Great advice! 1. Embrace your empowerment - you are the prize. He needs to impress you. You are the chooser. 2. Easy to approach and hard to attain. Be welcoming, smile, be fun, but then if he takes you out then create space. 3. Don’t be easily impressed. Be polite with a bit of indifference. You view yourself on the same level. Find something in his character that is special. 4. Be fun… optimistic, and good energy for the first few dates. Appreciate their sense of humor. 5. Showing genuine interest in his life. Find out the way he thinks. Ask better questions… 6. Maintain your independence. The right guy wants to share your life. 7. Maintain the mystery. Pace what you tell him… don’t over share. Maybe I will tell you if you make to the 3rd or 4th date. Share things that show a wide range of who you are.
I am SO GLAD I found your podcast! I am almost 70, separated for almost 6 years, and in the divorce process. I am learning SO MUCH! Things definitely have changed since I dated my husband of 45 years!
I’m 59 and getting my private pilots licence. I’ve been in aviation for almost 40yrs so it’s my passion Talk about a smorgasbord of amazing men! Ladies find a “masculine” hobby. Enter their world. Get your motorcycle licence, take golf lessons trust me there are great men out there looking for exciting women
I will definately be doing the Love Strategies for the Love steps, once things are complete. I have been working on myself and healing for these 6 yrs, and I feel my heart is ready to go on. Thank you for ALL YOU DO...GARY and ADAM! Been binge watching for 3 days now, lol!
You guys are such a GREAT team ; and hilarious too ! I really liked that bike episode (my dad had one) and I liked the "blonde wig" one - the "flirty-faced" one in another video - it had me in splits ☆🔹️👠🎼🍃🎩♡🔷️
This 68 yr old LOVES you 2s channel you are so funny and wonderful thank you Im hoping your sending good luck my way I deserve it trust me Ive earned it too
Awesome topic with the great influencers of dating hehehe, as in u influence us. This is from the Philippines, in ur avid watcher i keep on smiling for each remarks
I like what you're saying regarding being overly too impressed by a man from his money his Vehicles his home whatever thugs could have all that you know so you still got to get to know the man find out how he interacts with others coworkers family members so on and so forth he still just a stranger all you know is it he has possessions that doesn't tell you how he obtained them
I am new to your channel and loving it! Can you tell me how to determine whether a guy is just spending time with you for a superficial, uncommitted "Disneyland " experience or whether he's ready to get serious, be committed and treat the relationship like a "business "??? Us women think guys are keen if there's any sort of heart connection and we get easily tricked by men. (Matthew Hussey"s wife brought up this issue but Matt didn't really address it, instead explained it as guys thinking of a woman as a Disneyland experience vs Building a business)
well to be honest, this is one of the strategies megan markle used to get harry in the bag::: pretending she didn't know who he was and that she wanted him for him and not for his fame, money, etc, sooooooooooo
I never ask, what do you do? When my dates have tried to just try to “ impress” me with the material things, I very politely turn it around... I heard many times how refreshing and easy the date was… My issue is, I admit, I feel like a therapist, I need to work on changing this energy 🙄
I agree with you about not a bunch of texting the men should leave in that area anyway but you should never be checking your phone all the time just do what you would normally do throughout your day and check your phone when you would usually check it
I agree with you in that regard to don't fall over an actor remember it's just their job would you find over the garbage man would you find over the president of the United States which has a more important job
Tom Brady does not have the option of any woman he wants. I don’t even know who he is. I know I turned down a marriage proposal from a gazzillionaire in the film industry three times. Not every woman can be bought. It’s a shame you are implying that every woman can be bought.
Great advice!
1. Embrace your empowerment - you are the prize. He needs to impress you. You are the chooser.
2. Easy to approach and hard to attain. Be welcoming, smile, be fun, but then if he takes you out then create space.
3. Don’t be easily impressed. Be polite with a bit of indifference. You view yourself on the same level. Find something in his character that is special.
4. Be fun… optimistic, and good energy for the first few dates. Appreciate their sense
of humor.
5. Showing genuine interest in his life. Find out the way he thinks. Ask better questions…
6. Maintain your independence. The right guy wants to share your life.
7. Maintain the mystery. Pace what you tell him… don’t over share. Maybe I will tell you if you make to the 3rd or 4th date. Share things that show a wide range of who you are.
Thank you
I am SO GLAD I found your podcast! I am almost 70, separated for almost 6 years, and in the divorce process. I am learning SO MUCH! Things definitely have changed since I dated my husband of 45 years!
I’m 59 and getting my private pilots licence. I’ve been in aviation for almost 40yrs so it’s my passion
Talk about a smorgasbord of amazing men! Ladies find a “masculine” hobby. Enter their world. Get your motorcycle licence, take golf lessons trust me there are great men out there looking for exciting women
This is great advice.
I will definately be doing the Love Strategies for the Love steps, once things are complete. I have been working on myself and healing for these 6 yrs, and I feel my heart is ready to go on. Thank you for ALL YOU DO...GARY and ADAM! Been binge watching for 3 days now, lol!
You guys are such a GREAT team ; and hilarious too ! I really liked that bike episode (my dad had one) and I liked the "blonde wig" one - the "flirty-faced" one in another video - it had me in splits ☆🔹️👠🎼🍃🎩♡🔷️
thanks for not putting ads in this video, I have an ad blocker and youtube is not allowing me to play videos with ads
I like this Dr Gary. He's good.
Be funny: good humor is such a wonderful thing
This is a great channel… I need your services.
When your date turns into a therapy session.
This 68 yr old LOVES you 2s channel you are so funny and wonderful thank you Im hoping your sending good luck my way I deserve it trust me Ive earned it too
You guys are funny and play well off one another. Thanks for sharing!
Awesome topic with the great influencers of dating hehehe, as in u influence us. This is from the Philippines, in ur avid watcher i keep on smiling for each remarks
But where do we find these men?
I like what you're saying regarding being overly too impressed by a man from his money his Vehicles his home whatever thugs could have all that you know so you still got to get to know the man find out how he interacts with others coworkers family members so on and so forth he still just a stranger all you know is it he has possessions that doesn't tell you how he obtained them
Be interesting..and interested..
I am new to your channel and loving it! Can you tell me how to determine whether a guy is just spending time with you for a superficial, uncommitted "Disneyland " experience or whether he's ready to get serious, be committed and treat the relationship like a "business "??? Us women think guys are keen if there's any sort of heart connection and we get easily tricked by men. (Matthew Hussey"s wife brought up this issue but Matt didn't really address it, instead explained it as guys thinking of a woman as a Disneyland experience vs Building a business)
Time will tell
well to be honest, this is one of the strategies megan markle used to get harry in the bag::: pretending she didn't know who he was and that she wanted him for him and not for his fame, money, etc, sooooooooooo
LOVE STRATEGIES NO. 1 💪🎉🎉🎉
I never ask, what do you do?
When my dates have tried to just try to “ impress” me with the material things, I very politely turn it around...
I heard many times how refreshing and easy the date was…
My issue is, I admit, I feel like a therapist, I need to work on changing this energy 🙄
I will remember that " I am the chooser not the chaser."
Yes no secrets
NO gossips.....
I agree with you about not a bunch of texting the men should leave in that area anyway but you should never be checking your phone all the time just do what you would normally do throughout your day and check your phone when you would usually check it
Are these valid for 50+ years? Asking for a friend 😊
Lovely ❤👌
so basically treat him like any other guy 😂
Like that you need to not alwYs be avaliable..Have friends..
Also Mainyain the MYSTERY..😊
To RUclips: That vertical format when the player is minimized is awful. WTH is that? I couldn't watch.
Hey dear I like ur vdos alot m big fan but there is a problem my English is not so good so if u write subtitles I will b very thankful...😊
I agree with you in that regard to don't fall over an actor remember it's just their job would you find over the garbage man would you find over the president of the United States which has a more important job
Lookin super HOT in that black t-shirt!!! 😊
I never heard about that Tom guy 😅
Wow, im dating a Roper and not the Cowboy Roper 😅
Just be genuine most guys don't like the games
"ax" hahah is "asked" NOT "ax"
Yeah don't be a dime a dozen girl. Who is this Tom Brady ?
Very handsome footballer
Tom Brady does not have the option of any woman he wants. I don’t even know who he is. I know I turned down a marriage proposal from a gazzillionaire in the film industry three times. Not every woman can be bought. It’s a shame you are implying that every woman can be bought.