Water is Wet, Ice is Cold, & Women Are Women...So Don't Sulk
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- Stop getting frustrated with the world and women. Learn the rules of the game, and play it better. Water is wet, ice is cold, and women are women... so don't sulk...
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@entrepreneursincars so is truely loving a woman pointless? ie the disney version
Rich’s book is a good read. Get it.
Baz lurman - wear sunscreen
I will decide if your video is interesting. Just show it. Talking about it can come later.
Be honest Richard, the true problem is what Hitler tried to get rid of. After all, they are the ones that brought feminism to the west and destroyed it.
Today's women want:
* the authority of a man
* the privileges of a woman
* the accountability of a child
It is what it is.
Agreed
💯💯💯💯%%%%
Facts
Amen. It’s the accountability piece that I can’t stand. I can handle a “strong” woman and a woman that expects female privileges, but when you start shirking responsibility for your actions and acting like “it’s not fair” when you’re being held accountable, then I’m not giving you any passes. Grow up. Be an adult. Or get the F off my lawn.
Fuck dude you nailed it 😆
“I don’t teach young men to hate women; I teach them to STOP hating women for not being something they can never be” -Rollo
3/4 months into redpill and I only realized recently how, redpill actually benefits women as much as it helps men.
This is why learning red pill is so very very important. The media like to hate on men and the red pill saying that it's hate but in reality it's the exact opposite. You learn red pill so you DON'T hate. The red pill allows you to see life for how it is not as you want it to be, and to accept it without hate of any kind
You just summed up our entire ethos in a short paragraph.
Yeah I don't hate.....but I did buy a shirt on Amazon that reads "Breaking News: I Don't Care!" And yes it is just that simple......I simply don't care about anything or anybody other than what affects me on a personal level!! And honestly my lovely lady, DOES walk a mile in my shoes EVERY DAY and she has learned over the past 20 plus years the things I have seen, that I have shown her first hand!! Sadly at times it is at the cost of what her daughter in laws are doing to her two sons, but she has finally began to see how nasty a lot of women can be anymore!! GLADLY she isn't like any other woman I have ever met....she is a true unicorn!!
🙏👍 GOD BLESS US ALL.
A lot of men, and most women don’t get this. If I had not become red pilled, I would have divorced wife. Amazing how things have changed since that happened. Either they comply, and I mean that in the most mild manner, or they leave. If the latter, you are probably better off, even if she takes half your s#$t.
Thats a very lazy way to approach life…and I mean That with the utmost respect….
A man should never “just accept” that he isn’t the masculine sexual creature that he desires to be… A man should never be ok that he is not a factor in this World…
Get your shit straight! ..YOU’RE STILL IN THE FIGHT!!! THERES A MFing DOGG IN YOU!! TAP INTO THAT DOGG MENTALITY….Drag yourself out of that terrible comfort zone you have created.
Just think how freakin SWEET the Comeback is going to be!….STAY IN THE FIGHT BROTHERS!
Goals bro….Knock em down…One by One…. Keep it Low and Slow…
Chip away those problems that are preventing you from proliferating into the absolute BEAST that lives inside of you and is at the heart of every man….
YOU’RE A CONQUEROR. DONT EVER FORGET IT.
This is endemic in the UK too. Managing Millennials, particularly women, is an absolute nightmare. They cannot take any constructive criticism regarding performance, constantly playing the victim/bullying card.
You know patients can hear that right?...the moaning can be utterly unbearable whilst having suffered a second kidney stone in a two month period.
Has to be said though...there are solid one's amongst them. They almost make up for the complaining entitled ones...ALMOST.
@@Nevets_2770 While they themselves gaslight you.
Masculinity: I am not a victim. I will not complain. I will overcome. I will improve myself. I will not act like a gril.
Feministinity: I am a victim. I will complain. I will not overcome. I will not act like a gril.
@Jack Sprat 1 billion dollar question
@Jack Sprat - Something that can almost cook a burger in the backyard, or it's just a 'girl' to the vast majority of us who recognize we are imperfect creatures sometimes typing letters in the incorrect order and have done this ourselves and seen this ourselves so many times it is of no consequence. And yet, 'gril' also still could be a thing to help the rest of us identify the 'doofus' contributing absolutely nothing to the intended greater topic at hand. The entire message of this video was basically "don't sweat the thing one has no power to change and allow them to distract". So, 'gril' is finally, for me, the 2 cent mice trap that only works against the absolute least observant mouse still out there.
I will master the grill
@@Ihateopp good to sear, I mean hear
The average woman wants all the benefits of being equal, without any of the risks or drawbacks. The disdain I feel about this attitude is the same I feel about large banks wanting to privatize the profits and socialize the losses.
forget what the average woman wants. What do YOU want?
i get what richard cooper is saying with the victim mindset. it absolutely does no good to fret about a large percentage of women who are lazy in the workplace but get special treatment and salaries above what they're worth. However richard absolutely downplays that it's a people thing not a gender thing. Men are much more likely to work longer hours, commute farther distances, take less vacation days and sick days etc to get their work done compared to a woman working the same job. This is absolute fact according to data and statistics.
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Great comparison.
Did you listen?
Going on 9 years in the nursing field. This video couldn’t be more accurate. The good news is, if you are one of the few w/ a strong work ethic and common sense. It’s easier than ever to get ahead
Yep. The bar is set soooo low these days, it’s easy to stand out
Yes it is
Good luck with that.. Would not’ want, to be just starting out,nowadays.
Psych unit here... I've had like 4 non open married bosses try to sleep with me. Even could of had kid with one, cucking her husband... No joke...
The cream rises to the top.
His observations of the young Flight Attendant are spot on. I know I’m a crusty old fart and see the poor work ethic of younger workers (men and women) in general. In all fairness to them, these young people watched older generations go above and beyond for employers who didn’t reciprocate. After they watched Grandpa and Dad get run through the ringer for some company who demands 110% from them and yet who threw them on the junk pile the nanosecond it was economically feasible to do so. Can’t say as I blame them sometimes.
It’s so refreshing to see an older guy with this point of view. Cheers man
As a former male nurse I can tell you that his observations are spot on.
I've worked with a good bit of women. The entitlement carries over to work ethic. If there is a task that is deemed too difficult or deemed a mans job, your female coworkers will do everything they can to delegate that task to male coworkers. I've noticed this repeatedly in more than one industry. Older women aren't too bad, they understand the necessity for hard work and putting in an honest effort.
Agreed
My mother, who is still working hard as a nurse at 63, says the same thing.
You can thank feminism for all that BS
And women wonder why they get paid less than men
@Jack Sprat okay
I've worked hard, but the only reward I've ever gotten was more work so now I give employer's what they pay for and work on my side hustles
Higher management will literally dump more work on competent workers. Inferior colleagues will try and delegate to competent employees. Meet your targets but read ‘48 laws of power’ to get ahead. You need to be sneaky to get ahead and it doesn’t involve hard work alone. Never (obviously) outshine the master until you can usurp them stealthily.
I've always benefited from hard work. You're with the wrong employers. Maybe employ yourself. Company of one?
The reward for hard work....more hard work!
Absolutely right Joel. Work hard for yourself, don’t kill yourself for employers.
I am a medical doctor, a gynaecologist. I specialised in reproductive medicine, minimaly invasive surgery and assisted reproduction. I agree 100% with what the gentleman has said, the industry suffers a lot because of over entitled women, who contribute very little but think they deserve a lot. They brag how successful they are, yet for every tiny medical complication they ask for help. I do NOT agree with Rich that targeting only one gender is an overkill, in our field it is about 90% of the cases that women behave like little brats, NOT doing the work, NOT taking the risks, NOT taking any responsibility for anything really but insisting they get all the credit. And when men are rewarded more for providing a better medical product they go ahead and do their trick. I 100% agree with Rich that in such cases you need to go and start your own practice (as I did).
When I have family members in the hospital I noticed that male nurses are always a good experience.
Agreed.
Once you accept female nature, it all good at that point! In my case, it made my life way more simple.
Agreed
True, you can't change em, male or female
Removed the filter myself now when l see it l don't get upset l just say to myself they are wired like this its all good, good luck to them.
I entirely agree with your attitude, Rich...stop focusing on the problems and work on the solutions...if you can't change the situation, stop complaining and worrying...you'll just get embittered. Enjoy life as much as you can because we are all going to die anyway ...and regardless of gender, there are great men and women out there 💜
Well said, Sir!
Are you also a crossdresser?
Yes! I totally agree with you.😊
I'm a retired police officer in the U.K., I agree with literally everything the guy said in his letter. Unfortunately there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. Just live your own life and follow your own work ethic.
Fast cars, fast life, red pilled, secret life, roses are red, sky is blue ,apply 48 laws of power even in your bed room
Exactly
I think a part of it is the resentment towards men that modern women have inbuilt in them. As a man you constantly come across women (not all) who even in service jobs will passive aggressively, resentfully serve you with as minimal effort as possible.
=NO TIP!
They are very impressionable
I get that treatment universally from young “woke” black women. You can spot them because they’re usually donning an Egyptian cross necklace and try hard to accentuate their “ethnic” features, like Afro hairstyle, etc. Without fail, whenever I get a waitress that meets this description, we are ALWAYS neglected…dishes aren’t removed, drinks don’t get refilled, they drop off the food and don’t say anything, etc
See that shit all the time actually; girls at counters with their face in an iphone, not doing their job, then no apology or acknowledgment when they do decide to look up and deal with customers. Unreal.
"Water is wet, the sky is blue, women has secrets... who gives a f***" - The Last Boyscout
Rich’s “driving in the car videos” are some of his best work
I currently work a J.O.B. and on my way to become a true entrepreneur. Thank you for your support and content Rich.
Selling fruit or d ope?
Last nurse that I dated was Colombian, living in the US but of course, same shit, she feels entitled, daddy issues, believes she deserves way more as a single mom….
Date single mom? You need to do some more studying bud
@@curbnug3487 it was first and last time. I joined the team here after she left me and married a doctor 👨⚕️ so grateful didn’t have to deal with much headache
@Jack Sprat Yup
Was in a culture training meeting at work. The person leading the presentation was a woman. Really nice lady. We are a global company and there was a video where we got to see all the presidents of each branch of the company. When the video was done she asked us if we saw anything wrong in the video to which everyone responded no. She followed by saying the company has no female presidents. If she hadn't said it I never would have guessed. Part of me wanted to say that's a position based on leadership skills and merit but the other side if me knew that if I said that I'd be fired. So I said nothing. I went for a bathroom break and didn't go back to that presentation.
I’m sure other guys knew that too. Women live in bizzare world
I was in the US army for 21yrs. There are two special duties that NCOs are selected for at Dept. of Army boards, Drill Sergeant and recruiter. I was selected for both. Recruiting was the worst and hardest job I ever had. There were no female recruiters at the 'production' level. I was told it was Battalion policy because they started to cry when an applicant or applicants family members told them no. You were told no a lot as a recruiter.
I was a Drill Sergeant for a full tour. I was only aware of one female Drill Sergeant that was at platoon level for more that two training cycles. Most would be reassigned to battalion or brigade HQs after finding how difficult a job it was and then complaining.
thanks for sharing -- very informative
Thank you for your service! Hooah 😤
You know I never noticed until now that I've never seen any female recruiters
Dude
They have ruined the federal government, and I am sure it has happened to the military as well.
Enjoy the decline.
I agree with the sponsor of the videos views in general, but I've noticed that for awhile and realized there is nothing I can personally do about it. All I can control is how I deal with it. There are plenty of things a man can do to put up protective buffers against the world encroaching on them. People have always managed to live through the decline and complete collapse of empires. We can do it again.
Lift, eat, drive fast, make bank. Thats all there is
@Jack Sprat yeah, there are some maniac wheelers on wheels
@@Ken-no5ip amen what a mantra
Folks this women's movement started in the early 70's, most of you were not even born. When I was child, my dad went to work as a school teacher and my mom stayed home and took care of four children and took care of a very nice two story house on a lake. What happened with this 70's women's movement thing did was they wanted to go out to work. They screwed themselves over because it caused inflation. All of the sudden, now dad and mom had to go to work to make ends meet. Hence, the latchkey kids. This country has gone to $hit every since. Congratulations ladies!
I was a latchkey kid but I stayed home with my kids so they wouldn’t have to do the same.
There's a pattern here: Woke, lazy, entitled...depressed. Lack of motivation, failure to achieve, failure to thrive...void of "happiness" / "success"
Rich - you are spot on! The practical advice is why I am here with you. The high level crap out there on YT outline the problems but don't offer any practical advice. Keep up the great work!
"it is what it is"
Max Holloway (Former Champ in the 145 lb division of the UFC) says that like a mantra. It's a good way to think. Just let it go bros.
But don't be a walkover!
Smart man need to stop using “it is what it is. “, Because it kind of sucks for right now sis. Just accepting bullshit
@@mrcollier4829 I do agree actually. You can only say it is what it is on certain occasions. Sometimes you really do need to take ownership of a situation and truly learn from it.
I don't know which airline that viewer is flying that hires pretty girls but it's certainly not any of the airlines that I've traveled with for the last fifteen years who only hire old maids and dragons as flight attendants.
LMAO! Nate
Hint: if the (female) cabin crew is 'hot', they're NOT US air carriers. Period.
Thank HR for hiring cousins of the "lee sisters".
ie "Gamey, Homely, and Ugly"
Thornbacks.
2:30 I had to comment as a student who is just entered into the medical field. This individual is not wrong. Most of the workers in the medical field are women and most of them get upset over the smallest things and carry on that anger for a long period of time until they've had a chance to vent and snap back at other people. They get stressed out over the smallest things and act like the work they're doing is so difficult when it isn't.
I feel like it’s more of a customer service issue. I have been noticing this more and more. Initially I thought it was an age thing, but as time has passed it is not age or sex related.
Sadly people do the bare minimum in all aspects of life.
Well part of this o think is caused by the bosses not rewarding good work. You bust your butt and the promotion goes to the person that does nothing. They need to keep you at that job as you get it done. And there you will stay. After a few experiences like that you stop busting your butt.
I had employees for 10 years. Early this year I got rid of them. Best thing ever. Less stress, and best year ever in profits. Employees have no idea the costs of having them. Unemployment, insurances work comp, paying for mistakes, ect.
how did you produce after that? Did you shrink revenue? Automate? Outsource?
@@joemachine4714 instead of taking larger jobs i do smaller jobs with with higher profit margins. Because i don't have to keep employees working i can be more selective with my jobs. My gross revenue is down but because my expenses are drastically reduced and I'm only doing jobs bid at a higher rate, I come out ahead.
@@archerpaintball6822
Put yourself first, be prepared to be alone 90% of the time, the BS in life goes down 88%.
interesting
I agree but also think it’s the aperture you look through. Where I am, young men and young women put forth the same less-than-stellar effort and demand same pay as 10+ year vets in my industry.
Not just women. Honestly, I do know a lot of really hard working young 20 year olds. It is a wonderful thing to see and I tell them so.
Saying that, one of the worst coworker I have ever had was a 25 year kid, gamer. I'm in my 40s, mind you, and I work my butt off. This kid was supposed to be learning from me but seemed to assume to already knew all he needed to know. He was obnoxious and unteachable. People liked him though, including my super. Finally, it was his own bad work ethic and habits that HR finally caught and he was fired.
I agree with the OP. Do our jobs, don't worry about it and most the time the fools will hang themselves
Those fine hardworking young folks I know?
I live in central CA, in an easygoing conservative sanctuary i.e. small town. They were raised like normal people and guess what happened. Normal people resulted
One group of them are going to a local collage. They are exposed to the crazy but, on their own, they banded together with like-minded folks and protect each other.
Dude, these kids are gonna rock. I've learned a lot from them. I don't think it's enough to save society but it's a start
Unless you're in politics or Hollywood. Then you fail upwards.
Same here, was mentoring a 20 something, kid knew everything. I just left him alone and was like, you go big guy. Do your thing... enjoy... 6 years later this kid is still horrible, but I have zero stress anymore dealing with him.
This is true of the guys as well. When we hire other doctors, they all want 6 figures, a 24 hour work week and other benefits. They take a day off for their f’n birthday..no shit….I had this happen the other day. Yes, the new generation is often a different breed.
Yes! They are a different breed. As my 85 year old father says “They’re all made of chocolate and when the going gets tough they melt”.😂😂😂
A Mexican lady said to me at a library yesterday, "you need to be nice (I was being direct) because this is FREE."
I said "maybe for a bunch of border hoppers...but MY taxes pay for this, NOTHING is free!" 🙄 MANY people whom work in govt lack a sense of "limitation" or fear of performance based job security due to the monopoly aspect, on top of the fact that women can do no wrong and her/her family's legal status is questionable 🤮
The result was they said I was banned from the library for a month. I said "well you heard HER side, now do you want to hear mine?" They said no
Finally got another good nurse after a 4 year drought. And agreed. What I don’t like, I change. I do a great job distracting myself with rock crawling jeeps…fast cars…experimental aircraft…. Road racing / dirt bikes….and the like. I was fortunately blessed with a hella dose of the IDGAF gene. Don’t worry too much about what the world is doing…they’ll never fail to disappoint you. ;-). Carry on, gents.
This SEGMENT should be the centerpiece of GENDER STUDIES
CLASSES.
My grandpa told me once, that in their times women worked on field like digging potatoes. They did what men did. They gave a birth and next few days they were on the field, working.
Imagine now, one of the instagram stars doing that...
As you said, we are living in different times then our parents / grandparents
The path forward is so unbelievably clear: If the bar is "become high value", then that's the bar. Sink or swim, atleast you get a choice.
I get what Richard Cooper is saying with the victim mindset. It absolutely does no good to fret about a large percentage of women who are lazy in the workplace but get special treatment and salaries above what their worth. However Richard absolutely downplays that it's a people thing not a gender thing. Men are much more likely to work longer hours, commute farther distances, take less vacation days and sick days etc to get their work done compared to a woman working the same job. This is absolute fact according to data and statistics
but who cares, get on with your life
@@kjfdsjknfjknafknsdlfnla7908 it's perfectly fine but I should get paid more than her. Women complaining about how she makes 80 cents for the same job is utter💩. I deserve to make more based on my output. In fact let's be honest men are expected to work harder than women in practically any field other than maybe government jobs. Of course I've never worked for government so I'm not so sure about that lol! 😂
Best video I reckon you’ve done. Quick and to the point. It’s inspired me to dump tinder and get on with running my businesses and just spending time with my kids which has cost me a fortune to get. I was listening to this whilst driving home from a date that got called in my rather epic car. Hopefully more guys get it.
20 years ago 10% of the workforce was totally incompetent. Today that number is around 70%. Entry level is 99%. (Not a scientific study, but you know I’m damn close).
All you can change is how you react to what's screwed up with the world. Adapt and overcome.
"It just is, and we just are"
I have a staff of 9 employees working under me and it is a large organizations where all someone has to do is say two words, "Mental Health". Boom, just like that they are no longer accountable and their workload gets put onto the shoulders of other co-workers. I have 2 employees who are complaining about their personal problems/issues at home and one is literally hi-jacking team meetings to share how "sad" he is feeling. I am at a loss right now because we are a group that manages a portfolio value of $250 million and our accountabilities are endless.
This issue applies to both men and women. I'm a unionized employee working alongside men and women. I have to listen to a parade of people consistently whining that we don't make enough money. It doesn't bother me, it's annoying but it is what it is. If you don't like how much money you make, work a different job.
Instead of a toxic ltr you have the opportunity to choose any other adventure.
Not so bad after all.
Great perspective.
“When life gives you lemons, just say fuck the lemons and Bail”
Excellent commentary Rich, you are correct.
We need to focus on what we change for the better and don't waste energy on things that are out of our control.
Keep up the great work 👍
One thing that struck me particularly - though the whole video is good - is when Rich said that it is merely another product of our society in decline. Nothing could be more true. We are a society in decline and we have been for a very long time. We just didn't really notice it much until now.
And Rich is also right when he says that you can't fight it and you can't stop it. This is just the direction that things are moving in and it's actually gaining momentum, not losing it. If you think a handful of people are going to stop this boulder from rolling down a hill, you're delusional.
We are pretty much down to two choices at this point - As Aaron Clarey says in his book; "Enjoy the Decline" - you can just grab some popcorn, enjoy the ride and let the wave carry you to destruction along with everyone around you or you can do as one of my other favorite RUclipsrs Andrew Henderson says - "Go where you're treated best." In other words, move somewhere that hasn't totally run out of important things to worry about.
Every generation talks about a society in decline,
@@fitnesspoint2006 Yes. And for at least the past 60 years, they've been right.
I vote enjoy the decline
My wife is an RN and she works her ass off though she does see some nurses that are lazy. I can see it happen in my co-workers as well who are mostly men so I think it's across the board.
I often fly and most of the time in business/first class. Since the pandemaic have started there has been a severe lack of service from flight attendets on the major American carriers. It seems that some airlines are using covid as an execuse for poor service.
Thank you for your channel. I greatly appreciate that you try to provide solutions and not just complain about the world. Thank you.
There is another segment of society that is entitled here in America… they are give free housing, food, school,and quotas to fill… it is sad
Thanks for putting this out again. Needed a re-fresher.
Got your book and love it ! We are in difficult times orchastrated by the ruling parasites IMHO . As usual you nail it Rich . I educate myself and do my best to deal with the best people and situations I can find and try not to F up like i did i the past .
The key to happiness is found in the rule of circles. Namely, your circles of influence and your circles of interest, keep those circles closely aligned and you will be a happy man. Few things generate as much anger and unhappiness as wanting to change shit that you have absolutely no influence over, in this category you can add politics, women, and the absolute stupidity of the majority of people you will encounter. Absolutely zero fucks given is my motto.
I’m a lesbian woman. I agree a lot of straight women treat men like crap and it’s wrong. Some of my friends tell me how they use guy and lead them on etc which is total bs.
Great video Rich! Yes not to sulk. However awareness is crucial. Looking for a solution is the answer. Adapting to the conditions is the only way.
I really like the point you are making - control what you have control over. Stop caring about what you can't. Be the Victor
My field has very few women in it. I've only had one female coworker my six years there. She complained all the time. Boss quickly cut her workload to 70% of what the worst male worker was doing. She would still cry nearly every day.
She no called no showed for a week then showed up again no accepting that she had been fired. She then tried to pull a workman's comp.
My prior field had more women. One woman I worked with would hand off as much work as possible to everyone else. Then she would do her online schooling at work for a job in another field mind you.
I asked a person in HR if that was allowed in passing. I wouldn't get her a name. She figured out who and wanted management to fire her. My bosses instead took out a vendetta against me and ironically punished me with a job with half the work and the same pay. I left soon after.
This is one of your better videos in the car, Rich. It’s a keeper. I appreciate your book recommendations as well. Thanks.
I get the same complaint from my 22 year old son, he’s responsible, on time, does the work, as a matter of fact he was going to leave for another job and they basically beg him to stay and is not because they where short staff (wich they always have and have a big turn around) but because they like hes work ethics, he tells me how young females from 16 to 28 stand around on there phone and are laizy, he does tell me about a couple of guys with the same attitude but it sounds like the attitude it rubs off on them, it hurts the ones that are putting in the work and want to get things done, specially in a fast working pace where he is at, thanks for the video Rich!
I used to be more productive that I am now. I used to work for the joy's of what that work could afford me, the places I could go, and the fun things I could do with friends and family.
All of that is cancelled now, and some is even illegal.
All my favorite things are gone, and so the motivation to work hard is gone too.
I totally agree on what you mentioned about the enviroment that we live in now.
Especially here in the western delevoped world.
Demanding so many rights and entiltlements. But not wanting any of the responsibilties that goes with it.
To me. It is a sign of immaturity. It's like the most of us are stuck and cannot budge out of our childish manner.
An old American indian woman once said this to me: "Expectations, are a setup, for resentment!"
I noticed a huge difference in work ethic from when I was in my 20's now in my mid 50's. Nursing homes I was employed thought I retire from closed. Found a better paying job at an other facility which requires 3 days of training for even a experienced seasoned CNA and nurse. I arrived early first day was the only one every one else was late one chic hour and a half!!! Then I had to listen about their bs, work schedules were not to their liking because their kids no one bothered to do the 6 hour test that was required before in office training which we got paid for. By the end of the first day I knew all their personal business the train wrecks they made of their life's. First week working with residents 2 called off. Sadly the manager put up with it. The nursing home even had a bonus if you didn't call off for 6 months, I couldn't believe it rewarding adults for doing what is required to hold down a job....just showing up!!!
9:00--"Men are nearly identical." That is reality. The narcissism and laziness just manifests itself differently from women. A buddy of mine is a builder, and the only contractors he hires are Amish or Mexican--he said, "They work, show up on time----the others are hungover, show up late, take cigarette breaks all day."
I love this channel and all the advice said here! I hate that saying.. It is what it is! But I live my life by that saying! Something so simple, But when my walls come crashing in on a daily basis for life reasons! I say that to my self, regroup my focus in reality and just enjoy the things I got! The funny thing is going back about fifteen years ago. I never heard that saying untill one day my fiance came home and told me she's leaving, has another guy and isn't happy after I paid the bills, took care of her dog and helped her through breast reduction surgury and her time in nursing school! Once all that stuff was over with, She's on to new things. Of coarse the night of this bomb drop split up and going back and forth with waised time and energy on my part asking why, what, when, bla, bla. She said there is somebody better for her and me! It is what it is! Thankyou oh great one super woman on the pedestal now! That explains everything! But one thing I got when she left and I got my self together after a while was piece of mind and a very good saying I use all the time now! Lol
I encourage him to spread the word about his experiences, and hopefully he’s doing what he can to fight evade or outmaneuver them. But if he’s just complaining about it instead of doing something about it, then he’s no better than women he’s complaining about.
The IT industry is guilty too of hiring just because of gender or sexual orientation rather than work ethic and qualifications for the role. They are essentially affirmative action hiring and have heard plenty of stories where men who are not a certain ethnicity are treated as last class citizens when it comes to hiring.
Excellent video buttercup…I got inspiration from the book recommendations, Richard’s advice and the note sent in by the audience member…thanks!
My adage is: You need to live in the real world, not the ideal world!
This was an extremely deep rant. 🤙🏽🤙🏽 Right on brother.
It's easy to say "just go work at another hospital" but that doesn't help the end user - ie patients. I have a special needs daughter who spent a good portion of her first year of life in the hospital and continues to have a significant amount of health care requirements. The care from women nurses and doctors has been for the most part abysmal, one female doctor almost killed my daughter in a botched surgery and if weren't for the fact that I recognized what internal abdominal bleeding looked like from my combat experience we would have lost her. Almost all the nurses under the age of 45 are useless and seem to be stuck with the emotional development of a 15 year old girl. On more than one occasion while sleeping in my daughter's hospital room I had to go out to the the nurses' station and ask if they planned on answering an alarm while they carried on like it was a teenage sleepover. I could go on at length with examples of doctor (always female for some reason) incompetence but I think you get the idea.
Actually, please *do* go on.
It's not ment to help the end user... this is the essence of the red pill. Look after your own self because no one will, sorry this is the reality of it.
Seeing how bad some of the nurses and doctors are in the ER makes me wish we had robots instead. Seriously these people are lazy, dirty and make mistakes. The robot won’t forget something or mess up.
Control only what you can.
You cant control everything so dont allow yourself to be controlled by the thing that are beyond your control ( dont worry about them )
As in the video . You work with what you got ; find a way around your problems
Pure bloods stand strong. We are on the right side of this.
Was thinking the same thing just before he said it’ suck it up buttercup’ it is what it is
With all the shit going on in the world today if you’re worrying about women in anyway you’re disassociated and ignorant. There are much more pressing issues going on right now to be worried about.
I agreed what you said Rick! Control what you can and let go what you can’t! If we are constantly complaining or griping about somebody incompetent, we are nothing more but a Karen!
Yeah, I agree on the macro picture you described. Look after your Circle of Trust. The rest is immaterial.
Great info and great delivery!
Hollow phrases like "nobody cares" and "it is what it is" are part of the problem. Neither is an argument, nor a justification, let alone a solution to anything. Equating or comparing a water/ice/sun analogy with a feminism ideology is simply an irrelevant comparison. Human behavior patterns and societal norms can very well be changed, if one is willing.
lol, look where that got Hitler
It is what it is... sounds like a Chic saying. Managing $ucks is what a guy would say.
I read A Company of One. Excellent recommendation, good listen and very actionable content
Always have a friend or spouse watching out for you if you are in the hospital. Some nurses don’t care about you and are not intelligent. Double check the medications they administer, time given, and dosage. If you aren’t being treated well, always ask for the Charge Nurse on duty (he/she is supervisor of the nurses on a shift). I’ve had the worst experiences with the night nurses; they are usually second string. If asking for the Charge Nurse doesn’t work, ask to see a patient advocate. Be safe everyone and try to stay out of the hospital.
I normally agree with Rick on his views about the RP, etc... but regarding this COVID SHAM, I agree 200%
Thanks for airing this problem. I'm in the same boat. Wish there's a forum to solve this
5:04 Yes I can add to that before Richard starts. Most of the shift, the women spend a lot of their time on the phone. It is true that they are demanding more money for less work than what their predecessors do, however, inflation as a big contributor to that. The same people that complain about workers wanting more pay are silent when the rising costs of living have gone up disproportionately. Secondly, the institutions that train these individuals should be held accountable. Why get mad at the workers if they went through the programs and passed the tests? At that point, they have earned whatever it is that they are being given because this is the system that was established. As a medical worker, I'm expected to pass a certain program and certain tests with a certain minimum criteria. I previously applied for another career and with more experience than what it would take to go to school, not only did I not get the jobs I applied for but, I was offered less pay than what I will be earning after I graduate from this program. Yes I'll probably join the fold and work harder than them but that won't be much even at that level. Yes I am a guy.
This is an important lesson and key insight of a fully actualized, adult life. Comparison is the death of happiness; looking at the people around you and wishing for just outcomes is the first and most juvenile observation of the person who finally looks outside themselves. Your energy is better spent pursuing excellence and achievement in your chosen domain. If you must compare yourself to someone to index your performance, compare yourself to who you were yesterday/last month/last year.
Also I agree 100% with Rich, I won't get angry, i will learn as much as possible, do the work to become de top at my field...nothing beats hard dry work.
I found the title of your video kind of amusing!!! The reason I find it funny is, about 23 years ago I met a woman (who I am still dating today) and her and I were both going through a pair of bad marriages when we met!! I told this woman (as a friend) that "I am a realist" and I furthered that statement with "To me water is wet, the sky is blue and grass is green, but in my life too many OTHER PEOPLE try to complicate that!"!!
She agreed at least she said she did, but I don't think it really "set in" to her brain exactly what I meant by that!! Skipping ahead a few years later, and I had often caught myself explaining it to her that "Water is wet, the sky is blue, and grass is green" over and over again!! And even she herself wasn't really "shit testing me" but she had a way of "over complicating things in my life" that should have never been "complicated for me" in the first place!!! And I have explained these things she does to me, WHEN she over complicates things all the time!!
100% right on. One thing to keep in mind, people that have a work ethic and aren't caught up in "woke" will come out stronger and more valuable.
Regarding my last comment. It has become normalized in North America that it's OK for women to be cruel vindictive and disingenuous and the court system weaponizes them on top of them.
Truth maximus.
Much respect for you Sir. I spent many years wondering whether I was crazy for thinking that most of these women I've dated are toxic and soul-destructive. Turns out, it has been my fault all along. why? Because I didn't recognize the red flags, toxicity, and bad behavior early on and didn't take quick action. Thanks again! I listen to you every morning at the gym after I wake up and piss excellence.
Mr. Cooper, thanks for the wisdom. Your dad hammer channel is also cool, would love to get more videos there too. Much respect for you sir.
A man saying: “It is what it is.” He had me at the thumbnail.
Be the captain and master of your own ship!!
Great video!!!