How Men Show Interest In A Woman | Men's BODY LANGUAGE Decoded

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  • Опубликовано: 28 июн 2024
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    In this video, dating coach Ryan Patrick expands his discussion on male body language and how men show interest in a woman. Stay tuned through the end of the video to become an expert in men's moves while Ryan brings you an in-depth video in men's body language decoded.

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  • @datingcoachryanpatrick
    @datingcoachryanpatrick  Месяц назад +1

    *NEW SUMMER 2024*
    I now offer self-guided *online courses* to help women of ANY age and experience level CRUSH those single streets FASTER and more efficiently! 🙂
    Check out my course offerings here 👉 www.boyfriendblueprint.com/courses

  • @citygirl999
    @citygirl999 4 года назад +1636

    I'd love to see a video on shy guys and body language since they act differently.

    • @afox78
      @afox78 4 года назад +17

      Yes !

    • @wendyzelaya182
      @wendyzelaya182 4 года назад +9

      Yes plssss pretty pleasu

    • @kikiocro58
      @kikiocro58 4 года назад +5

      Agree!

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 4 года назад +16

      I don't see how men and women can romantically bond with each other.
      I heard that women can build incredible friendships and become very close to each other in a way men can't bond, and I heard that science shows that women can bond very well with each other.
      I heard that generally, women are even more social than men are. After something bad happens, a woman quickly rushes to talk to all of her female friends to get support, whereas a male can isolate himself and grief alone.
      I also heard that women tend to be more emotional, more caring, more empathic, more compassionate, more affectionate, more loyal, more nurturing, more sympathetic, more sensitive, more kind hearted, more peaceful, more calmer, more gentle, more expressive, and more outward than men are, and thus bond more with other women in a special way that they can’t with men. Men, on the other hand, are not that emotional, and thus can’t bond with other men in a special way.
      I also heard that women are more comfortable being around with other women than they are with men. They have a type of bond that usually men with women won’t really have, or with men and men.
      I also heard that most women like to do affectionate things with their female friends like cuddling with them, while most men would never do affectionate things with their male friends (especially not cuddling with them). Men are usually much lonelier than women are. Men don't often talk about their personal problems with their male friends like how women do with their female friends.
      I also heard that females produce a lot more oxytocin than males do. And that's a reason why girls tend to hug a lot more and be a lot more physically affectionate than guys do.
      I also heard that women are very unique creatures, and women feel a lot safer in general with other women than they do with men if either is alone with each other, and it is easier for women to trust other women more than it is to trust a man.
      I also heard that women are very sociable with each other, so if something goes wrong, they like to speak about it to each other. This is a way to develop trust among women. Women often relate their problems with other women, which makes them feel more connected in a way.
      I also heard that most daughters have a very strong bond with their mother, while they don’t have one with their father, and most sons don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their mother nor their father.
      I also heard that most females have a very strong bond with their sisters, while they don’t have one with their brothers, and most males don’t have that strong of a bond with neither their sisters nor their brothers.
      I also heard that the bond that two females have with each other is the strongest bond of them all, and that's one of the reasons why sayings like “girls always have to stick together” exist.
      And I also heard that the friendship of males and females can hardly be as good as a female to a female relationship from a woman’s point of view.
      So if those things are true (which I am not sure at all), then how can a man and woman have a special strong type of bond with each other if women have a special strong type of bond with each other while men don’t have one with each other?
      Also, men and women are both mentally and physically different from each other (which is true), but would that at all effect the bonding between a male and female?

    • @trulylvd8320
      @trulylvd8320 3 года назад +51

      It ends of being the same even if he is shy. A shy guy will have to decide to break out his shell if he wants you. If he doesn’t leave that boy alone. No sympathy

  • @gabiposts
    @gabiposts 4 года назад +1821

    if he ain't fixing his socks he ain't the one ladies

  • @LadyHappyrainbow
    @LadyHappyrainbow 4 года назад +1083

    my crush: *gets closer to me*
    me: JESUS U SCARED ME

  • @Anastasia-xj6vh
    @Anastasia-xj6vh 3 года назад +1235

    ryan's video: how men show interest in a woman 🥺😌🥰
    ryan's background: SEX TOYS!

  • @mmaantj
    @mmaantj 4 года назад +492

    When i talk to my crush i cant stop smiling and i feel like an idiot
    Literally the only thing that makes me smile atm

  • @sarapatch616
    @sarapatch616 4 года назад +977

    Me:Lawd send me a sign he likes me🙏
    Guy: does all 17 signs
    Me: I don't think he likes me😞🙄😂😂😂😂

    • @Icyyddoll
      @Icyyddoll 4 года назад +32

      😭😭meeeee

    • @BritneyPhyllis
      @BritneyPhyllis 4 года назад +73

      I just did that! 😅 I recognised most of these and then thought “na he definitely does this to every girl he talks to” 😭😂

    • @sarapatch616
      @sarapatch616 4 года назад +11

      @@BritneyPhyllis girl same!!!! 🤣🤣

    • @happyheart8261
      @happyheart8261 4 года назад +35

      Omg this is so me 😂 I literally have no idea when a guy likes me unless he bluntly tells me and even then I'm like hmmm is he just being polite lol

    • @VixeyTeh
      @VixeyTeh 4 года назад +1

      Lol.

  • @Mssbeti
    @Mssbeti 4 года назад +328

    You're really nicest dating coach ever

  • @Novembermayhem707
    @Novembermayhem707 4 года назад +196

    "I know this is true because this is what my notes say" 😂

    • @danielaramos6208
      @danielaramos6208 3 года назад +8

      I read your comment the same time he said it lol🤣

  • @annaknekrin2441
    @annaknekrin2441 3 года назад +161

    The faces this guy makes had me laughing so hard lmao

  • @annelydiataranger7337
    @annelydiataranger7337 4 года назад +57

    Imagine having a crush and you desperately looking for any sign that he likes you, but you can't find any, EXCEPT ONE and you think he likes you. If you, like me, have done this he probably thinks you're crazy...

  • @VixeyTeh
    @VixeyTeh 4 года назад +128

    O...M....G...
    He's done all 17 of these things.
    In fact the eye wrinkles and huge smile kinda bothered me... like in finding Nemo, when the shark grins to be friendly. Like I got scared... but now I know it's because he likes me... I think I'm even more scared. Lol. (I love him to bits, I'm just also scared of getting my heart torn up again.)

    • @Elyhhk
      @Elyhhk 2 года назад

      lmaoooooooo

  • @cassgrainger4210
    @cassgrainger4210 3 года назад +272

    How can we see parted lips when everyones wearing face mask lol

  • @girasol225
    @girasol225 4 года назад +294

    I thought my crush liked me, but then he hugged me and patted my back 3 times. I'm totally friend zoned 😔

  • @smileyhappyradio
    @smileyhappyradio 2 года назад +43

    My abusive husband left me in the dust with steps, and then would yell back, "you walk like a snail!" I'm now divorced. Its been 20 years since I dated, so I'm watching these know what to expect. Kinda funny and entertaining to watch. I did it all wrong before.

  • @pada5992
    @pada5992 3 года назад +31

    "10. (opening a door for you, guiding you through a crowd, being protective) is the last thing on a guy's mind to do is if he's not interested in you" ... well yes. i have repeatedly seen men acting all "protective" around perfectly happy healthy young women, using the opportunity to gently touch her lower back, while ignoring a person right next to them, maybe juggling two kids and groceries while the door won't open. while i always thought helping that other person out would be the attractive thing to do.

  • @ajflick7500
    @ajflick7500 3 года назад +30

    One thing I learned from watching body language videos is that when a guy sees you, such as you're passing by each other at work, he'll raise his eyebrows. Usually accompanied with that open smile but sometimes he might be self-conscious and not smile but isn't aware he's raising his eyebrows. Once I knew this, I started watching this guy who I thought liked me and he did it! He also did the man spreading thing once so noticeably I thought he was trying to do the splits! He did many of the things mentioned in this video but then it turns out he's a malignant narcissist who made my bosses think I was chasing him and he had no interest in me.

    • @MaryamKhan-vf3zo
      @MaryamKhan-vf3zo 8 месяцев назад +4

      Oppss... That's crazy! This suggests that this body language signals interest but doesn't necessarily mean that the other person has good intentions for you.

  • @scottcollins9446
    @scottcollins9446 3 года назад +50

    I don’t do these things, I show my interest by looking in their eyes and walking like a man in confidence.

    • @debh6304
      @debh6304 3 года назад +3

      That is sexy

  • @alogan9502
    @alogan9502 4 года назад +185

    When you act out the examples 😂🤣

    • @nina2222
      @nina2222 3 года назад +2

      Yesssss 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @emyleeann3131
    @emyleeann3131 4 года назад +41

    My boyfriend does most if not all of these and that makes me super happy 🥺☺️

  • @alexandraespinoza7109
    @alexandraespinoza7109 4 года назад +30

    “i know this is true because this is what my notes say” lmaooo really enjoy watching these videos !

  • @MR-zq5gt
    @MR-zq5gt 3 года назад +136

    Legit lost it at sex toys in the background 😂

  • @Asmr-ng8xe
    @Asmr-ng8xe 4 года назад +91

    “I know this is true because this is what my notes say” 😂👏🏼

  • @littllemisscupcake
    @littllemisscupcake 3 года назад +27

    The faces with the music are hilarious 😂

    • @nina2222
      @nina2222 3 года назад +2

      Yes its PERFECTIONNNN 😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @R-hp4mj
    @R-hp4mj Месяц назад +3

    Omg! I literally had to pause watching your video Ryan, because I was laughing so hard I couldn’t hear the audio. I am literally crying and laughing my tummy hurts. You are sooo funny! 😂
    Love the dramatic demonstrations of facial expressions we should look for as women.
    The fixing socks and flared nostrils was unexpected and seemed so random.
    “I know it’s true because it says so in my notes.” Hahahaha I died of laughter.

  • @animalames78
    @animalames78 4 года назад +56

    I’m really not comfortable with men giving my body “wondering eyes” I feel I can’t trust them at all and feel those guys are just looking at you like a sexual object.
    Great video - Thank you, very informative 😊

    • @nofybn7794
      @nofybn7794 4 года назад +10

      I AGREE WITH YOU! IT IS NOT OKAY. I DON'T CARE ABOUT MALE NATURE. BS. I AM NOT A TOY.

    • @ojala5555
      @ojala5555 3 года назад +9

      Exactly,Amelia, I hate wondering eyes on my body. An intelligent man never does it undisguisedly.

  • @isabelledavis3078
    @isabelledavis3078 3 года назад +16

    The guy I hope likes me was always really polite to just me. We were in an after school group of about 40 girls and 3 guys(it was a dance troop) and he would always kind of stick with the other guys and stay silent. Then on end day we had a long rehearsal and he would stick around to talk to me, and got a semi heavy door for me and then apologized for not getting the door sooner. So cute 🥰

  • @sjjdjdsnnsnssh8087
    @sjjdjdsnnsnssh8087 4 года назад +25

    Crush:Running up to me
    Me :screaming and running to the other direction ;)😂😂😂

  • @d.m.8311
    @d.m.8311 4 года назад +59

    idk why I'm watching this, glad to know my boyfriend is interested in me though haha :)

  • @casy6203
    @casy6203 4 года назад +91

    There's the humor that attracted me to your channel🤣😂🤣😂🤣👍

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +10

      I definitely try to infuse it in there when I can Casy 😄Thanks for watching!

    • @Franny90.
      @Franny90. 3 года назад

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick I agree, but what makes me smile too is, to see all the good signs in a man but then he covers his men parts with both hands ^^" Can you make a video about this exeption? Is this a form of stopping himself because he shouldn`t want what he might wants because there is a girlfriend? just guessing.

  • @samanthastubberfield8975
    @samanthastubberfield8975 2 года назад +29

    My friend recommended this to me cause she genuinely found you funny. I was not disappointed especially the parched drinking water one hahahahaha good stuff also very helpful. Thanks

  • @cairas.6142
    @cairas.6142 4 года назад +22

    I’m so happy that I’ve found your channel. Thanks for dropping gems in a very humorous way😂

  • @7575michael
    @7575michael 2 месяца назад +3

    Ther real sign of interest is how the guy stares at you ...a deep or a smiling stare is the ndication that he finds you attractive especially when it happens all the time .

    • @arrow1042
      @arrow1042 4 дня назад

      Thee smiling stare sometimes is annoying. I feel like i'm not being taken seriously though. 😅

  • @jeril9613
    @jeril9613 3 года назад +3

    I have rewatched these body language videos so many times. I really enjoy them.

  • @karenjensen7566
    @karenjensen7566 4 года назад +12

    My #1 guy the 2nd time we went out. I was singing karaoke and he was at the bar getting a beer. The moment I started singing his eyes were glued to me like he’d just won the lottery and he walked right up to where I was singing without paying a bit of attention to.anything or anybody else. I knew he liked me before this but after this I knew I had him.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +2

      Gawd I LOVE me some karaoke! You must have *totally* been crushing your song to get that response from him!! Well done! 👏🏼👏🏼

  • @littleforestowl
    @littleforestowl 2 года назад +5

    The guy I have interest in, does almost all 17. But we’re stuck in body language limbo on friendzone avenue. I wish I knew how to give a green light, beyond body language, but without being obvious 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @nicoladouglas3270
    @nicoladouglas3270 3 года назад +5

    Those facial expressions!!! I'm dying!! Great info thanks!!

  • @LisaGemini
    @LisaGemini 4 года назад +8

    Love this, Ryan. Your facial expressions are hilarious! Thanks for making this. I never heard of fixing his socks or flaring his nostrils. Those are wild.

  • @mostlyCivilized
    @mostlyCivilized 4 года назад +19

    I get a lot of signs that he's interested in me as a person (smile, open legs, eye contact) but he doesn't really show the sexual signs (open lips, fixing himself, or touching). I guess that means he's just being friendly? I have such a huge crush but I've pretty much given up 😖

  • @elizabethgalantuomini2838
    @elizabethgalantuomini2838 4 года назад +5

    I have to say...you are so animated - It makes me smile and stay interested. Thanks

  • @pattkate837
    @pattkate837 4 года назад +17

    The one syncing with the other's steps are SO accurate how do I just realise it now?!!

  • @swanerly
    @swanerly 4 года назад +5

    I love your videos always makes me laugh! Lol, I am still trying to understand what men want but at the end of the day, I do what feels good to me. I share my views and feelings and I let him express his openness and honesty. I have been seeing someone for a few months now we have great communication and connection but he doesn't want to be in a relationship but we keep calling, texting, and we spend time together and we share so many intimate and personal stuff. So I am giving him his space doing me thing having a full life. Time will tell ;) thank you again Ryan

  • @scarlettscott6898
    @scarlettscott6898 4 года назад +23

    Literally the boy I’m in love with does every single one of these but I can’t help feeling it’s just cos we’re best mates and he’s super comfortable around me now :/

    • @kayleebuurma6395
      @kayleebuurma6395 4 года назад +2

      Scarlett Scott yes I agree sm!! The guy that I love is so friendly and nice to everyone that he’s impossible to read lol:(

  • @Katie7Rebecca
    @Katie7Rebecca 4 года назад +9

    Fun to watch as always.:) can't wait for the next video.😁 I like your smile and everything. Thanks a million!

  • @flowerlullaby
    @flowerlullaby 4 года назад +28

    I like the psychological aspects of your videos. Really helps, as I'm into psychology.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +2

      I LOVE being able to add that in, Alexa! I don't think I'd be nearly as excited about my content if I didn't have that key ingredient in there 🙌🏼Glad you dig 😉

  • @phoenixride
    @phoenixride 4 года назад +8

    Thank you Ryan, I love your videos! You are great and I really appreciate your style and help!😊🙏

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад

      You bet, Phoenix! Appreciate your kind words and thanks for watching 🙂

  • @katedauphinee7536
    @katedauphinee7536 4 года назад +45

    You're hilarious, Ryan, and informative. Thanks for your great words of wisdom! Really looking forward to next week! :)

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +3

      Thanks Kate! Lol next week's was BY FAR the most challenging video I've made to date, but I DID IT! ✊🏼Hope you like it 🙂

  • @mariageorghiades9420
    @mariageorghiades9420 4 года назад +7

    Great video Ryan. Love the humour and your lovely smile at the beginning. You made my day. 😁😄😘❤️

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +1

      Awesome to hear, Maria! Glad you had some fun with this video today 😄

  • @ilovelambs5534
    @ilovelambs5534 2 года назад +8

    “Now I know this is true because this is what my notes say” honesty at its finest

  • @shirleyjimenez29
    @shirleyjimenez29 3 года назад +1

    Awww I love this video! I jumped of joy when I saw the 3 signs my crush used when he was around me. 💕💕💕💋❤️. Thank you

  • @mariamartinademarte
    @mariamartinademarte 2 года назад +5

    2:50 absolutely killed me 🤣

  • @bernadettegutierrez9045
    @bernadettegutierrez9045 3 года назад +5

    😂😂😂 the dry throat..this is so funny, subscribed😂😂😂

  • @annagracemyesara7139
    @annagracemyesara7139 4 года назад +186

    the guy I'm currently talking to does all of these ahahahahhah. this hardly happens to me
    Update:
    he approached me so he could get into my pants. Stopped talking to him though. Now, I be looking like a clown💔

    • @xirya9898
      @xirya9898 3 года назад +17

      Ow girlll...

    • @Hippyfishhikes
      @Hippyfishhikes 3 года назад +28

      Nope, he's the clown. You did the right thing for you and put your self-respect as the priority👏🏼 Be PROUD of yourself.

    • @annagracemyesara7139
      @annagracemyesara7139 3 года назад +2

      @@Hippyfishhikes 🥺🥺

    • @laurenyoon3298
      @laurenyoon3298 2 года назад +1

      oh wow

    • @lemonvate9860
      @lemonvate9860 2 года назад +1

      💀💀💀💀

  • @deef2429
    @deef2429 3 года назад +21

    Ryan makes me depressed and laugh at the same time -____-

  • @cuddlebuddy88mc
    @cuddlebuddy88mc 4 года назад +3

    Lol, "puppy dog eyes and panic stricken". Love it

  • @elisuemiya2060
    @elisuemiya2060 4 года назад +1

    I subscribed just because your voice is so easy to listen to. A lot of other dating coaches sound too hyper and I cant listen to them for long.

  • @aichaaicha8805
    @aichaaicha8805 4 года назад +6

    very informative as usual, the vid u talked about at the end would be the answer to my prayers and I need it fast

  • @lynnesawyer4999
    @lynnesawyer4999 3 года назад +1

    Very informative! Your videos are also funny which makes them even better 😁

  • @jenelleworme7598
    @jenelleworme7598 4 года назад +4

    Could you do a video on the different ways a guy says I love you? Like when someone says it too quickly, a shy guy, one with no meaning etc.

  • @ginny9080
    @ginny9080 4 года назад +17

    I went out with a guy who would face me at times, but also turn to the side to cross his legs, and his eye wonder around sometimes. I’m thinking he’s not interested. Great video!

    • @familiaabc1
      @familiaabc1 4 года назад +3

      Or he could be acting like his not interested. Lol who knows

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад

      Definitely not sending you those interested vibes but oh well... on to the next! 😄Thanks Ginny!

  • @karahoglund
    @karahoglund 4 года назад +3

    turns out this actually happens a lot to me with my crushes and never noticed, but i was still really close friends with my ex (who is happily married so i dont have feelings in that way) and i realized deep down subconsciously i still looked to him with my vulnerability, so i wasnt allowing myself to be open with other guys and unknowingly put up a wall. luckily, i felt vulnerable around my new crush. a feeling i thought was bad at first but it lead me to do some soul searching and came to this conclusion. i always thought it was because im ugly and gained weight since highschool. but those things really dont matter. (also turns out im not ugly! haha i actually truley see that now) what matters is being honest and loving towards yourself and allowing someone in. Guys need to feel needed too.

  • @iinspiredmantic2301
    @iinspiredmantic2301 4 года назад +12

    Awesome video Ryan🙂You've got the best... facial expressions ever!🙂I can't wait for next week's video, that one is certainly gonna be a very interesting one 🙂I really admire you for going out of your comfort zone & covering that topic🙂

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +3

      Haha this one was clearly a fun one for me to make 😄 Can't wait for you to see next week's vid omg 🤦🏻‍♂️Should certainly be interesting 🙂

    • @iinspiredmantic2301
      @iinspiredmantic2301 4 года назад +1

      ​@@datingcoachryanpatrick I'm sure it will be very educational & entertaining as well🙂

  • @swedishgirl2506
    @swedishgirl2506 4 года назад +6

    Wow, a lot of these were completely new to me.

  • @Mylilgem
    @Mylilgem 3 года назад +1

    This is the best video what Ive seen so far from this subject. I began to search some advices and clues, because there is this one guy and he has been looking at me from the very first time we've met. We have this same hobby. When we are in the class he is always looking in to my eyes and smiles. He doesnt do that for other women. When he comes out of the room and sees me there, he is taking a long look at my direction to make sure that Ive seen it. Plus he has done some silly things to make me laugh. But I am not sure is he interested of me in that way or is it something else......this is too desperate....😅

  • @AnnaGee347
    @AnnaGee347 3 года назад +2

    You're freaking hilarious 😆!! Awesome vid!

  • @rebecadeleon4446
    @rebecadeleon4446 4 года назад +2

    happy monday! great video 🤩

  • @user-wm5ko9vm5d
    @user-wm5ko9vm5d 3 года назад

    Hey Ryan loved this video helps so much

  • @adriedrake8605
    @adriedrake8605 3 года назад +2

    Yass my new guy checked almost all.... well see 2nd date is already on schedule 🤗

  • @gloriatoribio3317
    @gloriatoribio3317 4 года назад +1

    Thank you Ryan very interested!!

  • @marinelouw1553
    @marinelouw1553 4 года назад +13

    The board at the back in the beginning😳

  • @crimsongrave101
    @crimsongrave101 4 года назад +27

    Oops- Did not expect that background 😂😂

    • @jenniferbloomfield3656
      @jenniferbloomfield3656 4 года назад

      😂😂😂 it was hard not to! I spent the first 30secs staring nothing but the board. Then wondering if I was the only one that had noticed these words were in great big bold letters whilst the other I needed 20/20 vision or something.

  • @sirendep2144
    @sirendep2144 4 года назад

    The first time I saw him, I was amazed that he had so many friends and he had freedom of expression, he could be himself. Then the way all his attention was on me.

  • @serana71
    @serana71 2 года назад +1

    Thanks a lot for this video, this is really REALLY interesting a very clear. :)

  • @Rubiastraify
    @Rubiastraify 4 года назад +40

    Great list! One night when I was having dinner with my date (he was sitting across from me) I consciously started mirroring his body language, and he became more animated and happy! Then, I changed and watched to see if he would mirror mine -and he did! Fun! Oh, and I LOVE it when a man of interest puts his hand on the small of my back! I do feel protected, and like he's stepping into taking the lead. ❤

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +1

      Thanks Game Over! Missed ya these past few weeks! Gotta love mirroring, eh? 😁

  • @chrisalcah1887
    @chrisalcah1887 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Coach! 😊

  • @sonyanicaodhagain978
    @sonyanicaodhagain978 4 года назад +4

    You're so cute demonstrating facial expressions. Loving your videos 😊

  • @xw6475
    @xw6475 4 года назад +13

    Dear Ryan! Thank you so much for making this video, so informative and funny in the same time. Noted:))

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +1

      Beautiful X W! Thanks for checking it out 🙂

    • @xw6475
      @xw6475 4 года назад +1

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick Of course!! Always 👏

  • @swatichoudhary9066
    @swatichoudhary9066 4 года назад +21

    I always always end up laughing so much because he is so funny.

    • @ejc1692
      @ejc1692 3 года назад

      Swati Choudhary you are so pretty!

  • @dr.baotran8448
    @dr.baotran8448 3 года назад

    Ryan, thank you for your insights...

  • @ojala5555
    @ojala5555 3 года назад

    You are always so funny😂 and with the most charming smile. Nr.10 is my absolute favourite of these signs😍

  • @sorchx
    @sorchx 2 года назад +7

    If he tells you that time goes extremely fast when we're talking, is that also a sign?

  • @EmmaLangdon
    @EmmaLangdon 2 года назад +3

    I’ve watched this like 6 times and still have no clue...
    That’s how you know
    I’m gonna be single
    For a long time

  • @Dessiii123
    @Dessiii123 4 года назад +20

    Hey y'all I'm not a native English speaker just so you know :)
    Ok so this might be long, but bare with me. I've been talking to my crush for 6 months, he's 4 years older that me too, we used to hangout like once in 2 weeks because we're both college students and it's difficult to find some free time for us both to see each other sooner. I can tell that he used to care about me, I mean I live in a different city and have to travel to my college by bus,but he would go with me to the station and wait for the bus to come(would leave only when I'd get inside) always would ask if I came back home safely. We would playfully fight on who's gonna pay for coffee first(he would sometimes pay without telling me and act as if nothing happened, but of course I'd buy it back next time when we'd meet up bc I don't want to use him) fast forward to 3 months of talking : we were talking about something in his car and all of the sudden he asked me if I wanted a neck massage :o (I already had a tiny crush on him so I accepted the offer) then during debember he was back in his own hometown so we didn't really talk, every few days I guess but when January came, we met up right after new years for a coffee. After that we hung out 2 weeks later and when we were near this lake, he told me to get out of the car with him. I did and he went to the truck to take something out. It was already dark so I could hardly see what he was holding in his hand. Took out a tank full of gasoline and poured it over the object. I then saw that it was a notebook that he lit up on fire. I asked him jokingly why couldn't he just drop it into a trashcan or something and he replied that it was an album full of photos with him and his ex gf(she gave it to him as a gift) so yeah, basically he burned an album in front of me..
    Fast forward to 2 more weeks, we went to a sea museum and after that I was about to go to the bus station but he was like "let's go to my car, I'll take you there, but before that let's go grab some coffee" I was happy that he wanted me to stay so I agreed :) that sneaky bish paid for my cup AGAIN.. When we were chilling in his car out of the sudden he started to hit my thigh gently/playfully and I didn't really say anything, I mean I didn't mind it one bit and after that there were a few firm squeezes here and there and the he told me that I have nice, strong legs🤣
    Fast forward to valentine's day.. I invited him to hangout sometime that week but the only free day that he had was 14th of February. So we met up, took some coffee with us and went on a 2 hour walk 🙃
    Again fast forward to 2 more weeks we met up for coffee and that was the last time that I saw him /had any usual conversation.. Ok so almost 2 weeks ago I invited him to come over to my town I he didn't have any plans on Saturday. He responded that at the time he haven't planned anything and if nothing won't show up, he'll come. Then on Friday evening I asked if he's still coming and his response was that he doesn't know, that there's a possibility that his friend will be coming, but if he won't show up, T will come over. This Friday will mark exactly 2 weeks since I last heard from him. Like come on, at least you could've messaged me and told me that you won't make it.

    • @malena9513
      @malena9513 2 года назад

      What happened next ???

    • @Dessiii123
      @Dessiii123 2 года назад

      @@malena9513 heheh, I forgot that I wrote this big paragraph :D well after a month covid hit us, but he reaped, we're still good friends, he even helped me to buy my first fricking car! Right now he's very far away because of work but we talk/message each other as often as we can. Also because of the virus last year I barely saw him, like I've mentioned before, back then I saw him 4 or 5 times, but after that I saw him 2 more times in 2020. Thank God this year he came back to my university's town, so we were able to see each other more often. Not much of an update I guess

    • @malena9513
      @malena9513 2 года назад

      @@Dessiii123 do you still like him? If yes then I wish you good luck and I hope everything works out

    • @Dessiii123
      @Dessiii123 2 года назад

      @@malena9513 I don’t know, at times it feels like my crush is slowly decreasing, but then I receive an unespected selfie,or he makes future plans that involves the both of us, it makes my heart warm and fuzzy

    • @malena9513
      @malena9513 2 года назад +1

      @@Dessiii123 I completely understand you because I feel the same way about my current crush lol😭

  • @accesstotheredcarpet
    @accesstotheredcarpet 3 года назад +1

    Checking his breath had me laughing out loud! Too funny Ryan 😂😂😂

  • @mercyadong1295
    @mercyadong1295 3 года назад +1

    The opening leg things😂😂 he does it all the time when I’m beside him

  • @suneedspeace
    @suneedspeace 3 года назад

    wow... now. i can confirm that none is crushing over me for sure!💯

  • @cococha
    @cococha 4 года назад +8

    Your really an amazing dating coach.. i have learnt a lot from you.

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +1

      So happy you're on the channel Helper! 🙂

    • @cococha
      @cococha 4 года назад

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick Me too 😍

  • @LisaBrown-jm7vo
    @LisaBrown-jm7vo 4 года назад +11

    Ryan, I've watched all your RUclips videos and going by this video, my "crush" has displayed 9 of the signs in your video but not approached me for a date. In addition to the 9 "signs", he's complimented me on my appearance several times, sent me a personal thank you note for bread that I made for him, and winked at me as he was leaving his office to treat another patient. However, he's my Chiropractor so I don't know if he's interested but professionally prohibited from dating a patient. He is a widower and his wife died 4 years ago. I am trying very hard not to be obvious or do or say anything that could be taken as me being "forward" but this man makes me feel like no man that I've ever met. We are both in our 60's. I feel like my time is running out to get him to ask me out because I only have 5 more appointments before my treatment plan will be done. HELP, I don't want this one to get away!!!

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +11

      Hi Lisa. If you want my opinion on the matter, I’d say the stage is set perfectly for you to stake your claim here. Based on what you e described, the only artificial barrier that’s separating either of you from making a move on each other is, well... professionalism. You’ve got 5 more treatments with him, so play the role of the cordial patient, but be connected with him and just be present. When the treatments end, so does the professional relationship, so it’s time to seize the day! Ask this man to grab a drink, or go for a walk, or whatever you think would be fun! If he says no, it’s OK! You’ve teased it out and you didn’t let a perfectly good opportunity to go to waste. You’ll be glad you did regardless of the end result 😉 Good luck

    • @LisaBrown-jm7vo
      @LisaBrown-jm7vo 4 года назад +2

      Ryan, thank you so much for responding to my comment. That is great news that I'm not reading more into the situation than I should be because of MY feelings for him. He was pretty chatty at my appointment yesterday volunteering detailed information about his children and their importance to him. I sensed he was a bit "off" at the appointment but I attributed that to the fact that this week is the 4 year anniversary of his wife's death. Thanks for your encouragement.

    • @sairysv8625
      @sairysv8625 3 года назад +4

      @@LisaBrown-jm7vo hey Lisa what ended up happening? Being nosy here :// lol I hope It worked out

    • @katrin6388
      @katrin6388 3 года назад

      i have something similar going on...only its my mom whose the patient and i went with her a couple times. i only saw him 4 time and i just dont know how to approach him since its such an inconvinient situation.

  • @cheri1666
    @cheri1666 2 года назад

    Great video Ryan hahahaha you are so funny but also understanding

  • @sflo4538
    @sflo4538 4 года назад +27

    I love your imitation of the mannerisms! My guy gets dreamy and parts his lips all. the. time. He also does most of the other signs... I'm in :-)

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +1

      Awesome sauce! Sounds like you've got a winner 😀

    • @dancingdaze
      @dancingdaze 4 года назад +4

      @@datingcoachryanpatrick your puppy eye look is hilarious 😊

  • @bettyssalmon7168
    @bettyssalmon7168 4 года назад +12

    A guy can display all of these signs and be interested in you AND still be a player. I met a man who seemed genuinely interested in me and he was, we got on very well. Same interests same humour, we laughed all the time. We went away for the weekend - separate hotel rooms. After 2 months he changed daily calls to weekly texts until I dropped him. Looking back, he was interested in me - he displayed all the body language signs - but only for sex and when I made it clear that I was not into casual sex he lost interest. I later found out he was married with children so all he wanted was a side chick.

  • @elizabethwhite5755
    @elizabethwhite5755 4 года назад +7

    Me and my crush always make eye contact for like 2 seconds and then we turn back to our friends and laugh at a joke then turn back and stare at Each other again lol

  • @Clock_Work
    @Clock_Work 3 года назад +7

    *when your in marching band with him and the sync thing happens with all of us by habit even when we aren’t in band at the time*

  • @treintaydiez
    @treintaydiez 2 года назад +1

    This guy is hilarious and really helpful

  • @jenniferjer3332
    @jenniferjer3332 4 года назад +2

    Great info, thanks!

  • @xoxomemyselfni
    @xoxomemyselfni 4 года назад +18

    Omg you’re hilarious 😂 @ “I know this is true cuz this is what my notes say”

  • @Kelly-ip9nf
    @Kelly-ip9nf 2 года назад

    I love your little example skits. Very funny

  • @aannaahelenaa
    @aannaahelenaa 4 года назад +20

    I would really love a video on how to respond to "what's up"... People sooo often ask it!
    Ps. Not only for romantic relationships

    • @datingcoachryanpatrick
      @datingcoachryanpatrick  4 года назад +2

      Hey Anna! I made a texting video that touched on women opening with phrases like this with guys (and not to do it), but if a guy does it, I would literally text him "What's up??" By putting the question mark on his own question, it forces him to come up with something else to say and be more creative. 🙂Fortunately, I've got an AWESOME video regarding "Texting Signs Guys *Aren't* Interested" coming out in 3 weeks, so you'll have a whole lot more to work with there I'm sure 😉

    • @truerosie
      @truerosie 4 года назад

      It's an idiot expression. Ignore it.

    • @aligaga806
      @aligaga806 7 месяцев назад

      I say it back like on scream 😅

  • @arezoumoaiedi3739
    @arezoumoaiedi3739 3 года назад

    Again as usual :👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻perfectttttt

  • @axelsme
    @axelsme 4 года назад +1

    Haah, Made my evening. Giggled much 😂 thank u