Why Do Women Cheat? What is Soaking?
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- Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
- Men often ask why women cheat on them, in this video I break down the reasons, and talk about a strange coping mechanism called 'soaking"
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wrong, rich.. they fuck the winners.
Another great video as always! Personal story here for those who should have no doubt this is all true: Had a fiancé that was a college sweetheart, Asian girl from a great family, both of us with an Ivy league education, perfect relationship all around. We did everything together and it was a relationship straight out of a fairytale. We ran and biked together, started a business, cooked amazing stuff all the time, went out on the town, traveled, almost never argued.
She loved me dearly and was what I would call a sweetheart in her loving and caring personality. She would give me massages everyday and I never would ask. Sex life was epic. I mean just a perfect relationship. She would never lie to her parents or to me either. She was an angel and everyone in our friends group loved her and could not believe what she did. She cheated on me! Yes, this girl that no one in my friends group, her parents, my parents, NO ONE, could believe it! When she broke up with me to go with this other guy, it was like I was talking to a different person I never saw before. She was evil and different. I was so good to her and all I can say is that Cooper is right - ANY girl no matter how good you think they are - CAN CHEAT AND WILL CHEAT - if they decide to. The other major point is that - RELATIONSHIP EQUITY DOES NOT EXIST! Even though I was the most amazing boyfriend she ever had in her life, her first love too (she was a virgin), she still cheated and left me. Even though the guy she left me for treated her much worse and was a loser financially, that didn't matter in the moment. I was a blue piller until this happened to me and have since learned the hard lesson with the heartbreak. I am super thankful we didn't get married, have kids, a house, or anything together - but it was close!
Jeffery Epstein did not commit suicide. If you, personally, possessed digital, photographic or video evidence that implicated Epstein's wealthy and elite clients, AND BROUGHT IT TO THE ATTENTION OF YOUR GOVERNMENT LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICERS, then YOU would be arrested, prosecuted, and convicted for possession of child pornography AND BE CAGED FOR LIFE while Epstein's powerful clients would continue to be free from prosecution. Government laws are written to protect the elite and powerful so that they can continue to victimize your children with impunity. Wouldn't you agree that this is rather revolting?
This happened under Trump's watch and Trump's Justice Department. Atty. Gen. Barr declares it was a suicide. Epstein was friends with the Clintons and also Trump. And then Trump appointed Jim Acosta as Secretary of Labor after Acosta had given this monster a sweetheart deal?
Trump facilitated this if not participated in this. Facilitation is as evil as participation. Jim Acosta probably knows about Trump's participation...all of the sordid details.
THIS IS A COVER UP.
Love the Soap
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I was struggling financially and emotionally and my wife cheated on me and left. Now I’m doing better than ever both financially and emotionally and she cries all the time because she wants to get back with me. I’m sorry but I’m better without you.
True g
Juan Sebastian she had no faith in you and couldn't wait for you to resolve your financial and emotional issues
Miguel mejia and the main reason why I was not doing well was her. I used to make her the focus of my life, but as soon as she left I made myself the focus of my life. Then my life got better
Juan Sebastian yup, as a man you can’t be too focused on the woman. She either understands that your not responsible for her happiness. But when guys goo goo ga ga over women and treat them like a pet she will get a strong man.
As men we need to stop chasing women, that don’t have the stability in their lives. They get bored too easily!
I'm impressed, well done sir, hats off.
My dad told me when I was 12 years old that when a woman stops loving you there's nothing you can do to ever make her love you again. That wisdom has served me well in life.
When a woman says she loves you remember that its a lie.
@@rrmackay It's a lie of omission. What she really means is, "I love what you can do for me "
So true!
That is great wisdom. I wish my parents would have told me things like that. I got the old fashioned blue pilled "bring her flowers and everything will be ok" BS.
Wise words from a good man ✌🏽
My wife is 32 and I'm 37. She's disabled so I do everything (drive, cook, clean, all the heavy lifting, etc.) Guess what she's admitted to recently. Having thoughts about a guy that was nice to her in high school. She wanted me to "pray" with her about it. Yea ok! Also, she said she was afraid to tell me because she doesn't want me to be upset. It doesn't matter if a woman is disabled physically, mentally, believes in God, etc she is always looking for an upgrade.
I’m so sorry brother. I hope you had the courage to leave her
What a piece of work she is.
Just make sure you take this OPPORTUNITY to dump her. You monkey branch.
Drop her like a hot potato
@@ivanr4300 Like a sack of potatoes.
My ex-wife’s father is a pastor and when we got married he drilled into me how “marriage is forever”. Then when she wanted to leave me and our son he told her “make sure you lawyer up”. So yeah, being “religious” means nothing. In fact, many times it’s worse.
Sounds like both of them will have some difficulty on their FINAL entrance exam. I'd rather not add to the list of things I'll have to answer for.
Religion means nothing, judge people by their actions.
I married a preacher's daughter and I got it drilled in to me about the sanctimony of marriage while she was cheating on me the whole time. Now her dad thinks I'm a piece of shit. Funny how that works.
Religion only works on Sunday!!!!!!
Wow Bro🙏
"women don't care about your struggles, they hang out at the finish line and pick the winners !" so true
I know women who, some are attractive, some are not, that pick losers...OFTEN. This line of reasoning is fallacious.
@@ArisenMind
They pick losers FROM OUR PERSPECTIVE, but in their mind they see those losers as WINNERS. They mistake their jerkness as confidence and success, and being alpha. And they make her emotions shake, so that's a winner, right? Yes. Yes! In her point of view.
@@NeoZeta I wouldn't really say from our perspective. I know plenty of women who know they are dating or having a fwb thing with a no good guy.
It's about her emotions not necessarily the status of the man. So, you're half right in a sense.
There's a song by the rnb singer mary j blige about how she loves her mr. wrong.
Also physical attraction can play a huge part in that. Afterall who cares if he's a loser if, for her, he's attractive and the dick is good?
Yes, by all metrics he's a loser but he engages her emotions. Doesn't make him a winner....even with her, just means that he has value to her. Value does not equate to being a winner with many women. It's more about validation of them than anything else.
@@ArisenMind
Yes, that's why I included the part about their jerkness and shaking her emotions. But really, they know he's a bad boy, but the thing is they don't see the bad boy as a loser. They more quickly see the nice guy as a loser than the bad boy. So Mr. Wrong is still a winner for them for he makes them feel.
@@NeoZeta I suppose that we're differing on the definition of the term winner.
In the real world, I simply don't see women seeing these guys as winners, even by a woman's own admission. I suppose you could say that the man won her over and use the definition in that context.
Perhaps I'm splitting hairs. I do see your point however Daniel. Thanks.
Divorced = cost me $1 million dollars + $1200 a month child support for 10 years..I’ve been single for 10 years..she called me last week wanting to borrow money so she can divorce her current husband..lmao stay single guys!
Is this true???🤓
Why did you ever get married? It's just a legal arrangement.
What happened to your prenup duh🤷🏽♀️
1million? damn!
That ?itch burned off the million bucks and thee 1200 dollars a month, raped and pillaged another guy and then still was expecting you to give her money she would never pay back. LOL.
They really are that crazy.
"If you are looking for love, get a dog." ~Someone somewhere who learned the hard way.
No one will love as much as a dog.. or any other intelligent pet for that matter
Amen
Just been a fool , only Happens once massive lesson learnt
Truth!
Or any animal, Animals will be grateful for the love you give them...
I know a woman who left her husband and 3 kids for a guy that convinced her he was a billionaire and had multiple houses, and he was actually living with his mom and owed an ex-wife alimony. She totally destroyed the family and her life.
I kinda love that story
Reminds me of snake in the garden. Except worse.
Ja jaaaaaa, instant karma bitch!
Beautiful.
Love it 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good.
A test of a woman's loyalty is when they're presented with more options.
In other words... Every time she checks her phone...
@@macioluko9484 That hit me hard, Jesus Christ
I never cheated however I know heaps who do and they do it for attention, It's basically vanity.
Macio Luko or when you see her on tinder
More better options
Women will often leave / cheat on a man when he's down on his luck.
Garden City or even worse when you’re sick. My wife cheated on me within 1 month after I had surgery and was recovering....they are cold as ice
Same happened to me, I got really sick, and woke up one morning to find my supposed best friend licking my gf's cnt.... In the house i paid everything for and even gave my friend a free room to stay in....... fuck that shit.
@@ar053x damn that's brutal, i feel for you dude
@@retrogamer82 Sorry to hear that brother. A least tell me you're no longer with this tart?
He must have been starving, did you stock the fridge or what?
I’m a woman and what he is saying is exactly right.
How many dudes have you “soaked” with?
I actually thank you for your honesty!
When it's over, it's over. Move on as quickly as you can no matter how good you think she is. Just remember, when it comes to breakups that you don't initiate, it's not up to you, it's up to her.
….and zero contact other than legal.
You can tell how much a women likes you by her feet. If they are behind her ears, she really really likes you
I don't get it lol
That's hilarious...but true
Lol you da man !!
Does this apply when you are in a yoga class ?
thaik56 she’s having sex dummy
A woman falls in love with everything you are. She spends the relationship trying to change you into everything you are not.. and if you let them.. they will dump you for a guy that is what you were when she fell for you.
This is SOOOO true!
WOW!!!!!!!! Never heard/read this, but this mirrors my experience! Thanks!
Fucked up in their head lol
Wisdom
Have you heard" I want the old you back"..... Lololololol 😎 👍
I wish this guy had been around 40 years ago, I learned a lot of things the hard way. This guy is exactly right.
You're wrong! My girlfriend is not like this at all. She's a princess & I make sure to tell her that every time I drop her off at Steve's house.
I love that!
Had us in the first half, not gonna lie
Got any footage for us?
@@ryangrace1524 Ask Steve.
🤣🤣🤣
If 50% admit "having a backup plan" , then the real number is prob 75-90%.
I'd like to know the source of this, but it's definitely true. I'm a girl's backup plan right now (or so she thinks lmao).
@@MrHav1k ... Been there. Lol.
Sometimes it's super obvious when a chick is cultivating us as orbiters. Lol
I tend to agree that the number ris far higher... since a lot of times the backup plans arent explicit... a lot of times it's just platonic friends, that a girl keeps in her life.... not with an romantic subtext... but who are definitely ready to escalate with her a backup relationship.
I'd love some study links on this topic.
@@breakingthemasks Absolutely. What makes it even more sad/pathetic is that for all of the options these girls have between social media and online dating they feel the need to even keep guys on the back burner at all. You can get another guy 5 minutes after a break-up, what's the point of not even allowing yourself to be completely single for even a minute? It's dumb. Most girls in western countries haven't been truly single (AKA not dating/fucking/talking to ANYONE else) since they hit puberty.
@@MrHav1k ... Yeah... It's horribly unfair... But it's life.
I think men underestimate how insecure women feel. I think if a male was placed in a female body he would behave wildly differently. Because he is used to cultivating an inner confidence even in the face of constant rejection. With the ego stroking and easy access to physical intimacy that a woman gets... A man would be walking on air, he'd be so confident. But a woman never has to cultivate that same inner confidence... So she is always feeling unworthy (all but the top girl and even for her, she must strive to maintain her position at the top)
So it's natural for them to maintain orbiters to pacify their anxiety.
And about never being single... Yeah, they can get s new boy on demand.
But, it sucks to be alone... If men could get a new girl on demand, we probably wouldn't stay single much either.
Definitely agree that it is a very rare time period for a pretty girl to be completely not talking to anyone. It would have to be a deliberate choice to cut contact with the world... Because they get incoming conversations all the time.
'Women are the more caring, loving, kinder, fairer sex.' I've heard this 100 times in my life, and it makes me laugh more and more each time. The overwhelming majority of Western men are so clueless it's painful.
The statement is true, but it only applies to the womans children
All the better for me!
Sorry guys I know that was a long rant but I have barely spoken a word about it. I’m kind of a loner.and keep very few friends around, only a few ppl who always been loyal and honest through all our bullshit struggles in life. And I’m a bow hunter so naturally I like having that free time without others needed my constant attention. I give that only to my grandfather, I refuse to let him go to home. He’s gonna stay in his home, and I’ll take care of whatever work he needs done. Broads don’t seem to fit into this life too well I couldn’t care less what some cunt thinks or wants. I haven’t met one yet that hasn’t proved to be worthless or an absolute drag on my life force.
All you guys out there I hope you’re using your time wisely. Love this channel and this guts talks. And information. But how many of you are still looking for a broad? Forget that shit. Get yourself a bow. Or a bike. Something anything and dive into that. Enjoy every min of your time, and set goals high. If you get into bow hunting like I have for example the goal is to get to Alaska and get a pointy stick into a moose. Not a broad. Broads are worthless if you ask me.
Honestly overtime I can't help but to develop the belief that men are more emotional than women, maybe its just me but Im very sensitive when it comes to people I love, Or have developed a bond with, working on what that exactly means for myself
In truth, I would say that's accurate more often then not in regards to their children. A mothers love is true and pure. But a woman will NEVER have the kind of love and compassion for her husband/boyfriend that *they* have for her.
I broke up with my gf because she treated me like shit throughout our entire 5 year relationship. I was tired and fed up. I broke up with her. 6-9 months later I’m more financially stable, emotionally stable, I have my own place with my own possessions, and I upgraded to a better girl who treats me better.
Now she’s been trying to get back with me, and get this, she’s with to some other guy stringing him along. I confronted her about it and she’s willing to leave him for me. Big red flag. Stay woke kings
Tell the other guy that too
Hell yeah !! Me too, she treated me like shit and I found out she went and hung out with an old boyfriend. She claims they just talked. Lol. I don't even answer her texts. We were not married but in what was an exclusive relationship. Yeah, believe the behavior and not her manipulative words. Don't be a slave to her because of that honeypot she has between her legs. I'm working for only me now. Never felt better. Stay strong brothers !
History, if she cheated in her past she will cheat on you at some point usually when things get tough.
A guarantee!
One of the signs is that she is still in contact with one or all of her ex`s...that`s her keeping a back door open for an escape...
So true. I got into my first ever serious relationship with my old manager from work. As soon as I gave her a bit of attention she was on her way over mine ready for some dick, she was in a relationship with some guy for 4 years but that didn’t stop her.. For whatever reason what started as I joke to me ended up with me falling in love with her. She left her old partner for me and at the time I even thought to myself damn she’s done it so quick and cold I felt sorry for him. Fast forward almost 3 years later we have a pathetic little argument and she’s “done”. We’re not good for each other blah blah blah 3 weeks later she’s in a relationship with some other guy.
Moral of story, if she’s cheated with you she’ll cheat on you too. Life lesson learnt. The signs are all there, even if you don’t notice them at the time when it’s over it will all become clear.
Exactly what happened to me. Told me one of her ex told her he thought she was cheating..she told me she didn't and it was funny he thought that. Fast forward to her entertaining her ex-fuck buddy in the beginning of our relationship..argued with me about who he was when I caught them texting for months while I was working 12hr shifts.."he's just a friend"..not with him talking about having sex with you again and seeing you..and you saying "maybe"...😑😑..fast forward 3 yrs and ups and downs in the relationship of mistrust and of us sweeping it under the rug..she cheats on me and leaves me for some dude that was in her dms on ig..I will no longer be beta-fied..cheaters will always cheat again.
A guy worrying about his options at the possibility of his girlfriend or wife leaving him is someone who’s already in trouble
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Kurt Nunn that’s why you should listen to your gut, that voice in the back of your head. Don’t ignore it!
@@bigd3721 well that so called voice in the back of my head is telling me most people are no good for nothing , greedy and none caring . most people i know have plenty and yet wont help me . they wont even help to volunteer some of their time to actually help me . wealthy people talk the talk and that it . they could guide me with investments , show proof that those investments are actual . they could start investing some of their wealth in my name to prove its a good investment .
Yes true,he is not sure to begin with
Exactly
Shoutout to Kevin from sales - absolutely slaying out there
I thought Kevin worked in accounting.
Hahaha
🤣🤣🤣🤣👍🏼
Kevin is the 🐐
K James the K wouldn't be for...Kevin?
" Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does." Great piece of advice.
These days most men need to stop asking "why did my girlfriend cheat on me", and start asking; "(1) when WILL my girlfriend start cheating, and (2) what signs will there be to indicate her cheating?" Unfortunately, the answers are usually: (1) About 10 minutes after she becomes your girlfriend, and (2) "she's breathing and has access to a smartphone".
Smartphones are nothing but weapons in the hands of women, if she is on her phone around me then I walk away right then. She will eventually use that phone against the man in her life one way or the other, walking away is the best defense.
I was with a chick who'd be on her phone all the time during a date. That was a huge red flag for me.
As soon as she got weird about her phone and was on social media again... I knew it was over, but still I gave it about 6mo after that since we were engaged and she had been attacked at work. I figured that extenuating circumstances were pertinent and I was still stupid in love with her.
I have read that apparently 80 % of men and women would cheat if it were guanteed their partner would not find out if that is true then you have people who cheat people who would like to cheat but are afraid to be found out like a woman being bicurous just to make a point or they don't get an offer and those people are the same people who propgate the concept of a one woman one man absolute fidelity for life or until the marriage ends @ I have also read someone saying that procreation is such a strong bioloigical drive that few people can resist teh temptation to cheat even most women and also another comment of someone @ food for thought :
You people are awful for shaming her. I've been in a non monogamous relationship for as long as I can remember. Guess what? I love my partner more than anything in this world. You have to know that monogamy is a construct created only by society. You people say "You've never experienced love so strong it blows those argument out of the water" but I know that is false. It actually sounds more like your personal insecurity boiling to the surface. You haven't come to terms with the fact that you don't own somebody. Monogamy is based on possession. This is why you see SOOO much relationship trauma around cheating. Because monogamy is setup for failure from the start. Its a bunch of predefined set of rules setup by society. You say its "natural" but it isn't. Monogamy is fairly recent in the grand scale of human existence. No other species on earth follows this pattern.. So no its not "natural." Once you have the emotional will power to conquer jealousy & insecurity I can tell you happiness awaits you on the other side. Both men and women cheat. And they cheat for different reasons. Men cheat because they want sexual adventure. Women cheat because they want emotional satisfaction. Its funny how we are taught that love is going to the end of the earth to make someone happy. So why do we stop at our own insecurities, but not at the end of the earth? Hypocrisy... If your scared of loosing your partner then was your partner truly the one? If your so sure they are the one then no insecurities would exist.
The probability of cheating in monogamy is high. Most of the times the relationship becomes a lie and lose it's complete meaning, because of the imposed restrictions and limitations.
THAT’S A REAL RELATIONSHIP!! This is why monogamy fails! Ppl are in DENIAL about this FACT! You will ALWAYS BE ATTRACTED TO OTHER PEOPLE! The only thing you cheat is YOURSELF when y’all don’t accept the fact that ALL RELATIONSHIPS ARE OPEN!
what do you think about that last bit the probability ..
men are seen as having a one track mind maybe more then women because of the higher level of testorone but that is about it
women play the card of victimhood He was nice to me I was lonely he is always a good listener the man is just a sex obsessed villain out to get sex for the fun of it
Doesn’t matter how loyal the man was and how much he gave her. She will cheat when the opportunity arises
100% true !
Truth hurts👍
its doesnt matter what you do, she will still do what she feels like doing.
So will he.
I stopped counting ,59 men i know cheated on the other half.
When trying to do the same for all the girl i know it far less . So it very weird theses threads are trying to push the idea men dont and women do all the time.
Welcome to being part of the reason why and may be why you lose your women so easily.
"Her actions ALWAYS express her priorities"... dude... put that in stone! so True!
yes if if she really does love you just like men she wants some fun in the bedroom / variety with someone else women are just better at hiding it you dont suspect those you know for years just a friend the good neighbour when you are at home you let your guard down but women see just a good friend and closeness as an oppurtunity to get sex they may flirt with you and if it is the man of course it must be the mans fault or women play the card of victimhood He was nice to me I was lonely he is always a good listener the man is just aq sex obsessed villain out to get sex for the fun of it
Got "cheated" on and I laughed 😂. I had 3 more in line. Let it GO bro. I'll be honest w women when I find an honest woman.....prolly never.
Just heard about a group of women socialising. Three of the four friends compared notes about the guy they are dating and sleeping with. They discovered it’s the same guy and all in the same week. Almost laughed myself sick.
heard a joke from a friend - "Do you know why we call each other sis? Because ALL of us are calling the same guy Daddy :) "
So basically, the message for guys is to work on yourself first, rather than putting your woman above you.
Yes I think it is a sound advice
Bro’s, cars and work before hoes 👌
Easier said than done. But, it is what it is. There's no better way. Better get moving ASAP!!!
yeah work on yourself never put women above you and never alow her to touch your gold earned with hard work no matter even if she is the mother of your kids just be yourself and put yourself above at first be happy!
If a “soaking” girl can rationalize a loophole to get over on God...imagine what she would do to you.
Vatican = wolves = control the sheep “blue pilled men”
HOLY(hehe) SHIT!!
Most sane people don't concern themselves with the opinions of imaginary sky ghosts
Soaking barely passes its own logic. Insertion will always be a 1st-half-pump in and the takeout is the other half of the pump motion.
I’m sure the “mouth soaking” is exceptional.
Seeing women for what they are, rather than what we've been told they are or what we wished they were, has left me questioning why I would want one in my life. A hypergamous woman is a fair weather friend.
I’m assuming 191 dislikes are from women and guys who are on a strictly soy diet
Best comment so far
😂😂😂
Lol, true 👊
PUT YOURSELF NUMERO UNO.
Simple.
A lot of men don’t love themselves and are looking for that love in women.
DONT.
It’s a mistake.
Treat them kindly but don’t let them abuse you
Fatherless boys will go this route because they want to replace the mom dynamic since that's all they know.
There 's always someone out there, who 's better than you.
Being "numero uno" does not guaranty you her loyalty.
This is so true. All men should learn this.
Why so many fatherless girls and boys in Eastern Europe ?
That's the Gospel TRUTH Bro, I needed to hear that.🙏
Rich, I think it’s time now to bring Kevin and Steve to give us their firsthand experience with all these women!
My 1st wife used to say, what you don't know won't hurt you and don't bring anything home. We had 28 great years. She got sick and died. She was one in a million
I'm sorry for your loss. I like her attitude. If you must cheat don't bring it into the relationship and definitely don't bring any disease home.
My wife left me. Now all I have are the three girlfriends I had while I was married.
Me too😜 happier too....and they buy My party favors
All I can say is thank you...I'm now laughing again. I guess I've really moved on after 2 1/2yrs. since that day I found out My ex-wife and biological brother was having an affair for over 9 yrs. I"m divorced (2019) after 13 yrs. of married.
Again thank you for the humor. . . ha ha ha!
🤣🤣🤣 And WHY did she leave you? 🤣🤣🤣
I'm here because I am intrigued by the "soaking."
dasein wetness moisture
My ex and I soaked many mattresses. Had to have several thirsty towels by the bed. Squirting chicks are pretty hot.
@@andrewtrotter9023 I thought it was no pumping action and they do twenty insertions of assorted sizes and genders....maybe I heard it that way 6 feet. I'm confused now
I wish this was available 20 years ago. You’re offering a much needed service Rich, thanks man.
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It is your imagination that creates love, not the other person
im 55, and i'm getting married as soon as i get tired of having a whole paycheck to myself : )
Spend for your mom and dad and your friends bro
@@ybncareyyy yup...and i'd rather spend some on you too!
I hear that brother. I love being single. I canned the last four relationship prospects when I was feeling bad about where they were heading. Never looked back and don’t go searching for companionship now. Just me and my dog.
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ybnproshan he’s saying he’s not getting married lol
“Women are funny”
No. No they’re really not
Not funny haha, but funny strange. /Carl
Christopher Hitchens didn't think so.
Yes they are
That’s like saying “men are funny”
No - some men are funny... some aren’t
Some are seriously hilarious and some are just eh
Most women are just eh - some are hilarious
Saying “women aren’t funny”
Is like saying men are funny
No - I’ve met unfunny men
So that’s just dumb
Also, I fuck a ton of bitches
Bitches make me laugh all the time and it’s a turn on
@@truth6565 I think I have laughed at two girls trying to be funny in my entire experience, and not everything they did, specific bits. Not Dave Chappell, Eddie Murphy, George Carlin, or Robin Williams laughter, more like thats mildly amusing chuckles.
Sarah Silverman got a chuckle out of me with her "Im fucking Matt Damon" bit and Tina Fey got a chuckle a couple times imitating Palin. I am dubious as to if they wrote those jokes themselves, though they may have. To say females are hilarious, perhaps the bar is rather low to make ya laugh.
I laugh at lots of them for the silly shit they do, its like watching 9 year olds playing adult.
@@truth6565 how would you know I am not funny? Just because I would rather build cars than be famous? I did stand up for a while, and decided I liked drag racing more than travelling around making strangers laugh. Just like when I owned a repair shop and discovered I wanted to build hot rods instead of fix minivans and crapbox econo cars. I'm not much of an attention whore, so I mostly keep it to myself and close friends.
The other thing, you might be too young to get most of the references and imitations I do, though the later stuff you will probably get. I'd bet that Jimmy Stewart and Sean Connery driving around with Arnold failing at picking up chicks would make much sense to ya. You have to know who they are for it to be really funny, and kids these days lack culture other than frozen yogurt.
Still, chicks are not funny. They are nice ornaments, exciting playthings, and occasionally enjoyable for short shallow conversation. I want to stab my ears with a jagged ice pick when they tell a story, and jokes about men suck and their vagina stinks just isn't funny. I've honestly tried, but even half assed Aziz is funnier than every female out there.
Now if its Carolyn Porco talking about Saturn, that is entirely different, except she isn't as amusing and funny as Phil Plait.. she knows her shit though, so I like listening to her.
I learned the hard way that any man who adjusts his life to suit a woman is cruzin' for a brusin'.
"First you get the money,
then you get the power,
THEN you get the woman."
- Tony Montana
How'd that work out with all due respect?
To the guy who was in a LTR and she cheats on you - she probably crossed that line to get you to let her go. She won't care that you hate her for it - that was her intent. She wants rid of you.
Myth #1: Love lasts forever
Well, most of the people don't know what is love and in stead confuse it with lust, or utility of a partner, such as ability to provide. That's not love, but shagging to gain something, or shagging for the sake of shagging. Love is so much more, then again, I'm a rather naive romantic fool.
Motherly love, fatherly love... for the most part that's just an animal instincts.
You love people for the choices they make, it is a conscious decision.
it used to but femanism and the betas have killed it
If it doesn't it's not love. People know shit about simple things. Learn about 3 basic types of love FIRST.
She's not yours, It's just your turn......(THAT'S PERFECT)💯👌
We are all playing a game that can't be won, as the players are all flawed to begin with...
I knew a religious woman who is married. She was keeping me in orbit just in case things fell apart with her husband. But you would NEVER have known that type of woman would ever be "browsing". It taught me a valuable lesson: A woman's beliefs and opinions are not always what they seem. I am 100% sure her husband never knew about me.
had the same thing happened to me. i dont even bother with women anymore. lol
@@ARTDEVGRU247 just men now, eh?
50% admit to having a backup Plan, the other 50% dont admit to.
I think social media is too tempting for all women. It makes it too easy for them to cheat and flirt with other men. There so addicted to their phones!
10/10
I am in my mid-50s and I must admit that life is an experience of learning from both mistakes and accomplishments!! I have been there and know how it is with women and you sir are 100% correct on everything you talk about!!
My bit of advice to all you men of all ages is this; how can you get revenge and payback on those women (and men for that matter) you ask; the answer is simple!! Your best revenge and using evil to your advantage is SUCCESS!!!!!
How do you do that is also very simple!! Go out and improve yourself; losing weight; getting a new and better car; picking up and moving on and being happy with what you have will be in your best interest!!
There is no better revenge than you reaping the benefits of your accomplishments and seeing those who hurt you getting angry and jealous because they or you cut them out of your life!!
That is what I have learned about life!!
I think the key is to raise your self esteem high enough to where if someone does cheat on you, it doesn't destroy you. If you are not at that point, don't get involved with someone else until you are secure in yourself. People are just a mirror that reflect back to us our strengths or weaknesses. If you have a soft spot and fear of cheating, it's because you are afraid of feeling like you are not good enough. If you felt like you were truly good enough, someone cheating on you might disappoint you, but your self esteem will stay in tact, you wouldn't fall apart, and you would simply find someone better.
Success gets you hotter girls, but
self worth makes it harmonious. In fact, that's why women are trying to climb the ladder, because they subconsciously don't feel worthy. If you are someone who feels worthy, you will attract another who feels worthy as well and is less driven by their unconcious imperatives.
You don't attract what you want, you attract what you are.
You could be on steroids and jacked as fuck, but still insecure on the inside. You can only mask it for so long before the mirror that is another person brings the low self worth you have been trying to hide to the surface.
Heal the self worth, and someone else will have no soft spot to prod at, and therefor will be less inclined to prod at all.
This iz so tru
Well said!
The ‘you must be at least 6 foot rule’ with women. I remember online dating several years ago they would insist on this. Even if they were only 5 foot 2 themselves.
Gem of a vid this.
I have nothing against short women, they can be hot af too. What pisses me of is that a lot of them have that 6 foot rule when they look like walking whales. Stay fit + take good care of yourself or gtfo!
Jakub Hladki agreed I have dated all types but when they set their standards high with little or nothing to offer themselves it’s a laugh.
Brad Roberts Gold. If ever the scenario arises I will use this
@@thetwoone100 That's the wall. The wall is undefeated.
My sister is 5ft 4/5 and has never dated someone shorter than 6ft and yet she insists to me at 5ft 10 that height doesnt matter to women. Yeah. Right. 😂😂
In about 1992 or 1993 I started telling people that your girlfriend had your replacement already picked out and you probably already know him. Guys and girls would both get pissed off at me when I said this. I wish this type of information was available back then and I hope guys in their late teen and early 20's guys are listening.
I live in Utah and "soaking" is also known as "floating". My coworkers little sister got knocked up at 15 doing this and the family is very Mormon.
I grew up in Utah. We believed if it was oral it's moral. Most dudes did anal with chicks before they lost their virginity.
@@idontwantahandle510 lucky bastards...
I just found a channel that I can literally connect 120% with, this is a really good feeling.
Like the new intro - best quote: they hangout at the finish line and pick the winner. Thank you Richard!
“Nothing dries up women more than a guy that has no options!” YESSSSSS! 👏
~ Canadian Woman
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The wall be coming for all of them women, then there will be nothing for those women to offer any man
Can you explain yourself on this diane? You want a guy that has 3 sidechicks ready to hump with him when you are married with 2 kids?
@@franklynhartkamp5667 no, a woman wants a man that is desirable. A leader. A provider.
She is saying that a man that no other woman desires is not desirable to his partner, either.
@@nathangibson2114 That's very truth!!!
The moment she saw me struggling with finances, she cheated.
"Damn" You know it's truth when it hurts every time you hear it! You know you are recovering when you can laugh at the truth...
Men, I've gone through this. With that said, Richard is right here. Just let her go, she's doing you a favor, and you'll be better off in the long run.
When you said ‘acknowledge that her actions always express her priorities’ ... damn bro, that’s wisdom right there, on a subconscious level. Not just for women either, put on the introspective lense and look at life in general. My life, her life, that statement is universal. Solid advice. Why am I putting up with this shit from her, but also, why am i doing this/letting her do this shit to me? Like you said we were taught as children that this is so simple and its like this. But it is actually what you make it.
I am so glad I found this channel. I'm about fone processing last relationships and now getting re-programed. Thanks for this.
After 4 long term relationships, I've learned that you have to keep a woman emotionally, financially and sexually satisfied.
Even then there's no guarantee that she'll be faithful.
Women just don't have what they want. Way too much work.
I've been totally stress free, since leaving my last relationship due to her cheating.
i had 1 longterm relationship and 1 short ass relationship. both ended up in women wanting money from me lol. the first one was sending out job applications for me so i could buy her presents and come visit her more often. instantly told her sure send those things out but im not going to them interviews anyway.
2nd broad made her parents have a debt of 50g's and after 2 weeks she wanted to borrow money from me for her spending habits. broke it off with her the same night she asked me during the same phone convo. been free ever since and loving it.
you dont have to do anything, she will do what she feels like doing.
After four long-term relationships? There is a lot more for you to learn.
Thanks for posting, Rich. I'm doing the work, man. I'm not as focussed as you, but I'm doing my level best to get where I want to be. Beliefs, choices, actions. You encapsulated the journey perfectly.
Rich, you are the ultimate and consummate professional. It is impossible for anyone to debate you because of your facts and the way you present them. You are excellent at speaking to people at all levels.
Moral of the story. Cheat on every girl and don't get caught because there is a 70% chance your relationship wont work out.
Common sense
This guy is on point, homeboy ain't lying... 💯
Love how everything is authentic, and unscripted! Cold hard truth boys
"Women don't care about your struggles, they wait at the finish line for who crosses it first," or something like that. Bang on. So true what you say about societal lies.
I don't think it's hard wired. Hypergamy is learned. They tend to be ungrateful, the hypergamy is just an excuse.
What about in sickness and in health, for richer or poorer. Ring any bells? Guess times have changed more than anyone has a clue.
That bullshit was always just a fairy tale sold by religion.
@@rrmackay they should make it where if you don't follow your vows, you will have legal punishment. Or something like it
My long deceased grandmother. Would say “young people these days”etc. Then I would ask her to tell her stories, from the good old days.
Things are better now, than being locked in the root cellar, for things your brothers did. Giving your sister a home abortion, because your husband was raping her. Being abused, because she kept having girls. Having a husband who didn’t come home, till all the money was spent.
She outlived him, by many years. And, was to the end, a very loving generous person.
I believe in loyalty, but grandpa didn’t deserve, any.
All that needs enforcement by the community, religious and otherwise. And all that is now lacking.
You’re the elder brother I always needed. Thank you brother, you’re God send
When they show you who they are, believe them.
Nothing but straight facts. Don't fight it, learn to play the game better 👊
34 and happily married but daaaaaam I wish I knew this back in high school and my early 20s.
Lol happily yea
The most accurate video on RUclips.being around a lot of women. I can surely tell you that . This guy nailed it, each and every description about women is right.
Everything this man says is true thank you for making a dent in the world by spreading this knowledge.
Why are we assuming women are making rational choices when it comes to hypergamy? I think many have been taught awful values and tend to overinflate their worth, leading them to make poor assessments of their own MPV, thus leaving men who actually have a lot to offer in the medium and long run.
I think in the olden days women understood that a short term setback for their man was not a permanent one, and if they encouraged him, they would strengthen their own position in the long run through his eventual victories.
I get the impression modern women are just not very smart about their long term wellbeing or perhaps they have easy access (in modern times) to a short term upgrade and flee at the first sign of trouble.
Perhaps hypergamy in the past was manageable with good female belief systems but take those away from the equation and hypergamy goes out of control. Belief, decisions, results right?
true... and I would add that it was the traditional mindset - which feminism destroyed with talk of empowerment, freedom from oppressive housework, toxic masculinity etc - that made women focus on helping her man when he was down. Add in traditional social expectations and peer pressure from other traditional women and you have a faithful, helpful wife.
Women back in the days use to warn younger girls about rich guys: "He just wants to sleep with you". This means they were making wiser decisions.
I always say, "Marriage is the first step to divorce". Hookups are easier.
This is the first time I've encountered one of your videos, and I have to say I'm impressed. Very much down to brass tacks without a lot of fluffery psychological theories. This is not to say that you aren't employing them, nor do I find said theories automatically objectionable, but your advice is very well grounded, and I likely would have benefitted from it when I had my midlife meltdown some three decades back.
Keep it up...I can see that it's likely to be quite effective for a lot of folks going through some hard times.
Man!!!! I'm so grateful I found you! Your book was a lufe changer! 5 times and I've owned it 3 days!!!! Audio. In my car, on my phone.....love it. I was a beast in my 20s to 30s. Owned life....then I got stuck in the fairytale bs. It's okay. I'm 47 and rebuilding again. No sweat. Best day to start is today. Awesome that you're a fellow Toronto lad too. I'm a downtown Queen West boy myself...or was. Thanks again. I'll reach out when I hit my first goal and buy lunch....in my new whip. Success is up to us. Time to chase excellence!!!
Respect
This guy's videos should be mandatory curriculum in secondary school. Many lives would be saved!
They’re not “happy” the relationship got too routine.
This is so true, and it greatly impacts the children involved.
As an only child of a mom who cheated on my dad when he was unemployed and she was the stressed-out breadwinner: I subconsciously knew exactly what Rich and Rollo talk about when I reflect on how happier they were when the traditional gender roles were in place. But when she fell for the proud feminist crap from her older single sister and he got lazy lacking purpose: it wrecked our home.
I hope despite of that, and for seeing it all so clearly: I’ve learned what not to do.
I'm in that same boat rn, and I assure you things were so much better when i was taking care of the kids and he worked.. (Altho i am not a feminist). He lost his job and basically fucked up the dynamic and thrust me into this miserable work-n-hustle...i hate it, i have to pay ppl to watch my kid, it sucks.
Yes it suks working for a living welcome to life everyone should have to work
This video topic is the answer to that very important question for anyone who's been betrayed. . . WHY???
The healing process begins right away, and the outlook of life is so much brighter.
As a matter of fact everything that happened, is a BLESSING in disguise! My first time to Your Channel. Just stumbled into You... You're a very busy Angel.
Thank you very very very much!
Broke up with a girl after 4 months realizing she was a completely different person from whom I met. She within 2 months hooked a beta, made him buy a house and impregnate her. Before knowing she was pregnant she breaks it off with him to sleep with me. He took her back.
Update: She got an abortion. Told the guy she miscarried.
Dang
Why would you sleep with her?
I don't wan't to slander you, but in my mind, you should have made the guy aware.
@@janchovanec8624I could care less
You kind of a beta for sleeping with after she dumped your ass!
How does that make you right?
Seems like she’s a skank and your beta!
Toxic relationships with toxic people never end well!
I slept with a Married Woman who regularly cheated on her Cucked Husband...
Seriously guys ... don’t bother with women in relationships.... they are worse than single mothers..
You nailed it my man!!! My ex wife had a perfect Mormon family. Parents still together brother on mission etc. We were high school sweethearts thinking because of who she portrayed to be and her background I took her for granted. Doing my thing with who I wanted too. Yes I did cheat before marriage. But for some reason that kept her chasing me always in tears. I felt bad finally giving in changing my ways at least the cheating. I married her because yes I did love her. And switched my religion to Mormon. After marriage I still partied some getting tattoos etc. 15 years later we split she still pretended to be that perfect morman girl.
After she remarried like 8 years later. Everything she hated that I did then. She then started doing tattoos, drinking etc. Honestly she is the LAST and I mean LAST woman I would have ever thought to switch like this. Lesson learned for me!!! Trust NO WOMAN!!! However trusting men is hard these days too SO???????
Not all the men are bad Brian , ther are some men who is living with their kindness , integrity , treating people with respect .
Man it's almost like the emotional turmoil you caused in the relationship with your lack of faithfulness caused her to change 🤔🤔 fucking moron lmao "i cheated, but women can't be trusted!!"
I'm one of the guys who is doing the hard core work on myself sir. Thank you
I met my wife at the starting line. We ran the race together, established lucrative careers, had two children, two grandchildren and amassed a multi-million dollar balance sheet. My advice is to find one of those.
Easier said than done in today's climate in the west.
@@SagaciousNihilist I did not say it was easy. Commitment, dedication and effort are all required for such an outcome.
You thought you were in it “ together “ but you just haven’t met the other man in her life
4:23 Nah, Rich, you missed the most critical aspect of that definition- the very reason for its namesake is, she swings to the better option without letting go of the current one, UNTIL she's safe and secure on the other side
my gf did this to get me, but says it's different now
@@Pastor_Sempa I wish the best for you and her.
Wasting time chasing the unicorn when you can enjoy life and love yourself!
I wish "Entrepreneurs in Cars" was around when I was much younger.
Cold hard truth . Love it ....your book is on the way . Thanks !
So, I read a lot of the heartfelt comments but not one has noted how Mr. Cooper gives an incredible presentation, well organized, on topic, pinpoint in detail, concise all while driving at the same time. Talk about multi-tasking. There's many a power point presentation that pale in comparison.
Soaking?!?! WTF!! I can’t imagine the idiot who puts it in just to let it “marinate.”
We call it "pickling" where I'm from.
Oh my God.
Depending on the girl it might be fermenting!
Lol...I don't buy this soaking concept is real. I think a bunch of women LIE and say a guy put it in and sat there. A woman who has had a dicc in her ain't no virgin no matter how she tries to spin it
The gay lord's force on workaholics did this
'She is not your its your turn '
You're absolutely right, being a good guy and doing the right thing never got me shit.
Rich, This is one of your better videos. Nice work. Thanks! JM
the only show that never lied to us was "Married with Children"