Why She Broke All Her Rules for Me

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  • @EntrepreneursInCars
    @EntrepreneursInCars  5 месяцев назад +16

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  • @benjaminadams_
    @benjaminadams_ 5 месяцев назад +278

    ‘People do the right things with the wrong people, and the wrong things with the right people’ - Orion Taraban 🙏

    • @honor9lite1337
      @honor9lite1337 5 месяцев назад +15

      Right for who? Wrong for who?
      -Bathroom's wall Quote

    • @aaronvalure178
      @aaronvalure178 5 месяцев назад +15

      Orion doesn't miss

    • @JudahForeverKingdom1727
      @JudahForeverKingdom1727 4 месяца назад +6

      Some women have skeletons in their closets, some are undertakers

    • @egogeo
      @egogeo 4 месяца назад +2

      Orion!

    • @zoli7251
      @zoli7251 16 дней назад +1

      That's why they are people.

  • @IFBBJacked
    @IFBBJacked 5 месяцев назад +272

    I almost spit out my food laughing when you followed up all women have skeletons in the closet with "some have graveyards"🤣Never heard that one before, but it is awesome and hits home 💪🏻

    • @The82bstewart
      @The82bstewart 5 месяцев назад +7

      Yeah and some have graveyards as big as Arlington cemetary..😂

    • @PepeDeezNutz
      @PepeDeezNutz 5 месяцев назад

      💀💀💀

    • @JudahForeverKingdom1727
      @JudahForeverKingdom1727 5 месяцев назад +4

      thats the nasty truth bro

    • @ThePaigeMa5ter
      @ThePaigeMa5ter 5 месяцев назад

      It’s common sense tho, once one dates enough women you learn A LOT (80/20) are absolutely unavailable for anything more than pump and dump (wrap your Willie)

    • @fjorddenierbear4832
      @fjorddenierbear4832 5 месяцев назад +2

      They don't have graveyards, they have the Parisian crypts.
      A funking mausoleum that holds their entire bodycount.
      Not visible to the eye, hence a mausoleum.
      (that said, of course a "graveyard" is a more useful word to use spontaneously, since mausoleum is not a common word, etc.)

  • @ackbuilder8262
    @ackbuilder8262 5 месяцев назад +165

    If a woman calls 3 months later after your date telling you thanks for the advise, I found my man and my love - she is not doing it in good faith. It’s a form of revenge on you for discarding or ghosting her. Don’t look at it as warm hearted polite expression.

    • @bedroo222222
      @bedroo222222 5 месяцев назад

      Just like when she says "let's bang in the bathroom " . She was clearly being sarcastic. She was definitely gonna make him wait.

    • @gregw9783
      @gregw9783 5 месяцев назад +21

      Yeah. It is a see......you missed out on the chance of life.......me me me !

    • @troysmith5749
      @troysmith5749 5 месяцев назад

      he should have responded with a text that said "is this the fat chick with the moustache who wanted to have sex in the porta potty?"

    • @AM-ko4pi
      @AM-ko4pi 5 месяцев назад +27

      It also means he left enough of an impression on her to try and get a reaction out of him

    • @petermartin9494
      @petermartin9494 5 месяцев назад +15

      Imagine how she felt when he was completely indifferent and did not even remember her.

  • @jamesg1974a
    @jamesg1974a 5 месяцев назад +352

    If she “breaks rules” for you, she broke them for someone else too.

    • @imdannymartins
      @imdannymartins 5 месяцев назад +23

      Not Always!

    • @u2b83
      @u2b83 5 месяцев назад +9

      +2 for Not Always. Example1: v-card, Example2: strong beliefs and certain upbringing (usually results in #1). I should note, this is very rare these days. I'm going to throw out a number on the order of 1:10000

    • @johnathonlutz5427
      @johnathonlutz5427 5 месяцев назад +14

      @@imdannymartinsnot all not all not all but most🤷🏼‍♂️

    • @bsib5021
      @bsib5021 5 месяцев назад +9

      Depends. If you know you are worth breaking rules for then it's good, if you are not, then that's a bad sign

    • @kenofken9458
      @kenofken9458 5 месяцев назад +2

      I only choose women who don't have rules.

  • @Jagshemasher
    @Jagshemasher 5 месяцев назад +77

    I found it somewhat amusing that you were talking about the restaurant that has waitresses that are 10's right as you drove past a Chuck-E-Cheese.

    • @alphonzo5812
      @alphonzo5812 5 месяцев назад +1

      😂

    • @taridean
      @taridean 4 месяца назад +3

      😂😂😂 Thought the same seeing it.

    • @RAMZAVFX
      @RAMZAVFX 3 месяца назад

      The rat casino 😂

  • @jonbuehler2429
    @jonbuehler2429 5 месяцев назад +45

    Rich, I’ve been following you since 2021, and have always found your advice to be on target. I wish I had come across your wisdom years ago. However, in the last three years, by following what you say on the channel, and have written in your book, I have had no problem with any woman. Boundaries without apology keeps them in line. More stories like this, from the drivers seat, are excellent!

    • @bedadays1763
      @bedadays1763 5 месяцев назад

      What are your boundaries mate? I will also add if a woman does start to like you, she will not take pride in her past when you call her out on it because imo I think she likes being that girlfriend and sees herself as that and when you show disdain its the equivalent of a company making fortunes and the stock dropping over night because of a scandal

  • @dwocelot6913
    @dwocelot6913 5 месяцев назад +88

    If she texted you months later when she was 'in love' it wasn't to thank you for your sage advice.

    • @Antody
      @Antody 5 месяцев назад +9

      Ye, it's more like "I'm fine without you" type of message, but still. He definitely stayed in her head, as she did in his.

    • @dwocelot6913
      @dwocelot6913 5 месяцев назад +12

      @@Antody No, I think she was fishing to see if he was available. Think about it: she's 'in love' with some other dude, yet texts some guy she went on one date with, months later. Why does she even still have his number? She's checking his availability

    • @ivanvidas1659
      @ivanvidas1659 5 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@dwocelot6913 exactley. Very doubtful that it was out of gratitude. She was still thinkin bout him and her ego couldnt let it go, she had to kick him cuz' he cancled her

    • @ratheeshrajendran2660
      @ratheeshrajendran2660 4 месяца назад

      @@dwocelot6913 definitely! They were searching for options or someone else there in the social media or something. When she comes back that means you are taken granted and will be in the future so avoid to reclaim your life. Never listen to their bs reasons.

    • @michaelregan427
      @michaelregan427 4 месяца назад +2

      She probably did meet someone, but did enjoy hanging out and figured she had nothing to lose.

  • @IFBBJacked
    @IFBBJacked 5 месяцев назад +136

    Coming from a guy who has always made sure to weed out right from the very beginning with any woman that I've met over the years whether or not she sees me as Chad and will break her rules for me, guys listen, women are craving the guy that will come along who they will want to break their rules for. Every single woman is hardwired no matter how stubborn or stuck in her ways she is to break her rules when she comes across a guy who she sees as Chad or Tyrone.
    When you meet a woman, the only thing you should be doing is vetting whether or not she is the type of woman that's going to break her rules for you. If she is that woman, you're going to figure it out very quickly because she is going to be on her best behavior trying not to lose you and even walking on eggshells. She's also going to do things for you right away that are indicators of high interest, always saying afterward that she "doesn't normally do this for anyone else right away", but the truth is, she will do it for any guy who comes along that she sees as Chad or Tyrone.
    Women only pursue Chad or Tyrone, and will only ever give their best to him, and that could have been any number of guys before you, so don't go thinking you're special. Just enjoy the ride while you're in the honeymoon phase and it's your turn, because the time will come when the honeymoon phase ends, she will start treating you differently, and you will never get that treatment again.

    • @ivanr4300
      @ivanr4300 5 месяцев назад +1

      Excellent!!

    • @bedadays1763
      @bedadays1763 5 месяцев назад

      I can tell a strange tale my side.Two different women one can to my town and we smashed in an hour while she was on her period and the date was poorly planned my side. The other did the wait move as Rich described.I later found out she let some guy smash same day (this was a relationship that went long distance).I had very sharp words for her and she spent big money to see me.During the course of the relationship I saw that sage girl go freak mode on me,take a sunburn for me ,buy me items and send me money.That second case is puzzling.But I never got over her being that guys fast fun and the relationship ended on bad terms.

    • @marvin95
      @marvin95 5 месяцев назад +2

      So, how to become a Chad?...

    • @AW-zy1kw
      @AW-zy1kw 5 месяцев назад +5

      @@marvin95Ya either are or you aren’t 🤷🏻‍♂️

    • @IFBBJacked
      @IFBBJacked 5 месяцев назад +13

      @@marvin95 fitness, belief, energy, and attitude.

  • @joewalsh4685
    @joewalsh4685 5 месяцев назад +294

    I was told I should be thankful that I hadn't caught an STD, from a woman I dated for 2 years when we split up, unbelievable. I am better off on my own. It's messy out there guys.

    • @juniorgod321
      @juniorgod321 5 месяцев назад

      Which STD?

    • @mrxiong2567
      @mrxiong2567 5 месяцев назад +18

      Because she was also sleeping with 10 other guys?

    • @steveb5331
      @steveb5331 5 месяцев назад

      @@juniorgod321 Funk 49

    • @THE_CHOAS_ENGINE
      @THE_CHOAS_ENGINE 5 месяцев назад

      There's no scientific evidence that diseases of viral origin exist not to even mention they can't prove scientificallt that an illness is transmitted via sexual activity from an unwell person to a well person.
      So let's start getting our facts straight. Society lied to you about men and women and rich explains this... you've been lied to also about viral Diseases. You think they can lie about one thing but it's impossible to lie about health?

    • @boxelder9147
      @boxelder9147 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@mrxiong2567yeah, did she tell you this?

  • @RafaelTorrez-zc3wl
    @RafaelTorrez-zc3wl 5 месяцев назад +38

    The top side selfies! Whenever I see those I automatically know they are trying to hide their weight or awkward body type..

    • @gregw9783
      @gregw9783 5 месяцев назад +5

      Yep, if it is the only photo they show. Funny how they are serial offenders of deceptive conduct.
      Like most of us will not be smart enough to work out the score. Or hope we are desperate enough not to walk away. It is a poor strategy.

  • @J.Braxton
    @J.Braxton 5 месяцев назад +44

    Rich’s neighbor the accountant-probably a great golfer-HUGE ass

  • @petermartin9494
    @petermartin9494 5 месяцев назад +6

    Great story. Indifference is a powerful thing.

  • @MJKW24
    @MJKW24 5 месяцев назад +7

    I like your stories. Makes you seem more down-to-earth. Keep 'em coming.

  • @dwighthayles1226
    @dwighthayles1226 5 месяцев назад +18

    Women HATE that we have this information. My only question is are we still the minority amongst men knowing this?

    • @igbokwenu4934
      @igbokwenu4934 4 месяца назад +4

      Yes we are the minority. Id venture as to say at AT MOST 20% of Normie males Understand, approve and will use this info.
      The rest are FOOD for these women.

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 3 месяца назад +2

      I would say men with this knowledge are in the minority.

  • @occasionalfeelgood23
    @occasionalfeelgood23 5 месяцев назад +41

    Women always lie about their age, with almost zero exceptions. I'm an experienced online dater, and I pretty much just count on it.

    • @BrianWaller-qe7gr
      @BrianWaller-qe7gr 5 месяцев назад +10

      But don’t you dare claim you’re 6’0 when you’re 5’10 smh

    • @judgedredd8876
      @judgedredd8876 5 месяцев назад +1

      I too lie sometimes, I had 47 yrs old (down from 55 with 2 kids) some women didn't buy it, most did, and then I met a Colombian girl, we started talking and videochatting, I discovered she was also lying trying to attract a sugar daddy, her profile had 25 yrs old (up from 19) 😱

    • @occasionalfeelgood23
      @occasionalfeelgood23 4 месяца назад

      @@BrianWaller-qe7gr haha, well, I’m lucky in that I’m 6’3”, but I can only imagine.

    • @joshuafranken2030
      @joshuafranken2030 4 месяца назад +1

      My wife lies to our kids about her age.

    • @pinnacle1717
      @pinnacle1717 4 месяца назад +1

      Women lie about EVERYTHING. 🤣

  • @howiesfunware
    @howiesfunware 5 месяцев назад +6

    Love these stories. I've heard you talk about this story before but always enjoy hearing it again.

  • @Ace.0.0.0.
    @Ace.0.0.0. 4 месяца назад +3

    Good things happen when you are 1) polite, honest, & direct. And 2) your words & actions ALIGN.
    Have reasonable boundaries and the spine to enforce them. Do this by either standing your ground or walking away, as the situation requires. People are walking billboards. Everything that you say and do shows people who you are.

  • @tubu1ar86
    @tubu1ar86 5 месяцев назад +29

    The thing that's missing from this is just real love, from both sides. None of the game stuff matters when you have love, if you have to play games to get through the first phase of the date it's not going to last anyway. We all need to start genuinely caring and loving one another, there is the only answer .

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 4 месяца назад +10

      Agreed. These fellas will never find true love with games. Plenty good folks out there

    • @tubu1ar86
      @tubu1ar86 4 месяца назад +2

      @@katemiller7874 agreed both Fellas and Dame's

    • @erwangaillard1637
      @erwangaillard1637 14 дней назад

      Love from both side is 3% happy people after 9years of mariage. Against 80% divorce filed by women I'll take the safe bet.
      Genuine love is from you mother and hopefully you can give her back.
      Your wife is your copilote which means she's like your employee on your mission to reproduce and create value. Period.
      I felt for the trap of love, it's a real trap, both sides lose : girls lose time and men lose money. Both parties end up with anger and resentment.

  • @mizukagematt1186
    @mizukagematt1186 5 месяцев назад +21

    If someone plays mind games they don’t love. you they view you as a puppet for entertainment 🤷🏽‍♂️💯

  • @pinnacle1717
    @pinnacle1717 4 месяца назад +13

    When she messaged you months later, (keeping in mind that you had turned her down) she still couldn’t get that out of her head all that time, so she had to write & let you know that some other dude wanted her & she’s with him now. Her need to be desired has been fulfilled!
    They have these needs, it’s like always getting the last word in. Can’t help themselves.
    In these scenarios, I always write back “who is this” just so that get the message clear they they were never saved into my contact list & also to let them know how insignificant they are to my life.
    Contacting after months & months, what a crock, they should be embarrassed doing that.
    Get some self esteem Missy, if a man turns you down, you should never contact him again!

  • @joannegibson-lucas3791
    @joannegibson-lucas3791 4 месяца назад +11

    I guess I am a cougar. I married a younger man when I was 39; we had a daughter when I was 41. We've been married for 30 years. Still best friends and lovers. Life is good.

    • @snorttroll4379
      @snorttroll4379 4 месяца назад

      Hpw does one fuck past 60? Doesnt it get to bw too nasty? Btw. Check out aubrey de grey

    • @jurassicthunder
      @jurassicthunder 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@@3ormore660it's like asking if water was still wet back then.

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu 3 месяца назад

      ​@@3ormore660why does it matter?

    • @joannegibson-lucas3791
      @joannegibson-lucas3791 2 месяца назад +2

      @@3ormore660 I had a few marriages before. Better to marry than to burn. My goal was 6 husbands but stopped at number 3.

    • @joannegibson-lucas3791
      @joannegibson-lucas3791 2 месяца назад

      @@3ormore660 quote from Paul in the Bible. Check it out!

  • @DrBilly90210
    @DrBilly90210 4 месяца назад +2

    Denying her rules is a subset of one of my dating maxims: "If you really want to find out what kind of woman she is, try telling her "No" sometime."

  • @InstrumentalMangmnt
    @InstrumentalMangmnt 5 месяцев назад +25

    Moxies is the spot

    • @Ace.0.0.0.
      @Ace.0.0.0. 3 месяца назад

      I think it's Hooters.

  • @nitromancer6460
    @nitromancer6460 5 месяцев назад +10

    It’s a shock to women when a guy turns her down.
    It sounds like she panicked after being turned down and she got on the first train leaving the station when she realized that there were not too many more tickets available to her.

    • @makenocommento-kj4gq
      @makenocommento-kj4gq 5 месяцев назад +2

      @nitromancer, you are 100% correct mate, women are used to telling men to get lost and Finish a relationship, but the more men value themselves the better chance of a quality relationship

  • @KM-om1dy
    @KM-om1dy 4 месяца назад +1

    Rich, seriously thank you for teaching us how to avoid a train wreck and showing us how to avoid a runaway train. Thank you!!

  • @elev8dating
    @elev8dating 4 месяца назад +5

    Good rule of thumb that I learned is to only go out with women on dating apps who post full body pictures, that way there's nothing to hide

  • @DG123z
    @DG123z Месяц назад +5

    Women can abandon their children (baby boxes, adoption) but men are put in jail if they don't pay child support for a kid they never wanted

    • @Ur2ez4me81
      @Ur2ez4me81 15 дней назад

      I know it’s fcked up

  • @TheoRademeyer-i6l
    @TheoRademeyer-i6l Месяц назад

    More stories Rich! Love your work. Loved the book. It's eye opening and everything I wish I knew years ago.

  • @t28mcd
    @t28mcd 5 месяцев назад +19

    Rich's preferred height range is really not too picky, 5'2" to 5'9" covers about 95% of women. 😂

    • @ThePaigeMa5ter
      @ThePaigeMa5ter 5 месяцев назад +1

      Maybe in Canada and US. Down in Mexico and Asia he’s outside a lot of their range. Good call for Canada tho

    • @t28mcd
      @t28mcd 5 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@ThePaigeMa5tergood point, geography plays a big part on this one.

    • @americandissident9062
      @americandissident9062 4 месяца назад +1

      @@ThePaigeMa5terMexico is a third world nightmare. I would t go looking for a woman in Somalia either.

    • @ThePaigeMa5ter
      @ThePaigeMa5ter 4 месяца назад +1

      @@americandissident9062 no it’s not

    • @daveschrader1807
      @daveschrader1807 2 месяца назад +1

      No fatties. I am not fat either and in my early 60s. Exercised my whole life and will continue. If they lie about their photo (age), weight, height and/or income I am gone. They better have the same money and health and good appearance. I know this does not exist for me which is fine and wonderful too. 😊

  • @jacoblynch9862
    @jacoblynch9862 4 месяца назад +7

    Gentlemen, I would like to remind every man years ago there was a study done and found that most women know within the first minute of meeting a man if she is going to be willing to sleep with him or not I will repeat that they already have it made up in their mind within the first minute of meeting you if they’re willing to sleep with you or not This is what the study found. This would also explain why she makes all these rules and then will break them for certain men.

  • @ShockAndAwePod
    @ShockAndAwePod 5 месяцев назад +21

    The restaurant is either Moxie's or Joey's FOR SURE 🤣🤣... Brilliant move.

    • @troyvan6952
      @troyvan6952 4 месяца назад +5

      Hooters

    • @haythamthabit42
      @haythamthabit42 4 месяца назад

      @@troyvan6952I think hooters is an american company

    • @KiwiFights
      @KiwiFights 3 месяца назад +1

      @@troyvan6952obviously not hooters 😂😂

    • @KiwiFights
      @KiwiFights 3 месяца назад

      I was thinking moxies LOL

    • @moeghotme5498
      @moeghotme5498 3 месяца назад +1

      Maybe cactus club

  • @EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue
    @EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue 5 месяцев назад +45

    Yeah, I remember that story, you've mentioned an Amazonian that wanted to take you to the restroom and you rejected her.

    • @js3602
      @js3602 5 месяцев назад +4

      Just read that chapter and reference in Rich's book last night!

  • @haroldcardenas2609
    @haroldcardenas2609 11 дней назад

    Thanks for sharing the storie.

  • @christopherfritz3840
    @christopherfritz3840 5 месяцев назад +28

    "She had MAN HANDS.." 😉

    • @ramz7887
      @ramz7887 5 месяцев назад +1

      🐎 🐴 🎠

  • @troyvan6952
    @troyvan6952 4 месяца назад +7

    "Any time desire is negotiated, it automatically it automatically creates obligated compliance, and this leads to resentment."
    A quote from the book and for the ages.. thank you Rich Cooper.

  • @Xonid1
    @Xonid1 5 месяцев назад +6

    I'm 5 foot 8 inches and tall women ring my bell.

  • @shoopdawhoop217
    @shoopdawhoop217 3 месяца назад +2

    its either Cactus Club, Earl's, or Browns Social House

  • @Jack9788
    @Jack9788 5 месяцев назад +12

    I think that restaurant is called 'Double D Debbies Delicious Dating Diner'

  • @LassieFarm
    @LassieFarm 5 месяцев назад +29

    More stories yes please

    • @docjoe999
      @docjoe999 5 месяцев назад +3

      I agree. Story and message go better together. Also, I think you should have more goals than rules, and guys have rules too and break them for the right woman:)

  • @ebanluland3571
    @ebanluland3571 5 месяцев назад +33

    5'8 is 6 foot in women code when describing themself

    • @G4rr3ttDix0n
      @G4rr3ttDix0n 5 месяцев назад

      This is true, lol. It’s odd how they seem to do the opposite in that regard as men do

    • @Cloxxki
      @Cloxxki 5 месяцев назад +1

      I've never seen that. We use centimeters here and women are rarely off at all.

    • @mistahozzy
      @mistahozzy 5 месяцев назад +2

      Facts and the age 27

    • @ebanluland3571
      @ebanluland3571 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@mistahozzy 27=34

    • @MT-yx5cu
      @MT-yx5cu 3 месяца назад

      Stop it.Women are not ashamed of their height 😂. You are either reaching or projecting.

  • @o0oStillWeRiseo0o
    @o0oStillWeRiseo0o 5 месяцев назад +20

    Twin Peaks at least thats what we have in the states

    • @gd515051
      @gd515051 5 месяцев назад +1

      That’s what I was thinking. Great spot.

    • @mrleomich
      @mrleomich 3 месяца назад

      You guys don’t get it…

  • @seandilallo8718
    @seandilallo8718 5 месяцев назад +10

    The restaurant was probably either the Keg or Moxie's.

    • @MrMerajjio
      @MrMerajjio 4 месяца назад +1

      Earls? Cactus Club?

    • @seandilallo8718
      @seandilallo8718 4 месяца назад

      @@MrMerajjio Never been, but I guess I should check them out. 😄

    • @troyvan6952
      @troyvan6952 4 месяца назад +1

      Hooters?

    • @MeEncantaKiley
      @MeEncantaKiley 3 месяца назад

      Tilted kilt?

  • @edwinbz9889
    @edwinbz9889 5 месяцев назад +23

    I met my girl at work. She made the first move on me and we are 2 years in our relationship and i have not seen 1 red flag!! Shes still infatuated with me and never never says no when its time to tango. She has never disrespected me. Im 32 and shes 28.

    • @Slynell1
      @Slynell1 4 месяца назад +5

      Congrats

    • @jeffhedrich3551
      @jeffhedrich3551 4 месяца назад +7

      Do your friends see red flags?

    • @solutions553
      @solutions553 3 месяца назад +1

      Hope the best for you...!

    • @bigstv15
      @bigstv15 3 месяца назад +2

      Sounds like she had genuine desire and respects you. Don't ever get too comfortable or think that she won't find another man attractive etc stay focused and congrats 🎉

    • @bud5084
      @bud5084 Месяц назад +1

      Have fun while it lasts.

  • @alexanderepler3200
    @alexanderepler3200 5 месяцев назад +12

    Rich, been listening to your content for a while. Always love these stories- please upload more stories like this.

  • @hablabamosa
    @hablabamosa 5 месяцев назад +31

    Honestly, once you've experienced desire from women, you become a bit indifferent to it. Better to find one woman who complements your life well and then focus on other things in life. Dating around is a waste of time.

    • @ivanlebedinskiy4145
      @ivanlebedinskiy4145 5 месяцев назад

      I thought I'm the only one who goes this way. All these people saying things like "I've gone through a lot of dates", "I spin plates, having a lot of sex" - who are they trying to impress? Most of the time you deal with boring fools. Even if she is in a good shape, sex is average, at best. At worst, you feel like you just f@#*^d a plank of wood. Exceptions, that is, the women who can keep a meaningful conversation for more than a minute and can provide a really good experience in bed, are very rare.

    • @u2b83
      @u2b83 5 месяцев назад

      Check ur privilege man lol
      Reality is most guys don't have your scenario. They'll try it for decade, two decades, ...at some point they want more sx than just 2-4x a year. If everything is working, keep going blue pill. If it ain't broke no need to fix it lol

    • @fallout3nice
      @fallout3nice 5 месяцев назад +5

      Ok, but the difficult thing is not finding this woman. Difficult part is keeping her and maintaining her high interest all the time.

    • @niallk9336
      @niallk9336 4 месяца назад

      @@fallout3nice If you have that mindset, it's already over.

    • @fallout3nice
      @fallout3nice 4 месяца назад +2

      @@niallk9336 I think I understand where you are coming from - treating women with scarcity mindset does not work.
      However what I am saying is that it is relatively easy to enter relationship with a woman but the real work begins after the initial high excitement phase ends. At least this is my experience.

  • @ngocdungtranho683
    @ngocdungtranho683 4 месяца назад +1

    I keep looking at your surrounding as your car passes by and of course hearing your voice

  • @Logan24855
    @Logan24855 5 месяцев назад +7

    “I was born at night, not last night” 😂😂

  • @savagesteve5894
    @savagesteve5894 5 месяцев назад +7

    If we have to go this far playing the "get laid game" its not even worth it anymore. Before smartphones and social media getting laid was as easy as fishing in a barrel. Good god! now its so complicated for xgens

    • @gottrekk5798
      @gottrekk5798 5 месяцев назад

      You can get laid anytime you want , how much is it on average $200?

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm 4 месяца назад +3

    Guys the red pill has to be your starting point. You can come off of it in certain situations depending on the circumstances. But you have to take a hard line on women and find a woman who at least has feelings and a heart. I'd rather risk failing with someone who still is open to love and try to manage her emotions using red pill tactics than be with a woman who is so hardened and so robotic that none of my opinions and feelings get through.

  • @Cloxxki
    @Cloxxki 5 месяцев назад +3

    I don't take a woman to any place for a first date but I'll start keeping track of such places.
    I've not been catfished or meaningfully to lied about height either. I stopped dating without a call before as well, it helps.

  • @niallfitzpatrick6568
    @niallfitzpatrick6568 4 месяца назад +2

    That restaurant is a real Hoot alright 😉

  • @NinjaWarhol
    @NinjaWarhol 5 месяцев назад +5

    Just because you have a No Trespassing sign on your property doesn't mean no one can get in.

  • @gregorysmull8068
    @gregorysmull8068 4 месяца назад +3

    This is a simple rule of thumb a good learning lesson for young men out there. These long exclusionary lists that women make are just excuses to reject men that they don't find hot. If a top 10% chad/tyrone is available then that list goes out the window. So the take home message here is that if a woman goes to their list when you show interest, then don't waste your time, effort, or money. Cut and run, this relationship is going nowhere. On the other hand the woman in question has thrown out her list for you, then the relationship has potential to last. Women who are interested will make things easy for you and vice versa.

  • @TellingItLikeItIs2000
    @TellingItLikeItIs2000 5 месяцев назад +7

    Rich lives near a Chuck E Cheese?

  • @garykinard7553
    @garykinard7553 4 месяца назад +2

    This guy kills me. Cars the worst purchase of all investments and pushing relationship advice.. hahaha

  • @RandomDude-l5f
    @RandomDude-l5f 4 месяца назад

    Dude, you should make a video on how you grew and care for that beard...... its dope

  • @jdally9872
    @jdally9872 4 месяца назад +1

    MOAR stories like this

  • @joe-pw7lc
    @joe-pw7lc 4 месяца назад

    this is one of your best vids. very helpful thanks rich.

  • @mattmullenix
    @mattmullenix 5 месяцев назад +1

    always good stuff Rich

  • @mmx583
    @mmx583 3 месяца назад

    …and then everybody in the restaurant stood up and applauded. True story!

  • @SphinctersForever
    @SphinctersForever 5 месяцев назад +10

    "Kinda like a Coke bottle"... HAHAHA! I love it!

    • @biffbifford402
      @biffbifford402 5 месяцев назад +4

      As long as it’s not the two liter size!

    • @sbfabtfc1
      @sbfabtfc1 4 месяца назад +2

      ​@@biffbifford402 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @paulwilson6511
    @paulwilson6511 5 месяцев назад +7

    Practise. I had just been through the ringer with another girl and one of the seduction books I had bought just before the blow-up with the old girl said to just keep practising. Just find another girl and practise with her and then the next one etc. Well, soon after, I ended up with another target, probably below my value let's say; and she turned out to be the best girlfriend I ever had. I mean, it just started out as practise for me and I was doing the type of things that Rich preaches, but darn she treated me so well and it went really great. BUT, there was a point where I wanted to move on to another girl more in my league. Yeah, it turned out to be a big mistake but she was really the best relationship I have ever had. Practise if you have to and do what Rich suggests. And let's say, maybe it is okay to go down a notch or two so that you get treated with respect and sex and everything. The hot girls never seem to deliver that.

    • @bedadays1763
      @bedadays1763 5 месяцев назад

      What was the book?

    • @paulwilson6511
      @paulwilson6511 5 месяцев назад

      @@bedadays1763 You know I can't even remember. It was one of the older ones. Had to throw those books out because you don't want a new girl finding them.

    • @associatealpha1166
      @associatealpha1166 5 месяцев назад +2

      Men(smart) will go down a notch or two in looks to gain a cooperative friendly female that is compliant and submissive. Especially if we are talking about a lifetime commitment to a woman and a family.

  • @Lisa-tk7ku8dr4k
    @Lisa-tk7ku8dr4k 5 месяцев назад +4

    So were not allowed to have sex with any men or were bad- not marriage worthy. But if we go on a date were obligated to have sex with him. Regardless if passion is there or not. Were damned if we do and damned if we don't. Please tell this conservative woman on how the rules are. No im not dating its a bunch of bs trying to follow everyone stupidity.

    • @u2b83
      @u2b83 5 месяцев назад

      Sx only gets you in the door these days and is mandatory. Then you [in addition] do stuff to make him stay (cooking, love, no arguments lol)

    • @whoguy4231
      @whoguy4231 5 месяцев назад

      That's a no brainer ... Have some self respect and integrity by doing what you say ... For god sakes, tell the truth that you've slept around or if you haven't that it's actually the truth. Men have two types ... Marriage material and Fun material. If a man dumps you because you didn't sleep with him, it tells you he's a player who has 6 other girls strung along and you are nothing but the next new hole(s). If the man continues to date you without sex, it means he sees you more than just a hole(s).

    • @fallout3nice
      @fallout3nice 5 месяцев назад +1

      People are different and if you do your job and continue looking for a man you will find one eventually. He might not be really hot and rich but the same happens to men as most of us don't date the super hot women.

  • @subes5873
    @subes5873 5 месяцев назад +9

    Yes bring on more stories like that!

  • @osbonoam
    @osbonoam 5 месяцев назад +8

    Jack Astor's

  • @cobra4961
    @cobra4961 2 месяца назад +1

    Agree 100%. I've been on both sides of the coin if you know what I mean lol I've been fully jacked and also a little on the heavy side. My brothas when I was fat lol my girl was uninterested, sex became less and the desire towards me was NOTHING. Lost weight again and the interest was then back. Don't let it get to that point gentlemen
    Always look your best, as Richard says get that lean build swimmers build or Calvin Klein abs body or get fucking jacked as fuck, go the bodybuilder look if you want or simply just don't get fat and always keep your hair clean. You'll thank me later. Stay up you bunch of studs!!!!

  • @TheTimeweaver
    @TheTimeweaver 3 месяца назад

    I was catfished many years ago. After the date, I swore to myself that I would walk out the next time it happens. I do not need to put up with that nonsense.

  • @anthonygriffin6652
    @anthonygriffin6652 4 месяца назад +1

    I know this restaurant , it’s called Hooters 😅

  • @iopsyc15
    @iopsyc15 5 месяцев назад +8

    Was it Tim Hortons?

    • @associatealpha1166
      @associatealpha1166 5 месяцев назад +1

      l’ve never the workers at tim hortons wear small cute outfits!?!

  • @ThePaigeMa5ter
    @ThePaigeMa5ter 5 месяцев назад

    Love the car rundown back to basics

  • @nikosfarma5643
    @nikosfarma5643 5 месяцев назад +4

    Nice story, nicely told. Thank you. I AL eager to hear more.
    Resprct.

  • @bapam2
    @bapam2 4 месяца назад +1

    Easiest way to make a woman want you is to NOT want her. Works every time, even if you don't intend to.

  • @arikristenko
    @arikristenko 5 месяцев назад +2

    I like stories like this. I've met some women who were in relationship,married or just women who had a lot of rules. But when I showed them that I wasn't particularly interested, the rules were broken for me. From one situation to another, even she is married, has children, etc. It's funny and seems like it doesn't make sence because if you like her, now she has some rules for you. Why it works like this?

  • @ChefMiguelValdez
    @ChefMiguelValdez 5 месяцев назад +3

    If I recall correctly the lounge Rich is talking about is inside Moxies at East Beaver Creek. (The Old Stomping Ground)

  • @gd515051
    @gd515051 5 месяцев назад +4

    TL;DR Jim went on your average internet date that went no where. Any questions.

  • @melishek0001
    @melishek0001 4 месяца назад +1

    Projecting your experiences as general facts?? 😮

  • @Bognerman14
    @Bognerman14 4 месяца назад +1

    What rules? I've never had a partner with rules. My current and life partner does t have rules. Not sure why that means. We are human. Lol.

  • @kellyhealy734
    @kellyhealy734 5 месяцев назад +13

    Rich, I've been a neutral observer of your videos for a while now. I can't help but notice a very contradictory thread in your dating advice:
    1. You should find a "high value, virtuous" woman with a low notch count. Even better, a virgin. Better pair bonding, etc.
    2. But also. You should immediately dump a woman who expresses intimacy standards. "I'll sleep with you when xyz happens." NO waiting for intimacy!
    Does anyone else see the lack of logic here??

    • @rci-mf2we
      @rci-mf2we 5 месяцев назад +3

      If she is stating she will sleep with you when XYZ happens, she doesn't have genuine burning desire as Rich explained. Your 2 points actually track and compliment each other, as they are sound advice and simplify a man's effort in landing a LTR with a woman. A man should only spend his time with a woman who has GBD for him--he doesn't have time for anything less.

    • @kellyhealy734
      @kellyhealy734 5 месяцев назад

      @@rci-mf2weYes, but... you have to be prepared for the possibility that she's experienced "genuine burning desire" for a large number of men before she met you. (Very likely.) So how can the two points coexist in a realistic world??

    • @ivanr4300
      @ivanr4300 5 месяцев назад

      Yet you’re here listening to Rich.
      Hate always comes from below
      What’s your book and company called?
      Have u positively influenced a generation of men?
      The answer is no, loser

    • @fallout3nice
      @fallout3nice 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@P.90.603And how do you know she tells you the truth when you ask her about the past? You need to spend much more time with her to more or less know if she is sincere with you.

    • @fallout3nice
      @fallout3nice 5 месяцев назад

      ​@@kellyhealy734If she doesn't have such desire for a man then she is clearly not that much into him. Dating her would require much more work and energy without knowing what's the outcome.
      You're right that woman that's really into a man could have behaved the same in the past with other men. But at least she is going to be much less maintenance than other women.
      Also if a woman doesn't show high interest it doesn't necessarily mean she doesn't have high notch count.

  • @JamesHawkeYouTube
    @JamesHawkeYouTube 5 месяцев назад +5

    is it possible she was being ironic, Rich?

    • @jim-se5xc
      @jim-se5xc 5 месяцев назад +1

      That's what i was thinking. Even the follow up text she sent. C'mon Rich, get on the ball.

  • @EngLuoHili
    @EngLuoHili 3 месяца назад

    ''All women have skeletonsin their closets, some women have grave yards...'' Bruh?!!

  • @harlzberg6068
    @harlzberg6068 5 месяцев назад +2

    In Winnipeg we have "Earl's Girl's", walk through the frame, if you fit you have a job

  • @Superdessucke
    @Superdessucke 5 месяцев назад +3

    I have a question, and if I missed the answer, I apologize. Why would she want a beta who'd follow her 8 date rule? If you failed that s*** test, then wouldn't she just dump you and move on? Maybe that's what you were getting at, but I wasn't clear. Thanks!

    • @megalodon1726
      @megalodon1726 4 месяца назад

      She doesn't want that beta. She'd get 8 free meals from him and then dump him.

  • @tamadeus7189
    @tamadeus7189 4 месяца назад +2

    You can date a divorcee, just never marry one.

  • @chrishayes8012
    @chrishayes8012 2 месяца назад

    If Cactus Club exists in Toronto, that's my guess ;)

  • @corystovall3544
    @corystovall3544 5 месяцев назад +2

    Rich is great at his work. He essentially sees the same scenarios every day and has become adept at handling each one in their own unique way. We can only hope more men see his content. For we all know, weak men are on that conveyor belt every day. I, for one, speak personally on that.

  • @ChadOliver-b7y
    @ChadOliver-b7y 4 месяца назад +1

    Had this situation happened to me. Dated this separated woman then have her tell me o once she is healed and ready we can move forward. Fast forward three days before Christmas she up and tells me she is seeing aka sleeping with another man. Rich is right these nasty women will make up dumb rules for you to test you. What i should of done was left her and said when you ready for something call me and I might be available but no guarantee. I acted like a damn beta male trying to wait for her and got burned badly because of it. Lesson learned never again!

  • @MxcvwZ-tc6uj
    @MxcvwZ-tc6uj 5 месяцев назад +2

    This story is just bizarre. Instant date turnaround and sex offer in a public bathroom after one sentence? Was this chick on drugs? Only 30lbs on a 5'10" woman is not a lot either. Doesn't sound like the full story

    • @kevinjenkins6978
      @kevinjenkins6978 5 месяцев назад +2

      No. This story also amused me when I read it in his book because he completely bombed a shit test and didn’t even realize it. That’s what happened here. I’ve had similar situations happen to me on dates. They’re not genuinely offering sex, They’re fucking with you.
      They want to see if you’ll shrink or not.

  • @chucko12
    @chucko12 3 месяца назад +1

    Before the internet people probably thought they just chose the wrong partner. They assumed others were probably very happy in their relationships with consistent high quality intimacy over the long term including enthusiastic foreplay . ( ha ha) With the internet now allowing us all to compare notes we can see the predictable patterns whereby after the honeymoon phase you will be treated differently . (AND foreplay??? : it will not exist)

  • @Crackerjuice75
    @Crackerjuice75 4 месяца назад +1

    Jeeezys this is simpleton bullshit

  • @MrDKdeka
    @MrDKdeka 5 месяцев назад +2

    LOL That's how I save people number too. 1st name/last name + profession.

  • @DoubleBAmusements
    @DoubleBAmusements 2 месяца назад +1

    Jack Astors?

  • @haythamthabit42
    @haythamthabit42 4 месяца назад +1

    Got me on “nice figures, nice curves almost like a coke bottle” nearly made me spit out what I was drinking lol

  • @prashanthb6521
    @prashanthb6521 5 месяцев назад +1

    3 months later, She was trying to make you jealous by telling you about another man. Its a female way of revenge because you sort of ghosted her.

  • @anf6129
    @anf6129 5 месяцев назад +1

    If she found the love of her life after 3 months, it sounds like she’s being love bombed by a narcissist.

  • @hanswurscht6625
    @hanswurscht6625 3 месяца назад +1

    I figured that the rules with men and womens height, weight and strengh is pretty easy to define: She's supposed to be thin enough so that he can throw her around in the bed and he's supposed to be strong enough to do so. It's a fine balance between his strength and her perfect weight. It's out of whack when he's weak, then she must be too skinny, or when she's fat, then he must be a powerlifter.

  • @speedmode_ison1029
    @speedmode_ison1029 5 месяцев назад +1

    Wait, taking a first date to a fancy restaurant? I thought it’s supposed to be a low investment, sniff test?

  • @storytimedavidcollins2897
    @storytimedavidcollins2897 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks again Rich
    Hooters
    I’ve only ever been in a few of them and the chicks were like 5’s maybe’s in Vegas just with Double D’s, really just trashy whores.
    Hawaii same exact thing.
    Punta Conta in the Dominican Republic even worse.
    But the one in Vegas had a Dan Marinos restaurant connected to it and those girls were completely beautiful but with just A’s or B’s solid 9’s.
    Thanks again Rich , just to answer your question and as always your advice is 100% correct.

  • @thecaribbean8615
    @thecaribbean8615 4 месяца назад +1

    Right up there with women that try the re-virgin plan.

  • @Stticka
    @Stticka 5 месяцев назад +1

    Im 6'2 and im the exact same way... i end up thinking like "wtf r u doing up here ??"
    ---yes, more stories rich.