Before You Chase Women. WATCH THIS. Chase Excellence, NOT Women.

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  • Stop chasing women, and chase excellence within yourself first. Become a top shelf man first and foremost, for yourself. Women should be a complement, not the focus.
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Комментарии • 886

  • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
    @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 года назад +656

    The most authentic, and blunt advise for men any age. Do the work".

    • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
      @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 года назад

      @Lee Dawson it is what has pushed humanity up the time scale of evolution, and developed reason and morality in men. As peterson puts it, feminine like masculinity has both and probably, and certainly multi varied facets of behaviour. So, you do your work at hand, and stick to the truth. Rest let God and fate do for you.

    • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
      @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 года назад

      @Lee Dawson for both genders. So we can't really predict all feminine manifestations to be eccentric.

    • @fhowland
      @fhowland 3 года назад

      What work? It’s so vague

    • @foreverred105
      @foreverred105 2 года назад +1

      Do the work and stay motivated.

    • @SKBottom
      @SKBottom 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@fhowlandread his book and watch his videos.

  • @chasethesun_5045
    @chasethesun_5045 3 года назад +962

    One time I was getting my haircut and the lady cutting my hair was telling me how she thought she was better off leaving her husband who she'd been with for 20 years and had 3 kids, youngest being 11. I told her congrats on at least a long marriage, and she goes "People always tell me that, but congrats for what? Hanging on for so long?" Then she started asking me about what I do for a living, if i had my own place etc. You think it's gonna last forever with these women, it's not. While you think everything is peachy, shes at work shopping for your replacement. Invest in YOURSELF.

    • @timster382
      @timster382 3 года назад +28

      @Wilfrid Joseph Holy shit bang on brother.

    • @jeffreypryor4549
      @jeffreypryor4549 3 года назад +18

      Yep, you're right. Been there, done that.

    • @northernguy8860
      @northernguy8860 3 года назад +87

      She was measuring you for a branch swing in the middle of your haircut? No shame.

    • @charliedallachie3539
      @charliedallachie3539 3 года назад +46

      Sadly a lot of guys would try to get her over, home wreckers. If only there was a way to give the husband a heads up that she’s shopping around....not our business though.

    • @charliedallachie3539
      @charliedallachie3539 3 года назад +5

      @Jonathan F is that your own perception or everything

  • @RecreationalUseOnly
    @RecreationalUseOnly 3 года назад +683

    You’ll lose money chasing women, but you never lose women chasing money.

    • @seetsamolapo5600
      @seetsamolapo5600 3 года назад +7

      Simple

    • @SerginhoSM9151
      @SerginhoSM9151 3 года назад +7

      Yeah, but chasing money doesn't mean making money.

    • @MichaelBrown-zg9wc
      @MichaelBrown-zg9wc 3 года назад +2

      And the rest of life will follow

    • @RecreationalUseOnly
      @RecreationalUseOnly 3 года назад +19

      @@SerginhoSM9151 no shit, it’s a figure of speech, that goes for chasing anything. Thank you for the gaslighting.

    • @mabd7340
      @mabd7340 3 года назад +3

      Can u give an advice how to start chasing money

  • @scottyb.8710
    @scottyb.8710 3 года назад +861

    To you younger guys who haven’t been down the path us older guys have been down already: Listen to Rich. You never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever chase women. You risk losing too much that’s important in your life and it will bite you in the ass in the long run. If you want to be with a woman, fine... but you let her come to you as you work on becoming the better version of yourself.

    • @dattepo7534
      @dattepo7534 3 года назад +13

      I second that

    • @Mammel248
      @Mammel248 3 года назад +55

      There's some nuance to it. You can be as excellent as can be, if you don't put yourself out there no woman is going to come at you. I'm a great example: I have a very nice wage as a software engineer, so the monetary aspect is taken care of. I'm 1.9m tall, broad shoulders and work out a lot (strongman training). Don't have the most handsome face but a manly face (strong jaw, pronounced brow ridge, big nose), so I would say the physical aspect is taken care of. Yet I'm having a hard time getting any dates. Why? Because my job is behind the computer, my side projects are also software related. I won't date women from work and I won't date women from the gym (when I go to the gym, I go to work out, not to hit on women). So where am I supposed to get dates from then? I don't meet any women outside of the gym and work, because none of my hobbies have any women in them. Online dating is a waste of time, might be lucky with 10 matches a week, and if 2 of those actually reply.
      The solution would be to at least do something where I could meet women, such as take up a yoga class or whatever. But that would be "chasing women", but if I don't do something like that I just don't have any dates. So in my opinion, "generally chase excellence, but sometimes chase women" is better advice, it depends on your situation.

    • @anishtheodore5010
      @anishtheodore5010 3 года назад +16

      @@Mammel248 yeah there should be a balance..atleast we guys have to advertise ourselves

    • @sjuan07
      @sjuan07 3 года назад +34

      @@Mammel248 agree. work on yourself, focus on your goals, and do women on the side. not saying to chase them on the side, but have some "passive marketing"- nice social media, go out and do activities where there are women atleast once a week, but NEVER chase them. just put yourself out there but focus and work on your goals.

    • @lyesaitouamara8766
      @lyesaitouamara8766 3 года назад +10

      @@Mammel248 yeah I second that but you don't have to pick up a "feminine" hobby just to meet girls, you can go out with friends or build some kind of social media presence (not as hard as people think, not as easy either). With covid it's kinda hard to go out it's true but there's always a way to meet women without chasing them.

  • @grahamashe9715
    @grahamashe9715 3 года назад +1183

    Unless you're a mafia boss, being fat is never acceptable to women.

    • @CeeZee001
      @CeeZee001 3 года назад +66

      Which is crazy cause there's plenty of slampigs out here with regular shaped dudes. It boggles my mind. But dudes don't complain. At this point the body positive movement was for women not to work out and be accepted as "beautiful"

    • @Avrelivs_Gold
      @Avrelivs_Gold 3 года назад +11

      Not true, perfectly acceptable.

    • @cornerbandit
      @cornerbandit 3 года назад +4

      Yous' guys chasing schifosas'...blahahaa!

    • @fallenfreak828
      @fallenfreak828 3 года назад +9

      Or rich.

    • @Midge-xn9tp
      @Midge-xn9tp 3 года назад +14

      Amen, Trump had to be a rich man to get his

  • @carlospinasalazar5237
    @carlospinasalazar5237 3 года назад +277

    I wish you existed in 2010, I grew without a father figure and my older brother passed away in 1999, I’m just barely learning all this stuff and I’m 32 years old

    • @fife84
      @fife84 3 года назад +21

      @@roastme2079 ^ fantastic comment. Everyone should take the time to read this. Stepping outside your comfort zone is the only place growth occurs.

    • @ryanmclaughlin587
      @ryanmclaughlin587 3 года назад +11

      Better late than never my friend.

    • @atwajesper9434
      @atwajesper9434 3 года назад +8

      They say there's always someone in a worse position than us. Well, I'm 38 and just learning this stuff now.

    • @dexterbarnes5249
      @dexterbarnes5249 3 года назад +2

      Glad you're here dog

    • @Aldo7899
      @Aldo7899 3 года назад +2

      @@roastme2079 Enthusiasm is key. I like to read books on the subject. There’s one by dale Carnegie that got me started on this road.
      Sensitivity is also important. Toxic masculinity, as they like to call it, is all about being the type of man that you think society wants you to be. You must be sensitive to changes to adapt to them properly and decisively.
      Above all, the brain can constantly be rewired. This is not a one-time deal. Complacency and comfort zones are to be avoided at all costs. One has to strive to keep moving forward and not lingering on the “coulda, shoulda, would a”s.
      Spot on, btw. I like the way you think.

  • @teo108
    @teo108 3 года назад +135

    This basically what my dad told me"the better you are, the better woman will show up in your life"

  • @spectator6964
    @spectator6964 3 года назад +288

    Spot on! A woman should NEVER be the sun that your world revolves around.....more like an asteroid containing rare earth metals, it has its uses, but it is not needed to hold your solar system together.

    • @MichaelBrown-zg9wc
      @MichaelBrown-zg9wc 3 года назад +11

      This one is straight from the space program 🤣

    • @TheVoided666
      @TheVoided666 3 года назад +6

      Great analogy.

    • @frankonolfi1966
      @frankonolfi1966 3 года назад +2

      When I live this way She says Im selfish

    • @flybobbie1449
      @flybobbie1449 3 года назад +5

      Don't let a woman become a supernova..consumes everything.

    • @KenchiOMO
      @KenchiOMO 3 года назад +4

      Fun Fact: the Sun is a male celestial being. The same sun that earth & all other planets revolve around. Men should never revolve around anyone!

  • @Ardante11
    @Ardante11 3 года назад +170

    Make sure you’re chasing Excellence as in the betterment of yourself and not the Stripper named Excellence at Pink Pony.

    • @samkurosaki9151
      @samkurosaki9151 3 года назад +3

      😄😄

    • @darkxridah
      @darkxridah 3 года назад +2

      💀

    • @bassioelmucho
      @bassioelmucho 3 года назад +2

      most of these young dweeb out there are into My Little Poney anyways!😀

    • @richierich4078
      @richierich4078 3 года назад +2

      Wish I read this before I chased Mercedes 😔

  • @Aires_Nhambi
    @Aires_Nhambi 3 года назад +69

    "Women don´t chase 4s"! Spot on Mr. Cooper. keep blessing us with your knowledge.

  • @ToddBaldwin
    @ToddBaldwin 3 года назад +98

    "Chase excellence not women." Genius.

  • @CaptainLeftHook
    @CaptainLeftHook 3 года назад +128

    Spot on. The hell with Bobby Rio and his text message tricks.

    • @stevieG.
      @stevieG. 3 года назад +1

      Ha ha..yeah 'do this one thing when she pull's away' etc, etc..

    • @ggrthemostgodless8713
      @ggrthemostgodless8713 3 года назад +1

      But those are the ads showing up as I see these videos of Rich and Rollo!! LOL

    • @daveh9803
      @daveh9803 3 года назад +1

      LOL!!! I bought one of his $10 programs 2-3 years ago. It couldn’t be downloaded except to some Dropbox cloud clone service, that crashed a lot or just didn’t work right. I also had to create an account I didn’t want there, so then I got hit up to upgrade to more storage. Total WASTE!!!

    • @stevieG.
      @stevieG. 3 года назад

      @Peter Jordanson ..and eventually the ladies will start chasing you..!

  • @jakebailey9884
    @jakebailey9884 3 года назад +268

    I've always had success with women. 6'3, 240 lbs and in very good shape. Military vet, sales, entrepreneur. I didn't take the red pill until this year. The one time in my life where I hit a "rut" aka went broke from business I met "the one". Just like Rich has said "She waits for the winners and DOES not care about your struggles. " After I went through this and her starting to flake I left her and ultimately realized that they already want a man who is complete and not having any struggles and can provide everything. I love women but have learned to be careful and do not get emotionally attached especially if you are going through some struggles. I learned from my mistakes and got a huge drive to better myself. Good luck gents! life is good. Live and learn. Be better than the dude you were yesterday. Shoutout to Rich. These videos are killer

    • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
      @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 года назад +2

      @@chad5617 ye, I feel that too.
      There's this natural urge I get to take responsibility and share my pain and happiness.

    • @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv
      @KrishnaJPal-gx5zv 3 года назад +6

      @@chad5617 it's better to let go of such a woman and not be in love with her at all man.

    • @jakebailey9884
      @jakebailey9884 3 года назад +1

      @@chad5617 very true! learned this the hard way haha

    • @raresabraleaks8216
      @raresabraleaks8216 3 года назад +1

      @@chad5617 obviously for sex and toying around with. Watching them do crazy things for u thinking it’ll earn ur love will give u life long laughs 🤷‍♂️

    • @raresabraleaks8216
      @raresabraleaks8216 3 года назад +7

      It really depends on the girl. A girl with experience will tend to want a guy who’s accomplished. A young girl that still thinks love pays the bills will pick fixer uppers, granted he doesn’t dump all his problems on her every chance he gets. She’ll leave both eventually for whatever reason.

  • @MarcRebilletClips
    @MarcRebilletClips 3 года назад +147

    A lot of new red pill channels have opened in the past 12 months... This channel stays the realest. No fear mongering, real advice. Respect

    • @metalxner5411
      @metalxner5411 3 года назад +2

      What does red pill mean

    • @jaleunbound8498
      @jaleunbound8498 3 года назад +1

      @@metalxner5411 means that your aware and eyes wide open to the realities of the world and dating

    • @metalxner5411
      @metalxner5411 3 года назад +1

      @@jaleunbound8498 ahh ok, that makes sense. Thank u

    • @CEA9234
      @CEA9234 3 года назад

      Yes direct honest advice no bullshit and the hard route which yields results.

  • @charlesivy1
    @charlesivy1 3 года назад +31

    Newly divorced, (5 months) I like to think I am a 7. With that said, I checked out the dating sites briefly. Good god... What a shit show of options out there for men. The women on those sites are wounded birds. One woman seemed cool, attractive but she had more red flags than the Chinese Army. We never meet, but shortly after a few conversations she was automatically saying I miss you, I love you and said she had baby fever. Ding ding ding....that was my cue to dissolve the situation and back away from that woman who was clearly a level 10 clinger. Listen to Rich guys.

    • @aboveaveragejoe6795
      @aboveaveragejoe6795 3 года назад +1

      Charles Ivy . I agree, completely removed my self off online sites. Most women there made me want to puke. Ijust daygame at the coffee shops in my city while working on my business.

  • @Solo-gx2xc
    @Solo-gx2xc 3 года назад +72

    THE V10 is back baby!

  • @rogeliolopez7537
    @rogeliolopez7537 3 года назад +48

    You're my mentor! I'm 27 yrs and I need a lot to learn. Always learn from the experience.

  • @angelbeast8863
    @angelbeast8863 3 года назад +145

    I'm 5'8" and I've never had height issues with women. Albeit I don't really date women my height or taller.🤣
    Gentlemen, go do fun shit! Enjoy your life, spend money on yourself and building your "tribe". Women will gravitate towards you naturally. You'll attract the ones that really want you.

    • @mabd7340
      @mabd7340 3 года назад +2

      Do women care about penis size

    • @calebbroege1333
      @calebbroege1333 3 года назад +1

      @@mabd7340 only if youre rly small or rly big

    • @mabd7340
      @mabd7340 3 года назад +2

      @@calebbroege1333 can u specify which size is considered rly small and which one is considered rly big?

    • @kostam.1113
      @kostam.1113 3 года назад +2

      @@mabd7340 Answer is mostly NO
      Although they do
      But only of you really have a small one
      But you need to get her in bed in order for her to care in the first place

    • @calebbroege1333
      @calebbroege1333 3 года назад

      @@mabd7340 under 4 i would think they would notice its small and over 6 or 7 is probably considered large

  • @essentialoilsme
    @essentialoilsme 3 года назад +82

    I found a page from the Woman’s Playbook: “It’s men’s fault, I am the prize, I am the table”

    • @jasonb5890
      @jasonb5890 3 года назад +4

      Sounds like a frustrated woman for me

  • @Bradjh10
    @Bradjh10 3 года назад +269

    Ok, after getting muscles, bank, and lethality: why bother with women at all?

    • @gistfilm
      @gistfilm 3 года назад +141

      Don't. But they will bother with you.

    • @albertcruz3232
      @albertcruz3232 3 года назад +42

      @@gistfilm jesus christ, this is the best answer I've heard in years

    • @halcyon6098
      @halcyon6098 3 года назад +55

      Cuz they soft and smell nice

    •  3 года назад +19

      because your libido is a thing

    • @Bradjh10
      @Bradjh10 3 года назад +11

      @ Not so much post divorce

  • @ej2much
    @ej2much 3 года назад +65

    Richard Cooper needs his own marvel hero movie.

  • @bugsy007
    @bugsy007 3 года назад +33

    "It's not the beard on the outside, it's the beard on the inside."

  • @MrHav1k
    @MrHav1k 3 года назад +13

    Blunt and to the point. THIS is the advice men need. Actual Tinder data shows it's more like the top 10% than the top 20% though lol. The point remains. Excellent stuff Rich.

  • @ryguy108
    @ryguy108 3 года назад +6

    I 100 percent agree with this video, I used to be very overweight and the typical nice dude. I had to put soo much effort into getting chicks and they never lasted more then a month. As soon as I started to focus on myself, lose weight, workout, not over eat anymore (cutting out sugars), and take care of myself. Woman started to throw themselves at me. Honestly men when you hit that 20% it becomes effortless. Woman will put themselves in your orbit. For the amount of effort I had to put in before, It was way more efficient and worth while to work out myself and reap the benefits. Before this lock down started, I would go to a club and woman would approach me.... A couple months ago I went to a house party and there was this attractive blonde girl there, I checked her out and like 30 minutes later her friend comes up to me and says "are you single? My friend over there is into you", we ended up hooking up that night. I don't mean to sound way to much of a douche, but it's true.

  • @yusufj.k4336
    @yusufj.k4336 3 года назад +2

    who else feels like unsubscribing to all the other channels and come here to watch all the videos. this is the most real staff i have listened to. thanks man.

  • @lueymeteora1410
    @lueymeteora1410 3 года назад +4

    You're absolutely right. I know I'm a 5 on my best self - and I don't chase women at all. I've taken myself out of the game entirely until such time as I can get off medications and get in shape. And carve out a career rather than just a string of crappy jobs.

  • @truenorthaffirmations7049
    @truenorthaffirmations7049 3 года назад +5

    Excellent men live excellent lives!!! FRAME YOUR MINDSET MEN 🔥🔥

  • @tacopapii
    @tacopapii 3 года назад +3

    Thank you, Rich needed to hear this, I moved from a small town to San Diego two weeks ago, and I haven't gone out and put myself out there for this exact reason, I have been working out 6 days a week and cleaned up my eating, cut my alcohol consumption and I am looking for a decent paying job (I'm 24). Until I feel confident in my skin and walk around chin up chest out, I will stay inside and do the work, women come after and only then-- remember fellas we are the prize not them, women are like the seasons, they come and go, a dime a dozen!
    ps: if anyone wants to link up for a gym sesh or have a beer let me know I don't know anyone out here
    Cheers!

  • @epgmonky
    @epgmonky 3 года назад +5

    Found you a week ago. Definitely enjoy the content. Looking forward to the future 43, two years single, once divorced. You're definitely a positive RUclips influencer. Thanks for your hard work.

  • @RickbladeX
    @RickbladeX 3 года назад +72

    The same golden advice that I listened to years ago that changed my life and is the best advice. Always be the best version of yourself and work towards being better! It's such a waste of time to chase women!

  • @andreflavell2689
    @andreflavell2689 3 года назад +8

    I dated a single mum 48 with 2 boys 11 and 13 . I did I gave I paid all the way . She had me at arms length over the 2 years . I did so much for her . After 2 years she dumped me . Yes given I am 57 it has taken me a long time to get over her . I did sell my house and bought a yacht and moved away . She stuck in a small town and I am free . I will never make the mistake of falling for these women again .

  • @josephmusabyimana3557
    @josephmusabyimana3557 3 года назад +2

    Even tough succes is a lonely path i'dd still choose growth over company.

  • @jz1160
    @jz1160 3 года назад +1

    Believe it guys - i am almost 30 and it took me this long to figure it out - never too late to start! Put the work in!

  • @graemef6852
    @graemef6852 3 года назад +1

    It is quite true. I would also refer people to your other video about changing your belief system, make better choices, get better results. Great input in this video too.

  • @lifthvy7263
    @lifthvy7263 3 года назад +44

    That's right brother I'm 5'4 and my bed hates me 😂 nonstop action. I have a great build I travel the world. I'm confident and maintain masculine frame . Never have a problem.

  • @davidson46100
    @davidson46100 3 года назад +23

    So, I like what I hear you saying. Having been married 38 years to a woman who like myself is interested in making our relationship work and is doing the work. My take on LTRs is that it is important to always do the work on one's internal relationship with one's self. If you are not maintaining a healthy relationship with your self, it is difficult to maintain healthy relationships with other people. My opinion is that in US society we are encouraged to be mental children, gullible and needy. This keeps us weak and dependent, and compliant to those in power. Women want men who they can trust to have the inner and outer strength they need to be there for them.

    • @joeroot9142
      @joeroot9142 3 года назад +1

      Please you shouldn’t be here, you will poison your life. GET OUT.

  • @rodneymathews6775
    @rodneymathews6775 3 года назад +6

    It's like what Chris Rock's boss said in the movie, I Think I Love My Wife, "You'll always lose money chasing women, but you'll never lose women chasing money." Words for all of us men to live by, especially in these times.

  • @SzymonCelticSlav
    @SzymonCelticSlav 3 года назад +15

    Hahaha my grandmother literally confirms exactly what Rich says, last time I simped she told me I’m meant to be King not the woman. Thanks for the content man!

  • @aaronUK2006
    @aaronUK2006 3 года назад +7

    Just started reading No More Mr Nice Guy this evening from you recommending it in a previous video. The first chapter already indicates that men must work and prioritise on oneself first. Keep up the advice.

    • @JoMama123451234
      @JoMama123451234 3 года назад

      That book changed my life! Its so vital for every man to read it

    • @aaronUK2006
      @aaronUK2006 3 года назад

      @@JoMama123451234 👍🏻 wish I had heard of it 10 years ago, been out nearly 20 years.

  • @nicknorth7360
    @nicknorth7360 3 года назад +13

    Rich, I really appreciate content like this, where you focus on the self-improvement aspect of Red Pill philosophy, rather than what's wrong with women. Our gender needs to realize that we're biologically driven to hyper-focus on female attention. We can all do better by stop chasing them period. Do the work, make a good life for yourself, and you can have fun with women when they come after you. Good stuff, keep it coming 👍🏻

  • @mountainmanchuck
    @mountainmanchuck 3 года назад +84

    Yo, what do you think of this variation on a theme:
    You're not hers, it's just her turn.

    • @citydrums7525
      @citydrums7525 3 года назад +10

      You're the prize...

    • @pantsenfuego9986
      @pantsenfuego9986 3 года назад +3

      Rooster Carousel

    • @truenorthaffirmations7049
      @truenorthaffirmations7049 3 года назад

      We change our mindset and quit with a defeated mindset....establish your code men

    • @frant1cOne
      @frant1cOne 3 года назад

      You are making yourself property or an object.

    • @michaelangst6078
      @michaelangst6078 3 года назад +1

      all successful people have 50+ women they have fucked before that they can hook up with.... Why do ya'll act like this is some new concept?? Keep incelling it boys!!

  • @flo_ridaa7074
    @flo_ridaa7074 3 года назад

    I love true authentic people that genuinely care for others the world needs more mentors like this

  • @NsIX3
    @NsIX3 3 года назад +18

    "Are you a strong masculine looking dude?" Nope.
    A chrome dome with a full beard is what peak male performance looks like. Sadly, I won't be able to get the beard part but going bald may be something to look forward to in the future.

    • @ColKlink-yh1ro
      @ColKlink-yh1ro 3 года назад +1

      chasing_gh0sts 😂. I always shave my dome

  • @keetgames
    @keetgames 3 года назад +1

    Realest channel out there, keep killing it!

  • @Thor32158
    @Thor32158 3 года назад

    He said women don't care about the struggle they are just waiting at the finishing line to pick the winner 🏆 man this is realest shit I ever heard about women

  • @caldwellkelley3084
    @caldwellkelley3084 3 года назад

    Rock On Rich! Hope the youngers are taking notes!

  • @jaredbills72
    @jaredbills72 3 года назад +2

    Another important point on chasing excellence and not women is why are you doing it? Are you chasing excellence because you want to make a difference in the world and live the life you want, or are you doing it because you want a girl?
    Thanks for the vid Rich.

  • @ARSHXVN
    @ARSHXVN 3 года назад

    I watch this everyday . I'll continue to do so until it's ingrained into the fiber of my very being

  • @khumbuzampono8494
    @khumbuzampono8494 3 года назад

    You should be a motivational speaker Rich. This is something that must be inculcated in all men at an early age.

  • @moveMENtwithmarlon
    @moveMENtwithmarlon 3 года назад

    Strong observations! Inside-out is the way!💯

  • @Virenss4
    @Virenss4 3 года назад +2

    I am 5 foot 4, and I like this message. I've been wanting to join a dojo, but my government has banned contact sports because of covid. Makes me mad like nothing else. I feel like it's the missing piece that I need to finally start getting more masculine

  • @ikennaonyema8243
    @ikennaonyema8243 2 года назад

    Brother your video change my life 👏🏻

  • @taden2007
    @taden2007 3 года назад

    Daddy Bro Alpha... this is excellent advice. I am thankful that i found you! honestly, watching your vides is helping me move on from a painful toxic relationship.

  • @rawmail102171
    @rawmail102171 3 года назад +2

    Been watching your vids for about a month now. Some really good content, but I've gotta admit the engine growl of some of your rides is sweeeeet!

  • @sineadohanlon2616
    @sineadohanlon2616 2 года назад

    Am a very ordinary reg nurse at 55 year old widow ,2 great grown kids
    Love been 7 YEARS ON my own,but love been able to pass your knowledge on to young people that I advise with love, good care going forward, not always about me
    isish i lady, Thanks, Sinead

  • @Stuckinchapterthree
    @Stuckinchapterthree 3 года назад

    Best advice on the topic. Look for no more.

  • @donniehubleythebrokenartis7544
    @donniehubleythebrokenartis7544 2 года назад +1

    Great video..as well as all of your content. Thanks for all the work you do and bringing to light of the hidden blindspots around this difficult subject hidden from many men. Much appreceited.:)

  • @vascopascoa1232
    @vascopascoa1232 3 года назад

    That german engeenering is awesome. Best in the face video ever. 44 here and he´s absolutly right. Sorry my bad english, i know im killing shakespeare language.

  • @PederE007
    @PederE007 5 месяцев назад

    I have decided every woman is a sociopath.
    I am tired of the drama.
    I have been through 140+ women. I am the prize, when a woman disparages me she is gone.

  • @kirkriley164
    @kirkriley164 Год назад

    nailed it!

  • @bruceleeroy8302
    @bruceleeroy8302 3 года назад

    Man, have you been monitoring my RUclips watch history over that last couple of days? You explained the exact videos I have been watching.

  • @robert7984
    @robert7984 3 года назад

    The commercial was about using special texts for women! Lol...just lol.

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  • @southbound_rc
    @southbound_rc 3 года назад +6

    1 key advice. Stop playing with your self like a 13 year old.

  • @Shootskas
    @Shootskas 3 года назад

    "Women do not care about the struggles. They hang out at the finish line and pick the winners." Nailed it. And they run away from struggle like the plague.

  • @JfkNeedsWindWall
    @JfkNeedsWindWall 3 года назад +2

    I finally realize why i disagreed with the manosphere on women these past years. All of the negative videos on women and LTR brought negative reactions from me because I viewed them from the lens you are explaining in this video without realizing it. From the mindset that women need to be compliments to excellence rather than the focal point of your life really makes an LTR not scary. If you truly become the best version of yourself, you should be able to discern the gold from the dirt and not be swindled or emotionally abused by your partner.

  • @cbxxb4841
    @cbxxb4841 3 года назад

    So many need to hear this. REALLY hear this. Good video.

  • @Mr.SociallyAwkward
    @Mr.SociallyAwkward 3 года назад

    Make money, make muscles, learn game.

  • @tuanf01
    @tuanf01 3 года назад

    Do what makes you happy, become successful and the woman will follow.

  • @LEXLEXization
    @LEXLEXization 3 года назад +2

    6:30 It doesn't matter how much motorkombat video games u can play; if u can't apply it in real life. Its all useless ...LOL 😀🤣😂😃😄

  • @chuppa1chups
    @chuppa1chups 3 года назад +1

    Aggressively approaching random people on the street you don't know is a waste of time. *Dating apps and social media are a waste of time.* When I was growing up, I was a scene kid, and I always had numerous and predictable opportunities to meet new people from a seemingly limitless pool of people who all shared the same interests. If you want to meet quality women, utilize the strategy of maximizing your weak ties. Knowing a half dozen of a community of 1000 or so where everyone has hundreds of weak ties is more than enough to find ample dating prospects, all while spending FAR less time than you would prodding and fondling your phone.
    A dating coach will not give you quality answers because doing so is counter to their business objectives. They are some of the slimiest people imaginable, right down there with the used car salesmen of the '70s. Tell them to shove their boot camps up their schwing-schwangs!

  • @jdtools6038
    @jdtools6038 3 года назад

    Hearing that engine in the background

  • @sonicfuel6855
    @sonicfuel6855 3 года назад

    Nailed it! Seize the effing day!

  • @stevieG.
    @stevieG. 3 года назад

    A very sobering message..

  • @TDUBB88
    @TDUBB88 3 года назад

    Man this was so real and on point make money make muscle make bank 💪✊

  • @justtony21
    @justtony21 3 года назад +177

    Chase God
    Chase Health
    Chase Excellence
    Chase Craft
    Chase Prosperity
    Chase Knowledge
    Men if you do these things your lives will be much better for the long haul. Look down the road. Not at her because she isn't looking at you. She is looking at your wallet, your resources and what you can do for her. You're better than that. You're above that. Do good. Be better.

    • @Poker-is8dt
      @Poker-is8dt 3 года назад +15

      Sounds like you need the religion red pill lol. Chasing fictional characters is cringe worthy in 2020

    • @Grumpyoldtwit
      @Grumpyoldtwit 3 года назад +1

      justtony21, best I can do is 5 out of 6.

    • @Poker-is8dt
      @Poker-is8dt 3 года назад +10

      @Jim Hook religion is a scam that preys on people who can't accept reality. I was brought up religious before seeing things objectively. Can't believe I use to think noah's ark and all of the other silly ridiculousness like Jonah and the whale occurred.

    • @OfficialSeth
      @OfficialSeth 3 года назад +2

      @Jim Hook People say holy crap/shit a lot so do you think that they really believe that feces is holy? No, it's just a common phrase.

    • @vijabeveritas5990
      @vijabeveritas5990 3 года назад +7

      @@Poker-is8dt You are correct, religion IS a scam, which is precisely why Jesus attacked it. Jesus hates religion. It was the Religious Structure he attacked that had him crucified, via Roman authorities. Religion prays on the weak, and seeks to control you. Jesus died for your weaknesses so that you can be free.
      And before you go attacking Jesus, trust me, there is a long list of people more brilliant than you who set out to prove Jesus a lie, only to end up accepting Jesus as their personal Lord and Savior. 2000+ years and counting and no one has succeeded yet in proving Jesus false. Know the Truth and the Truth will set you free. I am speaking as a former anti-God, atheist who is exceptionally intelligent, who ended up giving his life to Christ. BEST decision I ever made. Twenty-one years of freedom and counting, through good times and bad, and my Faith in Jesus only gets stronger.
      I pray you are willing to humble yourself enough to be open to seeing the Truth. Ask God/Jesus to reveal himself to you - in humility and sincerity, not with pride and arrogance, and God will meet you where you are. If you are not willing to be open to it, that's fine, your call. Cheers -

  • @trevorcopeland6379
    @trevorcopeland6379 3 года назад +69

    Whenever rich is in the r8 he has additional wisdom some how

    • @dimitrijemarkovic3410
      @dimitrijemarkovic3410 3 года назад +9

      You would too if you were riding in one, driving one makes you feel like a king.

  • @miquelnewman6936
    @miquelnewman6936 3 года назад

    Love your advice about getting women, never see you with any though......

  • @nightmare0xranmabloodedge122
    @nightmare0xranmabloodedge122 3 года назад

    Thanks, boss. I'm definitely improving on excellence. I have to continue to be better.

  • @marksherrit5874
    @marksherrit5874 3 года назад

    Problem is at 45 years old, I'm running out of time. Got about 5 good years left before it's game over. Retirement home and zimmer frames. 😪

  • @gastonsaintpaul5590
    @gastonsaintpaul5590 3 года назад +1

    Sound of your car make me wanna
    Drive one

  • @TheEatShizzel
    @TheEatShizzel 3 года назад +1

    I once had a multi millionaire tell me don’t chase women! Chase money and women will chase you.

  • @4lugan
    @4lugan Год назад +1

    Weighting lifts is irrelevant. I do boxing, wrestling, kickboxing, jiujitsu

  • @opufy
    @opufy 2 года назад

    the problem is i dont have an income because im studying full time to become a doctor one day so i have to focus on this, i suppose i just have to tough it out and focus when i come out then i can get my payback

  • @lightingrod5907
    @lightingrod5907 3 года назад +51

    Needless to say, but excellence is subjective to the individual man

    • @pantsenfuego9986
      @pantsenfuego9986 3 года назад +8

      Objective excellence markers include character health, wealth.

    • @dolanduk8419
      @dolanduk8419 3 года назад +19

      If excellence for me is to sit on my ass and compete in videogames then i cant complain about woman not wanting to smash

    • @forwardpaunganwa4135
      @forwardpaunganwa4135 3 года назад

      Let the women you want be the judge of that.

    • @lightingrod5907
      @lightingrod5907 3 года назад +2

      @@forwardpaunganwa4135 lol why? All that’s doing is putting her wants and expectations over yours

    • @kyleelam7829
      @kyleelam7829 3 года назад +1

      What a cope of a comment.

  • @bobleclair5665
    @bobleclair5665 3 года назад

    Buy a handheld GPS ,, turn to fish finder,, women run the same cycles,,,of course fishing has its merits too,,,

  • @willjones1826
    @willjones1826 3 года назад +11

    Dudes cry about stuff they can’t control, I’m 5’9 - 5’10 with sneakers and I’ve never had that much trouble dating because of my height. Have I been looked past because of it, of course I have, but I eat well, go to the gym 5 days a week, make really good money and take pride in my appearance. Fellas work on yourselves there is no cheat code!!!!

  • @junkrat1
    @junkrat1 3 года назад +1

    i prefer the content of you talking rather then just reading long winded emails,.

  • @lasaraungbakri7386
    @lasaraungbakri7386 3 года назад

    Excellent talks

  • @WD-mv1rm
    @WD-mv1rm 3 года назад +4

    This brother is straight money ! I lost 57 pounds at 50 years old. Running 6-7 miles a day. 6’3” and now 230. Bringing it. When I walk into a room with a suit. Fire. Before I was insecure when I walked into a room. Just got divorced and focusing on the next 10 years. Not a woman. preach it ..

  • @frankdelbosque244
    @frankdelbosque244 3 года назад

    Thank you Sir!!

  • @eliosgreek8028
    @eliosgreek8028 3 года назад

    Very refined and wise content

  • @rerite2
    @rerite2 3 года назад +5

    The sex robots keep getting more and more life-like. I look forward to the day when women complain that men just won't date b/c they they have a sex robot.

  • @stevesperry3008
    @stevesperry3008 3 года назад +6

    Being the best version of yourself pretty much means knowing what you value and living a lifestyle conducive to those values. This will look different on a case to case basis. Making a ton of money doesn't necessarily fall into everyone's value system. In fact, I would say that some of the most interesting people don't care about having a high income. For my own financial stance, I strive for financial security and independence. You don't need to make tons of money if you are smart with your finances.

  • @landonic81
    @landonic81 3 года назад +1

    If you're a dude over 30 still playing videos games then that's sad. Grow up

  • @royrenelt6181
    @royrenelt6181 3 года назад

    I’m happily divorced in a sports bar in Bali
    Cheers 🍻

  • @thomasalskens9813
    @thomasalskens9813 3 года назад +4

    Only child, absent father, single mother-background, certified Nice Guy for the better part of my life. You are waking me up with some much needed information, what younger me would refer to as the secret I never got to get in on, or understand. Thank you man, subbed and subbed.

  • @Bob31415
    @Bob31415 Год назад

    If you have to make at least $100,000 a year that leaves me out. Also, there is one thing I hear women say over and over about what they are attracted to. "He has to be able to make me laugh."

  • @lydiakusimba7266
    @lydiakusimba7266 3 года назад +3

    I'm 33 yrs old mother of 3 not educated I have no.problem with dating men because they need someone who has money and not burden that's why I'm single now for 8 yrs but I stay more peaceful with no stress just working in Lebanon as a nanny earning small money but I'm happy with it and life goes on.muck love from 🇰🇪

  • @dividsky
    @dividsky 3 года назад +2

    What about those 1/10 - 3/10 guys that do have a woman? Yes, they exist... but you seem to say otherwise.