20:00 Omg! 🤯 “Don’t use other people’s feelings towards you to figure out how you feel about them…. Being loved by someone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. You have to love them back.” Gems dropped.💎
Wowwww. Thank you for this objective and amazing input. The side of “does he love me” is the painful necessary side to listen to: Does he NOT love me nor will he ever. We women tend to lean TOO much into our feelings and get way too hopeful. We ladies MUST listen to the objective advice and create boundaries or leave. Those tentative relationships become toxic. At times like that we need to listen to the advice rather than getting so mushy and “following our hearts.” Lean into the grief that parting ways brings, surround yourself faith true friends who are speaking truth to you, pour on the self love (unconditionally forgive yourself and unconditionally love yourself). 💜 You are the prize.
If a guy says that he doesn't want a relationship with you tell him that is fine. We can be just friends and you will continue dating other men. This is a brilliant idea because he can get to know you and if he has feelings for you, he can step it up and ask you out. 😁
I met the guy I am dating 20 years ago. I was married to his best friend. When we started talking, he stated he didn't want a relationship. A perk to knowing him, I asked what happened. I now know that he doesn't feel financially stable for another relationship. We are both paying for our previous relationships financially. We have made vacation plans, holiday plans etc. We are very committed to each other and we'll see how things go. At least we're on the same page m
I think women fall in love faster. Men fall in love harder. I think women fall out-of love quicker. When I would date a guy, he would always talk about previous relationships. This happened alot. I think there is always a game of chase that happeneds.on both sides. I hate that game, but it is there. Doesn't matter what age you are. I know when I fell in love, I said it sooner than my husband to be did, but when my husband finally told me i know he meant it.
Agree in everything if the guy doesn’t introduce the woman to his world and everything is a mistery he is playing. Man are providers and protectors also they are not going to put you in situations that you are always going to have doubts about his privacy. Dating a robot is the best description when you get tired of asking questions and you don’t have no response. Believe in his actions and don’t be stupid like the way I was. Players knows how to play woman really well.
Adam, I click on the link to take me to the Apple podcast but the podcast does not appear so please give me the name of the podcast to Google it. Your channel is a blessing to us.
An important detail left out….
If a guy says he doesn’t want a relationship, but then the actions are OPPOSITE… then it become manipulation
20:00 Omg! 🤯 “Don’t use other people’s feelings towards you to figure out how you feel about them…. Being loved by someone isn’t enough to sustain a relationship. You have to love them back.” Gems dropped.💎
Wowwww. Thank you for this objective and amazing input. The side of “does he love me” is the painful necessary side to listen to: Does he NOT love me nor will he ever. We women tend to lean TOO much into our feelings and get way too hopeful. We ladies MUST listen to the objective advice and create boundaries or leave. Those tentative relationships become toxic. At times like that we need to listen to the advice rather than getting so mushy and “following our hearts.” Lean into the grief that parting ways brings, surround yourself faith true friends who are speaking truth to you, pour on the self love (unconditionally forgive yourself and unconditionally love yourself). 💜 You are the prize.
If a guy says that he doesn't want a relationship with you tell him that is fine. We can be just friends and you will continue dating other men. This is a brilliant idea because he can get to know you and if he has feelings for you, he can step it up and ask you out. 😁
A real man makes his intentions clear.
Have healthy boundaries and know exactly what YOU need and don't settle for a feel-good 'maybe this will work' relationship.
Why don't they see a prostitute if they are treating women as a prostitute?
Cuz it’s not safe or cheap? I assume.
I met the guy I am dating 20 years ago. I was married to his best friend. When we started talking, he stated he didn't want a relationship. A perk to knowing him, I asked what happened. I now know that he doesn't feel financially stable for another relationship. We are both paying for our previous relationships financially. We have made vacation plans, holiday plans etc. We are very committed to each other and we'll see how things go. At least we're on the same page m
Facts! Love how you guys clearly spell it out.
Why is that girl wanting to hear "I love you"... is she insecure?
I think women fall in love faster. Men fall in love harder. I think women fall out-of love quicker. When I would date a guy, he would always talk about previous relationships. This happened alot. I think there is always a game of chase that happeneds.on both sides. I hate that game, but it is there. Doesn't matter what age you are. I know when I fell in love, I said it sooner than my husband to be did, but when my husband finally told me i know he meant it.
Women fall in love slower. It’s waaaaay more emotional. JMO 😅
Agree in everything if the guy doesn’t introduce the woman to his world and everything is a mistery he is playing. Man are providers and protectors also they are not going to put you in situations that you are always going to have doubts about his privacy. Dating a robot is the best description when you get tired of asking questions and you don’t have no response. Believe in his actions and don’t be stupid like the way I was. Players knows how to play woman really well.
Also… attachment styles or some
People are slower to open up even if all their actions show they are moving forward
Adam, I click on the link to take me to the Apple podcast but the podcast does not appear so please give me the name of the podcast to Google it. Your channel is a blessing to us.
It's called "Love Strategies" - everything can be found here: lovestrategies.com/podcast
@@LoveStrategies I subscribed and gave five stars over there but seeing you guys here makes it more authentic. 😁🍒
Interesting
This is the best relationship advice Chanel