Darwynn, I'm about to pay you what I consider the highest compliment possible. Just a few years ago we lost a treasure of a man in Kevin Samuels, the Godfather, when he tragically and suddenly passed away in May of 2022 at the young age of just 53 years old, and yet his You Tube channel still have nearly 2 million followers. I believed we would never see his like again, that is until I stumbled into this video and you. The way you rate people from the dating show is over the top brilliant and refreshingly clear and honest. I particularly like how you pause their comments to break down what they say and comment on what they do right and what they do wrong. The point system is flat out brilliant. As you evaluate them we who are paying attention will at times see ourselves and begin our own calibration process. That is of incalculable value. Kevin was an image consultant to high value men but his You Tube and Instagram channels were recordings of his live streams where women called in and discussed their desire to find a high value man, (hypergamy on full display), and Kevin tried his best to get their delusional eyes opened and was brutally honest with them, giving them a dose of reality and frankly that is exactly what they need. A study was done on men and women on dating apps like Tinder. It was not a questionnaire where women could lie and say what they thought were the right and expected answers. The study, instead, followed what they did and found all 50 women picked the same 4 guys and 46 of the women ignored the other 46 entirely, leaving 92% of the men stuck with the bottom 4 women, while 92% of the women going after the same 4 men. Women, who realistically rate as a 4, 5 or 6, regularly rate themselves as an 8, 9 or 10 and think they deserve that top 8% man. This state of delusion has made women and men's relationships almost impossible to form anything meaningful. This video highlights that problem perfectly. Let's be brutally honest. That man IS a high value man. She is NOT a high value woman. From a purely visual perspective she is flabby, too fat and what is euphemistically called "curvy". Her breasts are oversized, droopy, her rump and thighs too big and while her makeup caked face rates a 6.5 (meaning she is attractive as are nearly all younger women when caked with makeup), her ugly tattoos eating up her entire left arm, dressing like a 304 thereby revealing just how overweight, flabby and out of shape she is, plus the nose piercing, all scream low value woman. Then she opens her mouth and confirms it. She is fatally delusional in how she puts herself on a pedestal. Rating her as a -87 was spot on! Thing is, SHE needs to hear it and see herself as she truly is or she will never change. Some poor schmuck, who she thinks is below her delusional self appraisal, is going to get stuck with that steaming pile of toxicity who will never let up putting him down. Back to you. I tip my hat to you, Darwynn. I think you are a worthy successor to the Godfather and even exceed him because you don't just point out the problems but you give advice on how to correct them, sound and eye-opening advice. I'd like to see your channel(s) grow because what you offer is unique and critically important to men and women's relations. At some point maybe consider a live stream with women in an attempt to open their eyes to reality like Kevin did. Our society is in deep trouble with women brainwashed into thinking they are the prize, overrating themselves with delusional aspirations. 92% of women are not going to get the top 8% of men. Pile on top the Me Too movement where a man takes his entire life in his hands just to approach a woman merely to talk to her and she looks at him like he's a creep, may even get him in trouble with the law for his approach being SA as she sees it, and is it any wonder why recent studies found 63% (nearly 2 in 3) of young men from 18 to 29 have chosen to not even seek a girlfriend and are walking away from women altogether. That is a disaster! It HAS to change and it MUST start with waking women up to reality. There can be no sugar coating it. It is going to take men like you to chip away at it.
I appreciate your kind words! 🔥💯 It’s humbling to be compared to a legend like Kevin Samuels! I agree, many women need to recalibrate their expectations, and I believe my content can help bridge that gap! 🤝🏽 You are absolutely right and this comments confirms that my content is more important that what I thought. This comment and compliment is so powerful I am going to pin it. As far as live streams I’m currently in conversations with my mentor and Kevin Samuels friend @thestyleog and once we figure out a strategy I’ll most definitely strike it up. As of now I do not know where to start. But I am working and researching for an effective way. If anyone reads this thread please like the comments and also let me know if you can help me… We can build something powerful here and this gentleman’s comment just kicked off the first domino!!!
😂. I nearly choked laughing at this brutal comment. However uncomfortable it was to read the truth. I’m a woman who values herself. She lost my attention as soon as the camera zoomed in on her. The moment she spoke, it was a wrap. It’s rather surprising he was matched with her. How? 😢. Hope he met “The proverbs 31 woman”
I find you overly critical of the females appearance. I do find she should dress in less revealing clothes. She is attractive, many men like her size. She is not serious about the relationship, and should have returned text immediately. People need to speak to each other rather than text, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
@@iscapetv5508 You better know it!!! Beauty only goes so far when you have a bad attitude and a loud and sassy mouth. So, choose your beauty queen wisely, guys. 🤔🤣🤣🤣
Lies. Men are visual. That will never change. Sure he may date/marry an average woman that has a nice soul 😂 but believe me he is still looking at the 304. Men are 100% visual. That’s why women should not let themselves go. Nice girls get walked on.
She is simped on each and every day of her adult life. Women who are pretty, have no father figure, and have men shower them with attention end up with attitudes like hers until the attention stops (wall). Honestly, if I had 3 women itching to get in a relationship with me at the same time I would act a little entitled too. She has pretty privilege but it won't get her a ring. Just lots of dick.
I see quite a few men who don't need to be on that show but at this point I'm assuming they are really doing a public service by showing us along with the Content Creator's whose assessments of these videos on how crazy these women are....we need men like that Brother & this Brother who's commentary & assessment together put other men on game & hopefully they Man Up & stop Simping with these type of women. I say good work & I appreciate the service of both Brothers...its needed!!!
I agree she doesn't see that he isnt the same low class men that she was always chasing. He is him. Im glad he was stoic cuz women like this will ruin his reputation and image if he were to get emotional an take a womans manipulative bait. Women think they can combat men as if we are other women. We men dont move the same as them an never should so to emasculate him an talk down to him while he is being very patient an reasonable makes her look like a bad deal for any future man to ever take seriously. She screwed up
I’m a white woman living in Australia and i know why black men are over black women. It’s not rocket science. Many black women are rough around the edges with clapping hands, long nails, wigs, fake eyelashes and stinky gangsta attitude. Actually, I’m meeting one of your black men in Southeast Asia in March LOL you’re not getting him back ladies LOL. You reap what you sow.
@LadyStephanieArtist as a villian, l admit, l do it on purpose. And I'm an ugly man who could care less about attention. An Instagram hottie? Her phone lives in her hand. She had 2 missions. Get mashed potatoes for free, get smashed later by Tyrone. And the free food logistics were taken for granted
High value guys are always picky, because they can. It’s just everything including the kitchen sink that she’s throwing in an effort to score a hit. Really terrible conflict handling.
I am old, married 32 years, and I am no expert on modern dating. I can't fathom why anyone would want to date or have any interaction with someone who is disrespectful, obnoxious, rude, and aggressive toward them. These behaviors counter any physical beauty, skill, or talents a woman may possess.
@@popo9314 You nailed it. The social media age along with poor parenting has unfortunately produced these ill-mannered, disrespectful, ungrateful, narcissistic women who apparently make up the majority of women today.
@Ray Put one’s faith in an invisible super hero who allows millions of innocents to be horribly unalived around the world and throughout history due to wars, slavery, disease, tsunamis, earthquakes, serial killers and other assorted sociopaths and psychopaths? No thanks!
She's typical of hot women. They are used to relying only on their form while concealing their substance. Form fades with time, but substance is timeless.
A perfect example of a woman who says what she wants, but not really wanting what she says. They DON'T really want good Men. She knew she didn't want this Man from the very beginning, but saw a disrespectful opportunity. She wanted him to chase, and he wasn't bitin'. Good for him.
I agree 100%. When a woman truly desires a Man, she will make sure that she is available to that Man. Whether it's responding to text, phone calls, or showing up to dates on time. This chick was running Game and it didn't work on this Brotha. And she tried to Shame him for Not accommodating her nonsense. A Man should never tolerate any Disrespect or Manipulation from a woman..
@@dab0rgna1mn17 It’s not that they don’t want a good man; it’s that they’re not able to keep or get a good man. They not deserving of one. All they gonna do is try to manipulate and control. Hopefully dudes ain’t out here gettin got; but unfortunately that’s the game. 🤷🏾♂️
Great analysis. One thing everybody missed, though, is that she wanted to hold him accountable for not viewing her text 5 minutes before the date, but she completely dodged accountability for the 24 hours she ignored his text. The double standard is that it's good for the goose to be flaky, but not for the gander to be done with her "silliness".
When a culture of ugliness and unpleasantness flows from the inside, it spills over to the outside, and no amount of makeup, fake hair, fake eyelashes, and fingernails can change that. The beauty and pleasantness of a woman MUST start from the inside, and it will certainly flow to the outside. That's what makes a woman wife worthy for any group of men. UNDERSTAND THE MESSAGE!
You are 100% correct but unfortunately women like her just don't know how to be nice or civil to others in general, they only seem to know how you be rude, disrespectful and enjoy pissing people off.
She knows better. The military trains you that "on time" is LATE. She wasn't even on time. You can bet she shows up for classes early, though. Our women.
When she didn't respond to his Saturday text and confirmation of the date. My first thought was that she is exmilitary when communicating it is imperative that solid communication is key. Life or death can be the result. Was she DEI in her service? She should know better.
@shaunnevins1337 You're absolutely right. When you see the fake-up face, weaves, fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake fingernails, and tattoos, all equals to a fake woman!
He held her accountable and she did not like that. I think she knows deep down that she fumbled a good one. He was not distracted by her beauty, good on him. He dodged a bullet!!!
-Excellent point. This seems to be a central trait of many modern women. I’m glad I dated back in the day when dinosaurs roamed the earth and women knew and respected men and were a blast(or at least pleasant) to go out with.
She thought her attractiveness would allow her to get away with poor communication and dude didn't let it slide. She got a darn nerve thinking buddy would show up for the date even though she responded to his message the NEXY day?!? Entitlement is real. She only mad because his stood his ground and didn't simp over her by still showing up. Her attractiveness didn't give her a pass and bet that's what she's used to. Good, she for the streets. Trying to throw shade and disrespect this man on the show is foolish, especially because she still showed up thinking this man would go out and spend his money on her ...NO, he stood 10 toes down.
@blackestknight1.0 Definitely, he did the right thing and that was a slap in the face to her. She's used to these duck bending over backwards just to spend time with. Even though she looks good, women like her are VERY annoying and dudes now a days are waking up to their foolishness. I'm glad he ignored her messages. The streets will eventually humble her.
@@leekydun Yep and alowing this behaviour and disrespect. If you don't return a text/call within 24 hours don't expect anything but the same treatment from the same people you do it too. gtfoh
Darwynn, you are on to something!! Your assessments are spot on. I'm 51, married my HS Sweetheart x 20yrs, w/ 2kids. I held my wife to those standards since day 1. She passed the test obviously, and we are still happily married. Strong Men are way more objective in their approach to women because we know what we want!! Be strong men. Keep up these evaluations--they are excellent!!
You approached this subject expertly! I am a married woman of over 40 years, and she has so much going for her if she can recalibrate! I try to teach young women that your character must outweigh your beauty! You can be beautiful at any age if your character matches it!
Honestly, I respect the thoughtfulness and detail you put into this video. People bark about us being "undesirable" and they usually show the absolute worst examples. But this was...different. It exemplified the male frustration with black women in a realistic way. Both of these people are normal, non-hood folks, and you highlighted the behaviors reflecting a lack of basic courtesy on the part of the woman. This is my first time on your channel, so I have no idea what your other content reflects, but in this case, good job.
Hey sis thanks for tapping in welcome aboard. I see you doing your thing to. I’m open to collabs and ideas that lead to improvement and refining so feel free to critique me sis. Imma check on your channel as well
Agreed.. The root problem was that she failed to Confirm their date. But to avoid accountability, she flipped it and made it seem as if she didn't Like how the Brotha was talking to her in prior communication. This is female manipulation..
Amen Bruh - Yeah, she was easy on the eyes, but her attitude and disposition was a major turn-off for me. Beauty fades, but your personality is Forever. Hard Pass for Me.
The whole entire time frfr unbearable to be around a chick like this! U can tell her favorite shows is love & hip hop & basketball wives & I bet the most disrespectful chicks on those shows are her favorite! They didn't get along bc she's disrespectful asf.. so sad bc she definitely got a nice body worth smashing but nothing much to offer other than that except plenty headaches
Wow, so much patience this man has! He tried so hard to please someone who's not worth it. Then, she even dared to say, "I blocked him", "I gave him room to apologize". Wow.
Loll this is the western women, rude and disrespectful and that’s why they cannot become passport sis because western men can let some bad behavior slide but not men overseas
*Nothing is ever her fault. She's perfect, and he's "not a real man". She chose to **_leave the house_** at 5 minutes before the confirmed time, even though she said it takes 10-15 minutes to make the trip. She has muddy boundaries, but only for others, not for her, while he has clear boundaries that at applicable to all.* *This woman is toxic. He dodged a huge bullet, and she's shown the world that she is a 4 year old in an adult body.*
She's used to men simping for her, being late, doing what the hell she wants, because she knows she's good looking and men will chase, this guy is next level, above her level and she couldn't cope with being rejected for her lateness. Couldn't even say sorr, or be sorry for being late, then tried to project onto him because he didn't respond to her late message...and btw, funny how she didn't have the guts or the contrition speak to him directly and say 'sorry, I'm running late', because she knew she was out of order. Looks will only get you so far, she just proved!
Once the disrespect started; I would’ve walked out in silence without a second thought. Ending the interview. Then again I wouldn’t have given this woman the time of day. Fake hair, make up, & fake lashes are red flags for me.
As a black woman I am grateful to you for breaking this down. I'm self aware enough to receive this and correct myself. Most of us were never taught to respect healthy masculine energy so I appreciate this content for that exact reason.
Thank you sister, this means a lot coming from a woman. Not many women will yield to this understanding because it doesn’t pander. Blessing are coming your way sis.
No prob, however I want to add that he was in fact wrong for trying to humble her in the end. I would say that displays a bit of immaturity by stooping to her level vs maintaining his leading masculine stance. I believe you could have fairly graded him for that as well as he too should have been held accountable. He could have told her "Hey, I'm not interested anymore and our reservation is canceled". Curious as to what are your thoughts on that?
@@3ZN-q6q but if you're a mature man which I hope that you are. Why would want to stoop down to anyones low values of manipulative petty tactics when you can just be direct and set the bar high???
She is not into him and thus doesn’t respect him…Women go above and beyond when they are attracted to a man….her whole story about the text she thinks she sent is a lie.
Not really, she pretty enough to be given a clean slate, showing up for the recap did that. If communication is important to him, he should remember listening is part of the process, and it’s not worth a damn without forgiveness.
@@mikeconcino4022 No, but at least give her 3 strikes, if she proves she can't return texts, or is just dismissive in that way then cool. "Misunderstandings happen" give that some consideration
@@unite4peace88 throughout the whole conversation, it was clear that, a:sense of entitlement, b: clearly disrespectful, and c: she more than used up your ridiculous “three strikes”.
Please keep doing this type of breakdown. The younger generation of men need this info so they can understand the level of gaslighting they'll be up against.
I don't usually like this pop the ballon or gender war content. I kind of like how you're breaking down what they actually said and did rather than just go into berating someone. The scoreboard makes it easy to follow your points, and the points are based on the individual and not just made up rules in your head
My guess is she likely gets complimented wearing red because her undertone is very warm. Im more concerned with the laced up top all the way down to the belly button. As a woman, I would never have my breasts fully out with a man I don't even know
Many black American women think it’s a flex to discard valuable men like it’s nothing. They have the mentality of an unappreciative person faking wealth with material objects. They’re foolish enough to believe a good man is replaceable. Particularly the ones that think they are exceptionally attractive.
Black women allow their image to be tainted by other Black women who get paid to tell them the wrong things...like a married woman promoting single ladies...
Oh man, this is woman is a piece of work. She’s a poor communicator. It’s good to have boundaries. Oof, this man dodged the bullet. He’s a handsome and well rounded man.
I have to say as an old white gramps who dated and married in very different times and circumstances, I think the absolute most important aspect of the video you brilliantly reviewed and evaluated was the quality that that young man displayed, I'm sure his phone or TikTok was blowing up after that show and far better quality of women than that one are trying to get his attention after that show. He will obviously be just fine , and I doubt the same can be said about the young woman.
@@darwynnmcpherson _Really? Mac-eo is an almost 70-year-old BM who married poor WW for 20 years and chased WW single parents for 30 years and now has nothing but bad health! *All he did was bytch and whine about BW because he wanted to be cuddled and wanted BW to do all of the heavy lifting and BW said *Hell NO* The poor WW he married he said he didn't have to do anything to get ahead because she's a WW her status will elevate him? This happens when you come from a single-parent home raised by Mommie and no males present. YOu expect women to be your Mother and you don't know how to be men!_
I saw what I thought was a very wise quote attributed to Denzel Washington. I'm paraphrasing, but he basically says "Her looks may be what attract you, but it's her mentality that raises your children."
Man I have to give you ur flowers bro.... love the narrative concept.... others are doing it, but categorizing and explaining the good, bad, and ugly of both parties.... 5 star.... keep it going bro
Once a woman emasculates a man, it’s over. Phrases like ‘If you were a real man’ and ‘You’re older than me’ cross a line. I don’t understand why men go on this show. He doesn’t seem like he’s lacking attention from women, he’s HIM, No Diddy, his resume speaks for itself.
True. He's a successful entrepreneur. His dating pool is above her social circle. He was trolling being on that dating show. His confidence and self -esteem was low.🫤
As a Military man and a Military contractor, Military women are not very good choices if you are looking for a wife, these women ran through a lot of men so this is my opinion.
I second that .. most of the female soldiers was swapping D based on ranked … they brought city girls and sex in the city to the military. Y’all dudes got to understand the military has all the physical traits that make these modern women turned on . Men who work out , disposable income, tier system that differentiates the men from low to high, then bang .. it’s a fuck fest . Most of the women was moving from barracks to barracks and ranked sergeants to the next .. them sgt’s and officer’s had multiple young pretty women on rotation.. I don’t know her personally but a lot of women who look like her was also the ones taking women husbands away.
When she said, "there just don't like each other, there is no chemistry." When a woman says that.....doesn't matter what the man says or does from there on out.
In Alicia's case, she has heavy use and visibility on Social Media, which by that itself...requires HEAVY USAGE of her phone and all its attributes. To try to say "oh I forgot to hit send..." when she lives on her phone almost all the time making content is like saying, "Oh, I was riding my horse, but I forgot to put on the saddle...". What is more likely is that there was another man who she really wanted to spend time (or spending time) with that kept her busy and when her time came free (which she wasn't expecting) THEN she reached out at the last minute to this man (who she doesn't respect) to fill in her unexpected free time. What she didn't factor is that he has respect for himself, and he understood how she feels, and knew it was a waste of his time so he moved accordingly. And this shocked her so much she comes up with these lame excuses figuring other ppl would take her side. And she looks foolish in the process.
@@GregoryWilliams-jw2op yep, the other dude pipped her down...and was like cool, I am out. She then figured the other dude for a sucker and figured she'd get a free meal...not realizing he was up on her scam. Props to that man for knowing play and decided to treat her like she deserved. I wish I'd have this knowledge years ago...I could have saved myself a lot of money.
@@acoqueranat least you figured it out. I went to get a girl to go dancing. I was the activities buddy. She got ran through that same day by the "guy". I don't even bother with dates and movies anymore. Not even worth it
This female is out of her mind. She had a whole amazing man in front of her, but she’s a lil in her own world. She’s also too argumentative. Her looks have her acting ugly. His demeanor is so laid back and he deserves better. He showed her who he was, by sending her a car to get to the date, and she ended up driving, speaks volumes.
Passport for him to Salvador, Bahia, Brazil 🇧🇷 or he can fly from Phoenix to Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico 🇲🇽 or save some time and money and go to Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪
If someone is really interested in you, they would be excited to see you, they would go out their way to see you. She either didn't care, she wasn't thinking about him much, or it was a power move by her to see his boundary and show dominance. She probably is not used to a real alpha successful black man with options and standards.
how tf did he entertain her? he did just the opposite but was a lil to polite ....they were going bak n forth ...he made a reservation she didnt acknowledge but thought she had it like that to jus show and he'd be there simpin but my G was at home watchin football and left her on read...its prob in the contract they come back for a interview...you must be a female cuz comprehension iz not yallz strong suit
Bro... He needs to give enough slack because every woman needs to be built through her respect for you. They must come with an issue you offer solutions to... That's evidence for her to release the kids to your direction because she herself needs direction from you. Slacks are good but you need to be quick with pulling the plug
@@paakwesiprosale That would be evidence of bad upbringing or bad experience on the woman's part. A respectful woman exudes pleasantness from the door. Her weaknesses are a different story. Just as a man. If I'm to borrow you thinking, then a man should position himself to be capable of providing only when he has a woman. You see that it doesn't make sense.
That’s exactly how most women act nowadays. She’s the example, and those same women WILL BLAME YOU for not playing her games. The need to be right was strong in this one. Excellent break down on this video man.
She should be quite familiar with everything on the ceiling in that studio after this session. When a new acquaintance rolls her eyes at me consistently she’s gone.
The way you structured this video is INCREDIBLE !!!!! amazing job with analytics, the countdown timer for when you gave commentary and the overall scoring system. Even the set lighting is great
Damn! You are going to be as big as Kevin Samuels. Clever concept, clearly explained, very good set with just the right lighting to set off against your dulcet tones! 5stars. Subscribed.
Back in the day , if you were really attracted towards each other, meaning both people, had that vibe, all the thirstyness stops, we'd be talking on the phone for hours and days even before a coffee or movie date. You would know before the dinner date
Facts man. Like its sad that people (men) overthink everything now. When to send a text back. When to set up a date. How long the text messages are. If a text is to long you can come across thirsty. If its to short, then you not a big talker. So many other stuff.
This is an embarrassment to women, no accountability at all and very argumentative. This does not portray a woman with a disciplined background, she has a lot of growing to do. He is a respectful, composed gentleman at a much higher level in his life.
This video is on point bro and the point system is solid. I'm glad my brother maintained respect for himself and his time by holding her accountable. When women don't see your value you must show them. Salute to that brother!
She doesn't value him as a person and is trying to flip it on him. If he was a WM, she wouldn't have done all of this lame communication avoidance. And btw folks, most female veterans have been passed around a lot. Especially attractive ones. She was probably Air Force because I couldn't see her doing anything physically difficult. That means Brad has been all over that. Trust.
I found it weird that right off his first call was a little late in the evening. Him asking her to model for him in their first communication, without mentioning pay, was a bit creepy.
He was looking for a woman and a date and perhaps a mate and that necessarily involve sex he wasn't looking for someone to model his businesses he was obviously making a sexual innuendo and that may have been a little early in the relationship but it's still not crass or pornographic
Wow! I am a woman and this is so irritating! She was so disrespectful! And he was a gentleman! Kudos to him and may he find a woman that would appreciate him! She didn’t deserve him. She is not worth his time for sure!
Wow as a woman watching this I feel embarrassed for her. He took the initiative and planned a date and did the right thing to confirm the day before. She does seem flaky and entitled because she's pretty. She doesn't represent all women, but she does represent the type of woman that men will chase. Those of us with "good personalities" get passed over for this type of woman.
Men only chase such women for so long unless they are fools or simps. Her behavior makes her revolting to me and I am sure many other men. Women who are very pretty are a whole basket of problems, this one is a prime example. Give me the pleasant personality and non-streetwalker looks any day.
Is this a black thing? She’s not pretty, let alone beautiful. She’s very overweight, has tattoos everywhere extremely visible which means she can’t ever associate with professional people, or ever be brought into a professional environment as a man’s date, it also indicates she’s impulsive and makes very poor long term decisions, which almost always means bad financial management, and high levels of promiscuity. She obviously didn’t have a father growing up, she’s very angry at “men” in general, and she probably got that from her own mother badmouthing men and her biological father which is very common in the black community - while that’s not HER fault, she’s an adult, it’s on her to go to therapy, stop holding onto that anger, and become a normal functioning adult. This was a wild segment - she had a full on meltdown, insulted this man multiple times while he said nothing, lied, manipulated, gaslit him, just completely unhinged and toxic behavior. All from an overweight woman with tattoos everywhere that looks like an exotic dancer??? RUUUNNNNNN This guy saved his money, time, energy, and dodged a bullet.
That’s not true. The majority of women that are married are more like you. They just not all on social media so we don’t see them. The average, every day woman with a generally good disposition and personality is married way more often than the pretty, entitled girl. They complaining on social media about men because men don’t want them.
That girl is ludicrous. She doesn't deserve a good man with treatment like that. Raymond is worth a lot and it's good to see that he knows it. He also seems like a total sweetie pie and gentleman, being softspoken instead of cocky. He's going to find himself a woman who's actually worth his time. Good on him for crossing her off the list of possibilities right away. No reason to waste time on a girl like that.
young black guys get a girl pregnant (unmarried) and now they have a little black boy in kindergarten. The NINJA gets married to a non black woman . The BLACK single mom (his ex) . now has “baggage” a kid….she did “have a guy” she is single because of him.
Why are black women the least desired? As a married BW, I am going to be brutally honest based on my observations of our women, esp. these modern women. There are several reasons and most have to do with us (BW). As a culture, we are not demure, lack cooperativeness, have too much masculine energy and too many thrive in hood rachet behaviour. Our social class is riddled with too many single mother households which has a deleterious effect on so much: how we behave, our attitudes about marriage, our perpetuation of single motherhood, our income (always in struggle mode), etc. All that said, most men of all races have Eurocentric standards of beauty and thus, do not find dark skinned women attractive. So when you have BW competing against women who are deemed more physically attractive, who are more feminine and cooperative, you get many deemed not desirable.
I agree with you, but in this particular situation, I think this woman would be considered conventionally attractive by most. Her attitude and games made her unattractive
@@Nattaferg. Agree with everything other than the desirability part. Yes eurocentric is the standard but it is a programmed standard!...For a black person generally, you've be demonized and negatively marketed for centuries to warrant exploitation and this has altered people's perception subconsciously. Winning at face value or on first impression is hard. It takes time to deprogram and I can guarantee you in a deprogrammed mind/eyes, the beauty standards shifts dramatically. That's why behavior and demeanor is important so as not to compound the stereotypes about black people or women. If you rock natural esthetically and exhibit feminine energy, you just need to lay low around people to allow the programming to wean off. The phases once you go black you never go back and black is beautiful becomes apparent then. White privilege or closeness to it is automatic but black privilege needs to be activated.
And to add to your statement, there are many black men who have been through the ringer so much that they suffer from post traumatic stress syndrome from interaction with black woman..they just can’t take it anymore..so they say I am out..go outside there race or just be alone which to them is a lot more feasible and viable to there mental and physical health. Sad state of affairs p, May God help us…white s done a number on our people to the point where we self destruct before we have a chance to start a family with a God given soulmate…those Devi, is a lier and a cheater.
I’m a woman but I can’t speak for all women….from what I have seen over the years is black girls are taught to be strong, independent women which is a good thing to a limit. 11:05 So many are brought up without a father in the house. These young women are called Queens from when they are little…..No you’re not a queen…. You’re a female who is being told that you don’t have to bend your will to be PART of a couple….It’s ok to be independent but please learn to be considerate of a man…❤❤
So I'm really starting to understand the shaming tactics of women a lot better. It's not just the "lack of accountability", it's how they blend the gaslighting within the stories they tell about themselves and how people are "misunderstanding their intentions." It's usually a glossed over outline of the events that took place (a hurried explanation), with far too many details about specifics that fail to acknowledge where the issue began, and then why THEY feel slighted in the exchange and have the "right" to feel how they feel about it. (False moral high ground) It's an extremely strange alchemy to watch take place. 😐 It's not to exonerate themselves. In the end, this is all an attempt to make the man feel guilty about himself. To doubt himself. To feel bad about himself; over HER failure (that could've been remedied by her.) in just that one moment.
Once you notice this about women, it's truly difficult to listen to the OTHER life stories they tell about themselves. You always get the feeling that they're leaving out parts of the story that make them look bad.
Dude is 6’3 A Leader Successful career Inspirational to others In Shape Tattoos BEARD And he’s still being played, single AND CALLED TOO SHORT!?????? *WE ARE COOKED!!!!*
Dudes have no other alternative than to build and make ourselves extraordinary for whatever we strive for - women want to be beside or behind such a man - they’re cooked. The issue is simple - she wants similar power from a slew of men she’s encountered how many times and she also lacks the focus and understanding of the power he has. Maybe he said something she didn’t like and to her it added to how she thought she felt from initially meeting him. It then became a waste of time for him because she was forever going to be difficult since her “feelings” weren’t to his favor from the beginning 🤝🏾
She was looking for *anything* to make the guy look bad. She's 10X more picky about time than he is. She just assumes men will revolve around her and just fall in line. This was a full display of entitlement and no accountability.
Listen…. She was “BUSY”🤦🏾♂️ on Saturday all day (while checking all other social media and other text messages) and couldn’t touch the phone. Simple! Glad dude stood on business. And respected his time. He’s an entrepreneur with multiple businesses therefore, he WILL value time with an above average respect for it. This woman is a walking red flag like her outfit 💃🏾
I think because he initially asked about the modeling thing, it rubbed her the wrong way and she decided to not take him seriously leading to her lazy responses. What a brat!!
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Darwynn, I'm about to pay you what I consider the highest compliment possible. Just a few years ago we lost a treasure of a man in Kevin Samuels, the Godfather, when he tragically and suddenly passed away in May of 2022 at the young age of just 53 years old, and yet his You Tube channel still have nearly 2 million followers. I believed we would never see his like again, that is until I stumbled into this video and you. The way you rate people from the dating show is over the top brilliant and refreshingly clear and honest. I particularly like how you pause their comments to break down what they say and comment on what they do right and what they do wrong. The point system is flat out brilliant. As you evaluate them we who are paying attention will at times see ourselves and begin our own calibration process. That is of incalculable value. Kevin was an image consultant to high value men but his You Tube and Instagram channels were recordings of his live streams where women called in and discussed their desire to find a high value man, (hypergamy on full display), and Kevin tried his best to get their delusional eyes opened and was brutally honest with them, giving them a dose of reality and frankly that is exactly what they need. A study was done on men and women on dating apps like Tinder. It was not a questionnaire where women could lie and say what they thought were the right and expected answers. The study, instead, followed what they did and found all 50 women picked the same 4 guys and 46 of the women ignored the other 46 entirely, leaving 92% of the men stuck with the bottom 4 women, while 92% of the women going after the same 4 men. Women, who realistically rate as a 4, 5 or 6, regularly rate themselves as an 8, 9 or 10 and think they deserve that top 8% man. This state of delusion has made women and men's relationships almost impossible to form anything meaningful. This video highlights that problem perfectly.
Let's be brutally honest. That man IS a high value man. She is NOT a high value woman. From a purely visual perspective she is flabby, too fat and what is euphemistically called "curvy". Her breasts are oversized, droopy, her rump and thighs too big and while her makeup caked face rates a 6.5 (meaning she is attractive as are nearly all younger women when caked with makeup), her ugly tattoos eating up her entire left arm, dressing like a 304 thereby revealing just how overweight, flabby and out of shape she is, plus the nose piercing, all scream low value woman. Then she opens her mouth and confirms it. She is fatally delusional in how she puts herself on a pedestal. Rating her as a -87 was spot on! Thing is, SHE needs to hear it and see herself as she truly is or she will never change. Some poor schmuck, who she thinks is below her delusional self appraisal, is going to get stuck with that steaming pile of toxicity who will never let up putting him down.
Back to you. I tip my hat to you, Darwynn. I think you are a worthy successor to the Godfather and even exceed him because you don't just point out the problems but you give advice on how to correct them, sound and eye-opening advice. I'd like to see your channel(s) grow because what you offer is unique and critically important to men and women's relations. At some point maybe consider a live stream with women in an attempt to open their eyes to reality like Kevin did. Our society is in deep trouble with women brainwashed into thinking they are the prize, overrating themselves with delusional aspirations. 92% of women are not going to get the top 8% of men. Pile on top the Me Too movement where a man takes his entire life in his hands just to approach a woman merely to talk to her and she looks at him like he's a creep, may even get him in trouble with the law for his approach being SA as she sees it, and is it any wonder why recent studies found 63% (nearly 2 in 3) of young men from 18 to 29 have chosen to not even seek a girlfriend and are walking away from women altogether. That is a disaster! It HAS to change and it MUST start with waking women up to reality. There can be no sugar coating it. It is going to take men like you to chip away at it.
I appreciate your kind words! 🔥💯 It’s humbling to be compared to a legend like Kevin Samuels! I agree, many women need to recalibrate their expectations, and I believe my content can help bridge that gap! 🤝🏽
You are absolutely right and this comments confirms that my content is more important that what I thought.
This comment and compliment is so powerful I am going to pin it.
As far as live streams I’m currently in conversations with my mentor and Kevin Samuels friend @thestyleog and once we figure out a strategy I’ll most definitely strike it up.
As of now I do not know where to start. But I am working and researching for an effective way.
If anyone reads this thread please like the comments and also let me know if you can help me…
We can build something powerful here and this gentleman’s comment just kicked off the first domino!!!
Exactly my thought!
😂. I nearly choked laughing at this brutal comment. However uncomfortable it was to read the truth. I’m a woman who values herself.
She lost my attention as soon as the camera zoomed in on her. The moment she spoke, it was a wrap. It’s rather surprising he was matched with her. How? 😢.
Hope he met “The proverbs 31 woman”
@@mjn3544 that's deep.
I find you overly critical of the females appearance. I do find she should dress in less revealing clothes. She is attractive, many men like her size. She is not serious about the relationship, and should have returned text immediately. People need to speak to each other rather than text, especially at the beginning of a relationship.
She’s in the military and shows up late? Nah that was intentional. Military folk have discipline!
Very disciplined! My dad is always on time! Sometimes 15-10mins early lol. And he’s been out the military for decades lol.
@@KevonnieElaine
That's called instinct.
As we say in the Army, "If you're on time you're late!"
Thank you that was my exact thought. Military people are very particular about time because they're trained to do so
@@LongtowerNyc ALWAYS 10 minutes prior to a meeting is the military way!
Now we see why these beautiful women are single. Personality and attitude goes far beyond looks.
@@iscapetv5508 You better know it!!! Beauty only goes so far when you have a bad attitude and a loud and sassy mouth. So, choose your beauty queen wisely, guys. 🤔🤣🤣🤣
absolutely correct 👍.
Lies. Men are visual. That will never change. Sure he may date/marry an average woman that has a nice soul 😂 but believe me he is still looking at the 304. Men are 100% visual. That’s why women should not let themselves go. Nice girls get walked on.
Beautiful??? 😂
@@iscapetv5508 let's not generalize women. There are a variety of reasons. And they're not all in the negative.
Here you have a woman who has served in the US Military and still lacks accountability. You can't make this ish up.
@@d.e.harris3621 not surprising at all honestly.
She is simped on each and every day of her adult life. Women who are pretty, have no father figure, and have men shower them with attention end up with attitudes like hers until the attention stops (wall). Honestly, if I had 3 women itching to get in a relationship with me at the same time I would act a little entitled too. She has pretty privilege but it won't get her a ring. Just lots of dick.
She was maybe a cook or something like this ...
@@d.e.harris3621 Women aren’t really held accountable even in the service.
@@d.e.harris3621 you know military does diversity hiring.
That dude has no business being on that silly ass show.
@@ceejay8682 💯
Exactly
Just goes to show how fkd up it is out here for us men smh I agree tho
I see quite a few men who don't need to be on that show but at this point I'm assuming they are really doing a public service by showing us along with the Content Creator's whose assessments of these videos on how crazy these women are....we need men like that Brother & this Brother who's commentary & assessment together put other men on game & hopefully they Man Up & stop Simping with these type of women.
I say good work & I appreciate the service of both Brothers...its needed!!!
I agree she doesn't see that he isnt the same low class men that she was always chasing. He is him. Im glad he was stoic cuz women like this will ruin his reputation and image if he were to get emotional an take a womans manipulative bait. Women think they can combat men as if we are other women. We men dont move the same as them an never should so to emasculate him an talk down to him while he is being very patient an reasonable makes her look like a bad deal for any future man to ever take seriously. She screwed up
Alicia is a grown-up child. Dude dodged a bullet with this one.
She is on that dumb shit. He has self respect and is not going to simp for her. Good for him.
I’m a white woman living in Australia and i know why black men are over black women. It’s not rocket science. Many black women are rough around the edges with clapping hands, long nails, wigs, fake eyelashes and stinky gangsta attitude. Actually, I’m meeting one of your black men in Southeast Asia in March LOL you’re not getting him back ladies LOL. You reap what you sow.
He is way more patient than I am. I would just walk out
I AM sure you mean: ALICia is a adult, yet she behaves as a child.
@ I think he was right the first time
I’m glad I’m 62 and married 35yrs. Feel sorry for guys today.
I feel sorry for my 10 year old son, only going to get worse.
Agreed! Married 40 years, wouldn't bet a dime that I could pull that off again with today's women!
God Bless..
@@cfoster6804 i'm with you. i feel sorry for my 10 year old grand daughter.
Nobody forgets to respond to a message for a whole day. They do it on purpose.
Right she's the type of girl that thinks she's the 💫 of the whole relationship me me me!!!🔥🔥🔥
her pretty priviledge lead her to believe he was going to chase her....girl the chase starts after you show your worth....not ur beauty!
@@LadyStephanieArtist yes
....and when you call them out, they gaslight the shyte of you.
@LadyStephanieArtist as a villian, l admit, l do it on purpose. And I'm an ugly man who could care less about attention. An Instagram hottie? Her phone lives in her hand. She had 2 missions. Get mashed potatoes for free, get smashed later by Tyrone. And the free food logistics were taken for granted
She called him picky in order to distract from her rudeness
. . .AND her abysmal lack of accountability.
Typical
High value guys are always picky, because they can. It’s just everything including the kitchen sink that she’s throwing in an effort to score a hit. Really terrible conflict handling.
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My time is valuable. If we agree to meet at 1400, it’s at 1400, not 1430. I’m not picky, I just expect respect for my time.
I am old, married 32 years, and I am no expert on modern dating. I can't fathom why anyone would want to date or have any interaction with someone who is disrespectful, obnoxious, rude, and aggressive toward them. These behaviors counter any physical beauty, skill, or talents a woman may possess.
@@popo9314 You nailed it. The social media age along with poor parenting has unfortunately produced these ill-mannered, disrespectful, ungrateful, narcissistic women who apparently make up the majority of women today.
Don't expect a man to make you happy. Put your faith in God. 😢
@Ray Put one’s faith in an invisible super hero who allows millions of innocents to be horribly unalived around the world and throughout history due to wars, slavery, disease, tsunamis, earthquakes, serial killers and other assorted sociopaths and psychopaths? No thanks!
She so wanted him, but also wanted to control him and is so used to getting her way, good on him for standing his ground, her loss
@peterand this right here. She was playing power dynamic games and he wasn't playing.
She's typical of hot women. They are used to relying only on their form while concealing their substance. Form fades with time, but substance is timeless.
A perfect example of a woman who says what she wants, but not really wanting what she says. They DON'T really want good Men. She knew she didn't want this Man from the very beginning, but saw a disrespectful opportunity. She wanted him to chase, and he wasn't bitin'. Good for him.
I agree 100%. When a woman truly desires a Man, she will make sure that she is available to that Man. Whether it's responding to text, phone calls, or showing up to dates on time. This chick was running Game and it didn't work on this Brotha. And she tried to Shame him for Not accommodating her nonsense. A Man should never tolerate any Disrespect or Manipulation from a woman..
@bigtank6465 Get a Passport and Learn other Languages Gentlemen
Darwynn why did you rename Ramone 2:05 as Raymond 30:19 in this video ?
@@dab0rgna1mn17 It’s not that they don’t want a good man; it’s that they’re not able to keep or get a good man. They not deserving of one. All they gonna do is try to manipulate and control. Hopefully dudes ain’t out here gettin got; but unfortunately that’s the game. 🤷🏾♂️
She seems very childish. She’s already a side piece for someone, he wasting his time with her.
What a major loss for that lady!💯 She was totally unappreciative and felt too entitled.🤷🏽♀️ He's a very nice, thoughtful gentleman.🎉
When someone is truly interested in you they will respect your time and resources." Women act like her when they consider you expendable..💯
@@TheboogiemanCan facts
She took her time replying back to him as she toyed with/considered other male opportunities.
💯 actions speaks louder than words
Exactly 💯
100 % well said!
I JUST DON'T LIKE AGGRESSIVE WOMEN, PERIOD.
I'm sorry.
@tonettanhelms794 Don't be sorry it's not your fault. As long as your not like that you're fine 🙂 😌
They think its cute to be rude & disrespectful to folks
@@i-yell-a-lot4906 Same here
It's masculine, aggressive women are not feminine they are masculine
Great analysis. One thing everybody missed, though, is that she wanted to hold him accountable for not viewing her text 5 minutes before the date, but she completely dodged accountability for the 24 hours she ignored his text. The double standard is that it's good for the goose to be flaky, but not for the gander to be done with her "silliness".
When a culture of ugliness and unpleasantness flows from the inside, it spills over to the outside, and no amount of makeup, fake hair, fake eyelashes, and fingernails can change that. The beauty and pleasantness of a woman MUST start from the inside, and it will certainly flow to the outside. That's what makes a woman wife worthy for any group of men. UNDERSTAND THE MESSAGE!
💯💯💯🫱🏾🫲🏽
Facts
You are 100% correct but unfortunately women like her just don't know how to be nice or civil to others in general, they only seem to know how you be rude, disrespectful and enjoy pissing people off.
Very true
@@largo5348 well said!
She's a veteran of the U S Military and had a "Picky" problem with time and attention to details. Make it make sense
I peeped that 😂
She knows better. The military trains you that "on time" is LATE. She wasn't even on time. You can bet she shows up for classes early, though. Our women.
Those the female vets that get in and get out and never retain the core values of the military!
Right lol. Of all people, she should definitely know better 😭.
When she didn't respond to his Saturday text and confirmation of the date. My first thought was that she is exmilitary when communicating it is imperative that solid communication is key. Life or death can be the result. Was she DEI in her service? She should know better.
"I think we just don't get along."
Yea, I'm sure you don't get along with men who hold you accountable and stand firm on their boundaries.
Women with excessive tattoos are a red flag for me....
@shaunnevins1337 You're absolutely right. When you see the fake-up face, weaves, fake hair, fake eyelashes, fake fingernails, and tattoos, all equals to a fake woman!
@@shaunnevins1337 Rich Cooper says the same. It's nothing new.
YES INDEED.. SOON AS I SEE ITS A NO
Walmart / Waffle House women with their Democrat tats, hog nose rings.
Yep
He held her accountable and she did not like that. I think she knows deep down that she fumbled a good one. He was not distracted by her beauty, good on him. He dodged a bullet!!!
guarantee that wasn't the first or last time she fumbled a good one. In her mind, she is still the prize
He certainly dodged the bullet indeed
She is used to simps and pookies. She met a real one.
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Exactly
I love how he stated which businesses he owned instead of just saying I'm an entrepreneur
I don’t like when women make excuses for their bad behavior and call you sensitive or insecure because you disagree with their actions.
its their only play
-Excellent point. This seems to be a central trait of many modern women.
I’m glad I dated back in the day when dinosaurs roamed the earth and women knew and respected men and were a blast(or at least pleasant) to go out with.
@kwb3612 I'm a woman and I agree.
I’m with you brother 💯 🙌
@@itsallberrygoodThank you!
She thought her attractiveness would allow her to get away with poor communication and dude didn't let it slide. She got a darn nerve thinking buddy would show up for the date even though she responded to his message the NEXY day?!? Entitlement is real. She only mad because his stood his ground and didn't simp over her by still showing up. Her attractiveness didn't give her a pass and bet that's what she's used to. Good, she for the streets. Trying to throw shade and disrespect this man on the show is foolish, especially because she still showed up thinking this man would go out and spend his money on her
...NO, he stood 10 toes down.
@@kingly7946 They can't deal with a man who has standards and SELF RESPECT. Salute to Ramon for handling the situation like a BOSS
@blackestknight1.0 Definitely, he did the right thing and that was a slap in the face to her. She's used to these duck bending over backwards just to spend time with. Even though she looks good, women like her are VERY annoying and dudes now a days are waking up to their foolishness. I'm glad he ignored her messages. The streets will eventually humble her.
Amen
She’s use to men chasing her
@@leekydun
Yep and alowing this behaviour and disrespect.
If you don't return a text/call within 24 hours don't expect anything but the same treatment from the same people you do it too. gtfoh
Darwynn, you are on to something!! Your assessments are spot on. I'm 51, married my HS Sweetheart x 20yrs, w/ 2kids. I held my wife to those standards since day 1. She passed the test obviously, and we are still happily married. Strong Men are way more objective in their approach to women because we know what we want!! Be strong men. Keep up these evaluations--they are excellent!!
Is she for real??? The audacity of this woman! I have three sons, and they better never bring a woman like this to my front door...smh
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She was not on the show to find a relationship. She was there for self promotion and boosting her profile to find nba player.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@JeffParker-b7d Exactly ..,
Ha! I believe that is all that is left out there. These women are so out of order it is just sad.
This woman is so difficult! I would've ghosted and never contacted her again if i was in his shoes.
She is afraid to make mistakes in public.
@@ik9519 It should be : if I were.
@@eddyvos2628 🍪🍪🍪🍪
We should not condone this type of behavior.
You approached this subject expertly! I am a married woman of over 40 years, and she has so much going for her if she can recalibrate! I try to teach young women that your character must outweigh your beauty! You can be beautiful at any age if your character matches it!
💯💯💯 You are right sis! 💯💯💯
The only way to win the game is to not play it.
@@louloukonpalou
Yep!
Wow... is there a there a small percentage of hope?
Nah, you can STILL play it. Just play on your terms, and NOT hers.
Period 🎉
Omg! So true!
Accountability is kryptonite to women. - Kevin Samuels
Facts
I loved Kevin Samuels. Gone too soon.
it seems like that for men too especially since most of you can't define it for yourselves.
@@warree-om6oosounds like you don't like accountability typical wah-man
I'd say the pendulum swings both ways on that one.
Honestly, I respect the thoughtfulness and detail you put into this video. People bark about us being "undesirable" and they usually show the absolute worst examples. But this was...different. It exemplified the male frustration with black women in a realistic way. Both of these people are normal, non-hood folks, and you highlighted the behaviors reflecting a lack of basic courtesy on the part of the woman. This is my first time on your channel, so I have no idea what your other content reflects, but in this case, good job.
Hey sis thanks for tapping in welcome aboard. I see you doing your thing to. I’m open to collabs and ideas that lead to improvement and refining so feel free to critique me sis. Imma check on your channel as well
Lol this catch up was hard to watch, she was the problem the entire time.
Agreed but crucial for men of all ages to watch and learn from. She's got the "ideal" looks but that mentality and attitude are just pure stank!
Agreed.. The root problem was that she failed to Confirm their date. But to avoid accountability, she flipped it and made it seem as if she didn't Like how the Brotha was talking to her in prior communication. This is female manipulation..
@@outlawthomas44 Fact!
Amen Bruh - Yeah, she was easy on the eyes, but her attitude and disposition was a major turn-off for me. Beauty fades, but your personality is Forever. Hard Pass for Me.
The whole entire time frfr unbearable to be around a chick like this! U can tell her favorite shows is love & hip hop & basketball wives & I bet the most disrespectful chicks on those shows are her favorite! They didn't get along bc she's disrespectful asf.. so sad bc she definitely got a nice body worth smashing but nothing much to offer other than that except plenty headaches
Her so-called girlfriends are in his DM right now telling him, "'she didn't appreciate you!" But I will. 😂CMTSU
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Indeed 👍
Wow, so much patience this man has! He tried so hard to please someone who's not worth it. Then, she even dared to say, "I blocked him", "I gave him room to apologize". Wow.
She thinks she's gonna get him to waste his time in the venue she selects for him _after he's dumped her and moved on_ .
Loll this is the western women, rude and disrespectful and that’s why they cannot become passport sis because western men can let some bad behavior slide but not men overseas
*Nothing is ever her fault. She's perfect, and he's "not a real man". She chose to **_leave the house_** at 5 minutes before the confirmed time, even though she said it takes 10-15 minutes to make the trip. She has muddy boundaries, but only for others, not for her, while he has clear boundaries that at applicable to all.*
*This woman is toxic. He dodged a huge bullet, and she's shown the world that she is a 4 year old in an adult body.*
I've always thought,
"Kids...they don't grow up...they just get bigger " !!!
@@AnonymousSquirrel123 Most women never grow up. Unlike men, they’re never held accountable for their actions.
She's used to men simping for her, being late, doing what the hell she wants, because she knows she's good looking and men will chase, this guy is next level, above her level and she couldn't cope with being rejected for her lateness. Couldn't even say sorr, or be sorry for being late, then tried to project onto him because he didn't respond to her late message...and btw, funny how she didn't have the guts or the contrition speak to him directly and say 'sorry, I'm running late', because she knew she was out of order.
Looks will only get you so far, she just proved!
@@markb9488 Correct 🎯
Do you understand what he was complaining about?, Lol, running late for what?
Had nothing to do with running late
Any woman who has an answer for EVERYTHING and never admits to ever being wrong is a VERY dangerous woman who is to be avoided.
Once the disrespect started; I would’ve walked out in silence without a second thought. Ending the interview. Then again I wouldn’t have given this woman the time of day. Fake hair, make up, & fake lashes are red flags for me.
And all that ink on your skin is a real turnoff for me .
I must confess that I didn't watch this interview. One look at these women told the whole story for me. Fake everything says it all.
You should see what she REALLY looks like without all that stuff, it's on her IG. She looks 🤢🤢🤮🤮
As a black woman I am grateful to you for breaking this down. I'm self aware enough to receive this and correct myself. Most of us were never taught to respect healthy masculine energy so I appreciate this content for that exact reason.
Thank you sister, this means a lot coming from a woman. Not many women will yield to this understanding because it doesn’t pander. Blessing are coming your way sis.
No prob, however I want to add that he was in fact wrong for trying to humble her in the end. I would say that displays a bit of immaturity by stooping to her level vs maintaining his leading masculine stance. I believe you could have fairly graded him for that as well as he too should have been held accountable. He could have told her "Hey, I'm not interested anymore and our reservation is canceled". Curious as to what are your thoughts on that?
@@Wisdomseeker1111she needs to be humbled…she clearly hasn’t been humbled ever.
I believe i did... let me double check
@@3ZN-q6q but if you're a mature man which I hope that you are. Why would want to stoop down to anyones low values of manipulative petty tactics when you can just be direct and set the bar high???
She is not into him and thus doesn’t respect him…Women go above and beyond when they are attracted to a man….her whole story about the text she thinks she sent is a lie.
@@MaryJane.007 agreed
If he was a drug dealer trust me she would be 😅
That chick basically destroyed ANY possibility of any man worth anything who saw this video.
Not really, she pretty enough to be given a clean slate, showing up for the recap did that. If communication is important to him, he should remember listening is part of the process, and it’s not worth a damn without forgiveness.
@@unite4peace88 not with a tattoo like that.... no self respecting man would take a woman with a big ass tattoo seriously....
@@unite4peace88 You mean "pretty privilege"? Give me a break. Given your advice, he be forgiving for the rest of his life. He had more self-respect.
@@mikeconcino4022 No, but at least give her 3 strikes, if she proves she can't return texts, or is just dismissive in that way then cool. "Misunderstandings happen" give that some consideration
@@unite4peace88 throughout the whole conversation, it was clear that, a:sense of entitlement, b: clearly disrespectful, and c: she more than used up your ridiculous “three strikes”.
Please keep doing this type of breakdown. The younger generation of men need this info so they can understand the level of gaslighting they'll be up against.
Certainly 🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
@@Remember-Death A-Freaking-Men.
I don't usually like this pop the ballon or gender war content. I kind of like how you're breaking down what they actually said and did rather than just go into berating someone. The scoreboard makes it easy to follow your points, and the points are based on the individual and not just made up rules in your head
“ you’re picky, you act like you’re my dad”. Honey! This conversation is over. Have a nice life.
@getbendt2970 that statement = this man will NOT tolerate her trashy attitude like the other Simpson she had in the past
It's no coincidence she was wearing red... 🚩
@@HustleHabit one color I cannot stand on a woman. Screams childish and “look at me”
I say holla then...the doesn't center around what men like...
The world
My guess is she likely gets complimented wearing red because her undertone is very warm.
Im more concerned with the laced up top all the way down to the belly button.
As a woman, I would never have my breasts fully out with a man I don't even know
Yeah she’s the devil 😈
When you don’t hear back until the next day good chance something else was going on
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@@wsjmusic2732 Facts! Women stay near that phone. It takes a few seconds to respond. Clearly she didn't care
She was probably getting he cheeks clapped by pookie!!!
*Booty clapping sounds*
H O E was getting her cheeks clapped!!!
I never saw your channel before. Great sober, objective analysis.
Glad you’re here.
This woman who's a mother missed the opportunity to partner with a man who's doing dang well as an entrepreneur of several ventures. Let that sink in
Many black American women think it’s a flex to discard valuable men like it’s nothing. They have the mentality of an unappreciative person faking wealth with material objects. They’re foolish enough to believe a good man is replaceable. Particularly the ones that think they are exceptionally attractive.
Shes not a mother
Black women allow their image to be tainted by other Black women who get paid to tell them the wrong things...like a married woman promoting single ladies...
So it's black men's fault that they're mashed in with Pooki and Ray Rays?
@Butterfly22593 individually yes. You don't have to subscribe to what the media shows...
Oh man, this is woman is a piece of work. She’s a poor communicator. It’s good to have boundaries. Oof, this man dodged the bullet. He’s a handsome and well rounded man.
The scoring system is spot on, I am going to give this channel a try👍
Please do!
@@darwynnmcphersonI had to sub! Outstanding creator.👍🏾💯
I just sub as well, excellent commentary brother!👍
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I have to say as an old white gramps who dated and married in very different times and circumstances, I think the absolute most important aspect of the video you brilliantly reviewed and evaluated was the quality that that young man displayed, I'm sure his phone or TikTok was blowing up after that show and far better quality of women than that one are trying to get his attention after that show. He will obviously be just fine , and I doubt the same can be said about the young woman.
🍻🫱🏾🫲🏽💯Great perspective
Amen. Her phone will be blowing up with women reinforcing her vile behaviour though.
@@darwynnmcpherson _Really? Mac-eo is an almost 70-year-old BM who married poor WW for 20 years and chased WW single parents for 30 years and now has nothing but bad health! *All he did was bytch and whine about BW because he wanted to be cuddled and wanted BW to do all of the heavy lifting and BW said *Hell NO* The poor WW he married he said he didn't have to do anything to get ahead because she's a WW her status will elevate him? This happens when you come from a single-parent home raised by Mommie and no males present. YOu expect women to be your Mother and you don't know how to be men!_
Very eloquently put but in Australia this woman is called a ball breaking user. Love the video
I saw what I thought was a very wise quote attributed to Denzel Washington. I'm paraphrasing, but he basically says "Her looks may be what attract you, but it's her mentality that raises your children."
sound quote.
And that’s why they are the least desirables..
Bodysuit, arm sleeve, shaming language? what more can be said.. Recreational purposes..
@@drusato1209 nah, no purpose at all
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Man I have to give you ur flowers bro.... love the narrative concept.... others are doing it, but categorizing and explaining the good, bad, and ugly of both parties.... 5 star.... keep it going bro
Appreciate that bro! I gotchu! 🤜🏾🤛🏾
Who's doing it? Send me a link to someone winning with this method?
Once a woman emasculates a man, it’s over. Phrases like ‘If you were a real man’ and ‘You’re older than me’ cross a line. I don’t understand why men go on this show. He doesn’t seem like he’s lacking attention from women, he’s HIM, No Diddy, his resume speaks for itself.
True. He's a successful entrepreneur. His dating pool is above her social circle. He was trolling being on that dating show. His confidence and self -esteem was low.🫤
Because bro is playing chess. People like him are really on there to promote their business.
Stupid pop the balloon show
Agreed!👍🏿
@@Thetruthlover exactly. He's promoting himself in general or just wanted the validation
Man you did an excellent breakdown of these 2 people. Much respect to you!
Thanks Mickey 🍻🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
She's a veteran? MAJOR red flag. You know instantly she been ran through.
As a Military man and a Military contractor, Military women are not very good choices if you are looking for a wife, these women ran through a lot of men so this is my opinion.
I second that .. most of the female soldiers was swapping D based on ranked … they brought city girls and sex in the city to the military. Y’all dudes got to understand the military has all the physical traits that make these modern women turned on . Men who work out , disposable income, tier system that differentiates the men from low to high, then bang .. it’s a fuck fest . Most of the women was moving from barracks to barracks and ranked sergeants to the next .. them sgt’s and officer’s had multiple young pretty women on rotation.. I don’t know her personally but a lot of women who look like her was also the ones taking women husbands away.
Many others would second your opinion, myself included 🙏🏾
As a 22 year Army vet, I second this. They display a lot of masculine traits.
Barracks bunnies, especially if they’re coming from Fort Gordon.
Hiring by Didn’t Earn It I'd resulting in people with low standards who can't be fired as they scream discrimination.
Alicia is mad because she didn't get that free meal because she was looking forward to it and probably fasted😂😂😂
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She should skip a few more meals. I have animosity towards adiposity
OMAD...got her Mad
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When she said, "there just don't like each other, there is no chemistry." When a woman says that.....doesn't matter what the man says or does from there on out.
In Alicia's case, she has heavy use and visibility on Social Media, which by that itself...requires HEAVY USAGE of her phone and all its attributes. To try to say "oh I forgot to hit send..." when she lives on her phone almost all the time making content is like saying, "Oh, I was riding my horse, but I forgot to put on the saddle...".
What is more likely is that there was another man who she really wanted to spend time (or spending time) with that kept her busy and when her time came free (which she wasn't expecting) THEN she reached out at the last minute to this man (who she doesn't respect) to fill in her unexpected free time. What she didn't factor is that he has respect for himself, and he understood how she feels, and knew it was a waste of his time so he moved accordingly. And this shocked her so much she comes up with these lame excuses figuring other ppl would take her side. And she looks foolish in the process.
This sounds like it could be so accurate.
Makes perfect sense.
This was nothing more than a free food date for her.
@@GregoryWilliams-jw2op yep, the other dude pipped her down...and was like cool, I am out. She then figured the other dude for a sucker and figured she'd get a free meal...not realizing he was up on her scam. Props to that man for knowing play and decided to treat her like she deserved. I wish I'd have this knowledge years ago...I could have saved myself a lot of money.
@@acoqueranat least you figured it out. I went to get a girl to go dancing. I was the activities buddy. She got ran through that same day by the "guy". I don't even bother with dates and movies anymore. Not even worth it
This gentleman just dodged an Amtrak train
Wow. I like this analytical approach to watching the video. This is unique. Good job
Awesome! Thank you!
I agree. Well done Sir.
This female is out of her mind. She had a whole amazing man in front of her, but she’s a lil in her own world. She’s also too argumentative. Her looks have her acting ugly. His demeanor is so laid back and he deserves better. He showed her who he was, by sending her a car to get to the date, and she ended up driving, speaks volumes.
Passport for him to Salvador, Bahia, Brazil 🇧🇷 or he can fly from Phoenix to Guadalajara, Jalisco, Mexico 🇲🇽 or save some time and money and go to Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪
Why yall loosing rights
@@jqight740Indeed
Which is a shame because she is a naturally pretty girl. Not too late for her to get it all together.
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Thank you so much and happy holidays.
Appreciate your generosity!!!
If someone is really interested in you, they would be excited to see you, they would go out their way to see you. She either didn't care, she wasn't thinking about him much, or it was a power move by her to see his boundary and show dominance. She probably is not used to a real alpha successful black man with options and standards.
Yh shes making alot of excuses for her poor communication, if she just owned it and did better they might of got on.
This! I mentioned in my comment “I look forward to a man confirming plans”, because when we like you we are excited to see you.
Why do men entertain silly women? I blame him for entertaining this bird. Men, beauty is fleeting.
Exactly
FACTS!!! I blame him too!
how tf did he entertain her? he did just the opposite but was a lil to polite ....they were going bak n forth ...he made a reservation she didnt acknowledge but thought she had it like that to jus show and he'd be there simpin but my G was at home watchin football and left her on read...its prob in the contract they come back for a interview...you must be a female cuz comprehension iz not yallz strong suit
Bro... He needs to give enough slack because every woman needs to be built through her respect for you. They must come with an issue you offer solutions to... That's evidence for her to release the kids to your direction because she herself needs direction from you. Slacks are good but you need to be quick with pulling the plug
@@paakwesiprosale That would be evidence of bad upbringing or bad experience on the woman's part.
A respectful woman exudes pleasantness from the door.
Her weaknesses are a different story.
Just as a man. If I'm to borrow you thinking, then a man should position himself to be capable of providing only when he has a woman.
You see that it doesn't make sense.
Awesome and unique analysis. Well thought out, critical output with reasons why. Brilliant work👍
Much appreciated!🫱🏾🫲🏽💯🍻
That’s exactly how most women act nowadays. She’s the example, and those same women WILL BLAME YOU for not playing her games. The need to be right was strong in this one. Excellent break down on this video man.
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@@akobiballantyne Exactly. Holding her accountable is “petty” or “sassy”.
I love how this brother is breaking everything down! Superb!
Thanks for listening
She should be quite familiar with everything on the ceiling in that studio after this session. When a new acquaintance rolls her eyes at me consistently she’s gone.
This is a paradigm of what critiquing content should entail. Excellent video my brother.
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The way you structured this video is INCREDIBLE !!!!! amazing job with analytics, the countdown timer for when you gave commentary and the overall scoring system. Even the set lighting is great
Thank you so much!!🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
Damn! You are going to be as big as Kevin Samuels. Clever concept, clearly explained, very good set with just the right lighting to set off against your dulcet tones! 5stars. Subscribed.
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He’s more patient than me because I would’ve checked out much earlier… I love the point system bro!
It’s obvious she simply don’t like him & didn’t from the jump, he said he called & texted & she didn’t answer 😂😂
Bingo.
Love the breakdown of character! I'm a woman, and I totally agree with you! Felicia is NOT wifey material.
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Excellent breakdown of this video. Love it 👍🏽
Appreciate it! Erika!
Back in the day , if you were really attracted towards each other, meaning both people, had that vibe, all the thirstyness stops, we'd be talking on the phone for hours and days even before a coffee or movie date. You would know before the dinner date
Facts man. Like its sad that people (men) overthink everything now. When to send a text back. When to set up a date. How long the text messages are. If a text is to long you can come across thirsty. If its to short, then you not a big talker.
So many other stuff.
Exactly, there is no point. If you like someone, you have to pretend like you dont otherwise your clingy.
Nowadays mfs ain’t even got to brush their teeth and go outside , today u can just be in the house all day and get instant gratification
This is an embarrassment to women, no accountability at all and very argumentative. This does not portray a woman with a disciplined background, she has a lot of growing to do. He is a respectful, composed gentleman at a much higher level in his life.
This video is on point bro and the point system is solid. I'm glad my brother maintained respect for himself and his time by holding her accountable. When women don't see your value you must show them. Salute to that brother!
Salute my brother 🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
She doesn't value him as a person and is trying to flip it on him. If he was a WM, she wouldn't have done all of this lame communication avoidance. And btw folks, most female veterans have been passed around a lot. Especially attractive ones. She was probably Air Force because I couldn't see her doing anything physically difficult. That means Brad has been all over that. Trust.
Yes I was in the Air Force these military women are the biggest 304s ! I am JODY
I am 💯 correct ✅! I was on in the Air Force ✈️
I can tell by her fake "valley girl" speaking cadence, that she's clearly into Brads.
Yeeessss! Definitely was in what we call the Chair Force for sure
She has the disrespectful tone of one who has been with many, many men casually.
I found it weird that right off his first call was a little late in the evening. Him asking her to model for him in their first communication, without mentioning pay, was a bit creepy.
Exactly. There was a lot of points he should have gotten subtractions on.
He was looking for a woman and a date and perhaps a mate and that necessarily involve sex he wasn't looking for someone to model his businesses he was obviously making a sexual innuendo and that may have been a little early in the relationship but it's still not crass or pornographic
Wow! I am a woman and this is so irritating! She was so disrespectful! And he was a gentleman! Kudos to him and may he find a woman that would appreciate him! She didn’t deserve him. She is not worth his time for sure!
Wow as a woman watching this I feel embarrassed for her. He took the initiative and planned a date and did the right thing to confirm the day before. She does seem flaky and entitled because she's pretty. She doesn't represent all women, but she does represent the type of woman that men will chase. Those of us with "good personalities" get passed over for this type of woman.
Men only chase such women for so long unless they are fools or simps. Her behavior makes her revolting to me and I am sure many other men. Women who are very pretty are a whole basket of problems, this one is a prime example. Give me the pleasant personality and non-streetwalker looks any day.
@@AB-fc5kl only goofies chase after disrespect….no self respecting man will chase her…whether rich or broke. Money don’t translate to self respect.
Is this a black thing? She’s not pretty, let alone beautiful. She’s very overweight, has tattoos everywhere extremely visible which means she can’t ever associate with professional people, or ever be brought into a professional environment as a man’s date, it also indicates she’s impulsive and makes very poor long term decisions, which almost always means bad financial management, and high levels of promiscuity.
She obviously didn’t have a father growing up, she’s very angry at “men” in general, and she probably got that from her own mother badmouthing men and her biological father which is very common in the black community - while that’s not HER fault, she’s an adult, it’s on her to go to therapy, stop holding onto that anger, and become a normal functioning adult.
This was a wild segment - she had a full on meltdown, insulted this man multiple times while he said nothing, lied, manipulated, gaslit him, just completely unhinged and toxic behavior.
All from an overweight woman with tattoos everywhere that looks like an exotic dancer???
RUUUNNNNNN
This guy saved his money, time, energy, and dodged a bullet.
That’s not true. The majority of women that are married are more like you. They just not all on social media so we don’t see them. The average, every day woman with a generally good disposition and personality is married way more often than the pretty, entitled girl. They complaining on social media about men because men don’t want them.
Pretty? No she is chubby
That girl is ludicrous. She doesn't deserve a good man with treatment like that. Raymond is worth a lot and it's good to see that he knows it. He also seems like a total sweetie pie and gentleman, being softspoken instead of cocky. He's going to find himself a woman who's actually worth his time. Good on him for crossing her off the list of possibilities right away. No reason to waste time on a girl like that.
Glad you're covering this! going on a date soon and I hope it won't go like this 😄
Please let me know how it goes Don
@@donthevalen Just curious, how did it go ?
What's up D. Ramon handled this perfectly. He wasn't gonna let her dictate to him that her time was waaay more valuable. 😂
young black guys get a girl pregnant (unmarried) and now they have a little black boy in kindergarten. The NINJA gets married to a non black woman . The BLACK single mom (his ex) . now has “baggage” a kid….she did “have a guy” she is single because of him.
This young woman is comical. Lil Vivica Fox. 😂
@@1timdog1066 she look like a young vivica Fox. Too bad that she's walking in the same footstep, we already know the Ending of this story.
@ That’s what I really meant “She’s walking in the same steps.” 👍🏿
Wine 🍷 Cellar and cats 🐈 or dogs 🐕 is waiting for her if she doesn’t shape up.
She will end up like her
They are all aging a mile a minute and they think it's a game!!!🧐🤔😆😂🤣👏🏾
Why are black women the least desired? As a married BW, I am going to be brutally honest based on my observations of our women, esp. these modern women. There are several reasons and most have to do with us (BW). As a culture, we are not demure, lack cooperativeness, have too much masculine energy and too many thrive in hood rachet behaviour. Our social class is riddled with too many single mother households which has a deleterious effect on so much: how we behave, our attitudes about marriage, our perpetuation of single motherhood, our income (always in struggle mode), etc. All that said, most men of all races have Eurocentric standards of beauty and thus, do not find dark skinned women attractive. So when you have BW competing against women who are deemed more physically attractive, who are more feminine and cooperative, you get many deemed not desirable.
I agree with you, but in this particular situation, I think this woman would be considered conventionally attractive by most. Her attitude and games made her unattractive
@@Nattaferg Thank you you queen for your words. We need more positive queens like you 🫡
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@@Nattaferg. Agree with everything other than the desirability part. Yes eurocentric is the standard but it is a programmed standard!...For a black person generally, you've be demonized and negatively marketed for centuries to warrant exploitation and this has altered people's perception subconsciously. Winning at face value or on first impression is hard. It takes time to deprogram and I can guarantee you in a deprogrammed mind/eyes, the beauty standards shifts dramatically. That's why behavior and demeanor is important so as not to compound the stereotypes about black people or women. If you rock natural esthetically and exhibit feminine energy, you just need to lay low around people to allow the programming to wean off. The phases once you go black you never go back and black is beautiful becomes apparent then. White privilege or closeness to it is automatic but black privilege needs to be activated.
And to add to your statement, there are many black men who have been through the ringer so much that they suffer from post traumatic stress syndrome from interaction with black woman..they just can’t take it anymore..so they say I am out..go outside there race or just be alone which to them is a lot more feasible and viable to there mental and physical health. Sad state of affairs p, May God help us…white s done a number on our people to the point where we self destruct before we have a chance to start a family with a God given soulmate…those Devi, is a lier and a cheater.
I’m a woman but I can’t speak for all women….from what I have seen over the years is black girls are taught to be strong, independent women which is a good thing to a limit. 11:05 So many are brought up without a father in the house. These young women are called Queens from when they are little…..No you’re not a queen…. You’re a female who is being told that you don’t have to bend your will to be PART of a couple….It’s ok to be independent but please learn to be considerate of a man…❤❤
So I'm really starting to understand the shaming tactics of women a lot better. It's not just the "lack of accountability", it's how they blend the gaslighting within the stories they tell about themselves and how people are "misunderstanding their intentions." It's usually a glossed over outline of the events that took place (a hurried explanation), with far too many details about specifics that fail to acknowledge where the issue began, and then why THEY feel slighted in the exchange and have the "right" to feel how they feel about it. (False moral high ground) It's an extremely strange alchemy to watch take place. 😐
It's not to exonerate themselves. In the end, this is all an attempt to make the man feel guilty about himself. To doubt himself. To feel bad about himself; over HER failure (that could've been remedied by her.) in just that one moment.
@@OthelloBlaq they do this to pretty girls they don't like too. They gaslight us so bad 👎
Once you notice this about women, it's truly difficult to listen to the OTHER life stories they tell about themselves. You always get the feeling that they're leaving out parts of the story that make them look bad.
@@Remember-Death they are! Almost always.
I thank the both of you 🤝🏾
Dude is 6’3
A Leader
Successful career
Inspirational to others
In Shape
Tattoos
BEARD
And he’s still being played, single AND CALLED TOO SHORT!??????
*WE ARE COOKED!!!!*
Lol
Rejected by a low 5 isn't much to be worried about
She is used to simps doing whatever for her. She met a real one and he is no gonna pay for her free meal to take back to pookie
Dudes have no other alternative than to build and make ourselves extraordinary for whatever we strive for - women want to be beside or behind such a man - they’re cooked.
The issue is simple - she wants similar power from a slew of men she’s encountered how many times and she also lacks the focus and understanding of the power he has. Maybe he said something she didn’t like and to her it added to how she thought she felt from initially meeting him. It then became a waste of time for him because she was forever going to be difficult since her “feelings” weren’t to his favor from the beginning 🤝🏾
Tatoos ain't a flex dude
@@consciousgentile5141Exactly 💯
Immensely enjoyed viewing your work and subscribed. This is an awesome reminder of Kevin Samuel’s inspiration. May his memory inspire and bless.
Thank you so much 🫱🏾🫲🏽💯 Welcome aboard and it is honor to be mentioned in the same sentence. RIP to the Kevin Samuels 🫡
11:49 as a veteran she should appreciate someone who is "picky" about time and should be the same way!
She was looking for *anything* to make the guy look bad. She's 10X more picky about time than he is. She just assumes men will revolve around her and just fall in line. This was a full display of entitlement and no accountability.
Listen…. She was “BUSY”🤦🏾♂️ on Saturday all day (while checking all other social media and other text messages) and couldn’t touch the phone. Simple! Glad dude stood on business. And respected his time. He’s an entrepreneur with multiple businesses therefore, he WILL value time with an above average respect for it. This woman is a walking red flag like her outfit 💃🏾
@@10di_livefree she’s also liar did you catch she said she went to work last night … but I thought she was only in school. 🤔
I think because he initially asked about the modeling thing, it rubbed her the wrong way and she decided to not take him seriously leading to her lazy responses. What a brat!!
She didnt communicate because she was with her sneaky link 🤣😂😂😂