Things I Didn't Expect About Quitting My Job | Loneliness, Finance, Freedom, Lack of Routine
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- Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024
- The first 1,000 people to use the link will get a 1 month free trial of Skillshare skl.sh/colourf... 💛 Hi there, I'm Eileen. For years, I envisioned what my life would look like after quitting my stressful day job. To make that life possible, I worked incredibly hard towards achieving financial independence. While having FI is definitely a goal worth striving for, it doesn't guarantee a perfect life. In this video, I share my raw emotions about being on my career break. Since 2020, there's been a lot of talk about the Great Resignation. The media might only tell you the glorious sides of quitting your job, but as with everything else, there are two sides of every coin. So I hope this video gives you a realistic picture about having a career break or retiring early xx
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Thank you for watching this video about why the things I didn't expect from quitting my job. Hopefully this will be helpful especially if you're considering to be a part of the Great Resignation xx
Enjoy what you’ve accomplished, Eileen. There is a reason for your early retirement, and a new chapter in your life is awaiting you. Having quality time with your boy and yourself, charges your battery and restore your ideas and art concepts , as an artist, you seem to be. I know you will be achieving something that will ad to your life and your beautiful soul. Thanks for sharing. Take care and GB ❤
Thank you so much for your well wishes xx
Dear Eileen,
You quite literally bought more time with your loved ones. And I personally think that 'loved ones' should always include oneself as well. What a briljant decision to make!❤
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😁 yup, staying at home for a structured person can get boring…although i am an introvert and need alone time, not working for 3 months got me insanely bored and restless. On the other extreme, Working full time is exhausting. What about working part time, have you considered that? I was working as an employed dentist part time for 2 years and it felt wonderful. Now as an self employed dentist with my own dental practice, juggling patients, business decisions, administration, staff and more in full time i just feel exhausted sometimes. Time for a change, but i an not sure what kind of change. For retirement i was thinking to learn psychotherapy and do that for fun, helping prople
That sounds like an option, although I do believe dentistry is about long term continuing care. That’s why I’m not sure about doing short term work xx
I find it interesting that so many people are defined by their jobs rather than by who they are. When not having a paid job you can create the human contact you want. I volunteer at a charity shop 3 days a week, go to yoga classes 2 days a week, have beauty treatments, meet up with family and friends. Sometimes I just take myself out to lunch. I feel you do too many activities on-line since retirement. Have you thought about joining an art group?
Joining a local art club is a really good suggestion! You’re right, I’ve been quite busy online wise- it’s time to do something that doesn’t involve the internet more xx
You know Eileen, often, I hear people expressing how retirement is not quite what they'd planned/ expected. But then again, retirement to me isn't what retirement seems to be lately. It's amazing but I'm so happy you're sharing this, social media can be rather deceiving. Hopefully this videowill be an eye opener for someone...assuming can deceive you - both Real Life and Social Media. Life is So Real and I Thank You for sharing. I wish you well Eileen...I wish you Very Well.💛✨️
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I’m happy for u for living your life as you desire. Trying new things, exploring. Both has pro and cons. I hope i’m as lucky as you!!
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I am in a similar situation as you and my friends have a hard time accepting the fact that I have retired early. They are forever asking me whether I have got a new job 😂, even the ones who are retired. It’s like they think that your job defines who you are as a person. The truth is that I have wanted and planned to retire early 20+ years ago. So far the things I really enjoy is the ability to just pack up and explore the country I live in plus being a lot more active.
Glad you’re enjoying this new phase of your life xx
Thank you so much for sharing this. I'm in the exact same position. Also a dentist and took an indefinite break from the profession to recharge and explore other options. Time away has showed me that it wasnt the profession, the clinic, the patients that were the problem but my ability to take my schedule in my own hands and setting firm boundaries. Im grateful for this time away and hearing you saying all this made me feel so understood. My coworkers dont really get this. Thank you for sharing
I’m glad this was helpful! Do you ever think about returning to the profession? Xx
Oh Eileen, brilliant video. The “one more year syndrome” really resonates. I’ve been in this one more year phase for several years! 😅 Thanks for opening up about this. Hits home.
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Thank you for sharing your experience so openly. It’s certainly very insightful.❤
Glad it was helpful!xx
Thank you for sharing, it is a very interesting perspective and I like you being so transparent. On the opposite, my father has been slowing down much more his work instead of retiring and my current professional goal is to do a in-between: slow down work earlier than the age most people retire, but keep a few hours per week as a therapist and do punctual consultations to still enjoy what I actually like the most in my job for many years. I know however many jobs don’t offer such flexibility and it is a reason why I chose my field over other ones! I will continue to follow your journey in the meanwhile because this is very nice to see women take the lead in setting examples of possible career trajectories 👏
This is relatable! Deep down I sometimes wonder if I should go back to doing part time, but even doing part time means a lack of flexibility with my time xx
I had similar feelings when I retired. I set up a schedule for myself and tried to go somewhere every day,even if it was just to the store. You're doing great. Just enjoy your freedom and your family. All will be well
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Whenever you talk about your early retirement, I am somewhat relieved that I am not the only one who is going through those thought process. Everything what you said, I feel the same. Especially the financial part. I know it will be fine in future but can’t help keep worrying about it and doubting about my value. I understand what you said about ‘FOMO’ too, and it often makes me wonder whether I should go back to resume my career.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts xx
This was an excellent video . I’m also an early retiree - 55 and retired at 53. I still work part time, doing intermittent contract work. It took me 18 months to adjust , I love the flexibility.
Thank you! I needed to hear this to get a different perspective as to where I am right now.
Glad it was helpful!xx
Well said Eileen
When we are on a journey we always think the grass is always greener the other side.
When we are at our prime years we worked v hard to reach our financial goals. When we finally attained the financial freedom, we have a bucket list of things to do when we finally retire.
We relished the idea of not doing anything like enjoying a long break at a resort or pampering our body at a spa which we never have time for.
Spending more time with your family over holidays became a reality.
However after sometime we still feel a void in life.
That is where I am right now.
I actually missed the time of being busy with work schedules and working in a community.
Now I am on a long break and I find myself feeling guilty of not being productive like before.
I am in my mid 60s but I am thankful that I am still healthy and I can still contribute to my community as and when required.
There are people who are not as blessed as I am. I am in a position that I can touch lives and be a mother, an auntie or sister to others and be an inspiration.
Thank you for sharing your life journey.
This is really relatable! Thank you so much for sharing your feelings and struggles. This year has been mostly rejuvenating and healing, but I do need to work on finding the delicate balance xx
Hi Eileen I'm a new subscriber. Im far from been or owning anything luxury but I enjoy watching these videos. I really love your outlook on life and luxury/ minimalism. I cant afford luxury but do hope one day to own a luxury open top work bag since I only take 1 handbag every day to work. I'm binge watching your videos and I truly love them all❤
Thank you so much!xx
We give so much to others we at times forget time for You. Then we end up so isolated...Finding Balance ♎ Its everything🤚
So true xx
Thank Eileen for this beautiful video very thoughtful❤
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you xx
I can understand. I had a break from work for one year. I am working part time now…and it is better for me.
Thanks for your insights. This video is right up my alley as I’m planning for early retirement.
Glad it was helpful! Xx
Most retired people, including my parents, soon find themselves tremendously busy after an adjustment period. I think the key is to get out there and experience new things and see where that takes you. Meeting people, getting into communities, deep diving into new hobbies, traveling. Also starting your own purposeful company or nonprofit can be rewarding in a new way. Helping others in person sometimes is most rewarding. May travel alone - you will meet many people living a nonwork hour life and they are tremendously interesting
Some really wonderful ideas! Thank you for sharing xx
This was a nice and personal insight. I really enjoy your Videos ❤
Thank you so much!xx
Such a timely video for me - my husband and I have just decided to move to Dubai in the coming months for his work, and I need to decide what I do! I’m planning to take a sabbatical with my work but I know I will get bored so will likely look for a job in Dubai within a couple of months! Thanks for sharing your experience ☺️ xx
That’s so exciting! Keep us updated xx
I retired in September 2021, after finding working remotely to be isolating. So glad I did.
So happy for you xx
I like your word and wisdom.
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I love the words of Mark Twain that you quoted. Retirement has been generally good for me, but I too feel like I am missing human contact. I think we have to feel a purpose each and every day we wake up. The beautiful thing for me is that I get to be with my grandsons. My purpose is to take them to school and pick them up. I know this will be a time I will treasure. As a retired teacher, I will occasionally substitute at the school I worked at. It gives me the opportunity to see the wonderful people I worked with. I am good about having structure on a daily basis, but sometimes I do feel that there is something more that I can do. However, I am grateful for the freedoms I have in terms of having the hectic work schedule. I will figure out what my next chapter will be! Thank you for sharing your feelings, Eileen.
Thank you for sharing this xx
Great Vidi! Right when I needed to hear the message- I'm listening. 😎☕💋
Thank you for this video!
Glad it was helpful!xx
There isn't a book on what you are to do in retirement. I think it will take a year or 2 before your mindset shifts after working so many years. To be honest anytime you do things outside the box its going to be an adjustment. I feel the need for human contact so I signed up for some group activities like exercise group and an in person book club. I notice I was wasting my day so I added a schedule for my week that wasn't just housework. I also signed up for two classes. I am being open for the next two years to see where God leads me and what my new purpose will be and I am not beating myself up for not knowing all the answers. I think being open for the unknown is a great retirement option. Thanks for sharing your journey.
I had a taste of unemployment for 8 years. That gave me a sense of what its like to retire. I didn't like it. Retirement is only a good decision to make if you can keep yourself busy, have family to be around with, and can afford to travel. The most important lesson I learned is keeping yourself busy. There is too much time when retired. I was always working out at the gym during my 8 yrs and meeting up with family, but I was bored, because all my friends were at work. I'm afraid of retirement, because boredom will make anyone insane.
Thank you so much for sharing! I get what you mean, in the past I wished so hard for a break, but now I have to intentionally keep myself busy xx
Congrats on your decisions Eileen and thanks for sharing ❤ really nice video. Spending time with your loved ones is the real MVP 🏆 I'm RN 15 years in the industry, I Just recently started to get my money right" raking in 20k monthly from my 2 Jobs and investments after living paycheck to paycheck for a long while. I plan on growing my passive income and retire soon enough to follow my passion. My story & hers is proof that not matter how much you make anyone can go bankrupt when they're irresponsible with their money. I didn't get education on personal finances from my parents or in school and I learnt the tough way. I wish money management is taught in schools for the younger generation. Live within your means, budget, save, and invest!
I made sacrifices for the sake of the larger good. Reduced spending, economical living, budgeting and saving. When done properly investing increases wealth however piling up so much in the bank will only generate 0.1% Allow your money to work harder for you I learned all this with the assistance of a financial advisor who guided me through the baby steps and I'm teaching my kids the same with her assistance
I suggest you look up Rachel Blanc, she's fantastic and successfully guided me through the steps.
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Investing is really a good one. RUclips comments are very informative these days. Thanks for sharing this helpful advice
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I like doing different things otherwise I'll go crazy
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Not sure how early retirement at 30 works? Husband is working, or 50K youtube- subscribers equals the former paycheck? Just curious how it's financially possible.
Anyhow, I think life is short and we should make the best out of it, as you try to do :)
I did a video previously mentioning we worked very hard to build an investment portfolio to support an early retirement. While I’m extremely grateful for this. RUclips channel, it doesn’t replace my professional pay check at all xx
You should work at least 3 days a week. This is just pure indulgence. Everyone would love to sit home and do nothing or all the fun and relaxing things we don’t have time to do
I wonder why we don't just call it maternity leave - just get off full time work to be with our children when they are young.