A great guest and a great conversation, there were times in the video I was like fuck Leon I hope you'll ask him more about it and you asked the exact question I was looking for, so thanks man lol I hope you'll do more podcasts like this one, invite Robert Greene if possible, that would be awesome.
Just discovered you, loved everything about it! The visually pleasant setting with the calming yet vibrant blue, the guest, you, the questions, the answers. Your vibe and attention and concentrated calm. All of it is drawing me in.
There is a girl in my area that I have a high amount of respect for. She busts her tail growing a huge garden every year to sell veggies. She also works at a gas station 7 days a week. She has obvious signs that something went terribly wrong in her life. She cannot look you in the eyes, no matter what. Everyone knows her, and most everyone gives her love, and knows she has mental health problems. She drives her ATV on my property, because I gave her permission. We chat occasionally. When we part, she'll say, "I love you." And I'll tell her back, "I love you too." Some people don't do well with other people. We all need to identify those folks and give them the love they somehow missed in their childhood. If she never looks at me, I'll always love her. I have my own mental health issues, but I will always be thankful that mine aren't as bad as some other people. So I try to be kind to all.
Thanks for sharing that. I’ve just read it and it’s beautiful to see this girl gets love. I love that you said those who struggle with people need to be given a little extra love. I find it heart warming when others show that there are good people in this world.
Do you think that this time in our society has contributed to people being socialpaths they force you to believe that being materialitic showing you have the means to be a successful person. Your shoes cost 250. You h😊Ave the newest cell the best clothes and that fosters greed . That fosters abuse and demands cause they demand their parents buy these things so they can 😊get what they need want now don't wait on anyone to say no
This is a great podcast. I’m a criminal defense lawyer and this is utterly fascinating. Note: most of the psychopaths I’ve met have been lawyers and judges, not my clients. ;)
It's so interesting seeing an expert of Chase's level casually allowing an interviewer to just show the audience what he's teaching. True professional. Thanks for the opportunity to see this Leon, and for putting yourself out there!
When I was nine years old in the early mid 1980s I was living on the beach and the streets of Gulfport, MS, eating out of garbage cans and sleeping under Hobie Catamarans and in bushes. Until I was eleven. Less than two years. While I’ve worked through a lot of integral things, I still have some little mouse wheels turning. When I found out how fucked up I was, I began consciously and deliberately working on improving myself. Now I am fifty-one, and I have just only recently realized that I am okay enough to be okay with myself, even with my own sad failures and shortcomings. Yay me…
I'm a similar age with a relatively easy upbringing in a working class family. I'm sure that you learnt things that I never needed to. It is a strength. You understand the "why" to so many things I've never considered.
Jason. I don't usually make comments but you have inspired me this evening. Your story reminds me of a quote, "To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering" - Friedrich Nietzsche. I wanted to suggest a book that has helped me greatly to understand and deal with the trauma that I have lived with since 1993. It's called, "The Body Keeps the Score," by Bessel van der Kolk. It has helped me immensely. Be prepared to break down several times while reading but you will realize that you are not alone and that it's not hopeless. You can overcome and you can help others, or at least educate them. Keep up the good fight my friend.
I Am a complete loner and find It challenging To relate to the people of today. I prefer to keep company with animals. All animals. ❤ and nature. True joy
I'm with you!! I just Can't, anymore. I'm 71yrs old, so I've seen plenty. When I even just watch the news, which I no longer do, it hurts me so much or I become inordinatly angry. People interest me with the positive things they do. I entertain no other information.
Bystander effect. Once after a visit to the dentist my then 8 year old collapsed on the road walking home. A couple walked by, saw what happened and literally stepped over her to go on their way. Not even asking if she was OK. Thankfully others did offer help but it just made me realise that people will step over you rather than help.
Yes! Years ago I saw an old woman with a cane crossing a busy intersection. She fell and her cane went flying.. I ran over, grabbed her cane and tried to pull her up, but she was a lot heavier than me I could hardly budge her! The light turned green and literally all the cars started going forward and honking at me to get her out of the way! All I could do was stand there with her on the ground until finally a man ran over to help me.. i couldn't believe it was like they were gunna run her right over if I wasn't there! Another time I was pushing my son in his stroller, back in 2006, and his father attacked me on the sidewalk.. the stroller pushed forward and my son was pointing the other way, screaming, he couldn't see why I was yelling.. his dad had grabbed me by my hair, threw me down and started kicking me right in public on the sidewalk! With a baby in a stroller, not one car stopped, no one came out of their homes, nothing! He ran away and I took the stroller and my son home.. two examples in my life where I felt completely unseen and invisible
@izzydeadyet7336 The one about the elderly woman is very disturbing! As for the other story, I can see why people didn't want to get involved in a domestic dispute or any violent act, but they should have at least phoned the cops.
idk how i found this podcast, but holy crap it blew my mind…and when leon started talking about making videos that get a thousand views or a hundred thousand i got confused cause i had already seen that this video had like 2 million views. and then i checked his other videos and saw that they were only getting thousands and i was like whoaaaaa this one resonates HARD!!! bravo gentlemen
There are soo many interviews on You Tube where the subject matter doesn’t warrant the time. You find yourself skipping through the content trying to find the nuggets of information they promised, only to find that it just isn’t there. This isn’t one of them. This was riveting from start to finish. Blimming well done.
@@shawnahathaway4762’Blimming’ isn’t really used here in the UK. It’s @JaneUK’s polite corruption of ‘blooming’ which we Brits sometimes use instead of the more vulgar ‘bloody’ which is frequently employed when we swear (‘bloody’ is itself a less harsh alternative to the f word). In fact ‘bloody’ is itself a corruption of ‘By our Lady’ which is what was said in more religious medieval times. Hence the phrase ‘swear word’ - swearing by citing something of religious significance.
I've been following Chase Hughes and listening to him for about 2 and a half years, his wisdom never fails to surprise me. His own video on bullying helped my son a lot!! I'll be forever grateful for that. I'm saving up to take one of his courses. Amazing podcast, blessings to Chase, his beautiful wife and family!
Nicola, I remember "live chatting" with you on that one. I've been a TBP panelist since the first show 5 years ago. My autistic nephew and I learned about body language and I'm forever grateful for the closer relationship I have with him because of TBP. Chase's story of carrying a binder around on how to ask a girl for a date made us laugh. He's truly an amazing man. I hope he knows how loved he is by sharing his knowledge. I cried the other night when he released his video on how his health is improving. Hope you and your son have a blessed future. 🙏🏼
Everyone in the world should take the 2+ hours out of their lives to watch this podcast. It is the most insightful informative podcast I have ever seen.
@@raukoring Exactly. Lots and lots of people are hiding behind a mask. It ain't "what you see is what you get". Really, I would wish that people were more genuine.
Glad you resonate with this, but this is very "light" compared with real psychology talk, which might be more insightful but sometimes too dense and boring. But look beyond: the host is to the right. They both have a t-shirt showing muscle, there are two trees those symbolise 2 things. Then the voices are with extra bass and tranquil (glad they don't artificially scream to fake an exiting show). It also slow enough you can do something while also listening. So Neurolinguistically, it's geared towards women. So try to listen to the show again, but knowing it's geared towards you, the target audience. This is not malice, they need to monetize for a living.
@@AndijvieMetPatat he was selling blue dye as panacea saying it has no side effects. You probably didn't get that far in the video. He is a sociopath cult leader style snake oil seller with female followers. All his fake history and previous snake oils are exposed on internet if you google and read just a little bit.
I've been an avid reader for decades on subjects of psychology, biographies, spiritualism, and many interesting and diverse topics. I've had opportunities to watch great documentaries on various topics but in my opinion this here is the Cadillac, extraordinarily and deeply profound. There's so much I'd love to expound on in each area they touched on but it would turn into a book. They both shared and articulated well on aspects I see and feel but I just didn't have the words to define it. This is a podcast that is easily deserving of multiple revisits. It's one that every word and expression doesn't want to be missed, and want it to sink in. Such an eye opener, thought provoking and valuable learning material and lessons. I'm elated his seizures were cured. What an incredible backstory of how he stumbled upon his cure. This is the type of content that is needed more then ever in our world. Two pleasant, highly intelligent empathic men. - Thank You ❤
You also shouldn't make them dwell in them. You can create someone who can't be resilient by making them focus and relive something or dive into something in a way that isn't age appropriate. You want them to end up able to handle reality not get stuck in their emotional upsets. Their esteem shouldn't be dependent on someone else's perception or opinion of them.
I can feel a psychopath. Had a new adorable coworker and interacted for a few minutes and realized this person was going to torture me ( and others). It was a great time to exit that work assignment. Later learned she traumatized everyone around her.
@@user-cg8if3eq7d Without expressing their true emotions they’ll never develop awareness or insight therefore develop maladaptive behaviour due to unpacked baggage …if they become aware of their true emotions which can only be done if theyre given or give themselves permission to express what they feel and that what they feel is valid, allowed to be felt, rather than being told “you shouldn’t feel that way “ makes them feel like they’re not allowed to feel certain things /they’re wrong or icky to feel things , which to make someone feel like they’re feelings aren’t valid or allowed to be felt , they’ll develop major insecurity or major internal loathing because theylll believe they think or feel things that aren’t acceptable or right. They’ll become overly critical of themselves and overthink themselves always on Alert or on guard self monitoring themselves second guessing or doubting whether or not they’re for thinking or feeling proper things and develop a mask that’s so inauthentic and carefully designed so as to ensure they are accepted by people to avoid being judged or disliked incase they express a feeelinf that’s wrong” to feel and list goes on for all the problems that snowball and develop if you don’t express your true emotions , if you’re told to not feel things instantly dismissing them for being human they’ll believe it’s not ok to think or feel things that are actually common and normal to feel….. Yes don’t dwell on things and yes be resilient obviously…but u can’t be resilient/bounce back from things that you never were even sllowed to be made aware of and work thru by expressing it. Yes not to dwell and express urself repeatedly to no end no solution, obv…and expressing emotions has nothing to do with the approval or acceptance of another person it’s about many different things…expressing ur feelings for example being hurt or disrespected when you treated me like that or here’s how I feel when u do this and I expect to be treated like ..”
When my toddler cries, I encourage him to explain to me what is going on. I ask him “where does it hurt?” “ does it hurt a lot?” “Can mommy kiss your hand so the pain goes away?” Etc.
Watching for the second time, but this time I am ready. Pen, notebook, tabs in hand. This is my favorite Chase conversation ever. Deleting social media for a year. I said it here. 10-14-24, I’ll let you know how I did next year. Thank you both for sharing this extraordinary conversation. 🌻
@stephanie ///Leon is saying....noooo. I didn't mean for you to stop watching and listening to me...lol. If by chance you see this next year...let us know how it went.
This guy is a fruad. Professor Sam Vaknin wrote the narcissist bible in 1995 "malignant self love narcissism revisted"... he is also just as capable of breaking down the psychopath. sam runs LAPS AROUND THIS FRAUD!!!
I'm a psychotherapist and there's more useful insight in the first 20 minutes of this than many counselling training exercises thank you.The getting in touch with the opposite of your mask echoes Carl Jung's take on integrating ones shadow self which I believe to be essential for well being. I wish I had access to Chase Hughes and the Behaviour Panel when I was training.I will be looking into Chase's course for teaching women how to detect psychopaths.(I married one when I was young and foolish and would love to help others avoid the same mistake.) Excellent discussion.
That's interesting because l tell the truth. It disarms people. I see it as a strength. I'm a survivor - never a victim. People share a lot with me because they can see l'm not afraid of the truth.
It eventually leaks out... in bad ways. Bottling all that up takes a toll on our bodies and minds. One day, that dam breaks in really bad ways. Learning how to process, and exorcise really, our bad experiences and triggers becomes kinetic. You do one one day... then you do five, then one day you look and there's nothing left in that crate of pain you've been hauling around your whole life. It's freeing. It frees you to be you without that baggage. Cheers, hang in there. C-PTSD is a real goblin, living past it is bliss.
I loved every single minute of this video. I wanted to say my son is autistic, he's 15, and he has this confidence I wish I had. It's not ego, it's not loud or showy. It's just confidence. I went no contact with my family a while back for a few reasons. My childhood was horrible but I remember all of it with one of those memories TLC makes documentaries about. I used to show him pictures or videos of himself as a baby or young kid, and he refuses to look at them. He says he can't stand it. One day when I asked why he said, "You had a bad childhood with bad memories. I don't have bad memories that keep me stuck in the past. I only know now and the future." It really struck me because he's right. And he's a very happy kid. I want to be like that.
@@hippiecowgirl4231 I love his outlook because he's right. What do any of us have but this very moment and the ability to plan for the future? Once a moment has passed, it's nothing to him. And as sentimental as I am, he's right. The past doesn't exist anymore. I love that.
Around the 15 minute mark when talking about how when we are seven or eight years old and dealing with issues is who you are today. I had a ridiculously lonely childhood. My pet and looking at flowers made me happy. So as a result Now that my kids are grown I have a menagerie of several dogs and cats. And potted plants that are blooming all over the place. I never realized, or thought about that before. Kind of makes me wanna cry actually.
Ya that one hit me pretty hard too. I was abused by a family member at that time, really messed me up bad. I made it to 70 👍🏼. Maybe it was the shrooms I got into at 17 lol 😂. Life is tuff, God loves me and so I am here mostly happy.
Something that transformed the way I respond to other people is the realization that nearly every adult and many children each carry a secret burden. Knowing that prompts greater understanding and willingness to work together to accomplish what is needed.
I was 50/50 beginning of this podcast……but last half of this interview/ discussion very enlightening and interesting to me. Great content. I rarely do this, but actually took some notes to do some more research. My time well spent. Thank you both!
Not only did it blow my mind, but it did it again each minute as I watched. The part about dopamine not being from gratification but from your expectation of the next gratification was literally game changing.
Therapist / mental health clinician and multidisciplinary educator here, for the past 30+ years, and every time I listen to you, Chase, I learn and reflect, more.
He has popped up several times on different podcasts I randomly run across. I feel like I am supposed to hear what he is saying. My husband had a bad head injury, and I have dreaded the future of his Alzheimers and deteriorating brain functions in the future. He has given me things to think about and explore❤
This guy is over analyzing what he thinks he sees though his preconceived vail... I'm not impressed with his opinions For his theories are full of Pit Falls..
The part about self control as a warning struck home for me. The other day, I was out with a friend having a coffee with a colleague outside a Starbucks and there was a guy behind me talking so loud into his phone that I couldn’t hear what my friend was saying. After about 5 minutes, I turned around and asked “excuse me sir, do you mind keeping it down a little?” The guy reacted angrily and started yelling at me. I ignored him, but in retrospect, the guy’s behavior before I even turned to him should have been a warning signal, as his self control was clearly not good. This video is very relatable. Chase Hughes is really fascinating.
Lol. He yelled at you because you were being rude and over the top. Interesting how that never even occurred to cross your mind though, instead it was all about you, how he was ruining your moment, how he yelled at you, how you ignored him, how you should have known better because you have better self control than others. I hate to be the one to break this to you… you’re a sociopath.
Lol. He yelled at you because you were being rude and over the top. Interesting how that never even occurred to cross your mind though, instead it was all about you, how he was ruining your moment, how he yelled at you, how you ignored him, how you should have known better because you have better self control than others. I hate to be the one to break this to you… you’re a sociopath.
It's great to hear someone speak where honesty is important. Not to win people's trust but because it is important to be true to themselves. Shedding that mask or slaying the ego is the path towards enlightenment.
I’m 58, Concreter and from very dysfunctional upbringing. Always been interested in making the best of myself. I am just finishing first year of a bachelor of psychology and I really enjoyed this talk. Thanks
Good for you! You should be proud!!! I'm a 56 yr old widow X'S 2 so due to that fact I'm wanting to start school. I was thinking I'm way too old to just now start school. Thanks for commenting!!!
Self control or discipline can be a mask also. My attacker went to the gym every day and jujitsu. Fortunately for me he wasn't intelligent and I was able to outwit him so he was unable to fulfil his deed. His mask was so deceiving leaving everyone in disbelief of his crime. He portrayed to be the most friendly helpful person, everyone duped into trusting him it almost cost me my life.
@@jennymccullough9517jujitsu isn't evil it depends on the person yielding the tool. Quit blaming the tool and place the responsibility on the person yielding the tool.
The way he speaks of his wife: always admiringly. He even volunteers that he is married - and he doesn't add "happily" (folks who add "happily" seem a little desperate that we think they are happy in their choices) shows his integrity.
I'm still going to listen to him and I think I still like him and I feel for his brain issues and I want to try methylene blue On the other hand, I send you this is true it certainly does but like another nail in the coffin towards I'm never trusting anyone again!.
Keto has been prescribed since the 1920s, before pharmaceuticals, with success, to stop seizures. My sister has a seizure disorder and then had a stroke. Lost her speech. After NO CARB keto (meat, veggies only) for a year now, 100% improvement, got her speech and mobility back! Conventional medicine NEVER addresses diet sadly. MANY medicines and protocols of old are demonized today. SO HAPPY for you Chase that you found Methylene Blue and that it has worked so well for you. AWESOME interview!
Is that what he’s talking about ? Shit I thought he was talking about a medication but I couldn’t catch the name. What about the over the counter medicine? Anyone know what that is ? I’m in the uk
With so so much amazing info chase has given… once I heard “my brain disease is cured”!! I got so excited and I’m so happy for you, Chase!! Praise God !!! Thank you for your constant desire to assist the world with your knowlege! 🙏📿🤗
Coming from a previous DV situation, even when entirely innocent of any supposed misdemeanours, the very act of being questioned is enough to promote terror and looking for an escape . You have obviously not suffered such a situation.
One of the best things I've ever listened to. Mr. Chase has covered many areas. After a long time, finally a quality interview. I also learned something new that I hadn't paid attention to. God bless you and keep you.
My brother was a peaceful man. Like Mr. Hughes, he was capable of great violence, but also like Mr. Hughes, his softness was his greatest asset. He passed away nearly 4 years ago, but I carry his lessons and memory with me daily. I will never be without love for the blessing of his memory and the precious time we had. Live life to the fullest. It can be taken from us in an instant. Thank you for this interview, it feels like a conversation my brother might have with himself. What a gift to the world.
My brother was the same. His young years, violent and chaotic, by his early 40's he embraced almost a shaman-like existence. We were allies in this world. I miss his physical presence and humor. Man he could be funny, just off the charts funny. Thank you for your post. It reminded me what a true gift it was to share time here with my brother.
Your words mean more than I can say. I'm truly honored to hear this interview brought back memories of your brother in such a powerful way. He sounds like an incredible person, and the way you carry his lessons and love is deeply inspiring. Thank you for sharing this, and for reminding us all of what really matters. Wishing you peace and strength.
This is the most fascinating podcast I have listened to in my lifetime. I am a Life Coach for people with ADHD, I am drawn to information about human behavior. The bonus of Chase sharing his journey and cure of his brain disease is unforgettable.
Was it my ADD, or was this strung out and hard to stick with what is being talked around to get the nugget, only to be smacked off the groove by so many commercials
@@sacredrain7757 I always need to read, and or listen to a new subject twice. The third time I take notes. That’s only when I want to speak intelligently about it. This is true even without interruption.
I finally figured out why I hate being around people now that I'm older and said I'm a chronic people pleaser and I just can't be an authentic anymore, tired of people pleasing and I'd rather be by myself and I can't help myself❤😂😮
Yep, I get that. We people pleasers spoil our people, but after a while - sometimes YEARS - we figure out which ones reciprocate enough to deserve our kindness, and realize which ones are just using us for their own benefit, draining us of our time, money, and emotions. We finally reach the point where we really don't care if Jolene wants to take our man. 😆
Thank goodness you’re not dumbing things down! It’s happening in too many areas of our society, and getting worse every day, so THANK YOU FOR NOT wanting to dumb down your channel!!!
I've listened to Stuff on utube for years. Just now, Its as though some one switched on a light in me, while listening to this. Life now makes sense from here on. Thank you both.
I came in to watching this video expecting to learn about "how to spot a psychopath" and… Got so much more out of it, I don't know where to begin - absolutely engrossing and informative. Thanks so much for this!
This high vibration, the comfort of just beeing in the moment, the authenticity, the higher learning. Thank you so much for this mind-blowing video. 🙏❤️
@@raukoring seriously right? This princess commenter looks like a bot. Chase paid RUclips for likes and views. Money he grifted from suckers. I’d love to see his bs service record
Real humility and humanness. I admire the way Chase interacts with the interviewer, very kind man who understands and throws off any need for judgement or having an upper hand, not when there is knowledge and self awareness to bring to the fore, just an all around helpful guy that doesn’t mind sharing what taken him a lifetime to learn. The person that every “paduan” needs whether it’s know to that person or not. In my opinion, the goodness in the world finds its way through humanity through people like him. God bless him always.
A friend of mine in the US is a retired doctor, he spoke once of having to see a man in prison who had just killed a few people. He said that when he was walking into the room he felt an unsettling darkness wash over him before seeing anyone. The feeling never left him.
OMG! WHAT AN EXCITING CONVERSATION! I came here for Chase, but I really appreciate this interviewer! You remind me of Chris Williamson. Great interviewers bring out the best of those being interviewed! Of course, with Chase Hughes...ITS ALL GOLD!
I think this is one of the best videos I've ever seen on RUclips ..and most positive. How to read people, how to defuse people, how to solve health problems, how to reconnect with our true tribe of people And take off our masks... Bc it's safe to do so.... Just freaking 💖 this video!
I don't generally watch interviews like this but for some reason, I clicked it. Wow. I really enjoyed this interview so much so that I took notes. New subscriber to both channels. Looking forward to seeing what other content you both have available.
This is the best conversation I’ve seen on RUclips since Jordan Peterson and Chris Williamson. I freaking LOVE Chase Hughes. I’ve never seen the interview guy before .. but he asked all the questions I had in my head. This was so freaking great..❤ ❤❤
"Make statements instead of asking questions." My boss, in France taught me almost everything he mentions in this section. "Precher le faux pour savoir le vrai." Very enjoyable interview. Thank you.
Interesting. I am 79; and a few years ago, I decided I wanted to live a positive life from now on. I recently moved into a transitional community and live in the “independent living”portion. This is the perfect place to support and boost morale in others. It is so very rewarding. Just remembering others by name and greeting them with a smile brings a smile to their faces. A positive conversation often follows. I couldn’t ask for a better way to enter my elder years! Thank you, Chase. Love watching you on The Behavior Panel too. You’re doing great work!😊
@@KarenBell011864 Aww that's amazing, my friends are all older than me and I live in a small community. Chase Hughes is an inspiration, he cured his own brain disease! That's so nice to hear. My Granny used to say, just enjoy your life and sounds like that's what you're doing. I'm happy for you!💙🏴
I have experienced a spiritual awakening by forgiving an abuser for raping me when I was 6 . I lived in this oneness for 8 months. Not everyone can cope with the road I took. That's why podcasts like this are needed for the majority of humanity. When you raise your frequency, you change your audience and find your soul tribe.
Some of us have been forced to wear a mask being neurodivergent makes people uncomfortable I see through everybody's mask and they don't want me around
The most satisfying and contented time in my life, was when I moved myself and 2 youngest children spontaneously and lived off grid in a tiny shanty outside of Pahoa, Hawai'i. Literally the best thing I ever did...
I stayed in a tree house on a 24 acre fruit farm in pahoa for 5 days, by myself. No cell phone, no Internet, no TV. It was the most peaceful relaxing, joyful time I have ever had in my life!
I moved 2 Oahu from Midwest when 23 yr old by myself. Best thing ever did. Learned who I really was inside, not what my abusive upbringing said I was. The Hawaiian island people were fabulous.
Tbh, I couldn’t care less about the first half of this interview (as much as it was the reason for me watching) BUT the second half blew my mind!!! The focus of this guys experience, what he stumbled across, how relevant “things” we’ve been doing for thousands of years are, spirituality and how he has made sense of the talk around “A simulation ” to me, finally!! I have such gratitude for finding your channel and this Man today. Thank-you😊
Many interesting things indeed. Regarding "Do you fu*CK" question, I hope that people trying to apply it will have enough tact to know how to use it because it could easily became a turn off and w*tf moment for women.
I was a nurse for Richard Speck, who murdered several nursing students. I know what it felt to take care of him when he described Coffey. The best way to describe it is you just feel chilled with evil. No nurse would go in alone because we were so creeped, even with security guards. He wasn’t abusive or ignorant to the staff, but you definitely felt like he would destroy you if you were alone.
THIS is one of the most eye-opening and utterly EMOTIONAL shows that I have listened to-EVER!! It is the only podcast that I listened to fully and then immediately listened to it again! Thank you for sharing so much. And, I am so grateful that you are cured! I have no idea how I happened upon this show, but I am so grateful to be a listener now. Hugs to the both of you!
If this is the only podcast you've listened to fully you have missed a hell of a lot great LIFE CHANGING information. I did NOT listen to this because of the host but because of his guest. The host would NOT be anyone to learn from.
@ozarkcyn1 Nornally, I would say that I appreciate your response and opinion, however, i personally felt it was an amazing podcast and i took a lot from it, both from the HOST AND GUEST. It is a fact that I have chosen not to delve into this segment of life, because I have chosen to live life outside of technology, but given the fact that I am a newer listener, does not in any way mean that I am not entitled to my own opinion. But, thank you for your input.
This might be the most pleasantly unexpected thing I’ve ever found on RUclips. Thank you both for your profound honesty, vulnerability, and insights. Amazing conversation.
I changed immensely when I moved with my husband at age 16 to small towns from a big city. I appreciate your insight on how large crowds bring out psychopathic behavior. Will never forget giving the finger to a pedestrian who was in my way only to realize the man was a neighbor waving at me. I slowed down after that incident because I knew I was a recognizable person who was accountable for my behavior.
I've been a panelist of TBP since the first show 5 years ago. I'm forever grateful for what I've learned from these Gents. I could listen to Chase Hughes for hours. Oh wait, I have.🕵🏼♂️🙏🏼💙
It's great to have feed back from good down to earth intellectual, empathetic. Authentic people. These are the real people that make the world go round
I actually live in a private valley in the National Forest without any neighbors, surrounded by 1 hundred foot tall trees. This has been my answer to living in nature. Not everybody can do this, but I PLANNED THIS, for most of my life. I allow strangers to visit on weekends, as part of an event a promoter is paying me to have. At LEAST VISIT nature as much as possible…
This was the most unexpected, deep information, I have heard in a long time. I am very thankful, that I am genuinely interested in learning to read people, otherwise, I would have not stumbled over the content in the second half of this video. Not your typical FED-guy I expected, abiding by and standing behind every rule of a twisted system. Thank you very much. Love from Germany.
The best part of this interview is at 2:09 HH:mm where you and Chase reveal “but who do I want this for, what type of people do I want to reach.” That’s the level of integrity we need more of today. We slumber in a state of Severed Conscience, where we pursue to dopamine hits from an unreal world. It’s what is destroying us, our building something in our minds that separates us from our loved ones. Don’t lose that realization.
I'm seeing an increasingly large number of folks in public being so complacent and rude. Cutting grocery store lines. Cutting off in traffic. Poor customer service. Lack of empathy is on the rise. I am a nurse and see it firsthand from medical staff as well 😢
What a fantastic podcast! So thorough and informative. Chase always appears highly observant, insightful and self aware. I'm very glad to hear he's on the mend from his seizures too. So many thanks both!
The interviewer, Leon, keeps laughing at inappropriate moments, which is exactly what the interviewee just described as a key psychopathic trait around 8:57. Then, at 9:47, Leon lists things he’s done that supposedly indicate he's not a psychopath-it almost comes off as guilt or paranoia. After that, he asks how to spot a psychopath, almost like he's trying to learn what behaviors to avoid. The whole interview starts off feeling really strange, almost like I’m watching an expert being interviewed by an actual psychopath-and that’s what makes this a fascinating interview.
Best information I have ever received. It changed the way I am thinking of things. I live in the mountains with dogs and trees, for the first time I understand my drive and will be able to resist people who thinks it’s in my best interest to leave Thank you on all other topics as well. I will read your books.
Wow, I really enjoyed this. What a real treat, I learned, I laughed and I wrote down so much to launch myself down several rabbit holes for days! Thank you so much! I feel like I witnessed something profound and genuine.
@@Corteum from my perspective,everything has an effect on the soul and sheaths of Man. In an alchemical sense. So the connection I can see is that mushrooms have this minute spore which can be dispersed over great distances. Mushroom itself goes deeply into the blood and that is why it is so difficult to reverse poisoning from a mushroom The methylene blue goes into the very cell structure of the human being, introducing oxygen and revitalising the structure of the cell. So to go back to the alchemical effect of substance look at The effects of Spiritual Development, 10 lectures given at The Hague from 20-29th March 1913, by Rudolf Steiner. Particularly lecture 2
I've watched a lot of videos of "conversations with government agent" or whatever on psychology, but this is truly one of the best. This guy is awesome.
Spent most of my childhood in my bedroom alone and learned to enjoy my own company, felt I was in heaven if I got my hands on a book. Still do today had no idea my childhood carried with me .. can’t stop thinking about it.
I love this stuff! That's why I have been a CranioSacral therapist for 39 years, which has truth indicators in it. The body can't lie and it always puts forth it's best effort for survival.
I am a Doctor of Acupuncture who also studied Craniosacral Therapy with the Upleger Institute for 9 years. When I combined both therapies my patients got better twice as fast...but the amazing thing was how many truths about their injury or whatever was at the root of their imbalance began to emerge. The body does not lie.
This is my first time watching one of your videos. I have to say I thoroughly enjoyed this interview. Especially when he spoke about his health journey, the cure and the psychedelics helping him reduce his ego. I hope he continues to share his story with others. It brings hope to those who hear it.
OMG - this was truly a blessing! thank you both so much! Writing my letter to my future self tonight. Shedding the old programming and embracing my true self is a wonderful journey and I am grateful to be part of it. Love to ALL ❤
Excellent! You know what struck me? John Candy’s character in the movie “Planes, Trains, and Automobiles” is full of examples of the statements instead of questions technique. He’s an expert at this! Really the whole movie is an example of all this podcast talks about! Both characters have the masks. It’s fun to watch this movie with these concepts learned. It’s like the whole movie is full of what this podcast is about. Perfect examples. Thank you for all of the insights.
I don’t think a person’s weight should be the determining factor on whether or not they are trustworthy. I work in healthcare and I wouldn’t trust anyone more than the amazing team of caregivers I work with with lives of my patients. And a good number of them are overweight. I have, however, experienced many individuals devoid of compassion and who actually enjoy belittling and causing harm to others who are also obsessed with their looks and working out.
Weight occurs for so many different reasons, disabilities, injuries, hormones, genetics. I would be looking at each person through the lens of compassion with insight, whilst being mindful of not prejudging in the way described by this man. We cannot judge a book by its cover, so to speak. We can by a persons actions, values, beliefs, behaviour and motivations. There are plenty of overweight, regular weight and underweight billionaires. Take each person on their merit.
My whole family is over wt but they are also very trustworthy and compassionate toward people and loyal & hardworking. On the other hand I’ve witnessed multiple control obsessed, self centered, back stabbing thin and fit people who are loyal to themselves alone and only to strangers to only use for a step up!
It was in reference to self discipline. Could you trust them to be up at 4am to catch a flight to meet you somewhere, over and over. Probably not because they just won’t feel like it. I think that was more the reference.
Wow - that first question. Normally people are congenial. The interviewer laughs. Guest laughs, But Chase knows the gravity of this case. He’s also highly authentic and confident. And he very seriously continues his point. And in that reveals the interviewer was laughing nervously. Fascinating what seriousness and confidence reveals as a mirror.
I've been scrolling through the comments (like a good little sheep😢) looking for anyone else who mentions the host...I find him unempathic, cold, just very off.
@@lv7118I get that feeling from people who aren’t American, which I’ve heard from European friends that they tend to come across that way. Either that or he’s a psychopath lol 😂😂
Chase, you’re great! I wish I had known about you before I was trapped by a narcissist for 4 years. But, I’m free now (physically). Anyway, I’m glad you’re on the road to recovery with your brain health. Praying you continue to improve. Thank you for all you do!😊
Grey rock That means u don’t even think of him, let alone talk to him or ask others about him or read his FB etc Stop urself when u begin thinking about him, every time Choose to sing a song Call a friend Do vagal nerve exercises Think of topics to research Count to 20 in triples, then backwards - then do it to 100 Ur breaking physical peptide bonds in ur brain that were made by the abuse. This takes time n consistency. It is a physical condition. Not just u “not being strong enough” or “not wanting it bad enough” It’s an injury of sorts. GREY ROCK
Thoughts?
Chase Hughes is beyond of great guest, thank You Leon for having him. Everybody needs someone like him in their life
A great guest and a great conversation, there were times in the video I was like fuck Leon I hope you'll ask him more about it and you asked the exact question I was looking for, so thanks man lol
I hope you'll do more podcasts like this one, invite Robert Greene if possible, that would be awesome.
Just discovered you, loved everything about it! The visually pleasant setting with the calming yet vibrant blue, the guest, you, the questions, the answers. Your vibe and attention and concentrated calm. All of it is drawing me in.
Just came upon your channel and lucky me ! This was a fantastic interview. Thank you
Chase is awesome he never fails to surprise me with his wisdom.
Leon, thanks for having me on! My most fun podcast ever.
Wow - I’m only 15 minutes in and am going back to take notes. Talk about a treasure trove of immediately useful information…
Great one, Chase! #NCI #TRIBE ❤
Chase ... i watch you a lot ... I appreciate your insights 🙏 thanks
I am grateful for this enlightening info!! Excellent. I didn’t
Feel the fun you did. 😊
Thankful for sharing!!
You help me in my personal life but also help me be a better parent. Thank you Tan Daddy!
There is a girl in my area that I have a high amount of respect for. She busts her tail growing a huge garden every year to sell veggies. She also works at a gas station 7 days a week. She has obvious signs that something went terribly wrong in her life. She cannot look you in the eyes, no matter what. Everyone knows her, and most everyone gives her love, and knows she has mental health problems. She drives her ATV on my property, because I gave her permission. We chat occasionally. When we part, she'll say, "I love you." And I'll tell her back, "I love you too." Some people don't do well with other people. We all need to identify those folks and give them the love they somehow missed in their childhood. If she never looks at me, I'll always love her. I have my own mental health issues, but I will always be thankful that mine aren't as bad as some other people. So I try to be kind to all.
Thanks for sharing that. I’ve just read it and it’s beautiful to see this girl gets love. I love that you said those who struggle with people need to be given a little extra love. I find it heart warming when others show that there are good people in this world.
@@itsnotthesamething she is autistic ✨️🤍✨️
Please 🙏 learn from people who are and not from people who are not. Just LEARN.
Do you think that this time in our society has contributed to people being socialpaths they force you to believe that being materialitic showing you have the means to be a successful person. Your shoes cost 250. You h😊Ave the newest cell the best clothes and that fosters greed . That fosters abuse and demands cause they demand their parents buy these things so they can 😊get what they need want now don't wait on anyone to say no
She sounds like me. I wish I had a "You" in my life! Keep showing her love - that's beautiful and you sound like a really good person ❤
This is a great podcast. I’m a criminal defense lawyer and this is utterly fascinating.
Note: most of the psychopaths I’ve met have been lawyers and judges, not my clients. ;)
A bit like Keir Starmer then.
That's rather scary!!!
@@EffSharp I worked for a crooked solicitor. He was using clients' money but was jailed. I found another job.
@@fionagregory9147 EXACTLY. We can be honest, it's the elephant in the room.
That is truly frightening.
It's so interesting seeing an expert of Chase's level casually allowing an interviewer to just show the audience what he's teaching. True professional. Thanks for the opportunity to see this Leon, and for putting yourself out there!
When I was nine years old in the early mid 1980s I was living on the beach and the streets of Gulfport, MS, eating out of garbage cans and sleeping under Hobie Catamarans and in bushes. Until I was eleven. Less than two years. While I’ve worked through a lot of integral things, I still have some little mouse wheels turning. When I found out how fucked up I was, I began consciously and deliberately working on improving myself. Now I am fifty-one, and I have just only recently realized that I am okay enough to be okay with myself, even with my own sad failures and shortcomings. Yay me…
You are mastering your life- keep going friend! 😊
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I'm a similar age with a relatively easy upbringing in a working class family. I'm sure that you learnt things that I never needed to. It is a strength. You understand the "why" to so many things I've never considered.
Have you tried God? Ask him sincerely for help and see what happens…🌟❤️
Jason. I don't usually make comments but you have inspired me this evening. Your story reminds me of a quote, "To live is to suffer, to survive is to find some meaning in the suffering" - Friedrich Nietzsche. I wanted to suggest a book that has helped me greatly to understand and deal with the trauma that I have lived with since 1993. It's called, "The Body Keeps the Score," by Bessel van der Kolk. It has helped me immensely. Be prepared to break down several times while reading but you will realize that you are not alone and that it's not hopeless. You can overcome and you can help others, or at least educate them. Keep up the good fight my friend.
I Am a complete loner and find It challenging To relate to the people of today. I prefer to keep company with animals. All animals. ❤ and nature. True joy
Yep. Currently being cozy with the cats.
@@InuranusBrokoffDitto. Watching this cuddled with my cat. I trust animals way over people.
Gay
You and me both buddy
I'm with you!!
I just Can't, anymore.
I'm 71yrs old, so I've seen plenty.
When I even just watch the news, which I no longer do, it hurts me so much or I become inordinatly angry.
People interest me with the positive things they do.
I entertain no other information.
Bystander effect. Once after a visit to the dentist my then 8 year old collapsed on the road walking home. A couple walked by, saw what happened and literally stepped over her to go on their way. Not even asking if she was OK. Thankfully others did offer help but it just made me realise that people will step over you rather than help.
Not quite. It means the MORE people are around the MORE likely people are to do nothing
And yet no one has pointed out that we have created a psychopathic society.g@@itsruckaswife7036
Yes! Years ago I saw an old woman with a cane crossing a busy intersection. She fell and her cane went flying.. I ran over, grabbed her cane and tried to pull her up, but she was a lot heavier than me I could hardly budge her! The light turned green and literally all the cars started going forward and honking at me to get her out of the way! All I could do was stand there with her on the ground until finally a man ran over to help me.. i couldn't believe it was like they were gunna run her right over if I wasn't there! Another time I was pushing my son in his stroller, back in 2006, and his father attacked me on the sidewalk.. the stroller pushed forward and my son was pointing the other way, screaming, he couldn't see why I was yelling.. his dad had grabbed me by my hair, threw me down and started kicking me right in public on the sidewalk! With a baby in a stroller, not one car stopped, no one came out of their homes, nothing! He ran away and I took the stroller and my son home.. two examples in my life where I felt completely unseen and invisible
@izzydeadyet7336 The one about the elderly woman is very disturbing! As for the other story, I can see why people didn't want to get involved in a domestic dispute or any violent act, but they should have at least phoned the cops.
Literally!🤦🏻♀️
idk how i found this podcast, but holy crap it blew my mind…and when leon started talking about making videos that get a thousand views or a hundred thousand i got confused cause i had already seen that this video had like 2 million views. and then i checked his other videos and saw that they were only getting thousands and i was like whoaaaaa this one resonates HARD!!! bravo gentlemen
The truth resonates 🌬️
Thanks so much, Erika!
There are soo many interviews on You Tube where the subject matter doesn’t warrant the time. You find yourself skipping through the content trying to find the nuggets of information they promised, only to find that it just isn’t there. This isn’t one of them. This was riveting from start to finish. Blimming well done.
I want to add blimming to my vernacular! It'll be in a Texas accent but that's OK 😊
Spot on. First time I didn’t change the playback speed to 1.5x. ✌️
@@shawnahathaway4762😂❤
That's exactly what I was doing Jane. 😂
@@shawnahathaway4762’Blimming’ isn’t really used here in the UK. It’s @JaneUK’s polite corruption of ‘blooming’ which we Brits sometimes use instead of the more vulgar ‘bloody’ which is frequently employed when we swear (‘bloody’ is itself a less harsh alternative to the f word). In fact ‘bloody’ is itself a corruption of ‘By our Lady’ which is what was said in more religious medieval times. Hence the phrase ‘swear word’ - swearing by citing something of religious significance.
I've been following Chase Hughes and listening to him for about 2 and a half years, his wisdom never fails to surprise me. His own video on bullying helped my son a lot!! I'll be forever grateful for that. I'm saving up to take one of his courses.
Amazing podcast, blessings to Chase, his beautiful wife and family!
@dalelerette206 Some people are dangerous unfortunately...
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@@chasehughesofficial Thank you so much Chase. You're a blessing, you truly are. ❤💙🏴
@@NicolaMaxwell go on yersel :)) hope you re all good.
Nicola, I remember "live chatting" with you on that one. I've been a TBP panelist since the first show 5 years ago. My autistic nephew and I learned about body language and I'm forever grateful for the closer relationship I have with him because of TBP. Chase's story of carrying a binder around on how to ask a girl for a date made us laugh. He's truly an amazing man. I hope he knows how loved he is by sharing his knowledge. I cried the other night when he released his video on how his health is improving. Hope you and your son have a blessed future. 🙏🏼
Everyone in the world should take the 2+ hours out of their lives to watch this podcast. It is the most insightful informative podcast I have ever seen.
Hes an exposed bs artist
@@raukoring Exactly. Lots and lots of people are hiding behind a mask. It ain't "what you see is what you get". Really, I would wish that people were more genuine.
SAM VAKNIN RUNS LAPS AROUND THIS CLOWN!!!
Glad you resonate with this, but this is very "light" compared with real psychology talk, which might be more insightful but sometimes too dense and boring.
But look beyond: the host is to the right. They both have a t-shirt showing muscle, there are two trees those symbolise 2 things. Then the voices are with extra bass and tranquil (glad they don't artificially scream to fake an exiting show). It also slow enough you can do something while also listening. So Neurolinguistically, it's geared towards women. So try to listen to the show again, but knowing it's geared towards you, the target audience. This is not malice, they need to monetize for a living.
@@AndijvieMetPatat he was selling blue dye as panacea saying it has no side effects. You probably didn't get that far in the video. He is a sociopath cult leader style snake oil seller with female followers. All his fake history and previous snake oils are exposed on internet if you google and read just a little bit.
I've been an avid reader for decades on subjects of psychology, biographies, spiritualism, and many interesting and diverse topics. I've had opportunities to watch great documentaries on various topics but in my opinion this here is the Cadillac, extraordinarily and deeply profound.
There's so much I'd love to expound on in each area they touched on but it would turn into a book. They both shared and articulated well on aspects I see and feel but I just didn't have the words to define it.
This is a podcast that is easily deserving of multiple revisits. It's one that every word and expression doesn't want to be missed, and want it to sink in. Such an eye opener, thought provoking and valuable learning material and lessons.
I'm elated his seizures were cured. What an incredible backstory of how he stumbled upon his cure. This is the type of content that is needed more then ever in our world.
Two pleasant, highly intelligent empathic men. - Thank You ❤
It’s so important to let children feel, and express their true emotions. Never to say, “You shouldn’t feel that way.”
You also shouldn't make them dwell in them. You can create someone who can't be resilient by making them focus and relive something or dive into something in a way that isn't age appropriate. You want them to end up able to handle reality not get stuck in their emotional upsets. Their esteem shouldn't be dependent on someone else's perception or opinion of them.
I have called 911 so often even when I am not first to see it. I never assume others will.
I can feel a psychopath. Had a new adorable coworker and interacted for a few minutes and realized this person was going to torture me ( and others). It was a great time to exit that work assignment. Later learned she traumatized everyone around her.
@@user-cg8if3eq7d Without expressing their true emotions they’ll never develop awareness or insight therefore develop maladaptive behaviour due to unpacked baggage …if they become aware of their true emotions which can only be done if theyre given or give themselves permission to express what they feel and that what they feel is valid, allowed to be felt, rather than being told “you shouldn’t feel that way “ makes them feel like they’re not allowed to feel certain things /they’re wrong or icky to feel things , which to make someone feel like they’re feelings aren’t valid or allowed to be felt , they’ll develop major insecurity or major internal loathing because theylll believe they think or feel things that aren’t acceptable or right. They’ll become overly critical of themselves and overthink themselves always on Alert or on guard self monitoring themselves second guessing or doubting whether or not they’re for thinking or feeling proper things and develop a mask that’s so inauthentic and carefully designed so as to ensure they are accepted by people to avoid being judged or disliked incase they express a feeelinf that’s wrong” to feel and list goes on for all the problems that snowball and develop if you don’t express your true emotions , if you’re told to not feel things instantly dismissing them for being human they’ll believe it’s not ok to think or feel things that are actually common and normal to feel….. Yes don’t dwell on things and yes be resilient obviously…but u can’t be resilient/bounce back from things that you never were even sllowed to be made aware of and work thru by expressing it. Yes not to dwell and express urself repeatedly to no end no solution, obv…and expressing emotions has nothing to do with the approval or acceptance of another person it’s about many different things…expressing ur feelings for example being hurt or disrespected when you treated me like that or here’s how I feel when u do this and I expect to be treated like ..”
When my toddler cries, I encourage him to explain to me what is going on. I ask him “where does it hurt?” “ does it hurt a lot?” “Can mommy kiss your hand so the pain goes away?” Etc.
"You can know the depths of a man's character by what he laughs at"-Goethe.
Like at 1:45... that's how far I got and had my first impression of this guy.. and your comment was right here at that time.
or like at 1:59:44 lol
7:15
That could be depression tho when someone laughs about things most people wouldn't laugh about
I laugh at dark humor and myself.
Watching for the second time, but this time I am ready. Pen, notebook, tabs in hand. This is my favorite Chase conversation ever. Deleting social media for a year. I said it here. 10-14-24, I’ll let you know how I did next year.
Thank you both for sharing this extraordinary conversation. 🌻
@stephanie ///Leon is saying....noooo. I didn't mean for you to stop watching and listening to me...lol. If by chance you see this next year...let us know how it went.
Good for you ! You will learn a lot about every thing ! 😊😊
You washed
This guy is a fruad. Professor Sam Vaknin wrote the narcissist bible in 1995 "malignant self love narcissism revisted"... he is also just as capable of breaking down the psychopath. sam runs LAPS AROUND THIS FRAUD!!!
@@kimmichaels899What do you mean by that little bro?
I'm a psychotherapist and there's more useful insight in the first 20 minutes of this than many counselling training exercises thank you.The getting in touch with the opposite of your mask echoes Carl Jung's take on integrating ones shadow self which I believe to be essential for well being. I wish I had access to Chase Hughes and the Behaviour Panel when I was training.I will be looking into Chase's course for teaching women how to detect psychopaths.(I married one when I was young and foolish and would love to help others avoid the same mistake.) Excellent discussion.
When your child hood has been traumatized, you learn to hide all the shame and guilt.
That's interesting because l tell the truth. It disarms people. I see it as a strength. I'm a survivor - never a victim.
People share a lot with me because they can see l'm not afraid of the truth.
It eventually leaks out... in bad ways. Bottling all that up takes a toll on our bodies and minds. One day, that dam breaks in really bad ways. Learning how to process, and exorcise really, our bad experiences and triggers becomes kinetic. You do one one day... then you do five, then one day you look and there's nothing left in that crate of pain you've been hauling around your whole life. It's freeing. It frees you to be you without that baggage. Cheers, hang in there. C-PTSD is a real goblin, living past it is bliss.
2023 years of trauma,well understood catholic education before the age of 7,has provided the leadership to breed SHEEPLE 😮
You are way ahead of the curve as an adult with reading ppl and intuitiveness, for those who made it out.
@@ChristineMeyer-hs9rg Wow, should I kiss your Ring?
I loved every single minute of this video. I wanted to say my son is autistic, he's 15, and he has this confidence I wish I had. It's not ego, it's not loud or showy. It's just confidence. I went no contact with my family a while back for a few reasons. My childhood was horrible but I remember all of it with one of those memories TLC makes documentaries about. I used to show him pictures or videos of himself as a baby or young kid, and he refuses to look at them. He says he can't stand it. One day when I asked why he said, "You had a bad childhood with bad memories. I don't have bad memories that keep me stuck in the past. I only know now and the future." It really struck me because he's right. And he's a very happy kid. I want to be like that.
It helps to not listen to music. Also be sober. Music constantly triggers memories and insobriety prevents growing mentally.
@@KellyNora-p8q He doesn't listen to music and he doesn't drink. He's 15 years old.
Thats very profound . Hes got te secret to a happy life all figured out already .
@@hippiecowgirl4231 I love his outlook because he's right. What do any of us have but this very moment and the ability to plan for the future? Once a moment has passed, it's nothing to him. And as sentimental as I am, he's right. The past doesn't exist anymore. I love that.
@@KellyNora-p8qmusic helps a lot , frequencies help with healing , triggering memories is a good way to get past them and grow
Around the 15 minute mark when talking about how when we are seven or eight years old and dealing with issues is who you are today.
I had a ridiculously lonely childhood. My pet and looking at flowers made me happy. So as a result Now that my kids are grown I have a menagerie of several dogs and cats. And potted plants that are blooming all over the place.
I never realized, or thought about that before. Kind of makes me wanna cry actually.
Plants and pets are awesome ! Don't sell yourself short.
Ya that one hit me pretty hard too. I was abused by a family member at that time, really messed me up bad. I made it to 70 👍🏼. Maybe it was the shrooms I got into at 17 lol 😂. Life is tuff, God loves me and so I am here mostly happy.
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My life at 8…That explains my life as an adult, wow.
What do you make of it when someone laughs a twice while the interviewee is describing the most frightening psychopath that he has ever encountered?
Nervous, afraid of being exposed.
That’s someone that seeks attention.
Uncomfortable
That was weird.
He is realizing that he recognizes that behavior in himself
I'm gonna have to listen to this like 1000 times, amazing conversation!
I feel the same..
You must be brainwashed…
Hes a bs artist there a video on RUclips exposing him. Or just check what hes selling comon you cant be that naive
Seriously
You might enjoy learning of Chase's many lies: ruclips.net/video/4t1DMxmqJOk/видео.html
Something that transformed the way I respond to other people is the realization that nearly every adult and many children each carry a secret burden. Knowing that prompts greater understanding and willingness to work together to accomplish what is needed.
I was 50/50 beginning of this podcast……but last half of this interview/ discussion very enlightening and interesting to me. Great content. I rarely do this, but actually took some notes to do some more research. My time well spent. Thank you both!
Would you say it was a good transaction for your time?
Not only did it blow my mind, but it did it again each minute as I watched. The part about dopamine not being from gratification but from your expectation of the next gratification was literally game changing.
what's the time stamp when it starts to get good?
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@hamsterm5998 00:00 i can't imagine what kind of person could possibly find this podcast uninteresting 😂😂😂😂 go back to your beer and football 🍻🏈😂⚽🍺😂😂
Chase is so easy to listen to and his plethora of wisdom is fascinating. Well done. Bravo!
Minus taking melatonin. Bad idea.
Could listen to Chase for hours, he explains everything in such a calm way and makes it more understandable 👍
Therapist / mental health clinician and multidisciplinary educator here, for the past 30+ years, and every time I listen to you, Chase, I learn and reflect, more.
Psychopath.
Kidding 😂
He has popped up several times on different podcasts I randomly run across. I feel like I am supposed to hear what he is saying. My husband had a bad head injury, and I have dreaded the future of his Alzheimers and deteriorating brain functions in the future. He has given me things to think about and explore❤
Professor Sam Vaknin is the goat. Dont waste your time with this elementary conversation
This guy is over analyzing what he thinks he sees though his preconceived vail...
I'm not impressed with his opinions
For his theories are full of Pit Falls..
The part about self control as a warning struck home for me. The other day, I was out with a friend having a coffee with a colleague outside a Starbucks and there was a guy behind me talking so loud into his phone that I couldn’t hear what my friend was saying. After about 5 minutes, I turned around and asked “excuse me sir, do you mind keeping it down a little?” The guy reacted angrily and started yelling at me. I ignored him, but in retrospect, the guy’s behavior before I even turned to him should have been a warning signal, as his self control was clearly not good. This video is very relatable. Chase Hughes is really fascinating.
Lol. He yelled at you because you were being rude and over the top. Interesting how that never even occurred to cross your mind though, instead it was all about you, how he was ruining your moment, how he yelled at you, how you ignored him, how you should have known better because you have better self control than others. I hate to be the one to break this to you… you’re a sociopath.
Lol. He yelled at you because you were being rude and over the top. Interesting how that never even occurred to cross your mind though, instead it was all about you, how he was ruining your moment, how he yelled at you, how you ignored him, how you should have known better because you have better self control than others. I hate to be the one to break this to you… you’re a sociopath.
From what I gathered from this video is that guy likely needed a big hug.
@@ME-gz8yi Some need hugs, some need straight jackets. Let's not kid ourselves.
It's great to hear someone speak where honesty is important. Not to win people's trust but because it is important to be true to themselves. Shedding that mask or slaying the ego is the path towards enlightenment.
Yup, I hope people learn from this.
It's ALL about childhood trauma & releasing it.
If anyone wants my list of alternative therapy courses, LMK
Thanks for this interview! This is stuff that needs to be aired on national TV.
Love this man. Honest, kind, wise, humble. Thank you Sir😊
that what is called virtue signalling, they are both good at it 😊
I’m 58, Concreter and from very dysfunctional upbringing. Always been interested in making the best of myself. I am just finishing first year of a bachelor of psychology and I really enjoyed this talk. Thanks
Good for you! You should be proud!!!
I'm a 56 yr old widow X'S 2 so due to that fact I'm wanting to start school. I was thinking I'm way too old to just now start school. Thanks for commenting!!!
You're an inspiration at that age to be doing that
I’m 56 too and considering going back to school. You’re an inspiration. Thank you.
Three years of schooling is a big investment. What do you anticipate in return?
Psychology is a twisted path to find yourself or Truth! How many happy psychologists do you know??
Self control or discipline can be a mask also. My attacker went to the gym every day and jujitsu. Fortunately for me he wasn't intelligent and I was able to outwit him so he was unable to fulfil his deed. His mask was so deceiving leaving everyone in disbelief of his crime. He portrayed to be the most friendly helpful person, everyone duped into trusting him it almost cost me my life.
I’m so glad you are safe and still here❤
Glad you figured that out ahead of time!! That you can trust your intuition 💕
Self control and discipline weren't the issue. Jiu jitsu was. It's full of bad spiritual practices and you're surprised that evil arrived.
I’m glad you made it 👍🏼
@@jennymccullough9517jujitsu isn't evil it depends on the person yielding the tool. Quit blaming the tool and place the responsibility on the person yielding the tool.
The way he speaks of his wife: always admiringly. He even volunteers that he is married - and he doesn't add "happily" (folks who add "happily" seem a little desperate that we think they are happy in their choices) shows his integrity.
Uhh, what about if he is unhappily married?! He would not say happily married too.
Chase is an inspiring human being 🥰 authentic, humble & kind. Brilliant chat, watched it straight through, thank you 👏🏼🇬🇧
Yes. he's the best!
Based on the video, then he is the opposite of that... Lol
Why do you think he's the worst ?? @@SWTORDREKKIN
I'm still going to listen to him and I think I still like him and I feel for his brain issues and I want to try methylene blue
On the other hand, I send you this is true it certainly does but like another nail in the coffin towards I'm never trusting anyone again!.
Hes a bs artist guru who sells bs stuff
Keto has been prescribed since the 1920s, before pharmaceuticals, with success, to stop seizures. My sister has a seizure disorder and then had a stroke. Lost her speech. After NO CARB keto (meat, veggies only) for a year now, 100% improvement, got her speech and mobility back! Conventional medicine NEVER addresses diet sadly. MANY medicines and protocols of old are demonized today. SO HAPPY for you Chase that you found Methylene Blue and that it has worked so well for you. AWESOME interview!
yes love keto, test my ketones every day.
Methylene blue is used in surgery to dye tissue to tract various things. It's not a medication
Is that what he’s talking about ? Shit I thought he was talking about a medication but I couldn’t catch the name. What about the over the counter medicine? Anyone know what that is ? I’m in the uk
Ketogenosis has only been known since the 1950s
@@itsruckaswife7036Methylane blue is a blue liquid medicine on Chase's video he puts up a list of his daily medicines.
With so so much amazing info chase has given… once I heard “my brain disease is cured”!! I got so excited and I’m so happy for you, Chase!! Praise God !!! Thank you for your constant desire to assist the world with your knowlege! 🙏📿🤗
fraud/ frog.. not a real human. he self diagnosed. himself ... And 'promotes' his cure. big bs red flags
I agree !
Suddenly I feel remarkably well adjusted after seeing this.
“All the world’s a stage, and all the men and women merely players.” Shakespeare was right.
He usually was.
Actually this is the Apostle Paul
Coming from a previous DV situation, even when entirely innocent of any supposed misdemeanours, the very act of being questioned is enough to promote terror and looking for an escape . You have obviously not suffered such a situation.
C'mon, people, if you didn't read Shakespeare do not argue. These words are Shakespeare's.!😜
Sure, but who was Shakespeare? Another historical narrative to mess with your head.
One of the best things I've ever listened to. Mr. Chase has covered many areas. After a long time, finally a quality interview. I also learned something new that I hadn't paid attention to. God bless you and keep you.
My brother was a peaceful man. Like Mr. Hughes, he was capable of great violence, but also like Mr. Hughes, his softness was his greatest asset. He passed away nearly 4 years ago, but I carry his lessons and memory with me daily. I will never be without love for the blessing of his memory and the precious time we had.
Live life to the fullest. It can be taken from us in an instant.
Thank you for this interview, it feels like a conversation my brother might have with himself. What a gift to the world.
😢😊
Life is eternal
My brother was the same. His young years, violent and chaotic, by his early 40's he embraced almost a shaman-like existence. We were allies in this world. I miss his physical presence and humor. Man he could be funny, just off the charts funny.
Thank you for your post. It reminded me what a true gift it was to share time here with my brother.
Your words mean more than I can say. I'm truly honored to hear this interview brought back memories of your brother in such a powerful way. He sounds like an incredible person, and the way you carry his lessons and love is deeply inspiring. Thank you for sharing this, and for reminding us all of what really matters. Wishing you peace and strength.
Wow this podcast took a U-turn! Thanks for the amazing info I'm ordering some methylene blue today!
This is the most fascinating podcast I have listened to in my lifetime. I am a Life Coach for people with ADHD, I am drawn to information about human behavior. The bonus of Chase sharing his journey and cure of his brain disease is unforgettable.
Was it my ADD, or was this strung out and hard to stick with what is being talked around to get the nugget, only to be smacked off the groove by so many commercials
@@sacredrain7757 I always need to read, and or listen to a new subject twice. The third time I take notes. That’s only when I want to speak intelligently about it. This is true even without interruption.
This is one of the most provocative and stimulating RUclipss I’ve watched. I’m coming back for sure. Thank you
I finally figured out why I hate being around people now that I'm older and said I'm a chronic people pleaser and I just can't be an authentic anymore, tired of people pleasing and I'd rather be by myself and I can't help myself❤😂😮
I totally get that! Sad but true! Read "ways to avoid people" some of it actually works!
Yep, I get that. We people pleasers spoil our people, but after a while - sometimes YEARS - we figure out which ones reciprocate enough to deserve our kindness, and realize which ones are just using us for their own benefit, draining us of our time, money, and emotions.
We finally reach the point where we really don't care if Jolene wants to take our man. 😆
I just find that the majority of people are not worth being around and I have very low tolerance
Yes!!!
I get that
This is by far one of the most interesting podcasts I’ve ever watched
Great podcast! You did an awesome job. I never tire of listening to Chase or his boys, Mark, Scott, and Greg!
Subscribed!
👍🏾
Thank goodness you’re not dumbing things down! It’s happening in too many areas of our society, and getting worse every day, so THANK YOU FOR NOT wanting to dumb down your channel!!!
I've listened to Stuff on utube for years. Just now, Its as though some one switched on a light in me, while listening to this. Life now makes sense from here on. Thank you both.
I came in to watching this video expecting to learn about "how to spot a psychopath" and… Got so much more out of it, I don't know where to begin - absolutely engrossing and informative. Thanks so much for this!
This high vibration, the comfort of just beeing in the moment, the authenticity, the higher learning. Thank you so much for this mind-blowing video. 🙏❤️
@@prinsessaization what higher learning? High vibration through deceit and ego? He’s a grifter
Thank the youtuber so much for promoting a bs artist and putting a link to his bs blue dye product shop
@@raukoring seriously right? This princess commenter looks like a bot.
Chase paid RUclips for likes and views. Money he grifted from suckers. I’d love to see his bs service record
Real humility and humanness. I admire the way Chase interacts with the interviewer, very kind man who understands and throws off any need for judgement or having an upper hand, not when there is knowledge and self awareness to bring to the fore, just an all around helpful guy that doesn’t mind sharing what taken him a lifetime to learn. The person that every “paduan” needs whether it’s know to that person or not. In my opinion, the goodness in the world finds its way through humanity through people like him. God bless him always.
A friend of mine in the US is a retired doctor, he spoke once of having to see a man in prison who had just killed a few people. He said that when he was walking into the room he felt an unsettling darkness wash over him before seeing anyone. The feeling never left him.
😮, that so creepy
He was an empath. Most empaths can feel the energy of a person before walking up to them.
He knew the man was a killer.
That knowledge would definitely change my behavior.
OMG! WHAT AN EXCITING CONVERSATION! I came here for Chase, but I really appreciate this interviewer! You remind me of Chris Williamson. Great interviewers bring out the best of those being interviewed! Of course, with Chase Hughes...ITS ALL GOLD!
I think this is one of the best videos I've ever seen on RUclips ..and most positive. How to read people, how to defuse people, how to solve health problems, how to reconnect with our true tribe of people And take off our masks... Bc it's safe to do so.... Just freaking 💖 this video!
So agree, so strong knowledge from wise people😊
I don't generally watch interviews like this but for some reason, I clicked it. Wow. I really enjoyed this interview so much so that I took notes. New subscriber to both channels. Looking forward to seeing what other content you both have available.
This is the best conversation I’ve seen on RUclips since Jordan Peterson and Chris Williamson. I freaking LOVE Chase Hughes. I’ve never seen the interview guy before .. but he asked all the questions I had in my head. This was so freaking great..❤ ❤❤
@@kristipollington-fk1tz You must be highly suggestible.
@@Chris-sq7bh😄
@@Chris-sq7bh if you say so
Maybe it's you that is highly suggestible if you feel you can't listen to differing view points. @@Chris-sq7bh
Hahaha, and funny too!
"Make statements instead of asking questions."
My boss, in France taught me almost everything he mentions in this section.
"Precher le faux pour savoir le vrai."
Very enjoyable interview.
Thank you.
Our family motto "We Rise By Lifting Others" - Chase Hughes ❤
Interesting. I am 79; and a few years ago, I decided I wanted to live a positive life from now on. I recently moved into a transitional community and live in the “independent living”portion. This is the perfect place to support and boost morale in others. It is so very rewarding. Just remembering others by name and greeting them with a smile brings a smile to their faces. A positive conversation often follows. I couldn’t ask for a better way to enter my elder years! Thank you, Chase. Love watching you on The Behavior Panel too. You’re doing great work!😊
Kamala 2024! *wink*
@@KarenBell011864 Aww that's amazing, my friends are all older than me and I live in a small community. Chase Hughes is an inspiration, he cured his own brain disease! That's so nice to hear. My Granny used to say, just enjoy your life and sounds like that's what you're doing. I'm happy for you!💙🏴
@@KarenBell011864 - I wish I could do this, but since I'm fighting in this war, WWIII, I can't.
@@reasonsreasonably noooo
I have experienced a spiritual awakening by forgiving an abuser for raping me when I was 6 . I lived in this oneness for 8 months. Not everyone can cope with the road I took. That's why podcasts like this are needed for the majority of humanity. When you raise your frequency, you change your audience and find your soul tribe.
☝️ ego fantasies
Me too -age 5.
Me too!
I luv this talk.
I have a question about minute 35.44 about artificial depth, or lack there of, vs. avoidance, superficiality, and lack of empathy.
@@nothingiseverything2363does this make u feel better? Give grace /empathy a chance.
Thank you for your service Chase ❤️
Some of us have been forced to wear a mask being neurodivergent makes people uncomfortable I see through everybody's mask and they don't want me around
AMEN! TY
The most satisfying and contented time in my life, was when I moved myself and 2 youngest children spontaneously and lived off grid in a tiny shanty outside of Pahoa, Hawai'i. Literally the best thing I ever did...
I stayed in a tree house on a 24 acre fruit farm in pahoa for 5 days, by myself. No cell phone, no Internet, no TV. It was the most peaceful relaxing, joyful time I have ever had in my life!
I moved 2 Oahu from Midwest when 23 yr old by myself. Best thing ever did. Learned who I really was inside, not what my abusive upbringing said I was. The Hawaiian island people were fabulous.
@@juliesnuffin9807 - Are you stll there?
I wish I could move there.
@@OurFreeSociety no. Realisticallg I knew I wouldn't ever be able afford buying home. Met my haole hubby & we moved back to mainland/states.
@@juliesnuffin9807 - LOL, are you still with hubby?
Tbh, I couldn’t care less about the first half of this interview (as much as it was the reason for me watching) BUT the second half blew my mind!!! The focus of this guys experience, what he stumbled across, how relevant “things” we’ve been doing for thousands of years are, spirituality and how he has made sense of the talk around “A simulation ” to me, finally!!
I have such gratitude for finding your channel and this Man today.
Thank-you😊
Best interview with Chase I've seen so far
Many interesting things indeed.
Regarding "Do you fu*CK" question, I hope that people trying to apply it will have enough tact to know how to use it because it could easily became a turn off and w*tf moment for women.
@@elenabob4953 I thought the question was do you fart?
@@elenabob4953 I found that disgusting. If a man said that to me That would be it for me. Bye. See u later! Not funny or disarming to me.
This man is absolutely magnetic! One of the best podcasts I've ever seen/heard!
I was a nurse for Richard Speck, who murdered several nursing students. I know what it felt to take care of him when he described Coffey. The best way to describe it is you just feel chilled with evil. No nurse would go in alone because we were so creeped, even with security guards. He wasn’t abusive or ignorant to the staff, but you definitely felt like he would destroy you if you were alone.
He was a reprobate. The Speck guy. Probably demon possessed too.
Ever heard of demons?
@@ToriLynnH - most people don't believe in curses, but I do having been cursed probably before I was even born.
THIS is one of the most eye-opening and utterly EMOTIONAL shows that I have listened to-EVER!! It is the only podcast that I listened to fully and then immediately listened to it again! Thank you for sharing so much. And, I am so grateful that you are cured!
I have no idea how I happened upon this show, but I am so grateful to be a listener now.
Hugs to the both of you!
If this is the only podcast you've listened to fully you have missed a hell of a lot great LIFE CHANGING information. I did NOT listen to this because of the host but because of his guest. The host would NOT be anyone to learn from.
@ozarkcyn1 Nornally, I would say that I appreciate your response and opinion, however, i personally felt it was an amazing podcast and i took a lot from it, both from the HOST AND GUEST. It is a fact that I have chosen not to delve into this segment of life, because I have chosen to live life outside of technology, but given the fact that I am a newer listener, does not in any way mean that I am not entitled to my own opinion. But, thank you for your input.
This might be the most pleasantly unexpected thing I’ve ever found on RUclips. Thank you both for your profound honesty, vulnerability, and insights. Amazing conversation.
hi
I changed immensely when I moved with my husband at age 16 to small towns from a big city. I appreciate your insight on how large crowds bring out psychopathic behavior. Will never forget giving the finger to a pedestrian who was in my way only to realize the man was a neighbor waving at me. I slowed down after that incident because I knew I was a recognizable person who was accountable for my behavior.
I think this interview just saved my life. Thank you. I will continue my pursuit of truth
I've been a panelist of TBP since the first show 5 years ago. I'm forever grateful for what I've learned from these Gents. I could listen to Chase Hughes for hours. Oh wait, I have.🕵🏼♂️🙏🏼💙
Haha. Thanks, Dawn! ❤
One of the most provocative interviews I have ever watched. Thank you to both Leon and Chase for the utterly rivetting discussion from begining to end
It's great to have feed back from good down to earth intellectual, empathetic. Authentic people. These are the real people that make the world go round
I actually live in a private valley in the National Forest without any neighbors, surrounded by 1 hundred foot tall trees. This has been my answer to living in nature. Not everybody can do this, but I PLANNED THIS, for most of my life. I allow strangers to visit on weekends, as part of an event a promoter is paying me to have. At LEAST VISIT nature as much as possible…
Earthing! ❤
No
Do you have redwood trees?
Lucky bugger..... I need a holiday.....
Vast majority couldn’t do it. It is like solitary confinement. And they found that prisoners could go insane being by themselves for too long.
This was the most unexpected, deep information, I have heard in a long time. I am very thankful, that I am genuinely interested in learning to read people, otherwise, I would have not stumbled over the content in the second half of this video. Not your typical FED-guy I expected, abiding by and standing behind every rule of a twisted system. Thank you very much. Love from Germany.
The best part of this interview is at 2:09 HH:mm where you and Chase reveal “but who do I want this for, what type of people do I want to reach.” That’s the level of integrity we need more of today. We slumber in a state of Severed Conscience, where we pursue to dopamine hits from an unreal world. It’s what is destroying us, our building something in our minds that separates us from our loved ones.
Don’t lose that realization.
I'm seeing an increasingly large number of folks in public being so complacent and rude. Cutting grocery store lines. Cutting off in traffic. Poor customer service. Lack of empathy is on the rise. I am a nurse and see it firsthand from medical staff as well 😢
How did i keep myself safe as a 8-9 yr old? I hid from everyone, stayed silent and underachieved as much as possible
I made myself invisible but eventually ventured to interact with others more
Yeah. I stayed in my room. Still doing it.
Im alone easily 90,% of the time. Im very good at entertaining myself
Invisibility became my biggest gift .
sounds like you lived in NZ
I could have still sat and listen to your conversation for another 2 hours … great podcast !
What a fantastic podcast! So thorough and informative. Chase always appears highly observant, insightful and self aware. I'm very glad to hear he's on the mend from his seizures too. So many thanks both!
This came up as a recommendation in my simulated feed. One of the best podcast episodes I’ve seen.
The interviewer, Leon, keeps laughing at inappropriate moments, which is exactly what the interviewee just described as a key psychopathic trait around 8:57. Then, at 9:47, Leon lists things he’s done that supposedly indicate he's not a psychopath-it almost comes off as guilt or paranoia. After that, he asks how to spot a psychopath, almost like he's trying to learn what behaviors to avoid. The whole interview starts off feeling really strange, almost like I’m watching an expert being interviewed by an actual psychopath-and that’s what makes this a fascinating interview.
Great commentary!
A psychopath would not feel guilty. If dealing with someone possessing this vast arsenal of skills, I'm sure it would feel very awkward.
The inappropriate laughter was startling.
Youre probably right.
I agree with your comments. The early part of the interview had me wondering about Leon.
This guy is my new favorite bedtime story, his voice is so soothing. Excellent talk, thank you
Best information I have ever received. It changed the way I am thinking of things. I live in the mountains with dogs and trees, for the first time I understand my drive and will be able to resist people who thinks it’s in my best interest to leave
Thank you on all other topics as well. I will read your books.
Chase Hughes writing a Paper just to help his Mom! . . That's the best, God bless Chases Mom
This talk is a goldmine of information. Thank you!
Wow, I really enjoyed this. What a real treat, I learned, I laughed and I wrote down so much to launch myself down several rabbit holes for days! Thank you so much! I feel like I witnessed something profound and genuine.
That's a most remarkable revelation regarding Methylene blue. And mushrooms. You are so much more relaxed and intimate. Amazing Chase
Is there a connection with methylene blue and mushroom?
@@Corteum from my perspective,everything has an effect on the soul and sheaths of Man.
In an alchemical sense. So the connection I can see is that mushrooms have this minute spore which can be dispersed over great distances. Mushroom itself goes deeply into the blood and that is why it is so difficult to reverse poisoning from a mushroom
The methylene blue goes into the very cell structure of the human being, introducing oxygen and revitalising the structure of the cell.
So to go back to the alchemical effect of substance look at The effects of Spiritual Development, 10 lectures given at The Hague from 20-29th March 1913, by Rudolf Steiner.
Particularly lecture 2
Methylene blue and certain meds is a toxic combination
This smacks of BS. Not sure how or why it got on my feed.
@@grahamvanminnen8472 - I just wish the methylene blue was natural. I don't take drugs.
I've watched a lot of videos of "conversations with government agent" or whatever on psychology, but this is truly one of the best. This guy is awesome.
Spent most of my childhood in my bedroom alone and learned to enjoy my own company, felt I was in heaven if I got my hands on a book. Still do today had no idea my childhood carried with me .. can’t stop thinking about it.
Oh my gosh!! Last I heard, Chase Hughes’ brain was deteriorating. This is amazing!
Yeah…that was a gnarly story that’s stuck with me. Absolutely horrifying and now I’m on edge for him to freeze up. Do you remember what it was called?
How long ago was that?
I love this stuff! That's why I have been a CranioSacral therapist for 39 years, which has truth indicators in it. The body can't lie and it always puts forth it's best effort for survival.
I am a Doctor of Acupuncture who also studied Craniosacral Therapy with the Upleger Institute for 9 years. When I combined both therapies my patients got better twice as fast...but the amazing thing was how many truths about their injury or whatever was at the root of their imbalance began to emerge.
The body does not lie.
This is my first time watching one of your videos. I have to say I thoroughly enjoyed this interview. Especially when he spoke about his health journey, the cure and the psychedelics helping him reduce his ego. I hope he continues to share his story with others. It brings hope to those who hear it.
Thank you for speaking on the importance of the natural environment and our relationship to it. We are not separate and it is our lifeline.
We are not SLAVES to our environment.
Visitor here, this was so helpful. Thankyou for having him as your guest today.
Appreciate the LINK BELOW.
OMG - this was truly a blessing! thank you both so much! Writing my letter to my future self tonight. Shedding the old programming and embracing my true self is a wonderful journey and I am grateful to be part of it. Love to ALL ❤
Excellent! You know what struck me? John Candy’s character in the movie “Planes, Trains, and Automobiles” is full of examples of the statements instead of questions technique. He’s an expert at this! Really the whole movie is an example of all this podcast talks about! Both characters have the masks. It’s fun to watch this movie with these concepts learned. It’s like the whole movie is full of what this podcast is about. Perfect examples. Thank you for all of the insights.
I don’t think a person’s weight should be the determining factor on whether or not they are trustworthy. I work in healthcare and I wouldn’t trust anyone more than the amazing team of caregivers I work with with lives of my patients. And a good number of them are overweight. I have, however, experienced many individuals devoid of compassion and who actually enjoy belittling and causing harm to others who are also obsessed with their looks and working out.
Weight occurs for so many different reasons, disabilities, injuries, hormones, genetics. I would be looking at each person through the lens of compassion with insight, whilst being mindful of not prejudging in the way described by this man. We cannot judge a book by its cover, so to speak. We can by a persons actions, values, beliefs, behaviour and motivations. There are plenty of overweight, regular weight and underweight billionaires. Take each person on their merit.
My whole family is over wt but they are also very trustworthy and compassionate toward people and loyal & hardworking. On the other hand I’ve witnessed multiple control obsessed, self centered, back stabbing thin and fit people who are loyal to themselves alone and only to strangers to only use for a step up!
@@edempsey1989 I hear you. Its important to learn about a persons character through understanding rather than prejudging.
It was in reference to self discipline. Could you trust them to be up at 4am to catch a flight to meet you somewhere, over and over. Probably not because they just won’t feel like it. I think that was more the reference.
@Scorpio72350
Wow - that first question.
Normally people are congenial. The interviewer laughs. Guest laughs,
But Chase knows the gravity of this case. He’s also highly authentic and confident. And he very seriously continues his point. And in that reveals the interviewer was laughing nervously.
Fascinating what seriousness and confidence reveals as a mirror.
I've been scrolling through the comments (like a good little sheep😢) looking for anyone else who mentions the host...I find him unempathic, cold, just very off.
@@lv7118I get that feeling from people who aren’t American, which I’ve heard from European friends that they tend to come across that way. Either that or he’s a psychopath lol 😂😂
He is nervous and young.
Chase, you’re great! I wish I had known about you before I was trapped by a narcissist for 4 years. But, I’m free now (physically). Anyway, I’m glad you’re on the road to recovery with your brain health. Praying you continue to improve. Thank you for all you do!😊
Grey rock
That means u don’t even think of him, let alone talk to him or ask others about him or read his FB etc
Stop urself when u begin thinking about him, every time
Choose to sing a song
Call a friend
Do vagal nerve exercises
Think of topics to research
Count to 20 in triples, then backwards - then do it to 100
Ur breaking physical peptide bonds in ur brain that were made by the abuse. This takes time n consistency. It is a physical condition. Not just u “not being strong enough” or “not wanting it bad enough”
It’s an injury of sorts.
GREY ROCK