I am 33 years old and virgin. I am looking decent and my clothing is business casual and good. Still no chance. I am a 6,5/10 and still looking too ugly for the women world. Over 700 rejections offline and online more than 1k but only till I was 25. After that no more chances online no likes, no matches, no respones on all social media. 50-60% of this offline rejections laughed at me, insulted me, sabotaged me, looked down on me. With words or actions. Doesnt matter if in the supermarket, university, sports gym, library, normal on the street. But I wasnt moked in general I was popular and everybody thought i had plenty hot women lol I WAS LIVING A CONTRADICTIONARY IMPOSSIBLE LIFE WITH 2 SIDES So Porn...never really addicted. Maybe 20 times a year when i was teenager, later in 20s some year zero some year 20. Nothing that matters. So didnt matter in my case. Still no good enough. And I am confident. I did a experiment for 3 years before corona and cold approached 300 women each summer and maybe 50 in winter, fall, early fall together. 90% were super nice and complimented me without me asking for it: you are so nice, charming, authentic, good confident personality, you make feel special. Maybe each year 20-40 numbers? And? Zero. No date, no nothing. Like from teenager life to now when mostly women were agressive and said in my face without me even knowing them that i am ugly disgusting and what the hell I am doing at this party or go away from this chair you dont need to attend seminar in university. All that kind of stuff. STILL REMEBER I WAS NEVER THE LOSER AND POPULAR still living both lifes. Many women played with me or tried to. Their psychological game. They fuk around with all kind of bad men and violent men doesnt matter. They do it freely and they even met rapist men several times before dumping them So what I am saying is who cares about porns or if you watch it or beeing addicted. Nobody isnt getting women because he watches porn or is addicted lol Its just a sad world and society: Money, LOOKS, STATUS Thats it. And I had zero standards and tried to like women with personality but still even ulgy or old or drunk or old and drunk or ulgy drunk old or or or ALL REJECTED ME LOOKED DOWN ON ME AND LAUGHED AT ME. 30% DIDNT but some also admitted they like me or even have little feelings or interest and THAT I AM 100% THE PERFECT DREAM MEN BUT ONLY AS PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER AND THAT THEY CANT OVERCOME THE FACE LOOKS EVEN WHEN ITS ONLY AVERAGE So watch it is cheaper and free than a fake women in your life sucking out your money
Hello! My name is Kyler, and I am 13yo, and you have really helped me. I have had very low confidence due to my skin, and also have been very addicted to corn. You have helped me in quitting and also helping me find a purpose in life. Thank you, Jak.
I'm 21 years old, I think I've had this bad habit for about 7 years, the money is to thank you for making this video, I find myself with many of the things you said, I can't afford to waste any more time, today January 8, 2025 this bad period of my life ends. I'll mark the date, in 2 months (March 8) I'll be back to write that I'm out.
@@Ogagu how is it going. It has been about 5 days till I didn't done that thing and this is the longest time I have ever achieved. Also I am going to a trip and I think it can further help me. Good luck and I will try to give me updates.❤
Thank you for gifting us your courage and your humility on this weight. I have experienced this addiction starting when I was 12 or 13 years old, and I'm still struggling now that I'm 26. Half my life has been consumed by this lust and I have been fighting for a long time. There were certain moments where I have this complete revulsion, the most absolute disgust in my soul that was telling me to get rid of all of it, it was spiritually painful. Temptations still lead me here today until I watched your video in full, and I rarely sit in one sitting without skipping the video. I just want to say again thank you for this confession. Stay strong.
I'm a woman here but i just wanna say spaces like these, that men like you help create is so beautiful to see. I do wish to see more men supporting men, in a meaningful safe way emotionally. I notice men tend not to have as much support so im very glad to see this! Much love to all you brothers, i know you guys can get through this! Im praying for you. Thanks Jak for being vulnerable for the sake of others
I'm a woman and a mother, and these comments and what this young man has done by sharing actually brought tears to my eyes. Typically, NO ONE speaks candidly and honestly about going through this and people feel isolated & their addiction grows. It thrives on darkness, on shame & secrecy and self-loathing. Keep sharing and supporting each other! 🙏
As a man as well that has struggled with this but as quit for about a month now, this space is great for men but I think both genders need support from this as well because there are women out there that struggle with this problem as well as there is a percentage of women who do watch this stuff as well but it's an issue that more talked about in a male perspective which I think it should be more talked about in a general perspective for both genders.
@@HolyAura7it affects men more than women, women can let go of it easier and it’s also easier for us to be celibate. But this is a topic that needs to be talked about more I just found out by this video that men struggle with this and it’s affecting their mental health, I pray they break free from this 🙏🏼 consistency breaks habits and patterns you can do it!
Dude I'm leaving this habit behind at 30th of December and hoping of never coming back to it again and wish to start a healthy life from the new year, thank you bro! ❤
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
This is my first time giving someone a superchat,i am quitting this addiction today and right now 29/12/2024.Thank you so much man for showing us the right path or rather I say we already knew the right path but you guided us to how to go through it and gave us the courage to take action at the right time.THANKS A LOT BROTHER.
no, you're not. Don't even think that you can quit it that easily. All of us(men) have been through this a million times("This is the last time!", "I'll start on Monday", "Just this one time", giving promises to God, etc.)
Quitting from December 25, 2024, at 3:12 PM. For anyone reading this on April 20, 2025 (my birthday), please like this comment. I promise to return and thank Jak again! :)
@@Zorojouro00 Best advice I can give you is the will to keep pushing forward, never give up and What benefited me most that being Christianity and God
your really strong for making this video, i would never share any of this with anyone yet you put yourself out there and help teens, thank you so much for this
I have had a really bad addiction for around 2 years now of doing it once or twice every, single, day. It really started 4 or 5 years ago but it only became a real addiction from about 2 years ago. And I thought it was completely normal because it was the "cool thing" to do in my school. Everytime I felt like watching it I simply did without question. Only in the past week or two have I realised how horrible it is. And it was largely due to me simply sitting outside at around 3 in the morning, I couldnt get to sleep that night, and I just sat there simply thinking about everything that I had done up to this point. And I realised that I wasn't who I wanted to be, the me that was sitting there at 3 am wasnt the true me that I wanted to be. And it was almost as if something just clicked in the back of my mind, and I realised then and there that something needed to change. Ive seen your videos in my recommended for a while now but i never truly sat and watched them and taken what you say to heart. But this video was different, it almost felt like you were an older brother that genuinely wanted the best for me and I actually took it to heart. This comment is probably really difficult to understand and thats probably because its pretty much just me writing whatever comes to mind. But starting from now I really, truly want to overcome this addiction. Starting from now, December 29, 4:13 Adelaide time. I will get through this to prove to myself that I can overcome this. Thank you Jak, you have had one of the biggest impacts of my life and I seriously cannot thank you enough.
Many people I'm sure can relate to you brother, I definitely can, 100%. I understood every word you said. You did not need to gift the $10 bro but thank you very much, idk at least use it as a reminder for this video. As I said at the end, it's worth it brother. ❤
@@Zovori dude grow up your a grown man talkin about beating your shit on a video of another grown man talking about beating his shit. Yall saying your addicted is hilarious 🤣 I needed a good laugh
Hello Jak I am a 13 yo teenager that had an addiction to corn and this video made me realise the affects of corn and what it does to a human body. This video has helped me in quitting and made me found that their is an bigger purpose to life. I sincerely Thank you, Jak.
As a 17 yo girl, who is struggling with that same pain of discipline, you're like a piece of gold I found on thousands of grains of sand, thank you for making this video cause my motivation on getting better was very very low. Praying for you brother.
This is the first time im using this feature on youtube to show my appreciation, I wish I could give more to show how thank full I'm for this video. it truly relates to my addiction and how I want to break out of these chains, and shows me that it is possible. thank you for sharing this experience, it really helps a lot. "the pain from the regret is bigger than the pain from the discipline" - Jak
Unknowingly I started doing this at 5-6 years old and through out the years I've realized because of this I've felt a subconscious guilt/shame it felt good but wrong. Since I started so early in my childhood I believe that it made me closed off from people, scared to talk to other kids, it made me real sensitive, and disconnected from other kids and worst of all trapped in my thoughts,, scared thoughts,, thinking I was weird or wrong for doing this and feeling this way. . I would be so strongly lusting after a girl that it would have me stuck thinking about the girls body until I did something about it. I believe it had me closed me off from having good childhood experiences, making friends, and becoming confident earlier in my life.. It's normal to feel attraction to a girl and it's best to talk to the girl and use that energy to do things that will make us confident in ourselves. To the younger kids out there talk to your parents or someone you trust about it. Do not feel bad or sad this is what millions of boys do just remember it is best to speak to girls and make meaningful relationships with friends. Use that energy to work out, read, play, get out of your comfort zone do good things...
@@NonameSama-ko4pg I mean, not sure what you put into your comment, but it makes the people feel bad for what they did in childhood, like they are wrong... but they are completely fine. It's not the sex, it's rather the result of process of learning about yourself
8 Years. I needed this video more than I realized. Thank you Jak. Thank you. Thank you. Ive sat here for nearly ten minutes, filled to the brim with shame and remorse, crying worse than when my ex and I broke up several months ago. This video has absolutely, completely broken me down. I need this, every. single. word. You have given me hope that this addiction can actually end which means the world to me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Words cannot describe the admiration that I have gained for you for giving me this gift. Thank you.
Stay away from corn. I saw corn when I was 8, and a year later, I started looking for corn of little boys and girls and I found it. I only stopped after police knocked on my door
I had so much potential when i was a child , every girl in my class was attracted to me and i was very athletic but after the day i started doing it , my energy got lower and lower. I am doing it for like 8-9 years and never felt more low than now. I have lost all my focus , i dont have energy anymore , i am not athletic , i am skinny , i just want to get out of it. Your video gave me a hope , Thanks. I will never so it again , i promise.❤
ive never used super chat but I appreciate u very much, I’m Marr! Im a 14yo , And I’ve been addicted to corn for a while maybe 11 months or so and the way you talked about the symptoms and what was happening to you I felt like you were talking about me. it was so alike It was like you were speaking on behalf of the same symptoms I’m having, and this video has not only just made me want to quit but I want to live like my old self again. back maybe 4 years ago my cousin introduced me to it but not until around 2023-2024 did I start really doing it and my light has disappeared more and more, It had already took my confidence I started to feel anxious didn’t want to speak to any girls stayed inside all day , and day by day it got worse and I’m here to say I’m going to quit. ill be watching this video a lot but one day I’ll comeback and let you know that you have helped me restore my life, and if your reading this anyone you can do it too. Prayers to you all and thanks Jak ❤
I don't even remember how things in my life started, i think I have been with 5 men older than me and two guys of similar age in childhood , of which one guy is still my friend with benifits, however luckily I didn't get trauma, I just wana get true love now .
I have so much respect for someone who brings out so much honesty about themself. And you are an absolute soldier to do it and SPEAK YOUR TRUTH Lots of RESPECT
Hi Jak, My name is John and I just wanted to thank you for making this video because it helped me a lot. You seem like a very nice guy and it's great that you stood out and shared this with RUclips. Thanks again!
Jak you’ve become a great inspiration I’ve struggled with this since I was in the seventh grade I’m currently about to start my second semester in college and while I don’t do it as often anymore I wish to quit this semester I got quite attached to a girl and well it didn’t really work out I made it like 25 days but when she ghosted me I fell back in the loop, today December 28th at 1:30 am I am quitting porn, taking you as an inspiration it’s just a matter of willpower and I’ve made it this far I’ll make it farther because of you bro. Genuinely, thank you man 💪🏼 I mean all I’ve learned from my experiences has to be for something, also this is the first time I’ve used this RUclips feature my man but you deserve it I genuinely think I’ll make it not just because this video has inspired me because I actually feel understood about this issue for once. Cheers from Mexico my man🔥🇲🇽
We are in the same boat bro. That breakup really fucks up your mind and takes you back to that stupid loop of jerking off. Lets not indulge in this anymore, lets give it up for good and come out as a stronger and a better individual on the other side!
Today I wanna quit as well. My situations a bit different, I’ve never actually watched any porn, but the deed is my issue. I have an extremely vivid imagination. It started in 22’ and I wanna be done. We’re in this together bro.
Ur amazing and ur super encouraging mate, really takes a lot to do this. To share all that to people cuz im sure this helps lot of people! Glad you overcame yours and i hope millions will be inspired by this. Simply hearing your story made me happy man! Heres a little bit of my appteciation.
i'm so glad i saw this. you have inspired me to stop i'm currently 13 years old at the time of writing and I've had the addiction for maybe 2-3 years now so not very long compared to some. I discovered, 'what i can do' probably about 4-8 months ago and i think me stopping has become a lot easier because of you. I've tried without help before and i lasted 2 days max. my parents found out recently i heard them talking about it and i remember the panic i felt in that moment and because of that i lasted 10-12 days without it before i regained the confidence. I just wanted to say thank you for this video. I have pinned it to the top of my screen so that whenever the urge comes i can look back at this video to help stop the urge. i believe you have changed my life. thank you for everything. i will report back on my progress every month.
I’m going on 24 & I’m still fighting the fight! Started at around 11-12, and did it for 10 years without conviction. Wish I was your age when I realized its impact. Best wishes and good on you for trying to break free at your age in this time!
I started watching it when I was 10, been almost daily ever since. I'm 19 now, and when I was 13 I really didn't think anything of it. Of course I now realize how much it's screwed me up. I just want to say if you're trying to quit now, please keep trying. If you can quit now. I guarantee your future self will thank you huge. I know I would've.
Im a 15yo female and i have been off m*****ing since new years. Ive been doing it since i was around 12/13 and right now I feel like shit and i have no friends. When u said you felt like a kid again I genuinely started weeping because thats all i want, my happiness back. I really hope i dont fail, and i am going to try to wait for marriage for anything sexyal. Thank you jak i hope u see this so u never stop what ur doing
This is battle where you fight with yourself and it's doubtful that anyone can win it for you instead of you. Things that can distract you from falling into gap are your hobbies or other things that give you good emotions, emotional drive. May be you want to practise martial arts or wushu or climbing high rocks? If our mind and your psyche requires impressions and moving - listen to yourself, what can give you those? Hope it can help you to hold on.
change doesn't happen in one day. if one day you start masturbating again, i want you to remember that you can change and that what you just did is just a mistake that you should not take again. you are a good person, i am sure you have great things to accomplish, don't give up.
I'm 17 and had a similar experience to you, please please read *Easypeasy way to Quit Porn* . Its 130 pages and you can finish it very Quickly (its also available online) but trust me It will change your life. Nothing else like willpower method, Cutting down worked for me and this was completely different. The book is completely different and opposes the conventional ways of stopping. The book makes you see no value in porn and makes stopping literally enjoyable I promise I'm not exaggerating, I have experienced it myself. Read it, the worst that could happen is that you remain the same as before but on the opposite you will escape the slavery of porn. Wish u the best, you ca def do it.
Jack, I'm probably the millionth person to say this, but your content is saving lives. Genuinely. Saving young men's lives. And dont worry about what you're saying to be 'cringe' because we don't find it cringe at all. Thank you for having the guts to share such an embarrassing memory. It gives us teens hope. When I sit here in bed and ask God for advice, a few seconds later, I get this notification on my phone that you posted a video, so I watched it. Your content is like a guide to a better myself. You help us improve by sharing your story. Sorry if I sound like an npc or whatever, but we love you, Jack. We pray that whatever comes your way is able to be handled by you. Sorry for the paragraph, lol. EDIT: Thank you for the love in the replies, and sorry, yes, his name is spelled Jak, and yes, he saves women's lives too. Sorry
quitting on 24 december, i hope this is the gift that i wanted so badly in these years and now im quitting to have a better life. Thank you Jak, you saved me forever Edit 1: I’m going to start reading books and watching this video everyday and more movies so I can get more motivated to quit corn forever New year for you guys and happy 2025❤
You may times said this might be cring but it's not Thankyou for making this video it gives me courage to quit it, I'll try to not lose to myself this time. Thankyou
42 years old. This cut deep. It is worth it. Incredible bravery and courage for this young man to make this video and share it with the world. All the props.
At your age, you should know it is perfectly normal for young men to do it. There is nothing shameful about it and there should be no regret. I suppose one could bring a religious matter in to it, but, why would they be so concerned about this and ignore that?
Most of what he is saying is bullshit, masterbating and ejaculation are not bad for you and does not cause physical problems. There is zero evidence to say any of the semen retention stuff is true. Porn is bad for your social skills and can be addictive...but the act of masterbating is not bad for you.
3 million views in just 5 days shows how every one of us, boys or girls, is desperate to fight through it all and win against it. Thank you, brother, and much love from Morocco!
So brave of you to talk about such a sensitive topic! The fight is worth it. Definitly. Part of it could also be to ask yourself what was the reason that you fall in such a strong addiction. I have a lot of friends that where not getting into an addiction but I did. Later I realized that the ground on which porn was growing in my life was trauma from my childhood. Getting rid of the trauma leads a freedom where no porn is necessary anymore to silence the pain in your soul.
Woman here, quitting from Dec 28, 2024, at 5:06pm. Jack hope you know you're not only helping men, but also the (maybe few) women who also struggle with this. I've tried to quit multiple times, but at this point everytime i fail it makes more determined to try harder next time. I want to feel alive again, i want my bright personality and confidence back, and i think i can do it. 2025 is my year! I just know it. Thank you so much for sharing this vulnerable part of you with us, i was about to cry multiple times watching it, feeling really undestood and knowing this wasn't something just in my mind. Really, thank you, feel happy and proud of yourself I love you deeply brothers and sisters, you all are very brave and strong, i know we can do it!!! 💞🎉
the missing ingredient is making children sex is meant to create families. this is where shame comes from. committing the act without the connection that comes with it. i have 4 kids. with the right perspective its the best thing that can happen to a human. that drive is the force that allows you to create .if the drive wasnt strong everyone would opt out. i sure would have.
@Garandmasthumb yup agreed, but ofc having kids is up to each person to decide, tho i do agree it can be one of the most rewarding things a human can do
This addiction is ruining me, i have been trying to quit for a year and i still can't do it. I am writing this on an alt account so no one i know sees this. Please like this comment to remind me
@@nickmendezb2 That's false, it's a hard battle and doesn't stop with age. He should try to fight as soon as possible or he could even bring that addiction in his own family.
i quit today, Jan 1st 2025. i’ve been trying to quit so bad for like 6 months now and i decide the new year is my starting point. i’m currently 14, i started watching it at the age of 9 and that’s when i also discovered what i could do and at first i got happiness out of it from the dopamine but now i only do it because of boredom and i regret doing it as soon as a finish. i relate so much to this video from the confidence to the skin and the withdrawal symptoms. the first video i watched on how to quit was one of yours and i really wanted to quit for this girl who i was speaking too so i could boost confidence and just not look at the hub whilst in a relationship but after 3 weeks the urges were too strong and i gave in, i had no control over myself and i just could stop doing it 3 times a day after i broke the 3 week streak. i just want to say thank you so much bro for making videos like this, they help people like me out so much and i wish you the happiest new year a man could dream of
@ggiango117 it is really destroyed life brain 🧠 I have experience when you left just for 90 days then habit finished you will come at your original position for six months this habit completely finished
Jak, you have given me the confidence and courage to quit my point addiction. You don’t even know how much this video has impacted me and other teenagers like myself! My name is Caleb. I am 13 years old and starting year eight soon your videos have given me the courage to quit this addiction of mine and start my high school years with a bang! From this day onwards the 26th of December 2024 I’m going to quit, as the days go by this video will stick in my mind like porn did for you! Thank you! I know other 13-year-olds like myself will appreciate all the effort you took to make this video and help us quit!
This is not cringe at all man. You can't imagine how these stories helps me. Thank you for every single video, reel or some shit! You're just the best Jak. I hope you're gonna earn what you want in life. Thank you Jak!
it very much is cringe.its self riteous bigot thinking they should try to tell people to do stuff and its just dumb. parents are failing their children and letting them watch explicit content, its not ok for them but its also not wrong for adults.
This authenticity at such a young age age is truly remarkable. So many people are going to be positively influenced because you made this video. We need more people like you speaking their truths about their own addictions
@@cheesycarrotsoup That is how the world works now. Parents have to teach their children what is bad content and how to avoid it, put up firewalls against it. I'm a hobbyist video game developer, and I have been using Roblox for a couple years now. It is very remarkable to me how many young teens will work very hard learning how to program using this game Engine, so that they can do well in college and land good IT jobs. Point being, children can and should use computers to thrive in this modern world. cheers
@@pineappleparty1624 it’s wild to me that a parent would give a child full access to the internet. My parents absolutely put up multiple barriers at his age to avoid situations like this. Also Sex ed was taught at young age around 12. I used to let my younger son play Roblox but some creators make some brain rot games, some too explicit for kids. Instead of monitoring 24/7 I just let him play games that I know are appropriate based on reviews and the ESRB. No hate for Roblox some creators make some incredible games so deep they can almost be their own games.
I've seen this video a few times in my algorithm, but I would have usually ignored it. But this time, I decided to give this a watch and I never thought it would be so moving. I've been addicted to porn for about 11 years now. I wonder if my life would be any different if I never watched it back then. Thanks for this message, and for providing motivation for me to continue on this journey of recovery. Cheers
This reminds me of an old interview with Ted Bundy. He openly and honestly discussed how corn affected his mental state and how he had to start using harsher and harsher material to get where he needed to go. He said it wasn't what made him the monster he was, but it certainly helped clear the path. This is a great video and the longer you live with this addiction, the further it takes you from intimacy and ultimately humanity.
As a person who has gone through p0rn addiction and who has seen all sorts of filthy, disgusting, disturbing stuff online I would like to give you a perspective on what I feel. Being addicted to p0rn will not turn a normal guy into a psychopath no matter how much he is addicted. I remember when I started watching a lots of p0rn I started discovering various categories and stumbled on some disturbing stuff on deep web and never tried to look for it again because it was disturbing and it doesn't turns me on but the fact that these things happen on deep web horrified me. I never tried to go on deep web again to look for it. I didn't liked to think about that stuff because it just turns me off and I was fapping like 6-7 times in a day for few days. I used Instagram a lot apart from few p0rn sites. So, I think that being hypersexual is not going to turn an average guy into a psychopath.
I'm quitting right here right now. December 27 2024 12:44 AM, and I promise. I'll pray to god everyday, I'll get up and go on walks or runs, I'll focus on my basketball career, and I'll do anything to improve myself, something to make myself proud. My break up was 6 months ago and i don't feel any depression anymore.. instead I feel motivation. motivation to be the person i want to become, to work hard and push myself during my workouts, to fight that urge. If my friend I've known for 4 years can beat it so can I. And I'm not making this comment to fit in with the likes or clout, but to set a reminder so that I can read on this specific video only. And every time I feel like I'm gonna give into this urge I'm gonna watch this video again and again and again.. Thanks Jak and everyone here quitting, this story just sparked something in me. Much love guys, you can do it. ❤
Just cause porn has been normalised doesn't make it right so stay strong y'all and remember to reach out when you're suffering Edit: lemme rephrase since people sound like they wanna kill me 😓. Yeah porn has been around forever if you wanna watch it go ahead everyone is entitled to their own views
18:01 “not going back to day zero, because the pain of regret is stronger than the pain of discipline”. Dude, what you said right here has stuck with me. Thanks man.
It gave me same motivation. I'm also quitting this with u and trust me the way jak told his story I got emotional as it was same for me. Quitting this with u on 27 dec..
Motivation never lasts long enough to help you overcome your addiction. It took me ages to realize that despite being told 24/7 about it. Discipline and exactly knowing the value of what you're trying to achieve is what takes you further away! Keep pushing
I’ve been struggling with porn addiction since around 14 or 15. I’m 27 and promising myself to never go back. I found this video by chance and the way you spoke like I was there with you made all the difference. This addiction is serious and needs to be brought to light. Thank you
@sunskies12yo bro im a ryan aswell im 18 bro listen to me you need to stop it. imagine your parents are there watching you do it. it destroys you. stay strong.
@DishJetPro yo thanks bro that helps bro i relise now its gross and i need to stop today i havent watched any i fell better about my self i think i used to do it casue i was always bored but im gettign my shit together thanks bro have a good day edit- btw i jsut subrscibed to ur channel
I am in my early 30s and I have battled this since my teenage years. I am Quitting today, December 28th 4:17 PM. I will use this to hold myself accountable. Praying this starts a revival for young men addicted everywhere to quit and find true happiness.
it's the best way to relieve tons of stress. you'll understand when she divorces you because she was cheating with your best friend and takes everything because you didnt have a prenup. happens to many.
Its not that big of an accomplishment. This is why your generation is trash. You think the smallest of things are accomplishments while all the other generations are laughing at you. Female millenials are tougher than zoomer males.
This really hit me, thanks for sharing your experience, rather than cringe I appreciated your courage in telling something that maybe can really help someone, so thank you, and congratulations on where you've arrived. A beautiful video, sincerely.
The urge was always there, a siren song pulling me into a dark, isolating world. Porn had become my escape, my comfort, my prison. Then I started microdosing. The cravings didn't disappear overnight, but they lost their intensity. I found myself drawn to real-life connections, to the beauty of the world outside my screen. The grip of addiction loosened, and for the first time in years, I felt a flicker of hope for a life beyond the digital abyss.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
This level of honesty is really beautiful and powerful. I am a 40 year old man and I still struggle with this. I take a stimulant for ADHD and it makes it way, way more difficult. I have bi-weekly custody of a 3 year old, and the weeks I have her it's very easy not to. But when she is gone it's such an easy way to escape the difficult realities of my life, I always find myself going back, and I always regret it. I think it makes me weaker in every way. When you don't really want to do something, but you give in to the urges. You'll be more prone to give in to your weakness everywhere else in life. And I have seen that in myself. It's like a constant battle.
Hi, I am quitting from Jan 22 , 2025.... Please like this comment to remind me [I know it's not gonna be easy but I will make it happen. Thank you Jak for encouraging me. ]
Don't quit. Don't reach your full potential. Go ahead and waist your life. Keep chasing dopamine hits like a good little boy. Or... be a man. It's all up to you
Hi buddy 🤗 It's 18 JAN 2025 and today I START MY JOURNEY TO WRITE THE STORY OF A BETTER , GREAT AND LEGENDARY LIFE. TO LIVE A GOOD LIFE AND FINALLY FINISH MY STORY .
You have to find the thing you love more than the the addiction and let that be your coping mechanism. Even women struggle with it too but if you stick to beating the addiction and seeing it through, I promise, it’s the most rewarding feeling ever. Knowing that you are no longer a slave to your feelings makes a world of a difference. It’s true growth.
It will get easier after it gets harder. And then, once it gets easier, there will be a lot of days , even weeks, where it gets hard again. I’ve been off for a couple years and there are still days. It’s worth it though. I am so much better for it and you will be too. Good luck
Its called what I call Clockwork Oranged yourself. After said movie of same title. They forced the guy to watch so much tv he couldnt stand to watch it anymore. This topic is the same, you watch so much of it, you cant stand to see it anymore, but don't confuse it with the occasional healthy and natural need to purge the pipes, else you'll go crazy and cant do anything because you are blocked up.
From a women’s perspective, this is extremely admirable. Telling your story without any shame, being 100% real, and with the compassion you showed, is so amazing. You’re helping many people. Lots of love to you. You’re not cringe. Edit: Its admirable because of how vulnerable hes being and how hes breaking the stigma of these topics. People are too ashamed to talk about these very real natural human experiences. As for the being a women, I cant say i understand everything hes saying because im not a male. Iv had bad experiences with my sexuality as a very young child 5-9 so i relate in a different sense. Boo hoo cry me a river 😉
Would you mind sharing what are the main points here? “Extremely admirable” is a strong take. He wrote in title “never” again, bold claim. Curious but not overly committed!
@@zefix3133 From a mexican perspective, this is extremely admirable. Telling your story without any shame, being 100% real, and with the compassion you showed, is so amazing. You’re helping many people. Lots of love to you. You’re not cringe. - 🙂🙂☝🏻
@@zefix3133she mentioned that she is a woman because the video was made for men. I guess she just wanted to say that she finds the content valuable even though she’s not the target demographic
I’m not a bro. I’m just as addicted as most guys out there. 1/19/25 I am quitting. Please, please remind me cause I’ve tried before to quit and it’s so hard. Much courage to all of you out there.
Beautiful video, thank you for being so honest about your experience, i think its genuinely helping so many, both men and women (yes women can totally develop corn addiction even though its not often spoken about). Addiction is a terrible disease. Anything that can provide pleasure in any form has the risk to turn into addiction, yes substances and corn but also video games, cyberaddiction, sports, food etc... And getting out of addiction is extremely difficult. I never experienced corn addiction but i did over video games in a moment of my life where i was extremely lonely and my self esteem was very low. So many symptoms you described is shared through every addicted person. Like lower confidence, lower energy, depression, everything feeling like its boring, the inability to connect with others, not just corn addiction does that but every addiction can do that. Theyre all consequences that often comes hands in hands Ironically over the years, i have grown to become a therapist who works in an addiction therapy center. Theres so many things i could tell you and inform you about what youve been through but that would simply be too long to describe here. I wish you good luck and health in your journey
Same. See now when I did it I just felt empty and like this is what I'm screwing over my life over for? New years resolutions doesn't mean going through the exact start. It means your strength through the year. We got this
,Quitting an addiction is difficult, don't be to hard on yourself. Don't let a slip turn into a full blown relapse, keep trying to abstain you can do it!
@@GodSavedMe88 It's not an addiction. You're a teenager. All teenaged boys think about is sex. Oh, and there is no god. Do your homework outside of your church. Try Dawkins.
Jak you’re actually godly for making these videos. Not many people (teenagers) would try and get a better life. But then here you are. At least 1.56 million people changing because of you. Your great man.
@@JakPiggott I am really glad your making these videos. The corn industry needs to be banned, its literally destroying the vitality of the youths, to married men. The addiction is real and one of the worst addictions, since it taps your nature as a man.
Hi! My name is Elias and i am 15yo. Your Videos help me to improve myself and my life. I also was corn addicted to corn wich pulled me down in live. I ignored my surroundings and my own friends. I felt so empty inside. But you are a man with a good heart. You opened my eyes for the world we live in. Thanks , Jak.
Man I needed this, it takes a lot of guts to post this online and admit it. I have mad respect for you my good sir. As of today december 25, 2024 I am quitting this destroying habit for good. Because of this habit I made so many mistakes that led me to self destroy my first relationship and hurt my girlfriend at the time. I have been wanting to quit this for so long since I have been watching since I was 10, I am now 23. I needed this and thank you so much man, I am done with this for sure. God bless yall.
I will pray for you my brother. God bless you and your journey on quitting. Ask God for forgiveness, and if you truly believe he has the power to help you, it shall be done. Philippians 4:13. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Porn industry is evil its demonic. It puts images in a person's mind of what someone should look or be like. Truth is women's bodys change after giving birth. Not everyone looks skinny n fake hot. Its demoralizing to real women so when you actually grow up to become an adult. You will start to turn to watching the films more if you let these demons attach itself too you like that. Break the cycle now dont ever look back. Your only 14 still a child. Enjoy being a child while you still can.
Hello, I am a therapist who specializes in PSB - CBT, which is problematic sexual behavior cognitive behavioral therapy for ages 7 to 12 years old. Porn is a massive issue with our kids. I really appreciate your video, your honesty, and I am going to share this video with my clients in the future. Thank you so much for this material, and thank you so much forsharing with the world about this spiraling addiction.
Can I ask if it’s possible to cure asexuality with treatment similar to yours? Basically the opposite problem but still “problematic”. I would appreciate if you point me in the right direction.
I was addicted to masturbation since the age of 9 or 10 it's been wild and this guy Jak just said everything that's wrong with me. Kinda crazy I ran into this video. Hope you help them realize this is a bad addiction.
Me and you have extremely similar stories. I want to thank you for having the confidence to post and share your story. I never told anyone about my problem because I always thought that no one could relate/understand. I always felt like I was completely alone with this addiction, but you helped me realize I'm not. Thank you so much, and thank God I found your channel.
thanks brother. genuinely, its been a fricking battle. I'm 13 and the last few years have been such a journey man, but I think I'm ready. the struggle made me who I am, and I will win.
You're still so young brother, I don't mean to condone the habit but 99% of guys your age are (probably) engaging in some sort of artificial sexual pleasure. To even find videos like mine puts you ahead of so many people your age. Take it day by day ❤
This is one of the most genuine and relatable nofap videos ive seen. Thank you man for posting this . Hope this helps me and everyone else whos struggling. Quitting today 30th December 2024. Will come back next week and every week thereafter to see that ive kept my word. Hope i get to follow through. We can overcome this guys!
I’m there right now. 2 - 3 times a day. Practically the same story as you, started at 10. I stopped when I was 15, and went a full year off. But my personal and social life went to shit, so I caved, and have been slowly falling further and further for 2 years. It’s almost 1AM, and I was just about to go and do it for the 2nd time but before I got off RUclips I saw this video. “In that moment, I felt like a kid again. I felt 10 years old again.” I haven’t cried this hard in a long time. I want that feeling back. I feel such intense lack of social connection and motivation to do literally anything. I want to feel free again. As of 1-20-25 at 12;41 AM, I am swearing it all off. I am going to achieve a better version of myself, the version of my that I know I can be. Thank you for sharing your story.
Quitting from Dec 26, 1:16 AM. Thanks for uploading this video, Jak. I can relate to you bro. I congratulate you on quitting and Now It's my turn. It's been long I've been watching corn. When I maybe 6-8 years old my elder brother (cousin) showed it to me for the first time. I don't remember exactly when but maybe after few years (I don't remember how) I've encountered it again and from then on little by little I'd do it. And I became more and more addicted to corn. I'd do it 3-5 times a day. In high school my friends would talk about it but same as you I couldn't admit that I watch corn and do it. I've also tried to quit but after 1, 2 or 3 days I would do it again. Maybe when I turned 18 or 19, sometimes I felt pain after doing it. After that I tried more often to quit, and I've managed to quit for more than 3 months but again I couldn't quit for good. And here I am now in my early 20s, I really want to quit. Through the start till now I've started hating myself little by little, sometimes I'd want to tear myself up, I can't even express how much I hate myself with words. And like you I started to feel like give up on quitting. While watching your video it hit me like I don't want to be like this anymore. Not able to be confident, do something new, talk to people, etc. For those who is reading this, I don't care what experts or researchers says but remember watching corn and fapping damages you more than you think if not by health it psychologically affects you, destroys your humanity, affects your way of thinking worse that you will fantasize by looking at every woman you see and much more bad things will happen to you. All that aside from today I am quitting fapping and I encourage you to quit too. Thank you for being with me and I think I've wasted enough of your precious time. Since English is not my native language, please forgive me for grammatical mistakes and also forgive me if I've offended you somehow.
you have already tried quitting means you have experience. i dunno how to express it but if you need someone to listen and help i might help you. apart from those i would say don't count days i mean try induling yourself with workloads so that you dont think of it it might be anything and for me it was boxing,spriting,study but still today i broke my steak but now my condition is much better than before i dont know about days but maybe i do it once a month . remember "you jerk, waste your time and energy and the conditions still get worse what's the point of these things then?" sorry for my bad english and if all these things dont make a sense , just forget it.
Thank you for being so vulnerable. Your video was suggested to me. I’m a 35 year old mother to a 8year old son so not sure why it was suggested haha. But I’m glad I watched this. You’re a brave soul for speaking out.
What he said about "the pain of regret, is so much stronger than the pain of the discipline" is so true. For ages I was ashamed of my body, but then I finally decided to hit the gym and do something about it. I can say now that committing to this day and still going, not missing any days, making myself train, has been the best thing I've done in my life. I feel way better in everyway and I'm not going to let any urges hold me down too. Much love Jak, you're a legend.
@@radybwoy7548Trust me man, block it out as best you can, find an alternative thing to do with your time and you will feel so much better with yourself.
thank you jak. you’ve changed my life and now i feel like a better person. like im not a failure to my parents and relative and friends. i am a sports player and now im playing a lot better and you have no idea how much this really changed me. whether you see this or not. thank you so much. i really mean it, thank you.
RUclips algorithms never fail to amaze me. I’m a girl and can’t really relate to your experience, BUT I’M SO IMPRESSED with 1/ your ability to conquer an addiction and 2/ your ability to communicate in such a compelling and powerful way. Thank you for sharing your story and making a difference for the young teens out there.
Also shouldn't have a breakup like he did from a young age, don't know how this became an American culture but guys, just ask your child , friends to be patient and wait for the right moment.
Did anyone else here first see it when they were a little child? I can't believe it's legal for websites to show it to us. It's shameful that it's so easy for us to find it when we're so young. People in power need to fix this problem now!
@@RaptorMo I saw corn when I was very young. Then I looked for child corn, and found it. Don't worry I changed my ways and I'm not looking at it anymore. But the whole thing of young kids viewing corn is crazy. Affects our little minds
I've NEVER had the boldness to say this to anyone. I have been addicted to porn, but today 27th Dec 2024 I have DECIDED that porn won't be my god anymore. I'll no longer give in to this urge, I'll fight it and I'll win by God's grace. Thanks for sharing, you gave me strength. God bless you.
@@EmmanuelFolorunsho-n1s I'm not a male, but in my experience an hour long hard workout makes me want to sleep so badly. Maybe you can exercise, jog before bed time so you sleep easy. cheers
Beautiful 🩷 your name is very special my friend! It’s a battle but God can help so much, I myself struggle badly with this as well, but we can make it through God
I'm an addict still trying to quit at 30, with a major part of my last 14 years being ruined by the addiction. I'm just so happy to see you shining so bright and aware and learning from your mistakes already at this young age. Gives hope to my spirit.
@@sougataroy2608 have had relationships bro. Girls come easy. Getting laid was never a problem. But the addiction stayed on the side too and it draining and very useless. Adds nothing to life except problems
From someone who has an addictive personality… Thank you for sharing your journey and experience around this subject. Not an easy thing but the world we are apart of now needs this more than ever. My middle school experience was fogged away due to this addiction and I can say it wasn’t as unhealthy but it played a negative role in my life. Keep up the battles my friends you’ve got this ❤
I was clean for almost half a year. At the end of 2024 I got injured and I would say hit a low I hadn´t really felt the past couple of months. I couldn´t do anything other than laying on the couch and playing video games/watching YT. I struggled hugely for 10 days, then I gave in... I think I did it 7 out of the 9 next days after that. Insane. Now I know why I failed, I feel shittier than before I did it, but maybe this was a lesson. There has to be a positive lesson in this alI, maybe a wake up call... I think I know what to do now. Get closer to God and connect with nature. Get closer to the people I know and get more disciplined than ever. Thanks for sharing this Jak, I´ve been watching your video´s for a long time and you´ve helped me and a lot of others to grow and stay strong. Keep it up man. You´re the nr. 1 youtuber, genuinely.
I’m a girl writing this, but wow, what a story. I’m so glad you’re speaking on it. You have the power to help so many others. Society always seems to tell men to shut up and man up and pretend like everything is okay when it isn’t. There’s no reason in the world why guys shouldn’t be able to share this stuff with each other and support each other. I really applaud you for speaking out. Ted Bundy actually warned the world about the dangers of porn addiction. And I mean, obviously, his circumstances were different than just the average, non-psychopathic guy struggling with it, but still. If someone like Ted Bundy is saying it’s bad news, it’s probably a good idea to take that into consideration. He was basically saying that like a drug addiction, you have to keep upping the ante to get the same effect. And that’s part of the reason he got into such extreme stuff. I’m a recovering opioid addict (I broke my back in 3 places after a car accident when I was 21) and I can tell you, the symptoms you’re describing sound like addiction and withdrawal. I think it’s amazing that you were able to realize how negatively watching porn was affecting your life and actually do something about it. And the way you described connecting with your grandmother and nature was not cringe at all. It was beautiful. I almost teared up when you said you felt like a kid again. Porn essentially robbed you of a huge part of your childhood. I really hope your video reaches the people that need to hear this the most. Thank you so much for sharing.
Porn is no difference than any other substance of addiction. Addicts replace one addition for another. It is not the fault of the addiction, it's the fault of the addict and the fault that the addict cannot blame the right person, themselves. Absolutely nothing wrong with s--x, but addicts need to learn reality from fantasy.
@@user-yh8ce7tg8l There might not be anything wrong with sex, in its natural act, but theres definitely something wrong with the porn industry and what it creates.
I just wanna elaborate on the ted bundy story, because what he said about porn, i believe, was said in the last interview he gave before he was executed. It was him blaming something other than himself in an attempt to gain a little sympathy from the public, "oh no he was addicted to porn, that's why he did it, he was a victim, poor him." Ted bundy was a pure bred, full blood sadistic psychopath and master manipulator, who wouldve done what he did, porn or not. Just to be clear. With that said, what he did say about porn was completely true.
Porn industry is built on hatred and exploitation of women but somehow y’all still make the discourse center on male feelings. Have some self-respect women.
Quitting from Dec 21, 2024 like this comment to remind me
I'm also mate
@@Saiyed-i1ume too brothers🙏
Put it away buddy
I shall join the cause
Gotchu brother, take my heart as a constant reminder ❤️
Day 1 of quitting. It has been a 9 year struggle. Like this comment so I always get reminders!
You got this🙏
69 likes is the definition of irony
I'm right there with you buddy. Found it at 11 and I'm now 20. Its time to right our wrongs and make up for lost time.
Im with you brotha strating now
hahahahaha
Beautifully said.
“The pain of regret is going to be so much stronger than the pain of discipline.”
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@@farouk6437 whats this ?
thank you for sharing
Why should there be any regret?
Young men always have and always will do it. It's a part of growing up.
There isn't anything abnormal, about it.
I am 33 years old and virgin. I am looking decent and my clothing is business casual and good. Still no chance. I am a 6,5/10 and still looking too ugly for the women world. Over 700 rejections offline and online more than 1k but only till I was 25. After that no more chances online no likes, no matches, no respones on all social media.
50-60% of this offline rejections laughed at me, insulted me, sabotaged me, looked down on me.
With words or actions.
Doesnt matter if in the supermarket, university, sports gym, library, normal on the street.
But I wasnt moked in general I was popular and everybody thought i had plenty hot women lol
I WAS LIVING A CONTRADICTIONARY IMPOSSIBLE LIFE WITH 2 SIDES
So Porn...never really addicted. Maybe 20 times a year when i was teenager, later in 20s some year zero some year 20. Nothing that matters.
So didnt matter in my case. Still no good enough.
And I am confident. I did a experiment for 3 years before corona and cold approached 300 women each summer and maybe 50 in winter, fall, early fall together.
90% were super nice and complimented me without me asking for it: you are so nice, charming, authentic, good confident personality, you make feel special.
Maybe each year 20-40 numbers? And? Zero. No date, no nothing.
Like from teenager life to now when mostly women were agressive and said in my face without me even knowing them that i am ugly disgusting and what the hell I am doing at this party or go away from this chair you dont need to attend seminar in university.
All that kind of stuff.
STILL REMEBER I WAS NEVER THE LOSER AND POPULAR still living both lifes.
Many women played with me or tried to. Their psychological game.
They fuk around with all kind of bad men and violent men doesnt matter. They do it freely and they even met rapist men several times before dumping them
So what I am saying is who cares about porns or if you watch it or beeing addicted.
Nobody isnt getting women because he watches porn or is addicted lol
Its just a sad world and society: Money, LOOKS, STATUS
Thats it.
And I had zero standards and tried to like women with personality but still even ulgy or old or drunk or old and drunk or ulgy drunk old or or or ALL REJECTED ME LOOKED DOWN ON ME AND LAUGHED AT ME.
30% DIDNT but some also admitted they like me or even have little feelings or interest and THAT I AM 100% THE PERFECT DREAM MEN BUT ONLY AS PERSONALITY AND CHARACTER AND THAT THEY CANT OVERCOME THE FACE LOOKS EVEN WHEN ITS ONLY AVERAGE
So watch it is cheaper and free than a fake women in your life sucking out your money
Quitting from January 17, 2025.....like this comment to remind me brothers...
Same
how you going brother?
Pray and seek guidance.
Won’t be easy but you got this bro🙏
Good job
Hello! My name is Kyler, and I am 13yo, and you have really helped me. I have had very low confidence due to my skin, and also have been very addicted to corn. You have helped me in quitting and also helping me find a purpose in life. Thank you, Jak.
Same
hi brother, im 14yo. I believe in you. We have to not EVER do it again.
Same
same
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I'm 21 years old, I think I've had this bad habit for about 7 years, the money is to thank you for making this video, I find myself with many of the things you said, I can't afford to waste any more time, today January 8, 2025 this bad period of my life ends.
I'll mark the date, in 2 months (March 8) I'll be back to write that I'm out.
Same here! Proud of you for this decision. I go with you! (:
Proud of you guys. Im joining you :D
I quit ages ago and I'm 14 rn I started at 12 ended at 13 and wish u guys luck
same no joke, comment under mine too so I can give you an update
@@Ogagu how is it going. It has been about 5 days till I didn't done that thing and this is the longest time I have ever achieved. Also I am going to a trip and I think it can further help me. Good luck and I will try to give me updates.❤
I am 3 days out at age 17 , i wanna this to be the final start . Please like this so i get a reminder !
You got this! :)
I'm at day two, me and most of the views on this video are in this with you
@@miloreavis1125 Thanks, I hope you stay strong too!
@@strider_lotr2827 Stay strong Bro💪
@@miloreavis1125 I haven't done that since this video was released. And I will no do that never ever. You can make it too.
Thank you for gifting us your courage and your humility on this weight. I have experienced this addiction starting when I was 12 or 13 years old, and I'm still struggling now that I'm 26. Half my life has been consumed by this lust and I have been fighting for a long time. There were certain moments where I have this complete revulsion, the most absolute disgust in my soul that was telling me to get rid of all of it, it was spiritually painful. Temptations still lead me here today until I watched your video in full, and I rarely sit in one sitting without skipping the video. I just want to say again thank you for this confession. Stay strong.
I'm a woman here but i just wanna say spaces like these, that men like you help create is so beautiful to see. I do wish to see more men supporting men, in a meaningful safe way emotionally. I notice men tend not to have as much support so im very glad to see this! Much love to all you brothers, i know you guys can get through this! Im praying for you. Thanks Jak for being vulnerable for the sake of others
❤😊❤ Mother Mary Bless you sister for your support and chiming in... That means most to these... was boys... MEN
I'm a woman and a mother, and these comments and what this young man has done by sharing actually brought tears to my eyes. Typically, NO ONE speaks candidly and honestly about going through this and people feel isolated & their addiction grows. It thrives on darkness, on shame & secrecy and self-loathing. Keep sharing and supporting each other! 🙏
As a man as well that has struggled with this but as quit for about a month now, this space is great for men but I think both genders need support from this as well because there are women out there that struggle with this problem as well as there is a percentage of women who do watch this stuff as well but it's an issue that more talked about in a male perspective which I think it should be more talked about in a general perspective for both genders.
@@HolyAura7it affects men more than women, women can let go of it easier and it’s also easier for us to be celibate. But this is a topic that needs to be talked about more I just found out by this video that men struggle with this and it’s affecting their mental health, I pray they break free from this 🙏🏼 consistency breaks habits and patterns you can do it!
That's how Gay's re born
Dude I'm leaving this habit behind at 30th of December and hoping of never coming back to it again and wish to start a healthy life from the new year, thank you bro! ❤
less go day 1
Yes Day 1(30th Dec)
You reading this on 20th March next year like please
Good luck and happy new years ❤
I'm stopping 😊
I’m stopping today!
PORN has destroyed so many lives. Male and Female, it does not descriminate. I am proud of you for fighting against it. You are a inspiration to many.
^
What about you, I know you've done it before
@@AkoSuper bro horny asf
it does destroy lives its very toxic and evil
@@AkoSuper u know he did!!! That's y the algorithm gave him this video...a bunch of fing quitters....and the is for f@p
there's a book called whispers of manifestation on borlest , and it talks about how using some secret tehniques you can attract almost everything in life it's not some bullshit law of attraction, it's the real deal
how is it different
I see this comment everywhere but never found this book anywhere
is this a bot comment?
I"ll get the book after i have a pull. ✊😆
This is my first time giving someone a superchat,i am quitting this addiction today and right now 29/12/2024.Thank you so much man for showing us the right path or rather I say we already knew the right path but you guided us to how to go through it and gave us the courage to take action at the right time.THANKS A LOT BROTHER.
So how many times did u do it today after commenting this.
@@prediatoreditswhat a disgusting thing to say to someone
no, you're not. Don't even think that you can quit it that easily. All of us(men) have been through this a million times("This is the last time!", "I'll start on Monday", "Just this one time", giving promises to God, etc.)
@@prediatoredits i am not doing it anymore tho-
Ok me too lets goo!!! 29/12/2024
Quitting from December 25, 2024, at 3:12 PM. For anyone reading this on April 20, 2025 (my birthday), please like this comment. I promise to return and thank Jak again! :)
December 25th, quitting as well. Together we are stronger brother. My birthday is on 9th of April, so we will experience it nearly the same.
Im about to quit rn man thx a lot
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quitting too today. december 2024 8:01 pm. i'll be back on my birthday april 8 2025. thanks for the idea bud.
@@mica4349good luck man 🫡🫡🫡
Quitting today too! (Dec 25, 2024)
"The pain I feel today is the strength I feel tomorrow." 🗣🗣🗣
me when stopped watching porn:
How do I quit for good
@@Zorojouro00 Best advice I can give you is the will to keep pushing forward, never give up and
What benefited me most
that being Christianity and God
@@Zorojouro00 find something to distract you. thats my personal thing that helps, like reading or playing my favorite video games
✍🔥
your really strong for making this video, i would never share any of this with anyone yet you put yourself out there and help teens, thank you so much for this
you mean wierd right? what is wrong with you wierdos
Thank you for sharing your story man. Thank you for having the balls to share.
Empty balls, but balls.
I have had a really bad addiction for around 2 years now of doing it once or twice every, single, day. It really started 4 or 5 years ago but it only became a real addiction from about 2 years ago. And I thought it was completely normal because it was the "cool thing" to do in my school. Everytime I felt like watching it I simply did without question.
Only in the past week or two have I realised how horrible it is. And it was largely due to me simply sitting outside at around 3 in the morning, I couldnt get to sleep that night, and I just sat there simply thinking about everything that I had done up to this point.
And I realised that I wasn't who I wanted to be, the me that was sitting there at 3 am wasnt the true me that I wanted to be. And it was almost as if something just clicked in the back of my mind, and I realised then and there that something needed to change.
Ive seen your videos in my recommended for a while now but i never truly sat and watched them and taken what you say to heart. But this video was different, it almost felt like you were an older brother that genuinely wanted the best for me and I actually took it to heart.
This comment is probably really difficult to understand and thats probably because its pretty much just me writing whatever comes to mind. But starting from now I really, truly want to overcome this addiction. Starting from now, December 29, 4:13 Adelaide time. I will get through this to prove to myself that I can overcome this.
Thank you Jak, you have had one of the biggest impacts of my life and I seriously cannot thank you enough.
Many people I'm sure can relate to you brother, I definitely can, 100%. I understood every word you said. You did not need to gift the $10 bro but thank you very much, idk at least use it as a reminder for this video. As I said at the end, it's worth it brother. ❤
Oh dear me. You're a lost cause.
Hear the pain of what you are going through
Hopefully you stay strong and start doing better wishing you the best of luck
@@Zovori dude grow up your a grown man talkin about beating your shit on a video of another grown man talking about beating his shit. Yall saying your addicted is hilarious 🤣 I needed a good laugh
@@Zovori grow up
Hello Jak I am a 13 yo teenager that had an addiction to corn and this video made me realise the affects of corn and what it does to a human body. This video has helped me in quitting and made me found that their is an bigger purpose to life. I sincerely Thank you, Jak.
please keep up with this broski. Don't forget about it in a week or two and then never
Same bro so glad jak helps me
Bro i have the same thing
Bro ur 13 its normal, being 21 and still watching porn isnt normal
Organic corn is good though
As a 17 yo girl, who is struggling with that same pain of discipline, you're like a piece of gold I found on thousands of grains of sand, thank you for making this video cause my motivation on getting better was very very low. Praying for you brother.
This is the first time im using this feature on youtube to show my appreciation, I wish I could give more to show how thank full I'm for this video. it truly relates to my addiction and how I want to break out of these chains, and shows me that it is possible. thank you for sharing this experience, it really helps a lot. "the pain from the regret is bigger than the pain from the discipline" - Jak
Man, you did not need to do that, but thank you very much. Comments like these are the reasons while I am still making content. Thank you, honestly ❤
@@JakPiggottI'm still on process mate, pray for me that i can really really forget from this cursed & disgusting addiction.
W mans
22:38
@@JakPiggott bro I need your help. My mind is not in the right place rn. Please DM me or allow me to DM you. Please
Unknowingly I started doing this at 5-6 years old and through out the years I've realized because of this I've felt a subconscious guilt/shame it felt good but wrong. Since I started so early in my childhood I believe that it made me closed off from people, scared to talk to other kids, it made me real sensitive, and disconnected from other kids and worst of all trapped in my thoughts,, scared thoughts,, thinking I was weird or wrong for doing this and feeling this way. . I would be so strongly lusting after a girl that it would have me stuck thinking about the girls body until I did something about it. I believe it had me closed me off from having good childhood experiences, making friends, and becoming confident earlier in my life.. It's normal to feel attraction to a girl and it's best to talk to the girl and use that energy to do things that will make us confident in ourselves. To the younger kids out there talk to your parents or someone you trust about it. Do not feel bad or sad this is what millions of boys do just remember it is best to speak to girls and make meaningful relationships with friends. Use that energy to work out, read, play, get out of your comfort zone do good things...
WHATTTT 5-6????
Some people get exposed to this stuff rly early, my friend said he started viewing corn in fucking first grade and for me it was fifth grade
@@NonameSama-ko4pg that's fine. In fact, even babies can do that, and some animals, of course xD Just a physiological thing.
@@NonameSama-ko4pg I mean, not sure what you put into your comment, but it makes the people feel bad for what they did in childhood, like they are wrong... but they are completely fine. It's not the sex, it's rather the result of process of learning about yourself
Happy new year bro
Edit: I wish 2025 become your best year.
Thank you so much for sharing your story and helping so many of us struggling with this. All the best to you and yours Jak.
shi this guy is rich
bro investing good good
50 bucks? NICE
With 50 bucks he can buy some OF subs
Brother, you did not need to do that, I appreciate you from the moon and back ❤
He really got his nerve....
Quitting from 19.1. 2025, like this comment to remind me
8 Years. I needed this video more than I realized. Thank you Jak. Thank you. Thank you.
Ive sat here for nearly ten minutes, filled to the brim with shame and remorse, crying worse than when my ex and I broke up several months ago. This video has absolutely, completely broken me down. I need this, every. single. word. You have given me hope that this addiction can actually end which means the world to me. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Words cannot describe the admiration that I have gained for you for giving me this gift.
Thank you.
Bro , idk why people donate money here .. i mean you can give it to a needy people .. the youtuber got enough money bro
@@OmTomar9615 imagine caring about what another grown man does with his own money.....
@@LooksFrosty idk care where people waste their money , but i am just saying obvious things ..
@@OmTomar9615then go and donate needy people. Why would you leave tips for waiters ether ? They have houses and clothes. They got food and water
@@OmTomar9615someone in the Bible used to say the same thing u just said
“The pain I feel today is going to be the strength I feel tomorrow” -Jak
This…..
I heard that quote when I was like 12 years old so don't give me credit for it 😂
@@JakPiggott always appreciate you sharing these story’s your changing lives bro!
This video showed me I’m not alone in this struggle and that it is possible to quit. Thank you jak
Stay away from corn. I saw corn when I was 8, and a year later, I started looking for corn of little boys and girls and I found it. I only stopped after police knocked on my door
@@AnonymousRUclipsr_1what, really?
Why woude police knock on your door
@BowMacro he started to watch child corn witch is wild asf nobudy relate to that besides diddy
@@ryanthomas3982 ye but why thr police show up
Im 22 and this addiction is destroying my life, this is day 1 of the journey 19/1/2025 , remind me guys, hope we all get over this shi
You can do this ❤
Go on bro
I had so much potential when i was a child , every girl in my class was attracted to me and i was very athletic but after the day i started doing it , my energy got lower and lower. I am doing it for like 8-9 years and never felt more low than now. I have lost all my focus , i dont have energy anymore , i am not athletic , i am skinny , i just want to get out of it. Your video gave me a hope , Thanks. I will never so it again , i promise.❤
Bro We all are With You Just Quit It💪🏻🗿
how old r u bro?
19@@BlackTraders-g6s
Yo bro that's rupiyah
you can do it
ive never used super chat but I appreciate u very much, I’m Marr! Im a 14yo , And I’ve been addicted to corn for a while maybe 11 months or so and the way you talked about the symptoms and what was happening to you I felt like you were talking about me. it was so alike It was like you were speaking on behalf of the same symptoms I’m having, and this video has not only just made me want to quit but I want to live like my old self again. back maybe 4 years ago my cousin introduced me to it but not until around 2023-2024 did I start really doing it and my light has disappeared more and more, It had already took my confidence I started to feel anxious didn’t want to speak to any girls stayed inside all day , and day by day it got worse and I’m here to say I’m going to quit. ill be watching this video a lot but one day I’ll comeback and let you know that you have helped me restore my life, and if your reading this anyone you can do it too. Prayers to you all and thanks Jak ❤
corn is okay in normal portions.
Okay porn is a problem but facing breakups from childhood like he did could also reduce the value of relationships , why not rather be patient??
I don't even remember how things in my life started, i think I have been with 5 men older than me and two guys of similar age in childhood , of which one guy is still my friend with benifits, however luckily I didn't get trauma, I just wana get true love now .
@@minigiant8998it isn’t
Bro I too felt what you are saying bro
I have so much respect for someone
who brings out so much honesty about themself.
And you are an absolute soldier
to do it and SPEAK YOUR TRUTH
Lots of RESPECT
Your truth doesn’t exist. Only THE truth. Your truth is an opinion.
Hi, i am Quitting from 22/01/2025..Please can like this comment to remember me abt this
Bro you doing great .
@@IliaMilani Thanks!!
It’s not 2024
Yo
@@RiverPatrickGabe oh yeh! It's already 2025 😅.. thanks for mentioning it 🙏♥️
Hi Jak, My name is John and I just wanted to thank you for making this video because it helped me a lot. You seem like a very nice guy and it's great that you stood out and shared this with RUclips. Thanks again!
Nečekal bych že potkám čecha co donatenul na tohle video
here before he is!
John, bop your meat all u need to. Don't give up!
Yer
@BS-Asim193 Nečekal bych to stejné že tu nějaký bude :D
Jak you’ve become a great inspiration I’ve struggled with this since I was in the seventh grade I’m currently about to start my second semester in college and while I don’t do it as often anymore I wish to quit this semester I got quite attached to a girl and well it didn’t really work out I made it like 25 days but when she ghosted me I fell back in the loop, today December 28th at 1:30 am I am quitting porn, taking you as an inspiration it’s just a matter of willpower and I’ve made it this far I’ll make it farther because of you bro. Genuinely, thank you man 💪🏼 I mean all I’ve learned from my experiences has to be for something, also this is the first time I’ve used this RUclips feature my man but you deserve it I genuinely think I’ll make it not just because this video has inspired me because I actually feel understood about this issue for once. Cheers from Mexico my man🔥🇲🇽
Bro How much is ur hieght?
@@nigamsharma108 im 5,11 I think or 1.8 meters tall
Think I’m 5,11 or 1.8 m
We are in the same boat bro. That breakup really fucks up your mind and takes you back to that stupid loop of jerking off.
Lets not indulge in this anymore, lets give it up for good and come out as a stronger and a better individual on the other side!
Today I wanna quit as well. My situations a bit different, I’ve never actually watched any porn, but the deed is my issue. I have an extremely vivid imagination. It started in 22’ and I wanna be done. We’re in this together bro.
Ur amazing and ur super encouraging mate, really takes a lot to do this. To share all that to people cuz im sure this helps lot of people! Glad you overcame yours and i hope millions will be inspired by this. Simply hearing your story made me happy man! Heres a little bit of my appteciation.
Need more likes!!
i'm so glad i saw this. you have inspired me to stop
i'm currently 13 years old at the time of writing and I've had the addiction for maybe 2-3 years now so not very long compared to some. I discovered, 'what i can do' probably about 4-8 months ago and i think me stopping has become a lot easier because of you. I've tried without help before and i lasted 2 days max. my parents found out recently i heard them talking about it and i remember the panic i felt in that moment and because of that i lasted 10-12 days without it before i regained the confidence. I just wanted to say thank you for this video. I have pinned it to the top of my screen so that whenever the urge comes i can look back at this video to help stop the urge.
i believe you have changed my life.
thank you for everything.
i will report back on my progress every month.
Real shi bro my dad found out and it was the most awkward thing in the world I felt horrible afterwards. Keep up the good work
I’m going on 24 & I’m still fighting the fight! Started at around 11-12, and did it for 10 years without conviction. Wish I was your age when I realized its impact. Best wishes and good on you for trying to break free at your age in this time!
I started watching it when I was 10, been almost daily ever since. I'm 19 now, and when I was 13 I really didn't think anything of it. Of course I now realize how much it's screwed me up. I just want to say if you're trying to quit now, please keep trying. If you can quit now. I guarantee your future self will thank you huge. I know I would've.
Im a 15yo female and i have been off m*****ing since new years. Ive been doing it since i was around 12/13 and right now I feel like shit and i have no friends. When u said you felt like a kid again I genuinely started weeping because thats all i want, my happiness back. I really hope i dont fail, and i am going to try to wait for marriage for anything sexyal. Thank you jak i hope u see this so u never stop what ur doing
Stay strong sister we're rooting for you 🙏🏽
This is battle where you fight with yourself and it's doubtful that anyone can win it for you instead of you. Things that can distract you from falling into gap are your hobbies or other things that give you good emotions, emotional drive. May be you want to practise martial arts or wushu or climbing high rocks? If our mind and your psyche requires impressions and moving - listen to yourself, what can give you those? Hope it can help you to hold on.
Good luck
change doesn't happen in one day. if one day you start masturbating again, i want you to remember that you can change and that what you just did is just a mistake that you should not take again. you are a good person, i am sure you have great things to accomplish, don't give up.
I'm 17 and had a similar experience to you, please please read *Easypeasy way to Quit Porn* . Its 130 pages and you can finish it very Quickly (its also available online) but trust me It will change your life. Nothing else like willpower method, Cutting down worked for me and this was completely different. The book is completely different and opposes the conventional ways of stopping. The book makes you see no value in porn and makes stopping literally enjoyable I promise I'm not exaggerating, I have experienced it myself. Read it, the worst that could happen is that you remain the same as before but on the opposite you will escape the slavery of porn. Wish u the best, you ca def do it.
Jack, I'm probably the millionth person to say this, but your content is saving lives. Genuinely. Saving young men's lives. And dont worry about what you're saying to be 'cringe' because we don't find it cringe at all. Thank you for having the guts to share such an embarrassing memory. It gives us teens hope. When I sit here in bed and ask God for advice, a few seconds later, I get this notification on my phone that you posted a video, so I watched it. Your content is like a guide to a better myself. You help us improve by sharing your story. Sorry if I sound like an npc or whatever, but we love you, Jack. We pray that whatever comes your way is able to be handled by you. Sorry for the paragraph, lol.
EDIT: Thank you for the love in the replies, and sorry, yes, his name is spelled Jak, and yes, he saves women's lives too. Sorry
Exactly❤❤
The people who find this cringe don't have to watch is what i think
yah brother u are totally right he is the legend of this era
He’s saving SOME lives
Jack??? Jak
quitting on 24 december, i hope this is the gift that i wanted so badly in these years and now im quitting to have a better life. Thank you Jak, you saved me forever
Edit 1: I’m going to start reading books and watching this video everyday and more movies so I can get more motivated to quit corn forever
New year for you guys and happy 2025❤
SAME!!!
It's one of the greatest choices i've ever made. Good luck
Same here
E
May God help you, my dude. If you ever think of giving up, remember we’re all doing it together.
You may times said this might be cring but it's not
Thankyou for making this video it gives me courage to quit it, I'll try to not lose to myself this time.
Thankyou
I’m quitting, I’m saying this on 27th December 2024, I’m quitting.. Those words at the end “it’s worth it” struck me, thank you bro, so much.
You failed already
as he said its not that easy whenever u had the urge again just rewatch this video
@ yes, 👍
i am with you bro, I trust you we can do it
You're not alone, my friend
42 years old. This cut deep. It is worth it. Incredible bravery and courage for this young man to make this video and share it with the world. All the props.
Noooo, continue to fap plz?
At your age, you should know it is perfectly normal for young men to do it.
There is nothing shameful about it and there should be no regret.
I suppose one could bring a religious matter in to it, but, why would they be so concerned about this and ignore that?
aight unc
Most of what he is saying is bullshit, masterbating and ejaculation are not bad for you and does not cause physical problems. There is zero evidence to say any of the semen retention stuff is true. Porn is bad for your social skills and can be addictive...but the act of masterbating is not bad for you.
37 here, same exact thoughts! amazing message, honestly somethign that needed to be said
3 million views in just 5 days shows how every one of us, boys or girls, is desperate to fight through it all and win against it. Thank you, brother, and much love from Morocco!
I don’t do shit like that I just watch this for reasons not to…y know
Bro got 1 million views in 9 hours
it is 4 million now in the end of the 5th day
A nodo alkaffata🤣
nahh im here just for curious. and i bet there is alot of ppl who came just as curious mind
So brave of you to talk about such a sensitive topic! The fight is worth it. Definitly. Part of it could also be to ask yourself what was the reason that you fall in such a strong addiction. I have a lot of friends that where not getting into an addiction but I did. Later I realized that the ground on which porn was growing in my life was trauma from my childhood. Getting rid of the trauma leads a freedom where no porn is necessary anymore to silence the pain in your soul.
Woman here, quitting from Dec 28, 2024, at 5:06pm. Jack hope you know you're not only helping men, but also the (maybe few) women who also struggle with this. I've tried to quit multiple times, but at this point everytime i fail it makes more determined to try harder next time. I want to feel alive again, i want my bright personality and confidence back, and i think i can do it. 2025 is my year! I just know it.
Thank you so much for sharing this vulnerable part of you with us, i was about to cry multiple times watching it, feeling really undestood and knowing this wasn't something just in my mind. Really, thank you, feel happy and proud of yourself
I love you deeply brothers and sisters, you all are very brave and strong, i know we can do it!!! 💞🎉
Hope you will never
the missing ingredient is making children sex is meant to create families. this is where shame comes from. committing the act without the connection that comes with it. i have 4 kids. with the right perspective its the best thing that can happen to a human. that drive is the force that allows you to create .if the drive wasnt strong everyone would opt out. i sure would have.
@Garandmasthumb yup agreed, but ofc having kids is up to each person to decide, tho i do agree it can be one of the most rewarding things a human can do
I’m doing it with you girl❤️ I’m starting dec 28 11:32 pm
You got this friend !!!!❤
This addiction is ruining me, i have been trying to quit for a year and i still can't do it. I am writing this on an alt account so no one i know sees this. Please like this comment to remind me
It’s normal part of life. Once you reach 30 you’ll slowly stop it because of testosterone production
@@nickmendezb2 That's false, it's a hard battle and doesn't stop with age. He should try to fight as soon as possible or he could even bring that addiction in his own family.
@@nickmendezb2 It's false, it's not normal and definitely doesn't stop with age. He should fight it as soon as possible
@@nickmendezb2 It's not true, just read the comments and you'll realise.
Yes you can.
i quit today, Jan 1st 2025. i’ve been trying to quit so bad for like 6 months now and i decide the new year is my starting point. i’m currently 14, i started watching it at the age of 9 and that’s when i also discovered what i could do and at first i got happiness out of it from the dopamine but now i only do it because of boredom and i regret doing it as soon as a finish. i relate so much to this video from the confidence to the skin and the withdrawal symptoms. the first video i watched on how to quit was one of yours and i really wanted to quit for this girl who i was speaking too so i could boost confidence and just not look at the hub whilst in a relationship but after 3 weeks the urges were too strong and i gave in, i had no control over myself and i just could stop doing it 3 times a day after i broke the 3 week streak. i just want to say thank you so much bro for making videos like this, they help people like me out so much and i wish you the happiest new year a man could dream of
im with you brother ive stopped it from today too
I'm stopping today
@ggiango117 it is really destroyed life brain 🧠 I have experience when you left just for 90 days then habit finished you will come at your original position for six months this habit completely finished
I’ve stopped from today too
@@giorgostasinopoulos yes promise that from 2025 never do make strong commitment
Jak, you have given me the confidence and courage to quit my point addiction. You don’t even know how much this video has impacted me and other teenagers like myself! My name is Caleb. I am 13 years old and starting year eight soon your videos have given me the courage to quit this addiction of mine and start my high school years with a bang! From this day onwards the 26th of December 2024 I’m going to quit, as the days go by this video will stick in my mind like porn did for you! Thank you! I know other 13-year-olds like myself will appreciate all the effort you took to make this video and help us quit!
Are you an South-African?
@ yes, why?
This is not cringe at all man. You can't imagine how these stories helps me. Thank you for every single video, reel or some shit! You're just the best Jak. I hope you're gonna earn what you want in life. Thank you Jak!
it very much is cringe.its self riteous bigot thinking they should try to tell people to do stuff and its just dumb. parents are failing their children and letting them watch explicit content, its not ok for them but its also not wrong for adults.
@@TheDarkRK9shut up.
This authenticity at such a young age age is truly remarkable. So many people are going to be positively influenced because you made this video. We need more people like you speaking their truths about their own addictions
Omg Eliana is that you I remember you from 2020
This whole thing is a prime example of bad parenting. Kids with smartphones and tables full access to the internet?
@@cheesycarrotsoup I mean when 75% or more of children are accidents it's not surprising that they get raised poorly.
@@cheesycarrotsoup That is how the world works now. Parents have to teach their children what is bad content and how to avoid it, put up firewalls against it. I'm a hobbyist video game developer, and I have been using Roblox for a couple years now. It is very remarkable to me how many young teens will work very hard learning how to program using this game Engine, so that they can do well in college and land good IT jobs. Point being, children can and should use computers to thrive in this modern world. cheers
@@pineappleparty1624 it’s wild to me that a parent would give a child full access to the internet. My parents absolutely put up multiple barriers at his age to avoid situations like this. Also Sex ed was taught at young age around 12. I used to let my younger son play Roblox but some creators make some brain rot games, some too explicit for kids. Instead of monitoring 24/7 I just let him play games that I know are appropriate based on reviews and the ESRB. No hate for Roblox some creators make some incredible games so deep they can almost be their own games.
I've seen this video a few times in my algorithm, but I would have usually ignored it. But this time, I decided to give this a watch and I never thought it would be so moving. I've been addicted to porn for about 11 years now. I wonder if my life would be any different if I never watched it back then. Thanks for this message, and for providing motivation for me to continue on this journey of recovery. Cheers
This reminds me of an old interview with Ted Bundy. He openly and honestly discussed how corn affected his mental state and how he had to start using harsher and harsher material to get where he needed to go. He said it wasn't what made him the monster he was, but it certainly helped clear the path. This is a great video and the longer you live with this addiction, the further it takes you from intimacy and ultimately humanity.
As a person who has gone through p0rn addiction and who has seen all sorts of filthy, disgusting, disturbing stuff online I would like to give you a perspective on what I feel. Being addicted to p0rn will not turn a normal guy into a psychopath no matter how much he is addicted. I remember when I started watching a lots of p0rn I started discovering various categories and stumbled on some disturbing stuff on deep web and never tried to look for it again because it was disturbing and it doesn't turns me on but the fact that these things happen on deep web horrified me. I never tried to go on deep web again to look for it. I didn't liked to think about that stuff because it just turns me off and I was fapping like 6-7 times in a day for few days. I used Instagram a lot apart from few p0rn sites. So, I think that being hypersexual is not going to turn an average guy into a psychopath.
Quitting on 22.12.2024, like this comment to remind me
I believe in you brother 💜
you can do it bro
same bro im gonna try to also
@@Pay-tatochip dont try just do it
respect to u
I'm quitting right here right now. December 27 2024 12:44 AM, and I promise. I'll pray to god everyday, I'll get up and go on walks or runs, I'll focus on my basketball career, and I'll do anything to improve myself, something to make myself proud. My break up was 6 months ago and i don't feel any depression anymore.. instead I feel motivation. motivation to be the person i want to become, to work hard and push myself during my workouts, to fight that urge. If my friend I've known for 4 years can beat it so can I. And I'm not making this comment to fit in with the likes or clout, but to set a reminder so that I can read on this specific video only. And every time I feel like I'm gonna give into this urge I'm gonna watch this video again and again and again.. Thanks Jak and everyone here quitting, this story just sparked something in me. Much love guys, you can do it. ❤
Take that spark and fly with it, you'll never go back.
Count me in bro, even if quitting requires blood, I'll never give up from now on
Me too💪💪🤲🤲
update pls
same bro👊
Quitting on January 21st after a months long relapse cycle. Pray for me and all those who share our struggle. God bless 🙏🙏🙏
We're both in it together 🏁🏁🏁
Just cause porn has been normalised doesn't make it right so stay strong y'all and remember to reach out when you're suffering
Edit: lemme rephrase since people sound like they wanna kill me 😓. Yeah porn has been around forever if you wanna watch it go ahead everyone is entitled to their own views
I wish the same to you too, mate
porn is such a big problem and so many people suffer from porn addiction, It's a joke that society does not want stop it.
@KingOfGlory383 Agree it literally ruin my life
The tiny hats have normalized it
100% bro. 100%
18:01 “not going back to day zero, because the pain of regret is stronger than the pain of discipline”.
Dude, what you said right here has stuck with me. Thanks man.
Yeah man
but that is not quote that he invented.
but the regret is stemmed from bigotry. its from a hateful ideology that shouldnt have existed
@@TheDarkRK9 I guess you have a point
@@jovana-che i do agree its wrong for children to have access to it, but there is nothing wrong with adults having it
Thanks man for this Video! This gave me all the Motivation I needed. Starting from today on (27th december)!
it feels weird to see a 10 euro comment with NO likes
It gave me same motivation. I'm also quitting this with u and trust me the way jak told his story I got emotional as it was same for me. Quitting this with u on 27 dec..
Motivation never lasts long enough to help you overcome your addiction. It took me ages to realize that despite being told 24/7 about it. Discipline and exactly knowing the value of what you're trying to achieve is what takes you further away! Keep pushing
I’ve been struggling with porn addiction since around 14 or 15. I’m 27 and promising myself to never go back. I found this video by chance and the way you spoke like I was there with you made all the difference. This addiction is serious and needs to be brought to light. Thank you
hi ryan im 13 yrs old i started a couple months ago and i relised i need to stop so this is day one for me
I am making a promise to God and myself that I am never never doing it again
@sunskies12yo bro im a ryan aswell im 18 bro listen to me you need to stop it. imagine your parents are there watching you do it. it destroys you. stay strong.
@DishJetPro yo thanks bro that helps bro i relise now its gross and i need to stop today i havent watched any i fell better about my self i think i used to do it casue i was always bored but im gettign my shit together thanks bro have a good day
edit- btw i jsut subrscibed to ur channel
the ryans are reconciling
I am in my early 30s and I have battled this since my teenage years. I am Quitting today, December 28th 4:17 PM. I will use this to hold myself accountable. Praying this starts a revival for young men addicted everywhere to quit and find true happiness.
Are u a virgin
"& SO IT WILL BE❕"🗣📣
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth❕
Amen➕Amen❕🗣📣
🙏✝️🧎♀️👊😇🙇♀️💌🦸♂️🙌⛳🏌♂️💪🏋♂️🙏
hey man how're you doing with it ? no judgement here either way : ) just wanted to check in
@@rwn4none thank you for checking in. I am 5 days clean still!
@@AlexFromFL1you’re 7 days clean now!!🎉
You went from beating your shit to beating your addiction. Respect to you man, may god bless you
it's the best way to relieve tons of stress. you'll understand when she divorces you because she was cheating with your best friend and takes everything because you didnt have a prenup. happens to many.
@BobRooney290 terrible mindset to have. Other peoples problems don't excuse your own.
Lol
Its not that big of an accomplishment. This is why your generation is trash. You think the smallest of things are accomplishments while all the other generations are laughing at you. Female millenials are tougher than zoomer males.
@@BobRooney290 Bruh what are you yapping about. Seek therapy.
This really hit me, thanks for sharing your experience, rather than cringe I appreciated your courage in telling something that maybe can really help someone, so thank you, and congratulations on where you've arrived. A beautiful video, sincerely.
The urge was always there, a siren song pulling me into a dark, isolating world. Porn had become my escape, my comfort, my prison. Then I started microdosing. The cravings didn't disappear overnight, but they lost their intensity. I found myself drawn to real-life connections, to the beauty of the world outside my screen. The grip of addiction loosened, and for the first time in years, I felt a flicker of hope for a life beyond the digital abyss.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
hamidshade43 is the man
On insta?
Yes
the timing of this for me is crazy
Yeah for real I'm also becoming addicted on that sh but this video removes my addiction
its a sign❤
Glad it came at the right time ❤
Fr
Bro I hope it ends
This level of honesty is really beautiful and powerful. I am a 40 year old man and I still struggle with this. I take a stimulant for ADHD and it makes it way, way more difficult. I have bi-weekly custody of a 3 year old, and the weeks I have her it's very easy not to. But when she is gone it's such an easy way to escape the difficult realities of my life, I always find myself going back, and I always regret it.
I think it makes me weaker in every way. When you don't really want to do something, but you give in to the urges. You'll be more prone to give in to your weakness everywhere else in life. And I have seen that in myself. It's like a constant battle.
Hi, I am quitting from Jan 22 , 2025.... Please like this comment to remind me
[I know it's not gonna be easy but I will make it happen. Thank you Jak for encouraging me. ]
We're in it together 🏁🏁🏁🏁
Let's do it together bro 👊🏻
Quiting from 15 JAN,2025 LIKE this comment to remind me
Same I released a couple days ago, I'm done with this, wish you luck in you're journey, if anyone can pray for me thet would help greatly
I'm here brother@@j8jew89cW8EMNw
Praying for you 🙏🏻
Don't quit. Don't reach your full potential. Go ahead and waist your life. Keep chasing dopamine hits like a good little boy. Or... be a man. It's all up to you
Hi buddy 🤗
It's 18 JAN 2025 and today I START MY JOURNEY TO WRITE THE STORY OF A BETTER , GREAT AND LEGENDARY LIFE.
TO LIVE A GOOD LIFE AND FINALLY FINISH MY STORY .
I’ve been off it for 5 days and came back to this video when I got an urge so hopefully this comment will remind me to keep on going
You have to find the thing you love more than the the addiction and let that be your coping mechanism. Even women struggle with it too but if you stick to beating the addiction and seeing it through, I promise, it’s the most rewarding feeling ever. Knowing that you are no longer a slave to your feelings makes a world of a difference. It’s true growth.
U got this bro just don't do it and it gets easier every single day
It will get easier after it gets harder. And then, once it gets easier, there will be a lot of days , even weeks, where it gets hard again. I’ve been off for a couple years and there are still days. It’s worth it though. I am so much better for it and you will be too. Good luck
Join the dark side, use your hatred! Watch corn, let it fuel you
Its called what I call Clockwork Oranged yourself. After said movie of same title. They forced the guy to watch so much tv he couldnt stand to watch it anymore. This topic is the same, you watch so much of it, you cant stand to see it anymore, but don't confuse it with the occasional healthy and natural need to purge the pipes, else you'll go crazy and cant do anything because you are blocked up.
From a women’s perspective, this is extremely admirable. Telling your story without any shame, being 100% real, and with the compassion you showed, is so amazing. You’re helping many people. Lots of love to you. You’re not cringe.
Edit: Its admirable because of how vulnerable hes being and how hes breaking the stigma of these topics. People are too ashamed to talk about these very real natural human experiences. As for the being a women, I cant say i understand everything hes saying because im not a male. Iv had bad experiences with my sexuality as a very young child 5-9 so i relate in a different sense.
Boo hoo cry me a river 😉
Would you mind sharing what are the main points here? “Extremely admirable” is a strong take. He wrote in title “never” again, bold claim. Curious but not overly committed!
@@agnescroteau8960what are you talking about ? Your comment makes no sense lol
I love how "from a women's perspective" has zero relevance for the rest of your statement
@@zefix3133
From a mexican perspective, this is extremely admirable. Telling your story without any shame, being 100% real, and with the compassion you showed, is so amazing. You’re helping many people. Lots of love to you. You’re not cringe.
- 🙂🙂☝🏻
@@zefix3133she mentioned that she is a woman because the video was made for men. I guess she just wanted to say that she finds the content valuable even though she’s not the target demographic
I’m not a bro. I’m just as addicted as most guys out there. 1/19/25 I am quitting. Please, please remind me cause I’ve tried before to quit and it’s so hard. Much courage to all of you out there.
Thank you dude. This is what people should be talking about. The industry is truly so sad, im so glad someone is standing up
I'm on day 37 after failing hundreds of times since age 15 I'm turning 30 next month but I'm determined to never go back. Needed this, thanks 🙏🏼
Good for you. Don't beat yourself up for any failure. You're trying to live your best life and that takes time. Positive thoughts your way.
I need help man. Like an accountability partner or somethin. Idk. i just turned 30, started this problem at like 9 years old, still losing the battle.
Weak. I started when I was 7 yo and I'm turning 30 in March.
started at 5, turnung 33 next year.
Yall cooked bro 😭
Good job, man! Bless you! I'll be 71 in February, and I'm two years free. Thank you for sharing your story.
That’s awesome man you’re a legend
Beautiful video, thank you for being so honest about your experience, i think its genuinely helping so many, both men and women (yes women can totally develop corn addiction even though its not often spoken about). Addiction is a terrible disease. Anything that can provide pleasure in any form has the risk to turn into addiction, yes substances and corn but also video games, cyberaddiction, sports, food etc... And getting out of addiction is extremely difficult. I never experienced corn addiction but i did over video games in a moment of my life where i was extremely lonely and my self esteem was very low. So many symptoms you described is shared through every addicted person. Like lower confidence, lower energy, depression, everything feeling like its boring, the inability to connect with others, not just corn addiction does that but every addiction can do that. Theyre all consequences that often comes hands in hands
Ironically over the years, i have grown to become a therapist who works in an addiction therapy center. Theres so many things i could tell you and inform you about what youve been through but that would simply be too long to describe here. I wish you good luck and health in your journey
Already relapsed today… tommorow marks day one, please someone like the comment so I can come back
Same. See now when I did it I just felt empty and like this is what I'm screwing over my life over for? New years resolutions doesn't mean going through the exact start. It means your strength through the year. We got this
,Quitting an addiction is difficult, don't be to hard on yourself. Don't let a slip turn into a full blown relapse, keep trying to abstain you can do it!
@@GodSavedMe88 It's not an addiction. You're a teenager. All teenaged boys think about is sex. Oh, and there is no god. Do your homework outside of your church. Try Dawkins.
absolutely brother.. good luck ....
Quitting from dec . 26 .2024 i believe in myself and like my comment to remind me fellas let's fight against it
Me too ❤
I will too❤
we are a team together
Joining this group brotha's
im with yall gotta hold strong that shi brainwashed us all
Jak you’re actually godly for making these videos. Not many people (teenagers) would try and get a better life. But then here you are. At least 1.56 million people changing because of you. Your great man.
Hes great fr (I wouldnt say godly but wont be too weird here)
Thank you Jamo bro, this comment means a lot more than you think ❤
yeah this guy has personally made me reach back on my addiction and this man might just save my life
@@JakPiggott I am really glad your making these videos. The corn industry needs to be banned, its literally destroying the vitality of the youths, to married men. The addiction is real and one of the worst addictions, since it taps your nature as a man.
"godly" is a silly term. "Godly" people have been the most perverse and evil people on the planet.
Hi! My name is Elias and i am 15yo. Your Videos help me to improve myself and my life. I also was corn addicted to corn wich pulled me down in live. I ignored my surroundings and my own friends. I felt so empty inside. But you are a man with a good heart. You opened my eyes for the world we live in. Thanks , Jak.
Good luck!
Man I needed this, it takes a lot of guts to post this online and admit it. I have mad respect for you my good sir. As of today december 25, 2024 I am quitting this destroying habit for good. Because of this habit I made so many mistakes that led me to self destroy my first relationship and hurt my girlfriend at the time. I have been wanting to quit this for so long since I have been watching since I was 10, I am now 23. I needed this and thank you so much man, I am done with this for sure. God bless yall.
I will pray for you my brother. God bless you and your journey on quitting. Ask God for forgiveness, and if you truly believe he has the power to help you, it shall be done. Philippians 4:13. "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
@@Talan_Garver Amen brother
Daniel i relate. I want out of this habit too. Its been a source of my destruction. It's hurt me in every area of my life. I need major help.
@@akgstone We are in this together brother, whenever you feel the urge just remember this video and cime back to the comments
Hey Jak, I’m 14 and I seen this on my recommend page and it hit me that I can stop if I want to. I'm so thankful for you putting this out.
Quit p*rn
Go to church (catholic ideally)
Graduate high school
Go to college perhaps
Meet a girl and date
Get married
Have babies
Love God
Porn industry is evil its demonic.
It puts images in a person's mind of what someone should look or be like. Truth is women's bodys change after giving birth.
Not everyone looks skinny n fake hot. Its demoralizing to real women so when you actually grow up to become an adult.
You will start to turn to watching the films more if you let these demons attach itself too you like that. Break the cycle now dont ever look back. Your only 14 still a child.
Enjoy being a child while you still can.
Yea dude stop while u can ur doing ur future self a life saver
Hello, I am a therapist who specializes in PSB - CBT, which is problematic sexual behavior cognitive behavioral therapy for ages 7 to 12 years old. Porn is a massive issue with our kids. I really appreciate your video, your honesty, and I am going to share this video with my clients in the future. Thank you so much for this material, and thank you so much forsharing with the world about this spiraling addiction.
That’s sus
Can I ask if it’s possible to cure asexuality with treatment similar to yours? Basically the opposite problem but still “problematic”. I would appreciate if you point me in the right direction.
@@adamchalkley956 you're 10 aren't you?
@@adamchalkley956 ?
I was addicted to masturbation since the age of 9 or 10 it's been wild and this guy Jak just said everything that's wrong with me. Kinda crazy I ran into this video. Hope you help them realize this is a bad addiction.
Me and you have extremely similar stories. I want to thank you for having the confidence to post and share your story. I never told anyone about my problem because I always thought that no one could relate/understand. I always felt like I was completely alone with this addiction, but you helped me realize I'm not. Thank you so much, and thank God I found your channel.
thanks brother. genuinely, its been a fricking battle. I'm 13 and the last few years have been such a journey man, but I think I'm ready. the struggle made me who I am, and I will win.
Best wishes!
You're still so young brother, I don't mean to condone the habit but 99% of guys your age are (probably) engaging in some sort of artificial sexual pleasure. To even find videos like mine puts you ahead of so many people your age. Take it day by day ❤
Jesus died on the cross for your sins. Turn to him before it is too late
@@Obsidian_DartAre u sure... ?
@@Obsidian_Dart what if that didnt actually happen...?
“The pain of regret is going to be so much stronger than the pain of discipline.” Bars homie
Bullshit homie
Yeah bro
Exactly
This is one of the most genuine and relatable nofap videos ive seen. Thank you man for posting this . Hope this helps me and everyone else whos struggling. Quitting today 30th December 2024. Will come back next week and every week thereafter to see that ive kept my word. Hope i get to follow through. We can overcome this guys!
Good luck bro stay strong
It is not "nofap",
it is "nop*rn"
@@_modnar_ So fapping is okay ?
I’m there right now. 2 - 3 times a day. Practically the same story as you, started at 10. I stopped when I was 15, and went a full year off. But my personal and social life went to shit, so I caved, and have been slowly falling further and further for 2 years. It’s almost 1AM, and I was just about to go and do it for the 2nd time but before I got off RUclips I saw this video. “In that moment, I felt like a kid again. I felt 10 years old again.” I haven’t cried this hard in a long time. I want that feeling back. I feel such intense lack of social connection and motivation to do literally anything. I want to feel free again. As of 1-20-25 at 12;41 AM, I am swearing it all off. I am going to achieve a better version of myself, the version of my that I know I can be. Thank you for sharing your story.
Quitting from Dec 26, 1:16 AM.
Thanks for uploading this video, Jak. I can relate to you bro. I congratulate you on quitting and Now It's my turn.
It's been long I've been watching corn. When I maybe 6-8 years old my elder brother (cousin) showed it to me for the first time. I don't remember exactly when but maybe after few years (I don't remember how) I've encountered it again and from then on little by little I'd do it. And I became more and more addicted to corn. I'd do it 3-5 times a day. In high school my friends would talk about it but same as you I couldn't admit that I watch corn and do it. I've also tried to quit but after 1, 2 or 3 days I would do it again. Maybe when I turned 18 or 19, sometimes I felt pain after doing it. After that I tried more often to quit, and I've managed to quit for more than 3 months but again I couldn't quit for good. And here I am now in my early 20s, I really want to quit. Through the start till now I've started hating myself little by little, sometimes I'd want to tear myself up, I can't even express how much I hate myself with words. And like you I started to feel like give up on quitting. While watching your video it hit me like I don't want to be like this anymore. Not able to be confident, do something new, talk to people, etc.
For those who is reading this, I don't care what experts or researchers says but remember watching corn and fapping damages you more than you think if not by health it psychologically affects you, destroys your humanity, affects your way of thinking worse that you will fantasize by looking at every woman you see and much more bad things will happen to you.
All that aside from today I am quitting fapping and I encourage you to quit too. Thank you for being with me and I think I've wasted enough of your precious time.
Since English is not my native language, please forgive me for grammatical mistakes and also forgive me if I've offended you somehow.
right behind you brotha
you have already tried quitting means you have experience. i dunno how to express it but if you need someone to listen and help i might help you. apart from those i would say don't count days i mean try induling yourself with workloads so that you dont think of it it might be anything and for me it was boxing,spriting,study but still today i broke my steak but now my condition is much better than before i dont know about days but maybe i do it once a month . remember "you jerk, waste your time and energy and the conditions still get worse what's the point of these things then?"
sorry for my bad english and if all these things dont make a sense , just forget it.
lul
Just keep changing the date lil bro
Thank you for being so vulnerable. Your video was suggested to me. I’m a 35 year old mother to a 8year old son so not sure why it was suggested haha. But I’m glad I watched this. You’re a brave soul for speaking out.
What he said about "the pain of regret, is so much stronger than the pain of the discipline" is so true. For ages I was ashamed of my body, but then I finally decided to hit the gym and do something about it. I can say now that committing to this day and still going, not missing any days, making myself train, has been the best thing I've done in my life. I feel way better in everyway and I'm not going to let any urges hold me down too. Much love Jak, you're a legend.
Bro porn made me last like 30 seconds if I stop it will I come back to normal 😢😢😢😢
Please answer me
@@radybwoy7548Trust me man, block it out as best you can, find an alternative thing to do with your time and you will feel so much better with yourself.
Yeah, it probably will. You're desensitized because of it
thank you jak. you’ve changed my life and now i feel like a better person. like im not a failure to my parents and relative and friends. i am a sports player and now im playing a lot better and you have no idea how much this really changed me. whether you see this or not. thank you so much. i really mean it, thank you.
RUclips algorithms never fail to amaze me. I’m a girl and can’t really relate to your experience, BUT I’M SO IMPRESSED with 1/ your ability to conquer an addiction and 2/ your ability to communicate in such a compelling and powerful way.
Thank you for sharing your story and making a difference for the young teens out there.
KONY 2012
age
Also shouldn't have a breakup like he did from a young age, don't know how this became an American culture but guys, just ask your child , friends to be patient and wait for the right moment.
Im a girl and I relate to him bro…..
@@2559_butterflies how so
Did anyone else here first see it when they were a little child? I can't believe it's legal for websites to show it to us. It's shameful that it's so easy for us to find it when we're so young. People in power need to fix this problem now!
I've seen it of a little child
@BradleyEvans-p2n wtf
@@RafaelMichaelJackson no he said "ive seen it of a little child" not "when i was a little child" it might be a mistake (at least i hope)
@BradleyEvans-p2nkeys
@@RaptorMo I saw corn when I was very young. Then I looked for child corn, and found it. Don't worry I changed my ways and I'm not looking at it anymore. But the whole thing of young kids viewing corn is crazy. Affects our little minds
Jak, you just spoked directly to my soul. Thank you.
Quitting from dec 26, 2024 like this comment to remind myself that it can be done.
Jack is a hilarious name to have in this situation you can’t lie🤣
26 dec 2024, same thing
Same here brother I believe we got ts
I quit on 25th dec 2024 were on this journey together bro
Dec 26th also. I will come back a month from here and I will share results
I've NEVER had the boldness to say this to anyone. I have been addicted to porn, but today 27th Dec 2024 I have DECIDED that porn won't be my god anymore. I'll no longer give in to this urge, I'll fight it and I'll win by God's grace. Thanks for sharing, you gave me strength. God bless you.
Just gotta find more hobbies man, keep yourself busy and it won't be that much of an issue, most people jerk off to porn because they're just bored.
@SkuIIKn1ght I'd definitely be adding new activities to my schedule everyday. Thanks for the advise mate.
@@EmmanuelFolorunsho-n1s I'm not a male, but in my experience an hour long hard workout makes me want to sleep so badly. Maybe you can exercise, jog before bed time so you sleep easy. cheers
Beautiful 🩷 your name is very special my friend! It’s a battle but God can help so much, I myself struggle badly with this as well, but we can make it through God
I'm an addict still trying to quit at 30, with a major part of my last 14 years being ruined by the addiction. I'm just so happy to see you shining so bright and aware and learning from your mistakes already at this young age. Gives hope to my spirit.
@@MV-sw8qv hey there I’m also trying to quit could you like my comment to remind me I’ll remind you as well anyone Plss 🙏
R.I.P 😂😂😂
Bro you dont have time to quit now its too late....Get laid instead
@@sougataroy2608 even after getting laid
people fap u know
@@sougataroy2608 have had relationships bro. Girls come easy. Getting laid was never a problem. But the addiction stayed on the side too and it draining and very useless. Adds nothing to life except problems
Oh my heart… I’m so proud of you- This generation NEEDS your powerful vulnerable voice! Thank You, God Bless!
From someone who has an addictive personality… Thank you for sharing your journey and experience around this subject. Not an easy thing but the world we are apart of now needs this more than ever.
My middle school experience was fogged away due to this addiction and I can say it wasn’t as unhealthy but it played a negative role in my life. Keep up the battles my friends you’ve got this ❤
I was clean for almost half a year. At the end of 2024 I got injured and I would say hit a low I hadn´t really felt the past couple of months. I couldn´t do anything other than laying on the couch and playing video games/watching YT. I struggled hugely for 10 days, then I gave in... I think I did it 7 out of the 9 next days after that. Insane. Now I know why I failed, I feel shittier than before I did it, but maybe this was a lesson. There has to be a positive lesson in this alI, maybe a wake up call... I think I know what to do now. Get closer to God and connect with nature. Get closer to the people I know and get more disciplined than ever. Thanks for sharing this Jak, I´ve been watching your video´s for a long time and you´ve helped me and a lot of others to grow and stay strong. Keep it up man. You´re the nr. 1 youtuber, genuinely.
22:10 Remind Yourself that " The pain I feel today is the strength I feel tomorrow"❤
I’m a girl writing this, but wow, what a story. I’m so glad you’re speaking on it. You have the power to help so many others. Society always seems to tell men to shut up and man up and pretend like everything is okay when it isn’t. There’s no reason in the world why guys shouldn’t be able to share this stuff with each other and support each other. I really applaud you for speaking out.
Ted Bundy actually warned the world about the dangers of porn addiction. And I mean, obviously, his circumstances were different than just the average, non-psychopathic guy struggling with it, but still. If someone like Ted Bundy is saying it’s bad news, it’s probably a good idea to take that into consideration. He was basically saying that like a drug addiction, you have to keep upping the ante to get the same effect. And that’s part of the reason he got into such extreme stuff. I’m a recovering opioid addict (I broke my back in 3 places after a car accident when I was 21) and I can tell you, the symptoms you’re describing sound like addiction and withdrawal. I think it’s amazing that you were able to realize how negatively watching porn was affecting your life and actually do something about it. And the way you described connecting with your grandmother and nature was not cringe at all. It was beautiful. I almost teared up when you said you felt like a kid again. Porn essentially robbed you of a huge part of your childhood. I really hope your video reaches the people that need to hear this the most. Thank you so much for sharing.
Porn is no difference than any other substance of addiction. Addicts replace one addition for another. It is not the fault of the addiction, it's the fault of the addict and the fault that the addict cannot blame the right person, themselves. Absolutely nothing wrong with s--x, but addicts need to learn reality from fantasy.
@@user-yh8ce7tg8l There might not be anything wrong with sex, in its natural act, but theres definitely something wrong with the porn industry and what it creates.
I just wanna elaborate on the ted bundy story, because what he said about porn, i believe, was said in the last interview he gave before he was executed. It was him blaming something other than himself in an attempt to gain a little sympathy from the public, "oh no he was addicted to porn, that's why he did it, he was a victim, poor him." Ted bundy was a pure bred, full blood sadistic psychopath and master manipulator, who wouldve done what he did, porn or not. Just to be clear.
With that said, what he did say about porn was completely true.
@brabbithabit thanks for sharing your story. God bless you
Porn industry is built on hatred and exploitation of women but somehow y’all still make the discourse center on male feelings. Have some self-respect women.