8 Body Language Secrets That Turn Men on (Based on Science)

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  • Опубликовано: 15 июл 2024
  • What if I told you there are incredibly simple yet effective techniques to show interest without uttering a single word? Each of these methods is grounded in scientific research and can catch the attention of someone new or signal your interest to someone you're already seeing.
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  • @socadream
    @socadream 6 месяцев назад +28

    The tilt of head, a slight smile, a glance…that’s what I do naturally since I was a teenager…explains why I was always approached. Hmmm…now it’s science 😄

  • @zarolive6858
    @zarolive6858 6 месяцев назад +33

    Woman is here 🙋🏻‍♀️. If I am talking to you it doesn’t mean that I like you, it means that I don’t think you are some weird guy; therefore I am engaging in conversation with you.
    Also 3 glances mean nothing, but if woman looks at you at smiles that might be a welcoming gesture.

  • @janespitfire9884
    @janespitfire9884 6 месяцев назад +47

    I think you have to smile, catch his eye, make a comment , have the makeup on, dress properly = FRIENDLY.

    • @LoveStrategies
      @LoveStrategies  6 месяцев назад +4

      YES!

    • @madamchabby
      @madamchabby 4 месяца назад +5

      You had me till the makeup, no man will make me cake stuff on my face thats bad for my skin.

    • @lesliemaki888
      @lesliemaki888 Месяц назад +1

      I'm doomed then....I've never worn makeup. I've tried but it makes my face feel dirty.

    • @jadexx1
      @jadexx1 19 дней назад +1

      ​@@lesliemaki888 just personal hygiene being on point then. Good oral healthcare, clean skin that's not greasy looking, Chapstick, using a eyelash curler doesn't require putting in makeup but can make your eyes more open/feminine looking

    • @acrobaticanna
      @acrobaticanna 18 дней назад

      ​@@lesliemaki888Just try doing your lips 💋 or eyes - the French way. It can make you look like you have a full face of make-up.

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 6 месяцев назад +15

    That look with a downward tilt and it kind of a light smile is like she's assessing the gentleman, because she finds him attractive in some way

  • @MsCraftyMonica
    @MsCraftyMonica 6 месяцев назад +14

    I can talk to anybody and everybody- I'm a social butterfly. But there is a guy who I'm crushin on, and I'm almost certain he likes me too, but I can't say a word to him because the one time I spoke to him, I froze in an eye lock for like 10 seconds and I couldn't even remember what I had to say. I was like a teenager, and I'm 46! Why can't he be the one to talk to me? I've caught him staring at me, and peacocking in front of me.

  • @chime-girl
    @chime-girl 6 месяцев назад +13

    Great tips!! Thank you. For the bonus tip: for me it's not that I'm afraid of being promiscuous, I'm afraid about my safety and making sure he not some kind of psycho killer. LOL

  • @merrywalsh2809
    @merrywalsh2809 6 месяцев назад +22

    OK guys. Here’s the deal. In public spaces, the men in the “engineering” department control the temperature settings. Men run warmer due to two things: generally more physical, less sedentary jobs in the workplaces, and greater muscle mass. So they make the temp too cold for the ladies. At work, women will take sweaters, knowing this. At social gatherings, they will wear their festive, social clothes trying to look cute and sexy. Meanwhile, the guy will have the temp set to frigid yet again. We would rather look cute than be warm, in a social setting. We suffer for you men. Well, not me. I’m older and I am bringing the damn sweater.

    • @10nena
      @10nena 6 месяцев назад +3

      💯 This!

  • @poppies1215
    @poppies1215 6 месяцев назад +3

    The wig says it all and the need to “find one” by Gary was hysterical. As an older single lady you are both spot on about your suggestions. One can never be too guarded for their safety with someone they are just meeting, but a smile never hurt anyone. It is all in how you practice. Now to find that mirror!? Lol Thank you for all your research and experience.

  • @pammorrison3241
    @pammorrison3241 5 месяцев назад +5

    Listened to this podcast before a meet up and was intentional to use most of them as the conversation flowed. It was so much fun and helped me feel flirty and playful 😊. That little meet up for coffee ended up lasting 3 1/2 hours and the conversation never lagged

  • @sherriemurraylmt
    @sherriemurraylmt 6 месяцев назад +4

    The wig 🤣 👏🏻 soooo flirty! 💋
    Love the sharing of the meaning of touch. As a massage therapist & Reiki energy master this is of foundational importance. 🙏
    Human psychology is fascinating ❤
    Thank you for your insightful offering.

  • @anaisliba1673
    @anaisliba1673 5 месяцев назад +1

    Hey guys thank you a lot for both of you. You’re awesome ❤ and I love the last one bcs it’s really talk to me ❤

  • @kessaann7782
    @kessaann7782 Месяц назад

    😂 😂 cracking up at Gary’s micro-expressions. Most fun research ever 👍🏼

  • @lorifarrell4892
    @lorifarrell4892 6 месяцев назад +12

    Great advice. My sister is more attractive than me but I was always approachable and comfortable with men, so I typically had no issues attracting them. Unfortunately, it’s always the ones that I’m not typically interested in. With the great looking men I get very shy and too self aware, which looks less confident. Women fear rejection too. Will work on the three glances. Thanks!

    • @oonaghmcgrath2935
      @oonaghmcgrath2935 5 месяцев назад +1

      I'm exactly the same around attractive men. Hopelessly shy because there is so much more at stake.

    • @Himmiefan
      @Himmiefan 19 дней назад +2

      I'm right there with you! I'm more relaxed around men I'm not attracted to, so they're the ones who pursue me.

  • @janetr9987
    @janetr9987 5 месяцев назад +3

    Practicing my flirt face! Love u guys--- so glad my sister discovered you! ❤️🙏💋

  • @lauriemarkvart
    @lauriemarkvart 4 дня назад

    I totally love the bonus comment/point. It’s really true about how women feel and it’s a hurdle to get over!

  • @kita6707
    @kita6707 6 месяцев назад +7

    Why all the suspicion? Many indoor spaces are cold, and many women stand that way when cold. It’s a reason not an excuse, unless a woman is saying there’s no solution and they have to keep doing it.

  • @joannabielby4244
    @joannabielby4244 6 месяцев назад +1

    This is a good video. Thank you

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers 6 месяцев назад +1

    *Once we recognize what it is we are feeling, once we recognize we can feel deeply, love deeply, can feel joy, then we will demand that all parts of our lives produce that kind of joy.*

  • @jodi-annedavidson5348
    @jodi-annedavidson5348 6 месяцев назад +5

    You all crack me up!!! Great content!🤣😊🙌

  • @VictoriaWilder95
    @VictoriaWilder95 6 месяцев назад +8

    Subscribed after I saw the wig at 7:40 😂

  • @kathyblum3218
    @kathyblum3218 6 месяцев назад +8

    I'm watching and LOL! Just maybe the girls are cold and their headlights turned on and they are embarrassed? 😳 🤦‍♀️

  • @acrobaticanna
    @acrobaticanna 18 дней назад +1

    Us women absolutely love a real, full smile and a genuine laugh from a guy!!

  • @jinaalqudah989
    @jinaalqudah989 6 месяцев назад +2

    I love this!!!

  • @tamaraaugustin
    @tamaraaugustin 6 месяцев назад +9

    I love the insight ! Oh and keep the wig i laughed and you did a great flirting reenactment 😂

    • @LoveStrategies
      @LoveStrategies  6 месяцев назад +3

      OK, wig is back by popular demand.

  • @goremoteasap
    @goremoteasap 16 дней назад +2

    I see a male coach in a wig and I subscribe. Going the extra mile. 🏆

  • @veronicaleon8075
    @veronicaleon8075 Месяц назад +1

    I haven’t been out in years… like years. I think I’m washed up getting ready for this dance thing. I do put on mascara, blush and lipstick only bc who the heck is going to be interested in me I thought. I wasn’t looking for anyone since I’d given up. I was dancing with friends and talking away with friends. I was shocked to find men giving me the eye throughout the night. Shocked. Who knew? So the only thing I didn’t do was flirt/ touch back. I could see that I inadvertently did all the other things you talked about. So you men are definitely onto something there 👍

  • @musicme7434
    @musicme7434 6 месяцев назад +5

    Always helpful ❤❤❤❤ thank u so much 💓 Watching from Georgia 🎉

  • @adelg6698
    @adelg6698 29 дней назад

    You guys are hilarious 😂
    Great advice!

  • @just_depie
    @just_depie 6 месяцев назад +14

    Yeees the sexy confidence wig is back 🥳

  • @leonie563
    @leonie563 4 месяца назад

    So interesting hearing men discuss men & women this way. Ran into someone who was working, thought wow I'm feeling something, didnt know what to do with that. Regret i didn't show i noticed him. Assumed he was married anyway. But will always want to replay that time.

  • @joycee5493
    @joycee5493 4 месяца назад

    This was funny… loved it !!!

  • @user-cw7yw6er8q
    @user-cw7yw6er8q 6 месяцев назад +3

    Yes, some of us are that cold. I wear 2 pairs of pants and 2 long sleeves to be warm. Haha

  • @RinaKate
    @RinaKate 6 месяцев назад +2

    I will follow your advice. Let's see 😊

  • @loricrever
    @loricrever 6 месяцев назад +2

    Adam and Gary really committed here on play-acting the research-backed tactics. You gotta few chuckles out of me as well! You continue to embody your brand: STRATEGIES. Listeners can adopt what you espouse or not; you are simply presenting ideas and strategies, mapping out why you find them particularly worthy of consideration. Nice job, Gents!

  • @BetterTogether300
    @BetterTogether300 6 месяцев назад +3

    Ive been so shy that i cdnt even look at a man if i liked him..eg across the room,...if he was someone i knew n didnt know if he was interested in me.

  • @deemanga324
    @deemanga324 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great Gas 🎉😂 and informative.

  • @cynthiafigueroa2762
    @cynthiafigueroa2762 Месяц назад

    🤣 👍🏼 …the demo with the wig😭

  • @anastasiadrpn2810
    @anastasiadrpn2810 4 месяца назад

    Great work. And that wig😅

  • @Mrs.AD0099
    @Mrs.AD0099 Месяц назад

    Hahahahaha dying at 7:40! Hilarious ❤❤ Adam looks so much like the handsome John Ritter. Rip John. You guys are so funny. Well done ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @maggieh3369
    @maggieh3369 6 месяцев назад +2

    I needed this 😅

  • @wendysullivan1909
    @wendysullivan1909 6 месяцев назад +5

    The number one thing be friendly and honest
    And don't be so picky on both sides because sometimes looks don't count you could pass up a real good person because of what you think you're idea is of a mate.

  • @suileniluizontrombetta6317
    @suileniluizontrombetta6317 4 месяца назад

    Nice 😊

  • @carrielegg5480
    @carrielegg5480 6 дней назад

    This is such a good video!!! So helpful!! I would love to know what makes women flirt with other women's boyfriend? I keep seeing this alot and women seem to have no care what they are doing. As if this is normal behavior!! It cracks me up. Lol

  • @esmeraldagarcia2848
    @esmeraldagarcia2848 6 месяцев назад +4

    Men always approach me after karaoke 😂 it helps I have a sultry voice but that’s how I got my boyfriend 🙂 he loves when I sing for him and do a little shimmy 🥰

  • @chocolatefrenzieya
    @chocolatefrenzieya 6 месяцев назад +2

    My rbf is my death knell. lol...I did great with dating apps and set up meetings, but NO ONE approaches me cold turkey. Maybe a few bravest of the brave. 🤣🤣

  • @annmariebudyn
    @annmariebudyn 6 месяцев назад +2

    Priceless😂😂😂

  • @jessicaboranian8578
    @jessicaboranian8578 6 месяцев назад +5

    I’m going to respectfully disagree with your opinions about the being cold as an excuse comments. Women often dress provocatively, or think that they ought to in order to attract a man- putting on a parka to keep our temp regulated does not create sexiness. Cold hands and feet can accompany auto immune conditions, which are super common in women these days. The body language of being cold v. closed off can be distinguished if subtle attention is paid

  • @CarnivoreSeventyOne
    @CarnivoreSeventyOne 6 месяцев назад +8

    You guys are so funny 😂

    • @lonniegarland9319
      @lonniegarland9319 6 месяцев назад

      It’s the male, ‘bating 100 theory.’ The sadder thing is that they are making money off idiotic assumptions. 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @patgiogi1291
    @patgiogi1291 19 дней назад +1

    Breaking the touch barrier in Italy is not a good idea

  • @jens6039
    @jens6039 Месяц назад

    Adam’s flirty face lol

  • @cherisekovack363
    @cherisekovack363 6 месяцев назад +2

    What do I do when I walk into a room is as soon as I get through the doorway I pause I hold my head up high wiggle my hips a little bit scope around the room as if I'm looking for a friend of mine look in the far back corner add proceeds slowly over to the bar to get a drink in the far back corner

  • @donnapiraino3323
    @donnapiraino3323 6 месяцев назад +2

    I had a note left on my car, one time…on a bank strap…AND I worked for a bank,So I thought I had a stalker!! 😳So NO No…Don’t leave 📝 notes🤦🏻‍♀️…I was going to go to the police 👮🏼!!

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 6 месяцев назад +2

    And because it's a micro expression it's subtle

  • @GalacticWoman
    @GalacticWoman 6 месяцев назад +1

    You two guys may want to explore human Design..Minifastor types have closed off repelling aura, Generators and Manifestor Generators have an open inviting aura. Projectors can access auras of others and have to wait for invitation energetically. ..there is more to it but HD helps! ..Your strategy must be in sync with your type of Human design

    • @isismob7379
      @isismob7379 6 месяцев назад

      I would like to hear more about that!

    • @GalacticWoman
      @GalacticWoman 6 месяцев назад

      @@isismob7379 Google Human design types and theur auras. Fantastic system

  • @pamestesduggin3488
    @pamestesduggin3488 Месяц назад +2

    I talk to a lot of men. Just to be friends.

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 6 месяцев назад +1

    Yeah if somebody doesn't have a jacket it's it seems to me like either they went impromptu to to this Gathering or they're hoping that the Amanda trying to flirt with will lend them their coat to show that they're being shivers and or even interested

  • @Cat-ik1wo
    @Cat-ik1wo 5 месяцев назад

    Ok. Let the games begin.

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 6 месяцев назад +4

    You guys are funny

  • @bnb0510
    @bnb0510 10 дней назад

    I’m 5’10 with blonde hair and green eyes. I definitely don’t have any issues getting “noticed”. It’s always the men that I don’t want the attention from that approach. Though I do appreciate their willingness! Lol

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 6 месяцев назад +1

    Now it looks like a guy going surfing

  • @ksref
    @ksref 6 месяцев назад +7

    Keep the wig!

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 6 месяцев назад +6

    I think it's cute and it's funny helps take the stress out of dating. Because I can tell you that if I when I date I'm going to think of you and that silly wig and it's going to make me feel like my audience is naked so to speak

  • @charitojung6478
    @charitojung6478 6 месяцев назад +2

    Watching from Florida😂

    • @LoveStrategies
      @LoveStrategies  6 месяцев назад

      Jealous! It's cooold here in Boston!

  • @Lovehappinesspeace6
    @Lovehappinesspeace6 6 месяцев назад +3

    Hi

  • @BetterTogether300
    @BetterTogether300 6 месяцев назад +1

    Id like to ask him out

  • @georgiag7527
    @georgiag7527 6 месяцев назад +2

    I’m a woman but I’d really like to know what the male flirty face is…btw…. Great wig….. you are a pro …it was hot…. I do that all the time when I’m with my man… without thinking… great move when it’s natural…

  • @meghanblanchard4843
    @meghanblanchard4843 6 месяцев назад +3

    You can't always read body language they could just being nice

  • @BetterTogether300
    @BetterTogether300 6 месяцев назад

    I can easily talk to people around me.

  • @donnapiraino3323
    @donnapiraino3323 6 месяцев назад

    😂🤣😂Cinderblock hands 😂🤣😂

  • @chrupka52
    @chrupka52 6 месяцев назад

    Great. I just gave the guy a note with my phone number yesterday after a year of him giving me signals he likes me. I just am not physically able to talk to him as I get completely paralysed when he's near. I guess I messed it up 😂😂

    • @kitkat0768
      @kitkat0768 6 месяцев назад

      Keep posted on how that went. I thought to do that once but also didn't want to in case I was wrong. Also same scenario, looks from him, looks from me (trying to be discrete) it was getting awkward and obvious when we locked eyes once. It became like he'd keep an eye out for me passing in a obvious way but he never tried coming up to me or spoke to me. . I didn't want to feel like a stalker or creep him out so I'd avoid where he was after a while. Hard when he works by a coffee place I used to go to.. Recently I was walking towards another store and him and a female were walking out before I got to the entrance, him carrying the grocery bags walking close to her, he didn't see me. I just guessed that must be his girlfriend So lucky I didn't approach him. If I'm wrong I'll leave it to him. I am the same, could barely breath when he looked my way. Reminded me of Henry Caville, smile and eyes.

    • @chrupka52
      @chrupka52 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@kitkat0768 don't do it. I've made a total wally of myself, haven't seen him since as I've been hiding so nope. It didn't go well - he is married!!! 🤣

    • @charlenewhittaker1674
      @charlenewhittaker1674 4 месяца назад +1

      @@chrupka52 well i think that was an incredibly brave thing to do! I'm sorry it didn't work out for you, but huge kudos for having the front to do that. I wish I was that confident!

  • @candy144
    @candy144 16 дней назад

    Great tips except for the touching part. I would never touch someone I hardly know. I also do not want someone to touch me that I hardly know. For my own situation, I locked eyes with someone around Christmas time, in a workplace setting, and it took him to the end of March to speak to me and have a conversation with me. Since then, there is smiling and small talk between us, but he has not asked me out on a date. I feel like he is interested because his face lights up when he sees me. Maybe he just thinks I'm cute and that's as far as it goes. It's so hard to read people. Oh well. 😮‍💨
    Also, do not send notes. He will think you are childish, or a stalker or desperate.

  • @johannajeremiah7301
    @johannajeremiah7301 6 месяцев назад

    25:02 😂

  • @meghanblanchard4843
    @meghanblanchard4843 6 месяцев назад +3

    It's not middle school to give guy your number on piece of paper your letting that guy know your interested nothing wrong with that.

  • @dekota011
    @dekota011 6 месяцев назад +3

    I would never flirt with everyone, Im not interested in everyone. I think it leads a guy on, isnt their job hard enough. !

  • @cherisekovack363
    @cherisekovack363 6 месяцев назад

    I agree with you about flirting and being sensual let them see that you are a sexy woman but you are one they have to work for remember Shania Twain song Man I Feel Like a Woman

  • @user-se3dm2ku8d
    @user-se3dm2ku8d 5 месяцев назад

    😅😅😅😅😅 The wig

  • @LizzieSutton
    @LizzieSutton 22 дня назад

    that’s so true but men today don’t approach that is why so many of us are using dating apps. young women say the same thing me. lack the confidence made to women being so far on their male side saying. why are you opening the door for me I can do it myself. not me I need help and the 9 men I work with are all willing to help me when I ask they are just too young or married ha ha

  • @taghiabiri3489
    @taghiabiri3489 6 месяцев назад

    Female, coming from a german speaking country I stare anyway long and often enough, so I get in Contact. 😂

  • @user-zu2yq8lv1i
    @user-zu2yq8lv1i 17 дней назад +1

    Latin women are more direct when it comes to letting a man they are interested, they will flirt....I did it with my husband, I met him at a bar in Bermuda, I flirted with him that's all it took....Latin women and men don't need to learn to flirt, it comes naturally.

  • @GalacticWoman
    @GalacticWoman 6 месяцев назад

    "Welcome mat"....thats what I call the hairy chest on a guy lol

  • @monikaleszko5343
    @monikaleszko5343 6 месяцев назад +2

    Lmaooo😂🎉❤

  • @emilytaylor1001
    @emilytaylor1001 6 месяцев назад +1

    🤩💝😇

  • @GailAndrews-cg5xe
    @GailAndrews-cg5xe 5 месяцев назад +1

    Y`all are cute

  • @gracia.s
    @gracia.s 11 дней назад

    😂😂😂

  • @tianiemitchell5692
    @tianiemitchell5692 6 месяцев назад +5

    So a woman has to show some sort of instant sudden sign of Interest

  • @kimberlysayer5113
    @kimberlysayer5113 6 месяцев назад

    Ugh, seriously?

  • @rachelyseayel
    @rachelyseayel 6 месяцев назад

    in a date anyobevhas to b themsekfs and not Bionce...

  • @pennypistol
    @pennypistol 6 месяцев назад

    I would never look at my phone to pretend for anyone else. Weak women.

    • @judyperri9496
      @judyperri9496 6 месяцев назад

      I’m pretty sure no one wants you😂

  • @BetterTogether300
    @BetterTogether300 6 месяцев назад

    Why shave the sides of your head

  • @witty2u
    @witty2u 6 дней назад

    Oh my gosh... 🤣. You Americans.
    You make stuff WAAAY TOOOOO complicated. 🤣🤣🤣

  • @johannajeremiah7301
    @johannajeremiah7301 6 месяцев назад

    25:02 😂

  • @Royal4aday
    @Royal4aday 6 месяцев назад

    😂😂😂