My dad taught me FORM when meeting new people. Family,occupation,recreation and then the message. It’s a sales technique to draw someone in and get information for insight for what they need. People love to talk about themselves. I keep telling my shy kid he doesn’t need to be charismatic he just needs to ask open ended questions. I am still learning the missing part. I am not an anxious “why didn’t he text me” person. Yet I do like to know if he’s still interested in the early stages. I don’t like the “rules” of engagement many have…48hrs after date…. I feel that if you are thinking of someone reach out. They may be in a silly holding pattern too.
If you cancel your credit cards with a balance, the credit card company will call in the debt. So while it's an appealing thought - cutting up/deleting number electronically to stop the bleeding - and paying it off over a set number of months - is more realistic for many of us.
to be honest, it feels like an absolute waste of time to invest all this effort in a guy that is watching porn he's watching porn and seeing women as objects, men who watch porn dont stayt in the level they started, they go into nastier stuff...I cant really
Porn is quite insidious. He's defiling himself & coming into agreement with demons & spiritual warfare. He can get help if he wants it. If he won't, you need to exit. Run not walk..to Jesus.
Hold your standard! 🙏🏼 It’s good you found that out so you can draw a boundary. It’s so sad what’s happening to our men… and boys. Totally distorting of the sacredness of sex. 😢
asking questions work when charming women, it does not working with charming men, men already have huge egos and they will feel good about themselves not connected to his date. When a man asks questions toi a woman it does feel her feel connected to her date.
You want to get to know his character & values. Oftentimes women reveal too much too soon. Don't generalize about men having huge egos. A man who loves God will know a humble heart is something to aspire to.
My dad taught me FORM when meeting new people. Family,occupation,recreation and then the message. It’s a sales technique to draw someone in and get information for insight for what they need.
People love to talk about themselves. I keep telling my shy kid he doesn’t need to be charismatic he just needs to ask open ended questions.
I am still learning the missing part. I am not an anxious “why didn’t he text me” person. Yet I do like to know if he’s still interested in the early stages. I don’t like the “rules” of engagement many have…48hrs after date…. I feel that if you are thinking of someone reach out. They may be in a silly holding pattern too.
Guys are attached to looks but they want more than looks
If you cancel your credit cards with a balance, the credit card company will call in the debt. So while it's an appealing thought - cutting up/deleting number electronically to stop the bleeding - and paying it off over a set number of months - is more realistic for many of us.
Thank you
Amen to that 😂❤❤
to be honest, it feels like an absolute waste of time to invest all this effort in a guy that is watching porn
he's watching porn and seeing women as objects, men who watch porn dont stayt in the level they started, they go into nastier stuff...I cant really
Porn is quite insidious. He's defiling himself & coming into agreement with demons & spiritual warfare. He can get help if he wants it. If he won't, you need to exit. Run not walk..to Jesus.
Hold your standard! 🙏🏼 It’s good you found that out so you can draw a boundary. It’s so sad what’s happening to our men… and boys. Totally distorting of the sacredness of sex. 😢
asking questions work when charming women, it does not working with charming men, men already have huge egos and they will feel good about themselves not connected to his date. When a man asks questions toi a woman it does feel her feel connected to her date.
Yeah but to make a guy feel good about himself while he's with you, its good if he talks about himself bc he'll remember the date that went well 😂
You want to get to know his character & values. Oftentimes women reveal too much too soon. Don't generalize about men having huge egos. A man who loves God will know a humble heart is something to aspire to.
Very good point. I think many of us women naturally build men up. Though I can’t speak for all of us (or for men dealing with us). 😂
@@danilaroche1156Thank you for affirming that exists. 💙