chase their first choice or Ex. It is just how they are. I hate it when men who have been abandoned or divorced blame it all on their Exes. Sometimes I want to say, "Grow a set, be a man, and admit your own responsibility for your failures then you can get on with the business of living." I have given myself that speech in the mirror several times, and it works well for me.
If you married two different narcissists, you are drawn to them. Was either parent a narcissist? My mother was a narcissist, so my second husband was a narcissist. I didn't realize that control didn't equal strength. If you look at and acknowledge your pattern, you can break it. You can be attracted to nice women, not self-centered women who want to control everything you do and isolate you from your friends. Good luck.
Excellent video, my friend. This guy deserves a medal for speaking hard truths.
Here's an example: When I was 21 I met my soon to be ex-wife. She was a little younger than me and a very pretty virgin. We struggled through a three year marriage and then divorced. We were both "A" types. A couple years later she wanted to get back with me. She was having a hard time selling herself, I guess. She also wanted a successful daddy for our child. She felt it was important to tell me about the guys she had been with during our time of separation, as well as the sexual experiences she had learned. Like, that was supposed to impress me? Wow! I always loved her and would have done almost Anything for her, but no more. I could Never accept what she had done. To me it was like an affair she had through the legal process of a divorce. It's too bad that she was always looking for "greener pastures" and never found one. We could have had a very nice life together. Oh... she also used our daughter as a tool against me. I certainly don't have trust for women anymore. I can't forget her past. Her past also tells me her future.
she sounds mean spirited, rubbing your face in her escapades. That is total disrespect, even if cloaked in 'honesty'. co-parenting is your fate, but I never chat with my ex, I just pick up the kid and drop off the kid. My advice, find a dojo and learn a martial art. It will reinstate your inner warrior and strengthen you. Good luck...and never let her talk above you
Dude, I was the victim of a narcissist (psychiatrically diagnosed) and I can't even begin to tell you how much damage she's done in me. I had to recover my sense of self-worth little by little and crawl out of the hole she left me in.
Sorry for your loss sir. I pray you begin seeking a deeper relationship with God. Our focus must always be on Him first, our purpose, then family.
You’re the man. Keep building brother
Congrats dude you still have self respect 👏 you're better off than most men. Just remember not all women are like that, there's better ones out there but always remember it's in their nature to take advantage you just gotta be the man and set the rules. People will treat you how you allow them to.
Excellent towards the end on the nature of the weakening of the relationship by a thousand concessions.
Here is the secret to make women happy: You don’t
Bill burr said it best
... don't try
Here's my secret to make women happy. Get out of their way and let them do what they want to do
@@brandonwombacher2559 oh thats a nice idea but why there's article like this???? "Where's have all the good man gone" "we want a traditional relationship" "I'm unhappy that my husband make less than me" etc yada" didnt we already let them doing whatever they want nowadays?
Here's my secret to a woman's happiness , let her be someone else's problem.
You absolutely hit the nail on head with that last statement.. Speaking from experience.
Men age like wine, women like beer.
Love it!
Beer? I would say like a chicken salad sandwich.
like a tomato
Bitter from the start and even worse as they get older, I like it, lol.
Like tuna that’s been sitting in the sun all day.
My older brother. Women have chased after him all his life. Good looking, successful. Hit it on the head one night when just us two brother's were hanging out. Talking about stuff. When he said this about women.
"The thing I learned about women is. That they're always going for the next best thing."
My brother explained it like this: When a man and woman hug, the man closes his eyes. The woman keeps her eyes open, always looking for a better deal.
Martin Price: it's called "monkey-branching," aka "sleeping their way to the top."
Yep, I got divorced after 20 years of having a sister-in-law involved in my families life. I found that all the women that I met are looking for someone to take care of them. It is not happening!
@@jamesbreeden3061 yup. When I became single again. I noticed my happiness came back. Never again.
@@martin2560 same here, its like my equilibrium is back.
The only reason women are interested in men's income is simply because men share their income like he said. Why would men be interested in a woman's income, they don't share.
Very true. It's rare to find one that will share willingly.
That is so damn true. I never thought about that until now.
They are more interested in picking winners. You could win at many things, income is for most a key indicator. If the woman is already rolling in money, it's not that they're after a rich guy because they are after gold. It's just that their respect for everyone that earns less than them, is now insufficient. Some women are snobby towards guys.
Like he said they wait at the finish line 🏁 Hypergamy declares 80% of women are interested in the top 20% Alphas@@warwickdumas2573
This is the one point i disagree with heavily i see so many Loser's men a lot of them are betas that completely leach off of their girlfriends life, some of them even take care of the kids(stay at home dads) and if that rich woman lowered her standards(idk why she would lower it so drastically) she could easily find one of these betas to be a stay at home dad for her.
Just subscribed. I’m a 35 year old married male. After a 15 year relationship things have changed a lot. Trying to get back on track on many different aspects and fields
They hit the wall in their 30's. They'll put on weight and their looks will fade. Men will no longer be interested and will stop chasing them.
That is if they workout and maintain their bodies
Hard pill to swallow and I know I had a hard time to accept it but.. A woman would never be 'mine'..
All I know is that my success is what defines me.. And regardless of whether I got a woman beside me or not, I know I can count on my success for my survival and the livelihood of those who I hold dear (my family)..
I wish everyone the very best! ✌🏻
That’s real shit
@Proud Goy No Soy Boy
Exactly! Some men don't realize this(black pill) reality. Unfortunately, we NEED a woman to actually CREATE a family of our own! Otherwise, we are just another failed genetic code that couldn't compete with the Alpha codes or the stupid codes that just happened to create an alpha offspring after he eventually got red pilled(usually when we are past our prime). Luckily we can extend our prime over a fairly long period(with a little hard work IF we're fairly healthy & not plagued with too many injuries).
"Betatization through a thousand concessions." What an absolutely telling phrase. Well said, Brother!
She was never yours, it's just your turn.
@@adamwarlock5286 True, true. "Who's next."
I saw this happen to my Drill Sargent step father. He died a broken shell of the man he was when he met her. They were always broke from their poor decisions and his inability to put his foot down with her. ON his death bed, I asked him any last advice. He said he had none. This broke my heart because he was a Vietnam war veteran who years later thought he had no good advice to offer his son.
@@adamwarlock5286 Wow, so well put.