1. Your biggest cheerleader 2. Nonverbal contact 3. Checks-in with you during the day 4. Partner in Shine- got your back. 5. Excited to meet your people. 6. He isn’t focused on physical intimacy as he is emotionally attached. 7. He can’t wait to share YOU with his world.
@@helensanderson7092 I agree with u Helen. I did have that, but he wasted my time and never proposed to me, tried to move-in together nothing. Just had me for 13 years and did nothing with me so I left.
My current husband hit all of these on the head. This is my best relationship ever and being married to him, I still get the same treatment as when we were dating and engaged. It's incredible to have this level of love.
@@britvica I went through a divorce that was horrible. The ex still stalks me online so it's a force of habit to say current when talking about my husband so the ex doesn't think it's him I love. Long, dark story but there's a method to my madness.
When I knew... I bought him engraved crystal whiskey glasses. Years later... Out of the blue he sent me a pic of himself totally relaxed, drinking from it. And he told me I was the best he has ever had and called me his Queen and said that I will always get the best of him. He is stoic. And does not blow smoke or give false hope. Some time later, I spent the weekend with him. Friday was lit, Saturday was wild. Sunday, we cuddled all day. Talked, laughed, non pyshical intimacy. Monday, we had coffee, he made breakfast. We chatted for hours. I knew then.
Looks like my best friend is really in love with me....i was confused about his behaviour....every signs matches clearly... .i think we are meant for each other..he treats me different than other girls....we have a beautiful connection Between us.....keep us in your prayer.....
No matter what you going through don’t feel depressed and don’t let anyone or anything make you feel less of yourself because in every problem there’s a solution and in relationships you can also get the specific person you want to love you ! You can get help in everything you want, only if you ask for help.
Yep! Mine does all of the above! He texts me first thing in the morning, as soon as he wakes and calls me immediately after work. He’s been doing that everyday for 11 months.
@@stacey4051 Try not to worry about it. Some dudes just don't simp and prefer to wait until they can actually sit down and actually have a meaningful convo and actually spend time with you before they message etc. Thats how my bf is. He literally said he purposely gets all his ish done before contacting me so we can have the rest of the time together with minimal interruptions.
Hi Mat. I just want to apologize for the women commenting in a rude, negative, or personal way. Ladies, Mat is trying to help you. You have a choice to watch or not. And please stop making thirsty comments about him when he has already stated he is in a relationship. That's disrespectful. Saying you don't like his hair a certain way is beyond ridiculous. Carrying on this way is indicative of who you are as a person and will prevent you from finding real, lasting love. You know you'd be upset if Mat was telling you to change yourself to please a man. So don't tell him how to act or look or talk. MAT.... keep doing you, dear. You are appreciated and supported 🙏
I like it when a guy shows me he can be vulnerable with me by sharing something he created...plays me a song, shows me a drawing, project, poem, cooks for me. The guy im currently interested in is sharing his music.
Aw, I hope so! He texts me every day, even while he’s at work (and vice versa), and he’s always so “proud” when I accomplish the most mundane things (like my daily workout!).
aw Mat. My intuition is totally telling me that you are absolutely besotted with this new lady in your life. I'm sooo happy for you. All that inner work is paying serious dividends for you now.
I will wait. Someday, the truth will be revealed. Hopefully, this person gets the courage to speak his truth, time don't wait, and other things could happen. we're not going to be here in this world forever.
My crush was like this: He always changed seats to sit next to me. He always found a reason to talk to me even though we weren't close. He always smiles around me. He always made me laugh. I always caught him looking at me. He always complimented me. He always greeted me with "Good morning," "Take Care," and "good luck." He always cheered for me in any activities we did in class. He always showed he cared for me; by asking "Are you okay" something like that, and he helped me with things even if I didn't ask him to or rejected his help, he still insisted. I also noticed that his friends were trying to hint something. When his friend asked him, "What do you like in a girl?" he totally described me🤦🏻♀️. When he saw my father outside the school, even if he was busy, he approached him, introduced himself, acted very politely, and talked to him. There were a lot of signs that he showed he liked me, but I didn't want to assume because that time I wasn't confident with my looks because I have a lot of pimples and he's so handsome and rich. I felt like he was too good for me to like me. But one time, our instructor asked us about our weaknesses. When it was his turn, he said, "A girl" while looking at me.
Please don't say that you are beautiful as you are in psychology we have something names attractive between souls it's not about physical shape but about behavior or about your personality is more attractive . So girl you are pretty ❤
I saw my love in a (dream) when I was 13 years old. I met him in person in 1973 when I was 31 years old. He and I looked at each other as if we had met before. We were married to other people at the time, but it didn't really matter. We had our time together (off and on) for 40 +years Every thing you said about his love for me is so true. I am 77 years old now and he passed away in 2016. I miss and love him so much 😢.
Sounds like a twin flame? You dream about them before you meet them, they feel like home, it feels like you've known them for decades, centuries even when you just met them..How magical and beautifully romantic to have a connection like that. Maybe you will be able to reconnect in another lifetime. 💕
@@saijanaswamy7210 this is a past life connection, not a “twin flame” one, which is BS. The only spiritual unions that exist are soul mate, past life, and positive or negative karmic connections. And all of this is pre-determined via peoples nakshatras in sidereal Vedic astrology (Jyotish), as some people are made to be perfect matches for one another, while some are made to be enemies, and others are neutral.
Love your videos, I’ve been single for over 13 years and appreciate the details of what to look for, personally in my culture, men are not afraid to show affection and let you know how much they are interested in learning everything about you, if he thinks about you , he doesn’t hide it!!!!
Great video, Mat. I remember very early on, my new bf took me to his boss's house to have Sunday dinner with his family. That struck me as quite a committed sign as we'd only been together quite a short time.
I believe when a man wants to get to know me better he wants to talk to me about anything and everything, and I can laugh with him endlessly and be myself
I felt happy and complete that all this sign matches while my heart already know. I am madly in love that my heart beats like a love songs everytime I think of him. Some point I dont need to question my emotions because you knew it that you both in the same page and honesty. when a man checks you in every hour and call you if you safely arrive on your way home.
I loved to know that because I was married to a narcisist for about 17 years and a half, which changed me so badly that I almost lost myself. Now, 3 years after getting divorced, someone has appeared and now I am afraid and excited at the same time. Afraid because I was traumatized by the previous relationship, and excited because this man is so different. And guess what!!! He fits all this 7 signs. ! OMG! I am truly happy! Thanks for sharing it. ❤
*Perhaps we are in this world to search for love, find it and lose it, again and again. With each love, we are born anew, and with each love that ends, we collect a new wound. I am covered with proud scars.*
I agree! I think Mat has it bad for this new lady! As for me, I'm elated to admit that my man has exhibited, textbook, all 7 signs. And we couldn't be happier!
Lol, bless your heart. It's not called "catching feelings" because it is so elusive and you finally get it. It's called that because it's being likened to catching a disease.
My first husband passed away while we were young & the happiest we'd been, we had one child, knew each other all through school. Now, I don't want a man to even like me. I still feel married...Yet I feel loneliness. I feel somewhat lost, not knowing if I should live without a mate the rest of my life.
I understand your feelings since I am also a widow. I suggest taking a class, or hobby that YOU like. Attend a church that does volunteer activities in the community. First step is to make a decision to become sociable.
I really hear what you're saying. I've been there. I believe, now, that he doesn't want me to spend my life pining away for him. I believe that he would want me to live. He knows that what we had is rare, and irreplaceable.
The love that you shared with him will never die. Nothing can replace it. You even have a little human being as a living reminder of that union - not that you need a reminder per se. Life is short, though. Time flies by - live, love, hope again. 💞😘🙏
He has even told me that he wished he had met me first. He would even leave the meeting he was in to see me. He even introduced me to his friends, and I would introduced him to my friends. 💗
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I realized that the guy I'm talking to fancies me a bit more because he decided to mention that I made a change to myself and complimented it and even though I made a joke about putting me in his luggage next time he travels, he responded with "of course". If you knew our history you would be like, "Oh wait a minute"... He lives out of state, so I have to listen how he says things especially since he's an introvert.
I think this is still true of platonic attachment. I have a number of platonic male friends I've loved for decades and we do these things for one another. My poly partners do these things after 17 years of successful life sharing at an even more profound level. This video made me feel really lucky
11:10 It is very obvious when he cuts short his long ago-planned holiday because he wants to be with you. Then he wants to see you right away. Yes, falling in love.
there is a difference between what it should be and what it is, every man will have his individual language..just so you know..a lady's response and his experiences will shape how he shows it.
You're absolutely right. Building a healthy and meaningful relationship requires mutual understanding, respect, and effective communication between partners.🙏❤
I want to express my immense gratitude towards you Matt. You have helped me unlock mu gifts and start sharing magic to help other women to step inti their true power. I was in tge grouo coaching you did for light workers with Aaron Doughty and Victor Oddo and since July I have been sharing my voice loud and proud. I cant wait to help and inspire women like you do and to the extent that you do❤❤❤
I'm leaving on Monday to meet my xbox gamer friend of three years face to face for the first time. He checks all seven boxes of Mat's video. I'M SO EXCITED YOU GUYS! I get to meet my person! 🥰 A special thanks to Mat for sharing wisdom and insights into how men think and feel and process information. 🙏 It's made me a stronger and more confident partner.
So happy for you, i hope it happens to me too, I have an online game friend and we been talking for months already and he clearly states that he wanted to have a relationship with me, but i told him that im not ready for a relationship, but he said he is willing to wait whenever im ready, and he only play that game whenever im playing too
@@sophiaperiii1483 Meeting my guy was amazing. Despite knowing him online for 3 years, there were surprises about meeting him. Our minds fill in the blanks with idealized content however, his personality was exactly what I was expecting. I hope your guy is worthy of the risk and vulnerability of meeting a LDR partner for the first time. Be so safe! Sending love to you. 🥰
@@YoNeener thank you so much for this i really appreciate it,same for me i hope he is worth the risk, so far he is a great guy, its just that there is some that im still wary of, so im still getting to know him, and will also follow you up if ever it will work out for me or will remember this hahaha
@@YoNeener Awww this was sweet. Been with my guy for 2 years and have yet to have that face to face although hes mentioned me moving in with him a few times 😏
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Tbh, he is actually doing all these things... And idk if it's just me imagining too much or... But he actually Is doing all these... Thank you so muchN
Nobody likes me this way. I don't experience these things from others. Usually it's there's for a few weeks and then it was all words. Guys aren't with the right intensions anymore. They don't want 1 person.
Hello to whom it may concern I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back and I believe he can also help you to attract back your lover and solve your relationship problems 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I also told myself I told myself I was going to stop chasing the guy who put me a friend zone he's walking around like it's no big deal. So I don't come over to his table when he's there I just go somewhere else and try not to look his way.
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Ok so I've only known this guy for a month, but I caught feelings for him and confessed. Next thing you know, he tells me he likes me too! However, he wants to stay friends first and get to know each other to see where it goes. PEOPLE, is he emotionally attached and does he take me seriously?
When you say about your gf that you knew from the first date that you "wanted to claim her", it makes her sound like an object. Sorry, that's what I got there. What do we claim? Things we want to own or have for ourselves. You can't own a person.
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A little thing my bf did that warmed my heart was I was making a recipe I had never done before and I mixed up the measurements for two of the ingredients. He ate it and told me it was good even though it wasn't. Lol
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When I first met my man, he asked if he could keep a photograph he really liked of me so he could sent it to his parents back home in Australia. That made me feel he was pretty into me.
He's willing to offer his help whenever you need it even if it's not convenient for him to do so and you don't always have ask. Like helping with repairs or chores around your house or coming to aid if your car broke down. The love language acts of service
When he notices that you need something fixed and does it without you asking him or expecting him to. Mine noticed my tires were almost bald when I showed him a picture of my jeep. He called the Walmart in my town( he is in FL. I'm in Ca.) and paid for new tires . Totally blew me away. He said he wanted to know I was safe . This was before he flew out to visit me last week. By the time he got off the plane I knew he was a keeper ! P. S. Visit went fantastic ! He is moving here to be with me .
Yeah, that’s the thing I’m unsure I’ve experienced. A guy I used to work for didn’t notice me for years. When he did start to notice me and not just see me as another employee, it was was through stares and, finally, some pretty obvious sexual innuendo. I’d long found him attractive but, I really didn’t know where he was going, in his mind. Was he looking for reciprocity? What did he think would happen, if I did reciprocate. He was my boss AND married. Was he actually doing it to get me fired? Was he just more bored with his daily life, than interested? Of course, the question was - was it just sexual or did he actually have real feelings? I knew I couldn’t disrespect his wife and I didn’t want to become the company slut so, I didn’t really reciprocate. But, it SURELY wasn’t because I didn’t have a very hard crush on him.
@@TheSharronW yeah, I’ve never been involved with a married man but, I know it can all “seem” rather innocent, organic and genuine but, bottom line, is that I already knew I’d find myself both angry and in a lot of trouble, with a tarnished name.
"Catching" implies that it's not a good thing. Like it's a disease. "Starting to have feelings for you"/ "Is starting to like [or love] you" is a much better phrasing. "Catching" stigmatizes this very natural, very human thing. 😛
Hello to whom it may concern I can recomend you to someone that helped me get my ex back and I believe he can also help you to attract back your lover and solve your relationship problems 💎🙏🙏🙏🙏
Mine doesn’t like to text & he’s also not a big talker. We really struggled in the beginning but after a few months (& arguments) he started trying. It was & still is small steps but at least he’s trying and I had to learn it wasn’t personal against me & need a bit less attention sometimes.
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1. Your biggest cheerleader 2. Nonverbal contact 3. Checks-in with you during the day 4. Partner in Shine- got your back. 5. Excited to meet your people. 6. He isn’t focused on physical intimacy as he is emotionally attached. 7. He can’t wait to share YOU with his world.
Thank you!❤👍
awww my bf is this....
You're awesome girl! Thanks!!
Never had any of that, I suppose that's why I'm still single after failed relationships. So I'm staying single
@@helensanderson7092 I agree with u Helen. I did have that, but he wasted my time and never proposed to me, tried to move-in together nothing. Just had me for 13 years and did nothing with me so I left.
My current husband hit all of these on the head. This is my best relationship ever and being married to him, I still get the same treatment as when we were dating and engaged. It's incredible to have this level of love.
Sweet x
I pray one day each of us find that love that you have. That's true love that's what we're here for to procreate and find real love xoxo God bless you
@@londonfog2108 thank you! I pray for everyone as well to find that peace and strength ❤
Why do you say "current" ? That is so strange...isn't "my husband" enough?
@@britvica I went through a divorce that was horrible. The ex still stalks me online so it's a force of habit to say current when talking about my husband so the ex doesn't think it's him I love. Long, dark story but there's a method to my madness.
When I knew... I bought him engraved crystal whiskey glasses. Years later... Out of the blue he sent me a pic of himself totally relaxed, drinking from it. And he told me I was the best he has ever had and called me his Queen and said that I will always get the best of him.
He is stoic. And does not blow smoke or give false hope. Some time later, I spent the weekend with him. Friday was lit, Saturday was wild. Sunday, we cuddled all day. Talked, laughed, non pyshical intimacy. Monday, we had coffee, he made breakfast. We chatted for hours. I knew then.
Beautiful share my dear!! Sounds like a great guy 🤗❤️✨
Can I be invited to the wedding? 😅
After y'all efff h changes up
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Looks like my best friend is really in love with me....i was confused about his behaviour....every signs matches clearly... .i think we are meant for each other..he treats me different than other girls....we have a beautiful connection Between us.....keep us in your prayer.....
Update 😳
That's how it usually goes
Well...how's it going?
I know feeling
Wish he tell me if does or not
We demand an update!!!
No matter what you going through don’t feel depressed and don’t let anyone or anything make you feel less of yourself because in every problem there’s a solution and in relationships you can also get the specific person you want to love you !
You can get help in everything you want, only if you ask for help.
I appreciate your opinion on this!
Yep! Mine does all of the above! He texts me first thing in the morning, as soon as he wakes and calls me immediately after work. He’s been doing that everyday for 11 months.
My boyfriend used to and I wish that he would go back to doing all of it.
Wow god bless you
@@violetgodwin677 God bless you too dear.
@@stacey4051 Try not to worry about it. Some dudes just don't simp and prefer to wait until they can actually sit down and actually have a meaningful convo and actually spend time with you before they message etc. Thats how my bf is. He literally said he purposely gets all his ish done before contacting me so we can have the rest of the time together with minimal interruptions.
@@jennag3226 yeah not all men are the same, my husband was more quality than quantity
Hi Mat. I just want to apologize for the women commenting in a rude, negative, or personal way.
Ladies, Mat is trying to help you. You have a choice to watch or not. And please stop making thirsty comments about him when he has already stated he is in a relationship. That's disrespectful. Saying you don't like his hair a certain way is beyond ridiculous.
Carrying on this way is indicative of who you are as a person and will prevent you from finding real, lasting love. You know you'd be upset if Mat was telling you to change yourself to please a man. So don't tell him how to act or look or talk.
MAT.... keep doing you, dear. You are appreciated and supported 🙏
Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.
Unless he’s emotionally immature, wounded or emotionally unavailable. These are signs a “healthy” man loves you! Otherwise mixed signals will abound.
Amazing! love hearing that!
I like it when a guy shows me he can be vulnerable with me by sharing something he created...plays me a song, shows me a drawing, project, poem, cooks for me. The guy im currently interested in is sharing his music.
The guy I like talked a bit bout a fear that he has and it was hella cute 🥰
Happy to hear that! :) ♥
Aw, I hope so! He texts me every day, even while he’s at work (and vice versa), and he’s always so “proud” when I accomplish the most mundane things (like my daily workout!).
Amazing!
aw Mat. My intuition is totally telling me that you are absolutely besotted with this new lady in your life. I'm sooo happy for you. All that inner work is paying serious dividends for you now.
aw appreciate that so much Maria! Yes she is a wonderful creature and I am blessed to have her in my life
@@Mat_Shaffer lucky girl ☺️
The texting to your parents after the 1st date is just awesome.
He checks in with me all day long even though we don’t live in the same state I feel he’s catching feelings for me... Thx for this!!🤗
Same here
Happy to hear that!
I will wait. Someday, the truth will be revealed. Hopefully, this person gets the courage to speak his truth, time don't wait, and other things could happen. we're not going to be here in this world forever.
Amazing! Mazel tov dear
Mat in this video, you are actually glowing!! 🌟 This girl has really blown you away and you deserve it! So happy for you, you deserve it!
he deserves more than this, he's a nice man.
Hello beautiful lady how are you doing?
Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!
My crush was like this:
He always changed seats to sit next to me.
He always found a reason to talk to me even though we weren't close.
He always smiles around me.
He always made me laugh.
I always caught him looking at me.
He always complimented me.
He always greeted me with "Good morning," "Take Care," and "good luck."
He always cheered for me in any activities we did in class.
He always showed he cared for me; by asking "Are you okay" something like that, and he helped me with things even if I didn't ask him to or rejected his help, he still insisted.
I also noticed that his friends were trying to hint something. When his friend asked him, "What do you like in a girl?" he totally described me🤦🏻♀️.
When he saw my father outside the school, even if he was busy, he approached him, introduced himself, acted very politely, and talked to him.
There were a lot of signs that he showed he liked me, but I didn't want to assume because that time I wasn't confident with my looks because I have a lot of pimples and he's so handsome and rich. I felt like he was too good for me to like me. But one time, our instructor asked us about our weaknesses. When it was his turn, he said, "A girl" while looking at me.
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
Please don't say that you are beautiful as you are in psychology we have something names attractive between souls it's not about physical shape but about behavior or about your personality is more attractive . So girl you are pretty ❤
Absolutely! ❤
I saw my love in a (dream) when I was 13 years old. I met him in person in 1973 when I was 31 years old. He and I looked at each other as if we had met before. We were married to other people at the time, but it didn't really matter. We had our time together (off and on) for 40 +years Every thing you said about his love for me is so true. I am 77 years old now and he passed away in 2016. I miss and love him so much 😢.
Sounds like a twin flame? You dream about them before you meet them, they feel like home, it feels like you've known them for decades, centuries even when you just met them..How magical and beautifully romantic to have a connection like that. Maybe you will be able to reconnect in another lifetime. 💕
@@saijanaswamy7210 Thank you for knowing what he and I had / have together. I pray that his (face) never fades from my mind.
So many 1s, 3s, and 7s here. I feel like we're kindred spirits.
Sorry dear
@@saijanaswamy7210 this is a past life connection, not a “twin flame” one, which is BS. The only spiritual unions that exist are soul mate, past life, and positive or negative karmic connections. And all of this is pre-determined via peoples nakshatras in sidereal Vedic astrology (Jyotish), as some people are made to be perfect matches for one another, while some are made to be enemies, and others are neutral.
He actually carried my clean washing upstairs for me and folded it.
Love language is acts of service
That's very sweet.
Love your videos, I’ve been single for over 13 years and appreciate the details of what to look for, personally in my culture, men are not afraid to show affection and let you know how much they are interested in learning everything about you, if he thinks about you , he doesn’t hide it!!!!
Thanks for sharing!!
Great video, Mat. I remember very early on, my new bf took me to his boss's house to have Sunday dinner with his family. That struck me as quite a committed sign as we'd only been together quite a short time.
ohh YEAH that's a very good sign!! There's no one he wants to impress more :)
I believe when a man wants to get to know me better he wants to talk to me about anything and everything, and I can laugh with him endlessly and be myself
AMAZING love that share!!:)
I really appreciate how you get to the point and move on. You are a great template for the others. Thank you.
Thanks so much my dear!
I felt happy and complete that all this sign matches while my heart already know. I am madly in love that my heart beats like a love songs everytime I think of him. Some point I dont need to question my emotions because you knew it that you both in the same page and honesty. when a man checks you in every hour and call you if you safely arrive on your way home.
Every hour ? Really? That’s gonna fizzle our fast 💨
Mat ur videos r wonderful and everthing u say is perfect .I like to see them..Thanks for the good adich.
Thank you!
I loved to know that because I was married to a narcisist for about 17 years and a half, which changed me so badly that I almost lost myself.
Now, 3 years after getting divorced, someone has appeared and now I am afraid and excited at the same time. Afraid because I was traumatized by the previous relationship, and excited because this man is so different.
And guess what!!! He fits all this 7 signs. ! OMG! I am truly happy! Thanks for sharing it. ❤
You’ve got such great insight! Thanks for sharing and making this community awesome. 😘
7:45/ 7:46 Awww! How awesome!! This is one of the greatest depictions of that sentiment...
Glad you like it!
*Perhaps we are in this world to search for love, find it and lose it, again and again. With each love, we are born anew, and with each love that ends, we collect a new wound. I am covered with proud scars.*
Thanks for sharing!
I agree! I think Mat has it bad for this new lady! As for me, I'm elated to admit that my man has exhibited, textbook, all 7 signs. And we couldn't be happier!
Is a marriage imminent then? :)
That is awesome!
@@Mat_Shaffer He's A Keeper!
Lol, bless your heart. It's not called "catching feelings" because it is so elusive and you finally get it. It's called that because it's being likened to catching a disease.
Thanks so much for your feedback!
Your advice is literally the best. I watched one video. Put it into practice. It was hella productive. Thank you ❤️
Amazing! love hearing that!
Yay. I scored 100%. ❤ Thank you for the insight! I was clueless… and feeling so insecure about things. God bless you.
Wonderful! 😍
Mat, I can’t thank you enough! I’m so happy to hear about your relationship, too!
He must be the happiest man on earth now.
Love yoy René
Thank you for your kind words :)
My first husband passed away while we were young & the happiest we'd been, we had one child, knew each other all through school. Now, I don't want a man to even like me. I still feel married...Yet I feel loneliness.
I feel somewhat lost, not knowing if I should live without a mate the rest of my life.
I understand your feelings since I am also a widow. I suggest taking a class, or hobby that YOU like. Attend a church that does volunteer activities in the community. First step is to make a decision to become sociable.
@@Christine-jz1qj you're exactly right. I just avoid life. But I try to live a Christian life. Thanks sweetie💓🙏
I really hear what you're saying. I've been there. I believe, now, that he doesn't want me to spend my life pining away for him. I believe that he would want me to live. He knows that what we had is rare, and irreplaceable.
For me, give your life to Jesus is the best decision to your situation. Sorry about your husband.
The love that you shared with him will never die. Nothing can replace it. You even have a little human being as a living reminder of that union - not that you need a reminder per se.
Life is short, though. Time flies by - live, love, hope again. 💞😘🙏
How timely Mat! I love listening to your videos! Such great insight. One of the best on RUclips, hands down. Hope you're doing well!
So glad you enjoyed it my dear!! So appreciate that feedback 🤗🤗❤️❤️✨
He has even told me that he wished he had met me first. He would even leave the meeting he was in to see me. He even introduced me to his friends, and I would introduced him to my friends. 💗
That's amazing to hear!
I love ur videos. Please talk about long distance relationships. Your videos sometimes are funny when u insert those quick video shots.
Thanks for the idea!
Yes, the Little Boy, that is an absolutely gorgeous way of expressing it
Amazing!
You've helped me SO much!! I'm so greatful for your videos! Thank you for your wisdom!
omg... went on a first date with this guy I really like and he introduced me to his dad immediately~
Happy for you!
My friend my guy just came right out and said "I'm catching feelings for you" so..... that was totally clear😅
AMAZING love that share!!:)
The biggest one when they call u and say " I caught feelings for u."
Yes it is!
Nope TOO LONG...LOVE the in between hair! Love all your words of wisdom...
haha this is it's final length, I wont be going any longer! ;)
Kathy Stormont What do u mean too long ? Are u his keeper? His he a child? Get a life .
i didnt expect the family portrait! i burst out laughing at the happy puppy face! beautiful work! thanks for the tips
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I realized that the guy I'm talking to fancies me a bit more because he decided to mention that I made a change to myself and complimented it and even though I made a joke about putting me in his luggage next time he travels, he responded with "of course". If you knew our history you would be like, "Oh wait a minute"... He lives out of state, so I have to listen how he says things especially since he's an introvert.
Thanks for sharing!
I think this is still true of platonic attachment. I have a number of platonic male friends I've loved for decades and we do these things for one another. My poly partners do these things after 17 years of successful life sharing at an even more profound level. This video made me feel really lucky
Thanks for sharing! 🥰
When he makes a mistake and says love you and says that he accidentally said that.
11:10 It is very obvious when he cuts short his long ago-planned holiday because he wants to be with you. Then he wants to see you right away. Yes, falling in love.
You’re fabulous! Thanks for sharing your thoughts and spreading the love. 💖
Congratulations on your lady love! How awesome!!
Thank you so much!!
Oooh Partner in Shine ... Thats epic! 🤩
amazing!🤩
Love your energy mat! ❤️
Thank you!!
there is a difference between what it should be and what it is, every man will have his individual language..just so you know..a lady's response and his experiences will shape how he shows it.
You're absolutely right. Building a healthy and meaningful relationship requires mutual understanding, respect, and effective communication between partners.🙏❤
Is it normal for a man to know immediately that she’s the one and wants to declare her?
Feeling an instant connection is common, but building a healthy relationship takes time and communication to align emotions and expectations. Thanks!
I want to express my immense gratitude towards you Matt. You have helped me unlock mu gifts and start sharing magic to help other women to step inti their true power. I was in tge grouo coaching you did for light workers with Aaron Doughty and Victor Oddo and since July I have been sharing my voice loud and proud. I cant wait to help and inspire women like you do and to the extent that you do❤❤❤
I'm leaving on Monday to meet my xbox gamer friend of three years face to face for the first time. He checks all seven boxes of Mat's video. I'M SO EXCITED YOU GUYS! I get to meet my person! 🥰 A special thanks to Mat for sharing wisdom and insights into how men think and feel and process information. 🙏 It's made me a stronger and more confident partner.
Update: had the time of my life with my fella. All the magic happens outside of our comfort zone. 🥰
So happy for you, i hope it happens to me too, I have an online game friend and we been talking for months already and he clearly states that he wanted to have a relationship with me, but i told him that im not ready for a relationship, but he said he is willing to wait whenever im ready, and he only play that game whenever im playing too
@@sophiaperiii1483 Meeting my guy was amazing. Despite knowing him online for 3 years, there were surprises about meeting him. Our minds fill in the blanks with idealized content however, his personality was exactly what I was expecting. I hope your guy is worthy of the risk and vulnerability of meeting a LDR partner for the first time. Be so safe! Sending love to you. 🥰
@@YoNeener thank you so much for this i really appreciate it,same for me i hope he is worth the risk, so far he is a great guy, its just that there is some that im still wary of, so im still getting to know him, and will also follow you up if ever it will work out for me or will remember this hahaha
@@YoNeener Awww this was sweet. Been with my guy for 2 years and have yet to have that face to face although hes mentioned me moving in with him a few times 😏
Definitely a cup feeling, I just know I don’t know why I just know when someone is interested. I am a Virgo though. Thank you for your platform.
You’re welcome 😊
Love your videos! Love how you share your own personal experiences! Thank you!❤️🥹
Thanks for watching! So glad you enjoyed it! :) Many more to come!
Sounds like i experienced some of these, I'm still paying attention ❤
May, I love your enthusiasm. Thank God you left the evil legal world behind to help women find true ❤️!
Hello beautiful lady how are you doing?
Thank you so much ❤️!
Only number 3 is definitely it. I guess he's not what I think he is
Thank you for sharing the video
You're very welcome.
Men are usually liars
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Hi Mat ! Love your long hair 😊
THANK YOU it's been a labor of love for a few years now... finally coming together! :)
True! He embraces my oddities, absurdities!
Thanks for sharing!
Tbh, he is actually doing all these things... And idk if it's just me imagining too much or... But he actually Is doing all these... Thank you so muchN
Glad you like it!
Thank you for sharing this information. I look forward to experiencing this for the first time in my life. Something to look forward to!
Best of luck!
Nobody likes me this way. I don't experience these things from others. Usually it's there's for a few weeks and then it was all words.
Guys aren't with the right intensions anymore. They don't want 1 person.
Good ones are still out there. Keep working on yourself and eventually you will attract him.
Don’t give up on love sister!
I guess I’m his partner in shine. He told me that I keep him really grounded that he needs that from me.
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Happy to hear that!
I love you Mat. You are so gifted in communication. You are such a joy to listen too, thank you
Amazing my dear so happy for you!
Yes
I also told myself I told myself I was going to stop chasing the guy who put me a friend zone he's walking around like it's no big deal.
So I don't come over to his table when he's there I just go somewhere else and try not to look his way.
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I still prefer "developing feelings" to "catching feelings," as if one is catching a cold - or some other disease/ infection - just sayin'!
🤣🤣🤣🤣good one 🇵🇦
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@@MatachiMmeri nice advice
It's slang ...
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So nice, so well presented in such an easy enjoyable manner. Great information.
Your comment has all the feels! So glad you enjoyed the video. 💫
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Great info Mat! I am taking notes on your videos, and watch almost everyday!
Keep the great info coming! 👍
Hello beautiful lady how are you doing?
Awesome! Thank you!
Thank. I wish i can find the true love❤
I’m so glad this helped you!
Mat, thank you so much for this great video!
so glad you enjoyed it! :)
Hello beautiful lady how are you doing?
Ok so I've only known this guy for a month, but I caught feelings for him and confessed. Next thing you know, he tells me he likes me too! However, he wants to stay friends first and get to know each other to see where it goes. PEOPLE, is he emotionally attached and does he take me seriously?
whatzpp him I was like this be'fore I know who can he:lp you out text him now he can solve your problem:: don't waste your time here,.....
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@@macrosmarry6986 Thanks for your help. Turns out he's ignoring my texts now. Moving on!!!
Thanks for sharing!
Yeah unless he is a narcissist and is lying his butt of until he gains total control.
Good point!
Thanks for this clarity.
You're very welcome.
When you say about your gf that you knew from the first date that you "wanted to claim her", it makes her sound like an object. Sorry, that's what I got there. What do we claim? Things we want to own or have for ourselves. You can't own a person.
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That’s not what he meant. He just meant that his gut was telling him she’s the one.
@@mistressevamzonia7087 this was good:) Some gals are so.. funny.
Thanks for sharing this ☺️☺️😺
Your comment made my day! Keep shining and being fabulous. ✨
Love watching your videos cos so inspiring and knowledgeable.
yess appreciate that feedback my dear!
@@Mat_Shaffer looking forward to watch more of your videos
I am sooooo blessed to have this .... Enjoyed your video ❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
12:30 the summary of the signs a man likes you.
Thanks for sharing!
A man is very attentive and protective over you. He makes future plans with you🎉🎉
Yes! 🎉🎉 Those are major signs he’s falling hard. When a man is protective and thinking long-term, you know his feelings are the real deal! ❤✨
Starts at 1:13
Amazing
A little thing my bf did that warmed my heart was I was making a recipe I had never done before and I mixed up the measurements for two of the ingredients. He ate it and told me it was good even though it wasn't. Lol
Sounds great!
Great Video Matt, Thank-you! 👍🏽😃🌈✨
Happy to hear that!
Thanks Matt 🙏🏽
so welcome!
VIDEO QUESTION - What are the biggest signs YOU'VE seen that a man is catching feelings? What did I miss? Would love to hear them in the comments below! 🤗
When I first met my man, he asked if he could keep a photograph he really liked of me so he could sent it to his parents back home in Australia. That made me feel he was pretty into me.
He's willing to offer his help whenever you need it even if it's not convenient for him to do so and you don't always have ask. Like helping with repairs or chores around your house or coming to aid if your car broke down. The love language acts of service
When his eyes soften every time he looks at me.
He is vulnerable and feels like he can be his true self around you
When he notices that you need something fixed and does it without you asking him or expecting him to. Mine noticed my tires were almost bald when I showed him a picture of my jeep. He called the Walmart in my town( he is in FL. I'm in Ca.) and paid for new tires . Totally blew me away. He said he wanted to know I was safe . This was before he flew out to visit me last week. By the time he got off the plane I knew he was a keeper !
P. S. Visit went fantastic ! He is moving here to be with me .
You were great! Lot of good teaching
I’m glad to hear everything worked out well.
Yeah, that’s the thing I’m unsure I’ve experienced. A guy I used to work for didn’t notice me for years. When he did start to notice me and not just see me as another employee, it was was through stares and, finally, some pretty obvious sexual innuendo. I’d long found him attractive but, I really didn’t know where he was going, in his mind. Was he looking for reciprocity? What did he think would happen, if I did reciprocate. He was my boss AND married. Was he actually doing it to get me fired? Was he just more bored with his daily life, than interested? Of course, the question was - was it just sexual or did he actually have real feelings? I knew I couldn’t disrespect his wife and I didn’t want to become the company slut so, I didn’t really reciprocate. But, it SURELY wasn’t because I didn’t have a very hard crush on him.
Yes stay away from the married guys. Just looking for a bit on the side. If they want to get divorced first could be a different course of action.
@@TheSharronW yeah, I’ve never been involved with a married man but, I know it can all “seem” rather innocent, organic and genuine but, bottom line, is that I already knew I’d find myself both angry and in a lot of trouble, with a tarnished name.
Thanks for sharing!
Ohhhhh ooooo ooooh!!!! He's catching the feels for meeeeeeeee!!!! ☺️💕💕💕💕😍🥰😀
The fact that my ex skip 1-6 and just go straight to 7 (“the most important”) was not a good sign.
Thanks for sharing!
"Catching" implies that it's not a good thing. Like it's a disease.
"Starting to have feelings for you"/ "Is starting to like [or love] you" is a much better phrasing.
"Catching" stigmatizes this very natural, very human thing. 😛
Thank you king ✨🥰
Aww you’re welcome QUEEN VAL 🤗🤗❤️
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Maaan, you are goood! That is exactly what they do..but lets talk about what they are doing after cheating and they are trying to hide..
Thanks for sharing!
Mat, what if he's not much of a texter but consistently says Good morning and Goodnight?
that's a good sign! That in itself might be a big stretch for him :)
@@Mat_Shaffer type for your reply. Love what you do 🙏💕
Mine doesn’t like to text & he’s also not a big talker. We really struggled in the beginning but after a few months (& arguments) he started trying. It was & still is small steps but at least he’s trying and I had to learn it wasn’t personal against me & need a bit less attention sometimes.
I really needed to hear this! Thank you for sharing with us!
Very cool video, thanks!
Hello beautiful lady how are you doing?
It can also look like your cat presenting the dead mouse to you, aka love.
Thanks for sharing!
Duuuude, “partner in shine”. Rock it. Cheers.
Amazing!
I Really like this one
SO glad you do!! It's a favorite of mine too :)
Thanks with just these 7signs I know that I did good by ending my engagement ..
Thanks for sharing!
Your photo props are hilarious 🤣
Glad you like it!