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3:07 Really? Let me guess..you think you know what's really going on? Type exactly into a search engine.. First city 300 base stations Why was radio shut down in ww1 Group 2B RF Human Virome What do tonsils filter Is RF radiation harmful What are the effects of RF radiation What causes RF radiation Does taste return after radiation
"It all boils down to the same thing: She doesn't see you as the best option, and you're spending way too much time overthinking it, and you should re-invest that time on yourself on something that's going to pay a dividend off to you" -- The older I get, the more I realize this to be the truth with women. You're 100% right with this line Rich. Women would jump through every hoop imaginable if she genuinely wants to be with you
She is not seeing you as their best option examples: 1. Takes long time to reply and their replies are dull and disinterested 2. Cancel dates at the last minute 3. Always comes with excuses for everything 4. You call her and she never pickup the phone 5. She never returns your call 6. When setting the date she is putting conditions like I need to get up early, I don't want to go that place, my friend can come? You try 2 times to date her if doesn't work look for another one.
I just turned 64, getting divorced for the second time. Current wife is 20 yrs younger. We have been married 8 years. Just no longer had the desire or energy to put up with her demands for my time and energy. And quite honestly, I have just lost my desire to be around a woman. I spent the majority of my life wasting time, energy, and resources chasing tail. And now at 64, I could take it or leave it. I have learned there are very, very few women worth the price of admission. For 8 or 9 out of 10 guys marriage is a life of compromise, regret, and ultimately losing a lot of what you have.
Serious Questions: What's wrong with compromise or how do you mean it, negatively, because marriage is about negotiations, correct? If you could be more specific, I'm interested. Moreso, what regrets or losses of what you have aren't worth marriage, in your opinion? Thanks.
"Son, if beautiful women aren't chasing you, you are doing something seriously wrong. It's on you to figure out what that is. You will attract what you are." - Dad "Ok" - me
Good advice Rich. I’m 63 yrs. old worked out most of my life & just got rid of my girlfriend of 3 years. I bought a puppy & I can honestly say I’ve never been happier. Life is way to short to put up with crap from woman
Rich , A friend suggested I listen to your content after divorce. Will have to admit I was completely oblivious to why she would divorce me. I was Beta-tized through a thousand concessions was married 7.5 years. She constantly told me she wishes I was the man she married. THE UNPLUGGED ALPHA answered all my questions I no longer had to lay in bed at night wondering what went wrong. This book needs to be put in every young man’s hands before making any relationship decisions. My life is forever changed because of your content thank you!
I read your book and I agree. I would also add one more thing if you are looking for a woman that you want to spend your life with. My friend married guy, told me once a really great sentence that I will not forget: "Szymon If you want a wife material, do not look on appearance, or on intelligence, find a girl that is not selfish".
When you are with a lady who is right for you, and you are right for her, spending time with her should be as relaxed and enjoyable as having a pet cat curled up and snuggling on your lap = it just 'feels right'. If the lady you are with likes to create drama, start fights, tell her once that you won't put up with that and that's her first and last warning. The next time she creates drama, dump her and move on to find a lady who won't behave badly like that. Drama usually ends up in a future divorce.
You deserve to be a pinned comment. A Lot of men believe they have to have affairs to get by while they are married to the wrong woman for them, Just to keep their parents happy. Anda they know that they could have it all but it is so ingrained in their minds to repeat the same mistakes as their parents.
@@thebesttheworst2277 she was insane. She was saying how she wants to ride me and what not and then she was like "MEH" when I asked to meet up again so I just told her to leave me alone. Weird girl lol.
Rich is spot on and thank you 🙏 Once you cross 40, make 7 figures and have a life only few select can dream of, women will become plug n play accessories. Let me repeat the term: plug n play
All this assumes you have a way to meet the plates you are supposed to spin. Online is very low odds, in person getting harder as all females are on apps only
The "genuine burning desire" concept has been very helpful for me. On dating apps now, I always look for the women who reply with like 3 or 4 messages in a row, the ones who are complimenting me and asking me questions. No need to waste time with ones who reply with a single word and will probably flake later anyway. I want the relationships where it's going to be easy to keep her around, even if I'm dating other women too, and even if I don't give her as much time as she wants. Only dating women who have genuine burning desire makes your life so much easier.
People talk to you on dating Apps?? I resolved two years ago to never again spend money on dating Apps. I've had at best half a dozen matches over the last MONTH.
Dating apps are worse way to meet women.. there are tons of chameleons there.. but to each his own.. I guess in the end you will meet a bad women regardless dating app or RL.. do your research and be mindful of the red flags.. take care gents
Good video, Rich. I bought your book a few weeks ago and am currently reading it. I have a good job, own a home, play competitive rec league sports with some good guys, and am in great shape. However, I did get ghosted by a girl I really hit it off with after newly becoming single after an 8 year LTR in late August. So this video was perfect. I'm diving too deep into whether she got back with her ex or if things were moving too far along and she got spooked and then all of a sudden block me. I'm sure it doesn't really matter and I just need to chase excellence.
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Guys listen to him. I am a woman and I can attest to this. Alpha males don’t chase because they have options. The sole reason of giving men invalid excuses is because we Do NOT see them as high value enough to date them. This is why most alpha males have girls simping over them because they can pick and choose and be with any girls they want. Level up and see the results. Most men do Not want to better themselves because they are either too lazy or they want to stay in their comfort zone. Don’t get offended if you get rejected, instead LEVEL UP. It’s sad that there’s only 10 to 15% alphas in society. All men should be alphas. ☺️
At 51 and married for the past 24 years, I wish I had known this earlier. While married with kids is great, I would never marry again if something happened and I would have married a lot later in life. My drive, focus on my career, job and business has always been a point of stress with my wife and kids. Focusing just on me and my business with some occasional tail would have made life a lot easier. There is really not rush if you have your sh&t together, look good and make bank.
Mark, for the young guys reading this.... Im the opposite. I got married at 24 and my wife left me for her boss when I was 39. Im glad I got married at 24 because it means for me now that my kids are all adults finally and done with the every day stuff at least Im free to do anything I want once again except this time I have a few bucks to do it with. Ive had many fantastic relationships since my divorce with all women 20 years younger and I loved every one of them but I was not willing to get married and have kids but was always up front with them and they got that. All ended well and Im grateful for that. So your experience is you wish you had married later and Im glad I married early. You say that but anything could have happened in those years if you had married later....thats for your comment.
Loved this one. So simple, but a hard lesson for most to learn. Except- when you are married with kids....then you need to put up with some of their crap, at least for the short term, as they do yours.
I needed to hear this today, I have been overthinking a field report the past two days when in reality I am still getting the results that I want. I shouldn't make an issue out of it until that changes.
Read the damn book guys. It a quick and easy read and worth it's weight in gold if you're not already unplugged. Having experienced the genuine burning desire, which Rich talks about, multiple times, in hindsight I see it was always at a point when my indifference towards women was at a pinnacle, because I was on MY mission. Women notice this. They notice you not noticing them.
AT 6:50 "Don't spend too much time on women. It's not a good return on your investment." LOL! Well, maybe it depends on the guy's needs and who that woman is. But I get the point. In general he is right (and this probably goes for both men and women). It was just said in a harsh/hilarious way.
I hate when people say relationships are hard, no they shouldn't, if it's hard you are not we the right person, move on it's not worth it. Nobody ever say friendships are hard.
This video's on point. I used to be like that. I was thinking if I didn't say this or took her to that place instead of this one she would be really into me. Bottom line, if she's keen it doesn't matter where you take or what you say (unless you say something really stupid to turn her off or show her you're beta) she'll make it easy. I don't bother anymore with girls who don't have a level of attraction, too much effort. Know I stopped caring whether they like me or not, and my results have increased exponentially.
Amen to that. The moment I stopped making women my primary focus on life was the moment when my finances, career, education, and happiness started to increase. I have also cared less and less about what others think about me over the years, which drastically helped me in my investment decisions.....this only took me about 10 years ahaha (fell in 'love' at 18, yes I was young and dumb). I am now 32, if only I realized this a lot sooner, then perhaps I would've been even more well off..
After realizing your female friend doesn't see you that way(a potential boyfriend, lover) how do you move forward without treating her with resentment and being cold? Nothing like finding out that all the time you were an "in-betweener" friend to talk about her problems. I wished her the best truly with what she does with life but I can't keep looking past the obvious signs just in hope of something becoming more than platonic. Thank you Cooper!
If you can't just enjoy her as a platonic friend, then you need to let her go for your own sake. Like Shawn says, be honest with yourself and her. If you can't just be friends, she will understand if she cares about you as well. It really sucks when you get shot down but at least you know where you stand. Don't think about changing her mind, or that orbiting her will one day result in being with her - she isn't interested in an intimate relationship, so the question is do you benefit from a platonic one with her?
unfortunately ran into a chick I caught feelings for. She had the audacity while we were out on a date to get a phone number from another guy while we were out, she didn’t know I saw her and called her out on it. We are FWB and not in a relationship which is why she claims she thought it was ok and I wasn’t giving her any wiggle room it was the disrespect of doing that while in my company and she knows it. First anger then Crocodile tears Then the lies about other things started pouring out and she started to get upset with me over things we never talked about. Tried to put the blame on me or get upset over things and redirect the conversation. Claims she gave me 100% honesty… yeah when she was put on the spot and had to. I realized I was dating a pathological liar. Red flags 🚩 became immediately apparent. This one hurts because we clicked so well together and I thought I found “the one” but having coming out of a bad relationship very recently to this, it honestly just feels like the same heartbreak with a different woman. I’m tired of getting my hopes up only to have them smashed.
I have been listening to your channel for over a year. It’s been helpful and your information makes sense. Unlike other channels. Wanted you to know I just bought your audiobook. Thanks for what you do Richard 💪
100% agree. When a girl likes you she will open the door and all you have to do is walk in. Chase excellence and max out the 7 pillars and a women will put herself in your way.
💯. Focus on you. Success. Women come and go and a small percentage are worth the commitment that they require from you in exchange for costing most men more long term than being single and dating fun women.
Honestly you should be glad she's leaving you alone. It's a positive outcome. You don't waste your time or your money that way. Remember that she is the predator and her goal is to drag you into court where all of your superior physical strength counts for nothing.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul. And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created. From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it. For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created.
Thank you Rich. Have a righteous and legendary day too. Simple. Comprehensive. Completely on point. And yet no one is going to do it until they've been humbled enough to take it seriously and got the scars from the experience.
Just an ordinary day at the office for Rich. Unselfishly sharing cutting edge info as usual. Compressing years of life experience and packet it in ten minutes of pure gold. Watch and learn children, watch and learn.
Uncle Rich dropping 💣 as usual - level up, or woman out. It’s simple as that. You’re not her best option, so. Hit the gym, make money, style up. Simple facts 👊🏼💪🏼
Where were you when i was in my 20s or even early 30s...I wish i had access to such wisdom in my earlier ages...Which then came sort of ,and through experience...
While I don’t agree with you on every aspect of what you say, the core of what you say is so undeniably true that I don’t think anyone can argue it. I appreciate you man.
To be fair some of these red pill channels do sort of distort some dudes minds to over think. I honestly think one of the premises in these channels should be to lay a good foundation and pass on information but to remind guys not to over think and just have a fun life. All this dont text back right away, don’t ever pick her up, never pay for the date, blah blah blah. I agree in the context the guy should be aware to not get used or plaid by those means, but also to just go with the flow and feel the situation out. It is still possible to be a red pill gentleman who can quickly revert to “gtfo of my face”. It doesn’t have to be all cut throat 24/7. Some of us aren’t built for that anyways.
Just finished your book today. Unlike other books its a no nonsense guide for man in today's world. Every man should own a copy. Great book. Highly recommend.
That is true on the one hand, but on the other hand, how a man can get a desired women when he is not asking himself 'why she is not responding to him'? He should be asking these questions if he is not getting results he want. I am not talking about obsessing over one girl, but getting good with girls in general. Skills in business and in dealing with a girl are completely different. He might work on his business all day, but if he wants to learn how to deal with any girl, he needs to ask this questions. If he will not ask these 'how to get better results', then he will never do.
I've been married for 9 years. A friend of mine had his LTR walk on him. He was back in the dating seeing and was a complete moron. It literally took months of explaining this stuff to him before he started applying it. Once he had it down its been smooth sailing.
Thanks Richard , I love your videos . Men don't have to waste time understand women , we only just have to be in their minds . Thanks so much , to help me to discover that I have to focus on my path and purpose
Thank you for making me understand . Remind me that it should be easy and fun except men complicate things to much . If it ain’t easy and fun then she ain’t that interested and time to focus on yourself to improve . Cheers
My last three women I dated have had these issues: The first had no drivers license because of an OVI. She hit a school bus at 7am and the police found several bottles of prescription anxiety drugs in her car. She had sold her car and had no intention of getting a license. I had become her go take me to get food, beer, cigs and court hearings. Good Bye to her. The second carried a flask of vodka everywhere. Drank a fifth each day while on vacation. She got smashed on a airline trip and started yelling on the jet. I had to calm her down or be fined. We got to the hub and she went straight to the bar. I looked in on her and she was checking in on her dating app. I hopped on the jet and never looked back. The third has been married 4 times and has five children. Three different father's for her children. The last child she lost total custody and is unable to see him. She had a serious auto accident 10 years ago and has ended up with a pain doctor. She only comes around now for certain is to use my phone because her phone is unable for video conferences to the doctor to receive pain medications. One minute she is all good and the next you will wait days for a response. Such is life!
"To be honest" "If I'm being honest" "Just being honest here" "To be honest with you" Rich, get the mitigating/minimizing language out of your speech. You should have learned this in any credible sales training you went through. Commit to what you mean. Then say it, succinctly. Don't hedge. It's incongruous with your mission, so stop doing it.
Three rules of the high value men; -Don't date single mothers -Don't date 25+ years plus women -Never fully commit Follow these rules and your dating life will exponencially get better. Stay safe gentlemen.
Very true , you gotta get in your zone snd once u do , money comes then the women come easy , then it’s just picking the most feminine ones! 😎 have fun with it
Right on. If you just act like you want her, but not too much , don't talk too much, sex just happens. Then be playful hang out and hook up. Every time I've messed up with women it's by not following this formula.
A paraphrase: Guys that have their thing together… that have maxed out the key areas - they don’t really care that much about the opinion of other people, especially women.
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Really? Let me guess..you think you know what's really going on?
Type exactly into a search engine..
First city 300 base stations
Why was radio shut down in ww1
Group 2B RF
Human Virome
What do tonsils filter
Is RF radiation harmful
What are the effects of RF radiation
What causes RF radiation
Does taste return after radiation
"It all boils down to the same thing: She doesn't see you as the best option, and you're spending way too much time overthinking it, and you should re-invest that time on yourself on something that's going to pay a dividend off to you" -- The older I get, the more I realize this to be the truth with women. You're 100% right with this line Rich. Women would jump through every hoop imaginable if she genuinely wants to be with you
Nailed it!
AWESOME THANKS 🙏
But beta's keep ruining the game
She is not seeing you as their best option examples:
1. Takes long time to reply and their replies are dull and disinterested
2. Cancel dates at the last minute
3. Always comes with excuses for everything
4. You call her and she never pickup the phone
5. She never returns your call
6. When setting the date she is putting conditions like I need to get up early, I don't want to go that place, my friend can come?
You try 2 times to date her if doesn't work look for another one.
I’m 22 and I’ve known this for 2 years thanks to dudes like Rich.
I just turned 64, getting divorced for the second time. Current wife is 20 yrs younger. We have been married 8 years. Just no longer had the desire or energy to put up with her demands for my time and energy. And quite honestly, I have just lost my desire to be around a woman. I spent the majority of my life wasting time, energy, and resources chasing tail. And now at 64, I could take it or leave it. I have learned there are very, very few women worth the price of admission. For 8 or 9 out of 10 guys marriage is a life of compromise, regret, and ultimately losing a lot of what you have.
Serious Questions: What's wrong with compromise or how do you mean it, negatively, because marriage is about negotiations, correct? If you could be more specific, I'm interested. Moreso, what regrets or losses of what you have aren't worth marriage, in your opinion? Thanks.
well they don't sound very fun to me...
That’s cos your testosterone is tanking my man
"Son, if beautiful women aren't chasing you, you are doing something seriously wrong. It's on you to figure out what that is. You will attract what you are." - Dad
"Ok" - me
But the marketplace can be shitty too. Here in the west you need to put 10x effort than usual to get a normal woman.
Good advice Rich. I’m 63 yrs. old worked out most of my life & just got rid of my girlfriend of 3 years. I bought a puppy & I can honestly say I’ve never been happier. Life is way to short to put up with crap from woman
As Rich says, if you want loyalty get a dog lol
54 and AMEN!
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Rich ,
A friend suggested I listen to your content after divorce. Will have to admit I was completely oblivious to why she would divorce me. I was Beta-tized through a thousand concessions was married 7.5 years. She constantly told me she wishes I was the man she married. THE UNPLUGGED ALPHA answered all my questions I no longer had to lay in bed at night wondering what went wrong. This book needs to be put in every young man’s hands before making any relationship decisions.
My life is forever changed because of your content thank you!
Thx bro, glad it helped you.
She kept signaling you bro.. I guess you need to KNOW how to act so that you can course correct.
"Relationship with women should be easy and fun".... well said Rich, well said! At this point in my life, I'm too busy to put up with B.S!
I read your book and I agree.
I would also add one more thing if you are looking for a woman that you want to spend your life with.
My friend married guy, told me once a really great sentence that I will not forget:
"Szymon If you want a wife material, do not look on appearance, or on intelligence, find a girl that is not selfish".
When you are with a lady who is right for you, and you are right for her, spending time with her should be as relaxed and enjoyable as having a pet cat curled up and snuggling on your lap = it just 'feels right'. If the lady you are with likes to create drama, start fights, tell her once that you won't put up with that and that's her first and last warning. The next time she creates drama, dump her and move on to find a lady who won't behave badly like that. Drama usually ends up in a future divorce.
Spot on, great description and analogy 👌👏
You deserve to be a pinned comment. A Lot of men believe they have to have affairs to get by while they are married to the wrong woman for them, Just to keep their parents happy. Anda they know that they could have it all but it is so ingrained in their minds to repeat the same mistakes as their parents.
I've done that recently and she blocked me lol. haven't heard from her in over a month.
@@mrpantur7280 She done you a favour, you just never got to see how big of a favour it was.
@@thebesttheworst2277 she was insane. She was saying how she wants to ride me and what not and then she was like "MEH" when I asked to meet up again so I just told her to leave me alone. Weird girl lol.
Rich is spot on and thank you 🙏 Once you cross 40, make 7 figures and have a life only few select can dream of, women will become plug n play accessories. Let me repeat the term: plug n play
Plug n play?
Yeah, the ones that are after your resources, not after you as a person
@@JureJerebic That's a stupid ass comment.
All this assumes you have a way to meet the plates you are supposed to spin. Online is very low odds, in person getting harder as all females are on apps only
Yes, but you will still be an illega l imm igrant no matter how much you make
The "genuine burning desire" concept has been very helpful for me. On dating apps now, I always look for the women who reply with like 3 or 4 messages in a row, the ones who are complimenting me and asking me questions. No need to waste time with ones who reply with a single word and will probably flake later anyway. I want the relationships where it's going to be easy to keep her around, even if I'm dating other women too, and even if I don't give her as much time as she wants. Only dating women who have genuine burning desire makes your life so much easier.
People talk to you on dating Apps??
I resolved two years ago to never again spend money on dating Apps. I've had at best half a dozen matches over the last MONTH.
@@Edithae I'm a white guy in Thailand, so I get a ton of matches. In the US it will be slower, but if you have good pictures it helps a lot.
Dating apps are worse way to meet women.. there are tons of chameleons there.. but to each his own.. I guess in the end you will meet a bad women regardless dating app or RL.. do your research and be mindful of the red flags.. take care gents
Stay off dating apps
Good video, Rich. I bought your book a few weeks ago and am currently reading it. I have a good job, own a home, play competitive rec league sports with some good guys, and am in great shape. However, I did get ghosted by a girl I really hit it off with after newly becoming single after an 8 year LTR in late August. So this video was perfect. I'm diving too deep into whether she got back with her ex or if things were moving too far along and she got spooked and then all of a sudden block me. I'm sure it doesn't really matter and I just need to chase excellence.
She did you a favour, she showed you she was not worthy of your time. Pay attention when women show you how terrible they are and move on.
@@lifesabeach5405 lmao true
That head movement at 5:04 was MMA level. Love it.
You need mma reflex’s to avoid the bullshit women throw at you…
*10 things to quit for all Strong Men:*
1. Caring about what others think
2. Not believing in yourself
3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business)
4. Not prioritizing your health
5. Wasting your precious time
6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it)
7. Chasing meaningless relationships
8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩
9. Wasting time by scrolling social media
10. Bad habit for good (if you have those - gaming, dirty websites, binge eating - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!)
Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Bro I agree but I ain't quitting gaming lmao, that shit helps out so much
Stopped reading after 1.
Guys listen to him. I am a woman and I can attest to this. Alpha males don’t chase because they have options. The sole reason of giving men invalid excuses is because we Do NOT see them as high value enough to date them. This is why most alpha males have girls simping over them because they can pick and choose and be with any girls they want. Level up and see the results. Most men do Not want to better themselves because they are either too lazy or they want to stay in their comfort zone. Don’t get offended if you get rejected, instead LEVEL UP. It’s sad that there’s only 10 to 15% alphas in society. All men should be alphas. ☺️
This also applies to response time with texting on dating apps, if she can't find the time to reply she doesn't deserve a guy.
You’re doing the lords work, Rich 🙏
At 51 and married for the past 24 years, I wish I had known this earlier. While married with kids is great, I would never marry again if something happened and I would have married a lot later in life. My drive, focus on my career, job and business has always been a point of stress with my wife and kids. Focusing just on me and my business with some occasional tail would have made life a lot easier. There is really not rush if you have your sh&t together, look good and make bank.
Mark, for the young guys reading this.... Im the opposite. I got married at 24 and my wife left me for her boss when I was 39. Im glad I got married at 24 because it means for me now that my kids are all adults finally and done with the every day stuff at least Im free to do anything I want once again except this time I have a few bucks to do it with. Ive had many fantastic relationships since my divorce with all women 20 years younger and I loved every one of them but I was not willing to get married and have kids but was always up front with them and they got that. All ended well and Im grateful for that. So your experience is you wish you had married later and Im glad I married early. You say that but anything could have happened in those years if you had married later....thats for your comment.
Loved this one. So simple, but a hard lesson for most to learn. Except- when you are married with kids....then you need to put up with some of their crap, at least for the short term, as they do yours.
I needed to hear this today, I have been overthinking a field report the past two days when in reality I am still getting the results that I want. I shouldn't make an issue out of it until that changes.
A good woman sooths the soul not aggravates it
Great advice. This is not about hating women. It is about living meaningful, sensible, ratiinal, useful and productive life.
Read the damn book guys. It a quick and easy read and worth it's weight in gold if you're not already unplugged.
Having experienced the genuine burning desire, which Rich talks about, multiple times, in hindsight I see it was always at a point when my indifference towards women was at a pinnacle, because I was on MY mission. Women notice this. They notice you not noticing them.
AT 6:50 "Don't spend too much time on women. It's not a good return on your investment."
LOL! Well, maybe it depends on the guy's needs and who that woman is. But I get the point.
In general he is right (and this probably goes for both men and women). It was just said in a harsh/hilarious way.
Just be you and be grounded on life ! .. 34 year old , Scotland, Glasgow.
I hate when people say relationships are hard, no they shouldn't, if it's hard you are not we the right person, move on it's not worth it.
Nobody ever say friendships are hard.
This video's on point. I used to be like that. I was thinking if I didn't say this or took her to that place instead of this one she would be really into me. Bottom line, if she's keen it doesn't matter where you take or what you say (unless you say something really stupid to turn her off or show her you're beta) she'll make it easy. I don't bother anymore with girls who don't have a level of attraction, too much effort. Know I stopped caring whether they like me or not, and my results have increased exponentially.
Amen to that. The moment I stopped making women my primary focus on life was the moment when my finances, career, education, and happiness started to increase. I have also cared less and less about what others think about me over the years, which drastically helped me in my investment decisions.....this only took me about 10 years ahaha (fell in 'love' at 18, yes I was young and dumb). I am now 32, if only I realized this a lot sooner, then perhaps I would've been even more well off..
Exactly. Common sense and detachment are key 💜
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Thanks brother. Always the highest quality of info. 👏🏻🤛🏻
6:49...lol love the frustratingly taking the "noose" off after the quote about wasting too much time on women.
Definitely agree. Don't chase women, chase excellence and they will come to you
After realizing your female friend doesn't see you that way(a potential boyfriend, lover) how do you move forward without treating her with resentment and being cold? Nothing like finding out that all the time you were an "in-betweener" friend to talk about her problems. I wished her the best truly with what she does with life but I can't keep looking past the obvious signs just in hope of something becoming more than platonic.
Thank you Cooper!
Female "friends" don't exist my guy
@@shawnb6775 So that means I already messed long ago when I was asked can we still be friends and I said yes?
@@shawnb6775 True!
If you can't just enjoy her as a platonic friend, then you need to let her go for your own sake. Like Shawn says, be honest with yourself and her. If you can't just be friends, she will understand if she cares about you as well. It really sucks when you get shot down but at least you know where you stand. Don't think about changing her mind, or that orbiting her will one day result in being with her - she isn't interested in an intimate relationship, so the question is do you benefit from a platonic one with her?
unfortunately ran into a chick I caught feelings for.
She had the audacity while we were out on a date to get a phone number from another guy while we were out, she didn’t know I saw her and called her out on it.
We are FWB and not in a relationship which is why she claims she thought it was ok and I wasn’t giving her any wiggle room it was the disrespect of doing that while in my company and she knows it. First anger then Crocodile tears
Then the lies about other things started pouring out and she started to get upset with me over things we never talked about. Tried to put the blame on me or get upset over things and redirect the conversation. Claims she gave me 100% honesty… yeah when she was put on the spot and had to.
I realized I was dating a pathological liar. Red flags 🚩 became immediately apparent.
This one hurts because we clicked so well together and I thought I found “the one” but having coming out of a bad relationship very recently to this, it honestly just feels like the same heartbreak with a different woman.
I’m tired of getting my hopes up only to have them smashed.
I have been listening to your channel for over a year. It’s been helpful and your information makes sense. Unlike other channels. Wanted you to know I just bought your audiobook.
Thanks for what you do Richard 💪
100% agree. When a girl likes you she will open the door and all you have to do is walk in. Chase excellence and max out the 7 pillars and a women will put herself in your way.
Women are applying this same tactic. The human race is bound to die out to selfishness.
Great talk Rich..Live your best life, Leveled Up, Holding Frame, a No BS Zone..peace bro
Thank you. Looking forward to you on Jordan Peterson’s podcast!
Wait really?
💯. Focus on you. Success. Women come and go and a small percentage are worth the commitment that they require from you in exchange for costing most men more long term than being single and dating fun women.
Honestly you should be glad she's leaving you alone. It's a positive outcome. You don't waste your time or your money that way. Remember that she is the predator and her goal is to drag you into court where all of your superior physical strength counts for nothing.
Man is created to praise, reverence, and serve God our Lord, and by this means to save his soul.
And the other things on the face of the earth are created for man and that they may help him in prosecuting the end for which he is created.
From this it follows that man is to use them as much as they help him on to his end, and ought to rid himself of them so far as they hinder him as to it.
For this it is necessary to make ourselves indifferent to all created things in all that is allowed to the choice of our free will and is not prohibited to it; so that, on our part, we want not health rather than sickness, riches rather than poverty,honor rather than dishonor, long rather than short life, and so in all the rest; desiring and choosing only what is most conducive for us to the end for which we are created.
Thank you Rich.
Have a righteous and legendary day too.
Simple. Comprehensive. Completely on point.
And yet no one is going to do it until they've been humbled enough to take it seriously and got the scars from the experience.
Rock solid advice, thank you Rich!
Rich is on point. I’m seeing a woman who will go above and beyond to be with me. She works around my schedule and is a compliment to my life.
Just an ordinary day at the office for Rich. Unselfishly sharing cutting edge info as usual. Compressing years of life experience and packet it in ten minutes of pure gold. Watch and learn children, watch and learn.
Uncle Rich dropping 💣 as usual - level up, or woman out. It’s simple as that.
You’re not her best option, so. Hit the gym, make money, style up.
Simple facts 👊🏼💪🏼
Women before 35 = riding the CC
Women after 35 = I’m ready to settle down but men don’t wanna commit.
Duh 🙄
a u t i s m o
That’s true, Shiraz. Someone once said “If women didn’t have double standards, they wouldn’t have standards at all.”
My brotha’s!
Thank you Rich for everything you do!
You have changed my life 🙏
Overcomplication is a sign of not understanding.
I needed to hear this today, thank you sir. I’m headed to jiujitsu now, based on one of the recommendations you made. Take care bro 👊🏽
The key line
He doesn’t give a shit! Perfect!
Love all your videos brother.
The 7 spokes was the most useful for me
I needed this video today
Perfect “easy and fun” there’s no bs games !
You’re info wrecks all these young RUclips gurus who have half the life experience that you do. 👏
Where were you when i was in my 20s or even early 30s...I wish i had access to such wisdom in my earlier ages...Which then came sort of ,and through experience...
While I don’t agree with you on every aspect of what you say, the core of what you say is so undeniably true that I don’t think anyone can argue it. I appreciate you man.
Damn, thanks Rich. So glad i found your channel 4 years ago.
Thank you Rich. Thank you.
It's really that simple isn't it, thanks Rich!
I like it - Women should be Easy and Fun. You should spend your available time chasing excellence, that is what will pay dividends in your life.
To be fair some of these red pill channels do sort of distort some dudes minds to over think. I honestly think one of the premises in these channels should be to lay a good foundation and pass on information but to remind guys not to over think and just have a fun life.
All this dont text back right away, don’t ever pick her up, never pay for the date, blah blah blah. I agree in the context the guy should be aware to not get used or plaid by those means, but also to just go with the flow and feel the situation out.
It is still possible to be a red pill gentleman who can quickly revert to “gtfo of my face”. It doesn’t have to be all cut throat 24/7. Some of us aren’t built for that anyways.
Just finished your book today. Unlike other books its a no nonsense guide for man in today's world. Every man should own a copy. Great book. Highly recommend.
you tried to say "no nonsense", i think you said the oppossite :)
@@gbessone yeah !!
The title says it all. Rest of the Video is good subtext. Peace and Greetings from Germany. Land of the Free 😂😂😂✌️
Thanks Rick found this very useful,
That is true on the one hand, but on the other hand, how a man can get a desired women when he is not asking himself 'why she is not responding to him'? He should be asking these questions if he is not getting results he want.
I am not talking about obsessing over one girl, but getting good with girls in general.
Skills in business and in dealing with a girl are completely different.
He might work on his business all day, but if he wants to learn how to deal with any girl, he needs to ask this questions. If he will not ask these 'how to get better results', then he will never do.
Got it. Thanks
Man Rich, This 1 is your most important Video.........💯🙌🤝🍻
I've been married for 9 years. A friend of mine had his LTR walk on him. He was back in the dating seeing and was a complete moron. It literally took months of explaining this stuff to him before he started applying it. Once he had it down its been smooth sailing.
you fail to understand that most men will never drive a 300k dollar car, no matter how hard they try
Relationships are like farts - if you try to force them, things don't turn out well.
Great advice for men. I wish I had known this in my younger years.
This guy rocks 🤟🤟🤟listen guys ✌
Figure out your finances and your fitness and you'll never worry about figuring out a female
Easy women are the best .
Im guilty as charged lol
Good one !
Thank you Pastor
Thanks Richard , I love your videos . Men don't have to waste time understand women , we only just have to be in their minds . Thanks so much , to help me to discover that I have to focus on my path and purpose
You make a great point: don't put too much time in women. 1 they don't deserve it and 2 they won't respect you for doing it.
No woman = no complications
Thank you for making me understand . Remind me that it should be easy and fun except men complicate things to much . If it ain’t easy and fun then she ain’t that interested and time to focus on yourself to improve . Cheers
My last three women I dated have had these issues:
The first had no drivers license because of an OVI. She hit a school bus at 7am and the police found several bottles of prescription anxiety drugs in her car. She had sold her car and had no intention of getting a license. I had become her go take me to get food, beer, cigs and court hearings. Good Bye to her.
The second carried a flask of vodka everywhere. Drank a fifth each day while on vacation. She got smashed on a airline trip and started yelling on the jet. I had to calm her down or be fined. We got to the hub and she went straight to the bar. I looked in on her and she was checking in on her dating app. I hopped on the jet and never looked back.
The third has been married 4 times and has five children. Three different father's for her children. The last child she lost total custody and is unable to see him. She had a serious auto accident 10 years ago and has ended up with a pain doctor. She only comes around now for certain is to use my phone because her phone is unable for video conferences to the doctor to receive pain medications. One minute she is all good and the next you will wait days for a response.
Such is life!
Jesus Christ!!! More red flags there than a CCP parade!!!!
@@rangerwhite5165 😀
Good reminder video
"To be honest" "If I'm being honest" "Just being honest here" "To be honest with you" Rich, get the mitigating/minimizing language out of your speech. You should have learned this in any credible sales training you went through. Commit to what you mean. Then say it, succinctly. Don't hedge. It's incongruous with your mission, so stop doing it.
3:33
It's a fat ball.
Cholesterol mainly.
Translation= be the boss King
Need drama get a woman/they can't help their self/let alone any one else next.
My favorite Post Rich… I have been trained my whole life to overly value a woman’s opinion.
Thank you.
Great advice 🍻
Three rules of the high value men;
-Don't date single mothers
-Don't date 25+ years plus women
-Never fully commit
Follow these rules and your dating life will exponencially get better. Stay safe gentlemen.
Very true , you gotta get in your zone snd once u do , money comes then the women come easy , then it’s just picking the most feminine ones! 😎 have fun with it
Right on. If you just act like you want her, but not too much , don't talk too much, sex just happens. Then be playful hang out and hook up. Every time I've messed up with women it's by not following this formula.
A paraphrase:
Guys that have their thing together… that have maxed out the key areas - they don’t really care that much about the opinion of other people, especially women.
I’m leaving Becky behind Richie!
That's a cool looking coat Rich and a great video.
Chads don’t deal with unnecessary garbage!