I read a guy's post on twitter where he was bragging about how he planned the entire Saturday for a date: park picnic organized, then ferry tour, expensive fine dining, then honeymoon suite prepared at an expensive hotel...all of this for a hookup, he said that every time the women slept with him at the end of that day date (they felt pressured to "pay back" and he knew that). He said that he did the exact same steps with each different woman and all of them fell for the hookup. He also said he felt disgusted after sleeping with them and he never considered any of these women as marriage material. Men can go to great lengths to get you in bed and then move on to the next one. Do NOT give a man s*x without commitment and give the first date an hour max...then see how he behaves over time.
1. put his phone away and make really good eye contact 2. get a deluxe date (prime real estate time, being thoughtful, a little extra emotions or effort) to get to know you 3. be curious about you and remember what you say 4. really put you first 5. be more willing to admit that he is wrong 6. tell you things that he doesn't tell other people 7. be a little jealous
Ok, the eye contact thing. I disagree. I'm a shy/reserved/introverted woman, and I will tell you right now, not making eye contact doesn't alway smean she is not interested. If I SERIOUSLY like a guy, as in I have very strong feelings for him, but I am not sure whether or not he likes me-- I cannot make eye contact with him. My thoughts and feelings show very strongly through my eyes. So I KNOW that if I look him in the eyes, he WILL see that I am crazy about him. So if I'm not sure whether or not he likes me, then I'm going to avoid eye contact. For me, direct eye contact is for a guy who has already made it clear that he likes me. If I know he's into me, then I'm ok with him seeing my feelings.
This guy at work seemed to click with me so well! We were always in group settings, but we’d both tease each other a lot and have these deep conversations where he was trying to get to know me beyond just work stuff. One evening he asked me out to the movies for the weekend. I was excited! But when he met me there, he completely clammed up and was SO tense and nervous. He could hardly look me in the eyes and didn’t make any moves to touch me during the entire movie. 😭 I thought that meant he wasn’t attracted to me outside of work or something!! 😅🙃 So it’s interesting that you mentioned a guy might clam up like that if on a first date with a girl he really likes.
it's great that you mention that some men can use the emotional share to gather sympathy and manipulate if it's genuine, then it's definitely not good if it comes up in the first few dates also when men are genuinely vulnerable it puts us women in the mothering role and instantly the sexual attraction dies. It's just the way it is...do you men want us women to mother you or do you want us to be sexually attracted to you? You cannot have both...so you better be genuinely emotional only for really severe stuff that happen not often...just sayin' I know a guy who's always vulnerable, emotional, he's also a "comedian" and theatre actor (ugh) and his girlfriend is (you guessed it) a mother bear with him, it's so embarrassing to watch. He lives in her apartment, she pays all the bills, she's monitoring his social media and events posts and attacks whoever leaves a comment that may hurt his feelings...they've been together for 8 years and he has not proposed to her...imagine my shock... he's also living in an Eastern European country where he gets to play "the USA guy" role...so you're telling me that this guy with the US passport, speaking English natively and all the opportunities the USA gives couldn't make it in the USA and had to move to the most corrupt country in Europe to gain a bit of popularity thanks to his girlfriend who is a native of this Eastern European highly corrupt, littered, broken country? c'mon!
I know that type of guy. And even if it's not that extreme, neediness, codependency, helplessness and using someone are all unattractive from both men and women. Healthy vulnerability is none of those things. It just means not being walled-off emotionally and/or withholding compassion for yourself or others. Vulnerability belongs to both men and women and does not negate masculinity or HAVE to mean emotional diarrhea.
I agree with you guys why the heck not after all about first dates being a disaster that is. After all it's not like we took classes for how to date parent choose to teach kids back in the 50s and 60s I don't know if they did it earlier but women used to teach their sons and daughters how to date and or you know and good guys to taught their sons but people don't teach that stuff anymore you don't have classes on the etiquette of dating what's proper and what isn't but let me tell you if you go through old etiquette books you might find some. Social etiquette on dating what women should be like as a young woman young lady
Ah that's so sweet nervous on your first date yeah because you liked her you were afraid you might blow it makes people awkward it happens for women too
I have question for you. Does this counts as emotional affair? But keep in mind me and Morgan and Stephen have special needs i feel it not cheating we all got special needs i know it will never never having sex in my affair not never never so does sill counts as infidelity but only physical is hugging and holding hands no sex. It non sexual affair just emotional and physical affair without sex 1 texting Stephen behind Morgan back 2 meeting with stephen behind morgan back 3 laughing with Stephen 4 watching films with stephen behind morgan back 5 specking to Stephen on phone behind morgan back 6 hiding texts and deleting texts behind morgan back 7 telling Stephen i love him and miss him and i can't holding hands with him and watch my and favourite movie dinsey high school musical that got Zac efron and vanessa Hudgens in it.? 8 getting high school musical balloons with stephen? Does this counts as emontinal affair?
why are you investing your energy, feelings and time with a man that is unavailable? you need to work on yourself and the reason why you are hooked to unavailable men also when you find the man for you and you enter a relationship think about being the partner of that man and how would you feel about the mistress who's chasing him why are you ok being the mistress? along with men who cheat, women like you are the problem, getting involved with a man who already has a partner/girlfriend/wife. Why are you ok being the $lut mistress?
The Guy in the Suit seems Pompass. I was thinking about subscribing but Nah....too many other folks on RUclips giving this advice without this attitude.
he can come across as a meathead sometimes I've been following this podcast for a while and I would say he's the meathead dude that can be a reliable good friend and has no bad intentions, just a bull in a China shop but a good guy...but yeah the meathead index is high with him hahahahah
And you felt the need to let everyone in the chat know that you're not going to subscribe, 😬 really!? 🙄 I'm sure "the Guy in the Suit" will be utterly devastated by your lack of presence here ..... not.
Some of their signs are basic courtesy and respect for communication. The others cater to a feminine male. Not the greatest advice I've heard. Best point was video over audio.
I read a guy's post on twitter where he was bragging about how he planned the entire Saturday for a date: park picnic organized, then ferry tour, expensive fine dining, then honeymoon suite prepared at an expensive hotel...all of this for a hookup, he said that every time the women slept with him at the end of that day date (they felt pressured to "pay back" and he knew that).
He said that he did the exact same steps with each different woman and all of them fell for the hookup.
He also said he felt disgusted after sleeping with them and he never considered any of these women as marriage material.
Men can go to great lengths to get you in bed and then move on to the next one.
Do NOT give a man s*x without commitment and give the first date an hour max...then see how he behaves over time.
1. put his phone away and make really good eye contact
2. get a deluxe date (prime real estate time, being thoughtful, a little extra emotions or effort) to get to know you
3. be curious about you and remember what you say
4. really put you first
5. be more willing to admit that he is wrong
6. tell you things that he doesn't tell other people
7. be a little jealous
Thanks 🙂
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He wants to get in your pants
Ok, the eye contact thing. I disagree. I'm a shy/reserved/introverted woman, and I will tell you right now, not making eye contact doesn't alway smean she is not interested. If I SERIOUSLY like a guy, as in I have very strong feelings for him, but I am not sure whether or not he likes me-- I cannot make eye contact with him. My thoughts and feelings show very strongly through my eyes. So I KNOW that if I look him in the eyes, he WILL see that I am crazy about him. So if I'm not sure whether or not he likes me, then I'm going to avoid eye contact. For me, direct eye contact is for a guy who has already made it clear that he likes me. If I know he's into me, then I'm ok with him seeing my feelings.
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Watch their way they treat others and watch the way their body is mimicking you
This guy at work seemed to click with me so well! We were always in group settings, but we’d both tease each other a lot and have these deep conversations where he was trying to get to know me beyond just work stuff.
One evening he asked me out to the movies for the weekend. I was excited! But when he met me there, he completely clammed up and was SO tense and nervous. He could hardly look me in the eyes and didn’t make any moves to touch me during the entire movie. 😭
I thought that meant he wasn’t attracted to me outside of work or something!! 😅🙃
So it’s interesting that you mentioned a guy might clam up like that if on a first date with a girl he really likes.
Love the playfulness of these two gentlemen😂😂
Agree😅
I always love you two bickering at each other and crack up
I'm loving your conversations with each other and thank you for educating me on men! :)
You guys crack me up. So real life scenarios. Relateable😅
Best dating podcast episode out there
😂you guys are funny. Love it! Thank you!
it's great that you mention that some men can use the emotional share to gather sympathy and manipulate
if it's genuine, then it's definitely not good if it comes up in the first few dates
also when men are genuinely vulnerable it puts us women in the mothering role and instantly the sexual attraction dies. It's just the way it is...do you men want us women to mother you or do you want us to be sexually attracted to you? You cannot have both...so you better be genuinely emotional only for really severe stuff that happen not often...just sayin'
I know a guy who's always vulnerable, emotional, he's also a "comedian" and theatre actor (ugh) and his girlfriend is (you guessed it) a mother bear with him, it's so embarrassing to watch. He lives in her apartment, she pays all the bills, she's monitoring his social media and events posts and attacks whoever leaves a comment that may hurt his feelings...they've been together for 8 years and he has not proposed to her...imagine my shock... he's also living in an Eastern European country where he gets to play "the USA guy" role...so you're telling me that this guy with the US passport, speaking English natively and all the opportunities the USA gives couldn't make it in the USA and had to move to the most corrupt country in Europe to gain a bit of popularity thanks to his girlfriend who is a native of this Eastern European highly corrupt, littered, broken country? c'mon!
I know that type of guy. And even if it's not that extreme, neediness, codependency, helplessness and using someone are all unattractive from both men and women. Healthy vulnerability is none of those things. It just means not being walled-off emotionally and/or withholding compassion for yourself or others. Vulnerability belongs to both men and women and does not negate masculinity or HAVE to mean emotional diarrhea.
Accountants can be fun 😂😂❤❤❤
What about dating long distance, how do these apply to me. I am in Florida and he is over 500 miles away.
Words are cheap if a guy says things but their actions are very different watch it!
Men finds women insanely attractive, do women finds men insanely attractive or little bit less than that? I want to know.
@MSing-m5e I think women can be attracted physically to men at fi st sight
@@MyFungal How much? men are attracted insanely.
Very very badly
That's because players play on people's emotions
I agree with you guys why the heck not after all about first dates being a disaster that is. After all it's not like we took classes for how to date parent choose to teach kids back in the 50s and 60s I don't know if they did it earlier but women used to teach their sons and daughters how to date and or you know and good guys to taught their sons but people don't teach that stuff anymore you don't have classes on the etiquette of dating what's proper and what isn't but let me tell you if you go through old etiquette books you might find some. Social etiquette on dating what women should be like as a young woman young lady
I’m an Accountant 😂 watch it!😜🤣
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Yeap I'm an accountant and no possible way is there any form of stimulating conversation you can have on the subject.
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Ah that's so sweet nervous on your first date yeah because you liked her you were afraid you might blow it makes people awkward it happens for women too
I hope your accountant watches this and fires your asses. You owe us an apology.
Hmmmmmm..
authentic???
If it’s your style, say it… if it’s your style, ask…
I have question for you.
Does this counts as emotional affair? But keep in mind me and Morgan and Stephen have special needs i feel it not cheating we all got special needs i know it will never never having sex in my affair not never never so does sill counts as infidelity but only physical is hugging and holding hands no sex. It non sexual affair just emotional and physical affair without sex
1 texting Stephen behind Morgan back
2 meeting with stephen behind morgan back
3 laughing with Stephen
4 watching films with stephen behind morgan back
5 specking to Stephen on phone behind morgan back
6 hiding texts and deleting texts behind morgan back
7 telling Stephen i love him and miss him and i can't holding hands with him and watch my and favourite movie dinsey high school musical that got Zac efron and vanessa Hudgens in it.?
8 getting high school musical balloons with stephen?
Does this counts as emontinal affair?
why are you investing your energy, feelings and time with a man that is unavailable?
you need to work on yourself and the reason why you are hooked to unavailable men
also when you find the man for you and you enter a relationship think about being the partner of that man and how would you feel about the mistress who's chasing him
why are you ok being the mistress?
along with men who cheat, women like you are the problem, getting involved with a man who already has a partner/girlfriend/wife. Why are you ok being the $lut mistress?
Yes 100% cheating. Stop it!
@@walkaminutewithme4787 i am not having sex at all never will i feel it not cheating i am never never having no sex
The Guy in the Suit seems Pompass. I was thinking about subscribing but Nah....too many other folks on RUclips giving this advice without this attitude.
he can come across as a meathead sometimes
I've been following this podcast for a while and I would say he's the meathead dude that can be a reliable good friend and has no bad intentions, just a bull in a China shop but a good guy...but yeah the meathead index is high with him hahahahah
And you felt the need to let everyone in the chat know that you're not going to subscribe, 😬 really!? 🙄
I'm sure "the Guy in the Suit" will be utterly devastated by your lack of presence here ..... not.
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Thank you!!!
He's halarous ❤❤❤❤
Well don’t subscribe and jog on - we don’t care and won’t miss you 🙄🙄🙄🙄🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Some of their signs are basic courtesy and respect for communication. The others cater to a feminine male. Not the greatest advice I've heard. Best point was video over audio.
I miss your shorter videos