About bragging | Why I shared my story about my career break and life update as an early retiree.
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- The first 1,000 people to use the link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare skl.sh/colourf... ❤️Hi there, I'm Eileen. In this video, I shared why I chose to share my story about my early retirement. As an ex overworked healthcare worker, life was pretty overwhelming and directionless for me. I'm grateful for the people who shared their story about how they took charge of their lives. and chose to live more intentionally. I vividly remember how those stories inspired me to do the same. I'm now lucky enough to have a platform, so I thought I should return the favour. While my story might not be relatable to everyone, I certainly hope some people will find some positive energy from it xx
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Thank you for watching this video about why I chose to share my early retirement story and some recent life updates xx
I had a “girlfriend” who couldn’t stand me being happy and sharing something positive about my life. She always told me to be humble and stop bragging. I realized she is jealous and hateful. It was very painful lesson. She is not my friend anymore and after grieving for her I found peace and joy again.
I had a friend who was similar. Then I realised she was like that & envious of not just me, but other people too, so i wasn't the problem.
Thank you for sharing ❤️
I think many people have a similar stories, myself included. I have not completely cut her out yet as we have same social circle. But some people are just so miserable that they rather focus on other's life and turn it negative rather than turning their life around. It's about them. But congratulations on focusing on yourself and continuing to grow. ❤
Being able to effectively retire is an accomplishment. Be proud.
Thank you so much ❤️
How to deal with negativity? IGNORE - it may be challenging, because as humans we tend to remember the one negative feedback versus the 100+ positive ones. What you can do is remind yourself of that famous quote “hurt people, hurt people” and when people have a problem with you, it is THEIR problem, not yours. Keep living your life, sharing tips, and inspiring those who need it. All of my ❤and many successes to you!❤
Thank you so much for your kind words! Xx
You are a lovely sweet woman who exudes such a peaceful persona. Ignore the negative comments and focus on the many more positive ones. I left a career in marketing and advertising when I was 40 because I didn't feel fulfilled any longer. I decided to go back to school and become a teacher. I recently retired after teaching 20 years. I loved that profession and often miss it. I will sub on occasion so that I can still be around children and visit with the team of teachers I worked with. We should all want to evolve and to never stop learning. Keep doing what you do.
That’s amazing! It’s really inspiring to hear that it’s never too late to find your calling. I have a lot of respect for teachers- it’s such a demanding job. I love being around children though, it reminds me that humans are born kind and pure xx
Try not to let negative comments get to you. They say so much about the person who leaves them and those are the jealous ones who sucks the positive energy out of others if they are allowed to do so. Just keep being your wonderful self and block all negative energy .
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I struggle all the time as a physician and a mom of young kids. Luxury is one outlet for me. Career burnout is real. It's hard when you've come so far, but getting here burns you out. And I agree with recognizing it's okay to not have it all. I've come to terms with the fact that as much as I'd like to excel in my career, advancing and being top in my field is not going to happen because I have to find some balance and being there for my kids is my absolute top priority.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I totally understand - my little boy used to be one of the last kids to get picked up from school. Often, I was torn between seeing an emergency patient and picking my child up. It was hard at times xx
I love your story, I just reached F.I.R.E. and I was surprise to find so many negative comments myself. I think its a form of jealousy any time you do something different than the norm you get negative comments. Your story is inspiring and I'm trying to incorporate a little minimalism into my life.
congratulations! great achievement. you’re completely right about the jealousy and doing things differently from the norm. especially the ones closest to us want us to stay the same because that is a kind of safe-zone for them. when i had a business, strangers would cheer me on the most while family and friends were skeptical and wouldn’t even come to my storefront.
Congratulations! Enjoy your FIRE life xx
congrats!
Having it all doesn’t mean having all of everything. It’s a state of mind where your actions are aligned with your values. You worked very hard for many years before taking the break and not all of the naysayers can say that. Your family has also sacrificed and they deserve a break.
I also wish I allowed myself the creative inner child as part of my professional identity.
Sending you well wishes- definitely try to connect with that inner child in you ❤️❤️
There is absolutely nothing about you, your style, your messaging or your early retirement that comes across as bragging or showing off. Most RUclipsrs provide inspirational and aspirational content, and that's how I would describe your videos. If someone thinks otherwise, then it's a reflection of what they're feeling within themselves - and not to be taken to heart. Thank you for your lovely videos - I look forward to them each week. And congratulations again on your well-deserved and hard-earned early retirement!
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✨💖✨Hi Eileen. I enjoyed your transparency when it came to retiring early. Many people think that because you had a high level professional career you don’t feel the same way many line workers feel. It was enlightening & your journey has personally been a blessing to me. Blessings.✨💖✨
Thank you so much! Xx
I resonate with you. I used to be burn out to the point I had nervous break down. I left my career. I am working now from home. My life is totally different. I don't have all. That is ok too.
❤️❤️happy that you’re in a better place now xx
Remember when people would comment when you got a new nice bag saying, you are so wasteful why don’t you do something meaningful like give that money to xyz? Those people didn’t like that you had something materially nice for yourself. Now that you have some peace of mind and special times with your family, they say why don’t you spend your time meaningfully like go to work? People will never be satisfied no matter what you choose. So go ahead and live your best! You deserve to be happy. Thank you for sharing with us.
Your message really speaks to me. There was a time people thought I had too much. When I slowed down however, I became too boring, and I had too little. It’s impossible to please everyone but I’m grateful to have such a supportive community here xx
I was exhausted and burnt out as well. I resigned and still looking for sense of direction. I also stopped shopping at Chanel. I'm happy with my 4 classic bags. Thank you for this content.
Thanks for sharing!!xx
Your content has always been inspiring n encouraging to me. So I’m taken my surprise when the term “bragging” came up. It has never even crossed my mind 😂. You’ve shown that there’s more to life than just accumulating luxury goods n yet at the same time learn to enjoy n be appreciative of the luxuries that we can afford. Looking forward to more inspiring videos from you ❤
Thank you so much, Rachel xx
It's rooted in jealousy and projection from insecure individuals who resort to insults to make themselves feel better about their own lives. I say this coming from a place of being in a decent spot in my life, but not where I'd like to be. I wouldn't think anything more into it.
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Stay proud for the life you have created. You are very inspiring and I am trying to leave my job soon and will get there in the end. Also be true to yourself and do not let others bring you down. Only just started watching your videos 💜
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I’m sorry to hear you’ve received negative comments. I did as well. I took three years off from working and returned to working this March. I kept my sabbatical private from most people. I had a friend who always made snide remarks about how he “had” to work and it must be nice to do “nothing” all day. When I returned to working part time earning a salary four times more than his full time salary, he had critical remarks about that as well. His unhappiness had nothing to do with me. I no longer interact with him.
Thank you for sharing! I think it’s good of you to set healthy boundary xx
Unfortunately, there will always be people who will criticize you no matter what you do. Carry on ❤. Personally, I appreciate you’re videos and always look forward to them. ❤
Thank you so much xx
I retired in my mid-forties. It's the reward for showing restraint and hard work. People who complain are bitter because they didn't figure it out for themselves or were unwilling. I make no excuses for my retirement; anyone can do the same if they are willing to work as hard as I did. Those of you that are resentful: channel your energy differently and you will see that you will get different results.
You do not brag! You explain and discuss. Jealousy is a curse 😂 I enjoy your videos on having less appreciating more
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You have achieved something incredible and worked very hard to do so. There will always be critics but personally I admire what you have done and I am also working towards early retirement. It makes me so happy to see someone succeed in what I am working towards and gives me hope. I appreciate your thoughtful videos but I am sorry it opens you up to negative messages.
Thank you very much!xx
Eileen you are positive, optimistic, future oriented & well planned. Some times negative people don’t know they are negative. They believe they are completely rational and realists. It’s expected that no positive contribution comes from a negative mindset.
You are a wise lady & your videos are fantastic & I always look forward to them.
Enjoy this stage of your life….it takes many years of hard work exceptional planning & lots of saving to do what you are doing. Xx
Your kind words really mean a lot, thank you xx
Your journey to get to where you are now is inspiring. Don’t let the few negative comments detract you.
This means a lot, thank you xx
I find your videos very reassuring and calm. I recently left my job as a Scientist. It made me feel better to hear your story, since the feminist in me isn't comfortable not having a job for the first time in my life.
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why did you leave? I'm a scientist too and consider leaving pharma
@@japoemka Basically the company did not align with my ethics (data fabrication, sexual harassment). Unfortunately, I live in an area (Albuquerque, NM) without much of a biotech industry and I cannot move in the short term. However, the break (so far five months) has been really good and has changed my perspective on a lot of things. It even spurred me to follow through on an idea I had several years ago for starting a RUclips channel. Why are you thinking of leaving?
I don't understand other people's need to turn your early retirement into negativity and mark it as "bragging". To me it's an achievement. Am I envious? Of course. But it's an achievement that took lot of efforts and smarts, therefor well deserved. I'm happy for you and I will continue to watch your video woth ads on 😊
As far as the negativity.. I'm not sure.. keeping busy helps? Watching things grow? Like plants. But I'm looking forward to this as your future topic. ❤
Thank you for your support! xx
I was told a saying once . "Let me disrespect you so that I can feel good about myself" it's jealous people who don't work hard like you do to achieve the things they want so they are nasty and mean to you to make themselves feel good. Ignore them and enjoy and please keep sharing your achievements. Thankyou
Thank you so much xx
Dear Eileen, you are such an inspiration to me. I even began thinking how to work less/ retire early. That means reconsidering my priorities : what is really important that i cannot live without, what is only noise? So thank you for your videos. Love you ❤️
I’m so glad to hear that! Sending you well wishes xx
You’re an early retiree and I’m a homemaker of 20 years.
People always have something to say. I’ve learned not to over share or brag if that’s what they want to call it. So when people ask, I’m very vague now. Even when we’re going on vacation, bought a new car, no one knows. No one’s business.
I agree with others who suggest you should ignore the negative comments! I've been watching your channel for a long time, and your videos are helpful and encouraging. Taking a career break isn't bragging; it can be necessary for health and well-being. If the negative people can't afford to do this, I simply hope your video can be an inspiration for them as it was for me. Keep up the great work! 😊
❤️❤️thank you for always being here xx
I love your channel! Less is so much more!❤️
Thank you so much!! xx
Who sold the world a pup that we have to work 40 hours for 40 years so we can retire worn out broken and in the stream to death. I stand on my soap box and shout as strongly as I can, Eileen I applaud you for creating an taking this break.. I'm taking early retirement this year and I have no regrets or guilt. The alternatives are poor health both physical and mental and burn out and i have too much to do before they me down. Thank you for your inspirational videos and I look forward to many more. Keep going on your journey and enjoy.😁❤❤👩💼
Aww thank you! I’m really glad I allowed myself this break too. I used to put my health on the back burner, it’s time for a break xx
You come across so humble and sweet, I can't believe you would ever receive any negativity.
Thank you so much!❤️
Eileen
Life is about choices and making daily decisions.
You have a career that you intentionally gave up to do what makes you happy like drawing and spending time with your family.
You are not competing with others but enriching yourself and drawing close to what really matter to you that is your family and be an inspiration to those who resonate with you. TQ. Eileen.
Thank you for those words of encouragement! Xx
I heard this some years ago and I try to remind myself every time I get hit by negative or hateful comments - "No one can make you feel bad about yourself without your permission." It's really my choice how I respond, and I'm gradually learning to respond more mindfully.
I love your content and I'm super happy you are able to take this time out for yourself and family. This was a considered and intentional decision and it's your life. Enjoy your retirement! From a fellow Malaysian :)
Terima kasih banyak banyak ❤️
I'm sorry to hear that you've had to deal with someone making nasty comments over your life choice. Everyone is different, everyone's circumstances are different. I think too many people are driven by jealousy and it makes them say things that they might not say otherwise. I left the workforce early as well and I've had no regrets. And just like you, it took some serious planning. Some people lack that ability, but that doesn't make it wrong for those of us that do! And we shouldn't be made to feel bad about it. Enjoy your break, however long it may be, I love seeing your artwork.
Thank you for all your love and support! It makes my day to see you on my art Instagram account whenever I post xx
In Italy working people’s taxes are used to pay pensions for retired people, so laws have been changing postponing the age of retirement to compensate for people who retired too early in the 70s and 80s when it was allowed, and young people are not expected to have a public pension paid by the state.
It’s your life, Eileen. We are only allotted a small amount of time on earth given the scope of history and you need to do what is best for yourself and your family. People take career breaks, re-educate themselves and even change careers completely all the time. It’s nobody else’s business and they have no right to criticise you for your life choices. Embrace your choices and find joy and fulfilment in them. I admire you for taking control of your life and not letting the expectations of others control you. It’s a brave and inspirational thing to do.
Hello..Unfortunately I can no longer work due to health reasons.
To look at me you really can’t see anything wrong, so for that I think I get judged a lot.
I literally went from full time working , to 3 days, to 2 days, and then to 1 day a week.
I physically could no longer do it anymore-
even though we would benefit greatly by having a second income.
My husband,and I are blessed to be able to live off of his income, and also the kindness and support of friends and family.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. 💕💕
Sending you love and positive energy xxx
Dear Eileen, here from the 7th floor, I can assure you that, there always people who are not vibrating high in love, compassion and respect. That being said, we just need to focus on the principles and values that we have cultivated and profess. I admire you for such an achievement and heartfelt soul. I wish my daughter can retire soon, so she can enjoy the good years with my granddaughter. Here in the US is a different predicament. I wish you health, joy and prosperity wherever you go. Take your time , because your soul will guide you. Much love to you, your little man, and your hubby. Take care and GB 💐🙏🏻❤
Thank you for this beautiful message! You’ve made my day xx
This is the classiest “f the haters” I’ve ever seen❤
It is so tough to ignore comments and negativity. (At least for me). Your content has brought me so much joy and comfort. I appreciate your channel so much. 💕
I'm so glad! Thank you for being here xx
Hi Eileen, thank you for sharing your early retirement story as I can relate to you greatly. I was burnt out from 15 years of full time primary teaching non stop, year after year, with no long service leave-by choice-as an experienced teacher at the top of the field, I undoubtedly worked myself to the ground. I left full time teaching back in December 2017 and started working casual as a teacher with an agency in early 2018. It was really hard, even as an experienced teacher and I didn't enjoy it much compared to having my own class. COVID came along in 2020. I was left jobless. I was scared to return when schools opened again for fear of continuing to get sick. I tried getting work as a fashion sales assistant. I landed a few jobs-also as a beauty therapist (I am fully qualified) with a very well known Parisian skincare company. Nothing could compare to the feeling of teaching children, so I didn't accept any of the offers. In early 2022, my husband and I decided the best thing for me to do was to retire. I turned 52 years old this year. I do not brag about my early retirement, but people don't like hearing it. When they congratulate you, it feels very superficial.
Thank you so much for sharing your story! Xx
Hi Eileen,
Please know I have always appreciated your content for the transparency, sensibility, balance and intention. Frankly, I relate to it as a stylish person (like you) who chooses value over trend, one who (like you) doesn’t over indulge, and a professional who (like you) desires at some point in my life to exercise the creative parts of me, not just the demanding and oftentimes, overworked business side. So, thank you again for this great content.
As for advice on handling negativity from others , I’ve learned it’s hardly ever personal. It is a common practice for people to “project” their insecurities and unhealed trauma on to others. To that end, it’s important to remember “how others feel about us, is none of our business.” Easier said than done, I know, especially on an open, public platform. However, I hope you are able to reflect and find some solace in these words and thank you again for the great content.
All the best to you. ✨✨✨
Thank you so much for your kind words xx
I'm older now (middle aged) and I feel very regretful that I was not more intentional with my money. I can see many peers retiring early. I'm quite tired and stressed. Would love a fresh start on a more creative pursuit or have more options open to me if I had a bigger next egg/retirement savings. I never feel jealous or see others sharing early or temporary retirement as bragging as I did have the oppotunity/means to do better than I did. That is not my personality to feel jealous of others. Of course there are some that didn't work toward it but instead inherited or married into money but there is no reason to be jealous of them. We all have different lives and choices. We also don't know everything that everyone struggles with. There will always be someone who is more privileged than us and it is a waste of energy to feel any negativity toward that. I enjoy your videos very much.
Thank you so much, Tania! I think you're so right is saying we don't always see the whole picture of anyone's life, so there's no point to judge xx
Be happy you’re you and not them!!❣️
You have a beautiful life that you’re enjoying, don’t let anyone get in the way of your life!!♥️
Thank you ❤️❤️
It really hurts if good intentions are interpreted so negatively, it took me years to accept that there are just those people out there that are full of cynicism and negativity, it's a pity they have such bitter attitude. Don't let them discourage you, just ignore them, and keep on sharing your story, there are many others who are blessed by your story.
I applaud u for taking the time to urself. If u can financially, y not I say. Some people r different & u r not bragging. U r sharing ur life choices publicly & I appreciate ur honesty my lady. 🙏🏼❤️😘😘😘Sandy
Thank you, sandy xx
You worked hard Eileen to achieve your dream. You are not bragging. You inspire people sharing your experience. Be proud of yourself. Please don't let negativity to influence you. 👏
I’d love to effectively ‘retire’, or at least only need to ‘work for fun’, and in honesty you’re sort of a role model for me as I find a lot of our values line up - loving a few beautiful luxury things without the need to purchase the latest and greatest trends every season. Enjoyment of the little things. I’m really glad you’ve somewhat ‘normalised’ this dream for me
Aww thank you! I’m so glad my videos are helpful xx
The thing is I feel as if you are humble. You know you can’t please everyone . I’m so happy that you are doing this for you. No one is living your life and I can’t seem to understand people who bring so much negativity to others. Ignore them even though they’re trying to put you done. Let the positive outweigh the negative 😊
Thank you for the positive vibes xx
A Key Word in your opening was "Share". When one chooses to Share some part of their Daily Life & Thoughts with others, then ppl should express Gratefulness. If they can not feel privileged about having access to the Lives of others, then they should just not Follow or take interest in that person. RUclips is certainly a place where one can have that access & if the person who has gone to all the Trouble to Film & then Edit Videos every week, can not be appreciated by Certain Viewers then those Viewers should Not Click onto that Channel or be disrespectful to the person/people who are producing the Videos! In the days when Movies were shown in Theaters, if you didn't like the Movie, you just left the Theater & perhaps told your Family/Friends about it, but you didn't put it in the Newspaper (or other public forum) about how you disliked it or call up the Actors/Producers & gave them a piece of your mind about the Movie. But somehow now days, ppl persist in having the poorest manners by making it a practice to Criticize & Demean those who working hard at making Videos to post on the Internet. Even having hundreds of thousands of Subscribers who Love, Look Forward to Viewing & are Inspired by the Content on Certain Channels, doesn't keep the creator safe from those who sit & Criticize EVERYTHING about EVERYONE! So accepting the fact that you can't please Everyone, one should Continue to Create Quality Videos posted on a Regular Basis & do your Best to Please your regular Subscribers & yourself. I think that you have Content on your Channel that is Interesting & Helpful to ME, so I've Continued to follow you for quite a while now! I can't begin to tell you how much I've learned from you & how Content & Inspired I always feel after viewing another one of your Videos!
Thank You for Sharing your Life with Me! I'm very Grateful for all the Things I've learned from your "Sharing"!
God Bless,
An Avid Follower
I love this bag! I have the matching pm agenda and its so lovely.
To be honest I was not surprised when you announced your early retirement Eileen. I’m also on that same journey and I had picked up from your videos that you were on the journey to early retirement. The give away were the buzz words you used that are used in the F. I.R.E community, E.g pay yourself first, investment portfolio etc Congratulations. The negative comments are from people who only see the results but have no idea of the hard work and struggle that led you to where you are now. Enjoy your well earned break!
Thank you so much! All the best with your FI journey xx
I think the issue of those listeners from your previous video is due to their own jealousy. Your videos are inspiring and also positive. Keep it up! Do filter out all the negative comments and always remember that we can't please everybody. 😊
I appreciate that! Thank you xx
Thank you for always being honest, in a nice way. We all have our own journey.
Thank you ❤️
You handled the negativity in your own sweet way by making this video. Eileen, I think of you as someone who unselfishly shares her personal journey to achieve your dreams. Thank you for that. What you have described, (in case whoever wrote the negative comments missed) is that it takes hard work, dedication, planning, perseverance, and much more to achieve what you have at such a young age.
Eileen, please don’t let those negative comments get you down. You are an inspiration to so many of us. We understand that we need to WORK to achieve whatever goals we wish to achieve. 💕
Thank you for the kind words, Dawn xx
You worked hard to deserve this early retirement! the way you carry yourself has never come across as bragging at all. Don’t let the negative comments get to you, haters will always be haters. Love from Canada!
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I just don’t understand why some people can’t be happy when things are going on for others ! You’ve worked yourself out for only God knows how long and if you’ve decided to early retire what’s their worry ?? Listen you have to do you and live your life to the fullest . Let those of us who love you and can’t wait to watch a new video from you keep doing it and let go of anyone who can’t stand your content and calm personality. Be proud of your accomplishments as @cocoB22 has said and keep doing what you’re doing because you’ve been a blessing to me personally. We love and appreciate your good work and dedication 😍🙏🏽
You’re so kind, thank you xx
I enjoy your videos very much. They are beautiful to watch, relaxing, and inspirational. Thank you for your content!
Thank you very much!xx
I love your channel and your story. Keep being authentically you! ❤
Thank you so much!!xx
We are who we are & accountable only to ourselves. Is a privilege to retire; pls don’t let negativity affects you. Love what you do and do what we love. Looking forward to your video while you embark on your new journey. ❤
Thank you so much, Priscilla xx
Quite the opposite for me, Retiring early is not bragging. For me I enjoy my job and the benefits it afford me , so I still do it part time at 67.
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I love that you share the BLUEPTINT with the rest of us. I appreciate you sooooo much.
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I Love advice on retiring, I cannot wait to retire.
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The 'bragging' comment says more about the comment maker than it does about you. You have done folks a service, showing how you must care for yourself because no one else will. Its an important lesson.
Thank you 😇
The same sentences said is not heard the same. I watch your video and don't worry Eileen, you didn’t come across as bragging. We will always support you ❤️
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Be proud of what you have achieved, especially the realization of what really matters most. Thanks for sharing your journey! I learned a lot from you and sure you also inspire others.
Thank you so much!xx
Hi Eileen. I embraced both negativity and positivity. If a negative comment is not true, then I ignore it. If it is true, then I will make adjustments. Simple as that. Enjoy your time off from work/early retirement. No one can define happiness for you. Only you know what can make you happy and have a fulfilled life. Take care.
Well said! Thank you for sharing xx
I can resonate with you. You know i had an ex schoolmate and so long that i had not seen her. Then when she texted me, i saw her profile photo and commented she still look good. She took it so negatively and saying health is more important. I had no choice but to reply to her, did i say health is not important? Instead of saying thank you for the compliment, she took it so negatively. Oh my....then from there on, i do not like to keep in touch with her anymore. Once bitten twice shy. Why can't people just take compliments, i really wonder...In your case, just don't bother. Our life is not dictating by all these people.
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They will go away…enjoy your life ❤
Love your videos and stories. You are an inspiration ❤ just keep it up and take care.
Thank you so much!xx
Hi there! I think you are FABULOUS! I can't wait to be semi retired! Luck you! Don't let negative comments dim your sparkle! Keep the whole down sizing down I am trying to get to that point in life!
Thank you so much!xx
You’re an inspiration, Eileen❤ please keep creating content😊
Thank you so much!xx
Ignore them, they are probably jealous. I’ve learnt a lot from your videos and love your content. ❤
Thank you so much!xx
Thank you for your honest and sincere story about where you are in your life ❤
People just need to chill
And if nothing good to say just 🤐
I always feel weird telling people I’m retired. I’m “too young,” but what I don’t say is that I did this because my husband needed and has now had a successful liver transplant. We have a young child and I was experiencing burnout in my career. I didn’t want both of us to be two physically unhealthy people trying to raise a child and my husband absolutely loves what he does for a living, so I supported him emotionally, physically and in any other way I could. I did what I thought was right for my family and was fine giving up my job. Giving up my paycheck has been difficult, but I’ve learned so much more about myself, my husband’s strength and courage, our son’s strength and empathetic nature and the importance of being healthy and happy for one another and…occasionally, I’ll buy something nice for myself. 😊
I think that’s a wonderful balance for your household! Being there fully for your child is a blessing xx
I always love your videos; they are inspiring and very relatable. 💛
Thank you so much!xx
Thank you for your videos. Don’t take the feedback negatively. Ignore if you can.
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A more positive person would take your sharing as a motivation & be happy for you. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼🤍🤍🫶🏼
I appreciate that, thank you xx
Your videos are so refreshing ❤️❤️
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Although I never viewed you as being a bragger for early retiring, I do understand why some people could come to the conclusion. Even though they do, doesn't mean it's fair. I believe this community is often misunderstood and MANY Content Creators(CCs) are the reason for this. I believe some viewers find it hard to see or often forget you and so many other CCs as being normal people, living your Full Normal Life (we do Not see that) and we see Only a glimpse. I MUST ADMIT Eileen, you've shared quite a bit of your life here and for the ones who follow you; it's easier to put the pieces together and even we can get it wrong. I believe you are aware of this. I'm not saying this is true for everyone, but I totally see how a viewer could have this opinion. I'm thinking, NOT ALL, but some people view videos not for the intent to understand you or any other CC...it's the Content they are here for....that's it. We are certainly all different and here for different reasons. I know for myself, I view you and your videos as an opportunity to listen and grow. You are needed in this community. Please don't allow a person's comment to discourage you.💛✨
Your beautiful message made my day, thank you so much xx
I have learned so much from you over the years and I'm so grateful for all that you share
This means a lot, thank you xx
Please let me know which flat iron you use. I think you're a beautiful smart lady😊
Can you please do a video on how u raise ur kid and a family?
Over 50,000 of us think you are wonderful!
You’re so sweet! Thank you xx
Hi Aileen. What is The book you are reading?
Hi, I'm currently reading Drawing faces and hands by Andrew Loomis xx
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Oh Eileen and also delete them, so you don't keep reading them.❤
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You're about as far from a bragger as it's possible to get, Eileen, so ignore these comments. Some people are envious and wish to spread doubt and anxiety. That's life. The worst thing you can do is defend, apologise and placate - it's a complete dead end and you'll just be exciting them to type more crap about you. Your serious subscribers/watchers know that you are extremely modest: don't let people try to crush you!
Thank you for always being here xx
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I tried your link but it won’t work :(
It should be fine now ❤️
You really don't have to explain, just ignore those comments. You share whatever you choose to share, no one is forcing those people to watch. I really cannot understand this obsessive need to comment on everything. Besides, you can't control other people's interpretation of your words. Even if you truly were bragging, who cares, and who's got time to comment in such a mindless and useless way? Let's open our mouths to actually say something valuable and helpful. Otherwise maybe we should start appreciating silence😅
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Your video is bizarre but your drawings are cool so, I guess my take away is sharing is caring . I keep wondering why we like to share. Then l think I am that. so weird
There are economic issues happening in our world today, so that could be why people feel like you were bragging
There is no need for you to explain your decision, it’s so personal and I don’t understand how on earth someone find it bragging lol every situation has its pro and con, career break means more time for kids and they only grow once, con you lose some opportunities to climb up higher and let go some income during the break period; isn’t it easy to comprehend? There is no one in this world to “have it all” as god is fair in the way that we only hv 24 hours a day lol even if they “appear to have it all” it simply means you don’t know them personally…..
What you said is so true! I remember hearing a saying a while ago, it goes- you can have it all, just not all at the same time xx
I find that Asian people who come from poorer backgrounds seem to brag more compared to ones that come from long lines of wealth like those from Japan xxx ❤