At 28 I was a people pleaser, with low self worth, and anxious attachment style.....Now at 35, happily divorced, therapy educated, developing self awareness and authentic self confidence, accepting and letting go of my previous unresolved tramas. for the first time in my entire life I am comfortable and confident setting firm and healthy boundaries. And NO More people pleasing!!!! Do the inner work and the outer world will align ❤❤❤
I just feel like if someone is not being consistent with you, as in communication daily , affection, showing care about how you are doing, how your day was , I just feel that means he isn't showing interest and doesn't want to pursue you.
Wish I had known all of these things 60+ years ago! It's better late than never, I suppose, but not much time left, or men left to apply the information. 😅
I feel like I have been breadcrumbed, quite a lot really! There options I tolerate some of the time but it does feel one sided sometimes, one guy I know has got away for a long time and we are still friends but still friends I don't know what else to do so now I'm focussing on myself I have better things to do than to sit around
The bread crumming is like poisonous white sugar, very addicting. While engaging in the breadcrumb board the landscape is set up for a validation pattern. The breadcrumber gets a high that this confirmation provides. It is insane thinking this situation ship will thrive or be different. Change the landscape, get off the boat. The sinking ship is no longer an option. Next!
Why won't a man just say up front that he doesn't want to be in a relationship? Doing so helps up ladies manage our expectations...and move on or tuck him in the "friend" column.
Do you say you want a full blown relationship up front with someone ? Seriously slowly slowly after a few months trust that gut feeling get to no him talk and stop all the social media and the texts talk face to face you will be able to see we are human and if we trust that internal voice it’s usually the case ❤
Very insightful. Thanks for sharing . I know I'm a prize! (& this is in no way pride), but I keep wondering why I get the breadcrumbbing treatment . 🤔 it's sad & draining at the same time. I just wanna be genuinely involved with the right energy!!
Oh that was a very educational advice and a lot of people are hurting in this world that needs to hear that. Thank you by the way the two of you has a good partnership you can be seious and funny at the same time. I cannot thank you enough. But i have one question if in any rule there is an exemption how can you explain that exception about bread crumbing im not trying to be clingy or needy here but is there deeper explanation about this? Are you getting me? Anyway it would be great for that serious person to be stepping up and be the man and taking his responsibility it would be awesome and a heaven sent right
I'm 70 but I think I'm a young 70 I've met a chap who 58. I've known him about 2 yrs we see each other nearly every day. He's so kind and he's been such a wonderful friend to me, unfortunately I've fallen in love with him. But. He doesn't want to marry anyone, he likes me I know or he just wouldn't bother like he does, he cares he worrys bout me he's my hero. Should I be just be content with this, do you think I could get it to another stage I wonder
He's told you that he doesn't want marriage, so believe him. If all you want is Friends With Benefits, he's your guy. If you want more, cut off the Benefits and start looking for what you do want.
a dash of jokes sprinkled here and there is fine but they spend so much time fooling around... they start a point take a long tangent and come back chopping the point off... Fool around, it's fine just do it at the end so I can skip it. Their content is good but lately it's pretty much 50/50 content/jokes ... if they trim the fat the podcast content is 10min long only @@UrConvictionsR-All-UHave2581
they start a point, take a tangent (jokes) come back and hurried chop off the point. They share good content just a ton of fluff (jokes/fool around)...I mean if they did the fooling around in the end/beginning I would skip that part @@UrConvictionsR-All-UHave2581 I like their content, it's just VERY diluted and distracting with all the fluff (jokes/foll around) every few seconds.
It's their show, they get to do whatever, if you aren't cool with it ...skip or pay money to speak with a less joking strategist. Don't be so uptight!!
At 28 I was a people pleaser, with low self worth, and anxious attachment style.....Now at 35, happily divorced, therapy educated, developing self awareness and authentic self confidence, accepting and letting go of my previous unresolved tramas. for the first time in my entire life I am comfortable and confident setting firm and healthy boundaries. And NO More people pleasing!!!!
Do the inner work and the outer world will align ❤❤❤
I just feel like if someone is not being consistent with you, as in communication daily , affection, showing care about how you are doing, how your day was , I just feel that means he isn't showing interest and doesn't want to pursue you.
After being love bomded you question everything
Thank you! This video has explained so much. Really good information.
Wish I had known all of these things 60+ years ago! It's better late than never, I suppose, but not much time left, or men left to apply the information. 😅
Yep I'm 68 wasted 30 yrs with a Narcissistic Abuser ..and all the good ones are taken but I am happy for their wives
You two work great together. Such good sense of humor!😂🤭
You make some excellent points here! Especially about chasing, feelings about it, and dopamine.
You two guys are having way too much fun on this podcast. You’re also providing some wonderful information. Thank you. 🦊
You two are hilarious and have great chemistry! Thanks for all your valuable insight🎉
It's not difficult to know if a guy likes to have sex with me but harder to know if he likes me as a person he wants to be in his life
I get that a lot too……so I decided to pull sex off the table and I have realized not many men want to pursue things without sex
dont give them sex without getting commitment from them
they want you for the sex and then they move on. So don't give them sex if they do not give you commitment.
I feel like I have been breadcrumbed, quite a lot really! There options I tolerate some of the time but it does feel one sided sometimes, one guy I know has got away for a long time and we are still friends but still friends I don't know what else to do so now I'm focussing on myself I have better things to do than to sit around
The bread crumming is like poisonous white sugar, very addicting. While engaging in the breadcrumb board the landscape is set up for a validation pattern. The breadcrumber gets a high that this confirmation provides. It is insane thinking this situation ship will thrive or be different. Change the landscape, get off the boat. The sinking ship is no longer an option. Next!
I'm 74 years old and have found that dating is way too much trouble! So much work! I give up!
You two are charming, handsome goofballs. Stay here for laughs and excellent information!
Literally your podcasts are the best I’ve ever heard no shit women need to hear this
Think to yourself, the only breadcrumbs I want, are those that are coating a nice filet of fish!
Why won't a man just say up front that he doesn't want to be in a relationship? Doing so helps up ladies manage our expectations...and move on or tuck him in the "friend" column.
Did you watch the video? They explain just that.
Three answers are in your own comment😊Your 2nd sentence
Do you say you want a full blown relationship up front with someone ? Seriously slowly slowly after a few months trust that gut feeling get to no him talk and stop all the social media and the texts talk face to face you will be able to see we are human and if we trust that internal voice it’s usually the case ❤
Because they don't want you to tuck him into the "friend" column, unless it is the "friends with benefits" column.
Vocês dois são geniais , muito obrigada por existirem 😊😀🙏🇧🇷🙏
I would definitely date if I ever would meet a single man who has a sense of humor and is caring and decent
Make a video about top-tier married men's affairs.
Very insightful. Thanks for sharing .
I know I'm a prize! (& this is in no way pride), but I keep wondering why I get the breadcrumbbing treatment . 🤔 it's sad & draining at the same time. I just wanna be genuinely involved with the right energy!!
I'm right there with you sis!
What if he has serious health problems that he's trying to take care of first?
Oh that was a very educational advice and a lot of people are hurting in this world that needs to hear that. Thank you by the way the two of you has a good partnership you can be seious and funny at the same time. I cannot thank you enough. But i have one question if in any rule there is an exemption how can you explain that exception about bread crumbing im not trying to be clingy or needy here but is there deeper explanation about this? Are you getting me? Anyway it would be great for that serious person to be stepping up and be the man and taking his responsibility it would be awesome and a heaven sent right
Thank you
Yes you 2 need a comedy act your great
Hi what’s kinase pls?
Hey guy grest conversations and WhatsApp are the signs that a guy likes me❤😂? Thank you for sharin🎉
Please ignore the 5.46 thing, typing in tune can be challenging 😂
Trauma bonding?
I'm 70 but I think I'm a young 70 I've met a chap who 58. I've known him about 2 yrs we see each other nearly every day. He's so kind and he's been such a wonderful friend to me, unfortunately I've fallen in love with him. But. He doesn't want to marry anyone, he likes me I know or he just wouldn't bother like he does, he cares he worrys bout me he's my hero. Should I be just be content with this, do you think I could get it to another stage I wonder
He's told you that he doesn't want marriage, so believe him. If all you want is Friends With Benefits, he's your guy. If you want more, cut off the Benefits and start looking for what you do want.
"dating other people"? Dont come around me again !
If your intersted in me, date me and only me, otherwise GO AWAY !
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I don't care if he doesn't like me. Most kinase are not quality guys anyway. They want a free maid. 😢 I trash them anyway. 😄
guys please less joking & fooling around and more content
I think that would be boring! I find the light-hearted stuff and jokes entertaining. And some of the funny examples are relevant. But that's just me!👍
a dash of jokes sprinkled here and there is fine but they spend so much time fooling around... they start a point take a long tangent and come back chopping the point off... Fool around, it's fine just do it at the end so I can skip it. Their content is good but lately it's pretty much 50/50 content/jokes ... if they trim the fat the podcast content is 10min long only @@UrConvictionsR-All-UHave2581
I wonder if they do the same in their private sessions (lot of session paid time spent in jokes). The mastermind they call it if I'm not wrong.
they start a point, take a tangent (jokes) come back and hurried chop off the point. They share good content just a ton of fluff (jokes/fool around)...I mean if they did the fooling around in the end/beginning I would skip that part @@UrConvictionsR-All-UHave2581 I like their content, it's just VERY diluted and distracting with all the fluff (jokes/foll around) every few seconds.
It's their show, they get to do whatever, if you aren't cool with it ...skip or pay money to speak with a less joking strategist. Don't be so uptight!!