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I love your ideas… great topic. You are wise and smart. You know your topic. My humble and sincere advice to you is to slow down your speech a little bit. You seem to talk a little fast. Thank you for what you do. From Abidjan, Ivory Coast, West Africa. I am subscribing.
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
1. Avoid women who believe in sex clubs or threesomes unless you’re into that type of thing 2. Be careful when their sexual intimacy suddenly changes out of nowhere 3. Run if they’re always argumentative over the most trivial things 4. Definitely beware of the little details not shared 5. Personally I wouldn’t date a woman who wants to maintain friendships with ex boyfriends 6. Don’t fall for the tears when you decide to walk away for your best interest (plenty of good women available) 7. Avoid women who seek attention from other men or ask why you don’t chase them
1. Accept a woman that is non cooperational. 2. Accept a woman that is non impressionable. 3. Accept a woman that doesn't acquire compromise. 4. Accept a woman that doesn't value equally all important traits in you. 5. Accept a woman that has close male friends. 6. Accept woman complaining without stating clearly what her issue is. 7. Obtain sense of validation with a woman at the expense of respect and appreciation for you. 8. Bending to a woman's lifestyle not being able to afford it. 9. Accept a woman who is hypergamus. 10. Accepting to resume a relationship with a woman who has cheated on you.
Let's clarify #7. Do not value 'love' over 'respect'. A woman that respects you will manage days her love for you is low better than a woman with no respect for you.
Never come back with a woman who cheated on you. That woman neither valued you nor respected you. When a woman doesn't respect you, infidelity is around the corner.
Disrespect is a clear sign that she lost or never had respect for you. In either case, once it's gone, it ain't coming back, if it was ever there, to begin with.
Facts. And I would add; A relationship is supposed to be just like a friendship but to a higher degree. It's not about making her feel like a queen or making him feel like a king. It's all about Building a bound of trust and kinship. (Example; if y'all can have a good time or great moment without sex and money on the table ---- then it is a true relationship.)
Facing challenges in relationships is part of the journey, but there’s always a way forward. My marriage encountered significant issues, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to overcome them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are attainable if you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate. Keep your hope-solutions are out there.
I’m facing major problems in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her greatly and am prepared to do whatever is necessary to have her return. I’d be deeply grateful for any advice or guidance you can offer.
Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate this guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly
The moment you accept to be with a woman who most of the times will want you to bend to her wishes instead of her bending her desires to fit into your lead, especially when your lead is for the best good of the both of you, you have become Ahab and she has become Jezebel to your life. You are doomed sir. Utterly doomed. That relationship is headed towards dark places and will be full of damaging problems.
I watch videos for both men and women so that I as a women can better understand the relationship. This is the best video I have watch which is for men. I think these are very smart things to watch for. Any women not fitting within these things, is not relationship worthy. Run from any one else. If a man is worthy of these things from a women and wants the give and take of these things, he too is a quality man.
I am 62 now ...I can say you are right on the money! All those things and events I experienced and can relate to but never gave too much thought. If I knew all those things as a young man growing up I would much better position in life.
Bro. Darwynn you have become my Social Media Uncle! Thank you Uncle Mac for this highly informative and enlightening podcast! I'm age 73 and I experienced ALL TEN of these MISTAKES! AMEN-ASE!
Wow I can relate to the topic! I recently encountered a situation where most of the 10 things mentioned I observed in this particular lady. For reference, I am 73 and she was 67. Both of us have kept ourselves in good physical shap. We met at the gym. Now, she was attravtive for a "67 YO" female. But the problems was she felt as if she still had the attributes she had when she was in her 30s 40s even 50s!! Example I talk to her twice and went on one date that was all it took. She insisted a man has to take her out to a Fine Dining experience one a month. During other times, a regular one would suffice. Oh, and because of her eating schedule She insisted it had to be before 6pm dinner lunch no later than 12:30 constantly talked about her ex husband who she had been divorced 26 years ago!! Not only that she married him twice!! She talked nonstop about herself, as if she was the only one in the conversation. She lefted me a 3 minute voice message to confirm our dinner date You get picture. And this is a 67 YO female. Good luck you young guys looking for wife material😮 She really thought she was the PRIZE.
Every one of these is bang on. Women are NOT the prize. A good woman is the prize. These women are confused of their role and these men are weak. What does she add to your life. If she doesn’t bring peace and sex and intimacy when you want it, it’s a no go. Men don’t get to neglect their duty to her so don’t let her neglect her duty to you. There are worse things than being single.
If a man you don’t accept your wife to have male friends. The same for men also with women friends. One thing I believe as a man you are the leader you have to be an example for your family you can’t ask things that your are not ready to do
Subscribed. Darwynn, right out of the gate you had me. I’ve practiced all ten mistakes you’ve laid out. I’ve made, all ten mistakes. Your delivery, the content, spot on. Great stuff. I’ll also add, that the things you’ve highlighted aren’t necessarily “natural” for men. Any of us. These are lessons we can learn the hard way and most do and? It’s amazing how quickly we’ll forget them with the new girl. Or, explain it away with a “she’s not like that”. Good stuff. Great video. Thank you.
Thanks for your wonderful comment. Glad to have resonated with you Jack. You are correct. Men have to learn by trial and error. Sometimes that way have results that have a permanent impact. Which is why I have inserted myself into this space to work as a cheat code giver.
I love when I see a woman helping out at the self care wash; if you find that one, don’t let her go. If she’s willing to get her hands dirty alongside you, there’s no ceiling as to where you two can go in life.
This is actually my first time of stumbling across your channel.And trust me, when i say your content resonates deeply. More power to your elbow ,man-quite a pukkas job,you are putting up here!
Welcome Aboard!!! I am happy we connected! If you need anything shoot me an email! Also I send out weekly tips through email if you want to get exclusive advice here and there. The links for more content are located in my RUclips profile and in some of the video descriptions. Again ChristianDon glad to have you!!!
Damn this is good. I’ve heard a lot of relationship advice, but brother Darwynn you make it make sense. I’m subscribing and locking in Now. Keep bringing the content. How can I support you?
Sign up to my email list. Link is in the description sir! I send out weekly gems and tips on relationships. It may seem like I’m serving you but if any of my brothers can make it easy for me to keep them aware that is supporting me and my cause
so just be authentic in every situation to your self with your partner. i realized i do the" right thing" when im just simply doing what i feel is better for me, youll end up finding youll end up right beside your other half.
Well said sir , most of the mistakes you said here I have done in my last relationship, I tried to make sure it worked but at the end it didn't so when you talked is as if you were talking to me ...😢😢😢
Mistake #2 Reminds me of that lady on social media posting a 3 inch tape measure stating "if you're this, you better watch your tone when you're talking to me." 😆
Dont bend to a woman’s lifestyle if its beyond your current means. This is so important in this current age when women keep screaming “I want a provider”👌🏾
Why a good woman could never find a good man? Like wise men,some women and some men make relationships so hard for we the good ones out here,excellent advice 💯👍🙏🙏🙏❤️
RIGHT. ON. POINT.🤨 You’re not like a lot of these weak kneed influencers that want you to bow to the sista hood! I wish I had this kind of info growing up but now that I’m way north of 60, I’ll keep your info top of mind! 🎯💯
@darwynnmcpherson it was very good, spot on. This is a topic lm into really deep. We need seminars for High School boys & teach them the truth about what's really going on IF they even have a chance at keeping a good woman. I'm lucky l have one yr 30 I'm 64 on #2 after 13yrs in it. So I know all too well, l married my 1st gf. Got too comfortable she found Chad.
A note about respect. Respect in an LTR must be earned and maintained by leading properly as a man, retaining frame and being consistent in shaping behaviors for you both. It is disrespect that must not be tolerated, you must say this in a conversation early on, and you must consistently call her out whenever she behaves inappropriately for the health of your relationship. ❤
I agree Darwywn. Team work trying to help. Yes but women will not like a man who is has been through many many women is not one I want. Compromise is absolutely necessary. A man doesn’t necessarily have to lead but agreement and compromise
I sign off on all these 10. Fellas if you want better then you have to prepare yourself for that. The best you can be. For you. All 10 here are great points. Good deal D.
@@marguskiis7711 I know it sounds like that. The point that D is making is you have to know yourself first and then, only then is when you'll be able to search her out. She'll stand out for you. Know what you want as a man. But much more important know what Margus needs next to him. Then you'll easily be able to weed out the posers and pretenders. Hopefully this will help you to understand more. Listen D is next level the way he break things down. Not everyone will get what he says, let alone understand. You have to already be made the same way. That's why I know he's next level. You'll be ok. Don't put such a strain on finding her. Stay working on you.
The first one hit me in the gut and sent me into tomorrow. I'm in the process of dumping someone for this exact problem, and my friends are trying to convince me to give her a chance
“Women get into a relationship hoping a man will change, and he never does; men get into a relationship hoping the woman doesn’t change, but she always does. Both parties are always wrong”…………🤷🏽♂️ Get ready for your wife to change, they all do at some point and this is all you need to know fellas!!
I agree with every point EXCEPT number 9. Cause kain't nare Woman "Turn Off" Her hypergamous nature......its IMPOSSIBLE!! The primary way to offset a woman's hypergamy is to: 1) Always be developing into a BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF daily!! 2) Make sure She has a MORE VESTED INTEREST in You than You do in Her!! 3) Let it be known in subtle and obvious ways that You as Man have OPTIONS with other Women!! ...........but at-the-end-of-the-day its all about a Man securing THE HIGHEST STATUS that He possibly can amongst other Men Whom He will be compared to.
The algorithm took long enough to funnel your channel my way. A lot of other content just compounds confusion, and makes the way ahead seem impossible to navigate. ie what is the use in trying? I instantly noted your timer, and thought, "just another gimmick". But, heck, you hit that exact time seamlessly X10. True class, no fluke. One comment and replies touched on Love vs Respect. I think the dictionary meaning of the word Ambivalence covers this off. In Psycho Analysis, it translates as "The simultaneous operation in the mind of two irreconcilable wishes or qualities" So, as guys need to activate ambivalence in their dealings with woman, even though they may not necessarily understand how it works, Love and Respect need to be treated the same way. Subbed. Look forward to reading more of your Gospel
So humbled and grateful for this comment, I’m glad you found the channel and I like your perspective Steve! Sounds like I can get value from your comment, I’ll most definitely add this concept into my content. This simultaneous way of expressing love and respect can be a game changer.
I wanna correct something, I have previously said We are in this mess because of Abraham, I meant to say Adam, because he listened to Eve, then the whole world was under a curse.
Mistake 5 is my mantra. I tell any and all women that they aren’t allowed to speak to ANY male friends gay or straight. Only male anythings are family and myself.
Am never trying to impress nobody, am CLASS shaped and fixed by God.Men want women to be all good for them when some of them are No good. Women must do this an that to be measured by a man ? If a man doesn't love God, they CANNOT love a SOUL.Noone can they love and they DONT live God, thats the real issue.
@@darwynnmcpherson The point about hypergamy still being active even when you commit to her was a profound realization, which makes sense that a relationship is also power and control games because she'd want to stay on the lookout for something better but you better shut your polygamous nature down and have eyes for her only.
A question was mentioned at the end of this video "Can a man forgive a woman who cheated on him?" I think the best answer is yes he can, but he should not. And the reason why he shouldn't is because (unless he was at fault of her cheating) it is SUPPOSED to take a whole lot for a female to open up to a man she doesn't know, or Not supposed to know. So if she had to put a LOT of effort into dealing with a man she claims she loves, she's been knowing for a long time. But she can Easily put much less effort into dealing with a guy she barely knows, don't love, probably don't really like, Then There Is Nothing Special, Nothing Intimate, and Nothing Valuable she really has to offer.
@@DanielWatson-vv7cd Exactly! Because her actions defeat the purpose of her having a special someone if she can just do that. Her judgement doesn't mean much in the first place. A goat will eat anything. So, filet mignon to it is the same as eating a fuckin skateboard.
To many men make mistake 5 lol, I been the friend allot of times while having enough choice. I knew these girls called me a friend cuz they thought I was attractive.
I've done all of thise 10 things TWICE in my lifetime. I'm now 52 , single and stated from ZERO at 48 yrs old. Back on my feet but oh boy whatca ride....just listen carefully to men that are older and have made those mistakes. My issue was leading with my wallet....guess what happened? Taken to the cleaners and it's all on me. Have I learned? F$% YEAH! the hard way but I learned, it's never too late boys
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According the video is literally inpossible bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
I love your ideas… great topic. You are wise and smart. You know your topic. My humble and sincere advice to you is to slow down your speech a little bit. You seem to talk a little fast.
Thank you for what you do.
From Abidjan, Ivory Coast, West Africa.
I am subscribing.
Well said
Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldn't say it didn't go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isn't always Rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is, to have me, we compliment each other.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.
I feel your pain, sister. after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Never let a woman be in charge.
The biggest mistake a man can make is letting his woman think she's the boss.
1. Avoid women who believe in sex clubs or threesomes unless you’re into that type of thing
2. Be careful when their sexual intimacy suddenly changes out of nowhere
3. Run if they’re always argumentative over the most trivial things
4. Definitely beware of the little details not shared
5. Personally I wouldn’t date a woman who wants to maintain friendships with ex boyfriends
6. Don’t fall for the tears when you decide to walk away for your best interest (plenty of good women available)
7. Avoid women who seek attention from other men or ask why you don’t chase them
Defn number 7
1. Accept a woman that is non cooperational.
2. Accept a woman that is non impressionable.
3. Accept a woman that doesn't acquire compromise.
4. Accept a woman that doesn't value equally all important traits in you.
5. Accept a woman that has close male friends.
6. Accept woman complaining without stating clearly what her issue is.
7. Obtain sense of validation with a woman at the expense of respect and appreciation for you.
8. Bending to a woman's lifestyle not being able to afford it.
9. Accept a woman who is hypergamus.
10. Accepting to resume a relationship with a woman who has cheated on you.
Let's clarify #7. Do not value 'love' over 'respect'. A woman that respects you will manage days her love for you is low better than a woman with no respect for you.
I agree with you 100%
Never come back with a woman who cheated on you. That woman neither valued you nor respected you. When a woman doesn't respect you, infidelity is around the corner.
Disrespect is a clear sign that she lost or never had respect for you. In either case, once it's gone, it ain't coming back, if it was ever there, to begin with.
Facts
Most women will be more of a problem than a blessing. Never settle for beauty over character
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This is our down fall, beauty, the eye of the beholder.
It’s because we have wtxeneky poor standards for them.
also don’t let 🐱 manipulate u
I wonder if that's what your mom thought as she squirted you out.
Mistake #1...Not being the Man of the relationship. You must lead!
Heavy on the “she’s been imprinted by other men” 😪. They all comparing you to the so called toxic ex they “hate”
@@3-dreticle826 Soul ties
@@3-dreticle826 me too
Facts.
And I would add;
A relationship is supposed to be just like a friendship but to a higher degree. It's not about making her feel like a queen or making him feel like a king. It's all about Building a bound of trust and kinship.
(Example; if y'all can have a good time or great moment without sex and money on the table ---- then it is a true relationship.)
A dominant man cannot be friends with his woman. He can and must be friendly, but not truly friends.
Facing challenges in relationships is part of the journey, but there’s always a way forward. My marriage encountered significant issues, but with the right help, my wife and I managed to overcome them and strengthen our relationship. Solutions are attainable if you’re willing to put in the work and collaborate. Keep your hope-solutions are out there.
I’m facing major problems in my relationship and can't imagine losing her. I love and miss her greatly and am prepared to do whatever is necessary to have her return. I’d be deeply grateful for any advice or guidance you can offer.
Moving away from someone you hold close is invariably tough, but in my particular situation, I was supported by a spiritual counselor who prevented the unraveling of my marriage. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
I appreciate this guidance. I'll quickly search for her online. Thank you. I'm optimistic that this approach will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her dearly
You should
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Wow. Great video and insight. Thank you Darwynn
Glad you enjoyed it🍻🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
The imprint things is true. I’ve had relationship where I feel like I’m competing with a ghost from her past
The moment you accept to be with a woman who most of the times will want you to bend to her wishes instead of her bending her desires to fit into your lead, especially when your lead is for the best good of the both of you, you have become Ahab and she has become Jezebel to your life. You are doomed sir. Utterly doomed. That relationship is headed towards dark places and will be full of damaging problems.
I watch videos for both men and women so that I as a women can better understand the relationship. This is the best video I have watch which is for men. I think these are very smart things to watch for. Any women not fitting within these things, is not relationship worthy. Run from any one else. If a man is worthy of these things from a women and wants the give and take of these things, he too is a quality man.
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Respect is central to me in any relationship. Thats my day one. 👏
I am 62 now ...I can say you are right on the money! All those things and events I experienced and can relate to but never gave too much thought. If I knew all those things as a young man growing up I would much better position in life.
According the video is literally inpossible to find a woman bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
@@marguskiis7711 LoL....Marry them young and inexperienced with a good background is my suggestion. However, that is probably one in a million.
@marguskiis7711 , Never get the State involved in your Relationship. That's how you leverage a Good Productive Relationship 👏🏿 👌🏿
Leverage the Relationship by Never allowing the State to be involved.
That's how you keep a Productive Relationship & your Assets. Salute 🫡
Be cafeful with narcissistic women. They are great pretenders.
Bro. Darwynn you have become my Social Media Uncle! Thank you Uncle Mac for this highly informative and enlightening podcast! I'm age 73 and I experienced ALL TEN of these MISTAKES! AMEN-ASE!
It’s an honor to be family my brother!!!! Let’s grow!
On point is so many levels. Listen up guys.
Wow I can relate to the topic! I recently encountered a situation where most of the 10 things mentioned I observed in this particular lady. For reference, I am 73 and she was 67. Both of us have kept ourselves in good physical shap. We met at the gym. Now, she was attravtive for a "67 YO" female. But the problems was she felt as if she still had the attributes she had when she was in her 30s 40s even 50s!! Example I talk to her twice and went on one date that was all it took. She insisted a man has to take her out to a Fine Dining experience one a month. During other times, a regular one would suffice. Oh, and because of her eating schedule She insisted it had to be before 6pm dinner lunch no later than 12:30 constantly talked about her ex husband who she had been divorced 26 years ago!! Not only that she married him twice!!
She talked nonstop about herself, as if she was the only one in the conversation. She lefted me a 3 minute voice message to confirm our dinner date
You get picture.
And this is a 67 YO female.
Good luck you young guys looking for wife material😮
She really thought she was the PRIZE.
Thanks for sharing.
Every one of these is bang on. Women are NOT the prize. A good woman is the prize. These women are confused of their role and these men are weak. What does she add to your life. If she doesn’t bring peace and sex and intimacy when you want it, it’s a no go. Men don’t get to neglect their duty to her so don’t let her neglect her duty to you. There are worse things than being single.
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I subscribed without a single doubt... straight to the point, insightful.
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Eloquently stated. Thank you
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One of best videos on self care/self love. Simple and too the point. Definitely a good changer. Thanks for sharing bro.
No doubt! Happy to help!!!🫱🏾🫲🏽
If a man you don’t accept your wife to have male friends. The same for men also with women friends. One thing I believe as a man you are the leader you have to be an example for your family you can’t ask things that your are not ready to do
Excellent video! Keep up the great work!
Thanks, will do!
This deserves a million followers lads🎉🎉🎉🎉
Absolutely
Subscribed. Darwynn, right out of the gate you had me. I’ve practiced all ten mistakes you’ve laid out. I’ve made, all ten mistakes. Your delivery, the content, spot on. Great stuff. I’ll also add, that the things you’ve highlighted aren’t necessarily “natural” for men. Any of us. These are lessons we can learn the hard way and most do and? It’s amazing how quickly we’ll forget them with the new girl. Or, explain it away with a “she’s not like that”. Good stuff. Great video. Thank you.
Thanks for your wonderful comment.
Glad to have resonated with you Jack.
You are correct.
Men have to learn by trial and error.
Sometimes that way have results that have a permanent impact.
Which is why I have inserted myself into this space to work as a cheat code giver.
Spot on sir. Spot on. Keep it up. You are doing exactly what you should be doing and kudos for sharing what you’ve learned.
No problem 💯🫱🏾🫲🏽
Your girl having female friends sometimes is worse or just as bad as a male friend
I love when I see a woman helping out at the self care wash; if you find that one, don’t let her go. If she’s willing to get her hands dirty alongside you, there’s no ceiling as to where you two can go in life.
SOLID!!!! EXCELLENT EDUCATIONAL INFORMATION!!!
Glad it was helpful!
This content was PURE GOLD!!!!!!!!!!!!
You can’t compromise to everything. You have to compromise to what is ok with God
This is actually my first time of stumbling across your channel.And trust me, when i say your content resonates deeply.
More power to your elbow ,man-quite a pukkas job,you are putting up here!
Welcome Aboard!!! I am happy we connected! If you need anything shoot me an email! Also I send out weekly tips through email if you want to get exclusive advice here and there. The links for more content are located in my RUclips profile and in some of the video descriptions. Again ChristianDon glad to have you!!!
Damn this is good. I’ve heard a lot of relationship advice, but brother Darwynn you make it make sense. I’m subscribing and locking in Now. Keep bringing the content. How can I support you?
Sign up to my email list. Link is in the description sir!
I send out weekly gems and tips on relationships. It may seem like I’m serving you but if any of my brothers can make it easy for me to keep them aware that is supporting me and my cause
Shout out to the poster. This is very fundamental and deep information for men of any age.
No doubt!
so just be authentic in every situation to your self with your partner. i realized i do the" right thing" when im just simply doing what i feel is better for me, youll end up finding youll end up right beside your other half.
Well said sir , most of the mistakes you said here I have done in my last relationship, I tried to make sure it worked but at the end it didn't so when you talked is as if you were talking to me ...😢😢😢
We've all made mistakes. Together we will overcome and do better in the future.
Love this dude. New subscriber.
Welcome aboard!
Very solid advice, thank you very much for your help!!
Very welcome!
Great video!
Glad you enjoyed it
Mistake #2 Reminds me of that lady on social media posting a 3 inch tape measure stating "if you're this, you better watch your tone when you're talking to me." 😆
@@fourtywater77 muthafuqin’ tone..”
@@fourtywater77 yeah she's a real classy one
2 mins in already subscribed. Respect brother
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Great video, Ive lived enough life to know the truth when I hear it
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Dont bend to a woman’s lifestyle if its beyond your current means. This is so important in this current age when women keep screaming “I want a provider”👌🏾
As an older man, you’re 💯 on point! Subscribing.
Welcome OG! Thanks for joining sir! 🫱🏾🫲🏽
Thank you Darwynn for your advices.
You’re welcome, thank you for listening! 🫱🏾🫲🏽
She disrespectful she doesn't LOVE you.She just with you not to be lonely .💯💯💯
Why a good woman could never find a good man? Like wise men,some women and some men make relationships so hard for we the good ones out here,excellent advice 💯👍🙏🙏🙏❤️
Excellent video with accurate information. 👍🏻👍🏻
Glad it was helpful!
If you truly have the ability to close down and walk away, you are in the drivers seat.
#11 - Thinking she’s all yours, but in reality, it’s just your turn.
@@sixfootse7en248 skepta - bullet of a gun
Preach 🙏🏾
Truth. Set em free
Well delivered no drama especially with a mature tone. Important general information/guidelines, red flags to watch out for and take very seriously.
Thanks!!! 🫱🏾🫲🏽
RIGHT. ON. POINT.🤨 You’re not like a lot of these weak kneed influencers that want you to bow to the sista hood! I wish I had this kind of info growing up but now that I’m way north of 60, I’ll keep your info top of mind! 🎯💯
Appreciate OG! 🫱🏾🫲🏽💯💯💯
Mission impossible...no wonder I prefer being alone.
Man, you said it! Oh my goodness. I have learned something!
Great video
Thanks for the visit
@darwynnmcpherson it was very good, spot on. This is a topic lm into really deep. We need seminars for High School boys & teach them the truth about what's really going on IF they even have a chance at keeping a good woman. I'm lucky l have one yr 30 I'm 64 on #2 after 13yrs in it. So I know all too well, l married my 1st gf. Got too comfortable she found Chad.
I think it’s time I look into speaking at schools. To the young men and women.
Respect > love
Great information. Thank you, sir.
Great advice. Thank you.
You are so welcome!
A note about respect. Respect in an LTR must be earned and maintained by leading properly as a man, retaining frame and being consistent in shaping behaviors for you both. It is disrespect that must not be tolerated, you must say this in a conversation early on, and you must consistently call her out whenever she behaves inappropriately for the health of your relationship. ❤
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Good advice bro 🤜🤛💯🤔
This was very accurate. Thank you for this video.
You are so welcome
Great information guess I will be alone or just stuck up
Damn this video is sooo on point
It helped me to understand my last break up.
Thank you
You’re welcome David!!! 🫱🏾🫲🏽
I agree Darwywn. Team work trying to help. Yes but women will not like a man who is has been through many many women is not one I want. Compromise is absolutely necessary. A man doesn’t necessarily have to lead but agreement and compromise
Your a blessing.
Instead of listening i was watching a movie over my wife amd i. Thank you.
Appreciate the blessing!!! And your welcome, glad you enjoyed ♥️
The respect is the key force always must have respect for you no doubt!! 👍🏾
I sign off on all these 10. Fellas if you want better then you have to prepare yourself for that. The best you can be. For you. All 10 here are great points. Good deal D.
Thanks Moe!
According the video is literally inpossible to find a woman bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
@@marguskiis7711 I know it sounds like that. The point that D is making is you have to know yourself first and then, only then is when you'll be able to search her out. She'll stand out for you. Know what you want as a man. But much more important know what Margus needs next to him. Then you'll easily be able to weed out the posers and pretenders. Hopefully this will help you to understand more. Listen D is next level the way he break things down. Not everyone will get what he says, let alone understand. You have to already be made the same way. That's why I know he's next level. You'll be ok. Don't put such a strain on finding her. Stay working on you.
@moejohnson8459 women have so many options that they do not have need to follow any man
@@moejohnson8459@moejohnson8459 women have so many options that they do not have need to follow any man
Salute King...keep spitting 💎 💎 💎
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This is good unless she’s just a TOXIC mess!! She won’t listen, communicate or respect anything you say, nomatter how hard you try.
Time to WALK!
The first one hit me in the gut and sent me into tomorrow. I'm in the process of dumping someone for this exact problem, and my friends are trying to convince me to give her a chance
What does the Lord say? Pray to hear His voice.
@@danilaroche1156 1 Peter 3:7 says " Dwell with them according to knowledge". No communication, no knowledge, no unity, no oneness
In the process?
@@professionalpookie I like to make things clear if I can. If not, then oh well
My brother, you speak major facts. Much respect and keep up the enlightenment!
Thanks brother and will do 🫱🏾🫲🏿
“Women get into a relationship hoping a man will change, and he never does; men get into a relationship hoping the woman doesn’t change, but she always does. Both parties are always wrong”…………🤷🏽♂️
Get ready for your wife to change, they all do at some point and this is all you need to know fellas!!
Great video sir very well balanced.
Thank you kindly!
According the video is literally inpossible to find a woman bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
Great advise mahn ,and i also like the way dressed ,classy bro!
Thank you and appreciate the compliment!
According the video is literally inpossible to find a woman bc such a perfect woman in one in 10 000 probably. Lol.
So it is possible to find 1
@@darwynnmcpherson checking thousands of women? Really?
@@marguskiis7711 Over a course of 'X' amount of years... Do able!
I agree with every point EXCEPT number 9. Cause kain't nare Woman "Turn Off" Her hypergamous nature......its IMPOSSIBLE!! The primary way to offset a woman's hypergamy is to:
1) Always be developing into a BETTER VERSION OF YOURSELF daily!!
2) Make sure She has a MORE VESTED INTEREST in You than You do in Her!!
3) Let it be known in subtle and obvious ways that You as Man have OPTIONS with other Women!!
...........but at-the-end-of-the-day its all about a Man securing THE HIGHEST STATUS that He possibly can amongst other Men Whom He will be compared to.
It's simple ...be with a woman who is nice to you .... If she is difficult etc .... Keep searching others ....
Start the day 1.God/readingBible then 2. My guy Darwynn McPherson 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
"why can't you complete me" - this rings a bell
If you want to know how a woman would act or turn out in a few years just look at her Mom
Good one.
The algorithm took long enough to funnel your channel my way. A lot of other content just compounds confusion, and makes the way ahead seem impossible to navigate. ie what is the use in trying? I instantly noted your timer, and thought, "just another gimmick". But, heck, you hit that exact time seamlessly X10. True class, no fluke. One comment and replies touched on Love vs Respect. I think the dictionary meaning of the word Ambivalence covers this off. In Psycho Analysis, it translates as "The simultaneous operation in the mind of two irreconcilable wishes or qualities" So, as guys need to activate ambivalence in their dealings with woman, even though they may not necessarily understand how it works, Love and Respect need to be treated the same way. Subbed. Look forward to reading more of your Gospel
So humbled and grateful for this comment, I’m glad you found the channel and I like your perspective Steve! Sounds like I can get value from your comment, I’ll most definitely add this concept into my content. This simultaneous way of expressing love and respect can be a game changer.
GOOD BREAKDOWN BRO💪🏾🤝🏾😎💯
I appreciate it!
I wanna correct something, I have previously said We are in this mess because of Abraham, I meant to say Adam, because he listened to Eve, then the whole world was under a curse.
If she have to many guys daily leave her alone
Find another girl that's not gonna do that
You right 💯%
Mistake 5 is my mantra. I tell any and all women that they aren’t allowed to speak to ANY male friends gay or straight. Only male anythings are family and myself.
Good info
Glad it was helpful!💯🫱🏾🫲🏽
Very good stuff here now..serious stuff..
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Am never trying to impress nobody, am CLASS shaped and fixed by God.Men want women to be all good for them when some of them are No good. Women must do this an that to be measured by a man ?
If a man doesn't love God, they CANNOT love a SOUL.Noone can they love and they DONT live God, thats the real issue.
This list is spot on!!! Give this Man a T.V. Show!!!
Please do!!! 🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
Yup my x girlfriend
….will do anything for me, loves me without a doubt. Respect? Never existed.
Solid list sir grateful for the lessons
Glad it was helpful!
@@darwynnmcpherson The point about hypergamy still being active even when you commit to her was a profound realization, which makes sense that a relationship is also power and control games because she'd want to stay on the lookout for something better but you better shut your polygamous nature down and have eyes for her only.
Exactly. This is a double standard rarely anyone addresses.
A question was mentioned at the end of this video "Can a man forgive a woman who cheated on him?"
I think the best answer is yes he can, but he should not.
And the reason why he shouldn't is because (unless he was at fault of her cheating) it is SUPPOSED to take a whole lot for a female to open up to a man she doesn't know, or Not supposed to know.
So if she had to put a LOT of effort into dealing with a man she claims she loves, she's been knowing for a long time.
But she can Easily put much less effort into dealing with a guy she barely knows, don't love, probably don't really like, Then There Is Nothing Special, Nothing Intimate, and Nothing Valuable she really has to offer.
@@DanielWatson-vv7cd Exactly! Because her actions defeat the purpose of her having a special someone if she can just do that. Her judgement doesn't mean much in the first place. A goat will eat anything. So, filet mignon to it is the same as eating a fuckin skateboard.
Once a cheater always a cheater.
just move on gang
Thank you well said.
Thanks for watching!🫱🏾🫲🏽💯🍻
Mistake # 9 essentially mean, a woman can never be satisfied........
To many men make mistake 5 lol, I been the friend allot of times while having enough choice. I knew these girls called me a friend cuz they thought I was attractive.
I've done all of thise 10 things TWICE in my lifetime. I'm now 52 , single and stated from ZERO at 48 yrs old. Back on my feet but oh boy whatca ride....just listen carefully to men that are older and have made those mistakes. My issue was leading with my wallet....guess what happened? Taken to the cleaners and it's all on me. Have I learned? F$% YEAH! the hard way but I learned, it's never too late boys
Amen Brother!
The 2nd one really got me thinking
One of the Biggest mistakes. She stuck in her ways. Nothing you do will be new to her