As a longtime subscriber, I am proud to still be here with all your era’s. I am so proud of you for setting your boundaries, and standing firm. I was a kid when my parents divorce and I expercienced all the drama heard all the nasty. It’s still hard to unknow some things. I can’t imagine how much worst it had of Been if they trashed each other online. I think your kids will be grateful you kept it private. I know I would have.
As much as I want to know what happened and hear your marriage advice, SO proud that you continue to do what’s best for you and your family. The entitlement that complete strangers feel to know everything about you is insane. I’m just so happy you’re posting more!! Hope this is your best era yet ❤
It would be SO EASY for her to speak negatively about her ex online and I think it shows her character so much that she’s not. I’m sure she will be so happy with that decision in the long run and as a longtime follower I respect that a lot! New era!!
Im loving how you speak about it, and if we see Parker in the background it just speaks to you two working hard to co parent with respect. Can’t wait to see what you share from what this new chapter brings for you
This was such a graceful and kind way to respond to negative behavior. I applaud you for continuously expressing your boundaries and hope that everyone is supportive in respecting your wishes. Very excited for this new era for you!! ❤
As a mama I cannot respect you enough for keeping things private and keeping your kids in mind. Growing up and getting older you really learn what you want in life and it can all change so fast. I will always support and look up to you especially as a mom ♥️
Gosh been here since highschool, and have watched you and your family grow up. Wish you and Parker the best. I have so much respect for how you put your girls first. As well as your energy surrounding this whole experience and how you speak about it. So brave. Of course take care of you! Enjoy the journey, trust the process.
My sister just got divorced and the glow up she’s going through is insane! She seems so genuinely happy. Never feel like you need to force yourself to stay if you’re unhappy. You only get this one life❤️
I saw you when you were dating, traveling, getting engaged, married, starting a home, a business, a family, and so much more. Sad to know you have to grow apart after all those years but I do wish you both a blissful life ahead in your each direction. I still love you both ❤
I love that you acknowledged wishing your relationship didn’t have to end WHILE also being thankful for where you are now. That’s such a hard place to be. And laughing about it or you’ll cry sounds so real, in all aspects of life. 😅 Love you Aspyn, and thank you for persevering in what YOU have chosen and not bowing to the internet. 👏🏻
I have ALWAYS had so much respect for your boundaries and ability to not give a crap about what people say. But honestly my respect is 100x more now. You are an incredible mama and human.
As much as I would love to know just cuz I am nosey, I also have faced the idea of divorce and truly do understand how emotionally difficult it is even when we are the one the has asked for it. I respect you 100% for keeping it all private for the sake of your family. Excited to see what your new era holds for you :)
I think you are going about this in a very great way. My parents were divorced and put us kids in the middle a lot. Thank you for thinking of your children and the effect this will have on them! 😊
I'm a viewer of Aspyn's youtube channel for years, and I clearly remember a video for years ago where she says that she would not be the kind of woman that stays in a unhappy/uncomfortable marriage just for avoid a divorce, and this kept me thinking for a while. And this is it. You're very strong!!
respect you sooo much for putting your children before everything else, and setting firm boundaries with your presence online etc. it’s been a while since I watched you - I had to set boundaries with consuming mom content since becoming a mom myself because I was comparing myself to other mamas “highlights” and being hard on myself. but now that I’m catching up on you, I’m so happy to see how you’ve grown along your journey!
Thank you so much for opening about this part of your life, maybe you don’t know, but it helps us who are going through the same to feel identified and a little bit less alone in this process.
I wish you, Parker and your lovely girls all the best and when they‘re older they will thank you for not „spilling the tee“ about your divorce and the reasons. You are a great mom! ❤
First of all your necklace is giving me Ursula vibes and the best way possible secondly, I’m very happy for your new chapter. I have been divorced as well and I definitely felt like I owed my entire audience and explanation at that point in time and now I feel differently. I don’t have any children with my ex-husband, thank goodness, but I can totally understand protecting your children and not putting that on the Internet so more power to you, sending you lots of love
This honestly makes me so sad. But I truly wish you happiness Aspyn! I have loved watching you since high school! Watching you on the podcast with Remi and Alisha, helped me understand the thought process! To demand you to tell us is wrong. You were so young and I’m sure you’ve had to learn so much. I can’t imagine going through something so difficult and also having to explain to public that you want this part private! Hang in there sweet girl❤
Silent girly and mom here! You’re doing amazing. Thank you for demonstrating good parenting and self discipline over drama or “clout”. You are a true inspiration and showing healthy boundaries for everyone! Thank you for sharing what you want and keeping the content amazing ❤
It kind of made me sad when the girls you were on the podcast with were acting like it’s so cool you got divorced because I’m sure as a mom with kids it’s actually so devastating (but obviously the right choice for you). 😭 so I hope you heal and glad you can laugh about it to help! Good job setting a boundary with everyone. Your kids will be so grateful with how you handled this when they grow!
Girl, respect for not giving details. It was never necessary, to give details or to even address it. Whatever is best for you and your family, should have been okay with your audience here. Your courage and grace throughout this whole thing, has been very admirable 💕 All my best to you and your family.
I’ve been watching you for over 6 years, and even when I was living with my partner, we used to watch all your vlogs. I also ended a relationship this year after more than eight years together, with many dreams and goals that never came true. It’s great that you’re sharing this; honestly, life takes many turns, and I can assure you that there are always opportunities at the end of the tunnel. Sending you a huuuuuuuuge hug, Aspyn! ❤
honestly, HUGE respect to you for being firm on your and your kids’ privacy and protecting them. Go girl for keeping your boundaries but still sharing something, just the things you do want to share. I’m excited to see more of your content in this new era! i’ve been watching you since i was in middle school and now i’m fresh out of college and i’ve never been more excited to see more of your content in a new era bc i can see that you’ve been thriving lately! ❤️
What a tuff situation. I think that co parenting can look different for different situations. However, if both parties have the kids best interest at heart and therefore may be spending time together, feels to me like much more loving , caring environment. It can’t be easy for either one of you. Wishing you and your family ( ex’s included) peace and comfort ❤️
Love you Asypn and really respect your decision for your family. You deserve the world and I hope the bachelorette trip allows you to let go and be with your girls 💗💗🎉 I’m excited for your single era you are glowing and so full of life!
Personally i do want to know like how this is all working out with like the kids and custody and like all of that stuff ! as a child of divorce i thank you for keeping the “ details” private for your kids they’ll be so grateful one day for it . And also this prevents like parental triangulation on the kids as well ! As you said parker is going to be around a good bit so i assume yall are doing all that you can to co parent this .
I just wanna acknowledge how strong you are for not only sharing the news of your divorce but doing so in the same video that you’re leaving to celebrate a to be marriage 🤍 I don’t know the exact circumstances but that can’t be super easy. i’ve been watching you since the very beginning and i’m feeling for you. xx
I want the best for you, Parker, and your adorable daughters. They will appreciate that you didn't "spill the tea" regarding the reasons behind your divorce. Mom, you are amazing!
Here for your new journey queen, life goes on and everything in your life is yours you don’t ow any one anything. I’m honestly soooo exited for your next chapter in life 🥹🎀😍🤍
Awh. I used to compare our relationships being so similar. This definitely choked me up although it’s not a sad video. I wish you both the best, and best for your girls. No one knows your relationship but I can’t imagine going through a big life change after having a baby, and hopefully you are getting lots of support. Lots of love! ❤️❤️
Supporting you since 2013! Keep your peace and live how you want. The only thing I hope is that you’re emotionally ok. I’m glad you have a great support system though. ❤
Aspyn I'm proud of you for standing your ground & you have always inspired me as a boundary setter, and what you say goes because it's YOUR life. I am as normal and boring as they come, I don't have too much of a microscope on my life, but I still feel so strongly about keeping my relationship private. I've been through a few too many relationships that I felt needed to be validated by my friends, loved ones, and social media, and each relationship was sabotaged by all sorts of conflicting opinions (and the guys were sometimes bums too, lol). When my frontal lobe FINALLY developed, I realized the only perspective that matters is mine! I feel loved and appreciated by my partner and I literally do not care what anyone else thinks. I'm open to concerns from loved ones who I feel are able to have an unbiased opinion, but at the end of the day it's my decision. My opinion matters most, even if I find out later that I was wrong. We live and we learn, and no matter what we always end up okay 💖
My heart grieves for you all, no matter the cause it’s hard! Try not to regret the past because no matter the circumstances you have a beautiful set of girls who will always look to you!!! Wish you all the best and much happiness even in this time. ❤️
Wishing you happiness and all the best. Excited for your new content and new era 😊 you should be very proud of yourself for getting to where you are! Lots of love. ❤
Not going to lie I found you after the nose job video then just followed you from there. I myself have also missed a few chapters. I do not get on youtube as much anymore as I used to. It just always breaks my heart to see this happening to so many people. Married or NOT you are still your own person & you deserve joy in this lifetime. No decision is wrong or right just what is best for you. You are STRONG. You are CAPABLE. Just some kind words from a random on the internet.
I’ve missed a few chapters..
As a longtime subscriber, I am proud to still be here with all your era’s. I am so proud of you for setting your boundaries, and standing firm. I was a kid when my parents divorce and I expercienced all the drama heard all the nasty. It’s still hard to unknow some things. I can’t imagine how much worst it had of Been if they trashed each other online.
I think your kids will be grateful you kept it private. I know I would have.
As much as I want to know what happened and hear your marriage advice, SO proud that you continue to do what’s best for you and your family. The entitlement that complete strangers feel to know everything about you is insane. I’m just so happy you’re posting more!! Hope this is your best era yet ❤
It would be SO EASY for her to speak negatively about her ex online and I think it shows her character so much that she’s not. I’m sure she will be so happy with that decision in the long run and as a longtime follower I respect that a lot! New era!!
i SCREAMED at the title even tho i already knew about the divorce!!! Still caught me off guard omg
utah was literally holding you back so much. you’re glowing and thriving in cali. ❤
Im loving how you speak about it, and if we see Parker in the background it just speaks to you two working hard to co parent with respect. Can’t wait to see what you share from what this new chapter brings for you
This was such a graceful and kind way to respond to negative behavior. I applaud you for continuously expressing your boundaries and hope that everyone is supportive in respecting your wishes. Very excited for this new era for you!! ❤
I’m sorry it came out this way, you deserve so much better❤ Proud of you for handling it with so much grace
As a mama I cannot respect you enough for keeping things private and keeping your kids in mind. Growing up and getting older you really learn what you want in life and it can all change so fast. I will always support and look up to you especially as a mom ♥️
Gosh been here since highschool, and have watched you and your family grow up. Wish you and Parker the best. I have so much respect for how you put your girls first. As well as your energy surrounding this whole experience and how you speak about it. So brave. Of course take care of you! Enjoy the journey, trust the process.
My sister just got divorced and the glow up she’s going through is insane! She seems so genuinely happy. Never feel like you need to force yourself to stay if you’re unhappy. You only get this one life❤️
So glad you are talking about it. I know it may be hard but know you aren’t alone!
Omg, I’m one of your silent subscriber! Highschool days era.. everything will be fine soon 🤍
Your life update outfit is adorable! And the necklace - very little mermaid, I love it
I love how you open up to us but still protect you and your girls’ peace! I hope this new chapter brings only good things and happiness to you♥️
I saw you when you were dating, traveling, getting engaged, married, starting a home, a business, a family, and so much more. Sad to know you have to grow apart after all those years but I do wish you both a blissful life ahead in your each direction. I still love you both ❤
I love that you acknowledged wishing your relationship didn’t have to end WHILE also being thankful for where you are now. That’s such a hard place to be. And laughing about it or you’ll cry sounds so real, in all aspects of life. 😅 Love you Aspyn, and thank you for persevering in what YOU have chosen and not bowing to the internet. 👏🏻
hearing lola is 3 and cove is 5 crazy how much time has flown by.
Never thought I’d see the D word in an Aspyn title!!!
I have ALWAYS had so much respect for your boundaries and ability to not give a crap about what people say. But honestly my respect is 100x more now. You are an incredible mama and human.
As much as I would love to know just cuz I am nosey, I also have faced the idea of divorce and truly do understand how emotionally difficult it is even when we are the one the has asked for it. I respect you 100% for keeping it all private for the sake of your family. Excited to see what your new era holds for you :)
3:16 she talks about divorce
I love this open and honest talking about it, like we do not need to know! You acknowledging and setting those boundaries is more than enough!
currently 29 with a 2 year old in my divorce era.. sending you all the love
I gasped at the title
I hope this is the best era for you and the girls ❤ divorce is sometimes the hardest choice but the best one.
I think you are going about this in a very great way. My parents were divorced and put us kids in the middle a lot. Thank you for thinking of your children and the effect this will have on them! 😊
You’re literally glowing! This is such a hard topic to talk about, and you handled everything so well.
I'm a viewer of Aspyn's youtube channel for years, and I clearly remember a video for years ago where she says that she would not be the kind of woman that stays in a unhappy/uncomfortable marriage just for avoid a divorce, and this kept me thinking for a while. And this is it. You're very strong!!
As someone who is also going through a divorce, and have watched you since before your wedding, I thank you for speaking out about it.
I hope everything is okay! I know you’re putting on a brave face for your family but I’m sure it’s been hard. Love watching your channel!☺️
respect you sooo much for putting your children before everything else, and setting firm boundaries with your presence online etc. it’s been a while since I watched you - I had to set boundaries with consuming mom content since becoming a mom myself because I was comparing myself to other mamas “highlights” and being hard on myself. but now that I’m catching up on you, I’m so happy to see how you’ve grown along your journey!
Thank you so much for opening about this part of your life, maybe you don’t know, but it helps us who are going through the same to feel identified and a little bit less alone in this process.
I wish you, Parker and your lovely girls all the best and when they‘re older they will thank you for not „spilling the tee“ about your divorce and the reasons.
You are a great mom! ❤
First of all your necklace is giving me Ursula vibes and the best way possible secondly, I’m very happy for your new chapter. I have been divorced as well and I definitely felt like I owed my entire audience and explanation at that point in time and now I feel differently. I don’t have any children with my ex-husband, thank goodness, but I can totally understand protecting your children and not putting that on the Internet so more power to you, sending you lots of love
Thank u for being vulnerable and sharing ❤
ugh so happy that you’re living your truth. you seem like you are way too special of a person to ever be unhappy in your life! sending love to all 🤍🤍
This honestly makes me so sad. But I truly wish you happiness Aspyn! I have loved watching you since high school! Watching you on the podcast with Remi and Alisha, helped me understand the thought process! To demand you to tell us is wrong. You were so young and I’m sure you’ve had to learn so much. I can’t imagine going through something so difficult and also having to explain to public that you want this part private! Hang in there sweet girl❤
I have never clicked on a video faster in my life! Love this new version of Aspyn ❤
Buttt you’re absolutely glowing and it’s crazy to see how far you’ve come. All will be well🤍
The way I have NO ONE to scream about this with…
As a long (LONG) time subscriber I’m grateful for you…sending hugs your way!! ❤️
Love that you're setting boundaries and being honest about how certain messages make you feel, you definitely don't owe anyone anything!
“And now I’m poor because this was 30 dollars” lol same Tyson same 😂
SCREAMINGGGG, already knew but still shocks me every time.
Silent girly and mom here!
You’re doing amazing. Thank you for demonstrating good parenting and self discipline over drama or “clout”. You are a true inspiration and showing healthy boundaries for everyone!
Thank you for sharing what you want and keeping the content amazing ❤
It kind of made me sad when the girls you were on the podcast with were acting like it’s so cool you got divorced because I’m sure as a mom with kids it’s actually so devastating (but obviously the right choice for you). 😭 so I hope you heal and glad you can laugh about it to help! Good job setting a boundary with everyone. Your kids will be so grateful with how you handled this when they grow!
*this title is everything*
Girl, respect for not giving details. It was never necessary, to give details or to even address it. Whatever is best for you and your family, should have been okay with your audience here.
Your courage and grace throughout this whole thing, has been very admirable 💕
All my best to you and your family.
ive been a subscriber since you were a teenager! im also newly single and your content about it has been so beneficial
Sorry to hear about your divorce! A New journey is ahead❤
i’m obsessed with your hair!!
I’ve been watching you for over 6 years, and even when I was living with my partner, we used to watch all your vlogs. I also ended a relationship this year after more than eight years together, with many dreams and goals that never came true. It’s great that you’re sharing this; honestly, life takes many turns, and I can assure you that there are always opportunities at the end of the tunnel. Sending you a huuuuuuuuge hug, Aspyn! ❤
The quality of this video feels so crisp 😮💨
*love and light to everyone reading this* ✨
Always great to see you girl, congrats on this new chapter
Been here since we were in high school.... Love you so much. You'll be okay and you might even thrive. You are so capable and such a strong mama!!
Good for you, impressed by the way you handle your boundaries. Also this hair color is everything
California looks so good on you 🩵 you’re handling this with such grace and l am excited to see where this next era takes you.
At first i didn’t believe it until I saw the story on E News, but I wish you and the whole fam the absolute best in this new chapter in your lives 😢❤️
I have been watching you since I was in hs & I’m so excited to watch this new chapter in your life 💕 literally deserve all the happiness!!
Wishing you and your girlies all the best! Love your channel, and excited for your new chapter 🩷
I’m sorry aspyn.. I hope you continue to blossom and find what you are looking for ❤ keep putting your kids first
Truly having just even this much more context helps me understand! It’s just a modern family baby ✌🏼 your episode of tyrants was also so good!!!
You seem sooo happy and free!!! Proud of u ❤
i looooooovvveeee aspyn with boundaries 🩷 you’re GLOWINGGGGG!!!
aww no matter what you are going thru in your personal life thank you for still sharing and you're looking amazing
I love that you’re opening up a little bit more ❤ I hope everyone can give you grace and respect moving forward. Wishing you the best!!
Completely respect your decision and so excited for this new chapter of your and your daughters lives ❤
Honestly I’ve watched you for so long but I love you putting your family first ❤it’s whatever works for you xxx
So so much respect for you. Wishing you the best in this new chapter 💕
So respect this for you🩵 I met both you and Parker a while back and you were both so kind, I wish you the best on this new chapter💫
Glad to see you doing well aspyn ❤
honestly, HUGE respect to you for being firm on your and your kids’ privacy and protecting them. Go girl for keeping your boundaries but still sharing something, just the things you do want to share. I’m excited to see more of your content in this new era! i’ve been watching you since i was in middle school and now i’m fresh out of college and i’ve never been more excited to see more of your content in a new era bc i can see that you’ve been thriving lately! ❤️
What a tuff situation. I think that co parenting can look different for different situations. However, if both parties have the kids best interest at heart and therefore may be spending time together, feels to me like much more loving , caring environment. It can’t be easy for either one of you. Wishing you and your family ( ex’s included) peace and comfort ❤️
Love you Asypn and really respect your decision for your family. You deserve the world and I hope the bachelorette trip allows you to let go and be with your girls 💗💗🎉 I’m excited for your single era you are glowing and so full of life!
Personally i do want to know like how this is all working out with like the kids and custody and like all of that stuff ! as a child of divorce i thank you for keeping the “ details” private for your kids they’ll be so grateful one day for it . And also this prevents like parental triangulation on the kids as well ! As you said parker is going to be around a good bit so i assume yall are doing all that you can to co parent this .
Love you Aspyn!! I’ve been here since the EARLY days, so excited for you and your new chapter 💗
I really respect how much you are protecting your girls and even Parker’s privacy during your divorce. Too many people share too much.
Love you forever Aspyn! To a new chapter!💐🫶🏼💝🥂
A literal queen with the best boundaries literally an inspiration and an icon!
Title made me stop and get sat immediately. Love you Aspyn!
Love you, girl! Been watching since you first died your hair blonde in hs 😄 here’s to a new chapter full of new lessons!! 🎉
I just wanna acknowledge how strong you are for not only sharing the news of your divorce but doing so in the same video that you’re leaving to celebrate a to be marriage 🤍 I don’t know the exact circumstances but that can’t be super easy. i’ve been watching you since the very beginning and i’m feeling for you. xx
Silent viewer! You are thriving Aspyn!! California deserves you💗
We love an empowered Aspyn! You addressed this perfectly🩷
You can just tell you’re back to your happy self! Such a good video 🫶🏼
I want the best for you, Parker, and your adorable daughters. They will appreciate that you didn't "spill the tea" regarding the reasons behind your divorce. Mom, you are amazing!
Here for your new journey queen, life goes on and everything in your life is yours you don’t ow any one anything. I’m honestly soooo exited for your next chapter in life 🥹🎀😍🤍
Awh. I used to compare our relationships being so similar. This definitely choked me up although it’s not a sad video. I wish you both the best, and best for your girls.
No one knows your relationship but I can’t imagine going through a big life change after having a baby, and hopefully you are getting lots of support. Lots of love! ❤️❤️
Been watching for so long so proud of you you deserve privacy share anything you want.
Supporting you since 2013! Keep your peace and live how you want. The only thing I hope is that you’re emotionally ok. I’m glad you have a great support system though. ❤
beyond happy to have you shift your content focus back to you excited for your journey 🫶🏽
Aspyn I'm proud of you for standing your ground & you have always inspired me as a boundary setter, and what you say goes because it's YOUR life. I am as normal and boring as they come, I don't have too much of a microscope on my life, but I still feel so strongly about keeping my relationship private. I've been through a few too many relationships that I felt needed to be validated by my friends, loved ones, and social media, and each relationship was sabotaged by all sorts of conflicting opinions (and the guys were sometimes bums too, lol). When my frontal lobe FINALLY developed, I realized the only perspective that matters is mine! I feel loved and appreciated by my partner and I literally do not care what anyone else thinks. I'm open to concerns from loved ones who I feel are able to have an unbiased opinion, but at the end of the day it's my decision. My opinion matters most, even if I find out later that I was wrong. We live and we learn, and no matter what we always end up okay 💖
I loved this vlog! Although you didn’t expand on the divorce(and its your right!) I felt like you’re back
Here for all your eras!!!
My heart grieves for you all, no matter the cause it’s hard! Try not to regret the past because no matter the circumstances you have a beautiful set of girls who will always look to you!!! Wish you all the best and much happiness even in this time. ❤️
Wishing you happiness and all the best. Excited for your new content and new era 😊 you should be very proud of yourself for getting to where you are! Lots of love. ❤
i’m loving your LA era!!
Not going to lie I found you after the nose job video then just followed you from there. I myself have also missed a few chapters. I do not get on youtube as much anymore as I used to. It just always breaks my heart to see this happening to so many people. Married or NOT you are still your own person & you deserve joy in this lifetime. No decision is wrong or right just what is best for you. You are STRONG. You are CAPABLE. Just some kind words from a random on the internet.
I love the feel of this vlog!!!